1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached 2 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheeky's podcast. I'm here 3 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: to give you a device on anything and everything you 4 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,159 Speaker 1: need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or 5 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: having issues with your family, or maybe you have a 6 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I 7 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts 8 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious 9 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: the sound of the beeB. 12 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: Heye Cheeky's. I just want to start off by saying 13 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 2: I'm a huge fan of you and your family, and 14 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 2: I want to say thank you so much for having 15 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: this podcast. It's like listening to my big sister that 16 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 2: I never had. I had a question to ask you, 17 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: how did you know you were ready to be with Emelia. 18 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 2: I know, after your doors and everything, it was extremely 19 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 2: hard for you, but how did you know that it 20 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 2: was someone that you wanted to be with. I guess 21 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 2: my question in general is I recently got out of 22 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 2: a narcissistic, abusive relationship, and he dated five other girls 23 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 2: at the same time, and we all came forward together, 24 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 2: Me and the girls exchange stories. However, the group chat 25 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 2: and all of them wasn't the best supportive. So knowledge 26 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 2: I feel betrayed by him, but also by them, and 27 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to navigate this whole situation of betrayal 28 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: and trust issues and try not to compare myself to 29 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: know when I'll be ready to date again. I'm lucky 30 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 2: that I have great friends that are supporting me and 31 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: helping me right now through this difficult time. But yeah, 32 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 2: I just would like some big sister advice. But anyways, 33 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 2: thanks girl, love. 34 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: You, Oh Christina, thank you, thank you for listening. Thank 35 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: you for all those beautiful things you said. Okay, well, 36 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: first of all, thank goodness you're not with that person anymore. 37 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 1: Oh what a blessing. And you know what, don't even 38 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: take it personal with these girls. If they betrayed you, 39 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: if you feel like they backstabbed you, it's all good. 40 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: Wish them well to each their own good riddance, you know, 41 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 1: so just let them all go. This is the best 42 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,399 Speaker 1: thing that could have happened to you. I've been there, 43 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: done that, I was in a narcissistic relationship. I was 44 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: in an emotional abusive relationship. I was in somewhat of 45 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: a loveless relationship. So I completely understand, which is why 46 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: when I met Emilio, I could say I was tainted, 47 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: I was jaded, but I was very honest with him 48 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: from the beginning. I said, hey, I am nowhere near 49 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: ready to be in a relationship. I am heartbroken, I 50 00:02:56,280 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: am healing, I am learning new things about myself, and 51 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: I'm still not divorced. So there it is. I laid 52 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: it all out and he took it. He said, it's okay, 53 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: it's fine. There's no reason why you need to heal 54 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: by yourself. Because for a long time I thought I 55 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: needed to be alone in order to heal, like I 56 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: had no business being with anyone. And Emilio was like, 57 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: very patient and said, this world is for us to 58 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: love one another and have a partner and so on 59 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 1: and so forth. So he kind of made me feel safe, 60 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: and that's how I knew, well, this is a person 61 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: I want to spend time with. For about two years, 62 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: I was back and forth. It was very difficult, and 63 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: he was very patient, and he was in a lot 64 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: of therapy, doing therapy weekly because I was still healing. 65 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: But I was very honest, So you know, in my defense, 66 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: I was honest and I was very straightforward, but he 67 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 1: was patient. I think it just takes a person that 68 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: is patient. But also, even if you don't have anyone 69 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: right now, there's don't rush into anything. Take this time 70 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: to heal, to read, you know, self help books. I 71 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: know they sound like, oh, there's such a cliche, but 72 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: honestly they help. I love anything that's going to make 73 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 1: my heart feel better, So meditate, go on hikes, do 74 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: things that make you happy, take care of your body. 75 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 1: All those things are going to make you feel better 76 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: about yourself. So when that person comes, you accept it 77 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 1: and you're more open to it. And I always tell 78 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: people this, try becoming the person that you want to retract. 79 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 1: So if you want a responsible person, then you need 80 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: to be responsible. If you want a healthy person, then 81 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: you need to be healthy first. If you don't want 82 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: someone that has addictions, then don't have addictions, you know, 83 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: So become that person you're trying to attract while you're healing. 84 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: So that is my suggestion, and that's what I did. 85 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: I was doing that a little bit right before I 86 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 1: met a medium and then you know, he helped me 87 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: the rest of the way. You know, but I didn't 88 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: know I was ready. I was still healing. I just 89 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,919 Speaker 1: happened to have someone that was very patient, and because 90 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: I was honest, it worked. So if someone does happen 91 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 1: to come along the way and in your path, then 92 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: just be honest and say here, this is where I'm at. 93 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 1: And you also have to know what you won't tolerate. 94 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 1: You have to tell that person from the very beginning 95 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 1: so they know I'm not here to play games like 96 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: either you are in with your two feet and not 97 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: one foot in one foot out, or don't waste my time. 98 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 1: So that is my suggestion. Sorry, very long response, but 99 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 1: I thought it was very important that you knew all 100 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: of this. And thank you for your question, Christina. I 101 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: appreciate it and I'm wishing you all the best. All right, 102 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: next question guys from an anonymous listener. Let's see what 103 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: they gotta say. 104 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 3: Hi, Cheeky's since I was sixteen years old, I haven't 105 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 3: had a relationship or plan on having a relationship with 106 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 3: my older sister. I am now twenty five. I was 107 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 3: sexually abused by her at six years old and was 108 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 3: sexually assaulted by her friend's husband at fifteen while she 109 00:05:55,160 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 3: left me alone upstairs to party downstairs at her friend's house. Wow, 110 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 3: all's babysitting her children, my niece and my nephew and 111 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 3: two other children. I stopped having a relationship with her 112 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:11,359 Speaker 3: because she hasn't apologized sincerely about any of the abuse 113 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 3: or recognized that she did anything wrong. Even my own 114 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 3: parents have said I should be the bigger person and 115 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 3: forgive her and move on to have a relationship with her, 116 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 3: because she's my sister. She has always been a lying, manipulative, 117 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 3: and narcissistic person. I don't think she'll ever change or 118 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 3: see that she did anything wrong. What would you do 119 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 3: if you were in my place? Would you move on 120 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 3: and forgive her? 121 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 2: Oh? 122 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: My goodness, bab I'm so sorry all of that happened 123 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: to you. Ah. Look, they say blood is thicker than water, 124 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: but I say we choose who we want our family 125 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: to be. If your sister has not accepted, he has 126 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: not apologized sincerely, and it sounds like your mom is 127 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: kind of enabling that behavior, then in my opinion, it's 128 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: okay to make and create distance between you and your sister, 129 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 1: it's that healthy for you. It's not going to help 130 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: your healing process and your healing journey. I think you 131 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: should forgive her, even if she doesn't ask for forgiveness, 132 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean you have to have a relationship 133 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: with her, And that doesn't mean that you're going to 134 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: forget everything she did. I think forgiveness is for you. 135 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: It's to liberate you and not carrying that around. I 136 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: forgave my dad for sexually abusing me way before he 137 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: even asked me to forgive him. I chose that. I said, 138 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 1: you know what, your sister has demons that she's fighting, 139 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: that she has to fight the things that she needs 140 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: to heal. Only she knows deep down inside why she 141 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: did what she did and why she acts the way 142 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: she acts, and she has things. I'm not saying she's 143 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 1: a bad person, but she has things that she has 144 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: to work through and you have to just understand that. 145 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: But that does not mean that you have to have 146 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 1: a relationship with her because she hasn't accepted and that 147 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: doesn't feel good. If someone doesn't validate you and you 148 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 1: don't feel vindicated, you're just enabling their behavior and that's 149 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: not okay. So I'm okay with you. I, as your 150 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: big sister, give you permission to not talk to her. 151 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: It's okay. She's not a person that is going to 152 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: bring the best out in you. If anything, she's gonna 153 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: make you upset. It's going to bother you, especially if 154 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: she hasn't apologized and accepted that she did something wrong. 155 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: Not okay with that, It's not okay. And boundaries are 156 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: good and they're healthy. So that is my opinion, and 157 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I wish your sister was a better sister, 158 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: and one day she will realize, and hopefully it's not 159 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: too late when she realizes what she did. But don't 160 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 1: close the door all the way. I would say, you know, 161 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: have hope that she'll come around and apologize and become 162 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: a better person all around, not only for you, but 163 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: for her children, for herself. Let's pray for her. Let's 164 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: send her love and light. Love and light to your sister, 165 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 1: sending you a big hug. Okay, guys, let's go with 166 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: Hopefully I'm pronouncing your name correctly, Kania. 167 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 4: Hi Cheeky's First, I want to say I've been a 168 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 4: huge fan of you for a long time. You your 169 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 4: whole family and everyone. And my question is I have 170 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 4: a hard time socializing, and I think that comes from 171 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 4: a lot of things, like I don't know what to 172 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 4: say or how to react to conversations. So what do 173 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 4: you think is the biggest piece of advice with socializing Kania? 174 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: Okay, I totally understand that. I used to deal with 175 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: this with my brother, my little brother, Johnny, and now 176 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: he's a little better. He would always say, I'm so antisocial. 177 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: I feel so weird around people if I'm afraid of 178 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 1: sounding dumb. And I think that comes from being in 179 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: your head too much. You think a little too much, 180 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: and I think we all do. I definitely overanalyze a 181 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 1: lot of things. But I think once you get to 182 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 1: a point where you like completely accept yourself and love yourself, 183 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: and you're just like, this is who I am. I 184 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 1: like myself, you are not worried about sounding dumb or 185 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: like faking the funk. You know, because sometimes when you 186 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: are in a group of people and they're talking about 187 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 1: something that you may not even know what they're talking about. 188 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 1: I used to feel the same way. To be honest, 189 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 1: I'd be like I don't even know, like sometimes about 190 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: politics or cause I tend to forget things, and I 191 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: don't know a lot about a lot of things, you know, 192 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: So I used to just pretend or stay quiet, and 193 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: now what I do is, oh what does that mean? 194 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: I ask questions and I don't care if I sound 195 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: dumb or they think that I don't know about things, 196 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 1: like I'm like, well, it's better to ask a question 197 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 1: and just say straight up like, oh, I don't know, 198 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: you know? Can you explain that? Can you elaborate? You know? 199 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: And that's how you start a conversation, and then they'll 200 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: go and tell you hey, and they'll explain it, hopefully. 201 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: So I think it's all about getting out of your 202 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: head and just being unapologetically yourself. I think that helps 203 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 1: a lot, and just saying well, it's okay not to 204 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: know everything, it's okay not to be like everyone else. 205 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 1: I think it's just mainly getting out of our own 206 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: head that gets in our way, and I think that'll 207 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: definitely help a lot. So hopefully that made sense, and 208 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: hopefully that helps you. And thank you so much for 209 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 1: your question, and just don't worry. Don't worry so much, 210 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: just shake it off and start a conversation. And if 211 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: you don't feel comfortable, you don't feel comfortable and you 212 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: never know like if you just take the risk of 213 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: talking to someone, it will open up another world for you. 214 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 1: So do it unapologetically and do it even if you're scared. 215 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: Do it scared. It's gonna be fine, I promise you. 216 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: And before I let you go, Knia, look, trust me, 217 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: We're not the only ones and you're not the only 218 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 1: one that feels that way. I think we are all 219 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: in our head a lot. We all overthink, we all overanalyze. 220 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: We all feel a little shy or intimidated in a 221 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: new crowd or around people that we're not used to. 222 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 1: So just know you're not alone in that. And just 223 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 1: people know and have worked through it. And all you 224 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: have to do is just work through it and it'll 225 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 1: be fine. You'll see. Just try it, all right, guys, 226 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: So this one was just three questions, but don't worry, 227 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: we have more of Dear Cheeky's for you very soon. 228 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: Thank you all for your questions, Thank you for taking 229 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,959 Speaker 1: the time. I hope that my advice helped. Please keep 230 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: us updated. I'd like to know what's going on, if 231 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: my advice helped or not. And if you have a question, 232 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: please leave your question at speakpipe dot com, slash Cheekys 233 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:52,719 Speaker 1: and Jail podcast. Okay, I love you, I appreciate you, 234 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: and I will see you here. 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