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Speaker 1: The nephew is here. You hear him with today's bring

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Speaker 2: What you got for his nest?

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Speaker 3: I got it for you. This right here is you know,

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Speaker 3: sometimes people need help having children. Y'all understand that, right?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 3: Everybody can't everybody can't conceive. You know what I'm saying, I.

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Speaker 1: Can't conceive right, infertility is yeah, so sometimes actually having

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Speaker 1: the baby, I'm like, we need to know.

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Speaker 4: I ain't screaming in here from then, right, hear me out?

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Speaker 3: Hear me out. This right here is called sarrogate mother,

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Speaker 3: not segregated.

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Speaker 1: Okay, nobody thought that he was.

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Speaker 3: Let's go get Sarah good mother.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Roger, Roger, Roger, Hey this Calvin man, how you doing.

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Speaker 2: I go to the same church y'all go to. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I got your number from one of the guys at

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Speaker 2: the church. Man. They told me that if I wanted

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Speaker 2: to talk to you, could I could reach out to

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Speaker 2: you or whatever? How you doing today?

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Speaker 4: I'm good man, I'm good.

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Speaker 2: I can help your wife. Man. Does she I'm not

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Speaker 2: trying to be disrespectful anything, but she seems to be

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Speaker 2: real fit? Does she? Does she work out all the time? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: She goes to genuary once in a while.

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Speaker 2: Bro, Yeah, who is bro? Like I said, I think't

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Speaker 2: Calvin Man. We go to the same church. Listen, me

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Speaker 2: and my wife been trying for a long time, man,

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Speaker 2: to actually have some kids. And to be honest with you,

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Speaker 2: Roger Man, it just ain't having dogs. I mean, we've

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Speaker 2: been trying and trying. But what I'm trying to do

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Speaker 2: now is just find another type of way to make

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Speaker 2: this happen. Now, you say your wife is in good condition.

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Speaker 5: Right, my wife is in good condition, brother, What does

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Speaker 5: she got to do with you want your wife trying

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Speaker 2: You know, now, y'all already got kids, don't you. Y'all

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Speaker 2: got Like from what the brother at the church told me,

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Speaker 2: y'all got three kids? Right, yeah, we got there. I

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Speaker 2: got two more.

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Speaker 5: Wasn't in the girl.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Here's what I'm trying to do, man, I was

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Speaker 2: hoping that I could find somebody, a female that would

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Speaker 2: be a good surrogate mother or what. You know. What

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Speaker 2: I'm saying is like because my wife, I mean, you know,

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Speaker 2: we want to have kids, man, we want to have

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Speaker 2: a hold on brother.

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Speaker 4: You just said you try you're looking for a surrogate

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Speaker 4: mother and the brother church told you to call me.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, no, no, ain't nobody tell me to actually

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Speaker 2: call you. I asked them about you and your wife.

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Speaker 2: You know, I asked them for your phone numbers so

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Speaker 2: I can actually call you myself.

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Speaker 4: Man, wait a minute, so even even I and my wife.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, not, I ain't been So

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Speaker 2: you're looking at it wrong. Listen. What I was saying

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Speaker 2: is that your wife just seems like a healthy, healthy person.

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Speaker 2: I want to be able to have a healthy child, man,

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Speaker 2: I really do, man, that me and my wife.

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Speaker 4: We listen, you call me about my wife and you

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Speaker 4: want her to be a sarrogate mother for you. I

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Speaker 4: don't even know why we're on the phone. Brother.

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Speaker 2: Here's the real deal, man, me and my wife, we

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Speaker 2: can't have kids. We tried and tried and tried, and

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Speaker 2: you know, biologically, we've just been going through it and

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Speaker 2: going through it man. And I was just you know,

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Speaker 2: I've seen your wife. She's healthy. I see all at

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Speaker 2: church all the time, and I was just like reached out. Man,

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Speaker 2: maybe somebody wouldn't mind being the surrogate mother for for

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Speaker 2: for me and my wife so we can have a child.

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Speaker 5: I'll thinking to share good mother, I mean dog.

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Speaker 4: Hold on, brother, you calling me to see it? What's

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Speaker 4: your mind? Brother, out of all the members in the church,

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Speaker 4: you calling me to get my wife to have your baby.

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Speaker 2: Dog.

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Speaker 5: I know it sounds crazy, man, I do. I don't

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Speaker 5: know what to do, but I ignorant. Brothers, you sound ignorant.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 4: That's so many places to go doctor baby. I can

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Speaker 4: take you down to a county court, I saying, show

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Speaker 4: you kids need it doctor right next. But you can

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Speaker 4: go to Africa like all the rest of them. People

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Speaker 4: are gonna find your baby. You're gonna call me and

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Speaker 2: Brother? No, brother, brother, man, listen, man, I'm not trying

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Speaker 2: to come across like that. Man, how are you trying

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Speaker 2: to come across? Brother? You didn't done it to hear

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Speaker 5: Man, I don't want you to go and go ahead, brother,

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Speaker 5: go ahead, man, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Were looking for a Sarah good mother. We look, we

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Speaker 2: seen your your wife, and we thought she'd be a

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Speaker 2: great Sarah good mother. And I know it sounds crazy

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Speaker 2: for me to pick you out of all the people

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Speaker 2: but listen, we would love for your wife to be

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Speaker 2: the surrogate mother, and we willing to pay for this.

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Speaker 2: But listen to me if you don't mind, we don't

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Speaker 2: want to do this with no test tubes and all

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Speaker 2: that where they they mixed my seed with her with

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Speaker 2: with with her eggs. We want to do this naturally. Wait,

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Speaker 2: wor warl war war war.

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Speaker 5: You want pupil you just said, Man, you gotta.

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Speaker 2: Understand a real may want to do want to do

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Speaker 2: it realistically. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: I under said, brother, Brother, you are you.

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Speaker 4: Telling me that you want to have sex with my wife?

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Speaker 2: But I mean, I mean, you know.

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Speaker 5: You don't you want to have me.

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Speaker 4: Lose all my Christianity right now?

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Speaker 2: Brother, you want to have a baby the real way though,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm.

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Speaker 4: Saying, I don't get a man in the same way

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Speaker 4: you tell me you want to lay down in the

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Speaker 4: bed with my wife.

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Speaker 2: But don you already got three kids. Think about the

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Speaker 2: people that can't out there.

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Speaker 5: I'm going to do the baby, man, take care there.

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Speaker 4: It ain't gonna a DoPT the baby because you didn't

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Speaker 4: gonna hear the.

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Speaker 5: Psychiatric bro more. I don't an't having your baby.

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Speaker 4: Do you know what you sound like? Don't crazy?

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Speaker 2: I know it sounds crazy, man, I do.

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Speaker 5: How did I did to get my number?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 2: You mean you get my number? I got your number

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Speaker 2: for one of the brothers at the church. Now listen,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna just be real with you like a man.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to come at you first and talk to

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Speaker 2: was cool with the proposition. But look, come Sunday, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna go to your wife and just talk to God.

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Speaker 2: What I'm just gonna go. I'm just gonna up to

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Speaker 2: your wife.

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Speaker 5: And see if you lost your mind. I told you

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 4: Now you see me gonna go around me and ask.

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Speaker 4: Which we ain't gonna do is talk to my wife.

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Speaker 5: You're call my wife. You right now, I tell your wife.

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Speaker 4: You call my wife.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you what's really gonna happen. You call

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Speaker 5: my wife and wife next Sunday, I'm not gonna din't

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Speaker 5: go through this meet here.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking to her next Sunday.

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Speaker 4: Next Sunday, I'm gonna whoop you up.

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Speaker 5: You ain't gonna do nothing to make I'm gonna who

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Speaker 5: yo me and my wife who.

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Speaker 2: Deserve a time to you like you ain't gonna stand

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Speaker 2: in the middle of it.

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Speaker 4: I don't ask the middle of this. You lost your

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Speaker 4: like you talk to my wife's next.

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Speaker 5: Week you want too.

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Speaker 2: I got one more fac I want to say to you. Man,

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Speaker 2: if you.

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Speaker 4: Listening to me, say what the you gotta say?

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Speaker 5: You can get off my punk.

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Speaker 2: That is nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobbin Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: You just got pranked by your homeboy. What who.

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Speaker 3: This is this?

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Speaker 2: Listen?

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Speaker 5: Who is this man?

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Speaker 2: This nephew? Tell me Man from the Steve Hobby Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Your home boy got me to frank phone call you man.

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Speaker 4: I'm over here, man, my head is spinning.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: Man got me calling brother. I'm ready to fight brother.

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Speaker 5: I got one more thing to ask you, big dog man.

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Speaker 5: What is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest.

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Speaker 2: Radio show in the land?

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Speaker 5: Man to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: Man, y'all got me this morning man?

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Speaker 2: Got me man?

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Speaker 3: You know some people just selfish?

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Speaker 4: You know, really?

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Speaker 1: Is that what you got out of that? I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: this man is selfish because he doesn't want you to

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Speaker 1: make a baby with this wife.

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Speaker 2: I mean that's not you.

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Speaker 3: But you're helping somebody, you know, your help. I don't

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Speaker 3: understand that, y'all don't see this being selfish with yeah, no, no, no, man,

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Speaker 3: I want his wife to care to carry the child.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: I just want to make sure we conceive, you know,

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Speaker 3: the traditional way. You understand what I'm saying. We hear

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Speaker 3: what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: That ain't gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: That's that man is not allowed that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's why I'm saying he's selfish.

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Speaker 1: People.

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Speaker 3: You understand.

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Speaker 1: You still don't get it to you.

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Speaker 2: I get it.

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Speaker 3: I just don't understand the selfishness.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 3: That's why people, that's why we don't never get in

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Speaker 3: nowhare as a people, this.

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Speaker 2: Is a people. As the people.

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Speaker 1: Black people hold each other back.

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Speaker 3: Holding each other bag.

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Speaker 1: We can't stick together.

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Speaker 2: You can't use that.

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Speaker 3: You can't get me one hour.

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Speaker 1: No, all right, nephew, thank you. Coming up next it

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