WEBVTT - Red Table Tattoos with Dr Woo

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, fam, I'm Jada Pinkett Smith and this is the

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<v Speaker 1>were in for the surprise of a lifetime, a major

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<v Speaker 1>bucket list experience. We are making a house call to

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<v Speaker 1>the most exclusive doctor in Hollywood. If you two remember,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a behind the scenes chat about tattoos after

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<v Speaker 1>Willow got Hers. We had another conversation about whether we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to be in agreement with us getting the three

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<v Speaker 1>of us getting tattooed. We talked about that, and you

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<v Speaker 1>keep vacillating back and forth about it. Yeah, okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>what tattooed would you like to get? Gam Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>know specifically what I want to get on my hand,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to just get um grateful gratitude. But we

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<v Speaker 1>were trying to think of something that we could all

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<v Speaker 1>get together. That's I like, I mean, I can do

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not doing gratitude right here, but we could

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<v Speaker 1>take something maybe three circles. That's what That's what I

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<v Speaker 1>said to you so long? Did you yes? And you

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<v Speaker 1>were like M I said, three interlocking circles to look

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like this. We can do three interlocking circles.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm down for that. You heard it right, I did

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<v Speaker 1>table Yeah, I mean that you could do a show

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<v Speaker 1>about it, like Little Long Eyed Wing. So to keep

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<v Speaker 1>my word, I lined up something really special. We are

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<v Speaker 1>taking a field trip to the one and only a

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<v Speaker 1>Doctor Who. I'm so excited. He has a waiting list

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<v Speaker 1>a mile long, and we are going to his studio

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<v Speaker 1>and we're finally going to get our matching tattoo. So

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<v Speaker 1>now they're oh, my good day, welcome, thank you to

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<v Speaker 1>Mr Woo. Honey made the time, my goodness. I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always wanted to get tattooed by Dr Woo. Dr

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<v Speaker 1>Wu is one of the most in demand tattoo artists

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<v Speaker 1>in the world. He has millions of followers around the

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<v Speaker 1>globe and his wait list can be years long. Doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Who's signature style is extraordinarily intricate and very distinct, created

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<v Speaker 1>by a single needle technique, unlike most tattoos that use

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<v Speaker 1>eight needles at once. His delicate and detailed creations have

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<v Speaker 1>been inked on some very famous bodies. Drake's praying hands,

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<v Speaker 1>this tiny peach on Justin Bieber's neck, a jar of

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<v Speaker 1>vegemite on Miley's arm, and a picture perfect town on

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<v Speaker 1>Blake Griffin, plus countless others. His black and gray meticulous

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<v Speaker 1>masterpieces will leave you in all doctor who is making

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<v Speaker 1>time for us? Ladies? We can get grateful to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Get whatever you want, gam whatever you want. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to Dr wool studio. Doctors. What you want to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell what you want to do? What tell Doctor wou

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<v Speaker 1>what you want to do? What you want to do,

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<v Speaker 1>what you wanna do? Here you go. I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>What are what is going on? When? When are we going?

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<v Speaker 1>In two days? Oh? Wow? You know what we could get?

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<v Speaker 1>What lotus? But a tiny lotus, like like a shaded lotus,

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<v Speaker 1>down a realistic lotus. I'm down for that. That's perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm down for the lotus. Down for the lotus, lotus, lotus,

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<v Speaker 1>lous loadus. The weight is over. It's time for the

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<v Speaker 1>field trip to our first ever three generational tattoo experience.

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<v Speaker 1>We're headed to the legendary Hollywood Roosevelt Hotel, home of

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<v Speaker 1>Dr Woo's secret studio he calls the hideaway. Oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a hell of a studio. This is this is armor,

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<v Speaker 1>this is your studio. This is this is this is

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<v Speaker 1>such a vie. This is a real vibe. I love

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<v Speaker 1>that there's just a full motorcycle just in the tattooing room.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my old motorcycle. Figure out what we are doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Willow wants us to get matching tattoos, so we would

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<v Speaker 1>think about going on like you know low this Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I heard maybe you wanted it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a blossom. I wanted to get like a bud. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like starting to get out of the sea. And then

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<v Speaker 1>the full lotus. Do you have any area that you

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<v Speaker 1>think would be best. I mean I always like the arms.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you can always control how much it's visible. Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>what about right here? Mom? That doesn't hurt too bad?

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<v Speaker 1>That she didn't hurt too much. Right. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>light hand as well, so I don't mind, like on

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<v Speaker 1>the same area, but on this side, I'll make some

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<v Speaker 1>stencils and then and then you guys take everything in

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll come back in a second. Brig Anda rich

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<v Speaker 1>and nowa rich and now alright, this is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the one that was kind of like more like it's

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of autlanes, more shot, I probably like shaded

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<v Speaker 1>a little softer. And then this is more of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cool, you know, more of a graphic kind

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<v Speaker 1>of artistic. I really like this. There's something really charming

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<v Speaker 1>about this. Yeah, this is gorgeous. Oh wait, okay a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>hold it. I really I really want this all three

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<v Speaker 1>of the three of them. That's pretty How about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you see this? Look at that gorgeous mom that's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really beautiful that's gorgeous. I love that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's having a movement. That's it. So who's going to

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<v Speaker 1>go first make ourselves at home. Then we will set

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<v Speaker 1>up for Jada. I can't wait to see how mommy.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean once you've had babies, it's like, yeah, whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we tend to be a little hairy. My

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<v Speaker 1>arm definitely has some fuzz. Usually, you know, we make

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<v Speaker 1>a stencil so we can get the placement just right

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<v Speaker 1>and see where everything is. It's kind of look a

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<v Speaker 1>little blueprint for me to follow, because the chricky thing

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<v Speaker 1>about this spot is on the top of your arm.

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<v Speaker 1>You see, how like there's this gap at all you

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<v Speaker 1>do is like any twist kind of distorts it. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you want it more center, like when you're natural or

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<v Speaker 1>kind of when you pull up you kind of see it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's probably when I'm natural. Huh yeah, check it out,

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<v Speaker 1>you think, look at that smile. You can lift and

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<v Speaker 1>move it around in a little bit to see see

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<v Speaker 1>how it falls in different places. Do you think it

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<v Speaker 1>should come down just a little you turn around? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you did it like race, Yeah, let's try. It's mama.

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<v Speaker 1>It's mama. She's getting tad about dr Which it's mama.

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<v Speaker 1>That has a different vibe. There we go. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like we're right there. It's right in the middle.

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<v Speaker 1>That's beautiful. That's dope. I want to see it every day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a remind. Yeah, it's a beautiful reminder. M hm,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be okay. I know. So how long have

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<v Speaker 1>you been doing this? You've been doing us a fourteen

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<v Speaker 1>ye so wow of time. I've had people talk about

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<v Speaker 1>him like they we're gonna go see Kid Cuddy concert

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<v Speaker 1>like Dr Brule, Like do you need to see this?

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<v Speaker 1>If I ever got the chance, like going on like

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<v Speaker 1>this is crazy that's so. What do you think was

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<v Speaker 1>the moment you realized you made it? It wasn't overnight.

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<v Speaker 1>There was one time I do remember, though, like choose

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<v Speaker 1>a day, like the first Monday of every month, say

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<v Speaker 1>if you want an appointment and you live in l A,

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<v Speaker 1>just come to the shop and and make it in person.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember I pulled up to the shop and

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<v Speaker 1>there was a line around the block on Sunset and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god. It was very crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're kind of like, oh wow, that's okay. I

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<v Speaker 1>think there's someone too something here. Have have you been

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<v Speaker 1>able to stay so grounded? You see, my such a

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<v Speaker 1>cool person. You've got such a relaxed, joyful demeanor. It's

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<v Speaker 1>because my family and my wife, my kids, and I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up in the city, so I had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of chances to see people that don't take success and fame. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then you see how people started treating people. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to ever be like that. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I never want to treat anyone lesser than to me

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<v Speaker 1>in that sense. You know, once you get a family

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<v Speaker 1>and you kind of understand how you want your kids

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<v Speaker 1>to treat other people, that's a whole other thing and

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<v Speaker 1>then you have to leave by example. So over time,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's just goes. How many kids do you have?

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<v Speaker 1>Have two boys? You got two boys with their ages

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<v Speaker 1>ten and six. Oh wow, okay, have a real daddy

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<v Speaker 1>mode there a while too. One of his kid's names

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<v Speaker 1>is Raife, and I was like, my mom would love

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<v Speaker 1>that name. Yeah, and Lion Lion I like that one too.

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<v Speaker 1>What made you decide that you wanted to become a

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<v Speaker 1>tattoo artist? You know that's the thing. And it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like a conscious decision. I was getting tattooed by my

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<v Speaker 1>mentor Smart Mahoney, that Shamrock on the Sunset Strip for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time, and he's you know, super famous, super

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<v Speaker 1>legendary in the world. So when he offered to teach me,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, how do you turn that down? I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't pass that up, so quit my job the next

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<v Speaker 1>day and they started there. Why did he offer to

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<v Speaker 1>teach you? I was his client for like ten years

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<v Speaker 1>before that, just kind of like a shop kid hanging

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. You had a Jedi heart he saw. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't your typical tattoo artist. No. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>a first generation immigrant here and my parents were Chinese.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't grow up around that stuff. Whereas like all

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<v Speaker 1>the other tattoos in the shop, parents were tattoo artists

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, they come from the biker games. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if you walked into the tattoo shop in like the nineties,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a very un known world before. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>a commonplace for people. There was no TV shows, there

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<v Speaker 1>was no Instagram or Facebook, and it was pretty taboo,

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<v Speaker 1>very taboo, very taboo for the first part of my career.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean nine percent of people that were getting a tattoo,

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<v Speaker 1>like we're heavily tattooed. There was for tattoo connoisseurs. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, eight out of ten it's like their first tattoo.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tattooing lawyers and doctors, politicians. The taboo has definitely

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<v Speaker 1>been lit it a bit. Parents feel about you, Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I need listen to say. I'm sure you assume from

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<v Speaker 1>first generation immigrant Asian parents, they are as much Asian

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<v Speaker 1>traditional parents as you would expect. I did not give

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<v Speaker 1>them an easy upbringing. I was very rebellious, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a culture shock at home. I was hearing

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<v Speaker 1>and learning one thing, and when I was at school

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<v Speaker 1>and with my friends and something else, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really know who I was. So for me to like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of do this was not what they their visions.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not their story that they're going to tell. We didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, immigrate to America so our firstborn son can

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<v Speaker 1>become a tattoo I I don't know. You know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to be a lawyer, doctor, go to a

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<v Speaker 1>u c l A. Like that whole thing. They're so supportive. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom was so proud, But it wasn't an easy

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<v Speaker 1>transition to that point. It definitely took them a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit to understand and what this was. I think they

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<v Speaker 1>understood that success isn't determined or defined by what, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the social standards of it is. That's what we define

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<v Speaker 1>it is, and if we're happy in doing what we love.

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<v Speaker 1>When I first had my kids, the first thing I

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<v Speaker 1>did was called my parents and say, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>am so sorry, Like I like, I took it all

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<v Speaker 1>for granted, because now I understand. I don't think you

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<v Speaker 1>can really understand until you understand what that responsibility is.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to ask you something everything that's been

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<v Speaker 1>happening in our country lately just around the violence towards

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Asian who. How has that affected you or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I feel like I had such a tough

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<v Speaker 1>skin growing up and I didn't really understand. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>of course I understood racism and all that, but I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't grow up with a lot of Asians, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up in the mixed community. But now I

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<v Speaker 1>see it. And right before lockdown, my kid is than

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<v Speaker 1>I were in a store and the kids pick something up.

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<v Speaker 1>I rack and it fell and some old man's are

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at him, and I was like, you know, don't

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<v Speaker 1>don't yell at my kids, like he's up and he

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<v Speaker 1>told us to go back to where we came from.

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<v Speaker 1>And my kids are mixed, so they have no They

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<v Speaker 1>were like, we'll go home, Like yeah, back to the

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<v Speaker 1>Silver Lake. Like I don't understand because in our house,

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<v Speaker 1>we never talked about rates or you know what I mean, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just we are who we are. And that was

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<v Speaker 1>the first time I kind of felt like, Wow, this

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<v Speaker 1>guy doesn't see me the way that I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I see myself. And then I kind of felt this

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<v Speaker 1>is how so many people feel and I just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like been blind to that fact, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's been an interesting time. It's been hard to find

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<v Speaker 1>the definition of being so open minded and having no

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<v Speaker 1>hate in your heart. It sounds as cool as I say,

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<v Speaker 1>like everyone has to work together and admit that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we all have flaws, you know, and we have to

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<v Speaker 1>work together against white sprises. You know, there's a common enemy.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Some people don't want to hear it. Even

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<v Speaker 1>my parents. Yeah, you know, I try to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>with them because they are Asian elders and they kind

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<v Speaker 1>of are afraid of conflict and they don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>engage that way because they that's been there and of

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thriving in this country is like like not

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<v Speaker 1>not causing a disruption. If they don't bother us, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't bother them. After that moment, did you feel the

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<v Speaker 1>need to then have a conversation with your your boys

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<v Speaker 1>and your wife as a family. So we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>it a lot with him now, especially the little one,

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<v Speaker 1>because my wife is her mother is Irish and Italian

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<v Speaker 1>and her father is Native American and half black. They

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<v Speaker 1>have a quarter A lot of stuff, a lot of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>After this whole thing, the little one has been saying

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<v Speaker 1>a lot like, oh, I'm Chinese. I'm like, WHOA, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>part but not all. And they're like, well, how come

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<v Speaker 1>you're full. I'm like, because my parents are. And but

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<v Speaker 1>that's the beauty of building a family and everyone can

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<v Speaker 1>love each other and there's no boundaries, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>you can be Chinese and you can be white, you

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<v Speaker 1>can be Native American, you can be black, and it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter, you know. I tried to explain to them

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<v Speaker 1>in that sense, and they're just starting to get it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think they're so innocent that they don't even think.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't even think about it. It's like it's so

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<v Speaker 1>difficult to explain the concept of separatism to a child. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're like they're not on the playground, Like that's white

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<v Speaker 1>Billy and it's Chinese John. Like, it's just they're the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember my older one we were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>and I literally saw like he was perplexed in his eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, wow, I don't do I pursue

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<v Speaker 1>this because I don't even want to break that still. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's hard to ignore now. But I think just

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<v Speaker 1>showing them the right way and not telling them how

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<v Speaker 1>they should feel, but giving them tools to do themselves

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<v Speaker 1>educate them. We have to take our time out and

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<v Speaker 1>really tackle some of those topics with them because the

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<v Speaker 1>school is not going to write. But at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you protect your child's innocence? Yeah, part of

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<v Speaker 1>you wants to obviously do that, and the part of

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<v Speaker 1>you wants to, like you said, protect your innocence. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think we just got to do our best to

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<v Speaker 1>give them the best foot forward as they grow, because

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<v Speaker 1>they will. I think it is really just your home

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<v Speaker 1>life and who your parents are and raising them, right man,

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<v Speaker 1>So beautiful, Yeah, perfect, willow your next My god, this

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna be so fire. I think this might make

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<v Speaker 1>more sense instead of wrapping. That's beautiful, all right. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just so excited to finally be added by a doctor

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<v Speaker 1>woo and to tell everybody, honestly, the longest had two

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<v Speaker 1>you ever done? Dr Boum. One time I did one

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<v Speaker 1>of like ten hours. Whoa, I can't work in that

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<v Speaker 1>capacity anymore. It's a lot, I was gonna say, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot for the artists as well as for the client.

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<v Speaker 1>The lotus represents spiritual enlightenment, and we hear the saying

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<v Speaker 1>like through the mud grows the lotus, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that my story, yes, and I think all of us

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<v Speaker 1>from different perspectives in life have had that journey, the

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<v Speaker 1>bud to the little blossom to the bloom. Also, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like expresses the spiritual journey, but also the three

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<v Speaker 1>of us. I'm the youngest, you know, my mom is

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<v Speaker 1>the middle and Gam Gam is the fully bloomed lotus.

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<v Speaker 1>And it means something, you know, different for each of

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<v Speaker 1>us because our stories, our journeys are different, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>still represents us so well. I just I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>was brilliant, Thank you, Gam. Out of the mud, it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to lotus, you have to go through the mud,

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<v Speaker 1>the dirt, and it's still something beautiful was created. And

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of described my journey. I've been through some

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<v Speaker 1>really tough times, you know, but I'm still worthy, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's still room for me to grow and change.

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<v Speaker 1>Even now at sixty seven, I'm still growing and changing

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<v Speaker 1>and trying to be better. Yeah, so getting the lotus

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<v Speaker 1>was just like everything. It feels like my little kitten

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<v Speaker 1>Lolo when I first got her, playing biting my arm.

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<v Speaker 1>How many tattoos do you have? Game three? Three tattoos

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<v Speaker 1>and wow, fifteen piercings and three tattoos. Now we were

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<v Speaker 1>looking on your page and there was a little boy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I also want to drus because I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>a tattoo artist. Oh you do? Okay, what if they

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<v Speaker 1>grow up to also tattoo? I don't know. I was

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<v Speaker 1>very fortunate to be able to like carve myself a

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<v Speaker 1>little place. I mean, their father being doctor, who they

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<v Speaker 1>might even be like, I'm never going to pick up

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<v Speaker 1>a tattoo pin because if my thought as good as his,

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm you know, I get asked that a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I never know how I feel about the answer.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe they want to make an impact someplace else,

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<v Speaker 1>someplace else. That makes a lot of sense. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not easy walking in your parents. It's really not.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm like, damn, that's I really respect that

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<v Speaker 1>because I knew my parents. Obviously they wanted me to

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<v Speaker 1>do what I wanted to do, but I definitely knew

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<v Speaker 1>that they wanted me to be an artist and like

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<v Speaker 1>any kind of artist, you know what I mean. And

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<v Speaker 1>I also feel like they wanted me to do that

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<v Speaker 1>because that was what they knew and they could like

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<v Speaker 1>me in that world like they could be instrumental in

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<v Speaker 1>my growth in that world because they had knowledge about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's something they could relate to totally. Yeah, have wisdom

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<v Speaker 1>in it. Yeah. I love the studio. We call it

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<v Speaker 1>the Hideaway because it's kind of a little hideaway. Once

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<v Speaker 1>you're here, you don't feel like you're part of the

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<v Speaker 1>hotel exactly. They had the first oscars here. What this

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<v Speaker 1>hotel is. It's some hauntings that hotel room right, there

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<v Speaker 1>are costs. It's like where Marilyn Monroe lives. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>mirror that people have been saying that if you look

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<v Speaker 1>in the mirror, you see her in the reflection. So

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<v Speaker 1>they actually removed the mirror. That's so scary. I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>the last one. I've never gotten shading in a tattoo before.

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<v Speaker 1>When I leave here, I'm going to go to the

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<v Speaker 1>studio and making a theme song immediately doctor who get

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<v Speaker 1>that good? Good? With a nice little synth jingle on

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<v Speaker 1>the end. I'll send you some sounds, yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 1>can just put it in there. You can sample some buzzing. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's already catching on. All right, Wow, you're just a

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<v Speaker 1>freaking jet Like, what come on, look at dad? This

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<v Speaker 1>is just a detail. I just love you. You have

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<v Speaker 1>it back, has it cleal? It feels amazing and it

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<v Speaker 1>looks even better. Guys, this is my first shaded doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Woo tattoo. It's damping. Hey, damn you did that? Fends

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<v Speaker 1>It looks where I say, perfect dad Willow, Damn you

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<v Speaker 1>next to want to go. Dr Lou was able to

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<v Speaker 1>design the three stages of the lotus, representing the stages

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<v Speaker 1>of our lives and stages of our lives and the

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<v Speaker 1>stages of our spiritual growth. Yeah, it's pretty dope. Yeah. Ready,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready for you. I think I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>it right, gotcha, whatever you feel, because you're the one

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<v Speaker 1>that's going to be seeing it the most. Oh my goodness,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, that's going to be beautiful. My mother

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<v Speaker 1>has more tattoos than me because that isn't due just crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's got stogetically that's whyetically, So honey, don't get

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<v Speaker 1>it twisted. Have a seat, lady. Okay, I'm feeling good.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I have a pretty high towerance for pain.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys ever think we would be here doing

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<v Speaker 1>this because Jada was half stepping No half stepen, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, Henny, he said, who said will. He was

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<v Speaker 1>actually the one that I was most nervous about. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I showed my mom the art for my past sleeve,

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to say, like three weeks before I

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<v Speaker 1>got it, and but I didn't tell my dad because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like he's going to be like, my baby,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely what And I knew he be like what the hell?

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<v Speaker 1>But he called me it was like I want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>like two or three days after I had gotten it,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, hey, I heard you gotta cattoo.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like from who, And he's like, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter, it doesn't matter. Obviously it was you. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like okay, And then I showed it to

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<v Speaker 1>him and he was like everything is in divine order.

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<v Speaker 1>Your path is your path, and I just love you

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm glad that you got something that actually looks nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, thank you. You got that boom, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you got that game. And she's just like has anybody

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<v Speaker 1>ever come to you and been like, man, I can't believe,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, three years later, like did you give

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<v Speaker 1>me that tattoo? You know, it's always a tattoo of

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<v Speaker 1>a lover a name, and I tell anyone that it's

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<v Speaker 1>a curse. Yeah, I don't think I've ever done it

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<v Speaker 1>where the couple stayed together one time, literally the couple

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<v Speaker 1>got it the night before and the next day they

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<v Speaker 1>came in regretting it. Wow, just like is there any

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<v Speaker 1>way to remove this? Is? Like what or like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like what do I do? Like, don't don't be so

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<v Speaker 1>hasty next time? I mean, game is almost being brought

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<v Speaker 1>to tears. Your dream came true. Gam, you gotta take

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<v Speaker 1>a picture. That's beautiful, right it is. That's gorgeous. Gam,

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<v Speaker 1>He's so dope. Oh my god, so beautiful. You got

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<v Speaker 1>your dream game? Fetch three got all right, and I

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<v Speaker 1>love it right there. It's like, yeah, we got them

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<v Speaker 1>all in different places place. I love that we did that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we finally did it. And every day we look at this,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna remember our spiritual growth. We're gonna remember there's

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful time in life. Absolutely. It makes me want

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<v Speaker 1>to just get a big old lotus on my back. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Hey, this is how I'm gonna be every

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<v Speaker 1>day now. She'd be like, oh yeah, so yeah, just chilling,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like over there did you see that? Like

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<v Speaker 1>like over there, Yeah, totally it's gonna be like Hello

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