WEBVTT - Second Date Update: You Look Familiar

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. Normally, when we hear about amazing first dates

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<v Speaker 1>on this show, it's this big, elaborate tale that went

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<v Speaker 1>to multiple locations and lasted across several days. Yea cost

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<v Speaker 1>tons of money. Yeah, because the two of them just,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, couldn't bring themselves to walk away from each other.

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<v Speaker 1>But is it possible to have a life changing first

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<v Speaker 1>date that only lasts thirty minutes? Oh? I mean a

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<v Speaker 1>first something? For me, I can squeeze one life changing

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<v Speaker 1>date in in thirty seconds. But it's not about me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about Connor, because he's on the phone right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just hope that we can help him. Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>what's good man? Hey? Thanks for having me. I know

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<v Speaker 1>the way you set that up, you sound really extra. Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that? You sound pretty extra and dramatic for sure? Connor?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you not stand by Jeff's statement? I mean, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, as if I'm on this show, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to be at least a little bit Normally, wouldn't you

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<v Speaker 1>do this? But like, I just met this girl, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've never caught feelings for somebody this twitch, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like if I don't do everything, I can at

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<v Speaker 1>least try to figure out why I'm not hearing back

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<v Speaker 1>from her, then I'm doing myself a disservice. Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about this woman who just changed your life.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name is Renee? Okay, and how

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<v Speaker 1>did you meet her the most romantic way possible? Online?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course? I mean did you know when you saw

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<v Speaker 1>her online that she was like I mean, you're describing

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<v Speaker 1>her something incredible, right, Yeah, Like I don't believe in

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<v Speaker 1>like love at first sight or anything like lust that

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<v Speaker 1>first sight. For sure, this was something like almost in between,

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<v Speaker 1>if that made sense. What did you love so much

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<v Speaker 1>about her? I saw her picture and you know, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>I caught my attention She's gorgeous, but then I could

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<v Speaker 1>like quite place my finger on It's like she just

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<v Speaker 1>reminded me of someone like I don't mom, yeah he's

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<v Speaker 1>going to go with a celebrity job. Yeah not a mom? Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>who was it? Not even a celebrity. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>the closest I can think of it is like she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of reminds me of like this friend I had

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<v Speaker 1>from college. So it's like almost like just seeing her

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<v Speaker 1>made me feel sort of like connected to her face. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a comfort there already. Yeah. So I reached

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<v Speaker 1>out and I was like, hey, are you this person

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<v Speaker 1>by chance? And she said no, and you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>got to talking and ventually we started talking over the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, like the first phone call when you

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<v Speaker 1>meet someone online, I always off or you never know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have the same kind of like chemistry,

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<v Speaker 1>you might have just text in her whatever. But immediately

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<v Speaker 1>felt comfortable talking to hers and the conversation was really good,

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<v Speaker 1>so that such as a sign. I asked her out

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<v Speaker 1>and yes, and where do we ask her out too?

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<v Speaker 1>I decided to take her to one of my favorite bakeries.

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<v Speaker 1>I figured, like, you know, low pressure first date uiant bad.

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<v Speaker 1>It smells good, everyone's happy in a bakery relatively low cost,

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<v Speaker 1>but like a first day without alcohol. I don't mean to,

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<v Speaker 1>but for me, I just can't actually good and I

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<v Speaker 1>need Like there's just something about sitting down with a

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<v Speaker 1>glass of wine or something with someone that just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of takes the edge off, Like daytime bakery. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little more focus or friend like so tell so tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about your friend, like boring sober. I think sober

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<v Speaker 1>is bad. It just for me, it is. How was

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<v Speaker 1>it for you I'll have you know that wine can't

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<v Speaker 1>take the edge off nearly as good as my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>bakery is amazing maple bars. Okay, okay, I could get

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<v Speaker 1>behind that. You're starting to sell me. What was it

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<v Speaker 1>like when you first saw her? Like, was she everything

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<v Speaker 1>that you were hoping she'd be? Oh? Yeah, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean when you meet the online like they show up

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<v Speaker 1>looking half as her as the picture, you consider yourself lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>She looked even better, so like, oh so I at

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<v Speaker 1>least I know she's also honest, which was really nice. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so first impression is good. How did the actual conversation

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<v Speaker 1>in the date go? I thought it went really well.

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<v Speaker 1>So before we even like started to like sit down

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<v Speaker 1>and talk, I was like, hey, you have to try

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<v Speaker 1>these maple bars kind of my move, you know, show

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<v Speaker 1>them I've got good taste, and also like, who isn't

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<v Speaker 1>in a better move when you're having like something that's

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<v Speaker 1>like warm and sweet and noey. Yeah, She's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of diabetic, and you're like, no, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to try. Was she into it? Yeah? She said it

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<v Speaker 1>was delicious. We sat down, had a little bit of coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just like very first conversation stuff, but it

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<v Speaker 1>flowed very well. Yeah, like what would you guys talk about? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like favorite movies and boats that type of stuff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta say, you know, Jeff set this up as

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<v Speaker 1>a woman that like changed your life in thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>But so far, I mean it sounds like a good date.

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<v Speaker 1>But was there something like exceptional about it? Oh so

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<v Speaker 1>it's not exceptional enough to just sounds like sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>something like Brooke and I would go do Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>good for state. Do you know how rare a normal

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<v Speaker 1>good Yeah? I mean I'm just asking like the exceptional part,

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<v Speaker 1>like what blew you out of the water? Well, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing, But the whole thing was maybe forty minutes top.

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<v Speaker 1>But like in that forty minutes, I thought we had

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<v Speaker 1>like a good connection, and you know, we started about

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<v Speaker 1>like future ambitions, which is something I don't talk about

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<v Speaker 1>with someone until like the fourth or fifth date. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I told her how I eventually want to be

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<v Speaker 1>like a master French chest That's kind of my dream

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm doing, who specializes in French maple bars. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming for a while, just based on that alone,

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<v Speaker 1>give me a court on blue and she seemed really supportive,

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<v Speaker 1>awesome and forty minutes. I mean, that's not a very

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<v Speaker 1>long date, but it sounds like it went well. How

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<v Speaker 1>did you end it? Gave her hudd and said I

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<v Speaker 1>had a really great time. I'd like to see her again.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe it ended on an awkward note like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure. I made a joke that I hope she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't take the wrong way like she was leaving. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna pay me for the maball bar, and

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta what that needed For a second, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just joking. Yeah, laugh, but yeah, forty six cents lay.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So in your email, you told us that

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<v Speaker 1>you've been texting and calling her but she's not answering anything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I'm an adult. I know what that means.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if it's like something I can

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<v Speaker 1>salvage or at the very least learn to not do

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<v Speaker 1>in a future date. Okay, Yeah, Well, the good news

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<v Speaker 1>is you don't have to salvage it. That's our job, right,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll play a song, We're gonna call Renee for you

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<v Speaker 1>and get you your second date update right after that. Okay, Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>figures FROs. Right after this hold on second, we're in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of a second date update with Connor, who

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<v Speaker 1>says he doesn't really believe in love at first sight. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but something clearly does believe in is love at first bite.

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<v Speaker 1>Because he rene to a bakery where they make the

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<v Speaker 1>most decadent, creamy, moist, mouth watering homemade maple bars, his

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<v Speaker 1>oral cavity has ever seen around the world. I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to make that sound. You just play the whole thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't afford to lose any more. Listen. The whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing only lasted about forty minutes, he says, but that

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<v Speaker 1>was all he needed to know that there's something special

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<v Speaker 1>happening with him and Renee the Connor. Is it possible

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<v Speaker 1>that the maple bar was so good it put Renee

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<v Speaker 1>into a week long food coma and she just needs

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<v Speaker 1>a little more time to come out of it and

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<v Speaker 1>finally respond to you. I mean, if that's the explanation,

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<v Speaker 1>then I'll be happy to know about Okay, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying there's optimism over here. You know. My thought is,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you feel this, Connor. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe just she found a couple other dudes to date,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like she said, I mean by thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>putting such a positive spin on this. I think we

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<v Speaker 1>could come back from that. I thought that was a possible. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she probably has a lot of options because she sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like Unicorn and she just doesn't realize how great you are.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's where we come in to really seen and

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<v Speaker 1>they probably gave her. I meant, before we do any

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<v Speaker 1>more positive talk with Connor, let's just move on and

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<v Speaker 1>call Renee and actually get the answer to you're ready

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<v Speaker 1>to do this, man, let's do that. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm down on your number right now. Hello, Hey, is

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<v Speaker 1>this Renee? Um? This is she May asks calling you May, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will answer with five minutes. Why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>just answer her? I'd like to set it up. You're

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. I'm jeff if that wasn't super clear, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Jeff. I don't know anymore. I don't sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like I don't know your show. I'm sorry. Comedy,

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<v Speaker 1>we're quirky and weird. I'll just get to it because

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing something right now called the Second Date Update

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<v Speaker 1>and we're looking to help one of our listeners, Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>get back in touch with you. Now. She's have you

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<v Speaker 1>heard our podcast? Or are you last laughing? Wait? Wait

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<v Speaker 1>wait wait wait wait wait wait you talked to him? Yeah, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't know. He doesn't know what I honestly like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say other than he is

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<v Speaker 1>the most cluep guy in the entire world. But my look,

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<v Speaker 1>I told all my friends about our date, and they

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<v Speaker 1>all told me that I should like post it on

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok because it's just so your friends, like, we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about a thirty minute coffee date at a bakery. He

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mention anything crazy when we spoke to him. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that the same, Connor? It's the same, It's Connor. But

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I'm going to paint you the picture because it's ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>Three and a half years ago, maybe even like four. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I was on a different dating app, okay, where this

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<v Speaker 1>guy hit me up and he invited me to go

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<v Speaker 1>to a bakery. At the bakery, this person like insisted

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<v Speaker 1>I try these amazing maple bars whatever, and we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about like our favorite movies and books and gets who

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<v Speaker 1>that person was. Gets the name of that person. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>tell me it's Connor. Wait it's the same dude. So yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I have been out with Connor, the same Connor you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about, on the exact same bakery date three and

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<v Speaker 1>a half years ago. Wait wait, when did you realize

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<v Speaker 1>it was the same guy from three years prior? Like

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<v Speaker 1>when we matched? How do you not remember going on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with someone? Why did you go through with it? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>If you knew you had already been on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with this guy three years ago, why did you continue?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I genuinely thought it was a joke and that

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<v Speaker 1>when we got there he'd be like, we're not actually

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<v Speaker 1>going here again. Oh you thought he was setting you

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<v Speaker 1>up to be like okay, because you thought he remembered too,

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<v Speaker 1>I just went along with it. Oh it was the

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<v Speaker 1>second time at least better both dates. It was the

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<v Speaker 1>exact same conversation. Like, I already know his favorite book,

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<v Speaker 1>it's slaughter House five, its favorite movie Shot of the Dead.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a good memory. I even know also about

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<v Speaker 1>his five year plan to become a master of French

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<v Speaker 1>cooker or whatever. But clearly he hasn't made much progress

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<v Speaker 1>because that was three and a half years ago. French

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<v Speaker 1>copion is hard to master though A year to half last.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh one more thing. The first time that we did

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<v Speaker 1>go on our date, he ghosted me the way I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna three years ago he ghosted you, and this

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<v Speaker 1>time he has. I mean, he's describing you as like

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<v Speaker 1>this amazing woman that he can't let get away. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and don't just take it from us. Connor is actually

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening and wants to tell you himself.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that right, Connor? You're joking. This can't be realized.

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<v Speaker 1>There's Connor, Connor, how many women have you taken to

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<v Speaker 1>that bakery over the years, like three hundred four hundred? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, look it's not that many, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite first date spot. I wait, but you even

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<v Speaker 1>made the same joke, Like you made the same like

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna preing me back for that maple boor joke?

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<v Speaker 1>That's Connor? You don't remember her at all. Look I

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<v Speaker 1>told you, guys, I knew she's seven familiar I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was friend between familiarity and like, actually, like our

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<v Speaker 1>first date, we spent time together. Wow. I hate to

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<v Speaker 1>ask this, but are you sure it was me? You

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<v Speaker 1>were date your f one hundred percent positive Connor, is

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<v Speaker 1>that your favorite movie, bro Sean of the Dead? I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that same joke. It's not even a good Joe. This

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<v Speaker 1>is when you start apologizing, buddy, like she's mad you

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<v Speaker 1>ghosted her the first time and then you didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>remember second time. It's kind of insult to injury. I mean, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to make excuses for myself, but three

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<v Speaker 1>and a half years ago was a long time. I've

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<v Speaker 1>matured a lot since then, and I'm sure a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people have. I'm older, I'm wiser. I apologize since

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<v Speaker 1>it very much. So, look, I doot that you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry. I was clearly an idiot then, I'm clearly

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<v Speaker 1>an idiot now. But the fact that he had the

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<v Speaker 1>wherewithal to reach out to a radio station to reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to you shows the personal growth that he's made

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<v Speaker 1>in that time. True. I mean it was an honest mistake. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I get that. I'm just kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>over it, like at this point, like I'm nervous. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're being a little bit too judgmental because you're

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<v Speaker 1>hungry and what you need is another man. I think so,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you could get another mouth. You're gonna see

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<v Speaker 1>what a great guy Connor is. And we'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>put that maple bar in there and send you on

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<v Speaker 1>another date. I'll just say, Renee, I am terrible remembering faces.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, but it was it's not even about that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the exact same date. It was the exact

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<v Speaker 1>favorite conversation. Yeah, but it's like a movie that you

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<v Speaker 1>love so much you just want to watch it over. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually nothing like that, though, I still think you

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<v Speaker 1>should give m another shot, and this time he can

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<v Speaker 1>do a totally different place, a whole new conversation. He'll

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<v Speaker 1>ask about your favorite exercise activity, Connor. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>third times the charm All right, there you go. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why it's a really strong argu yes from Connor. Renee,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you say? I wish you nothing but the best, Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>But like I'm and I don't want to ghost you

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<v Speaker 1>the way you ghosted me. So I'm just going to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you straight up that I'm not interested. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>do now, dude. I mean, hopefully three and a half

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<v Speaker 1>years from now, she'll forget about this. We can try again.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll be in here for you. Frok and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning man. Thinking back, that first date had so

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<v Speaker 1>many positives to it. Wait, which first date? The first

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<v Speaker 1>first one, first one? Maybe I should clarify that second

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<v Speaker 1>date had so many or maybe to clarify again that

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<v Speaker 1>first and second day had so many positive coffee, maple bars,

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<v Speaker 1>aspirations of French cooking, and I guess women are just

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<v Speaker 1>so picky now they don't want to go on the

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<v Speaker 1>same date twice is three years? Did you not listen

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<v Speaker 1>to her at all? Not real? And does anyone else

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<v Speaker 1>not believe him on the French cooking thing? Like he

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<v Speaker 1>just yeah, it's like his stick to sound exotic and

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<v Speaker 1>sexy does sound really cool. Everybody has that one big

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<v Speaker 1>goal though, that they know they're never going to achieve.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just nice to say, yeah, the goal isn't so hot. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>going to become a French chef. But yeah, we weren't

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<v Speaker 1>able to get them to go out on another date.

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<v Speaker 1>The worst part about it, though, is after that whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>we never asked the name of the bakery where they

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<v Speaker 1>make those maple bars. I do want to trump, but

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<v Speaker 1>I also feel like he's taken a lot of first

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<v Speaker 1>dates there, so they must not be that good because

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<v Speaker 1>there wasn't ever any second dates at this place. At

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<v Speaker 1>the end of it, he's like, oh, it's dunkin Donuts.

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<v Speaker 1>We failed on so many levels, and we don't even

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<v Speaker 1>have a maple bar, so we can eat our feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>If anyone wants to drop him off at the studio,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be cool. Yeah. Yeah, actually here diabetic, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, you can bring us some maple bars. And

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<v Speaker 1>while you're here, if you want a second date, we

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<v Speaker 1>might be able to do that too. The show I

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<v Speaker 1>called the Person who Hasn't calling you back Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning