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Speaker 1: Second date. Normally, when we hear about amazing first dates

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Speaker 1: But is it possible to have a life changing first

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Speaker 1: It's about Connor, because he's on the phone right now,

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Speaker 1: and I just hope that we can help him. Connor,

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Speaker 1: what's good man? Hey? Thanks for having me. I know

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Speaker 1: the way you set that up, you sound really extra. Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is that? You sound pretty extra and dramatic for sure? Connor?

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Speaker 1: Do you not stand by Jeff's statement? I mean, look,

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Speaker 1: I mean, as if I'm on this show, I have

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Speaker 1: to be at least a little bit Normally, wouldn't you

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Speaker 1: I've never caught feelings for somebody this twitch, and I

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Speaker 1: from her, then I'm doing myself a disservice. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: So tell us about this woman who just changed your life.

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Renee? Okay, and how

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Speaker 1: did you meet her the most romantic way possible? Online?

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Speaker 1: Of course? I mean did you know when you saw

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Speaker 1: reminded me of someone like I don't mom, yeah he's

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Speaker 1: who was it? Not even a celebrity. But I think

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Speaker 1: And you know, like the first phone call when you

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Speaker 1: if you don't have the same kind of like chemistry,

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Speaker 1: so that such as a sign. I asked her out

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Speaker 1: and yes, and where do we ask her out too?

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Speaker 1: I decided to take her to one of my favorite bakeries.

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Speaker 1: I figured, like, you know, low pressure first date uiant bad.

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Speaker 1: It smells good, everyone's happy in a bakery relatively low cost,

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Speaker 1: bakery is amazing maple bars. Okay, okay, I could get

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Speaker 1: But so far, I mean it sounds like a good date.

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Speaker 1: they probably gave her. I meant, before we do any

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Speaker 1: to do this, man, let's do that. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: I'm down on your number right now. Hello, Hey, is

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Speaker 1: this Renee? Um? This is she May asks calling you May, Yes,

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Speaker 1: the morning. I'm jeff if that wasn't super clear, and

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Speaker 1: I'm Jeff. I don't know anymore. I don't sorry, I

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Speaker 1: and we're looking to help one of our listeners, Connor,

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Speaker 1: get back in touch with you. Now. She's have you

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Speaker 1: I have been out with Connor, the same Connor you're

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Speaker 1: second time at least better both dates. It was the

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Speaker 1: exact same conversation. Like, I already know his favorite book,

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Speaker 1: his five year plan to become a master of French

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Speaker 1: Isn't that right, Connor? You're joking. This can't be realized.

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Speaker 1: There's Connor, Connor, how many women have you taken to

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Speaker 1: that bakery over the years, like three hundred four hundred? Like,

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Speaker 1: my favorite first date spot. I wait, but you even

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Speaker 1: That's Connor? You don't remember her at all. Look I

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Speaker 1: told you, guys, I knew she's seven familiar I thought

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Speaker 1: it was friend between familiarity and like, actually, like our

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Speaker 1: first date, we spent time together. Wow. I hate to

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Speaker 1: ask this, but are you sure it was me? You

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Speaker 1: that your favorite movie, bro Sean of the Dead? I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that same joke. It's not even a good Joe. This

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Speaker 1: is when you start apologizing, buddy, like she's mad you

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to make excuses for myself, but three

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Speaker 1: it very much. So, look, I doot that you. I'm

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Speaker 1: in that time. True. I mean it was an honest mistake. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think you could get another mouth. You're gonna see

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Speaker 1: what a great guy Connor is. And we'd like to

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Speaker 1: another date. I'll just say, Renee, I am terrible remembering faces.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, but it was it's not even about that.

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Speaker 1: It was the exact same date. It was the exact

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Speaker 1: it's actually nothing like that, though, I still think you

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Speaker 1: ask about your favorite exercise activity, Connor. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: third times the charm All right, there you go. That's

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Speaker 1: why it's a really strong argu yes from Connor. Renee,

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Speaker 1: But like I'm and I don't want to ghost you

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Speaker 1: You'll be in here for you. Frok and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning man. Thinking back, that first date had so

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Speaker 1: many positives to it. Wait, which first date? The first

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Speaker 1: first and second day had so many positive coffee, maple bars,

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Speaker 1: It's just nice to say, yeah, the goal isn't so hot. Okay,

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Speaker 1: going to become a French chef. But yeah, we weren't

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Speaker 1: The worst part about it, though, is after that whole thing,

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Speaker 1: make those maple bars. I do want to trump, but

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Speaker 1: I also feel like he's taken a lot of first

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Speaker 1: We failed on so many levels, and we don't even

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Speaker 1: have a maple bar, so we can eat our feelings.

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Speaker 1: If anyone wants to drop him off at the studio,

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Speaker 1: that'd be cool. Yeah. Yeah, actually here diabetic, I know,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, you can bring us some maple bars. And

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Speaker 1: while you're here, if you want a second date, we

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Speaker 1: called the Person who Hasn't calling you back Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning