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Speaker 1: My mother in law robbed me because I'm rich, but

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Speaker 1: now I'm trying to get her arrested. Don't you hate

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Speaker 1: when you have a Karen mother in law. It's bad

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Speaker 1: enough when you run into someone at a grocery store

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Speaker 1: parking your car, but if your partner's mother is insufferably

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Speaker 1: Karen enough to dare to steal your money. By the way,

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Speaker 1: buckle and this is a long solo episode with your boy, y'all,

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Speaker 1: I miss Sam. If you miss him too, could you

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Speaker 1: put I miss Sam in the comments, but without further ado.

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Speaker 1: Buckle up to start. I forty six, female and married

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Speaker 1: and have three kids. Ten years ago we came into money,

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Speaker 1: a lot of money. I worked hard in my specific field,

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Speaker 1: which earns a lot. Which field isn't huh. I had

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Speaker 1: done some smart investments and they have paid out. I

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Speaker 1: have been steadily adding to my bank account for these years.

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Speaker 1: My husband considers this my money. We don't have a prenup,

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Speaker 1: hence I will talk as the money is mine. When

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Speaker 1: the first payload came in, I did with my husband

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Speaker 1: and I always discussed if we have the money. The

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Speaker 1: I managed to buy a nice house in our favorite

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Speaker 1: holiday destination. Dang, the Big three, op is balling out here.

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Speaker 1: We rent this one out to a very nice family

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Speaker 1: for most of the year. We set up college funds

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Speaker 1: for our children, each an equal amount, which should be

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Speaker 1: enough to pay for five years. If there is money

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Speaker 1: a down payment on their house or apartment. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: have little bit of thoughts on this, but let's keep running.

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Speaker 1: When the money kept coming in thanks to the investments

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Speaker 1: for my immediate family. My husband has two sisters, and

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Speaker 1: we have five nieces and nephews on his side from

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Speaker 1: one of the sisters. My brother has two children as well.

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Speaker 1: It was decided that all of the nieces and nephews

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Speaker 1: would have college funds as well. Oh my gosh, OPI

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Speaker 1: is out here blessing her whole family. Straight up, Oprah.

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Speaker 1: Here you get a college fund, You get a college fund,

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Speaker 1: you'll get a house, you get a car, you get investments,

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Speaker 1: you get a down payment. What for the same amount

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Speaker 1: as my children under the same strict stipulations. I would

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Speaker 1: get the information about the costs and make sure everything

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Speaker 1: I paid the amount already paid to her parents to

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Speaker 1: keep everything fair. She managed to finish within the four

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Speaker 1: years and has some money left. I had an accountant

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Speaker 1: a dear friend find out what would be beneficial to

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Speaker 1: my brother and one of my sister in laws in

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Speaker 1: regards to their mor I paid off the majority for

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Speaker 1: the both of them. My parents were sent on a

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Speaker 1: nice trip since their house is already paid off, and

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Speaker 1: both my in laws and other sister in law rent,

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Speaker 1: so I paid a certain amount so they can save

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Speaker 1: that money. Part of the money goes to charity at

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Speaker 1: home and abroad. I also set up some college funds

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Speaker 1: for the children of our closest friends and family members. Opie,

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Speaker 1: I would like to formally submit my application to be

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Speaker 1: your best friends. I have a great podcast with incredible

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Speaker 1: people that watch and listen to it. I read some

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Speaker 1: of the funniest craziest stories on the internet, kind of

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Speaker 1: like yours right here. I mean, I feel like we

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Speaker 1: would hit it off. You know you want to be

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Speaker 1: seat for you right here. Honestly, we don't need to

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Speaker 1: tell Sam Okay as a treat, Hubby, our kid and

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Speaker 1: I went on a paid by us slash me vacation

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Speaker 1: with both my own extended family and his. At this point,

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Speaker 1: everyone is very grateful. Listen, If you're not grateful to

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Speaker 1: OP right now, something very bad needs to happen to you.

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Speaker 1: I'm mom sorry, Like, what are you doing? I also

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Speaker 1: just remembered the title and the mother in law, However,

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Speaker 1: one of the sister in laws always has a need

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Speaker 1: She's nice to my face, but I know for a

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Speaker 1: fact that she has been bad mouthing me, making passive

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Speaker 1: as a bee. So the past few years, sister in

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Speaker 1: law has been hinting that I should pay for a

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Speaker 1: very nice all inclusive resort holiday for her and her

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Speaker 1: do something. Also, not that this would justify it, but

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Speaker 1: look at all of the things that OPI has done.

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Speaker 1: Look at all of the people that op has helped.

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Speaker 1: She'd put her friends' kids through college, her kids through college,

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Speaker 1: her nieces and nephews through college, help do down payments,

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Speaker 1: and want suspend it on themselves, like I think, there

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Speaker 1: things like that even out honestly, even more so outside

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Speaker 1: your family in my personal opinion, But you know, there's

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Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with making some good money and you know,

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Speaker 1: not having to pay for other people's vacations. There's just

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Speaker 1: when you feel it again. People, people that have money

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Speaker 1: I believe the systerm law has already been helped out.

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Speaker 1: It's it's it's a bit too much, bit too much.

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Speaker 1: Note they have money save that would have initially been

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Speaker 1: money that has barely been used. COVID hit and she

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Speaker 1: take it very seriously now that restrictions are mostly lifted.

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Speaker 1: She had a birthday party for her and her son

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Speaker 1: Sister in law got a voucher to use whatever way

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Speaker 1: She asked what our holiday plans are. We say that

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Speaker 1: Sister in law start saying, oh, how nice. We are

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Speaker 1: And then oh, then it comes. She shows us something

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Speaker 1: the whole shebang bro places with water parks that slabs

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Speaker 1: price tag for a family of seven thirty five thousand

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Speaker 1: husband says that that's a lot, but as glad they

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Speaker 1: save so much to do this. Sister in law then goes, oh,

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Speaker 1: we don't we thought you would be paying as my

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Speaker 1: birthday gift. Say what, people, She just told us what

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Speaker 1: just because I have money. She goes on that I

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Speaker 1: we all sat and stunned silent. Birthday boy and two

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Speaker 1: seemingly good impression of a fish. No. Sister in law

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Speaker 1: was dead serious. You have the money, you can just

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Speaker 1: This woman has shown her disdain from me and my

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Speaker 1: work many times over in a very sweet, passive aggressive manner,

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Speaker 1: so that way it was hard to call her out

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Speaker 1: So I just sat there and listened how she widened

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Speaker 1: have the money. That is true, sister in law, So

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Speaker 1: you can pay for it me I could, indeed, sister

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Speaker 1: in law interrupting me, Oh that's great. Me, but I won't.

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Speaker 1: We're family, yep, Unfortunately, you and I are family. Now.

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Speaker 1: I love being family of your kids. However, me, fact,

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Speaker 1: we are indeed family. Fact, we all deserve a nice

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Speaker 1: holiday after the fluff show called COVID false, I would

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Speaker 1: Oh pe you, oh these people nothing, absolutely nothing. Sister

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Speaker 1: in law is just trying hard to deny it. Brother

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Speaker 1: in law calls me a liar. Father in law joins

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Speaker 1: their father that they have heard their own mother saying

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Speaker 1: horrible things about Birthday. Boy even recorded one conversation she's

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Speaker 1: had with someone while making a TikTok video. He showed this.

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Speaker 1: Brother in law went mute. Conversation continued. Sister in law

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Speaker 1: notices she won't get the expensive holiday she wanted. Fine,

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Speaker 1: then don't pay for the holiday. The least you could

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Speaker 1: do is pay for our plane tickets and let us

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Speaker 1: stay at your holiday home slash favorite holiday day nation A.

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Speaker 1: Remember I rented out to local family for most of

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Speaker 1: there as they can't Slash are afraid to travel. Me

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Speaker 1: not happening. First of all, the family can't leave. Second,

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Speaker 1: you don't get to make demand. The voucher you got

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Speaker 1: we already went on a paid by US slashed me holiday,

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Speaker 1: so you got a paid for holiday already. Fourth, if

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Speaker 1: Here is something that few people know. I have security

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Speaker 1: that I'll pay one way or the other. All while

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Speaker 1: cornering me. Some of them poked their finger close to

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Speaker 1: my face and in my chest in arm. I told

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Speaker 1: them multiple times to stop what they were doing and leave.

432
00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 1: Sometime through this, the cops were called by some neighbors

433
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 1: as well, and when they arrived were trying to get

434
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 1: Then one uncle made a mistake. Y'all are you ready?

435
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 1: He slapped a man of about six three slapped me,

436
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 1: a woman of just five two, across the face in

437
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 1: full view of the cop. Crowd went silent as he

438
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 1: put his face almost in my face and went on

439
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: a rant that I had to obey him as one

440
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: of the elders of the family, all with his hand

441
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 1: raised as he would slap me, couldn't continue his rant.

442
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: I knocked him to the ground. Let go wwee. In

443
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: this corner, standing five to two, we have op scrappy

444
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:51,360
Speaker 1: and loaded with big old piggy banks and big old

445
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 1: right hooks. In this corner we have freaking idiot six

446
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: three dumb cousin Bob, who was about to get his

447
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: lights turned freak out. He stayed down, not unconscious, but

448
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,239
Speaker 1: quite rattled and stunned that I had punched him. This

449
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: is apparently what the cops needed as well. The family

450
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 1: members were stunned, and the cops managed to get them

451
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,159
Speaker 1: away from it. They were pissed. A couple of the

452
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: aunts and uncles and cousins managed to make a run

453
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: for their car and drive away. What is this a

454
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: college party? The rest got to meet with some very

455
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 1: angry cops, some fines for breaking social distancing rules, and

456
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: expectations that charges might be pressed against them to shorten

457
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 1: the novel. Already fine, I have some bruised fingers. Uncle

458
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: had a broken cheek bone. Wow, of my lovely cameras

459
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 1: and are now in the hands of the DA of

460
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Speaker 1: the District Attorney. The other family members have distanced themselves

461
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 1: from the crap that happened. To be honest, I feel

462
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 1: really crappy. I feel like I'm dividing a family just

463
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 1: because I won't hand out my money. My husband says

464
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 1: that this is money that I worked hard for, so

465
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: I get to decide what happened. Correct. Still, I'm thinking

466
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: of setting up some college funds side for the rest

467
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: of the children, though I'm still doubting this. It would

468
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: also seem that I don't stand my ground and can

469
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,919
Speaker 1: be persuaded with violence threats for harassment. I am so

470
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 1: sick of edit. To keep myself from repeating, I've pressed

471
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 1: charges against my uncle for the little love tap he

472
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Speaker 1: gave me. Thankfully, my uncle has not filed counter charges

473
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: to keep the love tap I gave him in return.

474
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,679
Speaker 1: I've been told he asked for anger management courses and

475
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: a psychological evaluation without prompts. Re freaking ridiculous. His statement

476
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: is that he got carried away and felt he was

477
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Speaker 1: being egged on. He also wrote that he was extremely

478
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: sorry and never meant to hurt me, oh oh, I

479
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 1: might give you a little more than a love tap.

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00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: Mister six three cousin Bobby, I know this behavior is

481
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 1: out of character for him. He and his wife also

482
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 1: contacted my lawyer with a written apology. Already all those

483
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: president had to give statements on and one red thread emerged.

484
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 1: They were there because the uncle who called me first

485
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,719
Speaker 1: the ones from this post had said they all should

486
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 1: and see if they can come convinced. As for the

487
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: charges concerning the others who were present, my lawyer is

488
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: looking if they can get charges to stick for harassment.

489
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,199
Speaker 1: He's also looking if the instigators can be charged with

490
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 1: a number of things. That guy is having a field day.

491
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: He loves this. Those who are not involved have sent texts,

492
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: called me, and sent me emails telling me they're sorry

493
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: for the behavior of their spouse, sibling, parent, etc. They

494
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: have not asked me to drop charges or anything though,

495
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: just apologies. Onto another update. A short update on my

496
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: previous post. I want to cover some of the comments

497
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: without repeating myself. I find it hard to answer everything.

498
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 1: I still want to thank you all for the comments

499
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 1: and opinions. I'll try to cover everything. Thanks for the awards.

500
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: I know that some of you might think it's fake.

501
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 1: That's okay, I still wish it. What what I want

502
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 1: to start with is that the behavior is out of character.

503
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: This is my husband's family and they have always been

504
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: hard working themselves, saved money, and been family oriented. They

505
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: did and do not all have jobs that have earned

506
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: a lot. Them not loaning money when we needed it

507
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: is because because they don't like loaning money, they're afraid

508
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: of not getting it back as they also needed it. However,

509
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: the comment they made then hurt. We talked about it

510
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,679
Speaker 1: at the time. They understood then and apologize. Also, husband

511
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 1: and I have strong feelings that Blabermouth's sister in law

512
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 1: has said some things to them to get them to

513
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: go that would not surprise me at all. At the moment,

514
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 1: this is just a hunch. We'll see what time will

515
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,399
Speaker 1: tell us. So for them to pounce on me like

516
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: this is not normal behavior for them, it doesn't change

517
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: a thing. Though since the incident, I have talked to cousins,

518
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: aunts and uncles. One on advice of my lawyer, I

519
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: sent an email that I do not want to be

520
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: contacted by them at this point, as the visitors might

521
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 1: face a lawsuit as does love tap uncle. Let's call

522
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: him Uncle Bob. I gave them the contact information of

523
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: my lawyer if they so wish or need. I asked

524
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 1: them to respect. I also advise the visitors and Uncle

525
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 1: Bob to find legal advice due to the circumstance. As

526
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 1: of now, they respect this, as we have not received calls, text,

527
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 1: an email. Only one cousin is in contact with my husband.

528
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,479
Speaker 1: This is the cousin who has a certified loan and

529
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: thus we need to be in contact. He told my

530
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: husband and the visitors and Uncle Bob are very ashamed

531
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,360
Speaker 1: of themselves and realized they fluffed up enormously. He has

532
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: heard some talk about mediation. Uncle Bob even cried in

533
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: front of him, a man who never cries. It seems genuine,

534
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: but I'm cautious. I do not trust Uncle Bob for

535
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 1: one freaking second. I've read the responses and don't feel

536
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: guilty anymore. I'm a person who helps when needed. Always

537
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: have that is right o piece, Hey, hey say it

538
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: with your chest. Okay. Even when we didn't have a

539
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 1: lot of money, people were always welcome to stay for

540
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: dinner and a night or two to get back on

541
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: their feet. I have always felt lucky and blessed that

542
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: I had a roof over my head, three meals a

543
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: day in clothes on my back. Husband and I discussed

544
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: that we won't be offering any kinds of funds for

545
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: the other family members, their children or grandchildren. However, we

546
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: are open to certified loans like the one cousin has,

547
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: but decided that we won't be sharing this view for now.

548
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: I'm not going to punish people for the actions of

549
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: their parents slash grandparents. Some people said that I should

550
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: move and change my number. No, I won't do that.

551
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,959
Speaker 1: I'm not going to move because of what happened. We

552
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: live in a safe neighborhood with neighbors who take care

553
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: of each other. Also, as of now, this is an

554
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: isolated incident. I did block them on my phone in

555
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: social media. My number is known to many official authorities,

556
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: and again, as this is an isolated incident for the

557
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 1: time being, I won't. Husband chose to block them, and

558
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: any contact of them has been through him. In case

559
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: they want to message him and they say things that

560
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 1: could be used in court, he wants to keep tabs

561
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: on them for as far that is possible. I'm okay

562
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 1: with all the correspondents has been saying, lawyer and I

563
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: have a zoom call plan for the next week. I

564
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: have let him know what the cousin said. He also

565
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: hopes to hear something from the district attorney that he

566
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: said that mediation is an option and wouldn't be surprised

567
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: if the district attorney would look into this. If the

568
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: visitors and Uncle Bob are open for this idea, there

569
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: still might be legal consequences for them. He has some ideas,

570
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: but it also depends on the district attorney and what

571
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: the visitors and Uncle Bob plead. My lawyer told me

572
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: that he had some time to read some of the

573
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: statements and view parts of the footage up until now,

574
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 1: their stories are consistent with the footage he's seen. At

575
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: this point, I want that their actions are recorded somewhere

576
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: and have consequences for them. You do not get to

577
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: threaten me, possibly my family, and harm me without getting

578
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: your behind kicked at least once. Let them be scared crapless.

579
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: At this point, the footage is in the hands of

580
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 1: the district attorney and my lawyer. Also, a neighbor has

581
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: recorded what happened, and that is also in the hands

582
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: of the district attorney and my lawyer. Neighbor has also

583
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: given a statement. I also have the footage shaved in

584
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 1: other places. You never know. Neighbors now know what happened.

585
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: I sent them flowers with an apology for the disturbance.

586
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 1: Oh oh oh, pe just every move you make, it's

587
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: gold the minus touch of niceness. Neighbors are not afraid

588
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: and thankfully have promised to keep an eye on things.

589
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 1: Angel neighbors. Really, I don't consider myself a hero. I

590
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: just try to be a decent human being. I don't

591
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: flaunt the fact that we have money. We live in

592
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: a normal home in a normal street. We don't wear

593
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: expensive clothes. The car I bought ten years ago was

594
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: brand new then, and that baby is still going strong.

595
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: It has some dents and scratches on it, but the

596
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: baby works. I'm not going to buy a new car

597
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: if this one is still worked. Same goes for my

598
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: husband's car. The kids have their own chores and get

599
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: pocket money, but if they want something extra, they can

600
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: do extra chores for some extra spending money. They also

601
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: have to save part of their pocket money. We want

602
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: to teach them the value of money. The eldest realizes

603
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: that we have a filled bank account, but also has

604
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 1: seen what it has cost. The kids won a Nintendo

605
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: switch at the moment, so they're saving their money for that.

606
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: Now we will pay for a certain amount and the

607
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 1: rest they will have to get for themselves. So we

608
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: just try to be an average family. Hope I covered

609
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: all the comments and questions. Thanks again for reading, so

610
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 1: we have more updates y'all. But I think OPI is

611
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 1: shown again and again how she is completely willing to,

612
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 1: you know, help people that need it, like the certified

613
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: loan thing. OPI really does not need to loan anyone

614
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 1: any money ever again and just point to this like, hey,

615
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: my family literally gagged up in my yard and physically

616
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: attacked me. Like that's all you need to say, Like

617
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: if I keep doing this like I did in the past,

618
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: like I was generous, I gave I give all this

619
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: money to all these people, and then they come and

620
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: try and attack me, either people that didn't get all

621
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: that they wanted or people that didn't get anything and

622
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: are fears with me even though we have no freaking relationship.

623
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: So God, op just continues to be a saint. What

624
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 1: I'm very curious about, though, is the results of all

625
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 1: of these trials, because it seems like probably there's there's

626
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: Uncle Bob who actually assaulted her, there's everyone else who

627
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: is probably what trespassing, doing all these other things. Lawyers

628
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 1: in the comment section, lawyer students, all you people study

629
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 1: in law, let me know in the comments down below,

630
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: educate your boy. But it seems like a lot of

631
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: people could be catching cases out here, which would make

632
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 1: me so so delicious. But let's get into this update first.

633
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: I am dealing with some health issues. It's not really

634
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: to the vid, thankfully, but I need some surgery. There

635
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: will be a lawsuit against Uncle Bob and the visitor

636
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: when the data is set for January. At this point,

637
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: let's hope it doesn't get postponed. Husband and I have

638
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: written a letter that our lawyer could read in court

639
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: in the case that we wouldn't be able to be there,

640
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: either in person or on a video call. Remember the

641
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: blabbermouth sister in law, the very original one, Guys, she's back.

642
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: Let's call her sister Sally. Sister Sally's role is becoming clear.

643
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: But since we don't have the full picture yet, I

644
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: will update you. Late uncle Bob had a minor fracture

645
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: of his cheekbone. Apparently nothing major. He didn't need any surgery.

646
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: As for the husband, Lawyer, Husband, lawyer and I have

647
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: had some good, honest conversations about my own behavior. Lawyer

648
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: is a friend that I know from way back, and

649
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: he says, although I am quite the gentle soul, I

650
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 1: can also be strict, direct and have a no nonsense

651
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: at it, which hope he needs. I've always been family oriented,

652
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: wanting to help others. Unfortunately this has proved to be

653
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: my downfall. Lawyer and husband agree that I can be

654
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: more no nonsense and stricter when it comes to family

655
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: as well recognized I tend to sweep things under the

656
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: rug because family stupid, stupid me. Since then, I get

657
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 1: great feedback from both of them, and I have sought

658
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 1: out a therapist who says I have also made improvements.

659
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: That's a brilliant idea. Since the visit, husband and I

660
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,359
Speaker 1: have been contacted by many family members from his side,

661
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 1: mostly to ask questions about as they just heard one

662
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: side of the story and things were unclear to them.

663
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,839
Speaker 1: Some of them were understanding about these situations. They were

664
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 1: honest that they felt left out, but as one cousin said,

665
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 1: to be honest, I would not have thought of you

666
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,240
Speaker 1: either if something like this happened to me. They repeated

667
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: they would appreciate any gesture, but that it was not

668
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 1: their money to decide. Unfortunately, there were some family members

669
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,720
Speaker 1: who came to the defense of the visitors and said,

670
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 1: what's the big deal. I had plenty of money, just

671
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 1: share it as you won't miss it. Here we go again.

672
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 1: They have been sending us messages on a daily basis

673
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: hello harassment charges, telling us that we were selfish people

674
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: and that family should share when good luck came their way.

675
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 1: Then one day we received a request for or a

676
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: zoom call from a cousin who had not spoken to

677
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 1: us at all. We accept it, only to find no no.

678
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 1: It was a virtual ambush from the visitors. Some family

679
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: members had gathered online from their separate homes to talk

680
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: to us. They got minutes before I made it clear

681
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 1: I wanted to say something me, I want to say

682
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 1: something visitor. Okay, So you want us to share the money? Yes.

683
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: A lot of behind kissing comments like really, you're the

684
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: best me first, I want two thousand dollars from each

685
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: of you. People crying and outrage loads and loads of comments,

686
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,919
Speaker 1: and then one of them said the magical words, why

687
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: would I give you that amount of money? Me and

688
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: my partner work hard for that money, and now you

689
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 1: just demand that amount. You can't do that. We all

690
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,479
Speaker 1: work hard for that money, so do we. What makes

691
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: you think then, that you can make the same demands

692
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: of us and expect us to give into them. I

693
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: will be honest that I loved the embarrassed silence that fault.

694
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: The cousin with the loan was part of it, and

695
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: said that when he heard about it, he called for

696
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: a certified loan for the down payment on his home.

697
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: He then went on about the terms of the loan

698
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: and that, according to the lawyer he had asked to

699
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: review it, it was a good document. Strict yes, but

700
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: it protected both sides. Husband and I tell them that

701
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: our cousin with the loan was given the loan because

702
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: he asked for it nicely and agreed to a certified loan.

703
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 1: One of them asked if we would do it again.

704
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: We told them point blank that if they wanted to

705
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 1: borrow money, we wouldn't be sure to agree to it

706
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,880
Speaker 1: because of a couple things that you don't deserve it,

707
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: but I digress. One, they behaved like entitled people and

708
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: treated us like crap. Two. You don't get to treat

709
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 1: people like this and then go kissing there behind the

710
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: moment you want some Three they all have job save

711
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:44,760
Speaker 1: for it. If it is something that is considered luxury.

712
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: Three the circumstances might change, so maybe we would not

713
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 1: be able to help. Five If and that's a big

714
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: if we decide to help out, we want the most

715
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,359
Speaker 1: minuscule details about what the money is needed for, and

716
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,919
Speaker 1: they have to agree to get a certified loan. Most

717
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 1: people back out as they don't want strings attached or

718
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: a claim they made on their car house. I totally

719
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 1: see what op is trying to say here, kind of

720
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 1: like hey, uh, I will give you the money, kind

721
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: of like luring them in, like not luring them in,

722
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: but telling them, hey, I have a way of giving

723
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 1: you the money, but presenting it in such a way

724
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: that they won't want to get it. It's almost a

725
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 1: little bit like when you go to McDonald's and there's

726
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: like the three dollars small fry and then there's like

727
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: the quintuple large fry for like three dollars and twenty

728
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: cents and you're like, yo, I'll go for that. Like

729
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: OPI is trying to position the option where it's like, hey,

730
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 1: you could have this thing, but you're not gonna do

731
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,760
Speaker 1: You're not gonna want to do that. It's very smart

732
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 1: because it does give the family an option to, you know,

733
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: basically ask money, which God, I want to vomit almost

734
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: any free time I say that. But I think the

735
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: danger is, especially with all the people involved, like an

736
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:03,719
Speaker 1: angry mob twenty freaking family members, you just have to

737
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 1: like lay down the law, and you know what, you'll

738
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: feel like an asshole. But again, I think what OPI

739
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 1: has now that she didn't have before was this incident

740
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 1: to point to like, you know, hey, in this specific conversation,

741
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 1: we have come to the understanding that like, hey, should

742
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 1: I give you my hard earned money just because you

743
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: ask for it? No, I'm not going to do that.

744
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,439
Speaker 1: Of course that makes perfect sense. But not only did

745
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,880
Speaker 1: you come mob me at my house, but you punched

746
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: me in the freaking face trying to get money out

747
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: of me. But you know, read ready to do it again,

748
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: and I Am not gonna have that. Would you like

749
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 1: someone come into your house and a mob beating the

750
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: crabty you trying to get your money? No, no, never,

751
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: no one would ever want that. So I totally see

752
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: what Opie's playing here. It is a smart move. Hopefully

753
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 1: I pray it de ters anybody from even thinking of

754
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 1: asking for money or just like getting so lost in

755
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 1: the sauce of trying to get the certified loan stuff

756
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: together that they just don't do anything. But I honestly

757
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 1: am like at this point, just flat out be like, yo,

758
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: I'm not helping you. And you know what, you have

759
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 1: real ones in your family who helped you when your

760
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: money was low, and you paid them back handsomely. I

761
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: think rock with them, screw the rest. Just because they're

762
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 1: reate related, just because they're related to you by blood

763
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: kind of almost means nothing. Especially means absolutely nothing when

764
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 1: they gang up on you and try to attack you

765
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 1: at your own no. No, no, no, but we have more.

766
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 1: It was very silent for a while. I told them

767
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:34,240
Speaker 1: that I had a good idea they wanted money because

768
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: they wanted a more luxurious car or a remodel in

769
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: their kitchen, bathroom, whatever in the house while it was

770
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:43,240
Speaker 1: still working and no hazard or need of replacing. Maybe

771
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: they wanted to buy that fancy item they coveted for

772
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: a while, or a game console for their kids save

773
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: up for it. More silence and embarrassed shifting on their part.

774
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: Husband told them to stop harassing it. Thank you. We

775
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 1: are being blamed of tearing the family apart, but their

776
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 1: own greed was doing that correct. Up until now, there

777
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 1: were no problems and we all went along just fine.

778
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: Now money comes in the picture and almost everyone changes

779
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 1: into money hungry moro. Yep his words. He became very

780
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: emotional as he said that this wasn't the family he

781
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,439
Speaker 1: grew up with ah, and that he hated to see

782
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: them change so much. Then the apologies came from some

783
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,479
Speaker 1: of We left the zoom, telling them that we only

784
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 1: wanted to hear from them if they came with an

785
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: apology first, and not to contact us as we needed space. Ah,

786
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: this this is the move. Thank you so much. You know,

787
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: they still might try to slide in some certified loans

788
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 1: or whatever, but maybe this will get them to Some

789
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 1: have texted us those apologies and husband has some phone conversation.

790
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: Others have not changed their status from money hungry moron

791
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:43,720
Speaker 1: and keep texting us all kind of wailing stories about

792
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: how much they need, slash, deserve the money, block them,

793
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 1: plock their freaking ours. One cousin even texted me saying

794
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: that I deserve that slap in space. I was not

795
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: blood and should therefore just bow down to the will

796
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: of the family. Brouh. I don't think you really want

797
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: Opie's hands like that. I don't think you want this smoke.

798
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,959
Speaker 1: You gotta hop out the barbecue freaking of in my guy,

799
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: because you're about to get a slow roasted ham straight

800
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 1: to the freaking face. He even told husband to get

801
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: his wife back under control and be a good family member.

802
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: Oh oh, my blood is boiling. He keeps harassing us

803
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: and made some comments that hints on me getting hit again.

804
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: I simply said that if he had talked to cousin

805
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 1: Bob and how his broken cheekbone mm hmm. Those comments stopped,

806
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: and the cousin who got the loan told me that

807
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 1: he suspects that that cousin didn't want to meet my

808
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 1: right fist, as cousin had talked to him about it

809
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: and he had been hinting something along those lines. Every

810
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 1: text is saved and goes into a big, big USB

811
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: drive for the lawyer to get started on some nice

812
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,959
Speaker 1: cease and desist letters. As some may know that Cousin

813
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: Bob and the visitors have stopped contact when asked and advised.

814
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: So that was an update up to this. Onto a

815
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: more positive note, Cousin Bob and his girlfriend, the cousin

816
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: with the loan and his girlfriend had bought their house

817
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 1: and when it was done, we were invited to visit it,

818
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: mask wearing and keeping distance. They turned a house into

819
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: a home. It was good to see the pride and

820
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,879
Speaker 1: joy coming from We're about to get into the part

821
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 1: two of this, but my freaking got I think the

822
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: thing that I'm very excited about is that OP is

823
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:22,879
Speaker 1: shifting more and more and more into the direction of, Look,

824
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: we don't owe these people anything. Why should we be

825
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 1: giving them anything they don't deserve it. There is no

826
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 1: freaking reason why these people should be getting any money

827
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 1: from you, after all all the things that you have

828
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,800
Speaker 1: done for them. It is just completely so I'm super

829
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:42,399
Speaker 1: glad to see that, OP. But without further ado, Part two,

830
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: a lot has happened in the past couple of months.

831
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: Due to the fact that it was an enormous amount

832
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,800
Speaker 1: of text, I cut the update into more parts First,

833
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: I want to say that I've read all the comments.

834
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 1: Thank you for taking the time to read my post

835
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: a comment on it. Also, I had my surgery and

836
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,479
Speaker 1: I'm recovering slowly but steadily. Husband and the kids helps

837
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 1: me a lot, Bless them. I also read some speculation

838
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: about the college funds. First of all, where I live,

839
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: college isn't insanely expensive like in the USA. Okay, so

840
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 1: she's out of the states. Good to know. These funds

841
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: should suffice for community college type education or trade school,

842
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: making it less expensive than private or top university. Another

843
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 1: point is that the funds only cover a good part

844
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 1: of tuition and books, no rent, extracurricular activities, or living expense,

845
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: so it doesn't cost millions like some people have speculated.

846
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,359
Speaker 1: The mortgages were not entirely paid off, but I gave

847
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,720
Speaker 1: sister in law and brother in law and my brother

848
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 1: an amount which helped them a lot. They paid the

849
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 1: rest off themselves. My investments they were done before husband

850
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: was in the picture, were in some companies and technologies

851
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 1: that have sinse grown. Finally, like, what is this woman

852
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: doing and how can we do the same? My goodness,

853
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 1: I can. I'd never have to read another rentistory again,

854
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: just kidding, I love you. Not all investments have paid off,

855
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 1: but some did. We count ourselves very lucky. Part of

856
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 1: it goes to our retirement funds and a chair at

857
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 1: home and abroad. I've asked for investment advice from a

858
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: professional when I decided to do that. I was about

859
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 1: twenty three when I did. I also followed some courses

860
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: on how to invest. Also, I noticed with some people

861
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: on YouTube vius the stories and I've read the responses.

862
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: Some people asked why I would help a sister in

863
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: law who behaves the way she did. Well, we love

864
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 1: her kids and it was more for them than the

865
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 1: sistern law and brother in law. Another reason was that

866
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: we wanted to keep things fair if that's possible. I

867
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 1: now know that this might not have been the smartest

868
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 1: like I was saying before. Yeah. The last reason was

869
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: is that we had seen decent behavior for some time,

870
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 1: so we figured that manners had been learned. Now back

871
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: to the situation with a bit of a backstory. Last

872
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: time we left off, there was a couple of aunts,

873
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: uncles and cousins that came by to visit to demand

874
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: its scream for money. One of the uncles earned the

875
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 1: title of Little Love Tap, who we will call Uncle

876
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: Bob for the little love tap that he gave me.

877
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 1: One of the cousins also had a loan and he's

878
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: paid back everything. I asked the family not to contact me,

879
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: but to contact a lawyer in stead. They have mostly

880
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: respected that. They did ask for a zoom call in

881
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 1: which would explain everything. Lawyer Hubby and I agreed do

882
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 1: so after the court cases would be over. Onto the updates.

883
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: I don't know all the details of the court cases

884
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: as I couldn't be present. Not the VID, but other

885
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 1: health related issues. Let me say that first, also due

886
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 1: to the nasty VID, most of the conversations were through

887
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 1: online meeting. Uncle Bob was charged for trespassing, assault and

888
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: threatening to cause bodily harm and he pled guilty. Rare.

889
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 1: Take that frickin' Uncle Bob. His lawyer said that he

890
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 1: has been following anger management courses on his own, and

891
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: reports from the therapist in another court ordered psychologists confirmed

892
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: what we thought, that this is not like him and

893
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 1: he regrets everything he's done. The judge gave Uncle Bob

894
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: a very hard time. From what the lawyer told me,

895
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: the judge did not take kindly that a man hit

896
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: a woman. Uncle Bob was asked some tough questions by

897
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 1: the judge the main as to why he did it. Well,

898
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 1: now it gets juicy, As if this wasn't freakin' juicy

899
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:06,439
Speaker 1: and crazy enough. My god, it seems that our Blabermouth's

900
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 1: sister in law threw plain loads of kerosene on a

901
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:13,959
Speaker 1: fire before her calls and texts didn't even exist. You see,

902
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 1: the family didn't know that we had money, as we

903
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,760
Speaker 1: had asked those who did to keep their mouths shut.

904
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 1: That was respected until no Blabermouth's sister in law called

905
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,879
Speaker 1: Uncle Bob and the rest of the family telling them

906
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 1: about the money and how we refuse to share it

907
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: with the family. Then came the lie. Blabermouth turned on

908
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: the waterworks, telling them and the other family members that

909
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: I made fun of their financial situation, flaunted my wealth,

910
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: and was overall mean, disrespectful, and spiteful. Throw this woman

911
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: in jail. She played the victim to them all, accusing

912
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 1: me of horrible things. She then continued to say that

913
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: I made fun of the rest of the family for

914
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 1: their choices of life, jobs, ambition, and so much more.

915
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 1: To keep a long story shorter. She pushed all the

916
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: buttons and pushed them deep. The reason the rest of

917
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 1: the visitors went crazy was again thanks to Blabbermouth's sister

918
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,359
Speaker 1: in law, who really knows how to push people's button.

919
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: That woman deserves an oscar for horror performance. Uncle Bob

920
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: and the visitors apologized for whatever that's worthus. Judge asked

921
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 1: if our lawyer had some input from our side. Our

922
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: lawyer wrote a letter that we wrote. He told the

923
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 1: judge that we were deeply hurt by what had happened.

924
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 1: There was no ill will, harm or disrespect, and that

925
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 1: was never meant towards any of We chose to do

926
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: with the money as we saw fit and have always

927
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 1: been willing to help, but having money does not mean

928
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: that it should be handed out like it's dust in

929
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,360
Speaker 1: the wind. Our lawyer also told the judge that we

930
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,720
Speaker 1: are very angry for their entitlement and behavior, them showing

931
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: up and of course the literal slap in the face.

932
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: I used to respect them a lot, but I will

933
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:51,240
Speaker 1: not accept this behavior from anyone and ask the judge

934
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: to have justice serve. If that meant a sentence and

935
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:55,959
Speaker 1: a record, then so be it. Why would I feel

936
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: any compassion for the people who felt the need to

937
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: attack me. That's a great question. Op lay down the law.

938
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:06,280
Speaker 1: Uncle Bob was sentenced with eighteen months of community service. Okay,

939
00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: I wait a second, whoa Okay, eighteen months of community

940
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: service and a fine plus court Ay that I like it.

941
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 1: I like it, especially for leading a siege in her lawn.

942
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:21,800
Speaker 1: This is too much. He has also continued the anger

943
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: management courses for at least another year. An evaluation will

944
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 1: determine whether or not something needs to be done after

945
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: this will go on some sort of record. From what

946
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: I've been told, I've accepted that the visitors were also

947
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:36,360
Speaker 1: charged for harassment and threatening a person. They pled guilty

948
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: and had to pay a hefty fine along with six

949
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: months of community service. You know, if you had just

950
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: been in o piece, not that you had to give

951
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 1: her money when she had her health issues, but if

952
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 1: you did, how ahead you would be in life. But

953
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: yet you chose to storm the capital of her probably

954
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: very fancy and well manicured lawn and demand that you

955
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: get as much money as you poss'll be could from

956
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: our And now where are you? You have a court

957
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: case on your record. You've paid fat freaking fines to

958
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 1: the courts that basically you're going into thin air. Well,

959
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,480
Speaker 1: I guess money's going to go to courts. But still, guys,

960
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: good bat. This is something I've also accepted before I forget.

961
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:19,720
Speaker 1: They have already received and paid fines for breaking social distance.

962
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: Some other family members have received the equivalent of a

963
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: cease and assist letter from our lawyer after the virtual visit,

964
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:29,800
Speaker 1: since some kept harassing them. It's been quiet ever since

965
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: this was part one. I will give an updates soon

966
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 1: about what happened after the court cases. Yes, look at

967
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:42,840
Speaker 1: my little ear rubbing my hands. Ready for this delicious story,

968
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 1: Let's keep going. After the court cases, we arranged a

969
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 1: zoom call with the aunts, uncles, and cousins involved in

970
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: the whole story became clear, and not only what Uncle

971
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 1: Bob told in court. Thus the part that Blabermouth's sister

972
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 1: in law played became entirely clear. Our lawyer and their

973
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:03,280
Speaker 1: lif were present. They apologized and explained that they felt

974
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: really hurt and angry, and that Blabermouth's sister in law

975
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: insisted that they went for their rightful share God as

976
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 1: they deserved it because of the hurtful things that I

977
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 1: said they were family and deserved that family share. God,

978
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,280
Speaker 1: Blabermouth told me that she did it and then it worked.

979
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: They also repeated the insults in horrible actions that I committed.

980
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 1: According to Blabermouth, they felt hyped up by her that

981
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 1: and the greed got the best of them. They understood

982
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: that this money is for us to do as we please.

983
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 1: Our relationship is not the same and it won't ever

984
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: be again. They seem to understand that we're not able

985
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: nor willing to forget this attack on me, my character,

986
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 1: and to an extend my husband as well. To be sure,

987
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: I have a no contact order against them for at

988
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,759
Speaker 1: least a year. It also dawned on them that one

989
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: breach of the order will ensure they get to meet

990
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: law enforcement once again, as I don't back down. They

991
00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:58,839
Speaker 1: also realized that if we were willing to help out

992
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: financially informs the loans, they annihilated that chance. But boom,

993
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,760
Speaker 1: we have been brutally honest with each other. I was pissed.

994
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 1: I told them that they are adults who should have

995
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 1: known better than to jump to conclusion. Correct, I was

996
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:17,840
Speaker 1: calm and collected when family members contacted me. Now I

997
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: wasn't I let everything go. I told them to at

998
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: least have the decency and soundness of mind to ask

999
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: other party slash parties involved for their side of the story,

1000
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 1: and to listen to that side with an open mind.

1001
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 1: I tore them all a new one. Thank god, I

1002
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: was brutal. According to my husband and lawyer, I treated

1003
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: the family to twenty minutes of brutal honest. Even husband

1004
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 1: and lawyer said they were impressed to the point of

1005
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 1: being scared. After a lot of talking, the call ended.

1006
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 1: The relationship might not ever heal, but at least we

1007
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: discussed everything. I have my peace with that. If they

1008
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 1: could do this, then I don't want them as family.

1009
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: Lawyer thought that I had learned my lesson about not

1010
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 1: letting family off the hook easily just because they were

1011
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 1: fan op op op op. However, some family members were

1012
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 1: not involved in the visit. They contacted me after the

1013
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: virtual visit. We got to call this to ambush the stampede,

1014
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:19,479
Speaker 1: the blockage. So this is not a visit. This is like, oh, hey,

1015
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 1: I got tea cruppets and pies. You all want a hag. No,

1016
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:26,800
Speaker 1: this is them bombarding your house and attacking you for money.

1017
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 1: They wanted to know how it was possible to earn

1018
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 1: slash get so much money. If this was before, I

1019
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 1: would have understood the curiosity, but now I am entirely

1020
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: completely scared. I shared some info about investing and gave

1021
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 1: them a number for advice if they wanted. With the number,

1022
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: came the warning that investment has its risks. Oh, I

1023
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 1: hope this doesn't come. Everyone throw your money in don'ge coin.

1024
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,280
Speaker 1: It's going to the moon. I earned a lot of money,

1025
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 1: but I also lost plenty of They should not be

1026
00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,240
Speaker 1: investing if it will put them in debt. They thanked

1027
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 1: me for the warning in regards to college funds or

1028
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 1: whatever for them, We won't be doing that simply because

1029
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: we won't want anyone to think that such things can

1030
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 1: be achieved by this behavior. Yes, yes, yeah, I didn't

1031
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 1: really have a relationship with them, But still, you don't

1032
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 1: treat family or any other person like this. Husband is

1033
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 1: still shaken that the mostly generous family he knew did

1034
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 1: what they did and treated him and me the way

1035
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 1: that they did. I hope he will be all right

1036
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 1: in the long run. So this is the part of

1037
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 1: Uncle Bob and the visitor. I wonder what the future

1038
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: will bring and we don't have to wonder because there's

1039
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: more and it's more. More to the story, y'all. This

1040
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: account of mine was hacked. I received an email and

1041
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:40,800
Speaker 1: someone changed my password. Since I had a health scare,

1042
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 1: I couldn't change it fast enough for the a hole

1043
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: that did that, Really, do something useful with your time

1044
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 1: instead of hacking accounts and posting picks your shtanky shanky dong. Yeah,

1045
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 1: excrew with that. More to the story. Last post is

1046
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: what happened to Uncle Bob visitors in the aftermath concerning them.

1047
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 1: This one is about Blabermouth's sister and my not so

1048
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:03,160
Speaker 1: love sister in law, who instigated the whole mess while

1049
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: two of her kids moved out after a very bad

1050
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 1: fight with her. The eldest, twenty six female, and her

1051
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 1: boyfriend already had a home waiting and just moved in.

1052
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: The renovations are not finished, but she said she didn't care.

1053
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 1: They sleep on an air mattress in one of the

1054
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 1: bedrooms and the rest of the house is a mess

1055
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: as they still need to renovate a lot. Their second kid,

1056
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 1: twenty four male, which by the way, was I the

1057
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:27,319
Speaker 1: only one. Assuming they were like ten years old. I

1058
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 1: don't know which which makes sense now thinking that they

1059
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: went back and they like tried to make peace with her.

1060
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:35,479
Speaker 1: These are grown, grown children over here. Second kid, twenty

1061
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 1: four male, is staying with his girlfriend at her parents'

1062
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 1: house where he helps with bills. Both have gone no

1063
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,879
Speaker 1: contact with their parents after finding out what happened due

1064
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: to their mother. Two of the kids, twenty one and nineteen,

1065
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 1: are pissed as heck, but aren't speaking to her and

1066
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: sleep at their friend's places a lot. The seventeen year

1067
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: old sides with the mother, though, but he's the baby

1068
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 1: and blabermouth has always spoiled him. I've read comments about

1069
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:01,319
Speaker 1: how people suggested we cut off blabbermouts children. No, I'm

1070
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 1: not gonna do that. The seventeen year old did a

1071
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 1: blabbermouth in regards of demanding money. I frankly said that

1072
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 1: if he wanted an education largely paid for by my

1073
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: husband and I, he will stop with what he is

1074
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: doing and meets the requirements that come with the money

1075
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:20,720
Speaker 1: for Collin. Otherwise, bye, by money, see you letter. Right. Actually,

1076
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:23,720
Speaker 1: I just realized that because it seems like his college

1077
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: of money's already paid for from what I remember. I

1078
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 1: told him that if he starts acting and behaving like

1079
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:32,279
Speaker 1: his mother, bye by money, and yes, the money comes

1080
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 1: with requirements, very strict requirements. Don't meet the requirements, the

1081
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: money flow stops. I'm not entirely so far he has stopped.

1082
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: His siblings tell me he is quite hilarious when he

1083
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,720
Speaker 1: throws his tempera change. Brother in law and his wife

1084
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 1: Blabermouth also seem not too amused by my standpoint in

1085
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:50,800
Speaker 1: the situation like I care. The rest of the family

1086
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 1: also let her know what they thought. They called her,

1087
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,400
Speaker 1: gave her a piece of their minds, and went full

1088
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: blown no contact. Blabbermouth and brother in law are now

1089
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: pariahs in the family. Cousins would help them with a

1090
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 1: pain job not happening. Another uncle, who checks their car

1091
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 1: every year for a reduced fee, told them to find

1092
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 1: another garage for help. I love that they can't even

1093
00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: get their gas and they're oil changed. Another cousin would

1094
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: renovate their roof. He gave the money back that they

1095
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 1: had paid and told them to find someone else. Mother

1096
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: in law is heartbroken now. That hurts. I don't think

1097
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:24,719
Speaker 1: she ever thought her own children could and would do

1098
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:27,280
Speaker 1: this and break up the family. She still has contact

1099
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 1: with the grandkids, but her and Blabermouth's relationship is strained.

1100
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,919
Speaker 1: Same goes for father in law. Every Saturday, we would

1101
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: have coffee with immediate family, mother in law, father in law, Blabermouth,

1102
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 1: brother in law, and the kids if they had time.

1103
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 1: Us and our other We still see them, but we

1104
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,479
Speaker 1: don't go there if we know Blabermouth will be coming

1105
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: too or is already there. That has meant that the

1106
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: times that we were there and saw her coming, we

1107
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: immediately packed our things. Oh that's so tough when you're

1108
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:54,319
Speaker 1: like trying to go hang with your your parents and

1109
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 1: your siblings like this is and this is her husband's sister. Man,

1110
00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 1: Like I could you imagine for a second everybody your

1111
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: own sister does this to you and your significant other.

1112
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: Come on. Blabermouth had been badgering my husband, me and

1113
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:11,840
Speaker 1: the kids, alternating how sorry she is and then she

1114
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 1: didn't mean for this to happen, and acting like she

1115
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: did nothing wrong. One time she called my husband, who

1116
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: put the phone on speaker once as I was curious

1117
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 1: as heck and wanted to hear how she dug herself

1118
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: deeper into a pile of crap. Ooh, she didn't disappoint.

1119
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 1: I had to laugh hysterically when she spewed her crap

1120
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: through the phone. Told her that if she didn't want

1121
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 1: this all to happen, then why did she do it?

1122
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 1: Why did she tell all those lies? She just wanted

1123
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 1: money and employed the family as her minions to do

1124
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: her bidding, because if I had paid for them, I

1125
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 1: could pay for her right she was silent. Lawyer is

1126
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 1: looking if any legal action could be taken against Blabermouth.

1127
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: He has been given the text from the family and

1128
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 1: from us at this point. Slander, instigation for harassment and

1129
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: violence and harassment itself are the ones he's collecting evidence for.

1130
00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 1: I like that he digs deep. He wants everything so

1131
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: he can throw it at He has even contacted the

1132
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 1: family to see if they were willing to hand over

1133
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 1: the text voluntarily. Most did. Blabermouth has been blocked from

1134
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 1: both of our phones, email, social media after the last

1135
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 1: phone call. After she found out she had been blocked,

1136
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 1: she came to our home to try to sweet talk

1137
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 1: her way out if brother in law came to They

1138
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: even came together on times they knew that husband would

1139
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: be out and try to intimidate slash sweet talk. My

1140
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:30,919
Speaker 1: answer was to call the police. Let's go next. Blabermouth

1141
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 1: tried to slander us to people in the hometown, have

1142
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:38,479
Speaker 1: you not learned your lesson? Please? Please, for the love

1143
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 1: of God, please please learn your lesson. Unfortunately for her,

1144
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 1: that backfired and she gets the stink eye from a

1145
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 1: lot of people in town. Then she did something that

1146
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 1: scared us a bit. One day a week, my mother

1147
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: in law picks up the youngest kids from school. They

1148
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:55,479
Speaker 1: go with her, have a snack, and are later joined

1149
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: by the eldest who goes to secondary school. They do

1150
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: their homework from there, and then they either we all

1151
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 1: eat there or we get some takeout for dinner. Mother

1152
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: in law is always early due to a doctor's appointment.

1153
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 1: She and father in law ran late though Blabermouth was

1154
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: waiting at school of our youngest kids. I don't like this,

1155
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: why we don't know? The kids thankfully saw her and

1156
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 1: stayed inside the school. Eldest son had finished school early

1157
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 1: and had decided to go to his siblings school to

1158
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: go with him with our mother in law. He saw

1159
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: his aunt and waited inside the school to wait for

1160
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 1: mother in law with his sibling. Blabbermouth left shortly after.

1161
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,200
Speaker 1: Thank god, school was brought up to date on the

1162
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: situation and promised to call the police immediately if she

1163
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 1: was spotted again. Wow. In the meantime, we are waiting

1164
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: for an approval for a no contact order against her

1165
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 1: and brother. I think at this point that's an ultimate solution.

1166
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 1: I mean, they're potentially coming and scooping up your kids

1167
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: like that cannot happen. We have also moved to a

1168
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,920
Speaker 1: different place. Initially we didn't want to, but due to

1169
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 1: what happened, we thought it might be best to do so.

1170
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 1: Other people heard what happened and were very friendly all

1171
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 1: of a sudden. I have a small update on the

1172
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:03,960
Speaker 1: cousin who decided to use our car to vent his frustrations,

1173
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:07,919
Speaker 1: as well as on the lawsuit Blabermouth hit us what.

1174
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 1: Cousin has probably lost his job and has a lot

1175
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: of trouble there. Apparently his boss got wind of the

1176
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 1: fact that he vandalized our cars and was caught on camera.

1177
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 1: WHOA don't know how he found out and frankly don't care.

1178
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 1: Boss is not happy at all From the family members

1179
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 1: that don't have a no contact order. Against us. We

1180
01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 1: hear the two different tale. What I know for certain

1181
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 1: is that at cousin's job, the stunt he pulled got

1182
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 1: him into serious trouble. We also got a temporary no

1183
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 1: contact order against him. Damages are set to be fixed

1184
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 1: two week's time. Yeez, A cousin has been told the

1185
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 1: amount of damages he has caused. He can pay for

1186
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 1: it out of his own pocket. Of course, insurance companies

1187
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 1: don't pay for idiots destroying other people's car that they don't.

1188
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: Thank God. He will also see the inside of a

1189
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 1: courtroom in either August or September. We also found out

1190
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 1: how he found our His friends live in the same

1191
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 1: neighborhood as we do. We didn't know this. The cousin

1192
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:07,400
Speaker 1: seemed to have told his friends his version of events,

1193
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 1: and his buddies told us he saw us in the neighborhood.

1194
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:14,479
Speaker 1: Wonder what friends think now after what the cousin did.

1195
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: As for the lawsuit, let's get the people clear. My

1196
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:22,200
Speaker 1: dear lawyer friend had his batch of cookies and he

1197
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:25,880
Speaker 1: loved them. He also replied to blabermouth, sending some of

1198
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 1: what he had on texts, voicemails and emails with a

1199
01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:32,880
Speaker 1: note that if Blabermouth didn't drop the lawsuit, we would

1200
01:01:32,920 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: counter file and demand compensation of whatever kind. There are

1201
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 1: people who thought that Blabermouth lied to her lawyer. She

1202
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 1: of course did. She told a bunch of lies and

1203
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: decided to fabricate evidence to prove it. Wow, my lawyer

1204
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 1: saw it. Blabermouth didn't like it and drop them as clients.

1205
01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 1: I couldn't help but wanting to be a fly in

1206
01:01:55,480 --> 01:02:00,520
Speaker 1: the wall. When Blabermouth's lawyer told Blabermouth that let's see

1207
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: what she'll do next, I'm halfway wondering if I should

1208
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 1: get popcorn Annesota for it is bro Listen, I already

1209
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 1: had to poor a drink. Is just getting too saucy

1210
01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:12,959
Speaker 1: over here. Y'all realize this. This story is so long.

1211
01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 1: I had to get a cable for this. Y'all, we

1212
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 1: heard you like long stories, So if you want more

1213
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 1: long stories, drop a comment below. Convince me in Sam,

1214
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 1: do we do this? Do we do this every time? Y'all?

1215
01:02:26,600 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 1: Let us know. Convince us les. Let's see how many

1216
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 1: comments we get onto more of a story.