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Speaker 1: Second dat Up Day. The girl on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date Update Today thinks she's not getting a
Speaker 1: call back from this guy because of a strange hobby
Speaker 1: that she has. It's not even that strange. I don't
Speaker 1: think so at least, Carol, How are you? Hey? Are you?
Speaker 1: I'm all right? Thank you for asking. So your email
Speaker 1: said that you think that what's the guy's name that
Speaker 1: you want to call today? Jason? Jason. He says that
Speaker 1: you think Jason isn't calling you back because you have
Speaker 1: a weird hobby. Yeah, well that's what I'm thinking. Is
Speaker 1: she like an extreme knitter or something. Why don't you
Speaker 1: tell everybody what this hobby is and then we'll judge
Speaker 1: and see if we think it's strange. Okay, it's called
Speaker 1: joggling joggling. Wait, like jo gg l joggling. It's where
Speaker 1: people juggle jog at the same time. I've heard of this,
Speaker 1: Like there's always there's always somebody in a race, that's
Speaker 1: like joggling. Really it's just a joke or you being serious.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm getting it's not a joke at all.
Speaker 1: Like you run and juggle at the same time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: needed jog everybody's mind is blown. I read your email
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, because i'd heard heard of
Speaker 1: it before, and I was like, doesn't seem like a
Speaker 1: big turn off to me. If there's a girl who's
Speaker 1: into joggling, I actually might think it's kind of interesting.
Speaker 1: That is some talent. Thank you. So apparently you're a
Speaker 1: weirdo Carol because you like to joggle. How long have
Speaker 1: you been joggling? About a year? Almost a year? Oh
Speaker 1: my god, the name is just so funny. Like I'm
Speaker 1: actually kind of impressed because I can't even juggle standing still.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, And why do you think this guy isn't
Speaker 1: calling you back because you like to run and juggle
Speaker 1: at the same time. I don't know. It just seemed
Speaker 1: like the second I brought it up, he just got
Speaker 1: really weird. How I don't know, He's just like looked
Speaker 1: at the bartender and then he wasn't really asking me
Speaker 1: many questions. It was just it's like, whoa check please,
Speaker 1: I'm not going out with you, you circus free? Did
Speaker 1: you explain to him what joggling was, like, I've never
Speaker 1: heard of it. Maybe he was thinking it was something
Speaker 1: totally different, you know, of course, I mean he didn't
Speaker 1: know what it was, so I was trying to explain
Speaker 1: it to him, so, you know, to trying to make
Speaker 1: it sound more normal, like well, you know, jogging kind
Speaker 1: of boring, so it makes it really interesting and and
Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of like you can use three
Speaker 1: holes I can use for it. And then I kept
Speaker 1: telling more about it, and he was just getting weirder,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, it's really fun, Seriously, it's really
Speaker 1: legit and fun. How long did you spend harping on joggling?
Speaker 1: I mean ten minutes snacks. That sounds like a long time.
Speaker 1: Maybe I can understand a little bit why he might
Speaker 1: be turned off if you spent this much time talking
Speaker 1: about like, whoa, it's not a hobby, like joggling is
Speaker 1: a way of life for this girl, and I don't
Speaker 1: know if I fit into that. So it wasn't that bad, Okay,
Speaker 1: So where'd you meet this guy? We met because I
Speaker 1: work at a restaurant. I'm a waitress and he was
Speaker 1: in for dinner with his buddies, and he was just
Speaker 1: he was just super cool. I mean, normally, I think
Speaker 1: it's kind of lame when guys, you know, try to
Speaker 1: flirt with me or head on me or whatever, you know,
Speaker 1: or like sometimes they'll actually write their fun number on
Speaker 1: the bill, and I'm like, right, like, I'm gonna call you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so sweet and charming. And here the problem is you
Speaker 1: didn't juggle while you're taking orders at the table. Then
Speaker 1: he would have known going into it that he's going
Speaker 1: on a date with a juggler. Yeah, I know. So
Speaker 1: everything in the date was going really great until the
Speaker 1: joggling topic came up. Yeah, I mean, as far as
Speaker 1: I know, you know, we were we just seem to
Speaker 1: be having fun, like just really having a great time.
Speaker 1: And did you ask him point blank? Does it weird
Speaker 1: you out that I'm a joggler? No, I didn't ask him,
Speaker 1: But even when I tried to change the subject, he's
Speaker 1: just still I don't know if there's something changed, all right?
Speaker 1: And how did your date end? He just walked me
Speaker 1: to a cab. He got a cab for me, and
Speaker 1: he's you know, I was wondering if he's going to
Speaker 1: kid need but then he didn't even give me a hug.
Speaker 1: You should have just stopped him in, like I don't
Speaker 1: need the cab, then pulled out your juggling balls, started
Speaker 1: juggling and ran off. That's why you should have left
Speaker 1: the day, I know. And you know what, it was
Speaker 1: also really awkward when I got into the cab because
Speaker 1: I scowed it over because I thought he was going
Speaker 1: to get in, and then he just shut the door.
Speaker 1: Oh that is awkward. Even the cab drivers like, oh,
Speaker 1: it was just so embarrassing. Yeah, that is embarrassing, slide
Speaker 1: over like hop on him big, Well, okay, see you later,
Speaker 1: you know. And then the hole drive home, I was like,
Speaker 1: was it the joggling thing? So that's really weird. Though
Speaker 1: I can't think that the reason he's not calling you
Speaker 1: back is because of joggling. I would that doesn't sound
Speaker 1: like something that would be a huge turn off for somebody,
Speaker 1: you know. It's just the only thing I can think of. Okay,
Speaker 1: And how many times have you try to get ahold
Speaker 1: of him since your date? I texted him twice. I
Speaker 1: texted him once to say thank you, and he responded,
Speaker 1: but he didn't ask me out. He was just like,
Speaker 1: no problem, you know. And then and then I sexted
Speaker 1: him again a couple days later. It was like something
Speaker 1: about the weekend, like I hope you're gonna hope you
Speaker 1: have fun fans for the weekend or something, and he
Speaker 1: didn't even respond to them. Okay, well, we'll play a song, comeback,
Speaker 1: call him and get your second date update. All right, Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: hang on looking jubil in the morning. You know what,
Speaker 1: I'm actually pissed off. Yeah, yeah, today's second date update
Speaker 1: has made me angry. Why is that? Because Carol is
Speaker 1: on the phone with us, and Carol went out with
Speaker 1: a guy named Jason. She thinks that Jason isn't calling
Speaker 1: her back because during the date, she revealed that she
Speaker 1: has a hobby of joggling. That's running and juggling at
Speaker 1: the same time. And not a lot of people know
Speaker 1: this about me, but I juggle. Yeah, yeah, I'm good
Speaker 1: at it. I like juggling. I've been juggling for I've
Speaker 1: been juggling since I was like twelve, all right, And
Speaker 1: I'm tired of people judging us jugglers. You America, all right,
Speaker 1: if you have a problem with people who juggle. I'm
Speaker 1: tired of being treated like a second class citizen because
Speaker 1: I enjoyed throwing three to four, maybe even five sometimes
Speaker 1: balls in the air for people's amusement. Okay, it's taken
Speaker 1: a lifetime, but Carol, I've got your back on this. Okay.
Speaker 1: If this guy is judging you for juggling, I want
Speaker 1: your permission that I can let him have it. I
Speaker 1: can just release fury on him. Thank you. You're welcome. Dude.
Speaker 1: I'm just sick and tired of it. There's nothing scarier
Speaker 1: than an angry juggler exactly. He doesn't know who he's
Speaker 1: messing with. All right, Carol, you're ready to give him
Speaker 1: a call? Yeah? And if it turns out that this
Speaker 1: is really why he doesn't want to hang out with you,
Speaker 1: because he thinks you're weird, You're not gonna care. Right.
Speaker 1: It's just such a bummer because he just seems cool
Speaker 1: and it would just be stupid for him not you know, Oh,
Speaker 1: it would be a huge mistake, trust me, because I
Speaker 1: will ruin his life. I love you, all right, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna call him right now and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, Well, can I speak to Jason. Please. This
Speaker 1: is Jason. Hey Jason, how are you. This is Jewil
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? Have you ever heard of us? Now? Okay? Cool? Well,
Speaker 1: the reason I'm calling you today is one of our
Speaker 1: listeners sent us an email about you. Her name is Carol,
Speaker 1: and you recently went out on a date with Carol. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a segment we do it on our show called
Speaker 1: the second Date Update. It's where if you go out
Speaker 1: with someone and then you end up not calling them
Speaker 1: back after your date, they email us to see if
Speaker 1: we can get you on the phone and ask if
Speaker 1: something went wrong. So Carol wants to know why you're
Speaker 1: not calling her back. So she like emailed you about
Speaker 1: our date. Yeah, we talked to her a little bit
Speaker 1: about it. She said that everything seemed to be going well.
Speaker 1: She told you about it, Yeah, she did. She said
Speaker 1: everything was going fine until she brought up the fact
Speaker 1: that one of her hobbies is running and juggling at
Speaker 1: the same time, something called joggling. She said. After she
Speaker 1: told you that you seemed cold and distant and like
Speaker 1: you didn't want to talk to her anymore. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it was so the juggling really turned you off. No, okay,
Speaker 1: Like it was kind of like cute at first, Like
Speaker 1: she's cute girl, and she's like, yeah, I like to
Speaker 1: run and juggle, and I was like, oh, that's cool.
Speaker 1: And then like she kept talking about it, okay, and
Speaker 1: I don't know, it just sort of got weird. Well
Speaker 1: how did it get weird? I don't understand what it's
Speaker 1: so weird about her liking to run and juggle. I
Speaker 1: understand it's not something that everybody does, but we just
Speaker 1: we kept talking about it, and that conversation just launched
Speaker 1: into this whole new weird conversation that she started talking
Speaker 1: about stuff and a new weird conversation about what. Well.
Speaker 1: She asked if I wanted to like do it with her,
Speaker 1: the juggling thing um, and she asked if I wanted
Speaker 1: to be like her, like her joggling husband at one
Speaker 1: point joggling husband. Yeah. Was it just the word husband
Speaker 1: that threw you off at that point? Well, I mean
Speaker 1: I don't want to really be anybody's husband on a
Speaker 1: first date. I do you feel like she was seeing
Speaker 1: you guys in the future as husband and wife joggling together?
Speaker 1: Or something. No, I don't think she wanted me to
Speaker 1: be like her husband or something. But she started talking
Speaker 1: about other husbands that she has. What do you mean
Speaker 1: other she's married husband. No, she's not married, but she
Speaker 1: has other husbands that she has. She has like a
Speaker 1: gym husband, and she has a movie husband and a
Speaker 1: wedding husband. Okay, she's one of those people like I
Speaker 1: have my work happy that kind of thing. Okay, But
Speaker 1: I mean she's just replacing the word friend with husband
Speaker 1: at that point, like she thinks it's fun. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: basically what she's doing, except she has like ten husbands.
Speaker 1: It's weird. It's kind of weird to call everybody your husband.
Speaker 1: I'll agree with you on that. She was just so
Speaker 1: adamant about it. She just wanted me to be her
Speaker 1: joggling husband. She kept saying that a couple of times,
Speaker 1: and I mean she kept saying, it's not a big deal.
Speaker 1: I have other husbands. It's it's just like that. And
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just it was weird. I didn't
Speaker 1: want to just be like another husband in her life.
Speaker 1: She's got too many husbands, so why not just tell her?
Speaker 1: When she texted you, like, hey, I don't really, I'm
Speaker 1: not interested. I don't want to see you again. It
Speaker 1: didn't seem like she would take that for an answer. Okay,
Speaker 1: so now you're her disappearing husband. Yeah, basically I guess.
Speaker 1: All right. Well, thank you at least for telling us
Speaker 1: why you're not calling her back. I appreciate that. Yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: I think you should also tell her though, No, I
Speaker 1: don't think so. I think I could just move on
Speaker 1: from Oh okay, well, then I probably shouldn't tell you
Speaker 1: that she's actually on the other line listening and would
Speaker 1: love to talk to you. What yep, car are you there? Yeah? Okay, Jason, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I just can I just say something? Okay? J
Speaker 1: will thank you. First of all, I have never had
Speaker 1: a guy say why didn't you just tell her you
Speaker 1: weren't interested instead of just not answering her. That's super cool.
Speaker 1: And ps Brook is totally right. It's just a place.
Speaker 1: It's just like, yeah, you know, like, oh, that's my
Speaker 1: work husband, Like you know, it's it's just a joke,
Speaker 1: like it's just cultural, not weird. No, actually it's not cultural.
Speaker 1: I've never heard anybody refer to everyone in their life
Speaker 1: as our husband. It's a normal thing. So if I
Speaker 1: was like, Hey, after I'm done with this date, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go hang out with my movie wife, you wouldn't
Speaker 1: have thought that was weird. No, I think it's more open.
Speaker 1: By the way. You know, Joslyn is getting pretty hot.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's super cool. Come out with me and
Speaker 1: we'll joggle for ninety minutes. You will love it. I
Speaker 1: don't want to joggle for ninety minutes. It sounds crazy. Okay, nothing, Carol.
Speaker 1: I mean though, I want to be on your side
Speaker 1: on this one, but I just think it's kind of
Speaker 1: weird to just even bring up the word husband period
Speaker 1: on a first date. Thank you, it's pretty intense word.
Speaker 1: For me, it's the opposite. It's like making that word
Speaker 1: super casual. Yeah, but you have ten of them, Okay,
Speaker 1: as odds you have like a guy friend that you're
Speaker 1: talking about. You like, it sounds like every guy you
Speaker 1: ever meet you decided your husband. Oh my god, that's
Speaker 1: much true. You already had a joggling husband. What would
Speaker 1: I have been? I don't know. Maybe I don't even
Speaker 1: want you to be my joggling husband anymore. Oh well,
Speaker 1: don't think it's a little weird. You like call the
Speaker 1: radio station to try to get a second date with me.
Speaker 1: It's not that weird. I'm her radio husband. So what's fine? Jason, Jason,
Speaker 1: and would you like to go out on a second
Speaker 1: date with Carol? We will pay for it. No, no, okay,
Speaker 1: that was quick. You're missing out. No, I prefer to
Speaker 1: date goes. We don't have a husband already. I guess
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Broken Juwil in the morning,