WEBVTT - Best Of 2017

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<v Speaker 1>What is Angela Yee and Live Service. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>tremendous seventeen. We had some great guests, and right now

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<v Speaker 1>I have a best of for you. These are some

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<v Speaker 1>of our favorite moments that we created ourselves. So you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are gonna love this. If this is your first

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<v Speaker 1>time hearing lip service or maybe these are some of

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<v Speaker 1>the artists that you've ever heard on with us before.

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<v Speaker 1>We hand picked some of our funniest moments to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you check it out. We're gonna have one deo

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<v Speaker 1>hugely may not applies to Timmy Rivera a whole lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people, so check it out. First up, we got

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<v Speaker 1>two chains came by the show. You know pretty girls

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<v Speaker 1>love chat music and he was there to definitely uh

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a lot about him. So who fantasizes more

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<v Speaker 1>during sex on average men or women? You think? So?

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<v Speaker 1>I found women, I see women. I found the sounds

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<v Speaker 1>a lot during sex the women, I think, Stephanie, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think I feel like it? I don't fantasize

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<v Speaker 1>that sucks for his dick. That's using the dignum every

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<v Speaker 1>single time, not every single time, but when I do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to think about something, That's what I think

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<v Speaker 1>about But if you fucking if nik you from the back,

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<v Speaker 1>you think, bro think about it, it would be some

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<v Speaker 1>pussy You're done, you den. I don't really. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really fantasize during sex. Um. The only time that I

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<v Speaker 1>have fantasized during sex is like if I'm getting my

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<v Speaker 1>pussy and I'm drunk and it's just taking so long,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll start thinking about like the last porn I watched, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm That's what I think about too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like sometimes listen, I think I feel like men try

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<v Speaker 1>to prevent themselves from coming to guys, and we try

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that we come. Yeah, like like you

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<v Speaker 1>could feel it there, but it's still gonna take another

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<v Speaker 1>ten minutes. I've had something not too great sex, and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought about some way better sex to get anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You can feel this there and and say it's ten

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<v Speaker 1>minutes down, like ten or fifteen man, Like you know

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<v Speaker 1>when you when you say I'm about to come, you

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<v Speaker 1>mean like in t oh, you gotta go to the

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<v Speaker 1>porn bank in your head you've been drinking off too much.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea exactly, and one of those now. But That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Like when I feel like I could feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm gonna come, but it's not gonna happen in

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<v Speaker 1>thirty seconds or right now, or if he stops his

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<v Speaker 1>little he stops doing a little movement. He was doing

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<v Speaker 1>it like you motherfucker he started all the way back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right. It could go on a reset this at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, you can go on a reset because we

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<v Speaker 1>need about like some crazy That's why I need consistency,

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<v Speaker 1>like I need you to keep doing what you was

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<v Speaker 1>doing if I'm about to come, because if you switch

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<v Speaker 1>it up, then it's like fuck you. You got to

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<v Speaker 1>stay right there in the same little and that's why

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<v Speaker 1>you have to communicate. That's when you're like that. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the only time I ever fantasized during sex. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>I can say this with confidence. I've never had like

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<v Speaker 1>a dick inside of me and was thinking about other

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<v Speaker 1>things fantasizing. I'm usually enjoying that moment, not to change.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you fantasized about it? Since you said men,

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<v Speaker 1>what are some things and do you fantasize like because

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<v Speaker 1>you have to make yourself come or do you sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>think about because I know sometimes men think about other

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<v Speaker 1>things to not come. Both you think about things to

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<v Speaker 1>not come? No, what makes you not come? Like when

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying something good for us? All right, But first,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're trying not to come, what do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know, nig and might fucking wrap

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<v Speaker 1>or some ship just come up. You gotta think of

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<v Speaker 1>something That whole album doesn't. Yeah, that doesn't allow you

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<v Speaker 1>to think about how good whatever it is it's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? You gotta you gotta you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And then, like I said, and if you're trying to come,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to think of you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know what you said. Maybe if it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a poem you're thinking of like maybe it's a little badass,

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<v Speaker 1>like a little maybe you're thinking about somebody you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>been with you that's what offensive you like, put it

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<v Speaker 1>like a badass R and B chick or someone on.

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<v Speaker 1>Put this head on this body, just put together really

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<v Speaker 1>and really just and just really give it to them

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<v Speaker 1>and them and they don't even know. Um you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But let me ask you this, So have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>been having sex in try not to come and came

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<v Speaker 1>up with a great rap and been like, man, I

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<v Speaker 1>need to stop so I could write this down. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't write raps, and I don't write raps anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>but not, I mean you never write down a little

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<v Speaker 1>notes so on your phone and nothing. No, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what's on my phone, my daughter's songs and some of

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<v Speaker 1>my songs, like you can save them to your notes,

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<v Speaker 1>so when you planning them through your um, they won't.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you plan them, do you what you call

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<v Speaker 1>this ship when you playing them through the phone, you

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<v Speaker 1>know how you play it and you have to keep

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<v Speaker 1>mashing there whatever, it's like an app now, like when

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<v Speaker 1>you play music through your phone, you have to keep

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<v Speaker 1>mashing so that the song will continue playing. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you save it into your notes, you could just play it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>never did that before. You we're not artists. That's music

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<v Speaker 1>you got going on? When you can explain later, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the truth is that women fantasize more during sex. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>what she just said, she'd be thinking about flicks and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. So, but I think women do it

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<v Speaker 1>more because we have to do it because we don't

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<v Speaker 1>come clearly from the statistics as easily as men do. Right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when I think a woman is fantasizing their in

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<v Speaker 1>sections for that extra luedge, you know, what I mean

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<v Speaker 1>all these how many I mean how many? How many?

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<v Speaker 1>How many? Realistically how many? How many toys do you

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<v Speaker 1>think they made for women to come? Like? How many

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<v Speaker 1>you think they are? Like millions? Millions? Definitely millions. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that crazy? That's a lot, even as you guys, because

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<v Speaker 1>y'all got a million toys that can make not one, no,

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<v Speaker 1>but even women who have never used a toy, it's

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<v Speaker 1>still it's still something. You know, you still have to

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<v Speaker 1>know a woman's um, what's the word I'm looking for me? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>ananomy to, you know, to make her come. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>something that you're just you know, either someone teaches you

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<v Speaker 1>or you never learned. Right, you know what I mean

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<v Speaker 1>makes perfect. Let's let's keep it real like it's just

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<v Speaker 1>easier for a man to come. Period. Yeah, it's easy.

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<v Speaker 1>You do this for that's it, right, women or men

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<v Speaker 1>are exactly right, exactly man. This one was great. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I always heard about three D Nati and this is

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<v Speaker 1>my first time meeting her, and she was hilarious. Some

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<v Speaker 1>guys had issues with all of the girl talk we

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<v Speaker 1>had going on, talking about men paying rent and all that,

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<v Speaker 1>but here was one of our funniest moments. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>what's on? What's on? You want to here to funk to? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like the head myself because yeah, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying my music. Yeah, I don't know. My brother

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<v Speaker 1>thought this ship was so funny. But I had a

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<v Speaker 1>whole plated playlist and I used to kind of see

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<v Speaker 1>what song you're gonna stop on that? Stop the song

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<v Speaker 1>to fun this nigger, you know, I think um right now,

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<v Speaker 1>like Bryson Teller, the weekend at party next door is

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<v Speaker 1>good to have sex with. Listen, I don't have sex.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, I don't have it. You don't hear the

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<v Speaker 1>girl screaming so much? You know, it's weird for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that you would come faster with or

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<v Speaker 1>without music? I have a confession about music. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that I noticed this recently and I kind of laughed

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<v Speaker 1>at myself while I old school. I'm sorry. Confession about

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<v Speaker 1>music is that during like if I'm giving head to

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<v Speaker 1>like music, Like if music is playing, then I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>like give head to the beat that makes people do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was weird for the mom You're probably like the

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<v Speaker 1>only one that confess it weird because I caught myself

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. Recently, I was like, am I really sucking

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<v Speaker 1>his head to the way song were you're hearing? Were

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<v Speaker 1>listening to know? We were actually listening to your man

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<v Speaker 1>at MP anty Like No, I was listening to um

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<v Speaker 1>TP two dot com had from the Oh My God

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<v Speaker 1>when I was young, like my first sexual experiences world.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think, but now I feel like, if a

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<v Speaker 1>guy puts on music, I'm like, yeah, this is mad cheesy,

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<v Speaker 1>like why I don't know why I think like that

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<v Speaker 1>if a dude put the music on, and it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird. But most of the most of the time,

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<v Speaker 1>if we're just gonna funs, we don't got time to

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<v Speaker 1>put no music on. We've been into I got so

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<v Speaker 1>you still got to stop and be like, let me

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<v Speaker 1>put this plate with on for us the fun girl. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no, no no. That was when I would say that when

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<v Speaker 1>I was being childish and single and I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you play now, um, we're not gonna get into that.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, and I don't like. Now I feel like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm gonna let your friends you you. But no,

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel like I really feel like when I

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<v Speaker 1>say certain ship like certain keywords than a stroke change.

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<v Speaker 1>So I like to I mean, you know the regular

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<v Speaker 1>ship like it's yours right, it's pussy feel good, how

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<v Speaker 1>you know all that type of ship. Then a stroke

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<v Speaker 1>change whenever I say something different, So I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like I kinda so you know what to say. I

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<v Speaker 1>know what's to say certain words. He's like all right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You even feel like sometimes you're like, all right, this

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<v Speaker 1>is going on too long. I got to just make

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<v Speaker 1>him come. Sometimes if I already, if I if i'm

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm exhausted, I had a long day and I

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed it. I got me. We don't need to. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like once I start getting dizzy, like something

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<v Speaker 1>like that's it need something out to give? You gotta come.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna like what's that come, I'm ready for

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<v Speaker 1>you to come. Yeah. Like if that comes out like well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, all right, your turn, even get right, that

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<v Speaker 1>came your turn. Let's go. I don't even go to

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<v Speaker 1>one of us like make him come. And if that

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<v Speaker 1>won't work, I'll start whispering his ear, begging for the calm.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your get a move work, getting moves from the back,

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<v Speaker 1>laying flat with my legs crossed, and then like when

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<v Speaker 1>it's like no, but when my legs or that ass

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<v Speaker 1>and it's surrying on my stuff, he said, like if

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<v Speaker 1>my care said tight, like because your stomach flat on

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<v Speaker 1>a bed, so that that's a good check. Thanks, And

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<v Speaker 1>then yeah you saw, I was like, thank you. And

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<v Speaker 1>then from my back, I'll put my legs up on

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<v Speaker 1>his shoulders and lift my hips up. I'm rised up

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<v Speaker 1>off the bed. And then that always works. And if none,

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<v Speaker 1>if neither one of those work, then I look at

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<v Speaker 1>either one of those words. And then I started whispering

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<v Speaker 1>in his ear, but begging for the come, like I

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<v Speaker 1>think when you do that that I always work. When

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<v Speaker 1>you like like I want you to come so bad,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that works every time. I hope you have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of come. It's pussy out with all that comes,

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<v Speaker 1>because it isn't it whack. If he doesn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of comes with the Safari toler that means that

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<v Speaker 1>he'd already didn't let it that he sucked somebody off.

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<v Speaker 1>Could have been checking off. He didn't tell us that part.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I mean that nigga about different kinds come.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like come that's like thick and just like and

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<v Speaker 1>then they and then it's the running clear, ripping down.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that one. Yeah, like the running Yeah. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing worse than when the nigga come in you

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<v Speaker 1>and then like three hours later that ship, Oh that

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<v Speaker 1>ship is that happened to me? Defections, No, it's to come,

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<v Speaker 1>it's to Colm because you get tell like you see

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's young. It happened to me before that should happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything happened to me. Man Dave East, he's one person

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<v Speaker 1>who came by the show twice, so I guess he's

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<v Speaker 1>like one of our regulars. Davis always says Lip Service

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<v Speaker 1>is his favorite show. And you're about to hear why

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Now, have you ever borrowed money from a woman? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you pay it back? Always? They let me get

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<v Speaker 1>that money. There's a few, sure, but they wasn't on

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<v Speaker 1>it from me. But the ones that was like I

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<v Speaker 1>need my brad back. So what did they come for? You? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Remember back in we had about this in the car,

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<v Speaker 1>like if a guy asked you to borrow money I

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<v Speaker 1>got that you were dating, would that make you feel weird?

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<v Speaker 1>If it depends on what the situation. It could be

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<v Speaker 1>any scenario. And it took that three hundred dollars and

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<v Speaker 1>took the next bit out. He took Christo. It was like,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe you need like bricks in your car or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I adn't have a car. I was. I was like

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<v Speaker 1>if I was fucked up, Like did it ever feel weird?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't want to have to ask, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like I always kind of dealt with like

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<v Speaker 1>I do women my age, but I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>with older woman Like a few of the older women,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't have to act like they were just giving

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<v Speaker 1>you like shuger, Mama call it that, but like here

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<v Speaker 1>like I wake up, should be there, like, yeah, that's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>He always been a jugger, always been. I'm gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. That's all that man. People call you

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<v Speaker 1>girls are just leaving money on the nightstand. I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>that Nicks on my dresser, like bag, go buy yourself something.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the most you ever got? Did they have a

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<v Speaker 1>leave chain? Wow? WHOA? Can I manage him work? I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that's actually was trying to like win me say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she was trying to like what I'm saying. I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to put David's picture on back pages and get some

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<v Speaker 1>listen So would you feel you said, if a guy

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<v Speaker 1>asked you for money but it was like for a

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<v Speaker 1>particular would that make you feel away? I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>depends on the scenario. If I knew that he was

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<v Speaker 1>well off, and you know, maybe he just left his

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<v Speaker 1>wallet at home and he was going off to dinner

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<v Speaker 1>and he asked me to pay because he forgot No.

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<v Speaker 1>What if he's like listening, this month was a little rough.

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<v Speaker 1>I need Yes, I always felt like like that, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I always had man pride, you know, I'm sis I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, man, sure, I can't. I always thought I

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<v Speaker 1>was on pop later you know what I'm saying. I

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<v Speaker 1>just always had had in my mind like man, when

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<v Speaker 1>I get on, if just don't work out, I was

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<v Speaker 1>giving that nigger money like so I never really wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to like like you know what I mean, like to

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<v Speaker 1>that point, like that, like that off the Dice game,

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, can't chust a like you? What about you?

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<v Speaker 1>What about if a guy to dinner? So one time

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to this guy. He was like a doctor,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess he was going through mass ship and

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<v Speaker 1>he got sucked up and he was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this month is really rough for me. I was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>it's rough, all of us. Like you know, you could

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<v Speaker 1>tell he was trying to roll me into some ship

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<v Speaker 1>so that he was like, yeah, you know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing good, though, you should let me borrow something.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, mad, funny, like I just literally played

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<v Speaker 1>it off at the joke because I knew he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be serious like I would. I'm sorry, but there's no way.

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<v Speaker 1>What about women asking to buy money from me? You

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<v Speaker 1>it depends with me and I got own girls like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't like not even sucking somebody you're dating now.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't going that roule no more, no more. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going on that. So you've done it before, You've

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<v Speaker 1>leant our money, you have some you have some bread

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<v Speaker 1>because I gotta have some bread. Right as a man,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not matter I am. I could be sucking your

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<v Speaker 1>brains out every day after a while. If I'm dead, pop,

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<v Speaker 1>that's she going. You can be like, huh, we're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do nothing. You can't buy me nothing, nothing going

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<v Speaker 1>like you just sucking me and looking at me and

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<v Speaker 1>looking at me. They got the same problems we have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea a bad No, you gotta have something. You'm saying fast,

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<v Speaker 1>rocking and rolling, and I'll be feeling like like the

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<v Speaker 1>the gaps. She got to kind of be you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, close like I'm not. You gotta level

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<v Speaker 1>it out. I don't want to, but I can't be

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<v Speaker 1>like you can't work at Burger King, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, And I'm doing what I'm doing like it

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<v Speaker 1>just won't. She might own that Burger King one day.

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<v Speaker 1>You better not sleep work at burger kaye, but you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta make baby steps. One day she might be the

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<v Speaker 1>manager if you want to. You just was living in

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<v Speaker 1>the projects not too long ago. Don't try to come.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't change you booze you now because imagine you

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<v Speaker 1>want to. But imagine you went to the answer a

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<v Speaker 1>woman who was this beautiful. Maybe she fell on some

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<v Speaker 1>rough times and she's in school, but she's working. I

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<v Speaker 1>got bills to me iver. Spect I ever spect Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you rather you rather she working at Burger King or not?

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<v Speaker 1>The wave? I don't want to pull up and you're

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<v Speaker 1>giving me my burgers and dry with wol baby. I

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<v Speaker 1>got old type of extra ship from work today like

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<v Speaker 1>anybody in fast food Nona, I did I got, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was in high school. Yeah do that? Now? Do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Dad was mad hype because I was bringing home like

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<v Speaker 1>bags of food. You know my dad cheap as hell? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was that work subway. But what she like him

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<v Speaker 1>and tag him when people could go on his pages.

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<v Speaker 1>We got mad subway fits? What does she worked at

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<v Speaker 1>check fil a? That's definitely and she you poably need

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<v Speaker 1>your sauce and their religious but not fast Let's not

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<v Speaker 1>be so jistic to say fast food. But maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>even like the mall or something cool. I ain't against that,

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<v Speaker 1>just not fast food. Fast food because you smell like food.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that isn't like a transition honestly, like a right

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<v Speaker 1>traditional I'm about to have. That's them like I'm seventeen

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen who are trying to get a job tape first job.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're my age, you should own that motherfucker like

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<v Speaker 1>and if you don't, you can't be taking the order

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<v Speaker 1>on the back, flipping the burger like what is she just? Manager?

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<v Speaker 1>General manager? General manager burger Berg King? Can I let

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<v Speaker 1>you bad bitches united? Dl Hugli. This one's surprised me

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<v Speaker 1>so much. I couldn't believe we actually got him to

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<v Speaker 1>come on the show and He told so many incredible stories,

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<v Speaker 1>things he's never revealed anywhere else before. Check it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's one of them. He's a famous counc I can't

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<v Speaker 1>tell you the name playing this gig. And uh we

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<v Speaker 1>in the Bay Area, right, And so I get this

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<v Speaker 1>knock on my door, and uh, this cat comes, he said, man,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of my room. Oh how I go? I go,

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<v Speaker 1>I go, what's up? Because something's wrong. So he had

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<v Speaker 1>he had this ship. She's tied up to the bed

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<v Speaker 1>and she's naked and she's unconscious. Oh my god. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, I said, man, what happened? He said, he

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<v Speaker 1>had this cat of nine tales? Was this that whip?

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<v Speaker 1>And he was they had always whipped like he He

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<v Speaker 1>whipped her and all of a sudden she told him

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<v Speaker 1>he was hurting and he couldn't stop, I said. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't stop because why he whipped their own count.

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<v Speaker 1>So then I said, hey, man, I'm not gonna I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not in this year. I'm not touching nobody. And she

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<v Speaker 1>woke up. She woke up, and she said, hey, dial

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<v Speaker 1>the water. And I went out. All right, that funny

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<v Speaker 1>I supposed to do, Like man, I'm not in it.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, here, hold the body. She wouldn't woke up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I went right to the front and they killed somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>He killed that they did? She didn't wake up. Dat

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<v Speaker 1>a toad. I sweat the guy out of toad. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't be killing motherfucker. I'm not I'm not doing me.

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<v Speaker 1>You would help me out the body, Yes, they would

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<v Speaker 1>help me. Friend, I'm man. I'm not telling my kids

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<v Speaker 1>did some I love them, but if they did something

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<v Speaker 1>that that spread out harm to humanity on something, just

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<v Speaker 1>old hump. But never didn't need to kill her. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not dead, but I might have my daughters. But

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<v Speaker 1>my son, I tell him, my son, if somebody, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna send him to jairy, how could you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>I amazed you better than now, what are you doing? Murdering?

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta go to jail. Somebody it was kind of killed,

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<v Speaker 1>like if he feels somebody, if it was, if it

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<v Speaker 1>was a justifiable kill, I will help. But if he's

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<v Speaker 1>being I don't like that. But if he was being

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<v Speaker 1>an animal about things, you know, like I'm gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>the police on him, like you gotta go do the time.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't tell on him. I'm sorry you can you

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<v Speaker 1>can I was an accident by accident, I've watched I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you that when I was when I when I

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<v Speaker 1>was a kid, I grew up a hunting for Avon's school,

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<v Speaker 1>av Lock guard. So I'm a little kid, right, not

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<v Speaker 1>a kid, but tint you well, maybe two or four

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<v Speaker 1>tick these kids they go, we got this chick were

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<v Speaker 1>running the train and I go, oh, wow, I've always

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<v Speaker 1>heard about this. I was no, um and so I

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<v Speaker 1>hope this no. So I go when I see this

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<v Speaker 1>girl and they are doing it to her, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she's this is not She's not with it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said this ain't She's not and I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>so I say, I don't. And these dudes are older

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<v Speaker 1>than me, and I like love them and that always

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<v Speaker 1>been impressed by them, but at that moment I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that they were like it was like, it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the first times I saw men who I loved and respected.

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<v Speaker 1>Seems small to me, like they were. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a girl and you and so I remember getting

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<v Speaker 1>their clothes and I said, she's not with it, and

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<v Speaker 1>she they got and they're older than me. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not even scared because I'm like, even if something go left,

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<v Speaker 1>So to put on her clothes, and she smelled like pennies,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was she smelled like this real weird smell

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<v Speaker 1>that I would later on know that smells like blood,

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<v Speaker 1>like because smell a copper. So I get her clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>We walk and they hit me in the head and

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<v Speaker 1>pushing me and called me and buster, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>weak and I never saw. I walked her to her neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like five or maybe eight blocks away. When

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<v Speaker 1>we get the clothes and never she screams and runs

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<v Speaker 1>towards her brother side. And this motherfucker picks up a

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<v Speaker 1>butcher knife and she is so hysterical she can't tell.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's chasing me around the car and it catches

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<v Speaker 1>me and he goes, uh. He said, she said it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't even it wasn't him. And he said, I know

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<v Speaker 1>this Nick. You know who did it? And I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you who did it. He said, if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't tell me who did it, I'm gonna cut you.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, but they'll kill me. He said, I swear

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<v Speaker 1>to guy, you got three, I'm a coupter three. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell me who. And I closed my eyes and

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<v Speaker 1>waited from the cup and so he didn't. And so

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<v Speaker 1>while I'm walking away, he hit it like both the

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<v Speaker 1>mothers to dude, my neighborhood was hitting me and he

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<v Speaker 1>was hitting me. So I'm getting my ask with her

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<v Speaker 1>and I ain't. Don't sit it wrong. So you months

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<v Speaker 1>weeks later, at this joint called Smithy's Liking Store on

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<v Speaker 1>Hunt Lina, I see this dude and he says thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>But I always like to me, even though I I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be like, I didn't think that it was

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<v Speaker 1>right to do ship to people that you knew you could.

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<v Speaker 1>And even though I did, like the thing with my son,

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<v Speaker 1>or I've done things that made me feel well, I

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<v Speaker 1>always thought that I always knew what the greatest thing

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever done to me is that that now I

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm a human being. Like, I don't think it's so.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you're supposed to go all out for

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<v Speaker 1>people you love. I think you're supposed to try. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're supposed to treat everybody with a level of

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<v Speaker 1>certain respect in d C. And I think if it

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<v Speaker 1>costs you skin, that's the press you paid for being

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<v Speaker 1>a human be. Now, Kiafa Vic came through. You know

0:27:11.359 --> 0:27:13.600
<v Speaker 1>her as Michael Vick's wife. Also, she was on the

0:27:13.600 --> 0:27:16.240
<v Speaker 1>show ball The Wise, but she produced That's a Boss.

0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:19.200
<v Speaker 1>Check it out now, Carmen, Are you in a relationship?

0:27:19.200 --> 0:27:22.240
<v Speaker 1>Are you married? No, I'm single. Would you recommend that

0:27:22.359 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 1>she dated a football player? Absolutely? And I work with

0:27:25.080 --> 0:27:27.920
<v Speaker 1>football players. I know you're doing. I'm sure they know

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:31.280
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to. It's like, what the hell would

0:27:31.280 --> 0:27:34.879
<v Speaker 1>you after you? Yeah, y'all want to date the football player.

0:27:35.119 --> 0:27:37.320
<v Speaker 1>I would date anybody that I like, but I've never

0:27:37.359 --> 0:27:42.200
<v Speaker 1>dated a football player, so I don't know. I don't know. Yeah,

0:27:42.840 --> 0:27:45.439
<v Speaker 1>why do y'all see that everything that litter is not gold?

0:27:46.200 --> 0:27:48.800
<v Speaker 1>I feel like an athlete period. I'm not trying to say,

0:27:49.880 --> 0:27:54.600
<v Speaker 1>but think about it, like all the traveling, all the girls,

0:27:54.760 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 1>all up, But you're married to a football player. We

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:01.040
<v Speaker 1>was dating forever in a day before we got married,

0:28:01.400 --> 0:28:05.159
<v Speaker 1>like forever. So we've been through a lot. When I

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:08.320
<v Speaker 1>was twenty one, so you guys met in the club, right, yes?

0:28:08.920 --> 0:28:11.320
<v Speaker 1>And who was Tylering? And who he was? All in

0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:14.880
<v Speaker 1>my face? All in my face. I'm not gonna lie

0:28:14.960 --> 0:28:17.000
<v Speaker 1>like I had just turned twenty one. I'm in the

0:28:17.040 --> 0:28:19.000
<v Speaker 1>club and I don't know. This night, I must have

0:28:19.000 --> 0:28:21.040
<v Speaker 1>been looking good because all the guys were just buying

0:28:21.080 --> 0:28:22.760
<v Speaker 1>me drinks. I had like four drinks and it was

0:28:22.800 --> 0:28:26.359
<v Speaker 1>your birthday, and after was right after my birthday about

0:28:26.359 --> 0:28:29.639
<v Speaker 1>a month later, and um, all the guys were just

0:28:29.680 --> 0:28:32.119
<v Speaker 1>like competent me. So I see this guy, he's smiling,

0:28:32.119 --> 0:28:34.360
<v Speaker 1>I see his teeth. I'm like, oh, he looked good

0:28:35.080 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 1>and teeth yeah, and y'all black and chocolate. I'm like, oh,

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:44.400
<v Speaker 1>this motherfucker's fine. And all of a sudden, they called

0:28:44.440 --> 0:28:46.400
<v Speaker 1>like it was a shaky booty contest. That's what they

0:28:46.440 --> 0:28:50.280
<v Speaker 1>called it. I know you did not mean no, I

0:28:50.280 --> 0:28:55.080
<v Speaker 1>don't know, Like no, wonder why everybody was buying your drink,

0:28:57.480 --> 0:29:03.000
<v Speaker 1>she said, Hampton to it, not me. Wait minute, but

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:05.640
<v Speaker 1>before the shaky booty contest, one of the guys he

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:08.160
<v Speaker 1>was with had came over like, I'm just we're just

0:29:08.200 --> 0:29:10.000
<v Speaker 1>smiling at each other. At this point, I'm drunk out

0:29:10.040 --> 0:29:11.800
<v Speaker 1>my mind. I put us in this thing. He got

0:29:11.880 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 1>brains in the you know. When I met him, put

0:29:17.680 --> 0:29:19.960
<v Speaker 1>us and he had on a hoodie like in the club,

0:29:19.960 --> 0:29:22.200
<v Speaker 1>he was just real chill, like real like, oh yes,

0:29:22.320 --> 0:29:25.360
<v Speaker 1>swag and you don't really see that much in Virginia.

0:29:25.840 --> 0:29:30.360
<v Speaker 1>Let me not say that, because you always be I

0:29:30.480 --> 0:29:40.920
<v Speaker 1>love you and I love yeah Teddy Riley back. No,

0:29:41.200 --> 0:29:45.400
<v Speaker 1>he's women are beautiful. I just talk about the minute

0:29:45.400 --> 0:29:50.640
<v Speaker 1>this way. Girl, don't be trying to put that on me. Wait,

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:54.200
<v Speaker 1>what do you say about Virginia women, not about no women?

0:29:54.280 --> 0:29:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I said the men swag. I'm from Philly and they

0:29:56.960 --> 0:30:04.960
<v Speaker 1>had a different swag. So I liked his swag. Yeah,

0:30:05.080 --> 0:30:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I had me going in the yard. M what was that?

0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:18.880
<v Speaker 1>So one of his friends came over and was like, um,

0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:20.640
<v Speaker 1>y'all know who that is over there? And I heard

0:30:20.680 --> 0:30:22.560
<v Speaker 1>My girlfriend was like no, and he was like, oh,

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:24.680
<v Speaker 1>that's Mike Vick and she was like weird and she

0:30:24.760 --> 0:30:26.200
<v Speaker 1>was he was like over there and I was like, oh,

0:30:26.200 --> 0:30:27.840
<v Speaker 1>who was Mike Vick? And my girlfriend was like, oh,

0:30:27.880 --> 0:30:29.719
<v Speaker 1>weeah football player. I was like, oh, show me, let

0:30:29.720 --> 0:30:32.000
<v Speaker 1>me see where you at. So when she pointed to him,

0:30:32.040 --> 0:30:34.320
<v Speaker 1>I almost died because I'm like, oh my god, this

0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:37.240
<v Speaker 1>is I'm stalling that like just like I'm a groupie

0:30:37.240 --> 0:30:39.640
<v Speaker 1>all of his space. So I'm like I'm leaving. So

0:30:39.680 --> 0:30:41.360
<v Speaker 1>I went to the other side of the club and

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:44.400
<v Speaker 1>he judged a little Shaky Booty contest. He was a

0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:55.479
<v Speaker 1>judge and the Shaky bouty So I wasn't s I

0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 1>have went in too, like another part of the bar.

0:30:56.880 --> 0:30:59.400
<v Speaker 1>And he came. He found me and he was like

0:30:59.440 --> 0:31:07.840
<v Speaker 1>can I get you to I'm but you. He got

0:31:07.880 --> 0:31:10.360
<v Speaker 1>my number and I was so excited. I was like, well,

0:31:10.400 --> 0:31:13.560
<v Speaker 1>it's so fine. And like a few minutes later he

0:31:13.640 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 1>came back and he was like, no, I didn't put

0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:20.760
<v Speaker 1>it in right, and whoa. And so we the club

0:31:20.840 --> 0:31:23.400
<v Speaker 1>is over, we're leaving and he outside. He all in

0:31:23.440 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 1>this girl's face and she like she's a thick girl.

0:31:26.640 --> 0:31:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm looking at him like, damn, this this is what

0:31:28.240 --> 0:31:30.360
<v Speaker 1>you're like, all right, I see you. So she all

0:31:30.400 --> 0:31:31.880
<v Speaker 1>in his face trying to kis him and stuff. He

0:31:31.920 --> 0:31:34.200
<v Speaker 1>all trying to grab me, like you coming home with me?

0:31:34.320 --> 0:31:37.360
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm like hell no, damn. So he called me

0:31:37.400 --> 0:31:39.520
<v Speaker 1>the next morning, he like, you want to come away

0:31:39.560 --> 0:31:42.280
<v Speaker 1>with me? I'm like no, I'm going away tomorrow. He's like, damn,

0:31:42.360 --> 0:31:44.400
<v Speaker 1>just just come with me. And I'm like no, I'm

0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:46.200
<v Speaker 1>going to d C. Who's going to who was it?

0:31:46.320 --> 0:31:52.640
<v Speaker 1>Love Club? Love? Yeah? I'm like no, I just turned

0:31:52.640 --> 0:31:54.560
<v Speaker 1>twenty one, like I'm going to d C. I'm going

0:31:54.600 --> 0:32:04.239
<v Speaker 1>to Shaky next And after that he called me like

0:32:04.320 --> 0:32:06.640
<v Speaker 1>every day. I remember telling my grandma met a football players.

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:08.720
<v Speaker 1>She was like a girl, he ain't gonna be no good.

0:32:09.000 --> 0:32:11.320
<v Speaker 1>He only want the booty. He's just gonna dog you out.

0:32:11.440 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, Grid is nice girl. Whatever. He really

0:32:15.160 --> 0:32:16.800
<v Speaker 1>did turn out to be like, uh, he was a

0:32:16.880 --> 0:32:18.520
<v Speaker 1>nice guy. We went through a lot of bullshit, but

0:32:19.000 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 1>really really a nice guy. Like you know, he was

0:32:22.400 --> 0:32:23.880
<v Speaker 1>different than most of the guys. I mean, you know

0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 1>how you meet a guy then just go off, don't

0:32:25.920 --> 0:32:28.040
<v Speaker 1>call you for a while. Now, he called me every

0:32:28.120 --> 0:32:30.400
<v Speaker 1>day every morning while he was on his way to work.

0:32:30.640 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, he made sure I was okay all the time,

0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 1>Like he started paying tuition it at school. You know,

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:41.040
<v Speaker 1>sure I was okay. It wasn't like yeah, it wasn't

0:32:41.040 --> 0:32:42.360
<v Speaker 1>like he was just trigger like all of me bout

0:32:42.360 --> 0:32:44.959
<v Speaker 1>you this bag, but make sure I was okay. And

0:32:45.000 --> 0:32:46.920
<v Speaker 1>I liked that about him, Like when we went on dates,

0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:48.320
<v Speaker 1>I had a car, but he would still come pick

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:50.480
<v Speaker 1>me up. He was always on time. He was just

0:32:50.520 --> 0:32:52.800
<v Speaker 1>like such a gentleman. And believe it, I'm like, for

0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:54.959
<v Speaker 1>when did y'all make it a fishal like, how did

0:32:55.000 --> 0:32:58.160
<v Speaker 1>you know? We didn't make it a fishing for a while.

0:32:58.280 --> 0:32:59.880
<v Speaker 1>We didn't make an a fishing for a while, because

0:32:59.880 --> 0:33:01.920
<v Speaker 1>it was just like I wasn't stupid, like you know

0:33:01.920 --> 0:33:03.719
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, I don't know what you got going on.

0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:07.760
<v Speaker 1>I know you young, right, but it was just like

0:33:08.160 --> 0:33:11.480
<v Speaker 1>we was just feeling each other a whole lot. Um,

0:33:11.680 --> 0:33:13.239
<v Speaker 1>Mike had a baby on the way. He can tell

0:33:13.280 --> 0:33:15.160
<v Speaker 1>me about the baby on the way, Get the funk

0:33:15.200 --> 0:33:17.680
<v Speaker 1>out of here. Yes he was. He waiting to see

0:33:17.680 --> 0:33:23.440
<v Speaker 1>if it was his. No, nothing, guys got that's great.

0:33:24.920 --> 0:33:27.640
<v Speaker 1>Never we've never talked about that before. But he might have.

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:30.280
<v Speaker 1>Let's wait to the baby's born because I might not

0:33:30.400 --> 0:33:33.280
<v Speaker 1>have to tell another He just said, like I I

0:33:33.400 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 1>just thought I was gonna be sucking you, and you know,

0:33:35.360 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 1>I just thought that was it. I didn't really had

0:33:36.800 --> 0:33:40.080
<v Speaker 1>to tell you my business. But damn pretty much. She

0:33:40.240 --> 0:33:42.760
<v Speaker 1>was like the rest of him pretty much. And then

0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:44.440
<v Speaker 1>like he told me like maybe a month before the

0:33:44.480 --> 0:33:46.360
<v Speaker 1>baby was born. I was so hurt. He was like,

0:33:46.440 --> 0:33:47.880
<v Speaker 1>because you told me you ain't want no guy to

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:49.680
<v Speaker 1>hand no baby mom. I was like, I don't, like

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:54.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm young I still don't want it bullshit? And did

0:33:54.360 --> 0:33:58.160
<v Speaker 1>you and the baby mama ever have like be for anything? Yeah,

0:33:58.200 --> 0:34:00.160
<v Speaker 1>we went because he was lying the both of you.

0:34:00.880 --> 0:34:02.680
<v Speaker 1>He was still young, he was still playing that game.

0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:05.000
<v Speaker 1>And it was like we were together like every day,

0:34:05.040 --> 0:34:07.240
<v Speaker 1>like our first day he took me to Hawaii. What

0:34:07.880 --> 0:34:12.239
<v Speaker 1>I asked? What she did to the whoa? What did

0:34:12.280 --> 0:34:15.960
<v Speaker 1>you do in the best? Not mean that? That was

0:34:16.120 --> 0:34:19.839
<v Speaker 1>so me? What happened in the bathroom? All right? So

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:24.319
<v Speaker 1>we away for seven days, my first going away with him,

0:34:24.360 --> 0:34:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Like I gotta go to the bathroom. Gosh, ship that

0:34:27.960 --> 0:34:31.840
<v Speaker 1>feeling head bubbo guts. It's like three We've been drinking

0:34:31.920 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 1>all day every time, Like all right, this nigga sleep.

0:34:36.719 --> 0:34:39.560
<v Speaker 1>So I going to the bathroom, do what I had

0:34:39.560 --> 0:34:48.120
<v Speaker 1>to do. Why the toilet don't flush? Keep out? You know,

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:50.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to pour water down this. It's not going

0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:52.560
<v Speaker 1>when you're trying to lift up the thing on the top.

0:34:53.360 --> 0:35:01.560
<v Speaker 1>You okay, I I gotta go for the bathroom. And

0:35:01.800 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 1>he's like, what's wrong. I'm like, you know what's wrong?

0:35:04.600 --> 0:35:10.920
<v Speaker 1>You smell what's wrong? Busting a laughing. So he called

0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 1>the maintenance man. To maintenance man come and he thinks

0:35:13.000 --> 0:35:14.440
<v Speaker 1>its toll and the whole time of mating his man,

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:19.160
<v Speaker 1>and he like, she broke this toll so embarrassed, I'd

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:20.840
<v Speaker 1>have been like, I don't know who was it here before?

0:35:23.480 --> 0:35:25.320
<v Speaker 1>After that point, I'm just like I could do anything

0:35:25.320 --> 0:35:27.320
<v Speaker 1>in front of him. Just tyle, just start the shooting.

0:35:27.320 --> 0:35:30.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm ship, I don't know who you use this toilet befus,

0:35:30.160 --> 0:35:35.279
<v Speaker 1>you need to get our money back. Awful? Can you

0:35:35.320 --> 0:35:40.920
<v Speaker 1>imagine I was sweating around from like, that's all you

0:35:41.000 --> 0:35:44.719
<v Speaker 1>supposed a courtesy flesh, that's what you get. You would

0:35:44.760 --> 0:35:47.399
<v Speaker 1>have known. She would have known at least mid ship

0:35:49.280 --> 0:35:55.120
<v Speaker 1>should you can't tell it man, ship ship to give

0:35:55.160 --> 0:36:00.080
<v Speaker 1>it up. Tammy Rivera stopped through a lip service. So

0:36:00.239 --> 0:36:02.480
<v Speaker 1>this was her first time on the show, and she's

0:36:02.480 --> 0:36:04.840
<v Speaker 1>a real sweetheart, but she really gave us some insight

0:36:05.160 --> 0:36:08.640
<v Speaker 1>into her relationships in her own personal life. Normally we

0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:10.000
<v Speaker 1>start off with the tip of the day, but we

0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:13.359
<v Speaker 1>didn't start so we're gonna get to that right now. Alright, So,

0:36:14.000 --> 0:36:16.480
<v Speaker 1>uh now, we get this question all the time from guys.

0:36:16.520 --> 0:36:18.840
<v Speaker 1>We have this advice thing that we do, and people

0:36:18.880 --> 0:36:20.680
<v Speaker 1>want to ask, how do you get your girl back

0:36:20.719 --> 0:36:23.560
<v Speaker 1>after you cheated? What works and what doesn't work because

0:36:23.560 --> 0:36:25.880
<v Speaker 1>there's so many guys out there that mess up and

0:36:25.960 --> 0:36:27.640
<v Speaker 1>don't know, like what can I do to get my

0:36:27.680 --> 0:36:30.480
<v Speaker 1>girl back? And we get this question like NonStop, So

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:33.000
<v Speaker 1>let's talk about that for all of us. When somebody

0:36:33.080 --> 0:36:35.200
<v Speaker 1>cheating you and we know you got cheated on and

0:36:35.440 --> 0:36:44.920
<v Speaker 1>but you still damn angel anybody in this room, but

0:36:45.040 --> 0:36:47.480
<v Speaker 1>we all but we all have been you know, honestly,

0:36:47.520 --> 0:36:50.640
<v Speaker 1>yours was just very public obviously, But what does work

0:36:50.640 --> 0:36:53.040
<v Speaker 1>because there's a lot of guys who mess up, right

0:36:53.080 --> 0:36:55.160
<v Speaker 1>and they're girl is like, I'm not working with you anymore.

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:57.439
<v Speaker 1>But what works and what doesn't work when it comes

0:36:57.480 --> 0:37:01.239
<v Speaker 1>to getting your girl back? For me personally, I would say,

0:37:01.480 --> 0:37:05.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's what they do. It's really I mean,

0:37:05.800 --> 0:37:07.640
<v Speaker 1>it can be what they do, but it's really a

0:37:07.680 --> 0:37:12.279
<v Speaker 1>woman knows, like really if she's just completely done, Like

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:16.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm a leo, I'm loyal to by default, but when

0:37:16.760 --> 0:37:21.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm completely done, I'm like done. Um, which when I

0:37:21.080 --> 0:37:24.319
<v Speaker 1>when we separated, I was just like I was like like,

0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 1>just don't come back, don't come my house, like just

0:37:26.239 --> 0:37:30.000
<v Speaker 1>leave me alone. Like he was not go away. He

0:37:30.120 --> 0:37:32.920
<v Speaker 1>was coming to that. Yeah, he would not go away

0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:35.040
<v Speaker 1>and then not even let him. I said, Okay, this

0:37:35.080 --> 0:37:36.480
<v Speaker 1>is what I'm gonna do to get him go away.

0:37:36.480 --> 0:37:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna let him come in here, and I'm gonna

0:37:38.640 --> 0:37:40.920
<v Speaker 1>let him mess itself up. So I just kept my

0:37:40.920 --> 0:37:43.120
<v Speaker 1>wall up. I was just like, I want the first

0:37:43.120 --> 0:37:46.240
<v Speaker 1>thing he did and getting the funk out, he wouldn't.

0:37:46.239 --> 0:37:47.799
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was so consistent. I thought it was

0:37:47.840 --> 0:37:50.200
<v Speaker 1>a Yeah, I thought it was an act. I was

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:52.279
<v Speaker 1>so mean to the point that everybody was like, yo,

0:37:52.840 --> 0:37:55.000
<v Speaker 1>you're really being like You're really a bit like and

0:37:55.000 --> 0:37:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not like that. I can see you being mean,

0:37:57.600 --> 0:38:00.239
<v Speaker 1>Like what's mean? Yeah, girl, I was just I just

0:38:00.239 --> 0:38:02.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't care, like I would just say anything, do anything.

0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:04.200
<v Speaker 1>I was just then he was like damn. And I

0:38:04.280 --> 0:38:06.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, when you can get the funk out? Yeah,

0:38:06.680 --> 0:38:09.120
<v Speaker 1>like you know, and he would just eat it like

0:38:09.160 --> 0:38:20.560
<v Speaker 1>he was just constant, and he just came. I know.

0:38:20.600 --> 0:38:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't even touched me like he had to say, Charlie.

0:38:23.440 --> 0:38:25.719
<v Speaker 1>I just didn't want nothing to do with him. I

0:38:25.760 --> 0:38:28.319
<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm like, I'm just done. I was trying

0:38:28.320 --> 0:38:30.799
<v Speaker 1>to find reasons. I'm like, maybe I'm real nasty, mean,

0:38:31.280 --> 0:38:33.640
<v Speaker 1>He'll leave and then he was just like because when

0:38:33.640 --> 0:38:35.880
<v Speaker 1>we separated, I the last thing I told him was,

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:38.759
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I promise, I said, I swear to God,

0:38:38.840 --> 0:38:41.480
<v Speaker 1>on my child's life, I would never love you the same.

0:38:41.920 --> 0:38:44.200
<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's done. So that stuck in my head.

0:38:44.239 --> 0:38:45.680
<v Speaker 1>Was like a lot of him, like a lot of myself.

0:38:45.719 --> 0:38:47.360
<v Speaker 1>I can't a lot of God, you know, not on

0:38:47.400 --> 0:38:49.120
<v Speaker 1>my child. But I was so angry at the moment.

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:50.560
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I promised to God, I would never

0:38:50.560 --> 0:38:52.120
<v Speaker 1>love you, just saying so when he came back and

0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:53.440
<v Speaker 1>I was and he was like, one day we got

0:38:53.440 --> 0:38:55.160
<v Speaker 1>into and I was like, listen, I meant what I

0:38:55.200 --> 0:38:57.000
<v Speaker 1>was saying there, like I would never love you the same.

0:38:57.280 --> 0:38:58.560
<v Speaker 1>And he was like, I know you won't. He's like,

0:38:58.560 --> 0:39:05.880
<v Speaker 1>because you won't love me more life. He practiced that.

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:09.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like this she told me. He like, and

0:39:09.680 --> 0:39:11.799
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing I can say cause I'm like, well, if

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:14.279
<v Speaker 1>I do love him, and which in the end ended

0:39:14.320 --> 0:39:17.080
<v Speaker 1>up happening, like and part of it is your daughter

0:39:17.120 --> 0:39:19.080
<v Speaker 1>because they had such a great relationship and he's really

0:39:19.120 --> 0:39:20.600
<v Speaker 1>it made it so hard for you to be like

0:39:20.640 --> 0:39:22.960
<v Speaker 1>because she was like telling you, yeah, she I mean,

0:39:23.040 --> 0:39:25.680
<v Speaker 1>she don't see no no wrong. In him, like she

0:39:25.719 --> 0:39:28.279
<v Speaker 1>loves him to death. But what I can't say is

0:39:28.360 --> 0:39:31.919
<v Speaker 1>even throughout our whole separation, he's like never he picked

0:39:31.960 --> 0:39:34.400
<v Speaker 1>her up from school, he dropped her off and everybody

0:39:34.400 --> 0:39:37.440
<v Speaker 1>know that's not his biological child, but that, I mean,

0:39:38.520 --> 0:39:42.279
<v Speaker 1>there is no blood, couldn't make them, you know. So

0:39:42.400 --> 0:39:44.920
<v Speaker 1>that's interesting because you told you let him come. Now,

0:39:44.960 --> 0:39:46.480
<v Speaker 1>this is something that guys have to learn when they

0:39:46.600 --> 0:39:49.839
<v Speaker 1>sunk up. If I let you back in, don't do

0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:51.799
<v Speaker 1>nothing wrong, and just understand the fact that I'm gonna

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:59.240
<v Speaker 1>treat you like shit. Yeah yeah, but you know, sometimes

0:39:59.280 --> 0:40:03.600
<v Speaker 1>when you're so damage that don't work down there, like

0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:05.840
<v Speaker 1>it like how you said it. Now you're saying it.

0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:12.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm confused. She was saying, take it somewhere else now

0:40:13.960 --> 0:40:17.000
<v Speaker 1>the shop. Sometimes that don't work. No, they don't like me.

0:40:17.120 --> 0:40:20.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm not gonna come. I don't care what

0:40:20.360 --> 0:40:26.839
<v Speaker 1>you're going Jody, I'm not gonna I love you. Even

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:29.120
<v Speaker 1>have an attitude when you're having sex and you're mad

0:40:29.120 --> 0:40:32.719
<v Speaker 1>as hell, like I'm just sucking lay hair. I'm gonna

0:40:32.719 --> 0:40:37.960
<v Speaker 1>say I'm not making annoy next thing, though you forgive me.

0:40:42.160 --> 0:40:44.719
<v Speaker 1>He's like, you gotta say I don't catch my nug

0:40:46.600 --> 0:40:51.959
<v Speaker 1>rude like I don't care. I don't care, I need

0:40:51.960 --> 0:40:56.200
<v Speaker 1>it now. What doesn't work if you have to give

0:40:56.200 --> 0:40:58.879
<v Speaker 1>guy's advice, like for when they're trying to get back

0:40:58.920 --> 0:41:03.680
<v Speaker 1>after they sucked up. It doesn't work blaming telling me

0:41:03.680 --> 0:41:07.360
<v Speaker 1>what I did wrong? Right? Yeah, yeah, trying up because

0:41:07.440 --> 0:41:09.920
<v Speaker 1>during that time you was you would talk to do

0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:15.040
<v Speaker 1>don't want it nothing? Bring up the old ship before

0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:18.399
<v Speaker 1>I met you. You you know, you know you love me.

0:41:18.480 --> 0:41:24.040
<v Speaker 1>So we're just gonna get through this. Yeah, exactly, all right,

0:41:24.040 --> 0:41:26.480
<v Speaker 1>So excuses does not work. You gotta just admit I

0:41:26.560 --> 0:41:28.759
<v Speaker 1>sucked up and just take it and don't blame shit

0:41:28.920 --> 0:41:30.799
<v Speaker 1>on me. Don't blame I don't give a damn if

0:41:30.920 --> 0:41:33.080
<v Speaker 1>what it was, don't play Okay, we had sex and

0:41:33.120 --> 0:41:35.560
<v Speaker 1>too much. Don't tell me why Chico you won't give

0:41:35.600 --> 0:41:38.600
<v Speaker 1>me no pussy. I don't care, I want hit nothing.

0:41:39.160 --> 0:41:47.920
<v Speaker 1>But that is kind of sucked up? All right? What

0:41:47.960 --> 0:41:51.200
<v Speaker 1>else doesn't work? Um? And what? All right? No we

0:41:51.200 --> 0:41:53.480
<v Speaker 1>didn't finish. What does work because you said basically he

0:41:53.520 --> 0:41:56.759
<v Speaker 1>was very consistent. He said, was in contact obviously, you know,

0:41:57.080 --> 0:41:59.279
<v Speaker 1>with your daughter and picking her up and doing all

0:41:59.320 --> 0:42:01.640
<v Speaker 1>of that stuff, And is letting you treat him like ship. Yeah,

0:42:01.760 --> 0:42:05.560
<v Speaker 1>he just won't go away, Okay, but he really he

0:42:05.840 --> 0:42:10.640
<v Speaker 1>really changed, Like I can't show improved like he ye,

0:42:10.800 --> 0:42:13.600
<v Speaker 1>you really have to like consistently like change, like he

0:42:13.800 --> 0:42:16.160
<v Speaker 1>really changed. Like the guy he is now is not

0:42:16.320 --> 0:42:19.440
<v Speaker 1>the guy that he was like a minute. He's changed

0:42:19.480 --> 0:42:20.960
<v Speaker 1>and it was suck to put in all that work

0:42:21.000 --> 0:42:25.160
<v Speaker 1>for somebody else to benefit. But I think sometimes you

0:42:25.200 --> 0:42:27.840
<v Speaker 1>can't think like that. You just be like so like

0:42:27.880 --> 0:42:29.279
<v Speaker 1>I used to think like that, like I ain't gonna

0:42:29.280 --> 0:42:32.560
<v Speaker 1>liket the benefit. I'm girl. I got to like girl

0:42:32.560 --> 0:42:39.000
<v Speaker 1>having it, have everything you want, my shoes all because

0:42:39.080 --> 0:42:41.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm done because we've all taken back and cheating guys

0:42:41.920 --> 0:42:46.200
<v Speaker 1>so lurial. Oh god, what worked well? Work for you?

0:42:47.360 --> 0:42:49.400
<v Speaker 1>Because we're giving these guys advice because maybe some of

0:42:49.440 --> 0:42:52.600
<v Speaker 1>them are changing too, that are listening. I think, like

0:42:52.640 --> 0:42:55.879
<v Speaker 1>you sat being consistent, Like that's a big key. It's

0:42:55.960 --> 0:42:58.000
<v Speaker 1>like if you keep trying to show that you care,

0:42:58.120 --> 0:43:00.520
<v Speaker 1>you change you and not even that you change, because

0:43:00.560 --> 0:43:03.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that somebody's gonna change just in one day,

0:43:03.560 --> 0:43:06.200
<v Speaker 1>one week, that you're willing to change, that you're gonna

0:43:06.239 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 1>put in an effort you know what I mean something

0:43:08.640 --> 0:43:12.560
<v Speaker 1>like that, Like everybody makes mistakes, so you can't expect

0:43:12.560 --> 0:43:15.799
<v Speaker 1>somebody to never do nothing wrong. But at the same time,

0:43:15.880 --> 0:43:18.839
<v Speaker 1>I think it's like the main thing is like, all right,

0:43:18.880 --> 0:43:21.520
<v Speaker 1>they might have cheated or whatever, but we're they're disrespecting

0:43:21.560 --> 0:43:25.160
<v Speaker 1>you in a way where it's like, all right, you

0:43:25.160 --> 0:43:27.400
<v Speaker 1>you could find a picture, or you could find it this,

0:43:27.560 --> 0:43:29.759
<v Speaker 1>or you could find I know, that's what makes it.

0:43:29.920 --> 0:43:31.640
<v Speaker 1>I think that's what makes it works for us, because

0:43:31.640 --> 0:43:34.240
<v Speaker 1>if we find out something that maybe they sucked somebody

0:43:34.239 --> 0:43:37.120
<v Speaker 1>when they was on the boys trip, you know last

0:43:37.200 --> 0:43:40.279
<v Speaker 1>year was one of the boys, not one of the

0:43:40.320 --> 0:43:46.640
<v Speaker 1>boys trip. First of all, he don't never have to

0:43:46.680 --> 0:43:50.520
<v Speaker 1>call me again. Ain't no forgiving that, bro. So okay,

0:43:50.560 --> 0:43:54.560
<v Speaker 1>you can't forget boy, you know. But you know there's

0:43:54.640 --> 0:43:56.319
<v Speaker 1>some women that take men back when they found out

0:43:56.320 --> 0:43:59.560
<v Speaker 1>that they with other guys are transgender. It's different. See. No,

0:44:00.200 --> 0:44:04.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't think he talked about that Insecure incident a

0:44:04.160 --> 0:44:09.560
<v Speaker 1>little bit when he said he did something in college. Boy. Yeah,

0:44:10.120 --> 0:44:14.800
<v Speaker 1>that's a void, Damien, like one time, so like you

0:44:14.800 --> 0:44:17.680
<v Speaker 1>you and mess with him no more? Hell no, but

0:44:17.760 --> 0:44:21.239
<v Speaker 1>that was mad long ago. He never did nothing again. No,

0:44:21.760 --> 0:44:24.359
<v Speaker 1>I just want to can't do that. I don't want

0:44:24.360 --> 0:44:27.040
<v Speaker 1>to be in that situation. So I don't even because nigga,

0:44:27.080 --> 0:44:29.080
<v Speaker 1>you you like, I don't care what you say you

0:44:29.160 --> 0:44:32.040
<v Speaker 1>liked it, because a man I can't do for you. Man,

0:44:32.360 --> 0:44:35.080
<v Speaker 1>A man knows how they like. They think, you know

0:44:35.520 --> 0:44:37.600
<v Speaker 1>the But what if it was like I didn't really

0:44:37.600 --> 0:44:43.759
<v Speaker 1>like him? Man? That beard was may No. You know

0:44:43.800 --> 0:44:47.360
<v Speaker 1>that's my br my best rapper friend. And Mayo always

0:44:47.400 --> 0:44:50.000
<v Speaker 1>stirs up some issues, you know how he is. He

0:44:50.080 --> 0:44:52.480
<v Speaker 1>does not hold this tongue and he talks crazy, but

0:44:52.600 --> 0:44:55.000
<v Speaker 1>so does Louriale. Check it out. We live in a

0:44:55.080 --> 0:44:59.560
<v Speaker 1>time where it's like everything is super hyper, everything is right,

0:44:59.680 --> 0:45:02.799
<v Speaker 1>every think, everybody wants it right now. So I'm saying, like,

0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:06.480
<v Speaker 1>what's wrong with doing certain things that that keep your

0:45:06.520 --> 0:45:09.000
<v Speaker 1>man happy? But if you're not happy with it? Right?

0:45:09.200 --> 0:45:13.960
<v Speaker 1>So females not happy with it? Yeah, should be the

0:45:14.000 --> 0:45:16.360
<v Speaker 1>female should be happy with the other woman where she

0:45:16.400 --> 0:45:23.359
<v Speaker 1>should be happy. You should be happy year, but she's

0:45:23.360 --> 0:45:26.520
<v Speaker 1>not happy with it. It's not up for discussion, and

0:45:26.520 --> 0:45:28.360
<v Speaker 1>that's it is what it is, right. So when the

0:45:28.480 --> 0:45:30.440
<v Speaker 1>niggare going out and getting it for something else, you know,

0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:37.480
<v Speaker 1>understand what options. But I'm saying you even gotta a

0:45:37.520 --> 0:45:42.000
<v Speaker 1>bit with you may be happy with it. Yeah, that's

0:45:42.000 --> 0:45:45.120
<v Speaker 1>the option whether you get on. But you know, to

0:45:45.239 --> 0:45:48.920
<v Speaker 1>each her, but you know to each and each on

0:45:49.000 --> 0:45:51.319
<v Speaker 1>her own. You know, there might be a woman that's like,

0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:54.759
<v Speaker 1>you know what, He's right, it's just one husband, you know,

0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:56.759
<v Speaker 1>even though we don't agree, you know what I mean,

0:45:57.440 --> 0:46:03.920
<v Speaker 1>likes girls. You doesn't mind, right, dad, But I'm just saying,

0:46:04.080 --> 0:46:07.160
<v Speaker 1>like to each other to live service that I fucking

0:46:07.200 --> 0:46:11.400
<v Speaker 1>bitch here Still your face look like not but the

0:46:11.440 --> 0:46:13.960
<v Speaker 1>relationship with your man, like you bring a girl home

0:46:14.000 --> 0:46:21.319
<v Speaker 1>every now and then. Right of course she likes growing up.

0:46:21.800 --> 0:46:24.000
<v Speaker 1>It's something that I like. If it wasn't something that

0:46:24.040 --> 0:46:28.360
<v Speaker 1>I liked, then we wouldn't be doing it exactly exactly,

0:46:29.239 --> 0:46:31.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing it. I must be childish. I don't

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:36.120
<v Speaker 1>like girls. That's childish because I don't want to. I

0:46:36.120 --> 0:46:38.880
<v Speaker 1>don't like girls, and I'm very possessive about my ship,

0:46:39.000 --> 0:46:42.279
<v Speaker 1>so I don't want to see my man girl. Reason

0:46:42.360 --> 0:46:44.320
<v Speaker 1>like that goes wrong, I have a question and the

0:46:45.239 --> 0:46:47.239
<v Speaker 1>ends up sucking the other girl behind your back or

0:46:47.280 --> 0:46:51.240
<v Speaker 1>thinking that he could do that. When that does happen.

0:46:51.280 --> 0:46:53.239
<v Speaker 1>But you gotta, you gotta, you gotta first of you'll

0:46:53.320 --> 0:46:55.800
<v Speaker 1>let your girl run it. You gotta let her run it.

0:46:55.800 --> 0:46:59.120
<v Speaker 1>You gotta let her pick. It's her decision, it's her show.

0:46:59.600 --> 0:47:01.160
<v Speaker 1>And what is He's like, I'm not with it anymore.

0:47:02.280 --> 0:47:07.920
<v Speaker 1>But that's what happens with these relationships. But don't get

0:47:07.920 --> 0:47:11.200
<v Speaker 1>married when I going again, That's what I'm saying, Like,

0:47:11.239 --> 0:47:13.200
<v Speaker 1>why is that okay for y'all? But it's not okay

0:47:13.200 --> 0:47:18.239
<v Speaker 1>for us? That's just so hypothetical. There's whole situations. It

0:47:18.320 --> 0:47:22.960
<v Speaker 1>can't only be good when it's in your favorite What

0:47:23.000 --> 0:47:27.160
<v Speaker 1>did she be like? I like my spell backwards dog?

0:47:30.120 --> 0:47:32.080
<v Speaker 1>What does she like? I like? What does she says?

0:47:32.160 --> 0:47:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I like my pupsy and by multiple guys like you

0:47:35.000 --> 0:47:37.440
<v Speaker 1>do it for me, but not like how this guy

0:47:37.600 --> 0:47:44.360
<v Speaker 1>does what you'd be like? Ahead, get your rights with

0:47:44.360 --> 0:47:48.080
<v Speaker 1>other women when you're not around. In that case, I

0:47:48.080 --> 0:47:50.600
<v Speaker 1>will say some ship like let's just get one main

0:47:51.040 --> 0:47:53.799
<v Speaker 1>extra girlfriend and like that would just be our girlfriend,

0:47:54.239 --> 0:47:56.719
<v Speaker 1>all right? So why did that make you feel better

0:47:56.760 --> 0:48:00.520
<v Speaker 1>than if you could multiple women? Why can't she I'm

0:48:00.520 --> 0:48:02.440
<v Speaker 1>not saying she can't. No, no, no, no, no, I'm

0:48:02.480 --> 0:48:04.840
<v Speaker 1>a fucking if we told about if I'm in a relationship,

0:48:04.880 --> 0:48:06.920
<v Speaker 1>but my fucking multiple women, I fucking women only with

0:48:07.080 --> 0:48:11.440
<v Speaker 1>hall what that it's multiple? You could watch me and

0:48:11.520 --> 0:48:15.160
<v Speaker 1>her I like to watch, but you can't touch the

0:48:15.160 --> 0:48:17.680
<v Speaker 1>other woman. Sometimes that might that might be interesting, that

0:48:17.760 --> 0:48:21.680
<v Speaker 1>might be just the vibe for that night. No perfect, Huh,

0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:24.160
<v Speaker 1>that ain't that's not that's too hypothetical and it's not

0:48:24.160 --> 0:48:30.680
<v Speaker 1>really hard because what are you about to do? Jack Hypothetically,

0:48:31.160 --> 0:48:35.239
<v Speaker 1>if the girl wanted to funk with another girl, like

0:48:35.360 --> 0:48:37.880
<v Speaker 1>let me, I think that that's a conversation. It's like like,

0:48:37.960 --> 0:48:39.920
<v Speaker 1>let's say you oversees on tour or something for a

0:48:39.920 --> 0:48:42.000
<v Speaker 1>few weeks and she got a little a little itch

0:48:42.080 --> 0:48:43.799
<v Speaker 1>they need to be scratched, and she called you and say,

0:48:43.840 --> 0:48:48.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm yeah, she got it. That's scary the doctor that

0:48:48.840 --> 0:48:53.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm about and Timiko don't come over here, And I think,

0:48:53.320 --> 0:48:57.600
<v Speaker 1>I think, is that a different way? But that was

0:48:57.680 --> 0:49:00.920
<v Speaker 1>just a bad that's a bad mind you hear what

0:49:00.960 --> 0:49:04.640
<v Speaker 1>she's saying though, I think that mind you wait and

0:49:04.640 --> 0:49:06.560
<v Speaker 1>it's a bitch that y'all already. Yeah, I think I

0:49:06.560 --> 0:49:09.600
<v Speaker 1>could do that somebody she allows you to do and

0:49:09.640 --> 0:49:12.040
<v Speaker 1>then and you you're going and you can't handle hug

0:49:12.080 --> 0:49:13.759
<v Speaker 1>because you don't know where here to handle her and

0:49:13.760 --> 0:49:15.520
<v Speaker 1>she needs to be handled. And she go and called

0:49:15.560 --> 0:49:17.000
<v Speaker 1>one of the bitches that she brought over for you.

0:49:17.560 --> 0:49:19.640
<v Speaker 1>I think I think I could do that. But what

0:49:19.680 --> 0:49:21.160
<v Speaker 1>if you think, are you know? Yeah? I think I

0:49:21.440 --> 0:49:25.320
<v Speaker 1>think I've never been posed with that question but that before,

0:49:25.640 --> 0:49:27.160
<v Speaker 1>and I think I could do that. I think I

0:49:27.160 --> 0:49:29.640
<v Speaker 1>can say, you know what? All right? Just the on

0:49:29.719 --> 0:49:33.879
<v Speaker 1>FaceTime put on. You got to know the girl, because

0:49:35.320 --> 0:49:37.120
<v Speaker 1>the only way to stink type, the only way like

0:49:37.160 --> 0:49:42.400
<v Speaker 1>that worst is honestly and openness. Man, this is my guy, Plies. Now.

0:49:42.440 --> 0:49:44.560
<v Speaker 1>We played a little game with him pumper or dumper,

0:49:45.080 --> 0:49:47.319
<v Speaker 1>and he pretty much wanted to pump any woman no

0:49:47.360 --> 0:49:49.279
<v Speaker 1>matter what. Here's some of what he had to say.

0:49:49.600 --> 0:49:51.480
<v Speaker 1>All right, So back to the question. She doesn't have

0:49:51.520 --> 0:49:56.160
<v Speaker 1>any female friends, you say, pumping? All right, you gotta

0:49:56.200 --> 0:49:58.000
<v Speaker 1>give her a hug in the club and she got

0:49:58.040 --> 0:50:03.440
<v Speaker 1>on a waste trainer. You can feel it's there, anybody,

0:50:03.760 --> 0:50:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Why are you working, Clive? It don't matter we ask it.

0:50:09.480 --> 0:50:13.200
<v Speaker 1>If we do wear them, we're definitely not wearing them.

0:50:13.280 --> 0:50:15.320
<v Speaker 1>It depends if I met him and she had the

0:50:15.360 --> 0:50:18.640
<v Speaker 1>waist train on. She gotta keep it on like forever.

0:50:18.760 --> 0:50:20.799
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean if I'm pomping on? You gotta

0:50:20.840 --> 0:50:22.319
<v Speaker 1>keep because I feel like if I meet you and

0:50:22.320 --> 0:50:25.440
<v Speaker 1>you got on the waist trainer, I'm infatuated with how

0:50:25.520 --> 0:50:28.120
<v Speaker 1>I see you. So if it's because you got a

0:50:28.200 --> 0:50:30.759
<v Speaker 1>waste train on, is why you look appealing to me?

0:50:30.880 --> 0:50:36.680
<v Speaker 1>Then you shoulder She got damn right, she wanted. Now

0:50:36.719 --> 0:50:41.200
<v Speaker 1>you gotta get. No I got, But I feel like

0:50:42.480 --> 0:50:45.040
<v Speaker 1>looking at a waste trainers like hugging a cop. You

0:50:45.080 --> 0:50:47.520
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? When you like us, I think

0:50:47.520 --> 0:50:49.640
<v Speaker 1>you're afraid that when you let the waist trainer, she's

0:50:49.640 --> 0:50:55.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna exclude about it. If they start shooting. You could

0:50:55.239 --> 0:51:06.480
<v Speaker 1>throw it right always and you'll save my life. Additional pumper,

0:51:07.320 --> 0:51:10.799
<v Speaker 1>you gotta keep it on if you always trying. Y'all

0:51:10.800 --> 0:51:12.520
<v Speaker 1>cool with me? We wear them around the house. We

0:51:12.520 --> 0:51:15.279
<v Speaker 1>don't wear them. Don't wear them like you know when

0:51:15.320 --> 0:51:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I got a little swell on the side,

0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:21.600
<v Speaker 1>like one of my life poles are swelling up on

0:51:21.640 --> 0:51:31.160
<v Speaker 1>the side some other ones. But what you guys do

0:51:31.200 --> 0:51:33.400
<v Speaker 1>when they want to hide stuff like we have all

0:51:33.480 --> 0:51:36.719
<v Speaker 1>kinds of things. We got booty pops, we got waste trainers,

0:51:36.880 --> 0:51:39.800
<v Speaker 1>we got makeup, we got we we got everything. What

0:51:39.920 --> 0:51:42.440
<v Speaker 1>y'all do? I mean? I guess you. I guess it

0:51:42.560 --> 0:51:44.200
<v Speaker 1>very depending on what it is you're trying to hide.

0:51:44.239 --> 0:51:46.880
<v Speaker 1>But with me, like I said, I'm pretty much a

0:51:46.920 --> 0:51:49.479
<v Speaker 1>straight shooter, but you know, I feel like the waste

0:51:49.480 --> 0:51:52.279
<v Speaker 1>trainer thing is damn me. Waist trainers by the way,

0:51:52.480 --> 0:51:56.840
<v Speaker 1>done in the middle with the trainer, I think guys, Um, no,

0:51:56.960 --> 0:52:00.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying you guys were hats. It's because o

0:52:00.239 --> 0:52:04.160
<v Speaker 1>their hair. Okay, that's like a waste trainer. Yeah. Yeah,

0:52:04.200 --> 0:52:06.719
<v Speaker 1>for me, I think I've always been I think since

0:52:06.760 --> 0:52:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I was probably like thirteen fourteen, I always feel like

0:52:09.560 --> 0:52:14.799
<v Speaker 1>the hat complimented there. But yeah, I used to know it. Well,

0:52:14.960 --> 0:52:16.560
<v Speaker 1>not used to because I still know this guy, But

0:52:16.760 --> 0:52:21.160
<v Speaker 1>I know a guy I'm familiar. He would always wear

0:52:21.320 --> 0:52:23.600
<v Speaker 1>like a hoodie or like a jacket to how this

0:52:23.680 --> 0:52:26.600
<v Speaker 1>muffin top did he have himps to go with them?

0:52:27.800 --> 0:52:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Guys got their bodies most tops, and he always kept

0:52:31.680 --> 0:52:33.600
<v Speaker 1>on the jacket or a hoodie. And I never could

0:52:33.680 --> 0:52:35.560
<v Speaker 1>understand why. Every time I saw him heeple have like

0:52:35.600 --> 0:52:37.440
<v Speaker 1>a jacket like this one or like a hoodie. And

0:52:37.440 --> 0:52:39.319
<v Speaker 1>then one time. They said that he couldn't wear it

0:52:39.320 --> 0:52:40.840
<v Speaker 1>in the club, and he said, I ain't going in

0:52:40.880 --> 0:52:47.960
<v Speaker 1>there was that big he sex of course when he

0:52:48.000 --> 0:52:50.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't mind the muffin tap if it was yo was alone, right,

0:52:51.080 --> 0:52:53.160
<v Speaker 1>but I ain't been in the club. Now, don't you

0:52:53.239 --> 0:52:55.840
<v Speaker 1>just wear a bigger T shirt? Why don't you just

0:52:55.840 --> 0:52:59.839
<v Speaker 1>think you're like oo? I don't know why, Hans just sorry, right,

0:53:01.880 --> 0:53:03.759
<v Speaker 1>But men don't do all the stuff that we do.

0:53:03.800 --> 0:53:05.680
<v Speaker 1>I feel like women don't care as much about how

0:53:05.680 --> 0:53:12.160
<v Speaker 1>men look like you still was I care? Yeah? What

0:53:12.200 --> 0:53:13.799
<v Speaker 1>have you been with you with a muffin top? I

0:53:13.840 --> 0:53:18.399
<v Speaker 1>think so you it's money important, Yeah, I looks are

0:53:18.440 --> 0:53:22.080
<v Speaker 1>important for me. I like my guys fit athletic bodies.

0:53:22.600 --> 0:53:24.279
<v Speaker 1>I work hard for my body. Not only do I

0:53:24.280 --> 0:53:31.320
<v Speaker 1>get classes surgery, but I start myself. That's the water,

0:53:32.200 --> 0:53:35.920
<v Speaker 1>just like it's money. And he said for us a

0:53:36.040 --> 0:53:39.279
<v Speaker 1>woman just in general. Yeah, I mean I'm not trying

0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:41.840
<v Speaker 1>to be in struggle mode with you know, struggle I

0:53:41.840 --> 0:53:44.719
<v Speaker 1>mean old for that. I mean, I'm not looking like

0:53:44.960 --> 0:53:47.200
<v Speaker 1>It's not one of the main things I'm looking for, Like, oh,

0:53:47.239 --> 0:53:49.640
<v Speaker 1>he has to be a millionaire to tat me. But

0:53:49.680 --> 0:53:51.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna allow you have to be joined at

0:53:52.400 --> 0:53:57.400
<v Speaker 1>the very least better than me, A very least I

0:53:57.400 --> 0:54:01.759
<v Speaker 1>would say this, Okay, I leave that money matters to

0:54:01.800 --> 0:54:03.640
<v Speaker 1>the point that you have to be doing something and

0:54:03.719 --> 0:54:06.879
<v Speaker 1>be somewhat ambitious and make some money, because I don't

0:54:06.880 --> 0:54:09.440
<v Speaker 1>want to take care of you if you don't have it.

0:54:09.600 --> 0:54:11.200
<v Speaker 1>You need to be able to take care of yourself.

0:54:11.320 --> 0:54:13.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't necessarily need you to take care of me,

0:54:14.160 --> 0:54:16.040
<v Speaker 1>but you need to be able to handle your own business.

0:54:16.040 --> 0:54:17.719
<v Speaker 1>Like you can't be asking me for money, like to

0:54:17.719 --> 0:54:20.480
<v Speaker 1>pay your because I agree. Like if you're an aspiring

0:54:20.560 --> 0:54:22.560
<v Speaker 1>rapper at the age of I don't know, thirty eight,

0:54:23.360 --> 0:54:26.239
<v Speaker 1>give up the struggle boot just you know, get a

0:54:26.320 --> 0:54:33.560
<v Speaker 1>job with benefits. But when you get a job with benefits,

0:54:33.680 --> 0:54:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not afraid of dating a bus driver or a garbageman, fireman,

0:54:38.160 --> 0:54:47.960
<v Speaker 1>garden station money to us, you want to be a catman,

0:54:49.200 --> 0:54:53.279
<v Speaker 1>but I want you to be a somewhat established trying

0:54:53.320 --> 0:54:55.640
<v Speaker 1>to be established, you know. And I feel like it's

0:54:55.760 --> 0:54:58.360
<v Speaker 1>very important, um the kind of guy that I do

0:54:58.600 --> 0:55:01.320
<v Speaker 1>to want a girl who's doing and well for herself.

0:55:01.680 --> 0:55:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't really like dating and guys that

0:55:03.920 --> 0:55:06.239
<v Speaker 1>are just tricks. They want to pick a girl up

0:55:06.239 --> 0:55:08.600
<v Speaker 1>from the strip club and take care of her. She

0:55:08.640 --> 0:55:15.560
<v Speaker 1>doesn't have to work anymore. You know, I was making good.

0:55:18.600 --> 0:55:23.319
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm just here, but you know, like

0:55:23.800 --> 0:55:25.920
<v Speaker 1>or even just pick up a girl and just like, oh,

0:55:26.200 --> 0:55:28.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, just a girl just regular, just doesn't have

0:55:28.920 --> 0:55:31.920
<v Speaker 1>a career, she doesn't do anything with herself and just

0:55:31.960 --> 0:55:33.840
<v Speaker 1>wants to take care of her. I feel like it

0:55:33.880 --> 0:55:36.520
<v Speaker 1>shows how am I. It shows a lot about a

0:55:36.640 --> 0:55:39.799
<v Speaker 1>man's thinking. You know that if he wants a girl

0:55:39.880 --> 0:55:42.360
<v Speaker 1>who's successful or not. We applies you have money, you

0:55:42.360 --> 0:55:44.719
<v Speaker 1>could take care of a little money. Ain't too much money.

0:55:45.080 --> 0:55:49.360
<v Speaker 1>We see all the doing me and everything. I mean money, okay,

0:55:49.360 --> 0:55:50.960
<v Speaker 1>but you could afford to take care of a woman

0:55:50.960 --> 0:55:52.279
<v Speaker 1>said she didn't have to work. I want to take

0:55:52.360 --> 0:55:54.759
<v Speaker 1>care of a woman person. I want to take care

0:55:54.760 --> 0:55:58.160
<v Speaker 1>of him. I won't no woman to have to work.

0:55:58.239 --> 0:56:00.239
<v Speaker 1>And I'm kind of I'm a little bit and when

0:56:00.280 --> 0:56:02.040
<v Speaker 1>it comes to that, I feel like, for me, I

0:56:02.160 --> 0:56:05.840
<v Speaker 1>just want you to spend your time looking good, keeping

0:56:05.840 --> 0:56:08.680
<v Speaker 1>me together. So I don't want no woman. I think

0:56:08.719 --> 0:56:11.640
<v Speaker 1>that might be just a little bit of the Southern Yeah,

0:56:11.680 --> 0:56:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I want to meet you. I want you to have

0:56:15.320 --> 0:56:17.400
<v Speaker 1>something going. I want you to being busious and you

0:56:17.440 --> 0:56:20.040
<v Speaker 1>know you you ain't gotta match me dollar for dollar.

0:56:20.200 --> 0:56:22.400
<v Speaker 1>But I don't want you to just know, but you

0:56:22.440 --> 0:56:26.440
<v Speaker 1>should want a mass of wand girl with ambitions and goals.

0:56:26.520 --> 0:56:28.279
<v Speaker 1>But then when what if she gets at you and

0:56:28.320 --> 0:56:31.080
<v Speaker 1>she's like, what tying a quick job? That's what I think.

0:56:31.120 --> 0:56:33.160
<v Speaker 1>That's awful, that's what he wants. I just want I

0:56:33.200 --> 0:56:37.400
<v Speaker 1>wanted when I meet you, but then but then I

0:56:37.440 --> 0:56:40.560
<v Speaker 1>got you. You You ain't got the ambision doesn't really work

0:56:40.640 --> 0:56:48.879
<v Speaker 1>that way. Though you can't want. I'm still I'm cool

0:56:48.880 --> 0:56:53.120
<v Speaker 1>with that. I'm cool her using me for what it

0:56:53.200 --> 0:56:55.240
<v Speaker 1>is that I do like I want to be to provide.

0:56:55.239 --> 0:56:56.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to go out and get it and bring

0:56:56.520 --> 0:56:59.279
<v Speaker 1>it back. But in the meantime, if you home and

0:56:59.400 --> 0:57:02.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I'm adding to the plow. We got

0:57:02.120 --> 0:57:04.319
<v Speaker 1>a hundred million because of you. Here's seventy dollars because

0:57:04.320 --> 0:57:10.600
<v Speaker 1>of weeks seventy one million and seventy dollars. Women in

0:57:10.640 --> 0:57:13.480
<v Speaker 1>a bad situation sometimes because now I got to ask

0:57:13.520 --> 0:57:15.759
<v Speaker 1>you for money every time I got to drive, and

0:57:15.760 --> 0:57:18.720
<v Speaker 1>then it don't work. It out was hard. I haven't

0:57:18.720 --> 0:57:21.080
<v Speaker 1>been working out because I've been with you for four years,

0:57:21.400 --> 0:57:23.640
<v Speaker 1>but I'm gonna do you know, I ain't that dude.

0:57:23.640 --> 0:57:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dude, I want you to have you give

0:57:26.640 --> 0:57:29.800
<v Speaker 1>your own card. I'm gonna give you your own account.

0:57:29.800 --> 0:57:32.400
<v Speaker 1>That's gonna stay. I wanted to stay here, whether it's

0:57:32.880 --> 0:57:39.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, allar bag like where are you from? Because

0:57:42.960 --> 0:57:45.280
<v Speaker 1>there's a part of the South, because it's part of

0:57:45.320 --> 0:57:48.400
<v Speaker 1>the Sevens that I'm not trying. Fine man, Okay, yeah

0:57:48.400 --> 0:57:53.959
<v Speaker 1>you're not Mann. They just they know how to take

0:57:54.000 --> 0:57:57.320
<v Speaker 1>care of And yeah, I want you to asking me

0:57:57.360 --> 0:57:58.920
<v Speaker 1>for nothing, so I want to make sure you have

0:57:58.920 --> 0:58:00.400
<v Speaker 1>it so you don't have to ask me. But what

0:58:00.520 --> 0:58:02.960
<v Speaker 1>does you feel vulnerable being with a man that you

0:58:02.960 --> 0:58:06.200
<v Speaker 1>had to rely on him like for money. I just

0:58:06.400 --> 0:58:09.000
<v Speaker 1>love to know what that feels like it I would

0:58:09.040 --> 0:58:11.760
<v Speaker 1>love to have just like that. And it doesn't feel good.

0:58:11.880 --> 0:58:13.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't have to rely on him for

0:58:13.280 --> 0:58:15.120
<v Speaker 1>money because I still made my own money. I just

0:58:15.160 --> 0:58:17.320
<v Speaker 1>didn't make as much money as I wish used to making,

0:58:17.800 --> 0:58:20.479
<v Speaker 1>so he did feel that void. But there was times

0:58:20.480 --> 0:58:22.160
<v Speaker 1>when I had to go to him like I want

0:58:22.240 --> 0:58:23.760
<v Speaker 1>or I d X y Z, and it just was

0:58:23.840 --> 0:58:26.440
<v Speaker 1>like but why right, Like I want a new bag,

0:58:26.640 --> 0:58:29.640
<v Speaker 1>I can't just buy it, but now I gotta ask,

0:58:30.040 --> 0:58:32.880
<v Speaker 1>And then you act like you have an attitude. Right,

0:58:33.280 --> 0:58:36.080
<v Speaker 1>And I've been in a relationship where I'm not paying

0:58:36.120 --> 0:58:38.600
<v Speaker 1>for anything and he's taking here about anything and everything,

0:58:38.600 --> 0:58:41.720
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't have a job. And it feels awful, right,

0:58:41.800 --> 0:58:45.720
<v Speaker 1>It feels awful having asked for everything you need when

0:58:45.760 --> 0:58:48.920
<v Speaker 1>you need pass when hey, man, can you go give

0:58:48.960 --> 0:58:54.600
<v Speaker 1>me some jam bonds? Bonds like you had six dollars? No,

0:58:55.400 --> 0:58:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I asked this question now today, like the women I

0:58:57.640 --> 0:59:01.920
<v Speaker 1>had taken care of. Man no, ye, yeah, it's mama, yes,

0:59:02.280 --> 0:59:06.080
<v Speaker 1>I ye, but I got you're too expensive, Like, ain't

0:59:06.080 --> 0:59:10.040
<v Speaker 1>nobody buying your order stuff? Stay home? I stay home.

0:59:10.160 --> 0:59:12.240
<v Speaker 1>I cleaned up all that ship you really need to

0:59:12.240 --> 0:59:16.280
<v Speaker 1>take now, I don't know. I do no lauger, but okay,

0:59:16.320 --> 0:59:21.520
<v Speaker 1>well you would be a terrible staying home boyfriend. Make

0:59:21.560 --> 0:59:37.160
<v Speaker 1>pork jobs though. Don't nobody, no, no, y'all eat healthy

0:59:37.440 --> 0:59:39.960
<v Speaker 1>trade songs. I remember when we first started lip service,

0:59:40.000 --> 0:59:41.800
<v Speaker 1>I kept saying, we need to get trade songs out here,

0:59:41.840 --> 0:59:44.680
<v Speaker 1>we need to get tremaine on here. Well, fortunately he

0:59:44.760 --> 0:59:47.680
<v Speaker 1>did stop by, and of course he didn't disappoint all right, Now,

0:59:47.680 --> 0:59:49.680
<v Speaker 1>when is it time to stop dotting? This is a

0:59:49.760 --> 0:59:52.400
<v Speaker 1>question that the ladies were talking about earlier. When do

0:59:52.480 --> 0:59:54.240
<v Speaker 1>you say, Okay, it's time for me to stop being

0:59:54.280 --> 0:59:56.520
<v Speaker 1>out here like this, It's time to settle down. Do

0:59:56.520 --> 0:59:58.960
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you've come to that time yet? I mean,

0:59:59.000 --> 1:00:01.520
<v Speaker 1>I definitely feel like I've come to that time. Like

1:00:01.560 --> 1:00:03.520
<v Speaker 1>I said earlier in the interview, I feel like I've

1:00:03.560 --> 1:00:06.520
<v Speaker 1>come to that place mentally, but in my actions, I'm

1:00:06.560 --> 1:00:08.120
<v Speaker 1>still doing a lot of the same ship I don't

1:00:08.160 --> 1:00:10.560
<v Speaker 1>want to do. How are you doing something that you

1:00:10.600 --> 1:00:12.120
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do? Though? Come on now, I mean

1:00:12.160 --> 1:00:15.040
<v Speaker 1>that's life. That's like I did it, but I sucked it.

1:00:15.080 --> 1:00:18.240
<v Speaker 1>But I don't really It's like the circumstances that he's Oh, y'r,

1:00:18.280 --> 1:00:22.200
<v Speaker 1>look who just texted me? Hendot? Do you ever feel

1:00:22.240 --> 1:00:26.000
<v Speaker 1>like you have to like women just because it's text?

1:00:26.360 --> 1:00:28.920
<v Speaker 1>I meanything about it. It ain't about what I have

1:00:29.000 --> 1:00:32.560
<v Speaker 1>to do for real? A lot of times, Uh, I

1:00:32.560 --> 1:00:35.200
<v Speaker 1>did ever feel like, man, you expected like lip service? Uh?

1:00:35.560 --> 1:00:39.160
<v Speaker 1>What what was the two though? What like you put

1:00:39.160 --> 1:00:40.840
<v Speaker 1>that expected you? I was talking about how I was

1:00:40.840 --> 1:00:42.520
<v Speaker 1>out here doing I was doing. You know what I'm

1:00:42.560 --> 1:00:44.640
<v Speaker 1>saying I've been having to hold up my reputation since then.

1:00:44.680 --> 1:00:47.760
<v Speaker 1>I said, I've been a sex did you did say that?

1:00:48.240 --> 1:00:50.560
<v Speaker 1>And a lot of little stories flowing around about trade

1:00:50.600 --> 1:00:52.440
<v Speaker 1>songs in the bedroom that you have to live up

1:00:52.480 --> 1:00:55.880
<v Speaker 1>to those expectations songs. I don't know about your stories,

1:00:55.920 --> 1:00:58.959
<v Speaker 1>but stuff online and stuff like that. Herl was talking about,

1:00:59.320 --> 1:01:01.400
<v Speaker 1>I hadn't seen some things that I've seen some things,

1:01:01.520 --> 1:01:04.800
<v Speaker 1>and the expectation bar is high. It's a little bit

1:01:04.840 --> 1:01:09.360
<v Speaker 1>different for me over here. Do I said, I didn't

1:01:09.400 --> 1:01:11.320
<v Speaker 1>hurt the stories, but I also didn't seen something so

1:01:11.520 --> 1:01:15.320
<v Speaker 1>little different over here. We used to living the same,

1:01:15.600 --> 1:01:17.560
<v Speaker 1>you know. We did together like my sister like to

1:01:17.720 --> 1:01:20.840
<v Speaker 1>anybody really watching, it's like a system, and her daughters

1:01:20.880 --> 1:01:24.440
<v Speaker 1>like my niece like literally so in Atlanta we lived together.

1:01:24.480 --> 1:01:26.520
<v Speaker 1>Like so you've seen some ship No, I literally pop

1:01:26.520 --> 1:01:28.440
<v Speaker 1>popcorn and watched them my home girl like it was

1:01:28.720 --> 1:01:31.080
<v Speaker 1>you watched him do it, and he I went downstairs

1:01:31.080 --> 1:01:33.280
<v Speaker 1>and pop popcorn and came in the room and watched

1:01:33.280 --> 1:01:36.120
<v Speaker 1>some how was he doing. He did a great job.

1:01:36.520 --> 1:01:38.840
<v Speaker 1>He did a great job. I didn't know you was

1:01:38.840 --> 1:01:43.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna see Jesus sad. It's a lot of time ago

1:01:43.880 --> 1:01:45.480
<v Speaker 1>and I want to tell the bit she used to bring.

1:01:47.120 --> 1:01:50.440
<v Speaker 1>She used to take that dick, point take that dick

1:01:50.000 --> 1:01:53.720
<v Speaker 1>actually and point your toes. So you were coaching her. Yeah,

1:01:53.920 --> 1:01:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I used to bring like sacrificial lambs to the house.

1:01:57.520 --> 1:02:00.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, because I wouldn't leave a house. I

1:02:00.280 --> 1:02:04.080
<v Speaker 1>work all day, like I'm in the studio Atlanta. It's back.

1:02:04.120 --> 1:02:07.080
<v Speaker 1>I met on my Space. Yep da, don't nobody know that?

1:02:07.120 --> 1:02:09.400
<v Speaker 1>You know? Don't nobody know that you met? Nice? We

1:02:09.520 --> 1:02:11.400
<v Speaker 1>really met on my Space. That's the truth. How did

1:02:11.400 --> 1:02:13.520
<v Speaker 1>this nobody knows e met on my Space? Explain this?

1:02:13.800 --> 1:02:15.280
<v Speaker 1>Because he put out there that he was going to

1:02:15.360 --> 1:02:20.080
<v Speaker 1>be in Atlanta. I was moving to do trade a

1:02:21.000 --> 1:02:23.280
<v Speaker 1>and I had just moved there and I was working

1:02:23.280 --> 1:02:26.080
<v Speaker 1>with him already, like he was my got it? What?

1:02:26.200 --> 1:02:31.680
<v Speaker 1>But that was my ship? Who know everything? So I'm

1:02:31.760 --> 1:02:36.040
<v Speaker 1>moving to Atlanta. We got this house. We got this house.

1:02:36.040 --> 1:02:41.400
<v Speaker 1>Shout out Chris, Chris and Chris Anderson. Uh, I get

1:02:41.440 --> 1:02:45.280
<v Speaker 1>there's two thousand six, two thousand six, March two thousand six.

1:02:45.960 --> 1:02:47.920
<v Speaker 1>So I'm moved into this house to make them all

1:02:47.920 --> 1:02:51.360
<v Speaker 1>my albums I've mainly made in the houses because legal

1:02:51.440 --> 1:02:59.360
<v Speaker 1>at the time. So I walked in the house and

1:02:59.400 --> 1:03:03.920
<v Speaker 1>it's and it's her own girl, and they got on

1:03:03.960 --> 1:03:15.200
<v Speaker 1>the Magic City outfits and they cook it album and

1:03:15.520 --> 1:03:17.720
<v Speaker 1>from that point on, like she just held it down

1:03:17.800 --> 1:03:20.439
<v Speaker 1>like it won't have a situation where like we were

1:03:20.800 --> 1:03:23.560
<v Speaker 1>into each other that way like she everybody know it was,

1:03:23.640 --> 1:03:25.000
<v Speaker 1>but it really was. So let me ask you this,

1:03:25.000 --> 1:03:27.520
<v Speaker 1>So let's talk about trades sucking abilities. Since you was

1:03:27.560 --> 1:03:32.960
<v Speaker 1>there watching him from a young and if you could

1:03:32.960 --> 1:03:36.280
<v Speaker 1>critique him, what are some things that he needed to

1:03:36.280 --> 1:03:38.000
<v Speaker 1>work on because he was young at that time. And

1:03:38.040 --> 1:03:40.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure the way you work back then is way

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<v Speaker 1>different than now. Sure are sure? Honestly, I honestly can't

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<v Speaker 1>say anything bad about I saw. I can only critique

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<v Speaker 1>the girl, and I critiqued her on spot okay that

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<v Speaker 1>she needed to point her toes Artra back. Was it

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<v Speaker 1>weird for you to have somebody like watching and critiquing

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<v Speaker 1>the girl and like coaching It was funny. It was

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<v Speaker 1>because she was my home girl. It wasn't like a stranger,

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<v Speaker 1>like she was my friend and I still know she's

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<v Speaker 1>like that's the home still people, both of us. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that was our best of lip service. I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>all enjoyed it as much as I do so many

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<v Speaker 1>gems here, and we're looking forward to eighteen with all

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<v Speaker 1>of y'all