1 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: What is Angela Yee and Live Service. We had a 2 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: tremendous seventeen. We had some great guests, and right now 3 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: I have a best of for you. These are some 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: of our favorite moments that we created ourselves. So you 5 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:17,639 Speaker 1: guys are gonna love this. If this is your first 6 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: time hearing lip service or maybe these are some of 7 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: the artists that you've ever heard on with us before. 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 1: We hand picked some of our funniest moments to make 9 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: sure you check it out. We're gonna have one deo 10 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: hugely may not applies to Timmy Rivera a whole lot 11 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: of people, so check it out. First up, we got 12 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: two chains came by the show. You know pretty girls 13 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 1: love chat music and he was there to definitely uh 14 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 1: tell us a lot about him. So who fantasizes more 15 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: during sex on average men or women? You think? So? 16 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: I found women, I see women. I found the sounds 17 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: a lot during sex the women, I think, Stephanie, what 18 00:00:55,160 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: do you think I feel like it? I don't fantasize 19 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 1: that sucks for his dick. That's using the dignum every 20 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: single time, not every single time, but when I do 21 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: you want to think about something, That's what I think 22 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: about But if you fucking if nik you from the back, 23 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: you think, bro think about it, it would be some 24 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: pussy You're done, you den. I don't really. I don't 25 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 1: really fantasize during sex. Um. The only time that I 26 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 1: have fantasized during sex is like if I'm getting my 27 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: pussy and I'm drunk and it's just taking so long, 28 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: so I'll start thinking about like the last porn I watched, right, 29 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: you know what I'm That's what I think about too. Yeah, 30 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: Like sometimes listen, I think I feel like men try 31 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: to prevent themselves from coming to guys, and we try 32 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 1: to make sure that we come. Yeah, like like you 33 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: could feel it there, but it's still gonna take another 34 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: ten minutes. I've had something not too great sex, and 35 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: I thought about some way better sex to get anything. 36 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: You can feel this there and and say it's ten 37 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: minutes down, like ten or fifteen man, Like you know 38 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: when you when you say I'm about to come, you 39 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: mean like in t oh, you gotta go to the 40 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: porn bank in your head you've been drinking off too much. 41 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: Yea exactly, and one of those now. But That's what 42 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like when I feel like I could feel 43 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna come, but it's not gonna happen in 44 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: thirty seconds or right now, or if he stops his 45 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: little he stops doing a little movement. He was doing 46 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: it like you motherfucker he started all the way back. 47 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 1: Yeah right. It could go on a reset this at 48 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 1: this point, you can go on a reset because we 49 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:43,399 Speaker 1: need about like some crazy That's why I need consistency, 50 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: like I need you to keep doing what you was 51 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: doing if I'm about to come, because if you switch 52 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 1: it up, then it's like fuck you. You got to 53 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: stay right there in the same little and that's why 54 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: you have to communicate. That's when you're like that. That's 55 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: the only time I ever fantasized during sex. I've never 56 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: I can say this with confidence. I've never had like 57 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: a dick inside of me and was thinking about other 58 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:10,959 Speaker 1: things fantasizing. I'm usually enjoying that moment, not to change. 59 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: What are you fantasized about it? Since you said men, 60 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: what are some things and do you fantasize like because 61 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: you have to make yourself come or do you sometimes 62 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: think about because I know sometimes men think about other 63 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: things to not come. Both you think about things to 64 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: not come? No, what makes you not come? Like when 65 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: you're saying something good for us? All right, But first, 66 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: if you're trying not to come, what do you think? 67 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, nig and might fucking wrap 68 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: or some ship just come up. You gotta think of 69 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: something That whole album doesn't. Yeah, that doesn't allow you 70 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: to think about how good whatever it is it's going on. 71 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You gotta you gotta you know. 72 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: And then, like I said, and if you're trying to come, 73 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: you have to think of you know what I mean, 74 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: Like you know what you said. Maybe if it's not 75 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: a poem you're thinking of like maybe it's a little badass, 76 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: like a little maybe you're thinking about somebody you haven't 77 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: been with you that's what offensive you like, put it 78 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: like a badass R and B chick or someone on. 79 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: Put this head on this body, just put together really 80 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: and really just and just really give it to them 81 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 1: and them and they don't even know. Um you know. 82 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: But let me ask you this, So have you ever 83 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: been having sex in try not to come and came 84 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: up with a great rap and been like, man, I 85 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: need to stop so I could write this down. No, 86 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: I don't write raps, and I don't write raps anyway, 87 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: but not, I mean you never write down a little 88 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: notes so on your phone and nothing. No, you know 89 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: what's on my phone, my daughter's songs and some of 90 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: my songs, like you can save them to your notes, 91 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: so when you planning them through your um, they won't. 92 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: So when you plan them, do you what you call 93 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: this ship when you playing them through the phone, you 94 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: know how you play it and you have to keep 95 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: mashing there whatever, it's like an app now, like when 96 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: you play music through your phone, you have to keep 97 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: mashing so that the song will continue playing. But if 98 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: you save it into your notes, you could just play it. Yeah, 99 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: never did that before. You we're not artists. That's music 100 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: you got going on? When you can explain later, Well, 101 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: the truth is that women fantasize more during sex. Really, 102 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 1: what she just said, she'd be thinking about flicks and 103 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 1: stuff like that. So, but I think women do it 104 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: more because we have to do it because we don't 105 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 1: come clearly from the statistics as easily as men do. Right, Like, 106 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: that's when I think a woman is fantasizing their in 107 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: sections for that extra luedge, you know, what I mean 108 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,160 Speaker 1: all these how many I mean how many? How many? 109 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: How many? Realistically how many? How many toys do you 110 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: think they made for women to come? Like? How many 111 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 1: you think they are? Like millions? Millions? Definitely millions. Isn't 112 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:04,280 Speaker 1: that crazy? That's a lot, even as you guys, because 113 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: y'all got a million toys that can make not one, no, 114 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 1: but even women who have never used a toy, it's 115 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: still it's still something. You know, you still have to 116 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: know a woman's um, what's the word I'm looking for me? Yes, 117 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: ananomy to, you know, to make her come. It's not 118 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: something that you're just you know, either someone teaches you 119 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: or you never learned. Right, you know what I mean 120 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: makes perfect. Let's let's keep it real like it's just 121 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 1: easier for a man to come. Period. Yeah, it's easy. 122 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: You do this for that's it, right, women or men 123 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: are exactly right, exactly man. This one was great. Now, 124 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: I always heard about three D Nati and this is 125 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 1: my first time meeting her, and she was hilarious. Some 126 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: guys had issues with all of the girl talk we 127 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: had going on, talking about men paying rent and all that, 128 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 1: but here was one of our funniest moments. All right, 129 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: what's on? What's on? You want to here to funk to? Oh? 130 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: I'm not like the head myself because yeah, no, I'm 131 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: not saying my music. Yeah, I don't know. My brother 132 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: thought this ship was so funny. But I had a 133 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: whole plated playlist and I used to kind of see 134 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: what song you're gonna stop on that? Stop the song 135 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: to fun this nigger, you know, I think um right now, 136 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: like Bryson Teller, the weekend at party next door is 137 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: good to have sex with. Listen, I don't have sex. 138 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: To me, I don't have it. You don't hear the 139 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: girl screaming so much? You know, it's weird for me. 140 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: Do you think that you would come faster with or 141 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: without music? I have a confession about music. I think 142 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: that I noticed this recently and I kind of laughed 143 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: at myself while I old school. I'm sorry. Confession about 144 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: music is that during like if I'm giving head to 145 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: like music, Like if music is playing, then I'm gonna 146 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: like give head to the beat that makes people do that. 147 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: I was weird for the mom You're probably like the 148 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: only one that confess it weird because I caught myself 149 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: doing it. Recently, I was like, am I really sucking 150 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: his head to the way song were you're hearing? Were 151 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 1: listening to know? We were actually listening to your man 152 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: at MP anty Like No, I was listening to um 153 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: TP two dot com had from the Oh My God 154 00:08:52,040 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: when I was young, like my first sexual experiences world. 155 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 1: So I think, but now I feel like, if a 156 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: guy puts on music, I'm like, yeah, this is mad cheesy, 157 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: like why I don't know why I think like that 158 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: if a dude put the music on, and it's kind 159 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: of weird. But most of the most of the time, 160 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,559 Speaker 1: if we're just gonna funs, we don't got time to 161 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 1: put no music on. We've been into I got so 162 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 1: you still got to stop and be like, let me 163 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:25,839 Speaker 1: put this plate with on for us the fun girl. No, no, 164 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: no, no no. That was when I would say that when 165 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 1: I was being childish and single and I you know, 166 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: whatever you play now, um, we're not gonna get into that. 167 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: I like, and I don't like. Now I feel like, okay, 168 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna let your friends you you. But no, 169 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: I really feel like I really feel like when I 170 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: say certain ship like certain keywords than a stroke change. 171 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 1: So I like to I mean, you know the regular 172 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: ship like it's yours right, it's pussy feel good, how 173 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: you know all that type of ship. Then a stroke 174 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: change whenever I say something different, So I kind of 175 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: like I kinda so you know what to say. I 176 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: know what's to say certain words. He's like all right, Yeah. 177 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: You even feel like sometimes you're like, all right, this 178 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: is going on too long. I got to just make 179 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 1: him come. Sometimes if I already, if I if i'm 180 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: if I'm exhausted, I had a long day and I 181 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: enjoyed it. I got me. We don't need to. Yeah, 182 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 1: I feel like once I start getting dizzy, like something 183 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 1: like that's it need something out to give? You gotta come. 184 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like what's that come, I'm ready for 185 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: you to come. Yeah. Like if that comes out like well, 186 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, your turn, even get right, that 187 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: came your turn. Let's go. I don't even go to 188 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: one of us like make him come. And if that 189 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: won't work, I'll start whispering his ear, begging for the calm. 190 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: What's your get a move work, getting moves from the back, 191 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 1: laying flat with my legs crossed, and then like when 192 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 1: it's like no, but when my legs or that ass 193 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: and it's surrying on my stuff, he said, like if 194 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 1: my care said tight, like because your stomach flat on 195 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 1: a bed, so that that's a good check. Thanks, And 196 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: then yeah you saw, I was like, thank you. And 197 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 1: then from my back, I'll put my legs up on 198 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: his shoulders and lift my hips up. I'm rised up 199 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 1: off the bed. And then that always works. And if none, 200 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 1: if neither one of those work, then I look at 201 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: either one of those words. And then I started whispering 202 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 1: in his ear, but begging for the come, like I 203 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: think when you do that that I always work. When 204 00:11:55,520 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: you like like I want you to come so bad, 205 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 1: Yeah that works every time. I hope you have a 206 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: lot of come. It's pussy out with all that comes, 207 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: because it isn't it whack. If he doesn't have a 208 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: lot of comes with the Safari toler that means that 209 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: he'd already didn't let it that he sucked somebody off. 210 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 1: Could have been checking off. He didn't tell us that part. 211 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: He said, I mean that nigga about different kinds come. 212 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,839 Speaker 1: There's like come that's like thick and just like and 213 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: then they and then it's the running clear, ripping down. 214 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:43,079 Speaker 1: I like that one. Yeah, like the running Yeah. No, 215 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: it's nothing worse than when the nigga come in you 216 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: and then like three hours later that ship, Oh that 217 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 1: ship is that happened to me? Defections, No, it's to come, 218 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: it's to Colm because you get tell like you see 219 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: that's that's young. It happened to me before that should happen. 220 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: Everything happened to me. Man Dave East, he's one person 221 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: who came by the show twice, so I guess he's 222 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: like one of our regulars. Davis always says Lip Service 223 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: is his favorite show. And you're about to hear why 224 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: all right? Now, have you ever borrowed money from a woman? Yeah? 225 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,719 Speaker 1: Did you pay it back? Always? They let me get 226 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: that money. There's a few, sure, but they wasn't on 227 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: it from me. But the ones that was like I 228 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: need my brad back. So what did they come for? You? Now? 229 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 1: Remember back in we had about this in the car, 230 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: like if a guy asked you to borrow money I 231 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 1: got that you were dating, would that make you feel weird? 232 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 1: If it depends on what the situation. It could be 233 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 1: any scenario. And it took that three hundred dollars and 234 00:13:54,880 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: took the next bit out. He took Christo. It was like, 235 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: like maybe you need like bricks in your car or something. 236 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: I adn't have a car. I was. I was like 237 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: if I was fucked up, Like did it ever feel weird? 238 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: Like I don't want to have to ask, but yeah, 239 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 1: but it's like I always kind of dealt with like 240 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 1: I do women my age, but I was kind of 241 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: with older woman Like a few of the older women, 242 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have to act like they were just giving 243 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: you like shuger, Mama call it that, but like here 244 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 1: like I wake up, should be there, like, yeah, that's weird. 245 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: He always been a jugger, always been. I'm gonna do 246 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: a little bit. That's all that man. People call you 247 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: girls are just leaving money on the nightstand. I'm saying 248 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: that Nicks on my dresser, like bag, go buy yourself something. 249 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: What's the most you ever got? Did they have a 250 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: leave chain? Wow? WHOA? Can I manage him work? I 251 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 1: feel like that's actually was trying to like win me say, Okay, 252 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 1: she was trying to like what I'm saying. I'm about 253 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 1: to put David's picture on back pages and get some 254 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: listen So would you feel you said, if a guy 255 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 1: asked you for money but it was like for a 256 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 1: particular would that make you feel away? I mean, it 257 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 1: depends on the scenario. If I knew that he was 258 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 1: well off, and you know, maybe he just left his 259 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 1: wallet at home and he was going off to dinner 260 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: and he asked me to pay because he forgot No. 261 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: What if he's like listening, this month was a little rough. 262 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: I need Yes, I always felt like like that, Like 263 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: I always had man pride, you know, I'm sis I'd 264 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 1: be like, man, sure, I can't. I always thought I 265 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: was on pop later you know what I'm saying. I 266 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: just always had had in my mind like man, when 267 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 1: I get on, if just don't work out, I was 268 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: giving that nigger money like so I never really wanted 269 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: to like like you know what I mean, like to 270 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: that point, like that, like that off the Dice game, 271 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 1: Come on, can't chust a like you? What about you? 272 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: What about if a guy to dinner? So one time 273 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 1: I was talking to this guy. He was like a doctor, 274 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: and I guess he was going through mass ship and 275 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: he got sucked up and he was like, you know, 276 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 1: this month is really rough for me. I was like, damn, 277 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: it's rough, all of us. Like you know, you could 278 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 1: tell he was trying to roll me into some ship 279 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 1: so that he was like, yeah, you know, I just 280 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 1: you're doing good, though, you should let me borrow something. 281 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 1: I was like, mad, funny, like I just literally played 282 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: it off at the joke because I knew he couldn't 283 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: be serious like I would. I'm sorry, but there's no way. 284 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 1: What about women asking to buy money from me? You 285 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: it depends with me and I got own girls like that. 286 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,919 Speaker 1: I ain't like not even sucking somebody you're dating now. 287 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: I ain't going that roule no more, no more. No, 288 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: we're going on that. So you've done it before, You've 289 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: leant our money, you have some you have some bread 290 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: because I gotta have some bread. Right as a man, 291 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: you're not matter I am. I could be sucking your 292 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: brains out every day after a while. If I'm dead, pop, 293 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 1: that's she going. You can be like, huh, we're not 294 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:33,120 Speaker 1: gonna do nothing. You can't buy me nothing, nothing going 295 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: like you just sucking me and looking at me and 296 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: looking at me. They got the same problems we have. 297 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:55,920 Speaker 1: Yea a bad No, you gotta have something. You'm saying fast, 298 00:17:56,280 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 1: rocking and rolling, and I'll be feeling like like the 299 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,879 Speaker 1: the gaps. She got to kind of be you know 300 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, close like I'm not. You gotta level 301 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 1: it out. I don't want to, but I can't be 302 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 1: like you can't work at Burger King, you know what 303 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying, And I'm doing what I'm doing like it 304 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:15,199 Speaker 1: just won't. She might own that Burger King one day. 305 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 1: You better not sleep work at burger kaye, but you 306 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:20,199 Speaker 1: gotta make baby steps. One day she might be the 307 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 1: manager if you want to. You just was living in 308 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 1: the projects not too long ago. Don't try to come. 309 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 1: You don't change you booze you now because imagine you 310 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 1: want to. But imagine you went to the answer a 311 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,159 Speaker 1: woman who was this beautiful. Maybe she fell on some 312 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: rough times and she's in school, but she's working. I 313 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 1: got bills to me iver. Spect I ever spect Oh 314 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: you rather you rather she working at Burger King or not? 315 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: The wave? I don't want to pull up and you're 316 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: giving me my burgers and dry with wol baby. I 317 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 1: got old type of extra ship from work today like 318 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: anybody in fast food Nona, I did I got, but 319 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 1: I was in high school. Yeah do that? Now? Do that? 320 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: Dad was mad hype because I was bringing home like 321 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 1: bags of food. You know my dad cheap as hell? Yeah, 322 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 1: I was that work subway. But what she like him 323 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,400 Speaker 1: and tag him when people could go on his pages. 324 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 1: We got mad subway fits? What does she worked at 325 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: check fil a? That's definitely and she you poably need 326 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 1: your sauce and their religious but not fast Let's not 327 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:57,199 Speaker 1: be so jistic to say fast food. But maybe like 328 00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: even like the mall or something cool. I ain't against that, 329 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 1: just not fast food. Fast food because you smell like food. 330 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:09,919 Speaker 1: Maybe that isn't like a transition honestly, like a right 331 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: traditional I'm about to have. That's them like I'm seventeen 332 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:21,400 Speaker 1: eighteen who are trying to get a job tape first job. 333 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: If you're my age, you should own that motherfucker like 334 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: and if you don't, you can't be taking the order 335 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 1: on the back, flipping the burger like what is she just? Manager? 336 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 1: General manager? General manager burger Berg King? Can I let 337 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:53,479 Speaker 1: you bad bitches united? Dl Hugli. This one's surprised me 338 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 1: so much. I couldn't believe we actually got him to 339 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,679 Speaker 1: come on the show and He told so many incredible stories, 340 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: things he's never revealed anywhere else before. Check it out. 341 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 1: Here's one of them. He's a famous counc I can't 342 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: tell you the name playing this gig. And uh we 343 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 1: in the Bay Area, right, And so I get this 344 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 1: knock on my door, and uh, this cat comes, he said, man, 345 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 1: kind of my room. Oh how I go? I go, 346 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: I go, what's up? Because something's wrong. So he had 347 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 1: he had this ship. She's tied up to the bed 348 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: and she's naked and she's unconscious. Oh my god. And uh, 349 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:39,119 Speaker 1: he said, I said, man, what happened? He said, he 350 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 1: had this cat of nine tales? Was this that whip? 351 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 1: And he was they had always whipped like he He 352 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: whipped her and all of a sudden she told him 353 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 1: he was hurting and he couldn't stop, I said. He said, 354 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 1: I couldn't stop because why he whipped their own count. 355 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 1: So then I said, hey, man, I'm not gonna I'm 356 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 1: not in this year. I'm not touching nobody. And she 357 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: woke up. She woke up, and she said, hey, dial 358 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:12,959 Speaker 1: the water. And I went out. All right, that funny 359 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,439 Speaker 1: I supposed to do, Like man, I'm not in it. 360 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 1: He was like, here, hold the body. She wouldn't woke up, 361 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: and I went right to the front and they killed somebody. 362 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 1: He killed that they did? She didn't wake up. Dat 363 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 1: a toad. I sweat the guy out of toad. You 364 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 1: can't be killing motherfucker. I'm not I'm not doing me. 365 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: You would help me out the body, Yes, they would 366 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 1: help me. Friend, I'm man. I'm not telling my kids 367 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: did some I love them, but if they did something 368 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 1: that that spread out harm to humanity on something, just 369 00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 1: old hump. But never didn't need to kill her. I mean, 370 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 1: she's not dead, but I might have my daughters. But 371 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 1: my son, I tell him, my son, if somebody, I'm 372 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 1: gonna send him to jairy, how could you do that? 373 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: I amazed you better than now, what are you doing? Murdering? 374 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 1: You gotta go to jail. Somebody it was kind of killed, 375 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 1: like if he feels somebody, if it was, if it 376 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 1: was a justifiable kill, I will help. But if he's 377 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: being I don't like that. But if he was being 378 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 1: an animal about things, you know, like I'm gonna call 379 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 1: the police on him, like you gotta go do the time. 380 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 1: You wouldn't tell on him. I'm sorry you can you 381 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 1: can I was an accident by accident, I've watched I'm 382 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 1: telling you that when I was when I when I 383 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: was a kid, I grew up a hunting for Avon's school, 384 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,439 Speaker 1: av Lock guard. So I'm a little kid, right, not 385 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 1: a kid, but tint you well, maybe two or four 386 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 1: tick these kids they go, we got this chick were 387 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:05,439 Speaker 1: running the train and I go, oh, wow, I've always 388 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 1: heard about this. I was no, um and so I 389 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 1: hope this no. So I go when I see this 390 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 1: girl and they are doing it to her, and I'm like, 391 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:24,159 Speaker 1: I don't think she's this is not She's not with it, 392 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 1: and I said this ain't She's not and I remember, 393 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,760 Speaker 1: so I say, I don't. And these dudes are older 394 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,679 Speaker 1: than me, and I like love them and that always 395 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 1: been impressed by them, but at that moment I thought 396 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 1: that they were like it was like, it's one of 397 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: the first times I saw men who I loved and respected. 398 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 1: Seems small to me, like they were. I was like, 399 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: she's a girl and you and so I remember getting 400 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,439 Speaker 1: their clothes and I said, she's not with it, and 401 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 1: she they got and they're older than me. And I'm 402 00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:03,239 Speaker 1: not even scared because I'm like, even if something go left, 403 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,160 Speaker 1: So to put on her clothes, and she smelled like pennies, 404 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: and it was she smelled like this real weird smell 405 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 1: that I would later on know that smells like blood, 406 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: like because smell a copper. So I get her clothes. 407 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 1: We walk and they hit me in the head and 408 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: pushing me and called me and buster, and I was 409 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,160 Speaker 1: weak and I never saw. I walked her to her neighborhood. 410 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 1: It was like five or maybe eight blocks away. When 411 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,680 Speaker 1: we get the clothes and never she screams and runs 412 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 1: towards her brother side. And this motherfucker picks up a 413 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 1: butcher knife and she is so hysterical she can't tell. 414 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 1: So he's chasing me around the car and it catches 415 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,639 Speaker 1: me and he goes, uh. He said, she said it 416 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: wasn't even it wasn't him. And he said, I know 417 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,120 Speaker 1: this Nick. You know who did it? And I said, 418 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,959 Speaker 1: I can't tell you who did it. He said, if 419 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: you don't tell me who did it, I'm gonna cut you. 420 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,400 Speaker 1: I said, but they'll kill me. He said, I swear 421 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: to guy, you got three, I'm a coupter three. You're 422 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: gonna tell me who. And I closed my eyes and 423 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: waited from the cup and so he didn't. And so 424 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: while I'm walking away, he hit it like both the 425 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,479 Speaker 1: mothers to dude, my neighborhood was hitting me and he 426 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,639 Speaker 1: was hitting me. So I'm getting my ask with her 427 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 1: and I ain't. Don't sit it wrong. So you months 428 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: weeks later, at this joint called Smithy's Liking Store on 429 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 1: Hunt Lina, I see this dude and he says thank you. 430 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 1: But I always like to me, even though I I 431 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: wanted to be like, I didn't think that it was 432 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 1: right to do ship to people that you knew you could. 433 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,120 Speaker 1: And even though I did, like the thing with my son, 434 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: or I've done things that made me feel well, I 435 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,719 Speaker 1: always thought that I always knew what the greatest thing 436 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,199 Speaker 1: I've ever done to me is that that now I 437 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:52,400 Speaker 1: know I'm a human being. Like, I don't think it's so. 438 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 1: I think that you're supposed to go all out for 439 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: people you love. I think you're supposed to try. I 440 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 1: think you're supposed to treat everybody with a level of 441 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: certain respect in d C. And I think if it 442 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 1: costs you skin, that's the press you paid for being 443 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 1: a human be. Now, Kiafa Vic came through. You know 444 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 1: her as Michael Vick's wife. Also, she was on the 445 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 1: show ball The Wise, but she produced That's a Boss. 446 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 1: Check it out now, Carmen, Are you in a relationship? 447 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 1: Are you married? No, I'm single. Would you recommend that 448 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 1: she dated a football player? Absolutely? And I work with 449 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 1: football players. I know you're doing. I'm sure they know 450 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 1: you don't want to. It's like, what the hell would 451 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:34,879 Speaker 1: you after you? Yeah, y'all want to date the football player. 452 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 1: I would date anybody that I like, but I've never 453 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: dated a football player, so I don't know. I don't know. Yeah, 454 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,439 Speaker 1: why do y'all see that everything that litter is not gold? 455 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: I feel like an athlete period. I'm not trying to say, 456 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 1: but think about it, like all the traveling, all the girls, 457 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 1: all up, But you're married to a football player. We 458 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 1: was dating forever in a day before we got married, 459 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:05,159 Speaker 1: like forever. So we've been through a lot. When I 460 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: was twenty one, so you guys met in the club, right, yes? 461 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: And who was Tylering? And who he was? All in 462 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,880 Speaker 1: my face? All in my face. I'm not gonna lie 463 00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 1: like I had just turned twenty one. I'm in the 464 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 1: club and I don't know. This night, I must have 465 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 1: been looking good because all the guys were just buying 466 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 1: me drinks. I had like four drinks and it was 467 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 1: your birthday, and after was right after my birthday about 468 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,639 Speaker 1: a month later, and um, all the guys were just 469 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 1: like competent me. So I see this guy, he's smiling, 470 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,360 Speaker 1: I see his teeth. I'm like, oh, he looked good 471 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 1: and teeth yeah, and y'all black and chocolate. I'm like, oh, 472 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 1: this motherfucker's fine. And all of a sudden, they called 473 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 1: like it was a shaky booty contest. That's what they 474 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 1: called it. I know you did not mean no, I 475 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: don't know, Like no, wonder why everybody was buying your drink, 476 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: she said, Hampton to it, not me. Wait minute, but 477 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 1: before the shaky booty contest, one of the guys he 478 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 1: was with had came over like, I'm just we're just 479 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: smiling at each other. At this point, I'm drunk out 480 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 1: my mind. I put us in this thing. He got 481 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 1: brains in the you know. When I met him, put 482 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 1: us and he had on a hoodie like in the club, 483 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 1: he was just real chill, like real like, oh yes, 484 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: swag and you don't really see that much in Virginia. 485 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: Let me not say that, because you always be I 486 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 1: love you and I love yeah Teddy Riley back. No, 487 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 1: he's women are beautiful. I just talk about the minute 488 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 1: this way. Girl, don't be trying to put that on me. Wait, 489 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 1: what do you say about Virginia women, not about no women? 490 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 1: I said the men swag. I'm from Philly and they 491 00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 1: had a different swag. So I liked his swag. Yeah, 492 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 1: I had me going in the yard. M what was that? 493 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 1: So one of his friends came over and was like, um, 494 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 1: y'all know who that is over there? And I heard 495 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 1: My girlfriend was like no, and he was like, oh, 496 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 1: that's Mike Vick and she was like weird and she 497 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 1: was he was like over there and I was like, oh, 498 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,840 Speaker 1: who was Mike Vick? And my girlfriend was like, oh, 499 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,719 Speaker 1: weeah football player. I was like, oh, show me, let 500 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 1: me see where you at. So when she pointed to him, 501 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 1: I almost died because I'm like, oh my god, this 502 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: is I'm stalling that like just like I'm a groupie 503 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: all of his space. So I'm like I'm leaving. So 504 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:41,360 Speaker 1: I went to the other side of the club and 505 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: he judged a little Shaky Booty contest. He was a 506 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:55,479 Speaker 1: judge and the Shaky bouty So I wasn't s I 507 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 1: have went in too, like another part of the bar. 508 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 1: And he came. He found me and he was like 509 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 1: can I get you to I'm but you. He got 510 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 1: my number and I was so excited. I was like, well, 511 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 1: it's so fine. And like a few minutes later he 512 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 1: came back and he was like, no, I didn't put 513 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 1: it in right, and whoa. And so we the club 514 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 1: is over, we're leaving and he outside. He all in 515 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 1: this girl's face and she like she's a thick girl. 516 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: I'm looking at him like, damn, this this is what 517 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 1: you're like, all right, I see you. So she all 518 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 1: in his face trying to kis him and stuff. He 519 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 1: all trying to grab me, like you coming home with me? 520 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 1: Like I'm like hell no, damn. So he called me 521 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: the next morning, he like, you want to come away 522 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 1: with me? I'm like no, I'm going away tomorrow. He's like, damn, 523 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 1: just just come with me. And I'm like no, I'm 524 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 1: going to d C. Who's going to who was it? 525 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 1: Love Club? Love? Yeah? I'm like no, I just turned 526 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: twenty one, like I'm going to d C. I'm going 527 00:31:54,600 --> 00:32:04,239 Speaker 1: to Shaky next And after that he called me like 528 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 1: every day. I remember telling my grandma met a football players. 529 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 1: She was like a girl, he ain't gonna be no good. 530 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,320 Speaker 1: He only want the booty. He's just gonna dog you out. 531 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 1: And I'm like, Grid is nice girl. Whatever. He really 532 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 1: did turn out to be like, uh, he was a 533 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 1: nice guy. We went through a lot of bullshit, but 534 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 1: really really a nice guy. Like you know, he was 535 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 1: different than most of the guys. I mean, you know 536 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 1: how you meet a guy then just go off, don't 537 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 1: call you for a while. Now, he called me every 538 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,400 Speaker 1: day every morning while he was on his way to work. 539 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 1: You know, he made sure I was okay all the time, 540 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 1: Like he started paying tuition it at school. You know, 541 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 1: sure I was okay. It wasn't like yeah, it wasn't 542 00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 1: like he was just trigger like all of me bout 543 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,959 Speaker 1: you this bag, but make sure I was okay. And 544 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 1: I liked that about him, Like when we went on dates, 545 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 1: I had a car, but he would still come pick 546 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: me up. He was always on time. He was just 547 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 1: like such a gentleman. And believe it, I'm like, for 548 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,959 Speaker 1: when did y'all make it a fishal like, how did 549 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 1: you know? We didn't make it a fishing for a while. 550 00:32:58,280 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: We didn't make an a fishing for a while, because 551 00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 1: it was just like I wasn't stupid, like you know 552 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:03,719 Speaker 1: what I mean, I don't know what you got going on. 553 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 1: I know you young, right, but it was just like 554 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 1: we was just feeling each other a whole lot. Um, 555 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,239 Speaker 1: Mike had a baby on the way. He can tell 556 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 1: me about the baby on the way, Get the funk 557 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: out of here. Yes he was. He waiting to see 558 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: if it was his. No, nothing, guys got that's great. 559 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 1: Never we've never talked about that before. But he might have. 560 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 1: Let's wait to the baby's born because I might not 561 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 1: have to tell another He just said, like I I 562 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 1: just thought I was gonna be sucking you, and you know, 563 00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 1: I just thought that was it. I didn't really had 564 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: to tell you my business. But damn pretty much. She 565 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: was like the rest of him pretty much. And then 566 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,440 Speaker 1: like he told me like maybe a month before the 567 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 1: baby was born. I was so hurt. He was like, 568 00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:47,880 Speaker 1: because you told me you ain't want no guy to 569 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: hand no baby mom. I was like, I don't, like 570 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 1: I'm young I still don't want it bullshit? And did 571 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:58,160 Speaker 1: you and the baby mama ever have like be for anything? Yeah, 572 00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 1: we went because he was lying the both of you. 573 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: He was still young, he was still playing that game. 574 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,000 Speaker 1: And it was like we were together like every day, 575 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,240 Speaker 1: like our first day he took me to Hawaii. What 576 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 1: I asked? What she did to the whoa? What did 577 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 1: you do in the best? Not mean that? That was 578 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 1: so me? What happened in the bathroom? All right? So 579 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:24,319 Speaker 1: we away for seven days, my first going away with him, 580 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,840 Speaker 1: Like I gotta go to the bathroom. Gosh, ship that 581 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:31,840 Speaker 1: feeling head bubbo guts. It's like three We've been drinking 582 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 1: all day every time, Like all right, this nigga sleep. 583 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 1: So I going to the bathroom, do what I had 584 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 1: to do. Why the toilet don't flush? Keep out? You know, 585 00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 1: I'm trying to pour water down this. It's not going 586 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 1: when you're trying to lift up the thing on the top. 587 00:34:53,360 --> 00:35:01,560 Speaker 1: You okay, I I gotta go for the bathroom. And 588 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 1: he's like, what's wrong. I'm like, you know what's wrong? 589 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: You smell what's wrong? Busting a laughing. So he called 590 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 1: the maintenance man. To maintenance man come and he thinks 591 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 1: its toll and the whole time of mating his man, 592 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: and he like, she broke this toll so embarrassed, I'd 593 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:20,840 Speaker 1: have been like, I don't know who was it here before? 594 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,320 Speaker 1: After that point, I'm just like I could do anything 595 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,320 Speaker 1: in front of him. Just tyle, just start the shooting. 596 00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,040 Speaker 1: I'm ship, I don't know who you use this toilet befus, 597 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:35,279 Speaker 1: you need to get our money back. Awful? Can you 598 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 1: imagine I was sweating around from like, that's all you 599 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,719 Speaker 1: supposed a courtesy flesh, that's what you get. You would 600 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,399 Speaker 1: have known. She would have known at least mid ship 601 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 1: should you can't tell it man, ship ship to give 602 00:35:55,160 --> 00:36:00,080 Speaker 1: it up. Tammy Rivera stopped through a lip service. So 603 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 1: this was her first time on the show, and she's 604 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,840 Speaker 1: a real sweetheart, but she really gave us some insight 605 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 1: into her relationships in her own personal life. Normally we 606 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 1: start off with the tip of the day, but we 607 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,359 Speaker 1: didn't start so we're gonna get to that right now. Alright, So, 608 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 1: uh now, we get this question all the time from guys. 609 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,840 Speaker 1: We have this advice thing that we do, and people 610 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 1: want to ask, how do you get your girl back 611 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 1: after you cheated? What works and what doesn't work because 612 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,880 Speaker 1: there's so many guys out there that mess up and 613 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 1: don't know, like what can I do to get my 614 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 1: girl back? And we get this question like NonStop, So 615 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,000 Speaker 1: let's talk about that for all of us. When somebody 616 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 1: cheating you and we know you got cheated on and 617 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 1: but you still damn angel anybody in this room, but 618 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 1: we all but we all have been you know, honestly, 619 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,640 Speaker 1: yours was just very public obviously, But what does work 620 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 1: because there's a lot of guys who mess up, right 621 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 1: and they're girl is like, I'm not working with you anymore. 622 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,439 Speaker 1: But what works and what doesn't work when it comes 623 00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 1: to getting your girl back? For me personally, I would say, 624 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 1: I don't think it's what they do. It's really I mean, 625 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:07,640 Speaker 1: it can be what they do, but it's really a 626 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 1: woman knows, like really if she's just completely done, Like 627 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:16,719 Speaker 1: I'm a leo, I'm loyal to by default, but when 628 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 1: I'm completely done, I'm like done. Um, which when I 629 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,319 Speaker 1: when we separated, I was just like I was like like, 630 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 1: just don't come back, don't come my house, like just 631 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: leave me alone. Like he was not go away. He 632 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 1: was coming to that. Yeah, he would not go away 633 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 1: and then not even let him. I said, Okay, this 634 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,480 Speaker 1: is what I'm gonna do to get him go away. 635 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let him come in here, and I'm gonna 636 00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:40,920 Speaker 1: let him mess itself up. So I just kept my 637 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 1: wall up. I was just like, I want the first 638 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,240 Speaker 1: thing he did and getting the funk out, he wouldn't. 639 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:47,799 Speaker 1: I mean, it was so consistent. I thought it was 640 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,200 Speaker 1: a Yeah, I thought it was an act. I was 641 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:52,279 Speaker 1: so mean to the point that everybody was like, yo, 642 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,000 Speaker 1: you're really being like You're really a bit like and 643 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 1: I'm not like that. I can see you being mean, 644 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: Like what's mean? Yeah, girl, I was just I just 645 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:02,440 Speaker 1: didn't care, like I would just say anything, do anything. 646 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,200 Speaker 1: I was just then he was like damn. And I 647 00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 1: was like, when you can get the funk out? Yeah, 648 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 1: like you know, and he would just eat it like 649 00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:20,560 Speaker 1: he was just constant, and he just came. I know. 650 00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,160 Speaker 1: I wouldn't even touched me like he had to say, Charlie. 651 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 1: I just didn't want nothing to do with him. I 652 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 1: was like, I'm like, I'm just done. I was trying 653 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,799 Speaker 1: to find reasons. I'm like, maybe I'm real nasty, mean, 654 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 1: He'll leave and then he was just like because when 655 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 1: we separated, I the last thing I told him was, 656 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,759 Speaker 1: I was like, I promise, I said, I swear to God, 657 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 1: on my child's life, I would never love you the same. 658 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 1: I was like, it's done. So that stuck in my head. 659 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:45,680 Speaker 1: Was like a lot of him, like a lot of myself. 660 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,360 Speaker 1: I can't a lot of God, you know, not on 661 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,120 Speaker 1: my child. But I was so angry at the moment. 662 00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,560 Speaker 1: I was like, I promised to God, I would never 663 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 1: love you, just saying so when he came back and 664 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:53,440 Speaker 1: I was and he was like, one day we got 665 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 1: into and I was like, listen, I meant what I 666 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,000 Speaker 1: was saying there, like I would never love you the same. 667 00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:58,560 Speaker 1: And he was like, I know you won't. He's like, 668 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:05,880 Speaker 1: because you won't love me more life. He practiced that. 669 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 1: I was like this she told me. He like, and 670 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 1: there's nothing I can say cause I'm like, well, if 671 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,279 Speaker 1: I do love him, and which in the end ended 672 00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:17,080 Speaker 1: up happening, like and part of it is your daughter 673 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,080 Speaker 1: because they had such a great relationship and he's really 674 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:20,600 Speaker 1: it made it so hard for you to be like 675 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,960 Speaker 1: because she was like telling you, yeah, she I mean, 676 00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 1: she don't see no no wrong. In him, like she 677 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 1: loves him to death. But what I can't say is 678 00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:31,919 Speaker 1: even throughout our whole separation, he's like never he picked 679 00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,400 Speaker 1: her up from school, he dropped her off and everybody 680 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,440 Speaker 1: know that's not his biological child, but that, I mean, 681 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 1: there is no blood, couldn't make them, you know. So 682 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,920 Speaker 1: that's interesting because you told you let him come. Now, 683 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:46,480 Speaker 1: this is something that guys have to learn when they 684 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,839 Speaker 1: sunk up. If I let you back in, don't do 685 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 1: nothing wrong, and just understand the fact that I'm gonna 686 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:59,240 Speaker 1: treat you like shit. Yeah yeah, but you know, sometimes 687 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:03,600 Speaker 1: when you're so damage that don't work down there, like 688 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,840 Speaker 1: it like how you said it. Now you're saying it. 689 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 1: I'm confused. She was saying, take it somewhere else now 690 00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 1: the shop. Sometimes that don't work. No, they don't like me. 691 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:20,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not gonna come. I don't care what 692 00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:26,839 Speaker 1: you're going Jody, I'm not gonna I love you. Even 693 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 1: have an attitude when you're having sex and you're mad 694 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,719 Speaker 1: as hell, like I'm just sucking lay hair. I'm gonna 695 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:37,960 Speaker 1: say I'm not making annoy next thing, though you forgive me. 696 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:44,719 Speaker 1: He's like, you gotta say I don't catch my nug 697 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:51,959 Speaker 1: rude like I don't care. I don't care, I need 698 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 1: it now. What doesn't work if you have to give 699 00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,879 Speaker 1: guy's advice, like for when they're trying to get back 700 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:03,680 Speaker 1: after they sucked up. It doesn't work blaming telling me 701 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,360 Speaker 1: what I did wrong? Right? Yeah, yeah, trying up because 702 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,920 Speaker 1: during that time you was you would talk to do 703 00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 1: don't want it nothing? Bring up the old ship before 704 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:18,399 Speaker 1: I met you. You you know, you know you love me. 705 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:24,040 Speaker 1: So we're just gonna get through this. Yeah, exactly, all right, 706 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,480 Speaker 1: So excuses does not work. You gotta just admit I 707 00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,759 Speaker 1: sucked up and just take it and don't blame shit 708 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,799 Speaker 1: on me. Don't blame I don't give a damn if 709 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: what it was, don't play Okay, we had sex and 710 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,560 Speaker 1: too much. Don't tell me why Chico you won't give 711 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: me no pussy. I don't care, I want hit nothing. 712 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:47,920 Speaker 1: But that is kind of sucked up? All right? What 713 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 1: else doesn't work? Um? And what? All right? No we 714 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 1: didn't finish. What does work because you said basically he 715 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,759 Speaker 1: was very consistent. He said, was in contact obviously, you know, 716 00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:59,279 Speaker 1: with your daughter and picking her up and doing all 717 00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,640 Speaker 1: of that stuff, And is letting you treat him like ship. Yeah, 718 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,560 Speaker 1: he just won't go away, Okay, but he really he 719 00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 1: really changed, Like I can't show improved like he ye, 720 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 1: you really have to like consistently like change, like he 721 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: really changed. Like the guy he is now is not 722 00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,440 Speaker 1: the guy that he was like a minute. He's changed 723 00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:20,960 Speaker 1: and it was suck to put in all that work 724 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: for somebody else to benefit. But I think sometimes you 725 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,840 Speaker 1: can't think like that. You just be like so like 726 00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:29,279 Speaker 1: I used to think like that, like I ain't gonna 727 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,560 Speaker 1: liket the benefit. I'm girl. I got to like girl 728 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 1: having it, have everything you want, my shoes all because 729 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,919 Speaker 1: I'm done because we've all taken back and cheating guys 730 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:46,200 Speaker 1: so lurial. Oh god, what worked well? Work for you? 731 00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,400 Speaker 1: Because we're giving these guys advice because maybe some of 732 00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 1: them are changing too, that are listening. I think, like 733 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:55,879 Speaker 1: you sat being consistent, Like that's a big key. It's 734 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,000 Speaker 1: like if you keep trying to show that you care, 735 00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,520 Speaker 1: you change you and not even that you change, because 736 00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,520 Speaker 1: I don't believe that somebody's gonna change just in one day, 737 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 1: one week, that you're willing to change, that you're gonna 738 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,560 Speaker 1: put in an effort you know what I mean something 739 00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:12,560 Speaker 1: like that, Like everybody makes mistakes, so you can't expect 740 00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,799 Speaker 1: somebody to never do nothing wrong. But at the same time, 741 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,839 Speaker 1: I think it's like the main thing is like, all right, 742 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,520 Speaker 1: they might have cheated or whatever, but we're they're disrespecting 743 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 1: you in a way where it's like, all right, you 744 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,400 Speaker 1: you could find a picture, or you could find it this, 745 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,759 Speaker 1: or you could find I know, that's what makes it. 746 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,640 Speaker 1: I think that's what makes it works for us, because 747 00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:34,240 Speaker 1: if we find out something that maybe they sucked somebody 748 00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:37,120 Speaker 1: when they was on the boys trip, you know last 749 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,279 Speaker 1: year was one of the boys, not one of the 750 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 1: boys trip. First of all, he don't never have to 751 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,520 Speaker 1: call me again. Ain't no forgiving that, bro. So okay, 752 00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:54,560 Speaker 1: you can't forget boy, you know. But you know there's 753 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,319 Speaker 1: some women that take men back when they found out 754 00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:59,560 Speaker 1: that they with other guys are transgender. It's different. See. No, 755 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 1: I don't think he talked about that Insecure incident a 756 00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:09,560 Speaker 1: little bit when he said he did something in college. Boy. Yeah, 757 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:14,800 Speaker 1: that's a void, Damien, like one time, so like you 758 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,680 Speaker 1: you and mess with him no more? Hell no, but 759 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:21,239 Speaker 1: that was mad long ago. He never did nothing again. No, 760 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,359 Speaker 1: I just want to can't do that. I don't want 761 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:27,040 Speaker 1: to be in that situation. So I don't even because nigga, 762 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,080 Speaker 1: you you like, I don't care what you say you 763 00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:32,040 Speaker 1: liked it, because a man I can't do for you. Man, 764 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,080 Speaker 1: A man knows how they like. They think, you know 765 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,600 Speaker 1: the But what if it was like I didn't really 766 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 1: like him? Man? That beard was may No. You know 767 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:47,360 Speaker 1: that's my br my best rapper friend. And Mayo always 768 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,000 Speaker 1: stirs up some issues, you know how he is. He 769 00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,480 Speaker 1: does not hold this tongue and he talks crazy, but 770 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,000 Speaker 1: so does Louriale. Check it out. We live in a 771 00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:59,560 Speaker 1: time where it's like everything is super hyper, everything is right, 772 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,799 Speaker 1: every think, everybody wants it right now. So I'm saying, like, 773 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:06,480 Speaker 1: what's wrong with doing certain things that that keep your 774 00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: man happy? But if you're not happy with it? Right? 775 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 1: So females not happy with it? Yeah, should be the 776 00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,360 Speaker 1: female should be happy with the other woman where she 777 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:23,359 Speaker 1: should be happy. You should be happy year, but she's 778 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 1: not happy with it. It's not up for discussion, and 779 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,360 Speaker 1: that's it is what it is, right. So when the 780 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,440 Speaker 1: niggare going out and getting it for something else, you know, 781 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:37,480 Speaker 1: understand what options. But I'm saying you even gotta a 782 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:42,000 Speaker 1: bit with you may be happy with it. Yeah, that's 783 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 1: the option whether you get on. But you know, to 784 00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,920 Speaker 1: each her, but you know to each and each on 785 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,319 Speaker 1: her own. You know, there might be a woman that's like, 786 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,759 Speaker 1: you know what, He's right, it's just one husband, you know, 787 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: even though we don't agree, you know what I mean, 788 00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:03,920 Speaker 1: likes girls. You doesn't mind, right, dad, But I'm just saying, 789 00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 1: like to each other to live service that I fucking 790 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 1: bitch here Still your face look like not but the 791 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,960 Speaker 1: relationship with your man, like you bring a girl home 792 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:21,319 Speaker 1: every now and then. Right of course she likes growing up. 793 00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,000 Speaker 1: It's something that I like. If it wasn't something that 794 00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:28,360 Speaker 1: I liked, then we wouldn't be doing it exactly exactly, 795 00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:31,480 Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. I must be childish. I don't 796 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:36,120 Speaker 1: like girls. That's childish because I don't want to. I 797 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,880 Speaker 1: don't like girls, and I'm very possessive about my ship, 798 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:42,279 Speaker 1: so I don't want to see my man girl. Reason 799 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,320 Speaker 1: like that goes wrong, I have a question and the 800 00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:47,239 Speaker 1: ends up sucking the other girl behind your back or 801 00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:51,240 Speaker 1: thinking that he could do that. When that does happen. 802 00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:53,239 Speaker 1: But you gotta, you gotta, you gotta first of you'll 803 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,800 Speaker 1: let your girl run it. You gotta let her run it. 804 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 1: You gotta let her pick. It's her decision, it's her show. 805 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,160 Speaker 1: And what is He's like, I'm not with it anymore. 806 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:07,920 Speaker 1: But that's what happens with these relationships. But don't get 807 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 1: married when I going again, That's what I'm saying, Like, 808 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,200 Speaker 1: why is that okay for y'all? But it's not okay 809 00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:18,239 Speaker 1: for us? That's just so hypothetical. There's whole situations. It 810 00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 1: can't only be good when it's in your favorite What 811 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: did she be like? I like my spell backwards dog? 812 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:32,080 Speaker 1: What does she like? I like? What does she says? 813 00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,880 Speaker 1: I like my pupsy and by multiple guys like you 814 00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,440 Speaker 1: do it for me, but not like how this guy 815 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:44,360 Speaker 1: does what you'd be like? Ahead, get your rights with 816 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:48,080 Speaker 1: other women when you're not around. In that case, I 817 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 1: will say some ship like let's just get one main 818 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:53,799 Speaker 1: extra girlfriend and like that would just be our girlfriend, 819 00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,719 Speaker 1: all right? So why did that make you feel better 820 00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:00,520 Speaker 1: than if you could multiple women? Why can't she I'm 821 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,440 Speaker 1: not saying she can't. No, no, no, no, no, I'm 822 00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,840 Speaker 1: a fucking if we told about if I'm in a relationship, 823 00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:06,920 Speaker 1: but my fucking multiple women, I fucking women only with 824 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:11,440 Speaker 1: hall what that it's multiple? You could watch me and 825 00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 1: her I like to watch, but you can't touch the 826 00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 1: other woman. Sometimes that might that might be interesting, that 827 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 1: might be just the vibe for that night. No perfect, Huh, 828 00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 1: that ain't that's not that's too hypothetical and it's not 829 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 1: really hard because what are you about to do? Jack Hypothetically, 830 00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:35,239 Speaker 1: if the girl wanted to funk with another girl, like 831 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,880 Speaker 1: let me, I think that that's a conversation. It's like like, 832 00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:39,920 Speaker 1: let's say you oversees on tour or something for a 833 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,000 Speaker 1: few weeks and she got a little a little itch 834 00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:43,799 Speaker 1: they need to be scratched, and she called you and say, 835 00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:48,520 Speaker 1: I'm yeah, she got it. That's scary the doctor that 836 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:53,279 Speaker 1: I'm about and Timiko don't come over here, And I think, 837 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:57,600 Speaker 1: I think, is that a different way? But that was 838 00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:00,920 Speaker 1: just a bad that's a bad mind you hear what 839 00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 1: she's saying though, I think that mind you wait and 840 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,560 Speaker 1: it's a bitch that y'all already. Yeah, I think I 841 00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:09,600 Speaker 1: could do that somebody she allows you to do and 842 00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,040 Speaker 1: then and you you're going and you can't handle hug 843 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:13,759 Speaker 1: because you don't know where here to handle her and 844 00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:15,520 Speaker 1: she needs to be handled. And she go and called 845 00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 1: one of the bitches that she brought over for you. 846 00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:19,640 Speaker 1: I think I think I could do that. But what 847 00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:21,160 Speaker 1: if you think, are you know? Yeah? I think I 848 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:25,320 Speaker 1: think I've never been posed with that question but that before, 849 00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 1: and I think I could do that. I think I 850 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,640 Speaker 1: can say, you know what? All right? Just the on 851 00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:33,879 Speaker 1: FaceTime put on. You got to know the girl, because 852 00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,120 Speaker 1: the only way to stink type, the only way like 853 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:42,400 Speaker 1: that worst is honestly and openness. Man, this is my guy, Plies. Now. 854 00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:44,560 Speaker 1: We played a little game with him pumper or dumper, 855 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,319 Speaker 1: and he pretty much wanted to pump any woman no 856 00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:49,279 Speaker 1: matter what. Here's some of what he had to say. 857 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:51,480 Speaker 1: All right, So back to the question. She doesn't have 858 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:56,160 Speaker 1: any female friends, you say, pumping? All right, you gotta 859 00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,000 Speaker 1: give her a hug in the club and she got 860 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:03,440 Speaker 1: on a waste trainer. You can feel it's there, anybody, 861 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 1: Why are you working, Clive? It don't matter we ask it. 862 00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:13,200 Speaker 1: If we do wear them, we're definitely not wearing them. 863 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,320 Speaker 1: It depends if I met him and she had the 864 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,640 Speaker 1: waist train on. She gotta keep it on like forever. 865 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:20,799 Speaker 1: What do you mean if I'm pomping on? You gotta 866 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:22,319 Speaker 1: keep because I feel like if I meet you and 867 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,440 Speaker 1: you got on the waist trainer, I'm infatuated with how 868 00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,120 Speaker 1: I see you. So if it's because you got a 869 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,759 Speaker 1: waste train on, is why you look appealing to me? 870 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 1: Then you shoulder She got damn right, she wanted. Now 871 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 1: you gotta get. No I got, But I feel like 872 00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 1: looking at a waste trainers like hugging a cop. You 873 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,520 Speaker 1: know what I mean? When you like us, I think 874 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:49,640 Speaker 1: you're afraid that when you let the waist trainer, she's 875 00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:55,239 Speaker 1: gonna exclude about it. If they start shooting. You could 876 00:50:55,239 --> 00:51:06,480 Speaker 1: throw it right always and you'll save my life. Additional pumper, 877 00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,799 Speaker 1: you gotta keep it on if you always trying. Y'all 878 00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:12,520 Speaker 1: cool with me? We wear them around the house. We 879 00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:15,279 Speaker 1: don't wear them. Don't wear them like you know when 880 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,760 Speaker 1: I feel like I got a little swell on the side, 881 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,600 Speaker 1: like one of my life poles are swelling up on 882 00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:31,160 Speaker 1: the side some other ones. But what you guys do 883 00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,400 Speaker 1: when they want to hide stuff like we have all 884 00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:36,719 Speaker 1: kinds of things. We got booty pops, we got waste trainers, 885 00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,800 Speaker 1: we got makeup, we got we we got everything. What 886 00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:42,440 Speaker 1: y'all do? I mean? I guess you. I guess it 887 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 1: very depending on what it is you're trying to hide. 888 00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,880 Speaker 1: But with me, like I said, I'm pretty much a 889 00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:49,479 Speaker 1: straight shooter, but you know, I feel like the waste 890 00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:52,279 Speaker 1: trainer thing is damn me. Waist trainers by the way, 891 00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:56,840 Speaker 1: done in the middle with the trainer, I think guys, Um, no, 892 00:51:56,960 --> 00:52:00,080 Speaker 1: I'm not saying you guys were hats. It's because o 893 00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:04,160 Speaker 1: their hair. Okay, that's like a waste trainer. Yeah. Yeah, 894 00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,719 Speaker 1: for me, I think I've always been I think since 895 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,520 Speaker 1: I was probably like thirteen fourteen, I always feel like 896 00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:14,799 Speaker 1: the hat complimented there. But yeah, I used to know it. Well, 897 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,560 Speaker 1: not used to because I still know this guy, But 898 00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:21,160 Speaker 1: I know a guy I'm familiar. He would always wear 899 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,600 Speaker 1: like a hoodie or like a jacket to how this 900 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,600 Speaker 1: muffin top did he have himps to go with them? 901 00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:31,640 Speaker 1: Guys got their bodies most tops, and he always kept 902 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:33,600 Speaker 1: on the jacket or a hoodie. And I never could 903 00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:35,560 Speaker 1: understand why. Every time I saw him heeple have like 904 00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:37,440 Speaker 1: a jacket like this one or like a hoodie. And 905 00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,319 Speaker 1: then one time. They said that he couldn't wear it 906 00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:40,840 Speaker 1: in the club, and he said, I ain't going in 907 00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 1: there was that big he sex of course when he 908 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,440 Speaker 1: didn't mind the muffin tap if it was yo was alone, right, 909 00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 1: but I ain't been in the club. Now, don't you 910 00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:55,840 Speaker 1: just wear a bigger T shirt? Why don't you just 911 00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:59,839 Speaker 1: think you're like oo? I don't know why, Hans just sorry, right, 912 00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:03,759 Speaker 1: But men don't do all the stuff that we do. 913 00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:05,680 Speaker 1: I feel like women don't care as much about how 914 00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 1: men look like you still was I care? Yeah? What 915 00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:13,799 Speaker 1: have you been with you with a muffin top? I 916 00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:18,399 Speaker 1: think so you it's money important, Yeah, I looks are 917 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 1: important for me. I like my guys fit athletic bodies. 918 00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:24,279 Speaker 1: I work hard for my body. Not only do I 919 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:31,320 Speaker 1: get classes surgery, but I start myself. That's the water, 920 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:35,920 Speaker 1: just like it's money. And he said for us a 921 00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:39,279 Speaker 1: woman just in general. Yeah, I mean I'm not trying 922 00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,840 Speaker 1: to be in struggle mode with you know, struggle I 923 00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:44,719 Speaker 1: mean old for that. I mean, I'm not looking like 924 00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,200 Speaker 1: It's not one of the main things I'm looking for, Like, oh, 925 00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:49,640 Speaker 1: he has to be a millionaire to tat me. But 926 00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:51,640 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna allow you have to be joined at 927 00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:57,400 Speaker 1: the very least better than me, A very least I 928 00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:01,759 Speaker 1: would say this, Okay, I leave that money matters to 929 00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 1: the point that you have to be doing something and 930 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,879 Speaker 1: be somewhat ambitious and make some money, because I don't 931 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,440 Speaker 1: want to take care of you if you don't have it. 932 00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,200 Speaker 1: You need to be able to take care of yourself. 933 00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:13,160 Speaker 1: I don't necessarily need you to take care of me, 934 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,040 Speaker 1: but you need to be able to handle your own business. 935 00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:17,719 Speaker 1: Like you can't be asking me for money, like to 936 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,480 Speaker 1: pay your because I agree. Like if you're an aspiring 937 00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:22,560 Speaker 1: rapper at the age of I don't know, thirty eight, 938 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:26,239 Speaker 1: give up the struggle boot just you know, get a 939 00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:33,560 Speaker 1: job with benefits. But when you get a job with benefits, 940 00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:38,040 Speaker 1: I'm not afraid of dating a bus driver or a garbageman, fireman, 941 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 1: garden station money to us, you want to be a catman, 942 00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:53,279 Speaker 1: but I want you to be a somewhat established trying 943 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,640 Speaker 1: to be established, you know. And I feel like it's 944 00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,360 Speaker 1: very important, um the kind of guy that I do 945 00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:01,320 Speaker 1: to want a girl who's doing and well for herself. 946 00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:03,880 Speaker 1: I don't I don't really like dating and guys that 947 00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,239 Speaker 1: are just tricks. They want to pick a girl up 948 00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:08,600 Speaker 1: from the strip club and take care of her. She 949 00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 1: doesn't have to work anymore. You know, I was making good. 950 00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:23,319 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm just here, but you know, like 951 00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:25,920 Speaker 1: or even just pick up a girl and just like, oh, 952 00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,840 Speaker 1: you know, just a girl just regular, just doesn't have 953 00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:31,920 Speaker 1: a career, she doesn't do anything with herself and just 954 00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:33,840 Speaker 1: wants to take care of her. I feel like it 955 00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,520 Speaker 1: shows how am I. It shows a lot about a 956 00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:39,799 Speaker 1: man's thinking. You know that if he wants a girl 957 00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,360 Speaker 1: who's successful or not. We applies you have money, you 958 00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:44,719 Speaker 1: could take care of a little money. Ain't too much money. 959 00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:49,360 Speaker 1: We see all the doing me and everything. I mean money, okay, 960 00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:50,960 Speaker 1: but you could afford to take care of a woman 961 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:52,279 Speaker 1: said she didn't have to work. I want to take 962 00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:54,759 Speaker 1: care of a woman person. I want to take care 963 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:58,160 Speaker 1: of him. I won't no woman to have to work. 964 00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,239 Speaker 1: And I'm kind of I'm a little bit and when 965 00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,040 Speaker 1: it comes to that, I feel like, for me, I 966 00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:05,840 Speaker 1: just want you to spend your time looking good, keeping 967 00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:08,680 Speaker 1: me together. So I don't want no woman. I think 968 00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 1: that might be just a little bit of the Southern Yeah, 969 00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:15,239 Speaker 1: I want to meet you. I want you to have 970 00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:17,400 Speaker 1: something going. I want you to being busious and you 971 00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,040 Speaker 1: know you you ain't gotta match me dollar for dollar. 972 00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,400 Speaker 1: But I don't want you to just know, but you 973 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:26,440 Speaker 1: should want a mass of wand girl with ambitions and goals. 974 00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:28,279 Speaker 1: But then when what if she gets at you and 975 00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:31,080 Speaker 1: she's like, what tying a quick job? That's what I think. 976 00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,160 Speaker 1: That's awful, that's what he wants. I just want I 977 00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:37,400 Speaker 1: wanted when I meet you, but then but then I 978 00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:40,560 Speaker 1: got you. You You ain't got the ambision doesn't really work 979 00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:48,879 Speaker 1: that way. Though you can't want. I'm still I'm cool 980 00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:53,120 Speaker 1: with that. I'm cool her using me for what it 981 00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,240 Speaker 1: is that I do like I want to be to provide. 982 00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:56,480 Speaker 1: I want to go out and get it and bring 983 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,279 Speaker 1: it back. But in the meantime, if you home and 984 00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 1: you know, like I'm adding to the plow. We got 985 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,319 Speaker 1: a hundred million because of you. Here's seventy dollars because 986 00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:10,600 Speaker 1: of weeks seventy one million and seventy dollars. Women in 987 00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:13,480 Speaker 1: a bad situation sometimes because now I got to ask 988 00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:15,759 Speaker 1: you for money every time I got to drive, and 989 00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:18,720 Speaker 1: then it don't work. It out was hard. I haven't 990 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:21,080 Speaker 1: been working out because I've been with you for four years, 991 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,640 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna do you know, I ain't that dude. 992 00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:26,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna dude, I want you to have you give 993 00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:29,800 Speaker 1: your own card. I'm gonna give you your own account. 994 00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,400 Speaker 1: That's gonna stay. I wanted to stay here, whether it's 995 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:39,720 Speaker 1: you know, allar bag like where are you from? Because 996 00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,280 Speaker 1: there's a part of the South, because it's part of 997 00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:48,400 Speaker 1: the Sevens that I'm not trying. Fine man, Okay, yeah 998 00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:53,959 Speaker 1: you're not Mann. They just they know how to take 999 00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:57,320 Speaker 1: care of And yeah, I want you to asking me 1000 00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:58,920 Speaker 1: for nothing, so I want to make sure you have 1001 00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:00,400 Speaker 1: it so you don't have to ask me. But what 1002 00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,960 Speaker 1: does you feel vulnerable being with a man that you 1003 00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:06,200 Speaker 1: had to rely on him like for money. I just 1004 00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:09,000 Speaker 1: love to know what that feels like it I would 1005 00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:11,760 Speaker 1: love to have just like that. And it doesn't feel good. 1006 00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:13,240 Speaker 1: I mean I didn't have to rely on him for 1007 00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:15,120 Speaker 1: money because I still made my own money. I just 1008 00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:17,320 Speaker 1: didn't make as much money as I wish used to making, 1009 00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:20,479 Speaker 1: so he did feel that void. But there was times 1010 00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:22,160 Speaker 1: when I had to go to him like I want 1011 00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:23,760 Speaker 1: or I d X y Z, and it just was 1012 00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:26,440 Speaker 1: like but why right, Like I want a new bag, 1013 00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:29,640 Speaker 1: I can't just buy it, but now I gotta ask, 1014 00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:32,880 Speaker 1: And then you act like you have an attitude. Right, 1015 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,080 Speaker 1: And I've been in a relationship where I'm not paying 1016 00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,600 Speaker 1: for anything and he's taking here about anything and everything, 1017 00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:41,720 Speaker 1: and I didn't have a job. And it feels awful, right, 1018 00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,720 Speaker 1: It feels awful having asked for everything you need when 1019 00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,920 Speaker 1: you need pass when hey, man, can you go give 1020 00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:54,600 Speaker 1: me some jam bonds? Bonds like you had six dollars? No, 1021 00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:57,560 Speaker 1: I asked this question now today, like the women I 1022 00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:01,920 Speaker 1: had taken care of. Man no, ye, yeah, it's mama, yes, 1023 00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:06,080 Speaker 1: I ye, but I got you're too expensive, Like, ain't 1024 00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:10,040 Speaker 1: nobody buying your order stuff? Stay home? I stay home. 1025 00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,240 Speaker 1: I cleaned up all that ship you really need to 1026 00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:16,280 Speaker 1: take now, I don't know. I do no lauger, but okay, 1027 00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:21,520 Speaker 1: well you would be a terrible staying home boyfriend. Make 1028 00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:37,160 Speaker 1: pork jobs though. Don't nobody, no, no, y'all eat healthy 1029 00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:39,960 Speaker 1: trade songs. I remember when we first started lip service, 1030 00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:41,800 Speaker 1: I kept saying, we need to get trade songs out here, 1031 00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 1: we need to get tremaine on here. Well, fortunately he 1032 00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:47,680 Speaker 1: did stop by, and of course he didn't disappoint all right, Now, 1033 00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:49,680 Speaker 1: when is it time to stop dotting? This is a 1034 00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:52,400 Speaker 1: question that the ladies were talking about earlier. When do 1035 00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:54,240 Speaker 1: you say, Okay, it's time for me to stop being 1036 00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:56,520 Speaker 1: out here like this, It's time to settle down. Do 1037 00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:58,960 Speaker 1: you feel like you've come to that time yet? I mean, 1038 00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:01,520 Speaker 1: I definitely feel like I've come to that time. Like 1039 01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:03,520 Speaker 1: I said earlier in the interview, I feel like I've 1040 01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:06,520 Speaker 1: come to that place mentally, but in my actions, I'm 1041 01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:08,120 Speaker 1: still doing a lot of the same ship I don't 1042 01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:10,560 Speaker 1: want to do. How are you doing something that you 1043 01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:12,120 Speaker 1: don't want to do? Though? Come on now, I mean 1044 01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:15,040 Speaker 1: that's life. That's like I did it, but I sucked it. 1045 01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:18,240 Speaker 1: But I don't really It's like the circumstances that he's Oh, y'r, 1046 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:22,200 Speaker 1: look who just texted me? Hendot? Do you ever feel 1047 01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:26,000 Speaker 1: like you have to like women just because it's text? 1048 01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:28,920 Speaker 1: I meanything about it. It ain't about what I have 1049 01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:32,560 Speaker 1: to do for real? A lot of times, Uh, I 1050 01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:35,200 Speaker 1: did ever feel like, man, you expected like lip service? Uh? 1051 01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:39,160 Speaker 1: What what was the two though? What like you put 1052 01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:40,840 Speaker 1: that expected you? I was talking about how I was 1053 01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:42,520 Speaker 1: out here doing I was doing. You know what I'm 1054 01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:44,640 Speaker 1: saying I've been having to hold up my reputation since then. 1055 01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:47,760 Speaker 1: I said, I've been a sex did you did say that? 1056 01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:50,560 Speaker 1: And a lot of little stories flowing around about trade 1057 01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:52,440 Speaker 1: songs in the bedroom that you have to live up 1058 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:55,880 Speaker 1: to those expectations songs. I don't know about your stories, 1059 01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:58,959 Speaker 1: but stuff online and stuff like that. Herl was talking about, 1060 01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:01,400 Speaker 1: I hadn't seen some things that I've seen some things, 1061 01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:04,800 Speaker 1: and the expectation bar is high. It's a little bit 1062 01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:09,360 Speaker 1: different for me over here. Do I said, I didn't 1063 01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,320 Speaker 1: hurt the stories, but I also didn't seen something so 1064 01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:15,320 Speaker 1: little different over here. We used to living the same, 1065 01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:17,560 Speaker 1: you know. We did together like my sister like to 1066 01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:20,840 Speaker 1: anybody really watching, it's like a system, and her daughters 1067 01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:24,440 Speaker 1: like my niece like literally so in Atlanta we lived together. 1068 01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,520 Speaker 1: Like so you've seen some ship No, I literally pop 1069 01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:28,440 Speaker 1: popcorn and watched them my home girl like it was 1070 01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:31,080 Speaker 1: you watched him do it, and he I went downstairs 1071 01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:33,280 Speaker 1: and pop popcorn and came in the room and watched 1072 01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:36,120 Speaker 1: some how was he doing. He did a great job. 1073 01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 1: He did a great job. I didn't know you was 1074 01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:43,800 Speaker 1: gonna see Jesus sad. It's a lot of time ago 1075 01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:45,480 Speaker 1: and I want to tell the bit she used to bring. 1076 01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:50,440 Speaker 1: She used to take that dick, point take that dick 1077 01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:53,720 Speaker 1: actually and point your toes. So you were coaching her. Yeah, 1078 01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,600 Speaker 1: I used to bring like sacrificial lambs to the house. 1079 01:01:57,520 --> 01:02:00,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, because I wouldn't leave a house. I 1080 01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:04,080 Speaker 1: work all day, like I'm in the studio Atlanta. It's back. 1081 01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:07,080 Speaker 1: I met on my Space. Yep da, don't nobody know that? 1082 01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:09,400 Speaker 1: You know? Don't nobody know that you met? Nice? We 1083 01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:11,400 Speaker 1: really met on my Space. That's the truth. How did 1084 01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:13,520 Speaker 1: this nobody knows e met on my Space? Explain this? 1085 01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:15,280 Speaker 1: Because he put out there that he was going to 1086 01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:20,080 Speaker 1: be in Atlanta. I was moving to do trade a 1087 01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:23,280 Speaker 1: and I had just moved there and I was working 1088 01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:26,080 Speaker 1: with him already, like he was my got it? What? 1089 01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:31,680 Speaker 1: But that was my ship? Who know everything? So I'm 1090 01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:36,040 Speaker 1: moving to Atlanta. We got this house. We got this house. 1091 01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:41,400 Speaker 1: Shout out Chris, Chris and Chris Anderson. Uh, I get 1092 01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:45,280 Speaker 1: there's two thousand six, two thousand six, March two thousand six. 1093 01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:47,920 Speaker 1: So I'm moved into this house to make them all 1094 01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:51,360 Speaker 1: my albums I've mainly made in the houses because legal 1095 01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:59,360 Speaker 1: at the time. So I walked in the house and 1096 01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:03,920 Speaker 1: it's and it's her own girl, and they got on 1097 01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:15,200 Speaker 1: the Magic City outfits and they cook it album and 1098 01:03:15,520 --> 01:03:17,720 Speaker 1: from that point on, like she just held it down 1099 01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:20,439 Speaker 1: like it won't have a situation where like we were 1100 01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:23,560 Speaker 1: into each other that way like she everybody know it was, 1101 01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,000 Speaker 1: but it really was. So let me ask you this, 1102 01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:27,520 Speaker 1: So let's talk about trades sucking abilities. Since you was 1103 01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:32,960 Speaker 1: there watching him from a young and if you could 1104 01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:36,280 Speaker 1: critique him, what are some things that he needed to 1105 01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:38,000 Speaker 1: work on because he was young at that time. And 1106 01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:40,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure the way you work back then is way 1107 01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:46,360 Speaker 1: different than now. Sure are sure? Honestly, I honestly can't 1108 01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 1: say anything bad about I saw. I can only critique 1109 01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:53,520 Speaker 1: the girl, and I critiqued her on spot okay that 1110 01:03:53,600 --> 01:03:56,600 Speaker 1: she needed to point her toes Artra back. Was it 1111 01:03:56,640 --> 01:03:58,600 Speaker 1: weird for you to have somebody like watching and critiquing 1112 01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:00,920 Speaker 1: the girl and like coaching It was funny. It was 1113 01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,320 Speaker 1: because she was my home girl. It wasn't like a stranger, 1114 01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,400 Speaker 1: like she was my friend and I still know she's 1115 01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:10,280 Speaker 1: like that's the home still people, both of us. Yes, 1116 01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:12,440 Speaker 1: that was our best of lip service. I hope you 1117 01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:14,360 Speaker 1: all enjoyed it as much as I do so many 1118 01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:17,240 Speaker 1: gems here, and we're looking forward to eighteen with all 1119 01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:17,640 Speaker 1: of y'all