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Speaker 1: sah dot com. Rooking Jebels second date update. We got
Speaker 1: a lot of second date updates on this show from
Speaker 1: people who go out with their coworkers, which obviously makes
Speaker 1: it a terrible idea, But don't stop doing it. Continue
Speaker 1: dating your coworkers because we need the content on the show,
Speaker 1: So keep dating your coworkers having to get all screwed
Speaker 1: up and then emails for a second date update. Just
Speaker 1: like Tara, who's on the phone right now. She apparently
Speaker 1: went out with one of her co workers and now
Speaker 1: he's not wanting to go out with her again, and
Speaker 1: she doesn't know why. What's up, Tara? How are you? Hi? Good?
Speaker 1: How are you? I always wonder if like you're calling
Speaker 1: to actually get a second date of border just to
Speaker 1: make things less awkward at work. Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: guess a little bit of both. What's the name of
Speaker 1: the guy you want to call today? Josh? Josh? All right?
Speaker 1: And do you work like closely with him. You see
Speaker 1: him every day or is it just the dudes in
Speaker 1: your office. I don't see him like every day. He's
Speaker 1: not on my team or anything like that, but he's there,
Speaker 1: you know. All Right, So your email said that you
Speaker 1: were set up with this guy through friends. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: were set up by other work friends. Oh. They just
Speaker 1: wanted to create dramas something interested in happening in the
Speaker 1: office space. I was skeptical about it, I have to
Speaker 1: be honest, because he's sort of like the quiet guy
Speaker 1: in the office, seems a little bit shy. But I
Speaker 1: ended up agreeing to it just because my closer friends
Speaker 1: in the office they were like, no, we like, we
Speaker 1: have a good feeling. Just go what'd you guys do?
Speaker 1: I thought the first day, you know, we were going
Speaker 1: to just keep it super super casual, and so we
Speaker 1: just basically went to a bar right after work for
Speaker 1: happy hour. Good and it ended up going so well,
Speaker 1: Like he really opened up. I basically saw him like
Speaker 1: in a new light, you know. Yeah, and we drank
Speaker 1: a little bit more. He kept laughing, and by the
Speaker 1: time that was over, I realized that, like, I don't
Speaker 1: want this day to end. Oh that's such a nice feeling. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so then it ended up being more than what I
Speaker 1: thought of, just like getting a drink after work, we
Speaker 1: went to another bar, and after that bar, we were
Speaker 1: walking outside. We saw this random like music shop and
Speaker 1: I guess he plays the drums. I didn't know at
Speaker 1: that time. We went in and he just starts playing
Speaker 1: the drums and he was so good. God by this point, yeah,
Speaker 1: by this point I joked with him and I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: write me a love song on the drum. If this
Speaker 1: guy does a magic trick, I'm saying, you're lying, Like no,
Speaker 1: I just you know, the night, it just kind of
Speaker 1: kept going. We went to a food truck, we got
Speaker 1: to me, you know, we went, oh, how long did
Speaker 1: you hang out with this dude? Like a long time?
Speaker 1: And I never saw this coming. Yeah, so what happened?
Speaker 1: I mean, did you guys part ways or yeah. So
Speaker 1: he basically walks me into my apartment and we did kiss,
Speaker 1: I mean maybe more so like make out, you know,
Speaker 1: on my front patio, and we said good night, and
Speaker 1: I was it, Okay, that's nice, perfect, It sounds like
Speaker 1: a pretty great date. Yeah, it was really. I was
Speaker 1: so surprised the whole thing. I was just like, Wow,
Speaker 1: what did you text your friends at work who set
Speaker 1: you up? Because I know you gave him an update.
Speaker 1: I did text them that it went really well, but
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be too much about it. So
Speaker 1: when I was at work the next day, I saw Josh.
Speaker 1: We sort of like flirted here and there, we laughed
Speaker 1: if we basically talked about how like we had so
Speaker 1: much fun the night before. We did make plans to
Speaker 1: hang out the next week. Okay, So then over the weekend,
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I get a text from him,
Speaker 1: and it's this really short text and he basically just says, Hey,
Speaker 1: I know we had plans to get together this week,
Speaker 1: but I actually can't make it anymore, like did you
Speaker 1: No other explanation, no other explanation, just basically and not
Speaker 1: even liked a specific day, Like no, it was just
Speaker 1: like I can't So it did you text him back?
Speaker 1: Because maybe he just misses social cues sometimes, because he
Speaker 1: said he was really quiet. So I did see him
Speaker 1: at work the next week, and he seemed so weird,
Speaker 1: like something was definitely off. He was like a little
Speaker 1: timid around me. It seemed like he was sort of
Speaker 1: avoiding me. And I approached him about it. I did.
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, is everything okay? And he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've never been better and awkward okay, I've never been
Speaker 1: better now that I canceled my plans with you? Yeah, right.
Speaker 1: And then I was like, well, we should reschedule our date,
Speaker 1: right like we talked about him. He's like, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, we'll reschedule. I'll text you or I'll call you.
Speaker 1: And he hasn't reached out at all, Nope, other than
Speaker 1: saying that he's doing great, that he's doing great, and
Speaker 1: that he would text or call me to reschedule, but
Speaker 1: he hasn't. But nothing. I'm like so invested in this.
Speaker 1: After that dreamy description of what a great date you
Speaker 1: went on, I feel like I was there, and now
Speaker 1: I feel like slighted by him. I know, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to think like now, of course, I'm getting in my
Speaker 1: head and I'm like, okay, well, what what did I do?
Speaker 1: What happened? What did he? Did he find out something
Speaker 1: about me? Did something I do scare him off? Or
Speaker 1: d Yeah? Is there something he could have found out
Speaker 1: about you? No? No, I would work for a girl,
Speaker 1: just a couple of murders. All right, a couple of murders.
Speaker 1: We'll play a song and then come back and call him.
Speaker 1: We get your Seconday update. Okay, all right, I need
Speaker 1: your help. That's good looking jubil in the morning updates
Speaker 1: if you're just joining us for today's second update. Tera
Speaker 1: is on the phone and she doesn't know why her
Speaker 1: coworker named Josh doesn't want to go out with her again, because,
Speaker 1: according to her, her date was magical. They were set
Speaker 1: up by friends at their office, and then they went
Speaker 1: to happy hour. Happy hour turned into dinner. Dinner turned
Speaker 1: into a music shop where he showed her that he
Speaker 1: knows how to play the drums, and then that turned
Speaker 1: into a food truck, and then something else turned into
Speaker 1: something else, and then there was another thing turning into
Speaker 1: another thing. Anyway, they hung out for like ten hours
Speaker 1: before they finally made out on her porch when he
Speaker 1: walked her home, and then since then he said that
Speaker 1: he's doing great when she's talked to him at the office,
Speaker 1: but he hasn't asked her to hang out again, and
Speaker 1: she's wondering why, and she can't think of anything that
Speaker 1: could have gone wrong. I've invested in this because It's like,
Speaker 1: if the perfect date isn't enough to warrant a call back,
Speaker 1: what is, like, what more could he want from you? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're telling me. Yeah, I mean it's weird and you
Speaker 1: literally can't think of anything. No, I'm literally the only
Speaker 1: thing I can think is that maybe it just all
Speaker 1: happened too quickly, and the more he got on his
Speaker 1: head about it, he's like, whoa, I'm scared, or like,
Speaker 1: this is just too much. That would be best case
Speaker 1: scenario for sure. Yeah, I mean yeah, usually people can
Speaker 1: pinpoint something they think went wrong, and to you, your
Speaker 1: date was just awesome. So yeah, maybe that's it. Also,
Speaker 1: maybe it could have something to do with the fact
Speaker 1: that your co workers too, Like maybe he's like, ah, man,
Speaker 1: I liked her, but I don't want to like date
Speaker 1: somebody that I could see every single day at work.
Speaker 1: He did, though, and maybe that's the reason. I'm just speculating.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that is the reason. All right, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna dial his phone right now, Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hey is this Josh? Yeah, hey man,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning. Um, what jewel from Brook and jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning. It's a radio show. Okay, you're busy
Speaker 1: a little bit right now? Is this so important? Well,
Speaker 1: it's true love important. I don't know. I think what Josh.
Speaker 1: I'm calling you today because we do a segment on
Speaker 1: our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with somebody and then
Speaker 1: end up not calling them back after, they can email
Speaker 1: us to get you on the phone and ask why.
Speaker 1: And we were only got an email about you about
Speaker 1: me doing what? I got an email from somebody who
Speaker 1: went on a date with you, okay, okay, and they
Speaker 1: say they had a great time, but they also say
Speaker 1: it seems like you don't want to go out with
Speaker 1: them again, and they're wondering why I didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker 1: Do you want to know who it is? We're not
Speaker 1: saying did anything wrong. She's trying to figure out what
Speaker 1: she did wrong. Who is it? Her name is Tara? Okay,
Speaker 1: and you guys work in the same office. Yeah, sure, okay.
Speaker 1: And Tara emailed us and then we talked to her
Speaker 1: a little bit about your date. She said that you
Speaker 1: guys had a great time and you were even making
Speaker 1: plans to go out again, but it seems like you
Speaker 1: don't want to go out with her again. I didn't
Speaker 1: say that, but we had a good time. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: she misinterpreting that because she said that you canceled the plans,
Speaker 1: and when she tried to say, okay, so when should
Speaker 1: we reschedule for then she just didn't hear anything back
Speaker 1: from you. She told you that yeah, yeah, well that's
Speaker 1: kind of weird. I would say things changed and I
Speaker 1: didn't call her back. That's all. Okay, what changed? I
Speaker 1: don't even know how to explain it to the thing
Speaker 1: between me and Terror is so confusing. I don't even
Speaker 1: know how to explain this to you at all. Can
Speaker 1: you try? Yeah, I can try. First, I'll tell you
Speaker 1: what she told us, and then you can tell us
Speaker 1: your side of the story. She said you were set
Speaker 1: up through co workers. You guys went to a happy
Speaker 1: hour and that turned into like a ten hour event
Speaker 1: where you did all sorts of things and hung out
Speaker 1: for quite a while, and then you made out. And
Speaker 1: she's seen you around the office since and even asked
Speaker 1: like how you were doing, and you said things were great,
Speaker 1: but you kind of like canceled a date on her,
Speaker 1: and then now you're just not really seeming interested. Is
Speaker 1: that the truth? Partly? All I know is this, we
Speaker 1: went on a date, we kissed, and she's telling everyone
Speaker 1: in the office we did a whole lot more than that.
Speaker 1: What do you mean? I guess she was talking to
Speaker 1: a bunch of ladies in the office and really bragging
Speaker 1: about how good I was in bed. Oh, but you
Speaker 1: guys didn't hook up. No, No, that's weird because she
Speaker 1: didn't tell us that you hooked up. She said, you
Speaker 1: guys ended the night with a really good kiss, And
Speaker 1: that's true, we had a really good kiss, Okay, But
Speaker 1: to the people in your office, she told them that
Speaker 1: you guys hooked up, yeah, and that you were good.
Speaker 1: It sounds like I guess so I wasn't there for it.
Speaker 1: But that's what's happening. Are you sure that it's not
Speaker 1: just like a miscommunication through the gossip chain, you know,
Speaker 1: like maybe she said you had a great makeout session,
Speaker 1: and then someone else added to that, and by the
Speaker 1: time it got back to you, you guys were boning
Speaker 1: or something. I don't know what she said, but whatever
Speaker 1: she said has gotten the whole office into a tizzy.
Speaker 1: I'm getting so much female attension. I don't know what
Speaker 1: to do with it. Wait wait, wait, other female attenion?
Speaker 1: Like other chicks in your office want to go out
Speaker 1: with you? Yeah, more than one. In fact, I've already
Speaker 1: gone out with one of them. Did some of the
Speaker 1: things she said we did with the other girl? What
Speaker 1: you're getting a bunch of action from your office mates
Speaker 1: because of her lying or saying something about you guys
Speaker 1: going out? For sure that she was lying. What if
Speaker 1: this girl that you hooked up with was setting the
Speaker 1: whole thing up so she could get in your pants?
Speaker 1: You're right, I don't know. All I can say is,
Speaker 1: there's the women arrying me every single day ever since
Speaker 1: whatever Tara said, it's been snowballing. Aren't you curious to
Speaker 1: find out what she said? I mean a little bit,
Speaker 1: But in another sense, I really don't care because things
Speaker 1: are going so well for me right now. Well, I'd
Speaker 1: like to know, and I think we should ask her
Speaker 1: because josh TERA's on the other line listening to this
Speaker 1: conversation and wants to talk to you. What TERA's on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and wants to talk to you? No,
Speaker 1: she isn't it? Yes, I am? What's up? What's up?
Speaker 1: Are you hitting me? First of all? Who was doing that?
Speaker 1: What women are asking you out? Look, Tara, I can't
Speaker 1: be in the middle of this. This is really between
Speaker 1: you and them. So you really mean to tell me.
Speaker 1: You're not going to tell me who you're like sleeping
Speaker 1: within the office. Look, the only reason any of these
Speaker 1: women are interested is because what you said? So what
Speaker 1: did you say? Yeah? What did you say? What did
Speaker 1: I say? I don't know. I'm like, who knew that? Josh,
Speaker 1: the shy one in the office, turned out to be
Speaker 1: this like Hercules king of the world. You should you
Speaker 1: should be groveling at my feet. Okay, it sounds like
Speaker 1: you did a great job talking him up. Now everybody
Speaker 1: in your office wants to sleep with him. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: did a really good job. Hold on, Tara, No girl
Speaker 1: just makes up lies about sleeping with somebody when they
Speaker 1: haven't slept with him. That's not like normal girl talk. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't know why I did it. It just kind
Speaker 1: of came out. I was in the moment hyping the
Speaker 1: whole thing up, and when it got to the very
Speaker 1: end of the date, I just wanted him to sound
Speaker 1: like he was even better than he was, and I
Speaker 1: had a feeling we were going to go out again
Speaker 1: and that it actually was going to happen the next
Speaker 1: time we went out, So you did, so you did
Speaker 1: tell people that you guys slept together. It's not like
Speaker 1: I think I might have maybe said that that is
Speaker 1: awful well out for him, Yeah, exactly, Ash, But you
Speaker 1: guys like we're forgetting something here, Like now all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, I'm left in the dust, Like it's like
Speaker 1: he's forgetting that we had such a great time together. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't forget that at all, Tara, And I'm honestly,
Speaker 1: I'm grateful to you. Yeah, you're grateful to me because
Speaker 1: I'm the one that's now like hooking you up with
Speaker 1: all these other girls because I'm the one that like
Speaker 1: talks you up. Well, I don't know. I mean, you
Speaker 1: were the one who was bragging about me, and now
Speaker 1: I'm the one benefiting from all your lives. So what
Speaker 1: do you want me to do? Seriously, Tara, I feel
Speaker 1: like you should be grateful that he's not super pissed
Speaker 1: at you. Like if some dude went out with you
Speaker 1: and then told all his buddies he slept with you
Speaker 1: and he really didn't, you'd be I rate. Okay, First
Speaker 1: of all, I told one girl that then what I
Speaker 1: said to her got blown up in proportion probably to
Speaker 1: every other person that they told in the office. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean. You can't blame her. It's your fault.
Speaker 1: You can't believe her for telling someone else. It's your
Speaker 1: fault for the lie. Yeah, you can't get mad at Megan,
Speaker 1: and she has nothing to do with Wait wait, wait, wait, Megan,
Speaker 1: are you kidding me? So Megan's the one that asked
Speaker 1: you out and you slept with Oops. I didn't need
Speaker 1: to bring that up or anything. You have no right
Speaker 1: to have drama at all. You're the one that created
Speaker 1: all of this, Okay, But Megan is the one that
Speaker 1: I told, and clearly it's totally messed up. But now,
Speaker 1: right after I have this confidential talk with her, she
Speaker 1: goes and at and like flirts with Josh. And now
Speaker 1: she's the one going on dates and getting screwed. Like literally, Tara,
Speaker 1: this is really awkward. I think for me, probably you
Speaker 1: can we talk outside of this thing. Well not yet, Josh,
Speaker 1: because I do have to ask would you like to
Speaker 1: go out on a second date with Ara? We'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. Megan's not invited. No, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: even want to hear his answer, Like, I don't even
Speaker 1: want to go on a date with him again. This
Speaker 1: is this is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Here.
Speaker 1: He's really good in bed. Oh, I learned my lesson.
Speaker 1: You guys think and you know what, Josh, remember this.
Speaker 1: You were the shy guy before I came along. Okay,
Speaker 1: people have fun, do whatever you need to do, and
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you know you can
Speaker 1: thank for everything. I would like to thank you and
Speaker 1: go out to dinner. No, no, oh my god, you've
Speaker 1: created a monster, Tara. It's gonna be real fun seeing
Speaker 1: around the office now, So let's have fun with that buddy,
Speaker 1: all right, Tara, are you going to talk to this
Speaker 1: Megan girl? Oh yeah, she'll be hearing from me. I
Speaker 1: wish I was in your office just for like a
Speaker 1: couple of days. Now, come on, Tara, don't get so upset.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just a little busy. You know you're
Speaker 1: gonna get your turn too, you know what you're len
Speaker 1: Jewil In the morning, somebody texted into sevent eighty five
Speaker 1: and nine two and said that second date up date
Speaker 1: needs to turn into an awkward Tuesday phone call. I
Speaker 1: kind of agree, if you missed it. Tara went out
Speaker 1: with her coworker his name is Josh, and everything went
Speaker 1: well and they ended up with a good night kiss,
Speaker 1: but he wouldn't commit to a second date. We got
Speaker 1: Josh on the phone and he said that Tara had
Speaker 1: been spreading rumors that they slept together on the date
Speaker 1: when they didn't, and she was bragging about how good
Speaker 1: he was to all of his co workers, which was
Speaker 1: a lie. She claimed she exaggerated the events a little
Speaker 1: bit to make the other lady in the office jealous
Speaker 1: of her life. But since then, rumorous bread and Josh
Speaker 1: has gotten a lot of attention from the other women
Speaker 1: in his office and he's all booked up for dates
Speaker 1: now because everybody thinks he's an excellent lover. What was
Speaker 1: upsetting to me? At no point did Tara everything like
Speaker 1: oh maybe I shouldn't have lied, yees, No, Like that
Speaker 1: was never a realization came to He said he's still
Speaker 1: open to another date with Tara right now. Tara's not
Speaker 1: really interested, so no second date. But I think Josh
Speaker 1: it's going to be just fine. Remember, if you want
Speaker 1: to do a second. Out of that, I'll have to
Speaker 1: do an email the show, and we will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back