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<v Speaker 1>a lot of second date updates on this show from

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<v Speaker 1>people who go out with their coworkers, which obviously makes

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<v Speaker 1>it a terrible idea, But don't stop doing it. Continue

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<v Speaker 1>dating your coworkers because we need the content on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>So keep dating your coworkers having to get all screwed

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<v Speaker 1>up and then emails for a second date update. Just

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<v Speaker 1>like Tara, who's on the phone right now. She apparently

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<v Speaker 1>went out with one of her co workers and now

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<v Speaker 1>he's not wanting to go out with her again, and

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't know why. What's up, Tara? How are you? Hi? Good?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I always wonder if like you're calling

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<v Speaker 1>to actually get a second date of border just to

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<v Speaker 1>make things less awkward at work. Yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>guess a little bit of both. What's the name of

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<v Speaker 1>the guy you want to call today? Josh? Josh? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>And do you work like closely with him. You see

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<v Speaker 1>him every day or is it just the dudes in

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<v Speaker 1>your office. I don't see him like every day. He's

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<v Speaker 1>not on my team or anything like that, but he's there,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. All Right, So your email said that you

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<v Speaker 1>were set up with this guy through friends. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>were set up by other work friends. Oh. They just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to create dramas something interested in happening in the

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<v Speaker 1>office space. I was skeptical about it, I have to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, because he's sort of like the quiet guy

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<v Speaker 1>in the office, seems a little bit shy. But I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up agreeing to it just because my closer friends

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<v Speaker 1>in the office they were like, no, we like, we

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<v Speaker 1>have a good feeling. Just go what'd you guys do?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought the first day, you know, we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to just keep it super super casual, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>just basically went to a bar right after work for

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<v Speaker 1>happy hour. Good and it ended up going so well,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he really opened up. I basically saw him like

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<v Speaker 1>in a new light, you know. Yeah, and we drank

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more. He kept laughing, and by the

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<v Speaker 1>time that was over, I realized that, like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want this day to end. Oh that's such a nice feeling. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so then it ended up being more than what I

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<v Speaker 1>thought of, just like getting a drink after work, we

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<v Speaker 1>went to another bar, and after that bar, we were

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<v Speaker 1>walking outside. We saw this random like music shop and

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<v Speaker 1>I guess he plays the drums. I didn't know at

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<v Speaker 1>that time. We went in and he just starts playing

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<v Speaker 1>the drums and he was so good. God by this point, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>by this point I joked with him and I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>write me a love song on the drum. If this

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<v Speaker 1>guy does a magic trick, I'm saying, you're lying, Like no,

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<v Speaker 1>I just you know, the night, it just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>kept going. We went to a food truck, we got

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<v Speaker 1>to me, you know, we went, oh, how long did

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<v Speaker 1>you hang out with this dude? Like a long time?

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<v Speaker 1>And I never saw this coming. Yeah, so what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you guys part ways or yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>he basically walks me into my apartment and we did kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe more so like make out, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>on my front patio, and we said good night, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was it, Okay, that's nice, perfect, It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty great date. Yeah, it was really. I was

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<v Speaker 1>so surprised the whole thing. I was just like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you text your friends at work who set

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<v Speaker 1>you up? Because I know you gave him an update.

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<v Speaker 1>I did text them that it went really well, but

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be too much about it. So

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<v Speaker 1>when I was at work the next day, I saw Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>We sort of like flirted here and there, we laughed

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<v Speaker 1>if we basically talked about how like we had so

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<v Speaker 1>much fun the night before. We did make plans to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out the next week. Okay, So then over the weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, I get a text from him,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's this really short text and he basically just says, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I know we had plans to get together this week,

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<v Speaker 1>but I actually can't make it anymore, like did you

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<v Speaker 1>No other explanation, no other explanation, just basically and not

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<v Speaker 1>even liked a specific day, Like no, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't So it did you text him back?

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<v Speaker 1>Because maybe he just misses social cues sometimes, because he

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<v Speaker 1>said he was really quiet. So I did see him

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<v Speaker 1>at work the next week, and he seemed so weird,

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<v Speaker 1>like something was definitely off. He was like a little

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<v Speaker 1>timid around me. It seemed like he was sort of

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<v Speaker 1>avoiding me. And I approached him about it. I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey, is everything okay? And he was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been better and awkward okay, I've never been

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<v Speaker 1>better now that I canceled my plans with you? Yeah, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, well, we should reschedule our date,

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<v Speaker 1>right like we talked about him. He's like, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we'll reschedule. I'll text you or I'll call you.

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<v Speaker 1>And he hasn't reached out at all, Nope, other than

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<v Speaker 1>saying that he's doing great, that he's doing great, and

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<v Speaker 1>that he would text or call me to reschedule, but

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't. But nothing. I'm like so invested in this.

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<v Speaker 1>After that dreamy description of what a great date you

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<v Speaker 1>went on, I feel like I was there, and now

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like slighted by him. I know, I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to think like now, of course, I'm getting in my

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<v Speaker 1>head and I'm like, okay, well, what what did I do?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened? What did he? Did he find out something

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<v Speaker 1>about me? Did something I do scare him off? Or

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<v Speaker 1>d Yeah? Is there something he could have found out

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<v Speaker 1>about you? No? No, I would work for a girl,

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<v Speaker 1>just a couple of murders. All right, a couple of murders.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll play a song and then come back and call him.

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<v Speaker 1>We get your Seconday update. Okay, all right, I need

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<v Speaker 1>your help. That's good looking jubil in the morning updates

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just joining us for today's second update. Tera

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone and she doesn't know why her

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<v Speaker 1>coworker named Josh doesn't want to go out with her again, because,

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<v Speaker 1>according to her, her date was magical. They were set

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<v Speaker 1>up by friends at their office, and then they went

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<v Speaker 1>to happy hour. Happy hour turned into dinner. Dinner turned

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<v Speaker 1>into a music shop where he showed her that he

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<v Speaker 1>knows how to play the drums, and then that turned

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<v Speaker 1>into a food truck, and then something else turned into

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<v Speaker 1>something else, and then there was another thing turning into

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<v Speaker 1>another thing. Anyway, they hung out for like ten hours

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<v Speaker 1>before they finally made out on her porch when he

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<v Speaker 1>walked her home, and then since then he said that

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<v Speaker 1>he's doing great when she's talked to him at the office,

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<v Speaker 1>but he hasn't asked her to hang out again, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's wondering why, and she can't think of anything that

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<v Speaker 1>could have gone wrong. I've invested in this because It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>if the perfect date isn't enough to warrant a call back,

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<v Speaker 1>what is, like, what more could he want from you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling me. Yeah, I mean it's weird and you

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<v Speaker 1>literally can't think of anything. No, I'm literally the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing I can think is that maybe it just all

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<v Speaker 1>happened too quickly, and the more he got on his

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<v Speaker 1>head about it, he's like, whoa, I'm scared, or like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just too much. That would be best case

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<v Speaker 1>scenario for sure. Yeah, I mean yeah, usually people can

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<v Speaker 1>pinpoint something they think went wrong, and to you, your

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<v Speaker 1>date was just awesome. So yeah, maybe that's it. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it could have something to do with the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that your co workers too, Like maybe he's like, ah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I liked her, but I don't want to like date

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that I could see every single day at work.

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<v Speaker 1>He did, though, and maybe that's the reason. I'm just speculating.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that is the reason. All right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna dial his phone right now, Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Hey is this Josh? Yeah, hey man,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Um, what jewel from Brook and jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. It's a radio show. Okay, you're busy

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit right now? Is this so important? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's true love important. I don't know. I think what Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you today because we do a segment on

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<v Speaker 1>our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a date with somebody and then

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<v Speaker 1>end up not calling them back after, they can email

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<v Speaker 1>us to get you on the phone and ask why.

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<v Speaker 1>And we were only got an email about you about

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<v Speaker 1>me doing what? I got an email from somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>went on a date with you, okay, okay, and they

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<v Speaker 1>say they had a great time, but they also say

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like you don't want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>them again, and they're wondering why I didn't do anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to know who it is? We're not

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<v Speaker 1>saying did anything wrong. She's trying to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>she did wrong. Who is it? Her name is Tara? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys work in the same office. Yeah, sure, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And Tara emailed us and then we talked to her

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about your date. She said that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys had a great time and you were even making

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<v Speaker 1>plans to go out again, but it seems like you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out with her again. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>say that, but we had a good time. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>she misinterpreting that because she said that you canceled the plans,

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<v Speaker 1>and when she tried to say, okay, so when should

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<v Speaker 1>we reschedule for then she just didn't hear anything back

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<v Speaker 1>from you. She told you that yeah, yeah, well that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of weird. I would say things changed and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call her back. That's all. Okay, what changed? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know how to explain it to the thing

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<v Speaker 1>between me and Terror is so confusing. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know how to explain this to you at all. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you try? Yeah, I can try. First, I'll tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what she told us, and then you can tell us

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<v Speaker 1>your side of the story. She said you were set

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<v Speaker 1>up through co workers. You guys went to a happy

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<v Speaker 1>hour and that turned into like a ten hour event

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<v Speaker 1>where you did all sorts of things and hung out

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<v Speaker 1>for quite a while, and then you made out. And

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<v Speaker 1>she's seen you around the office since and even asked

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<v Speaker 1>like how you were doing, and you said things were great,

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<v Speaker 1>but you kind of like canceled a date on her,

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<v Speaker 1>and then now you're just not really seeming interested. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that the truth? Partly? All I know is this, we

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<v Speaker 1>went on a date, we kissed, and she's telling everyone

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<v Speaker 1>in the office we did a whole lot more than that.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean? I guess she was talking to

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of ladies in the office and really bragging

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<v Speaker 1>about how good I was in bed. Oh, but you

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<v Speaker 1>guys didn't hook up. No, No, that's weird because she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't tell us that you hooked up. She said, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys ended the night with a really good kiss, And

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<v Speaker 1>that's true, we had a really good kiss, Okay, But

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<v Speaker 1>to the people in your office, she told them that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys hooked up, yeah, and that you were good.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like I guess so I wasn't there for it.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's what's happening. Are you sure that it's not

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<v Speaker 1>just like a miscommunication through the gossip chain, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe she said you had a great makeout session,

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<v Speaker 1>and then someone else added to that, and by the

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<v Speaker 1>time it got back to you, you guys were boning

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<v Speaker 1>or something. I don't know what she said, but whatever

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<v Speaker 1>she said has gotten the whole office into a tizzy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting so much female attension. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to do with it. Wait wait, wait, other female attenion?

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<v Speaker 1>Like other chicks in your office want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with you? Yeah, more than one. In fact, I've already

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<v Speaker 1>gone out with one of them. Did some of the

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<v Speaker 1>things she said we did with the other girl? What

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting a bunch of action from your office mates

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<v Speaker 1>because of her lying or saying something about you guys

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<v Speaker 1>going out? For sure that she was lying. What if

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<v Speaker 1>this girl that you hooked up with was setting the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing up so she could get in your pants?

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, I don't know. All I can say is,

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<v Speaker 1>there's the women arrying me every single day ever since

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<v Speaker 1>whatever Tara said, it's been snowballing. Aren't you curious to

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<v Speaker 1>find out what she said? I mean a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>But in another sense, I really don't care because things

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<v Speaker 1>are going so well for me right now. Well, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to know, and I think we should ask her

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<v Speaker 1>because josh TERA's on the other line listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and wants to talk to you. What TERA's on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and wants to talk to you? No,

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<v Speaker 1>she isn't it? Yes, I am? What's up? What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you hitting me? First of all? Who was doing that?

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<v Speaker 1>What women are asking you out? Look, Tara, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>be in the middle of this. This is really between

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<v Speaker 1>you and them. So you really mean to tell me.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not going to tell me who you're like sleeping

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<v Speaker 1>within the office. Look, the only reason any of these

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<v Speaker 1>women are interested is because what you said? So what

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<v Speaker 1>did you say? Yeah? What did you say? What did

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<v Speaker 1>I say? I don't know. I'm like, who knew that? Josh,

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<v Speaker 1>the shy one in the office, turned out to be

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<v Speaker 1>this like Hercules king of the world. You should you

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<v Speaker 1>should be groveling at my feet. Okay, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you did a great job talking him up. Now everybody

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<v Speaker 1>in your office wants to sleep with him. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>did a really good job. Hold on, Tara, No girl

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<v Speaker 1>just makes up lies about sleeping with somebody when they

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<v Speaker 1>haven't slept with him. That's not like normal girl talk. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I did it. It just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of came out. I was in the moment hyping the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing up, and when it got to the very

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<v Speaker 1>end of the date, I just wanted him to sound

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<v Speaker 1>like he was even better than he was, and I

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<v Speaker 1>had a feeling we were going to go out again

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<v Speaker 1>and that it actually was going to happen the next

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<v Speaker 1>time we went out, So you did, so you did

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<v Speaker 1>tell people that you guys slept together. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>I think I might have maybe said that that is

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<v Speaker 1>awful well out for him, Yeah, exactly, Ash, But you

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<v Speaker 1>guys like we're forgetting something here, Like now all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, I'm left in the dust, Like it's like

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<v Speaker 1>he's forgetting that we had such a great time together. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't forget that at all, Tara, And I'm honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm grateful to you. Yeah, you're grateful to me because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the one that's now like hooking you up with

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<v Speaker 1>all these other girls because I'm the one that like

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<v Speaker 1>talks you up. Well, I don't know. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>were the one who was bragging about me, and now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the one benefiting from all your lives. So what

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<v Speaker 1>do you want me to do? Seriously, Tara, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you should be grateful that he's not super pissed

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<v Speaker 1>at you. Like if some dude went out with you

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<v Speaker 1>and then told all his buddies he slept with you

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<v Speaker 1>and he really didn't, you'd be I rate. Okay, First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, I told one girl that then what I

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<v Speaker 1>said to her got blown up in proportion probably to

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<v Speaker 1>every other person that they told in the office. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. You can't blame her. It's your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't believe her for telling someone else. It's your

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<v Speaker 1>fault for the lie. Yeah, you can't get mad at Megan,

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<v Speaker 1>and she has nothing to do with Wait wait, wait, wait, Megan,

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<v Speaker 1>are you kidding me? So Megan's the one that asked

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<v Speaker 1>you out and you slept with Oops. I didn't need

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<v Speaker 1>to bring that up or anything. You have no right

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<v Speaker 1>to have drama at all. You're the one that created

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<v Speaker 1>all of this, Okay, But Megan is the one that

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<v Speaker 1>I told, and clearly it's totally messed up. But now,

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<v Speaker 1>right after I have this confidential talk with her, she

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<v Speaker 1>goes and at and like flirts with Josh. And now

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<v Speaker 1>she's the one going on dates and getting screwed. Like literally, Tara,

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<v Speaker 1>this is really awkward. I think for me, probably you

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<v Speaker 1>can we talk outside of this thing. Well not yet, Josh,

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<v Speaker 1>because I do have to ask would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a second date with Ara? We'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Megan's not invited. No, you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even want to hear his answer, Like, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>want to go on a date with him again. This

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<v Speaker 1>is this is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Here.

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<v Speaker 1>He's really good in bed. Oh, I learned my lesson.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys think and you know what, Josh, remember this.

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<v Speaker 1>You were the shy guy before I came along. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>people have fun, do whatever you need to do, and

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, you know you can

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<v Speaker 1>thank for everything. I would like to thank you and

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<v Speaker 1>go out to dinner. No, no, oh my god, you've

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<v Speaker 1>created a monster, Tara. It's gonna be real fun seeing

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<v Speaker 1>around the office now, So let's have fun with that buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Tara, are you going to talk to this

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<v Speaker 1>Megan girl? Oh yeah, she'll be hearing from me. I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I was in your office just for like a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of days. Now, come on, Tara, don't get so upset.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm just a little busy. You know you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get your turn too, you know what you're len

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil In the morning, somebody texted into sevent eighty five

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<v Speaker 1>and nine two and said that second date up date

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<v Speaker 1>needs to turn into an awkward Tuesday phone call. I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of agree, if you missed it. Tara went out

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<v Speaker 1>with her coworker his name is Josh, and everything went

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<v Speaker 1>well and they ended up with a good night kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>but he wouldn't commit to a second date. We got

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<v Speaker 1>Josh on the phone and he said that Tara had

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<v Speaker 1>been spreading rumors that they slept together on the date

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<v Speaker 1>when they didn't, and she was bragging about how good

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<v Speaker 1>he was to all of his co workers, which was

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<v Speaker 1>a lie. She claimed she exaggerated the events a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit to make the other lady in the office jealous

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<v Speaker 1>of her life. But since then, rumorous bread and Josh

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<v Speaker 1>has gotten a lot of attention from the other women

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<v Speaker 1>in his office and he's all booked up for dates

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<v Speaker 1>now because everybody thinks he's an excellent lover. What was

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<v Speaker 1>upsetting to me? At no point did Tara everything like

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<v Speaker 1>oh maybe I shouldn't have lied, yees, No, Like that

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<v Speaker 1>was never a realization came to He said he's still

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<v Speaker 1>open to another date with Tara right now. Tara's not

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<v Speaker 1>really interested, so no second date. But I think Josh

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be just fine. Remember, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second. Out of that, I'll have to

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<v Speaker 1>do an email the show, and we will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back