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Speaker 1: sah dot com. Rooking Jebels second date update. We got

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Speaker 1: a lot of second date updates on this show from

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Speaker 1: people who go out with their coworkers, which obviously makes

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Speaker 1: it a terrible idea, But don't stop doing it. Continue

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Speaker 1: dating your coworkers because we need the content on the show,

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Speaker 1: So keep dating your coworkers having to get all screwed

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Speaker 1: up and then emails for a second date update. Just

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Speaker 1: like Tara, who's on the phone right now. She apparently

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Speaker 1: went out with one of her co workers and now

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Speaker 1: he's not wanting to go out with her again, and

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Speaker 1: she doesn't know why. What's up, Tara? How are you? Hi? Good?

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Speaker 1: How are you? I always wonder if like you're calling

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Speaker 1: to actually get a second date of border just to

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Speaker 1: make things less awkward at work. Yeah, I mean I

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Speaker 1: guess a little bit of both. What's the name of

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Speaker 1: the guy you want to call today? Josh? Josh? All right?

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Speaker 1: And do you work like closely with him. You see

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Speaker 1: him every day or is it just the dudes in

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Speaker 1: your office. I don't see him like every day. He's

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Speaker 1: not on my team or anything like that, but he's there,

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Speaker 1: you know. All Right, So your email said that you

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Speaker 1: were set up with this guy through friends. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: were set up by other work friends. Oh. They just

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Speaker 1: office space. I was skeptical about it, I have to

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Speaker 1: be honest, because he's sort of like the quiet guy

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Speaker 1: have a good feeling. Just go what'd you guys do?

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Speaker 1: I thought the first day, you know, we were going

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Speaker 1: just basically went to a bar right after work for

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Speaker 1: Like he really opened up. I basically saw him like

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Speaker 1: a little bit more. He kept laughing, and by the

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Speaker 1: want this day to end. Oh that's such a nice feeling. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so then it ended up being more than what I

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Speaker 1: thought of, just like getting a drink after work, we

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Speaker 1: went to another bar, and after that bar, we were

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Speaker 1: I just you know, the night, it just kind of

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Speaker 1: to me, you know, we went, oh, how long did

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Speaker 1: And I never saw this coming. Yeah, so what happened?

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Speaker 1: he basically walks me into my apartment and we did kiss,

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Speaker 1: when I was at work the next day, I saw Josh.

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Speaker 1: We sort of like flirted here and there, we laughed

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Speaker 1: What happened? What did he? Did he find out something

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Speaker 1: We'll play a song and then come back and call him.

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Speaker 1: We get your Seconday update. Okay, all right, I need

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Speaker 1: your help. That's good looking jubil in the morning updates

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Speaker 1: if you're just joining us for today's second update. Tera

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Speaker 1: is on the phone and she doesn't know why her

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Speaker 1: according to her, her date was magical. They were set

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Speaker 1: to happy hour. Happy hour turned into dinner. Dinner turned

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Speaker 1: you're telling me. Yeah, I mean it's weird and you

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Speaker 1: He did, though, and maybe that's the reason. I'm just speculating.

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hey is this Josh? Yeah, hey man,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Um, what jewel from Brook and jewel

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Speaker 1: me doing what? I got an email from somebody who

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know who it is? We're not

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Speaker 1: like how you were doing, and you said things were great,

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Speaker 1: and then now you're just not really seeming interested. Is

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Speaker 1: went on a date, we kissed, and she's telling everyone

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Speaker 1: in the office we did a whole lot more than that.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean? I guess she was talking to

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Speaker 1: Are you hitting me? First of all? Who was doing that?

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Speaker 1: You're not going to tell me who you're like sleeping

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Speaker 1: I'm grateful to you. Yeah, you're grateful to me because

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Speaker 1: You guys think and you know what, Josh, remember this.

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