WEBVTT - Ep 11: The Guy Who Cheated Death 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:06.520 Novel. 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:13.920 This show contains adult material, references to drugs and swearing. 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:18.360 You have been warned, Like, can I just say I 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.479 love when people talking about going to sex, praide and stuff. 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:22.720 I'm so interested, But like, I can't even go to 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:24.520 a buffet where there's loads of people because I'm like, 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:25.880 oh fuck, jooms. 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:29.080 Had around me. 0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:34.159 I'm a savage. 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:37.520 Are you bored of modern dating? 0:00:37.760 --> 0:00:40.279 Meeting the same people from the same apps in the 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:43.040 same bar You've only chosen because it's close to your 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:46.360 house and you can make your usual quick getaway. It's 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:48.800 time to change the narrative on how we find love. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:51.760 It's time to start looking for love in all the 0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:56.880 wrong places. I'm going on a wild dating adventure, only 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:59.360 picking people who are the total opposite of my type. 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:03.240 And after twenty eight of these dates in two months. 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:05.120 Will I find that special someone? 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:08.160 Or well, this experiment proved that I should just give 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:09.839 up on dating altogether. 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:12.119 It's time to find out. 0:01:13.680 --> 0:01:17.120 I'm Grace Campbell and this is twenty eight dates later. 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:23.959 Hi, Roz, how are you doing a little bit tired? 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:26.559 Yeah, but I'm hoping to get a lot of energy. Neil, 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:28.480 listen to your next date. 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:30.880 You will get energy from this date. 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:32.520 I'm great to have a question. Hey do you meet 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:32.880 this guy? 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:35.760 We like we'd followed each other on Instagram and then 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:37.679 I'd seen that he'd been in like a life changing 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:40.720 accident that had sort of sort of changed the trajectory 0:01:40.760 --> 0:01:42.640 of like what he've been doing. And he has this 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:45.240 French bulldog called the Duchess, which is like all over 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:49.000 his Instagram, and I've sort of found him quite fascinating. 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:51.080 I sent him his profile to one of my friends 0:01:51.120 --> 0:01:52.520 and he was like, this is just going to be 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:55.040 a joke's date, Like he looks like a lot of farms. 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:57.480 So we went to this pub in Camden and. 0:01:57.360 --> 0:02:01.000 His dog, the Duchess, I must say there before she 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:04.560 was the Duchess and Eddie, my dog, like got on 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:07.800 so well in this pub. And the dogs were pissing 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:10.079 everyone off because they were just like like your dogs, 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:12.519 like playing everywhere, like knocking people's drinks over, like we 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:13.840 just letting them off the lead and they were just 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:16.120 like running around the pub playing. So everybody was really 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:18.760 pissed off. But I did love straight away that he 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:19.440 had a dog. 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:26.280 Oh, I'm so happy to having nice. 0:02:26.160 --> 0:02:31.200 Time Duchess, Ducheit's come here please. Yeah, I sound like 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:32.839 a madman taking around for a wolf. 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:37.800 I kind of got used to. She walked to hill. 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:40.920 And she's fine, and it's got really impressive when they do. 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:44.320 Then another dog comes along, which is fair enough. 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:47.240 I'm like that be ye. 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:51.680 Running across the. 0:02:51.720 --> 0:03:00.240 Field for God's sake. Oh, she's just a little up 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:04.200 on the floor, beautiful contemplating. Do I do I clean 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:04.400 it up? 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:06.679 Now? Wait for her to eat it. She might eat 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:08.520 it having my dog eat it. 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:11.280 No, no, no, absolutely not no, that would be really bad. 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:18.080 Yeah, yeah, sorry, his laugh, his laugh. 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:21.120 And also, what do you see he sounds quite old. 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:23.760 He was, he was older, he was like in his forties. Yeah, 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:25.600 he had two kids. 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:28.840 Yeah, okay, And I love how the dog got sick 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:30.400 and he's like, should I clean it up? 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:32.520 Like, yeah, dude, you're in the dog and pop Rose. 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.720 The dog was so sick like it was a lot 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:36.200 of sick. I was a lot of sick. 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:38.400 Like the Doges and Eddie had been playing for ages 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:39.880 and then the dog throws off, and I like picked 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:41.240 Eddie up. So I'm not laying because you know what, 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:44.119 dogs like, they're sick here. So I was like, absolutely 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:47.560 fucking not and then the dog ate the sick Well 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:49.080 least he didn't have to clean it up. 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:49.840 That's true. 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:53.520 That's true, So make me likewise sick thinking about it. 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:55.560 I know, a green flag for you is someone who 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:58.120 has a dog and who loves their dog as much 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:00.640 as you love Eddie. So I think them all together. 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:01.960 I met a girl yesterday. 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:03.720 I was on the tube and I met this girl 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:05.080 and she had a dog with her and I had 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:07.360 Eddie and we got talking and I was like, oh, 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:08.920 like your dog, like she had a Red Setter and 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:10.880 she was like, well, like this is actually my boyfriend's dog. 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:12.320 I've got an alsatian. I was like, oh my god, 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:14.520 you've both got massive dogs, Like that's man. And she 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:16.240 was like, well, we actually met on a dog walk, 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:18.479 like we were both walking our dogs, and then their 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:20.800 dogs started playing and that's how they met. And now 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:22.400 they've been together for two years. And I was like, 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:26.000 why the fuck has something what happened to me? All 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:27.320 I do when I go on dog walks is get 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:28.479 into fights with middle aged men. 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:32.800 So you went on a date with this guy because 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:35.560 you're really intrigued about his life changing story, So like, 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:37.440 I want to know what happened, like what, like. 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:39.880 Okay, so I think we should just play the clip 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:40.920 where he talks about it. 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:42.200 It's quite a long story though. 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:45.520 So I had a big accidents year. 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:47.840 Oh no, cut long story short. 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:50.719 Came home and I was like fucking raw, and I 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:53.279 went and took a swig of bottle of water that 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:55.599 I thought was what It wasn't war, it was GHP, 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:59.120 and well he put me over for twelve hours. 0:04:59.320 --> 0:05:00.520 Did you have a whole swig? 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:03.600 Yes, thirty forty meals of it where it's usually people 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:04.200 do like one. 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:04.839 Minute at the time. 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:07.440 Twelve hours later at five in the morning, Saturday morning, 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:08.760 wake up? Can wear my phone out? 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:09.040 Safe? 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:12.599 Used the jibs, fucked my head, basically crawled down in 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:14.400 the street to get help, and no one was stopped. 0:05:14.560 --> 0:05:15.440 They thought I was a whino. 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:17.159 So I was dressed like this and I was like, 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:18.080 I need help. 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:20.400 I was like, call me an ambulance like that. 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:22.480 Genuinely, no, that's mad. 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:25.200 I cannot imagine a world in which someone's saying, can 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:26.000 you call me an ambulance? 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.479 I would have liked me an ambulance. 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:29.200 And I'm shouting across the road at people as well, 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:31.719 because I could walk my leg didn't work, got help. 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:34.479 Eventually got to the hospital. I was like, can you 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:36.600 help me? I think I'm fucking dying. And this older 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.440 guy coming and he was like, oh, just add his coffee, 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:41.000 you know what I mean, first job of the day. 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:44.120 He was like, unless I operate on you in the 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:45.680 next couple of hours, you won't make it. 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:47.440 That was the life changing moment. 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:50.480 We were right, so I need you. 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:54.360 So basically to GB, Jeeves is what it's like known 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:58.000 like recreationally, but it's a version of ruth Lynn, like 0:05:58.240 --> 0:05:59.560 that ruth Lyn, not what's. 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:02.560 Rufie's Rufie's at the date rape plug. Yeah, yeah, that's 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:03.240 what Jeeves is. 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:05.320 Jesus is the state rope drug or people take it 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.760 like how people take value and like people take it 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:09.839 as a drug like a recreational drug. 0:06:09.960 --> 0:06:10.799 Okay, okay. 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:12.960 I was like, our great's red flag, he's got red 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:15.920 free read like knowing. 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:18.599 The hangover, Like that's what they take, like in the hangover, 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:22.400 and then that's why they they all give themselves state 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:24.120 raped drug and then they go about have this crazy 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:26.599 night fall asleep, don't remember any of it. So people 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:28.760 like I used to live with someone who took jeeves like, 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:31.440 it's like, it's not just a date rape, it's like 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:33.480 a drug. It's like, you know, not like acid, but 0:06:33.520 --> 0:06:36.599 like people like taking it. He obviously had it in 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:39.560 a bottle, in every bottle, and he's gone into his 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.839 fridge in the middle of the night, thirsty, taking a 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:45.640 massive swig of it. Then date raped himself to the nines, 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:49.360 passed out, basically paralyzed one of his legs, woken up 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.520 like so much longer la. One of the things he said, 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:54.720 which was fucking mad, is that right before he passed out, 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.359 when he realized he drunk it, he called one of 0:06:57.400 --> 0:06:59.520 his best friends and was like, I've just drunk this. 0:06:59.720 --> 0:07:01.800 Can you come right now? And the guy just didn't come, 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:04.480 so he was I was like, that's why. I was like, 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:05.599 are you still friends with that guy? 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:08.280 Like that guy like you could have died, yeah, and 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:10.320 he didn't come and help you, and they apparently friend 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:11.320 said he thought it was a joke. 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:16.360 Oh my god, like sorry. When he first was saying GHP, 0:07:16.480 --> 0:07:17.960 I was like, what is that? And then you explained. 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:19.680 I was like, that's a red flag that he has 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.840 that in his fucking thriage pre mixed. But I didn't 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:23.920 realize it was like quite a. 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:29.440 Yeah, yeah, Jesus, I don't think he had it today rape, 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:30.560 but I think he had it for fun. 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:32.560 Oh my god, that is crazy. 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:34.320 Yeah, it's mad. 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:36.239 I know obviously it's quite crazy story. 0:07:36.240 --> 0:07:38.200 But like you see, you guys do seem to get 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:41.800 on like really well, like you're obviously getting into deep 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:43.040 conversations straight away. 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:44.760 Yeah. Well, I feel like. 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:49.320 I've seen about this on his Instagram, but I wanted 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:51.080 to know what it was because when somebody says that 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:53.680 near death experience, you're like, God, it could be anything, 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:55.000 you know what I mean Like that, I feel like 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:57.360 any near death experience is interesting. 0:07:57.480 --> 0:07:59.640 It's always gonna be an interesting story. But that was 0:07:59.640 --> 0:07:59.960 the story. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:03.680 I was not predicting that he'd overdosed by accident on Jeeves. 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:06.120 Honestly, when I first heard it, I was like, so, 0:08:06.440 --> 0:08:09.360 I accidentally was leaving the house one day with loads 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:12.080 of stuff in my hands and I saw like a 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:15.600 breath freshening spray I have one or whatever, and I grabbed. 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:17.760 I just grabbed the spray and I went twice in 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:19.720 my mouth. I was like and I was like, spat it. 0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:21.880 I was like, oh, what, that's so gone off? I 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:24.000 looked at it and it was my dog steroid medication 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:26.040 I'd askedently spray into my mouth. 0:08:26.240 --> 0:08:27.680 And I was like, oh my god. 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:29.880 So like I ran to the sink and I started 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:30.960 like washing my tongue. 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:33.480 It's like your tongue is so absorbent, like and I 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:34.120 was like, oh. 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:36.120 Shit, like this stuff is so strong you literally have 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:37.720 to wear gloves putting it on your dog. 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:39.600 And I was like, oh fuckd Like what did you fit? 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:40.680 What did your tongue feel like? 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:42.720 I was like, I'm going to start foaming at the 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:44.760 mouth and like pass it. It's gonna be like fucking 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:47.400 Darwin way to die, like the worst way to die, 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:49.880 Like such a silly little bit. So I rang my 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:51.480 cousin who's a vet, and I sent her a phone 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:52.880 and I was like, listen, am I going to die? 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:56.520 And she was just like, look, it's a really strong steroid, 0:08:56.880 --> 0:08:58.559 and like there's loads of other ingredients, but like none 0:08:58.559 --> 0:08:59.360 of them are going to kill you. 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:01.720 They're not talk like wash your tongue really well. 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:03.760 And she was like I don't know what the side 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:06.000 effects will be, but like I don't think you're fine. 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:08.920 I slept all day. I fell asleep. I I was 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:09.600 so drowsy. 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:11.360 It was like he was like I took sleeping tablet, 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:12.400 I could not wake up. 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:14.120 Oh my god, that's mad. 0:09:14.360 --> 0:09:15.959 Yeah, so that shit can happen. 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:19.920 No, one hundred percent, one hundred percent. But I guess like, yeah, 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:21.800 you just have to be so careful. But you also, 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:23.559 is heally. 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:25.920 Shouldn't have GHB like hanging around now for it? No? 0:09:26.240 --> 0:09:27.959 Is that sure? What if one of his kids came 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:28.760 in and drank it? 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:31.160 So any what did he do for work? Like what 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:32.160 I want to know? More? 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:48.240 So, I retrained as a day trader, always fascinated by 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:50.480 the whole Wolf for Wolf Street, right okay, And I 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:52.679 was like, I'm a wanker. I know I can't be 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:59.520 a wanker, so let's just yea yeah, So I retrained him. 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:02.800 There we which was mixed success, and for the last 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:07.320 six months now, I've got very big on the weird 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:10.760 in FLGBTQ scene. So I was dating a trans girl 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:11.360 for a long while. 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:13.360 I'm still very good. 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:15.839 Friends with us to work with her, and she gave 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:18.080 me some jobs kind of like help me with my marketing, 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:20.599 help me with my social amplification, help me kind of 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:22.680 get more audiences. I just gave you a little bit 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:24.720 of advice, and then after the accident, she was like, 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:26.400 I still want to help you. So I'm redesigning her 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:28.600 club underneath. So we're going to rebrand it. We're going 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:34.040 to bring it out as a velvet speakeasy time rebuilding carpet. 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:36.640 Oh god, you're not going to miss it. 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:37.440 There. 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:40.160 Dogs are going to be there. The dog is loved 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.040 by everyone in there. And you can imagine like straight 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:45.600 guy identifies straight slash kind of sections if you want 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:48.000 to get into the midst of it. But straight guy 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:49.880 with fucking dog. 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:57.559 Yeah, yeah, they are literally isn't he a bit of 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:58.080 a ledger? 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:01.000 Yeah? I do really like the guy, like he's he's 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.560 an ast legend. What's going and sexual? 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:05.720 Yeah? I actually asked him because I had no idea. 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:11.560 I've never heard that phrase guy sexual, minosexualosexual sexual. 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:14.400 I think it must be from Latin of going. 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:15.240 Yeah. 0:11:16.280 --> 0:11:19.880 But yeah, it's essentially attraction to the female form. So 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:25.240 I'm attracted to the boobs, the bar, everything, the fires, 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:28.160 everything about women. I'm attracted to regardless of what. 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:29.400 The fuck is between the legs. 0:11:29.480 --> 0:11:32.679 Okay, a connection with you, you could have a cop Yeah, 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:33.560 I don't care. 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:35.439 I lock it up. I'm gonna do whatever with it. 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:38.760 He's like, I'm more attracted to you as a person 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:40.480 than you as a physical being. 0:11:41.040 --> 0:11:43.640 Well physical being, yeah, yeah, because that is. 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:47.440 What instinctively gives you. I discovered that I told everyone, 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:50.400 and I went public with everything, and like all my 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:54.000 mates know about me being into trans all all my 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:55.800 friends kind of found out and it was a very 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:58.400 macho kind of barbecue setting, and I was like, I'm 0:11:58.440 --> 0:11:59.160 not gonna lie anymore. 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:00.480 I'm not gonna learning more. 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:04.119 About in the thing, and so I just become brutally 0:12:04.240 --> 0:12:05.720 honest about everything. 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:06.280 To the poor. 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:10.440 How did that feel? I love him. 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:16.600 He's such a positive because also that's so yeah, like normal, 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:18.400 like obviously the way he's saying it, You're like, yeah, 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:20.040 of course, like yeah, that's what you are. 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:22.000 I don't even though, like there's a cool word for 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:22.319 that guy. 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:24.960 I know exactically, but he obviously would have been someone. 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:27.440 I think he's so macho, like you've seen pictures of him, 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:29.040 but he's like you can hear from his voice, like 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:31.959 he's very like masculine, like quite a laddie, Like I 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:34.319 can imagine what his friends are like. And so I 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:36.120 love the idea of him just telling them at a 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:38.040 barbeca and then all being like, oh cool. 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:40.760 He seems I really really like him, Like he's probably 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:42.679 been one of my favorite so far, and that like 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:46.240 he's just really honest, seems like such a genuine person. 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:50.240 Obviously he's had this life changing incident, which like I 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:52.400 don't know what he was like before, but he seems 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:54.720 like he's just really happy in who he is and. 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:56.480 Never wants to hide anything about himself. 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.360 Yeah, And also I think it was a real like 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.440 I would have met him out and not ever thought 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:05.640 this was someone who would be like now working to 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:09.360 like redesign and open an LGBTQ plus club, Like it's bad, 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:11.800 like the way that I would have stereotyped him, I think. 0:13:12.280 --> 0:13:14.800 And it's just so fun when someone completely defies all 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:16.640 expectations and it's just like a legend. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:17.320 Yeah. 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:19.600 But we were talking about his club, and we were 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:23.000 talking about sex parties, and because I think he was 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:25.719 maybe saying that that's like something that they're into, and 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:27.959 then I was telling him about the sex party that 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:31.120 I went to where I famously had a terrible time. 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:36.480 As soon as I got there, I was like, there's 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:38.400 no chance now I'm going to get involved here, like 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:41.160 maybe in another one, but at this one, I just 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:41.840 knew I was. 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:46.400 So closed. 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:50.160 It was like a dungeon. Like honestly, the keys like 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:53.040 sometimes you need to get yourself. 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:53.320 In the zone. 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:54.400 Yeah, do you know what I mean? 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:56.760 And you're in the moment, you're kind of like there's 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:59.160 a connection there, it's all going good, and then. 0:13:59.080 --> 0:13:59.280 You go. 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:05.640 Yeah and it's like fucking Nigel and he's like seventy 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:11.160 five years old, fucking illnoise. Yeah, I've got food in 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.520 your teeth? Jesus Christ? Is that a bid? 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:13.959 Or is that? 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:15.199 What is that? 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:17.160 Sorry? 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:19.400 The bit where he's like you can I join? 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:22.760 When I was at the freesome, yeah, there was just 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:24.640 like I obviously didn't get involved, but there was this 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:27.840 horrific moment where I was watching a freesome, like a 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:29.600 really good and they were like having a great time 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:30.880 on this bed and they just look like they're having 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:32.920 the best time. And then this guy comes over and 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:34.800 he like sits on the edge of the bed and 0:14:34.840 --> 0:14:36.960 he's like tapping them and has to be like can 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:37.440 you let me in? 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:39.360 Can you let me in? And they're like looking at 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:40.400 him like fuck off. 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:42.280 And then they're like turning back and joining, and then 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:44.200 this guy's like edging in, edging it, like trying, and 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:46.840 it was so sick to watch this guy like beg 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:48.240 friend his way into a freesome. 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:49.600 So that's why when he said that, I was like, 0:14:49.680 --> 0:14:52.040 that's exactly it. Like that sort of bugged me out 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:53.760 so much at a sex party. 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.600 Like, can I just say I love when people talking 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:58.680 about going to sex praise and stuff. I'm so interested, 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:00.760 but like I can't even go to a Buffey where 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:03.800 there's other people because I'm like, oh fuck jeroms' like 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:07.320 I like, I like, I like you to a Buffey breakfast. 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:08.560 I need to be the first one there. 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:10.680 Else I'm like, oh, people are pawn shit, like they're 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:13.080 breathing on it, like you're kidding me out. 0:15:13.480 --> 0:15:15.280 I like just being one to one with someone. 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:17.800 I would find it very difficult, like not knowing someone 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:19.920 and not knowing yet if they've washed or but that 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:22.520 I am a germophobe, like in everything every sense, like 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:24.880 with food, with everything, like someone touched me, even someone 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:25.640 shaking my hand. 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:28.360 I'm like, oh, so then you would hate a sex party. 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:30.080 It was disgusting. 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:32.840 It was disgusting. I think maybe in that case that 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:35.760 you could have a threesome because then you've like vetted everywhere. 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:36.400 Yeah. 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:38.280 Yeah, And the point of a sex party is it's 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:40.000 like there is people everywhere. 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:41.600 There are people. I remember when I went to the 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:42.000 sex Fi. 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:43.760 I was at the bar and I was ordering a 0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:46.560 Gin and tonic and there was a guy sat on 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:48.000 the barstool next to me at the bar, and then 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:51.240 I turned and the guy sat on the bastle has 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:53.160 like he's like on the edge of the bastle when 0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:55.000 one girl's giving him head and the other girl's like 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:57.960 fingering his asshole at the bar next to me. 0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:01.040 I was like, Oh no, it's Tomasa. 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:03.520 I also think that I like imagine being in a 0:16:03.560 --> 0:16:05.920 treesome and you're the one who's kind of like, who's 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:11.720 sony getting edged out and you're like, oh, you're okay, 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:14.000 you know what I mean? Like that? 0:16:15.600 --> 0:16:17.400 Can you imagine? It's like did you watch Sex in 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:17.840 the City. 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:20.840 Yeah, do you remember when Samantha's going out with that 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:23.200 rich guy, Dick or whatever. His name is, a really 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:25.000 rich guy, and then they have a threesome and the 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:27.800 younger girl and the threesome's pushing Samanth off the fan. 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:30.560 He's like pushing her out, and that's my worst time 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:32.400 that I'll be at a threesome and that I actually 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:34.440