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Speaker 1: Text you will healing textual. You know, this segment was

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Speaker 1: almost called so many other things we considered say yes

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Speaker 1: to the text you thought about texture upper even text

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Speaker 1: by an angel.

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Speaker 2: A really terrible shows that you're basically.

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Speaker 1: Obviously the least confusing title, which doesn't say a whole

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Speaker 1: lot about This was textual healing, And if you haven't

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Speaker 1: heard it before, it's where we help out our listeners

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Speaker 1: that need a little bit of assistance with a text

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Speaker 1: conversation that's giving them some nerves or anxiety.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: Who is today's honored guest that needs some textual healing.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Christie, So Christy, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I start by saying, I'm sorry you're here.

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Speaker 2: There's some problems, but we will work through those.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we want to know how can we help heal

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Speaker 1: you textually?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well here's the thing. I got married young to

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Speaker 3: my my high school sweetheart. We got married just a

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Speaker 2: I think it's cute.

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Speaker 4: Like that's not the problem, right, is it cute?

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Speaker 3: The marriage just didn't last very long. We were just

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Speaker 5: You divorces be cus that's hard though, that's hard.

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Speaker 4: That sucks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we separated, you know, after about a

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Speaker 3: And he was the only guy that I had really

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Speaker 2: I mean, oh wait, wait, is this all recent? Like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it hasn't been very long. It's only

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Speaker 2: So okay, So this is your first foray into the

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Speaker 4: How's it going for you?

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Speaker 3: Well, not that good. I mean a lot of guys

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Speaker 3: just want to hook up and that's not what I'm

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Speaker 4: We're talking about all the above.

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Speaker 2: Have you have you had any good experience?

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Speaker 3: Well, I actually did meet this one guy that I

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Speaker 3: really like, and his name is Dave. Okay, I've been

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Speaker 3: the online dating thing. So we've been texting and we

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, Oh you're taking it real slow.

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Speaker 1: I mean, wants to be scary to get back into

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Speaker 1: the dating pool, especially when you're never really we're in

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Speaker 2: So scary and exciting are usually the same feeling, you

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Speaker 2: just you just interpret them differently, right, So I mean

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Speaker 4: Tell us more about Dave.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a good guy and I find him attractive

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Speaker 3: and he's really, like I said, he's been patient and

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Speaker 3: I'm definitely I mean it's progressing. I do really like him,

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Speaker 3: It's just I wasn't in such a rush to meet,

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is all good, This is all good things.

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Speaker 3: Well, the other night I was having some wine and

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Speaker 3: I decided to send him a picture of myself like

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Speaker 4: Off, Well, good for you. How that go?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know yet. And it's not like that

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Speaker 3: kind of like a little revealing, a little flirty but sexy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so what did he write back?

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Speaker 3: He hasn't even responded yet, that's my problem.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, how long ago did you send it?

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Speaker 3: Well, now it's been over twenty four hours. And I

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Speaker 2: That make no?

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Speaker 5: No, I don't apologize.

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Speaker 2: What are you apologizing for? You said, like, how sexy

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Speaker 2: are we talking on this photo?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'd rather not say, but let him say it

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Speaker 3: was suggested.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I mean I don't think it matters. He should

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Speaker 2: being vulnerable. Then you're met with no worse bonds, not

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know you say your your instinct is

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Speaker 5: Sorry, but here it comes and get blocked.

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Speaker 4: It's usually received better.

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Speaker 2: That is terrible advice. Definitely, okay, you definitely have to

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.

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Speaker 2: Yes, for sure.

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Speaker 1: And you want to sound confident in what you send him.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to sound like regretful that you did this.

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Speaker 1: You need to come off like own it, like that's me,

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Speaker 1: that's who I am.

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Speaker 4: You got to like it.

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Speaker 2: You want to piece like with it, sexy lips. Okay,

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Speaker 2: dangerous a point where we're are gonna help you write

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Speaker 2: this text. Is that what you want from us? Well?

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Speaker 3: Yes, your segment is called textual healing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, is this one of the rare cases where

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Speaker 1: you just send one emoji where you go like studying

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Speaker 2: Again, Yeah, I think it's too easy to ignore. I

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Speaker 2: agree with Alexis. I think that you have to say

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Speaker 2: something that he'll respond to, like something that makes you,

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Speaker 2: like Jeff said, makes you sound confident, but gives him

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Speaker 2: like something about like you're that speechless. Huh, yeah, you

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Speaker 4: Like commercial some of us will have speechless? What like

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Speaker 4: tag it with what's in your wallet?

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think it's bad.

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Speaker 4: Total you don't know.

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Speaker 2: Because it's it's flirty. It's flirty, it's confident. Still, you're

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Speaker 5: I was thinking it's almost funny to be like I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, like if you can, how you say it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I don't know about it, But Christy,

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Speaker 1: what do you think this is your text message?

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Speaker 3: I think something about asking him if I if I

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Speaker 3: left him speechless? I think that sounds kind of good.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll make the point ask him.

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Speaker 5: Don't even just say I often like if you ask

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Speaker 2: Huh, yeah huh, that's all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, and maybe a little emoji, like a little smile.

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Speaker 4: Yeah sure. I think I'm a fan of emergy smirk.

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Speaker 2: Emoji, sir, or like the wink wink.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, wink wink is good. Yeah, So why don't you

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Speaker 1: And you can go ahead and send that right Christy

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Speaker 1: before we give you any more horrible ideas.

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Speaker 3: He'll respond, yeah, okay, I'm doing it.

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Speaker 2: And if he doesn't, you always say oops, wrong person. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that was meant for my mom.

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Speaker 4: I don't know anything, or we can have.

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Speaker 5: Jeffson one of his.

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Speaker 4: One of my pictures. Sorry for what's about to happen

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Speaker 4: to you? All right? Have you sent that, Christy?

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Speaker 3: Yes? And he's texting back. I see dot.

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Speaker 1: Alrighty okay, Well maybe it's working better than I thought.

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Speaker 1: But we need to play a song first, says a

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Speaker 1: good or bad, we'll find out, we'll come back and

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Speaker 1: we'll continue textual healing. See what he had to say

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Speaker 1: right after this, the dreaded sexy pick that goes unanswered,

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Speaker 1: right Brook, that happened within your own family and cousin

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Speaker 5: I think he said something.

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Speaker 2: And how do you know I have a cousin, Bob.

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Speaker 1: Let's not get into details, but for one of our listeners, Christy,

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Speaker 1: she's not getting a response for her picture either. It's

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Speaker 1: been over twenty four hours since she sent it and

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Speaker 4: Really to this point. And this is a guy she

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Speaker 1: Met online and last we left this, Christy sent him.

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Speaker 4: So left you that speechless? Huh?

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Speaker 2: I think that's solid with.

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Speaker 1: A winky emoji, and we were going to break and

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Speaker 1: he seemed to be typing something back Christy.

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Speaker 4: Did he respond.

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Speaker 3: What he did?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: I don't know saw what did it say?

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Speaker 3: He just said, what's going on? I mean, what do

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Speaker 2: What's going on? What's going to ask?

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Speaker 4: Too many questions? He thinks has he seen a female

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Speaker 4: body before?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's just surprised that he got that picture. He

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Speaker 1: just wasn't expecting a sexy pick? What what did I

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Speaker 1: do deserve this?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Maybe reading it in the wrong tone's little joke?

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Speaker 4: How you doing?

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: I'm not really reading it like that.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to be optimistic.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you don't want to point out the fact

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Speaker 5: should somehow get across like you know, I took that

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Speaker 5: just for you, right, like something.

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Speaker 4: That's like, yeah, I like what you're saying. It is

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Speaker 4: a good point.

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Speaker 1: We should be calling this guy out for being like, hey,

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Speaker 1: how did it take you twenty four hours?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And I to force you to respond to this like

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Speaker 1: it's been a full day. You didn't say anything.

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Speaker 4: Are you really that busy? Dude?

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Speaker 2: But you guys, that sounds so needy. Can we do

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Speaker 2: it still in a flirty way because she doesn't want

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Speaker 2: to like. I mean, coming that strong without being flirty

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Speaker 2: could honestly derail everything. We're reading a lot into three

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Speaker 4: Okay? Read you loud and clear.

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Speaker 1: Put a heart emoji in the front of it, in

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Speaker 1: a heart emogi in the what's your deal?

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Speaker 3: Do you really want me to put that?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: No, no, not.

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Speaker 1: That specifically, but I do think you need to put

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Speaker 4: Make him feel like you do it.

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Speaker 2: What if you say, why don't you tell me?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 2: Make him answer his own question.

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Speaker 4: He's confusing, Christy, What do you think? What are you

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Speaker 4: leaning towards?

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Speaker 3: I think I want to say something like it was

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Speaker 3: a full day and you didn't say anything, you know.

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Speaker 3: I do think it's good to say are you that busy?

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Speaker 3: But like with a winky face or something.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean that puts a little bit of flirtation,

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Speaker 1: or you just acknowledge and assume you say, I'm sure

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Speaker 1: you're super busy, but I wanted to distract you. I

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Speaker 1: like that, Or maybe you just go with the are

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Speaker 1: you that busy and cut out the neediness of I

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Speaker 1: sent a whole day waiting for you?

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Speaker 4: Are you really that busy? Winky face?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a little passive aggressive.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that sounds good.

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Speaker 4: Okay, are you that busy?

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Speaker 2: Don't forget the emoji.

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Speaker 4: Emoji is key here.

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Speaker 2: It's like you want to put an emoji on what's

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Speaker 2: going on? It could have changed the entire like.

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Speaker 4: Rosy cheeks smile, and it would have made the.

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Speaker 2: Whole Yeah, really agree, idiot with emojis? Maybe he just doesn't.

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Speaker 2: Don't hate people that don't use them the worst. I mean,

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Speaker 2: no one's that bad. I don't know about dudes.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't put all right, christ why don't you go

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Speaker 1: ahead and send that?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, how are you feeling nervous?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but confident?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's nervous.

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Speaker 4: Confident.

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Speaker 5: Do you have backup pictures to send? If he says

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Speaker 5: oh I like it, then you can just fire on

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Speaker 5: three or four.

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Speaker 3: I can find something else. Oh.

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Speaker 6: I think this guy deserves more right now at this point,

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Speaker 6: it's like if he can't react to anything, I mean,

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Speaker 6: I think you made the best point of Like if

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Speaker 6: you just said a selfie, he should have said something.

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Speaker 1: If anything, it's his turn to reciprocate. With a photo

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Speaker 1: of his own.

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Speaker 2: Oh Jackie. Another one wants not just.

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Speaker 4: Wait for the apology text to come in first.

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Speaker 2: What he's texting?

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Speaker 4: Is he texting?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: What what's going on?

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Speaker 3: I don't believe this. He just wrote back that he

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Speaker 3: took his wife and kids to a ballgame. What the hell?

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Speaker 2: I don't know?

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Speaker 3: This is crazy. I'm writing back.

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Speaker 4: Can you read us the whole text? What did he say? Specifically?

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Speaker 3: He said, sorry, I had to take my wife and

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Speaker 3: kids to a ball game.

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Speaker 2: WHOA? Why is so casual? Why is he so open

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Speaker 2: about that?

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Speaker 3: I'm writing back in all caps, wife and kids. I

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Speaker 3: can't believe this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean you, but you have the right number.

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Speaker 5: I know that's a stupid question, but like for sure

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Speaker 5: it's him.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I sent him the pictures right here in the thread.

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Speaker 1: It's weird because he sounds like he acts like you

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Speaker 1: should know about his wife and kids already.

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Speaker 2: Christy, Christy, did you accidentally download the wrong dating app?

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Speaker 2: Was it maybe more like he doesn't have an app

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Speaker 2: that you didn't him?

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Speaker 4: Okay, take back the high five. We shouldn't. Don't find

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Speaker 4: that she's new to the dating world. They're just checking. Okay,

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Speaker 4: I just logged onto dirty dads dot com and there's

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Speaker 4: a lot of days on.

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Speaker 2: Quick for you to log in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sorry, I.

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Speaker 2: Stop it, he wrote back. Sorry, what did he say that?

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure what's happening right now? Did you mean

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Speaker 3: to text someone else? This is your old.

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Speaker 2: Boss, Dave.

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Speaker 3: I'm so embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. So he's just ignoring.

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Speaker 4: That this isn't the guy you were texting online.

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Speaker 3: So embarrassed. Oh my god. I mean, I'm glad you

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Speaker 3: helped me figure this out. But now I'm like, I mean,

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Speaker 3: I'm cool with my old boss. I'm just gonna call

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Speaker 3: him and tell him what happened.

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Speaker 4: You don't want to text him again?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, this is already gotten out of hand.

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Speaker 4: And I realized you, Dave, probably is.

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Speaker 2: Now why would your old boss take this long to

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Speaker 2: reveal who he was?

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Speaker 3: Probably have no idea what I was doing, kind of

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Speaker 3: flirt with him?

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Speaker 2: He was leaving the door open.

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Speaker 3: I hope not.

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Speaker 1: I mean, just like Brook's cousin Bobond, we'll just.

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Speaker 2: Happens all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think I think we've resolved this.

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Speaker 3: That's good. I'm mortied.

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Speaker 2: That is so embarrassed, but.

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Speaker 1: A lot of good things have come out of this.

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Speaker 1: We've learned some lessons. I'm back into my online dating profile.

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Speaker 4: So that's good.

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Speaker 1: And make sure that you're text in seventy five nine too.

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Speaker 1: If you like some help with a textual conversation, we

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Speaker 1: can be the helpers and get you some textual healing.

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Speaker 4: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.