WEBVTT - Episode 66: ft Neef Buck

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<v Speaker 1>Hey West Apples Angela, Ye is a lip service. I

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<v Speaker 1>got my ladies here. I'm start from New Santiago. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>G G McGuire and we got is that special guest? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the trash bad King brought one half of the Young

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<v Speaker 1>Gunner's state property representative. You know, Mr faver do me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. He need to douce himself rather well doing

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<v Speaker 1>this for a long long time. An I was actually

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<v Speaker 1>Stephanie and I were at the Kanye concert last Yes

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<v Speaker 1>we were. And g G, you didn't made in America

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<v Speaker 1>last week this weekend, that's just past. Yes, and NIF

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<v Speaker 1>was out there right absolutely. Shout out to college for

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<v Speaker 1>bringing the gangs out. Me and Chris performing. We brunk

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<v Speaker 1>out Freeway also, so it was lit. It was um.

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<v Speaker 1>We performed in there every year. I think I was

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<v Speaker 1>about to say that we did it. I think we

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<v Speaker 1>did every year. I think this was the fourth year,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm not mistaken. But we cracked it open with

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<v Speaker 1>Jay the first year, so it was big. So it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I wish she was our anniversary to get

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<v Speaker 1>us back together on the same stage. Every year, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I always see young Chris and he'll do stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But me, am, I I was chilling for a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>I was showing for a while and just being behind

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<v Speaker 1>the scenes doing a lot of things, like coming up

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<v Speaker 1>around Jay Biggs and Dame. There's so many other ways

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<v Speaker 1>to get money besides being a rapper. So I learned

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, you know, being behind the scenes with them

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<v Speaker 1>and like doing what I directed every video that me

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<v Speaker 1>and Chris ev you know what I'm saying. So just

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<v Speaker 1>directing and just marketing and promote, just with with everything

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<v Speaker 1>like that, you know what I'm saying, Just being in

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<v Speaker 1>the corporate world and um so I was helping young

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<v Speaker 1>Chris out with a lot of things. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably didn't see me a lot. But I took

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<v Speaker 1>some time off, but now I'm fully back at it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you not like doing interviews? No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I do interviews. I missed, you know. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>ain't saying. Some people hate doing interviews, So I'm cool

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<v Speaker 1>with it. I'm a people person, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>In this industry, you gotta shake hands and kiss babies.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on with it, all right. Well we're gonna shake

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<v Speaker 1>some hands today. We're not gonna kiss any babies, but

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<v Speaker 1>my babies all right. Now, we always start off live

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<v Speaker 1>service with the tip of the day, Now that is

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<v Speaker 1>how do you get out of the friend zone? One

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<v Speaker 1>girlhood us and she said that she always gets stuck

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<v Speaker 1>in the friend zone with guys that she dates, and

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to know what can she do to let

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<v Speaker 1>a guy knows she's interested and try to get some love.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't sure about that. I've never been in the

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<v Speaker 1>friends zone on revery up front, direct and honest, and

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<v Speaker 1>I let a priest know what I wanted, my attentions

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<v Speaker 1>from the gate. So I've never been in there. But

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<v Speaker 1>what about a girl that's in the friends zone? Has

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<v Speaker 1>she ever managed to slide out of there? Because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure there's been a time that you've been friends with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl and then next thing you know, he's open it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's just as natural. That's just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the vibes de vibes in the chemistry there, and then

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<v Speaker 1>if it's meant to be, it's gonna be, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the best thing I could tell. She has

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<v Speaker 1>to have chemistry. I think the friend zone can be

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<v Speaker 1>a deep abyss. I think the friend zone can be

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<v Speaker 1>like the bimu to try and go and want you

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<v Speaker 1>in their bit. It ain't gonn gett now really know.

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<v Speaker 1>But listen, I'm sure everybody at some point has slept

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody that they were friends with initially. For sure.

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<v Speaker 1>That's dangerous. It happens like that all the time, all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. Why do you say that's danger because that's

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you could if things work, you canna have

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<v Speaker 1>like the best relationship with a friend, or if they

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<v Speaker 1>don't work, you not only lose your lover, you lose

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<v Speaker 1>your friend. I think it's hard if you've been in

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<v Speaker 1>a deep said, but if that's really your friend, even

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<v Speaker 1>if things don't work out that way, maybe y'all could

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<v Speaker 1>still be friends. Well, and my experience, well you're ruthless

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<v Speaker 1>and guess what I guess. But and then they end

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<v Speaker 1>up back where they started in the friend zone. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I try to get out, but you ain't really getting out.

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<v Speaker 1>There's people that occasionally smash their friends too. That's just

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<v Speaker 1>like friends with benefits buddies, you know, you know f

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<v Speaker 1>w B. I said a lot of that going on

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<v Speaker 1>out here, Yeah, because I think a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes like you might have a friend that you're kind

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<v Speaker 1>of attracted to, but it could be the circumstances aren't right,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when the circumstances get right, that's when it

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<v Speaker 1>happens that need don't drink. So you don't, guy, You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I drink on occasions, on occasions, but kind of occasion,

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<v Speaker 1>special occasions, like we was turned up all weekend. Plus

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<v Speaker 1>I dropped forever to me eight yesterday, so that's a

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<v Speaker 1>special occasion. Yeah, we could had a toast. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>said you don't drink. I asked, I said, and your

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<v Speaker 1>management say, well, he doesn't really drink. Yeah, on that,

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<v Speaker 1>take some shots, take some show. We got to celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>that part eighty. Now how many parts are you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's just a brand, you know, something

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<v Speaker 1>I started. It's like I look at it like like

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<v Speaker 1>Wayne Wayne mix tapes. He did a million mixtapes, but

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<v Speaker 1>the ones you remember as the dedications, they were so big,

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<v Speaker 1>they had so much influence and they had a big impact.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just said, uh, it was oregonic id all

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<v Speaker 1>came about or whatever. So I just stuck with it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got the cloth on, I got a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff going on with it. So you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>what I stand for, is what I represent anybody ever

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<v Speaker 1>knew me the way I moved, you know what I'm saying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it became my brand. It just was all natural. It

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<v Speaker 1>just all came to life like that. So and you're

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<v Speaker 1>still rep in Philly. We see the video was that

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<v Speaker 1>Vanity grand Yeah used to work there, man. I made

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<v Speaker 1>a video out that night when she was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get me to throw money on this one Pacific girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she was cool with her. I I got

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<v Speaker 1>regulars that I'm cool with that. You know, how does

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<v Speaker 1>that dynamic work? Like? What's that? People? So if you

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<v Speaker 1>people that you cool, if they get mad? Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>GI just she specifically I forget the girl. And you

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<v Speaker 1>remember the girl name? I got the video I can

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<v Speaker 1>show you, but I think she was from out of

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<v Speaker 1>town though she wasn't nobody else. Yeah, it was somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that they bought, we bought up. Yeah, probably probably she was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the feature it was that we had did.

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<v Speaker 1>I got people that I know that work, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>look like you don't want to know. Yeah, like each

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<v Speaker 1>other for a long time, put in that business for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. Pony thing about them that protecting the

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<v Speaker 1>group of girls. They're gonna get their regardless, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. And now mind when they understand that,

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<v Speaker 1>because they do features themselves, so they understand when you know,

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<v Speaker 1>certain girls, listen, let me tell you that I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Miami at the strip club, okay, over

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend, and there was a little altercation because this

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<v Speaker 1>one girl was standing in front of she was standing

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<v Speaker 1>behind me, and she kept being like, you know, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get me to throw money on her. But then

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<v Speaker 1>there was the other two girls was dancing in front

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<v Speaker 1>of us, and so they had said don't throw you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just this way, and she heard them. She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that, don't do that. I was like, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>climb down. That's it's a it's a demographic thing too,

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<v Speaker 1>about like the rules and like how things go down.

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<v Speaker 1>And in Philly there's this thing where they just pick

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<v Speaker 1>up anybody's money and that ship. I literally got into

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<v Speaker 1>it with one of my employees over it because it's

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<v Speaker 1>just so rude and disrespectful. But it's just how they

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<v Speaker 1>are there. It's just like the way of their whole

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<v Speaker 1>little down and it's just not cool, like okay safe

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<v Speaker 1>for instance, so say he in there and he just

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<v Speaker 1>throwing the money up in the air. They think that

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<v Speaker 1>when you throw the money up in the air, then

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<v Speaker 1>it's for anybody that's community money. That's not really the case.

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<v Speaker 1>You're throwing the money up in the air, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>a girl standing in front of you. So what's for

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that's in front of you? Not for the

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<v Speaker 1>girl all the way across the bar to run over

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<v Speaker 1>there like a goddamn seagulls scoop it up, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what they do. So what if there's three girls in

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<v Speaker 1>front of you, then break it down? They break it

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<v Speaker 1>down here. Some girls work together. They've come around with

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<v Speaker 1>the same and break it down together. That's another filliping

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<v Speaker 1>they partner up. They'll partner with anybody. Some girls got

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<v Speaker 1>their own partners. But some girls to see a girl

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<v Speaker 1>that got the same color as the more up. But

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<v Speaker 1>you ever feel bad like a physic girl that's not

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<v Speaker 1>getting no money, and you'd be like, man, let me

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<v Speaker 1>at least husband. Sure, what if she's whacked though, But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I respect they go. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I like to have a good time. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a trick. You know what I'm saying. I never paid

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<v Speaker 1>for no pussy or nothing like that. But I just

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<v Speaker 1>had to have fun. You know, at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, if I come to strip club, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>throw some money. If there's no reason for me to

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<v Speaker 1>be in there. If I'm not gonna throw some money,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no here. Yeah, yeah, that's that's my People that

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<v Speaker 1>come in the club a lot and don't never spend

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<v Speaker 1>nothing and everybody know, but is one of the ones

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<v Speaker 1>that at least now you said that you don't pay

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<v Speaker 1>for pussy, but some guys argue that you're always paying

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<v Speaker 1>for pussy. Way now, you know some guys who don't

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<v Speaker 1>even want to deal with a girl less they want something.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't even feel comfortable. That's just the way they move.

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<v Speaker 1>They feel more comfortable if given the girl need them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. I never had that problem.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. I've been somebody for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, so I having all my name forever, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. So I'm good. You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't mind doing anything but straight like paying

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<v Speaker 1>for something, you know what I'm saying. Of course, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't look out for people. Well, let's talk about some

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<v Speaker 1>first dating rules, okay, and dating rules, because before you

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<v Speaker 1>came here, we were all discussing some dating rules that

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<v Speaker 1>we have. So for a dating rule, on average, how

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<v Speaker 1>much did you spend on the first date? Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>like to eat. I like to eat and drink and

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<v Speaker 1>go out and have fun. So it is no limit

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<v Speaker 1>to that. Think that's what I'm gonna get an estimate

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<v Speaker 1>like this is amount of I could estimate. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>probably spend about this, probably about five hunting dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>they can hanging out. Damns. Yea, y'all y'all can eat

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<v Speaker 1>without drinking for some reason right I'm talking about it

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<v Speaker 1>could be twelve and afternoon with twelve at night. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>need to drinking. Y'all drink with a solid. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>drink and eat at the same time. I have to

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<v Speaker 1>first win a lot. So that's something because that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>girls with like big stomachs, you know, like belly space.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't either one or the other. You're gonna eat

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<v Speaker 1>or you're gonna drink. I cannot multi both. It's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>That's show Atlanta with Donald Glover that he has on effects.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you got the commercial for it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just started and On the particular episode, he's

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<v Speaker 1>taking his baby mom out, but he really don't have

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<v Speaker 1>any money. So his boy he only has like sixty

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<v Speaker 1>seven dollars or something like that until a payday. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So his boy's like, oh, you know, they do happy

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<v Speaker 1>hour at this restaurant, so he takes it there, but

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<v Speaker 1>they stopped the happy hour, so he missed it, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was ordering all kind of stuff. She was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let me get this, and the way she was giving

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<v Speaker 1>her all kinds of suggestions. He was like, I'll take that.

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<v Speaker 1>And then she got to drink. He got water. She's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna make me drink by myself. Now you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta get a drink too. Ya do that too, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's the worst. I don't want to. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>you already know how I feel about guys that don't drink.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't be out with a guy who doesn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get super lit. But I don't mind if you

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<v Speaker 1>have one drink and we have one drink. But I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like if I go out, I need to have

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<v Speaker 1>like one, we need to have one little drinker something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll have I'll have one on two right when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>out to dinner, I can't drink. I'm not drinking alcohol.

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<v Speaker 1>When I'm out to dinner, I'll drink wine, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>definitely i'll have one and I'm then I'm drinking wine

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<v Speaker 1>for lunch. I'm drinking amosa or belity for breakfast branch.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like we European or something. All right, Now, what

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<v Speaker 1>if she orders the most expensive stuff on the menu

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<v Speaker 1>and it feels like she's doing it on purpose? Oh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like that before I said, they just running up the

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<v Speaker 1>tab to check my bank roll to see what you're at. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>does that bother you? Are you just? Man? Are you good? Ma?

0:11:26.200 --> 0:11:28.719
<v Speaker 1>If you follow me? Anybody know me? My ashtaggers, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't eat like this, you know what I'm saying. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I do. Anybody that know me. So, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>before I take my homies out and treat them my

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<v Speaker 1>mom as well, treat them. You know, a pretty young lady,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. So, now, how long do you wait before sex?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you say? What's a good amount of time? I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell the vibes from the first conversation. If I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna hang out with you or whatever like that, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm gonna pus seed, like because I hate to

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<v Speaker 1>waste my time. Man's something you can't get that hate,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. And if you like super cool,

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<v Speaker 1>I might wait long. You know what I'm saying. But

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<v Speaker 1>you just gotta you gotta be beautiful on the inside.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know, you've gotta be sel. If a girl

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<v Speaker 1>is cool, you're weight longer. Yeah. So if she's not cool,

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<v Speaker 1>because because because at the end of the day, pussy

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<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna keep you around. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be personality. You know what I'm saying. That

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's just gonna keep a person around no matter

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<v Speaker 1>what steph Hedlin. Would you say, is that the for me?

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<v Speaker 1>The first sex like was I would wait? I would

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<v Speaker 1>say A dating rule is weight X amount of time. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really have a rule because some guys I'll

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<v Speaker 1>make waight for for a month that mean you like

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<v Speaker 1>them more? No, And some guys I just can't resist.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to have sex with them when I meet them,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So it just depends on

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<v Speaker 1>the situation. Do you ever say I want to have

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<v Speaker 1>sex to him right away, but I'm not going to yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that happens all the time. So when when it's that,

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<v Speaker 1>When it's that when you meet a guy and like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, I need this in my life, then you're

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<v Speaker 1>like okay, but not tonight. And then the next time

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<v Speaker 1>because you feel like you feel like you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gotta make him wait a little bit. Yeah, just make

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<v Speaker 1>him wait at least at the first day. Then the

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<v Speaker 1>second day it went down. So I mean, is it

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<v Speaker 1>safe to say that if you wait longer than you

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<v Speaker 1>probably like a girl more and if you don't wake

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<v Speaker 1>that not necessarily because I know some girls who fun

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<v Speaker 1>on the first night this wifed up, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. And I like, even for yourself personally, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, Like, do you feel like you, um,

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<v Speaker 1>if you like a girl more, you give her more time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. They got to be that chemistry

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<v Speaker 1>and that vibe like, well, you know, just friends. I

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<v Speaker 1>think anybody that's like a boyfriend, a girlfriend or married,

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<v Speaker 1>they you've got to be best friends. You gotta have

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<v Speaker 1>that chemistry and that connection. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That the over power all the bullshit. But I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to what you said why do girls

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<v Speaker 1>do that? Like, like certain girls they like me more,

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<v Speaker 1>so they will put me through more. Like why y'all

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<v Speaker 1>do that? Maybe they want to get to know you better.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like when I like a guy more, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't resist them, you know, I want to be around

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<v Speaker 1>him more. I think that, and I feel like, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I feel like when, um, you know the guys

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<v Speaker 1>he's kind of regular, he's not really important, I'll make

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<v Speaker 1>him suffer, I'll make him wait. I'm telling a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of girls they want to prove something like, no, don't

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<v Speaker 1>turn down with me, Let's keep turning up, go through that,

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<v Speaker 1>because they feel like, you know, if if I make

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<v Speaker 1>him wait longer, if if I may him prove himself

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<v Speaker 1>more respect, then exactly, then he'll respect me more than

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<v Speaker 1>if I just And also, I think in general, women

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<v Speaker 1>feel like men like a challenge two and they do.

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<v Speaker 1>They do like a bit of a challenge. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the only challenge you're giving a man can't just be

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<v Speaker 1>secks you could give. You can still give a man

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<v Speaker 1>challenges after you have socks back, Like I ain't take

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<v Speaker 1>his dig. That's gonna be a challenge, But that's challenge

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<v Speaker 1>straight up missionary that's how I feel like. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of women confusing, Like you know, sex

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<v Speaker 1>is in your only power, especially if sex, especially if

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<v Speaker 1>you want sex, and if anything, you're you get your

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<v Speaker 1>short in yourself. A lot of women sent to use

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<v Speaker 1>sex as a tool, as a weapon, as um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as their their magic trick. And now I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like if you if your pussy is good, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to really worry about it, whether you suck him

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<v Speaker 1>on the first day or you suck him on you

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<v Speaker 1>make him way a year. If it's good, he's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come back. So girls thinking be good and they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the worst. That's I hate a girl every t

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<v Speaker 1>when you get this and I'm telling you she got

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<v Speaker 1>good pussy, and every third really every girl that's crazy

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe that'd be'd be throwing me. It's get real.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of guys think they have good dick too.

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<v Speaker 1>I never talked about that. I think somebody corn nigga

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<v Speaker 1>is corny that do that. Guys do be thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing that. So you don't ask questions, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>talk during sex. You don't feel like just the best

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<v Speaker 1>dick you've ever had. You know, you don't say stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that. But what kind of thing do you say? So?

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say so, but yeah, I talk to him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know. I just got to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment. You know. I can just tell you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I sound crazy telling you about you never know what

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<v Speaker 1>the you're gonna say or what you're gonna do and

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<v Speaker 1>the heat of a moment. All right now, the first

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<v Speaker 1>time a girl has text with you, right, do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that? And now let me ask Stephanie and g first,

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<v Speaker 1>the first time you have sex with a guy, do

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<v Speaker 1>you tell his stick before you have sex? Me? Personally,

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<v Speaker 1>probably so, because I just like sucking dick. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like my favorite activity of the whole, Like why world?

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<v Speaker 1>He said, listen, So me personally, I'm probably gonna want

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<v Speaker 1>to suck his stick. But um or is that something

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<v Speaker 1>you think? Maybe he gotta way And no, but sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I might, depending on who he is or how I

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<v Speaker 1>feel about him, I might just not give it my all.

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<v Speaker 1>I might just give him like half as like a

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<v Speaker 1>half hat. It's a little just a little super fly,

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<v Speaker 1>but not the whole. You're not the full deep throw

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<v Speaker 1>out the full monty you know? Okay, what about your death.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, it depends on um. I want to say

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<v Speaker 1>no just because of no, because I'm paranoid and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, usually when you're first having sex with a guy,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't really really know him for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. But you know, I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>lying if I said that I don't suck dick the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, because if the dick is like really beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>like dick, I can't might non't matter what I say,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if I want to say no and stay protected

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<v Speaker 1>and save sex everything, but if the dick is like

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<v Speaker 1>really beautiful, I'm gonna be like it ends up there

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<v Speaker 1>and is so beautiful, I have to taste it. Yeah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you eat pussy the first time you have sex

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl? Drunk night time? Drunk night time? Well

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta be drunk to do that. You let your

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<v Speaker 1>man inebriation releases all your In additions, does your bear

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<v Speaker 1>getting the way ever my hair? Like come off a

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<v Speaker 1>sucking dick? Like that's serious, Like it's all about like

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<v Speaker 1>as a mental thing. Can you come up for eating pussy?

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<v Speaker 1>I like that's got to be yeah, said she one

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<v Speaker 1>of them. Yeah, that's that's special. That's special. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I told you all. It's a whole little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of squirm action, you know about how you move your

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<v Speaker 1>I have to actually touch you with my hands. Now, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't masturbate while you eat pussy, and why not.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've ever seen a guy every weird

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<v Speaker 1>but I but I've I've known men that got very

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<v Speaker 1>turned on in the act of like they might have

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<v Speaker 1>started eating the pussy and they think with soft and

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<v Speaker 1>by the time they got and if he didn't in

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<v Speaker 1>there's also some guys who you guys need a little

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<v Speaker 1>like they could go through all of that and then

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<v Speaker 1>still not be all the way there. I've never eat

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<v Speaker 1>my pussy and then not be ready to go right

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<v Speaker 1>when I come. He's it's always like, okay, you came,

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<v Speaker 1>turn around, that's the best time to have sex. Right

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<v Speaker 1>after you come. Oh my god, it's amazing. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>best time. I really sent they'd be ready. They wanted

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<v Speaker 1>they need to go ready. That guys will be like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want to have sex, to be but

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<v Speaker 1>just let me eat it. You don't got to do

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<v Speaker 1>nothing because they think after it you want to anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>what me after I come. I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>be touched. But I'm a nice lover. I'm a nice,

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<v Speaker 1>giving lover, so I'll be like, all right, just go quick,

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<v Speaker 1>get it. But I don't want to touch. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>touch me. Like me, but don't like kiss on me

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<v Speaker 1>and lick on me and touch I'm so sensitive, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even touch me at all. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>dick after but sometimes I couldn't, like not want it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll still give it up, like because I know

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<v Speaker 1>he deserves it. Baby got the time is in, It's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I do want this you Sam. That was the next question, right,

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing. I think I'm make adequate noise. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about screaming. Maybe if it's like ascid it hurts,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, But Angela, you were going to ask on

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<v Speaker 1>the first time you have sex? Do you make noise

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<v Speaker 1>when the first have sex? Yeah? You were ready for

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<v Speaker 1>that answer. Yeah, the first time you have sex with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>do you make noise? I'm with the because I make noise.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a talker. I talk a lot to real sex, like, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm saying a lot of daddy's talk. Apanish

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<v Speaker 1>amazing in my head. In my head, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>all Spanish girls starts speaking in Spanish. I'll say the

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<v Speaker 1>mos star saying Spanish when I'm having sex is like

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<v Speaker 1>do your sme you or something like that. That's me

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<v Speaker 1>called my god? Yeah exactly, But so the but the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, you know, you gotta like test the waters.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta see what he's saying, like how how he

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<v Speaker 1>feels about those noises and that extra ship, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because some guys really hate when you're really loud. Some

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<v Speaker 1>guys don't want to hear you. I had a guy

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<v Speaker 1>tell me one time I wasn't making enough noise while

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<v Speaker 1>I was sucking his dick. Do you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>say when I'm that I make noise in my mouth?

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<v Speaker 1>I made a lot of noise, more noise. I make

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of noise on sucking zac soon it's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of it's a lot of slurping sounds. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about that. Guys don't really like that. Depends sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>there's too much. We were talking about that. Your buzz

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<v Speaker 1>all the way underneath the pull ahead of west. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>you need The first time I said to to do

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<v Speaker 1>you make Do you make a lot of noise? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you talk, yeah, talk, I'm smacking, but you see exactly

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<v Speaker 1>like if I have stuck, Yeah, I have sex a

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<v Speaker 1>guy the first time, I'll listen and if he's talking,

0:22:45.800 --> 0:22:51.160
<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh, it's like yeah, you more like rough.

0:22:52.960 --> 0:22:55.159
<v Speaker 1>I think it varies for me, like sometimes I do

0:22:55.280 --> 0:22:57.440
<v Speaker 1>like a ugh and then sometimes I'm just very like.

0:22:57.880 --> 0:22:59.800
<v Speaker 1>It depends on the person, it depends on the time,

0:23:00.000 --> 0:23:02.640
<v Speaker 1>and it ends If I'm drunk, it's probably a good

0:23:02.680 --> 0:23:06.359
<v Speaker 1>time to be absolutely, but if I'm like sober and

0:23:06.440 --> 0:23:08.800
<v Speaker 1>I had a long day and I'm tired, I'd probably

0:23:08.920 --> 0:23:12.119
<v Speaker 1>rather be like very sweet and nice. But you like

0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:14.720
<v Speaker 1>to be choked and smacked and all that. I don't

0:23:14.760 --> 0:23:17.119
<v Speaker 1>like to be well, not okay, smacking my asses, just

0:23:17.200 --> 0:23:19.480
<v Speaker 1>not in my face. I know a couple of people

0:23:19.520 --> 0:23:22.879
<v Speaker 1>here like being smacked in the face that I like

0:23:23.040 --> 0:23:26.159
<v Speaker 1>it a lot. I think the craziest thing I did

0:23:26.359 --> 0:23:30.240
<v Speaker 1>spitting a girl mom. She just kept asking me, that's crazy.

0:23:31.440 --> 0:23:33.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna like. Somebody did that to me one

0:23:33.320 --> 0:23:35.800
<v Speaker 1>time and it disgusted me. I don't say that I've

0:23:35.840 --> 0:23:37.320
<v Speaker 1>never had that happen to me before, and I don't

0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:39.800
<v Speaker 1>really know that. I don't everywhere, but I'm just telling

0:23:40.000 --> 0:23:42.639
<v Speaker 1>far it's doing something like this, you know what I mean?

0:23:42.760 --> 0:23:45.320
<v Speaker 1>Probably just you know, I never shipped on a guy,

0:23:45.400 --> 0:23:47.840
<v Speaker 1>never pistol on the girl, piston a girl before and

0:23:48.160 --> 0:23:50.560
<v Speaker 1>shower or in the bed, and just it was in

0:23:50.680 --> 0:23:55.240
<v Speaker 1>Hotel one in my ship. Okay, yeah, all this ship

0:23:55.280 --> 0:23:58.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing because they asked me, I ain't just I

0:23:58.440 --> 0:24:02.280
<v Speaker 1>just you just wanted to piss on the Did that

0:24:02.359 --> 0:24:05.000
<v Speaker 1>tell you I'm being on a girl? No? That was

0:24:05.080 --> 0:24:07.760
<v Speaker 1>all for them, even even the spitting. What that do

0:24:07.920 --> 0:24:12.720
<v Speaker 1>for you? What spit wet? Um? I don't know. I

0:24:13.560 --> 0:24:16.960
<v Speaker 1>haven't had that. I haven't had that. I haven't had

0:24:17.000 --> 0:24:19.840
<v Speaker 1>a guys with that to me in a while. But um,

0:24:20.280 --> 0:24:24.200
<v Speaker 1>I remember doing it, and it's like, you know, it's

0:24:24.240 --> 0:24:27.520
<v Speaker 1>a moment, you know what I'm saying, Like it comes

0:24:27.640 --> 0:24:30.040
<v Speaker 1>with and you know it comes with a with a

0:24:30.240 --> 0:24:33.360
<v Speaker 1>jaw grab that's what she actually wanted me to choke

0:24:33.600 --> 0:24:43.040
<v Speaker 1>and spiting them. It's definitely I'm Puerto Rico like to

0:24:46.040 --> 0:24:47.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm telling you it comes with like a

0:24:48.080 --> 0:24:50.720
<v Speaker 1>slap and then a face grab and then a spit

0:24:50.800 --> 0:24:53.480
<v Speaker 1>in the mouth. So it's like a whole action. I

0:24:53.600 --> 0:24:56.399
<v Speaker 1>clearly don't like things that rough and you're there like

0:24:56.520 --> 0:25:00.840
<v Speaker 1>a period. It's amazing. Like, I really, I'm not into choking.

0:25:00.840 --> 0:25:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not into slapping. You direct my legs. I kind

0:25:11.040 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 1>of like you to figure it out. But I'm just

0:25:13.119 --> 0:25:16.280
<v Speaker 1>not rough like that. I'm rough, like as far as

0:25:16.359 --> 0:25:18.680
<v Speaker 1>pounding and all of that, but not as far as

0:25:18.760 --> 0:25:26.280
<v Speaker 1>like smacking me and stuff pounding. Sometimes have you ever

0:25:26.320 --> 0:25:28.520
<v Speaker 1>said something stupid during sexy like the fund? Did? I

0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:32.080
<v Speaker 1>just say? Oh my god, I have because you know,

0:25:32.280 --> 0:25:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I smoke a lot of weeds, so sometimes my words don't,

0:25:35.920 --> 0:25:39.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, they don't come out like I can't articulate myself.

0:25:40.280 --> 0:25:43.480
<v Speaker 1>You know. Sometimes I'm like, hi, I'm getting fucked, and

0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:47.520
<v Speaker 1>the words just come out wrong, and it's like, what, like,

0:25:47.880 --> 0:25:51.560
<v Speaker 1>so I can't think of anything right now about another person? Name?

0:25:51.600 --> 0:26:04.560
<v Speaker 1>You haven't up like that, you know where now? I

0:26:04.640 --> 0:26:13.200
<v Speaker 1>did that before too. Yeah, No he didn't care. But

0:26:13.280 --> 0:26:14.960
<v Speaker 1>it was because I had just broke up with my

0:26:15.000 --> 0:26:17.920
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend who I was for five years. And it was

0:26:18.160 --> 0:26:20.720
<v Speaker 1>his name, yeah, I said, And I was drunk and

0:26:20.760 --> 0:26:23.280
<v Speaker 1>I said my ex boyfriend's name, and I was like,

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:26.800
<v Speaker 1>he didn't. I don't know if he noticed. Boy, he

0:26:26.880 --> 0:26:29.879
<v Speaker 1>might have noticed and just not said nothing because he knew,

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:32.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, my situation, because there was somebody I messed

0:26:32.840 --> 0:26:35.240
<v Speaker 1>with before my ex boyfriend and my ex boyfriend broke up,

0:26:35.240 --> 0:26:37.359
<v Speaker 1>and then I started talking to him again, so we

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:40.800
<v Speaker 1>knew each other the whole time. That's gotta hurt. Man, Like,

0:26:41.080 --> 0:26:42.600
<v Speaker 1>for me, if a guy has a guy called you

0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:49.159
<v Speaker 1>the wrong name, no girls to take that ship, you crazy,

0:26:49.200 --> 0:26:51.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll take the Swiss blade right off the side draw

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:57.359
<v Speaker 1>and caught him right there. That's never happened to me.

0:26:57.400 --> 0:26:59.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I would do. I think it

0:26:59.600 --> 0:27:03.159
<v Speaker 1>probably pens, like if it's your boyfriend. Yeah, No, for me,

0:27:03.280 --> 0:27:05.760
<v Speaker 1>it happened. I was cheating on my boyfriend, and because

0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I was so used to having sex with my boyfriend

0:27:07.520 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 1>at the time, I called the other side guy the

0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:14.800
<v Speaker 1>wrong name. He was like eating my pussy and I

0:27:14.920 --> 0:27:17.320
<v Speaker 1>said my boyfriend's name, and he came up and it

0:27:17.400 --> 0:27:19.639
<v Speaker 1>wasn't my boyfriend. I was like, oh he came up.

0:27:24.040 --> 0:27:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I was kind of drunk. I was kind of drunk,

0:27:26.240 --> 0:27:28.399
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, I saw he was a

0:27:28.480 --> 0:27:30.560
<v Speaker 1>little sulty about it, but he went back down right

0:27:31.320 --> 0:27:33.640
<v Speaker 1>he started sucking me. After that, he said, you ain't

0:27:33.680 --> 0:27:37.119
<v Speaker 1>get this. I'm not you don't get that. But he

0:27:37.160 --> 0:27:41.600
<v Speaker 1>made me come, me come, He still made you come. Yeah,

0:27:41.640 --> 0:27:43.040
<v Speaker 1>he made me coming. Then when he came up, I

0:27:43.160 --> 0:27:45.119
<v Speaker 1>was like because I had right when I came, I

0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:49.480
<v Speaker 1>said the name Boom, the wrong name, and he came

0:27:49.560 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 1>up and it was like I just grabbed him and

0:27:53.119 --> 0:27:59.159
<v Speaker 1>like started kissing him, like sorry, or do you just

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:01.440
<v Speaker 1>keep some moved? Then? Nah? I just kept it moving.

0:28:02.359 --> 0:28:03.920
<v Speaker 1>You gotta keep it moving, you gotta keep it rolling.

0:28:04.200 --> 0:28:06.560
<v Speaker 1>But he got a little angry, so he liked giving.

0:28:06.640 --> 0:28:11.879
<v Speaker 1>He started giving me angry sex. So maybe I should

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:16.040
<v Speaker 1>do that again next time. Nanny, do you care for girl?

0:28:16.119 --> 0:28:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Comes do something for me? And I hate when girls don't.

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:22.240
<v Speaker 1>You know, girls will tell you the fun them for

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:24.359
<v Speaker 1>two days. Man, if they could, if we could, man,

0:28:24.480 --> 0:28:27.119
<v Speaker 1>So girls, I like for them to tell me, but

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:29.760
<v Speaker 1>they think if if they tell us, we will stop.

0:28:29.800 --> 0:28:32.920
<v Speaker 1>We get our ship off real fast. So they just

0:28:33.200 --> 0:28:35.440
<v Speaker 1>want some girls hold it in. They're coming. Won't tell you.

0:28:35.480 --> 0:28:38.120
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, But we can feel it. Yeah,

0:28:38.120 --> 0:28:41.360
<v Speaker 1>we can feel it at certain times and you're asking

0:28:41.480 --> 0:28:44.480
<v Speaker 1>us at Nain. They just wanted you to for two days. Yeah,

0:28:44.760 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 1>that's what girl would, Lion says. She didn't come, and

0:28:47.320 --> 0:28:50.840
<v Speaker 1>she did. They want to keep coming. I'm sus so

0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:52.959
<v Speaker 1>why can't they just say that? Because they because they

0:28:53.040 --> 0:28:55.920
<v Speaker 1>think you're gonna hurry up and come after that, you

0:28:55.960 --> 0:28:57.240
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. They think you're gonna get your

0:28:57.240 --> 0:28:58.600
<v Speaker 1>shirt off, like all right, and they don't want you

0:28:58.600 --> 0:29:00.680
<v Speaker 1>to stop. Yeah, they don't want you to stop. I

0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:02.880
<v Speaker 1>would be like, yes, I did, but keep going because

0:29:02.880 --> 0:29:04.880
<v Speaker 1>I want to do it again. That they don't know

0:29:05.040 --> 0:29:07.320
<v Speaker 1>that ship turned us on. When you're telling the Nike

0:29:07.320 --> 0:29:09.600
<v Speaker 1>of that like we're gonna go extras, you know what

0:29:09.720 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 1>us turns the guy on. If you tell him not

0:29:11.280 --> 0:29:13.200
<v Speaker 1>to come and gonna make him come, you'd be like,

0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:16.400
<v Speaker 1>don't come, don't you? I hate when I guess what,

0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:19.280
<v Speaker 1>It never works? He comes, It never works. I was serious,

0:29:19.360 --> 0:29:23.840
<v Speaker 1>I really didn't want it never works. You probably want

0:29:23.840 --> 0:29:27.680
<v Speaker 1>to come fast there. You gotta just shut it up. Now.

0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:30.160
<v Speaker 1>When do you ask somebody about STDs or do you

0:29:30.280 --> 0:29:31.840
<v Speaker 1>do that? Because you know they always tell you you

0:29:32.040 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 1>guys have to have that conversation when you have tested?

0:29:35.640 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 1>When's the last time you had the HIV test? When's

0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:39.880
<v Speaker 1>the last time last time you've seen the gun of college?

0:29:39.920 --> 0:29:42.640
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever asked anyone that ain't gonna hold you.

0:29:42.720 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't remember the last time I asked anybody knows

0:29:45.200 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 1>like that real talk. Nobody ever asked you that we're

0:29:48.320 --> 0:29:51.760
<v Speaker 1>supposed to. That's what we're taught do, y'all do I ain't.

0:29:52.200 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't think y'all do. I mean, this is what

0:29:54.840 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 1>I do because I'm on my appointments, you know, like

0:29:58.040 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 1>I go to the g y N. So what I

0:30:00.920 --> 0:30:03.880
<v Speaker 1>do is I'll just drop like a hand, like I'll

0:30:03.920 --> 0:30:05.640
<v Speaker 1>just bring it up a conversation. Oh I gotta cheat

0:30:05.640 --> 0:30:08.400
<v Speaker 1>on your appointment? Small when's the last time you chucked yourself?

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:11.280
<v Speaker 1>But you know what guys think, if you check yourself,

0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>you don't need to check himself. That's a guy. But

0:30:14.200 --> 0:30:16.280
<v Speaker 1>I take that. I take it back because if I'm

0:30:16.280 --> 0:30:19.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna start sucking somebody roll all that's gonna come into board.

0:30:19.320 --> 0:30:22.440
<v Speaker 1>But you know, you know I'm a magnum constle. I

0:30:22.480 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 1>don't really magnum coming shiping. Yeah kind of say, we're

0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:35.080
<v Speaker 1>actually gonna make for people. It wasn't somebody just somebody

0:30:36.280 --> 0:30:40.720
<v Speaker 1>sum to us. They showed you all no, they said

0:30:40.800 --> 0:30:43.080
<v Speaker 1>no sagnum and they put up a picture of their penis.

0:30:43.160 --> 0:30:45.800
<v Speaker 1>Next to about a glade air freshener and the penis

0:30:45.880 --> 0:30:49.360
<v Speaker 1>was actually bigger like the air fresh right, and he

0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:53.440
<v Speaker 1>said no, sagnum. Yeah, but when when when you start

0:30:53.480 --> 0:30:56.120
<v Speaker 1>talking about sucking somebody wrong, do you have a discussion

0:30:56.160 --> 0:30:58.400
<v Speaker 1>about having raw sex? And did it just happened? Though

0:30:58.600 --> 0:31:01.600
<v Speaker 1>sometimes nobody's ever had I discussing with me? Well, I

0:31:01.720 --> 0:31:03.960
<v Speaker 1>think that the discussion is necessary because you have to

0:31:04.040 --> 0:31:06.920
<v Speaker 1>at that point speak about birth control. Right, we're gonna

0:31:06.920 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 1>take the condom off. It's not just because we're not

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:09.960
<v Speaker 1>trying to catch something. That's because we're not trying to

0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:12.960
<v Speaker 1>handle exactly. But I also feel like if I'm gonna

0:31:13.040 --> 0:31:14.640
<v Speaker 1>not use a condom with you, you already know that

0:31:14.680 --> 0:31:16.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm on birth control or not, and we've already had

0:31:16.760 --> 0:31:20.000
<v Speaker 1>that well enough some girls. Then I don't think that far,

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:22.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, because this is what I do, because I

0:31:22.880 --> 0:31:25.560
<v Speaker 1>do go to the doctor every year. I even got

0:31:25.680 --> 0:31:28.040
<v Speaker 1>an HIV test one time and posted it online because

0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:29.400
<v Speaker 1>I did it for other people to go and get

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:32.680
<v Speaker 1>it for HIV awareness. We were doing this whole testing thing,

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:35.640
<v Speaker 1>and so I had to. I was super nervous by

0:31:35.680 --> 0:31:38.720
<v Speaker 1>the way, and that um getting everybody because you never

0:31:38.840 --> 0:31:41.160
<v Speaker 1>know what could happen? They could have got one in December,

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:45.160
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you was like in Philly sometimes

0:31:45.240 --> 0:31:48.000
<v Speaker 1>we had this little van to pull up here, to

0:31:48.040 --> 0:31:49.960
<v Speaker 1>pull up right on the blocks and someone really in

0:31:50.040 --> 0:31:53.000
<v Speaker 1>the hood and they do it for free. Ever do it? Yeah?

0:31:53.400 --> 0:31:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Before set? What were you thinking about the results and everything?

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:00.280
<v Speaker 1>What was you thinking about? You was waiting and I

0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:04.360
<v Speaker 1>was scared. Everybody is scared because sometimes you slip up

0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:06.560
<v Speaker 1>and do ship, you know what I'm saying them certain nights,

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:10.160
<v Speaker 1>you know form you slip up and do ship. I

0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:12.000
<v Speaker 1>don't know if I've ever asked anybody, well, you know what,

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I definitely have said, have you ever had it STD?

0:32:14.880 --> 0:32:16.600
<v Speaker 1>And if I get tested, I'm like, yo, did you

0:32:16.680 --> 0:32:19.520
<v Speaker 1>get tested too? But we also do think that if

0:32:19.560 --> 0:32:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I've been having sex with you and I don't have anything,

0:32:22.280 --> 0:32:23.959
<v Speaker 1>then you must not have nothing. There was a time

0:32:24.040 --> 0:32:25.840
<v Speaker 1>when I was going to have sex with somebody and

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I asked them when the last time you've been tested?

0:32:28.240 --> 0:32:31.520
<v Speaker 1>And we should probably get tested first, and he did it.

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 1>That's cute now, But if he's like, well, I gotta

0:32:35.840 --> 0:32:39.200
<v Speaker 1>tell you something. I had girls want to fun me wrong,

0:32:39.400 --> 0:32:41.320
<v Speaker 1>like I'd be like knowing they pull out their paperwork,

0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:46.400
<v Speaker 1>We're going when they draw it. Okay, that's weird. Yeah,

0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 1>because I know some girls they don't like the condoms.

0:32:48.760 --> 0:32:56.760
<v Speaker 1>Whoa cos they're amazing. It's some people are because I mean,

0:32:56.920 --> 0:33:00.520
<v Speaker 1>everybody knows that be allergic text and certain they have

0:33:00.560 --> 0:33:02.800
<v Speaker 1>a lot of dams that you could be non allergen.

0:33:02.880 --> 0:33:07.360
<v Speaker 1>I told you my condoms preference back this conversation before.

0:33:07.880 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't like I don't like the way they smell.

0:33:10.560 --> 0:33:13.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't like it. Let me feel. And when I'm

0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:15.360
<v Speaker 1>in a committed relationship, and I've been in it for

0:33:15.400 --> 0:33:17.120
<v Speaker 1>a very long time, but when I was not in

0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:20.160
<v Speaker 1>a committed relationship and I was dating, I definitely had

0:33:20.240 --> 0:33:24.360
<v Speaker 1>my own supply of direct double x L condoms that's

0:33:24.400 --> 0:33:27.600
<v Speaker 1>your type, because that's what I need to use now.

0:33:27.680 --> 0:33:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I would be a little wary if a girl pulled

0:33:29.520 --> 0:33:31.640
<v Speaker 1>out her paperwork and said she's been tested, but then

0:33:31.720 --> 0:33:33.280
<v Speaker 1>she don't know what you have. You know what I'm

0:33:33.280 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 1>saying so important to you that y'all should trade paperwork

0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:49.480
<v Speaker 1>exactly if you feel this though. I don't even know

0:33:49.560 --> 0:33:51.440
<v Speaker 1>what happened to the people work I got when I

0:33:51.480 --> 0:33:53.760
<v Speaker 1>went in December. I just know that it was negative.

0:33:54.680 --> 0:33:56.840
<v Speaker 1>All right, Now, what is a bad impression on the

0:33:56.920 --> 0:33:58.479
<v Speaker 1>first date? Have you ever been on the first date

0:33:58.520 --> 0:34:00.520
<v Speaker 1>with somebody? And what are some things they could do

0:34:00.560 --> 0:34:03.160
<v Speaker 1>that make a bad first impression when y'all get too drunk.

0:34:03.560 --> 0:34:05.720
<v Speaker 1>You know, sometimes liquor. Liquor could be a good thing

0:34:05.800 --> 0:34:08.239
<v Speaker 1>and a bad thing. I didn't see women get uh,

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:11.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, freaky with the liquor and then just while out,

0:34:11.600 --> 0:34:14.640
<v Speaker 1>just still fighting you for no reason. You like, what

0:34:14.800 --> 0:34:17.239
<v Speaker 1>then is going on the first day? Throwing up? And

0:34:17.440 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I didn't, man, I didn't been in the

0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:21.600
<v Speaker 1>bed with girls. Man. One time I was with a

0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:24.840
<v Speaker 1>girl and she was we fucking everything, and we was

0:34:24.960 --> 0:34:27.560
<v Speaker 1>laying down and I heard her like choking and sleep

0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:30.320
<v Speaker 1>like like you know what I'm saying. So yeah, But

0:34:30.400 --> 0:34:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I went over to the other side of the bed

0:34:32.560 --> 0:34:35.560
<v Speaker 1>and got us here long, pretty nice here, and I

0:34:35.680 --> 0:34:39.480
<v Speaker 1>looked over and she was just I took care a

0:34:39.520 --> 0:34:41.880
<v Speaker 1>lot of women, man, in my time, A lot of

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:49.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of women like I didn't see nothing like

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:53.000
<v Speaker 1>being sick and they're leaving you sick? And can you

0:34:53.080 --> 0:34:57.640
<v Speaker 1>imagine that? Ain't yourself? She sleep was here when I'm

0:34:57.680 --> 0:35:00.200
<v Speaker 1>not gonna I definitely U threw up a for it

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:02.520
<v Speaker 1>and fell asleep and woke up. It was my birthday though,

0:35:02.680 --> 0:35:05.560
<v Speaker 1>in all fairness, oh, I remember when I threw up

0:35:05.560 --> 0:35:09.920
<v Speaker 1>outside and you'll let outside. No, your boyfriend's side, your boyfriend,

0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:13.279
<v Speaker 1>everybody left side. I woke up seven o'clock in the

0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:16.480
<v Speaker 1>morning outside in my own JUSTESTI verify it was Angela's

0:35:16.520 --> 0:35:18.960
<v Speaker 1>birthday in Miami. He had somebody always does up on

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:22.000
<v Speaker 1>my birthday. It's just me. Somebody else did throw what

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:24.800
<v Speaker 1>But in our fairness, we left her wear a boyfriend

0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:27.920
<v Speaker 1>who she was staying and so she was in good hands. Now,

0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:30.600
<v Speaker 1>the fact that he left her on the bucky He

0:35:30.640 --> 0:35:32.759
<v Speaker 1>said he tried to wake me up, but he might

0:35:32.760 --> 0:35:34.600
<v Speaker 1>have tried to wake me up too. Yeah, he managed.

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:38.280
<v Speaker 1>I was out of it and girls I had girls

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:42.320
<v Speaker 1>pissing a bit too. That's bad to the most super

0:35:42.400 --> 0:35:45.879
<v Speaker 1>bad bitches. Though. You'd be surprised, man, you'd be surprised

0:35:48.920 --> 0:35:50.719
<v Speaker 1>that you could come back from No. I ain't coming

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:54.520
<v Speaker 1>back from the turn on? What is she bass? What

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:56.040
<v Speaker 1>did she buys you a brand new mattress? And next

0:35:56.080 --> 0:35:59.880
<v Speaker 1>day like, I'm sorry, I want to apologize. Maybe that

0:36:00.760 --> 0:36:02.040
<v Speaker 1>what did you sleep with a girl? And then you

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 1>wake up the next morning, then she just got her

0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:07.800
<v Speaker 1>period in your bed the same. He's like to be

0:36:07.880 --> 0:36:11.919
<v Speaker 1>the same thing that happened to me before. But I'm saying,

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:15.560
<v Speaker 1>was it was it everywhere? No, it wasn't everywhere. Did

0:36:15.800 --> 0:36:18.360
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't everywhere? But it did leak to the sheets,

0:36:18.640 --> 0:36:22.680
<v Speaker 1>And I was no, not really because I don't. I don't.

0:36:22.680 --> 0:36:25.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't girls into the period came on doing the sex,

0:36:25.400 --> 0:36:29.280
<v Speaker 1>so that really I was Actually the blood just smells

0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:31.920
<v Speaker 1>I never knew blood smells into that smells like what

0:36:33.280 --> 0:36:35.520
<v Speaker 1>blood got a older, like if you kind you don't

0:36:35.560 --> 0:36:42.440
<v Speaker 1>smell it. But y'all, blood hasn't older. We're older like blood,

0:36:42.680 --> 0:36:46.600
<v Speaker 1>but you can between period. My blood I get from

0:36:46.600 --> 0:36:54.759
<v Speaker 1>my imperiod smells like the blood it has like a

0:36:54.840 --> 0:36:58.680
<v Speaker 1>little bit of an iron exactly like you know what

0:36:58.760 --> 0:37:05.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, that older not like it's just a difference.

0:37:07.000 --> 0:37:08.279
<v Speaker 1>I know what you're trying to say. But yeah, I

0:37:08.360 --> 0:37:10.319
<v Speaker 1>was scared to tell him, and I had to tell

0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:13.319
<v Speaker 1>him because it was his bad when I told him,

0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:14.800
<v Speaker 1>and I was like telling him like, I'm scared to

0:37:14.800 --> 0:37:16.000
<v Speaker 1>tell you this, but I have to tell you, and

0:37:16.320 --> 0:37:17.680
<v Speaker 1>he was just like, but what and I told him.

0:37:17.719 --> 0:37:19.719
<v Speaker 1>He bust out laughing, like you're scared to tell me

0:37:19.800 --> 0:37:21.440
<v Speaker 1>that you're a woman. And I'm like, I know, but

0:37:21.560 --> 0:37:24.360
<v Speaker 1>it's in your bad. Yeah, we went. I got no

0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:26.799
<v Speaker 1>sheats and everything, and it was fine. You don't get

0:37:26.800 --> 0:37:29.759
<v Speaker 1>all over the matches and everything. It wasn't that bad.

0:37:29.840 --> 0:37:33.120
<v Speaker 1>But I just felt bad because I woke up in blood.

0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:34.680
<v Speaker 1>And you know, I'm a grown next woman. I should

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:37.640
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm getting period. You know, it's one of

0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:39.440
<v Speaker 1>the nights. You know what a bad when you think

0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:41.120
<v Speaker 1>your period is over and he's eating you out and

0:37:41.200 --> 0:37:56.319
<v Speaker 1>it's not my no I have with tampon on the tampon, yeah,

0:37:59.680 --> 0:38:03.400
<v Speaker 1>block coming tip is the one string the string you

0:38:03.400 --> 0:38:09.680
<v Speaker 1>don't know? Yeah, but when you wait, wait, wait waiting

0:38:10.239 --> 0:38:20.480
<v Speaker 1>with the string hanging that hanging why not? No, I'm

0:38:20.560 --> 0:38:23.960
<v Speaker 1>just saying. I'm just saying, when guys eat all the

0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:27.120
<v Speaker 1>all the action is on the top. So right, you

0:38:27.160 --> 0:38:30.359
<v Speaker 1>don't know not to wear the tampon is I can't

0:38:30.400 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 1>see no spring hanging it not, But I think that's

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:38.320
<v Speaker 1>not That's not something. But that's not something you do

0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:41.160
<v Speaker 1>with every time, Dick and Hanry. That's something you do

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:44.000
<v Speaker 1>with your boyfriend. You know what I mean, you don't

0:38:44.040 --> 0:38:49.279
<v Speaker 1>care what's hanging out of your pussy my string? Yeah,

0:38:50.360 --> 0:38:52.799
<v Speaker 1>just don't put the string baby, Yeah, I mean it's

0:38:52.840 --> 0:38:57.239
<v Speaker 1>not like I'll take it. And I'm not like, hey,

0:38:57.320 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you never had a guy put your tampon now to

0:38:59.360 --> 0:39:02.520
<v Speaker 1>have sex? Yes, I did it. See exactly what you're

0:39:02.800 --> 0:39:07.320
<v Speaker 1>eating down the string like she'd be like, no, this

0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:08.960
<v Speaker 1>is my last day and'd be like, you know, y'all

0:39:09.000 --> 0:39:11.279
<v Speaker 1>getting noticed my last day? It's going off? Is the

0:39:11.560 --> 0:39:22.160
<v Speaker 1>you know y'all DM, go let me see and ain't

0:39:22.160 --> 0:39:24.040
<v Speaker 1>the ladies? What makes a bad impression on the first

0:39:24.120 --> 0:39:28.080
<v Speaker 1>date for you guys. There's so many things, but one

0:39:28.160 --> 0:39:30.520
<v Speaker 1>of my pet peeves is how you treat like, if

0:39:30.520 --> 0:39:32.120
<v Speaker 1>we're in a restaurant, how you treat the people that

0:39:32.200 --> 0:39:35.239
<v Speaker 1>work there, servers and what type of Tippically, don't have

0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:39.200
<v Speaker 1>nobody sucking up my food right no reason, don't have

0:39:39.280 --> 0:39:44.840
<v Speaker 1>a nasty attitude food and and and and definitely always

0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:47.799
<v Speaker 1>leave a generous tip and less for whatever reason they

0:39:47.840 --> 0:39:50.839
<v Speaker 1>don't deserve it. And guess what, and all the time

0:39:50.880 --> 0:39:53.680
<v Speaker 1>when you have bad service at the restaurant, the server

0:39:53.920 --> 0:39:56.040
<v Speaker 1>is just the me, the messenger. It's something. It's sometimes

0:39:56.080 --> 0:39:57.719
<v Speaker 1>it's not always their fault, and then we take it

0:39:57.760 --> 0:40:00.239
<v Speaker 1>out on't by not giving them a tipping, you know enough.

0:40:00.320 --> 0:40:02.520
<v Speaker 1>So even then I might not give them as much

0:40:02.520 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 1>as I would have, but I'm never not going to

0:40:04.480 --> 0:40:08.080
<v Speaker 1>leave it to it because that's just not What about indecisiveness.

0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:09.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't like when people are indecisive, Like I like

0:40:10.040 --> 0:40:12.880
<v Speaker 1>for guys to make decisions, you know, like what do

0:40:12.920 --> 0:40:14.359
<v Speaker 1>you want to do? Do you know? What do you hate? Guys?

0:40:14.400 --> 0:40:18.600
<v Speaker 1>What do you want to do? But to hold up y'all, well,

0:40:18.600 --> 0:40:20.680
<v Speaker 1>I might ask you, and what do you want to eat? Them?

0:40:20.680 --> 0:40:21.960
<v Speaker 1>Now you'd be like, I don't care if we see

0:40:22.520 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 1>Frest Goes. I don't want to go there. Yeah, y'all

0:40:26.680 --> 0:40:28.279
<v Speaker 1>don't want How to make up your mind even if

0:40:28.400 --> 0:40:30.880
<v Speaker 1>we should. Okay, so let's say I give you three options.

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:32.960
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, Okay, we can either go to mash shows,

0:40:33.320 --> 0:40:34.680
<v Speaker 1>we go to del Frest Goes That, we could go

0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:37.600
<v Speaker 1>to tow whichever when you want, now you gotta pick,

0:40:38.160 --> 0:40:40.360
<v Speaker 1>don't be like, no, whatever you want, I already narrowed

0:40:40.360 --> 0:40:43.440
<v Speaker 1>it down three. I think women do, like meant to

0:40:43.520 --> 0:40:46.080
<v Speaker 1>be decisive, like to make decisions, like if we ask

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:47.600
<v Speaker 1>you what do you want to do? And then we

0:40:47.680 --> 0:40:49.880
<v Speaker 1>go well, actually I'd rather not go there after that.

0:40:50.000 --> 0:40:53.480
<v Speaker 1>That's fine. Exactly. What makes a bad impression to you

0:40:53.560 --> 0:40:56.640
<v Speaker 1>on the first date. I don't like arrogance. I don't

0:40:56.680 --> 0:40:59.320
<v Speaker 1>like when the guys sits there and talks about himself

0:40:59.520 --> 0:41:03.000
<v Speaker 1>a lot, talks about his money a lot. That's a

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:05.040
<v Speaker 1>big turn off for me on a first day, Like

0:41:05.120 --> 0:41:07.759
<v Speaker 1>I will never speak to your gun, right, Like, I

0:41:07.920 --> 0:41:10.279
<v Speaker 1>just you know, I just like to be normal, you

0:41:10.360 --> 0:41:14.520
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, Let's talk about normal. Let's be normal. Exactly.

0:41:14.840 --> 0:41:16.560
<v Speaker 1>I hate when a guy, Oh, because I do this

0:41:16.680 --> 0:41:18.440
<v Speaker 1>and I hang out with that, and I have this,

0:41:19.760 --> 0:41:22.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, I could do this for you and all

0:41:22.360 --> 0:41:26.160
<v Speaker 1>of that. It's like, right, So we got three or

0:41:26.200 --> 0:41:28.960
<v Speaker 1>four days and so a right. One time, my friend

0:41:29.000 --> 0:41:30.320
<v Speaker 1>went on a date and she made me go on

0:41:30.400 --> 0:41:33.360
<v Speaker 1>a double blind date with like the guy's friend. So

0:41:33.480 --> 0:41:35.400
<v Speaker 1>I was at it was the four of us, and

0:41:36.520 --> 0:41:38.840
<v Speaker 1>it was funny because the guy kept name dropping and

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:41.480
<v Speaker 1>acting like, oh yeah, he was like, oh I know

0:41:41.600 --> 0:41:44.040
<v Speaker 1>this person that person, and he didn't they they didn't

0:41:44.040 --> 0:41:46.360
<v Speaker 1>know who I was. We ended up going to the

0:41:46.440 --> 0:41:48.520
<v Speaker 1>club and they was waiting online and I just walked

0:41:48.600 --> 0:41:52.040
<v Speaker 1>right in with my friend, like, y'all nice. It might

0:41:52.120 --> 0:41:53.960
<v Speaker 1>have been sucked up, but they were so annoying and

0:41:54.040 --> 0:41:57.040
<v Speaker 1>so irritated it was really corny. So yeah, yeah, I

0:41:57.480 --> 0:42:00.480
<v Speaker 1>did the same thing, right, Yeah, but that's a hate that.

0:42:01.320 --> 0:42:03.040
<v Speaker 1>And I agree with the getting drunk thing, And I

0:42:03.120 --> 0:42:05.719
<v Speaker 1>have another fagree with our who got so drunk she

0:42:05.840 --> 0:42:07.600
<v Speaker 1>went to the guy. She ended up spending the night

0:42:07.640 --> 0:42:09.399
<v Speaker 1>at the guy's house and he lived with his mom still,

0:42:10.400 --> 0:42:15.160
<v Speaker 1>and she was throwing up and shooting in the honey.

0:42:15.960 --> 0:42:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I came over a girl house lit and she was

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:20.759
<v Speaker 1>living with her mom before I and I threw up

0:42:20.800 --> 0:42:24.040
<v Speaker 1>all over the house and they put me up. That

0:42:24.200 --> 0:42:26.000
<v Speaker 1>was young though. They put me up in the room,

0:42:26.160 --> 0:42:27.920
<v Speaker 1>and I can hear their mom in the morning cussing

0:42:27.960 --> 0:42:29.719
<v Speaker 1>them to funk out about the ship. You know what

0:42:29.760 --> 0:42:36.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. They said they did it. Yeah, I was lit.

0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:44.239
<v Speaker 1>She had a gun one time. Drug. One time I

0:42:44.320 --> 0:42:46.160
<v Speaker 1>got drunk and I stood in this guy I was

0:42:46.280 --> 0:42:48.520
<v Speaker 1>dating his house and he lived with his mom. He

0:42:48.600 --> 0:42:51.520
<v Speaker 1>lived like in the basement, his mom lived upstairs. So

0:42:52.120 --> 0:42:55.120
<v Speaker 1>she starts calling him, and she was calling him by

0:42:55.160 --> 0:42:57.279
<v Speaker 1>a different name. He didn't tell me his real name,

0:42:58.360 --> 0:43:00.960
<v Speaker 1>just calling his name and I was like who she called?

0:43:01.080 --> 0:43:05.560
<v Speaker 1>He was like, I'm just gonna hear you who? But

0:43:05.719 --> 0:43:07.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know I know him for years. But

0:43:07.960 --> 0:43:10.200
<v Speaker 1>it's funny. I know I know him since because this

0:43:10.320 --> 0:43:12.600
<v Speaker 1>was probably when I was like seventeen years old. I

0:43:12.719 --> 0:43:15.080
<v Speaker 1>know him. That was like his street name. Everybody called

0:43:15.120 --> 0:43:18.600
<v Speaker 1>him that name. But it's a regular boy's name. But

0:43:18.760 --> 0:43:21.960
<v Speaker 1>what's funny is is that he actually has a girlfriend now,

0:43:22.040 --> 0:43:24.640
<v Speaker 1>a baby, moms two kids, and she calls him by

0:43:24.719 --> 0:43:28.200
<v Speaker 1>his fake name, his big name. Yeah. I like, you're

0:43:28.200 --> 0:43:30.160
<v Speaker 1>such a bird, Like you don't even call him his

0:43:30.320 --> 0:43:32.520
<v Speaker 1>real name. I say that about her all the time.

0:43:33.000 --> 0:43:37.239
<v Speaker 1>I'd be telling him, like your girl is. Now, if

0:43:37.280 --> 0:43:39.400
<v Speaker 1>you google somebody right that you were going out with

0:43:39.520 --> 0:43:41.680
<v Speaker 1>and you saw something crazy about them on the internet,

0:43:41.719 --> 0:43:44.319
<v Speaker 1>would you ask him about it. Let's say you google

0:43:44.400 --> 0:43:46.880
<v Speaker 1>the girl and you see that she was a scammer,

0:43:47.000 --> 0:43:48.880
<v Speaker 1>had went to jail, You see him mug shot and

0:43:48.920 --> 0:43:50.920
<v Speaker 1>all of that. Would you bring it up? I'll bring

0:43:51.000 --> 0:43:53.759
<v Speaker 1>it up. What would you say I was googling you?

0:43:54.400 --> 0:43:57.000
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be googling nobody. But if that was the case,

0:43:57.160 --> 0:43:59.160
<v Speaker 1>if I did see something about somebody or something like that.

0:43:59.239 --> 0:44:02.520
<v Speaker 1>I asked him about what's up with that? Right? Well,

0:44:02.600 --> 0:44:04.520
<v Speaker 1>let's say she's like, okay, yes, I did a little

0:44:04.560 --> 0:44:07.200
<v Speaker 1>brief whatever time in jail. I was young, stupid, and

0:44:07.320 --> 0:44:09.359
<v Speaker 1>she was a scammer. I might answer, can she get

0:44:09.440 --> 0:44:18.440
<v Speaker 1>some more ship crime? Could you get? Now? What if

0:44:18.480 --> 0:44:20.640
<v Speaker 1>it was something more severe though? Like what if it

0:44:20.760 --> 0:44:23.680
<v Speaker 1>was like sometimes domestic she stabbed a nigger up or something,

0:44:24.239 --> 0:44:27.440
<v Speaker 1>or like that, some type of like sexual assault or something.

0:44:29.320 --> 0:44:31.600
<v Speaker 1>It could be crazy. I ain't sure, he said, I

0:44:31.680 --> 0:44:33.719
<v Speaker 1>don't know. It depends. If I go to the man

0:44:33.960 --> 0:44:37.160
<v Speaker 1>that I was interested in and I find like that

0:44:37.280 --> 0:44:40.239
<v Speaker 1>he's a sex offender or something like that, I would

0:44:40.280 --> 0:44:42.960
<v Speaker 1>stop talking something. But what if he was getting a

0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:48.920
<v Speaker 1>year old Well that's different, that's not bad. Does it

0:44:49.040 --> 0:44:54.439
<v Speaker 1>tell you all now everything? Oh? It tells you Okay, yeah,

0:44:54.520 --> 0:44:56.560
<v Speaker 1>it tells you the information. But if I google him

0:44:56.600 --> 0:44:59.520
<v Speaker 1>and I see that he was like, you know, raping

0:45:00.200 --> 0:45:03.279
<v Speaker 1>cats or something, I want to I'm not I'm not

0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:05.280
<v Speaker 1>even gonna ask him. I'm just gonna be like, Okay,

0:45:07.560 --> 0:45:11.879
<v Speaker 1>google the guy. You see gallows something something. Um, let's

0:45:11.880 --> 0:45:13.720
<v Speaker 1>say it was a rape charge but it got dropped.

0:45:14.480 --> 0:45:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Would you ask him about it, I probably would ask.

0:45:18.120 --> 0:45:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, listen, the best thing, the best way to

0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:21.799
<v Speaker 1>find out something you want to know is to ask.

0:45:21.920 --> 0:45:23.600
<v Speaker 1>And the close mouth don't get fair. If you won't act,

0:45:23.640 --> 0:45:24.960
<v Speaker 1>you won't never know. And the best way to find

0:45:25.000 --> 0:45:26.960
<v Speaker 1>out somebody else could find out what from the from

0:45:27.880 --> 0:45:29.919
<v Speaker 1>you want to find out about something someone, you don't

0:45:29.920 --> 0:45:32.080
<v Speaker 1>go asking somebody else, Like I'm not gonna ask Stefani

0:45:32.160 --> 0:45:33.880
<v Speaker 1>something about you. I ask you, you know what I mean,

0:45:33.960 --> 0:45:36.359
<v Speaker 1>So I would ask them and if you're gonna get

0:45:36.400 --> 0:45:38.759
<v Speaker 1>the upfront and an honest person like that anyway, So

0:45:39.040 --> 0:45:45.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna ask anybody anything. Probably a lot of people

0:45:46.080 --> 0:45:48.480
<v Speaker 1>for this one, but I mean I'm not. I'm not.

0:45:52.040 --> 0:45:54.000
<v Speaker 1>But don't be surprised with the with the most recent

0:45:54.080 --> 0:45:56.680
<v Speaker 1>and the and with the most um the highest number

0:45:56.960 --> 0:45:59.640
<v Speaker 1>searches are like people search, Like if I put in

0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:04.040
<v Speaker 1>g McGuire, it's gonna say jimguar age, jijimgar daughter, Jim husband,

0:46:04.280 --> 0:46:07.600
<v Speaker 1>gimguire dancing like that's what comes up. Like if you

0:46:07.640 --> 0:46:09.759
<v Speaker 1>don't want to know what comes up? For me, it's

0:46:09.800 --> 0:46:13.160
<v Speaker 1>a Stephanie Santiago and then it's a Stephanie o whost

0:46:13.200 --> 0:46:18.920
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend Stephanie Santiago video. That's what I got most popul

0:46:18.960 --> 0:46:23.759
<v Speaker 1>listen sex tape. Yeah, I got that a lot of video. Yeah,

0:46:24.560 --> 0:46:28.200
<v Speaker 1>you know nief Let's see what it says net worth?

0:46:31.000 --> 0:46:32.840
<v Speaker 1>How much money you work? Yeah, it does, that's the

0:46:32.920 --> 0:46:36.720
<v Speaker 1>first thing. And it says Instagram. Then it says the lyrics,

0:46:36.760 --> 0:46:40.200
<v Speaker 1>and it says jack in the box, this is net worth.

0:46:40.320 --> 0:46:42.360
<v Speaker 1>That's so funny. That's the first. Girls like, let me

0:46:42.560 --> 0:46:46.400
<v Speaker 1>let me see how much money this nigga guy? What

0:46:46.560 --> 0:46:47.839
<v Speaker 1>if you did? What if you were with a girl

0:46:47.880 --> 0:46:49.160
<v Speaker 1>and you and she left her phone on the table

0:46:49.320 --> 0:46:56.160
<v Speaker 1>was open, and you see that your network that I

0:46:56.200 --> 0:46:58.560
<v Speaker 1>don't google, I don't that bad that I would be like,

0:46:58.960 --> 0:47:02.560
<v Speaker 1>she's just googling my worth. You know why I google

0:47:02.640 --> 0:47:05.080
<v Speaker 1>the guys that I speak to, the guys I date.

0:47:05.200 --> 0:47:08.120
<v Speaker 1>I google it because there might be things that are

0:47:08.200 --> 0:47:10.880
<v Speaker 1>there that they don't want to know, so they're not

0:47:10.960 --> 0:47:13.359
<v Speaker 1>making public. But it's all over the place. And then

0:47:13.440 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 1>you just out there not knowing something, and that's already

0:47:17.200 --> 0:47:19.440
<v Speaker 1>all over the place. Everybody knows, you know what I mean.

0:47:20.080 --> 0:47:22.960
<v Speaker 1>So I find myself googling guys. She's but yeah, I

0:47:23.040 --> 0:47:26.520
<v Speaker 1>don't know everybody. The days when you could date somebody

0:47:26.560 --> 0:47:28.759
<v Speaker 1>and only know about them what they tell you. Those

0:47:28.840 --> 0:47:31.160
<v Speaker 1>days are over because now you gotta look at somebody's Twitter.

0:47:31.239 --> 0:47:34.680
<v Speaker 1>You look at their Twitter, you look at their their Snapchat,

0:47:34.800 --> 0:47:37.440
<v Speaker 1>their I g If you go on the first day

0:47:37.480 --> 0:47:39.600
<v Speaker 1>with somebody, would you immediately follow them, like on Twitter

0:47:39.680 --> 0:47:44.560
<v Speaker 1>and Instagram after you? Girls don't girls that I'll be

0:47:44.600 --> 0:47:47.319
<v Speaker 1>dealing with they don't like to follow me. Really, why

0:47:47.480 --> 0:47:49.960
<v Speaker 1>you don't do that? Crazy? They work with emotions and

0:47:50.040 --> 0:47:53.840
<v Speaker 1>feelings and all that. You post like business and you

0:47:53.960 --> 0:47:55.680
<v Speaker 1>post what you're doing with your life like you don't

0:47:55.680 --> 0:47:59.680
<v Speaker 1>be booed up and on things. If you know how

0:47:59.719 --> 0:48:03.200
<v Speaker 1>women know if they see you out like eating doing something,

0:48:03.239 --> 0:48:06.080
<v Speaker 1>they always think you would he could be with yours.

0:48:06.160 --> 0:48:09.080
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they be analyzing the picture. All right, she was there.

0:48:09.840 --> 0:48:13.560
<v Speaker 1>I've seen somebody else there. They're putting it together. I'll

0:48:13.560 --> 0:48:15.840
<v Speaker 1>be on vacation like you had to be with somebody. No,

0:48:15.960 --> 0:48:19.000
<v Speaker 1>girls aren't like detecting and they let you post the

0:48:19.040 --> 0:48:21.239
<v Speaker 1>restaurant you actually gonna go look at the location of

0:48:21.320 --> 0:48:30.799
<v Speaker 1>the restaurant was posted in seeing the bag on the side, right, Well,

0:48:30.880 --> 0:48:33.520
<v Speaker 1>have you not like that? I'm totally I don't know

0:48:33.520 --> 0:48:37.319
<v Speaker 1>how to investigator at all, I'm just like cool, Yeah,

0:48:37.719 --> 0:48:44.560
<v Speaker 1>whatever you're in. I mean, I'm not gonna lie when

0:48:44.760 --> 0:48:48.640
<v Speaker 1>um when I'm mad. When you're mad, you become a

0:48:48.680 --> 0:48:51.400
<v Speaker 1>different person. Yeah, Like when I'm upsetting, I'll be like,

0:48:51.480 --> 0:48:53.520
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I haven't been looking at this. Let

0:48:53.600 --> 0:48:56.440
<v Speaker 1>me check this out right if you feel a reason, yea,

0:48:56.560 --> 0:48:59.880
<v Speaker 1>you got a guy's Instagram and say, okay, who's the

0:49:00.000 --> 0:49:05.480
<v Speaker 1>even comments? Yea all that ye when you're mad, actually,

0:49:05.520 --> 0:49:08.360
<v Speaker 1>when you're mad, But you don't do that to females.

0:49:08.400 --> 0:49:10.120
<v Speaker 1>You don't look at her page and see what comments

0:49:10.360 --> 0:49:13.080
<v Speaker 1>not at all. So you but you click on the picture,

0:49:13.400 --> 0:49:15.840
<v Speaker 1>you look through her pictures. Yeah, do you do the

0:49:15.880 --> 0:49:19.719
<v Speaker 1>whole Let me like all back thirty nine weeks that's

0:49:19.760 --> 0:49:21.319
<v Speaker 1>how you A girl knows you like her if you're

0:49:21.320 --> 0:49:23.399
<v Speaker 1>going you like her pictures from thirty five weeks ago.

0:49:24.640 --> 0:49:27.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh I remember before Instagram came out with the d

0:49:28.040 --> 0:49:30.920
<v Speaker 1>m s and for guys, you know, like if a

0:49:30.960 --> 0:49:33.160
<v Speaker 1>guy saw that you were like following them and they

0:49:33.239 --> 0:49:35.520
<v Speaker 1>wanted to sold you, they will go back pictures all

0:49:37.960 --> 0:49:43.719
<v Speaker 1>be slightly in there. Yeah, that was the DM before

0:49:43.719 --> 0:49:46.200
<v Speaker 1>the DEM and then that was the DM before the

0:49:50.239 --> 0:49:52.200
<v Speaker 1>what what is the mer chicksneath. If you see a

0:49:52.239 --> 0:49:54.320
<v Speaker 1>girl you like one and you want to get in contact,

0:49:54.360 --> 0:49:57.399
<v Speaker 1>I really, I really do d ms. That's something I'll

0:49:57.400 --> 0:49:59.680
<v Speaker 1>be missing out. Man. Why don't you do like my

0:49:59.760 --> 0:50:01.440
<v Speaker 1>crew what they do? They love a d M, that's

0:50:01.480 --> 0:50:04.080
<v Speaker 1>what they do. I don't know. I'm scared of being exposed.

0:50:04.120 --> 0:50:07.840
<v Speaker 1>Somebody put me up, like I've moved different, like I

0:50:08.080 --> 0:50:10.919
<v Speaker 1>cared about things and sometimes something I don't care about.

0:50:10.960 --> 0:50:12.640
<v Speaker 1>But I don't want nobody posting me up at all.

0:50:13.520 --> 0:50:17.200
<v Speaker 1>Then you could be catfish, you never know on the storm. No. No,

0:50:18.120 --> 0:50:20.719
<v Speaker 1>it's some women that I thought looked like this and

0:50:21.440 --> 0:50:29.160
<v Speaker 1>they don't look angles, yeah, angles and shults you know face. Yeah.

0:50:30.840 --> 0:50:33.920
<v Speaker 1>I've been like you've been communicating or whatever on Instagram

0:50:33.960 --> 0:50:35.920
<v Speaker 1>and you met them in person like a show or something,

0:50:36.680 --> 0:50:41.719
<v Speaker 1>and then look like or no, Like I respond to

0:50:41.880 --> 0:50:44.520
<v Speaker 1>certain d ms so like, but I'm not just going

0:50:44.600 --> 0:50:50.880
<v Speaker 1>to initiate. You just go right in, you know, if

0:50:50.920 --> 0:50:53.479
<v Speaker 1>a girl was trying to get your attention, I don't

0:50:53.480 --> 0:50:55.839
<v Speaker 1>know certain stuff. I respond to a lot of people,

0:50:55.920 --> 0:50:58.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, positive messages about what I'm doing and stuff

0:50:58.560 --> 0:51:02.000
<v Speaker 1>like that. But sometimes I'm like, because you know, you

0:51:02.080 --> 0:51:04.880
<v Speaker 1>can you can check somebody d M without them no

0:51:05.000 --> 0:51:06.960
<v Speaker 1>one that you you know, so I might hit the

0:51:07.920 --> 0:51:09.719
<v Speaker 1>go into the page and check them out and see

0:51:09.760 --> 0:51:13.640
<v Speaker 1>what's going. You know. I know a guy who's a

0:51:13.719 --> 0:51:16.840
<v Speaker 1>big celebrity that a lot of women want, and he

0:51:17.040 --> 0:51:20.440
<v Speaker 1>told me what makes him replied to a girl on

0:51:20.719 --> 0:51:23.840
<v Speaker 1>in his DM is if she has a video and

0:51:23.960 --> 0:51:27.400
<v Speaker 1>it's like showing her whole body and then boom, the

0:51:27.560 --> 0:51:31.120
<v Speaker 1>pussy is really pretty. That's the only time he responds, Wait,

0:51:31.200 --> 0:51:33.319
<v Speaker 1>how can you have her pussy is pretty because she's

0:51:33.320 --> 0:51:35.719
<v Speaker 1>showing it in the video like a naked video. That's

0:51:35.760 --> 0:51:39.000
<v Speaker 1>a naked video of her naked whole body and then

0:51:39.520 --> 0:51:42.600
<v Speaker 1>spread wide. That's the only time he serving he responds,

0:51:42.680 --> 0:51:50.600
<v Speaker 1>so he likes point stars. I guess internet, right, But

0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:55.440
<v Speaker 1>I told him, you're disgusting, Like you're fucking disgusting. What

0:51:55.560 --> 0:51:57.560
<v Speaker 1>if we only responded to guys because they took a picture,

0:51:57.600 --> 0:52:00.799
<v Speaker 1>they had video of their dick on Instagram? I don't

0:52:00.880 --> 0:52:04.960
<v Speaker 1>response to I don't even check when I got something

0:52:05.160 --> 0:52:11.560
<v Speaker 1>like that's cool to do that now? I like the

0:52:11.640 --> 0:52:15.840
<v Speaker 1>guy I sent dick pick at some point, I don't know.

0:52:16.760 --> 0:52:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Every day that's not cool. I mean, I wish that

0:52:20.760 --> 0:52:23.759
<v Speaker 1>my favorite boyfriend would send me a dick pick. He

0:52:23.840 --> 0:52:27.160
<v Speaker 1>won't let you take one when another. You don't feel

0:52:27.239 --> 0:52:30.120
<v Speaker 1>yourself when when you're second is dick or anything. Yeah,

0:52:30.560 --> 0:52:33.239
<v Speaker 1>so you have, but it's not the same. I'm in that.

0:52:33.560 --> 0:52:36.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm in that picture too. Yeah. I want him to

0:52:36.480 --> 0:52:38.880
<v Speaker 1>like and be like, oh, good morning, here's like you

0:52:38.920 --> 0:52:41.759
<v Speaker 1>want to be out and I'll get it up on

0:52:41.800 --> 0:52:45.040
<v Speaker 1>your phone. No, no, no, it has to like like

0:52:45.120 --> 0:52:46.839
<v Speaker 1>I said, it has to be morning or good night

0:52:47.040 --> 0:52:53.279
<v Speaker 1>when you know I'm alone. Hopefully that's but yeah, but

0:52:53.440 --> 0:52:56.600
<v Speaker 1>he won't he but like a random guy just sending

0:52:56.640 --> 0:53:00.680
<v Speaker 1>a dick pick. It's disgusting. Yeah, pick, well, your lover,

0:53:01.160 --> 0:53:03.600
<v Speaker 1>you know your lover. You might you might wanted like, hey,

0:53:03.680 --> 0:53:06.520
<v Speaker 1>babies on the package. Pick. So not all right now,

0:53:07.160 --> 0:53:09.560
<v Speaker 1>Lactually we have some ask me questions. People right in

0:53:09.680 --> 0:53:12.480
<v Speaker 1>and ask questions and they need advice. All right, So

0:53:12.800 --> 0:53:16.799
<v Speaker 1>here's the problem. She said, Um, I think my love

0:53:16.840 --> 0:53:19.080
<v Speaker 1>life is cursed. Every time I think I found someone

0:53:19.160 --> 0:53:21.040
<v Speaker 1>I want to be with, I lose feelings for them.

0:53:21.120 --> 0:53:24.120
<v Speaker 1>After we have sex. Everything could be going perfect. It

0:53:24.160 --> 0:53:26.120
<v Speaker 1>always ends the same way. We meet going a couple

0:53:26.200 --> 0:53:28.480
<v Speaker 1>of dates, talk about three to five months before we

0:53:28.560 --> 0:53:31.040
<v Speaker 1>have sex, we plan things, talk about her, our future

0:53:31.080 --> 0:53:33.399
<v Speaker 1>could be for us. After having sex, I lose all

0:53:33.440 --> 0:53:35.399
<v Speaker 1>the feelings I had for them. It's not even about

0:53:35.440 --> 0:53:37.840
<v Speaker 1>the sex. It could be amazing. I just still end

0:53:37.920 --> 0:53:39.680
<v Speaker 1>up losing feelings for them, but their feelings for me

0:53:39.800 --> 0:53:42.600
<v Speaker 1>just get stronger. It's happened five times. I'm young, so

0:53:42.719 --> 0:53:45.160
<v Speaker 1>it's not like I'm desperate. But I've been single for

0:53:45.320 --> 0:53:47.640
<v Speaker 1>four going on five years, and everybody around me is

0:53:47.640 --> 0:53:50.080
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship. I'm starting to think it's something I'm

0:53:50.120 --> 0:53:53.960
<v Speaker 1>doing wrong. I would really need your advice. She's a

0:53:54.000 --> 0:53:57.800
<v Speaker 1>weird though. Sorry, she loses interesting how you lose interests

0:53:57.840 --> 0:54:01.560
<v Speaker 1>after having sex with the bloom with her and you

0:54:02.320 --> 0:54:06.160
<v Speaker 1>three to five months. Problem. The problem here is that

0:54:06.320 --> 0:54:09.520
<v Speaker 1>she hasn't had someone, because, first of all, a guy

0:54:09.680 --> 0:54:11.680
<v Speaker 1>is a is a little bit of a simp. If

0:54:11.760 --> 0:54:13.640
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna if you're gonna wait five months for you,

0:54:14.160 --> 0:54:18.799
<v Speaker 1>he's no simple your month, I'm not bugging. Never half

0:54:18.880 --> 0:54:23.800
<v Speaker 1>a year too long. Months. So you know, the problem

0:54:23.920 --> 0:54:26.640
<v Speaker 1>here is that she hasn't had somebody to bust her

0:54:26.719 --> 0:54:29.520
<v Speaker 1>ass in the bedroom, and she has somebody to fund

0:54:29.560 --> 0:54:33.640
<v Speaker 1>the ship out her. No, it's not good. It's not good.

0:54:34.560 --> 0:54:38.640
<v Speaker 1>It's not I can't because even because even um, even

0:54:38.680 --> 0:54:41.239
<v Speaker 1>if you're not in love with somebody and they give

0:54:41.280 --> 0:54:44.440
<v Speaker 1>you some amazing sex man or woman, you're gonna wanna,

0:54:44.760 --> 0:54:46.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, funk with them again. You're gonna want it

0:54:46.880 --> 0:54:51.279
<v Speaker 1>again and again again. You don't. So you're having sex

0:54:51.400 --> 0:54:53.600
<v Speaker 1>with somebody and then after you have sex, you don't

0:54:53.640 --> 0:54:56.759
<v Speaker 1>like them anymore because either your sexiest trashed with him

0:54:56.880 --> 0:54:59.640
<v Speaker 1>and you guys are just not making sense together, or

0:55:00.120 --> 0:55:02.680
<v Speaker 1>there's just not good lovers. But if she founds somebody

0:55:02.760 --> 0:55:06.080
<v Speaker 1>to really fuck the ship out of her, she wouldn't

0:55:06.120 --> 0:55:10.920
<v Speaker 1>be like that. What would you say me? Do you

0:55:10.960 --> 0:55:14.000
<v Speaker 1>know what? I think? I was thinking about it just now.

0:55:14.080 --> 0:55:16.319
<v Speaker 1>And maybe it's a psychological thing, like maybe she tries

0:55:16.360 --> 0:55:19.719
<v Speaker 1>to leave people before they leave her. Oh that's that's

0:55:20.040 --> 0:55:22.040
<v Speaker 1>you know how sometimes girls like have their guard up.

0:55:22.040 --> 0:55:24.480
<v Speaker 1>It could be something she's not even conscious about. But

0:55:24.640 --> 0:55:27.680
<v Speaker 1>maybe she feels like, you know, if I keep this going,

0:55:27.680 --> 0:55:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna end up getting my feelings hurt. So let

0:55:29.400 --> 0:55:30.920
<v Speaker 1>me just get out of it before he gets out

0:55:30.960 --> 0:55:33.480
<v Speaker 1>of it first. I don't know, because you're sucking him

0:55:33.480 --> 0:55:36.279
<v Speaker 1>and killing him. She's a black I mean, maybe she

0:55:36.680 --> 0:55:40.760
<v Speaker 1>maybe she maybe just not have sex. Maybe she should

0:55:40.880 --> 0:55:44.959
<v Speaker 1>just date and just be normal three to five months.

0:55:45.239 --> 0:55:48.200
<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe you should wait three to five weeks. Yeah,

0:55:49.080 --> 0:55:52.200
<v Speaker 1>that's nice. Remember our girls stage that was before. That's

0:55:52.239 --> 0:55:54.680
<v Speaker 1>a virgin. She's still a virgion. Every time I see

0:55:54.719 --> 0:55:56.520
<v Speaker 1>her ask her, did you lose your virginity yet? And

0:55:56.640 --> 0:56:01.600
<v Speaker 1>she says she still hasn't. But she's what is But

0:56:01.680 --> 0:56:07.840
<v Speaker 1>she's not really, she's just a friends I actually know

0:56:08.040 --> 0:56:10.000
<v Speaker 1>too well. The other one. At this point, she should

0:56:10.000 --> 0:56:12.520
<v Speaker 1>probably pushing thirty, and I would guess that she's still

0:56:12.520 --> 0:56:14.400
<v Speaker 1>a virgin. We haven't spoken in a few years, but

0:56:14.480 --> 0:56:15.800
<v Speaker 1>the last time I talked to her, she was like

0:56:15.840 --> 0:56:18.839
<v Speaker 1>twenty seven and she was still a virgin. I guess,

0:56:18.920 --> 0:56:21.440
<v Speaker 1>huh right, But she said that she like masturbates all

0:56:21.480 --> 0:56:25.839
<v Speaker 1>the time. Yeah, just never had sex. But she's also

0:56:26.000 --> 0:56:27.799
<v Speaker 1>never been corded, she's never been on a date, she's

0:56:27.840 --> 0:56:33.520
<v Speaker 1>never had a crush like so, I don't know, it's

0:56:33.600 --> 0:56:38.240
<v Speaker 1>personal problems. I guess. I have a friend who actually

0:56:38.680 --> 0:56:41.600
<v Speaker 1>had sex and then became a born again and then

0:56:41.719 --> 0:56:45.200
<v Speaker 1>didn't have sex for eleven years. Wow, And my other

0:56:45.239 --> 0:56:47.799
<v Speaker 1>friend has a virgin. She just basically feels like these

0:56:47.880 --> 0:56:49.520
<v Speaker 1>niggas out here and ship, and she didn't see so

0:56:49.600 --> 0:56:51.320
<v Speaker 1>many dogs out, so many of her home girls that

0:56:51.440 --> 0:56:53.120
<v Speaker 1>she's just really waiting for at the time when she's

0:56:53.160 --> 0:56:58.399
<v Speaker 1>outside outside, she's outside the one and not like waiting

0:56:58.440 --> 0:57:01.239
<v Speaker 1>for marriage. But just like I give my at this point,

0:57:01.280 --> 0:57:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I've had it for so long. Why I give it

0:57:02.960 --> 0:57:04.719
<v Speaker 1>to somebody that's not going to appreciate it, that's gonna

0:57:04.719 --> 0:57:06.320
<v Speaker 1>treat me like ship, like these niggas do. That's what

0:57:08.200 --> 0:57:09.680
<v Speaker 1>That's what I was going to ask you that I

0:57:09.840 --> 0:57:12.160
<v Speaker 1>feel bad about that. I don't remember my first. You

0:57:12.280 --> 0:57:15.880
<v Speaker 1>don't remember my younger years as a blur like everything

0:57:16.800 --> 0:57:20.560
<v Speaker 1>were you Probably that's a normal age, you know what

0:57:20.560 --> 0:57:24.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean? Everything about my first I don't think we

0:57:24.280 --> 0:57:31.160
<v Speaker 1>did it, remember everything. Of course I remember my girl now,

0:57:31.280 --> 0:57:33.240
<v Speaker 1>my first he made it good for me, He made

0:57:33.280 --> 0:57:36.640
<v Speaker 1>it this experience. Yeah he was, he was a grown man.

0:57:40.200 --> 0:57:42.200
<v Speaker 1>We were the same age, we were, Yeah, we were

0:57:42.280 --> 0:57:45.200
<v Speaker 1>the same had Yeah we were. I was a little

0:57:45.280 --> 0:57:47.440
<v Speaker 1>I was a little girl. I don't think did it.

0:57:47.520 --> 0:57:49.320
<v Speaker 1>I think we were just like grinding. I don't really

0:57:49.360 --> 0:57:51.000
<v Speaker 1>think we had interferes. I think he was just like

0:57:51.080 --> 0:57:53.160
<v Speaker 1>grinding and kissing and then he came on me like no,

0:57:53.320 --> 0:57:55.680
<v Speaker 1>we did, and it was really brief and quick and

0:57:55.720 --> 0:57:58.040
<v Speaker 1>it hurt and it was not good, and I was like,

0:57:58.120 --> 0:58:00.400
<v Speaker 1>this is terrible? Why do people like this? And then

0:58:00.440 --> 0:58:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I waited probably like two or three years before I

0:58:03.240 --> 0:58:06.040
<v Speaker 1>had sex again. And then when I had sex for

0:58:06.080 --> 0:58:08.240
<v Speaker 1>the second time, it was with like my high school boyfriend,

0:58:08.280 --> 0:58:09.960
<v Speaker 1>and I was just like so in love with him,

0:58:10.040 --> 0:58:13.760
<v Speaker 1>and that Remember you were thirteen and you don't remember it.

0:58:13.840 --> 0:58:16.200
<v Speaker 1>You don't remember the girl. You know, you don't know

0:58:16.200 --> 0:58:18.400
<v Speaker 1>what the girl is. I know she had to be older.

0:58:19.120 --> 0:58:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Well I'm still to this day I like older woman, okay,

0:58:22.080 --> 0:58:27.400
<v Speaker 1>because that blurry experienced for sure. Did you ever what

0:58:27.480 --> 0:58:32.080
<v Speaker 1>did your parents tell you about sex? Didn't ever tell

0:58:32.080 --> 0:58:36.360
<v Speaker 1>you anything? Like? How did you they didn't? How did

0:58:36.400 --> 0:58:38.720
<v Speaker 1>you the women really be sitting down their daughters. They

0:58:38.760 --> 0:58:43.080
<v Speaker 1>don't really sit and sit down down? Did you sit

0:58:43.120 --> 0:58:46.480
<v Speaker 1>you down staff about sex? Did jimme ever sit you

0:58:46.600 --> 0:58:48.960
<v Speaker 1>down and tell you like, oh my god. I had

0:58:49.000 --> 0:58:51.840
<v Speaker 1>a sister who was older than me, so she hit

0:58:51.920 --> 0:58:53.680
<v Speaker 1>us with it at the same time, so she gave

0:58:53.720 --> 0:58:57.760
<v Speaker 1>me the sex conversation way too early. I was like, y'all,

0:58:57.960 --> 0:58:59.480
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know what my period was. When I

0:58:59.560 --> 0:59:02.400
<v Speaker 1>got it, my mom. My mom gave me the sex

0:59:02.520 --> 0:59:06.120
<v Speaker 1>talk when my sister was probably like twelve, so I

0:59:06.240 --> 0:59:10.280
<v Speaker 1>was like six. I had sex. I was like sex,

0:59:11.520 --> 0:59:14.480
<v Speaker 1>I had a sex, mom, if that's what you want

0:59:14.520 --> 0:59:15.840
<v Speaker 1>to call it, if you want to call it a

0:59:15.880 --> 0:59:17.919
<v Speaker 1>second I remember she did it in the car while

0:59:17.960 --> 0:59:25.960
<v Speaker 1>we went on the way to school. Jesus pregnant my story.

0:59:26.000 --> 0:59:28.840
<v Speaker 1>I was pregnant, it was, and I was pregnant, and

0:59:28.920 --> 0:59:31.040
<v Speaker 1>she said to me, how to fund you get pregnant

0:59:31.080 --> 0:59:32.720
<v Speaker 1>and you don't even know how to come yet? And

0:59:32.840 --> 0:59:34.280
<v Speaker 1>I really didn't and I really didn't even know what

0:59:34.360 --> 0:59:35.840
<v Speaker 1>she was talking about. And I just looked at her,

0:59:35.920 --> 0:59:39.800
<v Speaker 1>like what like? And then when I learned how to come,

0:59:39.880 --> 0:59:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, that's what she mad. I have

0:59:45.000 --> 0:59:47.720
<v Speaker 1>older sisters too, and my older sisters had all became

0:59:47.840 --> 0:59:50.560
<v Speaker 1>teenage mothers, and you know, I was the last, the

0:59:50.680 --> 0:59:54.040
<v Speaker 1>youngest of my mother's girls, and here I am fifteen,

0:59:54.080 --> 0:59:55.520
<v Speaker 1>and I did the same thing that all three of

0:59:55.520 --> 0:59:57.360
<v Speaker 1>my sisters did, and she was just like, really, bitch,

0:59:57.960 --> 1:00:00.800
<v Speaker 1>she was so mad at me. But she also never

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<v Speaker 1>talked to you about sex, so no that she kind

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<v Speaker 1>of kind of she kind of gotta take some responsibility

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<v Speaker 1>for that, right. My parents never told me anything about sex.

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<v Speaker 1>I had about sex, and when I talk to my

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<v Speaker 1>door about sex, I pulled out. You know, we got

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<v Speaker 1>the internet now, so I pulled out like all these

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<v Speaker 1>pictures of STDs and blue whitefle hurt war and yes

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely and aids patients and all types of ship and

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<v Speaker 1>I just was like, listen, you gotta protect yourself because

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<v Speaker 1>this is what happened to you, and you gotta make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you couldn't pull out a loving relationships. You continue

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<v Speaker 1>to get tested because this is what happens to you.

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<v Speaker 1>How scared the ship out of her? Now? Somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram sent me this, this is the last thing

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna talk about, and they thought we should talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this. Do you think that porn has created false

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<v Speaker 1>expectations of you and approach to sex? And if so,

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<v Speaker 1>why and how? No? I don't think, uh, because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like people are immune to certain things because they

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<v Speaker 1>watch porn, and because porn can be so. But porn

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<v Speaker 1>has categories, so you watch what you want to watch, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not into like this thing, then you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to watch this thing. So that's not just not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make you think that everybody likes fist thing just

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<v Speaker 1>because you watched it on the You might watch Point

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<v Speaker 1>and think this must be three guys coming on you,

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<v Speaker 1>three guys this because she's getting getting it in all

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<v Speaker 1>three holes. You don't mean it. That's normal and that's

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<v Speaker 1>something that you should go out there and try to do. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like people realize that, um extra, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like everything and so extra. Yeah, they cut and they

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<v Speaker 1>stopped and coming back. But you never have watched Point

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<v Speaker 1>and being like, man, this is like even when you

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<v Speaker 1>were younger, because you know, kids have so much. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna like if I'm you something you watching them

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<v Speaker 1>you and then when somebody comes you hit the last

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<v Speaker 1>day watching the damn. I was just thinking that the

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<v Speaker 1>other day. I haven't watched a porn on you in

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. I watch time on my phone. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you watch Point in other languages? Because I watched something

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<v Speaker 1>US Russian homes But I find like I feel like, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like no. But I've seen porn and I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen girls do a move like wait, why don't I

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<v Speaker 1>do that move? I gotta try this move? Yeah, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>wish I could look it up. I've seen I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>the girl pick her nigger up and she was sucking

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<v Speaker 1>his dick. She picked him up. You want somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I'm just saying that she bucked me upright,

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<v Speaker 1>she had him up. Was he a little person? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like the same size. Girls. Show me the

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<v Speaker 1>ship yesterday. I think some ship. I wish I could

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<v Speaker 1>have pulled it out for y'all. That's how I would

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<v Speaker 1>want to. Probably. It is a great way to get

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<v Speaker 1>your dick seck though right there, spending it there because

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<v Speaker 1>guys do that to girls all the time. Yes, that's crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>But what about what about when the girls like like

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<v Speaker 1>put the guy's legs up and suck them. I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>that ship point like, well, I don't know if I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever seen that the guy's legs up before. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not putting. I'm trying to think, how does that work?

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<v Speaker 1>Most of them give me sucking you with me throwing

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<v Speaker 1>this thing back in whatever direction I needed. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna allow that. Sometimes people to the things that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>portant and try to do it and it's not the

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<v Speaker 1>same because I don't feel like some of those things

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<v Speaker 1>that might look interesting and different probably feel in real life,

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<v Speaker 1>Like have you ever seen two people like the guy

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<v Speaker 1>would be like, Okay, let's say I'm trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out how to say this. Like let's say he's laying

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<v Speaker 1>on his stomach facing that way, you're facing the opposite way,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's trying to suck you, and his dick is

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<v Speaker 1>going this way, and they're like, You're like, this doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>probably work really good. And I even also feel like

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes guys like lifting you up and trying to have

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<v Speaker 1>sex with you like that, that's probably not the best

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<v Speaker 1>because you get like off balance and it's just scared

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<v Speaker 1>to your favorite position? What's everybody's favorite position? What makes

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<v Speaker 1>them come? What's the position that makes you come to

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<v Speaker 1>most girl? And most girls on top makes you come

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<v Speaker 1>the most? Being in me and the guy on top

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<v Speaker 1>makes me come, makes me squirt missionary. Yeah, I hate

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<v Speaker 1>girls that want to ride you don't know what they're

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<v Speaker 1>doing though, because that ship turned me off when you

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<v Speaker 1>that's the only thing, that's the only thing what you

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<v Speaker 1>like when you women to come? Yeah, but some girls

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what But what is the what do you?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you? How do you like to game? Roll?

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<v Speaker 1>You like for like the girl to bounce on it,

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<v Speaker 1>or you like for the girls really fast, or like

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<v Speaker 1>like what do you what do you what's the right

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<v Speaker 1>way to ride a guy? I don't know, Like someone

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<v Speaker 1>has to know what they're doing, and someone even girls

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<v Speaker 1>trying to throw it back. Some people don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing. You're throwing me off. Do you have music

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<v Speaker 1>playing or is it quite? Um has actually your own music.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't never killing like that, I ain't killing like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't giving no better love, no. But I asked

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<v Speaker 1>that because you know, some guys, they allot, most guys

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<v Speaker 1>that I've asked, they don't want you to climb on

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<v Speaker 1>their dick. All of that is just dancing. It's they

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<v Speaker 1>don't really like it. And then some guys, like a

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<v Speaker 1>few have said that they like it. And then most

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<v Speaker 1>guys want you to like bounce on it, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. They want you to like move your pussy,

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<v Speaker 1>but not be grinding, like don't you know hit it

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<v Speaker 1>so hard? You understand what you say. They scared you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna break their dick if you get up and come

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<v Speaker 1>back down to her. You know, I did that hurt

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<v Speaker 1>you in your head? So I wonder like what what

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<v Speaker 1>you guys like, what's the right way? But I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I like different ways. But when y'all get on, like

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<v Speaker 1>y'all what she was like exactly, that's the best way

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<v Speaker 1>to get all of it exactly, And you could do

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<v Speaker 1>that from the front. I think that stuff. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's the best way, the easiest, that good. You can

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like your boss played with while you're having sex,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you're hitting in front of back of the group,

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<v Speaker 1>beach behind it like, oh yeah, they do that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he said they do that. I'm like, let her girl

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<v Speaker 1>do anything but put you know what I'm saying far

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<v Speaker 1>as you yeah, anything else, she's probably what about suck toes?

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<v Speaker 1>You suck toes? No, I let somebody suck my toes before,

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<v Speaker 1>But I never did it. I never said. I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't, but I haven't. Did you enjoy it? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just you just seem to do because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you boady have two or three of them and they

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just trying to find out she could do

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<v Speaker 1>give me a toe something? How many how many people

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<v Speaker 1>you have been at one time? At one time at

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<v Speaker 1>one time, I've had um, I've had three songs but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't fun a girl. So it's just like the

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<v Speaker 1>guy on me and the girl on me. That's it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just they're like, oh, that's what. I've had my

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<v Speaker 1>fair share of threesomes, never with two guys, always with

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<v Speaker 1>two girls. However, I've been in a situation before where

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<v Speaker 1>there was one guy and five girls. I've only ever

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<v Speaker 1>had sex with one with one guy at a time

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<v Speaker 1>I have now, I swear to you I've never had

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<v Speaker 1>a threesome or anything like that because I'm not interested

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<v Speaker 1>in women and I just I don't know, like to

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<v Speaker 1>me and this is just me, and I don't don't

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<v Speaker 1>shame me for being holy, but I really just don't like.

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<v Speaker 1>I take sex kind of seriously a little bit, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, no, I I feel like, um, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like just two people is enough, you know, like you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta pay attention to each other. I just don't like women,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to be and I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>a guy like I've dated guys who at the beginning

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, would you have sex with another woman?

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<v Speaker 1>Because they always want to know it, and I always

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<v Speaker 1>let them know it's not gonna happen. If that's an issue,

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<v Speaker 1>you move right now, because you might never experience that.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, that's it period period. But hey, if you

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<v Speaker 1>like it, more power to you. You never get drunk

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<v Speaker 1>group now. I also think I think that's a younger

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<v Speaker 1>thing too, Like I feel like that there's something that

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel like more likely to occur and when

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<v Speaker 1>you're younger than when you're older, Like somebody in there

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<v Speaker 1>I missed that early or mid twenties is more susceptible

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<v Speaker 1>to having experience than someone in their thirties. I believe that.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that they got all the bullshit out their

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<v Speaker 1>system early. But three sims is that an all time

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like they can't even be in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and man, unless they also involved other women. They feel

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<v Speaker 1>like they can't keep their mand and outside. Yeah, imagine

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<v Speaker 1>if as women we were like, listen, I'm gonna let

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<v Speaker 1>you know right now. Unless you start, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it could just be me and you all right, well, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>it back. You're just putting it back every time. You're

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<v Speaker 1>just putting it back, so you know. But thanks for

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