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<v Speaker 1>We add an addition under umbrella, we're going to produce

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<v Speaker 1>and distribute Humble Batties. And a lot of speculation is

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<v Speaker 1>going on to tail Ocho about this situation. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know I was supposed to tell we running a business here,

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<v Speaker 1>and no, I did not tell Oho. I didn't feel

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't feel I needed to tell Ocho running a business,

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<v Speaker 1>and when you run a business, you do what's in

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<v Speaker 1>the best interest of the business, Oyo.

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<v Speaker 3>Not not really in the best interest in the business.

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<v Speaker 3>We're we're a partnership, you and I. We start, we

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<v Speaker 3>started Nightcap.

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<v Speaker 1>If we are we did. Yeah, if we are.

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<v Speaker 3>Partners anything that has to do with something that was

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<v Speaker 3>a part of my life, which is including her, and

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<v Speaker 3>she leaves my life, that means she's no longer a

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<v Speaker 3>part of what I have going on, that's including Nightcap.

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<v Speaker 3>So just because you and I from a relationship, from

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<v Speaker 3>a football relationship to a business relationship, if she decides

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<v Speaker 3>to leave me in my life, that means she's gone.

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<v Speaker 1>So you my dog.

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<v Speaker 3>So that means I.

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<v Speaker 1>Did say that. What I remember saying that.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're not even standing on business about what you

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<v Speaker 3>said and how you live based on your whole your

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<v Speaker 3>your morals and the way you operate.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, I lied a little bit, Oh Jo, this

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<v Speaker 1>business we're trying to make I'm trying to make money.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you want to make money? Yeah? I want to

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<v Speaker 1>make money.

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<v Speaker 3>But listen, all money ain't good money. All money and

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<v Speaker 3>good money. You that's that's something that you didn't have

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<v Speaker 3>to do. As a matter of fact, if you were

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<v Speaker 3>going to do something like that, something like that, you

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<v Speaker 3>know how I felt about the situation already.

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<v Speaker 1>She left, right, she left Okay, So if she decided.

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<v Speaker 3>To leave me to sign her and not even running

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<v Speaker 3>by me and let me know something, give me your

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<v Speaker 3>heads up, give me give me some type of warning,

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<v Speaker 3>let me know. Hey, listen, I'm thinking about.

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<v Speaker 1>O Joe, I signed Railing Side Railing her girls to

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<v Speaker 1>a contract. I'm letting you know.

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<v Speaker 3>He here you go with the bullshit.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Joe, I just hold on. No no, no, no no.

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<v Speaker 1>You told me when you leave you done. That's one

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<v Speaker 1>less expense. So I figured I was like, well, oh Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>don't really care, so let me go ahead and make

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<v Speaker 1>this happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm saying, how you got to understand. You got

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<v Speaker 3>to understand where I'm coming from. It's it's about It's

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<v Speaker 3>about principle. You know, you supposed to be my dog.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you my dog, no, you gotta play

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<v Speaker 3>that different. You got you gotta play that different.

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<v Speaker 1>So, all things being equal, how should I have played

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<v Speaker 1>this out?

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<v Speaker 3>Boom hit my line?

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<v Speaker 4>Ring, ring, ring ring.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh Joe, check this out. You remember back in Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 1>Rail and I had a conversation. She had a podcast

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<v Speaker 1>and she was wondering if I would be interesting in

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<v Speaker 1>having my company produce it and distribute the podcast. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>she talked to you. She said it was okay. I said, sure, Rail,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk less, reconvene. Uh you and I asked to

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<v Speaker 1>jump on a call on Monday, which we did and

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<v Speaker 1>we hash we discussed it, and we finally got everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we got them what they needed. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>produce the show, We're gonna distribute the show, and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know they're gonna do it to cut you a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of times a week. Instead of the one time

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<v Speaker 1>a week, they're gonna go twice a week. And she

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<v Speaker 1>was really excited about this. She said, you were excited

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<v Speaker 1>about this. Now once once we start down in agreement,

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<v Speaker 1>I got to be a man of my work. I said, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to do this.

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<v Speaker 3>Time out, time out, time out. When you guys had

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<v Speaker 3>that talk, when I was excited about the opportunity for

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<v Speaker 3>to join under the umbrella media, you know, doing a

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<v Speaker 3>thing listening, I was happy for her. But once she

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<v Speaker 3>decides to leave me. When she decides to leave me,

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<v Speaker 3>she leaves us, she leaves anything that has to do

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<v Speaker 3>with Nightcap.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh, she left you. She was still with she had media.

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<v Speaker 3>So see you see I'm talking about principal alone. If

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<v Speaker 3>she leave me, then you should be like, listen, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't work with you, mother.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so many already give another money? Oh you did? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how much was it this?

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<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you what I would give. Whatever that advance was,

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<v Speaker 3>I give it back to you. But I just thought,

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't think that's a good luck because now

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<v Speaker 3>you know we if we're in the rough patch right now,

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<v Speaker 3>right and.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh we oh you and her? I thought you talking

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<v Speaker 1>about you and I would have run were good? We're good?

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<v Speaker 1>Were good.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if I was in front of you, we

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<v Speaker 3>would have had a tussle today. Though we would have

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<v Speaker 3>had a tussle.

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<v Speaker 1>All. First of all, I will be here at you

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<v Speaker 1>because you already over fifty two hundred dollars and you

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<v Speaker 1>try to take more money up my pocket with RAYO.

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<v Speaker 3>Matter of fact, the fact you definitely ain't getting no

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<v Speaker 3>money now. You're definitely gonna have to get the flood

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<v Speaker 3>that you ain't run that by me. You ain't running by.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, Okay, So you said I gotta take it in blood.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the only way you gonna get it. Don't mind

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<v Speaker 1>if I do. I don't mind if you so stop trolling.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, make sure y'all gonna subscribe to Humble Baddy's podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Shay Shade me your un and we love y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank y'all for the support. And he is our number

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<v Speaker 3>one supporter. He was the first one to subscribe to

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<v Speaker 3>Humble Baddies. Hey, but listen, listen, listen, people in the chat.

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<v Speaker 3>I was trolling a little bit earlier today. Now listen,

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<v Speaker 3>this is all business. I understand business. It's all about

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<v Speaker 3>putting your people on, you know, allow them to, allow

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<v Speaker 3>them to to flourish and whatever endeavors that they have.

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<v Speaker 3>I was a supporter of this, but this is not

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<v Speaker 3>change things. This does not change things that at home,

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<v Speaker 3>the foundation, the forefront still need some work, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it still needs some work.

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<v Speaker 1>But I am you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But but anyway, I'm happy her colleagues. I'm excited for

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<v Speaker 3>their show. I'm going to be producing and doing the

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<v Speaker 3>editing and other than.

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<v Speaker 1>That, that's what we're not going to allow to do. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you welcome, you welcome to join in and be a

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<v Speaker 1>you a little guest bottle of that right right. We

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<v Speaker 1>are not gonna let you edit, You're not gonna let

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<v Speaker 1>you produce because I'm here to be a supporter.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to be a supporter, you know. And if

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<v Speaker 3>at any point she wants to, you know, reconvene and

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<v Speaker 3>and uh and reconcile our differences and you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>sit down and there we'll we'll talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's great. I mean, you have been Reel's biggest

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<v Speaker 1>supporter because you brought it to us that Real wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be a part of Shays Media. And when she

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned it in Atlanta, I was like, let's reconvene on Monday.

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<v Speaker 1>We actually had this conversation. You mentioned it to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Real had you know, she had a doing her thing

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<v Speaker 1>and she wanted to put it on somebody that have

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<v Speaker 1>the infrastructure that can make the thing be what she

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<v Speaker 1>believes it can be with her and her partners. And

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<v Speaker 1>I said, okay, let's talk to Real. Ral had a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with me. I said, well, let's talk You and

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<v Speaker 1>I and I as should get on the phone on

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<v Speaker 1>Monday and we'll have a conversation and if we can

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<v Speaker 1>see if this is something that could work. But this

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<v Speaker 1>is a lot of work. I mean, this is not

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<v Speaker 1>something that you do if you really wanted to be successful,

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<v Speaker 1>when you found out, Oh Joe, this takes a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of work if you wanted to be successful. Now, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do something that a hobby and says, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a little mike, got a camera, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do something twenty thirty minutes a day, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you really want this thing to be successful

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<v Speaker 1>and to want it to grow, you have to devote

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<v Speaker 1>a certain amount of time to it. And uh and

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<v Speaker 1>knowing real her background, how she turned a real estate

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<v Speaker 1>thing into a big deal. She has her show on

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix that's coming out I think in a week or two, Ojo.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know she's going to work to make it,

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<v Speaker 1>make it possible. But what I but the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>but you see, o Joe, what you get an opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to see? You get opportunity to see how people want

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you apart real quick, don't. Oh yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>see how they jump you see how they jumped on

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<v Speaker 1>there so far and so quick to trying to rip

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<v Speaker 1>you in our part. So now you see everybody tell me,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I love not capt know they don't know, they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>And hey guys all y'all that got that thing. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>there might be trouble brewing in Nightcap and Unkie Ocho.

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<v Speaker 1>We appreciate that that pub because there are certain guys

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<v Speaker 1>out there could y'all spend a lot of time talking

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<v Speaker 1>about Shannon Sharp, talking about what Shannon doing on your

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<v Speaker 1>fan what he's doing here, what o Cho's doing. We

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<v Speaker 1>really appreciate that. Now, how y'all looking, and y'all look

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<v Speaker 1>it right now.

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<v Speaker 3>It's all love. It's all love. It's all love for

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<v Speaker 3>all our competitors out there. You know how I feel

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<v Speaker 3>about y'all. Still love you anyway. There's a big plate,

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<v Speaker 3>and there's enough for all of us.

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<v Speaker 1>See, there's enough. Have seed. You know, you need to

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<v Speaker 1>understand that.

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<v Speaker 3>And something about before Nightcap, Before Nightcap, before it was

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<v Speaker 3>ever came about, Shannon Sharp was a friend of mine.

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<v Speaker 3>Shannon Sharp will always be a friend of mine, you know, Busness,

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<v Speaker 3>I would never allow Benning some money to get in

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<v Speaker 3>the way of that. Never, I've never been wanting to

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<v Speaker 3>fall out about stuff like that. There was an opportunity

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<v Speaker 3>that presented itself. Obviously, missus and I, you know, we

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<v Speaker 3>were going were going through some rough time right now,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you know, but when it comes to bitiness,

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<v Speaker 3>when it comes to continue to elevate her in her career,

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<v Speaker 3>what she has going on. I'm all for it, even

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<v Speaker 3>though we might not be seeing eye to eye right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm off before Shan before I got here,

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<v Speaker 1>and and Shape Shape Media Club, Shape Shape Nightcap took off.

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<v Speaker 1>How many of those people that had podcasts mentioned Shell

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<v Speaker 1>and Shark before this ain't took off with you and

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<v Speaker 1>I o Cho? How many of the things. How many

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<v Speaker 1>people mentioned o Cho and Shannon Shark. It seems to

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<v Speaker 1>me that the only content that they can create itself

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<v Speaker 1>made is you and I. Yes, you and I have

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<v Speaker 1>a disagreement by you coming late, you and not disagreement

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<v Speaker 1>about the players or something you disagree. I disagree a question.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I say something real?

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<v Speaker 3>And it's FORGI, it's fulfilling the chat people in the chat,

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<v Speaker 3>and this is for you and and our team, you

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<v Speaker 3>know collectively. I'm never late. Actually, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just starting to damn Urran. That's the problem.

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<v Speaker 3>I ain't never late, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, you just started you God, damn Ran. We kind

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<v Speaker 1>of have a floating time. We kind of like want

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<v Speaker 1>to start between these times, but sometimes o Cho float

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<v Speaker 1>past that. Yeah, but this is a great opportunity for real, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>there's gonna be more. That's gonna be more, uh people

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna join Shay Shape Media. We got meetings with

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of other people coming down the line. So

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<v Speaker 1>in the near future we're gonna add probably one too,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe even three. By June, we'll have three more up

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<v Speaker 1>under the umbrella that we'll produce, uh, we'll distribute and

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead on Trump. I have one more thing. Now.

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<v Speaker 3>I understand this is business, right, you know, And I'm

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<v Speaker 3>all for business, and I'm all for making money, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>And sometimes they see all all money and good money

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<v Speaker 3>the hell it is in this economy, Well, if I

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<v Speaker 3>can get it, is it anything? Is there anything we

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<v Speaker 3>can structure in her contract where I can get certain

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<v Speaker 3>percentage based on the finders me?

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<v Speaker 1>Because if that's me what railed you to give you

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<v Speaker 1>out of her out of their cut, that's between you

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<v Speaker 1>and Rail. No, No, we're what we're gonna do, Rails,

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<v Speaker 1>go get her checked every month. That's all I got

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<v Speaker 1>for you. That's between you and Rail. I ain't got

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to do with that, Jenny A bro I knew

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<v Speaker 1>Watroller and the chatted shady quick to turn. Congrats Honnie Rail,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, But our I'll text, I say, see, I say, now,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of those people, Oh I love hunkin Ojo,

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<v Speaker 1>but quick, but that were quick to trying to drive

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<v Speaker 1>that wedge in between unking o'joe. You see and you

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<v Speaker 1>see that, but see, sometimes you need to see it

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<v Speaker 1>for yourself because and that's why, that's why I tell

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<v Speaker 1>people everybody that jump into my oh I'm happy, I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>No they not. They really not. And I and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you have to see it for yourself. And I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>we got an opportunity to see, yam do we got

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<v Speaker 1>people that's very excited for us, that truck cheer us

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<v Speaker 1>on and sincerely and genuinely happy. Absolutely, But there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot that pretend they're half being excited and all the

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<v Speaker 1>while or I show hope they break up. I show

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<v Speaker 1>hope they break up because we got something go because

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing, oh Joe, A lot of people that

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<v Speaker 1>do what we do, they know what they do, and

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<v Speaker 1>they see what we do and they know what we do,

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<v Speaker 1>so they don't. Definitely they don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean a lot of people you know, my my

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<v Speaker 3>my supporters, my followers, uh, they were they were they

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<v Speaker 3>were saying some some mean things. You know, so they

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<v Speaker 3>apologize the all for patrolling the day, but.

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes you need to see, Oh Joe, you got

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<v Speaker 1>to see who really in your corner. It's like when

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<v Speaker 1>you tell somebody no, and it's okay, I understand, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>you done been so good to me so many times,

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<v Speaker 1>don't Yoe. Hey, I ain't got no problem with you

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<v Speaker 1>saying no. But it's when they say no, like, well, damn, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>you got that money like that, you can't break you

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<v Speaker 1>more off forgive you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you know, but listen, I'm again I'm happy

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<v Speaker 3>for her, uh and all that she has going on obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>you know with her real real estate company, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Netflix stuff she has going on with Netflix, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>show coming out very twenty seconds and obviously the podcast

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<v Speaker 3>under our umbrella, and and this is this is what

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<v Speaker 3>it's all about, you know, you know, having someone on

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<v Speaker 3>your side that you can continue to help elevate in

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<v Speaker 3>whatever it is they have going on. It's it's a beauty.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a beautiful feeling, even even though you know, now

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<v Speaker 3>what is not a joke is that things aren't where

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<v Speaker 3>they should be between us. I could just be honest

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<v Speaker 3>with you and in Chad I could be I could

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<v Speaker 3>be honest with y'all too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, continue to work.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's it's it's rocky. It's rocky. So the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that I can, I can compartmentalize and separate, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the business side of things, and and and work on

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<v Speaker 3>the pleasure side later later on, down, later on down

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<v Speaker 3>the line, you know whatever on the side to be

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<v Speaker 3>the moderator and then be all therapist. But other than.

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<v Speaker 1>That, h oh joe ed readers headed to high school.

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<v Speaker 1>He was announced as the new ed See Chambly High School,

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<v Speaker 1>h right down the road from the crib Chambly. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was.

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<v Speaker 3>All in my all in my arms. Whoa, whoa got

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<v Speaker 3>a look too comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, come on, uh you see herr Reid uh

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<v Speaker 1>if the new o c Chambly Chambly High School and

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<v Speaker 1>uh okay, okay, Georgia. It's a little suburban. Hey. You

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<v Speaker 1>remember one time he was.

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<v Speaker 3>Then when he when he got to the establishment, you know, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Fit to his liking.

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<v Speaker 3>And and normally you have though, you have a talk

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<v Speaker 3>with with the powers that be at the institution, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>but he, you know, he he he took it the

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<v Speaker 3>wrong way and and kind of put it put it

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<v Speaker 3>on the airways and and they didn't they didn't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm happy for Ed. I'm happy for Ed. And

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<v Speaker 3>it's a great opportunity for for that school. And they

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<v Speaker 3>got a good one. Boy, they got him a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>They do. I wish you could have got that job away.

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<v Speaker 1>Thing could have worked out better for him at at

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<v Speaker 1>the Yeah, I do. Yeah, it's been really nice. You

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<v Speaker 1>see Eddie George Tennessee State coach prime was at at Jackson.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he's see you. Uh d Jack DeShawn Jackson is

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<v Speaker 1>at uh Delaware State. Yeah yeah, uh Mike Mike Vick

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<v Speaker 1>is at Norfolk.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm well, shoot, since all these players getting coaching

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<v Speaker 3>jobs on what you want to put you you want

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<v Speaker 3>to put your.

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<v Speaker 1>Hand in that, I don't you just totally. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>make no money.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean the kind of kind of money I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>not like we MA.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. I don't have You probably could do it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't have the patience.

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<v Speaker 3>I know me, man, listen, you you mess around and

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<v Speaker 3>put me in the atmosphere like that where my body

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<v Speaker 3>is still willing and able I'm still in shape. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be in the way because I'm gonna have a

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be out that suited up and hold in

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<v Speaker 3>that whole uniform cleasing all.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't. I want no part of coaching. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>smart enough, you know. Yeah, Hines Warden at Arizona State.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Hines ward is gonna be a coach. You

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<v Speaker 1>receive a coach. I think, okay, yeah, uh. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>there are a lot of guys hold on Antoine Randall

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<v Speaker 1>Lins in Detroit. I think Kena, mccardals and uh Is

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<v Speaker 1>in Minnesota. But I just no, I'm not that haves

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<v Speaker 1>I want no part of coach. Ain't no sense to me. Food.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna fit to hold nobody on that jet

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<v Speaker 1>tone justice chat. My dog's wages tail when you see

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<v Speaker 1>must be the dog person or something. Yep. I love animals.

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<v Speaker 1>Animals love me. I need it. Like I said, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna give me a farm, but you I want me.

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<v Speaker 1>I really want me a mini cow, a mini goat,

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<v Speaker 1>a mini horse.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're gonna have a farm, you're gonna need more

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<v Speaker 3>than four animals.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna have that farm. You just said a farm.

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<v Speaker 3>It's only one kind of farm.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, that's a farm you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>You want a many farm to go with your many animals.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, give me, give me, like to give

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<v Speaker 1>me like a hey, I like that. I like that. Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>They got friends. So the cow be a friend to

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<v Speaker 1>the gold, the gold be you get fred to the horse.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I gotta keep t is gonna be chasing?

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<v Speaker 1>No Teddy chased him, is gonna be like whatever? Oh yo,

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<v Speaker 1>check this out. Here's the Twitter question of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>So if a female takes a man out, do he

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<v Speaker 1>gotta give it up at the end of order? Whoa? Whoa?

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<v Speaker 1>I love now be talking. I can bring me that.

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<v Speaker 4>Hold on, I like that question. First off, who's paying.

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<v Speaker 1>The woman?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm assuming she invited the guy out. Yell yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>like this.

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<v Speaker 1>I like this now.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes if you get an assertive woman, if you get

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<v Speaker 4>an assertive woman that will paid the bill, she will

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<v Speaker 4>let you know no great area, no great area. When

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<v Speaker 4>you have a woman that asks you out, When you

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<v Speaker 4>have a woman that pays the bill, she's letting you

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<v Speaker 4>know what time of it is, you know what the

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<v Speaker 4>play is?

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<v Speaker 1>Right after this?

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<v Speaker 4>Right, I didn't come to play, and these ain't young folk.

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<v Speaker 4>These ain't young folk.

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<v Speaker 1>The younger hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>time about let me get talk to me about So

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling me they'll wear it out there, that y'all

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<v Speaker 1>can go out and you can get the buns on

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<v Speaker 1>the first night.

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<v Speaker 4>The older women, I'm the older women now.

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<v Speaker 3>I ain't talking about the young ones, the young ones

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<v Speaker 3>that want you to pay for everything, not them. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>talking about the older women, the older women that are seasoned,

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<v Speaker 3>the older women that are veterans, the older women that

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to play games.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not need to play no games.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to understand if I'm gonna deal with you

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<v Speaker 3>long term or not. How do I know if I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna deal with you? I need to know if when

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<v Speaker 3>we lay down horizontally or vertically, have you want to

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<v Speaker 3>do it. If it's good enough, you know what, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be around for a while. If it's not, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>probably gonna answer your phone call no more.

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<v Speaker 1>That's life. That's that's like. Now I'm fifty.

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<v Speaker 4>Seven, I'll tell you what I've been through. I'll tell

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<v Speaker 4>you what I'm been through. All right, Now, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Get you get you get some of these young whipper

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<v Speaker 3>snappers I hear today, that's all about.

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<v Speaker 1>What can you do for me?

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<v Speaker 3>Buy me this, buy me that, get my nails, get

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<v Speaker 3>my nails on my feet, in my head done? You know,

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<v Speaker 3>uh my wig, I need a new installed.

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<v Speaker 1>That's different.

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<v Speaker 3>It's all about what you can do that you really

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<v Speaker 3>get nothing in return, you know, get no return in you.

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<v Speaker 1>But after your for real after hello, because see here

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<v Speaker 1>is the thing I got. I'm ex ojo. I'm extremely,

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<v Speaker 1>extremely care because this look no means no, maybe means no, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>may's no tomorrow. So I'm really really I'm damn like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you sure? Are you sure to? Hey? Hey, hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure? You don't you don't you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to.

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<v Speaker 3>Do That's why I see, that's why you don't have

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<v Speaker 3>to do that with older women on forty forty five,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, fifty five, sometimes even sixty.

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<v Speaker 4>You hear me, they what what what?

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<v Speaker 1>What? What you playing it? But at ball, the thing

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<v Speaker 1>is the sixty that's my that's that's that's a little

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<v Speaker 1>older than me. But I'm saying they grew up in

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<v Speaker 1>the air. They grew up in the air, they grew

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<v Speaker 1>up in the Arab and I came up here.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what that didn't happen. These these women evolved with

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<v Speaker 3>the times. H They didn't got time to play. They

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<v Speaker 3>don't have time to play. That's what I understand.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen to young the young folk, gonna listen to the

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<v Speaker 5>young folk, gonna waste your time. You know why they're

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<v Speaker 5>gonna waste your time because they have time to buy.

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<v Speaker 5>They're young, they have time to waste. I'm twenty five,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm tweet.

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<v Speaker 1>What a rushing for? What a rushing for?

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<v Speaker 3>Then you get to talking to women. You're getting talking

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<v Speaker 3>to women our age. They ain't got time to play?

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<v Speaker 4>What I'm waiting two three weeks for? What I'm waiting

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<v Speaker 4>a month for?

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<v Speaker 1>When do I have? What? Do I even have a

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<v Speaker 1>ninety day rule? For ninety days? I might not even

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<v Speaker 1>be here. Damn listen, hey, I wait and she like that?

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<v Speaker 1>How need to be bottled anyway? Doubt kill open. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just you know how it is. You know how it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, Listen, listen that their pros and car and their

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<v Speaker 3>pros and car. If you if you got time to

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<v Speaker 3>waste and you want to play the game, you young folk.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying that that's that's the thing that got

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<v Speaker 1>oh trying to perceive me. I don't even asked.

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<v Speaker 4>You ain't gonna you ain't gonna have to ask.

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<v Speaker 1>You. No, no, no, no no no no no no,

0:23:32.480 --> 0:23:35.680
<v Speaker 1>And y'all gotta ask. So what you do? Can I

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<v Speaker 1>come to you? Oh no, already they already think something much.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't understand, man, You get you get you one

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<v Speaker 3>of the old ones.

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<v Speaker 1>Youear me.

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<v Speaker 4>You know she put she put that flying bolt on.

0:23:49.680 --> 0:23:54.679
<v Speaker 1>You put the sock in your mouth and you can't talk. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't give it that kind of control. The ain't

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<v Speaker 1>no handcuf because I'll be put that whole headboard off.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey y'all, hey, I guarantee you I'll back that whole

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<v Speaker 1>head boy bad bad, please bad? He all, Hey bad?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't like being restraint.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, hold on, let me tell you something now, see this?

0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:21.119
<v Speaker 1>How this?

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<v Speaker 4>When I tell you you're not living, that's what I mean.

0:24:23.680 --> 0:24:24.280
<v Speaker 1>You not living.

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<v Speaker 4>You gotta get your swing set, right, Tell Michelle to

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<v Speaker 4>get your swing set.

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<v Speaker 1>You tie it.

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<v Speaker 4>Boom in the in the in the in the What

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<v Speaker 4>do you call the doorway?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you what do you call the doorway?

0:24:38.520 --> 0:24:40.399
<v Speaker 3>The doorway, you tie it, you hang it up in

0:24:40.440 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 3>the doorway, you hang it up in the threshold.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you want to call it? Bingo, that's the

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<v Speaker 4>one called the little swing sets. You got to do that.

0:24:47.359 --> 0:24:49.720
<v Speaker 4>Then bondage you get, you get the bondised tools.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, I don't even hold jo. I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna let that. Ain't no, ain't no tied up,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I can't let you give it. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>let you.

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<v Speaker 4>Gotta let it tie you up.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 4>See man, God told man you Hey, listen, she tied

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<v Speaker 4>you up. When your legs, your legs be up right,

0:25:08.240 --> 0:25:09.960
<v Speaker 4>but you can't move because.

0:25:09.760 --> 0:25:12.119
<v Speaker 1>They got that. They got to brace it. Legs be

0:25:12.200 --> 0:25:15.359
<v Speaker 1>up high like a woman like held on like a lord.

0:25:16.000 --> 0:25:17.600
<v Speaker 1>You know I got kid hold on so you know

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 1>I got kids. So they put your oh dude.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen, hey boy, I'm telling you. Mm hmmm listen, wait,

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<v Speaker 4>get get.

0:25:29.000 --> 0:25:33.000
<v Speaker 1>You get your oh Joe manny come out there like well, mister,

0:25:33.000 --> 0:25:35.560
<v Speaker 1>show what happened that they head? Boy? Don't after bed

0:25:36.400 --> 0:25:39.119
<v Speaker 1>out of that, YO was smooth off mad.

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<v Speaker 3>Please, hey listen, I'm gonna see some videos, man, so

0:25:44.119 --> 0:25:45.960
<v Speaker 3>you know you check you check the videos.

0:25:45.600 --> 0:25:47.960
<v Speaker 4>Out and you just experiment. You experiment.

0:25:48.320 --> 0:25:52.040
<v Speaker 3>You know you you you listen you you're fifty seven.

0:25:52.800 --> 0:25:54.679
<v Speaker 3>At some point you got to evolved. You got to

0:25:54.720 --> 0:25:56.919
<v Speaker 3>try new things. There's so much out there that you

0:25:57.000 --> 0:26:01.920
<v Speaker 3>haven't done yet. You might like it, you matter fact

0:26:01.920 --> 0:26:04.000
<v Speaker 3>problem you you haven't been to the swing club.

0:26:04.160 --> 0:26:10.280
<v Speaker 1>No, no swinging, man, I ain't even swing without elementary school.

0:26:10.280 --> 0:26:14.840
<v Speaker 1>I ain't playing on the swing set. Bad swinging going on?

0:26:15.240 --> 0:26:27.879
<v Speaker 1>Oh oh no, h hell to the doll bad. I

0:26:27.880 --> 0:26:32.719
<v Speaker 1>don't know what you hold up your nahd daddy. That

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<v Speaker 1>ain't for me, That ain't for me. M hm.

0:26:46.000 --> 0:26:48.199
<v Speaker 4>How do you say you ain't swinging elementary school?

0:26:49.400 --> 0:26:51.320
<v Speaker 1>Hell? No, I don't play. I don't do nothing but

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:59.680
<v Speaker 1>that swinging. No, I'm good. I would take y'all word

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<v Speaker 1>for but take your word for it, don't y'all. Hey man,

0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:07.560
<v Speaker 1>we got we gotta go to the dr. Man. You

0:27:07.560 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 1>ain't got to worry about nothing. You know out there

0:27:09.320 --> 0:27:13.399
<v Speaker 1>he'll be all right, man. Oh Joe rapper, red Man Method,

0:27:13.440 --> 0:27:16.520
<v Speaker 1>red Man that used to be a tandem rap group.

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:19.359
<v Speaker 1>Uh said he was selling but for two and a

0:27:19.400 --> 0:27:25.240
<v Speaker 1>half years, no sex, no alcohol, say everything crystalized for him.

0:27:25.480 --> 0:27:28.320
<v Speaker 1>So everything was so clear, and his oh, his head

0:27:28.480 --> 0:27:32.720
<v Speaker 1>just opened up under saying what he said, what.

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:36.399
<v Speaker 3>He said, say what I will believe, red Man, I

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 3>wouldn't believe that you were sober. I could see the

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 3>discipline in that area and not drinking, understanding that it

0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:46.600
<v Speaker 3>can better you and Betty your life, Betty.

0:27:46.359 --> 0:27:48.520
<v Speaker 1>Your decision making. Uh.

0:27:48.960 --> 0:27:51.760
<v Speaker 3>As far as sex is concerned, I'm not sure how

0:27:51.800 --> 0:27:55.119
<v Speaker 3>that would cloud judgment in any way or or or

0:27:55.119 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 3>cause bodily harm in general, because sex is is healthy

0:27:58.400 --> 0:28:00.680
<v Speaker 3>for you, it's healthy for you with your release.

0:28:01.480 --> 0:28:04.120
<v Speaker 1>It wouldn't clear my mind. My mind'd be so cloudy.

0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:11.199
<v Speaker 1>What but I got to free with it? Man, I

0:28:11.240 --> 0:28:13.679
<v Speaker 1>think be backed up in you.

0:28:13.680 --> 0:28:17.760
<v Speaker 3>No, hey said, hey, listen, listen, I'm still I'm I'm

0:28:17.760 --> 0:28:20.840
<v Speaker 3>still in my my center, feek my celibacy journey.

0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:25.360
<v Speaker 1>So I understand what he's saying. But the amount of time,

0:28:25.400 --> 0:28:26.480
<v Speaker 1>how many years he said.

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<v Speaker 3>You would have that now that I can't believe because

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:38.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm not let me see, she left me in October, October, October, November, December.

0:28:38.920 --> 0:28:40.520
<v Speaker 1>November, so Jeruary.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's listen.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm struggling, I'm strung, I'm struggling to I ain't number

0:28:44.800 --> 0:28:45.320
<v Speaker 3>two months in.

0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:49.959
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm struggling. So I'm trying two years.

0:28:50.600 --> 0:28:54.360
<v Speaker 4>Hey, I'm two months and I'm I'm gonna be here.

0:28:56.120 --> 0:29:01.600
<v Speaker 1>Six weeks. I get you six weeks. I'll give somebody

0:29:01.640 --> 0:29:04.360
<v Speaker 1>six weeks. I'm in a relationship. I get you six week.

0:29:04.720 --> 0:29:07.280
<v Speaker 1>We need some space, Okay, I look at it. I

0:29:07.280 --> 0:29:10.719
<v Speaker 1>give you six weeks from to day, six weeks from

0:29:10.760 --> 0:29:11.040
<v Speaker 1>the day.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, what happened if they don't come back after them

0:29:15.840 --> 0:29:16.640
<v Speaker 4>six weeks?

0:29:18.760 --> 0:29:23.840
<v Speaker 1>Hey, Hey, somebody black help? I gotta put black ham

0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:28.040
<v Speaker 1>on somebody else. Hey should I try that? Should I

0:29:28.080 --> 0:29:30.120
<v Speaker 1>say that? No?

0:29:30.800 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 4>No, No, I'm gonna try Oh Joe, But you know,

0:29:35.000 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna just say I.

0:29:35.760 --> 0:29:37.360
<v Speaker 1>Got it from you. I'm gonna say that was your

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:40.160
<v Speaker 1>idea you ain't gonna have for me. I just said

0:29:40.240 --> 0:29:43.360
<v Speaker 1>what I would do. That's a totally you and real

0:29:43.480 --> 0:29:44.320
<v Speaker 1>isn't a totally difference.

0:29:44.480 --> 0:29:46.520
<v Speaker 3>You can't fight and everything you say you like the

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:50.280
<v Speaker 3>father figure to me. So it's been two months for

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:52.880
<v Speaker 3>me and I'm I'm Bryan here being celebrated and you

0:29:53.080 --> 0:29:55.720
<v Speaker 3>just said something that you done or you wouldn't do

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:58.680
<v Speaker 3>within the sixth time. Yeah, And I'm sitting around here

0:29:58.760 --> 0:30:01.920
<v Speaker 3>waiting two months. Well just not really for that, but

0:30:01.960 --> 0:30:03.959
<v Speaker 3>for me, it's it's giving me pieces, giving me a

0:30:04.000 --> 0:30:06.840
<v Speaker 3>sense of a sense of calm, a sense of clarity.

0:30:07.360 --> 0:30:09.800
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, well, ship, I need to stand on business.

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:12.960
<v Speaker 3>So boom you got, Well she didn't. She ain't getting

0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:13.760
<v Speaker 3>no six weeks.

0:30:13.960 --> 0:30:16.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna give up. Give her another week. Do you

0:30:16.400 --> 0:30:20.600
<v Speaker 1>give me something another week? I'm going what she called

0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:22.280
<v Speaker 1>you called you the other night, you said you weren't

0:30:22.280 --> 0:30:23.240
<v Speaker 1>going to get getting.

0:30:23.160 --> 0:30:25.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, she trying, she trying.

0:30:25.800 --> 0:30:27.280
<v Speaker 1>But I'm gonna. I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in a place, in a position where you did

0:30:30.400 --> 0:30:32.400
<v Speaker 3>something to me and you need to be you have

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:34.440
<v Speaker 3>to stand on business and I can't just give my

0:30:34.440 --> 0:30:38.400
<v Speaker 3>stuff up like that because I'm not easy. Does that

0:30:38.440 --> 0:30:43.560
<v Speaker 3>make sense, Yeah, it makes sense to you.

0:30:45.680 --> 0:30:47.520
<v Speaker 1>I just think it's thinking, oh joy, just all de

0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:50.280
<v Speaker 1>pay book. If that's something that you really want to

0:30:50.320 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 1>work for, if that's something that look because at the

0:30:53.480 --> 0:30:57.440
<v Speaker 1>end of the day, the longer, oh Joe, all I'm

0:30:57.480 --> 0:31:00.080
<v Speaker 1>saying is all all I'm saying, Yills, is that the

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:03.440
<v Speaker 1>longer your way, the more likely if something can keeping.

0:31:04.120 --> 0:31:07.560
<v Speaker 1>That's all I'm saying. So I happen to be out here.

0:31:07.840 --> 0:31:11.520
<v Speaker 1>No six months, no year, no two years? You know

0:31:11.720 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 1>a we separated? Nah Na, I ain't doing that, You're right,

0:31:19.600 --> 0:31:21.479
<v Speaker 1>because I'm you know, okay, So what what? What what

0:31:21.520 --> 0:31:23.720
<v Speaker 1>we try? What do we try to do? We need

0:31:23.760 --> 0:31:25.960
<v Speaker 1>to go to counsel we need to go to therapy together? What?

0:31:25.960 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 1>What do we need to do? How do we? How

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:30.200
<v Speaker 1>do we? How do how do we? How do we

0:31:30.720 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 1>come back together and to be at a more stronger

0:31:33.760 --> 0:31:37.080
<v Speaker 1>union than we were? So this doesn't happen to me

0:31:38.080 --> 0:31:39.800
<v Speaker 1>because at the end of so what what do you

0:31:39.800 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 1>think it's going to take? Do I need Do we

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:42.920
<v Speaker 1>need to go to therapy? Do we need to do

0:31:42.960 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 1>I need to go to therapy on my own, and

0:31:44.840 --> 0:31:47.720
<v Speaker 1>we also go to couples therapy. So I've just tried

0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:50.760
<v Speaker 1>to because I do want this to work, because I

0:31:50.800 --> 0:31:53.520
<v Speaker 1>don't put so much time in it, so much energy,

0:31:53.520 --> 0:31:59.120
<v Speaker 1>so much effort. Therapy works a couple of works.

0:31:59.240 --> 0:32:01.600
<v Speaker 3>Let's look at where it's ash ash ash to look

0:32:01.640 --> 0:32:08.960
<v Speaker 3>up this statistics on the percentage of therapy ACTI working,

0:32:09.840 --> 0:32:13.040
<v Speaker 3>comple therapy, MARI therapy, counseling.

0:32:13.480 --> 0:32:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm curious of what the percentage to be on those

0:32:16.520 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 1>that actually work for me, o Joe. I went in

0:32:20.960 --> 0:32:23.800
<v Speaker 1>with I went in with a oh, so you did it? Yeah,

0:32:24.280 --> 0:32:27.240
<v Speaker 1>O Joe. I don't know what people I've done it

0:32:27.280 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 1>ain't no did it, I've done it. I was in

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:31.800
<v Speaker 1>therapy for a long time. I did therapy. I was

0:32:31.840 --> 0:32:34.680
<v Speaker 1>doing I just stopped probably about a year ago. But

0:32:34.720 --> 0:32:38.640
<v Speaker 1>I was doing therapy once a week for three hundred

0:32:38.680 --> 0:32:43.520
<v Speaker 1>dollars a week for like three whoa whoa, whoa whoa

0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:51.160
<v Speaker 1>real as ship back in therapy, it's successful seventy percent

0:32:51.200 --> 0:32:57.840
<v Speaker 1>of the time. Yes, what, I'm paying you to.

0:32:57.800 --> 0:33:00.560
<v Speaker 3>Listen to my problems and you and I may for

0:33:00.600 --> 0:33:02.920
<v Speaker 3>you to give me an answer on the issue some book.

0:33:05.040 --> 0:33:17.760
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm glad y'all think so. But I'll see. Here's

0:33:17.800 --> 0:33:20.840
<v Speaker 1>the thing with Shannon Sharp. Everything Shannon Sharp is ever

0:33:20.880 --> 0:33:24.760
<v Speaker 1>saying on television or on night Cap can be proven

0:33:24.880 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>or disproven. So y'all saying calp that don't bother me

0:33:28.840 --> 0:33:32.520
<v Speaker 1>because I know firsthand. That's why I'm able to speak

0:33:32.560 --> 0:33:35.800
<v Speaker 1>so freely and effort about it, because I've been there

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:39.520
<v Speaker 1>when the therapist told me, Shannon, you're speaking, y'all speaking

0:33:39.520 --> 0:33:43.400
<v Speaker 1>two different languages. She's speaking Chinese and you're speaking Spanish.

0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:46.440
<v Speaker 1>Unless you learned the other language, you're never gonna be

0:33:46.480 --> 0:33:50.440
<v Speaker 1>able to communicate. Shannon, Are you arguing for right or

0:33:50.520 --> 0:33:54.480
<v Speaker 1>you arguing to meaning I'm not telling you what somebody

0:33:54.520 --> 0:33:56.680
<v Speaker 1>told me. I'm telling you as I'm sitting on that

0:33:56.760 --> 0:34:01.120
<v Speaker 1>lady's couch. And she says, Shannon, would you mind bringing

0:34:01.120 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 1>your partner in here, because you're telling me this. I

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 1>want to hear what she had to say, and we

0:34:07.880 --> 0:34:12.799
<v Speaker 1>go and she said she asked her, why do you

0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:17.319
<v Speaker 1>feel the need to try to make him feel like

0:34:17.400 --> 0:34:24.680
<v Speaker 1>he's living there? Do you understand his background? She said, yeah,

0:34:25.000 --> 0:34:28.560
<v Speaker 1>she said, you you understand how prideful he is about

0:34:28.600 --> 0:34:33.000
<v Speaker 1>his background and the way he was raised. He's never

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:35.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna be disrespectful, He's never gonna put his hands on you.

0:34:36.920 --> 0:34:43.719
<v Speaker 1>But why do you feel you need to challenge him? Hey,

0:34:44.320 --> 0:34:49.799
<v Speaker 1>that sounds intense. It was, it is, But you have

0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:54.040
<v Speaker 1>to be artists, Jennah, is this something that you want?

0:34:55.200 --> 0:35:01.400
<v Speaker 1>And it just got to the point though, no, I

0:35:01.400 --> 0:35:05.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't want it anymore. I had given all I can

0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 1>give and she wasn't hearing. I was out. I couldn't

0:35:11.200 --> 0:35:14.000
<v Speaker 1>give anything else. I had given so much because here's

0:35:14.040 --> 0:35:16.839
<v Speaker 1>the thing, Oh, Joe what I had started to do,

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<v Speaker 1>I had tried to do, be so much, be what

0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:23.520
<v Speaker 1>she wanted so much. I lost me. I wasn't saying

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<v Speaker 1>it no more. I was what she wanted me to be,

0:35:27.280 --> 0:35:31.600
<v Speaker 1>but I wasn't me. Hold on, what did you hear

0:35:31.640 --> 0:35:32.359
<v Speaker 1>what you just said?

0:35:34.640 --> 0:35:36.879
<v Speaker 3>You tried to I'm gonna put it in my word.

0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:40.480
<v Speaker 3>I tried to please her and make her so happy.

0:35:40.880 --> 0:35:42.440
<v Speaker 3>I lost a sense of self.

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:48.360
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't shalling it anymore. I was I was not

0:35:48.560 --> 0:35:52.640
<v Speaker 1>married in Barney Porter's grandchild. I was not. I was

0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:54.960
<v Speaker 1>not that. I was not that little boy that grew

0:35:55.000 --> 0:35:57.920
<v Speaker 1>up on that farm and grew up to be a man.

0:35:58.239 --> 0:36:00.680
<v Speaker 1>That wasn't who I was. You see, a lot of

0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:03.759
<v Speaker 1>times men will go out of their way women to

0:36:03.880 --> 0:36:08.560
<v Speaker 1>just say. Except men that go out of their way

0:36:08.960 --> 0:36:11.960
<v Speaker 1>to try to please a woman, and in the process

0:36:12.000 --> 0:36:18.399
<v Speaker 1>of pleasing a woman, you lose yourself. I just had

0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:23.880
<v Speaker 1>to say, no, o Jo, But you got to be

0:36:23.960 --> 0:36:26.239
<v Speaker 1>real with yourself, you be. You gotta want to work

0:36:26.239 --> 0:36:28.560
<v Speaker 1>on this. You gotta want to work, and it takes work.

0:36:28.719 --> 0:36:32.719
<v Speaker 1>And it's hard to hear your partner say things that like, damn,

0:36:33.000 --> 0:36:36.319
<v Speaker 1>why you saying that? When that's actually and I can

0:36:36.400 --> 0:36:39.000
<v Speaker 1>replay it in my head because I'm very I'm very

0:36:39.040 --> 0:36:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I know what I've said, I know what I've done,

0:36:43.719 --> 0:36:49.160
<v Speaker 1>but to hear to hear her say it, okay. That's

0:36:49.200 --> 0:36:51.880
<v Speaker 1>why I learned the proper way to apologize. It's not

0:36:51.960 --> 0:36:54.920
<v Speaker 1>that if I've done it, you said it so clearly

0:36:54.960 --> 0:36:59.720
<v Speaker 1>I've done it. Intent does not matter whether you intended

0:36:59.760 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 1>to do, would have not. She's still hurt, she's still offended. Now,

0:37:05.920 --> 0:37:09.880
<v Speaker 1>I apologize. The greatest apologies change behavior. So you can

0:37:09.960 --> 0:37:12.799
<v Speaker 1>apologize a fast thousand times. But if the behavior doesn't change,

0:37:12.840 --> 0:37:14.360
<v Speaker 1>you're not sorry for what you've done.

0:37:14.960 --> 0:37:16.799
<v Speaker 4>And most of the time you're never sorry. Most of

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:17.920
<v Speaker 4>the time you're only sorry because you.

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<v Speaker 1>Got caught me. At the end of the day, I

0:37:26.600 --> 0:37:29.120
<v Speaker 1>just thought that it was like, and we're better off

0:37:29.160 --> 0:37:34.319
<v Speaker 1>as friends. We're better off as friends. We cool, we

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:37.879
<v Speaker 1>have a bet. I think the biggest problem that we had, Oh, Joe,

0:37:37.960 --> 0:37:41.040
<v Speaker 1>she was young, I was young. We're trying to figure

0:37:41.080 --> 0:37:43.960
<v Speaker 1>this thing out, which is you know, and it just

0:37:44.040 --> 0:37:48.280
<v Speaker 1>it just wasn't to be. And as we twenty years

0:37:48.320 --> 0:37:54.239
<v Speaker 1>after the fact, she's like, I didn't realize what I

0:37:54.280 --> 0:37:55.839
<v Speaker 1>had to you come on man.

0:37:56.200 --> 0:37:58.000
<v Speaker 4>They never they never do till it's too late.

0:37:58.840 --> 0:38:04.520
<v Speaker 1>He like, Shannon, I've never met a man that works

0:38:04.560 --> 0:38:06.680
<v Speaker 1>as hard as you and as disciplined as you are.

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:09.719
<v Speaker 1>But you're very prideful. You're not gonna let nobody push

0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:12.520
<v Speaker 1>you around. You're not gonna let nobody talk reckless to you. No,

0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:16.720
<v Speaker 1>because I don't talk reckless to you. I'm not gonna

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:18.239
<v Speaker 1>call you out of your name, because I got I

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:20.319
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want nobody to call my sister, my mom, or

0:38:20.320 --> 0:38:22.719
<v Speaker 1>my grandma my name after name, so I don't call

0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:25.600
<v Speaker 1>women out their name. And now and now, I had daughters,

0:38:25.880 --> 0:38:27.600
<v Speaker 1>and I definitely don't want nobody to call them out

0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:30.480
<v Speaker 1>their name. So I'm very respectful. I'm very understanding of

0:38:30.600 --> 0:38:35.520
<v Speaker 1>that for me. And a lot of times I was,

0:38:35.560 --> 0:38:38.640
<v Speaker 1>I had I was messing with this this young lady,

0:38:38.680 --> 0:38:44.040
<v Speaker 1>and uh, she would like start to argue. I was like,

0:38:44.080 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 1>you know what, you're right, I'm gonna let you have that.

0:38:47.040 --> 0:38:50.319
<v Speaker 1>You get upset, She's like, we never gonna figure anything out,

0:38:50.440 --> 0:38:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I said, I say, in order I would rather keep

0:38:53.160 --> 0:38:56.319
<v Speaker 1>the peace. Let you be right. It's not that big

0:38:56.360 --> 0:39:00.279
<v Speaker 1>of a deal like that. It's not like that to me,

0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:02.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm not Finna. I'm not Finna go back and forth

0:39:02.800 --> 0:39:06.560
<v Speaker 1>and argue with you over such You're right, but it

0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:12.600
<v Speaker 1>irked her. Mm hmm. She said that I want to

0:39:12.600 --> 0:39:14.560
<v Speaker 1>get away. I say, well, if you want to understand me,

0:39:14.680 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 1>just ask. I don't feel like I need to get

0:39:16.880 --> 0:39:18.600
<v Speaker 1>into an argument or disagree with you for the help

0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:21.400
<v Speaker 1>you understand me. I'm telling you I don't want to

0:39:21.440 --> 0:39:24.720
<v Speaker 1>talk about that. We see things differently, and just because

0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:26.800
<v Speaker 1>we see things differently, I see things different than you

0:39:27.120 --> 0:39:29.040
<v Speaker 1>because of my age. You see things how you see

0:39:29.040 --> 0:39:31.200
<v Speaker 1>them because of your age. That doesn't mean I'm right,

0:39:31.239 --> 0:39:34.279
<v Speaker 1>that doesn't mean you're wrong. But we're gonna see things

0:39:34.280 --> 0:39:39.360
<v Speaker 1>differently because I was raised in a different terror. But

0:39:39.440 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm willing to accept you for who you are and

0:39:41.760 --> 0:39:43.680
<v Speaker 1>the area you was raised dead. I you know, I

0:39:43.719 --> 0:39:46.839
<v Speaker 1>want to say, but I think the thing is O Joe.

0:39:46.840 --> 0:39:49.000
<v Speaker 1>I went in because I was sccept it. At first.

0:39:49.040 --> 0:39:52.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, man, I dad, but I was like,

0:39:52.080 --> 0:39:53.720
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm gonna go. It's just like anything,

0:39:53.719 --> 0:39:56.440
<v Speaker 1>oh Joe, I can't do anything half asked. I'm spending

0:39:56.440 --> 0:39:59.600
<v Speaker 1>this my money. So if I'm spending my money, I'm

0:39:59.600 --> 0:40:02.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna get the most out of it went there and

0:40:02.120 --> 0:40:04.400
<v Speaker 1>I saw it, and I came every day, I mean

0:40:04.600 --> 0:40:07.600
<v Speaker 1>not every day, but every week. And I call that

0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:09.560
<v Speaker 1>lady just like. And the thing is you're like, hey,

0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:12.239
<v Speaker 1>and then you know and during the pandemic, you know,

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:16.400
<v Speaker 1>you couldn't be in person, Hey, FaceTime. That really that's

0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:19.839
<v Speaker 1>when I started FaceTime. Damn, I gotta call this lady

0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:25.120
<v Speaker 1>on FaceTime bringing into it like that. Yes, Oh, I

0:40:25.160 --> 0:40:28.000
<v Speaker 1>don't know how to have fast anything. I don't and

0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:31.080
<v Speaker 1>and and and and and and it's and for me,

0:40:32.400 --> 0:40:35.960
<v Speaker 1>it's a some session. I get upset, That's what. And

0:40:36.000 --> 0:40:38.280
<v Speaker 1>that's why I'm like when I when I'm good at something,

0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm good at, but I don't waste my time with

0:40:41.239 --> 0:40:44.640
<v Speaker 1>stuff that I'm not. I go all in. Yes I was.

0:40:44.719 --> 0:40:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I was one thousand percent. I was taking notes. She's like,

0:40:47.719 --> 0:40:51.360
<v Speaker 1>well take notes, Oh, Joe, I've taken notes. Hey, she

0:40:51.480 --> 0:40:53.680
<v Speaker 1>say something. I read it.

0:40:54.040 --> 0:40:56.080
<v Speaker 4>That's that's called.

0:40:57.560 --> 0:40:59.759
<v Speaker 1>Hey. She called me a black man. So that's that's

0:40:59.760 --> 0:41:00.359
<v Speaker 1>how would be.

0:41:01.280 --> 0:41:05.759
<v Speaker 3>That's how it would be, you know, very ridiculous, very

0:41:05.840 --> 0:41:08.839
<v Speaker 3>very detailed, very deep, and john everything that I see.

0:41:09.120 --> 0:41:11.920
<v Speaker 3>The one thing, the one thing I don't forget anything.

0:41:12.360 --> 0:41:14.800
<v Speaker 3>I don't forget anything that said. I don't forget anything

0:41:14.800 --> 0:41:16.880
<v Speaker 3>that I heard. I don't forget anything.

0:41:16.640 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 4>That I've sought.

0:41:18.920 --> 0:41:19.160
<v Speaker 1>Ever.

0:41:21.040 --> 0:41:24.319
<v Speaker 4>If you not hear me ever, I got. I got

0:41:24.320 --> 0:41:25.400
<v Speaker 4>the memory of an elephant.

0:41:27.040 --> 0:41:30.799
<v Speaker 3>So as time go as time goes on, which is

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:33.800
<v Speaker 3>why I was thinking about, you know, doing something like that.

0:41:34.120 --> 0:41:36.319
<v Speaker 4>But then the price points you talk about like, I'm

0:41:36.320 --> 0:41:38.359
<v Speaker 4>not doing that. I'm not sitting down and giving you

0:41:38.760 --> 0:41:40.000
<v Speaker 4>that kind of money.

0:41:39.920 --> 0:41:41.880
<v Speaker 3>Just to hear you from me to tell you my

0:41:42.080 --> 0:41:44.840
<v Speaker 3>problems and you to regurgitate what you think the issues

0:41:44.840 --> 0:41:45.279
<v Speaker 3>are with me.

0:41:47.120 --> 0:41:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Honestly, ol, yoe for me. If I care about somebody,

0:41:50.040 --> 0:41:53.440
<v Speaker 1>there's not amount of money enough that I would spend

0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:56.960
<v Speaker 1>to try to make it work. That's not what I mean.

0:41:57.040 --> 0:42:02.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm in. If I care, I care, we dating, you

0:42:02.960 --> 0:42:07.879
<v Speaker 1>need something? I got you right. Uh. That's that's how

0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:10.440
<v Speaker 1>I am because I've taken time out of I've taken

0:42:10.960 --> 0:42:13.319
<v Speaker 1>time out of my schedule to try to get to

0:42:13.360 --> 0:42:18.120
<v Speaker 1>know you on a level, and I spent that kind

0:42:18.120 --> 0:42:19.400
<v Speaker 1>of time. I done got a year, I done, got

0:42:19.400 --> 0:42:21.800
<v Speaker 1>two years. I ain't got three years. I'm not willing

0:42:21.840 --> 0:42:25.480
<v Speaker 1>to just throw it away. That's just me. So you

0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:27.080
<v Speaker 1>mean to tell me I was in love with this

0:42:27.120 --> 0:42:32.359
<v Speaker 1>person for three years, four years, and one incident makes

0:42:32.360 --> 0:42:38.120
<v Speaker 1>me throw it all the way. I just I mean, yeah,

0:42:38.280 --> 0:42:40.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there are probably things that she probably could

0:42:40.440 --> 0:42:42.640
<v Speaker 1>have done that would would make me do that. But

0:42:44.680 --> 0:42:47.400
<v Speaker 1>because I know I'm not perfect and I'm flawed, and

0:42:47.480 --> 0:42:51.800
<v Speaker 1>I've put people in situations that I've asked for a

0:42:51.840 --> 0:42:57.719
<v Speaker 1>second chance and they graciously gain that. That's what That's why,

0:42:57.840 --> 0:43:00.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh Joe, That's why I say, I'll never ask more

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:04.000
<v Speaker 1>than I'm wanting to give. That's why I don't go, Hey,

0:43:04.440 --> 0:43:06.640
<v Speaker 1>ain't no woman. You ain't gonna find nobody in the

0:43:06.760 --> 0:43:09.600
<v Speaker 1>last I bet you can't find one person the last

0:43:09.600 --> 0:43:12.080
<v Speaker 1>thirty years. Say Shannon Shot called me at two o'clock,

0:43:12.120 --> 0:43:17.040
<v Speaker 1>one o'clock midnight and came over to my house. I

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:19.600
<v Speaker 1>don't never ask more than I'm willing to give. I

0:43:19.640 --> 0:43:22.040
<v Speaker 1>don't do that because I don't want you to call me.

0:43:22.080 --> 0:43:23.600
<v Speaker 1>Don't call me at one o'clock and that, first of all,

0:43:23.640 --> 0:43:24.760
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna answer the phone.

0:43:26.160 --> 0:43:30.600
<v Speaker 3>Second ball you no late night moodigo like? And where

0:43:30.640 --> 0:43:36.319
<v Speaker 3>you at I'm leaving, I'm I'm sleeping. I'm sleeping, Well,

0:43:36.440 --> 0:43:39.919
<v Speaker 3>actually i'm not sleeping. I'm thinking, like I ask you done,

0:43:39.920 --> 0:43:41.719
<v Speaker 3>Probably you don't probably send me a message. And I'm

0:43:41.719 --> 0:43:44.359
<v Speaker 3>thinking about, okay, what I got to do with blah

0:43:44.360 --> 0:43:44.879
<v Speaker 3>blah blah.

0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I got sponsors, I got this. I gotta, you know,

0:43:46.719 --> 0:43:48.439
<v Speaker 1>jump on the call. I got to a zoom meeting

0:43:48.440 --> 0:43:50.319
<v Speaker 1>about this. I gotta, you know, talk to the right,

0:43:51.400 --> 0:43:54.239
<v Speaker 1>the right, the right one to get you. He ain't

0:43:54.239 --> 0:43:56.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna have you up. You're not finna call me that

0:43:56.480 --> 0:43:59.000
<v Speaker 1>time of night. Oh Joe, Oh joe. I'm I don't

0:43:59.000 --> 0:44:01.799
<v Speaker 1>sleep well anywhere. Probably sleep by four or five hours.

0:44:03.200 --> 0:44:04.839
<v Speaker 1>That's all I sleep. And then I get me an

0:44:04.840 --> 0:44:08.600
<v Speaker 1>hour and nap during the day. Nah, it ain't that serious,

0:44:08.840 --> 0:44:14.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I mean, look, I love sex like the

0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:18.160
<v Speaker 1>next man. I don't love it that much not to

0:44:18.160 --> 0:44:20.120
<v Speaker 1>get up at the one o'clock, two o'clock in the morning.

0:44:20.200 --> 0:44:26.279
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, no, no, I mean you called somebody

0:44:26.320 --> 0:44:29.600
<v Speaker 1>at one o'clock in the morning. You up now, When

0:44:29.600 --> 0:44:30.560
<v Speaker 1>I was younger.

0:44:30.280 --> 0:44:32.239
<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

0:44:34.160 --> 0:44:42.480
<v Speaker 1>This thirty years about to be seventy. When I was younger, man,

0:44:42.520 --> 0:44:45.520
<v Speaker 1>I was man, I was sleep. Boom boom boom, boom boom,

0:44:45.520 --> 0:45:00.200
<v Speaker 1>boom at that clock two fifteen. I said, oh no,

0:45:01.120 --> 0:45:06.560
<v Speaker 1>o Joe, oh oh Joe. I was I ain't gonna lie.

0:45:06.560 --> 0:45:10.920
<v Speaker 1>I was bad, hey, I said, boy, oh man, I

0:45:11.000 --> 0:45:20.000
<v Speaker 1>go downstairs. Oyo. I opened the door. Somebody said, you've

0:45:20.000 --> 0:45:24.719
<v Speaker 1>been talking about me. I said, what she had on?

0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:28.240
<v Speaker 1>Something real scantily. He was scantily class. I said what

0:45:29.400 --> 0:45:35.160
<v Speaker 1>I said, come on in you over here. Now you

0:45:35.280 --> 0:45:37.360
<v Speaker 1>the got me up. Yeah, you're about to get to

0:45:37.360 --> 0:45:40.400
<v Speaker 1>hook it for I like that. That was then, Oh yo,

0:45:40.560 --> 0:45:43.040
<v Speaker 1>I remember, I let me tell you true story. Ohoe.

0:45:43.280 --> 0:45:47.319
<v Speaker 1>This was in nineteen ninety three. I'll never forget it.

0:45:47.480 --> 0:45:53.360
<v Speaker 1>I had just moved into the breakers. Every said that.

0:45:53.440 --> 0:45:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I said, nah, I'm good. That was it. I can't

0:45:59.120 --> 0:46:01.680
<v Speaker 1>do it, O Joe, because you know what, in my mind,

0:46:02.440 --> 0:46:05.200
<v Speaker 1>I think it's something gonna happen. I'm going somewhere. I

0:46:05.320 --> 0:46:08.200
<v Speaker 1>supposed to be home, being the bed, sleep on a job.

0:46:09.360 --> 0:46:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Something happens. Shanna, have a blah blah blah, Shanna, you're

0:46:12.160 --> 0:46:15.600
<v Speaker 1>supposed to be in the bed. That's my my I

0:46:15.640 --> 0:46:18.239
<v Speaker 1>always think when I'm not when I was supposed to

0:46:18.280 --> 0:46:20.239
<v Speaker 1>be doing what I'm supposed to be doing. If I

0:46:20.280 --> 0:46:22.400
<v Speaker 1>try to veer off from that. That's why I do

0:46:22.480 --> 0:46:25.320
<v Speaker 1>the same thing over and over. I'm in my own head,

0:46:26.960 --> 0:46:29.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm cool,