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Speaker 1: We add an addition under umbrella, we're going to produce

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Speaker 1: and distribute Humble Batties. And a lot of speculation is

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Speaker 1: going on to tail Ocho about this situation. I didn't

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Speaker 1: and no, I did not tell Oho. I didn't feel

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Speaker 1: I didn't feel I needed to tell Ocho running a business,

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Speaker 3: Not not really in the best interest in the business.

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Speaker 3: We're we're a partnership, you and I. We start, we

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Speaker 1: If we are we did. Yeah, if we are.

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Speaker 3: Partners anything that has to do with something that was

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Speaker 3: So just because you and I from a relationship, from

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Speaker 1: So you my dog.

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Speaker 3: So that means I.

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Speaker 1: Did say that. What I remember saying that.

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Speaker 3: So you're not even standing on business about what you

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Speaker 1: You're right, I lied a little bit, Oh Jo, this

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Speaker 3: But listen, all money ain't good money. All money and

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Speaker 1: O Joe, I signed Railing Side Railing her girls to

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Speaker 1: Oh Joe, I just hold on. No no, no, no no.

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Speaker 1: So, all things being equal, how should I have played

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh Joe, check this out. You remember back in Atlanta,

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Speaker 3: So see you see I'm talking about principal alone. If

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Speaker 1: There's so many already give another money? Oh you did? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what I would give. Whatever that advance was,

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Speaker 3: I really don't think that's a good luck because now

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Speaker 1: Huh we oh you and her? I thought you talking

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Speaker 1: All. First of all, I will be here at you

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Speaker 1: because you already over fifty two hundred dollars and you

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Speaker 3: Matter of fact, the fact you definitely ain't getting no

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Speaker 3: that you ain't run that by me. You ain't running by.

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Speaker 1: Me, Okay, So you said I gotta take it in blood.

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Speaker 1: That's the only way you gonna get it. Don't mind

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Speaker 1: if I do. I don't mind if you so stop trolling.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, make sure y'all gonna subscribe to Humble Baddy's podcast.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Shay Shade me your un and we love y'all.

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Speaker 3: Thank y'all for the support. And he is our number

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Speaker 3: one supporter. He was the first one to subscribe to

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Speaker 3: Humble Baddies. Hey, but listen, listen, listen, people in the chat.

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Speaker 3: I was trolling a little bit earlier today. Now listen,

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Speaker 3: this is all business. I understand business. It's all about

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Speaker 3: putting your people on, you know, allow them to, allow

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Speaker 3: I was a supporter of this, but this is not

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Speaker 3: change things. This does not change things that at home,

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Speaker 3: the foundation, the forefront still need some work, you know,

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Speaker 3: it still needs some work.

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Speaker 1: But I am you. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But but anyway, I'm happy her colleagues. I'm excited for

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Speaker 1: That, that's what we're not going to allow to do. Now,

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Speaker 1: are not gonna let you edit, You're not gonna let

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Speaker 1: But that's great. I mean, you have been Reel's biggest

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Speaker 1: supporter because you brought it to us that Real wanted

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Speaker 1: We actually had this conversation. You mentioned it to me.

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Speaker 1: but you see, o Joe, what you get an opportunity

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Speaker 1: And hey guys all y'all that got that thing. Oh,

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Speaker 1: there might be trouble brewing in Nightcap and Unkie Ocho.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate that that pub because there are certain guys

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Speaker 4: Sometimes if you get an assertive woman, if you get

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Speaker 4: Right, I didn't come to play, and these ain't young folk.

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Speaker 3: snappers I hear today, that's all about.

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Speaker 1: What can you do for me?

435
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 3: Buy me this, buy me that, get my nails, get

436
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 3: my nails on my feet, in my head done? You know,

437
00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,679
Speaker 3: uh my wig, I need a new installed.

438
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 1: That's different.

439
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,160
Speaker 3: It's all about what you can do that you really

440
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,800
Speaker 3: get nothing in return, you know, get no return in you.

441
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 1: But after your for real after hello, because see here

442
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 1: is the thing I got. I'm ex ojo. I'm extremely,

443
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:35,400
Speaker 1: extremely care because this look no means no, maybe means no, yes,

444
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:39,639
Speaker 1: may's no tomorrow. So I'm really really I'm damn like,

445
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 1: are you sure? Are you sure to? Hey? Hey, hello?

446
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:48,920
Speaker 1: Are you sure? You don't you don't you know, you

447
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 1: don't have to.

448
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,879
Speaker 3: Do That's why I see, that's why you don't have

449
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 3: to do that with older women on forty forty five,

450
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 3: you know, fifty five, sometimes even sixty.

451
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Speaker 4: You hear me, they what what what?

452
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: What? What you playing it? But at ball, the thing

453
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 1: is the sixty that's my that's that's that's a little

454
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: older than me. But I'm saying they grew up in

455
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,880
Speaker 1: the air. They grew up in the air, they grew

456
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:14,520
Speaker 1: up in the Arab and I came up here.

457
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:18,159
Speaker 3: That's what that didn't happen. These these women evolved with

458
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 3: the times. H They didn't got time to play. They

459
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 3: don't have time to play. That's what I understand.

460
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Speaker 5: Listen to young the young folk, gonna listen to the

461
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 5: young folk, gonna waste your time. You know why they're

462
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 5: gonna waste your time because they have time to buy.

463
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 5: They're young, they have time to waste. I'm twenty five,

464
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:34,760
Speaker 5: I'm tweet.

465
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 1: What a rushing for? What a rushing for?

466
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Speaker 3: Then you get to talking to women. You're getting talking

467
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,119
Speaker 3: to women our age. They ain't got time to play?

468
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 4: What I'm waiting two three weeks for? What I'm waiting

469
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:46,679
Speaker 4: a month for?

470
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 1: When do I have? What? Do I even have a

471
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,400
Speaker 1: ninety day rule? For ninety days? I might not even

472
00:22:51,440 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 1: be here. Damn listen, hey, I wait and she like that?

473
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 1: How need to be bottled anyway? Doubt kill open. I'm

474
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 1: just you know how it is. You know how it is.

475
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 3: Man, Listen, listen that their pros and car and their

476
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 3: pros and car. If you if you got time to

477
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 3: waste and you want to play the game, you young folk.

478
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 1: But I'm saying that that's that's the thing that got

479
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,439
Speaker 1: oh trying to perceive me. I don't even asked.

480
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 4: You ain't gonna you ain't gonna have to ask.

481
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: You. No, no, no, no no no no no no,

482
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 1: And y'all gotta ask. So what you do? Can I

483
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:40,160
Speaker 1: come to you? Oh no, already they already think something much.

484
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:44,719
Speaker 3: You don't understand, man, You get you get you one

485
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 3: of the old ones.

486
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Speaker 1: Youear me.

487
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 4: You know she put she put that flying bolt on.

488
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:54,679
Speaker 1: You put the sock in your mouth and you can't talk. Now.

489
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 1: I can't give it that kind of control. The ain't

490
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Speaker 1: no handcuf because I'll be put that whole headboard off.

491
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 1: Hey y'all, hey, I guarantee you I'll back that whole

492
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 1: head boy bad bad, please bad? He all, Hey bad?

493
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: I don't I don't like being restraint.

494
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 4: Hey, hold on, let me tell you something now, see this?

495
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 1: How this?

496
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,640
Speaker 4: When I tell you you're not living, that's what I mean.

497
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: You not living.

498
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:29,679
Speaker 4: You gotta get your swing set, right, Tell Michelle to

499
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 4: get your swing set.

500
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:31,640
Speaker 1: You tie it.

501
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 4: Boom in the in the in the in the What

502
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 4: do you call the doorway?

503
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,880
Speaker 1: What do you what do you call the doorway?

504
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,399
Speaker 3: The doorway, you tie it, you hang it up in

505
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 3: the doorway, you hang it up in the threshold.

506
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 4: What do you want to call it? Bingo, that's the

507
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 4: one called the little swing sets. You got to do that.

508
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 4: Then bondage you get, you get the bondised tools.

509
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I don't even hold jo. I

510
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: ain't gonna let that. Ain't no, ain't no tied up,

511
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Speaker 1: I don't. I can't let you give it. I can't

512
00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 1: let you.

513
00:24:58,280 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 4: Gotta let it tie you up.

514
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you.

515
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 4: See man, God told man you Hey, listen, she tied

516
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 4: you up. When your legs, your legs be up right,

517
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 4: but you can't move because.

518
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 1: They got that. They got to brace it. Legs be

519
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 1: up high like a woman like held on like a lord.

520
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: You know I got kid hold on so you know

521
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: I got kids. So they put your oh dude.

522
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 4: Listen, hey boy, I'm telling you. Mm hmmm listen, wait,

523
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 4: get get.

524
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: You get your oh Joe manny come out there like well, mister,

525
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 1: show what happened that they head? Boy? Don't after bed

526
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 1: out of that, YO was smooth off mad.

527
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 3: Please, hey listen, I'm gonna see some videos, man, so

528
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 3: you know you check you check the videos.

529
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 4: Out and you just experiment. You experiment.

530
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 3: You know you you you listen you you're fifty seven.

531
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,679
Speaker 3: At some point you got to evolved. You got to

532
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 3: try new things. There's so much out there that you

533
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 3: haven't done yet. You might like it, you matter fact

534
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 3: problem you you haven't been to the swing club.

535
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: No, no swinging, man, I ain't even swing without elementary school.

536
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: I ain't playing on the swing set. Bad swinging going on?

537
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: Oh oh no, h hell to the doll bad. I

538
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:32,719
Speaker 1: don't know what you hold up your nahd daddy. That

539
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 1: ain't for me, That ain't for me. M hm.

540
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,199
Speaker 4: How do you say you ain't swinging elementary school?

541
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 1: Hell? No, I don't play. I don't do nothing but

542
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 1: that swinging. No, I'm good. I would take y'all word

543
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 1: for but take your word for it, don't y'all. Hey man,

544
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: we got we gotta go to the dr. Man. You

545
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: ain't got to worry about nothing. You know out there

546
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 1: he'll be all right, man. Oh Joe rapper, red Man Method,

547
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 1: red Man that used to be a tandem rap group.

548
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 1: Uh said he was selling but for two and a

549
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: half years, no sex, no alcohol, say everything crystalized for him.

550
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: So everything was so clear, and his oh, his head

551
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: just opened up under saying what he said, what.

552
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 3: He said, say what I will believe, red Man, I

553
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 3: wouldn't believe that you were sober. I could see the

554
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 3: discipline in that area and not drinking, understanding that it

555
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 3: can better you and Betty your life, Betty.

556
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: Your decision making. Uh.

557
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 3: As far as sex is concerned, I'm not sure how

558
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 3: that would cloud judgment in any way or or or

559
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 3: cause bodily harm in general, because sex is is healthy

560
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 3: for you, it's healthy for you with your release.

561
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,120
Speaker 1: It wouldn't clear my mind. My mind'd be so cloudy.

562
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 1: What but I got to free with it? Man, I

563
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,679
Speaker 1: think be backed up in you.

564
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 3: No, hey said, hey, listen, listen, I'm still I'm I'm

565
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 3: still in my my center, feek my celibacy journey.

566
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 1: So I understand what he's saying. But the amount of time,

567
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: how many years he said.

568
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 3: You would have that now that I can't believe because

569
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 3: I'm not let me see, she left me in October, October, October, November, December.

570
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: November, so Jeruary.

571
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's listen.

572
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 3: I'm struggling, I'm strung, I'm struggling to I ain't number

573
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 3: two months in.

574
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm struggling. So I'm trying two years.

575
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 4: Hey, I'm two months and I'm I'm gonna be here.

576
00:28:56,120 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: Six weeks. I get you six weeks. I'll give somebody

577
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 1: six weeks. I'm in a relationship. I get you six week.

578
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: We need some space, Okay, I look at it. I

579
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,719
Speaker 1: give you six weeks from to day, six weeks from

580
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: the day.

581
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 4: Hey, what happened if they don't come back after them

582
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 4: six weeks?

583
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, somebody black help? I gotta put black ham

584
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: on somebody else. Hey should I try that? Should I

585
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: say that? No?

586
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 4: No, No, I'm gonna try Oh Joe, But you know,

587
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 4: I'm gonna just say I.

588
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: Got it from you. I'm gonna say that was your

589
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: idea you ain't gonna have for me. I just said

590
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: what I would do. That's a totally you and real

591
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: isn't a totally difference.

592
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 3: You can't fight and everything you say you like the

593
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 3: father figure to me. So it's been two months for

594
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 3: me and I'm I'm Bryan here being celebrated and you

595
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 3: just said something that you done or you wouldn't do

596
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 3: within the sixth time. Yeah, And I'm sitting around here

597
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 3: waiting two months. Well just not really for that, but

598
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:03,959
Speaker 3: for me, it's it's giving me pieces, giving me a

599
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 3: sense of a sense of calm, a sense of clarity.

600
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 3: And I'm like, well, ship, I need to stand on business.

601
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 3: So boom you got, Well she didn't. She ain't getting

602
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 3: no six weeks.

603
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give up. Give her another week. Do you

604
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: give me something another week? I'm going what she called

605
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: you called you the other night, you said you weren't

606
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: going to get getting.

607
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, she trying, she trying.

608
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna. I'm gonna.

609
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 3: I'm in a place, in a position where you did

610
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 3: something to me and you need to be you have

611
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 3: to stand on business and I can't just give my

612
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 3: stuff up like that because I'm not easy. Does that

613
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 3: make sense, Yeah, it makes sense to you.

614
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: I just think it's thinking, oh joy, just all de

615
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: pay book. If that's something that you really want to

616
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: work for, if that's something that look because at the

617
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: end of the day, the longer, oh Joe, all I'm

618
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 1: saying is all all I'm saying, Yills, is that the

619
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: longer your way, the more likely if something can keeping.

620
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. So I happen to be out here.

621
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: No six months, no year, no two years? You know

622
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: a we separated? Nah Na, I ain't doing that, You're right,

623
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,479
Speaker 1: because I'm you know, okay, So what what? What what

624
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 1: we try? What do we try to do? We need

625
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: to go to counsel we need to go to therapy together? What?

626
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: What do we need to do? How do we? How

627
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: do we? How do how do we? How do we

628
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: come back together and to be at a more stronger

629
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 1: union than we were? So this doesn't happen to me

630
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 1: because at the end of so what what do you

631
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: think it's going to take? Do I need Do we

632
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: need to go to therapy? Do we need to do

633
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: I need to go to therapy on my own, and

634
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: we also go to couples therapy. So I've just tried

635
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: to because I do want this to work, because I

636
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 1: don't put so much time in it, so much energy,

637
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: so much effort. Therapy works a couple of works.

638
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 3: Let's look at where it's ash ash ash to look

639
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 3: up this statistics on the percentage of therapy ACTI working,

640
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 3: comple therapy, MARI therapy, counseling.

641
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: I'm curious of what the percentage to be on those

642
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: that actually work for me, o Joe. I went in

643
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: with I went in with a oh, so you did it? Yeah,

644
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: O Joe. I don't know what people I've done it

645
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: ain't no did it, I've done it. I was in

646
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 1: therapy for a long time. I did therapy. I was

647
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: doing I just stopped probably about a year ago. But

648
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: I was doing therapy once a week for three hundred

649
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: dollars a week for like three whoa whoa, whoa whoa

650
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 1: real as ship back in therapy, it's successful seventy percent

651
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: of the time. Yes, what, I'm paying you to.

652
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 3: Listen to my problems and you and I may for

653
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 3: you to give me an answer on the issue some book.

654
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm glad y'all think so. But I'll see. Here's

655
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: the thing with Shannon Sharp. Everything Shannon Sharp is ever

656
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: saying on television or on night Cap can be proven

657
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: or disproven. So y'all saying calp that don't bother me

658
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: because I know firsthand. That's why I'm able to speak

659
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: so freely and effort about it, because I've been there

660
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 1: when the therapist told me, Shannon, you're speaking, y'all speaking

661
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 1: two different languages. She's speaking Chinese and you're speaking Spanish.

662
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: Unless you learned the other language, you're never gonna be

663
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 1: able to communicate. Shannon, Are you arguing for right or

664
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: you arguing to meaning I'm not telling you what somebody

665
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: told me. I'm telling you as I'm sitting on that

666
00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: lady's couch. And she says, Shannon, would you mind bringing

667
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: your partner in here, because you're telling me this. I

668
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: want to hear what she had to say, and we

669
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: go and she said she asked her, why do you

670
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 1: feel the need to try to make him feel like

671
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: he's living there? Do you understand his background? She said, yeah,

672
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: she said, you you understand how prideful he is about

673
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: his background and the way he was raised. He's never

674
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 1: gonna be disrespectful, He's never gonna put his hands on you.

675
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: But why do you feel you need to challenge him? Hey,

676
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: that sounds intense. It was, it is, But you have

677
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: to be artists, Jennah, is this something that you want?

678
00:34:55,200 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 1: And it just got to the point though, no, I

679
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: didn't want it anymore. I had given all I can

680
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: give and she wasn't hearing. I was out. I couldn't

681
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: give anything else. I had given so much because here's

682
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 1: the thing, Oh, Joe what I had started to do,

683
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: I had tried to do, be so much, be what

684
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: she wanted so much. I lost me. I wasn't saying

685
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: it no more. I was what she wanted me to be,

686
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: but I wasn't me. Hold on, what did you hear

687
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:32,359
Speaker 1: what you just said?

688
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,879
Speaker 3: You tried to I'm gonna put it in my word.

689
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 3: I tried to please her and make her so happy.

690
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 3: I lost a sense of self.

691
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 1: I wasn't shalling it anymore. I was I was not

692
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 1: married in Barney Porter's grandchild. I was not. I was

693
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: not that. I was not that little boy that grew

694
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: up on that farm and grew up to be a man.

695
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: That wasn't who I was. You see, a lot of

696
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: times men will go out of their way women to

697
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: just say. Except men that go out of their way

698
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 1: to try to please a woman, and in the process

699
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:18,399
Speaker 1: of pleasing a woman, you lose yourself. I just had

700
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: to say, no, o Jo, But you got to be

701
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 1: real with yourself, you be. You gotta want to work

702
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 1: on this. You gotta want to work, and it takes work.

703
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: And it's hard to hear your partner say things that like, damn,

704
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 1: why you saying that? When that's actually and I can

705
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: replay it in my head because I'm very I'm very

706
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: I know what I've said, I know what I've done,

707
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: but to hear to hear her say it, okay. That's

708
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 1: why I learned the proper way to apologize. It's not

709
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 1: that if I've done it, you said it so clearly

710
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:59,720
Speaker 1: I've done it. Intent does not matter whether you intended

711
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: to do, would have not. She's still hurt, she's still offended. Now,

712
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 1: I apologize. The greatest apologies change behavior. So you can

713
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 1: apologize a fast thousand times. But if the behavior doesn't change,

714
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 1: you're not sorry for what you've done.

715
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 4: And most of the time you're never sorry. Most of

716
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 4: the time you're only sorry because you.

717
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: Got caught me. At the end of the day, I

718
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: just thought that it was like, and we're better off

719
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 1: as friends. We're better off as friends. We cool, we

720
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,879
Speaker 1: have a bet. I think the biggest problem that we had, Oh, Joe,

721
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: she was young, I was young. We're trying to figure

722
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 1: this thing out, which is you know, and it just

723
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 1: it just wasn't to be. And as we twenty years

724
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 1: after the fact, she's like, I didn't realize what I

725
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 1: had to you come on man.

726
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 4: They never they never do till it's too late.

727
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 1: He like, Shannon, I've never met a man that works

728
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: as hard as you and as disciplined as you are.

729
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: But you're very prideful. You're not gonna let nobody push

730
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: you around. You're not gonna let nobody talk reckless to you. No,

731
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,720
Speaker 1: because I don't talk reckless to you. I'm not gonna

732
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: call you out of your name, because I got I

733
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 1: wouldn't want nobody to call my sister, my mom, or

734
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 1: my grandma my name after name, so I don't call

735
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: women out their name. And now and now, I had daughters,

736
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: and I definitely don't want nobody to call them out

737
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: their name. So I'm very respectful. I'm very understanding of

738
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: that for me. And a lot of times I was,

739
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 1: I had I was messing with this this young lady,

740
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: and uh, she would like start to argue. I was like,

741
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: you know what, you're right, I'm gonna let you have that.

742
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:50,319
Speaker 1: You get upset, She's like, we never gonna figure anything out,

743
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 1: I said, I say, in order I would rather keep

744
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 1: the peace. Let you be right. It's not that big

745
00:38:56,360 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: of a deal like that. It's not like that to me,

746
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,760
Speaker 1: I'm not Finna. I'm not Finna go back and forth

747
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: and argue with you over such You're right, but it

748
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 1: irked her. Mm hmm. She said that I want to

749
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: get away. I say, well, if you want to understand me,

750
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 1: just ask. I don't feel like I need to get

751
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 1: into an argument or disagree with you for the help

752
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 1: you understand me. I'm telling you I don't want to

753
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,720
Speaker 1: talk about that. We see things differently, and just because

754
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 1: we see things differently, I see things different than you

755
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: because of my age. You see things how you see

756
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: them because of your age. That doesn't mean I'm right,

757
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean you're wrong. But we're gonna see things

758
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 1: differently because I was raised in a different terror. But

759
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: I'm willing to accept you for who you are and

760
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: the area you was raised dead. I you know, I

761
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 1: want to say, but I think the thing is O Joe.

762
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 1: I went in because I was sccept it. At first.

763
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 1: I was like, man, I dad, but I was like,

764
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:53,720
Speaker 1: you know what I'm gonna go. It's just like anything,

765
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: oh Joe, I can't do anything half asked. I'm spending

766
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 1: this my money. So if I'm spending my money, I'm

767
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: gonna get the most out of it went there and

768
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 1: I saw it, and I came every day, I mean

769
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: not every day, but every week. And I call that

770
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: lady just like. And the thing is you're like, hey,

771
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: and then you know and during the pandemic, you know,

772
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: you couldn't be in person, Hey, FaceTime. That really that's

773
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,839
Speaker 1: when I started FaceTime. Damn, I gotta call this lady

774
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: on FaceTime bringing into it like that. Yes, Oh, I

775
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 1: don't know how to have fast anything. I don't and

776
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: and and and and and and it's and for me,

777
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: it's a some session. I get upset, That's what. And

778
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,280
Speaker 1: that's why I'm like when I when I'm good at something,

779
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: I'm good at, but I don't waste my time with

780
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: stuff that I'm not. I go all in. Yes I was.

781
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: I was one thousand percent. I was taking notes. She's like,

782
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 1: well take notes, Oh, Joe, I've taken notes. Hey, she

783
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: say something. I read it.

784
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 4: That's that's called.

785
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: Hey. She called me a black man. So that's that's

786
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:00,359
Speaker 1: how would be.

787
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 3: That's how it would be, you know, very ridiculous, very

788
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 3: very detailed, very deep, and john everything that I see.

789
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 3: The one thing, the one thing I don't forget anything.

790
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 3: I don't forget anything that said. I don't forget anything

791
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 3: that I heard. I don't forget anything.

792
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 4: That I've sought.

793
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 1: Ever.

794
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 4: If you not hear me ever, I got. I got

795
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 4: the memory of an elephant.

796
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 3: So as time go as time goes on, which is

797
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,800
Speaker 3: why I was thinking about, you know, doing something like that.

798
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 4: But then the price points you talk about like, I'm

799
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,359
Speaker 4: not doing that. I'm not sitting down and giving you

800
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 4: that kind of money.

801
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 3: Just to hear you from me to tell you my

802
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 3: problems and you to regurgitate what you think the issues

803
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 3: are with me.

804
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: Honestly, ol, yoe for me. If I care about somebody,

805
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 1: there's not amount of money enough that I would spend

806
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: to try to make it work. That's not what I mean.

807
00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm in. If I care, I care, we dating, you

808
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:07,879
Speaker 1: need something? I got you right. Uh. That's that's how

809
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 1: I am because I've taken time out of I've taken

810
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 1: time out of my schedule to try to get to

811
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: know you on a level, and I spent that kind

812
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 1: of time. I done got a year, I done, got

813
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 1: two years. I ain't got three years. I'm not willing

814
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 1: to just throw it away. That's just me. So you

815
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: mean to tell me I was in love with this

816
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 1: person for three years, four years, and one incident makes

817
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: me throw it all the way. I just I mean, yeah,

818
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,399
Speaker 1: I'm sure there are probably things that she probably could

819
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 1: have done that would would make me do that. But

820
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 1: because I know I'm not perfect and I'm flawed, and

821
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 1: I've put people in situations that I've asked for a

822
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: second chance and they graciously gain that. That's what That's why,

823
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: Oh Joe, That's why I say, I'll never ask more

824
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: than I'm wanting to give. That's why I don't go, Hey,

825
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: ain't no woman. You ain't gonna find nobody in the

826
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: last I bet you can't find one person the last

827
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 1: thirty years. Say Shannon Shot called me at two o'clock,

828
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: one o'clock midnight and came over to my house. I

829
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: don't never ask more than I'm willing to give. I

830
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: don't do that because I don't want you to call me.

831
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: Don't call me at one o'clock and that, first of all,

832
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna answer the phone.

833
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 3: Second ball you no late night moodigo like? And where

834
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 3: you at I'm leaving, I'm I'm sleeping. I'm sleeping, Well,

835
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,919
Speaker 3: actually i'm not sleeping. I'm thinking, like I ask you done,

836
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 3: Probably you don't probably send me a message. And I'm

837
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,359
Speaker 3: thinking about, okay, what I got to do with blah

838
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:44,879
Speaker 3: blah blah.

839
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: I got sponsors, I got this. I gotta, you know,

840
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:48,439
Speaker 1: jump on the call. I got to a zoom meeting

841
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 1: about this. I gotta, you know, talk to the right,

842
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 1: the right, the right one to get you. He ain't

843
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 1: gonna have you up. You're not finna call me that

844
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: time of night. Oh Joe, Oh joe. I'm I don't

845
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: sleep well anywhere. Probably sleep by four or five hours.

846
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:04,839
Speaker 1: That's all I sleep. And then I get me an

847
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: hour and nap during the day. Nah, it ain't that serious,

848
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, look, I love sex like the

849
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 1: next man. I don't love it that much not to

850
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: get up at the one o'clock, two o'clock in the morning.

851
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, I mean you called somebody

852
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: at one o'clock in the morning. You up now, When

853
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: I was younger.

854
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

855
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: This thirty years about to be seventy. When I was younger, man,

856
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: I was man, I was sleep. Boom boom boom, boom boom,

857
00:44:45,520 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 1: boom at that clock two fifteen. I said, oh no,

858
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 1: o Joe, oh oh Joe. I was I ain't gonna lie.

859
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 1: I was bad, hey, I said, boy, oh man, I

860
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 1: go downstairs. Oyo. I opened the door. Somebody said, you've

861
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 1: been talking about me. I said, what she had on?

862
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 1: Something real scantily. He was scantily class. I said what

863
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: I said, come on in you over here. Now you

864
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 1: the got me up. Yeah, you're about to get to

865
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: hook it for I like that. That was then, Oh yo,

866
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 1: I remember, I let me tell you true story. Ohoe.

867
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 1: This was in nineteen ninety three. I'll never forget it.

868
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 1: I had just moved into the breakers. Every said that.

869
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 1: I said, nah, I'm good. That was it. I can't

870
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 1: do it, O Joe, because you know what, in my mind,

871
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: I think it's something gonna happen. I'm going somewhere. I

872
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 1: supposed to be home, being the bed, sleep on a job.

873
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 1: Something happens. Shanna, have a blah blah blah, Shanna, you're

874
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: supposed to be in the bed. That's my my I

875
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: always think when I'm not when I was supposed to

876
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 1: be doing what I'm supposed to be doing. If I

877
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 1: try to veer off from that. That's why I do

878
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,320
Speaker 1: the same thing over and over. I'm in my own head,

879
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: I'm cool,