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Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on dig me now wanting

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Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Um. Five things

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Speaker 1: that I know successful people have to do to be successful.

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Speaker 1: The principles are the same. You can apply it to anything,

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Speaker 1: you know, if you want to be happily married, you know,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is, the principles of success are the same.

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Speaker 1: There are a series of things that you have to do.

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Speaker 1: You cannot skip the steps of success. If you do,

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Speaker 1: So here's here's here's here's a part man that I

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Speaker 1: and about how to look at it. You know, you

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Speaker 1: cannot under estimate faith and prayer. You just can't. You

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Speaker 1: cannot underestimate the power of faith and the power of prayer.

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Speaker 1: See for me, this is just for me. Now, this

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Speaker 1: What prayer did for me was was it tied me

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Speaker 1: it was that was in a way, whether it was

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Speaker 1: me a decided advantage, especially oh here we go, Especially

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Speaker 1: over my enemies. Now, the majority of people in my

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Speaker 1: life goes on, man. It happens from time to time.

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Speaker 1: Some people just won't let it go. See some people,

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Speaker 1: may be lies about you, and all of this and

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Speaker 1: Something would have got me. You Tube would have got me.

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Speaker 1: The bloggers would have got me. My partners that I

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Speaker 1: And when I was watching Bishop Jake's he preached this sermon.

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show Again. Why I started like that?

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Speaker 1: Oh lord, that's a prayer right there. Yes, it is

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Speaker 1: an International Women's Day, Steve, thank you. Coming up at

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Speaker 1: that prank back right after this. You're listening to Steve

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Speaker 1: got today? I got it. I got it, I got it,

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Speaker 1: I got it. I got it on International Women's Day,

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Speaker 1: Yes I have. Are your lights on? Are your light on?

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Speaker 1: All right? All right, let's go kay, come on, I

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Speaker 1: don't play with it. Let's go out. Hello, Hello, uh Is,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach us. Who's going this? This? They

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Speaker 1: call me pepper, I love. I think I actually live

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Speaker 1: do this saying about you trusting your husband. This is

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Speaker 1: about who this half for in this house, hugging my

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Speaker 1: husband in my house. But you're calling for real. I

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Speaker 1: don't ask my husband who is that, and if he

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Speaker 1: tells me who that is, I have no reason to

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Speaker 1: believe that he's lying about who she is. Cool. What

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Speaker 1: is y'all hugging fault? Because he just why? But you

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Speaker 1: make it seem like they're just standing there just hugging church.

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Speaker 1: I have text at my house all the time. I

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Speaker 1: ain't never hugged now one them all right, but they

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Speaker 1: didn't go to high school with you. Yeah, from your

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Speaker 1: so so so is your answer. Let's get to Mimi

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Speaker 1: and bally Duds to Mimi says my husband. Female co

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Speaker 1: worker called him and when he answered, she said, hey, boo,

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Speaker 1: my husband says, is what she calls everyone. I told

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Speaker 1: him I want to meet her, and he says it's

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Speaker 1: not happening now he won't take any calls around me.

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Speaker 1: Why I love this. He can take a no call

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Speaker 1: because he boo nothing to take no call, Hey boo,

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Speaker 1: hey this woman history more question didn't work out quite right?

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Speaker 1: I love I thought it was going no trick me?

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, CLO. Happy International Women's Day coming up.

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Speaker 1: It will be a tribute to the ladies right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. The events

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Speaker 1: that initiated International Women's Day happened on March eighth, nineteen

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Speaker 1: o eight, when fifteen thousand women marched through the streets

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Speaker 1: of Manhattan demanding the right to vote and for their

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Speaker 1: rights as working women. The women ask for shorter work hours,

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Speaker 1: better pay, and the right to join a union. There

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Speaker 1: is no mention, however, of the countless enslaved African American

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Speaker 1: women who labored without pay in New York and across

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Speaker 1: the country. But we celebrate and pay homage to the

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Speaker 1: powerful black women that are making strides in science, technology, engineering,

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Speaker 1: and math. We celebrate our first black female Vice President

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Speaker 1: of the United States. We celebrate our first black former

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Speaker 1: First Lady, Michelle Obama. We celebrate the first black female

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Speaker 1: Supreme Court Justice Katangi Brown Jackson, Representative Maxine Waters, and

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Speaker 1: in the Southwest we celebrate Representative Sheila Jackson Lee. There

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Speaker 1: are countless and countless numbers of black women in the

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Speaker 1: motion picture industry as creatives, producers, and writers, and in

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Speaker 1: radio broadcasting. We salute the black women in this industry

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Speaker 1: as well. That paved the way for Carlin and I

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Speaker 1: to be able to do what we do daily and

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Speaker 1: what we love to do. So thank you. Happy Women's Day,

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Speaker 1: I mean this day. Yeah, all the women kings out there, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: I think too. You know, we could talk about this morning.

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Speaker 1: I want to throw this question to the fellas what

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Speaker 1: woman in your life inspired you the most? You know,

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Speaker 1: we can throw that out there. Steve m I think

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Speaker 1: I think we all know. Your mama, Yeah, your mama.

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Speaker 1: It loves Vera. Harvey taught me faith. M M. She

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Speaker 1: just wanted me to be understand the power of prayer

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Speaker 1: and and the what fine important faith, the role of

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Speaker 1: faith could play in your life. She said, boy, you

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Speaker 1: may not see it now, but you're gonna need it.

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Speaker 1: And the more you understand that, the more comfortable your

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Speaker 1: life gonna be. And she's telling to me all the time,

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Speaker 1: He's I don't know. There has never been a lesson

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Speaker 1: that has had a played a bigger role in my

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Speaker 1: life then my mother's role of teaching me faith and

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Speaker 1: prayer and just the story of Jesus Amen, I just

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Speaker 1: just the whole story. I ain't memorize everything. I didn't

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Speaker 1: do everything right, I sho ain't. Boy. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you something that was the most valuable that I've learned.

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Speaker 1: Nothing more valuable than that. That's so interesting because my

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Speaker 1: story is similar as far as the lesson my mom

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Speaker 1: taught me. Of course, you know us both being female.

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Speaker 1: She taught me so many lessons. But the one lesson

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Speaker 1: that sticks with me forever and ever is when she

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Speaker 1: asked me where is your faith? Because I was going

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Speaker 1: through something. I think I was having Sheridan at the time,

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Speaker 1: and I was scared and I was just freaked out

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Speaker 1: and everything, and she looked at me and she said,

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Speaker 1: where is your faith? Then that's the moment that I

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Speaker 1: realized that you have to exercise faith. You just can't

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Speaker 1: talk about it. You gotta actually do it. When challenges

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Speaker 1: come along, you have to be in faith. You do,

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Speaker 1: and when you're in faith, it can work out for you.

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Speaker 1: Of course it always works out for you. But that

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Speaker 1: was a lesson she taught me as well. Where is

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Speaker 1: your faith? I'll never forget those words. I've taught it

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Speaker 1: to my daughter and my granddaughter. And where is your faith?

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Speaker 1: You gotta have that, You gotta have that, you gotta have.

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Speaker 1: My mama beat Jesus into me. I mean, just beat

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Speaker 1: it into me so I get I have it, I

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Speaker 1: have it. Yeah, I'm up lifting my mama on international women.

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Speaker 1: Beat beat Jesus. I get you. I know him for

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Speaker 1: myself now. I have had him beat into me. The

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Speaker 1: only thing I was missing was them thrown on my head.

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Speaker 1: I felt very much close to the story. But as

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Speaker 1: you got older, your mom forgot all the beatings. They

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Speaker 1: forgot it right. As soon as they get grandchildren, they forget.

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Speaker 1: They don't have the same stuff. Norm I didn't do that.

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Speaker 1: I didn't whoop you, mom, be the crap. Don't don't don't,

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Speaker 1: don't whoop Jordan, don't whoop Jordan. He all right, he

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Speaker 1: made a mistake. Don't whoop what I made a mistake?

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Speaker 1: Are you? Lady? You? If we met, and I think

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Speaker 1: for us in the black community, for us, it's our mother,

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Speaker 1: our grandmothers, all of these women in our lives that

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Speaker 1: help shape us to who we are today. You know,

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Speaker 1: your sisters, aunties, all of that. So you know, we

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Speaker 1: see women today, we hear women today. We're empowered by women.

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Speaker 1: You know. I think for me, surely, the challenges I'm

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Speaker 1: always um trying to balance having it all. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: I think that's a lot of pressure. Yeah, a lot

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Speaker 1: of pressure that women put on themselves of husband, career, motherhood.

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Speaker 1: And you got to set boundaries and set time for yourself,

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Speaker 1: for yourself, Yeah, you absolutely do. There's nothing like mama, nothing,

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Speaker 1: nothing like that. There's nothing like mother, especially growing up. Man,

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Speaker 1: There's just nothing, nothing that competes against mama. Man. I

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Speaker 1: watched my mama make some sacrifices, man, getting her nursing

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Speaker 1: degree at twenty seven, going to school in the daytime,

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Speaker 1: going to work at night, I mean for four years

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Speaker 1: and I'm here, I am ten years old, got to

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Speaker 1: take my sister to school just so my mama can finish,

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Speaker 1: you know, the sacrifices she made, man, it's just unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: And that's what makes her my hero. Man. I've watched

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Speaker 1: her and especially single mom, I've washed you know, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: that's it. That's what I'm just saying. That's it, balancing

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Speaker 1: all women doing it all all yea, And we celebrate

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Speaker 1: you on this International Women's Day. We absolutely do, and

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Speaker 1: thank you for all you've done. Coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour and continuing to celebrate women for

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Speaker 1: International Women's Day, Carla is going to highlight female legends

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Speaker 1: in music. This is gonna be good. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. As we've

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Speaker 1: been mentioning all morning, it is International Women's Day, and

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Speaker 1: we continue to salute women by highlighting our legendary female artist. Carla,

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Speaker 1: Let's go what you got for us, girl? Okay, So

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Speaker 1: in this segment, you all, we're going to celebrate women

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Speaker 1: who make music and culture. And you know, I see her,

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Speaker 1: hear her. These lists of women artists. You have a

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Speaker 1: connection between beauty, confidence, empowerment. So you from my list.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready all right number one on my list, and

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't number them because you know, we already fell

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Speaker 1: out about the Rolling Stones two hundred lists of singers,

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Speaker 1: so I'm just gonna throw them out there. The point

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Speaker 1: of soul, right right, A queen of soul, Aretha Franklin

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Speaker 1: on my list, Beyonce, Whitney Houston, Shy Day, Anita Baker.

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Speaker 1: This is not in a certain order. H Jill Scott,

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Speaker 1: Gladdest Night, Stephanie Mills, Tony Braxton, Mariah Carey, Focus, Erica

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Speaker 1: by d Yeah, Yes, Patty LaBelle, Yeah, I'm sorry. Shaka

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Speaker 1: Khan and let me say this about Shaka Khan. The

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Speaker 1: other day she did apologize for Shady the other singers

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Speaker 1: like Mary Adelle and Mariah. She also said that music

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Speaker 1: is not a competition. I love me some Shaka Khan.

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Speaker 1: So Shaka Khan. Also on my list, Tina Turner, turn Up,

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Speaker 1: don't don't let nobody come on, Diana Ross the Ultimate,

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Speaker 1: The Ultimate, Yes, Alicia playing the piano keys. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: you better know that. Mary J. Blige, Mary Hutson, Yes, Yes,

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Speaker 1: singing behind girl Brandy because I'm gonna take it to

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Speaker 1: the nineties now, brand I'm waiting on somebody that ain't

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Speaker 1: new artists. Her. This woman right here is a bad girl.

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Speaker 1: Before you go to new artists, let me add one.

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Speaker 1: Come on. It's a fantation, fantation. Oh you okay? On

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Speaker 1: that list? That girl her cold though, yes, cold she

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Speaker 1: is Cole. I just got hip to her. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: just got hip to her. Got here, Yeah, I just

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Speaker 1: got hip to her. Phyllis Himan. Oh, yes girl, it's

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Speaker 1: a good great girl. Yes, yes, Phyllis him. I love music, Phillip.

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Speaker 1: Who you want to ask? Steve? You look like you both? Yes,

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Speaker 1: International Women's Day. Thank you, Carla. That was great, all right,

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Speaker 1: coming up thirty four minutes after the hour. That's right, low, Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: your Odell is here on International Women's Day. We'll talk

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Speaker 1: to her right after you're listening, Steve Harvey. Morning, all right,

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Speaker 1: So sister Odella is here, ladies and gentlemen, of course

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Speaker 1: she is. It is day who love, and you know

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Speaker 1: why we ain't got no time to waste keep the

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Speaker 1: music going. I'm just here right now when you ain't

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Speaker 1: got time to saying. This an International Women's Day, and

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Speaker 1: I came on to uplift and give honor and glory

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Speaker 1: the women's Yes, ma'am and Carle. It beautiful list you

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Speaker 1: put together. The sweetie is good to do that, you

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Speaker 1: know and everything. But I want to come home. I

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Speaker 1: know why you bought me in and I ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: let you down. I'm here for the gospel singers. Come on,

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Speaker 1: you did the secular walls and I lost them all,

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Speaker 1: you know, because I you know, I listened to me

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Speaker 1: some you know secular music. Oh you do. I didn't

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Speaker 1: know that you listen for me, girl, girl, Me and

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Speaker 1: me and me and Ella fish Gerald went to school.

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Speaker 1: She's on the list to Ella used to sing in

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Speaker 1: the church choir with me, the little choir called Jorlander.

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Speaker 1: We were kids. But she said, wasn't no money in that.

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Speaker 1: She was right though, she right went out there. I

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Speaker 1: knew billy holiday, you know, but I wanted to just

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Speaker 1: let's just go down the list of blacks women that

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Speaker 1: sing the church music. Lord, have mercy. Let's start with

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Speaker 1: the greatest one. Broaly on them. But hey, you're joshing yes, Lord, Lord,

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Speaker 1: Lord Lord, your lando singing at him, open my heart.

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Speaker 1: I had to stop Steve a couple of times. He

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Speaker 1: looked upside her head at the b et celebration of gospel.

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Speaker 1: I said, you ain't got enough God in you. You

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Speaker 1: need to go. He's a beautiful lady, though, yes, what

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Speaker 1: is that girl that can sing? Kim Barrell? And once

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Speaker 1: the girl is married to the little fat boy, mister Brown,

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Speaker 1: tame man, I'm gon kids. Oh no, let me get

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Speaker 1: on down, Come on now, now we got the bed

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Speaker 1: because of Shirley season, all right, pastor Shirley season. I

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Speaker 1: knew her grandmama or really what was her name? Who

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Speaker 1: was dressing her? Last day dressing system? Thank it only

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Speaker 1: dressing everyone's I knew everyone's or then ah, that was

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Speaker 1: another singer, y'all didn't know how Berta Clementine. She was

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Speaker 1: married to the lead single or the Mighty Clouds of Joy. Okay.

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Speaker 1: She had a women's church group called Thunderstone. Oh mighty

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Speaker 1: close the Thunderstone. When they came in there, they brung it.

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Speaker 1: The Thunderstone, they brung it and it was just a

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Speaker 1: lot of them. You know, it's a lot of good

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Speaker 1: ones that singing. Now you know Mary Mary girls is good?

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Speaker 1: What is the one U c c CC wine, Yes, family, Yes,

633
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Speaker 1: let's see. Oh she got on your list. Boy, it

634
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:51,359
Speaker 1: ain't you know the ones that's really singing, y'all ain't

635
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 1: gonna know. Brunner dead pics girl, that girl because sang,

636
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 1: she sang that only revival. She traveled the country, did

637
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: dotted people's time dot and what is my dead Lady?

638
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 1: That passed recently, was on Steve Show. Oh I put

639
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 1: this name, yeah, the past one of the yes, uh

640
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: huh oh. I ain't no sisters like the clocks. That's right,

641
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:26,959
Speaker 1: every last one of them. Help us because you bought

642
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: the blows up day, but you bought the sunshine days.

643
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: A bombing Gilliam everything, a bombing Guineas. Oh, that's amazing.

644
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 1: There's so many people I didn't have time to name,

645
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: all over the Happy Mother's, Mother's Women's Week, the women's

646
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 1: frank phone call from the nephew sister Odell. Right after

647
00:43:54,280 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 1: this you're listening Steve Morning Show. Coming up at about

648
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, it's my strawberry letter for

649
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:09,720
Speaker 1: today and the subject is is this my house or hers? Okay,

650
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: we'll get into that, find out what that's all about

651
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: coming up, but right now it is time for the

652
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: nephew and today's frank phone called Nephew, Nephew, nephew. It

653
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 1: is International Women's Day. What it is? And I does

654
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:26,399
Speaker 1: I just cannot let you down on International Women's Day.

655
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 1: I cannot do that, Carlos. Right, we have to. We

656
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: have to show love and affection for these beautiful ladies

657
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 1: in the world. We have to so so the prank

658
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 1: today is I love your wife more than you do?

659
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: What girl? What you I love your wife more than

660
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 1: you do? Oh God, you gotta say it. Look at me, Stay,

661
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: I saw you. Don't let him do this today? But

662
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 1: what day have you been able to stop? He did

663
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: it on Father's Day? Mother, He's resurrection from Sunday? Don

664
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:26,320
Speaker 1: he just a food through all baby holiday? Croser having

665
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:32,399
Speaker 1: all the days? A candle all by hi, It don't matter.

666
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 1: What's the name of the king, Tommy what? I love

667
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 1: your wife more than you do? Why did you pick

668
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:43,320
Speaker 1: that for today? Tommy? Yeah, that's that's appropriate for today.

669
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 1: You don't see how this fit? This ignorance, This don't

670
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: fit to y'all. I don't understand, all right, you know what?

671
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 1: You know what? I try to do something nice for

672
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: y'all and we do appreciate you. Is that what you're

673
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,879
Speaker 1: about to tell? Off? Reaching my archive and get y'all

674
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:06,399
Speaker 1: something nice that's gonna fit your little day and none.

675
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,879
Speaker 1: That's how y'all like with He putting lel on in front,

676
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: Tier said the play it all right, cat dog, let's go.

677
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 1: I love your wife more than you do. Come on, man, Hello, Hey,

678
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 1: I'm trying to I'm trying to reach track this track.

679
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: Who is this? Hey, Tree? How you're doing? Man? This

680
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 1: is Milton. I work with your wife, Teresa Milton. Yeah. Yeah,

681
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: you probably heard of me before. I've been I've been

682
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 1: at the job probably about five years now, Chase, she

683
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 1: ever mentioned me? No, I ain't, No, Milton. What's going on?

684
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: Everything cool? Yeah? Yeah, everything's good. Everything is good. Hey, listen, Um,

685
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 1: I wanted to have a conversation with you. Man. I

686
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,399
Speaker 1: don't really know how to spring this on you or whatever,

687
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: but um, like I said, I've been working at the

688
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 1: spot for five years and been on Teresa probably like

689
00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: around three. And I guess what I really want to

690
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: say is that I didn't I didn't gain some feelings

691
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:11,240
Speaker 1: for Teresa and wold on, Manlo hold on you calling

692
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:14,720
Speaker 1: me and you're telling me right now you have feelings

693
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: from my wife who you work with, and you Teresa,

694
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 1: because that isn't my wife. You have feelings from my wife?

695
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 1: Is that correct? Yeah? You know it took me a

696
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 1: while to come forward and say this, but I you know,

697
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 1: I'm a man enough now that I feel like men

698
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 1: you need to talk about it. Bro, have you loved

699
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 1: your mind. No, no, I haven't. No, listen, I'm just

700
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:37,720
Speaker 1: letting you know. Today is the day and I decided

701
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 1: I'm not carrying this weight on my shoulders no more.

702
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm getting it off for me, all right. And at

703
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: the end of the day, I love your wife more

704
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: than you do. What I I love your wife more

705
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 1: than you do. Bro. So you how long you've been

706
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: loving my wife? You tell me how long you've been loving?

707
00:47:57,840 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: How long? How long you feel that you have been

708
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 1: in love up with my wife? I mean I'm looking

709
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 1: at I know, I know, I know at least two.

710
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: Does my wife even know this? I mean, I'm I'm

711
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:12,359
Speaker 1: sure she's awherever to a certain extent, to a certain extent.

712
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: What's what house? How certain of the extent are we talking?

713
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:16,800
Speaker 1: I mean, you know when we go to lunch together

714
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,359
Speaker 1: and she you know, I mean, I'm sure she know y'all,

715
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 1: y'all we're going to lunch together. How long y'all been

716
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: going on lunch together? Bro, We've been going to lunch

717
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: together at least at least two and am kids. I mean,

718
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 1: we're going to lunchgeal almost every day. We might miss

719
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: the day if she go with the girls. I go

720
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,359
Speaker 1: with the fellas so big, but for the most part,

721
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 1: me and huh me and I'm pretty much at lunch toga. Yeah,

722
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 1: I need that sweat eyes. Bro, stay the hell away

723
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 1: from my wife. Bro. I needed to back up. Ain't

724
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 1: no more, no no, no, no no, Bro, because you

725
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: get talked enough that you'n't talked enough. Ain't no more

726
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: in love, ain't no more states. You need to stay

727
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 1: the back, period, stay the back, man. I don't want

728
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 1: to hear none of that, nothing, nothing, nothing at all,

729
00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: because soon come home. We don't live. Hey, bro, listen, listen.

730
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: I know all about you, Trey, everything about it, all right.

731
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:09,359
Speaker 1: I already know how you treat her. Right. I'm hot, right,

732
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like a strong sensation right now because I

733
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 1: really want to reach the phone and just break your

734
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 1: neck right now. That's what I really want to do.

735
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:18,800
Speaker 1: They do, That's what I really want to do. And

736
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:21,439
Speaker 1: what's my wife talking about business outside of my role, Phoe.

737
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to figure out. Hey. All I'm

738
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: saying is when we go to the lunch, she let

739
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 1: me know how she's feeling. She let me know what

740
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,240
Speaker 1: she's going through. She let me know all that stops.

741
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 1: Start with that lunch. Bro. I don't want to hear

742
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 1: another damn thing about lunch. Bro, ain't no more lunch.

743
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 1: It's from here on out. Brom calling me talking about

744
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: people in long with my wife even take it work?

745
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: Is I'm Milton, I'm milted? Bro? What anam man? Man? Listen,

746
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 1: calm down with all that energy you got going on

747
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 1: like you're gonna do something I'm trying to do. You're

748
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 1: not talking down what you're not. You're not gonna do

749
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 1: nothing you are right now, But I'm my keys right

750
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 1: now something where you have right now? Bro? Right now?

751
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,480
Speaker 1: So so how about how about when you got laid off,

752
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 1: when you was off for six months and she was

753
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: carrying on all the all the way and pay all

754
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 1: the field? You ain't you all right? Bet? Since you

755
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 1: know I since you know everything, I bet you know

756
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 1: I gotta go too. So all you need to know

757
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 1: is all you need to know is bro, get dumb,

758
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 1: bro get dumb, broke down. Bro. You know what we

759
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: talk about that he went my wife saying that he

760
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 1: will love is talking about luncheon. So tap the hell up.

761
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 1: While we are, you can thank me for the for

762
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: the suit that you got for Christmas. You can thank

763
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 1: me for that. I picked it out and I paid

764
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: for it. Okay, okay, cool, cool, cool, all right, cool,

765
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: let me go in the closet right now, right now,

766
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: all right. You're talking about the great sitter three peas,

767
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: that's what you talk about it. He's got the great

768
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 1: bulls right here with this bull anyway. I don't like

769
00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 1: to I'm nine nine. You don't like to shop, you

770
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:03,880
Speaker 1: don't want to suit three times nine. You don't like

771
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: you ain't told me at lunch when you don't want

772
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:09,919
Speaker 1: to sue, dude. I swear to guy bro, I swear

773
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 1: to God. I need to talk to my wife. Man,

774
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: I need to talk to my wife. I need to

775
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: talk to my wife because I hey, man, listen, you

776
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:21,919
Speaker 1: know what. I just couldn't hold this back. No more

777
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: me living behind in the shadows. And but I'm over

778
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: here kicking money out to Teresa when she needed why

779
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 1: you was laid off, I'm helping her out. I'm going

780
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: you know I'm doing I'm doing too much on money.

781
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: You so you was giving the money. You kicking the

782
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: money when I was laid off. You're kicking the money, dude,

783
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 1: somebody had to step up. Man to me and Teresa's tight,

784
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:44,800
Speaker 1: so you know, I just try to step in and

785
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 1: help an hour. So you're giving my wife money? What

786
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 1: are you saying? Do you want to make you feel

787
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 1: better about the whole thing? You want to make you

788
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 1: feel better. You ain't need to make me feel better

789
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:58,760
Speaker 1: about it. Man, I really feel you talk to my wife.

790
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: I gotta do is talk to my wife. Bro. That's

791
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 1: that's fine. But can I say something to make you

792
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 1: feel better? What I'm gonna say this till you Trey.

793
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 1: This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

794
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: Your wife Teresa gotten me to prank phone call you?

795
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:22,399
Speaker 1: Wait what hey? This is Tommy. Man. This nephew times

796
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You the Steve Harvey Show. Bro, Bro,

797
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: you gotta getting it, bro, Bro, don't do that. Bro.

798
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:40,840
Speaker 1: You gotta stop that. Tommy, come on now, come on,

799
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 1: you gotta stop. My heart is racing. I'm sweating. Oh now, hey,

800
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you this. You gotta tell me what

801
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,800
Speaker 1: it is. The baddest and I mean the baddest radio

802
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 1: show in the land. It's a Steve Harvey Morny Show.

803
00:52:54,920 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: Gotta be happy International Women's Day. Yeah us who yes,

804
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: it did? All right? Listen. Coming up next, it's the

805
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter for today and the subject is is this

806
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 1: my house or hers? We'll get into that right after this.

807
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:29,320
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time for

808
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:34,400
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting,

809
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM.

810
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 1: All you have to do is click on submit Strawberry Letter.

811
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air,

812
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now.

813
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 1: You never know it could be yours, be yours on

814
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:54,320
Speaker 1: International Women's Day. Buckle up and hold on tight. We

815
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: got it for you here. It is Strawberry Crazy subject,

816
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Is this my house or hers? Dear

817
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, My husband and I are twenty nine years

818
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:09,319
Speaker 1: old and we got married a year ago. Our anniversary

819
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 1: is coming up. So his parents gifted us with a house.

820
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 1: My husband and I thought they were giving us a

821
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,240
Speaker 1: down payment, but without telling us, they went and picked

822
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: out our house and bought it. My husband and I

823
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 1: were working with a realtor and looking for a ranch

824
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: style house with a big backyard. Our home search came

825
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: to a screeching halt when his parents popped up at

826
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 1: our house with balloons, champagne, and an iPad. They came

827
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 1: to show us a new house on the iPad and

828
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: we liked the house, but it wasn't our style. It's

829
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 1: a two story home with the primary suite on the

830
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 1: main floor and all of the other bedrooms are upstairs.

831
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 1: We want to have a family, and that's not ideal

832
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 1: for our babies. We were not pleased, but we both

833
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 1: had to act grateful. His mother all the credit for

834
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 1: picking out my house, so I pretended to be excited,

835
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: but my husband was squeezing my hand under the table

836
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 1: because he knew I was about to explode the idea.

837
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: The deal is done and our mortgage is less than

838
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a month, so we got past the

839
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 1: initial irritation we were feeling. But now we have another

840
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 1: dilemma with his mama. She's hired her old white friend

841
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:28,800
Speaker 1: as our interior designer and they're planning to paint my

842
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:33,360
Speaker 1: kitchen a bright yellow because it's a cheerful color. I

843
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 1: called my husband immediately and told him he'd better come

844
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 1: and get his mama. He said, to let his mother

845
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 1: waste her money and we can change the paint color later.

846
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:45,720
Speaker 1: All I kept asking him was is this her house

847
00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 1: or mine? And he kept telling me to calm down,

848
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 1: It'll be all right. Well it's not all right. Should

849
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 1: I let him and his mama have this house? Are

850
00:55:56,120 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: you crazy? Seriously crazy? Right now? I know? I mean

851
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:07,800
Speaker 1: you don't want the I mean, somebody's gonna be feeling

852
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 1: some kind of way. I get that, especially if you

853
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: say something. Do not say anything. You don't want his

854
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:17,399
Speaker 1: very generous mom and dad to be feeling any kind

855
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:19,400
Speaker 1: of way. You and your husband are missing the bigger

856
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: picture here, mostly you. I mean, this is, for the

857
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 1: most part, a free house. What do you have a

858
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 1: thousand dollars a month mortgage? Come on, now, this is

859
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 1: a blessing. What about blessing? Don't you get don't you understand?

860
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: You guys sound so ungrateful and it's mostly you mostly you.

861
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,800
Speaker 1: Have you been watching the housing market lately? Do you

862
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: know how much houses cost? Are you aware how hard

863
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 1: it is to get a house? Do you have you

864
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 1: seen the interest rates? Junior? You just bought a house?

865
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. I mean here it

866
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:57,879
Speaker 1: is you guys, get a house, you have to pay

867
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars a month mortgage that they practically gave

868
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: it to you, and you're complaining. Now should your mother

869
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: in law be trying to decorate the house to know?

870
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 1: She needs to stay out of that part of it

871
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: except come by for dinner and stuff when you invite her.

872
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 1: But I don't think you really understand what's happening here.

873
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: You basically have a mortgage free home. You just have

874
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: to pay a thousand dollars. They bought a house for you.

875
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 1: Come on, I wouldn't say anything to them, but thank you,

876
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:29,440
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank you. Don't be ungrateful. They

877
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: didn't have to do this for you. The house may

878
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 1: not be exactly what you want right now, but you

879
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 1: can live there for a few years, save your money,

880
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: sell it whatever, and get somebody that fit your family more.

881
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:44,000
Speaker 1: That's what's smart and thankful people do. Don't be stupid here.

882
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:47,439
Speaker 1: Don't be stupid. You better hope they don't hear this letter.

883
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 1: That's all I got. Steve. Well, they gonna hear the letter,

884
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 1: and yeah they are. Okay, here's a deal. This is.

885
00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 1: You're twenty nine years old. You don't even know yet.

886
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 1: You have no idea what these people have actually done.

887
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: You have no idea what they saved you. You're on

888
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 1: the market looking for a house. You got to have

889
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: a down payment. They give you the house that you

890
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 1: would have had to put a down payment on, and

891
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 1: now the down payment. As hard as it is to

892
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: save lumpsms of money, you now get to keep your

893
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: lump sum of money. Now you mad because she didn't

894
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 1: got the old white lady paint your kitchen yellow. I

895
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: have so many damn yellow dishes sitting up in there

896
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't be funny. I had yellow table. Cloffee be the

897
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 1: sunniest body, is happiest free room you've ever seen in

898
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 1: your life. I think at twenty nine, you're not looking

899
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: at what this actually is. You're staring a gift horse

900
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: dead in the mouth. You have been given number one.

901
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: You have an instant asset and the money you were

902
00:58:56,960 --> 00:59:00,959
Speaker 1: saving looking on Zillo for a house, I'll get to keep.

903
00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 1: See you. You're mad about all the wrong things, little girl.

904
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: Damn I got y'all wanted the joy buying a house.

905
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: Somebody gave you a house. It's so much you can do.

906
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 1: The equity that's in a house that's already purchased, the

907
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 1: equity that's in the house, the asset that you have.

908
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 1: You have no idea what that's done for you. And

909
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: yet and still you mad because they removed the joy

910
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 1: of you looking for a house. You wanted a ranch

911
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 1: style house. They got you a two story house. It

912
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 1: ain't good for babies. You ain't even had no baby.

913
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 1: You ain't even you know what I mean babies? You

914
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Family has been raised with steps.

915
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,560
Speaker 1: It's not ideal for baby. What ain't gonna learn how

916
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: to go them downsteps? It's just you're just not looking

917
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: at this the right way. When I come back, we're

918
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 1: just gonna talk about real estate. I don't have nothing

919
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 1: in this letter for you that surely didn't cover you.

920
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:03,439
Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? You are looking at all

921
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 1: of the negative and have not taken one look at

922
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: the positive in this and you therefore hang on. We'll

923
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 1: come back with part two of your response to twenty

924
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 1: three minutes after today's Strawberry letter, subject is this my

925
01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 1: house or hers? We'll get back into it right after this.

926
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve Let's recap today's

927
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. Is this my house or hers? Well the question,

928
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 1: let me answer that question. It's your house. She gave

929
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 1: it to y'all. It's in y'all's name. She's just trying

930
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 1: to be helpful. Man. She thinks she's doing you a favor,

931
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: paying for a decorator, painting it for you, fixing the

932
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 1: house up. You know you got money, you could change

933
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 1: all that. Look your husband he rocking a hard place,

934
01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 1: his mom and his daddy and done this for y'all,

935
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 1: and now his wife don't like it. He try and

936
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 1: just get you be all right, and it is gonna

937
01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 1: be right. But you would you but you act like

938
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: a you know, y'allking, like a spoil brat here. You're

939
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 1: just acting like a brat. So let me explain something

940
01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 1: to you. Y'all ain't but twenty nine your anniversary coming up.

941
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: Parents gifted us with a house. We can stop the

942
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 1: letter right there. Hallelujah, Thank you Jesus. The praise dance,

943
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:27,560
Speaker 1: the parade I'm throwing for these people. I'm taking them

944
01:01:27,600 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 1: to dinner. They get a day's International Women's Day, to

945
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 1: be international mom and Daddy day. Right, my husband, and

946
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 1: I thought they were giving us a down payment. Pay minute,

947
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 1: hold up, so you ain't even had a down payment.

948
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 1: I ain't even see that. Y'all thought they was giving

949
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 1: you a down payment, but instead of down payment, they

950
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: gave y'all the house. They picked out the house and

951
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 1: bought it. Y'all was working with a real looking for

952
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:57,480
Speaker 1: a ranch style house with a big backyard. Then it

953
01:01:57,600 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: all came to a heart when they popped up and

954
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 1: popped up the house with balloon, champagne and iPad. They

955
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: came to show y'all a new house on the iPad.

956
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 1: We liked the house, but it wasn't our style. My

957
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: first house wasn't my styleigue my first apartment wasn't my style.

958
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 1: My first car wasn't my style. You got to start somewhere.

959
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 1: It was a two story. Everyone, we want to have

960
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 1: a family, and that's not IDEALFI our babies. What babies?

961
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 1: You ain't got no babies. We were not pleased, but

962
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: we both had to act grateful, Act grateful, Act grateful.

963
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 1: These young people today, man, and this is not all

964
01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 1: young people. So let me just correct that because I

965
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 1: know some young people right now. You walk up and

966
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:49,160
Speaker 1: get in the house you find to see a whole

967
01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:52,800
Speaker 1: bunch of gratitude. We are not pleased, but we are.

968
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 1: His mother took all the credit for picking out my house.

969
01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 1: So I pretended to be excited. My husband squeezing your

970
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:00,959
Speaker 1: hand on the table because he knew I was about

971
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 1: to explode. The deal is done. Our mortgage is less

972
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 1: than a thousand dollars a month. What kind of house

973
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:11,680
Speaker 1: is it? What? They didn't put enough money down? Where

974
01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:15,080
Speaker 1: your mortgage is less than a thousand dollars a month? Girl,

975
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 1: So we got past the initial irritation we were feeling.

976
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: But now we have another dilemma. She then had an

977
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 1: old white friend and they playing on painting my kitchen

978
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:26,800
Speaker 1: bright yellow because it's a cheerful color. You can go

979
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 1: in there and say, hey, I can't paint it yellow.

980
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 1: I really yellow doesn't do it for me. What other

981
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:33,880
Speaker 1: choices do we have? You know you could do that.

982
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:36,560
Speaker 1: I called my husband told him he better come get

983
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 1: his mama. Come get his mamma for what. See, now

984
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 1: you're making the man have to choose you fenn to

985
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 1: make your mama feel bad for doing y'all a favor.

986
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:47,640
Speaker 1: You was first looking for the down payment. These people

987
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: turn around, gave you a house, he said, let his money,

988
01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: mama waste her money, and we could change the paint color. Lately,

989
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: all I kept asking, was this her house online? And

990
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 1: he kept telling me to calm down, It'll be all right.

991
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:01,720
Speaker 1: Well should I let him and his mama had this house?

992
01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 1: Are you for real? So now this marriage that's only

993
01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 1: been a year, you're ready to walk away from him,

994
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 1: the house and the mama. Little girl, what's wrong with you?

995
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 1: If this all it takes to break up your marriage,

996
01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 1: you probably shouldn't have gotten married. Because I got news

997
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: for you. It's way more coming than this hill. They

998
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: don't gave us a free house in him paint now

999
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:30,080
Speaker 1: kitchen yellow, and didn't give us no damn payment. They're

1000
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 1: gonna buy the damn house. And then sit up here, now,

1001
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: this old white lady in here fitting to paint my

1002
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 1: kitchen for free, and I'm sitting up in here she

1003
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:40,479
Speaker 1: hadn't picked it out, brag and talking about she hadn't

1004
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: picked out my house. Gonna bring some damn balloons and

1005
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 1: some champagne over here on the iPad. And now all

1006
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: we'd had to call these realtives and tell them don't

1007
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 1: call us no more because we messed around and got

1008
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 1: this damn free house. And she's sitting up in here

1009
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 1: taking all the credit for I don't won't know, damn

1010
01:04:57,840 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 1: free house, won't know mutgage for no underne thousand dollars.

1011
01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:08,520
Speaker 1: That's that's all it sounds like. And it's the stupidest

1012
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:12,440
Speaker 1: thing I've ever heard. Young lady, get a grip on yourself.

1013
01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: Here's what you can do when Shirley said it. Move

1014
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 1: in the house when you get pregnant, sell the house

1015
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 1: and go get what you want. And guess what, when

1016
01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:27,560
Speaker 1: you sell the house, it will give you the money

1017
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 1: to put the down payment on whatever house you want.

1018
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 1: Of a house and you didn't have a down payment

1019
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:39,400
Speaker 1: or a house before, or hallelujah, keep the house, save

1020
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 1: your money, get a down payment, and now you have

1021
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,400
Speaker 1: rental property. I don't understand how you're not looking at

1022
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:50,800
Speaker 1: this girl. You you I've never said I wish somebody

1023
01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: to this date would give me a house. Hey, jackpot,

1024
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:00,920
Speaker 1: just give me a house. You can give me a

1025
01:06:01,040 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 1: house that need fixing up. I take that fix it

1026
01:06:04,160 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 1: up and flipping. I wish somebody would give me a house.

1027
01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:13,960
Speaker 1: Ain't no body never gave me no damn house. You

1028
01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:21,360
Speaker 1: are one spoil non visionary person. But the most disturbing

1029
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 1: part in this whole lot of is should I let

1030
01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 1: him and his mama had his house? Yeah, gonna buy

1031
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 1: me a house and make me pay under a thousand

1032
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 1: dollars a month. So na gonna pay my kitchen yellow,

1033
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:37,680
Speaker 1: I got to give me some paperwork. Wow, lady, all right,

1034
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 1: please leave your comments on today's Strawberry Letter on the

1035
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 1: Instagram at Steve Harvey at the m and check out

1036
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:46,120
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up next, it

1037
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 1: is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this. You're listening

1038
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:53,600
Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for

1039
01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Junior? Well, on

1040
01:06:56,560 --> 01:07:00,360
Speaker 1: this Women's International International Women's Day, we might well celebration

1041
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:03,320
Speaker 1: some women in sports because they have made some contribution.

1042
01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:06,280
Speaker 1: I mean, off the top, you can think about no

1043
01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: other than the Venus and Serena Williams. I mean they've

1044
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 1: made They've changed the entire landscape of tennis for women,

1045
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 1: and I'm just want to give them their their props. Also,

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Speaker 1: Simone Viles, let's just go ahead and just say best

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Speaker 1: gymnasts I've ever seen. I don't. I don't, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know one better than that one. I've never

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Speaker 1: she got her own, she had her own flip that

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Speaker 1: what that take? That's how cold she is. Yeahbbie Douglas,

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Speaker 1: Yes she did, Yabby Douglas. That's a nugle, that's true.

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Speaker 1: Here's another one in tennis, Naomi Osaka. Yeah, bringing attention

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Speaker 1: to issues, I mean, just being an activist and a

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Speaker 1: tennis player. I mean that. That's another one. Here's one

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Speaker 1: we have to give a shout out too. She's been

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Speaker 1: through a lot, and I'm telling you this is this

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Speaker 1: is when we want to celebrate Britney Griner. I'm telling you, yeah,

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Speaker 1: everything that she's been through, her strength, her surst bravely yes,

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah, and and and then I have to

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01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:14,960
Speaker 1: look at this, don Stately. She is the head coach

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Speaker 1: of South Carolina. Yes, the highest paid coach in women's

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Speaker 1: NCAA basketball. Right now, I just I just wait on y'all. Stately,

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Speaker 1: wait a minute. Yes, Yeah, she's a bad girl right there. Yes,

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Speaker 1: another woman. I want to give a shout out to

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Speaker 1: Candice park girl. Yeah, tell I love Candice Parking, w

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Speaker 1: NBA player. Yes, candas parking. First woman to dunk in

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Speaker 1: an NCAA tournament, that's what Candice. Yes, yes, okay, we

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Speaker 1: can go to the track. We can please you. Anybody

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Speaker 1: heard Jackie joined the Curse and anybody anybody heard a

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Speaker 1: flow Joey, anybody heard this girl named Alison Felix, Alison

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Speaker 1: Felix her come on that. Yes, yes, yes, I'm just

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Speaker 1: telling you. Women have made dominant contributions in the sports world. Gibson, Yes,

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Speaker 1: opened the door for all of them. Lisa Leslie, Yes.

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Speaker 1: On International Women's Day, we just wanted to highlight all

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Speaker 1: these women who've made all these great contributions. Joe Patterson

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01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:32,400
Speaker 1: who used to come up to the bus barn and

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Speaker 1: play tackle with the boys. All of us who were

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Speaker 1: scared of her. Shout out to Joe, Shout out to

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Speaker 1: Joe knocking boys. Our first wanted to make the boys say,

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Speaker 1: oh little fact, all right, junior, thank you, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you. At the time of the hour, black females

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01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 1: across the world are still reeling from Trevor Noah's powerful

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01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 1: emotional tribute to black women. Remember when you did that

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01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 1: back in December. Well, we'll let you hear it again.

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Speaker 1: It bears repeating right after this, you're listening to Day

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01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:15,080
Speaker 1: Morning Show. No celebrity has publicly acknowledged and thanked black

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01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:18,439
Speaker 1: women quite like the former Daily Show host Trevor Noah

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01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 1: did in his final emotional monologue. Trevor's last show was

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01:10:22,840 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 1: back in December, you recall, but it's words still resonate today.

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Speaker 1: Take a listen special shout outs to black women. You know,

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Speaker 1: I've been I've often been credited with, you know, having

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Speaker 1: these grand ideas of people are like, oh, Trevor, you're

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01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:40,760
Speaker 1: so smart and you so and I'm like, I'm like,

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01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 1: who do you think teaches me? You know, who do

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01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 1: you think has shaped me, nourished me, informed me? You

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01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: know from my mom my grand you know, my aunt

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01:10:48,880 --> 01:10:50,720
Speaker 1: told these black women in my life. But then in

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Speaker 1: America as well. If you always tell people, if you

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01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:56,519
Speaker 1: truly want to learn about America, talk to black women

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01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:03,000
Speaker 1: because unlike everybody else, black women cannot afford to around

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01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 1: and find out. Black people understand how hard it is

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01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:11,000
Speaker 1: when things go bad, especially in America, but any place

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01:11:11,040 --> 01:11:14,000
Speaker 1: where black people exist, where it's Brazil, or it's South Africa,

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01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:16,519
Speaker 1: wherever it is, when things go bad, black people know

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01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:19,760
Speaker 1: that it gets worse for them, but black women in particular,

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01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:24,600
Speaker 1: they know what is genuine. He'll always be shocked to

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01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 1: be like, why do black women turn out the way

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01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:28,000
Speaker 1: they do in America? Why do they vote the way that? Yeah,

1109
01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 1: because they know what happens if things do not go

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01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:33,160
Speaker 1: the way it should. They cannot afford to around and

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Speaker 1: find out. Yes, yeah, yes, I love that. Thank you, Trevor,

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01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:48,160
Speaker 1: Noah for that. Noah, uh huh, thank you for that.

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Speaker 1: That kind of put it all into perspective, you know.

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01:11:53,320 --> 01:11:56,880
Speaker 1: And Steve, you're a champion for black women, always have been.

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01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, you know, um for me,

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01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 1: I don't know anybody. There's not a single group that

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01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 1: is responsible and has been called on to do more

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01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:28,840
Speaker 1: in in in this not not in this country, not

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01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:34,280
Speaker 1: in this country, because black women have felt the brunt

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Speaker 1: of all of these policies, whether it was the Willie

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Speaker 1: Lynch letter, whether it was the three fifths of a

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01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 1: human being, whether it was women can't vote, whether it's

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01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:51,640
Speaker 1: blacks can't vote, whether it's been voted, suppression was, this

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01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:55,040
Speaker 1: has been the two drug laws that created the mass

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Speaker 1: incarceration of black men. Women. Black women have suffered the

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01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:07,840
Speaker 1: brunt of what this country does. More so than anybody,

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01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:10,920
Speaker 1: they've been on the receiving end. Now, black men, we

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01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:14,960
Speaker 1: all understand what this is. But when talking about the

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01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 1: women who have had the coat with this, because they

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01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:26,240
Speaker 1: are oftentimes left holding the bag and they are responsible

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01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:31,519
Speaker 1: for building up the backbone, the courage, and the fort

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01:13:31,680 --> 01:13:36,760
Speaker 1: two of their men. And they've had to do it

1133
01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:39,600
Speaker 1: when none when when when what nobody lifting them up?

1134
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 1: And when they take their men from the welfare policy,

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01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:50,000
Speaker 1: you can't get welfare if there's a man in the house.

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01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 1: So when a man does come around, if the social

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01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 1: worker finds that's out, you lose your benefits. So they

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01:13:57,439 --> 01:14:01,720
Speaker 1: don't even do nothing to promote a family. You have

1139
01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:05,280
Speaker 1: to be on your own to receive this. And you

1140
01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:08,880
Speaker 1: think that's some great way of helping single women as

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01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:11,080
Speaker 1: it's a great way to keep the destruction of the

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01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:13,639
Speaker 1: family in place, which you know is far more important

1143
01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:16,720
Speaker 1: than any financial support. But they know that, But that

1144
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 1: policy who ends up suffering for that? Black women, women

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01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:24,439
Speaker 1: of color. They've always done that man. And that's the

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01:14:24,680 --> 01:14:27,879
Speaker 1: thing about it, man that makes them such a special

1147
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:33,200
Speaker 1: breed because they are just man them women man. They

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01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 1: next level strong, they next level strong period. That's all

1149
01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:41,920
Speaker 1: I could say. Well, thank you, thank you for that, sir, Yes, sir.

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01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:45,320
Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have

1151
01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:48,240
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show on this National

1152
01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:52,479
Speaker 1: International Women's Day. Right after this you're listening to the

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01:14:56,280 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 1: movie The Woman King has been given official permission to

1154
01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 1: release in cinemas in mainland China. It is expected today

1155
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:06,800
Speaker 1: but on April fourteenth. The Woman King was directed by

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01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:10,840
Speaker 1: a black woman, Gina Prince Bythewood, and stars Viola Davis

1157
01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:14,519
Speaker 1: and a predominantly black female cast. The movie has grossed

1158
01:15:14,760 --> 01:15:18,679
Speaker 1: ninety seven million dollars worldwide, with twenty nine million dollars

1159
01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 1: coming from international markets and sixty seven point three million

1160
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:25,720
Speaker 1: in North America. So we have to say on this

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Speaker 1: International Women's Day, congratulations going out to Gina Prince Bythewood

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01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 1: and the incomparable Viola Davis. That was absolutely my favorite

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01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 1: movie of last year, The Woman King. If you have

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01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:41,560
Speaker 1: not seen it, please see it. I was upset that

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01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,439
Speaker 1: she was not nominated Viola Davis for the movie. I

1166
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 1: thought she would be, but it is. You gotta go

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01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:49,040
Speaker 1: see it. If you have got she got everyone in,

1168
01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 1: you got all love you're good. Did you hear your uncle?

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01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 1: You got a bunch of you don't want me to say, Matt, Yeah, yeah,

1170
01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:02,639
Speaker 1: right right. But weekend of nominations the Oscars this Sunday.

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01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. If Angela Bassett does not

1172
01:16:06,520 --> 01:16:12,040
Speaker 1: get an Academy award, I'll go walk down there. We're movie,

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01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:19,960
Speaker 1: we're movie. Whatever. It is. Her time to get this

1174
01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 1: Academy award. Get the walking got all right, We'll have

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01:16:26,080 --> 01:16:34,639
Speaker 1: more show started eight the Seave Harvey Morning Show coming

1176
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:36,680
Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play

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01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:39,280
Speaker 1: a round of would you rather? Right after this. You're

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01:16:39,360 --> 01:16:42,880
Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and it's time

1179
01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:46,240
Speaker 1: now to play around of would you rather? I want

1180
01:16:46,280 --> 01:16:49,080
Speaker 1: to get started right now. It's International Women's Day. Let's

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01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:53,040
Speaker 1: get to it. Okay, So now since his International Women's Day,

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01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:57,559
Speaker 1: I will be asking the ladies the question. Okay, we're

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01:16:57,560 --> 01:16:59,760
Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna flip the script a little bit of

1184
01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:07,639
Speaker 1: it here. Okay, Okay, would you rather kip the has

1185
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:11,800
Speaker 1: salon for three months or skip the nail salon? Oh?

1186
01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:16,320
Speaker 1: Definitely the nail salon. Yeah, gotta have the hair together.

1187
01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody not getting their head three months, not sir, No, sir.

1188
01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:23,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna have to put your hands and feet in

1189
01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:28,519
Speaker 1: something though, if you're gonna yeah, right, we get some

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01:17:28,640 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 1: gloves and some clothes to get your damn ha gotta

1191
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:37,880
Speaker 1: get it. Yes, all right, all right, here we go.

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01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 1: Would you have Would you rather have lunch with your ex?

1193
01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:46,360
Speaker 1: Or mow your entire yard by yourself? Surely you go,

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01:17:46,520 --> 01:17:50,280
Speaker 1: and then I'll go. Surely I'm having lunch with my

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01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 1: ass j Yeah, I'm not mowing the lan no tired yard. No,

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01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:05,479
Speaker 1: I will mold the entire lawn edged. Uh, the shrubbery plates,

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01:18:07,040 --> 01:18:14,880
Speaker 1: whole weeds, go to the backlash the house, putting new

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01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:19,280
Speaker 1: roof on the garage. Or I have lunch of my ex. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's just lunch. I don't care. I'm not doing all that,

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01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 1: all right. Would you rather be filthy rich with no friends?

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01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:34,679
Speaker 1: All a hard worker with lots of friends. We're already

1202
01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:40,479
Speaker 1: be uh we've seen that movie, right, we're already to

1203
01:18:40,560 --> 01:18:47,120
Speaker 1: be rich but no friends. Ye take a page out

1204
01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:55,760
Speaker 1: of Steve Harvey. Y. Yes, your husband, kids, friendless col right?

1205
01:18:56,680 --> 01:18:59,640
Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather get qualities? Sleep every night?

1206
01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:04,840
Speaker 1: I have great sex every night. B I'm gonna go

1207
01:19:04,880 --> 01:19:15,080
Speaker 1: with b B get it. Yeah, Yeah, I'm going to sleep. Yeah.

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01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:22,720
Speaker 1: I love his combat. That is the International Women's Day

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01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 1: version of would you rather thank you? Tommy? Yeah? All right,

1210
01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:30,560
Speaker 1: we'll be back to close out the show and do

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01:19:30,680 --> 01:19:33,920
Speaker 1: our last break right after this. You're listening to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are

1213
01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:40,479
Speaker 1: our last break of the day on this International Women's Day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. We appreciate you, We love you. Happy

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Speaker 1: International Women's Day to you, Carla, to you Monica, Happy

1216
01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:51,760
Speaker 1: International Women's Day to YouTube Shirley Monica. We hold it

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01:19:51,880 --> 01:19:54,760
Speaker 1: down every day, and we want to shout out all

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01:19:54,840 --> 01:19:57,840
Speaker 1: the women listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Shows, some

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01:19:58,000 --> 01:20:00,680
Speaker 1: soldiers and some strong women out there. We see you,

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01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:04,760
Speaker 1: We salute you, we know you, we know what y'all

1221
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:07,080
Speaker 1: going through, and we love y'all. Y'all get up every day.

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01:20:07,320 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 1: And what about the women haters? You want to say

1223
01:20:10,920 --> 01:20:15,840
Speaker 1: anything to them? Not at all. That's that's where I

1224
01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:21,720
Speaker 1: draw the line. Yeah, we see you hate that's all.

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01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:27,080
Speaker 1: But it's all good. It was you know. My closing

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01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:32,559
Speaker 1: remarks is really uh complimentary. I don't have the makeup

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01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 1: that women have. I could not do half the things

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01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:41,839
Speaker 1: that they do. And if you think about it, fellas,

1229
01:20:42,080 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 1: neither can you. Could you really take all that they

1230
01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:51,080
Speaker 1: have to take? Could you really? Could you put up

1231
01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:54,479
Speaker 1: with all they have to put up with? Think about

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01:20:54,520 --> 01:20:57,519
Speaker 1: who we are as men? Just think about who we

1233
01:20:57,600 --> 01:20:59,920
Speaker 1: really are. I'm just talking to fellas right now, and honest,

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01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:02,800
Speaker 1: who are we are? And I'm including myself in this

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01:21:02,960 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 1: group of all of who we are? Do you know

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01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:11,679
Speaker 1: what a woman has to do to tolerate that? Now, fellas,

1237
01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:14,720
Speaker 1: before you start comparing, well, they're tough too, Yes they are.

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01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:18,320
Speaker 1: They are more than a notion. Please don't thank you

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01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:20,519
Speaker 1: Finn to get one. And it's Finn to be happy

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01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:23,120
Speaker 1: sailing you you fin to get your hands on something

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01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 1: right there. But then again, ain't it worth it? Ain't

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01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:33,479
Speaker 1: it worth it? As difficult as they can be, ain't

1243
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 1: it worth it? But now let's talk about why they

1244
01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:43,200
Speaker 1: are difficult. Oftentimes, Oftentimes they are forced to be what

1245
01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:46,720
Speaker 1: we've put them in a position to be. We don't

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01:21:46,800 --> 01:21:49,800
Speaker 1: like women who are so independent, but we've left them

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01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:54,559
Speaker 1: alone so many times they had no choice. We don't

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01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:59,040
Speaker 1: want women to be snappy and would come quick, would

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01:21:59,160 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 1: come back with quick comebacks. But we've talked to them crazy.

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Speaker 1: You know, you want a woman to be submissive, but

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Speaker 1: then you ain't giving them nothing to submit to a

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Speaker 1: lot of times, you know, a lot of women would

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Speaker 1: let you lead if you would show leadership qualities. I'm

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Speaker 1: not talking about all men, because there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: good men out here, and there's a lot of great

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Speaker 1: women out here. But we got to give them credit

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Speaker 1: where credit is due now, because if you had to

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Speaker 1: do everything that they do, if you had to tend

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Speaker 1: to all of the things that they take the time

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Speaker 1: to tend to, if you had to nurture everybody that

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Speaker 1: they nurtured, your parents, her parents, the kids, the grandkids,

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Speaker 1: what's happening up at the school, what's happening down at

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Speaker 1: the soccer game, pta meetings going here, delivering your kids,

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Speaker 1: taking your kids, all these extracreuits. If you had to

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Speaker 1: do all of that, how much of that would you

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Speaker 1: really get done? I know I couldn't. I could. Could

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Speaker 1: you have taken what they've taken throughout our history? Could

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Speaker 1: you watch your men and family get sold off? Could

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Speaker 1: you watch that low down slave master coming out and

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Speaker 1: half his way with her? Could you could you do

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Speaker 1: that and still be standing. I don't know, man, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't think you could. They've had to

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Speaker 1: be stronger than strong. And now that we've said all that,

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Speaker 1: and I haven't even began to explain to you how

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Speaker 1: difficult it must be for them to try to climb

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Speaker 1: the corporate letter in a man's well, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: because we saw mels the casting couches. Yeah, you're mad

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Speaker 1: at you're mad? Do we madden to me too? Movement?

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Speaker 1: Or we created to me too movement? We had to

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Speaker 1: bring it. They had to do something because there was

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Speaker 1: so many wine Steins out there just doing what they

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey Epstein's. They had to come up with something. Man,

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Speaker 1: half the stuff you're mad about lived. They had to

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Speaker 1: come up with something. They won't equal pay because they've

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Speaker 1: been underpaid. You want all that, now, let's talk about

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Speaker 1: just the real deal. They give us namesakes, they give

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Speaker 1: us bloodlines, they give us they populate the world. On

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Speaker 1: top of all that, I've said to you, they got

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Speaker 1: the nerves to have the ability the only ones who

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Speaker 1: can make a human life. That's a lot, man, that's

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Speaker 1: a lot. And I can honestly say I don't have

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Speaker 1: the wherewithal to do half of what they do. I'm

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Speaker 1: a hard worker, I'm a great provider, I'm an incredible protector.

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Speaker 1: But the list of stuff that they have to be

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Speaker 1: that makes us who we are, that allows us to

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Speaker 1: be who we are, The things that they have in

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Speaker 1: their makeup, that makes everybody's life better around them. Your

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Speaker 1: child's life is better because of her. Life is better

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Speaker 1: because of her. You look better because of her, You

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Speaker 1: dress better because of her, you eat better because of her.

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Speaker 1: You walk into a house that makes you feel better

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Speaker 1: because of her. Wow, it's a lot, man, It's a

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Speaker 1: lot that women do. I don't think this day is enough.

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Speaker 1: They to have a Women's Year because they do a lot, man,

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Speaker 1: they really really do. Like Mother's Day, ought to tell

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Speaker 1: you that Mother's Day are to give you a sign

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Speaker 1: of what it really is. Look at Mother's Day compared

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Speaker 1: to Father's Day. You know why it's that way because

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Speaker 1: it should be that way. Day day is so much

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Speaker 1: bigger because they do way more things than we do, fellas,

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Speaker 1: And that's just being honest about the whole thing. So

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Speaker 1: happy in the National Women's Day to all the women

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Speaker 1: out there, and keep on doing what you're doing. With

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Speaker 1: you're bad, so keep on being strong with you're strong self.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all. I appreciate y'all. I'm glad I ain't

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Speaker 1: one of y'all because y'all do it so much better

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Speaker 1: than we would. Thank you for being who you are.

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Speaker 1: Those are my clothing remarks to day. Hey, listen, y'all

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Speaker 1: talk to God. He'd love to hear from you. All Right, cool,

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Speaker 1: y'all have a great day, Happy women for everybody. For all.

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