Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up? What's up? Everyone?
Speaker 1: This is Robin Dixon. Thank you so much for being
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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Yes, you all say it feels like
Speaker 1: you're chit chatting with your girlfriends in your living room.
Speaker 1: Guess what we're going to be in the living room together,
Speaker 1: Yes we are. We're gonna have some special guests. Yes,
Speaker 1: Carter still okay, but sorry, Carter is trying to get
Speaker 1: the mail. Um, I'll help you. But all right, you
Speaker 1: gotta be patient me finished please, So Carter, I'm sorry, No, no, really,
Speaker 1: we were interrupted. Carter is into online shopping, so you
Speaker 1: know when he learns that his package has been delivered, Yes,
Speaker 1: he's very eager and anxious mailbox is not opening for him. Okay,
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Speaker 1: Maybe yes, yeah, so get your ticket. Get your ticket anyway. Oh,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna have some special guests there. And when
Speaker 1: I say special guests, okay, fine, my dad's coming. Um,
Speaker 1: is he really he's really coming? Yes, he's coming just
Speaker 1: for the show. No, he also wants to see his
Speaker 1: daughter and his grands But he was also like, he
Speaker 1: called me. He was like, you and Robin are doing
Speaker 1: something something right. They don't know what. Right. He was like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come and see you guys. And I was like, okay.
Speaker 1: Then he says, can you save me a ticket? What? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: of course, of course. You know what, I should tell
Speaker 1: my father to come so they can meet. Yes, that
Speaker 1: would be great, both of your parents should come. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sure my mom would be already told her she's working. Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're great, she's going to be working great. And so
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna be all up in the audience and
Speaker 1: in y'all space and stuff. So we're gonna have a
Speaker 1: good old time, absolutely, yes, okay, so reasonably shady moment
Speaker 1: of the week. What you got you all Right? So
Speaker 1: y'all know, I got this trainer named Tyrone. Will's up
Speaker 1: thar Ron, who, by the way, has a crush on Robert.
Speaker 1: That's the Hometel story. I'm not gonna I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: embarrass you, Tyrone, but yeah, anyway, so but he embarrassed me. Okay,
Speaker 1: So a couple of weeks back, I was talking about
Speaker 1: a trainer at the gym called Timbo, right, and Timbo
Speaker 1: acted like I couldn't do a little jump ro class,
Speaker 1: and he was and I talked about that whole story. Well,
Speaker 1: Timbo doesn't listen to this podcast, and actually that's why
Speaker 1: I was talking about it, because I knew he would
Speaker 1: never hear it. So what does Tyrone do. Tyrone sees
Speaker 1: tim in the gym and says, Timbo, did you hear
Speaker 1: what said on the podcast? She was talking about you
Speaker 1: on the podcast? And so Timbo was like, what what
Speaker 1: do you mean? What's the name of the podcast. So Tyrone,
Speaker 1: mind your business. Do not go around telling people what
Speaker 1: I say on this freaking podcast. Okay, Tyrone, you're shady.
Speaker 1: That is hilarious. It's the worst, right because we think
Speaker 1: we can talk about anyone and everyone and nobody will
Speaker 1: hear us. But if you are in our living room, guys, right,
Speaker 1: but if you're in the inner circle, you can't be
Speaker 1: going to people and telling them that we're trashing them. Tyrone. Yes, Tyrone,
Speaker 1: know the rules of the roads, sir, and you cross
Speaker 1: the line, you're shady. Yeah, that's like like violating bro code. Yes,
Speaker 1: you violated trainer women's a trainer trainee privilege. It's kind
Speaker 1: of like, yes, you violated time violated. I still love
Speaker 1: you though, but you violated Okay, what you got? That
Speaker 1: is funny? Okay, So you know I have, um, I'm
Speaker 1: putting some built in's in my office. Okay. By the way, guys,
Speaker 1: Robin's house looks fantastic. Okay, it's fabulous. She's done all
Speaker 1: these like different um decorations and all this interior design nonsense,
Speaker 1: which I love. And I just want to say this
Speaker 1: and I'm telling your business. Okay. So her she painted
Speaker 1: all of her doors black and it's just like change
Speaker 1: the whole ambiance of the house. So I'm you know,
Speaker 1: I'm about to buy some blacks, right, Okay, it's going down.
Speaker 1: I'm about I'm about the black door it up. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll do it in an open area though, because it
Speaker 1: will make your rooms dark. So like I know you
Speaker 1: have like, um, a hallway where your girl's rooms are,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it down there. Well there's no door there.
Speaker 1: Oh down in that hallway where they're just like to
Speaker 1: their bedroom doors. Ok So just just be be careful
Speaker 1: where you paint the Yeah. But but yes, every time
Speaker 1: Dozelle and Carl come, they're like, oh that's different. Yes,
Speaker 1: So we're working through. We're working through. So I'm doing
Speaker 1: built in shelving cabinets in my office. So one day
Speaker 1: one was in the in our workout room, which is
Speaker 1: an unfinished part of our basement. Right, so we have
Speaker 1: an unfinished room where we have our weight equipment. Fortunately
Speaker 1: he was in there at that time because the kids
Speaker 1: were upstairs getting ready for school, like brushing their teeth,
Speaker 1: us in the bathroom. He's in there, he's like, rap, rap,
Speaker 1: come here, and the water's leaking. There's like a pipe
Speaker 1: and it's just dripping, drip drip, drip, trip trip and
Speaker 1: I'm like, what, like, this is a new house, Like
Speaker 1: why are the pipes dripping for no reason? It wasn't
Speaker 1: like a burst. So unfortunately he saw it because if
Speaker 1: he didn't, this thing would be going on for for months, right,
Speaker 1: So you know, we had to call the plumber and
Speaker 1: they literally had to kind of like open walls up,
Speaker 1: and they discovered that my guy who was doing my
Speaker 1: built in's shot a nail into a pipe. Oh he's fired,
Speaker 1: fire him now, but you know what, so he felt
Speaker 1: really bad. The guy felt really bad, and I was
Speaker 1: telling him listening, like there's no way for you to
Speaker 1: know that that pipe was behind there, right, like, so
Speaker 1: you know, don't feel bad. At least we figured it
Speaker 1: out now versus like like imagine if one didn't see
Speaker 1: that drip, right, so my I mean I would have
Speaker 1: so much molde imagine. Unfortunately he's not finished with the
Speaker 1: built in yet, like he was just half like he's
Speaker 1: almost done, but like imagine if that went on for months,
Speaker 1: like my whole horrible Yah. Yeah, so you know I'm
Speaker 1: the I'm the nice person. I was like, don't feel
Speaker 1: bad because he felt horrible, So like did he fix it?
Speaker 1: Did he? So he came over. He had to cut
Speaker 1: a panel off, like you know, he had like a
Speaker 1: wall up and everything. He had to cut that off.
Speaker 1: And then my plumbers actually came today and repaired the
Speaker 1: hole in the pipe. But I mean that happens though,
Speaker 1: and it's kind of like it's a kind of a lesson,
Speaker 1: like when you are doing stuff in the house, like
Speaker 1: to make sure you know what's on the other side
Speaker 1: of the wall. But there would have been no way
Speaker 1: for us to really know that that pipe was where
Speaker 1: it was right right right. Yeah, So it's a good thing.
Speaker 1: Whine was downstairs, what work? Yeah, thank god he's athletes.
Speaker 1: But it's like it just tells you it's like always something,
Speaker 1: you know, something you got a lot as if we
Speaker 1: don't have enough stuff to take care of and do
Speaker 1: in life, and then I gotta deal with a leaky pipe,
Speaker 1: right because and then get people coming back and delaying
Speaker 1: my project even more. So, Okay, when do you think
Speaker 1: you'll be done? So I got worried that might so
Speaker 1: what I'm so, there's a few things I'm waiting on
Speaker 1: the rest of my sofa, which I actually heard is
Speaker 1: like on the way, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: so I'll be getting that soon. And then my curtains,
Speaker 1: my drapes, okay, yes, Florida ceiling, Florida ceiling. I believe
Speaker 1: my office. I think he should be able to finish
Speaker 1: hopefully just weekend and then after that it's like like,
Speaker 1: so that's all like the major things outstanding, and then
Speaker 1: and then my designer will come in and do like
Speaker 1: her accessorizing and finishing touches. So I'm hoping that sounds
Speaker 1: like a good six months. No, it's so crazy because
Speaker 1: I think about back to the timelines that like we're
Speaker 1: given to me, Like my built ins in my office
Speaker 1: should have been done by February. It was like that
Speaker 1: will be finished by in February. Yeah, yeah, so whatever, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's coming, it's coming together. Yes. Patience is a virtue.
Speaker 1: It is, it is, and you have to be patient,
Speaker 1: whether you like it or not. Now everybody's gonna need
Speaker 1: to be patient with me and these airports because I
Speaker 1: know the mask man date is lifted, but does that
Speaker 1: will have on a mask, especially on the plane in there.
Speaker 1: Well you know what, though, I heard that the airport
Speaker 1: is the place that's a little more risky than the
Speaker 1: plane because the planes, the planes have a uh, intense
Speaker 1: filtration system that like filters the air out of head.
Speaker 1: I don't know. People were explaining it that the man
Speaker 1: sitting next to me coughing, How is that I was filtered?
Speaker 1: That's immediately that's a good point. Yes, that's a good point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I don't like, like, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I know the mass mandate has been lifted for a
Speaker 1: little bit, but like, I don't like when I see
Speaker 1: the videos of like people shaming people wearing masks, or
Speaker 1: like the flight attendants going around like take your mask off,
Speaker 1: take your mask off, Because honestly, I feel like that's
Speaker 1: we're protecting ourselves not only against COVID, but now we're
Speaker 1: protecting ourselves against the common cold and flu and all
Speaker 1: that stuff. Like I have not been you know, I
Speaker 1: I'm you know, knock on wood, Like I don't really
Speaker 1: get very sick, but like, I don't remember the last
Speaker 1: time I had like a major cold. Right, there was
Speaker 1: a time back in the day where there was not
Speaker 1: a plane that I took that I didn't get off
Speaker 1: feeling like like yeah, so yeah, I'm going back to
Speaker 1: I'm staying with the masks. Yeah, and I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: it down to eat, drink my little wine and first class.
Speaker 1: Then I'm putting it back on. Yeah, like no, I know,
Speaker 1: but I definitely other places I have not been wearing
Speaker 1: my mask. You haven't yours to the store and stuff. Oh,
Speaker 1: sometimes when I go to a grocery store, I'll put
Speaker 1: it on because because like, I look crazy and I
Speaker 1: just don't want to. I know that I did like
Speaker 1: that about the mask. It's like, it don't matter what
Speaker 1: you look like. Put this mask on and no one's
Speaker 1: going to ask any questions. Yes, yes, yes, okay, a
Speaker 1: mask and a hat. They don't even know who you are, right,
Speaker 1: but somehow they figured out Wait a minute, wait a minute,
Speaker 1: my dad. Okay, so my dad's My dad thinks he's
Speaker 1: an international superstar. I just want you to know that. Now.
Speaker 1: He's been on the Real Housewives and Potomac four times
Speaker 1: and he thinks he's the international superstar. So he was
Speaker 1: in he was he was either at the he was
Speaker 1: at a funeral. He's sitting there at the funeral. And
Speaker 1: this lady was like, she was on her phone, right,
Speaker 1: so she was I guess she was googling Google. And
Speaker 1: then she looks up and she was like, he was
Speaker 1: like gis oh. I saw her look down at her
Speaker 1: phone and then she looked up at me, and then
Speaker 1: she looked down and then she looked up and then
Speaker 1: she says to me, so are you Curtis And my
Speaker 1: father was like yeah, and she was like, I just
Speaker 1: want to make sure that was you. And he was
Speaker 1: baffled because he had on a mask and he was like,
Speaker 1: you know, how could you know that's going? And I'm like,
Speaker 1: daddy or an international superstar, what do you? Of course
Speaker 1: they know what you You've been on the tomy four times.
Speaker 1: That is hilarious. He was kind of excited. That's so cute.
Speaker 1: I love that our parents get tickled by that stuff, like,
Speaker 1: I mean, it'll be funny. My mom would be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was out and so and so sim you know,
Speaker 1: somebody said they knew who I was. I was like, okay, congratulation.
Speaker 1: They have fame. My father is famous at a D
Speaker 1: three right, Yes you made it, Daddy. I do want
Speaker 1: to talk about this. This this particular subject is it
Speaker 1: was out there a while ago, and so I'm bringing
Speaker 1: it back because we didn't talk about it. Okay, So
Speaker 1: d j Envy, you have to say his name like
Speaker 1: that right, d j envy, I think. So this is Charlemagne,
Speaker 1: the god in d j envy right wing. Everybody is
Speaker 1: d j Envy. I don't know. Okay. So he's married
Speaker 1: and to Gia and they have a book out um
Speaker 1: about relationships and all that. In the book she talks
Speaker 1: about faking orgasms right with her husband for ten years.
Speaker 1: For ten years. For ten years, you decided to let
Speaker 1: this man think that he was satisfying you and he wasn't.
Speaker 1: That's insane to me. That is insane. So did you
Speaker 1: read like I feel like I need more backstory here? Like,
Speaker 1: so have they did they have a moment where they
Speaker 1: got it together? Or is she just kind of like
Speaker 1: I'm not even faking it's just not happening, Like what? Okay? So,
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, I have so many questions. Now he's
Speaker 1: okay with her saying this, Well, if I was saying
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be because that's embarrassing, Like you can't satisfy
Speaker 1: not your not your side piece or whatever. This is
Speaker 1: your wife, right, Okay? How are y'all even getting married
Speaker 1: and we don't have conversations and communication about what's going
Speaker 1: on in the bedroom, Like, dude, you suck right, like,
Speaker 1: and this is what you can do to make it better.
Speaker 1: So that's problematic, yes, um yeah, like like I need
Speaker 1: answers to this because that's that is that is very interesting,
Speaker 1: like that she would put that out there, I think
Speaker 1: out there and feel the need to fake and not
Speaker 1: tell him and that he didn't realize she was faking. No,
Speaker 1: she she said she was faking because she wanted him
Speaker 1: to be happy. She wanted to write him to feel
Speaker 1: like he was doing something good. Girl, Bob, what are
Speaker 1: you talking about? You gotta let him know you have failed.
Speaker 1: This is what we're gonna do to make it better.
Speaker 1: But I do know that there were some like infidel
Speaker 1: they in their relationship and then they work through it.
Speaker 1: And maybe with all of that, she was like, hey,
Speaker 1: you suck. I need to read this. See see that's
Speaker 1: what the like these little headlines afford and then like
Speaker 1: you know, because you want to know more. I need
Speaker 1: to know more. I need to know where are they
Speaker 1: today today? They're fine? They have six kids, right, true,
Speaker 1: but some people don't orgasm all the time, which is okay, right,
Speaker 1: So why was she feeling need to fake because she
Speaker 1: wanted him to be happy? For ten years. How I
Speaker 1: couldn't do it for ten minutes, I could do it
Speaker 1: for ten days. What are you doing? But I do
Speaker 1: appreciate the fact that they're at least getting out there
Speaker 1: and talking about real issues in the marriages and relationships.
Speaker 1: They do have that book. I don't know what it's called.
Speaker 1: Carl's gonna tell me, but jump out there and get
Speaker 1: the book. I mean, if they're talking about some embarrassing
Speaker 1: raw stuff like that, like what they they're probably talking
Speaker 1: about a lot of stuff. I mean, I want to
Speaker 1: call it embarrassing, but it is very That's that's a
Speaker 1: little bit. That's sortline emasculating a little bit. What's it all?
Speaker 1: Real life, real love? That's that's a good title. Yes,
Speaker 1: And and by the way, DJ Envy went to Hampton,
Speaker 1: so I can never, like, you know, play my Hampton,
Speaker 1: my fellow grand because you know I went to Hampton.
Speaker 1: But it's not even let me just say this, Envy,
Speaker 1: don't let your wife say that again. Okay, just f
Speaker 1: y clearly is okay with it. Yeah, it's not funny,
Speaker 1: is he? I have a feeling there's like a happy
Speaker 1: ending somewhere. Well, yeah, she's obviously now like I don't
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, six years and they've been married for
Speaker 1: how long they've been married twenty years? Twenty years, that's
Speaker 1: a long time. And then ten years you were faking it,
Speaker 1: So them ten years in the in the in the
Speaker 1: front end don't count. Now did she say okay? Even
Speaker 1: though she was faking it was she not satisfied. She
Speaker 1: didn't know her own body. So it was really not
Speaker 1: her fault, his fault, his fault. Okay, that's what I thought.
Speaker 1: That's what I thought. I didn't want to because I
Speaker 1: was saying a whole lot of things went through my mind,
Speaker 1: like he was working with two inches. It was a
Speaker 1: whole lot of what I'm saying. If they're still together,
Speaker 1: like and he's okay with her putting it out, it
Speaker 1: has to be like something else to it, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So that makes sense. Yeah, But there's
Speaker 1: a whole lot of wives, celebrity wives out here, that
Speaker 1: are just like telling just too much information, like the
Speaker 1: Red Table talk. Does that need to go away, Jada
Speaker 1: because you've given up too much information about your your husband,
Speaker 1: I think? But hasn't she kind of stopped? Well, well,
Speaker 1: I'm interested. You know, you saw that announcement where they
Speaker 1: released like the trailer for the new season of Red
Speaker 1: Table Talk, but there was no mention of um like
Speaker 1: Will Smith and the slap. But then she posted something
Speaker 1: that said that they will be addressing it. Right, they're
Speaker 1: in India healing, right, you gotta go all the way
Speaker 1: to India. Why can't you just healing badly? Because the
Speaker 1: people in India don't know about the slab. Oh, okay,
Speaker 1: because they don't have any TVs and don't have the
Speaker 1: old wife. She doesn't mean that, that's what. No, because
Speaker 1: they're in an okay, Okay, people in India have WiFi.
Speaker 1: But I believe that where they are the Smiths are
Speaker 1: in a a monk resort or something where there is
Speaker 1: clearly no WiFi and they don't. So they're not They
Speaker 1: don't they're not aware of the slab. Yes, but wait
Speaker 1: a minute, I do appreciate Chris's mother. Oh yeah, you
Speaker 1: talk about that. Chris's mama said, how dare you? Yes,
Speaker 1: you slapped every single LA's one of us. Yes, that
Speaker 1: slap was just not on Christ's space, It was on
Speaker 1: my face. Who do you think you are? Will Smith?
Speaker 1: I D double dare you to do it again? Oh,
Speaker 1: I loved it. She was. It was that felt like
Speaker 1: old school mama for you, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like she she had her son's back. I love that. Yes,
Speaker 1: and and and will. I'm just I'm here to tell you.
Speaker 1: If you see Chris Rock's mama walking down the street, bro,
Speaker 1: you bet across that street because she coming for you. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's let's be clear. Oh we forgot to talk about
Speaker 1: Bravo Con. Oh yes, yes, okay, So maybe three years
Speaker 1: ago was the first Bravo Con, and Gazelle thought it
Speaker 1: was like a little convention for tounch of people like
Speaker 1: I literally did Bravo call was like sending your Bravo can.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I clearly had no idea what
Speaker 1: was happening, but it was they shut New York down,
Speaker 1: Like Bravo had like five or six different locations going
Speaker 1: at the same time. Um, people are able to buy
Speaker 1: tickets and come and be up close and personal with
Speaker 1: all the Bravo liberties. So it was canceled because of
Speaker 1: the hand Except for me, I wasn't invited that source
Speaker 1: subject here we're gonna I was okay on my couch.
Speaker 1: So so at the time, you know, you have to
Speaker 1: keep in mind Potomac is one of the newer Housewives shows,
Speaker 1: newer franchises, and sometimes Bravo forgets about us a little bit,
Speaker 1: and they only sent two of us as opposed to
Speaker 1: like the whole cast, which I didn't. Again, had I
Speaker 1: know when I was getting myself into I would have
Speaker 1: been like, no, we all need to be there because
Speaker 1: all the other franchises were there. They had everybody there. Yes,
Speaker 1: So anyway, moving on, we're all going to be there
Speaker 1: this time, and it's October fourteen through the sixteenth in
Speaker 1: New York, so get your ticket. But like we it
Speaker 1: is it is Bravo on steroids and we want to
Speaker 1: see y'all. We want to be up close and personal
Speaker 1: and have a good old time. But all of our viewers, yes,
Speaker 1: did you mention? Like last they were supposed to do
Speaker 1: it last last year, but they canceled it because of COVID. Well,
Speaker 1: so clearly has been canceled twice. Well yeah, COVID. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess it was canceled twice because of COVID. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's it's going down, okay, me robbing and Andy Cohen, Yeah,
Speaker 1: be excited. That'll be fun, super fun. Also, we also
Speaker 1: want to oh robbing. So okay, we're gonna talk about
Speaker 1: Mike Tyson because Mike Tyson somebody and I think that
Speaker 1: that's like against the law, like straight up, like I
Speaker 1: think to punch someone, I think him in like professional boxers.
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, is it I think Floyd Northern? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think so, I'm pretty sure. Okay, what happened? So
Speaker 1: apparently he was on a plane on a Jet Blue
Speaker 1: flight not Jet Blue, yes, going from like San Francisco
Speaker 1: to Florida, and the guy behind him was just like
Speaker 1: an annoying asshole and he was just you know, it
Speaker 1: started off him just you know, hey, Mike talking to him,
Speaker 1: and he just wouldn't stop. And so at some point
Speaker 1: Mike turned around and punched him, and literally like everyone
Speaker 1: understood why, Like, I don't even think they press charges.
Speaker 1: The man didn't press charges because he was like I
Speaker 1: think the man was drunk. Come to find out, that
Speaker 1: man has a record and you know, had been arrested
Speaker 1: a few times, so he was just antagonizing him. I
Speaker 1: think it's only so much that people can take. But
Speaker 1: can you imagine getting punched my listen is your face? Okay? Right?
Speaker 1: I mean he definitely had a scratch mark, you know,
Speaker 1: blood all his face, and he like he's one of
Speaker 1: those the guy that got punched. He's like one of
Speaker 1: those people that are excited that they got punched by Mike. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's probably telling people like I got and I survived.
Speaker 1: It's Jeff Little like Southwest like there's no first class.
Speaker 1: It looked like there was a first Like the seats
Speaker 1: looked like bigger, like those Barold type seats. Okay, okay, yeah, Mike,
Speaker 1: I'm with you on that one. So Mike type, anybody
Speaker 1: who's a professional boxer like so Floyd, Mike and all
Speaker 1: the rest of them busted Douglas. Their fists are considered
Speaker 1: lethal weapons and they, you know, it's a law saying
Speaker 1: that they can't hit people. But I wonder if since,
Speaker 1: like Mike has been retired for how long, does that
Speaker 1: still apply to him? I think so, I'm sure, do
Speaker 1: you want to get hit by Mike? Well, he's hell no.
Speaker 1: What Just look if Chris Rock got hit by Mike
Speaker 1: Tyson would okay, listen, that would not be a slap, Okay,
Speaker 1: that would be a full punch and Chris would still
Speaker 1: be on the floor. But even if he gotta slapped
Speaker 1: by Mike Tyson. He'd be on the floor like that
Speaker 1: big old Paul. Not a Paul Paul, you got a
Speaker 1: big old Paul. But but I am curious, so I
Speaker 1: need to, like, I feel like I need to follow
Speaker 1: up on this story and see, like, is are the
Speaker 1: police going to press charges? Because the man was not?
Speaker 1: Probably not? Probably not, And and there's probably so many witnesses.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a plane, so everybody's in it that
Speaker 1: can say that this man needed to get punched in
Speaker 1: the face. Yeah, yeah, I'm with that. Listen, I've worked
Speaker 1: with some people that need to get punched in the face.
Speaker 1: Moving on, Okay, so speaking of violence, there, somebody died.
Speaker 1: Somebody died at a nightclub. No, no, no, okay, nobody died.
Speaker 1: That was something happened. Okay, this this story is a
Speaker 1: few weeks old, but we never talked about I realized
Speaker 1: we've never talked about this. So there's a rapper from
Speaker 1: Prince George's County, Maryland named Gunu. Okay, he's like a
Speaker 1: young guy, probably like twenty four ish, um, and he
Speaker 1: was murdered. He was shot in a supposed robbery in
Speaker 1: PG County, Right, Gunu um had his homegoing celebration of
Speaker 1: life at the club. He had his funeral at the
Speaker 1: club at Bliss. You lot, No, at Bliss, people paid
Speaker 1: forty dollars to celebrate Gunu's life. Gunu's real name is
Speaker 1: Mark Hill Morrow. Okay, let's pause, right, Okay, just so
Speaker 1: that the people know Bliss is a nightclub in the
Speaker 1: DC area. Okay, That's where the conversation starts and stops,
Speaker 1: right like, So, so we have been to Bliss, we
Speaker 1: actually held our season two premiere party at and we
Speaker 1: actually know the owners of Bliss. So why were they
Speaker 1: charging forty the door? I mean maybe to go to
Speaker 1: the scholarship fund. I don't know the memorial fund. But
Speaker 1: so so so he's literally standing up like on the
Speaker 1: stage holding a cell phone. He's dead, he's still okay
Speaker 1: with sun glasses. I don't know. I don't know if
Speaker 1: the sunglasses are regular glasses with glasses on. A crown
Speaker 1: on his head and people are literally in the club
Speaker 1: partying with a corpse. I lies you down. No, I
Speaker 1: think have propped him. Oh, let me show you the
Speaker 1: let me show you the immage. Can't let me for
Speaker 1: the image. I need I need the image okay, and
Speaker 1: everybody has paid for And the word on the curb
Speaker 1: is that it got hot in there and face started
Speaker 1: melting and his mouth came, mouth dropped open. Now we're
Speaker 1: sorry to be talking about you. Oh my gosh. Okay,
Speaker 1: So wait a minute. I did, okay, Robin showing me
Speaker 1: the picture. Now, I did see this picture, and I
Speaker 1: didn't know what the hell it was, so I paid
Speaker 1: I paid no attention to it. You didn't realize it
Speaker 1: was a dead rapper in the club holding his cell
Speaker 1: phone with like a rolex on his this. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you all something. This is not not I feel
Speaker 1: like you cannot do that to the dead right. So
Speaker 1: of course the people, like people who saw this on
Speaker 1: social media or whoever, they were like, oh, hell no,
Speaker 1: his his mama wantn't want that. Why his mama let
Speaker 1: that happen? Or you know how y'all do that. His
Speaker 1: mama went with that. His mother went on the news,
Speaker 1: the local news, and said, this is what my son
Speaker 1: would have wanted. That's how he wanted to go out.
Speaker 1: He wanted to celebrate his life, turning up having a party.
Speaker 1: I don't want people to be sad and crying. He
Speaker 1: always wants people to be happy having fun. So she
Speaker 1: got the money from the door. I'm sure so. And
Speaker 1: my thought was, like, you know, people are like thinking
Speaker 1: his mother wouldn't have want that. Well, there's no way
Speaker 1: a funeral home is going to release this man's body
Speaker 1: to a club and prop it up without someone from
Speaker 1: the family saying, yes, let's do this. That okay, that
Speaker 1: is is that sacrilegious? That's a whole lot of stuff.
Speaker 1: It probably is. I mean, y'all look up now. Yes,
Speaker 1: he's literally holding a cell phone with his with his
Speaker 1: rolex and he has on a sweatshirt, a sweatshirt, a hoodie,
Speaker 1: some jeans, some ripped up gene crown, and some glasses.
Speaker 1: And everybody thought this Who thought this was a good idea?
Speaker 1: His mama and the people to pay forty dollars to go?
Speaker 1: They said it was packed and then it gets hot
Speaker 1: and his and his mouth chopped over. So who embombed him? Okay,
Speaker 1: because that funeral home, right, because they need to stitch it. Okay,
Speaker 1: listen that funeral home. Listen, y'all will not get repeat
Speaker 1: people coming in there because y'all can't even embalm me
Speaker 1: the dead. No, I don't know if that's true. That
Speaker 1: was just like, so I don't have a picture of
Speaker 1: his mouth hanging open, but that's that's what they said.
Speaker 1: I just that was like the most mind boding story. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're never going back to Bliss. Bliss is over. They
Speaker 1: have probably staged it, right, And of course so people
Speaker 1: were like mad and Bliss and so Bliss put out
Speaker 1: a statement like we didn't know. They claimed they didn't know.
Speaker 1: They didn't know what that the people who party were
Speaker 1: bringing a dead body. And if you didn't know when
Speaker 1: the dead body got there it was propped up, you
Speaker 1: were informed because this is strange. Get out. Yes, And
Speaker 1: there was literally like it looked like it was like
Speaker 1: a security guard like standing right next to him because
Speaker 1: people were rolling up on the dead body. This is
Speaker 1: if I went to the club that night, I'm turning
Speaker 1: around going home. I'm not feeling comfortable with this. And
Speaker 1: paid forty dollars, You know, I wonder if I wonder
Speaker 1: if the people who came who showed up and paid
Speaker 1: forty dollars, if they thought they were just showing up
Speaker 1: to a celebration, they probably did not know that the
Speaker 1: body was being there there. When was the last time
Speaker 1: you paid to get into a club. I haven't paid
Speaker 1: to get into a club. It's never nineteen o two.
Speaker 1: If I gotta pay to getting your damn club by coming,
Speaker 1: what in the world? And then and then we got
Speaker 1: to pay to see a dead body? She that's insane, insane,
Speaker 1: And I mean the things people do. It's not the first,
Speaker 1: like I've seen story. I've I've seen stories of that
Speaker 1: in like foreign countries like No, the South, Carli the South,
Speaker 1: So that was not just all arriving, that was Carly
Speaker 1: and so come for her. But I feel like I've
Speaker 1: seen it in like the Dominican Republic or something like
Speaker 1: the body is like chilling in the house and a
Speaker 1: chair or something like. Literally, for real, listen, when I
Speaker 1: when I die, I closed the casket. I don't even
Speaker 1: want you looking at me. Put a beautiful picture of
Speaker 1: and um you can just you know, cry or laugh
Speaker 1: or whatever. Exactly, yes, exactly, yeah, please don't put me
Speaker 1: in you know we're not doing that. Okay, So this
Speaker 1: this new show on MTV called Help I'm in a
Speaker 1: Secret relationship. Help, I'm in a secret relationship. Get out
Speaker 1: what you're need help for you pet yourself in it?
Speaker 1: Like what do you mean, right, And if you're go
Speaker 1: on a show and say help, I'm in a secret,
Speaker 1: it's not a secret anymore no longer, So just help.
Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship with somebody I don't want to be, like,
Speaker 1: what does it? What does that mean? That means you
Speaker 1: a mistress? The family doesn't the family doesn't know. Oh,
Speaker 1: that reminds me of a story I heard on the radio.
Speaker 1: So this show is about so help I'm in the secret?
Speaker 1: Relationship is about people in relationships with people that their
Speaker 1: family is unaware of or like, so they have like
Speaker 1: a whole But that's probably the best most of the
Speaker 1: time because you don't want that commentary. But wait, So
Speaker 1: this reminds me. I was listening to the radio in
Speaker 1: the car one day, it was like about three months ago,
Speaker 1: and this girl was on there and she was saying
Speaker 1: how her boyfriend has lived in her parents basement for
Speaker 1: like three months and they did not know what it's like.
Speaker 1: He had like no job, nowhere to go, so he
Speaker 1: literally was living in their basement and their parents did
Speaker 1: not know because they never went down there. Right, Okay,
Speaker 1: so she's sneaking him food, yes, and he won't flush
Speaker 1: to a lot of parents at home. This is absurd.
Speaker 1: What it's wrong with people? So just when did the
Speaker 1: parents find out? I think they did eventually found that.
Speaker 1: I mean this day. Yeah, I'm gonna need for him
Speaker 1: to get a job. Isn't that crazy? That that that
Speaker 1: is beyond crazy. I don't know how how much legs
Speaker 1: this show has help. I'm in a secret relationship. Has
Speaker 1: anybody got to watch this? MTV? What are y'all doing? Y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all need some content. We'll happen to music videos? I know.
Speaker 1: Isn't it crazy? When we were growing up, it was
Speaker 1: like you return to MTV or b ET to watch
Speaker 1: videos period period, nothing else, and then and then you
Speaker 1: would say, oh okay TRL or UM one O six
Speaker 1: and par like none of that. I don't understand it
Speaker 1: because I do remember like both of those BT MTV
Speaker 1: and then would h Yes, you would be in front
Speaker 1: the TV and you'd be trying to get the dance
Speaker 1: moves right yeah right? But how did VH one go
Speaker 1: from music video like like soul you know, kind of
Speaker 1: like they weren't like the bats or the mtvs. They
Speaker 1: were like the more mellow soul music or whatever, to
Speaker 1: freaking basketball watch and loving hip hop. Listen, they said,
Speaker 1: we gotta change change gears? How to change? Like, how
Speaker 1: does that make sense? It doesn't v H one, and
Speaker 1: like it literally stands for like video what is the
Speaker 1: v H I don't know, video hits one something like that.
Speaker 1: You're like, how do you go from that to love
Speaker 1: and hip hop? Mona Scott, that's how okay? And and
Speaker 1: they took but there's no love and hip hop on
Speaker 1: right now? Do you you want to know? Okay? Because
Speaker 1: there's love and hip hop Atlanta, Miami, New York, l A.
Speaker 1: None of it is on right now? Why, I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I need my ratchet back, pleased to give it
Speaker 1: back to me. That's actually a good observation. Black black
Speaker 1: about say black China Child, what's the what's the black ink?
Speaker 1: Black ink is on right now? Yeah, but I don't
Speaker 1: watch that, but they think it's the love and hip hop.
Speaker 1: I'm just else tuning in. So and then Basketball Watch
Speaker 1: is coming back on? Are you gonna watch that now?
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna watch it. I'm I used to. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna not watch this time because I don't know something
Speaker 1: about Evelyn. You know, she's not gonna be on and
Speaker 1: something about in all Emlyn and I mean, oh my God,
Speaker 1: like I like all of that. Okay, yeah, so Evelyn's
Speaker 1: not on. I think Shanny is gonna be on like
Speaker 1: a little bit. Speaking of Shannie, she's engaged to a
Speaker 1: nice little pastor. They look so cute together. Do you
Speaker 1: have any advice for her? Oh? Wow, because she's going
Speaker 1: to be a first lady Shanny. Then people in the
Speaker 1: church is crazy. Okay, I'm here to tell you. Okay,
Speaker 1: but you just focus on your husband and if an
Speaker 1: old lady in the church feels the need to cut
Speaker 1: you out, just take you and say, you know what,
Speaker 1: God bless you, God bless you, right, Mr Johnson, God
Speaker 1: God loves you, Mrs Johnson. Yeah. So now, I mean
Speaker 1: I've seen like them on Instagram and stuff. They look
Speaker 1: so super cute together and she seems happy. Oh and
Speaker 1: we didn't talk about right, I mean, but Shaq really
Speaker 1: is telling us like what we all already know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I do appreciate the fact that that guy that
Speaker 1: whoever she Kill was talking to was trying to insinuate
Speaker 1: that they were both wrong in their marriage, therefore they
Speaker 1: got divorced. She Kill was like, halla held up, let
Speaker 1: me let me correct, Shanny did nothing wrong. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: waiting for the Jamal Brian announcement. Shanny did nothing wrong
Speaker 1: as a matter. I sent it to Jamal and I
Speaker 1: was like, sound familiar, and he explained it like, she
Speaker 1: took care to kids, she took care to house, she
Speaker 1: took care of all the businesses, and I was out
Speaker 1: here living a double life. Yeah, I appreciate that she killed. Oh, Neil,
Speaker 1: that's why God is blessing you with all kinds of
Speaker 1: business out here in these streets. All right, we have
Speaker 1: just got to grow up. They have to grow Yeah,
Speaker 1: grow up, and yeah we'll call it growing up. Okay,
Speaker 1: So Robin has eight sentences that we should all live
Speaker 1: our lives by. So this is gonna be profound, y'all. Y'all,
Speaker 1: you know, we talked about a whole lot of stuff,
Speaker 1: a whole lot of nonsense, but we do try to,
Speaker 1: you know, impart some type of inspirational words as well.
Speaker 1: So I come across these posts on Instagram, am and
Speaker 1: I'll save them, and I said, I'm going to share
Speaker 1: this with the podcast listeners because I love you all.
Speaker 1: So this is eight sentences that everyone should believe. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: So you should believe. Okay. So I haven't heard any
Speaker 1: of these sentences, but I'm here to tell you. If
Speaker 1: something sounds crazy, I'm gonna let you know. Okay, I
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Okay, Um, you have to lose a few
Speaker 1: people find yourself that I like that. I like that.
Speaker 1: But are they u exclusive? You know what I mean? Like?
Speaker 1: Can they be mutually exclusive? Like? Can you find yourself
Speaker 1: without happen without having to lose people? Yeah? Um, according
Speaker 1: to this post, no, you cannot. Okay, continue on. I
Speaker 1: think I think it actually should read. You shouldn't be
Speaker 1: afraid to lose a few people to find yourself, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? I got one for you. Okay, No, okay,
Speaker 1: you do yours, okay before you forget Okay. So this
Speaker 1: is my T. E. Jake's impressionation. Okay, because I've watched
Speaker 1: this reel about fourteen times. Okay. So T. D. Jake said,
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna let fear rue rue your life, even
Speaker 1: if you scared, even if you're trembling, even if you
Speaker 1: um can't do it and you and you're terrified, do
Speaker 1: it anyway, have the courage to do it because you
Speaker 1: don't want to be in the old folks home being
Speaker 1: in a bad band, and you didn't do it? Did
Speaker 1: you really say me? Yes? Yes, And let me tell
Speaker 1: you something. That thing shook me to the court. Yeah,
Speaker 1: whatever it is I'm careful about. I was probably scared that.
Speaker 1: I don't know anyway, But I mean I appreciate that,
Speaker 1: like like fear will like debilitate you. Yes, and it
Speaker 1: will stop you from from doing a lot of stuff
Speaker 1: that you you you know, it can stop you from
Speaker 1: leading a life that you never even imagine that you
Speaker 1: could leave. Yes, And a lot of times the fears
Speaker 1: in your head, so it's like you're you're stopping yourself
Speaker 1: from doing something, But once you go ahead and do it,
Speaker 1: you look back like what what was the skart of
Speaker 1: that for? Exactly? And then you know you just never
Speaker 1: want to have regrets. So do you want to let
Speaker 1: fear prevent you from doing stuff that when you're an
Speaker 1: old folks home, you're like, man, I should have just
Speaker 1: done that, I should have just done X, Y and Z.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I'm out here doing it. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: all right, so back to my list. So you have
Speaker 1: to lose a few people to find yourself, which I
Speaker 1: think we should edit to say, don't be afraid of
Speaker 1: losing a few people in order to find yourself. And
Speaker 1: I think that you know that can apply to friendships, relationships,
Speaker 1: you know, businesses, whatever, coworkers. Um. Sometimes people are holding
Speaker 1: you back um number two. Sometimes it's best to keep
Speaker 1: it private until you know it's permanent. Let me tell
Speaker 1: you something, hunts need Hunt. It's very difficult for being
Speaker 1: robbing to keep things private because we're on this show,
Speaker 1: Your Housewives of the Tommach and they are all in
Speaker 1: our business. But I do agree with that. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree. I mean whenever whatever, it is like in
Speaker 1: good stuff and bad stuff. So I think about when
Speaker 1: you're going through See it's hard because like when you're
Speaker 1: going through struggles with your partner or with a friend
Speaker 1: or whatever, and then you um, you can fide in
Speaker 1: another person, right, and then you make up and you
Speaker 1: resolve those issues, and then that other person is still
Speaker 1: mad and they like, don't you remember where he did?
Speaker 1: And so it's like sometimes it's like you really have
Speaker 1: to be careful with what you're sharing with people because
Speaker 1: sometimes they're going to hold hold it against you. And
Speaker 1: then on the flip side, it's like you could think
Speaker 1: that you're about to close a business deal. How don't
Speaker 1: you do you know how many people Because in the
Speaker 1: world of reality TV, UM, reality TV production companies and
Speaker 1: casting companies, they try to cast people left right up
Speaker 1: down around. Do you know how many people I've heard
Speaker 1: that have gone around telling all their friends and family
Speaker 1: that they're going to be famous and they're gonna be
Speaker 1: on reality TV because someone so talked to them and
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, and it doesn't happen, right, So then
Speaker 1: you're left looking stupid, kind of stupid when people are like, Hey,
Speaker 1: what whatever happened to that show? You said you're going
Speaker 1: to be one? Whatever happened to that? Because I mean
Speaker 1: and that it's so funny because like I applied that
Speaker 1: to my own experience with Potomac. Remember, I mean, could
Speaker 1: tell you we want season three and I was like,
Speaker 1: so we're on a show, right, Yes, We've been doing
Speaker 1: this for years. What are you talking about? Like the
Speaker 1: cameras at my door? I'm like, what y'all doing here?
Speaker 1: So So anyway, yeah, I just think it's important. It's
Speaker 1: it's always hard. It's like, just be careful with what
Speaker 1: you share and who you share it with and how premature,
Speaker 1: you share it and all that type of stuff. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: I gotta go back to my phone and I gotta
Speaker 1: call coming in. Why doesn't iPhone like you can't hit
Speaker 1: decline when you're not like on your phone. Anyway, that's
Speaker 1: a whole another subject. I can we can have our
Speaker 1: iPhone rights later. Okay, number three, If you can attach,
Speaker 1: you can detach. H So that that brings me to stories.
Speaker 1: So I was, um, what was years ago? And I
Speaker 1: was I thought I was on a date. Okay, I was.
Speaker 1: I was. I was doing a little vak with this dude, right,
Speaker 1: and I didn't really know when I was. He let's
Speaker 1: say he had to be there for the week and
Speaker 1: I was in town for a couple of days, and
Speaker 1: I didn't really know when I was leaving, right because
Speaker 1: I had just had stuff to do. And he was like,
Speaker 1: just also, when when are you leaving? And I was like,
Speaker 1: are you trying to get rid of me? Right? And
Speaker 1: he said, no, I need to. I'm trying to figure
Speaker 1: out when to disconnect. Oh, and that that also was
Speaker 1: rude to me. I was like, what the hell does
Speaker 1: that mean? But he I understood, like he just wanted
Speaker 1: to know, like when was the disconnection happening? Yeah, so
Speaker 1: was that so disconnect from like being hospitable, or disconnect
Speaker 1: from me getting out of his room, disconnect from us
Speaker 1: being together? Really yeah, he just it was a very
Speaker 1: strange way of him asking me to get the happy. Yes,
Speaker 1: need to start packing? Yeah yeah, yeah, you know, like okay,
Speaker 1: you know what in fact, well and my flight leaves
Speaker 1: in ten minutes. But I think really it was because
Speaker 1: I never really had I didn't know when I was leaving,
Speaker 1: so he you know, I guess he just needs to
Speaker 1: know when I was leaving anyway, Yes, that that that
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess that's similar. But um yeah, like
Speaker 1: if you can attach to something or someone, then you
Speaker 1: have the ability to detach as well, so don't So
Speaker 1: it's pretty much don't put all your eggs have have
Speaker 1: them egg scrambletony all over the alright. Number four, social
Speaker 1: media has made perfect look achievable, so now real has
Speaker 1: become undesirable and that's so true. Yeah yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: I think honestly, I think even before social media, people
Speaker 1: had issues with trying to achieve perfection. You know, whether
Speaker 1: it's like passed on, passed down from their parents, you
Speaker 1: know how many people I know that have like parent issues,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because their mother wanted them
Speaker 1: to be skinny, or you know what, they wanted to
Speaker 1: live up to their parents expectations and stuff. So so yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean social media definitely. You know people on social
Speaker 1: media they're not and I would say most most of
Speaker 1: us are guilty of it. We're not going to post
Speaker 1: the ugly pictures, but no, I don't. I don't want
Speaker 1: y'all see that, right, Yeah, I mean, but you know,
Speaker 1: it is like the filters and stuff, like, you know,
Speaker 1: you have to be mindful that if you're posting a
Speaker 1: picture and you look nothing like that, you don't post that,
Speaker 1: right that. Yeah, that's an issue. Yeah, yeah, but yes,
Speaker 1: we we would love to be back to realness because
Speaker 1: because I do feel like if you look at what
Speaker 1: people look like today with with or without filters and stuff,
Speaker 1: versus what they look like in the eighties, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, people in the eighties were just more
Speaker 1: raw and more like now it's just like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: we're so like overdone. I agreed, agreed, yes, yeah, And
Speaker 1: I want to go back to having like real conversations
Speaker 1: with people. Yes, yeah, I used to do that a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree. All right, let's see number five. Anything that
Speaker 1: costs you your mental health is too expensive. Look elsewhere,
Speaker 1: Like what give me an example. I mean anything that's
Speaker 1: stressing you out to the point where you're like, you know,
Speaker 1: you're feeling depressed or yeah, I mean ship. That can
Speaker 1: be a whole lot of stuff. So it's pretty much
Speaker 1: saying like there's nothing out here that's worth compromising and
Speaker 1: you know, weakening your mental health, are right, So so yeah,
Speaker 1: just keep that in mind if something is bothering you
Speaker 1: to the point where it's consuming you and you can't
Speaker 1: think straight and you're depressed, and let it go. Agree
Speaker 1: number six. If they don't know you personally, never take
Speaker 1: it personally. Oh that's not god one's And that's good
Speaker 1: for people that are in business. Of times, if you're
Speaker 1: in business and something happens and you take it so personally,
Speaker 1: it ain't personal. It is business. Yeah that's true, that's true,
Speaker 1: but it's it's like important. It's like even if you
Speaker 1: know someone like in passing, people still might not know
Speaker 1: the real you. Like if you don't spend a lot
Speaker 1: of time around someone, um, you know, like still don't
Speaker 1: take that stuff personally and personal. Yeah, and I always
Speaker 1: like flip it on a person. I'm like, well, that's
Speaker 1: they issue, that's their insecurity, that's there, you know whatever,
Speaker 1: their their mama drama that they're putting on you. Yes,
Speaker 1: and if and I just want to put this out there.
Speaker 1: If you want to reality television show and you're getting
Speaker 1: a paycheck, it's business. That's very true. Yeah, just saying
Speaker 1: very true. It's hard, it's a little it's yes, because
Speaker 1: we are you know, friends, we want to be friends.
Speaker 1: We want to nurture our friendship. Very true. It is
Speaker 1: definitely a fine line. Number seven. Never assumed that loud
Speaker 1: is strong or quiet is weak. It's often the other
Speaker 1: way around. Very true. I would I would agree with that. Yes,
Speaker 1: my grandfather like barely spoke, but when he did, you listen,
Speaker 1: you listen, and even when he was quiet, it was
Speaker 1: like just his presence in the room spoke volume. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to stop talking. But then there are some
Speaker 1: people who who you know, they walk in and they're like,
Speaker 1: you know, they they want to be the center of attention.
Speaker 1: And it's like you can just tell like, okay, you're
Speaker 1: not you're not comfortable where you are you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like it's it's it's yeah, so never soon
Speaker 1: all right, if you're happy alone, you'll be happier together.
Speaker 1: So I guess it's saying, like two people, if you're
Speaker 1: happy and content by yourself, by yourself, then in a relationship,
Speaker 1: that that makes for a better relationship. Facts. Yes, and
Speaker 1: then like you might even like being alone better than
Speaker 1: the relations Just send them all, send him yep, So
Speaker 1: that was it. Those were good. Yeah. I think people
Speaker 1: can learn from all of those. I mean, something you
Speaker 1: can speak to somebody. Yeah, And I think I think
Speaker 1: that sometimes we just have to stop and like really
Speaker 1: think about what's important and what's what's valued, what we're valuing,
Speaker 1: and what we should like get rid of. Yeah, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: And I just like one of my I think people
Speaker 1: seeking perfection is like the root of a lot of
Speaker 1: issues that people in life. You know. So it's just
Speaker 1: like if we can just let go of our desire
Speaker 1: to be perfect, in our desire to be perceived as perfect,
Speaker 1: so much will just you know, be better. Like you know,
Speaker 1: everyone you're just afraid to fail or you don't want
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