WEBVTT - | Ep 44 | Words To Live By

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up? What's up? Everyone?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Robin Dixon. Thank you so much for being

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<v Speaker 1>here with us once again. You appreciate you pressing play

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<v Speaker 1>on the Reasonably Shady podcast and continue continuing to be

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<v Speaker 1>here with us. Oh my gosh, we have to check

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<v Speaker 1>and see how many downloads we have. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>you and these down loans. I know, Okay, I get

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with the number because like once we hit one million,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, how soon can we get to two million?

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<v Speaker 1>How soon can we get to three million? So anyway, people,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, don't give us a bad review, CARYO. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and send positive feedback. We really really appreciate that you

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<v Speaker 1>took your time to do that. That's really important. Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And speaking of importance, speaking of things that Robin and

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<v Speaker 1>Giselle are doing in these streets. May eighteenth, we are

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<v Speaker 1>doing our live show and Silver Spring, Reasonably Shady Podcast goes,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness. Yes, you all say it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>you're chit chatting with your girlfriends in your living room.

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<v Speaker 1>Guess what we're going to be in the living room together,

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<v Speaker 1>Yes we are. We're gonna have some special guests. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Carter still okay, but sorry, Carter is trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>the mail. Um, I'll help you. But all right, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be patient me finished please, So Carter, I'm sorry, No, no, really,

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<v Speaker 1>we were interrupted. Carter is into online shopping, so you

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<v Speaker 1>know when he learns that his package has been delivered, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he's very eager and anxious mailbox is not opening for him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, but anyway, live shall people go to Reasonably

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<v Speaker 1>Shady Live dot event, bright Event, Bright Dot com yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he gets your ticket, because these tickets are selling out

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't want to be the one that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>get to come. And then you're sitting at home talking

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<v Speaker 1>about where show was. Yeah, and I can imagine this

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<v Speaker 1>is probably the last week for you to get him.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe yes, yeah, so get your ticket. Get your ticket anyway. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna have some special guests there. And when

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<v Speaker 1>I say special guests, okay, fine, my dad's coming. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>is he really he's really coming? Yes, he's coming just

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<v Speaker 1>for the show. No, he also wants to see his

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<v Speaker 1>daughter and his grands But he was also like, he

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<v Speaker 1>called me. He was like, you and Robin are doing

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<v Speaker 1>something something right. They don't know what. Right. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna come and see you guys. And I was like, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Then he says, can you save me a ticket? What? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, of course. You know what, I should tell

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<v Speaker 1>my father to come so they can meet. Yes, that

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<v Speaker 1>would be great, both of your parents should come. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure my mom would be already told her she's working. Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're great, she's going to be working great. And so

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm gonna be all up in the audience and

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<v Speaker 1>in y'all space and stuff. So we're gonna have a

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<v Speaker 1>good old time, absolutely, yes, okay, so reasonably shady moment

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<v Speaker 1>of the week. What you got you all Right? So

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know, I got this trainer named Tyrone. Will's up

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<v Speaker 1>thar Ron, who, by the way, has a crush on Robert.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the Hometel story. I'm not gonna I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>embarrass you, Tyrone, but yeah, anyway, so but he embarrassed me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So a couple of weeks back, I was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>a trainer at the gym called Timbo, right, and Timbo

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<v Speaker 1>acted like I couldn't do a little jump ro class,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was and I talked about that whole story. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Timbo doesn't listen to this podcast, and actually that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about it, because I knew he would

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<v Speaker 1>never hear it. So what does Tyrone do. Tyrone sees

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<v Speaker 1>tim in the gym and says, Timbo, did you hear

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<v Speaker 1>what said on the podcast? She was talking about you

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<v Speaker 1>on the podcast? And so Timbo was like, what what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean? What's the name of the podcast. So Tyrone,

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<v Speaker 1>mind your business. Do not go around telling people what

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<v Speaker 1>I say on this freaking podcast. Okay, Tyrone, you're shady.

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<v Speaker 1>That is hilarious. It's the worst, right because we think

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<v Speaker 1>we can talk about anyone and everyone and nobody will

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<v Speaker 1>hear us. But if you are in our living room, guys, right,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you're in the inner circle, you can't be

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<v Speaker 1>going to people and telling them that we're trashing them. Tyrone. Yes, Tyrone,

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<v Speaker 1>know the rules of the roads, sir, and you cross

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<v Speaker 1>the line, you're shady. Yeah, that's like like violating bro code. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you violated trainer women's a trainer trainee privilege. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like, yes, you violated time violated. I still love

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<v Speaker 1>you though, but you violated Okay, what you got? That

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<v Speaker 1>is funny? Okay, So you know I have, um, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>putting some built in's in my office. Okay. By the way, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Robin's house looks fantastic. Okay, it's fabulous. She's done all

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<v Speaker 1>these like different um decorations and all this interior design nonsense,

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<v Speaker 1>which I love. And I just want to say this

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm telling your business. Okay. So her she painted

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<v Speaker 1>all of her doors black and it's just like change

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<v Speaker 1>the whole ambiance of the house. So I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to buy some blacks, right, Okay, it's going down.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about I'm about the black door it up. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do it in an open area though, because it

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<v Speaker 1>will make your rooms dark. So like I know you

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<v Speaker 1>have like, um, a hallway where your girl's rooms are,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do it down there. Well there's no door there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh down in that hallway where they're just like to

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<v Speaker 1>their bedroom doors. Ok So just just be be careful

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<v Speaker 1>where you paint the Yeah. But but yes, every time

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<v Speaker 1>Dozelle and Carl come, they're like, oh that's different. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So we're working through. We're working through. So I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>built in shelving cabinets in my office. So one day

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<v Speaker 1>one was in the in our workout room, which is

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<v Speaker 1>an unfinished part of our basement. Right, so we have

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<v Speaker 1>an unfinished room where we have our weight equipment. Fortunately

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<v Speaker 1>he was in there at that time because the kids

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<v Speaker 1>were upstairs getting ready for school, like brushing their teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>us in the bathroom. He's in there, he's like, rap, rap,

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<v Speaker 1>come here, and the water's leaking. There's like a pipe

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just dripping, drip drip, drip, trip trip and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what, like, this is a new house, Like

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<v Speaker 1>why are the pipes dripping for no reason? It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like a burst. So unfortunately he saw it because if

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't, this thing would be going on for for months, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, we had to call the plumber and

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<v Speaker 1>they literally had to kind of like open walls up,

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<v Speaker 1>and they discovered that my guy who was doing my

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<v Speaker 1>built in's shot a nail into a pipe. Oh he's fired,

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<v Speaker 1>fire him now, but you know what, so he felt

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<v Speaker 1>really bad. The guy felt really bad, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>telling him listening, like there's no way for you to

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<v Speaker 1>know that that pipe was behind there, right, like, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, don't feel bad. At least we figured it

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<v Speaker 1>out now versus like like imagine if one didn't see

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<v Speaker 1>that drip, right, so my I mean I would have

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<v Speaker 1>so much molde imagine. Unfortunately he's not finished with the

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<v Speaker 1>built in yet, like he was just half like he's

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<v Speaker 1>almost done, but like imagine if that went on for months,

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<v Speaker 1>like my whole horrible Yah. Yeah, so you know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the I'm the nice person. I was like, don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad because he felt horrible, So like did he fix it?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he? So he came over. He had to cut

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<v Speaker 1>a panel off, like you know, he had like a

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<v Speaker 1>wall up and everything. He had to cut that off.

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<v Speaker 1>And then my plumbers actually came today and repaired the

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<v Speaker 1>hole in the pipe. But I mean that happens though,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's kind of like it's a kind of a lesson,

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<v Speaker 1>like when you are doing stuff in the house, like

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure you know what's on the other side

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<v Speaker 1>of the wall. But there would have been no way

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<v Speaker 1>for us to really know that that pipe was where

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<v Speaker 1>it was right right right. Yeah, So it's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Whine was downstairs, what work? Yeah, thank god he's athletes.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like it just tells you it's like always something,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, something you got a lot as if we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have enough stuff to take care of and do

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<v Speaker 1>in life, and then I gotta deal with a leaky pipe,

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<v Speaker 1>right because and then get people coming back and delaying

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<v Speaker 1>my project even more. So, Okay, when do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you'll be done? So I got worried that might so

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm so, there's a few things I'm waiting on

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of my sofa, which I actually heard is

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<v Speaker 1>like on the way, you know what I mean, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll be getting that soon. And then my curtains,

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<v Speaker 1>my drapes, okay, yes, Florida ceiling, Florida ceiling. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>my office. I think he should be able to finish

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully just weekend and then after that it's like like,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's all like the major things outstanding, and then

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<v Speaker 1>and then my designer will come in and do like

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<v Speaker 1>her accessorizing and finishing touches. So I'm hoping that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a good six months. No, it's so crazy because

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<v Speaker 1>I think about back to the timelines that like we're

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<v Speaker 1>given to me, Like my built ins in my office

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<v Speaker 1>should have been done by February. It was like that

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<v Speaker 1>will be finished by in February. Yeah, yeah, so whatever, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's coming, it's coming together. Yes. Patience is a virtue.

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<v Speaker 1>It is, it is, and you have to be patient,

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<v Speaker 1>whether you like it or not. Now everybody's gonna need

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<v Speaker 1>to be patient with me and these airports because I

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<v Speaker 1>know the mask man date is lifted, but does that

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<v Speaker 1>will have on a mask, especially on the plane in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you know what, though, I heard that the airport

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<v Speaker 1>is the place that's a little more risky than the

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<v Speaker 1>plane because the planes, the planes have a uh, intense

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<v Speaker 1>filtration system that like filters the air out of head.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. People were explaining it that the man

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<v Speaker 1>sitting next to me coughing, How is that I was filtered?

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<v Speaker 1>That's immediately that's a good point. Yes, that's a good point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't like, like, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I know the mass mandate has been lifted for a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, but like, I don't like when I see

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<v Speaker 1>the videos of like people shaming people wearing masks, or

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<v Speaker 1>like the flight attendants going around like take your mask off,

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<v Speaker 1>take your mask off, Because honestly, I feel like that's

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<v Speaker 1>we're protecting ourselves not only against COVID, but now we're

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<v Speaker 1>protecting ourselves against the common cold and flu and all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff. Like I have not been you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>I'm you know, knock on wood, Like I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>get very sick, but like, I don't remember the last

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<v Speaker 1>time I had like a major cold. Right, there was

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<v Speaker 1>a time back in the day where there was not

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<v Speaker 1>a plane that I took that I didn't get off

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like like yeah, so yeah, I'm going back to

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<v Speaker 1>I'm staying with the masks. Yeah, and I'm gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>it down to eat, drink my little wine and first class.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'm putting it back on. Yeah, like no, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I definitely other places I have not been wearing

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<v Speaker 1>my mask. You haven't yours to the store and stuff. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes when I go to a grocery store, I'll put

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<v Speaker 1>it on because because like, I look crazy and I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't want to. I know that I did like

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<v Speaker 1>that about the mask. It's like, it don't matter what

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<v Speaker 1>you look like. Put this mask on and no one's

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<v Speaker 1>going to ask any questions. Yes, yes, yes, okay, a

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<v Speaker 1>mask and a hat. They don't even know who you are, right,

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<v Speaker 1>but somehow they figured out Wait a minute, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>my dad. Okay, so my dad's My dad thinks he's

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<v Speaker 1>an international superstar. I just want you to know that. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>He's been on the Real Housewives and Potomac four times

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<v Speaker 1>and he thinks he's the international superstar. So he was

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<v Speaker 1>in he was he was either at the he was

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<v Speaker 1>at a funeral. He's sitting there at the funeral. And

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<v Speaker 1>this lady was like, she was on her phone, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so she was I guess she was googling Google. And

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<v Speaker 1>then she looks up and she was like, he was

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<v Speaker 1>like gis oh. I saw her look down at her

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<v Speaker 1>phone and then she looked up at me, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she looked down and then she looked up and then

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<v Speaker 1>she says to me, so are you Curtis And my

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<v Speaker 1>father was like yeah, and she was like, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to make sure that was you. And he was

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<v Speaker 1>baffled because he had on a mask and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, how could you know that's going? And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>daddy or an international superstar, what do you? Of course

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<v Speaker 1>they know what you You've been on the tomy four times.

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<v Speaker 1>That is hilarious. He was kind of excited. That's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that our parents get tickled by that stuff, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it'll be funny. My mom would be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was out and so and so sim you know,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody said they knew who I was. I was like, okay, congratulation.

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<v Speaker 1>They have fame. My father is famous at a D

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<v Speaker 1>three right, Yes you made it, Daddy. I do want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about this. This this particular subject is it

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<v Speaker 1>was out there a while ago, and so I'm bringing

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<v Speaker 1>it back because we didn't talk about it. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>d j Envy, you have to say his name like

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<v Speaker 1>that right, d j envy, I think. So this is Charlemagne,

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<v Speaker 1>the god in d j envy right wing. Everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>d j Envy. I don't know. Okay. So he's married

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<v Speaker 1>and to Gia and they have a book out um

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<v Speaker 1>about relationships and all that. In the book she talks

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<v Speaker 1>about faking orgasms right with her husband for ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>For ten years. For ten years, you decided to let

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<v Speaker 1>this man think that he was satisfying you and he wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>That's insane to me. That is insane. So did you

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<v Speaker 1>read like I feel like I need more backstory here? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so have they did they have a moment where they

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<v Speaker 1>got it together? Or is she just kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not even faking it's just not happening, Like what? Okay? So,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sorry, I have so many questions. Now he's

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<v Speaker 1>okay with her saying this, Well, if I was saying

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be because that's embarrassing, Like you can't satisfy

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<v Speaker 1>not your not your side piece or whatever. This is

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<v Speaker 1>your wife, right, Okay? How are y'all even getting married

0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:23.000
<v Speaker 1>and we don't have conversations and communication about what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on in the bedroom, Like, dude, you suck right, like,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is what you can do to make it better.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's problematic, yes, um yeah, like like I need

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<v Speaker 1>answers to this because that's that is that is very interesting,

0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:40.280
<v Speaker 1>like that she would put that out there, I think

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<v Speaker 1>out there and feel the need to fake and not

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<v Speaker 1>tell him and that he didn't realize she was faking. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she she said she was faking because she wanted him

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<v Speaker 1>to be happy. She wanted to write him to feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he was doing something good. Girl, Bob, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about? You gotta let him know you have failed.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what we're gonna do to make it better.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do know that there were some like infidel

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<v Speaker 1>they in their relationship and then they work through it.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe with all of that, she was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you suck. I need to read this. See see that's

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<v Speaker 1>what the like these little headlines afford and then like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because you want to know more. I need

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<v Speaker 1>to know more. I need to know where are they

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<v Speaker 1>today today? They're fine? They have six kids, right, true,

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<v Speaker 1>but some people don't orgasm all the time, which is okay, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So why was she feeling need to fake because she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted him to be happy? For ten years. How I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't do it for ten minutes, I could do it

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<v Speaker 1>for ten days. What are you doing? But I do

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate the fact that they're at least getting out there

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<v Speaker 1>and talking about real issues in the marriages and relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>They do have that book. I don't know what it's called.

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<v Speaker 1>Carl's gonna tell me, but jump out there and get

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<v Speaker 1>the book. I mean, if they're talking about some embarrassing

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<v Speaker 1>raw stuff like that, like what they they're probably talking

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<v Speaker 1>about a lot of stuff. I mean, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>call it embarrassing, but it is very That's that's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. That's sortline emasculating a little bit. What's it all?

0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:06.320
<v Speaker 1>Real life, real love? That's that's a good title. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And and by the way, DJ Envy went to Hampton,

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<v Speaker 1>so I can never, like, you know, play my Hampton,

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<v Speaker 1>my fellow grand because you know I went to Hampton.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not even let me just say this, Envy,

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<v Speaker 1>don't let your wife say that again. Okay, just f

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<v Speaker 1>y clearly is okay with it. Yeah, it's not funny,

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<v Speaker 1>is he? I have a feeling there's like a happy

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<v Speaker 1>ending somewhere. Well, yeah, she's obviously now like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Yeah, six years and they've been married for

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<v Speaker 1>how long they've been married twenty years? Twenty years, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. And then ten years you were faking it,

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<v Speaker 1>So them ten years in the in the in the

0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:47.040
<v Speaker 1>front end don't count. Now did she say okay? Even

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<v Speaker 1>though she was faking it was she not satisfied. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know her own body. So it was really not

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<v Speaker 1>her fault, his fault, his fault. Okay, that's what I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I thought. I didn't want to because I

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<v Speaker 1>was saying a whole lot of things went through my mind,

0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:10.399
<v Speaker 1>like he was working with two inches. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot of what I'm saying. If they're still together,

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<v Speaker 1>like and he's okay with her putting it out, it

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<v Speaker 1>has to be like something else to it, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. So that makes sense. Yeah, But there's

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<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of wives, celebrity wives out here, that

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<v Speaker 1>are just like telling just too much information, like the

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<v Speaker 1>Red Table talk. Does that need to go away, Jada

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<v Speaker 1>because you've given up too much information about your your husband,

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<v Speaker 1>I think? But hasn't she kind of stopped? Well, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interested. You know, you saw that announcement where they

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<v Speaker 1>released like the trailer for the new season of Red

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<v Speaker 1>Table Talk, but there was no mention of um like

0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:45.520
<v Speaker 1>Will Smith and the slap. But then she posted something

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<v Speaker 1>that said that they will be addressing it. Right, they're

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<v Speaker 1>in India healing, right, you gotta go all the way

0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.960
<v Speaker 1>to India. Why can't you just healing badly? Because the

0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:57.280
<v Speaker 1>people in India don't know about the slab. Oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because they don't have any TVs and don't have the

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<v Speaker 1>old wife. She doesn't mean that, that's what. No, because

0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:09.560
<v Speaker 1>they're in an okay, Okay, people in India have WiFi.

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<v Speaker 1>But I believe that where they are the Smiths are

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<v Speaker 1>in a a monk resort or something where there is

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<v Speaker 1>clearly no WiFi and they don't. So they're not They

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<v Speaker 1>don't they're not aware of the slab. Yes, but wait

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<v Speaker 1>a minute, I do appreciate Chris's mother. Oh yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>talk about that. Chris's mama said, how dare you? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you slapped every single LA's one of us. Yes, that

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<v Speaker 1>slap was just not on Christ's space, It was on

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<v Speaker 1>my face. Who do you think you are? Will Smith?

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<v Speaker 1>I D double dare you to do it again? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I loved it. She was. It was that felt like

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<v Speaker 1>old school mama for you, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she she had her son's back. I love that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and and and will. I'm just I'm here to tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>If you see Chris Rock's mama walking down the street, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>you bet across that street because she coming for you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's be clear. Oh we forgot to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>Bravo Con. Oh yes, yes, okay, So maybe three years

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<v Speaker 1>ago was the first Bravo Con, and Gazelle thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was like a little convention for tounch of people like

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<v Speaker 1>I literally did Bravo call was like sending your Bravo can.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, I clearly had no idea what

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<v Speaker 1>was happening, but it was they shut New York down,

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<v Speaker 1>Like Bravo had like five or six different locations going

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time. Um, people are able to buy

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<v Speaker 1>tickets and come and be up close and personal with

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<v Speaker 1>all the Bravo liberties. So it was canceled because of

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<v Speaker 1>the hand Except for me, I wasn't invited that source

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<v Speaker 1>subject here we're gonna I was okay on my couch.

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<v Speaker 1>So so at the time, you know, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>keep in mind Potomac is one of the newer Housewives shows,

0:19:56.400 --> 0:19:59.840
<v Speaker 1>newer franchises, and sometimes Bravo forgets about us a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>and they only sent two of us as opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>like the whole cast, which I didn't. Again, had I

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<v Speaker 1>know when I was getting myself into I would have

0:20:07.600 --> 0:20:09.440
<v Speaker 1>been like, no, we all need to be there because

0:20:09.520 --> 0:20:13.080
<v Speaker 1>all the other franchises were there. They had everybody there. Yes,

0:20:13.200 --> 0:20:15.480
<v Speaker 1>So anyway, moving on, we're all going to be there

0:20:15.520 --> 0:20:19.040
<v Speaker 1>this time, and it's October fourteen through the sixteenth in

0:20:19.119 --> 0:20:22.359
<v Speaker 1>New York, so get your ticket. But like we it

0:20:22.520 --> 0:20:25.920
<v Speaker 1>is it is Bravo on steroids and we want to

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<v Speaker 1>see y'all. We want to be up close and personal

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<v Speaker 1>and have a good old time. But all of our viewers, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>did you mention? Like last they were supposed to do

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<v Speaker 1>it last last year, but they canceled it because of COVID. Well,

0:20:36.359 --> 0:20:40.040
<v Speaker 1>so clearly has been canceled twice. Well yeah, COVID. Yeah,

0:20:40.080 --> 0:20:42.320
<v Speaker 1>I guess it was canceled twice because of COVID. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's it's going down, okay, me robbing and Andy Cohen, Yeah,

0:20:46.840 --> 0:20:50.680
<v Speaker 1>be excited. That'll be fun, super fun. Also, we also

0:20:50.720 --> 0:20:54.440
<v Speaker 1>want to oh robbing. So okay, we're gonna talk about

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Tyson because Mike Tyson somebody and I think that

0:20:57.240 --> 0:20:59.760
<v Speaker 1>that's like against the law, like straight up, like I

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<v Speaker 1>think to punch someone, I think him in like professional boxers.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh, is it I think Floyd Northern? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, I'm pretty sure. Okay, what happened? So

0:21:10.480 --> 0:21:12.879
<v Speaker 1>apparently he was on a plane on a Jet Blue

0:21:12.880 --> 0:21:18.080
<v Speaker 1>flight not Jet Blue, yes, going from like San Francisco

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<v Speaker 1>to Florida, and the guy behind him was just like

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<v Speaker 1>an annoying asshole and he was just you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>started off him just you know, hey, Mike talking to him,

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<v Speaker 1>and he just wouldn't stop. And so at some point

0:21:31.359 --> 0:21:36.080
<v Speaker 1>Mike turned around and punched him, and literally like everyone

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<v Speaker 1>understood why, Like, I don't even think they press charges.

0:21:38.440 --> 0:21:40.520
<v Speaker 1>The man didn't press charges because he was like I

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<v Speaker 1>think the man was drunk. Come to find out, that

0:21:42.640 --> 0:21:45.680
<v Speaker 1>man has a record and you know, had been arrested

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<v Speaker 1>a few times, so he was just antagonizing him. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's only so much that people can take. But

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<v Speaker 1>can you imagine getting punched my listen is your face? Okay? Right?

0:21:54.119 --> 0:21:57.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean he definitely had a scratch mark, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>blood all his face, and he like he's one of

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<v Speaker 1>those the guy that got punched. He's like one of

0:22:03.080 --> 0:22:06.080
<v Speaker 1>those people that are excited that they got punched by Mike. Yeah,

0:22:06.119 --> 0:22:09.800
<v Speaker 1>he's probably telling people like I got and I survived.

0:22:10.440 --> 0:22:13.040
<v Speaker 1>It's Jeff Little like Southwest like there's no first class.

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<v Speaker 1>It looked like there was a first Like the seats

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<v Speaker 1>looked like bigger, like those Barold type seats. Okay, okay, yeah, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you on that one. So Mike type, anybody

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<v Speaker 1>who's a professional boxer like so Floyd, Mike and all

0:22:27.520 --> 0:22:33.480
<v Speaker 1>the rest of them busted Douglas. Their fists are considered

0:22:33.560 --> 0:22:37.280
<v Speaker 1>lethal weapons and they, you know, it's a law saying

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<v Speaker 1>that they can't hit people. But I wonder if since,

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<v Speaker 1>like Mike has been retired for how long, does that

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<v Speaker 1>still apply to him? I think so, I'm sure, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to get hit by Mike? Well, he's hell no.

0:22:48.720 --> 0:22:53.040
<v Speaker 1>What Just look if Chris Rock got hit by Mike

0:22:53.080 --> 0:22:57.040
<v Speaker 1>Tyson would okay, listen, that would not be a slap, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be a full punch and Chris would still

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<v Speaker 1>be on the floor. But even if he gotta slapped

0:23:00.560 --> 0:23:02.480
<v Speaker 1>by Mike Tyson. He'd be on the floor like that

0:23:02.600 --> 0:23:06.000
<v Speaker 1>big old Paul. Not a Paul Paul, you got a

0:23:06.040 --> 0:23:09.639
<v Speaker 1>big old Paul. But but I am curious, so I

0:23:09.680 --> 0:23:10.920
<v Speaker 1>need to, like, I feel like I need to follow

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<v Speaker 1>up on this story and see, like, is are the

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<v Speaker 1>police going to press charges? Because the man was not?

0:23:16.480 --> 0:23:19.560
<v Speaker 1>Probably not? Probably not, And and there's probably so many witnesses.

0:23:19.600 --> 0:23:21.919
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a plane, so everybody's in it that

0:23:22.000 --> 0:23:23.919
<v Speaker 1>can say that this man needed to get punched in

0:23:23.920 --> 0:23:27.560
<v Speaker 1>the face. Yeah, yeah, I'm with that. Listen, I've worked

0:23:27.600 --> 0:23:29.160
<v Speaker 1>with some people that need to get punched in the face.

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<v Speaker 1>Moving on, Okay, so speaking of violence, there, somebody died.

0:23:34.520 --> 0:23:38.480
<v Speaker 1>Somebody died at a nightclub. No, no, no, okay, nobody died.

0:23:38.600 --> 0:23:41.280
<v Speaker 1>That was something happened. Okay, this this story is a

0:23:41.320 --> 0:23:44.160
<v Speaker 1>few weeks old, but we never talked about I realized

0:23:44.520 --> 0:23:48.680
<v Speaker 1>we've never talked about this. So there's a rapper from

0:23:48.720 --> 0:23:54.159
<v Speaker 1>Prince George's County, Maryland named Gunu. Okay, he's like a

0:23:54.160 --> 0:23:56.959
<v Speaker 1>young guy, probably like twenty four ish, um, and he

0:23:57.000 --> 0:24:00.639
<v Speaker 1>was murdered. He was shot in a supposed robbery in

0:24:00.720 --> 0:24:07.760
<v Speaker 1>PG County, Right, Gunu um had his homegoing celebration of

0:24:07.960 --> 0:24:11.760
<v Speaker 1>life at the club. He had his funeral at the

0:24:11.800 --> 0:24:18.119
<v Speaker 1>club at Bliss. You lot, No, at Bliss, people paid

0:24:18.240 --> 0:24:23.720
<v Speaker 1>forty dollars to celebrate Gunu's life. Gunu's real name is

0:24:23.760 --> 0:24:26.840
<v Speaker 1>Mark Hill Morrow. Okay, let's pause, right, Okay, just so

0:24:26.920 --> 0:24:28.879
<v Speaker 1>that the people know Bliss is a nightclub in the

0:24:28.960 --> 0:24:33.320
<v Speaker 1>DC area. Okay, That's where the conversation starts and stops,

0:24:33.440 --> 0:24:35.960
<v Speaker 1>right like, So, so we have been to Bliss, we

0:24:36.000 --> 0:24:39.800
<v Speaker 1>actually held our season two premiere party at and we

0:24:39.840 --> 0:24:43.239
<v Speaker 1>actually know the owners of Bliss. So why were they

0:24:43.320 --> 0:24:47.359
<v Speaker 1>charging forty the door? I mean maybe to go to

0:24:47.400 --> 0:24:51.000
<v Speaker 1>the scholarship fund. I don't know the memorial fund. But

0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:56.399
<v Speaker 1>so so so he's literally standing up like on the

0:24:56.480 --> 0:25:00.879
<v Speaker 1>stage holding a cell phone. He's dead, he's still okay

0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:03.520
<v Speaker 1>with sun glasses. I don't know. I don't know if

0:25:03.520 --> 0:25:07.040
<v Speaker 1>the sunglasses are regular glasses with glasses on. A crown

0:25:07.240 --> 0:25:10.440
<v Speaker 1>on his head and people are literally in the club

0:25:10.560 --> 0:25:15.760
<v Speaker 1>partying with a corpse. I lies you down. No, I

0:25:15.840 --> 0:25:18.359
<v Speaker 1>think have propped him. Oh, let me show you the

0:25:18.640 --> 0:25:21.320
<v Speaker 1>let me show you the immage. Can't let me for

0:25:21.359 --> 0:25:24.040
<v Speaker 1>the image. I need I need the image okay, and

0:25:24.080 --> 0:25:27.919
<v Speaker 1>everybody has paid for And the word on the curb

0:25:28.119 --> 0:25:32.600
<v Speaker 1>is that it got hot in there and face started

0:25:32.640 --> 0:25:41.000
<v Speaker 1>melting and his mouth came, mouth dropped open. Now we're

0:25:41.000 --> 0:25:44.480
<v Speaker 1>sorry to be talking about you. Oh my gosh. Okay,

0:25:44.480 --> 0:25:46.199
<v Speaker 1>So wait a minute. I did, okay, Robin showing me

0:25:46.240 --> 0:25:48.520
<v Speaker 1>the picture. Now, I did see this picture, and I

0:25:48.560 --> 0:25:50.480
<v Speaker 1>didn't know what the hell it was, so I paid

0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:52.879
<v Speaker 1>I paid no attention to it. You didn't realize it

0:25:52.920 --> 0:25:55.160
<v Speaker 1>was a dead rapper in the club holding his cell

0:25:55.240 --> 0:25:58.399
<v Speaker 1>phone with like a rolex on his this. Let me

0:25:58.400 --> 0:26:00.840
<v Speaker 1>tell you all something. This is not not I feel

0:26:00.880 --> 0:26:03.680
<v Speaker 1>like you cannot do that to the dead right. So

0:26:03.840 --> 0:26:06.240
<v Speaker 1>of course the people, like people who saw this on

0:26:06.280 --> 0:26:09.040
<v Speaker 1>social media or whoever, they were like, oh, hell no,

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:12.680
<v Speaker 1>his his mama wantn't want that. Why his mama let

0:26:12.720 --> 0:26:15.600
<v Speaker 1>that happen? Or you know how y'all do that. His

0:26:15.720 --> 0:26:19.120
<v Speaker 1>mama went with that. His mother went on the news,

0:26:19.280 --> 0:26:21.920
<v Speaker 1>the local news, and said, this is what my son

0:26:21.960 --> 0:26:25.240
<v Speaker 1>would have wanted. That's how he wanted to go out.

0:26:25.680 --> 0:26:30.400
<v Speaker 1>He wanted to celebrate his life, turning up having a party.

0:26:30.640 --> 0:26:33.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't want people to be sad and crying. He

0:26:33.280 --> 0:26:36.639
<v Speaker 1>always wants people to be happy having fun. So she

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:40.159
<v Speaker 1>got the money from the door. I'm sure so. And

0:26:40.480 --> 0:26:42.760
<v Speaker 1>my thought was, like, you know, people are like thinking

0:26:42.840 --> 0:26:45.400
<v Speaker 1>his mother wouldn't have want that. Well, there's no way

0:26:45.400 --> 0:26:47.520
<v Speaker 1>a funeral home is going to release this man's body

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:50.720
<v Speaker 1>to a club and prop it up without someone from

0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:54.720
<v Speaker 1>the family saying, yes, let's do this. That okay, that

0:26:54.880 --> 0:26:58.280
<v Speaker 1>is is that sacrilegious? That's a whole lot of stuff.

0:26:58.760 --> 0:27:02.720
<v Speaker 1>It probably is. I mean, y'all look up now. Yes,

0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:06.399
<v Speaker 1>he's literally holding a cell phone with his with his

0:27:06.520 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 1>rolex and he has on a sweatshirt, a sweatshirt, a hoodie,

0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:15.080
<v Speaker 1>some jeans, some ripped up gene crown, and some glasses.

0:27:15.600 --> 0:27:17.919
<v Speaker 1>And everybody thought this Who thought this was a good idea?

0:27:18.280 --> 0:27:20.240
<v Speaker 1>His mama and the people to pay forty dollars to go?

0:27:20.480 --> 0:27:22.920
<v Speaker 1>They said it was packed and then it gets hot

0:27:22.960 --> 0:27:27.200
<v Speaker 1>and his and his mouth chopped over. So who embombed him? Okay,

0:27:27.200 --> 0:27:32.280
<v Speaker 1>because that funeral home, right, because they need to stitch it. Okay,

0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:36.399
<v Speaker 1>listen that funeral home. Listen, y'all will not get repeat

0:27:36.440 --> 0:27:38.680
<v Speaker 1>people coming in there because y'all can't even embalm me

0:27:39.080 --> 0:27:40.840
<v Speaker 1>the dead. No, I don't know if that's true. That

0:27:40.920 --> 0:27:44.320
<v Speaker 1>was just like, so I don't have a picture of

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:47.440
<v Speaker 1>his mouth hanging open, but that's that's what they said.

0:27:47.560 --> 0:27:51.680
<v Speaker 1>I just that was like the most mind boding story. Okay,

0:27:51.720 --> 0:27:54.679
<v Speaker 1>we're never going back to Bliss. Bliss is over. They

0:27:55.040 --> 0:27:57.480
<v Speaker 1>have probably staged it, right, And of course so people

0:27:57.520 --> 0:27:59.240
<v Speaker 1>were like mad and Bliss and so Bliss put out

0:27:59.240 --> 0:28:01.639
<v Speaker 1>a statement like we didn't know. They claimed they didn't know.

0:28:01.720 --> 0:28:05.040
<v Speaker 1>They didn't know what that the people who party were

0:28:05.040 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 1>bringing a dead body. And if you didn't know when

0:28:10.800 --> 0:28:12.879
<v Speaker 1>the dead body got there it was propped up, you

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:16.879
<v Speaker 1>were informed because this is strange. Get out. Yes, And

0:28:16.920 --> 0:28:18.440
<v Speaker 1>there was literally like it looked like it was like

0:28:18.440 --> 0:28:21.320
<v Speaker 1>a security guard like standing right next to him because

0:28:21.440 --> 0:28:24.359
<v Speaker 1>people were rolling up on the dead body. This is

0:28:25.280 --> 0:28:27.080
<v Speaker 1>if I went to the club that night, I'm turning

0:28:27.119 --> 0:28:30.359
<v Speaker 1>around going home. I'm not feeling comfortable with this. And

0:28:30.400 --> 0:28:33.680
<v Speaker 1>paid forty dollars, You know, I wonder if I wonder

0:28:33.680 --> 0:28:35.720
<v Speaker 1>if the people who came who showed up and paid

0:28:35.760 --> 0:28:38.080
<v Speaker 1>forty dollars, if they thought they were just showing up

0:28:38.080 --> 0:28:40.080
<v Speaker 1>to a celebration, they probably did not know that the

0:28:40.120 --> 0:28:42.080
<v Speaker 1>body was being there there. When was the last time

0:28:42.080 --> 0:28:43.600
<v Speaker 1>you paid to get into a club. I haven't paid

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 1>to get into a club. It's never nineteen o two.

0:28:48.880 --> 0:28:51.200
<v Speaker 1>If I gotta pay to getting your damn club by coming,

0:28:51.720 --> 0:28:54.080
<v Speaker 1>what in the world? And then and then we got

0:28:54.080 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 1>to pay to see a dead body? She that's insane, insane,

0:28:57.840 --> 0:29:00.240
<v Speaker 1>And I mean the things people do. It's not the first,

0:29:00.240 --> 0:29:02.239
<v Speaker 1>like I've seen story. I've I've seen stories of that

0:29:02.320 --> 0:29:08.520
<v Speaker 1>in like foreign countries like No, the South, Carli the South,

0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:10.480
<v Speaker 1>So that was not just all arriving, that was Carly

0:29:11.160 --> 0:29:13.000
<v Speaker 1>and so come for her. But I feel like I've

0:29:13.040 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 1>seen it in like the Dominican Republic or something like

0:29:15.240 --> 0:29:17.280
<v Speaker 1>the body is like chilling in the house and a

0:29:17.400 --> 0:29:23.000
<v Speaker 1>chair or something like. Literally, for real, listen, when I

0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:25.600
<v Speaker 1>when I die, I closed the casket. I don't even

0:29:25.600 --> 0:29:28.040
<v Speaker 1>want you looking at me. Put a beautiful picture of

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:31.720
<v Speaker 1>and um you can just you know, cry or laugh

0:29:31.800 --> 0:29:34.800
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. Exactly, yes, exactly, yeah, please don't put me

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:36.600
<v Speaker 1>in you know we're not doing that. Okay, So this

0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:40.160
<v Speaker 1>this new show on MTV called Help I'm in a

0:29:40.200 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 1>Secret relationship. Help, I'm in a secret relationship. Get out

0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:47.000
<v Speaker 1>what you're need help for you pet yourself in it?

0:29:47.400 --> 0:29:48.920
<v Speaker 1>Like what do you mean, right, And if you're go

0:29:49.000 --> 0:29:50.640
<v Speaker 1>on a show and say help, I'm in a secret,

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 1>it's not a secret anymore no longer, So just help.

0:29:54.320 --> 0:29:56.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm in a relationship with somebody I don't want to be, like,

0:29:56.840 --> 0:29:58.800
<v Speaker 1>what does it? What does that mean? That means you

0:29:59.040 --> 0:30:03.320
<v Speaker 1>a mistress? The family doesn't the family doesn't know. Oh,

0:30:03.560 --> 0:30:05.720
<v Speaker 1>that reminds me of a story I heard on the radio.

0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:08.680
<v Speaker 1>So this show is about so help I'm in the secret?

0:30:08.880 --> 0:30:12.000
<v Speaker 1>Relationship is about people in relationships with people that their

0:30:12.000 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 1>family is unaware of or like, so they have like

0:30:14.560 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 1>a whole But that's probably the best most of the

0:30:17.280 --> 0:30:21.600
<v Speaker 1>time because you don't want that commentary. But wait, So

0:30:21.680 --> 0:30:24.120
<v Speaker 1>this reminds me. I was listening to the radio in

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 1>the car one day, it was like about three months ago,

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:27.400
<v Speaker 1>and this girl was on there and she was saying

0:30:27.440 --> 0:30:31.600
<v Speaker 1>how her boyfriend has lived in her parents basement for

0:30:31.640 --> 0:30:36.520
<v Speaker 1>like three months and they did not know what it's like.

0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:38.680
<v Speaker 1>He had like no job, nowhere to go, so he

0:30:38.760 --> 0:30:41.280
<v Speaker 1>literally was living in their basement and their parents did

0:30:41.280 --> 0:30:43.720
<v Speaker 1>not know because they never went down there. Right, Okay,

0:30:43.720 --> 0:30:47.160
<v Speaker 1>so she's sneaking him food, yes, and he won't flush

0:30:47.200 --> 0:30:49.640
<v Speaker 1>to a lot of parents at home. This is absurd.

0:30:50.120 --> 0:30:52.960
<v Speaker 1>What it's wrong with people? So just when did the

0:30:52.960 --> 0:30:55.160
<v Speaker 1>parents find out? I think they did eventually found that.

0:30:55.360 --> 0:30:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean this day. Yeah, I'm gonna need for him

0:30:58.560 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 1>to get a job. Isn't that crazy? That that that

0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:04.240
<v Speaker 1>is beyond crazy. I don't know how how much legs

0:31:04.320 --> 0:31:08.280
<v Speaker 1>this show has help. I'm in a secret relationship. Has

0:31:08.360 --> 0:31:11.320
<v Speaker 1>anybody got to watch this? MTV? What are y'all doing? Y'all,

0:31:11.360 --> 0:31:16.240
<v Speaker 1>y'all need some content. We'll happen to music videos? I know.

0:31:16.840 --> 0:31:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Isn't it crazy? When we were growing up, it was

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.600
<v Speaker 1>like you return to MTV or b ET to watch

0:31:21.720 --> 0:31:25.760
<v Speaker 1>videos period period, nothing else, and then and then you

0:31:25.760 --> 0:31:29.480
<v Speaker 1>would say, oh okay TRL or UM one O six

0:31:29.480 --> 0:31:32.920
<v Speaker 1>and par like none of that. I don't understand it

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 1>because I do remember like both of those BT MTV

0:31:36.440 --> 0:31:39.560
<v Speaker 1>and then would h Yes, you would be in front

0:31:39.600 --> 0:31:41.800
<v Speaker 1>the TV and you'd be trying to get the dance

0:31:41.840 --> 0:31:44.360
<v Speaker 1>moves right yeah right? But how did VH one go

0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:47.840
<v Speaker 1>from music video like like soul you know, kind of

0:31:47.880 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 1>like they weren't like the bats or the mtvs. They

0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:53.680
<v Speaker 1>were like the more mellow soul music or whatever, to

0:31:53.880 --> 0:31:57.640
<v Speaker 1>freaking basketball watch and loving hip hop. Listen, they said,

0:31:57.680 --> 0:32:00.280
<v Speaker 1>we gotta change change gears? How to change? Like, how

0:32:00.320 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 1>does that make sense? It doesn't v H one, and

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:06.360
<v Speaker 1>like it literally stands for like video what is the

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:10.200
<v Speaker 1>v H I don't know, video hits one something like that.

0:32:10.520 --> 0:32:12.440
<v Speaker 1>You're like, how do you go from that to love

0:32:12.480 --> 0:32:16.040
<v Speaker 1>and hip hop? Mona Scott, that's how okay? And and

0:32:16.200 --> 0:32:18.320
<v Speaker 1>they took but there's no love and hip hop on

0:32:18.480 --> 0:32:19.960
<v Speaker 1>right now? Do you you want to know? Okay? Because

0:32:19.960 --> 0:32:24.720
<v Speaker 1>there's love and hip hop Atlanta, Miami, New York, l A.

0:32:25.720 --> 0:32:28.239
<v Speaker 1>None of it is on right now? Why, I don't know,

0:32:28.320 --> 0:32:30.640
<v Speaker 1>but I need my ratchet back, pleased to give it

0:32:30.680 --> 0:32:34.600
<v Speaker 1>back to me. That's actually a good observation. Black black

0:32:35.120 --> 0:32:37.640
<v Speaker 1>about say black China Child, what's the what's the black ink?

0:32:37.880 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 1>Black ink is on right now? Yeah, but I don't

0:32:40.640 --> 0:32:43.360
<v Speaker 1>watch that, but they think it's the love and hip hop.

0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:46.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm just else tuning in. So and then Basketball Watch

0:32:46.840 --> 0:32:48.320
<v Speaker 1>is coming back on? Are you gonna watch that now?

0:32:48.320 --> 0:32:50.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna watch it. I'm I used to. I'm

0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:54.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna not watch this time because I don't know something

0:32:54.160 --> 0:32:56.720
<v Speaker 1>about Evelyn. You know, she's not gonna be on and

0:32:56.880 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 1>something about in all Emlyn and I mean, oh my God,

0:33:01.000 --> 0:33:04.760
<v Speaker 1>like I like all of that. Okay, yeah, so Evelyn's

0:33:04.800 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 1>not on. I think Shanny is gonna be on like

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:10.000
<v Speaker 1>a little bit. Speaking of Shannie, she's engaged to a

0:33:10.080 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 1>nice little pastor. They look so cute together. Do you

0:33:12.360 --> 0:33:15.400
<v Speaker 1>have any advice for her? Oh? Wow, because she's going

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:19.240
<v Speaker 1>to be a first lady Shanny. Then people in the

0:33:19.320 --> 0:33:22.360
<v Speaker 1>church is crazy. Okay, I'm here to tell you. Okay,

0:33:22.400 --> 0:33:25.360
<v Speaker 1>but you just focus on your husband and if an

0:33:25.360 --> 0:33:28.120
<v Speaker 1>old lady in the church feels the need to cut

0:33:28.160 --> 0:33:31.360
<v Speaker 1>you out, just take you and say, you know what,

0:33:31.760 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 1>God bless you, God bless you, right, Mr Johnson, God

0:33:35.680 --> 0:33:39.080
<v Speaker 1>God loves you, Mrs Johnson. Yeah. So now, I mean

0:33:39.080 --> 0:33:41.840
<v Speaker 1>I've seen like them on Instagram and stuff. They look

0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:44.320
<v Speaker 1>so super cute together and she seems happy. Oh and

0:33:44.360 --> 0:33:48.160
<v Speaker 1>we didn't talk about right, I mean, but Shaq really

0:33:48.240 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>is telling us like what we all already know. Yeah,

0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:53.360
<v Speaker 1>but I do appreciate the fact that that guy that

0:33:53.400 --> 0:33:56.640
<v Speaker 1>whoever she Kill was talking to was trying to insinuate

0:33:56.680 --> 0:33:58.560
<v Speaker 1>that they were both wrong in their marriage, therefore they

0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:01.000
<v Speaker 1>got divorced. She Kill was like, halla held up, let

0:34:01.000 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 1>me let me correct, Shanny did nothing wrong. Yeah, I'm

0:34:04.520 --> 0:34:08.200
<v Speaker 1>waiting for the Jamal Brian announcement. Shanny did nothing wrong

0:34:08.320 --> 0:34:09.719
<v Speaker 1>as a matter. I sent it to Jamal and I

0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:12.840
<v Speaker 1>was like, sound familiar, and he explained it like, she

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:14.440
<v Speaker 1>took care to kids, she took care to house, she

0:34:14.440 --> 0:34:16.520
<v Speaker 1>took care of all the businesses, and I was out

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:20.799
<v Speaker 1>here living a double life. Yeah, I appreciate that she killed. Oh, Neil,

0:34:20.840 --> 0:34:22.480
<v Speaker 1>that's why God is blessing you with all kinds of

0:34:22.480 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 1>business out here in these streets. All right, we have

0:34:25.520 --> 0:34:27.319
<v Speaker 1>just got to grow up. They have to grow Yeah,

0:34:27.400 --> 0:34:37.080
<v Speaker 1>grow up, and yeah we'll call it growing up. Okay,

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:42.879
<v Speaker 1>So Robin has eight sentences that we should all live

0:34:42.920 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 1>our lives by. So this is gonna be profound, y'all. Y'all,

0:34:46.880 --> 0:34:49.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, we talked about a whole lot of stuff,

0:34:49.320 --> 0:34:51.719
<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of nonsense, but we do try to,

0:34:52.080 --> 0:34:56.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, impart some type of inspirational words as well.

0:34:57.480 --> 0:35:00.279
<v Speaker 1>So I come across these posts on Instagram, am and

0:35:00.320 --> 0:35:02.000
<v Speaker 1>I'll save them, and I said, I'm going to share

0:35:02.040 --> 0:35:06.200
<v Speaker 1>this with the podcast listeners because I love you all.

0:35:06.480 --> 0:35:11.880
<v Speaker 1>So this is eight sentences that everyone should believe. Okay, Okay,

0:35:11.920 --> 0:35:14.040
<v Speaker 1>So you should believe. Okay. So I haven't heard any

0:35:14.040 --> 0:35:16.319
<v Speaker 1>of these sentences, but I'm here to tell you. If

0:35:16.320 --> 0:35:18.799
<v Speaker 1>something sounds crazy, I'm gonna let you know. Okay, I

0:35:18.840 --> 0:35:22.719
<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. Okay, Um, you have to lose a few

0:35:22.760 --> 0:35:29.960
<v Speaker 1>people find yourself that I like that. I like that.

0:35:30.040 --> 0:35:35.120
<v Speaker 1>But are they u exclusive? You know what I mean? Like?

0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 1>Can they be mutually exclusive? Like? Can you find yourself

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<v Speaker 1>without happen without having to lose people? Yeah? Um, according

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<v Speaker 1>to this post, no, you cannot. Okay, continue on. I

0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:50.480
<v Speaker 1>think I think it actually should read. You shouldn't be

0:35:50.520 --> 0:35:53.840
<v Speaker 1>afraid to lose a few people to find yourself, you

0:35:53.880 --> 0:35:56.200
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? I got one for you. Okay, No, okay,

0:35:56.239 --> 0:35:59.560
<v Speaker 1>you do yours, okay before you forget Okay. So this

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<v Speaker 1>is my T. E. Jake's impressionation. Okay, because I've watched

0:36:02.000 --> 0:36:06.800
<v Speaker 1>this reel about fourteen times. Okay. So T. D. Jake said,

0:36:08.960 --> 0:36:13.879
<v Speaker 1>you ain't gonna let fear rue rue your life, even

0:36:13.920 --> 0:36:18.040
<v Speaker 1>if you scared, even if you're trembling, even if you

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:22.319
<v Speaker 1>um can't do it and you and you're terrified, do

0:36:22.400 --> 0:36:26.880
<v Speaker 1>it anyway, have the courage to do it because you

0:36:26.920 --> 0:36:30.400
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be in the old folks home being

0:36:30.480 --> 0:36:35.279
<v Speaker 1>in a bad band, and you didn't do it? Did

0:36:35.280 --> 0:36:37.920
<v Speaker 1>you really say me? Yes? Yes, And let me tell

0:36:37.920 --> 0:36:41.239
<v Speaker 1>you something. That thing shook me to the court. Yeah,

0:36:41.600 --> 0:36:44.680
<v Speaker 1>whatever it is I'm careful about. I was probably scared that.

0:36:44.760 --> 0:36:47.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't know anyway, But I mean I appreciate that,

0:36:47.480 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 1>like like fear will like debilitate you. Yes, and it

0:36:52.040 --> 0:36:55.200
<v Speaker 1>will stop you from from doing a lot of stuff

0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:57.440
<v Speaker 1>that you you you know, it can stop you from

0:36:57.520 --> 0:36:59.560
<v Speaker 1>leading a life that you never even imagine that you

0:36:59.560 --> 0:37:01.400
<v Speaker 1>could leave. Yes, And a lot of times the fears

0:37:01.440 --> 0:37:03.880
<v Speaker 1>in your head, so it's like you're you're stopping yourself

0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:05.880
<v Speaker 1>from doing something, But once you go ahead and do it,

0:37:06.320 --> 0:37:08.160
<v Speaker 1>you look back like what what was the skart of

0:37:08.200 --> 0:37:10.799
<v Speaker 1>that for? Exactly? And then you know you just never

0:37:10.840 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 1>want to have regrets. So do you want to let

0:37:12.440 --> 0:37:14.759
<v Speaker 1>fear prevent you from doing stuff that when you're an

0:37:14.760 --> 0:37:17.799
<v Speaker 1>old folks home, you're like, man, I should have just

0:37:17.840 --> 0:37:19.360
<v Speaker 1>done that, I should have just done X, Y and Z.

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:22.080
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something. I'm out here doing it. Yes, yes,

0:37:22.200 --> 0:37:24.200
<v Speaker 1>all right, so back to my list. So you have

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<v Speaker 1>to lose a few people to find yourself, which I

0:37:26.000 --> 0:37:28.520
<v Speaker 1>think we should edit to say, don't be afraid of

0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:30.799
<v Speaker 1>losing a few people in order to find yourself. And

0:37:30.840 --> 0:37:34.800
<v Speaker 1>I think that you know that can apply to friendships, relationships,

0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:40.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, businesses, whatever, coworkers. Um. Sometimes people are holding

0:37:40.040 --> 0:37:42.879
<v Speaker 1>you back um number two. Sometimes it's best to keep

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:46.439
<v Speaker 1>it private until you know it's permanent. Let me tell

0:37:46.480 --> 0:37:51.879
<v Speaker 1>you something, hunts need Hunt. It's very difficult for being

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:53.919
<v Speaker 1>robbing to keep things private because we're on this show,

0:37:54.360 --> 0:37:56.360
<v Speaker 1>Your Housewives of the Tommach and they are all in

0:37:56.400 --> 0:37:59.800
<v Speaker 1>our business. But I do agree with that. Yeah, yeah,

0:37:59.840 --> 0:38:02.600
<v Speaker 1>I agree. I mean whenever whatever, it is like in

0:38:02.680 --> 0:38:05.319
<v Speaker 1>good stuff and bad stuff. So I think about when

0:38:05.320 --> 0:38:07.239
<v Speaker 1>you're going through See it's hard because like when you're

0:38:07.239 --> 0:38:10.000
<v Speaker 1>going through struggles with your partner or with a friend

0:38:10.120 --> 0:38:13.440
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and then you um, you can fide in

0:38:13.440 --> 0:38:16.480
<v Speaker 1>another person, right, and then you make up and you

0:38:16.520 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 1>resolve those issues, and then that other person is still

0:38:19.000 --> 0:38:22.279
<v Speaker 1>mad and they like, don't you remember where he did?

0:38:22.560 --> 0:38:24.799
<v Speaker 1>And so it's like sometimes it's like you really have

0:38:24.880 --> 0:38:27.080
<v Speaker 1>to be careful with what you're sharing with people because

0:38:27.600 --> 0:38:29.840
<v Speaker 1>sometimes they're going to hold hold it against you. And

0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:32.000
<v Speaker 1>then on the flip side, it's like you could think

0:38:32.040 --> 0:38:34.919
<v Speaker 1>that you're about to close a business deal. How don't

0:38:34.960 --> 0:38:36.520
<v Speaker 1>you do you know how many people Because in the

0:38:36.560 --> 0:38:41.480
<v Speaker 1>world of reality TV, UM, reality TV production companies and

0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:45.239
<v Speaker 1>casting companies, they try to cast people left right up

0:38:45.239 --> 0:38:48.040
<v Speaker 1>down around. Do you know how many people I've heard

0:38:48.080 --> 0:38:51.400
<v Speaker 1>that have gone around telling all their friends and family

0:38:51.400 --> 0:38:53.320
<v Speaker 1>that they're going to be famous and they're gonna be

0:38:53.400 --> 0:38:56.520
<v Speaker 1>on reality TV because someone so talked to them and

0:38:56.560 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah, and it doesn't happen, right, So then

0:38:59.239 --> 0:39:03.600
<v Speaker 1>you're left looking stupid, kind of stupid when people are like, Hey,

0:39:04.000 --> 0:39:06.239
<v Speaker 1>what whatever happened to that show? You said you're going

0:39:06.280 --> 0:39:08.919
<v Speaker 1>to be one? Whatever happened to that? Because I mean

0:39:09.120 --> 0:39:11.279
<v Speaker 1>and that it's so funny because like I applied that

0:39:11.320 --> 0:39:15.680
<v Speaker 1>to my own experience with Potomac. Remember, I mean, could

0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:18.560
<v Speaker 1>tell you we want season three and I was like,

0:39:19.120 --> 0:39:21.799
<v Speaker 1>so we're on a show, right, Yes, We've been doing

0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:24.840
<v Speaker 1>this for years. What are you talking about? Like the

0:39:24.880 --> 0:39:27.040
<v Speaker 1>cameras at my door? I'm like, what y'all doing here?

0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:30.279
<v Speaker 1>So So anyway, yeah, I just think it's important. It's

0:39:30.320 --> 0:39:32.319
<v Speaker 1>it's always hard. It's like, just be careful with what

0:39:32.400 --> 0:39:35.239
<v Speaker 1>you share and who you share it with and how premature,

0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:37.560
<v Speaker 1>you share it and all that type of stuff. Okay, Well,

0:39:37.719 --> 0:39:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I gotta go back to my phone and I gotta

0:39:40.239 --> 0:39:44.160
<v Speaker 1>call coming in. Why doesn't iPhone like you can't hit

0:39:44.360 --> 0:39:47.879
<v Speaker 1>decline when you're not like on your phone. Anyway, that's

0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:49.879
<v Speaker 1>a whole another subject. I can we can have our

0:39:49.880 --> 0:39:53.600
<v Speaker 1>iPhone rights later. Okay, number three, If you can attach,

0:39:54.400 --> 0:40:00.360
<v Speaker 1>you can detach. H So that that brings me to stories.

0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:02.879
<v Speaker 1>So I was, um, what was years ago? And I

0:40:02.920 --> 0:40:08.000
<v Speaker 1>was I thought I was on a date. Okay, I was.

0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:10.879
<v Speaker 1>I was. I was doing a little vak with this dude, right,

0:40:11.360 --> 0:40:13.600
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't really know when I was. He let's

0:40:13.600 --> 0:40:15.440
<v Speaker 1>say he had to be there for the week and

0:40:15.800 --> 0:40:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I was in town for a couple of days, and

0:40:17.880 --> 0:40:19.600
<v Speaker 1>I didn't really know when I was leaving, right because

0:40:19.600 --> 0:40:21.920
<v Speaker 1>I had just had stuff to do. And he was like,

0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:25.319
<v Speaker 1>just also, when when are you leaving? And I was like,

0:40:26.400 --> 0:40:28.600
<v Speaker 1>are you trying to get rid of me? Right? And

0:40:28.719 --> 0:40:31.440
<v Speaker 1>he said, no, I need to. I'm trying to figure

0:40:31.440 --> 0:40:36.080
<v Speaker 1>out when to disconnect. Oh, and that that also was

0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:37.719
<v Speaker 1>rude to me. I was like, what the hell does

0:40:37.760 --> 0:40:41.560
<v Speaker 1>that mean? But he I understood, like he just wanted

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:45.359
<v Speaker 1>to know, like when was the disconnection happening? Yeah, so

0:40:45.560 --> 0:40:50.759
<v Speaker 1>was that so disconnect from like being hospitable, or disconnect

0:40:50.760 --> 0:40:54.759
<v Speaker 1>from me getting out of his room, disconnect from us

0:40:54.800 --> 0:40:57.960
<v Speaker 1>being together? Really yeah, he just it was a very

0:40:57.960 --> 0:41:01.640
<v Speaker 1>strange way of him asking me to get the happy. Yes,

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:05.440
<v Speaker 1>need to start packing? Yeah yeah, yeah, you know, like okay,

0:41:05.640 --> 0:41:08.479
<v Speaker 1>you know what in fact, well and my flight leaves

0:41:08.480 --> 0:41:11.399
<v Speaker 1>in ten minutes. But I think really it was because

0:41:11.400 --> 0:41:14.240
<v Speaker 1>I never really had I didn't know when I was leaving,

0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:16.759
<v Speaker 1>so he you know, I guess he just needs to

0:41:16.760 --> 0:41:19.480
<v Speaker 1>know when I was leaving anyway, Yes, that that that

0:41:19.600 --> 0:41:22.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess that's similar. But um yeah, like

0:41:22.480 --> 0:41:25.319
<v Speaker 1>if you can attach to something or someone, then you

0:41:25.400 --> 0:41:28.799
<v Speaker 1>have the ability to detach as well, so don't So

0:41:28.840 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 1>it's pretty much don't put all your eggs have have

0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:36.960
<v Speaker 1>them egg scrambletony all over the alright. Number four, social

0:41:37.000 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 1>media has made perfect look achievable, so now real has

0:41:41.200 --> 0:41:46.560
<v Speaker 1>become undesirable and that's so true. Yeah yeah, I mean

0:41:47.480 --> 0:41:50.800
<v Speaker 1>I think honestly, I think even before social media, people

0:41:50.840 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 1>had issues with trying to achieve perfection. You know, whether

0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:57.000
<v Speaker 1>it's like passed on, passed down from their parents, you

0:41:57.000 --> 0:42:00.800
<v Speaker 1>know how many people I know that have like parent issues,

0:42:00.920 --> 0:42:02.799
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, because their mother wanted them

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:05.759
<v Speaker 1>to be skinny, or you know what, they wanted to

0:42:05.800 --> 0:42:09.560
<v Speaker 1>live up to their parents expectations and stuff. So so yeah,

0:42:09.640 --> 0:42:12.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean social media definitely. You know people on social

0:42:12.080 --> 0:42:14.920
<v Speaker 1>media they're not and I would say most most of

0:42:14.960 --> 0:42:16.440
<v Speaker 1>us are guilty of it. We're not going to post

0:42:16.440 --> 0:42:18.719
<v Speaker 1>the ugly pictures, but no, I don't. I don't want

0:42:18.800 --> 0:42:21.200
<v Speaker 1>y'all see that, right, Yeah, I mean, but you know,

0:42:21.600 --> 0:42:24.080
<v Speaker 1>it is like the filters and stuff, like, you know,

0:42:24.160 --> 0:42:27.000
<v Speaker 1>you have to be mindful that if you're posting a

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:29.839
<v Speaker 1>picture and you look nothing like that, you don't post that,

0:42:30.360 --> 0:42:33.719
<v Speaker 1>right that. Yeah, that's an issue. Yeah, yeah, but yes,

0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:36.920
<v Speaker 1>we we would love to be back to realness because

0:42:37.000 --> 0:42:39.920
<v Speaker 1>because I do feel like if you look at what

0:42:39.960 --> 0:42:44.160
<v Speaker 1>people look like today with with or without filters and stuff,

0:42:44.560 --> 0:42:47.239
<v Speaker 1>versus what they look like in the eighties, you know

0:42:47.239 --> 0:42:48.799
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, people in the eighties were just more

0:42:48.920 --> 0:42:52.799
<v Speaker 1>raw and more like now it's just like, I don't know,

0:42:52.880 --> 0:42:57.640
<v Speaker 1>we're so like overdone. I agreed, agreed, yes, yeah, And

0:42:57.800 --> 0:42:59.839
<v Speaker 1>I want to go back to having like real conversations

0:42:59.840 --> 0:43:02.880
<v Speaker 1>with people. Yes, yeah, I used to do that a lot. Yeah,

0:43:02.920 --> 0:43:05.680
<v Speaker 1>I agree. All right, let's see number five. Anything that

0:43:05.719 --> 0:43:09.880
<v Speaker 1>costs you your mental health is too expensive. Look elsewhere,

0:43:10.280 --> 0:43:12.920
<v Speaker 1>Like what give me an example. I mean anything that's

0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:15.960
<v Speaker 1>stressing you out to the point where you're like, you know,

0:43:16.120 --> 0:43:20.120
<v Speaker 1>you're feeling depressed or yeah, I mean ship. That can

0:43:20.160 --> 0:43:22.960
<v Speaker 1>be a whole lot of stuff. So it's pretty much

0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:27.040
<v Speaker 1>saying like there's nothing out here that's worth compromising and

0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:32.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, weakening your mental health, are right, So so yeah,

0:43:32.280 --> 0:43:34.839
<v Speaker 1>just keep that in mind if something is bothering you

0:43:34.880 --> 0:43:37.399
<v Speaker 1>to the point where it's consuming you and you can't

0:43:37.400 --> 0:43:41.080
<v Speaker 1>think straight and you're depressed, and let it go. Agree

0:43:41.960 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 1>number six. If they don't know you personally, never take

0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:49.560
<v Speaker 1>it personally. Oh that's not god one's And that's good

0:43:49.560 --> 0:43:52.160
<v Speaker 1>for people that are in business. Of times, if you're

0:43:52.160 --> 0:43:54.520
<v Speaker 1>in business and something happens and you take it so personally,

0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:58.840
<v Speaker 1>it ain't personal. It is business. Yeah that's true, that's true,

0:43:59.040 --> 0:44:01.200
<v Speaker 1>but it's it's like important. It's like even if you

0:44:01.480 --> 0:44:05.239
<v Speaker 1>know someone like in passing, people still might not know

0:44:05.400 --> 0:44:07.600
<v Speaker 1>the real you. Like if you don't spend a lot

0:44:07.640 --> 0:44:12.319
<v Speaker 1>of time around someone, um, you know, like still don't

0:44:12.360 --> 0:44:15.600
<v Speaker 1>take that stuff personally and personal. Yeah, and I always

0:44:15.600 --> 0:44:17.080
<v Speaker 1>like flip it on a person. I'm like, well, that's

0:44:17.120 --> 0:44:20.800
<v Speaker 1>they issue, that's their insecurity, that's there, you know whatever,

0:44:21.000 --> 0:44:24.399
<v Speaker 1>their their mama drama that they're putting on you. Yes,

0:44:24.520 --> 0:44:26.000
<v Speaker 1>and if and I just want to put this out there.

0:44:26.040 --> 0:44:28.120
<v Speaker 1>If you want to reality television show and you're getting

0:44:28.120 --> 0:44:32.960
<v Speaker 1>a paycheck, it's business. That's very true. Yeah, just saying

0:44:34.560 --> 0:44:38.960
<v Speaker 1>very true. It's hard, it's a little it's yes, because

0:44:39.320 --> 0:44:41.759
<v Speaker 1>we are you know, friends, we want to be friends.

0:44:41.840 --> 0:44:44.440
<v Speaker 1>We want to nurture our friendship. Very true. It is

0:44:44.480 --> 0:44:49.240
<v Speaker 1>definitely a fine line. Number seven. Never assumed that loud

0:44:49.600 --> 0:44:54.239
<v Speaker 1>is strong or quiet is weak. It's often the other

0:44:54.280 --> 0:44:58.480
<v Speaker 1>way around. Very true. I would I would agree with that. Yes,

0:44:58.760 --> 0:45:03.680
<v Speaker 1>my grandfather like barely spoke, but when he did, you listen,

0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:05.719
<v Speaker 1>you listen, and even when he was quiet, it was

0:45:05.719 --> 0:45:09.879
<v Speaker 1>like just his presence in the room spoke volume. So yeah,

0:45:09.960 --> 0:45:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I want to stop talking. But then there are some

0:45:14.080 --> 0:45:17.400
<v Speaker 1>people who who you know, they walk in and they're like,

0:45:17.440 --> 0:45:20.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, they they want to be the center of attention.

0:45:20.400 --> 0:45:23.919
<v Speaker 1>And it's like you can just tell like, okay, you're

0:45:23.960 --> 0:45:26.480
<v Speaker 1>not you're not comfortable where you are you know what

0:45:26.560 --> 0:45:30.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like it's it's it's yeah, so never soon

0:45:31.280 --> 0:45:35.480
<v Speaker 1>all right, if you're happy alone, you'll be happier together.

0:45:37.640 --> 0:45:40.919
<v Speaker 1>So I guess it's saying, like two people, if you're

0:45:41.000 --> 0:45:46.200
<v Speaker 1>happy and content by yourself, by yourself, then in a relationship,

0:45:46.760 --> 0:45:52.040
<v Speaker 1>that that makes for a better relationship. Facts. Yes, and

0:45:52.080 --> 0:45:54.640
<v Speaker 1>then like you might even like being alone better than

0:45:54.680 --> 0:46:01.000
<v Speaker 1>the relations Just send them all, send him yep, So

0:46:01.080 --> 0:46:04.760
<v Speaker 1>that was it. Those were good. Yeah. I think people

0:46:04.800 --> 0:46:07.279
<v Speaker 1>can learn from all of those. I mean, something you

0:46:07.560 --> 0:46:09.839
<v Speaker 1>can speak to somebody. Yeah, And I think I think

0:46:09.880 --> 0:46:12.320
<v Speaker 1>that sometimes we just have to stop and like really

0:46:12.680 --> 0:46:17.400
<v Speaker 1>think about what's important and what's what's valued, what we're valuing,

0:46:17.520 --> 0:46:21.400
<v Speaker 1>and what we should like get rid of. Yeah, yeah, absolutely,

0:46:21.400 --> 0:46:23.320
<v Speaker 1>And I just like one of my I think people

0:46:23.400 --> 0:46:26.400
<v Speaker 1>seeking perfection is like the root of a lot of

0:46:26.480 --> 0:46:28.880
<v Speaker 1>issues that people in life. You know. So it's just

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:31.440
<v Speaker 1>like if we can just let go of our desire

0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:34.400
<v Speaker 1>to be perfect, in our desire to be perceived as perfect,

0:46:35.160 --> 0:46:38.960
<v Speaker 1>so much will just you know, be better. Like you know,

0:46:39.000 --> 0:46:41.239
<v Speaker 1>everyone you're just afraid to fail or you don't want

0:46:41.239 --> 0:46:44.200
<v Speaker 1>to disappoint someone, or or you know, afraid you don't

0:46:44.239 --> 0:46:46.840
<v Speaker 1>want to be judged like so what Yeah, And I

0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:48.759
<v Speaker 1>don't even really And I tell this to my kids

0:46:48.800 --> 0:46:51.719
<v Speaker 1>because I'm raising three teenage daughters and so that whole

0:46:51.719 --> 0:46:56.040
<v Speaker 1>perfection thing is huge right now. So I always tell

0:46:56.080 --> 0:46:58.799
<v Speaker 1>them like, I don't even understand what perfect means, Like

0:46:58.880 --> 0:47:03.719
<v Speaker 1>what does that mean? Defines perfect? Right? Just be yourself

0:47:03.880 --> 0:47:06.759
<v Speaker 1>and that's the perfect whatever that is, flaws and all.

0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:09.239
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I think that that's what we're given to

0:47:09.239 --> 0:47:12.680
<v Speaker 1>the people. Yes, if you are, if you are something

0:47:12.680 --> 0:47:15.880
<v Speaker 1>called perfect, don't be perfect. No, that's not it. You

0:47:15.920 --> 0:47:21.040
<v Speaker 1>don't exist. Just be yourself, damn it. Figure out what

0:47:21.040 --> 0:47:22.520
<v Speaker 1>that is, figure out what makes you happy, what makes

0:47:22.520 --> 0:47:25.120
<v Speaker 1>you sad? Just be yourself? Yes, all right, that is

0:47:25.120 --> 0:47:29.080
<v Speaker 1>our show, guys. We absolutely love y'all. Definitely come back

0:47:29.120 --> 0:47:31.759
<v Speaker 1>next week because we will be here and don't ever

0:47:31.840 --> 0:47:46.239
<v Speaker 1>forget to live your life, either reasonable or shady. Reasonably

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