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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up? What's up? Everyone?

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Speaker 1: This is Robin Dixon. Thank you so much for being

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Speaker 1: here with us once again. You appreciate you pressing play

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Speaker 1: on the Reasonably Shady podcast and continue continuing to be

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Speaker 1: here with us. Oh my gosh, we have to check

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Speaker 1: and see how many downloads we have. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: you and these down loans. I know, Okay, I get

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Speaker 1: obsessed with the number because like once we hit one million,

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Speaker 1: I was like, how soon can we get to two million?

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Speaker 1: How soon can we get to three million? So anyway, people,

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Speaker 1: Just give us a review. Just email us and yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's up? And Reasonably Shady is for anything negative and positive,

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Speaker 1: but like, don't give us a bad review, CARYO. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and send positive feedback. We really really appreciate that you

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Speaker 1: took your time to do that. That's really important. Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: And speaking of importance, speaking of things that Robin and

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Speaker 1: Giselle are doing in these streets. May eighteenth, we are

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Speaker 1: doing our live show and Silver Spring, Reasonably Shady Podcast goes,

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Yes, you all say it feels like

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Speaker 1: you're chit chatting with your girlfriends in your living room.

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Speaker 1: Guess what we're going to be in the living room together,

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Speaker 1: Yes we are. We're gonna have some special guests. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Carter still okay, but sorry, Carter is trying to get

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Speaker 1: the mail. Um, I'll help you. But all right, you

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Speaker 1: gotta be patient me finished please, So Carter, I'm sorry, No, no, really,

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Speaker 1: we were interrupted. Carter is into online shopping, so you

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Speaker 1: know when he learns that his package has been delivered, Yes,

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Speaker 1: he's very eager and anxious mailbox is not opening for him. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, but anyway, live shall people go to Reasonably

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Speaker 1: Shady Live dot event, bright Event, Bright Dot com yes,

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Speaker 1: he gets your ticket, because these tickets are selling out

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Speaker 1: and you don't want to be the one that doesn't

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Speaker 1: get to come. And then you're sitting at home talking

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Speaker 1: about where show was. Yeah, and I can imagine this

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Speaker 1: is probably the last week for you to get him.

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Speaker 1: Maybe yes, yeah, so get your ticket. Get your ticket anyway. Oh,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna have some special guests there. And when

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Speaker 1: I say special guests, okay, fine, my dad's coming. Um,

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Speaker 1: is he really he's really coming? Yes, he's coming just

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Speaker 1: for the show. No, he also wants to see his

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Speaker 1: daughter and his grands But he was also like, he

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Speaker 1: called me. He was like, you and Robin are doing

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Speaker 1: something something right. They don't know what. Right. He was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna come and see you guys. And I was like, okay.

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Speaker 1: Then he says, can you save me a ticket? What? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: of course, of course. You know what, I should tell

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Speaker 1: my father to come so they can meet. Yes, that

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Speaker 1: would be great, both of your parents should come. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure my mom would be already told her she's working. Oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're great, she's going to be working great. And so

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Speaker 1: like I'm gonna be all up in the audience and

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Speaker 1: in y'all space and stuff. So we're gonna have a

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Speaker 1: good old time, absolutely, yes, okay, so reasonably shady moment

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Speaker 1: of the week. What you got you all Right? So

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Speaker 1: y'all know, I got this trainer named Tyrone. Will's up

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Speaker 1: thar Ron, who, by the way, has a crush on Robert.

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Speaker 1: That's the Hometel story. I'm not gonna I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: embarrass you, Tyrone, but yeah, anyway, so but he embarrassed me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So a couple of weeks back, I was talking about

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Speaker 1: a trainer at the gym called Timbo, right, and Timbo

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Speaker 1: and he was and I talked about that whole story. Well,

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Speaker 1: Timbo doesn't listen to this podcast, and actually that's why

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Speaker 1: I was talking about it, because I knew he would

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Speaker 1: never hear it. So what does Tyrone do. Tyrone sees

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Speaker 1: tim in the gym and says, Timbo, did you hear

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Speaker 1: That is hilarious. It's the worst, right because we think

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Speaker 1: hear us. But if you are in our living room, guys, right,

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Speaker 1: but if you're in the inner circle, you can't be

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Speaker 1: going to people and telling them that we're trashing them. Tyrone. Yes, Tyrone,

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Speaker 1: know the rules of the roads, sir, and you cross

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Speaker 1: the line, you're shady. Yeah, that's like like violating bro code. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you violated trainer women's a trainer trainee privilege. It's kind

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Speaker 1: of like, yes, you violated time violated. I still love

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Speaker 1: you though, but you violated Okay, what you got? That

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Speaker 1: is funny? Okay, So you know I have, um, I'm

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Speaker 1: putting some built in's in my office. Okay. By the way, guys,

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Speaker 1: Robin's house looks fantastic. Okay, it's fabulous. She's done all

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Speaker 1: these like different um decorations and all this interior design nonsense,

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Speaker 1: and I'm telling your business. Okay. So her she painted

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Speaker 1: the whole ambiance of the house. So I'm you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm about to buy some blacks, right, Okay, it's going down.

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Speaker 1: I'm about I'm about the black door it up. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we'll do it in an open area though, because it

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Speaker 1: will make your rooms dark. So like I know you

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Speaker 1: have like, um, a hallway where your girl's rooms are,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it down there. Well there's no door there.

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Speaker 1: their bedroom doors. Ok So just just be be careful

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Speaker 1: where you paint the Yeah. But but yes, every time

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Speaker 1: Dozelle and Carl come, they're like, oh that's different. Yes,

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Speaker 1: So we're working through. We're working through. So I'm doing

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Speaker 1: built in shelving cabinets in my office. So one day

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Speaker 1: an unfinished part of our basement. Right, so we have

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Speaker 1: an unfinished room where we have our weight equipment. Fortunately

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Speaker 1: he was in there at that time because the kids

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Speaker 1: us in the bathroom. He's in there, he's like, rap, rap,

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Speaker 1: why are the pipes dripping for no reason? It wasn't

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Speaker 1: So you know, we had to call the plumber and

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Speaker 1: built in's shot a nail into a pipe. Oh he's fired,

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Speaker 1: like my whole horrible Yah. Yeah, so you know I'm

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Speaker 1: the I'm the nice person. I was like, don't feel

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Speaker 1: Did he? So he came over. He had to cut

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Speaker 1: And then my plumbers actually came today and repaired the

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Speaker 1: hole in the pipe. But I mean that happens though,

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Speaker 1: and it's kind of like it's a kind of a lesson,

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Speaker 1: it was right right right. Yeah, So it's a good thing.

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Speaker 1: Whine was downstairs, what work? Yeah, thank god he's athletes.

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Speaker 1: But it's like it just tells you it's like always something,

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Speaker 1: don't have enough stuff to take care of and do

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Speaker 1: in life, and then I gotta deal with a leaky pipe,

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Speaker 1: right because and then get people coming back and delaying

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Speaker 1: my project even more. So, Okay, when do you think

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Speaker 1: what I'm so, there's a few things I'm waiting on

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Speaker 1: so I'll be getting that soon. And then my curtains,

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Speaker 1: like a good six months. No, it's so crazy because

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Speaker 1: I think about back to the timelines that like we're

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Speaker 1: should have been done by February. It was like that

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Speaker 1: will be finished by in February. Yeah, yeah, so whatever, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's coming, it's coming together. Yes. Patience is a virtue.

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Speaker 1: It is, it is, and you have to be patient,

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Speaker 1: whether you like it or not. Now everybody's gonna need

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Speaker 1: to be patient with me and these airports because I

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Speaker 1: know the mask man date is lifted, but does that

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Speaker 1: will have on a mask, especially on the plane in there.

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Speaker 1: Well you know what, though, I heard that the airport

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Speaker 1: plane because the planes, the planes have a uh, intense

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Speaker 1: I don't know. People were explaining it that the man

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Speaker 1: sitting next to me coughing, How is that I was filtered?

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Speaker 1: That's immediately that's a good point. Yes, that's a good point. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I don't like, like, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I know the mass mandate has been lifted for a

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Speaker 1: little bit, but like, I don't like when I see

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Speaker 1: the videos of like people shaming people wearing masks, or

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Speaker 1: like the flight attendants going around like take your mask off,

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Speaker 1: we're protecting ourselves not only against COVID, but now we're

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Speaker 1: protecting ourselves against the common cold and flu and all

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Speaker 1: I'm you know, knock on wood, Like I don't really

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Speaker 1: get very sick, but like, I don't remember the last

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Speaker 1: a time back in the day where there was not

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Speaker 1: a plane that I took that I didn't get off

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Speaker 1: feeling like like yeah, so yeah, I'm going back to

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Speaker 1: I'm staying with the masks. Yeah, and I'm gonna take

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Speaker 1: Then I'm putting it back on. Yeah, like no, I know,

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Speaker 1: but I definitely other places I have not been wearing

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Speaker 1: my mask. You haven't yours to the store and stuff. Oh,

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Speaker 1: sometimes when I go to a grocery store, I'll put

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Speaker 1: lethal weapons and they, you know, it's a law saying

420
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 1: that they can't hit people. But I wonder if since,

421
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,919
Speaker 1: like Mike has been retired for how long, does that

422
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,919
Speaker 1: still apply to him? I think so, I'm sure, do

423
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 1: you want to get hit by Mike? Well, he's hell no.

424
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: What Just look if Chris Rock got hit by Mike

425
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 1: Tyson would okay, listen, that would not be a slap, Okay,

426
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 1: that would be a full punch and Chris would still

427
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 1: be on the floor. But even if he gotta slapped

428
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 1: by Mike Tyson. He'd be on the floor like that

429
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 1: big old Paul. Not a Paul Paul, you got a

430
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 1: big old Paul. But but I am curious, so I

431
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:10,920
Speaker 1: need to, like, I feel like I need to follow

432
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: up on this story and see, like, is are the

433
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: police going to press charges? Because the man was not?

434
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 1: Probably not? Probably not, And and there's probably so many witnesses.

435
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a plane, so everybody's in it that

436
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 1: can say that this man needed to get punched in

437
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: the face. Yeah, yeah, I'm with that. Listen, I've worked

438
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 1: with some people that need to get punched in the face.

439
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 1: Moving on, Okay, so speaking of violence, there, somebody died.

440
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 1: Somebody died at a nightclub. No, no, no, okay, nobody died.

441
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 1: That was something happened. Okay, this this story is a

442
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 1: few weeks old, but we never talked about I realized

443
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 1: we've never talked about this. So there's a rapper from

444
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 1: Prince George's County, Maryland named Gunu. Okay, he's like a

445
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,959
Speaker 1: young guy, probably like twenty four ish, um, and he

446
00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 1: was murdered. He was shot in a supposed robbery in

447
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 1: PG County, Right, Gunu um had his homegoing celebration of

448
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: life at the club. He had his funeral at the

449
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 1: club at Bliss. You lot, No, at Bliss, people paid

450
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 1: forty dollars to celebrate Gunu's life. Gunu's real name is

451
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 1: Mark Hill Morrow. Okay, let's pause, right, Okay, just so

452
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: that the people know Bliss is a nightclub in the

453
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: DC area. Okay, That's where the conversation starts and stops,

454
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: right like, So, so we have been to Bliss, we

455
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 1: actually held our season two premiere party at and we

456
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,239
Speaker 1: actually know the owners of Bliss. So why were they

457
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: charging forty the door? I mean maybe to go to

458
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: the scholarship fund. I don't know the memorial fund. But

459
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 1: so so so he's literally standing up like on the

460
00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: stage holding a cell phone. He's dead, he's still okay

461
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: with sun glasses. I don't know. I don't know if

462
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: the sunglasses are regular glasses with glasses on. A crown

463
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 1: on his head and people are literally in the club

464
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: partying with a corpse. I lies you down. No, I

465
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 1: think have propped him. Oh, let me show you the

466
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: let me show you the immage. Can't let me for

467
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 1: the image. I need I need the image okay, and

468
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: everybody has paid for And the word on the curb

469
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: is that it got hot in there and face started

470
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 1: melting and his mouth came, mouth dropped open. Now we're

471
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 1: sorry to be talking about you. Oh my gosh. Okay,

472
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,199
Speaker 1: So wait a minute. I did, okay, Robin showing me

473
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 1: the picture. Now, I did see this picture, and I

474
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 1: didn't know what the hell it was, so I paid

475
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 1: I paid no attention to it. You didn't realize it

476
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 1: was a dead rapper in the club holding his cell

477
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: phone with like a rolex on his this. Let me

478
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: tell you all something. This is not not I feel

479
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 1: like you cannot do that to the dead right. So

480
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: of course the people, like people who saw this on

481
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: social media or whoever, they were like, oh, hell no,

482
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 1: his his mama wantn't want that. Why his mama let

483
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: that happen? Or you know how y'all do that. His

484
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 1: mama went with that. His mother went on the news,

485
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 1: the local news, and said, this is what my son

486
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 1: would have wanted. That's how he wanted to go out.

487
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: He wanted to celebrate his life, turning up having a party.

488
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,239
Speaker 1: I don't want people to be sad and crying. He

489
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 1: always wants people to be happy having fun. So she

490
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:40,159
Speaker 1: got the money from the door. I'm sure so. And

491
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: my thought was, like, you know, people are like thinking

492
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 1: his mother wouldn't have want that. Well, there's no way

493
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 1: a funeral home is going to release this man's body

494
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: to a club and prop it up without someone from

495
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: the family saying, yes, let's do this. That okay, that

496
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: is is that sacrilegious? That's a whole lot of stuff.

497
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: It probably is. I mean, y'all look up now. Yes,

498
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,399
Speaker 1: he's literally holding a cell phone with his with his

499
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: rolex and he has on a sweatshirt, a sweatshirt, a hoodie,

500
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: some jeans, some ripped up gene crown, and some glasses.

501
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 1: And everybody thought this Who thought this was a good idea?

502
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: His mama and the people to pay forty dollars to go?

503
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 1: They said it was packed and then it gets hot

504
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: and his and his mouth chopped over. So who embombed him? Okay,

505
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: because that funeral home, right, because they need to stitch it. Okay,

506
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 1: listen that funeral home. Listen, y'all will not get repeat

507
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 1: people coming in there because y'all can't even embalm me

508
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: the dead. No, I don't know if that's true. That

509
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: was just like, so I don't have a picture of

510
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: his mouth hanging open, but that's that's what they said.

511
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 1: I just that was like the most mind boding story. Okay,

512
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 1: we're never going back to Bliss. Bliss is over. They

513
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: have probably staged it, right, And of course so people

514
00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: were like mad and Bliss and so Bliss put out

515
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 1: a statement like we didn't know. They claimed they didn't know.

516
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: They didn't know what that the people who party were

517
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: bringing a dead body. And if you didn't know when

518
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 1: the dead body got there it was propped up, you

519
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 1: were informed because this is strange. Get out. Yes, And

520
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 1: there was literally like it looked like it was like

521
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: a security guard like standing right next to him because

522
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: people were rolling up on the dead body. This is

523
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: if I went to the club that night, I'm turning

524
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 1: around going home. I'm not feeling comfortable with this. And

525
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 1: paid forty dollars, You know, I wonder if I wonder

526
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 1: if the people who came who showed up and paid

527
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: forty dollars, if they thought they were just showing up

528
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: to a celebration, they probably did not know that the

529
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: body was being there there. When was the last time

530
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: you paid to get into a club. I haven't paid

531
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: to get into a club. It's never nineteen o two.

532
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: If I gotta pay to getting your damn club by coming,

533
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: what in the world? And then and then we got

534
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: to pay to see a dead body? She that's insane, insane,

535
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: And I mean the things people do. It's not the first,

536
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,239
Speaker 1: like I've seen story. I've I've seen stories of that

537
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: in like foreign countries like No, the South, Carli the South,

538
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 1: So that was not just all arriving, that was Carly

539
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: and so come for her. But I feel like I've

540
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: seen it in like the Dominican Republic or something like

541
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: the body is like chilling in the house and a

542
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: chair or something like. Literally, for real, listen, when I

543
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: when I die, I closed the casket. I don't even

544
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: want you looking at me. Put a beautiful picture of

545
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 1: and um you can just you know, cry or laugh

546
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: or whatever. Exactly, yes, exactly, yeah, please don't put me

547
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: in you know we're not doing that. Okay, So this

548
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: this new show on MTV called Help I'm in a

549
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 1: Secret relationship. Help, I'm in a secret relationship. Get out

550
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: what you're need help for you pet yourself in it?

551
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: Like what do you mean, right, And if you're go

552
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: on a show and say help, I'm in a secret,

553
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: it's not a secret anymore no longer, So just help.

554
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship with somebody I don't want to be, like,

555
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: what does it? What does that mean? That means you

556
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: a mistress? The family doesn't the family doesn't know. Oh,

557
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: that reminds me of a story I heard on the radio.

558
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: So this show is about so help I'm in the secret?

559
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 1: Relationship is about people in relationships with people that their

560
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: family is unaware of or like, so they have like

561
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: a whole But that's probably the best most of the

562
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 1: time because you don't want that commentary. But wait, So

563
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: this reminds me. I was listening to the radio in

564
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: the car one day, it was like about three months ago,

565
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: and this girl was on there and she was saying

566
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: how her boyfriend has lived in her parents basement for

567
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 1: like three months and they did not know what it's like.

568
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: He had like no job, nowhere to go, so he

569
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: literally was living in their basement and their parents did

570
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 1: not know because they never went down there. Right, Okay,

571
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 1: so she's sneaking him food, yes, and he won't flush

572
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: to a lot of parents at home. This is absurd.

573
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: What it's wrong with people? So just when did the

574
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 1: parents find out? I think they did eventually found that.

575
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: I mean this day. Yeah, I'm gonna need for him

576
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: to get a job. Isn't that crazy? That that that

577
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 1: is beyond crazy. I don't know how how much legs

578
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 1: this show has help. I'm in a secret relationship. Has

579
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: anybody got to watch this? MTV? What are y'all doing? Y'all,

580
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: y'all need some content. We'll happen to music videos? I know.

581
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 1: Isn't it crazy? When we were growing up, it was

582
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: like you return to MTV or b ET to watch

583
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: videos period period, nothing else, and then and then you

584
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: would say, oh okay TRL or UM one O six

585
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: and par like none of that. I don't understand it

586
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: because I do remember like both of those BT MTV

587
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: and then would h Yes, you would be in front

588
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: the TV and you'd be trying to get the dance

589
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: moves right yeah right? But how did VH one go

590
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: from music video like like soul you know, kind of

591
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: like they weren't like the bats or the mtvs. They

592
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 1: were like the more mellow soul music or whatever, to

593
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: freaking basketball watch and loving hip hop. Listen, they said,

594
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: we gotta change change gears? How to change? Like, how

595
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: does that make sense? It doesn't v H one, and

596
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: like it literally stands for like video what is the

597
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: v H I don't know, video hits one something like that.

598
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: You're like, how do you go from that to love

599
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: and hip hop? Mona Scott, that's how okay? And and

600
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: they took but there's no love and hip hop on

601
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: right now? Do you you want to know? Okay? Because

602
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: there's love and hip hop Atlanta, Miami, New York, l A.

603
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,239
Speaker 1: None of it is on right now? Why, I don't know,

604
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: but I need my ratchet back, pleased to give it

605
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: back to me. That's actually a good observation. Black black

606
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: about say black China Child, what's the what's the black ink?

607
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: Black ink is on right now? Yeah, but I don't

608
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: watch that, but they think it's the love and hip hop.

609
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm just else tuning in. So and then Basketball Watch

610
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: is coming back on? Are you gonna watch that now?

611
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,959
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna watch it. I'm I used to. I'm

612
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: gonna not watch this time because I don't know something

613
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: about Evelyn. You know, she's not gonna be on and

614
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: something about in all Emlyn and I mean, oh my God,

615
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: like I like all of that. Okay, yeah, so Evelyn's

616
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: not on. I think Shanny is gonna be on like

617
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: a little bit. Speaking of Shannie, she's engaged to a

618
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: nice little pastor. They look so cute together. Do you

619
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: have any advice for her? Oh? Wow, because she's going

620
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 1: to be a first lady Shanny. Then people in the

621
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: church is crazy. Okay, I'm here to tell you. Okay,

622
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: but you just focus on your husband and if an

623
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: old lady in the church feels the need to cut

624
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: you out, just take you and say, you know what,

625
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: God bless you, God bless you, right, Mr Johnson, God

626
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 1: God loves you, Mrs Johnson. Yeah. So now, I mean

627
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: I've seen like them on Instagram and stuff. They look

628
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: so super cute together and she seems happy. Oh and

629
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: we didn't talk about right, I mean, but Shaq really

630
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: is telling us like what we all already know. Yeah,

631
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 1: but I do appreciate the fact that that guy that

632
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: whoever she Kill was talking to was trying to insinuate

633
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 1: that they were both wrong in their marriage, therefore they

634
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: got divorced. She Kill was like, halla held up, let

635
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: me let me correct, Shanny did nothing wrong. Yeah, I'm

636
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: waiting for the Jamal Brian announcement. Shanny did nothing wrong

637
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 1: as a matter. I sent it to Jamal and I

638
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: was like, sound familiar, and he explained it like, she

639
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: took care to kids, she took care to house, she

640
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: took care of all the businesses, and I was out

641
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 1: here living a double life. Yeah, I appreciate that she killed. Oh, Neil,

642
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: that's why God is blessing you with all kinds of

643
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 1: business out here in these streets. All right, we have

644
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 1: just got to grow up. They have to grow Yeah,

645
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: grow up, and yeah we'll call it growing up. Okay,

646
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:42,879
Speaker 1: So Robin has eight sentences that we should all live

647
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 1: our lives by. So this is gonna be profound, y'all. Y'all,

648
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 1: you know, we talked about a whole lot of stuff,

649
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: a whole lot of nonsense, but we do try to,

650
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: you know, impart some type of inspirational words as well.

651
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 1: So I come across these posts on Instagram, am and

652
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 1: I'll save them, and I said, I'm going to share

653
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: this with the podcast listeners because I love you all.

654
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 1: So this is eight sentences that everyone should believe. Okay, Okay,

655
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: So you should believe. Okay. So I haven't heard any

656
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: of these sentences, but I'm here to tell you. If

657
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: something sounds crazy, I'm gonna let you know. Okay, I

658
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Okay, Um, you have to lose a few

659
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: people find yourself that I like that. I like that.

660
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: But are they u exclusive? You know what I mean? Like?

661
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 1: Can they be mutually exclusive? Like? Can you find yourself

662
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: without happen without having to lose people? Yeah? Um, according

663
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: to this post, no, you cannot. Okay, continue on. I

664
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 1: think I think it actually should read. You shouldn't be

665
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: afraid to lose a few people to find yourself, you

666
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: know what I mean? I got one for you. Okay, No, okay,

667
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: you do yours, okay before you forget Okay. So this

668
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: is my T. E. Jake's impressionation. Okay, because I've watched

669
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 1: this reel about fourteen times. Okay. So T. D. Jake said,

670
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna let fear rue rue your life, even

671
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: if you scared, even if you're trembling, even if you

672
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: um can't do it and you and you're terrified, do

673
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: it anyway, have the courage to do it because you

674
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 1: don't want to be in the old folks home being

675
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 1: in a bad band, and you didn't do it? Did

676
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 1: you really say me? Yes? Yes, And let me tell

677
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: you something. That thing shook me to the court. Yeah,

678
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: whatever it is I'm careful about. I was probably scared that.

679
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 1: I don't know anyway, But I mean I appreciate that,

680
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: like like fear will like debilitate you. Yes, and it

681
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: will stop you from from doing a lot of stuff

682
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: that you you you know, it can stop you from

683
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: leading a life that you never even imagine that you

684
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 1: could leave. Yes, And a lot of times the fears

685
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 1: in your head, so it's like you're you're stopping yourself

686
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: from doing something, But once you go ahead and do it,

687
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: you look back like what what was the skart of

688
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 1: that for? Exactly? And then you know you just never

689
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 1: want to have regrets. So do you want to let

690
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: fear prevent you from doing stuff that when you're an

691
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,799
Speaker 1: old folks home, you're like, man, I should have just

692
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 1: done that, I should have just done X, Y and Z.

693
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I'm out here doing it. Yes, yes,

694
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 1: all right, so back to my list. So you have

695
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: to lose a few people to find yourself, which I

696
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: think we should edit to say, don't be afraid of

697
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 1: losing a few people in order to find yourself. And

698
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: I think that you know that can apply to friendships, relationships,

699
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: you know, businesses, whatever, coworkers. Um. Sometimes people are holding

700
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,879
Speaker 1: you back um number two. Sometimes it's best to keep

701
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,439
Speaker 1: it private until you know it's permanent. Let me tell

702
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 1: you something, hunts need Hunt. It's very difficult for being

703
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,919
Speaker 1: robbing to keep things private because we're on this show,

704
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 1: Your Housewives of the Tommach and they are all in

705
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 1: our business. But I do agree with that. Yeah, yeah,

706
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 1: I agree. I mean whenever whatever, it is like in

707
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 1: good stuff and bad stuff. So I think about when

708
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: you're going through See it's hard because like when you're

709
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: going through struggles with your partner or with a friend

710
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: or whatever, and then you um, you can fide in

711
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 1: another person, right, and then you make up and you

712
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: resolve those issues, and then that other person is still

713
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 1: mad and they like, don't you remember where he did?

714
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 1: And so it's like sometimes it's like you really have

715
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: to be careful with what you're sharing with people because

716
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 1: sometimes they're going to hold hold it against you. And

717
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: then on the flip side, it's like you could think

718
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,919
Speaker 1: that you're about to close a business deal. How don't

719
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 1: you do you know how many people Because in the

720
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: world of reality TV, UM, reality TV production companies and

721
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: casting companies, they try to cast people left right up

722
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: down around. Do you know how many people I've heard

723
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: that have gone around telling all their friends and family

724
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 1: that they're going to be famous and they're gonna be

725
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 1: on reality TV because someone so talked to them and

726
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, and it doesn't happen, right, So then

727
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: you're left looking stupid, kind of stupid when people are like, Hey,

728
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 1: what whatever happened to that show? You said you're going

729
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,919
Speaker 1: to be one? Whatever happened to that? Because I mean

730
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 1: and that it's so funny because like I applied that

731
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 1: to my own experience with Potomac. Remember, I mean, could

732
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: tell you we want season three and I was like,

733
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 1: so we're on a show, right, Yes, We've been doing

734
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 1: this for years. What are you talking about? Like the

735
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: cameras at my door? I'm like, what y'all doing here?

736
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: So So anyway, yeah, I just think it's important. It's

737
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 1: it's always hard. It's like, just be careful with what

738
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 1: you share and who you share it with and how premature,

739
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: you share it and all that type of stuff. Okay, Well,

740
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: I gotta go back to my phone and I gotta

741
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: call coming in. Why doesn't iPhone like you can't hit

742
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:47,879
Speaker 1: decline when you're not like on your phone. Anyway, that's

743
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 1: a whole another subject. I can we can have our

744
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: iPhone rights later. Okay, number three, If you can attach,

745
00:39:54,400 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 1: you can detach. H So that that brings me to stories.

746
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,879
Speaker 1: So I was, um, what was years ago? And I

747
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 1: was I thought I was on a date. Okay, I was.

748
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,879
Speaker 1: I was. I was doing a little vak with this dude, right,

749
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: and I didn't really know when I was. He let's

750
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 1: say he had to be there for the week and

751
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 1: I was in town for a couple of days, and

752
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 1: I didn't really know when I was leaving, right because

753
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: I had just had stuff to do. And he was like,

754
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 1: just also, when when are you leaving? And I was like,

755
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 1: are you trying to get rid of me? Right? And

756
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 1: he said, no, I need to. I'm trying to figure

757
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 1: out when to disconnect. Oh, and that that also was

758
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: rude to me. I was like, what the hell does

759
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: that mean? But he I understood, like he just wanted

760
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:45,359
Speaker 1: to know, like when was the disconnection happening? Yeah, so

761
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 1: was that so disconnect from like being hospitable, or disconnect

762
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 1: from me getting out of his room, disconnect from us

763
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: being together? Really yeah, he just it was a very

764
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: strange way of him asking me to get the happy. Yes,

765
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 1: need to start packing? Yeah yeah, yeah, you know, like okay,

766
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,479
Speaker 1: you know what in fact, well and my flight leaves

767
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,399
Speaker 1: in ten minutes. But I think really it was because

768
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,240
Speaker 1: I never really had I didn't know when I was leaving,

769
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 1: so he you know, I guess he just needs to

770
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 1: know when I was leaving anyway, Yes, that that that

771
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess that's similar. But um yeah, like

772
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 1: if you can attach to something or someone, then you

773
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 1: have the ability to detach as well, so don't So

774
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 1: it's pretty much don't put all your eggs have have

775
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 1: them egg scrambletony all over the alright. Number four, social

776
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: media has made perfect look achievable, so now real has

777
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: become undesirable and that's so true. Yeah yeah, I mean

778
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,800
Speaker 1: I think honestly, I think even before social media, people

779
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: had issues with trying to achieve perfection. You know, whether

780
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: it's like passed on, passed down from their parents, you

781
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,800
Speaker 1: know how many people I know that have like parent issues,

782
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because their mother wanted them

783
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 1: to be skinny, or you know what, they wanted to

784
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: live up to their parents expectations and stuff. So so yeah,

785
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: I mean social media definitely. You know people on social

786
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: media they're not and I would say most most of

787
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: us are guilty of it. We're not going to post

788
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 1: the ugly pictures, but no, I don't. I don't want

789
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: y'all see that, right, Yeah, I mean, but you know,

790
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: it is like the filters and stuff, like, you know,

791
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: you have to be mindful that if you're posting a

792
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 1: picture and you look nothing like that, you don't post that,

793
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 1: right that. Yeah, that's an issue. Yeah, yeah, but yes,

794
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 1: we we would love to be back to realness because

795
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 1: because I do feel like if you look at what

796
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: people look like today with with or without filters and stuff,

797
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: versus what they look like in the eighties, you know

798
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 1: what I mean, people in the eighties were just more

799
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,799
Speaker 1: raw and more like now it's just like, I don't know,

800
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: we're so like overdone. I agreed, agreed, yes, yeah, And

801
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 1: I want to go back to having like real conversations

802
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 1: with people. Yes, yeah, I used to do that a lot. Yeah,

803
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: I agree. All right, let's see number five. Anything that

804
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 1: costs you your mental health is too expensive. Look elsewhere,

805
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 1: Like what give me an example. I mean anything that's

806
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: stressing you out to the point where you're like, you know,

807
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: you're feeling depressed or yeah, I mean ship. That can

808
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: be a whole lot of stuff. So it's pretty much

809
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: saying like there's nothing out here that's worth compromising and

810
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: you know, weakening your mental health, are right, So so yeah,

811
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 1: just keep that in mind if something is bothering you

812
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:37,399
Speaker 1: to the point where it's consuming you and you can't

813
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: think straight and you're depressed, and let it go. Agree

814
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 1: number six. If they don't know you personally, never take

815
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: it personally. Oh that's not god one's And that's good

816
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: for people that are in business. Of times, if you're

817
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 1: in business and something happens and you take it so personally,

818
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 1: it ain't personal. It is business. Yeah that's true, that's true,

819
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: but it's it's like important. It's like even if you

820
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 1: know someone like in passing, people still might not know

821
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 1: the real you. Like if you don't spend a lot

822
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 1: of time around someone, um, you know, like still don't

823
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 1: take that stuff personally and personal. Yeah, and I always

824
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 1: like flip it on a person. I'm like, well, that's

825
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 1: they issue, that's their insecurity, that's there, you know whatever,

826
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 1: their their mama drama that they're putting on you. Yes,

827
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: and if and I just want to put this out there.

828
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: If you want to reality television show and you're getting

829
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: a paycheck, it's business. That's very true. Yeah, just saying

830
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: very true. It's hard, it's a little it's yes, because

831
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 1: we are you know, friends, we want to be friends.

832
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: We want to nurture our friendship. Very true. It is

833
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:49,240
Speaker 1: definitely a fine line. Number seven. Never assumed that loud

834
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 1: is strong or quiet is weak. It's often the other

835
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: way around. Very true. I would I would agree with that. Yes,

836
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: my grandfather like barely spoke, but when he did, you listen,

837
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: you listen, and even when he was quiet, it was

838
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Speaker 1: like just his presence in the room spoke volume. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: And it's like you can just tell like, okay, you're

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Speaker 1: not you're not comfortable where you are you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like it's it's it's yeah, so never soon

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Speaker 1: all right, if you're happy alone, you'll be happier together.

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Speaker 1: So I guess it's saying, like two people, if you're

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Speaker 1: happy and content by yourself, by yourself, then in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: that that makes for a better relationship. Facts. Yes, and

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Speaker 1: the relations Just send them all, send him yep, So

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Speaker 1: that was it. Those were good. Yeah. I think people

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Speaker 1: can learn from all of those. I mean, something you

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Speaker 1: can speak to somebody. Yeah, And I think I think

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Speaker 1: that sometimes we just have to stop and like really

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Speaker 1: think about what's important and what's what's valued, what we're valuing,

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Speaker 1: and what we should like get rid of. Yeah, yeah, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: And I just like one of my I think people

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Speaker 1: issues that people in life. You know. So it's just

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Speaker 1: like if we can just let go of our desire

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Speaker 1: to be perfect, in our desire to be perceived as perfect,

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Speaker 1: so much will just you know, be better. Like you know,

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Speaker 1: everyone you're just afraid to fail or you don't want

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Speaker 1: to disappoint someone, or or you know, afraid you don't

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Speaker 1: want to be judged like so what Yeah, And I

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Speaker 1: don't even really And I tell this to my kids

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Speaker 1: because I'm raising three teenage daughters and so that whole

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Speaker 1: perfection thing is huge right now. So I always tell

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Speaker 1: them like, I don't even understand what perfect means, Like

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Speaker 1: what does that mean? Defines perfect? Right? Just be yourself

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Speaker 1: and that's the perfect whatever that is, flaws and all.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I think that that's what we're given to

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Speaker 1: the people. Yes, if you are, if you are something

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Speaker 1: called perfect, don't be perfect. No, that's not it. You

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Speaker 1: don't exist. Just be yourself, damn it. Figure out what

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Speaker 1: that is, figure out what makes you happy, what makes

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Speaker 1: you sad? Just be yourself? Yes, all right, that is

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