Speaker 1: Call It What It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington,
Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, Call.
Speaker 3: It Crew, and welcome to another episode of Call It.
Speaker 2: What It Is, What It Is? What it Is. Jessica Capshop.
Speaker 2: We're filming in the We're recording this at nighttime, and
Speaker 2: I think there's a vibe ooh yeah, just like a
Speaker 2: more chill like do I want a glass of wine?
Speaker 2: Maybe I do. I don't know, Like I'm just like, wow,
Speaker 2: welcome Call It Crew.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're just getting a little more, a little relaxed
Speaker 1: us a little yeah, a little more like a little
Speaker 1: more a softer voice.
Speaker 3: Yeah, get a little your DJ voice, yeah, my intimate voice.
Speaker 2: Oh oh you're intimate, Yeah, because you've got moves. Do
Speaker 2: see what sweater I'm wearing. I do need to talk about.
Speaker 1: This, because yes, we need to talk about this. Where
Speaker 1: did you go last week? That was very exciting?
Speaker 2: Okay, So by the time this comes out, I think
Speaker 2: she'll be in Canada and it's I think it's the
Speaker 2: last stop of the tour. But I my Gray's Anatomy
Speaker 2: schedule switched very last minute, super super super last minute.
Speaker 3: And I got to take Hayden. I mean it was
Speaker 3: so last minute that there was literally no flights left.
Speaker 1: Basically, wait, how did you find you you got the call?
Speaker 1: And then how did you feel inside?
Speaker 2: Well? I knew that we could potentially go on this Friday,
Speaker 2: and I was geeking out because first off, it's Taylor.
Speaker 2: Of course I want to go again, like I'm so excited,
Speaker 2: But also my kid, it's her first concert ever, and
Speaker 2: I think she was a little bit too little last
Speaker 2: year and she didn't know as many songs. Now she
Speaker 2: knew more songs.
Speaker 1: Oh, I saw the video footage. She knew all the words.
Speaker 1: You know, we always you always joke that my daughter
Speaker 1: Eve is really yours. Hayden might actually be Taylor's.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean she might, yeah, yeah, she was. Honestly,
Speaker 2: she's She's just a capsuaws. She was a full leo.
Speaker 2: She's not a leo, but it was like a full lea.
Speaker 2: It was her concert.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she was owning it in a way
Speaker 1: that was Leonine for sure, because.
Speaker 2: It was a world So of course I'm like, great,
Speaker 2: the schedule switched, we can go. We can make this.
Speaker 2: I get online. Every single flight is taken. We basically
Speaker 2: we flew cargo like we had Taylor toilet. Yeah, the
Speaker 2: Taylor fact.
Speaker 3: We flew into New Orleans. It was incredible.
Speaker 2: The crowd was so amazing, everybody that I met there,
Speaker 2: you know, because the crossover you know this, the crossover
Speaker 2: grades anatomy fans are is so amazing. And then the
Speaker 2: next day New Orleans was just full of the streets
Speaker 2: are just full of people singing, and it was just
Speaker 2: it was a whole it was a whole vibe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 3: I also flew.
Speaker 2: Because it was the only flight left. And this is
Speaker 2: gonna sound snoppy or not, because I think this is
Speaker 2: just like a this is just pop culture, right. I
Speaker 2: did fly for the first time Spirit Airlines home. Hmmm
Speaker 2: have you ever flown Spirit? Because their reputation, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: be honest, isn't isn't the best. I didn't know what to.
Speaker 1: There are some keywords that come up that I think
Speaker 1: you wouldn't want to come up when you're talking about
Speaker 1: air travel, like safety.
Speaker 2: I did wonder listen if you were gonna live well,
Speaker 2: I mean I did.
Speaker 3: I did google the safety record of Spirit.
Speaker 2: And this is not is not I'm not being a
Speaker 2: paid I'm not paid.
Speaker 1: Huh, just say this. We're gonna get you a Spirit
Speaker 1: deal after this.
Speaker 2: It has a good Yeah. Seriously, I hope my face
Speaker 2: is on the side of those planes. My first huge
Speaker 2: endorsement mean Spirit. I can see it. The plane was
Speaker 2: it's great. I heard that they I heard that the
Speaker 2: problem comes that they cancel flights all the time. But
Speaker 2: when I got on the plane, I did examine it.
Speaker 2: It had windows, had wheels and wings. So I was like, check,
Speaker 2: check check, there's a pilot check the only thing. And
Speaker 2: I was warned by so many people because I asked,
Speaker 2: like the crew on a graze not I even like,
Speaker 2: who's flown Spirit? And they were like godspeed. They're like,
Speaker 2: if you make it home, that's good.
Speaker 1: Do they have enough insurance on you?
Speaker 3: They do?
Speaker 2: The seats listen anything for Taylor? The seats are starlephione It. Well, no,
Speaker 2: they're kind of like that metal And I don't think
Speaker 2: they've invested in like a cozy, like a cozy, comfortable
Speaker 2: like cushion situation. It feels like they've just put like
Speaker 2: a pull over sweater over the metal.
Speaker 1: That's like like a lawn chair, like a launcher, like
Speaker 1: you're sitting in a lawn chair for a while.
Speaker 3: Listen, it got me homeside.
Speaker 1: Relax and enjoy your lawnchair exactly.
Speaker 3: And you know what, spirit, I don't know what all
Speaker 3: the hate is about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got you there safe, all in one piece.
Speaker 1: You got to see Taylor and then you got to
Speaker 1: come home.
Speaker 3: Listen anything for Taylor?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah yeah. And did you see any interesting
Speaker 1: people there?
Speaker 2: Was there?
Speaker 1: Anyone that you knew there? I think it's always so
Speaker 1: weird when you see people you know but in a
Speaker 1: different place.
Speaker 2: I don't like, I don't actually know them, but I
Speaker 2: there was Josh Hutchinson was there. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: Poppy would have had you didn't tell me that.
Speaker 3: Yes, Oh, Peter forever she would do.
Speaker 1: Oh really, Oh my gosh, when you see her next week,
Speaker 1: if you tell her what, you tell her that in person.
Speaker 1: Peter was there, She's gonna die.
Speaker 3: And he was there with his mom.
Speaker 2: And they need Jake BURRELLI who plays you know, Lee
Speaker 2: By Schmidt on Green's Not and so they were instantly
Speaker 2: like so cute, so friendly. Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds
Speaker 2: were there. I've never met them, you know, Blake, we
Speaker 2: know both of them, yep, and very sweet, so funny,
Speaker 2: and their daughter adorable. They were exchanging friendship bracelets and
Speaker 2: then so much.
Speaker 1: Love in the audiences. It's like, it's just insane.
Speaker 2: You know what. It was a good vibe everyone there.
Speaker 2: It's just you can't go wrong until I just lie.
Speaker 2: And then I expected and then it ended, and I
Speaker 2: was like, oh, this is the moment where someone's gonna
Speaker 2: grab me and be like it's time for you to
Speaker 2: meet Taylor's a capsule.
Speaker 3: And instead, do you know what actually happened? Like twenty
Speaker 3: minutes before the show we've been ended. They're like, some
Speaker 3: people are leaving now if you.
Speaker 2: Want to leave.
Speaker 4: I was like, the secret room is literally not happening,
Speaker 4: and in fact, and in fact, as I was leaving,
Speaker 4: right they take you through the back way and at
Speaker 4: one point the security guard turns to us like we're
Speaker 4: in like a war movie, right, like we're in saving
Speaker 4: Private Ryne. He goes stop, everyone pause, and I was like,
Speaker 4: oh my god, what's happening And he was like, we
Speaker 4: need to leave.
Speaker 3: Let Taylor leave.
Speaker 2: First she leaves and then you guys leave. So it
Speaker 2: wasn't just that I didn't get to go to the
Speaker 2: secret room. Is that I couldn't even be within one
Speaker 2: hundred feet of her, leaving in case we caught eyes.
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, this is like it was like
Speaker 2: a military operation.
Speaker 3: I couldn't even walk near her.
Speaker 2: So they didn't happen for me, Jessica, it did not
Speaker 2: happen for me.
Speaker 1: Oh there's always another time, is there. Yes, the world's
Speaker 1: full of possibilities. The world is full of possibilities. I
Speaker 1: deeply believe in hope. You know what, poppy delusion? You
Speaker 1: know what same thing I was. Poppy's been having a
Speaker 1: hard time falling asleep lately, And I actually, as soon
Speaker 1: as I fall asleep, actually before my head hits the pillow,
Speaker 1: I have no problems with that. And and she said
Speaker 1: so sweetly and so vulnerably, She was like, but Mom,
Speaker 1: what do you do if you can't fall asleep, to
Speaker 1: which I replied, doesn't happen. But I do remember a
Speaker 1: time when it didn't. And I said to her, when
Speaker 1: I used to not be able to fall asleep, I
Speaker 1: remember I would lay there with my eyes closed, and
Speaker 1: I would think about all the things that I wanted
Speaker 1: to happen, all the things that I was hopeful for,
Speaker 1: all the things that I was excited for and I
Speaker 1: would just and I would fall asleep while thinking about
Speaker 1: all the things that I wanted and all that stuff.
Speaker 1: And I actually I remember it so clearly, And she
Speaker 1: did it last night and she said it actually worked
Speaker 1: for her too.
Speaker 3: That's cute.
Speaker 2: That's a little manifestation. So I'm gonna lie there tonight
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna imagine that no one's like cool, you know,
Speaker 2: and just that I'm actually getting escorted into the room.
Speaker 3: It was so jarring, it was so stressful.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, can you by the way, can you
Speaker 1: imagine all the things that like that they don't talk
Speaker 1: about that they happened to her from.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there are.
Speaker 1: Some fucking crazy people out there.
Speaker 3: No, it's true.
Speaker 1: I mean they may be crazy with love, but it's
Speaker 1: still crazy.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I can't. I can't imagine that kind of intensity.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot. That's a lot of Oh. I
Speaker 1: love that you went. I'm so glad, I know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what are we going to talk about today?
Speaker 2: I'm really excited to talk about this because I feel
Speaker 2: like everybody's experience is really different and I actually don't
Speaker 2: know the story this this these stories that belong to you,
Speaker 2: and you don't know the ones that belonged to me.
Speaker 2: We're talking about moving in with a partner.
Speaker 1: M yeah, I don't. We never talked about this. We
Speaker 1: have never. It's such a far distant path.
Speaker 2: It's such a crawling back there, multiple multi dick what eight? Okay,
Speaker 2: So I need to know what age were you when
Speaker 2: you first moved in with a boyfriend, because I'm assuming
Speaker 2: Christopher was not the first person.
Speaker 1: I thought about this a lot because obviously we're talking
Speaker 1: about this. You know, I had a lot of mini
Speaker 1: move ins.
Speaker 2: What's a mini move in?
Speaker 1: I feel like it's almost the thing you do when
Speaker 1: it was like it was the non committal move in.
Speaker 2: Did you have your own place? The other person kept
Speaker 2: a place?
Speaker 1: Oh no, that doesn't count, jesss but like a room,
Speaker 1: like they make a room and like they had a
Speaker 1: roommate and it was just like but none of their
Speaker 1: stuff was in it. No, that doesn't count.
Speaker 2: I don't think that counts.
Speaker 3: I think we've got a cat. I think I think the.
Speaker 1: Movie Moving Day boxes.
Speaker 2: Yes, there's no I mean the quote unquote is there's
Speaker 2: no escape plan, right right right right right with that,
Speaker 2: there's an escape plan.
Speaker 3: M m m m hmm.
Speaker 1: I really, I really only prefer escape plan in my youth.
Speaker 2: I know, by the way, everyone in their twenties could
Speaker 2: do with an escape plan.
Speaker 1: Where's the hatch? For real? I do anything, I need
Speaker 1: to know where the hatches for Yeah?
Speaker 2: Sure, Unfortunately, what about you? Wait now I'm wondering, like,
Speaker 2: hang on, hang on? Is Christopher the first person then
Speaker 2: that I moved in with with no escape plan?
Speaker 1: With no escape yeah?
Speaker 4: Wow?
Speaker 3: How old were you?
Speaker 1: You were?
Speaker 2: Howled to.
Speaker 4: Six?
Speaker 3: So not engaged though?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: And no, we were not engaged. And I remember having
Speaker 1: like a two second no. My friends would probably call
Speaker 1: me a liar back then. I'm sure I thought about it.
Speaker 1: I don't remember thinking about it a lot. I don't
Speaker 1: remember it being like, oh, I have to be engaged
Speaker 1: in order to move in. Yeah, but it felt very
Speaker 1: much like that's where it was going. Like it didn't
Speaker 1: feel like maybe it felt like, yeah, we're gonna get me.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I do have to have a lot of friends, or
Speaker 2: had a lot of friends in my twenties who kind
Speaker 2: of threw that around, like I have to be engaged
Speaker 2: to move in. Yeah, and those girls were in in
Speaker 2: a week, do you know what I mean? Like it's
Speaker 2: like they went from the bar in an uber to
Speaker 2: the in a U haul.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, you.
Speaker 2: Know, and that didn't follow through.
Speaker 1: But I was. I think there's there's a very specific
Speaker 1: reason why christopher'sly person that I lived with because I
Speaker 1: was not. I mean, now that you're telling me my
Speaker 1: movements don't count, that was my move, the mini move in.
Speaker 1: So it's like I found I could definitely feel like
Speaker 1: I had lived with people, but I guess I wasn't really.
Speaker 2: I think the problem in Los Angeles, and this is
Speaker 2: this is hard here is if you're not living together,
Speaker 2: but you're spending all the time together, you're spending so
Speaker 2: much time in your car, like you're you're lugging your
Speaker 2: shit back and forth. You got the you know, you
Speaker 2: got the Duffel bag, and it just becomes an inconvenience
Speaker 2: as opposed to, wow, this is this is it for me,
Speaker 2: you know, like this is.
Speaker 3: It's more, well, at least for me.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm tired of like living out of
Speaker 2: a bag and like, oh crap, I forgot my toothbrush.
Speaker 2: Like I was just done.
Speaker 1: M hmm. I moved.
Speaker 2: The first boy I moved in with was my high
Speaker 2: school sweetheart, that was rough. Whoa, yes, wait, so how
Speaker 2: old were you a really young twenty one, twenty two?
Speaker 3: Wow? And we would just we would just you know.
Speaker 1: Did you do it because you really wanted to live together?
Speaker 1: Because it was more convenient, money, all of it.
Speaker 2: I think we had been together for a while, but
Speaker 2: like when you were in high school and you've been
Speaker 2: with somebody, you're not like, you don't really know the deal, right,
Speaker 2: and then you jump into living with them and you're like, wow,
Speaker 2: that we are very different people, and so it didn't
Speaker 2: last very long.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because people are in your stuff and sorry, when
Speaker 1: you're that age, like, I don't think now, I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm just not. I don't know. I just I'm like
Speaker 1: a like, I like the boundaries. I like to like
Speaker 1: keep some mystery. But I think then you would definitely
Speaker 1: be sneaky sneaking into their stuff and like what did
Speaker 1: they have here when they weren't there? No?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah yeah yeah, yeah for sure.
Speaker 1: And I remember having a boyfriend sneaky sneak into my
Speaker 1: stuff and like coming home and asking me about something
Speaker 1: that was clearly not out and being like.
Speaker 2: Uh uh nope, yeah, you can't help yourself when you're
Speaker 2: twenty one. You can't help can't help yourself.
Speaker 1: I can do it to you, you can't do it to me. No,
Speaker 1: for sure.
Speaker 2: I did have girlfriends also that were like very horrified,
Speaker 2: and I hate this and I think it's so gross.
Speaker 3: This drives me crazy.
Speaker 2: Like the boys they move in with and they just
Speaker 2: don't care and they're like whooping with the bathroom door
Speaker 2: open and talk yes, like wait, who's doing part? Like
Speaker 2: the boyfriends, it is like yes, and it's like it
Speaker 2: just kills it kills the sex drive, yes, the whole thing,
Speaker 2: like you're doing that.
Speaker 1: I'm done.
Speaker 3: I couldn't.
Speaker 2: But there are people that are that think that's fine,
Speaker 2: like bathroom door open.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, yes, no, yes, they exist out there, yes,
Speaker 3: these sick individuals.
Speaker 1: I don't want that now, I mean I.
Speaker 2: Know, no, you never want that.
Speaker 1: I was thinking about this the other day because now
Speaker 1: the kids are so far out of diapers. I almost
Speaker 1: can't even put myself back in the seat of like
Speaker 1: will Lingley, being in such close proximity to human poop,
Speaker 1: like you would get like you know, like when you're
Speaker 1: changing a diaper, like sometimes you get on your hands
Speaker 1: and like that didn't gross you out. You were just
Speaker 1: like it's just, you know, just changing a diaper. But
Speaker 1: if anyone put their poop on your hand in any
Speaker 1: other situation, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not. You're not excited about that. No, no
Speaker 2: one's no one's looking forward to that.
Speaker 1: I'm on the floor and you should get someone to
Speaker 1: help me if if I had stranger poop on my hand.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, do you remember when you do? You remember
Speaker 2: when you were like giving birth? Shandra Wilson was the
Speaker 2: person that told me this. She was the first person
Speaker 2: to ever tell me that, like some people poop when
Speaker 2: they get birth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, making hard and being like sorre what.
Speaker 2: And just wondering how I could prevent that from happening,
Speaker 2: like you know, and how like I could keep the
Speaker 2: magic with Matt if that happened, Like, how can you
Speaker 2: turn that into a flirty moment?
Speaker 1: Like oops?
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like, there's there's nothing you can do, and you're in
Speaker 2: so much pain that I don't give a shit about
Speaker 2: the ship.
Speaker 1: You're not and you're just gonna rely on a really swift.
Speaker 2: Swimmers nurse to just get that out of there so
Speaker 2: your sex life continues.
Speaker 1: Okay, we digress.
Speaker 2: We digress.
Speaker 1: I don't want anyone pooping or farting or no, do
Speaker 1: anything on the toilet really with the door open.
Speaker 2: I do think there's potential when people move into that
Speaker 2: they kind of just like the body functions are like
Speaker 2: they've been let loose right, like they.
Speaker 3: Are farting, they're burping in front of each other.
Speaker 1: Well, because sometimes they fart in their sleep.
Speaker 3: I mean that's hard. I'm talking about like a like
Speaker 3: I'm talking about a fart that's that's on purpose. Do
Speaker 3: you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like you could hold it, you're choosing to let it rip,
Speaker 2: And that to me, do you know what? I'm gonna
Speaker 2: be honest, That to me tells me I don't know
Speaker 2: if you really love me. I just want you to know.
Speaker 1: Then, for as long as you and I have known
Speaker 1: each other, you don't know this about me.
Speaker 2: I cannot so laughing when you talk hearts? Is there
Speaker 2: something I don't know about you?
Speaker 3: And the fart.
Speaker 1: Funniest thing in the whole world? Like I can't sell.
Speaker 2: No on the subject of it.
Speaker 1: They're so uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: That's why listen, this is part of moving in.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you.
Speaker 2: Because people conceal the fart situation when you're not living
Speaker 2: together and then you moved in and then you realize
Speaker 2: you're actually kind of a disgusting human being and now
Speaker 2: I can't have sex with you anymore.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's yeah, it's a heart breaker.
Speaker 2: And heartbreaker, oh my god.
Speaker 3: Okay, So.
Speaker 2: The other thing is, you know, I just I didn't
Speaker 2: need a man.
Speaker 1: I can do this.
Speaker 2: We're gonna get back on track, you know, Okay, aside
Speaker 2: from the farting and the and the whole, you know,
Speaker 2: the pooping with the door open, I'm just I have
Speaker 2: to say what it is. Okay, people's esthetic you can
Speaker 2: bump into you've moved in and they're like, no, the
Speaker 2: good Fellaw's poster has to be above the bed, and
Speaker 2: you're like.
Speaker 1: You're like, no, god, yeah, yeah, we yeah, we didn't
Speaker 1: run into a ton of that.
Speaker 2: No, Christopher is a very chic man. Christopher is not
Speaker 2: a good Fellaw's poster. Oh he's not above the bed.
Speaker 1: No. No.
Speaker 2: I had an ex that was a little Oh really
Speaker 2: he was wonderful, very sweet. But you know, our aesthetic
Speaker 2: was a little bit different. You know. It was very
Speaker 2: college still in our like mid twenties, which is fine
Speaker 2: because we couldn't afford anything, but you can still like
Speaker 2: make it nice your thoughts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's the affording thing because like you know,
Speaker 1: you're growing like you're when you're in your twenties. You're
Speaker 1: just you don't have any money. I don't, and you
Speaker 1: don't judge anyone for not having money. Like you're all
Speaker 1: in the same place. You're all like starting out and
Speaker 1: figuring it out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it doesn't cost anything to take the poster down, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying. No, no, no, no no.
Speaker 2: And home goods you can get like a cute little something.
Speaker 2: You can get a little you know, picture frame, situation
Speaker 2: on the wall. There are ways to do it.
Speaker 3: When I was completely broke, I made places really cute.
Speaker 1: No, I know, which is why you know what that
Speaker 1: leads into. I had a boyfriend who we started hanging
Speaker 1: out more, and I was over at his place a
Speaker 1: little bit more and I went into the bathroom and
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, these things can happen. The handles had
Speaker 1: like the silver or the stainless steel had like corrupt corroded,
Speaker 1: and so they had like the enamel on the top
Speaker 1: of it that said like hot and cold had come off.
Speaker 1: So they were kind of like whatever result whatever. But
Speaker 1: he had got out a sharp eat and on the
Speaker 1: tile next to the tourney things written an H next
Speaker 1: to the hot one and at C next to the
Speaker 1: cold one, which, by the way, usually it's universal which
Speaker 1: side they're on. And I just thought, you know what
Speaker 1: that feels.
Speaker 3: Did you feel?
Speaker 1: Did it?
Speaker 2: Did it give you a little bit of an eck?
Speaker 1: It was, yes, it was an eck. It was It
Speaker 1: feels cology, it was, it felt collogy, and it felt
Speaker 1: a little bit like listen, I like a trip to
Speaker 1: home Depot, and I love at home depot with a
Speaker 1: task at hand, and like going in there and finding
Speaker 1: the aisle where I'm going to get the thing that's
Speaker 1: going to solve my problem. And it's usually not that expensive.
Speaker 1: Oh you're talking, you know what, We'll fix that. Let's
Speaker 1: get you an H and a C. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I just think that. Listen if I when I was
Speaker 2: broke the H and the C, if they I'm not,
Speaker 2: I'm no, no, no not. I'm not doing a sharpie. But
Speaker 2: I'm not bothering to go to home depot. I'm like,
Speaker 2: it is what it is. I rent this. Well, he
Speaker 2: bothered to put the h and the C in the
Speaker 2: sharpie because that is okay, I'm not defending it, but
Speaker 2: it doesn't take anything to do it, but to go
Speaker 2: to home depot, like I wouldn't know where, like how
Speaker 2: do you get the thing on the thing in the
Speaker 2: in the sync? You know, But I wouldn't do the sharpie.
Speaker 2: I'd just be like, that's life, Like figure it out.
Speaker 2: It's like a little surprise. Is it hot or cold?
Speaker 3: Dealer's Choice Dealers Joys?
Speaker 1: When you and Matt moved in? Did you did it?
Speaker 1: Just like was it all just magic?
Speaker 2: And you know when we moved in, we had we
Speaker 2: had been dating for a little over a year, but
Speaker 2: we've been friends for a long time and my lease
Speaker 2: was up with my female roommate and I.
Speaker 3: It was just time.
Speaker 2: And so there was actually a little period of time,
Speaker 2: maybe three months before his lease was done, where we
Speaker 2: could go find something together, and so I moved into
Speaker 2: his one bedroom that he was renting. It was small,
Speaker 2: we had gus gus and I swear my memories there
Speaker 2: were like some of my favorite memories. It was just
Speaker 2: so it was just so cute and cozy and I
Speaker 2: loved it and we would go get beer and make
Speaker 2: you know whatever, dinner and just sit and watch, you know.
Speaker 3: Whatever it was. I love those days.
Speaker 2: And then but but Matt and I have very similar styles,
Speaker 2: like you know, for just living and what we think
Speaker 2: is not disgusting and is disgusting. And then even like
Speaker 2: our aesthetic is like very similar. But I think that's
Speaker 2: how you find the person. Yeah, yeah, and you develop
Speaker 2: you develop together.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you grow together for sure.
Speaker 1: Have you heard of this thing? I mean it kind
Speaker 1: of it kind of folds into our conversation. Have you
Speaker 1: heard of this thing called cuffing season?
Speaker 2: What is that?
Speaker 1: So it's now it's cuffing season?
Speaker 3: Coffing Is it where you move in together for like
Speaker 3: the holidays?
Speaker 1: It's basically like in the in the past couple weeks,
Speaker 1: like people have their fun in the summer, and then
Speaker 1: September rolls around and they're like, oh wait, who of
Speaker 1: the people that I'm seeing do I actually really like?
Speaker 1: And then you get it down to like a couple
Speaker 1: of finalists if there's multiples, and then by like October
Speaker 1: definitely November, you're you're you're you're.
Speaker 2: Picking the likely the the lucky person, candidate is the candidate.
Speaker 1: Yes, you're put you're picking your finalist and you're and
Speaker 1: you're basically you're giving that rose over because you're like, Hey,
Speaker 1: we're gonna we're gonna get cuffed, because you're gonna winter
Speaker 1: together in places like you hybernate together. Yeah, you're going
Speaker 1: to be like, oh, you're my person that I meet
Speaker 1: for like that cozy dinner. You're the person that's coming
Speaker 1: over and we're making the cozy dinner and watching the movie.
Speaker 1: And then I guess, I mean, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: wasn't single during cuffing season, but lots of people talk
Speaker 1: about it now. I think then are right around, like
Speaker 1: a little cocoon, you emerge from your chrystalis. Yeah, probably
Speaker 1: in the springtime, and then you've sort of at that
Speaker 1: point decided whether or not you're gonna be with that
Speaker 1: person or not. But I'm guessing there's a move in,
Speaker 1: probably during the like that, or at least like a
Speaker 1: mini move in, a capsure on mini move in.
Speaker 2: I mean, this is where I'm thinking also that there
Speaker 2: needs to be a version of renting that is just
Speaker 2: the cuffing rent, you.
Speaker 3: Know what I mean, Like there should be because the.
Speaker 2: Problem is you're stuck in a year or two year
Speaker 2: usually I know, and what happens if it goes wrong?
Speaker 2: Where do you go? A winter cuff that you can
Speaker 2: just you understand what it is. And so either you
Speaker 2: come out of it and you're like, let's continue. This
Speaker 2: is a this is a temporary lease. It's a temporary hibernation. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: we're going to try this out. It's a limited term contract.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of like actors on television shows. You're
Speaker 1: hired by season.
Speaker 2: You're hired by season.
Speaker 1: Yeah, am I going to renew your contract? I don't know.
Speaker 2: No, you don't know. If you're on the bubble, maybe
Speaker 2: you know, well, if you're farting, you know where it's
Speaker 2: probably gonna go. It's a cancelation.
Speaker 1: It's a cancelation. It is a bye, thank you for
Speaker 1: your service.
Speaker 2: It's yeah, you're not even getting moved time slots. You're
Speaker 2: not moving from a Sunday to or whatever. No, you're
Speaker 2: it's done. No, it was gonna be a whole fifteen
Speaker 2: episode season and now it's two. No.
Speaker 1: But yeah, maybe it's just a promo.
Speaker 2: It's it never makes it to air.
Speaker 1: I think we should probably, I mean, I gotta tell you,
Speaker 1: I really love these submissions we got some good ones.
Speaker 1: We always do. I really I can't believe how I mean. Also,
Speaker 1: by the way, I see you all, and I really
Speaker 1: love your sense of humor.
Speaker 2: They're funny.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, there's no, there's no one takes themselves too seriously,
Speaker 1: even the ones that are like maybe yeah, and.
Speaker 2: I have to say, Justin and I we are obviously
Speaker 2: we text each other all the time, but we also
Speaker 2: text about you guys. We're like, dude, Amanda so fucking funny. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: y she is funny. I love that, you know, so
Speaker 2: we we you guys really are part of our friendship circle.
Speaker 1: And you know, someone came up to me, someone I
Speaker 1: did not know, came up to me on this last
Speaker 1: Friday and said, I really want to write in, but
Speaker 1: I just I know that you you guys probably don't
Speaker 1: read them. And I was like, whoo woo woo woo
Speaker 1: woo woo woo woo. Yes we do, Yes we do,
Speaker 1: so you got please please please please don't hold back.
Speaker 3: Yes we do.
Speaker 2: We We have access to the account, you guys, and
Speaker 2: we we get in there. Yeah, yep, all right, Anonymous wrote,
Speaker 2: I moved in way too quickly with my now boyfriend.
Speaker 2: The first six months. I could only go number two
Speaker 2: when he was at work. It was awful.
Speaker 3: I feel this. I do.
Speaker 2: I understand this because I'm a girl that like, I
Speaker 2: don't need you to ever know that that even happens.
Speaker 2: Not that I think that I should feel this way
Speaker 2: because this is normal bodily functions.
Speaker 3: But I've never pooped, is what I.
Speaker 1: Need you to believe, nor have I actually don't even
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's stressful. Those are the things that are a
Speaker 2: little bit stressful.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I know there's a lot of people who also,
Speaker 1: but there's also a lot of people who can't go
Speaker 1: when they're not at home, right, Like, when they're at work,
Speaker 1: they're not going. So this was like, your home is
Speaker 1: the one place you're meant to feel totally free to
Speaker 1: do that. This interrupted that for her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry in situation, I know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think a lot of there's a lot of
Speaker 2: people listening to this that are like, yep.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe you have a sign and you're like, hey,
Speaker 1: can you go take the dog for a walk? I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go. Yeah, yeah, Okay. Angela wrote in and she said,
Speaker 1: I love my husband, but it's not easy living with someone.
Speaker 1: I wish society didn't think it was weird or frowned
Speaker 1: upon separate living situations as a married couple. Sometimes I
Speaker 1: want to drink champagne and my PGS until five PM,
Speaker 1: maybe not shower and just binge eleven hours of TV.
Speaker 1: And not that I can't do that, but it's just
Speaker 1: different when SELS live there. Maybe I want to leave
Speaker 1: my dirty dish and to sink for a few hours
Speaker 1: while I do something else, but I have to think
Speaker 1: of my husband, who's a clean freak. I probably sound selfish,
Speaker 1: but it's just so hard for me. I don't think
Speaker 1: that sounds selfish.
Speaker 2: I love this day she has planning.
Speaker 1: I know I love this day also. I mean I
Speaker 1: have never had champagne in my PGS until five pm,
Speaker 1: and now I'm considering that a loss.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is a loss.
Speaker 1: I think.
Speaker 3: I think you gotta okay, So in.
Speaker 2: This situation, I almost feel like you got to advocate
Speaker 2: for yourself. So Matt is it is very much cleaner
Speaker 2: than I am. I can leave dirty dishes in the
Speaker 2: sink for some time, not like days, but like I
Speaker 2: can leave. You know, they don't bother me. He's someone
Speaker 2: that's like chiast to clean it up. But I think
Speaker 2: that you have a conversation where you're like, listen, I'm
Speaker 2: not going to leave them forever. However, this is just
Speaker 2: my vibe. I know what your vibe is. But I
Speaker 2: think there's a little conversation to be had there. Jessica,
Speaker 2: you can you leave dirty dishes in the sink?
Speaker 1: Yeah? And Christopher cannot cannot?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I guess you gotta do a little contracting
Speaker 1: around that. Yeah, you're gonna be like, how what are
Speaker 1: your thoughts on this? Like what's our what's our minimum?
Speaker 1: Okay here? Yeah? Yeah, I mean I think that I
Speaker 1: used to be more like the dishes have to get done,
Speaker 1: But I do think there's.
Speaker 2: Like there's just a little balance I'm in life.
Speaker 1: There little upgrades as you mature and sometimes, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: what's what's more important in this moment? Like me being,
Speaker 1: you know, right there next to that little chickadee while
Speaker 1: she's doing her homework and like being there or meaning
Speaker 1: with my back to her cleaning the dish. Yeah, not
Speaker 1: being a I don't know. And by the way, these
Speaker 1: are things you'd call audibles on every single day of
Speaker 1: your life. So sometimes you're washing the dish and sometimes
Speaker 1: you're sitting next to the chickadee. But I'm much easier.
Speaker 1: I'm much better at leaving it than I used to be.
Speaker 2: I think. I think in this situation, you declare a
Speaker 2: declaration of independence, and do you say, today, this is
Speaker 2: what I need. I need eleven hours in bed. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna drink champagne and I'm gonna leave the dishes. And
Speaker 2: that's that's what I need today. That's gonna be my
Speaker 2: self care and that's gonna make me feel good. And
Speaker 2: I'm just letting you know because I feel like if
Speaker 2: you give them the heads up, then it is what
Speaker 2: it is. Yeah, I agree, And maybe he needs a
Speaker 2: day where he's like, you know what, I need a.
Speaker 3: Day to do this, okay.
Speaker 2: Lucy said we had been together for one year and
Speaker 2: decided it was time to move in together. We lasted
Speaker 2: one week and I've never hated someone more in my life.
Speaker 2: After that, every single thing he did drove me insane.
Speaker 2: It says where a mini move in does work, because
Speaker 2: if you know, in a week, if you got to
Speaker 2: spend some nights there, nights and days.
Speaker 1: She was testing the water, and you know what she
Speaker 1: found out those waters were not for her.
Speaker 2: But she wasn't testing the water. She was in the boat.
Speaker 3: Wait what you know I mean, yeah, yeah, she'd done
Speaker 3: the move.
Speaker 2: Oh I'm moved in, I'm saying, and then she hated
Speaker 2: him after a week. I'm saying, you do a duffel bag.
Speaker 2: You gotta do a duffel bag. Yeah, kind of mini
Speaker 2: move in like Jessica did. And then because that way
Speaker 2: you're not stuck in a lease. And then you know
Speaker 2: it's a complicated situation. All right, next that would be very, very.
Speaker 1: Red I missed that part, Sorry, okay. Mary Anne wrote
Speaker 1: in she said, I don't think we talk enough about
Speaker 1: the grief we experience as women when we get married,
Speaker 1: move in and have kids, grieving our old life, even
Speaker 1: though we were excited for the next chapter, mostly because
Speaker 1: I think people will look at you like you're on
Speaker 1: grateful or something. I always joke with my single girlfriends
Speaker 1: who live alone and tell them to cherish this time
Speaker 1: in their lives, because that is the time of my
Speaker 1: life that I look back on and smile. Not to
Speaker 1: say I don't adore my husband and kids in the
Speaker 1: life we've built, but being a single woman, not having
Speaker 1: to answer to anyone or be responsible for anyone. Having
Speaker 1: silence in my own home, being able to watch, do
Speaker 1: and say whatever I want when I want. It was
Speaker 1: a time in my life that was simple and I
Speaker 1: really loved it. Does this make sense what I'm saying? Anyways?
Speaker 1: I love the pod and thanks for always keeping it real.
Speaker 1: Thank you for keeping it real? Yeah? Do you know this? This,
Speaker 1: this makes me think of the two things can be true.
Speaker 1: You can miss that part of your life and really
Speaker 1: cherish it, and you can also be very very happy
Speaker 1: for what you have and how much it brings you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I missed. You know what I really miss about
Speaker 2: that time?
Speaker 3: I miss being sick?
Speaker 2: Right, you feel sick and you're like, I'm just gonna
Speaker 2: I can take care of myself instead of me like
Speaker 2: snotting everywhere and my kids being like can I get
Speaker 2: a snack? Like I miss like the or like meaning
Speaker 2: to sleep in.
Speaker 1: I've been around you when you were sick, though, I
Speaker 1: think you would like for other people to also take
Speaker 1: care of you. You would like to take care of
Speaker 1: yourself and be taken care of you. Just don't't have
Speaker 1: to take care of anyone else. Yeah, No, I know
Speaker 1: you're right. No, sorry, I was just pretty.
Speaker 2: Yeah that yeah, of course not too everyone taking care
Speaker 2: of me, but the point is me not taking care
Speaker 2: of anybody else.
Speaker 1: That's right. Sorry, sorry, sorry, carry on, carry on, get.
Speaker 3: With the program.
Speaker 2: So I understand that, but I think this, I think
Speaker 2: this feeling is really common with everybody. Yeah, I agree,
Speaker 2: and I do think. I don't think that there should
Speaker 2: be any guilt with that. I think exactly what you said.
Speaker 2: It's just you know, that means that you're at that
Speaker 2: part of your life too. Was fantastic, Yeah, a great
Speaker 2: part of your life.
Speaker 1: True. I always say, I say, I hope that I'll
Speaker 1: be there to say that for my girls, and I
Speaker 1: say it for anyone else who you know will listen
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Also, you know what I think, you know, I think
Speaker 2: helps with this girl trips. I think you make a
Speaker 2: priority to take a t with your girlfriends like we
Speaker 2: are next week?
Speaker 1: What okay? Okay?
Speaker 2: Dawn says typical lesbian story. I basically went home with
Speaker 2: my partner the second night we met each other and
Speaker 2: never left.
Speaker 3: She had just.
Speaker 2: Gotten out of a four year relationship and I had
Speaker 2: never had a serious girlfriend before. Everyone thought it was
Speaker 2: a disaster waiting to happen and we've been together for
Speaker 2: six years on November fifteenth. Oh well, congratulations.
Speaker 1: That's not the typical lesbian story. That's a typical that's
Speaker 1: a success story.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not a mini move in. There's no duffel bag.
Speaker 1: That's a full box, an extra large move in.
Speaker 2: That's a U haul. See, that's what you hope for.
Speaker 2: And sometimes I think it just does it. Literally, it
Speaker 2: just clicks. Yeah, and it doesn't feel like and I think.
Speaker 1: There has so much to do. Okay, let's I mean,
Speaker 1: I think that the building block of a great move
Speaker 1: in story is comparedive ability, right, Like if you're a combatible,
Speaker 1: if you're a compatible couple, then your chances of moving
Speaker 1: success are going to be high.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you were like this rocky.
Speaker 1: Romance right where there's like sticks, fireworks and sex and
Speaker 1: all the things whatever. Like you've got no guarantee about no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: a successful movement story. No, there's no guarantee. It's it's
Speaker 1: a yeah, it's a gamble. It's a gamble with that, yep,
Speaker 1: a little more of a gamble, okay. Uh Arianna wrote
Speaker 1: in she said, horror story. I moved out of state
Speaker 1: with my still current boyfriend. But we put a deposit
Speaker 1: on a home to rent, moved four hours away out
Speaker 1: of state, and he left his Apple Watch at home
Speaker 1: and it was going off. So I looked at it
Speaker 1: and there were multiple women he was trying to hook
Speaker 1: up with because he didn't know if I was actually
Speaker 1: going to move in with him. Since we only knew
Speaker 1: each other for two months.
Speaker 2: I mean, we got to break this down a little bit. Okay,
Speaker 2: first off, move out of state when you only know
Speaker 2: someone for two months, gamble being keep it.
Speaker 3: I'm calling it what it is. It's a gamble m right.
Speaker 1: The co mingled money. They put a deposit on a
Speaker 1: deposit in Yeah, four hours away, out of state, and
Speaker 1: he's not very responsible with his belongings, leaving that Apple
Speaker 1: watching home. I'm on with other girls. Ew.
Speaker 3: Gross, it's all gross.
Speaker 2: I think I think that there's again. I think the
Speaker 2: move in because it's a financial well. First off, unfortunately
Speaker 2: this girl uprooted her life right now, there's a financial investment.
Speaker 2: I think you got to give a guy more than
Speaker 2: two months. I don't think you know someone very well
Speaker 2: after two months. If Hayden was doing this, I'd be
Speaker 2: like no, yeah, and then she would probably just do
Speaker 2: it anyway.
Speaker 1: H no, no, no, yeah, well, it's a horror story.
Speaker 1: She starts, she starts the story of it's a horror story.
Speaker 3: It's a horror story.
Speaker 2: But you know what better that she knows now, I
Speaker 2: do rather know. I'd rather see that apple watch.
Speaker 1: You don't know when you're gonna write him a thank
Speaker 1: you note, but you will be writing them a thank
Speaker 1: you note.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd rather write it sooner than later. Okay, Roger wrote,
Speaker 2: My ex and I were waiting on our new apartment
Speaker 2: to be finished. In the interim, we moved in with
Speaker 2: her parents about two weeks. We are no longer together
Speaker 2: because I realized in those two weeks that if I
Speaker 2: had these people as in laws, I would go absolutely mad.
Speaker 2: Please do an episode about in laws.
Speaker 3: We definitely need to.
Speaker 2: I'm surprised we haven't done one yet. Here we can again,
Speaker 2: no better.
Speaker 1: I want to know what Matt thinks about your dad?
Speaker 2: Do you know what? Matt loves my dad and I.
Speaker 2: It's confusing because it is you know, it is annoying
Speaker 2: because he does he thinks because it's it's like, you know,
Speaker 2: he gets to he's not blood related, so he gets
Speaker 2: to just kind of sit on the outside and be
Speaker 2: amused hysterical. R let's go back to Roger.
Speaker 1: Roger, you had a little trial period, and you're gonna
Speaker 1: send it back after that trial, you know.
Speaker 2: What I want to follow up?
Speaker 3: Okay, So, Roger, I think we need to.
Speaker 2: I want you to write in again because we're going
Speaker 2: to do an episode on in laws now. We clearly
Speaker 2: need to do one. I want to know in the
Speaker 2: two weeks what it was that made you go absolutely
Speaker 2: no way, this relationship is done.
Speaker 1: And it had to have been big, because it's not
Speaker 1: like you live with your in laws. You don't.
Speaker 2: Well, that's not true. Some people do have in laws
Speaker 2: that tend to like hop in and listen. My dad
Speaker 2: is an eleven hour flight away, but if he was
Speaker 2: close by, Martin Lennington would be over a little bit
Speaker 2: too much, if you know what I'm saying. So some
Speaker 2: people really like it is kind of like a move
Speaker 2: in with the in laws.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh god, meet the Fockers. That's all time funny.
Speaker 2: It's yes, I need to we need to know more.
Speaker 1: Roger. Yep, Roger, give us give us a y give
Speaker 1: us the scoop.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: So, lastly, Anonymous wrote in. We moved in together. Then
Speaker 1: I noticed he washes all his dishes with cold water.
Speaker 1: Grossed me out. Wow, that's it, that's all she wrote.
Speaker 3: You know what this is.
Speaker 2: This is the dick. This is what we're talking about
Speaker 2: when things get a little specific and they're odd. Does
Speaker 2: cold water gross me out? Because remember when we did
Speaker 2: that episode and we talked about the velcrow wallet and
Speaker 2: I decided after that is anck. I've never thought about
Speaker 2: it before, but the sound of the velcrow feels like
Speaker 2: you're teenager, okay or five? Cold water water?
Speaker 1: I mean, I just wonder. I just wonder if Anonymous.
Speaker 1: I just wonder if Anonymous is ever gonna be happy.
Speaker 2: I wish Anonymous that elaborated Listen, you're not in love
Speaker 2: with somebody if now you're like the cold water. And
Speaker 2: also that's a very simple conversation, like, hey, you know what,
Speaker 2: let's use let's warm it up a little bit.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this isn't like a make or break.
Speaker 1: There's some fire on this problem.
Speaker 2: Let's just literally just turn the other one on a
Speaker 2: little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, teat it up. I want to see some team.
Speaker 1: I want to see some seam. I think it's a
Speaker 1: little extreme to think that that's a gross up.
Speaker 2: But I think you already kind of hated that person.
Speaker 2: That's why I think. I think that you were already
Speaker 2: like everything they were doing was already bugging you, and
Speaker 2: then the cold Water came on and you're like, it's
Speaker 2: fucking over.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the last straw.
Speaker 2: I don't think it was like Prince Charming, Oh my god,
Speaker 2: he's so amazing, like, I can't wait. I think with
Speaker 2: the cold Water on, she was like, wait, stop everything.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, not at all, not at all.
Speaker 2: It's cracking me out. The crew we have the best
Speaker 2: I swear, we have the best listeners.
Speaker 3: And the best ride ends.
Speaker 1: Okay, I love Yeah, it's I mean, well this isn't
Speaker 1: this is like you know, it's it's a it's a
Speaker 1: deep topic. There's so many different various there's various things
Speaker 1: that can happen on a move in and and you
Speaker 1: never know, you just never know. It's a gamble you
Speaker 1: see to yourself that you didn't even know were there.
Speaker 1: It's true, it's true. Yeah, And I like my space.
Speaker 1: You know, for a long time, I was an only
Speaker 1: child and I was I like to be alone. Sometimes
Speaker 1: everybody needs to leave me alone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you need it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you had four children I know, I know,
Speaker 2: and a horse and a horse and dogs.
Speaker 1: And somebody and dogs and chickens. No, but I see
Speaker 1: that now happening with Eve. She needs a little bit
Speaker 1: more alone time. And at first I was like, wait,
Speaker 1: what's happening, and then I was like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a little more time.
Speaker 2: I think what we've I think in conclusion to this episode,
Speaker 2: I think that we we we need more mini moving.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but you know, most of the time the
Speaker 1: people do the full movement, especially in New York. I
Speaker 1: have to say, especially in New York City because rent
Speaker 1: so high, it rent so much, and it's so hard
Speaker 1: to move. It's so hard to move. If you've ever
Speaker 1: moved to New York City, you know you don't want
Speaker 1: to do it again. You're literally like, I'll just stay here.
Speaker 1: They will find my body here one day.
Speaker 2: They're like not absolutely hate this person doing it the
Speaker 2: cold water, but I'm staying. I'm sticking it out. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I feel you, yeah, listen, I feel you, all right.
Speaker 2: And now we have to do an episode on in
Speaker 2: laws because I do one.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yes, please, I should.
Speaker 3: Have not come on.
Speaker 2: I should have not come on for just like ten
Speaker 2: minutes just to give the loadown about my family, because
Speaker 2: his family are great. It's my family. It's an issue,
Speaker 2: but he loves it.
Speaker 1: It's only an issue for you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I don't know. Let's let's have let's have
Speaker 3: him call it what it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeahright, I love it. And oh my gosh, we
Speaker 1: have to tell our listeners that when next week we
Speaker 1: get to go away together or.
Speaker 2: We're going to come back with stories. Guys, we are
Speaker 2: coming back with stories. We're going to be doing I'm
Speaker 2: doing a sleepover in New York with Jessica. We're going
Speaker 2: to be traveling to Florida.
Speaker 3: And yeah, well we will.
Speaker 2: We will do a deep dive into that trip.
Speaker 1: You will document it, we'll put on the stories.
Speaker 3: Absolutely all right, Well let's call it.
Speaker 1: Let's call it. The end of the episode.