WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Triple Six Rule

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<v Speaker 1>The second date up date. Recently, we got an email

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<v Speaker 1>from a listener who says, when it comes to dating,

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<v Speaker 1>she used to be a triple six girl.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>What meaning?

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<v Speaker 1>The only guys that she was going after had to

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<v Speaker 1>be six feet tall, six pack abs, and six figure income.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, triple six, they don't exist. I don't believe it.

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<v Speaker 1>For some people they exist. But apparently she's throwing that

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<v Speaker 1>out the window.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why is she gonna go for the

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<v Speaker 2>five five fives?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that it's a little more realistic. She's changed her ways,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's welcome to the show, Brandy with an I.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello Brandy, Brandy. I don't want to brag, but I

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<v Speaker 1>make at least four figures girl, at least.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like your expectations have really dropped.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're yeah, brand, maybe explain what made you change

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<v Speaker 1>your strategy because this could have an effect on Alexis

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<v Speaker 1>in her future here.

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<v Speaker 4>True true, Yeah, I started to realize that if you're

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<v Speaker 4>going after superficial things and a guy, they're only gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be superficial.

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<v Speaker 1>Back, look at that, but isn't that the best thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Superficial things are really great? So you're saying we know

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<v Speaker 1>what to expect like that consistent. Okay, you decided that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't for you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're looking for something more long term, is what it

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, gag for a second.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I want I want some substance, you know, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>someone who will love me and care for me.

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<v Speaker 2>And can have a good conversation. Yeah. God, now she's

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<v Speaker 2>really looking for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's what everybody wants to guess.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so boring.

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<v Speaker 5>That's so it sounds, but it really it looks.

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<v Speaker 2>Like found.

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<v Speaker 1>Your standards. Did you end up meeting a guy?

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<v Speaker 4>I did meet a guy?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm lying, okay, Okay, I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>How you tried not to be superficial, but you start

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<v Speaker 2>with that instead of his name?

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<v Speaker 1>What is his name?

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<v Speaker 4>His name is Evan?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, he makes.

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<v Speaker 1>Ninety nine thousand years. Could you tell if he had

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<v Speaker 1>a six pack online?

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<v Speaker 4>Not sure? I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, if there's not a shirtless pike, he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I was actually, if there's not a shirtless pick

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<v Speaker 5>there might actually have some substance.

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<v Speaker 2>Alexis, She's right.

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<v Speaker 1>No one hides their ass, all right, we know he's

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<v Speaker 1>five to ten. Question mark about the abs? What does

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<v Speaker 1>Evan do for a living.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know he's a claims adjuster or a car

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<v Speaker 4>insurance slave?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Just it's more exciting for Jefferies what it does.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was his job security. It's like a stable job.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he's great exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>So what do I mean so far? What did what

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<v Speaker 5>did attract you to him online?

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<v Speaker 3>Then?

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<v Speaker 2>Because like none of these things are what you're looking for?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you know, I want someone and I feel safe

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<v Speaker 4>with that feels stable and secure, and my girlfriends are like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know that this seems like a stable, secure guy,

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<v Speaker 4>like someone I could feel at home with.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, okay, so what did you and mister stability

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<v Speaker 1>do for your hot date?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? We met for a happy hour.

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<v Speaker 2>Lukewarm d well, we're heating up. How did that go?

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<v Speaker 4>It was good. We had a couple of drinks and

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<v Speaker 4>had a nice banter and he was asking me some

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<v Speaker 4>questions and then he asked me a question that kind

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<v Speaker 4>of stummed me.

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<v Speaker 1>What's that?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? He said, tell me something quirky about you.

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<v Speaker 2>Quirky.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, that's a hard thing to answer because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want you don't want to come across too quirky and

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<v Speaker 1>come off like a weirdo for me, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I suck my thumb. That's what I tell people.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, the first thing I thought of is I

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<v Speaker 5>have a weird bone on my chin on one side

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<v Speaker 5>but not the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>That's quirky.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a lot of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you answer that? Brandy?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have an answer for him?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Eventually I was like, how do I answer this? But

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<v Speaker 4>then I was like, oh, I guess well, I wiggle

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<v Speaker 4>my toes right before I go to sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I do too.

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<v Speaker 2>I just realized, oh.

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<v Speaker 5>My god, my husband has a weird thing where he

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<v Speaker 5>puts his heel in between his big toe and his

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<v Speaker 5>next toe.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very y.

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<v Speaker 6>Let that be the last time we get an insight

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<v Speaker 6>into Brooke and her husband's face. On top of no,

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<v Speaker 6>we don't want any more details about the positioning of

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<v Speaker 6>your body.

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<v Speaker 1>I am sorry, Brandy. What okay? You you wiggle your

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<v Speaker 1>toes right before you sleep?

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<v Speaker 3>Answer?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I have really small toes.

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<v Speaker 2>That's quirky.

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<v Speaker 1>But did did he respond positively to that to your

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<v Speaker 1>toe stuff?

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't really say much.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, Well, I mean he's asking a question. That

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<v Speaker 2>maybe he didn't actually want the answer to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>isn't very sexy either, Sorry, but nothing quirky sexy. I

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<v Speaker 2>guess did change the like vibe of the date.

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<v Speaker 4>It's hard to tell. I mean I also told them

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<v Speaker 4>that I collect them teddy bears, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>that's a turn off.

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<v Speaker 2>Like how many?

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<v Speaker 1>Well they're collectible, Okay, you don't sleep with them all?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, is that even important to us?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I didn't even think to ask him. We

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<v Speaker 4>had a nice tug at the end. I mean, good.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you not heard from him at all?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I thought it was a good date. I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>doing my triple six, but I haven't heard from him.

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<v Speaker 5>Is this shocking that the guy who's supposed to be

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<v Speaker 5>stable as the one ghost you knew.

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<v Speaker 2>Were the ones you had to get rid of?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, keep moving down the line if we need to. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll go three. We'll actually get you another date here, Brandy,

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<v Speaker 1>but first let's call Evan for you. We'll try and

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<v Speaker 1>hook you up one more time when we do your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right after this. Thank you old all

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<v Speaker 1>right second date update. If you're just joining us, one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners came on and said that she used

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<v Speaker 1>to live by the triple six rule for years, dating

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<v Speaker 1>only men who were six feet tall, six pack abs,

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<v Speaker 1>six figure incomes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and she's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not doing that anymore. And Brooke made the comment like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're into the triple fives now then, and it

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<v Speaker 1>got me thinking, what is a triple five? Five feet tall? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>five figures, five felonies, five warts on his face? It

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<v Speaker 1>could be anywhere, jeff Okay, yeah, let's not limit it

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<v Speaker 1>to just the face crazy. I support that, But the

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<v Speaker 1>main night, the main idea is if you go away

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<v Speaker 1>from chasing superficial things, then you won't attract superficial guys.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what she hoped anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, and that's what brought Brandy to us because

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<v Speaker 1>she met a nice, stable guy named Evan, went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with him, and now he's not calling her back.

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<v Speaker 1>The ones darned damned if you do, you're damned if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. All right, Jeffrey, but whereabouts to call Evan?

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<v Speaker 3>Here?

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<v Speaker 1>How you feel in Brandy?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm you are?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>That's good because you sounded a little jaded when we

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<v Speaker 5>went from the triple six down to you know, Evan.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, color jaded.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know a little bit like it wasn't working

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<v Speaker 2>out for her. That's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't take that from a woman with a chim deformity.

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<v Speaker 2>So weird you feel it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean to touch sure, no, I get it. Fascinating, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry I said it. Let's just call Evan for

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<v Speaker 1>you and try and get your second date up date.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go, das number right now. Hello, Hey, we're

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<v Speaker 1>looking for Evan.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is Si.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Evan. Congratulations. You are on the radio right now with.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't normally applaud for.

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<v Speaker 2>The people's congratulations.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. My man,

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<v Speaker 1>you picked up a phone call that deserves you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm on the radio.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing something called a second Date Update, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help out one of our listeners named Brandy,

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<v Speaker 1>who's a girl that you went on a date with recently.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, man, oh oh oh yeah, okay, sorry, you remember Brandy?

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<v Speaker 3>I do, I do.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good. Yeah, it sounds positive.

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<v Speaker 1>We heard a lot of good things about you from Brandy,

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<v Speaker 1>about your date and everything, and she's just a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit confused now that there hasn't been a second one.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh sorry, this is this is for the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Though, yeah, it is for the radio. And I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>that this is like kind of an awkward question and

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<v Speaker 1>like way to do this.

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<v Speaker 5>But she couldn't get ahold of you though, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>and she, like Jeff said, like to you a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just trying to help her out.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, she's nice, she was cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you planning on were you planning on seeing her again?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what?

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<v Speaker 5>Like okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>If the answer is no, that's fair. It's your dating life.

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<v Speaker 1>You could do what you want with it. But we're

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<v Speaker 1>just wondering for Brandy's sake, was there anything that didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go quite that well that night?

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<v Speaker 2>Like is there a reason?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh man? I mean to be honest, not really. She

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<v Speaker 3>was pretty cool. I mean, like the day was fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Then why aren't you dating her again? You dummy? Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>he went back real quick. You are trying to help

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, I do just like you know, that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>make sense, like if everything's so good.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, well it's cool, right, it's one happy hour. How

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<v Speaker 5>much can you really know a person after just one date?

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<v Speaker 5>You need to give it another shot.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you think what's.

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<v Speaker 1>Holding you back?

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm pretty introverted myself, and I had a nice

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<v Speaker 3>time hanging out with her, and I just I think,

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<v Speaker 3>for me, I need to find someone who I think

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<v Speaker 3>is a little bit more extroverted, who's going to like

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<v Speaker 3>bring me out of my shell and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>It's interesting.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like she I mean, she's a person that

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<v Speaker 5>contacted a radio station about her love life.

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<v Speaker 2>That should say a lot about how extroverted she is.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she's having other people do the call for her.

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<v Speaker 1>So sorry, so you don't think that she's troverted enough?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you elaborate more on that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean, like I'm gonna be honest. The name

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<v Speaker 3>Brandy I thought, especially like the way it was spelled,

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<v Speaker 3>like all the Brandies I've known, kind of like when

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<v Speaker 3>I was in college, they're kind of wild, and I

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<v Speaker 3>thought that she was going to be kind of a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit more crazy or.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wild girl.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not the same as extroverted.

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<v Speaker 4>Those are.

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<v Speaker 2>You were thinking she was a party girl? Is that

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<v Speaker 2>what you're thinking?

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<v Speaker 3>No? Not really, but like like I answer her this

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<v Speaker 3>one question, I remember being like, what's your biggest quirk?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I didn't want to be like, are you crazy? Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you want crazy? Or did you not want crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>I want just like more fun.

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<v Speaker 7>And I have a lot of trouble out there and

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<v Speaker 7>kind of like going out or meeting new people or

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<v Speaker 7>or anything, and so I need I want to be

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<v Speaker 7>with someone who's going to do that for me.

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<v Speaker 2>How did her answer? How did her answer have anything

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<v Speaker 2>to do with that? But her answer to be I

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<v Speaker 2>talked to everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Like where was your head out?

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<v Speaker 2>Answer?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean her, She said her biggest quirk was

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<v Speaker 3>wiggling her toes or something before she went to Beth.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what doesn't scream wild girl that love.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cool that she sometimes moves her whole ankle.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole body starts going, wait, come on, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Just one answer, like.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean like. She also said that she collected

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<v Speaker 3>stuffed animals.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, are you crazy? Girls do that?

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<v Speaker 3>It's all like an answer my grandma would have given me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, that's kind of hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Your grandma sounds a good time to me. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what Okay, what you expected?

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<v Speaker 2>That's kind of the.

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<v Speaker 5>Sort It feels like you should have asked her, like,

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<v Speaker 5>what's the wildest thing you've ever done.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I already know the answer to the wildest thing

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<v Speaker 1>that she's ever done, and that's sit on the other

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<v Speaker 1>end of this conversation listening to this call, waiting to

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<v Speaker 1>jump in and talk to you wild. Wow. That's how

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<v Speaker 1>this works, dude, Are you serious? She's here, I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Brand are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I'm here?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, go on, wild girl, talk to him.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, that's really interesting. I get given the context, my

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<v Speaker 4>answer sounds really boring and strange. But had you asked

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<v Speaker 4>me the question, normally, you would have know a lot

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<v Speaker 4>more about me. Quirky is like, it's a weird way

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<v Speaker 4>to put it, Like, I'm a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Took so long? Yeah, Randy, all right, I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 3>are you a lot of fun? Like? Prove it? I

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<v Speaker 3>guess I kind of you know. I mean, what is

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<v Speaker 3>the wildest thing you've done?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm here for this.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you're ready for it. Insurance suggests her.

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<v Speaker 2>Fire with fire.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm waiting. I want to know. We're all waiting. Still.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, let's just say I may have recently found a

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<v Speaker 4>contest in the Caribbean, and I may have lost my shirt,

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<v Speaker 4>and I may have funneled the beer.

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<v Speaker 1>Drinks, loses her clothes.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean to me, it just sounds like she went

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<v Speaker 2>to college.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that's pretty fun. Left an article of clothing behind.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that feel better to you? Evan? Feel crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I think it feels more on the way.

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<v Speaker 3>I just the date ended with like a side hug,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, who gives side hug?

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<v Speaker 5>Are you just like sick of safety because you're an

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<v Speaker 5>insurance a just and you need something else? Like you

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<v Speaker 5>like that chaos guy and that one commissional mayhem.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it, Just like she's.

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<v Speaker 1>Looking for someone more stable. I know, you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>like opposites attract here in a weird way, and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>just a little bit more communication, a couple more dates

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<v Speaker 1>will help bridge that gap.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a couple of shots at tequila wile bridge it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's strong enough. I mean, do

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<v Speaker 1>you ever clear? But we would pay to set you

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<v Speaker 1>up one more time. You're willing to see each other?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Evan?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I mean, if it's on your guy's still, I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 5>I an't you a crazy financially stable person.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of what she was going for those but

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think brand? Are you still into this?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, just use your words man like or make

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<v Speaker 4>a move.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, sounds like a challenge, and that's what Evan sounds

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<v Speaker 5>like he wants.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's going to be either this or you go

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<v Speaker 1>back to the six six to six guys, So it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like devil.

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<v Speaker 4>You want it?

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<v Speaker 1>Crazy crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait a second, she was a Satanist.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, That's a great conversation to have on

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<v Speaker 1>your second date.

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<v Speaker 5>Because faking Jeffrey in the morning man.

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<v Speaker 1>Her story about the Caribbean really turned things around. In

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<v Speaker 1>that call, she mentions her shirt comes off and she

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<v Speaker 1>starts making bad decisions. Jokes on her though, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sending them to a Caribbean restaurant with a gift card,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's gonna happen all over again.

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<v Speaker 5>I just think it's like she was going for the

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<v Speaker 5>superficial dudes and that's what she thought they wanted, and

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<v Speaker 5>then she finds the one stable guy and turns.

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<v Speaker 2>Out that's also okay. So none of you guys want

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<v Speaker 2>just a normal.

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<v Speaker 1>Boring Everybody does want that normal, boring, stable person, but

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<v Speaker 1>they have to get through their wild phase first.

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<v Speaker 2>Looks like this, I don't know will it work out

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<v Speaker 2>for them or will it not. She's she's through that phase, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's born with experience. Maybe she'll push him through

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<v Speaker 1>that phase too and they'll land up on the other

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<v Speaker 1>end together. That's our hope, and our hope for you

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