Speaker 1: The second date up date. Recently, we got an email
Speaker 1: from a listener who says, when it comes to dating,
Speaker 1: she used to be a triple six girl.
Speaker 2: What does that mean?
Speaker 3: What meaning?
Speaker 1: The only guys that she was going after had to
Speaker 1: be six feet tall, six pack abs, and six figure income.
Speaker 2: Wait, triple six, they don't exist. I don't believe it.
Speaker 1: For some people they exist. But apparently she's throwing that
Speaker 1: out the window.
Speaker 2: I don't know why is she gonna go for the
Speaker 2: five five fives?
Speaker 1: Is that it's a little more realistic. She's changed her ways,
Speaker 1: So let's welcome to the show, Brandy with an I.
Speaker 1: Hello Brandy, Brandy. I don't want to brag, but I
Speaker 1: make at least four figures girl, at least.
Speaker 2: It sounds like your expectations have really dropped.
Speaker 1: If you're yeah, brand, maybe explain what made you change
Speaker 1: your strategy because this could have an effect on Alexis
Speaker 1: in her future here.
Speaker 4: True true, Yeah, I started to realize that if you're
Speaker 4: going after superficial things and a guy, they're only gonna
Speaker 4: be superficial.
Speaker 1: Back, look at that, but isn't that the best thing?
Speaker 1: Superficial things are really great? So you're saying we know
Speaker 1: what to expect like that consistent. Okay, you decided that
Speaker 1: wasn't for you.
Speaker 2: You're looking for something more long term, is what it
Speaker 2: sounds like.
Speaker 1: Sorry, gag for a second.
Speaker 4: Well I want I want some substance, you know, Okay,
Speaker 4: someone who will love me and care for me.
Speaker 2: And can have a good conversation. Yeah. God, now she's
Speaker 2: really looking for you.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's what everybody wants to guess.
Speaker 2: It's so boring.
Speaker 5: That's so it sounds, but it really it looks.
Speaker 2: Like found.
Speaker 1: Your standards. Did you end up meeting a guy?
Speaker 4: I did meet a guy?
Speaker 1: I'm lying, okay, Okay, I like that.
Speaker 2: How you tried not to be superficial, but you start
Speaker 2: with that instead of his name?
Speaker 1: What is his name?
Speaker 4: His name is Evan?
Speaker 2: Okay, he makes.
Speaker 1: Ninety nine thousand years. Could you tell if he had
Speaker 1: a six pack online?
Speaker 4: Not sure? I don't think so.
Speaker 2: Well, if there's not a shirtless pike, he doesn't.
Speaker 5: Well, I was actually, if there's not a shirtless pick
Speaker 5: there might actually have some substance.
Speaker 2: Alexis, She's right.
Speaker 1: No one hides their ass, all right, we know he's
Speaker 1: five to ten. Question mark about the abs? What does
Speaker 1: Evan do for a living.
Speaker 4: Do you know he's a claims adjuster or a car
Speaker 4: insurance slave?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 4: I know, I know.
Speaker 2: Just it's more exciting for Jefferies what it does.
Speaker 1: But it was his job security. It's like a stable job.
Speaker 1: I'm sure he's great exactly.
Speaker 5: So what do I mean so far? What did what
Speaker 5: did attract you to him online?
Speaker 3: Then?
Speaker 2: Because like none of these things are what you're looking for?
Speaker 4: Well, you know, I want someone and I feel safe
Speaker 4: with that feels stable and secure, and my girlfriends are like,
Speaker 4: you know that this seems like a stable, secure guy,
Speaker 4: like someone I could feel at home with.
Speaker 1: All right, okay, so what did you and mister stability
Speaker 1: do for your hot date?
Speaker 4: Well? We met for a happy hour.
Speaker 2: Lukewarm d well, we're heating up. How did that go?
Speaker 4: It was good. We had a couple of drinks and
Speaker 4: had a nice banter and he was asking me some
Speaker 4: questions and then he asked me a question that kind
Speaker 4: of stummed me.
Speaker 1: What's that?
Speaker 4: Oh? He said, tell me something quirky about you.
Speaker 2: Quirky.
Speaker 1: Ah, that's a hard thing to answer because you don't
Speaker 1: want you don't want to come across too quirky and
Speaker 1: come off like a weirdo for me, I'm.
Speaker 2: Like, I suck my thumb. That's what I tell people.
Speaker 5: I mean, the first thing I thought of is I
Speaker 5: have a weird bone on my chin on one side
Speaker 5: but not the other.
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: That's quirky.
Speaker 2: It's a lot of weird.
Speaker 1: How did you answer that? Brandy?
Speaker 3: Did you?
Speaker 1: Did you have an answer for him?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Eventually I was like, how do I answer this? But
Speaker 4: then I was like, oh, I guess well, I wiggle
Speaker 4: my toes right before I go to sleep.
Speaker 1: I think I do too.
Speaker 2: I just realized, oh.
Speaker 5: My god, my husband has a weird thing where he
Speaker 5: puts his heel in between his big toe and his
Speaker 5: next toe.
Speaker 2: It's very y.
Speaker 6: Let that be the last time we get an insight
Speaker 6: into Brooke and her husband's face. On top of no,
Speaker 6: we don't want any more details about the positioning of
Speaker 6: your body.
Speaker 1: I am sorry, Brandy. What okay? You you wiggle your
Speaker 1: toes right before you sleep?
Speaker 3: Answer?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I have really small toes.
Speaker 2: That's quirky.
Speaker 1: But did did he respond positively to that to your
Speaker 1: toe stuff?
Speaker 4: He didn't really say much.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Well, I mean he's asking a question. That
Speaker 2: maybe he didn't actually want the answer to you know,
Speaker 2: isn't very sexy either, Sorry, but nothing quirky sexy. I
Speaker 2: guess did change the like vibe of the date.
Speaker 4: It's hard to tell. I mean I also told them
Speaker 4: that I collect them teddy bears, but I don't think
Speaker 4: that's a turn off.
Speaker 2: Like how many?
Speaker 1: Well they're collectible, Okay, you don't sleep with them all?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: No, no, is that even important to us?
Speaker 4: You know, I didn't even think to ask him. We
Speaker 4: had a nice tug at the end. I mean, good.
Speaker 2: Have you not heard from him at all?
Speaker 4: No? I thought it was a good date. I'm not
Speaker 4: doing my triple six, but I haven't heard from him.
Speaker 5: Is this shocking that the guy who's supposed to be
Speaker 5: stable as the one ghost you knew.
Speaker 2: Were the ones you had to get rid of?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Maybe a little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, keep moving down the line if we need to. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll go three. We'll actually get you another date here, Brandy,
Speaker 1: but first let's call Evan for you. We'll try and
Speaker 1: hook you up one more time when we do your
Speaker 1: second date update right after this. Thank you old all
Speaker 1: right second date update. If you're just joining us, one
Speaker 1: of our listeners came on and said that she used
Speaker 1: to live by the triple six rule for years, dating
Speaker 1: only men who were six feet tall, six pack abs,
Speaker 1: six figure incomes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's.
Speaker 1: Not doing that anymore. And Brooke made the comment like, oh,
Speaker 1: so you're into the triple fives now then, and it
Speaker 1: got me thinking, what is a triple five? Five feet tall? Yeah,
Speaker 1: five figures, five felonies, five warts on his face? It
Speaker 1: could be anywhere, jeff Okay, yeah, let's not limit it
Speaker 1: to just the face crazy. I support that, But the
Speaker 1: main night, the main idea is if you go away
Speaker 1: from chasing superficial things, then you won't attract superficial guys.
Speaker 2: That's what she hoped anyway.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and that's what brought Brandy to us because
Speaker 1: she met a nice, stable guy named Evan, went on
Speaker 1: a date with him, and now he's not calling her back.
Speaker 1: The ones darned damned if you do, you're damned if
Speaker 1: you don't. All right, Jeffrey, but whereabouts to call Evan?
Speaker 3: Here?
Speaker 1: How you feel in Brandy?
Speaker 4: I'm you are?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 5: That's good because you sounded a little jaded when we
Speaker 5: went from the triple six down to you know, Evan.
Speaker 6: Well, color jaded.
Speaker 2: I don't know a little bit like it wasn't working
Speaker 2: out for her. That's okay.
Speaker 1: Don't take that from a woman with a chim deformity.
Speaker 2: So weird you feel it.
Speaker 1: I don't mean to touch sure, no, I get it. Fascinating, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I said it. Let's just call Evan for
Speaker 1: you and try and get your second date up date.
Speaker 1: Here we go, das number right now. Hello, Hey, we're
Speaker 1: looking for Evan.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is Si.
Speaker 1: Hey Evan. Congratulations. You are on the radio right now with.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: We don't normally applaud for.
Speaker 2: The people's congratulations.
Speaker 1: You're on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. My man,
Speaker 1: you picked up a phone call that deserves you.
Speaker 3: I'm on the radio.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 1: We're doing something called a second Date Update, and we're
Speaker 1: trying to help out one of our listeners named Brandy,
Speaker 1: who's a girl that you went on a date with recently.
Speaker 7: Yeah, man, oh oh oh yeah, okay, sorry, you remember Brandy?
Speaker 3: I do, I do.
Speaker 2: That's good. Yeah, it sounds positive.
Speaker 1: We heard a lot of good things about you from Brandy,
Speaker 1: about your date and everything, and she's just a little
Speaker 1: bit confused now that there hasn't been a second one.
Speaker 3: Oh sorry, this is this is for the radio.
Speaker 1: Though, yeah, it is for the radio. And I'm sorry
Speaker 1: that this is like kind of an awkward question and
Speaker 1: like way to do this.
Speaker 5: But she couldn't get ahold of you though, you know,
Speaker 5: and she, like Jeff said, like to you a lot.
Speaker 1: We're just trying to help her out.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, she's nice, she was cool.
Speaker 2: Were you planning on were you planning on seeing her again?
Speaker 3: You know what?
Speaker 5: Like okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: If the answer is no, that's fair. It's your dating life.
Speaker 1: You could do what you want with it. But we're
Speaker 1: just wondering for Brandy's sake, was there anything that didn't
Speaker 1: go quite that well that night?
Speaker 2: Like is there a reason?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Uh man? I mean to be honest, not really. She
Speaker 3: was pretty cool. I mean, like the day was fine.
Speaker 1: Then why aren't you dating her again? You dummy? Come on,
Speaker 1: he went back real quick. You are trying to help
Speaker 1: our listeners, I do just like you know, that doesn't
Speaker 1: make sense, like if everything's so good.
Speaker 5: Right, well it's cool, right, it's one happy hour. How
Speaker 5: much can you really know a person after just one date?
Speaker 5: You need to give it another shot.
Speaker 2: Don't you think what's.
Speaker 1: Holding you back?
Speaker 3: So I'm pretty introverted myself, and I had a nice
Speaker 3: time hanging out with her, and I just I think,
Speaker 3: for me, I need to find someone who I think
Speaker 3: is a little bit more extroverted, who's going to like
Speaker 3: bring me out of my shell and stuff.
Speaker 2: It's interesting.
Speaker 5: I feel like she I mean, she's a person that
Speaker 5: contacted a radio station about her love life.
Speaker 2: That should say a lot about how extroverted she is.
Speaker 1: Well, she's having other people do the call for her.
Speaker 1: So sorry, so you don't think that she's troverted enough?
Speaker 1: Can you elaborate more on that?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean, like I'm gonna be honest. The name
Speaker 3: Brandy I thought, especially like the way it was spelled,
Speaker 3: like all the Brandies I've known, kind of like when
Speaker 3: I was in college, they're kind of wild, and I
Speaker 3: thought that she was going to be kind of a
Speaker 3: little bit more crazy or.
Speaker 1: Okay, wild girl.
Speaker 2: That's not the same as extroverted.
Speaker 4: Those are.
Speaker 2: You were thinking she was a party girl? Is that
Speaker 2: what you're thinking?
Speaker 3: No? Not really, but like like I answer her this
Speaker 3: one question, I remember being like, what's your biggest quirk?
Speaker 3: Like I didn't want to be like, are you crazy? Wait?
Speaker 2: Did you want crazy? Or did you not want crazy?
Speaker 3: I want just like more fun.
Speaker 7: And I have a lot of trouble out there and
Speaker 7: kind of like going out or meeting new people or
Speaker 7: or anything, and so I need I want to be
Speaker 7: with someone who's going to do that for me.
Speaker 2: How did her answer? How did her answer have anything
Speaker 2: to do with that? But her answer to be I
Speaker 2: talked to everybody.
Speaker 1: Like where was your head out?
Speaker 2: Answer?
Speaker 3: Well, I mean her, She said her biggest quirk was
Speaker 3: wiggling her toes or something before she went to Beth.
Speaker 1: That's what doesn't scream wild girl that love.
Speaker 2: That's cool that she sometimes moves her whole ankle.
Speaker 1: The whole body starts going, wait, come on, it's.
Speaker 2: Just one answer, like.
Speaker 3: No, I mean like. She also said that she collected
Speaker 3: stuffed animals.
Speaker 2: Okay, are you crazy? Girls do that?
Speaker 3: It's all like an answer my grandma would have given me.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's kind of hard.
Speaker 1: Your grandma sounds a good time to me. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know what Okay, what you expected?
Speaker 2: That's kind of the.
Speaker 5: Sort It feels like you should have asked her, like,
Speaker 5: what's the wildest thing you've ever done.
Speaker 1: Well, I already know the answer to the wildest thing
Speaker 1: that she's ever done, and that's sit on the other
Speaker 1: end of this conversation listening to this call, waiting to
Speaker 1: jump in and talk to you wild. Wow. That's how
Speaker 1: this works, dude, Are you serious? She's here, I'm serious.
Speaker 1: Brand are you there?
Speaker 4: Oh I'm here?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, go on, wild girl, talk to him.
Speaker 4: Wow, that's really interesting. I get given the context, my
Speaker 4: answer sounds really boring and strange. But had you asked
Speaker 4: me the question, normally, you would have know a lot
Speaker 4: more about me. Quirky is like, it's a weird way
Speaker 4: to put it, Like, I'm a lot of fun.
Speaker 3: Took so long? Yeah, Randy, all right, I mean, like,
Speaker 3: are you a lot of fun? Like? Prove it? I
Speaker 3: guess I kind of you know. I mean, what is
Speaker 3: the wildest thing you've done?
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm here for this.
Speaker 4: I don't know if you're ready for it. Insurance suggests her.
Speaker 2: Fire with fire.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm waiting. I want to know. We're all waiting. Still.
Speaker 4: Well, let's just say I may have recently found a
Speaker 4: contest in the Caribbean, and I may have lost my shirt,
Speaker 4: and I may have funneled the beer.
Speaker 1: Drinks, loses her clothes.
Speaker 2: I mean to me, it just sounds like she went
Speaker 2: to college.
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's pretty fun. Left an article of clothing behind.
Speaker 2: Does that feel better to you? Evan? Feel crazy?
Speaker 3: I mean I think it feels more on the way.
Speaker 3: I just the date ended with like a side hug,
Speaker 3: and I was like, who gives side hug?
Speaker 5: Are you just like sick of safety because you're an
Speaker 5: insurance a just and you need something else? Like you
Speaker 5: like that chaos guy and that one commissional mayhem.
Speaker 2: That's it, Just like she's.
Speaker 1: Looking for someone more stable. I know, you guys are
Speaker 1: like opposites attract here in a weird way, and maybe
Speaker 1: just a little bit more communication, a couple more dates
Speaker 1: will help bridge that gap.
Speaker 2: I was a couple of shots at tequila wile bridge it.
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's strong enough. I mean, do
Speaker 1: you ever clear? But we would pay to set you
Speaker 1: up one more time. You're willing to see each other?
Speaker 1: What do you think, Evan?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean, if it's on your guy's still, I'm sure.
Speaker 5: I an't you a crazy financially stable person.
Speaker 1: That's kind of what she was going for those but
Speaker 1: what do you think brand? Are you still into this?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: You know, just use your words man like or make
Speaker 4: a move.
Speaker 5: Yes, sounds like a challenge, and that's what Evan sounds
Speaker 5: like he wants.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's going to be either this or you go
Speaker 1: back to the six six to six guys, So it
Speaker 1: sounds like devil.
Speaker 4: You want it?
Speaker 1: Crazy crazy?
Speaker 3: Wait a second, she was a Satanist.
Speaker 1: You know what, That's a great conversation to have on
Speaker 1: your second date.
Speaker 5: Because faking Jeffrey in the morning man.
Speaker 1: Her story about the Caribbean really turned things around. In
Speaker 1: that call, she mentions her shirt comes off and she
Speaker 1: starts making bad decisions. Jokes on her though, because I'm
Speaker 1: sending them to a Caribbean restaurant with a gift card,
Speaker 1: so it's gonna happen all over again.
Speaker 5: I just think it's like she was going for the
Speaker 5: superficial dudes and that's what she thought they wanted, and
Speaker 5: then she finds the one stable guy and turns.
Speaker 2: Out that's also okay. So none of you guys want
Speaker 2: just a normal.
Speaker 1: Boring Everybody does want that normal, boring, stable person, but
Speaker 1: they have to get through their wild phase first.
Speaker 2: Looks like this, I don't know will it work out
Speaker 2: for them or will it not. She's she's through that phase, Jeff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's born with experience. Maybe she'll push him through
Speaker 1: that phase too and they'll land up on the other
Speaker 1: end together. That's our hope, and our hope for you
Speaker 1: is to be successful in your dating life. So email
Speaker 1: us and we can help you out by calling that
Speaker 1: person who's not calling you back. Go check out all
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