1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Cambridge Edge. 2 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the 3 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 2: Rough with Teddy Mellencamp and Surprise Phil In what what 4 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,599 Speaker 2: have we even? You're not even a guest at this point. 5 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: You're Surprise and Co. 6 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: I am whatever you say, I am. Yeah, you are 7 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: the boss, Teddy Mellencamp, You are my boss. So I'll 8 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: take whatever title you want to give me. And I 9 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 1: don't say that to too many people. 10 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 2: I love you, Dolores. You know who is obsessed with 11 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 2: your ex husband? 12 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: Who? 13 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 2: Edwin? He interviewed it the other day and apparently they 14 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 2: got on biggest. 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 3: Oh. 16 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: I love that. He's a guys guy. 17 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, they just they really got along. While Edwin was 18 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 2: all chipper around, I'm like, what are you so excited about? 19 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: He's like, do you know Dolores Catana And I'm. 20 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: Like, yes, they're so so bid. 21 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 2: But anyways, Yeah, So there's a lot of things that 22 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: we're going to recap season nineteen, episode five of A 23 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 2: Households in Orange County. There was a lot of things 24 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 2: in the press, and there's a lot of things everywhere, 25 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: and I feel like the only thing that Dolores and 26 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,639 Speaker 2: I could do by commenting on it would be getting 27 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 2: ourselves in trouble because there's spent so much chatter at 28 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 2: this point, even there's not even a point to recap it. 29 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 2: Everybody's seen it. Make your own opinion, yeah, I mean, 30 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 2: and learn from your mistakes. 31 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: What else can you do? Yeah? 32 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 2: I mean that's and maybe try apologizing without a butt. 33 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: That doesn't happen often in our world, does it, Teddy? 34 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 2: No, Why is there always got to be a butt? 35 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 2: We should take butt out of everybody's vernacular and see 36 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 2: how well they go. They can't do. 37 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: Throw it in the garbage, the trash, and you know what, 38 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: I want to get rid of, Teddy. But I probably 39 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: always around. I think UM's been around since I've been 40 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: lost for words. No, I feel like I hear it 41 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: now more than ever, unless I'm sensitive to it, like 42 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: poor Gabby. You know, my daughter Gabby. I've been making 43 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: her work with Clear the Shelters this year and you know, 44 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: in the season, and she's been doing a lot of 45 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: She was took awful work to do an interview with me, 46 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: and she said too many times, but I didn't want 47 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: to yell at her there, so I had to wait 48 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,399 Speaker 1: till we were done, and then I felt bad because. 49 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 2: She's then she's overthinking it and can't change it. 50 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And so now but she's gotten bad, 51 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: but you know I told her, and now the last 52 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: couple of times, she's gotten better. So if I do that, 53 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: please tell me, because I'm trying not to be the 54 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 1: um girl. 55 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: M Okay, you know. 56 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: You have diplomatic immunity now, like, so if there's anybody 57 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: out there that wants to say something to me and 58 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 1: may not get mad, you're gonna have to go through Teddy. 59 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 2: Listen, you're gonna have to go through me, and we're 60 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 2: going to do our best. We'll get through it because 61 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 2: if we're we're easy to have conversations. It's easy to 62 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:07,799 Speaker 2: have a conversation with Dolores. 63 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: I have problem not lately. Lately, I've been a fucking lunatic. 64 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: You have. I don't know why. I don't. 65 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 2: It's because someone suggested you needed to be a lunatic 66 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 2: A little bit from my viewing pleasure. 67 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: It's like even off camera on I'm just I'm just 68 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: very up, like Paul's a calm down. I don't know 69 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 1: what it is. 70 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: That's how I've been too, and I think somebody told 71 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 2: me it's because Mercury is in retrograde ship. It's over 72 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 2: and we're not be better. It ended. 73 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: No fucking. 74 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 2: We don't even have a butt. Damn sh damn it, 75 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: damn it, sh it. Well it starts off this episode. 76 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 2: At Gina's housewarming party, Jen tells the girls she met 77 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 2: with Tamra and explains that Tamar called claimed Jen is 78 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 2: obsessed with her, and then Gina tells them and I'm 79 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 2: only going to say this one time because I don't 80 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 2: think it's necessary to keep saying the word. But Gina 81 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 2: tells them about the fatty in quotation marks photo Tama 82 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 2: had shown Heather of Jin from yours prior listen. Tamra 83 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 2: may have said it was when Jen was heavy, but 84 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: she never said the F word. Gina is the one 85 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: who continues to say it and everybody else in this episode, 86 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: and for the record, I counted Gina said it over 87 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: eight times. 88 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to say that because I've been 89 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: the F word. I'm now the F word. 90 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 2: Like, It's just we all struggle in different ways, and I've. 91 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: Always struggled, and we know your struggles and it's not fun. 92 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:49,799 Speaker 1: It isn't fun. 93 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 2: And I think it's weird that she didn't actually say 94 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 2: the F word, But all the women are obsessed with 95 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 2: saying that's exactly what she said. 96 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: Because they I want to say, and they're using her 97 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: mouth to do it. 98 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, but then it offends everybody. Now everybody's offended. Now 99 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 2: we can't stop hearing the effort. 100 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 1: I'm tired of it. Let's just stop, you know. Yeah, 101 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: but listen, Jen looks great. Her body's insane right now. 102 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: She should be proud of whatever it is that she's 103 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 1: worked hard on. 104 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 2: And yeah, she looks stunning. I mean, should tamer have 105 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 2: shown the photo? Definitely not. But when she said heavy, 106 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 2: I think she met as it to look how Jen 107 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 2: got into amazing shape after meeting me. Not that this 108 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 2: makes any of the tons better, but she's trying to 109 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 2: justify a reason why, like, oh, well, clearly it's she 110 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 2: did these made these changes because she wanted to be 111 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: like me. I don't think she was trying to body 112 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 2: shame or judge her in that way at all. 113 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: Whatever she was doing, I can tell you one thing 114 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: she wasn't doing was the body shame. 115 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,159 Speaker 2: No, she was not, and that's now turned into the 116 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 2: whole thing all over the worldwide web as well. 117 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: So everybody's upset that she Okay, well listen, it's got 118 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: you know what happens, Teddy. With this type of thing, 119 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 1: it lasts until something else happens. It has a seventy 120 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 1: two hour shelf life. 121 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 2: The problem is, I think the next thing that's going 122 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 2: to happen if once we get to the trailer of 123 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 2: this episode is something with Tama is getting it this season. 124 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 1: It's it's a rough one. 125 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 2: It's a rough one. 126 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 1: It's a rough one. We all have our seasons. 127 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, but when Tama arrives, it's awkward with everyone. Jen, Shannon, 128 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 2: and Emily and Heather go outside to discuss the f 129 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 2: photo and Jen gets brought up. Heather explains that Tamora 130 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: is trying to show that Jen worked out to look 131 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 2: like her. Oh, this is exactly what I just said. Huh. 132 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 2: And then Heather explains how she can see someone else's 133 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 2: point of view, and Jen says Heather is bamboozled, and 134 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 2: but Heather has an amazing way of like not getting 135 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 2: into it, but getting into it, stirring it. 136 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: Just the tip, just the tip, the tip counts. 137 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 2: The tip counts, It counts, So she does it so 138 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 2: effortlessly you. 139 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 1: Can't just say it was just the tip, like you 140 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: could try, you could, doesn't count. 141 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: But you know there was a couple throats in. 142 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: There, Yeah, maybe two or three. One for good luck, 143 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: one for goodbye. It's always the goodbye thrust. That's the best. 144 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 2: But if looks could kill. When Heather's eyes burned through 145 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 2: Jinn's face when she said bamboozled, like, Heather was like. 146 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: Not me, no, not today, not. I don't get bamboozled. 147 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: I'm hither to brow. I don't get bamboozled. But I 148 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: was impressed at how she did try to explain the 149 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: real intention behind it. I didn't. 150 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 2: It's like, what we're trying is impressive. 151 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that was very impressive on Heather's part. 152 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 2: It really was, because if not, it really is just 153 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 2: pile on, everybody piling on without fully knowing the information. 154 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 2: What would have been more interesting television at this point 155 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 2: is if they had brought Tamara out and said, hey, 156 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 2: can you explain this a little bit? 157 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well no, that's not gonna happen. 158 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 2: Well fine, fine, Well, then Katie asked Haama how it 159 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 2: went with Jen, and Tamra explained that she told Jen 160 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 2: she's obsessed with her, especially for reaching out to people 161 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 2: like Gretchen. Gretchen tells Tamara it's like she has never 162 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 2: learned her lesson and calls her delusional and then walks outside. 163 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: Gretchen came back with a vengeance. 164 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 2: She's not trying to get any forgiveness here. But also 165 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 2: I hate to be the beaar of bad news. Gretchen 166 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 2: filters are considered being delusional, so now I see the 167 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 2: thing that we are all delusional? 168 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: Are they? 169 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 2: You need to peruse through her filters. She filters so much, 170 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: she takes out her nose holes. 171 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: Ah, she forgets again. She needs them that much. Listen, 172 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 1: if I knew how to put a filter on this, 173 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm not doing it right now. 174 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 2: Believe me. If this could face app, it'd be on there. 175 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: You're not face app got less. Oh thanks, that's not 176 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: even fair. You look airbrushed. I don't know how to 177 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: work this, and Paul's sunning himself in the backyard, so 178 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: he wasn't able to help me get this on. My 179 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: assistant brought my dog to get her nails cut, so 180 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: when I had to turn this on. I'm like, all right, 181 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: fuck it. 182 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 2: Do you normally have a filter on here? I want one? 183 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: I always so wrong, I think I thought I did. Anyway, 184 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: it's not enough, but you know, yeah, it's the whole 185 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 1: filter game. But is she just listen, Gretchen's not a 186 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 1: bad looking woman. She looks great in her confession. 187 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 2: Doesn't need the extremity, need all that the filter she uses. 188 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: But right, why is someone doing it for her? Or 189 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: she just doesn't know how to do it? It just 190 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: makes you look weird when you don't have to when 191 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 1: you work that hard on yourself. Looks like she's someone 192 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 1: who actually works hard on taking care of himself, Like 193 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: I know she doesn't have roots like I do right 194 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: now ever, and she's very fit. And then so no 195 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: need for all the filters you work too hard, just. 196 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 2: Saying no need for all of it. But then Gina 197 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 2: tells them they're all going to New Orleans this you 198 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 2: might have to take a little bit because it was 199 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 2: It's hard for me to watch Tamra's upset because the 200 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 2: last time she was in she said it was with me, 201 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 2: and it was when I had fallen down the marble 202 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 2: stairs and a couple of days later is when I 203 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 2: ended up in the hospital and had to have my 204 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: emergency brain surgery. So it's very weird for me watching 205 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 2: this back because of course I know how hard like 206 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: I you know, Tamar came was one of the first 207 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 2: people to come see me at the hospital, you mean, 208 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 2: and she's there for me, staying with me, and I 209 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 2: know what she's going through. But it's also hard for 210 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 2: me to watch back. So what was your thoughts on 211 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 2: watching the whole thing altogether, Because I mean, I say, 212 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 2: reality shoulds are supposed to talk about anything, but then 213 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 2: they every time she says something, they're like, oh, she 214 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 2: wants sympathy. 215 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: So I can speak for Tamra who and you may 216 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: not know this, or you may know this. My off 217 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 1: camera Tamra was scrambling to try to find answers for you, 218 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 1: hysterical I had not I'm close with you, guys, but 219 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 1: I was so happy she picked up every call to 220 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 1: answer for you and just say I'm so upset, I'm sorry. 221 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: She was worse off camera than you saw her even 222 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 1: on camera. So whoever wants to say that, And I 223 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: would never lie about this. I want to speak for 224 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: someone who knows that you can I can debunk old 225 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: whoever has said, oh, she's looking for attention on camera, 226 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: because I have seen people say that, and you don't 227 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 1: want to fight with these people because when you text them, 228 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,079 Speaker 1: you go into a whole thing and it's just not worthing. 229 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 1: I just wanted to be here to say that Tamra was, 230 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 1: of course truly truly broken over you, as everybody was. 231 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: You were so loved, but Tamra is so close to 232 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 1: you and was going through it with you. 233 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 2: I think people don't realize that. Like, I mean, I 234 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 2: had a select group of girlfriends. I know that, you know, 235 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 2: a select group of girlfriends that were really there for me, 236 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 2: and Tamra was one of them. And like I was 237 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 2: not a peach to be dealing with, Like I was 238 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 2: a real freaking hard person to deal with, and like 239 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 2: when I was in the hospital, and even leading up 240 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 2: to the hospital, I mean, tamer and I had multiple 241 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 2: conversations where I was like, something is wrong with me. 242 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 2: I don't know what's wrong with me. Things were happening, 243 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 2: and like we were in a part of like we 244 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 2: gotten to the point because I wasn't even making sense 245 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 2: because you know, of all these plumb sized tumors in 246 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 2: my brain. That Tamor was like, are you okay, Teddy? 247 00:12:57,360 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 2: What do we do? 248 00:12:58,240 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 1: Like? 249 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 2: I love you? Like we Tamer and I don't film 250 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 2: a television show together. We have done this podcast for 251 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 2: so many years. We are like some people on television 252 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 2: shows are just friends. We've never been like. We don't 253 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 2: do that. We're not on Real Housewives of Orange County together. 254 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 2: There's nothing for either of us to gain from one another. 255 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 2: And we're true friends, right. 256 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: That's what people don't understand. They don't know how to 257 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: separate these shows from what the two of you do. 258 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:35,239 Speaker 1: And you're together all year around. People on the shows, 259 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: it's four months out of the year where you're on 260 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 1: top of each other. Then you see each other off 261 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: camera the real friends. But the two of you, for 262 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: so many years have five times a week, five times 263 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: a week, all year around a lot of time. You've 264 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 1: been through a lot together and nothing has ever come 265 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 1: between your friendship. 266 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 2: Nothing. 267 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: And I'm sure you've had disagreements. Who doesn't. 268 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we can both be petty at times, 269 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 2: for sure, But I think at the end of the day, 270 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 2: we love each other and we joke about it and 271 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 2: we say like remember that time you deleted me from 272 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 2: the chat one time, or like remember that time I 273 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 2: called you one hundred and forty seven times and you wouldn't, 274 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 2: you know, like those types of things. But that's real friendship. 275 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 2: And I think truthfully, if one of the girls would 276 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 2: have actually like given her some love and said, like 277 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 2: talked through it a bit, maybe it would have helped 278 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 2: her move on. But I felt like she had to 279 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 2: just she kept kind of having to slide in little 280 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 2: bits of information like why doesn't anyone realize after I've 281 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 2: just told them that New Orleans is going to be 282 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: you know, like that what my situation was in New Orleans? 283 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 2: Cut to twenty minutes later, We're going to New Orleans. 284 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: That's the thing. It's to humanizing sometimes to watch you 285 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: forget that these women and that all people on reality 286 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: are human. Yeah, because they get a lot of flack 287 00:14:57,080 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: from social media and then they see us by and 288 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: then they see all this, but they don't see what 289 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 1: we're going with. You can't see what somebody's feeling inside. Yeah, 290 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: but somebody with empathy would understand. Now one thing about Heather, 291 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: and I'm going to say Tamra reached out to them 292 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: quite a bit because her husband's a doctor and he 293 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 1: was an information for her to explain what you were 294 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: going through and to be there for her. So Heather 295 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: understood at great lengths what Tamra was going through and 296 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: what was going on between the two of you at 297 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: the time. 298 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you could see Heather would come over and 299 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 2: lay on the bed with tam like they are past things. 300 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 2: But I think you know, the one thing that we 301 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 2: can say that it was really positive for Tama this 302 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 2: episode was we see her with Sophia looking through her 303 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 2: spot eyes stats and I mean, granted, I want to 304 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 2: know what the song is. It's about the girl that 305 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 2: falls in love with the cannibal, But I mean, just 306 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 2: you can see the relation and how great it isn't 307 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 2: That part made me smile? And then the part that 308 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 2: made me sad was Emily gets emotional about leaving Luke 309 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 2: for New Orleans. She feels like Luke depends on her. 310 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 1: So that really got me teddy because it really was 311 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 1: a real look at a parent who a mother or 312 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 1: a father who's going through that, like she feels guilty 313 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: to be having or living her life. Yeah, and I 314 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 1: can only imagine that what she's going through like it's 315 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 1: got to be so hard. She's so worried about him 316 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: every second, every minute. Her cries are so visceral, Like 317 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: there's a lot of people going through things in this 318 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: episode that's like. 319 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: That are big things and can I just do like 320 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 2: a little PSA. Bands have been awful, awful to both 321 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 2: Emily and Larsa this week because about their looks. 322 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: Can we oh my god, can like we do. 323 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 2: A little better? Like we make fun of housewives in 324 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 2: so many ways, including outfits and hairstyles. But what we've 325 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 2: been saying, what people have been saying online, doing online 326 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: is not good. It's one thing to be like, that's 327 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 2: not my favorite look, but like the things that have 328 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 2: been said about. 329 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: Larsas that are coming out, yah, I mean. 330 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:30,639 Speaker 2: It's getting to the point where it's like we wanted 331 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 2: to still have a fun aspect to it, and we 332 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 2: know the show is about drama, but social media, let's 333 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 2: make it fun. You can be shady and talk shit, 334 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 2: but still make it. 335 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 1: When did it get so dark? There was always a 336 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 1: few here and there, but now the majority of it 337 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 1: is so dark. Larsa was so hammered that she felt 338 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 1: the need to get on social media in a mirror 339 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: with her phone and try to explain why she looked 340 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 1: like that people that she never met or doesn't has 341 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:08,680 Speaker 1: no bearing on her life. She's like, but I had 342 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:12,439 Speaker 1: an allergic reaction. This is my face. Really, Like, I 343 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 1: can only imagine for her to have to do that 344 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 1: what she really was feeling at the time. 345 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 2: It's I mean, it's so brutal. It's I mean, the 346 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 2: other day and most of the time I don't respond, 347 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 2: I don't even see it. But somebody the other day 348 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh, you look sickly. Well you 349 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 2: need to change your look, blah blah blah, and I 350 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 2: wrote back, well, I do have stage four cancer. Sorry 351 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 2: about my appearance. Doesn't appease you, And then all of 352 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 2: a sudden she was I'm so sorry about I'm like, okay. 353 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: What the hell? Did she just want the attention? 354 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 2: She just wanted the attention of the response. 355 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: It's all. It's how sad are these people that they 356 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: feel the need to say something so egregious to you 357 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:58,479 Speaker 1: to get your attention like a child? Is it? Like, 358 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: I can only imagine how pathetic somebody's life. 359 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 2: Is that they have to want to say that. 360 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 1: You know, like a child. Throwing a tantrum so they 361 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 1: get attention. 362 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, or we just have to do better. 363 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,880 Speaker 1: We have very sad it's it's a very sad existence. 364 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: I have a lot of pity for those people rather 365 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 1: than hate. 366 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 2: To be honest with you, No, true, I didn't. I 367 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 2: didn't have hate. I just was like, gosh, what is 368 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 2: wrong with everyone? Then Jen brings up to Ryan how 369 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 2: she struggles with body image, so the fact that Tamra 370 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 2: is showing. Then she uses the word, the F word. 371 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 2: Then she uses it Jen herself. Okay, Jen, but just 372 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: don't you now she's calling herself that. 373 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: I thought that we're not supposed to be saying that 374 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 1: or whatever. 375 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,400 Speaker 2: I thought so too. But it keeps going and they 376 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 2: discuss it. They love the word, they love the word. 377 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 2: They can't get enough. 378 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 1: Plaining about it, but they love the word. 379 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 2: They love the word. Then they discussed gens X husband 380 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 2: will and how the situation weighs on Ryan. I mean 381 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 2: Ryan kind of wins me over this episode a little 382 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 2: bit when he said he's not he's her ex has 383 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 2: not paid a dollar towards the lumpsun of green upon 384 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 2: her and all her kids live with Ryan, and Ryan 385 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 2: has to pay the attorney, like, Ryan's having to do 386 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 2: a lot of things. 387 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: This is there's so in love. Those two love. 388 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 2: But now that I found out she can't. He can't 389 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 2: even fully get it inside. He can literally dress the 390 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 2: tip that made me ouch. It hurts me just thinking 391 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 2: about it. 392 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 1: What do you mean? Oh? 393 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:38,239 Speaker 2: At the end of the episode, she says that she 394 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 2: her vagina is broken, and I guess she had to 395 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 2: get a surgery on her pelvic floor. 396 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: Where was I when this happened. I watched the whole episode. 397 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:50,439 Speaker 2: What they don't know, but I every time I hear it, 398 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 2: I do a kegel. Now, aren't you doing it? 399 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,120 Speaker 1: No? I think it's Is it a bad thing. 400 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 2: When you tighten yourself down? 401 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: What I'm saying, like, is the pelvic floor being lifted 402 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: and tightened such a bad thing? 403 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 2: Well, I think if your public floor is not lifted 404 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 2: and you've had a bunch of kids, I think you 405 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,679 Speaker 2: pee your pants. So I think there's a medical reason 406 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 2: why you do it. But then you have to like 407 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 2: stretch out your situation afterwards. 408 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: I'm dying right now. 409 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,120 Speaker 2: I can't believe you missed this. 410 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna cry. This is such good information. I don't 411 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: even know what to do with it. 412 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,640 Speaker 2: So if you want to stop having sex, go get 413 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 2: your pelvic floor. 414 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:46,360 Speaker 1: Stop ragging Jen. Enough between the ad photos and the 415 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 1: type vagina. I'm done with you, go away already. 416 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 2: Then the girls separate in two groups to fly. It's Emily, Gina, 417 00:21:55,880 --> 00:22:05,359 Speaker 2: Gretchen and Katie. And then oh my gosh. 418 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: Then it's Rush carry up. I'm crying. 419 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:09,680 Speaker 2: I know she can't get up. She can't. 420 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring myself back for a minute. You don't 421 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 1: even know. 422 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 2: Then they go along walking along the Mississippi River, which 423 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 2: they don't know is the Mississippi River. If they go 424 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 2: on a boat ride. 425 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 1: Wives to freaking make themselves look stupid, like, guys, come. 426 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:29,439 Speaker 2: On, come on, you don't know where. And somebody's like, 427 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 2: we're at the bayou. And then somebody's like. 428 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:36,679 Speaker 1: We're somebody. Just get it together. Can you give us something? Bows? 429 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 1: I mean, look at Bows came on to Beverly Hills 430 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 1: and she's a rock star. Can we have a little 431 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:42,640 Speaker 1: bit more of that? 432 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,239 Speaker 2: Yeah? Come on, I mean, clearly I couldn't do that. 433 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 2: I probably would have made the same error. But still, 434 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 2: but how about read the sign. 435 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 1: I'm sure there's a sign somewhere that says Mississippi River 436 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: on the river, Like, I'm. 437 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 2: Not sure on your little thing that you got of 438 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 2: the day knowing that no one reads, yeah, is your itinerary? 439 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,640 Speaker 2: It says go to Mississippi River for a boat boat ride. 440 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 2: And I have a question, did Gret just get her 441 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,639 Speaker 2: wisdom teeth removed or something? Because this entire scene when 442 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,919 Speaker 2: they're on the boat it sounded like me like I 443 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 2: was like sometimes and I was like, what is happening here? 444 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 2: And then I heard it later and I was like, 445 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 2: does she have a piece of gauze in there? 446 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: No, this is weird. Let me just tell you something. 447 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 1: You ever notice like some women get some weird list 448 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: going on at this like all of a sudden, like 449 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: they hear someone talk and then they want to talk 450 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 1: like them. 451 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 2: Yeah you think they like that kind of the thing, 452 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 2: which it's just really for a second and I was 453 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:53,880 Speaker 2: so confused, so fat, I was really confused. Just tell 454 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 2: me for one second why you had this in your 455 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 2: mouth and why you're filming. 456 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: Used to be I used to work in a down 457 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,680 Speaker 1: to office that I actually owned, and I just want 458 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 1: to say, like, no one talked like jesh after they 459 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: got their wearsdomp teeth. Now, I don't know why you 460 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 1: think it's wet damp cheeth. 461 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,439 Speaker 2: I can't wait until she reaches out to me and 462 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 2: that was in her mouth? 463 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 1: Can we ask her? 464 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 2: Because then she went back to normal talking after the dinner. 465 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 1: Maybe she had garment, she spread it. 466 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 2: Out well, gone with some emotion. That's discussing. 467 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 3: I don't know, Oh my gosh. 468 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 2: Then they go to this dinner where this ship show 469 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 2: after ship show happens. They're ordering turtle soup. There's a 470 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 2: ghost they spilled over. 471 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 1: Soup Onheather of all people. You know, I'm so nice 472 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,880 Speaker 1: when somebody does that, like I want to make them 473 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,800 Speaker 1: feel like I did it to myself. I don't want 474 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 1: to make the guy. Heather was not very gracious about it. 475 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 2: She couldn't make eye contact. She was like, I mean granted, 476 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 2: like give. 477 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: Me, like, come on, did you get burnt? Like who cares? 478 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 1: And then who said? Gina was like, oh my god, 479 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 1: it was probably such an expensive dress. Can we stop 480 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: talking about her money defining her? I'd really like that, Heather. 481 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: I like you this episode. I'm not knocking you, but 482 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 1: I don't want I want it to not always be 483 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: about what you have and your things? 484 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 2: And why why isn't there one regular human that can go, hey, 485 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 2: are you sticky? Did it make you sticky? Do you 486 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 2: need a want rag? Like? Do you not want me 487 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 2: to wipe you down? Because it was an espresso martini, 488 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 2: I think, and so it probably was sticky, But like, 489 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 2: where's everybody else's like human nation? Like if I got 490 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 2: spilled all over myself? Instead of this awkward moment of 491 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 2: showing Heather looking like frazzled, which she may or may 492 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,400 Speaker 2: not have done the entire time and not been gracious 493 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 2: to the guy, or she could have been like, oh 494 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 2: my gosh, it's no big deal, and one of the 495 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 2: women could have gone over and like cleaned her up 496 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,719 Speaker 2: in a nice fashion and been like, oh no, are 497 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 2: you sticky? Should we go to the bathroom? But no 498 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,240 Speaker 2: one does. We just get right back into fighting. 499 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, you know what, we could have made it funny. 500 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:22,119 Speaker 1: Somebody could have licked it off of her sons. Come on, 501 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 1: we could have done something with that. When these things happen, 502 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: we need to capitalize on them. 503 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. Then we get into Shannon talking about her ideal man. 504 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 2: The first thing Heather asks is can he be short? 505 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:38,400 Speaker 2: And immediately they've panned to Emily, and Emily's like. 506 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,440 Speaker 1: Terry's lifts. I don't wait, you know, I like it. 507 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 1: I like him. He's nice. 508 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:50,959 Speaker 2: I think he's nice. I don't mind his height. But 509 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 2: also I don't think that Heather was trying to point 510 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,679 Speaker 2: out Shane. I think she just met in general, Shannon 511 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 2: is a taller person, like if Shannon. I people think 512 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 2: I'm tall and then they meet me and they're like, 513 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 2: you are very. 514 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,400 Speaker 1: Short and you're like five to four right, Yes, me too. 515 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 2: I think Shannon's like probably five seven five A. And 516 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 2: then with heels, that's so that's. 517 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 1: Always Whears, the big Valentino plans. Always, that's her signature. 518 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,880 Speaker 2: And so I think Heather was asking because I think 519 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 2: that's something that's come up for Heather because Heather is 520 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:24,640 Speaker 2: also tall, and Terry has to wear lifts, which now 521 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 2: they say are out of business. And by random, Taram 522 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 2: was telling me to buy these lifts sneakers that have 523 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 2: been influencing her on Instagram. 524 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: I bought them, Yes, I did. I love them and 525 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:40,200 Speaker 1: I bought them for Paul. 526 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 3: No. 527 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 1: Well, it's tall, but I know they're very light, they're 528 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 1: not cheap, they're like over one hundred dollars. They're like 529 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty or one hundred and seventy. I 530 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 1: think whatever, it was worth it so worth it. Love Teddy, 531 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:57,120 Speaker 1: I love them. 532 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,479 Speaker 2: Yeah. Then the episode ends where Heather as Emily her 533 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,880 Speaker 2: favorite sex position they kind. She likes to say, it's 534 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 2: from behind so she can watch TV and if she 535 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 2: could have snacks she likes to. 536 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, Emily, you gotta give it to them. You 537 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: gotta give it to them, like we put it all 538 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:15,960 Speaker 1: out there, we really do. 539 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 2: And this is where we learn the tidbit about the 540 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 2: vagina not being big enough anymore after the surgery. Could 541 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 2: you I get a little tattoo right above it that 542 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 2: says ouch. 543 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 1: Nosing, you know. 544 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 2: Like the. 545 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 1: Like this and it says like or you only height 546 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: or like when you're going under a bridge and it 547 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 1: says the height thing. 548 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just too good. 549 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 4: But they all managed to get along this episode until 550 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 4: the very end. Of course they better do some and 551 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 4: this is when yeah, because this was a little bit 552 00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 4: of a filler episode. 553 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 2: And then next week is when we see in the 554 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 2: trailer that Tamra quits. 555 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 1: This is when this is the pivotal moment of the season. 556 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: This is the moment. Like you know, every season, Teddy, 557 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: as you know, has to have a moment. Yeah, so 558 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 1: here's the moment. It's coming. 559 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 2: It's coming, and it's gonna be good. 560 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: It's gonna be good. 561 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 2: Oh well, Delores, I love you. Thank you so much 562 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 2: for joining me on Diamonds and the Rough. You guys 563 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 2: keep tuning in if you go to our stream. You 564 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 2: pretty much got a pod every day and you can 565 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 2: get mad at us all you want, but there's no 566 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 2: need to DMS how you feel. I'm fine about it. 567 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 2: I know you are. 568 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 1: You've never been swayed. I mean, you're consistent. 569 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 4: Thanks guys, great, Thanks guys, talking to you.