WEBVTT - I Don't Wanna Miss a Thing 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:04.840 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Wrath, an iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:11.360 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:13.800 Scrub dub dub. 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:17.239 It's the last day of the year. It's the Lassie of. 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:21.520 The year, thirtieth of December today thirty there's one more 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.640 days of the year. 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:27.400 Version of the scrubbing song. 0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:29.640 I you know, I thought about that, but I don't 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:30.440 know how to do it any. 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:34.800 Scrubbers. 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:40.639 Yeah, yellow is the. 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:44.400 One yo, it is the ring. 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:45.880 What are the words of that song? 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:47.960 Forgotten? 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:51.519 Never brought to mind? Should all the quaintance be forgotten? 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:53.600 In days of all lang zion? 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:55.080 That one's too hard to do? 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:56.160 No, no, no. 0:00:56.240 --> 0:01:06.959 Scrub scrub scrub, scrub, scrub. 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:11.040 Scrub scrub scrub scrub. 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:18.800 A moment that we're gonna ge Inger copyright for that. 0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:22.840 Yeah, it's too similar, Yeah, really too close to the real. 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:27.600 Okay, don't rule these days. 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:30.960 What is everyone doing for New Year's Eve? 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:33.600 What are Let's start with you? 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:38.040 Well, so normally are like typically what we do is 0:01:38.080 --> 0:01:40.360 we go somewhere for like a getaway, and we celebrate 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:45.120 out of town. But last year we did we stayed 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:46.959 here and it was really nice because we just made 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:49.400 vision boards all day and it was a very cozy 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:51.920 day at home and it felt like nice to not 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:55.000 be traveling or going anywhere. So I think we might 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.920 do that again this year and then do like a 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:01.280 trip later on. But that's the playing, just vision boards 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:03.240 and good food. 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:04.040 You know. 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:04.640 I love. 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:08.040 I love a goal to like be healthier starting in 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:08.480 the new year. 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:11.840 So I really got balls to the walls on. 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:14.440 Food to the walls baby. 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:17.600 On the day before the New year. 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:22.040 So I'm actually starting a like, oh, You're gonna be 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:22.720 healthy this year. 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:26.200 No, I'm healthy every year. 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:27.400 I know that was my joke. 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:30.799 But I'm starting, like, I don't know what to call it, 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:35.000 like a community accountability. 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:36.680 Activity. 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:40.079 I just name it. 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:48.960 Sounds good, community accountability activity. It's pretty good, honestly, off No, yeah, 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:53.640 any sounds very Basically, every day for the month of January, 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:57.360 I'm going to move my body every single day, okay, 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:59.760 seven days a week. So that does not mean I'm 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:01.800 going to be going balls to the walls doing like 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:04.120 berries every day. Some days I want to walk, it's 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:07.440 gonna just be me walking. But every single day for 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:09.720 the month of January, I'm gonna move my body and 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:11.960 i want like everybody to join in and like send 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:14.400 me pictures and I'm gonna send prizes to people that 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:16.880 are doing it like that I see that are doing 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:17.440 it a lot. 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:20.640 Wow. Nice A community. 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:25.880 Yes, a community activity. 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:28.160 I have to write that down right now. 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:33.000 January it's like, uh, spry January. 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:34.800 Yes exactly, because it's not realistic for me to do 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:35.600 dry January. 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:36.760 I just know it. It's just not. 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:42.200 So this is gonna be my community accountability activity. 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:43.240 Yes, I think it's fun. 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:44.960 I'm gonna give out prizes to people that I see 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:47.360 that are posting and like tagging me and like keeping 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:48.160 themselves accountable. 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:48.880 I think it's gonna be fun. 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:51.880 It's fun. Yeah, So it's a fun way to start 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.240 good habits. Yes, you know. 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:54.720 Yeah. 0:03:55.920 --> 0:03:57.600 And might not do it with each other. You know 0:03:57.640 --> 0:03:58.160 what I'm saying. 0:03:58.200 --> 0:03:59.680 If we're not doing it with each other, what are 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:05.560 we doing? Four David? Yeah, that's right. 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:06.720 She's in her ships creek. 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:10.920 Yeah, I am, So what are you doing on New 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:11.400 Year's Eve? 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:18.839 Well that is tomorrow, yes, tomorrow really? 0:04:18.920 --> 0:04:22.480 Yeah, might be right here in Los Angeles, great old 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:26.600 city of La California, City of Angels, the City of Angels, 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:29.240 or I might be in the city of the Big Apple. 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:29.800 Wow. 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:35.440 Oh no, that's a big like n y E and 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:37.400 E in n y C. 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:38.560 Yes, big deal. 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:41.120 Are you going? Would you? If that comes to pass? 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:42.400 Will you be at the ball drop? 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:43.000 I will not? 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:45.120 I see, yes, you've done that before. I have. 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:46.839 I did one year I went to where the ball 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:50.320 to times Square. I would no, No, I would not be 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:50.520 doing that. 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:53.719 You'd just be going with friends, correct and Robbie. 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:54.440 Correct. 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:59.200 But yeah, so those are two very different, very different, 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:03.560 very very fun, really fun. Yeah. Wherever we decide to be, 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:04.440 it's gonna be. 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:06.480 Wonderful. 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:10.360 It's the most wonderful time. 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:16.400 But you know, I usually I do my vision board, 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:19.880 but I do it the first week of January, so 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.919 I'll definitely be doing that within the coming days. I 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:25.279 have my Word of the Year, which I'm very excited about. 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:25.680 You know. 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:28.040 It's so good. Thank you Mark for the assistance. 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:30.400 I don't need that, but you're nice to say so, 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:30.880 but thank you. 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:37.440 Thank you. Woman in full Yeah, wife is the wife 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:40.920 ye come up with. It's pretty epic. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:46.599 I got a text just the other day from my daughter. 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:48.400 Used to go to school with a guy, and so 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.560 we knew his parents and we haven't spoken to him 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:53.080 in a long time because they're off at separate colleges together, 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:54.480 so we don't really see her anymore. 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:57.599 But I just thought Little just said w I f 0:05:57.640 --> 0:05:58.400 E Bravo. 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:01.479 Wow me a second, Like, what is she saying? 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:01.799 Oh? 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:05.480 Yeahs to the podcast. Yeah, yeah, look at you. 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:06.640 W I f E. 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:08.840 Is it's like a spin on the word wife, And 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:10.600 I'm like obsessed with it. 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:16.320 Yeah, because it's almost it's almost taking the tradition of 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:20.960 what wife is and make me get it an independent 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:23.360 modern woman take. 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:26.520 Yeah, it's like so epic. I'm so excited about it. 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:28.400 I haven't been this excited about a word in like 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:28.839 a minute. 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:29.920 Try pretty good. 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:33.280 It's like a pretty good trajectory. 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:36.640 So I don't know how next yours pressure is on? 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:42.040 And what does it stand for? 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:46.159 What could it stand for? 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:47.400 Mother? 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:57.320 Okay, moment, magic, my oven. 0:06:58.440 --> 0:06:58.839 Making? 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:14.960 We have a year to work, shop, mommy, get youth, mommy, Mama, mama, mommy. 0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:16.320 Modern offspring machine. 0:07:18.760 --> 0:07:24.640 That's not bad, honestly, that we're getting ahead of ourselves. 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:28.000 Let us not speed through twenty twenty five. 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:31.040 No, we got to get to the wife wife era. 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:34.440 Yes, So that's what that's a little bit about my 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:35.320 plans for the. 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:36.760 Sounds great, sounds exciting. 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:39.120 So we're also breaking with tradition this year. We are 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:40.520 always at my brother in law's. 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:40.960 On New Year's Eve. 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:44.920 We play games, we watch Ryan count it Down, the 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:47.720 whole deal. But this year the kids said to us mom, dad, 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:53.120 we have lives now, we have friends. I am off 0:07:53.160 --> 0:07:55.560 at college. I would like to see my friends on 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:57.600 New Year's Eve. We would like to be home for 0:07:57.680 --> 0:07:59.920 New Year's Eve to be with our friends. So we 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:03.760 changed our flights, which cost a fortune. Yeah, and we 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:07.040 are coming back. We're flying back tomorrow New Year's Eve day. 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:08.240 Smart, thank you. 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:11.360 And then you would think, but no, it didn't really 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:13.840 save us much money. Hopefully there's less people in the 0:08:13.920 --> 0:08:15.400 area anyway. 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:16.880 So that's tomorrow night. 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:19.280 So tomorrow night we're going to be a bunch of 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:22.640 the dance parents are getting together for a party. Wow, 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.920 but we'll find out. We hear it's fun. Like every 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:27.720 you're like, oh my gosh, you should have been there. 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:28.600 It was the best time. 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:30.160 So okay, we'll give it a shot this year. 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:32.120 Oh, this is the thing they do every day every year. 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:35.199 Start we're never there. Yeah, it goes. 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:37.839 This feels like a new tradition. I think it may 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:39.640 be whether you liked it or not. 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:41.000 Yeah, well we'll find out. 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.680 We're going to a party our friends having a black 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:50.280 Swan white Swan thing, and yeah, we have to dress 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:53.280 up as swans. Alison got a bag that's really cute 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:54.920 and dressed and I don't know what I'm gonna do yet. 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:57.160 I forget it, but yeah, we're gonna do that and 0:08:57.160 --> 0:08:59.120 then probably watch Ryan on tape delay. 0:08:59.080 --> 0:08:59.240 Yeah. 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:01.240 Later, we were gonna when we were gonna be in 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:02.800 La we were gonna have people over and do like 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:10.920 a pajama party, but do like gamesame night still could fill. Yeah, yeah, 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:14.920 well no tomorrow, that's right, it's all in play. 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:22.040 What would you say was your biggest accomplishment of the year. 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:25.080 I mean, that's for us. 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:27.320 It was it was getting my oldest daughter off to college. 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:31.320 I mean, graduating high school, big deal, off to college, 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:34.960 big deal. And honestly, I found out Amy was pregnant 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:37.120 in August of two thousand and five, and so I 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:39.120 immediately did the math and knew immediately that you would 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:41.480 be the class of twenty twenty four. So the fact 0:09:41.559 --> 0:09:43.839 that here we are, I've been waiting for this year 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:45.920 for a long, long time. So that was that was 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:48.520 the biggest that overshattered everything else in twenty twenty four. 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:50.880 Yeah, y'all did it. You did it? 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:52.320 Did it by you? 0:09:53.120 --> 0:09:53.960 I would say. 0:09:56.960 --> 0:10:00.280 My biggest accomplishment, I would say maybe the time of 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:04.480 while Haley was gone working in Canada and us navigating 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:06.240 that and getting through that, and I feel like our 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:09.000 relationships like better than ever right now. So I felt 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.360 like that made us very oh and moving in together 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:15.960 and it being such a such a fun Like I 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:18.840 was not that I was nervous because we basically lived together, 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:21.439 just had two different places, but it was just so fun. 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:24.360 And it's just I felt feel like our relationship is 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:27.920 even better than ever living together, which I know could 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:29.920 could have gone in a different direction. 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:32.160 I think it was a different direction if you move 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:32.800 in too fast. 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:34.079 I feel like at that, you know what I mean, 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:36.240 Like you guys, yeah, and you know how each other 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:37.240 lives right. 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:40.280 Like warning me and they're like, it's different, you know 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:40.840 when you move in. 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:43.079 But I'm like, we literally lived together. We just have 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:44.240 double of everything. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:45.240 I think about that too. 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:48.480 I'm like the thing about mar and I us didn't 0:10:48.480 --> 0:10:49.880 have to be a marriage, about being in a long 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:52.760 term committed relationship is like feeling like it's a sleepover 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:55.599 every night, you know what I mean, Like I love sleepovers. 0:10:55.679 --> 0:10:58.000 I that was like the like I. 0:10:58.120 --> 0:10:59.959 The only thing I did not like about my single 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:03.600 season was sleeping alone every night. I love that. 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:06.520 It's like a sleepover every night, you know. And I 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:08.080 like look at him and I'm like, I want to. 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:09.880 Go to sleep because I'm so obsessed with you. 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:13.080 Haley does not do It's so fun. 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:14.560 He's like, I'm tired. 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:20.920 Turn around and You're like, I didn't want to close 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:21.520 my eyes. 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:26.840 I don't want to fall asleep because I'm missing you. 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:29.800 And I don't want to miss. 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:35.840 A thing because temn war a dream again, the the soonest. 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:36.800 Dream will never do. 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:39.560 I still miss you, man, and. 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:43.520 I don't want to miss a thing. It's true. 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:47.640 I've never felt the lyrics before I film. 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:50.800 Now, what's your biggest accomplishment? 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:55.440 I feel like mine was Miami swim Week. 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:56.880 That was a good one. 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:58.360 It was just like so out. 0:11:58.240 --> 0:11:59.960 Of my comfort zone and it was like an immediate 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:01.679 no when it came to me, I was like, no, 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:02.520 I don't want to do that. 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:04.079 And then the fact that. 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:07.240 I thought about it and really took the time to 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:09.640 just like put myself, push myself out of my comfort 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:11.839 zone to even do the audition, which was like so 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:15.360 weird to film yourself strutting down a runway in your 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:17.480 bikini and like dropbock. 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:21.080 That to people was very vulnerable, like doing it in 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:22.200 my driveway, you know what I mean. 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:24.480 It was so weird, but it was like very cool. 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:26.119 And then the actual experience itself. 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:27.520 Was very People. 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:31.120 Will bring it up, but thank you. 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:32.920 That's that is that is true. 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:36.000 Let me just do who were just telling that story 0:12:36.040 --> 0:12:36.640 to the other day. 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:39.360 We were we were spinning a yarn at No Boo 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:43.079 the other day. Oh, talking about gas. 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.600 And how I hurt media still forbids the use of 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:52.280 drop box because of the time, you're rat She plugged 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:55.559 in her phone to her laptop and it started uploading 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:58.600 all of her photos from her phone onto every computer 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.400 in all of my heart lost the angelus, which caused 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:04.679 the Wi Fi to drop to low speeds for the 0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:08.160 entire building and tell somebody had to run around figure 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:10.640 out what is happening. I mean, well, every single computer 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:13.280 building something pictures getting pictures of Tanya, some of which 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:17.960 are completely inappropriate, would have never come our engineer figured 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:19.640 it out and got rid of it. 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:21.079 But then we got to Medbo saying no more drop 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:21.760 Box ever, ever. 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:25.439 Ever, people could just like have taken screenshots or yeah. 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:28.160 Whenever they were good photos. 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:35.400 So I imagine it very very tasteful, very perky. But 0:13:36.520 --> 0:13:38.520 I feel like that whole experience and like it made 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:42.680 me feel. It gave me a sense of like there's 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:45.680 so much out there to do. Yes, why would I 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:48.880 pigeonhole myself into just feeling like I can't do it all? 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:50.920 You know, like next more, I want to do Victoria's 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:51.760 Secret Fashion Show. 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:54.640 Your word was try and you tried. I tried and 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:55.000 you did. 0:13:55.200 --> 0:14:01.280 Yeah, and now I have more modeling roles modeling asper Yes. 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:01.600 I do? 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:03.280 Yeah, yeah, why not? 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:04.520 Why not? 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:06.160 You did not get engaged in twenty twenty four. I 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:08.319 was going to say you're engagement, but that was not three. 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:09.880 See, I did the same thing. 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:12.880 Yeah, but that's a good one. Miami swimming is a 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:13.760 very good choice. 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:15.960 Yeah. 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:18.120 I just feel weird when it's like a work thing. 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:21.800 But I think the thing I'm most proud of anyway 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:25.800 is we started a podcast this year with California Governor 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:29.560 Gavin Newsom, and that there's a lot of things that 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:31.480 I get asked to do that I don't know how 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:33.760 to do and I want to say no, I can't 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:36.040 do that, but I didn't have that. I didn't want 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:38.720 to do that. And uh, there's a lot of challenges 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:41.120 that came with that show, and I'm we did them all. 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:43.480 And uh, I was really proud of everything we did 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:46.160 with the show Politick, in which you can hear on 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:46.920 iHeart Radio. 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:49.480 But also you've gotten to go to the Governor's mansion, 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:51.280 the Capitol and Sacramento. 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.520 Yeah, lot of stuff technically that was difficult, Like we 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:57.960 went to Sant Quentin Prison in northern California, lost stuff 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:01.040 at the Governor's mansion. Wasn't with Gavin, but I went 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:03.720 to the White House for another podcast, and it just 0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:05.760 that those challenges would normally make me very afraid, but 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:07.640 I did not meet them with fear. I met them 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:10.640 with ambition and drive, and it was just I was 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:12.480 proud of how I solved all those problems. 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:14.520 We're proud of you. Thank you so much that you're 0:15:14.520 --> 0:15:15.560 a part of this podcast. 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.000 This podcast is my favorite one. This is one I'm 0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:21.320 most proud of. Though describing here. 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:23.880 First, if there's anything that you want to leave behind 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:24.840 in twenty twenty four. 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:25.360 What is that? 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:27.760 I'll tell you when we come back. 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:47.400 Oh my god, wow, all right, we're back. 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:50.680 One thing that I would leave in the past from 0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:56.160 this year, hmm. You know this isn't just this past year, 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:57.880 but in general. Something I'd like to leave in the 0:15:57.880 --> 0:15:59.400 past is kind of what you were talking about, like 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:01.920 not trying things. Because what we're talking about like not 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:04.520 trying things because of fear. And I don't know where 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:06.640 that comes from in our head, that it is better 0:16:06.680 --> 0:16:10.520 not to try rather than better to try and fail. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:13.120 I don't know why our brains do it like that, 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:15.160 instead of being like, let me try something and if 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:17.680 it doesn't work out, I'll pivot, as opposed to being 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:19.040 like I'm not going to do it because I'm. 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:19.720 Too scared if I fail. 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:21.920 So I would like to leave just that mindset in 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:27.480 the background and be like more ambitious and trying things 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:30.320 that are scary and not being like embarrassed if I fail, 0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:32.360 but just being like all right, like being proud that 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:35.120 I tried, rather than embarrassed that I failed. You know. 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:37.560 Yeah, that's what I would leave. 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:43.000 Yeah, try to be that one. 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:50.360 We can move on to the next, No, I think 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:56.000 I think that I put so much pressure on myself 0:16:57.480 --> 0:17:00.120 and what other people think or like other people's feeling. 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:01.960 So I know that that's like a good quality to have, 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:04.600 but also it's like a lot of my own detriment 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:08.040 and I hate that for me. Mm hmmm, So I'd 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:10.800 like to leave that behind. So like people pleasing, it's 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:15.880 not quite people pleasing, but yes, because it's not it's 0:17:15.880 --> 0:17:17.640 not quiet, like I'm not talking the umbrella. 0:17:17.840 --> 0:17:19.080 Yeah, sure, it's the umbrella. 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:20.640 Okay, Yeah, So. 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:25.360 Not doing things like not doing things specifically caring about 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:27.440 other people's feelings. 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:29.080 Or and when you say, like that is so bad 0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:29.760 what you're. 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:32.720 Saying, because we're this is what we were talking about. 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:36.879 There is a culture where it's like we live in 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:40.040 a very selfish culture that's like really tells us focus 0:17:40.119 --> 0:17:42.800 on yourself set boundaries kind of almost like only think 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:46.520 about yourself. But I think the mindset should be care 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:48.880 for others and be there forevers but make sure your 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:51.520 cup is filled so that you can give to others, 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.919 as opposed to draining yourself trying to be everything for 0:17:55.000 --> 0:17:57.199 everyone and not taking the time to like fill up 0:17:57.200 --> 0:17:57.879 your cup, you know. 0:17:58.800 --> 0:18:01.159 So there is that balance, but I don't or. 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:03.720 It's hard to balance it in a society that's telling 0:18:03.720 --> 0:18:07.399 you like me, me me, and don't people please. 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:10.040 But there is something there's beauty in being I. 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:14.800 Feel our generation was the opposite. We weren't me, me me, But. 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:18.480 Now this, this what we're in right now, I think 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:20.359 focuses a lot on that. So it was like fine 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:22.879 navigating that balance because there's so much beauty in giving 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:26.679 to people, but not if you're draining your you know, 0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:28.159 if you don't have the capacity to do it. 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:30.640 Yeah, because I think like there was a lot of challenge, 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:34.800 Like obviously I went from being super single and only 0:18:34.800 --> 0:18:37.479 taking care of myself to like a serious relationship with 0:18:37.520 --> 0:18:39.359 two kids and a dog, you know. So it's like 0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:41.800 a lot of my time, Like there's only so much 0:18:41.840 --> 0:18:43.919 time I have and I'm still trying to do everything 0:18:43.960 --> 0:18:45.960 that I did five years ago for people, and it's 0:18:45.960 --> 0:18:49.520 like I'm literally like stretching myself like Gumby over here. 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:55.760 Yeah. Yeah, I only even behind negativity, and mostly in 0:18:55.760 --> 0:18:58.399 the form of social media and comments. I'm trying to 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:00.959