1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 1: The Nicky Gliser podcastser here's Nikki. 2 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: Hello, here I am. It's Nicky Glazer Podcast. Welcome to 3 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 2: the show. I'm in Saint Louis, Missouri with my mom. 4 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:16,760 Speaker 1: She was in studio. 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 2: She was here with us yesterday for Kathy Griffin. She's 6 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 2: here again today. 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:21,240 Speaker 1: Yes, I am. 8 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 2: And Brian is in New York where he is visiting 9 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: family for Thanksgiving. 10 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 3: Right, yes, Hello, I'm in Long Island. 11 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:31,319 Speaker 2: Oh he's you say in or on? 12 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:33,560 Speaker 3: I'm on Long Island. 13 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: Okay. 14 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 2: I was really proud of myself when I adopted saying 15 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 2: on Long Island instead of in And then Ryan just 16 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 2: threw me up, Yeah you said in, and I. 17 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm from there. So you know, how do you hear. 18 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 2: At the grocery store? Do you wait online or do 19 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 2: you wait in line at the grocery store. 20 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 3: I wait in line. I think I'm in line. 21 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: I always waited line. I'm in line. 22 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 2: But people say I've first. Wendy leave me and had 23 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: a joke that she was like, I met my boyfriend 24 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 2: online at the grocery store, and that was the first 25 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: time I ever heard that that turn of phrase to 26 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 2: describe a grocery online. That's not even no, Yeah, that 27 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 2: these people are waiting online like that means like uh, 28 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 2: like before online was the thing. 29 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: I think it meant like in line, Oh, never heard that. 30 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 2: In Saint Louis, we have a saying that no one 31 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 2: else it's only regional to Saint Louis. 32 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: What is it in high school? 33 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:31,559 Speaker 2: And Chris knows this too, because he's Saint Louis High school. 34 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 2: If you are from Saint Louis in high school, when 35 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 2: we would hook up or if there was a hookup 36 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 2: that was going on and hooking up meaning like anything 37 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 2: like butt sex, not not but sex, not butt sex, 38 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 2: no one was doing that in high school that I 39 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 2: knew of. We didn't go to a Mormon school. But 40 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 2: everything except sex. If you were just like hooking up 41 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: making out to blow jobs, I think maybe was called 42 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 2: you got on them? 43 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 4: I have? 44 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 2: Did you get on each other this weekend? Oh my god, 45 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 2: Rachel got on Joey this weekend. They got on each other. 46 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 2: And it sounds so stupid now, but it was just 47 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 2: the way we said it. And it sounds so stupid 48 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 2: because it literally just sounds like they just sat on 49 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 2: each like one climbed on top of the other, and 50 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 2: then they just sat, which is kind of what you 51 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: think sex is when you're a kid. 52 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 4: I don't think you'd ever like say those words in 53 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 4: front of me in high school. 54 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, we probably said the gag and the goy the 55 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: gone at the geech got back. 56 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: We probably said it gibberish enough to drive. Yeah, a 57 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: parent correct. 58 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 3: That made me feel crazy awesome. 59 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 2: Though, Gibberish is amazing. Every kid should learn it because 60 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 2: you can. It's a secret language your parents don't speak. 61 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 1: Or they'll never figure out. 62 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 4: Lauren trying to teach me, and I was like, I 63 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 4: cannot figure this out. 64 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: It's very hard. 65 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 3: No way you understand it. 66 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 1: You understand you. 67 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, we could talk with the geek of the gan 68 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 2: to the gk to the gou, with the geach of 69 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: the gother girl, the gu this again, gonna go for 70 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 2: the gear with the geef for at the gasket the game. 71 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: But the I. 72 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 2: Just said, we could talk to each other this fast 73 00:02:58,600 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 2: and we know exactly what we're saying. 74 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: It's it's just i'll teach you how to. 75 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: You'll learn it quickly because you have a good like 76 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 2: math kind of like logical mind. 77 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: But i'll teach you to you someday. It's pretty up. 78 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: It does. 79 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 2: It sounds it's awful. It's like John Early has a 80 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 2: bit in his special where he says like, whenever you 81 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: download a new app on your phone, it says like, 82 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 2: would you is it okay if this app would share 83 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: information with other apps? And then it's one of the 84 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 2: options are allow, and then the other option is ask 85 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 2: app not to track. And he's like, ask app and 86 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 2: he was like, you could have. 87 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: Just said not allow, do not allow no, but it. 88 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 2: Was like ask app not and he does this whole thing. 89 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 2: It's so funny. But yeah, jibberish. Is it sounds upsetting? 90 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 2: I understand who taught you that? The GE's but the 91 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 2: boys the gone with the gig by the Gake, these 92 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: boys on. 93 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: Break, Oh I was gonna yeah. 94 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 2: There we were on spring break is junior year and 95 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 2: these guys uh taught it to us and we were like, 96 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 2: it just opened. It's like because it's sounds as foreign 97 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 2: as a foreign language, but it's English and it's easy 98 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 2: to learn. 99 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: You can learn it in one day and then. 100 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 2: It takes a while to get fast at it, but 101 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 2: you can understand it just as much as you can 102 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 2: speak it. It's it's it's one of the coolest things ever, 103 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 2: because it's really that's the cool thing about a foreign 104 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 2: language is that it just sounds so cool, and it 105 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: sounds like nothing you could ever understand, and people could 106 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 2: talk about you and you wouldn't even know it. You 107 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: have that at your fingertips and gibberish, you just don't 108 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: know it. 109 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 4: You guys had that little club. Yeah, I'm sure it 110 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 4: was frustrating for you guys. 111 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 1: I just would go, I'm so mad, why are they doing? 112 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 2: But we were never talking about anything to We were 113 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 2: talking about like, oh, Taylor stolen necklace today. It was 114 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 2: not like we were like doing drugs, like we weren't 115 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 2: like the movie you know you were talking about me? 116 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 3: Was that? 117 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: Uh huh, that's the fear. 118 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, we didn't care about. The scarier part is we 119 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 2: weren't thinking. 120 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: About you at all. 121 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 5: Parents are just like in the way, you know, I 122 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 5: know that Taylor is on the on the podcast. 123 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 3: So you talk about your experience in high school a lot, 124 00:04:58,080 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 3: but it feels like you have so many things from 125 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 3: high school that have like the best time, formulated your 126 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 3: entire personality, but nothing almost nothing from college, like almost zero. 127 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 2: Because college for me was doing stand up it was 128 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 2: like right away I discovered stand up and then I 129 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 2: just was doing that, and then it was there was nothing. 130 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 2: And in college it was like the pressure was on 131 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 2: to find a career, make money. Like I realize now that, 132 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 2: like my parents' money isn't just my money until I die. 133 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: Like there's all this things. 134 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 2: The pressure sets in high school, there's just like this 135 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 2: freedom to and I just got extremely lucky. I always 136 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 2: emphasized that when people didn't have a good, pleasant high 137 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: school experience, there's nothing wrong with you. Like I just 138 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 2: got lucky that my parents didn't move halfway through my 139 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 2: sophomore year and I had to start over. And I 140 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 2: just got lucky that I wasn't in the grade above 141 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 2: mine or below mind that I that I was born 142 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 2: in the right month, that I got to meet Kirsten 143 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:57,039 Speaker 2: and Taylor and Halla and Huffy and these hilarious women. 144 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 2: I just I just hit the jackpot. And it doesn't 145 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: have to a lot of people. But I just got 146 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 2: really lucky with those friends. Obviously, there's still a huge 147 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:07,679 Speaker 2: part of my life. I would say, talk about getting lucky. 148 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 2: Can I just tell you something. Yeah, So back in 149 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 2: two thousand and thirteen, there was this really like kind 150 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 2: of cute shop on Tenth Avenue. I lived on tenth 151 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 2: Avenue and twenty second Street with on your Marina, and 152 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 2: I would walk to Equinox every day, and there was 153 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 2: this really cute shop that had all these like really 154 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:31,799 Speaker 2: high end clothes that I wouldn't even possibly. 155 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 1: Think of buying. 156 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,479 Speaker 2: I mean, like we're talking like three hundred dollars shirts 157 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 2: and four hundred dollars sweaters and all this stuff. But 158 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 2: I would sometimes go in and just kind of like 159 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 2: touch things and like think about what like maybe I 160 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 2: just got a good check in the mail from the show. 161 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: Maybe I can spend on this. But I still wasn't 162 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 2: comfortable buying that stuff. And there was this one sweater 163 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 2: that I just like was obsessed with, and I would 164 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 2: stop in and look at it and go like, I 165 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 2: really want that. I just can't though it's an but 166 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 2: I memorized the brand name and I tried it on. 167 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 2: And I'm not like this with clothes, Like I've never 168 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 2: become like attached to a thing. In fact, a lot 169 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 2: of times I will like see something I like, and 170 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 2: I'll be about to buy it and then I go, no, 171 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 2: put it back. 172 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: If you keep thinking about it. 173 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 2: That means you should get it, Like, don't like wait 174 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 2: a little bit, you know, like really convince yourself you 175 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 2: want it. 176 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: Do you know any carts I have going on right now? 177 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: It's insane. 178 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 2: I got a message the other day that said, your 179 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 2: Abercrombie cart is thinking. 180 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: About you, Nikki. Wait at abercrom Oh, He's one of 181 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: the best places to buy stuff. I'm not kidding you. 182 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 2: Anytime I get compliments on my jeans, I go Abercrombie 183 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 2: because they do long oh and so girls with long legs, 184 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: and they also do short. I mean the Abercrombe jeans are. 185 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 2: I complimented the girl at a meet and greet one 186 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 2: time for her jeans, and she said, Abercrombie. And I've 187 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 2: been on that boat ever since. But so I loved 188 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 2: this and lavished the sweater, and I thought about it 189 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 2: for years, and I was searching all over for it 190 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 2: all the time, Like I would search on eBay and 191 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 2: I would search on Poshmark and just do like And 192 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 2: this was ten eleven years ago, and then the other 193 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 2: night just occurred to me like, oh, I'm just gonna 194 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 2: run my search again, and I fucking found it. And 195 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: it's the sweater. 196 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: I'm weary right now. Stars on it. 197 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: It is like everyone makes this kind of sweater now 198 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 2: that has like stars on it, but it's never as 199 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 2: finely made as this. It's cost me one hundred dollars 200 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 2: as opposed to like I think three hundred and fifty 201 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 2: was the original price. Wow, it's in mind condition. It's 202 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 2: the the size large, which I thought was going to 203 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 2: be too big. But if it was any smaller, I 204 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 2: would hate it. Yeah, I just opened it. I'm fucking psyched. 205 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: Man. Nice, this is my white whale. 206 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 2: But I don't know, have you guys ever had a 207 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 2: thing that you've been looking for your whole life? They 208 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 2: talk a lot about that in the thrift store. Separate 209 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: of like I found my white whale. 210 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: I never heard that what is it? 211 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 3: White whale? Yeah? Back in two thousand and nine or 212 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 3: something like that, Whole Foods would sell these green reusable 213 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 3: shopping bags that were the perfect size and you could 214 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 3: fit like you could fit like almost two shopping carts 215 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 3: full of groceries in this wild Yeah. And then they 216 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 3: would have span and then the one thing that people 217 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 3: don't like about it is that the opening is like 218 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 3: a little smaller than the bag itself. So sometimes it's 219 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 3: hard to get things in there. But once it's in there. 220 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 5: They're lost going anywhere, not going anywhere. It's not gonna 221 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 5: spill out. I would put all this shape. It's volcano shaped, 222 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 5: almost a little less extreme than that. Look a volcano 223 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 5: that had recently exploded. 224 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:22,199 Speaker 1: Okay. 225 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 3: I would put that bag on my bike and like 226 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 3: ride home from the grocery store with it. Nothing would 227 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:31,319 Speaker 3: go wrong. And I still have the bag. I've been 228 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 3: using it and using I've had this bag for fifteen 229 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 3: years and I had a little hole in it and 230 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 3: it still works. You can put in the in the 231 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 3: washing machine. But I tried. I was like, I love 232 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 3: this bag so much, I want to go buy another one. 233 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 3: So I went online. I went on eBay, I went everywhere. 234 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 3: I called Whole Foods. They don't make the bags anymore. 235 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 3: There you can't find them anywhere, these green shopping beds. 236 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 3: I called Whole Foods. I called mister Foods and he 237 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 3: said they don't make. 238 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: Them anymore, and they like typed it in. 239 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 3: They're like, sorry, people know what I'm talking about on 240 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 3: them too. 241 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 2: So there's other people too that are like, I'm obsessed 242 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 2: with this bag. 243 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 3: Yes, because those, you know, like the typical reusable bags 244 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 3: that are made of like a plastic bottle that are 245 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 3: crinkly and loud, and aren't that good? Those are? Those 246 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 3: are not great. They don't hold a lot of stuff. 247 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 3: You can't fold them up, you can't scrunch them up 248 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 3: into a ball and put them in your pocket. And 249 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 3: the ones you can scrunch up into a ball and 250 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 3: put in your pocket have a big opening and things 251 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 3: fall out. Try putting a normal like Trader Joe's bag 252 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:29,719 Speaker 3: that's not plastic eat on the floor and everything will 253 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 3: just flop out of it. 254 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's especially on a bicycle. Yes, that's not gonna work. 255 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:36,680 Speaker 3: So if anyone has the lead on a green Whole 256 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 3: Foods bag, so. 257 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 4: I'm looking now, Yeah, Mom's on it. I love they 258 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 4: have something to look for at the throat. 259 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 2: But you just told me, Mom that sometimes you will 260 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: like go to a thrift store and like feel like I. 261 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 1: Need a uh, a certain blouse. 262 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 2: Or something for this thing coming up, Like I think 263 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 2: a sparkly blouse and then it'll fucking appear. 264 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 4: I I mean, I used to be really lucky in 265 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 4: that department. If I needed something, I would go I'm 266 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 4: going to find it. I'm going to go in there 267 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 4: and find it. 268 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 1: Well, that's the law of attraction. Baby, I'm getting into it. 269 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 2: I know I've gotten into many things on this podcast 270 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 2: where it's like this is my new thing. But I 271 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 2: really do believe manifestation, and like, if you believe that 272 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 2: you have it, if you believe in your stul that 273 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 2: you've already achieved it, that it's just going to happen, 274 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: and you relax and you act as if it fucking happens. 275 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 2: And I was listening, Chris and I were watching Ellen 276 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 2: DeGeneres's special Relatable It is the name of its twenty 277 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 2: eighteen Netflix the other night, which is hilarious, by the way. 278 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 2: It's so good. It's I just love her stand up 279 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 2: and but she says in it that she she was 280 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 2: like pretty like down and out. She had no talents. 281 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 2: She would like, she had no aspiration. She was like 282 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 2: an oyster shucker, and she worked in a grocery soe 283 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 2: she like got all these jobs she was, but she 284 00:11:58,280 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 2: just didn't know what she was doing with her life. 285 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 1: She was in her you know, early twenties, New Orleans, right. 286 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 4: I don't know where she was exactly, yeah, maybe, but 287 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 4: she yeah, that's what they do down there. 288 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 1: And she said that she. 289 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:13,439 Speaker 2: I didn't know this, but her her partner, her girlfriend 290 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 2: at the time, was in a horrible car accident died. 291 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 2: Ellen drove past it not knowing it was her. Oh 292 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: my god, and she had to move out of their 293 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 2: house together, their apartment together, and she moved into this 294 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 2: basement apartment and she was that was just infested with fleas. 295 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 2: So she was sleeping on the ground and there are 296 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 2: fleas all over, and she was just like, what am 297 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 2: I doing with my life? And she was like she'd 298 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 2: never done anything creative really, like she's just had never 299 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 2: even thought of comedy, didn't know, didn't act, didn't sing, 300 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 2: just was like what am I even doing? And she 301 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 2: was like, I'm just going to write a poem. She 302 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 2: had no intention for it to be funny. She was 303 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 2: like because she was thinking about, like why do fleas 304 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 2: get to exist? But then my girlfriend, this beautiful woman 305 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:53,559 Speaker 2: who had her whole life ahead of her, why is that? 306 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: Why is she dead? 307 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 2: And she was like, I'm I really wish I could 308 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 2: ask God about this, And so she wrote a poem 309 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: in which she was asking God about fleas and like, 310 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,559 Speaker 2: why are they around? And then she was like thinking, oh, 311 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 2: if the poem I would call, I would call God, 312 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 2: like it woud probably. She wasn't even trying to be funny. 313 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 2: She was like, the phone would probably ring a lot 314 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 2: because it's a big place. And then she'd be put 315 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 2: on hold and the hold music would be And then 316 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 2: was it was this religious song? 317 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 1: Chris laughed because he's Catholic. I didn't know the song. 318 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 2: She was like, but it would it would be that 319 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 2: music playing, but it'd be live because it would be 320 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 2: you know, and and she and then she decided she 321 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 2: just had this moment as she's writing the poem and 322 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 2: this is just you know what she says. So maybe 323 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 2: it wasn't exactly what happened, but I believe her. She 324 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 2: said in that moment, she was like, you know what, 325 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell this on the Johnny Carson Show someday. 326 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 2: She had never thought about doing stand up, she had 327 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 2: never thought about being a comedian, she had never thought 328 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 2: about being an actress or anything. She was just like, 329 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 2: I'm one hundred percent gonna say this on the Johnny 330 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 2: Carson Show someday. Six years later, she does that exact 331 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 2: joke on the Johnny Carson Show, and she goes, and 332 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 2: I'm gonna in this moment while she's on her mattress 333 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 2: writing this poem, she's like, and I'm gonna be the 334 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 2: first woman ever that's asked over to his couch after God. 335 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 2: And it happens right She's finishes are finished. That's the thing. 336 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 2: I paused the show and I was like, Chris, this 337 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 2: is what I'm talking about, this manifestation. If you just believe, 338 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 2: it's so hard, like it doesn't matter, it will happen. 339 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: And he was like, well, this is also like information bias, 340 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 2: I guess, or what confirmation bias, where it's like we 341 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 2: only hear the good stories of when this happens. We 342 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 2: never hear the people of like saying I was gonna 343 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 2: be on Jenny Kerson, but I never made it. You know, 344 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 2: we only hear the stuff that goes well. And she 345 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 2: could have changed the story to fit to make it better. 346 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 2: I buy it because the more I've been looking into this, 347 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 2: it's just you know, I've talked about it before, but 348 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 2: it's like it's there's science behind it. It's like there's 349 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 2: if quantum physics is about, like there's different realms happening. 350 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: There's infinite realms happening where your life is going on 351 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 2: in a different direction all the time, and if you 352 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 2: visualize that version of your life, it will show up 353 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 2: in your own Like it's if you give attention to 354 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 2: what you want, that thing will show up, and it 355 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 2: has to be done in a certain way. 356 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: Like I'm reading all these instagram or. 357 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 2: Sorry, subreddit's about uh law of attraction and these different 358 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 2: men who have like, uh, you know, championed these different methods, 359 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 2: and I'm listening to YouTube videos. I just don't know 360 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 2: what's a manifest because I kind of have life. I 361 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 2: keep kind of like I think right now, I'm manifesting 362 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 2: having I like, well, I'm just gonna say it, like, 363 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 2: I have an award winning special coming out that's an 364 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 2: Emmy Award winning and it's and Taylor Swift wrote me 365 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 2: about it and said that she really enjoyed it. She 366 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 2: wrote me a personal note. And I don't want to 367 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 2: share the details of it because it was personal and 368 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 2: I feel like it's going to kick off our friendship. 369 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 2: But she wrote me a personal note about how much 370 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 2: she enjoyed it. She liked the shout out and uh yeah, 371 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 2: and and and I'm up for an Emmy and I 372 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 2: I just want it. 373 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: That's so weird. 374 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 2: And so after winning that Emmy, I just feel like 375 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 2: my life is just kind of going in the direction 376 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 2: I always wanted it to go. And I have this. 377 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 2: I'm just like my career is just like where I 378 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 2: want it to be. I I'm really my body has 379 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 2: changed because of plots. I enjoy ploates so much. It's 380 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 2: just become a practice that I don't even need to like, is. 381 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: This is this? 382 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 2: Yes? 383 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: This is I? Yeah? 384 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 2: I yeah? And I'm I'm my niece's favorite aunt. 385 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:19,239 Speaker 1: Oh you Poppy? 386 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 2: Poppy has to say that I'm her favorite. 387 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 1: That's not even I heard. 388 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 2: She's been asking about me. 389 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: Oh is Nikki? Where's Nikki? 390 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 3: Really? 391 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: Hear it too? Is Nikki? Why aren't you telling me 392 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: about this? 393 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 4: Oh? 394 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: That's all I want to achieve in life? Is Poppy 395 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: haunting me? 396 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 2: I don't even care about for some reason? 397 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: The girls? 398 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 4: The girl relative way do you see her in her 399 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 4: little brace that. 400 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 1: I know she broke her clavical. 401 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 2: What I know she save her brother's shoulders and she 402 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 2: broke her claviical and she's so cute in her little 403 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 2: cast I haven't seen her yet. 404 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 1: She did her little sling. 405 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 4: We went to the playground, which probably wasn't a good idea, 406 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 4: but she's just like she knows how to work it, 407 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 4: like to go down the slide on one side. 408 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's making new she's pretty good. 409 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 4: Back to her asking about me what she did ask 410 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 4: about you, I mean she's like, is Nikki gonna be there? 411 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 1: Or this is cool? This is good? Oh she wanted Halloween. 412 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:20,480 Speaker 1: I found there was a turning point. 413 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,120 Speaker 2: She just started looking at me like when I wasn't 414 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 2: looking at her, almost like she has like a like 415 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 2: the way when you know a guy has a crush 416 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,440 Speaker 2: on you, where you just like can check, you can 417 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 2: just feel their stare where they're just kind of like 418 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 2: studying your face, like I think I love her where 419 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 2: you're just like it hasn't happened to me in a while, right, 420 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 2: But like there was just a vibe with Poppy where 421 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, she's like very interested in what's going 422 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 2: on with me now. And it's like I even took 423 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,119 Speaker 2: dat aside. I was like, I think something's turned with Poppy, 424 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 2: Like she's very into what I like. I think I 425 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 2: think she's she'sry she'll be your girls all I want. 426 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, she'll be your girl. 427 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:56,920 Speaker 2: Well my mom, Well well I was gonna say about 428 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 2: this law of attraction thing. So that's what I'm manifesting. 429 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 2: And if you the thing is, if you have trouble 430 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 2: figuring out what to manifest, which is a hard thing 431 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 2: for people you're supposed to say. 432 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: Wouldn't it be nice if ye fill in. 433 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 3: The black good thing to do? And it's nice not 434 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 3: like the low key multiverse Marvel version of the why 435 00:18:17,040 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 3: it works. But also if you just start thinking about 436 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 3: that thing and believing is true, it instills you with 437 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 3: the confidence and starts planting the seed that will give 438 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 3: you the plan and the confidence and the thoughts to 439 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 3: go actually do it. 440 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: Yes, that's true. 441 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 2: I saw Instagram with Reese Witherspoon the other day where 442 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 2: she was talking about, like, I just am confident all 443 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 2: the time. I walk into auditions that I knew that 444 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 2: I wasn't maybe right for, but I would just walk 445 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 2: in and act like, oh, I already have the part. 446 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 2: I mean, we've all heard this kind of thing before, 447 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:50,120 Speaker 2: just like actually as if. But you can tell that's 448 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 2: like she's very confident. She is so confident I mean, 449 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:54,439 Speaker 2: have you heard her? 450 00:18:55,560 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 1: What is the fine line of manifesting versus lying yourself 451 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 1: or luckiness? 452 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 2: I mean, it's not lying to yourself because if you 453 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 2: believe it, like it's just there's just no it's it's 454 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:10,959 Speaker 2: I guess it. 455 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 1: It's not. 456 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,239 Speaker 2: I can't say it's lying to yourself because then that 457 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 2: negates the whole thing. 458 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,399 Speaker 1: It's not. It's just knowing it's gonna happen. There's no 459 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: lying to yourself. 460 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,359 Speaker 2: And if you have that question in your head of like, 461 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 2: this is me lying to myself, it ain't gonna work, 462 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 2: Like you gotta be. 463 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 3: Go ahead and lie to yourself, Like who gives a 464 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 3: shit if you're lying yourself? Like totally, If you if 465 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 3: it makes you feel better that you believe in Jesus 466 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,400 Speaker 3: and you're really religious and that just gives you low 467 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 3: anxiety and makes you feel good, then even though maybe 468 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:38,959 Speaker 3: it's a lie, like go ahead and do that. It's 469 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:40,440 Speaker 3: like anything that makes you feel better. 470 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 2: People lie to themselves all the time about stuff to 471 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 2: get through life. 472 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 3: Unless you're like hitting your you know your wife, and 473 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 3: you're lying yourself that you don't hit your wife. But 474 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 3: if it's not, if you tell you that one. But 475 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,639 Speaker 3: if it's not affecting anybody, then like, go ahead and 476 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:55,479 Speaker 3: lie to yourself, not wrongly. 477 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 2: It's my I Actually today I'm gonna have a call 478 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 2: with my friend because I saw on the on the 479 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 2: Law of Attraction subreddit it said start involving other people 480 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,400 Speaker 2: in your manifestations. So find a friend who also wants 481 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 2: to manifest something and then you have a call congratulating 482 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 2: each other about the thing and acts like it's already happened. 483 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 2: So my friend and kirst and I are going to 484 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 2: have a call later tonight at six pm where we 485 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 2: both talk about the thing that we already both want 486 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 2: got And I said, here's what you're supposed to congratulate 487 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 2: me on. Here's what I'll congratulate you on. And we're 488 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 2: going to have a full conversation as if it happened. 489 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 2: And there's no question, there's no like, oh this is 490 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 2: weird we're doing this. It's just is what it is. 491 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 1: I cannot wait. 492 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's what that's the plan. I'm gonna manifest that. 493 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 2: We're going to have one of the best episodes ever 494 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 2: coming back after this. All right, all right, we're back mom. 495 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 2: Yesterday's podcast with Kathy Griffin. Are you still so excited 496 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 2: that we've got to talk to her? 497 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:56,640 Speaker 4: Well, she said, I'm her girl. I think basically she did. Yeah, 498 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 4: she was. She was starting with you, Julie. She was 499 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 4: kind of flirting with me, she really was. How many 500 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 4: times did she say, now. 501 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 1: Julie, I know I love I love her. No, she's 502 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 1: really good. Yeah, she's good, she's good. 503 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,960 Speaker 3: That was a great episode. She had a lot to say. 504 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 3: She I mean, it was really interesting to hear her 505 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:15,640 Speaker 3: perspective on what's happened to her. I didn't know any 506 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,679 Speaker 3: of that stuff that happened to her outside of the photo, 507 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 3: and so I didn't even know she had lung cancer. 508 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 3: So to share her story like that, and I have 509 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 3: a prediction. I don't want to manifest on her behalf, 510 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 3: but my prediction is that she goes out on tour, 511 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,399 Speaker 3: she starts working this new hour, and then the comeback 512 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 3: is on. She's going to do an hour special that's 513 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 3: going to be on some channel or streamer, and people 514 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 3: are going to be like, I didn't know any of 515 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 3: this about her story and then boom, she's back. 516 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: Yep, that's you're so right. 517 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 2: That's that's what I meant by saying like people just 518 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 2: need to media needs to get on board, like people 519 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 2: need to be confronted with her story again. Yeah, and 520 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 2: then they'll forgive, they'll forget about it, and everyone loves 521 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,640 Speaker 2: a comeback, No guess it takes six years though sometimes 522 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 2: that's the shitty part. And during those six years, can 523 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 2: you imagine having that many people hate you? Like I 524 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 2: it wouldn't take a vicodin addiction to kill myself. 525 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 1: It would take nothing. 526 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 2: It would take that much online hate to want to 527 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 2: kill myself, Like, I don't think I would survive that. 528 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:18,639 Speaker 4: Now, she's got many so brave and so strong. I 529 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:21,160 Speaker 4: mean we didn't even hear. I know more about her 530 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:24,200 Speaker 4: life than just what she told us. She's been through 531 00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 4: a lot, Yes, she has been through and she comes back. 532 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 2: She lost both of her brother and sister to cancer. 533 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 2: She has one brother who is estranged, who was fucked 534 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 2: with her when she was little, right, she had obviously 535 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 2: like she lost both her parents within the past. She 536 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 2: lost her dad I think in ninety or maybe early 537 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 2: in two thousand and nine or something, her mom in 538 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 2: twenty twenty. 539 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 4: And her mom lived with her for a while. And yeah, 540 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 4: she's been she's been through she's. 541 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 2: Divorced, she had a guy steal a bunch of fucking 542 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 2: money from her. Yeah, she's and she's someone like, let's 543 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 2: be honest, like Brian, you know, like as a comedian, 544 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 2: people don't like people are quick to say I don't 545 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:06,959 Speaker 2: oh like roll their eyes about her, like they dismiss her. 546 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 3: Uh oh, you know. People love to hate a woman. 547 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 3: I think that's what it comes down to. If you 548 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 3: have that many excuses to hate a woman, then they'll 549 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 3: take them. 550 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: Oh for sure, I'm glad you say that. 551 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 2: It's like, it's hard for me to say that because 552 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 2: as a woman, it's easy for me to say. Yeah, 553 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 2: I think it has something to do with that. But yeah, 554 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 2: she's and just such an outspoken one. 555 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 1: Well, I've been so proud of her. 556 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 4: And when she did what that photo, who gives us shit? 557 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 2: Well, she was making fun if you know, she was 558 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,399 Speaker 2: making fun of the fact that he said he was 559 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 2: talking about Megan Kelly and now she when she was 560 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 2: moderating the debates, she had blood coming out of everywhere 561 00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 2: her eyes and her like, he was talking about Megan 562 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,439 Speaker 2: Kelly possibly being on her period, right, and so he 563 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 2: was making he had a quote about she had blood 564 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 2: coming out of her mouth, out of. 565 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,879 Speaker 4: Her eyes, her everywhere. That wasn't megane Kelly. That was 566 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 4: the girl from Joe Morning Joe. Oh, okay, whoever that was? 567 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? Uh yeah, So he was making fun of that woman. 568 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 2: Yeah sorry, and then oh yeah, he'd never say that 569 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 2: about making count when even when I said that, I go, 570 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 2: why would you say that about her? 571 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 1: So she was doing a nod to that. 572 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 2: She was like, okay, well we'll make blood coming out 573 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 2: of all of his stuff and then you can't buy 574 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 2: a whole body of him. So the mask made it 575 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 2: look like a decapitated thing. 576 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: So did she stand up for herself? 577 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 2: She did, but she advice initially was to apologize, because 578 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:31,199 Speaker 2: that's everyone's are all pr agents always say apologize, And 579 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 2: it's the worst thing you can do is apologize because 580 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 2: everyone no, you can't. You know, I'll apologize for hurting 581 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,399 Speaker 2: people's feelings, but I won't. I'll just be like I 582 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:44,400 Speaker 2: thought it was funny, I fucked up, but like it's yeah, 583 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 2: it's not good to apologize. 584 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 3: The shark circle the wolf circle, and I go, oh, 585 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 3: she knows that she's that faulty, so now we're going 586 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:52,640 Speaker 3: to destroy her whereas if you. 587 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 2: Because what you know what, that encourages people to not apologize, 588 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 2: which is a great thing when people apologize and a. 589 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 6: Committed Yeah it's weak, but well what about I mean 590 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,880 Speaker 6: I was more shocked when we were talking about celebrities 591 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 6: and the story that she said about the Jay Leno 592 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 6: Show and a certain pop star. 593 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was terrified if I had to encounter someone 594 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 2: that I had talked shit about. I think there was 595 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:22,159 Speaker 2: one shocked there was someone recently that I can't like 596 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 2: I was gonna be on the same thing as that. 597 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 2: I was like, I wonder if they saw me say 598 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 2: that thing on a special about them or like, uh, 599 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 2: it's yeah, I'm I like that. She's just like went 600 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 2: up to j Lo and was like I want to 601 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 2: pick Like, let's get a picture where you're mad at me, 602 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 2: like because you know I'm said things about you like 603 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:39,160 Speaker 2: she's just. 604 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,919 Speaker 1: Like brazen and braz ambrazen and great. I love that 605 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: about her. 606 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 4: But God, the way she used to make fun of 607 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 4: the Cardiaschians and uh huh I was great. 608 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 1: I was like, somebody's gonna that's what we mean. I 609 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 1: miss I missed that. I miss just like comedians just 610 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 1: ripping people apart and just making social commentary. Joan Rivers 611 00:25:58,160 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: did it too. 612 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 2: Yes, no one was again no, but people didn't like 613 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,119 Speaker 2: Joan Rivers either until she died. 614 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 615 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,760 Speaker 2: It's like it's the people that with taste did, but 616 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 2: Joan Rivers is only lauded as like a legend after 617 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,080 Speaker 2: her death, after that documentary, Like it had to take 618 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 2: people to be like, here's an artful documentary to prove 619 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 2: how hard she's worked. But before that, it was kind 620 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 2: of like I think the consensus was, like her voice 621 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 2: is annoying, get her off e, she's always she's She 622 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 2: got canceled a couple times because she said just she's 623 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,160 Speaker 2: making just jokes and it just went the wrong way. 624 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 2: Like there's so many times I've said jokes and people 625 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 2: just go, you know, when I did the view and 626 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,360 Speaker 2: Kelly Rowland got upset because she was just like ew, 627 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 2: like did you just say something that is just an 628 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:43,639 Speaker 2: innocuous joke? And people just go like, would. 629 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 1: Her side too? Because she said aw. 630 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, And then everyone's like suddenly like, well, yeah, well 631 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 2: she's more famous than that girl, so we're gonna be 632 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 2: on her side. 633 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: Except Rosio Donald did it. 634 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 2: Rosio Donald took my side and I was like, I'm sorry, 635 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 2: that was fucking funny, and then she cussed, and she 636 00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 2: said it was the first time she's ever cussed on 637 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 2: the view of doing daytime TV for twenty years. She says, 638 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:04,440 Speaker 2: its first some shavercover. I know what it's told that before, 639 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,360 Speaker 2: but it's just one of my love predest moments. But 640 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:11,720 Speaker 2: but yeah, it's it's just like this. I'm just struggling 641 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 2: with the. 642 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 3: The the reaction to any joke is repulsive to me. 643 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 1: It is. 644 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 3: It is, yes, like that, it's a joke like you're 645 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 3: you getting disgusted at it is your problem? 646 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And my joke was that I'll tell it again. 647 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:30,920 Speaker 1: It was it was so stupid. 648 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 2: It was we were just backstage getting briefed on what 649 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,639 Speaker 2: we were going to talk about on the show. Rosiodonnald 650 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 2: was showing pictures of her kids in the bath the 651 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 2: night before because they had put all these like they 652 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 2: had these like, I don't know, bath bombs that would 653 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 2: make the color like the water a purple or pink 654 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,199 Speaker 2: or whatever. And I said, oh, I had that as 655 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 2: a kid, but it was always just yellow. And I 656 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 2: did it myself. And she just goes ew, and I 657 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,800 Speaker 2: was like, it's just a fucking joke about me peeing 658 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 2: in the bath, like it doesn't and it just just 659 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 2: sucking all the I thought of it. Brian, You're right 660 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 2: about the great joke. It's just like it doesn't deserve 661 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 2: an ow though, and like, let's all alienate this girl 662 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 2: on this show where I I've been a regular before, 663 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 2: I know my way around, but this girl's new. 664 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: So let's say like, you're just no, You're no fun. 665 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's an insult to go oh, it's like, 666 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 4: you know, I'm sorry. 667 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, judge. 668 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:25,640 Speaker 2: You know what on the next Money Players like special 669 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 2: uh Big Play, Dion Players, Diamond Club, I'm gonna tell 670 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,159 Speaker 2: Stor another story about that person that. 671 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,960 Speaker 1: I guess that is that is the exact story. 672 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 2: I actually cross paths with that person again recently, and 673 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 2: I've been vocal about my like that I think she's 674 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 2: not a nice person before and so I was nervous 675 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 2: to cross paths with her. And so I have a 676 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 2: story that's I'm gonna tell them the Diamond Players thing 677 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,360 Speaker 2: because I don't want it to get back to her. 678 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 2: That's gonna be come behind a paywall, so uh, stay 679 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 2: tuned for that. 680 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 3: That's exactly how I feel about Kim Jong Un. If 681 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 3: I'm ever on a tonight show him awkward. 682 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,720 Speaker 4: It is, I always it could be dangerous for you too. 683 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly it's Yeah. I just that's why I'm scared 684 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 2: to like ever see Taylor Swift. Even though you know 685 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 2: she did love my special, that just is it coming. 686 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 3: Out she did? 687 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:18,120 Speaker 5: Yes? 688 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 4: She did? 689 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 690 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah that was wild. 691 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 2: I mean it's it's I would have been I wouldn't 692 00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 2: have predicted it, but I did manifest it. 693 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: It did happen. But yeah, even with her, I'm scared. 694 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 2: I've said so much and obviously something I've said before 695 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 2: has come back to. 696 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 1: She doesn't care. Yeah, she's forgiven me. She she gets that. 697 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 2: It all comes from a place of ups of love, 698 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 2: right and just loving my girl. I love and that's 699 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 2: why I really do believe, like obviously we're gonna we're 700 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 2: best friends. I'm manifesting this Taylor and I'm in I'm 701 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 2: in the zone you are going to be. I love 702 00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 2: her so much. We're so happy for our girl finding Travis. Yeah, 703 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 2: but is Taylor's one of Taylor's best friends and she 704 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,680 Speaker 2: is just as big of a swifty as I am 705 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 2: like just as obsessed, knows all the words, is just 706 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 2: as so. I think that, you know, me and Gigi 707 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 2: really get along in that sense when we all hang out. Well, 708 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 2: you guys have discussed that we are like almost like 709 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 2: too fanatical to be her friend, but we're like, it's cool, 710 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 2: she lets us be her friends. It's nice. 711 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 3: Did you have this Do you know Joe Parra the comedian. Yes, 712 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 3: So he's got a tour out right now and he's 713 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 3: calling the tour the Para's tour and it's a lower 714 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 3: case P and then capital e r a s. 715 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 2: That's so smart, that's really good. 716 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 3: And then also in Taylor Swift News sort of. So 717 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 3: last night in Monday Night football was the Eagles versus 718 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:47,080 Speaker 3: the Chiefs. That was Travis Kelcey versus Jason Kelcey, like the. 719 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 2: Brother the Brothers Blitz or something, the Brothers football players. 720 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, both Travis. 721 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 3: And Kelsey is alignment on the Philadelphia Eagles Pro Bowl 722 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 3: lineman and Travis Kelcey is a tight end on the 723 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 3: Chiefs Pro Bowl tight end and they played against each 724 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 3: other in the Super Bowl last year Chiefs won. Last 725 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 3: night was a rematch of the Super Bowl Eagles versus 726 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 3: Chiefs Eagles one. But interestingly in the news is that 727 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 3: in that game, Travis Kelsey had a very important fumble 728 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 3: in the red zone and it basically was the reason 729 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 3: why the Chiefs lost the game, devastating. Taylor wasn't there. 730 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 3: He has not lost when Taylor was Taylor. 731 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 2: Yes, we're now starting to build the association. She's going 732 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 2: to be expected at the games. 733 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 3: But also Travis, in an interview or maybe on his podcast, 734 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,880 Speaker 3: start talking about how he's in a lot of pain 735 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 3: all the time from all of his injuries. He's had 736 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 3: ten surgeries and he's thinking that maybe this may be 737 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 3: his last season. Now whether that's he's going to follow 738 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 3: through on that or not, but he's saying he might 739 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 3: retire soon, which is interesting because he was not saying 740 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 3: that last year. 741 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 2: Leading to my prediction, what's your part if I've said 742 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 2: it yet, but I have. 743 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: I have a prediction for how it's all going. 744 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 3: To play out. 745 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 1: Oh okay, can you say. 746 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 2: Taylor will be pregnant. Taylor will announce your pregnancy. This 747 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 2: is my prediction. Taylor will be And believe me, I 748 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 2: don't want this to happen because the second she gets pregnant. 749 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 1: Our roads diverge. And I met a bestie last night. 750 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,000 Speaker 2: At my show at the Funny Bone, and she said 751 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 2: to me, oh my god, when you were freezing your eggs. 752 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 2: I was just like, no, because I'm not going to 753 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 2: relate to you anymore if. 754 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 1: You do that. And I was like, oh my god, 755 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,200 Speaker 1: that's the way I feel about Taylor. 756 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 2: So shout out to Sarah who I met last night. 757 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 2: She and I feel the same way about Taylor, like 758 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 2: because she's a swifty too. I signed her Taylor Swift 759 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 2: shirt actually, and she was like, I go, our girl's 760 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 2: going to get pregnant. You know it though, Like we're 761 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 2: going to lose her. And it's okay, how because I 762 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 2: want her to have everything she wants in life. She's 763 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 2: thirty three, so she will. She will announce the pregnancy. 764 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 2: I believe I'm predicting early twenty twenty five swearing. 765 00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,240 Speaker 1: Are you predicting, you're manifesting? No, I predict Sure. 766 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 2: This is prediction because I'm saying I will. Otherwise i'd 767 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 2: say it's it's happened. Wait, okay, I don't know. I 768 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 2: haven't studied it enough. If people have studied laws of traction, 769 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 2: please let me know of any more speciens. 770 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 1: You're saying in twenty twenty five. 771 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, she is going to finish her eras toort in 772 00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 2: November twenty twenty four. That time gives her time her 773 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 2: body to relax. There will be let me just change it. Actually, 774 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 2: she needs a little time to relax, to recoup. There 775 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 2: will be an engagement in the spring of twenty twenty five. 776 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 2: There will be an announcement of a birth in the 777 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 2: summer of twenty twenty five. There will be a wedding 778 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 2: when she is pregnant. It's the new thing she's going. 779 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 2: She's going the other way. I don't think there'll be 780 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 2: a wedding first. I think they'll be a baby first. 781 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 2: I think Taylor does her own thing. I don't know why. 782 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 2: I just I think that that's the way it's gonna happen. 783 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 2: They'll get married, She'll be fully pregnant. This is gonna 784 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 2: happen sometime in the late summer fall. She will give 785 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 2: birth in the winter arey in twenty thinking December, because 786 00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 2: I think she probably wants a baby around the same 787 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 2: time as her So this is. 788 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 1: December twenty twenty five. 789 00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,719 Speaker 2: She will give birth to her first baby, and then 790 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 2: she will have another baby with him by twenty twenty 791 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,800 Speaker 2: late twenty twenty six, she will announce again twenty twenty seven, 792 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 2: twenty twenty eight. There'll be two or three kids. There 793 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 2: will be a divorce at some point. Now, this is 794 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 2: not something I wish on her. It's not something I'm manifesting. 795 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 2: This is just she will have a successful ten She 796 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 2: will have a successful six to ten year relationship with 797 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 2: Travis Kelsey. That's okay, that's a successful relationship. That's no judgment. 798 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 2: Just because something doesn't last forever doesn't mean it's not good. 799 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 2: I think that is a great long haul she but 800 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 2: I want her out there again. I want her to 801 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 2: find other love. I want her to do it all 802 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:51,879 Speaker 2: over again. She will date Harry's styles again. It'll come 803 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 2: back around old again. In their forties, they will get married. 804 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 2: They will and I do Belie leave. She will end 805 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:03,479 Speaker 2: up with Harry's house. They will divorce. She will keep 806 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,719 Speaker 2: this going. This is what I wish for myself. In 807 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 2: a lot of ways. 808 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:07,399 Speaker 1: I like this. 809 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,399 Speaker 2: You just keep going. Everything doesn't have to last till 810 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 2: you die. We live way too long for that. You 811 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 2: gotta keep She might get back with Travis. There'll be 812 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 2: a second marriage after Harry. These are my predictions. I 813 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:23,680 Speaker 2: just based on the song Suburban Legends, which I believe 814 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,520 Speaker 2: is about Harry, as are the Vultraks in nineteen eighty nine. 815 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,200 Speaker 2: Most of them are about Harry Suburban Legends. I believe 816 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:32,040 Speaker 2: that she's talking about it's she's talking about her high 817 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 2: school reunion. That she has a fantasy of walking hand 818 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 2: in hand with him together at their high school reunion 819 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,760 Speaker 2: after they've already been together and broken up. She's meaning 820 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 2: the Grammys. That's her high school reunion. 821 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:41,759 Speaker 1: She sees it. 822 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,439 Speaker 2: Someday they're gonna walk back in together. Do I want 823 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 2: her and Travis last forever? Yes, I'm not saying anything bad. 824 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:49,879 Speaker 2: And by the way, none of this means anything. It's 825 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 2: I wish my best friend's divorce. I think it's a 826 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,719 Speaker 2: great thing that relationships ebb and flow and you get out. 827 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 3: I don't. 828 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,240 Speaker 1: I don't think divorce is a failure. 829 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,360 Speaker 2: So when I say that, I'm not speaking from a 830 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:01,960 Speaker 2: place if I want her to be in pain, I 831 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 2: want her. I just want her to be in love 832 00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 2: again and write about it. So that's just my and 833 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 2: I think it's very hard to stay in a relationship 834 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:18,080 Speaker 2: with your celebrity forever, unless you're Goldie Hawn and Russell Brand, 835 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 2: what Crow whatever, they're not even married, and they're not 836 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 2: even married. She might not even you're married. But I 837 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 2: look forward to going to all the weddings. 838 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 839 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:30,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you guys will be best friends. 840 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 4: M h. 841 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:33,400 Speaker 1: Not after she heard that. 842 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,919 Speaker 2: If I hope, Taylor, if you heard that, you would 843 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 2: not offend it. I really, I'm totally actually like joking 844 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,919 Speaker 2: about all of this. I honestly hope. I think. 845 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:42,919 Speaker 1: I think Travis is your end game. 846 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 2: And I mean that by the song, and because when 847 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,360 Speaker 2: she did sing Endgame as one of her secret songs 848 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,000 Speaker 2: in a recent concert, there was a glimmer in her eye. 849 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,920 Speaker 1: That we haven't seen before and and the way she 850 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 1: ran to him. 851 00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,719 Speaker 2: We didn't talk about it last week, and Bessie's were 852 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,839 Speaker 2: dying for me to address it, but that run to him. 853 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 1: Where was this was in? 854 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:03,719 Speaker 2: It wasn't Rio, it was whatever city she was in 855 00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,359 Speaker 2: before Rio in her South American tour. She gots off 856 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,799 Speaker 2: stage and he's waiting outside this like curtained area, and 857 00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 2: she runs off stage and like as soon as she 858 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,360 Speaker 2: sees him she starts running and then runs into his arms. 859 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 2: He twirls her around, they kiss, and then she they 860 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 2: put her their arms around each other and they went 861 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 2: into a tent. Thank you for giving us that moment, 862 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 2: because you know what, they could have done it behind 863 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,520 Speaker 2: a curtain. They could have just waited till they got 864 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 2: in there. But they gave everyone that moment because we 865 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:34,680 Speaker 2: everything was one of the best days for girls and 866 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,160 Speaker 2: gay men was that day that we all got to 867 00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,800 Speaker 2: share in them hugging and kissing. It was like the 868 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,320 Speaker 2: end of a rom com scene. It was a beautiful 869 00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 2: They swirled around. She gave us that moment, and people go, 870 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:50,080 Speaker 2: it's a pr relationship, you know it can be. It's 871 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 2: not pr necessarily to just give your fans what they want, 872 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 2: and they want to see you happy in love. We 873 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,439 Speaker 2: all love to see that kind of affection. I thought 874 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,359 Speaker 2: it was a beautiful moment and I'm really glad, Thank 875 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 2: you Taylor, Thank you Travis for not keeping that behind 876 00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 2: closed doors. 877 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:04,840 Speaker 1: Yeah that's great. 878 00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 2: I really thought it was like we we fucking collectively 879 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,880 Speaker 2: as swifties freaked out when she did that, and it 880 00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 2: was the same show when she said, you know, she 881 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 2: goes Karma is my boyfriend, you know that song, and 882 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 2: she goes, Usually she was used to be talking about 883 00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 2: Joe in the song, her ex boyfriend in that song, 884 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 2: and she was like, Karma is the guy on the 885 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,719 Speaker 2: screen coming straight home to me. And it used to 886 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 2: be Joe is the guy on the screen, he's in 887 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,520 Speaker 2: the movies. But at that show, she goes, Karma is 888 00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 2: the guy on the Chiefs coming straight home too, And 889 00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 2: he didn't know, and he was like, so excited. 890 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:38,239 Speaker 1: I heard that. Yeah, and I just love that. 891 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,239 Speaker 2: They're like he's on his podcast talking about her, like 892 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:42,640 Speaker 2: she's just a normal gal. 893 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 1: She's getting talked about on podcasts, Like I. 894 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 2: Really love it. 895 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 1: I'm happy for him. 896 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,000 Speaker 2: Really, I've never been happier for anyone in my life, 897 00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:52,319 Speaker 2: I don't think. And no one deserves it more than 898 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,839 Speaker 2: that girl. She worked so hard. She yesterday she broke 899 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,839 Speaker 2: her heel in Rio and she's going through a tough time. 900 00:38:58,840 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 1: At the Rio show. 901 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,319 Speaker 2: A girl died at her show. Yeah, horribly, Yeah, girl died. 902 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:03,600 Speaker 4: Well. 903 00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 2: They had one hundred and forty degree temperatures inside the 904 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 2: dam stadium because they shut Yeah, there was heated Joshua 905 00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 2: and this girl passed out and died from complications from 906 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 2: it during Cruel Summer. 907 00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 3: So like at the Oh God. 908 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,720 Speaker 2: She second show of the thing, she passed out dies 909 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:25,960 Speaker 2: and and so they canceled the second night show. People 910 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,120 Speaker 2: were dying for water. It's one hundred and forty degrees 911 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:32,760 Speaker 2: because they shut the vents because they didn't want people 912 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 2: outside of the arena watching or hearing. So they shut 913 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,400 Speaker 2: the best and they were charging eighteen dollars for a 914 00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,839 Speaker 2: water bottle, and they wouldn't let people bring in outside water. 915 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:44,759 Speaker 1: So it was I heard there's a new rule. 916 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:49,279 Speaker 4: One thousand people fainted a thousand. That's one in seventy people. 917 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,319 Speaker 4: Do you remember their water bottle issue. We would go 918 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:55,200 Speaker 4: to the you have to buy a water then they 919 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 4: hand you a cup and you have to pour your 920 00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 4: water bottle. 921 00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 2: You can't because water bottles are good a throw like 922 00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 2: they you know, with a cap on it, it kind of 923 00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 2: zips through the air and you could throw it at 924 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:09,240 Speaker 2: we and you know, just a big, a big plastic 925 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,719 Speaker 2: cup is hard harder to hurl because it would get 926 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:15,839 Speaker 2: caught in the air. And so yeah, and oh God, 927 00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,839 Speaker 2: so and Taylor did in a previous show, I think 928 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 2: the night before the Girl died, say like, hey, will 929 00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,400 Speaker 2: you guys not throw things on stage? It really scares me, 930 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 2: and so she like had to tell them, so I 931 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:27,920 Speaker 2: think they were it was, but you know, it's just 932 00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:29,799 Speaker 2: been rough and Taylor I get like. 933 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:30,840 Speaker 1: Emotional thinking about it. 934 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,200 Speaker 2: But then so she canceled the Saturday show because it 935 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:34,360 Speaker 2: was still horrible temperatures. 936 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:35,640 Speaker 1: The girl died on the Friday show. 937 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 2: On Sunday night, she did the next set of you 938 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,680 Speaker 2: Know the Next Rio Show to make up for the 939 00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:43,799 Speaker 2: Saturday and during her secret song, she played this song 940 00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 2: Bigger than the Whole Sky, and it's like she definitely 941 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 2: She also put out a statement prior to this, after 942 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,439 Speaker 2: Anna's death where she said, I am so heartbroken about 943 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:55,479 Speaker 2: this death. I can't talk about it on stage because 944 00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 2: I get too emotional. Just please know that I'm thinking 945 00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 2: about it, like it was just this. Anya told me 946 00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 2: this weekend she was like I read that statement and 947 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,400 Speaker 2: I was jealous of her empathy, like she just seems 948 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 2: she was like I just never cared about like anything 949 00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:08,560 Speaker 2: that much. And Taylor's just you can just tell Taylor's 950 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:11,680 Speaker 2: just like this. She's a really sweet, bleeding heart like girl. 951 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,400 Speaker 2: If and so she sang this song Bigger than the 952 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:19,200 Speaker 2: Whole Sky and like, and the lyrics are like, goodbye, goodbye, goodbye. 953 00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 1: You were bigger than the whole sky, you were more 954 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,160 Speaker 1: than just a short time. I've got a lot to 955 00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 1: pine about. I've got a lot to figure out. 956 00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,640 Speaker 2: I'm never gone to meet what could have been, would 957 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:30,879 Speaker 2: have been, what should have been? 958 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 4: You. 959 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 2: Gives me chills thinking about it. But like the whole 960 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,040 Speaker 2: audience like knew it was for her. And it's like 961 00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 2: this really really sad song about you know, we initially 962 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,799 Speaker 2: thought it was maybe about a miscarriage, but it's really 963 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,279 Speaker 2: about like it's just about death, and it's just like 964 00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 2: about someone dying too young, probably because I'm never gonna 965 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:48,959 Speaker 2: meet what could have been, should have been, what would 966 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 2: have been you? And and so she that was her 967 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,640 Speaker 2: like tribute, and she got emotional during it. And then 968 00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:58,759 Speaker 2: last night at the show, she broke her heel, right 969 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:00,840 Speaker 2: and this is this is what I love is watching 970 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 2: this clip of her breaking her heel and it's right 971 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,920 Speaker 2: away like she broke it, I think during her performance 972 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,360 Speaker 2: of The Man. So she's in the same outfit for 973 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,359 Speaker 2: the opening, which is Miss Americana, which is you know, 974 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 2: a verse and a chorus, and then she goes right 975 00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 2: into Cruel Summer, which is the whole song, and then 976 00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:16,960 Speaker 2: she goes into The Man, which is the whole song. 977 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 2: And then you need to calm down. She's in these 978 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,560 Speaker 2: amazing boots, Lubaton boots, and the heel fucking snapped off 979 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 2: right in the middle of the Man, because at some 980 00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 2: point in the Man you could see that it's off. 981 00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 2: And then she goes on to do Lover, which she's 982 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:33,040 Speaker 2: just standing for with her guitar at the microphone, and like, 983 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 2: I guess you would have told me this happened. I 984 00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 2: would have been like, oh, She'll say something about it 985 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 2: and be like, well, my heel broke and the show's 986 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 2: still going on. This bitch. She did not even address it. 987 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,759 Speaker 2: She just points that toe acts like it's still there. 988 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:52,680 Speaker 2: Because you know what Taylor has in mind a lesser performer, 989 00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,840 Speaker 2: I e. Me thinking about what I would do in 990 00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 2: that scenario. I would call it out because I go 991 00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:01,120 Speaker 2: everyone's gonna see this. Taylor knows most of the crowd 992 00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 2: does not see that her heel is split. And this 993 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,799 Speaker 2: is like a thing that think people. People constantly think, 994 00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,040 Speaker 2: you know when you go out and you like I 995 00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 2: have a sigh in my eye. I know it like 996 00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,359 Speaker 2: you like get to it before other people can get 997 00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 2: to it, and people go, I would never even notice 998 00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:17,719 Speaker 2: if unless you told me. Taylor's smart enough to know 999 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,960 Speaker 2: I don't need to ruin this moment and make this 1000 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,760 Speaker 2: about my broken heel. It's not a thing. Just act 1001 00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:27,040 Speaker 2: like it's there, manifest that heel. So it's really cool 1002 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,400 Speaker 2: to watch her play lover because she's just pointing that 1003 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 2: toe and it's as if it's there, you're just not there. 1004 00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,840 Speaker 4: Yes, hard Wait did the heel actually just pop off. 1005 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,920 Speaker 2: The whole heel and it's like a four inch her 1006 00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,840 Speaker 2: toe is if she has a four inch heel on 1007 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 2: it and you can't tell it all and she's walking 1008 00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,600 Speaker 2: around and she's just walking on a pointed toe like 1009 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 2: like Barbie you know her. It's just that little detail. 1010 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 2: I go, wow, that is That's That's how proche she is. 1011 00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 2: She doesn't anyone else would have been fine, and she 1012 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,440 Speaker 2: done and funny. I think a less her on a 1013 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,160 Speaker 2: different tour would have called it out because that's but 1014 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:05,839 Speaker 2: she is just. 1015 00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,320 Speaker 1: Now she stops for queen. 1016 00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's just like she's just the best performer going. 1017 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,799 Speaker 2: I'm just like such obviously such a fan. So that's 1018 00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,839 Speaker 2: my home on Taylor TI Ride. We got to go 1019 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 2: to break but I want, well we get back. I 1020 00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 2: want to hear about this is my first time seeing 1021 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 2: you in a really long time. 1022 00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:22,840 Speaker 1: I know, mother, have you missed? 1023 00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:27,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's too long. We're gonna talk about your Paris vacation, 1024 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 2: your European vacation, that you're back all right after this, 1025 00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:37,120 Speaker 2: we're back my mom. Brian noah, earl here, Mom. You 1026 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,279 Speaker 2: just got back from Paris and Amsterdam. 1027 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 1: Is there two places? 1028 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:40,560 Speaker 2: Yes? 1029 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:42,680 Speaker 1: Yes, excuse me? 1030 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:43,719 Speaker 2: Did you go anywhere else? 1031 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:50,400 Speaker 4: No, actually we did go. We went to Paris for 1032 00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:52,680 Speaker 4: a couple of days and then we went to the countryside. 1033 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:53,399 Speaker 1: That's what I thought. 1034 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:56,640 Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, yeah, h this little town. I can't even 1035 00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 4: tell you the name of it. That's pretty bad. That's 1036 00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:05,879 Speaker 4: okay anyway, yeah, but we no, okay, no, it's this town. 1037 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 4: You would have net you won't even No one ever hurt, 1038 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,920 Speaker 4: No one knows. But anyway, it's all, you know, like 1039 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:15,279 Speaker 4: countryside and there's a lot of forest. And we went 1040 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:18,600 Speaker 4: there because we were invited because of a woman we 1041 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:23,160 Speaker 4: were with. So we went over for went to visit 1042 00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 4: my sister. She rented an apartment over there for three months. 1043 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:30,560 Speaker 4: She's still there, and she invited us for a week 1044 00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 4: to stay at the apartment. To stay at the apartment. 1045 00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:33,399 Speaker 2: Was it's so nice. 1046 00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty nice place. 1047 00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:36,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what she was paying. 1048 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,560 Speaker 1: Now I forget what she did. 1049 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:39,880 Speaker 3: Tell me. 1050 00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:41,080 Speaker 1: I wasn't like shocked. 1051 00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,759 Speaker 4: Okay, you know, it might be in the country side 1052 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:49,920 Speaker 4: in Paris, and uh, it was a beautiful apartment building but. 1053 00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:53,239 Speaker 1: So gorgeous, and they have. 1054 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,719 Speaker 4: There's a name I forget the uh, the architect that 1055 00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 4: they're all copied from. But they all have a facial front, 1056 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,480 Speaker 4: and then they have a courtyard on the inside, so 1057 00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 4: all the apartments circle this courtyard, so they all have 1058 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 4: lighting on all inside of their apartments and it's just 1059 00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:17,360 Speaker 4: a really interesting thing. Okay, anyway, I don't even know, 1060 00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:19,080 Speaker 4: but you can see in the other apartments. You feel 1061 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,799 Speaker 4: like you basically can't get your window. Yeah, you just 1062 00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,160 Speaker 4: can't leave your windows open because people can see right now. 1063 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 4: But anyway, and this building is from eighteen hundreds, so 1064 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,879 Speaker 4: it's old. But anyway, we stayed there for a couple 1065 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,680 Speaker 4: of nights and then we went to the countryside. But 1066 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 4: the biggest thing we did was go on this, uh 1067 00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:44,200 Speaker 4: followed a hunt which was turned out to be really 1068 00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 4: crazy that they actually chase let these hound dogs chase 1069 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:54,680 Speaker 4: down a deer for miles and miles and hours and 1070 00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,879 Speaker 4: hours until it is itself down and then they killed 1071 00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,880 Speaker 4: the deer, which that hounds to. 1072 00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:04,920 Speaker 1: Did you watch that? Yeah? Kind of sell some and 1073 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,360 Speaker 1: it was like like, why how do you do you 1074 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,840 Speaker 1: something like that? Is it like in the arena or something. 1075 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:13,239 Speaker 4: This is an historical thing that they've been doing for 1076 00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:17,120 Speaker 4: thousands of years. It's a castle these kids rape. 1077 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:18,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1078 00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 4: They It was basically like, yeah, you can't watch that. 1079 00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 2: Does this whole thing of like it's historical. 1080 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 1: I know it's weird. 1081 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 2: But when you guys told me that about this, I 1082 00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,799 Speaker 2: just assumed you wouldn't. Like I assumed you'd go to 1083 00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,440 Speaker 2: the country step, but I didn't assume you'd go on 1084 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:35,759 Speaker 2: the hunt. Your stomach that well. 1085 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:38,239 Speaker 4: I honestly I didn't know how it was going to end. 1086 00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 4: I just said what I thought they called it. They 1087 00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:49,480 Speaker 4: corner the deer, and what normally happens is they the 1088 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:53,400 Speaker 4: headhunter slits the throat of the deer. Oh that's better, 1089 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,960 Speaker 4: better than being slowly attacked by hound dogs. 1090 00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:59,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess, well, was there a chance that the 1091 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 3: deer would get away? Or is there no chance? Like? 1092 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:05,759 Speaker 4: No, he was Actually it took like three hours to 1093 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:06,799 Speaker 4: corner this deer. 1094 00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:07,800 Speaker 2: Three hours. 1095 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 6: Yea. 1096 00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 4: It was running back and forth. They're so smart they 1097 00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 4: know they go get another deer and get these hounds 1098 00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,640 Speaker 4: on another deer, and so then they chase this other 1099 00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:19,200 Speaker 4: deer for a wal smart the deer. The deer are 1100 00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,080 Speaker 4: like they they figures out. 1101 00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,800 Speaker 2: Well, it's almost like they're an intelligent creature that shouldn't 1102 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:25,959 Speaker 2: be killed for fing no reason. 1103 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:29,839 Speaker 4: No, it is so we were like, uh shook up 1104 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,480 Speaker 4: where you're like, oh my god, how did this? 1105 00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,080 Speaker 1: How does this happen? It's a big, big ceremony too. 1106 00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,120 Speaker 1: They are eating this has happened. I mean three hours. 1107 00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:41,279 Speaker 1: What are you doing now? Are you in the back 1108 00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:44,840 Speaker 1: of a chariot. I'm in the back of the jeep, 1109 00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:46,720 Speaker 1: Oh jeep, I'm in the back. 1110 00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:53,160 Speaker 4: Following following these country people with on horseback with uh 1111 00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 4: they're dressed in regalia, like with coats and hats, and 1112 00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:59,360 Speaker 4: I mean there's a. 1113 00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 1: Fucking bunch of dorks. 1114 00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:05,000 Speaker 4: I mean it looks like something out of no, no, 1115 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,879 Speaker 4: I mean anyone. They I was filming the whole time, 1116 00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,239 Speaker 4: going wow, this is crazy, and so May came up 1117 00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,640 Speaker 4: and they go, you are not posting that, correct, And 1118 00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:13,480 Speaker 4: I'm like, why. 1119 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 1: Because they know it's inhumane what they're doing. 1120 00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:18,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's gotta be I mean, And then I 1121 00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 4: started looking it up, going, oh my god, I can't 1122 00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 4: believe that. 1123 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,840 Speaker 1: Probably they were very. 1124 00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 4: Nervous about me posting this because it would you know, 1125 00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:30,520 Speaker 4: display exactly. 1126 00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,919 Speaker 2: Because what they're doing is like, I mean, eyes wide shut, 1127 00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 2: like some weird like kind of cold. 1128 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:37,879 Speaker 4: Kind Yeah, it's a weird thing, but it's like they've 1129 00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,360 Speaker 4: been doing it for thousands of years. But anyway, I 1130 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:43,439 Speaker 4: was reading all about it and in the countryside there's 1131 00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 4: all these castles and manor castles and they all have 1132 00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:51,200 Speaker 4: these hunts. Everybody has a hunt and it's a thing 1133 00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 4: they do there. It's very you know, you have to 1134 00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:59,040 Speaker 4: be invited to these things. Oh so, no, one's really it's. 1135 00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:00,799 Speaker 3: Not for the you know, expect you to come on 1136 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 3: a podcast start gabbing about it. 1137 00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:08,440 Speaker 4: Now you're gonna start chasing you. It's not going to 1138 00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:09,560 Speaker 4: take three hours. 1139 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:09,839 Speaker 2: To catch you. 1140 00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:15,920 Speaker 1: By the way, you guys can tire you out, that's anyway, 1141 00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 1: that was crazy. And then we did you eat it? Now? Really? No, 1142 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:21,520 Speaker 1: what did they do with it? 1143 00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:26,760 Speaker 4: They let the they skin it and they give they said, 1144 00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 4: they bag it up and they give all the you know, 1145 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:33,759 Speaker 4: the feeding parts to the peasants. 1146 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,840 Speaker 1: There's still peasants, that's what they say. Does that just 1147 00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:37,720 Speaker 1: mean poor people? 1148 00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,600 Speaker 4: And well I don't hate that that poor part, but 1149 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:44,160 Speaker 4: they chase it for three hours, can't isn't there better 1150 00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:45,200 Speaker 4: things to do with your time? 1151 00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:50,440 Speaker 1: No, it's really a crazy thing to watch. It's like. 1152 00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:54,280 Speaker 3: They just like watch succession instead. 1153 00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:58,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, now the morning show, I would recommend this is. 1154 00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,960 Speaker 1: Two thousand years of doing this on the countryside. 1155 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,839 Speaker 2: Yes, it's just a weird No, lots that things are 1156 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 2: protected by it's tradition. 1157 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:07,600 Speaker 3: It's tradition. 1158 00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 1: It was always been done. 1159 00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:14,799 Speaker 4: It's slavery it right, but it's tradition. No, you have 1160 00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:18,480 Speaker 4: to respect it and like tiptoe around all their bullshit. 1161 00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:19,120 Speaker 1: Listen. 1162 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:22,680 Speaker 4: I wasn't endorsing this. I was just like being like 1163 00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,960 Speaker 4: going wow at the end. And then there was there's 1164 00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:29,280 Speaker 4: a big huge party at the castle and at dinner 1165 00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,240 Speaker 4: and dancing and celebratory. 1166 00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,520 Speaker 1: Well, but then we went to Amsterdam. 1167 00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:38,920 Speaker 2: Final thought, Yeah, you walked through the red light district. 1168 00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:39,720 Speaker 2: Isn't that wild? 1169 00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:40,440 Speaker 1: Oh? 1170 00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,160 Speaker 2: I thought, walk in those alleys where the girls are 1171 00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,720 Speaker 2: just like tapping the glass and trying to get your attention. 1172 00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,200 Speaker 1: It's so nuts. We didn't walk it down an alley 1173 00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:49,480 Speaker 1: was the main drag. 1174 00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:50,880 Speaker 2: I mean like, but then you would cut off and 1175 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:52,400 Speaker 2: I know that it's the main drag, but then you 1176 00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:54,959 Speaker 2: would cut down a little corridor and there's like they're 1177 00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:58,080 Speaker 2: right there and they're like it's like you're at the zoo. 1178 00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,239 Speaker 1: I was just in behind this glass. Yeah. 1179 00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:04,200 Speaker 4: I was like looking at these girls and then it 1180 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 4: was like going kind of proud of them, like let's 1181 00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:11,200 Speaker 4: talk about that honestly, that they have the right to 1182 00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,719 Speaker 4: do whatever they want with their body if if they 1183 00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:18,600 Speaker 4: want no Listen, this is a tricky subject because I mean, well, 1184 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,040 Speaker 4: they don't have to be behind this. 1185 00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 1: Maybe they do. 1186 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,759 Speaker 4: Maybe they're I don't know how pampsy the legal thing 1187 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:25,399 Speaker 4: over there. 1188 00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:28,960 Speaker 2: Yes, so maybe they are collecting all the cash themselves. 1189 00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:32,480 Speaker 2: But there is oftentimes when it's presented like this woman 1190 00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,960 Speaker 2: is owning her own stuff and she's there's usually a 1191 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:37,280 Speaker 2: man behind it collecting. 1192 00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:39,919 Speaker 4: Well, it didn't feel like nah, it felt doesn't feel 1193 00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:41,880 Speaker 4: that way. No, it felt like she was on there 1194 00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:43,719 Speaker 4: on her own. She wanted to be there. 1195 00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:46,960 Speaker 2: And there's some old ones, there's some unfortunate looking ones. 1196 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,000 Speaker 2: There's like some you know. 1197 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,600 Speaker 1: These girls all look pretty unfortunate, pretty good. 1198 00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, just like oh yeah, because I say ugly, but 1199 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:56,440 Speaker 2: like they there were some ugly girls. 1200 00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 4: I feel bad that that's what they do to make 1201 00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:00,480 Speaker 4: money for them, but. 1202 00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,400 Speaker 2: I some of them enjoy it, yeah for sure, and 1203 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 2: some of them look at it like you know, I 1204 00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,080 Speaker 2: look at things people do and I go, I would 1205 00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,479 Speaker 2: never fucking want to do that all day. I'm trying 1206 00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:15,400 Speaker 2: to think of it like being being a trainer, Like 1207 00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,000 Speaker 2: I go to a trainer and I'm like, oh my god, 1208 00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,920 Speaker 2: like I'm just another one of her clients, like all 1209 00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:21,160 Speaker 2: day she just has to be like hi, like with 1210 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,560 Speaker 2: nine different people like hey, okay, and then I love that, 1211 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 2: but yes, I know, but I would hate that. 1212 00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:29,880 Speaker 1: Like I'm saying, like there are things. 1213 00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:34,080 Speaker 2: Sex can be something that it's just obviously it's it. 1214 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,239 Speaker 2: It can be joyless, but you just like get through it. 1215 00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,120 Speaker 2: It's like any kind of job, so pressure. 1216 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,880 Speaker 4: But I mean I felt like they were there on 1217 00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:42,240 Speaker 4: their own a cord. 1218 00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:45,400 Speaker 1: Yes, but yes, maybe I'm wrong. No, I don't know. 1219 00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:46,200 Speaker 1: I don't think you are. 1220 00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:48,279 Speaker 2: I think And that's just always the sensitive thing I have. 1221 00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:51,480 Speaker 2: I'm talking about peorn a lot in my stand up special. 1222 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 2: That's uh, I'm winning that Emmy four or I won 1223 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:59,279 Speaker 2: that Emmy four and I'm talking about my Yeah, like, well, 1224 00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:02,080 Speaker 2: I've said that I like would like to There's a 1225 00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 2: part of me that was like, oh, I could see 1226 00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:05,520 Speaker 2: to myself doing porn and you were like, you take 1227 00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:06,560 Speaker 2: that out of the reality show. 1228 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:07,440 Speaker 1: I don't want people to knowing. 1229 00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:11,640 Speaker 2: He said that, because it's performative. That's what I like 1230 00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:13,759 Speaker 2: about it. It's like you're performing this thing and you're 1231 00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,759 Speaker 2: doing something that people go like, I could never do that. 1232 00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:19,120 Speaker 2: There's something that's really interesting about that to me. But 1233 00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:22,040 Speaker 2: it's usually I don't like that. It's met with like 1234 00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:25,000 Speaker 2: that's just you're disgusting, and I wouldn't do that because 1235 00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,359 Speaker 2: you're I'm disgusting. It's like, but you do do this 1236 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:31,640 Speaker 2: with your husband, but for some reason that's not discusting. 1237 00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:34,920 Speaker 4: Like it's doing it with with some gross guys. 1238 00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:37,280 Speaker 2: Well, maybe the guy's not gross to them, and maybe 1239 00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,719 Speaker 2: it's you know, I wouldn't want to touch bodies all day, 1240 00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:42,879 Speaker 2: but some people massage people, you know, like there's there's 1241 00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:44,080 Speaker 2: some people that, but then. 1242 00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,279 Speaker 1: There are people who work in hospices who have to 1243 00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,760 Speaker 1: deal with you know, dying perfect exam. 1244 00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:52,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, fucking those people. 1245 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 3: Yea, what. 1246 00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:56,880 Speaker 1: Taking this in the wrong direction. 1247 00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:00,600 Speaker 2: But it's it is, I yeah, I have that dilemma 1248 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 2: because I know there are lots of porn stars that 1249 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:03,880 Speaker 2: are like, I love it, and I chose this and 1250 00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:05,560 Speaker 2: this is exactly what I want to do. But then, 1251 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,000 Speaker 2: you know, I feel like most of the stuff I 1252 00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:11,200 Speaker 2: watch is not that. It's it's women that are this 1253 00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:12,400 Speaker 2: wasn't their first choice. 1254 00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:17,600 Speaker 3: You're going, why would they have to send me some 1255 00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:20,120 Speaker 3: guy when they can just go on like only fans 1256 00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:22,440 Speaker 3: and starting only fans and never have to touch anybody. 1257 00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:27,239 Speaker 3: Is there's an interesting get their online following going? Or 1258 00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:28,520 Speaker 3: is there something about so. 1259 00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,640 Speaker 2: Much more lucrative and maybe you can make so much 1260 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:36,719 Speaker 2: in one night and maybe it's yeah, it's probably financially 1261 00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:39,040 Speaker 2: just there's more money to be made in the red 1262 00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,280 Speaker 2: light district from just like horny dudes on Baxo parties. 1263 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,960 Speaker 4: But it is weird to be in this crowd that's 1264 00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:49,160 Speaker 4: shuffling so slowly, pair through these. 1265 00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:51,320 Speaker 2: People like a museum, and you look in each window 1266 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 2: and you see this girl just adjusting her thong, licking 1267 00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:58,200 Speaker 2: her lips, making eye contact with you. We went to 1268 00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:00,479 Speaker 2: a live sex show. Oh, I knew you guys should 1269 00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:02,200 Speaker 2: have gone to that. It's so funny. 1270 00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:04,520 Speaker 1: No, your dad wanted to, he said we should. Maybe. 1271 00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:05,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, you should have gone. 1272 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:09,400 Speaker 2: You know, it's funny. It's not like even sexy. It's 1273 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,400 Speaker 2: you know, in ted Lasso, they said, it's just tired 1274 00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:13,239 Speaker 2: people having sex, and that really is what. 1275 00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,760 Speaker 1: Well, that's what I was thinking. I thought I'll be bored. 1276 00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,759 Speaker 1: You would, you would see a lot of yourself in it. 1277 00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:24,120 Speaker 1: You know me too well. But it was just but 1278 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:25,799 Speaker 1: it wasn't answerdam awesome, isn't it just? 1279 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:25,960 Speaker 4: Ye? 1280 00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,040 Speaker 1: It's such a cool. 1281 00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:31,880 Speaker 4: To everybody, so laid back, and everyone's so nice. I 1282 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,800 Speaker 4: mean I was looking for someone not nice? 1283 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:34,640 Speaker 2: Oh really? 1284 00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:37,799 Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean talking in Paris? Were they not nice? Oh? 1285 00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:38,800 Speaker 1: They're nice in Paris? 1286 00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:40,560 Speaker 2: Well did you find like my fear of going to 1287 00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:42,399 Speaker 2: Paris is obviously like they're going to be like, oh 1288 00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:45,560 Speaker 2: stupid American like you everywhere like. 1289 00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:50,560 Speaker 4: Everyone everywhere we went. I was like, people talk about 1290 00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:52,120 Speaker 4: that and it's. 1291 00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:53,799 Speaker 2: Kind of like the New York thing where they're like 1292 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,799 Speaker 2: New York was a mean and that's just. 1293 00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:57,560 Speaker 3: Not Maybe they're just peking it though. 1294 00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:57,799 Speaker 4: I mean. 1295 00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,080 Speaker 3: I have a friend who lives in Paris, and he 1296 00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:02,399 Speaker 3: was like, they she's now lived there for a couple 1297 00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,480 Speaker 3: of years, and she's like, they hate every year. They 1298 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:07,279 Speaker 3: hate America. They hate you if you're not Parisian enough, 1299 00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:08,760 Speaker 3: imagine you're American. 1300 00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:13,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, they just didn't feel that way. I didn't feel ever. 1301 00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 2: Like does everyone I hear that everyone's like, so is 1302 00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:17,480 Speaker 2: everyone stylish? 1303 00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:21,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? Is everyone pretty? Is everyone smoking? Is everyone wearing 1304 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:22,760 Speaker 4: like a lot of smoke? 1305 00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:23,160 Speaker 2: Really? 1306 00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:26,720 Speaker 1: Like no one's dressed like in labels or like wearing. 1307 00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:30,320 Speaker 2: A bunch of it didn't look like no sweat, you 1308 00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:33,920 Speaker 2: know there's boots, there's no they're not. No one's carrying 1309 00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:36,080 Speaker 2: a coffee cup walking down the street like everyone is 1310 00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:36,919 Speaker 2: like they. 1311 00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:40,000 Speaker 4: Might be carrying coffee, but it's those are Americans. 1312 00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:43,520 Speaker 1: But no ugs. You did not see like ugs and sweats. 1313 00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:46,480 Speaker 4: Like no one's dressed like grubby people dressed nice to 1314 00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:47,160 Speaker 4: go just. 1315 00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:48,480 Speaker 1: Down the streets. Yeah. 1316 00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:49,760 Speaker 3: Eighteen hundreds. 1317 00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:51,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, tradition. 1318 00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, another people are dressed nice to go watch the 1319 00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:57,880 Speaker 3: deer get torture and killed, got. 1320 00:57:57,720 --> 00:57:58,400 Speaker 1: It and killed. 1321 00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:01,240 Speaker 2: That's such a weird thing, you would it was. I 1322 00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:02,880 Speaker 2: do not want to hear Dad talk about it. I 1323 00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:05,000 Speaker 2: know he's gonna make it extra visceral just to like 1324 00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,560 Speaker 2: get at my vegan heart. Well he does that sometimes 1325 00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:08,479 Speaker 2: where he'll just like. 1326 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,680 Speaker 1: It was actually really cool the way that talk about it, 1327 00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:14,120 Speaker 1: the fear in the deer's eye, it just it was 1328 00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:21,200 Speaker 1: almost Poeticay, oh, how do you know that it's. 1329 00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,640 Speaker 3: Bad for the meat? That's why you know you have 1330 00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:23,480 Speaker 3: to They can't. 1331 00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:25,120 Speaker 1: That's why they give it to the peasants. 1332 00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:28,760 Speaker 3: Else theo is coursing through their veins and that spoils 1333 00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:29,280 Speaker 3: the meat. 1334 00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:35,440 Speaker 2: Okay, speaking of veins real quick, I'm like, so obviously 1335 00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:36,640 Speaker 2: I'm doing plates all the. 1336 00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:37,920 Speaker 1: Time now and so proud of you. 1337 00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:41,560 Speaker 2: Thanks me too. And it's just it's the way of life, 1338 00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:43,880 Speaker 2: and it's so it's so hard. 1339 00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:44,840 Speaker 1: It's not getting easier. 1340 00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:48,200 Speaker 2: So many besties sent me this video of this pilates 1341 00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:51,720 Speaker 2: instructor that was being spoofed of like she's going like 1342 00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:55,600 Speaker 2: and now your ribcage is a sweater. You're knitting it together, 1343 00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:59,320 Speaker 2: knit it, knit it again, and four three knit Now 1344 00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:02,760 Speaker 2: your belly you scoop it like some scallion cream cheese. 1345 00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:06,240 Speaker 2: You scoop and you're gonna scoop three yes. And it's 1346 00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 2: like they just they talk in a different way. They 1347 00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:10,240 Speaker 2: have all these weird things that they say to get 1348 00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:11,120 Speaker 2: you to visualize stuff. 1349 00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:12,800 Speaker 1: It's really I'm starting to love it. 1350 00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,440 Speaker 2: I'm starting to feel the thing that I always hated 1351 00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:17,440 Speaker 2: when people said, which was I've heard the first time 1352 00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:19,720 Speaker 2: I ever heard about pilates. This girl was like, my 1353 00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:24,000 Speaker 2: body as seriously transformed since doing ploates. I have a 1354 00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,919 Speaker 2: different body. And I was just like, wh But it's 1355 00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:30,560 Speaker 2: kind of true. It's like you just start, I've said 1356 00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:32,800 Speaker 2: it before. You feel I feel like I'm learning to 1357 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,360 Speaker 2: walk again. I feel as frustrated as you see like 1358 00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:37,800 Speaker 2: veterans who have lost their legs and they like, you know, 1359 00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,760 Speaker 2: when they're struggling and they're like, I want to do 1360 00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,120 Speaker 2: this anymore, and they're like, I feel that way during 1361 00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:44,800 Speaker 2: this of like trying to engage certain muscles, and oftentimes 1362 00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:48,080 Speaker 2: they do say, pretend you're Lieutenant Dan and you have 1363 00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:51,560 Speaker 2: no muscles. Everything is from your core. So when you're 1364 00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:54,439 Speaker 2: doing leg stuff, they're like, don't work your leg muscles. 1365 00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,160 Speaker 2: It's like, I'll be doing a leg exercise and she's like, 1366 00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:58,480 Speaker 2: pretend to how you would do with this if you 1367 00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:01,320 Speaker 2: were Lieutenant Dan, And I'm like, but he doesn't have legs. 1368 01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:03,120 Speaker 2: I'm using my leg What does that even mean? But 1369 01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 2: it's all because it's all core muscles. But I feel 1370 01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,160 Speaker 2: like him because I'm like, fuck this, this is frustrating. 1371 01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:09,040 Speaker 1: I fucking hate that. 1372 01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:11,760 Speaker 2: I ever went to war and I scream and I 1373 01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:14,160 Speaker 2: don't do that, but I I worked so hard, but 1374 01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:17,720 Speaker 2: I was gonna say I was looking into my hamstrings 1375 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:19,800 Speaker 2: are like my tightest area, and my hips, like I 1376 01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:21,920 Speaker 2: just want to be able to bend forward and not 1377 01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:24,160 Speaker 2: have this like low hunch. And then I've been looking 1378 01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:27,720 Speaker 2: into YouTube videos about stretching, and do you know that 1379 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:31,600 Speaker 2: the reason you can't stretch and that you're limited in 1380 01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:35,440 Speaker 2: your stretching is very little to do with your muscles 1381 01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:39,920 Speaker 2: actually being tight that you could do pretty much all stretches. 1382 01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:45,600 Speaker 2: It's in your fucking head. It's your nerves getting scared 1383 01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:47,960 Speaker 2: and then telling your body no, no, no, no, no, you're 1384 01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:49,640 Speaker 2: gonna You're gonna you can't go any further. 1385 01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:54,160 Speaker 1: So it's really Once I learned that, I'm like, oh shit. 1386 01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:56,880 Speaker 2: So that's why a lot of stretches you're supposed to 1387 01:00:56,960 --> 01:01:00,400 Speaker 2: like start slow and like teach your nerves like, hey, nerves, 1388 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:03,760 Speaker 2: it's okay, Like I'm not gonna hurt this person. Because 1389 01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:05,880 Speaker 2: the second you go for a stretch, your body locks 1390 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:07,600 Speaker 2: up immediate because your nerves send a signal to your 1391 01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:09,960 Speaker 2: brain going like owow ow, you can't do this. This 1392 01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:13,280 Speaker 2: is impossible. Your body is if you stretch anymore, it'll 1393 01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:16,040 Speaker 2: rip something. But that's not true. You're able to move. 1394 01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:18,080 Speaker 2: It's your fucking head holding you back. 1395 01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:21,120 Speaker 1: Is that interesting? Brian? Do you know anything about this? 1396 01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:26,720 Speaker 3: I know that just just disclaimer, like you shouldn't try 1397 01:01:26,800 --> 01:01:30,920 Speaker 3: to force yourself to overstretch something. Something might snap, But 1398 01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:33,280 Speaker 3: you can get paid. Like if you think you're just 1399 01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:38,040 Speaker 3: quote unquote not flexible, right, you can become flexible over time. 1400 01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,120 Speaker 1: But there's a lot of mind to it as opposed 1401 01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:41,600 Speaker 1: to just. 1402 01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:43,120 Speaker 3: Like there's a lot of mind to everything. 1403 01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:45,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just didn't know that that. I mean, I'm 1404 01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:47,680 Speaker 2: not saying it's all that. I do believe that they 1405 01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 2: are tight muscles and that that Yeah, you can like 1406 01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:55,720 Speaker 2: pull that split you Like, I really do. 1407 01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:56,280 Speaker 1: Think you can. 1408 01:01:56,480 --> 01:01:59,720 Speaker 2: I think it's like it's it's a matter of your 1409 01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:02,200 Speaker 2: brain getting in the way, going like you can't do that, 1410 01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:04,840 Speaker 2: and I think that we but it's so cemented in 1411 01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:08,080 Speaker 2: us to believe that your your brain, your thoughts, and 1412 01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:11,040 Speaker 2: your nerves, because it does hurt, and your nerves are hurting, 1413 01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:13,960 Speaker 2: so it's sending a signal that it's something and you 1414 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,440 Speaker 2: think it's your muscles, but it's not. It's your nerves, 1415 01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:17,760 Speaker 2: and your nerves can move. 1416 01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:20,080 Speaker 3: You got to ease it. You got to eat into 1417 01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:22,720 Speaker 3: it ease. I used to do that. There's a similar 1418 01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:25,280 Speaker 3: concept with starting strength, which is this workout thing right 1419 01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:28,040 Speaker 3: where you would constantly make the weights heavier and heavier, 1420 01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,160 Speaker 3: and like they would say, like you think you can't 1421 01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:34,560 Speaker 3: do five reps of that ridiculous weight, you can and 1422 01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:36,760 Speaker 3: it's amazing how if you just get over the mental hurdle, 1423 01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:39,480 Speaker 3: you actually can squat that much weight five times as 1424 01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:41,560 Speaker 3: long as you're building up to it. Though you can't 1425 01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:44,680 Speaker 3: just go out there and believe much at the rock, Yeah, 1426 01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:46,080 Speaker 3: then you'll really hurt yourself. 1427 01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:49,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's limitations, but crystaled me this anecdote yesterday of like, 1428 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:52,640 Speaker 2: there's some study where they put rats in a bucket 1429 01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:55,439 Speaker 2: and they may they exhausted them to the point where 1430 01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:57,560 Speaker 2: the rat drowns, right or like is about to drown. 1431 01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,360 Speaker 2: And I'm sure they I'm sure they didn't rescue them 1432 01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:02,200 Speaker 2: because sciences cruel, but they the rats drowned. 1433 01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:02,720 Speaker 1: Let's say it. 1434 01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:04,840 Speaker 2: This is just a made up number, but they drown 1435 01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:07,360 Speaker 2: at eighteen minutes, right, So they took another batch of 1436 01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:10,360 Speaker 2: rats and at seventeen minutes, knowing that they're all going 1437 01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:11,840 Speaker 2: to give up at eighteen they take them out at 1438 01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:13,760 Speaker 2: seventeen minutes and they let them catch their breath for 1439 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:15,920 Speaker 2: a couple of minutes. They put them back in. And 1440 01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:18,080 Speaker 2: how long do you think those last rats lasted? 1441 01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:19,680 Speaker 1: Seventeen minutes? 1442 01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:24,920 Speaker 2: Like hours, because the rat now thinks someone's going to 1443 01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:27,320 Speaker 2: come and get me. When the rat has no hope, 1444 01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:29,960 Speaker 2: it's going to give up so much sooner. So if 1445 01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:33,120 Speaker 2: you think that there's an end in sight, you can 1446 01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:34,520 Speaker 2: hold on for that much longer. 1447 01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:38,800 Speaker 3: Yes, that's learned helplessness. That's a major study on optimism 1448 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:41,680 Speaker 3: where they would take there was a one with dogs. 1449 01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:43,640 Speaker 3: There's one of the rats where they would press a 1450 01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 3: button and a pellet of food would come out, and 1451 01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:48,479 Speaker 3: so they learn if they press this button, a pellet 1452 01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 3: of food would come out, and then they did it. 1453 01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:52,880 Speaker 3: They brought their rats back in. They pressed the button 1454 01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:54,960 Speaker 3: and no food comes out. And then every once in 1455 01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,600 Speaker 3: a while they pressed the button and they get an 1456 01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:59,480 Speaker 3: electric shock, right, And then they pressed the button and 1457 01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:02,200 Speaker 3: then food comes out, and they get confused, and so 1458 01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:05,440 Speaker 3: now they keep pressing the button. They get shocked, there's nothing, 1459 01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 3: and then eventually they just stop pressing the button, and 1460 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,160 Speaker 3: then they turned the food back on. If they were 1461 01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:13,880 Speaker 3: to press the button one more time, food would come out, 1462 01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:16,760 Speaker 3: but they have learned helplessness, and so they just sit 1463 01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:18,640 Speaker 3: there and they never press the button again. 1464 01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:19,960 Speaker 2: So what do we learn from that. 1465 01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:24,680 Speaker 3: We learn that it's possible to break someone's spirit in 1466 01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:27,480 Speaker 3: a way that would cause them to So, so what 1467 01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:30,960 Speaker 3: we learned from it is we should be optimistic. One 1468 01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,080 Speaker 3: of your main goals for longevity is to always try 1469 01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:38,600 Speaker 3: to be in an optimistic mindset. Otherwise, if you learn helplessness, 1470 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:40,640 Speaker 3: that's what you'll fall into a depression and you'll stop 1471 01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:45,000 Speaker 3: doing the things that could potentially keep you alive. There 1472 01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:48,000 Speaker 3: is the mis will keep you alive longer, optimism will 1473 01:04:48,280 --> 01:04:49,240 Speaker 3: along at your life. 1474 01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:49,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1475 01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:51,680 Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's why old people are always 1476 01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,560 Speaker 2: like I just laugh all the time, like those like 1477 01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:56,200 Speaker 2: you know, one hundred and three about anything. Yeah, Like 1478 01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:59,320 Speaker 2: I just have like a yeah, I'm pretty. There, I'm pretty. 1479 01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:03,760 Speaker 2: They're not usually like very stressful people. But another study, 1480 01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:07,080 Speaker 2: just real quick, there was one where they chased a 1481 01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:10,440 Speaker 2: deer for three hours and they what they learned from 1482 01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:12,480 Speaker 2: it at the very end after it was mauled by 1483 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,400 Speaker 2: a bunch of dogs is nothing. They learned nothing. It 1484 01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:16,680 Speaker 2: was pointless and. 1485 01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:21,440 Speaker 3: Years. We learned this lesson in fourteen ninety three. 1486 01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:24,480 Speaker 2: I guess I need to keep repeating it, see if 1487 01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:27,200 Speaker 2: we get different results. All right, guys, Happy Thanksgiving. Thank 1488 01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:29,280 Speaker 2: you so much for listening to the podcast today. We 1489 01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:31,880 Speaker 2: will see you next week on the show. Make sure 1490 01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:34,720 Speaker 2: to get tickets to my show in Seattle. I am 1491 01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:38,200 Speaker 2: taping my comedy special seven o'clock nine to thirty shows 1492 01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:41,080 Speaker 2: Dying for besties to be there. No, I cannot do 1493 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:42,920 Speaker 2: a meet and greet that night. It's just not going 1494 01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,240 Speaker 2: to work out. I might come up with some way 1495 01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:48,320 Speaker 2: to meet up with besties maybe the next day or 1496 01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:51,200 Speaker 2: the day before or something, but I can't do it 1497 01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:52,800 Speaker 2: that night. I'm so sorry, But that doesn't mean I 1498 01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:54,400 Speaker 2: don't want you there and that I won't feel your 1499 01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,440 Speaker 2: love there. So get those tickets for Seattle December sixteenth, 1500 01:05:57,600 --> 01:05:59,320 Speaker 2: make a trip of it if you want flyout. 1501 01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:01,680 Speaker 1: I'd love to see you there. Can't wait for it. 1502 01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:05,760 Speaker 2: And I'll be in Brea next week with Brian Frangie. 1503 01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:07,880 Speaker 1: Oh no, not next week. I'll be in Detroit next week. 1504 01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:11,960 Speaker 2: I'll also be in Munhall, Pennsylvania next week, and then 1505 01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:13,880 Speaker 2: the following week I'll be in Brea, California at the 1506 01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:16,080 Speaker 2: Brea Improv with Brian Frangie. So come out and see that. 1507 01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,080 Speaker 2: And then a week after that, Seattle is my special 1508 01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:22,640 Speaker 2: taping and then the Emmys. I gotta get ready for those. 1509 01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:24,960 Speaker 2: All right, guys, thank you so much for listening. Don't 1510 01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:27,160 Speaker 2: be ka and manifest that shit.