WEBVTT - Ryan's Roses- The LDR

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it is one of two point seven Kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 1>It's time for Ryan's Roses. This is coming to us

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<v Speaker 1>from Meg and Echo Park. So, Meg, you've been dating

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<v Speaker 1>for about six months long distance, but you've been together

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<v Speaker 1>five years. Yea, who moved? Who moved where?

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<v Speaker 2>So we started diving in college at USC and my

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend got this really great job opportunity in Reno. So

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<v Speaker 2>that's actually where he's from originally, so it was no

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<v Speaker 2>brainer for him to go back, and I, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I love my job here and I grew up here,

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<v Speaker 2>so we kind of thought we'd give it about a

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<v Speaker 2>year and then kind of decide where we'd end up

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<v Speaker 2>after that, you know, And we go back and forth

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<v Speaker 2>to see each other every other weekend. So I go

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<v Speaker 2>to Reno once a month and then he comes here

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<v Speaker 2>once a month.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So you in your email, you tell me

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<v Speaker 1>that you ran into a friend of his when you

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<v Speaker 1>were out, and exactly what.

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<v Speaker 2>Happened last time I was there. I went to Target

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<v Speaker 2>to grab some stuff and I ran into this woman

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<v Speaker 2>that he knew from school, and you know, I had

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<v Speaker 2>met her a bunch of times when I first started dating,

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<v Speaker 2>and she was all like, oh hey, and seemed really confused,

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<v Speaker 2>like what are you doing here? And she said didn't

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<v Speaker 2>you two break up? Which I thought was really weird,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like no, and then I got super awkward,

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<v Speaker 2>right exactly, and like, I don't know, has he been

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<v Speaker 2>seeing someone else? Like it'd be really easy because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we're not exactly close living close to each other. Did

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<v Speaker 2>he start telling people we broke up? And I, obviously

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<v Speaker 2>I confronted him about it. I asked him, and he

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<v Speaker 2>said he had no idea why she thought that that

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<v Speaker 2>he hasn't actually seen her in years.

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<v Speaker 1>So I, okay, hold on one second, let us we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to try and call him here. I for me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just making this rule up now for myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I think anything be on a six month long distance

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<v Speaker 1>relationship is a deal breaker for me. Why I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>putting that rule out there, Okay, I'm just it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>really hard and it's tough, and you know, a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>you want the companionship for both people.

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<v Speaker 3>Not everybody wants companionship.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, then I'm making that rule for myself. I do, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to be in a relationship where you've got

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<v Speaker 1>the companion yeah ship. So just so you know if

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<v Speaker 1>you're if you're keeping the list of rules on me,

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<v Speaker 1>add that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no longer than six months, LDR.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a deal breaker.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it takes time, and it also depends on

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<v Speaker 3>your age. Michael and I did long distance for two years,

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<v Speaker 3>but we were also really young. He was twenty three

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<v Speaker 3>and I was twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that'd be even harder.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean we were like young. So it's like, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>let's just do it. Because eld early twenties on Air

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<v Speaker 3>with Ryan Secret.

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<v Speaker 1>On Air with Ryan Seacrest, All we're in Ryan's roses

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Meg has told us that she thinks because

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<v Speaker 1>someone when she went to go visit her boyfriend. They're

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<v Speaker 1>in a long distance relationship. She goes to visit and

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<v Speaker 1>runs into a friend of his and he says, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing here? I thought you guys broke up.

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<v Speaker 1>So someone's spreading the news that Meg and her boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>have broken up. They're in a long distance relationship for

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<v Speaker 1>six months. So Meg, I need you to say, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you my permission to call, and then his name on

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<v Speaker 1>Kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 2>Go ahead, you have my permission to call. Absolutely all right, We're.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna do that now. Let's see what we can find out.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he telling people that you broke up? Or people

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<v Speaker 1>just making that up? I don't get it, So let's

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<v Speaker 1>see who he sends the roses. To be very quiet

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<v Speaker 1>until we tell me he's on the air.

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<v Speaker 4>Good luck, okay, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi is this Trey? This is hi my nye, Miss Kendra.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm calling from the Flower Stop. How are you doing

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<v Speaker 3>this morning?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good? How are you? What's this about?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good? Thank you for asking. We actually deliver in

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<v Speaker 3>the Reno area, and I'm doing a promotion today for

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<v Speaker 3>a dozen red roses that you can send to anybody

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<v Speaker 3>that you'd like. They are absolutely free. Just trying to

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<v Speaker 3>promote our delivery service. So is this something that you'd

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<v Speaker 3>be interested in?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, I'm gonna talk you right there. Are these? Are

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<v Speaker 4>you offering me free roses? Right now?

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<v Speaker 3>They are absolutely free on any credit card, on any

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<v Speaker 3>cash and any billionatterus, anything like that. Just the name

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<v Speaker 3>of the person you want to send them to and

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<v Speaker 3>a note. It's about a promotion.

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<v Speaker 4>Hold up, they do this in Reno too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I am in Reno right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'm asking because when I lived in La I

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<v Speaker 4>used to hear this on the radio, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>know they had it in Reno and this is gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be weird to ask. But am I on the radio

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<v Speaker 4>right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Can you hang on one second?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I have to do? I have to look at

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<v Speaker 1>tell him? Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey? Yes, hello my girlfriend? Hi?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, hello, Yes, we have to tell you that your

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<v Speaker 3>voice is being broadcasted on the radio. You're on one

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<v Speaker 3>or two point seven Kiss FM in Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi. Hi, So I assume my girlfriend asked you to

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<v Speaker 4>tell me.

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<v Speaker 3>Is your girlfriend Meg?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes? She is. As a matter of fact, is she

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<v Speaker 4>on the line right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Meg? Are you there? Hey? Hey Trey, Ryan, Hey babe,

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<v Speaker 3>do you want to tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Trey why watching down?

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<v Speaker 3>Why you had us call him?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Let's be honest. Are you are you seeing someone

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<v Speaker 2>else in Reno? Because honestly, when I saw Erica, she

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<v Speaker 2>thought it was weird that I was there. And I

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<v Speaker 2>know we talked about this, but what's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? No, we did talk about this, and I told

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<v Speaker 4>you Erica doesn't know what she's talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, try, my name is Ryan. Your voice assistant said,

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<v Speaker 1>He's being broadcast on the radio, and I'm just listening

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<v Speaker 1>in on this Uh, you guys talked about what exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>I talked about the fact that I know, like our

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<v Speaker 4>friend Erica said that she thought we had broken up,

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<v Speaker 4>which we didn't, and also she's not a very good friend.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did Erica have Why did Erica have that thought?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, because she's a gossip and she likes

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<v Speaker 4>to make a bunch of assumptions and stories in her

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<v Speaker 4>head when she can't get actual stories from people.

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<v Speaker 1>Erica want to date, you know, I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, but I certain don't want to date her.

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<v Speaker 1>Does Erica not like Meg?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>What is Erica not like your girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I said, I haven't thought Erica.

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<v Speaker 1>Might be making this up.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't like. I don't know if she's making it

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<v Speaker 4>up because she doesn't like Madgie, she's making it up

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<v Speaker 4>because she thought it for some reason. I truly don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe she just thought it because she hadn't seen Megan

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<v Speaker 4>a while, and because she hadn't seen Megan a while,

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<v Speaker 4>assume that's why we had broken up, which doesn't make

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<v Speaker 4>any sense because I didn't tell her this. But also

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<v Speaker 4>we don't live in the same city, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, no, I mean, look, there's other things too,

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<v Speaker 2>like I wasn't gonna bring this up, but who lives

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<v Speaker 2>on long Leu Lane?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Who lives on long Ley Lane? I noticed that you

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<v Speaker 2>go there a lot. It looks like an apartment building.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait are you tracking my location?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean we share a location, we always have, Like

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<v Speaker 2>did you forget that?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just sorry I am that you're so paranoid that

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<v Speaker 4>you're tracking my location and not just talking to me

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<v Speaker 4>about this. And if you want to know, it's my

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<v Speaker 4>friend Louis, who I work with.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, I don't know if I'm paranoid. But we

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<v Speaker 2>spend the night there sometimes.

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<v Speaker 4>Like what is this? Yeah? Sometimes we drink late and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like to drive drunk because I'm responsible, so

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<v Speaker 4>I spend the night there.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, Tree, just tell me what's going on? Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I know something's going on? Please all right?

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<v Speaker 4>Can we just talk about this later some other time,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe in person or FaceTime or something. I don't understand

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<v Speaker 4>why we've already had this conversation multiple times and now

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<v Speaker 4>you're trying to catch me on the radio having this conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll just do it face to face. Can we at

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<v Speaker 4>least do that?

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<v Speaker 1>My God, maybe that's best you guys do that. I

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<v Speaker 1>will just say that long distance relationships are very dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is the point here, because it's just really dang.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, at some point, I just wonder can kind

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<v Speaker 1>of relationship really exist for a long time time, especially

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<v Speaker 1>when you guys already have these kinds of holes, these

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of gap, these kinds of communication breakdown before they go.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't have to be dangerous. You guys just have

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<v Speaker 3>to communicate, all right, Well.

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<v Speaker 4>Good luck to do that. Good luck communicate? Or are

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<v Speaker 4>you tracking me right now? Do you? You obviously know

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<v Speaker 4>where I am, so you can find me at any

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<v Speaker 4>point you want.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but you can't be snappy like that, Trey, Come on.

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<v Speaker 1>Collaborative, collaborative solution oriented. Those are several Thank you, Tray

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<v Speaker 1>and Meg. Good luck all right, I believe him, I

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<v Speaker 1>do true.

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<v Speaker 3>But oh my gosh, we need to go back to

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<v Speaker 3>that word though.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, I play on this one fast case f M.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize that was playing very first.