1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVIFM dot com and 4 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: We could be reading. 6 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: Your letter live on the air, just like we're going 7 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. 9 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 3: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type. 10 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 3: We got it for you here it is strawberry. 11 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: Let us thank you, nephew. Subject the joke is on 12 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: me this time. Dear Stephen Shirley, maybe you can help me. 13 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: My wife and I have been married for six years 14 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: and we have one daughter. I'm thirty two and she's thirty. 15 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: We were young when we started dating, so we had 16 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: a few three ways and we went to the strip 17 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: club together all of the time. We both got saved 18 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: right after we got married, but I still got chills 19 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: when I heard my single friend talking about being with 20 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: two girls at one time like a dummy. I decided 21 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: to check in with my wife to see if she 22 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: wanted to go to the strip club with me and 23 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 1: a group of our friends. She said that she's not 24 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 1: going nor am I. I didn't want an argument, so 25 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: I didn't push it. I went anyway, and I told 26 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: her I was playing cards with friends. She found out 27 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 1: from one of the girls that dates one of my friends. 28 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: She told me that if I want to play, then 29 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 1: it's on. I told her that women can't do what 30 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: men do, and I put my foot down and I 31 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: said that there's nothing wrong with going to the strip club. 32 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: She said fine, and that was it. I went a 33 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: few more times and I told her before I left. 34 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: She never said a word, so I thought it was cool. 35 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: Her birthday came around and she told me she was 36 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: going to Palm Springs with her sorority sisters. It was 37 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: a quick trip, so I was cool with it. A 38 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: week later, I found out that they rented a sprinter 39 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: and hired two male strippers to entertain them on the ride. 40 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: She and four other married women went. She was so 41 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: happy to admit that she lied to me. She won't 42 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: tell me where she stayed or where the two strippers stayed. 43 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: She told me that she doesn't question me, so she 44 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: wants the same grace. Okay, so the joke is on 45 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: me this time. This is not how I want my 46 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: marriage to go. How do we rebuild the trust? I 47 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: have to be honest with you. It is hard and 48 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: darn near impossible. In the beginning, trust is much easier 49 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: because no one has done anything to break that trust. 50 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: You haven't given your partner a reason to not trust you. 51 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: But all it all takes, all it takes is one time. 52 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: I'll just put it like that. All it takes is 53 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: one time. Then you're checking voicemails, you're checking social media posts, 54 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: you're pulling. 55 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 2: Up on them at lunch, showing up at. 56 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: Their job, all because they did something to make you 57 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: not trust them. This thing that you did that you 58 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: knew you shouldn't have done, like going to the strip club, 59 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: has turned into a big, huge mess now and you 60 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: see that, and yeah, it is true. It's the double standard. 61 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: And women aren't supposed to do what men do in 62 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: this society and still be a lady. But in case 63 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: you haven't noticed, times have changed. Some women these days 64 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 1: are really out for revenge when you do something to them. 65 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: They want you to feel that pain. They really really do. 66 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: They want to get back at you. So, so how 67 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: do you get the trust back? You ask? First, you 68 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: better find out if your wife wants to save this 69 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: marriage because she is doing her thing right now. You 70 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: got to stop going to strip clubs. You got to 71 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: get to work on your marriage, whether it's therapy, which 72 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: I do recommend for you guys, or whatever. But again, 73 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: regaining trust after it's broken, it's darn near. 74 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: Impossible, but it is possible, Steve. 75 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 4: Well, this letter right here, bruh. First of all, this 76 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 4: all on you all. It's on you. 77 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: You. 78 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 4: You did this one though, and as really, I don't 79 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 4: know if it's a lot I can help you with, 80 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 4: except that you come up with a compromised Now, you know, 81 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 4: y'all been married six years. Y'all got a daughter, You 82 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 4: thirty two, she thirty. Y'all was young when y'all started dating. 83 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 4: So y'all had a few three ways, and we went 84 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:22,679 Speaker 4: to the strip club together all the time. We both 85 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 4: got saved right after we got married. I missed that part. 86 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 4: I ain't said that. 87 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 2: You didn't. 88 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 4: Oh, I didn't see that that that's a whole nother element. 89 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you god. 90 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 4: We both got saved right after we got married. 91 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 3: That's key. 92 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 4: So, but I still got hills when I heard my 93 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 4: single friends talking about being with two girls at one time. Ohkay, 94 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 4: you got saved like I didn't. I said, that's what happened. Yeah, 95 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 4: he got saved like me. See, you know you got 96 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 4: people that get saved to get washed white as snow. 97 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 3: Yeah. 98 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, me and here, we. 99 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 4: Just got wrist off. We didn't get the whole whitest 100 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 4: snow version. We just got wrisked off. So I am 101 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 4: about to be able to relate to this strawberry letter 102 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:25,600 Speaker 4: except what you're doing. 103 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 3: But I do understand them. 104 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 4: I still got chills when I heard him talking about 105 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 4: being with two girls men now here he go. 106 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 3: Like a dummy. 107 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 4: I decided to check my wife to see if she 108 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 4: wanted to go to the strip club with me and 109 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 4: a group of our friends. 110 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 3: She said that she's not going, nor am I. 111 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 4: Now that seems reasonable, you know why, cause y'all saved. Now, 112 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 4: Oh dog, I'm so glad. 113 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 3: I saw that. That changes the parameters. 114 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 4: So you took Jose, You'll say yourself in there, tell 115 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 4: your wife you're going, and go back down to the 116 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 4: strip club with her and a group of friends. 117 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 3: She says she not going, nor am I. 118 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 4: I will tell you exactly why, other than being saved, 119 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 4: that they not going? 120 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 3: All right, all right. 121 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 1: All right, we'll have part two of your response coming 122 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:24,239 Speaker 1: up Steve at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's 123 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,919 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, subject is the joke is on me this time. 124 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: We'll get back into it right after this. 125 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Everyone at your girl, 126 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry Here. April sixth is National ASA E Bowl 127 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 1: Day and Tropical Smoothie Cafe is offering tropic rewards members 128 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: five dollars off and ASA E Bowl or ASA E 129 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: Bowl with Nutella. It is a perfect way to treat 130 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 1: yourself to a refreshing tropical getaway. Not a member yet, 131 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: join the party by downloading the Tropical Smoothie Cafe app 132 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: and signing up to log into your account on April 133 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: sixth to redeem your offer of five dollars off and 134 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 1: I Side E Bowl or I sid E Bowl with Nutella. 135 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 136 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: The subject is the joke is on me this time. 137 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 4: Thirty two ye old man, thirty year old woman. They've 138 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 4: been dating for a while, been married six years. They 139 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 4: got a three year old, okay, and before they got 140 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 4: married they was wild and they had a couple of 141 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 4: three ways they were and they had some couple of 142 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 4: three on threes and you know, swanging and went to 143 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 4: the strip club together all the time. Then after they 144 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 4: got married, they both got saved, Lord father, God, thanks saved. 145 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 3: But he got that version that I got a lot. 146 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 4: Of people get saved and get washed white as snow. 147 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 4: I just got ristof and that much look like happened 148 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 4: to him. But you didn't get rinsed off good at 149 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 4: all though. 150 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 3: Dog. 151 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 4: Of course, now you set up in here and let 152 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 4: your friends tell you that they was with a couple 153 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 4: of women at the strip club and you still got cheated. Then, 154 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 4: like a dummy this you need you need to go 155 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 4: back to getting you gotta go get saved again, dog, 156 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 4: because now you took your dumb you, you took your 157 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 4: dumb booty in down there to your wife to see 158 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 4: if she wanted to go to the strip club with 159 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,959 Speaker 4: me and a group of our friends. She said she 160 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 4: ain't going, nor am I now here we go. You 161 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 4: know why she said that because y'all saved now. But 162 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 4: you know why she also said you ain't going and 163 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 4: I ain't going because she remembers what y'all used to 164 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 4: do when y'all got down there, And because y'all saved now, 165 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 4: she don't want to reintroduce that into the marriage. So 166 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 4: she said, I'm not going down there, and you ain't either, 167 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 4: So you ain't want an august. 168 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 3: You ain't pushing. But guess what you did? 169 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 4: You went anyway, and you're told her you was playing 170 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 4: cards with a group of friends. Well, one of your 171 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 4: friend's wives found out about it and told you that 172 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 4: she went to and and she went on to that 173 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 4: that that you went to the strip club, and you 174 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 4: lied to her. She told you if you want to 175 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 4: play in his own I told her women can't do 176 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 4: with me and doing. I put my foot down and said, 177 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 4: there's nothing wrong with going to the strip club. 178 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 3: Dog, I thought you got saved. 179 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 4: You can't brug Maybe you just got saved that day 180 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:52,439 Speaker 4: for or you need to go get resaved dog, because 181 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 4: you just You're supposed to last longer than this. He's 182 00:09:56,679 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 4: supposed to give you a moral barometer, accomplases, supposed to 183 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 4: make you closer. 184 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:02,079 Speaker 3: Walk with God. 185 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:05,439 Speaker 4: Where you could get some strip to overcome your weaknesses. 186 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 3: That's what it does. Man. 187 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 4: You done told her it ain't nothing wrong with going 188 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 4: to the strip club. She say fine, cool. So I 189 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 4: went a few more times, and I told her before 190 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 4: I left after she told you, I'm not going and 191 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 4: you ain't going there, So you said. I went a 192 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 4: few more times, and I went, Now, what you're doing 193 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 4: down at the club though, because all these shields you 194 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 4: be getting from being with two women, did you stop 195 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 4: getting chilly? 196 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 3: All? 197 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 4: You went out there and something happened. So anyway, she 198 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 4: never said a word, so I thought it was cool. 199 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 4: That's when you real stupid. You think when a woman. 200 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 3: Get quiet that means everything cool. You're so stupid yourself stupid. 201 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 4: So then he told me she was going to Palm 202 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 4: Springs for her birthday with her sorority sisters. 203 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 3: It was a quick trip, so I was cool with it. 204 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 4: A week later I found out that they winted a 205 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 4: sprinter and hired two male strippers to entertain them on 206 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 4: the ride. She and four other married women win. So 207 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 4: it's four on two. But these boys is pros. They 208 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 4: know how to work four women. It's two of them. 209 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 4: They strong with it. Who I bet it was fine 210 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,680 Speaker 4: too though. They was up in there and that sprinter 211 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 4: van I'm talking about sitting on their laps letting them 212 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 4: have it. She was so happy that to admit that 213 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 4: she lied to me. And she won't tell me where 214 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 4: she stayed or where the two strippers stayed. Okay, I'll 215 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:56,079 Speaker 4: tell you what they wasn't in that sprinter and they 216 00:11:56,120 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 4: got hired for the whole weekend homie, and or they 217 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 4: picked them too, right boy, they've. 218 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 3: All four of them voted on them too. 219 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 4: She said, she don't question me, so she wants the 220 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 4: same grapes. Okay, so the joke's on me this time. 221 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 4: Now I want but this is not how I want 222 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 4: my marriage to go. Well, why did you do what 223 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 4: you did? Though she told you she wasn't going and 224 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 4: you wasn't going. This ain't how I want my marriage 225 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 4: should go. But then you thought it was cool and 226 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:26,839 Speaker 4: you went down there a bunch of times. How do 227 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 4: we really rebuild the trust? Well, this ain't really trust. 228 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 4: You got to be bid you see. Let me tell 229 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 4: you what you did though. You open up a close 230 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 4: can of stinks. It's a big old can of stink 231 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 4: sitting in y'all's basement. You went down that got it, 232 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 4: got a screwdriver and opened up the whole can of 233 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 4: stink in the middle of the living room. Now to 234 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 4: open up the can. You said, let's go to the 235 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 4: strip club. She said, I'm not going, and you ain't going. 236 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 4: You put the lead back on the not a hogey, 237 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 4: but you took the can back in there and open 238 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 4: your back up, and you dip your. 239 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 2: Hands down in his candide. 240 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 4: Wow, put it in your wife's face and she can 241 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 4: smell the stink coming upstairs. All right? 242 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter, It's Steve Harvey. 243 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: Fie facebooks, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 244 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: the free iHeartRadio app. Free Never Sounded So good. 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