1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Buble Show. 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 2: Carmen is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater. 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: She's been with her boyfriend Adrian for a little over 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 2: a year, but now she thinks that something might be 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: going on. So we'll see if we can help her out. 6 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 2: And hopefully he's not cheating. Carmen, hopefully we can help you. 7 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 2: What's going on? Why do you think that Adrian is cheating? 8 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 3: So I'm not one to go through anyone's phone. I 9 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 3: know if you starts you'll find so on and so forth. 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 3: But we were cooking dinner in the kitchen and he 11 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 3: went to go into another room and he left his 12 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 3: phone and so it lit up and I grabbed it 13 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 3: to go give it to him, and it was actually 14 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 3: an email from your show, which we listened to your show. Yeah, 15 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 3: and it's kind of why I reached out in the 16 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 3: first place. 17 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 2: You got an email from the show? What was it about? 18 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 3: It was actually about the first date segment, So I thought, oh, 19 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 3: what is he planning? 20 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 4: Like? 21 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: Is he being funny? Like? What's going on? Is this 22 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: a surprise? 23 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 2: To clarify, he emailed us about a first date follow up? 24 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 3: Yes, it was yes, yes. So when I looked at 25 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 3: the actual email, he had reached out to you guys 26 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 3: as a far as the first and I thought maybe 27 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 3: he was doing it as. 28 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: Like a joke, he thing. 29 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 3: But then I go read I read through the email 30 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 3: and it's about a first date he went on with 31 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 3: someone named Megan. What yes, yeah, and she's not reaching 32 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 3: back out and just like I just need answers. I'm 33 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 3: just confused and I just want to get to the 34 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 3: bottom of what's going on. I didn't think that there 35 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 3: was anything wrong in our relationship. The more I was 36 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 3: reading it, the more I was seeing that there there 37 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 3: were like I was catching him in these lies, like 38 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 3: he was out with his friend he told me, and oh, 39 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 3: we're doing a guys night. We're going to go to 40 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 3: the bar. And that was the That was the actual 41 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 3: day that he said in the email that he had 42 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 3: gone on the date with this girl. 43 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 2: Wow, did you even bother asking him about it after 44 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 2: you read all of that, I mean, you had the information. 45 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: I haven't. 46 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 3: I'm not sure what has come over me. I just 47 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 3: I want to find out, you know, if this is 48 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 3: what's going on. 49 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: Like like that dude, like I just if he wants 50 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 1: to reach out and put his business on the radio. 51 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: Guess what, that's what he's gonna get. 52 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 3: I mean, that's kind of stupid, right, like even if 53 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 3: you're cheating me, Yeah, why would you do that? 54 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 2: I'm not you him obviously, but I mean, is there 55 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: any way you can explain it away? I'm having trouble 56 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 2: finding it, but I'm just wondering if there could be 57 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,519 Speaker 2: a very reasonable like what would he say? 58 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I can't think of anything. I mean, especially 59 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: as far as like. 60 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 3: Like again, like it would be one thing if he 61 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 3: was seen out with someone and someone reported it back 62 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 3: to me'd be like, oh, yeah, it was a co worker. 63 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 3: So he applied, Like he sent an email to your 64 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 3: show asking to be on the show about a first 65 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 3: date with someone that isn't me. 66 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: That's wild, Like. 67 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 2: You wouldn't hear it, like somebody wouldn't do Yeah, yeah, 68 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 2: I mean, let's just call let's play a song, come back, 69 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: call him, and then we'll just be from the show. 70 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: And because when people email us for those things, we 71 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 2: call them back and find out more information. So we 72 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 2: can just find out information on the first day fall 73 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 2: if he wants to do and you can hear that 74 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: and then you can, oh gosh, do whatever you gotta do, 75 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 2: brace yourself. 76 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: Cal sound good, sounds like a thing we're gonna do. 77 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry that you have to do this. It 78 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: doesn't make your situation anymore, no fun, but you know, 79 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 2: at least you can find out for sure. And if 80 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: there is some crazy way that that is legit, then 81 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,839 Speaker 2: you'll find that out too. So well play. So I'll 82 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 2: come back and call him and get your to Catch 83 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 2: a Cheater next, if you're just joining us for today's 84 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,799 Speaker 2: to Catch a Cheater. Carmen is on the phone and 85 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 2: she thinks that her boyfriend of a little over a 86 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 2: year might be cheating on her. Pretty hard to think 87 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 2: that he's not. Before we call him to try to 88 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 2: catch him, we'll let Carmen explain her situation. Carmen refresh 89 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 2: everybody's memory on what's going on. 90 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: So my boyfriend, Adrian, he left his phone in the 91 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 3: kitchen and I saw an email to your show asking 92 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 3: to do a follow up on a first date. And 93 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 3: the first date with is with someone that isn't me, and. 94 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: So now I want to find out what what is 95 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: going on? 96 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: All right, So we're gonna call him and just be 97 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 2: from the show because when people email us about a 98 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 2: first day follow up, we you know, interview them and 99 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: find out more about it before we actually do it 100 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 2: on the air. So we'll just do that. We'll see 101 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 2: if we can get some information out of them. I'm 102 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: foolishly optimistic at times, so I still hope that there's 103 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 2: a way that this is not him cheating. But I 104 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 2: you know, I don't know how it's not. Yeah, I know, 105 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: I hope so too, but really, yeah, who see are 106 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: you ready. 107 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: Ready as I can be? 108 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 2: All right? Here we go? 109 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: Hello? 110 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 2: Hey is this Adrian? 111 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 4: Yeah? This Adrian? 112 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 2: Hey man, this is the Jubil Show. 113 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: Hey, nice to hear. 114 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 4: What's going on? 115 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: Not much? 116 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 2: How are you? 117 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 4: I'm feeling good, good day, you know, just looking looking 118 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 4: forward to calling this person, seeing if you guys can 119 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 4: get in touch with them. 120 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we're calling about. We're calling about the 121 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 2: first day followup email that you sent in. Yeah, so 122 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 2: just you know, before we do these on the air, 123 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 2: we do find out more information because sometimes it just 124 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 2: might not work for whatever reason. Tell like, what's the 125 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:17,559 Speaker 2: situation again? 126 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 4: So I met this girl Megan on Tinder and we 127 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,239 Speaker 4: went out. 128 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: We kind of went to a nice restaurant and just for. 129 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 2: Like a timeline in my head. How long ago was that? 130 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,599 Speaker 4: Two weeks ago? Hey, go ahead, Yeah, and we had 131 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 4: a pretty good night. We ended up actually a great. 132 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: Night, hooking up at the end of the night. Yeah, 133 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: and I thought she was like. 134 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:45,039 Speaker 4: Really sexy as hell and I would love to see 135 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 4: her again. 136 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: It's just. 137 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 4: Like I haven't felt like this about anybody for a 138 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 4: while now. 139 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 2: Wow. 140 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 1: Really, yeah, you you too, Adrian? Are you serious? Are 141 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:00,479 Speaker 1: you for real? 142 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 2: Adrian? That is your girlfriend, Carmen. She emailed us about 143 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: a to get to cheater. 144 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, oh crazy. 145 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, you haven't felt that way about someone in in 146 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 3: hell long because we've been together a year, so the 147 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 3: math isn't mathing. I saw the email that you sent, 148 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 3: the first date follow up email that you sent to 149 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 3: the show, and that's why I contacted them. 150 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I don't know what to say. 151 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,679 Speaker 1: Uh is this something you do often? 152 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 3: I mean, you you lied, You told me you were 153 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 3: going I mean, I know details to this, you. 154 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 1: Know, I'm an email? 155 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, you told me you were going out 156 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 3: with your friends a guys night, and then you went 157 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 3: on a like and you hooked up. I mean I 158 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 3: haven't even processed that part of it yet. I do not, 159 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 3: like I want to be together. I'm so confused by this. 160 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 4: I don't I don't know how to I'm sorry. 161 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: I did well. I mean, I did go out with 162 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: my friend that night. I just, I literally, I don't 163 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. 164 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 3: Like you told me that you were going out with 165 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 3: all the guys. It was a guys night, that's why 166 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,239 Speaker 3: none of the girlfriends were invited, and you were going 167 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 3: to the box and instead went on a date with 168 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 3: someone named Megan. 169 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: It wasn't really a date. It was just like we 170 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: hung out. You said you hooked up with her. 171 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 3: You just said I was the best thing of your 172 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 3: whole life, best date ever. 173 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 4: I was just trying to like make it sound more interesting. 174 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 2: I didn't save yourself now. 175 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 5: But yeah, yeah, no, I mean, I don't know. I 176 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 5: don't I don't think. I don't know what we've We've 177 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 5: been going through a few things, so I thought i'd 178 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 5: give it, you know, try. 179 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: Just try something once. And I guess I just wanted 180 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: to see what it's like. 181 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 3: Do you want to know what she's do you want 182 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 3: to know why she's ghosting you? Because I called her 183 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 3: I got her number from the email and I call. 184 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: Her from your phone and I called her, Oh yeah, 185 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: and I let her know that you are you have 186 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: been in a. 187 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 3: Relationship for the last year, that we have talked about 188 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 3: moving in together, saying, god, we didn't do. 189 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: That, Oh my god. And I let her know everything. 190 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 191 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 3: I don't know what you want to do with that information. 192 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: That's why she's ghosting you. That's your first day follow up. 193 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: I called her, I let her. 194 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 2: Know you're whoa good job hosting the first day follow up, 195 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 2: Carmen job, Adriana, Are you still there? 196 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 1: Are you there? Do you? 197 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:49,319 Speaker 5: Yeah? 198 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 4: I'm here. I mean, I'm sorry, I don't know what 199 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 4: to say. 200 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 3: Well, don't worry about saying anything. Just just goodbye, get 201 00:08:59,080 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 3: off the phone. 202 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 1: I'll call you this off the show. 203 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:09,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, she did awesome. She's a host and harmon bodyguard. Yeah, 204 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. 205 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 3: Serious, I mean, I knew what it was going to 206 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 3: be going into it. 207 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: How could I not. 208 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 3: I just you know, they're still shocked, but I'm just 209 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 3: so glad we didn't move in together. 210 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, real, Yeah, at least you don't. You don't have 211 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 2: to deal with that. And I don't even know what 212 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 2: that was. I was like, no remorse, that was just 213 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 2: like wild, Yes, got saved a big time. 214 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: Yeah I'm embarrassed. No, I'm embarrassed that I dated that person. 215 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 2: That's my fault. Yeah, you don't keep you don't know people, 216 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 2: you know. You didn't know that that about him when 217 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 2: you started dating him. And you should not be embarrassed 218 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 2: about your radio hosting skills either, because that was impressive, 219 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 2: all of it. 220 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was 221 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 2: The Jewble Shows to catch a cheater.