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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for pranking my struggling friend

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Speaker 1: with a fake lottery ticket?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? It's such a tick move. It's so funny.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it does. It does sound maybe funny

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Speaker 3: for a second.

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Speaker 1: But is it one of those prank shows?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like this camera. This guy thought he was

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Speaker 3: going to pay off his medical bails. He thought he

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Speaker 3: was going to be able to pay for his dead

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Speaker 3: grandma's funeral. But pranked you, praying you pranked Granny's getting

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Speaker 3: thrown in the sea.

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Speaker 1: Jesus, So I am throwaway five point thirty six says. Recently,

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Speaker 1: one of my good friends, Mike, was having a birthday party,

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Speaker 1: and when trying to figure out what to get him

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Speaker 1: as a gift, I came across these fake lottery tickets

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Speaker 1: that are supposed to all be winners. As soon as

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Speaker 1: I saw them, I knew it would be an amazing

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Speaker 1: prank to pull on him.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't decide what to get him, so what I

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Speaker 3: decided to do was to get him trauma.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait what and I can just give him fifty dollars.

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Speaker 1: It's the real gift. Okay, Okay, so he's giving him

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Speaker 1: a real gift.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I got a of lottery tickets for my birthday.

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Speaker 2: I do remember that, and there's nothing one anything.

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Speaker 1: I didn't win anything.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of a shitty gift. Have you gotten lottery

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Speaker 2: tickets for a birthday?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: But I was a part of this group and every

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Speaker 4: time we got to answer right, they give me a

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Speaker 4: lot of your ticket.

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Speaker 2: And it would now see dumb gift. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: For some background, we prank each other all the time,

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Speaker 1: usually small, harmless things, but that's always been a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's okay, So that's good context context.

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Speaker 1: So the party comes and everyone's having a great time

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Speaker 1: and Mike's opening all the gifts. When it's my term,

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Speaker 1: I hand in the lottery ticket and make up some

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Speaker 1: excuse of not knowing what to get him, so I

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Speaker 1: got him this. So he scratches the ticket and as

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Speaker 1: soon as he sees it's a winner, he starts.

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Speaker 2: Crying, Oh no, how much was it?

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Speaker 1: For intense crying? Well, we'll see. I haven't seen him

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Speaker 1: cry this bad in a long time. And it's between

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Speaker 1: tears he's thanking God and me, and at this point

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Speaker 1: we're all starting to get worried and ask what's going on.

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Speaker 1: I should mention the bake winnings was fifty thousand dollars. Oh, bro,

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Speaker 1: so not a small amount.

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Speaker 3: So now you just have to give him fifty thousand

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Speaker 3: dollars for real.

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Speaker 1: Mike starts telling us about how he recently lost his job,

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Speaker 1: which we all knew, but what we didn't know is

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Speaker 1: his savings were pretty much gone and he hasn't been

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Speaker 1: able to make his house payments, so they were going

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Speaker 1: to foreclos his home, and the winnings from the ticket

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Speaker 1: would be almost enough to finish paying off his mortgage.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I realized the prank might have gone

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Speaker 1: him at too far, so I told him it was

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Speaker 1: a fake lottery ticket and gave him the FIR gave

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Speaker 1: him the fifty dollars as the real gift. Wait wait, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: so this is what happens. So I'm the Opie Europe.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know what.

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Speaker 1: To get you for your gift, so I just I

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Speaker 1: just got you a.

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Speaker 2: Little lottery I mean, the pretty shitty gift.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, just for giggles, Riley or everyone else.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, what happened?

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Speaker 2: I won?

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Speaker 4: Whoa, that's a that's crazy, dudde.

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Speaker 3: Won And I was going to be an abject poverty.

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Speaker 3: But now, thanks to you did for me, the blessings

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Speaker 3: that came from your heart and from God, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: be okay. You've been pranked. Oh yeah, that'll feel good.

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Speaker 3: That he'll feel good, loser. Here's fifty dollars.

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Speaker 1: Here's fifty dollars. He looked pretty upset after I said that,

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Speaker 1: and said a soft oh, thank you for the money

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Speaker 1: on me, telling me that that was a horrible prank

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Speaker 1: hopes up like that, and to go apologize to him. Well,

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Speaker 1: when I went to go apologize, he blew up on me,

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Speaker 1: telling me he's sick and tired of all these stupid,

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Speaker 1: childish games I play with him, and that he doesn't

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Speaker 1: want me around for a while. He said he's really

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Speaker 1: not sure if he'll ever want to be around me again.

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Speaker 1: I told him, I feel like that's a bit of

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Speaker 1: an overaction to one bad prank, and I didn't know

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Speaker 1: feel it may have went a little far, it was

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Speaker 1: a prank and we always prank each other. It's not

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Speaker 1: like I made a situation worse and he really should

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Speaker 1: have more savings than what he did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, stop being so poor.

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Speaker 1: Plus, like I said, I didn't know a situation before

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Speaker 1: getting the fake tickets, so it wasn't malicious. So Reddit,

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Speaker 1: are they the a hole? What do you think?

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Speaker 2: Riley?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Definitely bad timing, honestly bad tag timing.

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Speaker 3: Yea time, I feel like, I don't know, I think

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Speaker 3: like prank sir, you don't love pranks.

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Speaker 2: When's the last time we pranked each other?

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever pranked you in my life.

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Speaker 2: That's a lie. Literally every I mean, this is not

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Speaker 2: a prank.

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Speaker 3: This is just evil. But Sofia will trip and fall

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Speaker 3: and then say bom and then I'll get in trouble.

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Speaker 1: That's just funny, it's good humor.

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Speaker 3: I can see Sophia doing something like this rending story

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Speaker 3: you guys are gonna read.

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Speaker 2: Is am I the asshole.

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Speaker 1: Pursuing my sister because she's branking me one too many times?

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Speaker 2: I would do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like like especially like those tiktoks where

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Speaker 1: like it's like the the partner, like I pranked my partner.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think there's like like a good prank is when

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Speaker 3: everyone's laughing at the end.

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Speaker 1: You know, what's the best prank you can think of?

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Speaker 3: I honestly would do the opposite, where it's like, make

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Speaker 3: him think that he has lost even more money.

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Speaker 1: You take him gambling.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I take him gambling and it is like, oh shit,

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Speaker 3: I lost fifty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: And then I'm like pretty awful. And then right as.

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Speaker 3: He's about to totally freak out, I'm like, don't worry,

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Speaker 3: it's a prank. You haven't lost anything.

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Speaker 4: That's cool.

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Speaker 1: That moment where you think that you lost fifty thousand

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Speaker 3: But think about how much better he feels after knowing

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Speaker 3: that he doesn't lose fifty thousand dollars what he did.

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Speaker 4: Put him on a mountain from down to the valley.

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Speaker 4: You bring him to the valley, put.

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Speaker 3: Him out on the mountain exactly exactly sovia I.

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Speaker 1: Like pranks that are just you know, straight plateaus.

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Speaker 2: That's not a prank. Then give me a straight plateau prank.

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Speaker 1: Sam, your something's wrong with your hair? Just kidding?

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Speaker 2: Really great, that was you took me to a valey.

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Speaker 2: This is a smaller valley. I think op is a

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Speaker 2: little bit of the a hole.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but OP is more the a hole because of

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Speaker 3: the situation. If the situation wasn't as bad, it wouldn't

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Speaker 3: have been as much of an a hole.

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Speaker 1: Oh, P said that they knew their friend had lost

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Speaker 1: their job.

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Speaker 2: Oh that was no, he did.

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Speaker 1: He said, we all knew that he lost his job.

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Speaker 1: His job.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, then I think OP is majorly yeah. Sorry, and

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Speaker 3: yet again another reason that the lottery is ruining people's lives.

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Speaker 4: It's good for like the education system.

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Speaker 2: What is lottery?

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Speaker 4: Because all the taxes that you get taken out of it.

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Speaker 1: Does that go to the education system?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I think so. Really, I don't know where it goes.

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Speaker 1: But it is money goes to the military climb.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the military industrial complex. Anyway, you know what doesn't

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Speaker 3: go to the military industrial complex?

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Speaker 2: This is next story?

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Speaker 1: Well, Sam's looking for the next story. This is our

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Speaker 1: new merch. It's super cool. I don't like as but

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Speaker 1: I like this. It's really good. I don't like.

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Speaker 2: Also, this won't even be live yet. It's not going

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Speaker 2: to be live yet.

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Speaker 1: Then why am I wearing it? It is cool?

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Speaker 4: I like this?

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Speaker 2: Am I the asshole? For not one?

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Speaker 3: He split my jackpot win with my husband's friend. No,

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Speaker 3: I mean what if you pull the money?

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Speaker 1: Wait, what would you like?

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Speaker 2: Sometimes like people will pull money to buy a lottery tickets.

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Speaker 1: Oh then yes, but if it's like you just bought

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Speaker 1: it and then his friend was like, hey, can I

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Speaker 1: have some money? No?

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Speaker 2: No, that's the door and you should walk through it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, see you so throwaway, lux says I, female thirty

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Speaker 3: played the lottery for the first time last year when

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Speaker 3: everyone was talking about the Power Bowl jackpot. Since then,

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Speaker 3: I played casually, only spending a few dollars a week.

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Speaker 3: I occasionally won a few bucks and never really expected

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Speaker 3: to win anything big. But it was a nice to dream,

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Speaker 3: as I had a ton of debt and I've been

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Speaker 2: Also, if you have a ton of debt, maybe we

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Speaker 2: don't buy lottery tickets.

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Speaker 1: What it seems like it worked out for her.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't happen often. It is like winning the lottery.

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Speaker 1: The odds of winning the lottery are.

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Speaker 3: Like winning the lottery. Fast forward a few months ago.

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Speaker 3: Won't say the month for privacy. I checked the winning

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Speaker 3: numbers night against my ticket and it matched with my

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Speaker 3: numbers perfectly.

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Speaker 3: Initially I didn't believe it and thought there I'd been

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Speaker 3: a mistake. So I told my husband Mail thirty five

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Speaker 3: and we checked it like a dozen times and I

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Speaker 2: We won.

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Speaker 3: It's a life changing, multi generational few money.

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Speaker 1: A few money.

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Speaker 2: What's few money to you? Two million dollars two million dollars?

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Speaker 1: Pass is really expensive for maybe three million dollars three

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Speaker 1: million dollars one million to my house two million?

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 4: Definitely a solid like twenty five to fifty mili?

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Speaker 2: Oh maybe I'm a low bit big books Randy over here.

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Speaker 1: I don't need a lot of money to say to me.

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Speaker 3: All to say it at any time right now. We

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Speaker 3: instantly agreed to keep the news to ourselves and we

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Speaker 3: wait a few months before we do anything smart. The

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Speaker 3: past few months have been an incredible high fill with

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Speaker 3: disbelief and that it's been difficult. We have managed to

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Speaker 3: not make any large purchases or change our lifestyle. We

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Speaker 3: fantasized about what to do with our money, but the

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Speaker 3: time to claim is drawing near, so we've begun having

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Speaker 3: more practical discussions about how to claim it and what

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Speaker 3: to do with it. While discussing, my husband Adam brought

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Speaker 3: up that he thinks it's a good idea to split

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Speaker 3: the money with his best friend slash business partner, Tim.

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Speaker 1: What Tim? Get out of here?

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Speaker 2: Tim? What are you doing? Harry?

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Speaker 3: You're not meant to be in the story. Tim and

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Speaker 3: Adam have been friends since they were in middle school

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Speaker 1: No connect, Tim, get that sign out? Really no sex sign?

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Speaker 2: All right, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Together, they've started businesses, work together, invested money, moved to

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Speaker 3: are not going on this journey to a new life alone,

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Speaker 3: and two it's suspicious to make all this money suddenly

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Speaker 3: Since we do everything together, I mean, let Tim ask

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Speaker 3: sound like a stand up guy. No, if you won

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Speaker 2: Isabella?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's my friend. But no, because like it's

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Speaker 1: not even her friend. So she won the lottery.

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Speaker 3: So if you had to see different other. You wouldn't

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Speaker 1: If I had a significant other, I would not give

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Speaker 2: Sophia's just giving everything.

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Speaker 1: I'm giving Isabella, you're gonna I've already told Isabella that

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Speaker 3: Isabella knows this, Isabelle move it in. I, however, feel

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Speaker 3: it's risky to share that we have come into this

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Speaker 3: This is important because I've seen community members harass and

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Speaker 2: Like the last story we read.

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Speaker 3: This could jeopardize our safety, so I want to avoid

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Speaker 1: It makes us so much more complicated.

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Speaker 3: Itam thinks I'm being selfish and he won't enjoy our

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Speaker 3: But I think we could figure out a way to

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Speaker 2: Am I selfish? And there is a quick edit?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I think that, as we've said, you should

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Speaker 1: I think that it's really smart of OP to be like,

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Speaker 2: The whole LLC thing.

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Speaker 3: I think that just makes it so it's like basically

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if it's a company that they both own.

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Speaker 3: I feel like a better way to go about it

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Speaker 3: is if they've done business deals together, invest a portion

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Speaker 3: That's smart, that feels smart.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we're giving me use some advice here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're welcome, but let us know what you think

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Speaker 3: OP should do in the comments, I'm going to go

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Speaker 3: into a couple of these edits. Thank you for all

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Speaker 3: your input I think a few things are clear to me.

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Speaker 3: One absolute horrible idea to put Tim on the ticket,

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Speaker 3: true to claim the money with only me as a

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Speaker 3: beneficiary for now, and change based on advice of a lawyer. Three,

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Speaker 3: find a way to help Tim's family without blowing our cover.

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Speaker 3: Thanks again for all your inputs. I think those are

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Speaker 1: I think those are great, actionable.

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Speaker 3: But the thing is, the lottery is just complicating these

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Speaker 2: It's a ruin.

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Speaker 1: Ruin.

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Speaker 3: They're becoming multi generational life ruined. But you know what

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Speaker 3: will ruin me? Sophia telling this next story? Let's get it,

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Speaker 3: do it?

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Speaker 1: Give me give me the story. Am I the a

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Speaker 1: hole for not giving my fiance's daughter money when I won?

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Speaker 3: Maybe when she's your wife, and maybe you can give

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Speaker 3: the daughter some money. But fiance, come on, that's brittle

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Speaker 3: ground right now, you haven't even had the ceremony. Have

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Speaker 3: you heard of Runaway Bride? She literally runs away from

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Speaker 3: like four Weddings. I watched that the other day, Runaway

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Speaker 3: Bride with Who's pretty Woman?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I would to say Anne half away, but don't think.

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Speaker 2: No, who is it? Who's the woman?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 1: And Wedding, which is an insane movie.

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Speaker 2: I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand that movie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what is the movie?

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Speaker 1: Pretty woman?

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Speaker 2: Brandy? What's her name?

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Speaker 3: It is Julia Roberts, Julia Roberts Roberts. Yeah, I've learned

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Speaker 1: Moved to New Zealand. Anyways, you won't give that sad

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Speaker 4: The okay peepers, the okay.

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Speaker 1: Peepers, that's what I called you.

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Speaker 3: That's I'm w the the beepers.

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Speaker 1: So old Caterpillar two seven nineteen says great handle, great name.

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Speaker 1: All names have been changed. Good to know. I thirty

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Speaker 2: I like that child's future.

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Speaker 1: I told Brian about the money and that it was

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Speaker 1: I let him know once the baby was born, it

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Speaker 1: My mother in law is also pressuring me because Ashley

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Speaker 2: That is dicey. That icy dicey, because.

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Speaker 1: I think if you go into a relationship, like if

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Speaker 2: That that kid becomes that kid.

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Speaker 1: Becomes your kid to a certain extent, of course, like

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Speaker 1: But I think you have to kind of if you're

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Speaker 2: Sounds weird, you know what we mean? Yeah, let's paint

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Speaker 3: If Op gives all the money to this unborn baby

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Speaker 3: Ashley knows so Ashley already knows that she's not giving

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Speaker 3: that's what she's saying, right, Yeah, I prefer my biological

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Speaker 3: mean that's fine. But I think if you want to

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Speaker 1: Like it's absolutely your right to do that because it's

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Speaker 2: I still wouldn't. I don't think.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I would expect I don't wouldn't expect it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I would expect. But I think

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think it just depends what kind of relationship

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Oh wow?

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Speaker 3: It Let us know what you think. Put your answer

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Speaker 3: How do you treat your step children? Do you treat

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Speaker 2: Put your answers in the comments.

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Speaker 1: I would love to know anyway, Opie says. I see

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Speaker 2: No one likes and Eves drop her. Ashley's getting the money.

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Speaker 1: But there's an update. Brian and I talked about everything.

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Speaker 1: He explained to me, it's just hard to see how

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Speaker 1: He also said, after thinking about it, he understands both

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Speaker 1: He explained that they will have different starts in life

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Speaker 1: as he's both their fathers. He explained, if he deposits

446
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Speaker 1: fifty dollars for her, he'll deposit fifty dollars for the baby,

447
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Speaker 1: and vice versa. Ashley said she understands, but doesn't think

448
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Speaker 1: it's fair, and Brian reminded her that sometimes things aren't fair,

449
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Speaker 1: but the right. I've also contacted an attorney who will

450
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Speaker 1: be setting up the money in a trust. The only

451
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Speaker 1: people who will have access to the money is myself

452
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Speaker 1: and the baby when they turn thirty. If anything happened

453
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Speaker 1: to me, then my sister would have access. Bryan would

454
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Speaker 1: not have access to the account in any way, what

455
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Speaker 1: are your thoughts, sam M.

456
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Speaker 3: I think I like where it ended up. Honestly, I

457
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Speaker 3: feel like it ended up in a pretty good place.

458
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Speaker 3: And yes it's not fair, but lifing fair girl.

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Speaker 1: I think it's ope's money and they're not like they

460
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Speaker 1: haven't been married yet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah they're not even married. Yeah, runaway bride again, runaway bride.

462
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Speaker 2: But this is just another example the.

463
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Speaker 3: Lottery ruining your relationships.

464
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Speaker 2: That was so, but guess what what?

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Speaker 3: I think we have one more example, the last example,

466
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Speaker 3: number one, number one.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it.

468
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Speaker 3: Am I the a hole for refusing to share my

469
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Speaker 3: lottery winnings with my boyfriend's nephew. What's up with all

470
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Speaker 3: these entitled prass thing and they deserve my money?

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Speaker 1: No, just like we had Tim Tim and now we

472
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Speaker 1: have boyfriend's.

473
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Speaker 3: Nephews, I want them to die in poverty. Oh no,

474
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Speaker 3: delete it says children in our country sometimes sell stuff

475
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Speaker 3: for their schools to fund school trips, et cetera. I

476
00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:55,680
Speaker 3: think many countries do that, so I don't need to

477
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Speaker 3: explain more. Okay, usually it's on big holidays, et cetera.

478
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Speaker 3: We have a Christmas lottery something many schools sell my

479
00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 3: boyfriend and I have been together for thirteen years and

480
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Speaker 3: we are happily child free because fuck those kids. We

481
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Speaker 3: have good incomes and are comfortable living. My boyfriend's sister

482
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Speaker 3: and her husband also have good incomes and comfortable living.

483
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Speaker 3: But I feel sometimes that she always tries to hint

484
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Speaker 3: that we wake more than we spend because we don't

485
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Speaker 3: have children.

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Speaker 1: No charlock, Yeah, children costs a lot.

487
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Speaker 3: Yeah, we have learned there are two hundred and fifty

488
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Speaker 3: to five hundred thousand dollars. Yeah, and that maybe we

489
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Speaker 3: should give more presents and stuff to her two sons.

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Speaker 2: I don't agree.

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Speaker 3: I put around thirty to sixty euros on a present,

492
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Speaker 3: and whether it's good or bad, I don't care. I

493
00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 3: come from money, well, my parents had good jobs. We

494
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Speaker 3: learned from a young age that it's never the value

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Speaker 3: of the present. And I had the happiest upbringing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you came from money, say for money, I

497
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Speaker 1: had the happiest upbringing.

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Speaker 5: Papa said, it's not about the value of the present.

499
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Speaker 5: After he gave me this white horse, Papa, thank you.

500
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Speaker 5: Papa said, money is not important, darling. Now let's get

501
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Speaker 5: into the first class boat. Papa said, even a twenty

502
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Speaker 5: foot yacht is a good yacht if you know how

503
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Speaker 5: to use it. Papa said, even if you only had

504
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Speaker 5: one dollar of caviat, you would have more cavea than

505
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Speaker 5: a homeless person, so you should be thankful.

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Speaker 2: Not just what Papa said.

507
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Speaker 3: Anyway, the Sun's got a couple of dozen or more

508
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Speaker 3: lotteries each to sell, and the idea is to go

509
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Speaker 3: around the neighborhood, et cetera. But they're too lazy and

510
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Speaker 3: they make the family buy everything. And since my boyfriend

511
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Speaker 3: and I have nothing important to spend money on, we

512
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Speaker 3: ended up buying the majority of the tickets, around two

513
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Speaker 3: hundred to three hundred's worth on each occasion.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot.

515
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Speaker 3: It pissed me off a bit in the beginning, but

516
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Speaker 3: my boyfriend seemed uncomfortable saying no, and I hate making

517
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Speaker 3: him uncomfortable, so I said, okay, fine.

518
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Speaker 2: This Christmas, I won.

519
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Speaker 3: About one hundred and fifty thousand gros. I was so

520
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Speaker 3: happy because I never win stuff. When the nephews heard that,

521
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Speaker 3: they said, I want my ticket back.

522
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Speaker 2: Bit I bought it. I was shocked and said f no.

523
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Speaker 3: They called me like fifty times, and my boyfriend's sister

524
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Speaker 3: and her son showed up the next morning to talk,

525
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Speaker 3: then argue, then to fight me. Then she asked to

526
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Speaker 3: at least split it fifty to fifty with them, but

527
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Speaker 3: I wouldn't budge.

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Speaker 1: Why would you split? And they sold it if they

529
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Speaker 1: had sold it to someone else.

530
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Speaker 3: That's why you buy the lottery tickets so you have

531
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Speaker 3: the potential of winning all three left in tiers, saying

532
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,880
Speaker 3: they will take me to courts? How yeah, exactly? How

533
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 3: how are you to do that? So my boyfriend wants

534
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Speaker 3: me to split it? Or he says I'm being an

535
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,920
Speaker 3: a hole. I usually donate twenty percent of my bonuses

536
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,639
Speaker 3: inheritance or any big chunk of money I get to charity.

537
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Speaker 3: I thought I would do that and buy the boys

538
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Speaker 3: bicycles they were saving for they cost around twenty five

539
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Speaker 3: hundred dollars each.

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Speaker 2: But now I'm not going to even buy the bicycles?

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole?

542
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 3: And there is an update? So is OP the a

543
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Speaker 3: hole for not wanting to split it? And also is

544
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Speaker 3: the OP the a hole for not even buying those bicycles?

545
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Speaker 1: Ummmm, maybe you should buy the bicycles. But that's your money,

546
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Speaker 1: your money, it's your money, it's your money, really.

547
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Speaker 4: It's your money.

548
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:53,640
Speaker 2: It's your money exactly. Edit.

549
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Speaker 3: My boyfriend is the one who pays for the tickets. Oh,

550
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Speaker 3: he then splits the tickets. The winning ticket was one

551
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Speaker 3: of mine, so he paid for the ticket and then

552
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Speaker 3: split it between the.

553
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Speaker 2: Two of them. Mmmm.

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00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 3: Wait all right, let's get to the update. Tell us

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Speaker 3: what you think. Put your answer in the comments. Is

556
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Speaker 3: this sus or not? Thank you for the not the

557
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 3: a hole? So I guess that is what reddits decided.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad to see that there's nothing wrong with my

560
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 3: common sense. I was starting to doubt myself. Many people

561
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 3: here told me that I have a boyfriend problem, and

562
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 3: I never thought I had one. To be honest, we

563
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 3: are mostly happy and our fights are always about stupid stuff.

564
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,439
Speaker 3: But then the lottery changed everything, I guess, and the

565
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:39,120
Speaker 3: lottery ruined your relations anyway. I told him that we

566
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Speaker 3: needed to talk, and the talk they had the talk.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that we need to talk. Talk is

568
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Speaker 3: the worst talk. That's the nuclear talk. We need to talk, Riley,

569
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Speaker 3: we need to talk.

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Speaker 2: Sylvia, we need to talk. You're adopted, Sam.

571
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Speaker 1: We need to talk, Sam. Riley needs to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: See, didn't you feel that anyway? I told him that

573
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Speaker 2: we needed to talk.

574
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Speaker 3: I told him that it hurt me that he he

575
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Speaker 3: just stood there and didn't support me. As his screaming

576
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 3: sister and children were in our home. He showed little support,

577
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 3: trying to defuse the situation by asking me to compromise.

578
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,920
Speaker 3: For me, some things are just right or wrong. There's

579
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 3: no place for compromise. I felt that situation was I

580
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 3: explained to him, and he agreed. I told him that

581
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Speaker 3: I don't want to take the role of the rich

582
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Speaker 3: aunt who spoils her relatives children. This has been a

583
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 3: thing like people, especially my boyfriend's sister, would easily tell

584
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Speaker 3: her children, Oh, go ask uncle for this instead of us.

585
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 3: He doesn't have children. He can afford it. When it

586
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 3: comes to more expensive things. Same things with the tickets,

587
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 3: we ended up buying twenty out of the twenty four

588
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 3: they were supposed to be selling. Now, I told him

589
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 3: that we should stop. None of our relatives want for money,

590
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 3: and nobody isn't titled to ours. I don't want to

591
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Speaker 3: buy tickets. I don't want to spoil others children. I'm

592
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Speaker 3: not the rich child's aunt.

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Speaker 2: He said.

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Speaker 3: He agrees with me about the taking me to court.

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Speaker 3: It was just a bluff. She can't do anything about it.

596
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 3: I knew it, but I asked my neighbor, who's a judge,

597
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 3: and she just laughed. I wasn't the one to tell

598
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Speaker 3: about our winning. My boyfriend did. He is painfully naive

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Speaker 3: when it comes to these things. Ever tell anyone about

600
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Speaker 3: your winning. Don't tell them because the lottery in your relationships. Yeah,

601
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 3: he thought his nephews would be happy to have sold

602
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Speaker 3: a winning ticket. I haven't told the children about the bikes.

603
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 3: I just knew they were saving for expensive bikes and

604
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 3: thought that I could give them instead. I won't be

605
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Speaker 3: doing it. Let them save for their own dream bikes.

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Speaker 3: Thank you again. And that is a wrap. So, now

607
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Speaker 3: that we know all of the information, do we think

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Speaker 3: OP is the A hole?

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Speaker 1: I don't think Op's the a hole because they've talked

610
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Speaker 1: to their boyfriend. I thought it was a little bit

611
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Speaker 1: dicey for a second, because the boyfriend bought the tickets

612
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Speaker 1: and he was he wanted, he was like, he wanted.

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Speaker 2: He wanted to slip. But now they both agree.

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Speaker 1: But now they both agree, it's fine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think the decision making parties agree, so that's what matters.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think Riley, Oh yeah, one undred percent.

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Speaker 4: I'm still in the bikes.

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Speaker 2: Like, if it was me, I would buy it.

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Speaker 1: I would just be like, you know what, there's your bikes,

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Speaker 1: don't bother read my money. I'm not kidding you anything ever.

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Speaker 2: Ye yeah, what.

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Speaker 3: Do you think, sim If I was OP, I would

624
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Speaker 3: buy the bikes. Yeah, but let us know what you

625
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Speaker 3: would do. Put your answers in the commons below, and

626
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Speaker 3: hope you've learned a little bit about why you should

627
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 3: never win.

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Speaker 1: The lottery because the lottery will ruin your relationships.

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Speaker 3: And you know what will never ruin your relationships. And also,

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Speaker 3: if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 1: We love you and storrow.

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Speaker 4: All right, you can leave now,