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Speaker 1: belongs to what are you working on a cake?

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Speaker 2: I have a spooky story because it's October. Also a

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Speaker 1: Why are you trying to get so many vaccines? Because

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get sick? Like that's been the

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Speaker 1: that Well, no, it's not you, that's me. So you

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Speaker 1: went to the doctor yesterday, like for a checkup.

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Speaker 3: So I went to the doctor last week and he

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Speaker 3: And he was like, do you want it? And I

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Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, cool, I'll just go to

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Speaker 1: He might not work. I mean he has a medical degree,

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Speaker 1: a second opinion. Okay, you've had you had two vaccines.

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Speaker 1: I had two shots yesterday. Yeah, my arm is sore.

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Speaker 1: Well you realized, like I I would be in there

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Speaker 1: negotiating with him like for they were like, hey, you

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Speaker 1: Like you know, and so like it's a shot like

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Speaker 1: Where did I go like Cuba or something? And they

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Speaker 3: Right, vaccines and shilloopa is just rolling around in my stomach.

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Speaker 1: We'll do that in January. Like I just mentioned, we're

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Speaker 1: not to get poked. You all say here with big eyes, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I saw the drink that you drank the other night.

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Speaker 3: No, But it's not even really about the money, Like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, every man does. You guys act real real different, right, Well,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to give you an update on Amelia Earhart

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you have to. But this game went into

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Speaker 1: eighteen innings, six hours and thirty nine minutes. Well so

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Speaker 1: this I don't even know what time it ended, like

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Speaker 1: Central or Eastern time, but it would have been in

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Speaker 1: the middle of the night. And so you know, if

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Speaker 1: this is a game you cared about, this is you're

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Speaker 1: very tired this morning waking up because you were up

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Speaker 1: watching a seven hour baseball game. But the Dodgers won

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Speaker 1: with that's another thing. The Dodgers one with a home

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Speaker 1: run Freddie Freeman home run the bottom of the eighteenth inning.

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Speaker 1: That's another one. So I stayed up until three in

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Speaker 1: the morning hypothetically to watch this game. And then that's

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Speaker 1: how it ends if you're not a Dodgers fan. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: hackers gathered a huge hole one hundred and eighty three

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Speaker 1: million sets of email addresses and passwords, including tens of

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Speaker 1: millions that are tied to Gmail accounts. The breach wasn't

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Speaker 1: from Google being hacked. Instead, malware called infos stealers grab

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Speaker 1: login info from infective devices and sold it online. So

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Speaker 1: if you have a Gmail account, you might consider changing

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Speaker 1: your password. And if you have the same password for everything,

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Speaker 1: including your Gmail account, you might want to change all

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Speaker 1: the passwords. Or you could be like me and think

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Speaker 1: that you're clever and come up with different variations of

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Speaker 1: the same password and get cute every time, and then

451
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Speaker 1: you can't remember which cute variation you came up with

452
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Speaker 1: when your phone forgot to save it, and then you

453
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Speaker 1: wind up having to like every time you log in

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Speaker 1: and having to reset the password or you could also

455
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Speaker 1: be cute like me, and because I had an ex

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Speaker 1: girlfriend so cute, thank you so much. I had an

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Speaker 1: ex girlfriend who used who admitted this to me that

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Speaker 1: she would get into her former boyfriend's email ad re

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Speaker 1: is By over the course of time, asking questions like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: where where was your mom born? You know, like like

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Speaker 1: you'd be sitting there, like you know, maybe you'd be

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Speaker 1: in the middle of like an act where you're inclined

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Speaker 1: to answer any question.

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, like when you play you the captain

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Speaker 3: of the high school basketball team?

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Speaker 1: Was it the Eagles? You know it was it was

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Speaker 1: your childhood Yeah, yeah, Like what is your mom's maiden name?

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm just curious about that. But so she

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Speaker 1: would do this then, and then you answer the questions.

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Speaker 1: Then she could get into people's emails, and she admitted

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Speaker 1: to me that she did this. So ever since then,

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Speaker 1: I'll try and answer the question like in a way

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Speaker 1: to trick myself almost, you know, like I'll pick the

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Speaker 1: password question, but then I'll try and get cute with

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Speaker 1: the answer, because I don't want someone to be able

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Speaker 1: to do this to me, you know, where they're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: the high school mascot and then they know that now

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Speaker 1: and they type it in. So I try and get

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Speaker 1: cute like with the way I spell it or how

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Speaker 1: I answer it or some alternative answer, and then I

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Speaker 1: can't remember what I said, or I can't remember if

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Speaker 1: it was capital or lower Can you ever do that?

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Speaker 1: You ever get in that rabbit hole where like I

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Speaker 1: can't remember if it's capital or lowercase, and then I

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Speaker 1: can't remember if I'm even right with the word to

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Speaker 1: begin with. So it's like it is the problem that

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Speaker 1: I didn't capitalize it, or was the problem that this

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Speaker 1: isn't even the right password at all? Well, yeah, give

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Speaker 1: me a hint. Yeah, So anyway, don't don't hold of

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Speaker 1: that trap either. A lot of things not to do

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Speaker 1: this morning that I do. Amazon is laying off as

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Speaker 1: many as thirty thousand corporate employees beginning today, according to

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Speaker 1: reports that cuts could affect nearly ten percent of the

494
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Speaker 1: company's more than three hundred and fifty thousand corporate employees.

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Speaker 1: That's probably because I can get a screw delivered in

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Speaker 1: my house that costs ninety nine cents in an hour.

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Speaker 1: That might be it might have something to do with it.

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Speaker 1: I like the other day I ordered a like like

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Speaker 1: a screw like that went into or no, was it?

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Speaker 1: What was it? It was like a yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: a screw that went into like one of those plate

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Speaker 1: covers on the wall whatever. And it's like it was like,

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Speaker 1: you know, ninety nine cents or whatever for four of

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Speaker 1: them because you had to buy four, okay, and like

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Speaker 1: would you like this delivered in an hour or whatever?

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Speaker 1: So then I got three screws in my house in

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Speaker 1: a four screws in my house at an hour for

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Speaker 1: ninety nine cents, like and that's all I pay. So

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Speaker 1: how do you make it money? Yeah? I guess that's

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Speaker 1: what's writing. That's why you're laying people off because I

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Speaker 1: don't know how you made it. It cost twenty five dollars

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Speaker 1: for the you know, to get the person to do it,

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Speaker 1: and then ten dollars in gas, so it costs forty

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Speaker 1: dollars to bring me my screw for a dollar. And

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Speaker 1: I realize that they're going for like them, you know

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Speaker 1: volume play where it's like, well, if you're also like

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Speaker 1: me and you buy absolutely everything on Amazon because you're

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Speaker 1: too lazy to walk across the street, well then they're

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Speaker 1: making money on you somewhere. But yeah, that's crazy, you

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Speaker 1: would think that, right Amazon, Yeah, people rely on Amazon

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Speaker 1: for everything. Laying all these people off. And this is

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Speaker 1: for you, Paulina again, a lot of stories for you

523
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Speaker 1: today so far. A new study suggests the chat gypt

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Speaker 1: might give more accurate answers if you're rude to it. Well,

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Speaker 1: if you're rude to chat EPT, you might get more,

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Speaker 1: you might get better answers. The study, not yet peer reviewed,

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Speaker 1: researchers creating fifty multiple choice questions across subjects including math, history,

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Speaker 1: and science. Each question was then modified to reflect multiple

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Speaker 1: tones from very polite to very rude, and then they

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Speaker 1: would feed that into chat GPT research or excuse me.

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Speaker 1: Results suggest that accuracy increased as the tone became harsher.

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Speaker 1: Very polite prompts would you be so kind to yielded

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Speaker 1: eighty percent accurate? Well, very rude ones. I know you're

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Speaker 1: not smart, but try this. Well, that is that is

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Speaker 1: very elaborate thing to say to your chat GPT, like

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Speaker 1: what are you projecting on your chadge if you really

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Speaker 1: need to be my thing is I want to say

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Speaker 1: please and thank you always, which you don't have to do.

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Speaker 5: No, but I would never recommend being mean to chatgybt

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Speaker 5: because when the tables turned and they take over us. Hey,

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Speaker 5: I like, you're not coming from me because I'm on

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Speaker 5: her side, okay, like we always and friends.

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Speaker 6: However, I have asked her to stop using.

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Speaker 5: A certain word in my writing, and I'm like, hey,

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Speaker 5: let's not use this one word, right.

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Speaker 1: I hate the word like no fluff. I just think

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Speaker 1: it's so corny. Oh.

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Speaker 6: She did not stop for.

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Speaker 5: Like a couple and I literally have to say, I've

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Speaker 5: asked you to stop using that word, please stop doing that,

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Speaker 5: but you're raising It feels like I'm raising my aigg.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, can you stop using that? And then she did, okay.

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Speaker 1: Well. Researchers emphasized that it would not be wise in

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Speaker 1: the long term to browbeat your chat thought. Insulting or

555
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,399
Speaker 1: demeaning your human AI interaction could have negative effects on

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Speaker 1: the user experience, accessibility, and inclusivity, and may contribute to

557
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Speaker 1: harmful communication norms. They see their findings is evidence that

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Speaker 1: AI models remain sensitive to superficial cues in prompts. Great

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Speaker 1: Now another more sensitivity AI is sensitive. I gotta I

560
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Speaker 1: gotta think about how I'm talking to AI now too.

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Speaker 1: Add that to the list.

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Speaker 6: Listen.

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Speaker 1: I'll be nice to her. She gives me a lot,

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Speaker 1: and then I think we would all agree on this.

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Speaker 1: And maybe this is a controversial take. I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: But I did come across the list this morning of

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Speaker 1: the non food items that you can pass out on Halloween.

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Speaker 1: We're not We're not that kind of house, are we. No,

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Speaker 1: we don't. We don't do that.

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Speaker 9: We're not.

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Speaker 1: We're not giving that now, We're not doing that. I

572
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Speaker 1: like the popcorn balls. I'm a weirdo.

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Speaker 6: All those are always fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't know. I'm sure there's someone who's

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Speaker 1: gonna text me and say, what my kid is, you know,

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Speaker 1: hyper sensitive to sugar or chocolate or allergic to peanuts

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Speaker 1: or something. Maybe you know, maybe and I guess maybe

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Speaker 1: have a variety of candy available or something, or maybe

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happens. Maybe you have to switch

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Speaker 1: out your kids candy with like candy at home that

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Speaker 1: you have. I don't know how you do that. But

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Speaker 1: I don't know that giving me a plato is gonna

583
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Speaker 1: make It's just that I don't think it's as satisfying,

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Speaker 1: you know, as the Candy Hall Halloween stamps for the hand.

585
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Speaker 1: So if I go to your house and you're like, now,

586
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Speaker 1: stick your hand out and if you get me a stamp, like,

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Speaker 1: I think that absolutely not. Bubbles, glow in the dark,

588
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Speaker 1: bouncing balls, Halloween rubber duckies, brain stress balls, zipper bracelets,

589
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: printable halloween themes, ceramics, like three D printing over here,

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Speaker 1: it sounds like my dad. He'd be honestly, my did

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Speaker 1: all three My dad is chomping at the bits of

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Speaker 1: three D print anything. He is like fascinated in his

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Speaker 1: in his you know, soon to be retirement in three

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Speaker 1: D printing. He loves it, like, oh, I can print

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00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: that and then you know before long. Yeah, So that'd

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Speaker 1: be my dad. He'd set up a little stand outside

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Speaker 1: of the house and be like all three dwenty want

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Speaker 1: you want an airplane? You want to you want toilet? See

599
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,359
Speaker 1: what do you want? All three D print it for you.

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Speaker 1: Poop sling shots. Also don't know these are things that

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Speaker 1: people are giving on instead of candy. Just give away candy.

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Speaker 1: It's National chocolate Day and National oatmeal Day. Today The

603
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Speaker 1: Entertainer Report will do blogs and Stay or Go will

604
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Speaker 1: debate the relationship drama all next the French Show is

605
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Speaker 1: someone said, there are kids that don't eat solid food,

606
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Speaker 1: so fun games are okay? Please consider all right? I

607
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Speaker 1: did say, did I not say? There's going to be

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Speaker 1: an exception to what I'm saying right now? So and

609
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Speaker 1: and I knew that somebody would text me and say, yeah,

610
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Speaker 1: but what about guys. I'm just saying, I don't know

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Speaker 1: about poop sling shots instead of you know, a nice

612
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: candy offering various kinds of candy. But I guess maybe

613
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 1: now we have a little selection of toys as well,

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00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:08,439
Speaker 1: and booze for the parents. This is getting We need

615
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,360
Speaker 1: to talk about that more gets the booze? Does everybody

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Speaker 1: get like anyone who comes by gets the well obviously

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00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: like not you know, hey, do you guys want the candy?

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Speaker 1: And do you want little mini bottles like that? To right? Exactly,

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00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 1: that's exactly right. I mean you, But do you just

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Speaker 1: offer that up to like anybody who comes by the house,

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Speaker 1: you know, Like do you just have like a little

622
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 1: bar set up or is it only for the neighbors,

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Speaker 1: Like it's like a VIP section. Like if you're a

624
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,439
Speaker 1: neighbor that I know, then you're allowed to come in

625
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 1: the courtyard or whatever where in the foyer where we

626
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: have where where where Serge is serving up dirty martini.

627
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 1: It's like, I don't know, like or is it just

628
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: anybody who comes by and we're just serving up drinks?

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Speaker 6: But what kind of drinks? That's the thing?

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00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: This is it? Some people like vodka, some people like tequila?

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Speaker 6: Everybody?

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Speaker 1: And what about the people who like? My lord? You know,

633
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: what are we gonna do that? Here's where I think

634
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Speaker 1: I might be walking into something. Hey, hey, Fred, it's Sydney.

635
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: I'm wondering if you could make and just tell me

636
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Speaker 1: if I'm making an idiot myself right now, make a

637
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: prediction on my social experiment for Halloween this year, I'll

638
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: be offering either a bowl of candy or a bowl

639
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: of raw potatoes. The kids can take one. The experiment

640
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Speaker 1: is to see which bowl empties the fastest. Is am

641
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: I missing a joke here? I don't know, like if

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Speaker 1: she setting me up? Am I saying something that? Like

643
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Speaker 1: the youth are saying that, and I sound stupid because

644
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,479
Speaker 1: I don't don't understand, like they're gonna take the candy.

645
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Speaker 1: No one's gonna take a potato? Wow? Like, So what

646
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Speaker 1: am I missing here? I don't let me tell you

647
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Speaker 1: what's gonna happen. The candy is gonna empty faster. If

648
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Speaker 1: it's a bowl of potatoes or a bowl of candy,

649
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: the candy goes first. I don't know what I mean,

650
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Speaker 1: and I think the potatoes should stay untouched.

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Speaker 5: Unless my mom goes like, no, honestly like potatoes, my

652
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Speaker 5: mom coming.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it takes up two hours to make a potato.

654
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 1: I don't have time for that. Like, I've never maked

655
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Speaker 1: a potato in my life. It's not the only time

656
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: making a potato is if I cut it real small

657
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: and cook it fast. Like I'm not, I don't have

658
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Speaker 1: like what. I can't remember the last time I was like, man,

659
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Speaker 1: I would really love a potato. I have hours to wait.

660
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: I do too. It takes forever. It takes forever to

661
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: bake a potato. It certainly does, you know. So then

662
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Speaker 1: if I really want a potato, then I go to

663
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Speaker 1: Jason's Dellly and paid twenty four dollars for potato that's

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Speaker 1: got loaded potato, loaded baked potatoes. I mean the slaps

665
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Speaker 1: excepted seventeen bucks. And I don't know why, Yeah, all right,

666
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: why don't I don't know what? We need more info.

667
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Speaker 1: I feel what it's trying to be. I'm missing something

668
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Speaker 1: on that I think's entertainer report is on The Fresh Show, Where.

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Speaker 6: Do is that?

670
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Speaker 2: Margot Robbie is in some pretty serious talks to star

671
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Speaker 2: in a gender swapped remake of American Psycho, playing a

672
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Speaker 2: female version of the original serial killer lead. If all

673
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Speaker 2: goes as planned, Margot will play the female counterpart of

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Speaker 2: Patrick Bateman, the finance bro the serial murderer from the

675
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Speaker 2: original novel and two thousand film. I didn't realize this,

676
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: but this article says that the original film faced controversy

677
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Speaker 2: for its graphic violence and perceived miss I thought that

678
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Speaker 2: was the whole point of the movie.

679
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Speaker 1: He's a he's a killer. It's not good. He's not

680
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Speaker 1: a good dude.

681
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Speaker 2: I still think about that scene where he gets you've

682
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 2: seen it, right, Fred. I'm not going to ask Jason

683
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Speaker 2: if he's seen it, but where he talks about Whitney

684
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Speaker 2: Houston and the music and his CD collection. Oh yeah,

685
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Speaker 2: I mean if you haven't seen it, watched the movie,

686
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Speaker 2: But yeah, I guess she's in talks to play a

687
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 2: female lead of that, which I could see, and that

688
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 2: would be amazing, even scarier. Kelsey Grammer is now a

689
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Speaker 2: dad of eight. The seventy year old Fraser star welcome

690
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Speaker 2: to baby boy named Christopher with his wife Kate Walsh.

691
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Speaker 1: He shared the.

692
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Speaker 2: News on an episode of Pod Meets World, which is

693
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Speaker 2: like a lot of different worlds colliding. Their first three

694
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Speaker 2: kids were born between twenty twelve and twenty sixteen. He

695
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Speaker 2: has four other children with different partners, one of which

696
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Speaker 2: Camille Grammer, who was not only a housewive, but she

697
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Speaker 2: was an og MTV like spring Break girl, and.

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Speaker 6: She let us know too, I'm the real housewives.

699
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Speaker 5: When they introduce her the way she did, She's like

700
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Speaker 5: just a didn't Oh is she on the Grind?

701
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Speaker 2: It was one of those shows and they have her

702
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Speaker 2: on I think spring Break. She just would be lady

703
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Speaker 2: like dancing.

704
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Speaker 1: All What a simple time that was. You know, you

705
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Speaker 1: come home from school and turn on MTV spring Break

706
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Speaker 1: and it was just every now and again, I'll go

707
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Speaker 1: on YouTube and pop up a Grind video because it's

708
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: just it's just so funny to me. It's just it's

709
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,479
Speaker 1: hilarious to me, Like the show is just funny. Like

710
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: they obviously cast these people. If unfamiliar with the concept,

711
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Speaker 1: they would have like a DJ and then they'd play

712
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: like you know, and all it was was like they

713
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Speaker 1: had a set on a beach, you know, in like

714
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Speaker 1: South Podre Island, and these people would just dance approximately

715
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: three feet apart from each other, you know, because they

716
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 1: were all like spaced out, and they could you could

717
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Speaker 1: tell they were told like to stay in their bubble

718
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Speaker 1: because they weren't dancing with each other. So it was

719
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Speaker 1: like they would just stand there and kind of move

720
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 1: on the platform right exactly, and then and then the

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Speaker 1: camera angles would like like you know, all pan around

722
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Speaker 1: or whatever. Dave Chappelle hosted one. It was just wild.

723
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Speaker 2: Artists would come like on spring break, you know. Stoop

724
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 2: Dog would be like, what of spring break?

725
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 1: And I would be like, yeah, it was thirty minutes

726
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: of just random people from you know, like Fort Madison,

727
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: Iowa on spring break in South Padre, like and they

728
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: would just stand there and sort of like yes, just

729
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: you can't see what I'm doing. But it was just

730
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Speaker 1: it was just this and I'm like, where did you

731
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Speaker 1: find these people? Like how did you cast these people?

732
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Speaker 1: I don't know, but shout out to Cameo Grammar. We

733
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Speaker 1: sit there and watch this. We did thirty minutes later,

734
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Speaker 1: I'm like, nothing happened.

735
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: Was streaming services so like there was limited options and

736
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 2: that's what we would watch. And I was like seven Picturing, like, oh,

737
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Speaker 2: I'm going I want to go on spring Break.

738
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Speaker 1: I had no business, but there we are. I should

739
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Speaker 1: text our the chairman of our company, who was part

740
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Speaker 1: of the group that invented MTV. I would love to

741
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: know what he thought about the Grind. I would also

742
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: like to know what Bob Pittman thought about the liability

743
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: of spring Break in general, like that whole production, like

744
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Speaker 1: taking your network to you know, some spring breaktown with

745
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: a bunch of college kids, and like putting on constant parties,

746
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: like how is that? How many lawyers did you send

747
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: down there for that at that time? Probably not a lot. Yeah,

748
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 1: there were less rules back then. I'd be alive. I'd

749
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: be like, as an executive, I don't think I'd sleep

750
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: for a whole week. I'd be like, what do we do?

751
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 1: How many Grind episodes are we do in I wonder

752
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: if he would do the tangent with us so we

753
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: could pick his brain. I wonder if you would have

754
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: to ask him MTV it could be the best thing

755
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: we do in our career. It also could be the

756
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Speaker 1: very worst. Maybe we don't tell him about the tangent.

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, right right, and Leslie really quick, Pauline, I

758
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Speaker 2: thought of you because Jennifer Lawrence says that she understands

759
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 2: why people found her annoying back in the day. She

760
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 2: finally did Yeah, you finally got to her.

761
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Speaker 1: You got it.

762
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 2: She's admitting that she looks back at her past interviews

763
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Speaker 2: and thinks the person she was then was so hyper

764
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: and so embarrassing. She said that her over the top

765
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Speaker 2: press persona was partly a defense mechanism to cope with

766
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Speaker 2: the pressures of fame and public scrutiny. She says that

767
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Speaker 2: doing press makes her feel like she loses control of

768
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Speaker 2: her craft, and that she's grown tired of the constant

769
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Speaker 2: media appearances and she's had kids.

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Speaker 1: Then she's gone away. But people found her annoying. I

771
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: know you did. So she's growing, She's looking back and

772
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Speaker 1: she gets it.

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Speaker 2: If you want to catch up on the show, by

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Speaker 2: the way, from today or any day, you can type

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Speaker 2: the Fred Show on demand on the free iHeartRadio app Sudney.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Fred, You're the Potato Lady. What am I missing?

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Speaker 1: So the question was your social experiment is you're going

778
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Speaker 1: to put out a bowl of candy in a bowl

779
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,919
Speaker 1: of raw potatoes, and you're going to see which one

780
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Speaker 1: goes first. Why?

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Speaker 7: Absolutely, So, there's no joke to it at all. It's

782
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 7: just wondering if something. If a kid is offered, you know,

783
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 7: candy at every other house, and then they're offered something

784
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 7: as strange as a potato, the question is would they

785
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Speaker 7: take the potato or are they going to take the

786
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 7: candy that they can get at any other house.

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Speaker 1: They're not going to take the potato. They're not going

788
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: to take the potato. What are they gonna do? Ken

789
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: doesn't know what to do with the potato?

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Speaker 7: I maybe what what if they take a candy at

791
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Speaker 7: any other house and then they're offered a potato. You

792
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Speaker 7: don't think they're going to take the potato.

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Speaker 1: They just want more candy. I mean, I don't know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're back.

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Speaker 3: Are you live streaming this because like this needs to

796
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Speaker 3: be on TikTok live, so yeah, we watch.

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Speaker 6: I have to see what happens.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: You know, I will, I will, I will, I will

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Speaker 7: get a recording. I'll send you a quick snippet of

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Speaker 7: of what happens.

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Speaker 1: Because I could be wrong.

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00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 7: But then potatoes, the potato, potatoes might be the winner.

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Speaker 1: The potato might wind up going through somebody's window or

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Speaker 1: something like. I feel like I feel like it's too

806
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Speaker 1: massive of a thing just to give children, Like I

807
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 1: think it's I feel like it's a potato is too dangerous.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm saying, like, I don't like the possibilities.

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00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 1: If they're heavy, they're they're they're they're dense. I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Sydney. I'm not sure, but let us

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Speaker 1: know what happens. Okay, I'm on the edge of my seat.

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Speaker 7: I will absolutely have a nice day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I am going to Dallas on Friday to

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Speaker 1: witness Halloween trick or treating because usually not on a Friday,

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Speaker 1: so I get to go this year and see Polly

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Speaker 1: in Man. I don't know where they're going to be yet,

817
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 1: but apparently the tradition has begun with Polly where This

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00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: was a tradition in our house growing up, as with

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Speaker 1: the cookie sheets came out and the candy was all

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Speaker 1: organized like in a very OCD manner. All the types

821
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Speaker 1: were all put all together and then they were sold

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Speaker 1: to my grandparents. I would sell the candy to my

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Speaker 1: parents and grandparents for twenty five cents per little thing,

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Speaker 1: and they'd buy it. It was a little store that

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00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 1: I opened up, and I think for them it was

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Speaker 1: like this is cheaper than him staying up all night,

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Speaker 1: you know, eating all the candy or whatever. So apparently

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Speaker 1: Polly's onto this now where she's going to sell the

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Speaker 1: candy she got for free, which entrepreneurial. I like it.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I like it a lot. But I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna if she doesn't know this, I'm going to teach

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Speaker 1: it to her, and then my sister will yell at me,

833
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,760
Speaker 1: what do you do? Why are you teaching to that? Gotcha?

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Speaker 1: It's my job. I'm the uncle. Okay, it's my job

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Speaker 1: the teacher the things that you won't Hey, Anita, Yes,

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Speaker 1: why were you giving out potatoes on Halloween?

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Speaker 10: Like?

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Speaker 1: What are we doing? Is this a joke?

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Speaker 11: Are you?

840
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Speaker 1: Is someone punking me? Am I on the grind? What's

841
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 1: going on? Yeh? Boiling points?

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Speaker 12: No, we tried it one year just for fun. I

843
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 12: put out I had a bowl of potatoes and I

844
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Speaker 12: had a bowl of candy. And let me tell you,

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Speaker 12: almost every single kid took the potato versus the candy.

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Speaker 12: It was hilarious what we gave out over one hundred

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Speaker 12: and fifty potatoes that right.

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Speaker 1: Oh so this is like a thing, one hundred and

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Speaker 1: fifty potatoes, right, that's a budget, right, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about it. Okay, all right, No, I

851
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 1: don't do that. Just just give out candy. Keep it simple.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 12: The kids loved that. They were all laughing. They like

854
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Speaker 12: were showing their parents that they got a potato.

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Speaker 8: It was hilarious.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of funny, I guess, but that

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Speaker 1: just seems like a waste of one hundred and fifty potatoes,

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Speaker 1: Like that's that's a lot of hash browns. Man, Anita, Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day too. I just I

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Speaker 1: thought you you were messing with me. I thought you

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Speaker 1: were trying to get me to because I am Ron

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Speaker 1: Burgundy and I'll read whatever, you know, so I thought

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Speaker 1: maybe they were trying to get me to read that

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Speaker 1: out loud. And then it was a joke, you know

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Speaker 1: that you guys, like six seven, you guys were all

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Speaker 1: going to tell me, like I'm not one hundred percent

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Speaker 1: clear on it, and I googled it and I've asked

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Speaker 1: It's like it's just like no, it's just like a saying.

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Speaker 1: But I'm sure there's more to it. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel really dumb. But I really shouldn't know what

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Speaker 1: that means. There's really no reason that I would know

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Speaker 1: what that means. So, you know, for the executives listening now, going, oh,

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Speaker 1: friend sounds old. He doesn't know what that means. No,

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Speaker 1: if I did, that might be concerning none of us.

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Speaker 1: If I know a high school slang, then that's worrisome.

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Speaker 1: But that's why we have a lot of listeners of

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Speaker 1: the show of Different. You know, maybe can you call

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Speaker 1: now and explain to me what that what it is? See,

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Speaker 1: that's what I rely on, you guys to help me

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Speaker 1: understand the things that I don't you guys in the room,

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Speaker 1: and then also the people because we got a wide array.

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Speaker 1: We got people who were much older and we got

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Speaker 1: much younger people listening. So maybe you can help me

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Speaker 1: with this one. First of all, no potatoes, And second

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Speaker 1: of all, what is six seven? Unless it's something really terrible,

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Speaker 1: then I don't really want to know. Blogs are more

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Next, this is the Fread Show. Dame is

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. COUDE Morning one O three five Kiss FM,

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Speaker 1: Chicago's number one a music station. Are final stop the

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Speaker 1: Thank You thirteen tour Friday, West Town. We're gonna be

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Speaker 1: a Dell Rooster everyone. Dell Rooster is the name of

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Speaker 1: the place. It's eighteen twenty five West Chicago Avenue, and

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Speaker 1: that is in Westtown. This is six seven. I said

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Speaker 1: six seven. I said six seven. One has to be

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Speaker 1: more texting me, That's what I said. Stop correcting me

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Speaker 1: when I got it right the first time? Um, well, no,

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Speaker 1: I mean correct I say stuff that's wrong all the time.

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Speaker 1: Correct me. But then when I got it right then,

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Speaker 1: don't waste your fingers, don't waste your figure, but maybe

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Speaker 1: come to Del Rooster in Westoun on Friday. Explain to

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Speaker 1: me what it is and that'll be great, and give

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Speaker 1: me a big hug too, because you know I love

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Speaker 1: those mixtail. Yeah, they have oxtail there, which is what

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Speaker 1: kind of Michelin Star restaurant did you choose?

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Speaker 3: Oh it is amazing. I can't wait. They have empanadas.

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Speaker 1: Ooh I love It's like a Cuban inspired sort of place, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like it a little diversity. Yeah, they have a bar,

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Speaker 1: so come get a cocktail. No, it's lovely, it's lovely.

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Speaker 1: It's going to be lovely. On Friday morning, the final

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Speaker 1: stop and the Thank You thirteen tour for this round

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Speaker 1: is it Del Rooster in westowm Please don't tell me

921
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Speaker 1: on Saturday that you didn't know that we were doing it,

922
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Speaker 1: because we're doing it and we're running promos about it

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Speaker 1: and I'm saying it now and there's graphics and things

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Speaker 1: that have been made, you know that sort of thing.

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Speaker 1: So we would love to see you on Friday. The

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Speaker 1: Tangent Lives sold out. That's the week after. Boy, we

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Speaker 1: really are on tour. We're hitting all quandrants of the

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Speaker 1: place we are and then after that it's our one

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Speaker 1: of three five Kiss FM jingle Ball presented by Capital One. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so if you would like, just go ahead and buy

931
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Speaker 1: a ticket, because again I've been telling you guys. If

932
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Speaker 1: the sooner you buy your ticket that I think you're

933
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Speaker 1: gonna buy anyway, then sooner I don't have to hustle

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Speaker 1: for tickets anymore.

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Speaker 2: Audrey Hobart and Gracie Abrams singing that's true together.

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Speaker 1: I did see that.

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Speaker 2: See Audrey, if you're not familiar with her, wrote a

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Speaker 2: lot of Gracy songs. So if you like Gracie, come

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Speaker 2: to jingle Ball and she's about to pop off.

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Speaker 1: It is true, though, I will say it is true

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Speaker 1: that a lot of artists that show up at jingle Ball,

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Speaker 1: like the next year or the year after, wind up

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Speaker 1: being you know, wildly famous. Benson Boone like to play

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Speaker 1: jingle Ball. Hey, what's up Benson Boone? Now, of course

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Speaker 1: guy's selling out arenas and stuff. So for whatever it is,

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Speaker 1: six bucks nine bucks an artist, come see Teddy Swims,

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Speaker 1: Jackson Wang, Renee Rap and more one O three five,

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM dot com and get your tickets. Just telling

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Speaker 1: people for the next twenty years, I went to Juilliard

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Speaker 1: only to be discovered, an uncovered and revealed as a liar.

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Speaker 1: He's looking at Juliard. Who's julibsite to leave yard? Julie, No,

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Speaker 1: I did Julie. Julie's yard, Julie. Fred's show is on.

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Speaker 1: It's two Sex Over twenty eighth, The Friend Show's on

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Speaker 1: high Kaitlin Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina. Kiky's back later

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Speaker 1: in the week. Mellah means here on the phone in

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Speaker 1: the text eight five five five nine one one O

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Speaker 1: three five tiebreaker, she'lby Shelley versus Jade. Eight hundred and

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks is the prize in the showdown and we're

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Speaker 1: commercial free for the next forty five minutes. Hey Sidney, Hi, Sydney,

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Speaker 1: thank you for explaining to us which six seven means?

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Speaker 1: What is there?

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Speaker 9: Okay?

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Speaker 13: I worked entry school, and I would say about ninety

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Speaker 13: percent of my kids will tell me that they don't

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Speaker 13: know what it means. But I think the best way

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Speaker 13: to compare is that it's this generation twenty one, like

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Speaker 13: the nine plus ten?

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Speaker 1: By fine, what does that mean?

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Speaker 13: The vine that was from I don't know, maybe ten

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Speaker 13: years ago, and it said what's nine plus ten and

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Speaker 13: it's said twenty one and everyone laughed.

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Speaker 12: I would say, it's this generations twenty one.

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Speaker 13: It's just the number that kids find funny.

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Speaker 1: Huh. I guess I missed two trends.

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Speaker 7: Then.

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Speaker 1: I don't know where I listen. I don't know where

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Speaker 1: it was the other one. But I was impresent for

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Speaker 1: that either. Maybe I was unconscious. I'm not sure, all right, Sidney, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. Yeah, I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's probably Tom Yeah right, it's probably okay. I don't.

982
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Speaker 1: I don't mean, it's not like an old hit. I

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Speaker 1: just I don't. I don't know. I count on you

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Speaker 1: guys for that, and you really let me down on it.

985
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Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't know any elementary schoolers. I apologize if

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Speaker 2: you could work on that.

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Speaker 11: Better than These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: So it's like we're running in our diaries, except we

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Speaker 1: say them a loud. We call them blogs.

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Speaker 5: Paulina, Yes go, thank you so much, dear blog I've

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Speaker 5: been out of.

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Speaker 6: The babysitting game for a minute. Okay, I used to

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Speaker 6: be a babysitter nanny.

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Speaker 5: If you will, and I will, you will, I will

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Speaker 5: because I'm because these girls are they make money, honey.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I know it's a such your one right kind

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Speaker 1: of thing.

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Speaker 5: I want to be clear, and you should absolutely be

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Speaker 5: paid what you are owed and what you deserve.

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Speaker 1: And babysitting and childcare is no joke.

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Speaker 5: That is a job, and it's a difficult job and

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Speaker 5: for us, like I know Cayleen needs to do it too,

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Speaker 5: like it was such a fun job like when you're younger,

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Speaker 5: especially in college. And I'm trying to expand my village

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Speaker 5: right now. So I have my mother in law and

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Speaker 5: I have my mother, and then my sister in law

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Speaker 5: is helping. But next year things are going to change

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Speaker 5: for her, for my sister in law, so she'll be

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Speaker 5: out of the picture completely for a little bit. And

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Speaker 5: then my mother in law works full time, so does

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Speaker 5: my mom, and everyone's got these opposite schedules. And I

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Speaker 5: am so grateful and blessed that we've gotten this far

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Speaker 5: eighteen months in where like I was able to really

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Speaker 5: just lean on everybody, and that is a blessing.

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Speaker 6: I don't take it for granted for a second.

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Speaker 5: And what I've been doing, though, is getting like little

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Speaker 5: part time like babysitters, mostly people that I know. So

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Speaker 5: like if you had like a niece or something fred

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Speaker 5: or Kaylen or whatever, and then you'd be like, oh.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, and she's live in our states and.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying a babysit gig, so you she's eady bucks

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Speaker 1: an hour, probably wants Teddy Bucks an hour.

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Speaker 5: And you know what, my girl deserves that. But at

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Speaker 5: the same time, we got to be a little realistic. Okay,

1025
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Speaker 5: can I please read to you what a sitter told

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Speaker 5: me that she charges And I don't think it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: How old is this person?

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Speaker 6: I want to say, maybe like twenty two to twenty.

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Speaker 1: Three, twenty three years old. Okay, it's just like a

1030
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Speaker 1: side job for this person.

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Speaker 5: This is a side job. I believe she's still in

1032
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Speaker 5: school one kid for one kid, and I'm then that

1033
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Speaker 5: doesn't matter. And I used to hate this as a sitter,

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Speaker 5: like I'm upstairs for the most part, like doing other things,

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Speaker 5: like working on other stuff, so like I'm in the building,

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Speaker 5: but I need someone to like watch gg play with her,

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Speaker 5: feed her lunch because I can't do both, and then

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Speaker 5: like being a phone call or a zoom or like,

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Speaker 5: you know, do you like typing emails? Like I can't

1040
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Speaker 5: do that with a two year old or almost two

1041
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Speaker 5: year old, Like it's really difficult, you know, when they're

1042
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Speaker 5: pulling your computer or they're on your leg screaming, like

1043
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Speaker 5: it's really hard and that's really embarrassing too when you're

1044
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Speaker 5: on a call. So I'm like I and honestly too,

1045
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Speaker 5: she has more fun with these sitters because they're younger

1046
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Speaker 5: and they're fun. They want to like play. I want

1047
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Speaker 5: to play too, but like we and Gig play all day,

1048
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Speaker 5: so like it's fun when a new face comes in.

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Speaker 5: She it's really excited. I've got two sitters that are

1050
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Speaker 5: like on rotation. Their neighbors they live like a couple

1051
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Speaker 5: houses down, very convenient neighbors are Also these girls are

1052
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Speaker 5: also in high school, so they've got school, which is

1053
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Speaker 5: way more important than me. And then they've got extra

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Speaker 5: cour relativities. They've got the sports and this. Okay, So

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Speaker 5: I found this girl and she's really sweet and I

1056
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Speaker 5: love her, but I just want to know if I'm

1057
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Speaker 5: crazy or if I'm like missing something here. Okay, she asked,

1058
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Speaker 5: you know, hey, you're doing really well. Blah blah blah.

1059
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Speaker 5: She goes for ongoing care. So I guess that means

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Speaker 5: like it's not like a we're not doing a set schedule.

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Speaker 5: It's more ongoing if you will. Like there's no like

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Speaker 5: full time, part time position. It's like maybe like ten

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Speaker 5: hours of Begney everything. Yeah, my starting rate is thirty

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Speaker 5: dollars an hour.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I've heard of this. This isn't crazy, and I baby.

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Speaker 5: Said before, even for like celebrity kids like I've baby

1067
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 5: said Dave Girl's kid, like I've.

1068
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: Done all this.

1069
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, yes, yeah, it's the funny was there was

1070
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 5: a whole thing.

1071
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was a really cool day. It was a

1072
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 6: really cool day.

1073
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 1: Okay, how much does she want? We got a dial

1074
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 1: it in here.

1075
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 5: It's an hour is I'm not going to say it's

1076
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 5: crazy today because it's not like back then I charged fifteen.

1077
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 6: I'm gonna be so real.

1078
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 5: This is also like seven years old, so ten years ago.

1079
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:07,720
Speaker 5: Seven ten years ago. Okay, so we doubled the price.

1080
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 5: Not terrible, I'm not mass she wants. She's twenty something

1081
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 5: years old. She wants thirty bucks an hour. There are

1082
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 5: forty year olds that don't make thirty dollars an hour,

1083
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 5: So I just feel like that's not that age matters.

1084
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:17,839
Speaker 6: But that's that's a lot.

1085
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 5: But hey for great care, like I will pay that,

1086
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 5: And I know a lot of parents will agree with that.

1087
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 6: If it's a great sitter, you trust her.

1088
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 5: I will pay my arm legg and kidney, like for

1089
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 5: a great sitter that my daughter loves. Not crazy, I'm

1090
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 5: a little like whoa, but like not crazy?

1091
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 6: Okay, this is the part of lost me.

1092
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:35,280
Speaker 5: And then she charges a one hour fee to cover

1093
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 5: prep and travel time each day.

1094
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 1: Prep she prepares? She like prep like why are we

1095
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 1: waxing a vaccine for this?

1096
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 7: Like?

1097
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:45,240
Speaker 1: What are we? Like? Prep?

1098
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 5: Is?

1099
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 7: She?

1100
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:47,760
Speaker 1: Now? Hold on? Is she like teaching?

1101
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 7: Is there?

1102
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: Like is there like a little program for the day?

1103
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: Like are we doing craps? And then she goes, no,

1104
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 1: I'm being honest, like, wow, what are we what are

1105
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,760
Speaker 1: we prepping for? And I guess I figured that traffic

1106
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,840
Speaker 1: or commute was just sort of rolled into the thirty

1107
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: bucks an hour, which I think is I don't I

1108
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: think for an adult, I think that's probably about right.

1109
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: I think that's what my sister pays. Yeah, and it's

1110
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 1: not for twenty something because it's a second job, and

1111
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: that you're talking about an adult now, you're not talking

1112
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 1: about a teenager. So the expectations higher.

1113
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 5: And it depends to like where you live, like what

1114
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 5: city or like what state you're like the prices do

1115
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,400
Speaker 5: vary thirty dollars and we live in Chicago.

1116
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:31,320
Speaker 6: I'm not mad at that, that's not I'm not whatever.

1117
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 6: I can do that. But I looked at this though,

1118
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 6: and was like, WHOA. So I weren't to prep and

1119
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 6: then to drive.

1120
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 5: And then she says, I've been working with this mythology

1121
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 5: with families who live more than three miles away.

1122
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: Mythology.

1123
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:45,839
Speaker 14: Yeah, mythology. I'm like methodology. Okay, so she's into mythology now,

1124
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 14: so we're doing the same. What are we teaching that?

1125
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,280
Speaker 14: What's sort of weird activities? Are we into?

1126
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 5: She is, she's worth thirty dollars and I'll pay that.

1127
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 5: I'm telling you, I'll give you my kidney for a good

1128
00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:58,800
Speaker 5: sitter or someone that can feature me.

1129
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: She's gonna teach a kid about zo you might I

1130
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:02,879
Speaker 1: think she I think you've met methodology, right.

1131
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 6: Yeah, my bad.

1132
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, anyway, so you put three miles away, so

1133
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: I have a problem with that. Wait, so you're paying

1134
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 1: an hour for commutanants three hours or three miles, So

1135
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 1: if you're more than three miles away, she'll charge you

1136
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: the fee. We have a radius even so.

1137
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:15,760
Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying.

1138
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 1: I walk more than that a day.

1139
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 5: So I used to drive across like one time for

1140
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 5: a baby sname job. I drove two hours when I

1141
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 5: live in Los Angeles. Because for to go to like

1142
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 5: Orange County, we're.

1143
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: Talking about an hour and more in traffic then maybe

1144
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 1: maybe or like Maybee, like we're.

1145
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 6: In the same city.

1146
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 5: Unless you live like two hours away, then tell me

1147
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 5: this is not going to work, right, because I'm not.

1148
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 6: We're not doing it.

1149
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: Thirty bucks an hour doesn't surprise me. Actually the commute

1150
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 1: time that you're paying for that kind of surprises me.

1151
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:44,280
Speaker 5: And I'm just and I'm going through the text messages

1152
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 5: here people are in shock.

1153
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 6: Just as I am, because I'm confused with.

1154
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,439
Speaker 5: The prep Like, hey, exactly what are you prepping? It's

1155
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 5: not a resort fee.

1156
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: Like at a hotel, Like I don't really know what

1157
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 1: I'm paying for. Roll it in man, like, don't don't

1158
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 1: nickel and dime me, Like, I hate that, and I

1159
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: got they gotten rid of a lot of resort fees too,

1160
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 1: cause for that reason, because you show up and you're like,

1161
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 1: it said two hundred bucks a night for the room

1162
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: gazing the resort, and it's seven hundred dollars I check out.

1163
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, wait, what was all this all? Well, you know,

1164
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 1: did you want to use like did you want to breathe? Like,

1165
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:11,399
Speaker 1: did you want to use the hallways? Did you oh,

1166
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 1: you wanted you didn't want to climb through the window? Well,

1167
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,479
Speaker 1: then I'm sorry, then you're gonna have to pay it again.

1168
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: Four feet A lot of people, a lot of people, Uh,

1169
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 1: forty five bucks a day, thirty dollars an hour is crazy.

1170
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,359
Speaker 1: People are saying they want to quit their job. Now

1171
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:29,880
Speaker 1: say twenty bucks an hour look at me. Yeah, a

1172
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 1: lot of people think it's it's a little bit high.

1173
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: What is prep and drive charge? Baby's hitting three miles thirty?

1174
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 1: But yeah, again, if you insisted on it, someone who lived,

1175
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,319
Speaker 1: you know, twenty miles away and was gonna have sit

1176
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:42,839
Speaker 1: in traffic for an hour and a half full time

1177
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,360
Speaker 1: is money and absolutely and so you know that costs

1178
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: and gas is expensive, and I guess I would get that,

1179
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: But then you know, I think thirty bucks is high.

1180
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 6: Is on the high side, on the high side, it is,

1181
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 6: so then.

1182
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 1: You're already charging a premium. Yes, so I don't know.

1183
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 1: If you insist on that, then maybe you charge thirty

1184
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:00,479
Speaker 1: five an hour or something, and then it's in because

1185
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 1: I get what am I getting?

1186
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 8: What is it?

1187
00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 1: Prep? Are you showing up with like again? Are you

1188
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 1: showing up with a with a program? Or are we

1189
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: doing arch and crafts? Are you showing up with little clay?

1190
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: Are we doing hacks? Do you bring your own rag?

1191
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 7: Like?

1192
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:12,399
Speaker 1: Or what are we doing here? And then and then

1193
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:13,799
Speaker 1: you have to pay for her food too.

1194
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 5: She didn't say that, but I always do as somebody

1195
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 5: who like was a sitter, and then I hire sitters.

1196
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 5: I will pay for lunch because I I'll order lunch

1197
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 5: sometimes with the baby and me, and I'll be like, well,

1198
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 5: what would you like, I'll get them what that would.

1199
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 1: Be messed up if you ate in front of her.

1200
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 6: No, that's really rude.

1201
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 5: I'll leave ali food like I'll always get, like any sisters,

1202
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 5: a tube your sister Amy, she does it.

1203
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:31,319
Speaker 8: Two.

1204
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,799
Speaker 5: I mean Amanda, I'm losing it today. Amanda orders fooch show,

1205
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 5: order food for them, right, you should I feed your babysitters. Yeah,

1206
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 5: feed your sitters.

1207
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:39,840
Speaker 6: But it's expensive.

1208
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:41,799
Speaker 1: I mean, like you know, so like this weekend, I'm

1209
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 1: gonna be there and on Saturday, she's hiring a babysitter.

1210
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 1: And I believe this woman works at the school where

1211
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: my sister is a counselor, and so she's like a teacher,

1212
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: so she's legitimate, but coulle and may know her, so

1213
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 1: they there's like a comfort whatever. I think she's thirty

1214
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: bucks an hour, and so if we go out for

1215
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 1: three hours or four hours, you could add one hundred

1216
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 1: twenty bucks to whatever we did exactly. So you know,

1217
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 1: you go have a nice dinner, however much that costs.

1218
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: You go someplace real classy like Applebee's or something. You know,

1219
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: you get three people, we all get the three for me.

1220
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 2: You know kids though usually people will charge more for

1221
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:14,879
Speaker 2: multiple kids.

1222
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 1: So thirty dollars for two kids is a nice sty

1223
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: But this is that's a racket because the native is

1224
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 1: already asleep. But my sister is funny about this. My

1225
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 1: sister will be like no, no, no, if we're hiring

1226
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 1: a babysitner. They're coming at five, we're gonna eat at six.

1227
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: I don't care because that woman is gonna get paid

1228
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 1: to bathe my children right, put them down, Like we're

1229
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 1: not doing the thing where the two kids are already

1230
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:37,920
Speaker 1: in bed, and I got to pay thirty bucks an

1231
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 1: hour just to make sure they don't burn the house down.

1232
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:41,959
Speaker 1: Like you know, my sister wants to get a little

1233
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: something their money's worth, right exactly. So usually it's like

1234
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: they're coming at five thirty six, I'll feed them dinner.

1235
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 1: I pay them for every hour. But you got you know,

1236
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 1: you're doing bath time and you're doing nighttime whatever stuff.

1237
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:55,879
Speaker 5: But I love that she still pays them that rate

1238
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,839
Speaker 5: even when the kids are sleeping, because some people will

1239
00:52:57,840 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 5: fight on that shoe.

1240
00:52:58,719 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 6: It's so weird.

1241
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 5: Taking they're like, oh, kids are asleep, and it's like

1242
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 5: that doesn't mean anything. The kid can wake up, the

1243
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 5: kid can cry. The kid's next to me and it's

1244
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 5: happened to me. It's midnight, and the kid's like not

1245
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:08,399
Speaker 5: going back to sleep because mom and dad are not there,

1246
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 5: so they don't want to go back to sleep, you know.

1247
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,239
Speaker 1: To be an alert, Yeah, that would be something if

1248
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 1: it's like forty dollars for waking hours, thirty for sleeping

1249
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: people do that. It was a menu, take your own

1250
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 1: prices here, and it's like I refuse to pay that

1251
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:23,800
Speaker 1: for sleeping hours, Well then I'm leaving.

1252
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,880
Speaker 6: It's your kid like price.

1253
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,240
Speaker 1: You want them alive. Yeah, it's expensive. That's really expensive

1254
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: because again you know you're adding one hundred plus dollars

1255
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: to your date night. Yeah, it's already you know, an

1256
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 1: adult date night with some drinks and stuff. You know,

1257
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:39,280
Speaker 1: come on, like talking one hundred hundred and fifty bucks,

1258
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: go out to dinner, have some drinks, two hundred and

1259
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:43,840
Speaker 1: fifty bucks to go out for three hours. You know,

1260
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:47,240
Speaker 1: I can see why people wouldn't do that, but stay

1261
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 1: or go. By the way, Daddy Bob Chairman did text

1262
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 1: me back. He did invent uh MTV and spring break.

1263
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: And as for liability a little looser times back then,

1264
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 1: No pun intended, because I asked him. I was like,

1265
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: how did you like sleep at night when you were

1266
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: doing this stuff? Because I you know, now you could

1267
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: not need that. You could do it. You have to

1268
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 1: sign waivers and yeah, you'd have fifty lawyers out there

1269
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 1: and zero social distancing and masks and wrap people at

1270
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:19,839
Speaker 1: the late next time allergies? Right, oh god, I mean,

1271
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:21,320
Speaker 1: what kind of candy? Do we have toys for the

1272
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: kids that don't eat candy? What are we doing here?

1273
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: You know the right? Right? How much is babysitting? What

1274
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: do we do? I gotta pay for prep time? That's crazy?

1275
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: What is prep? That's another thing? And you know what,

1276
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,800
Speaker 1: I think you should flip the script on these babysitter types,

1277
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 1: like if you no, and look, I like this, I

1278
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 1: understand that it's not five bucks an hour anymore, ten

1279
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Speaker 1: or fifteen or you know whatever, and it's a big

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00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: responsibility and you and if you get somebody good. I

1281
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: also have heard it can be very competitive, where like

1282
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: people will find a good babysitter and they don't want

1283
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 1: to tell their friends about her because they want to

1284
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: make sure that she's available. Yeah, that's real on like

1285
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: Saturday for them, And so a lot of them will

1286
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:05,720
Speaker 1: pay even more to make sure that they're the preferred house.

1287
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: Right exactly that you could flip the script and be like, hey,

1288
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: if I'm paying a premium rate, like so let's say

1289
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 1: thirty bucks. People seem to agree on the text that

1290
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:16,239
Speaker 1: in our little focus group here, that that thirty bucks

1291
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 1: is a premium rate for a babysitter. If I'm paying that,

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00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: what language do you speak?

1293
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 8: What?

1294
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: Like? What? What? What are you bringing to the table here?

1295
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: You know, like what what are we? Are you an artist?

1296
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:29,760
Speaker 1: Are you do you? I mean, come on, like, okay,

1297
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:32,720
Speaker 1: you're prepping for what to teach my kid how to speak?

1298
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:36,280
Speaker 1: You know Mandarin? Okay, great, let's do it. Like that's amazing.

1299
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: I'm all for it. That's thirty bucks an hour. That's real.

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Speaker 6: It's expensive. You guys, stay safe out there.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, if I ever had a kid, and I don't

1302
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: think it's happening, but if I ever had a kid,

1303
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: We were saying this off the air, like I would

1304
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: absolutely if I had babysitters or help or whatever, if

1305
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: I if I could afford that, then I would. Those

1306
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:55,919
Speaker 1: people would bring something to the table that I well,

1307
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: in addition to like knowing how to deal with children,

1308
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: they keep them safe and things like that that I

1309
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 1: don't know how to feed them and things I don't

1310
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: know how to do. They would have to I mean

1311
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 1: a language like like different sort of perspective, and I

1312
00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:13,240
Speaker 1: would almost be do you speak to little Freddie and whatever,

1313
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 1: whatever your native tongue is, like, that's the that you

1314
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:20,239
Speaker 1: guys can interact like that, because yes, because I want

1315
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: my kid to be way smarter than I am here,

1316
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,720
Speaker 1: and I don't I think speaking more than one language

1317
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: is almost has become like the way it needs it

1318
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:30,839
Speaker 1: should be the way it is in the world. So

1319
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 1: say or go. This is a note that we got

1320
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:34,439
Speaker 1: and this woman does not want to be on the air,

1321
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 1: but she wanted us to read this entire email. So

1322
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: I want to know what you guys think. We're debating

1323
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: some relationship drama here. I feel like this is pretty

1324
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,880
Speaker 1: relatable eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five. Unfortunately,

1325
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 1: I think people can relate to this, but it says

1326
00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: Dear Fred's show. I'm struggling to decide if I should

1327
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 1: stay with my husband of three years together for nine

1328
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,919
Speaker 1: and would love some insight. We started having problems about

1329
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: two years ago, and I feel like we just can't

1330
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 1: seem to stay in a happy place. I did start

1331
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 1: going to therapy after the problem started, and eventually he

1332
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:05,240
Speaker 1: did too. We even started doing couples sessions in addition

1333
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 1: to our individual sessions. They seem to help for a bit,

1334
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 1: at least in the sense that we'd fix the problem,

1335
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: but then after a few weeks we'd be having the

1336
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: same arguments all over again. We just had a baby

1337
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 1: in March and he was two months early, so that

1338
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Speaker 1: led to a five week nick You stay for him

1339
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 1: and a Ronald McDonald house stay for us. To say

1340
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 1: that that tested our relationship would be an understatement. I

1341
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 1: guess part of me really hoped that he would finally

1342
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 1: step up to be the man I wanted and needed

1343
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 1: once he became a father. Don't get me wrong, he

1344
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: is not a bad person. But I feel like I'm

1345
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: putting all my energy into saving our relationship, but despite

1346
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 1: me asking, he's not doing the same. I never wanted

1347
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 1: a broken family for my baby, but I know that

1348
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 1: I also don't want him to grow up in a

1349
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 1: home full of anger and arguments. I've contemplated staying until

1350
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: my baby is a year old, but even that has

1351
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: started to feel like an impossible challenge. I'm starting to

1352
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: wonder if we're even compatible anymore, but I don't know

1353
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 1: what the right answer is. I would love all of

1354
00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:04,120
Speaker 1: your input. Thanks for your time. First of all, I

1355
00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 1: don't know none of us fortunately have any experience in

1356
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: you know all of that. You've got a relationship that

1357
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 1: with struggles, you've got a kid now, a kid that

1358
00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 1: was sick. I mean, I know that that is incredibly

1359
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: stressful for relationships, and so you add that challenge to

1360
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 1: all of this, and it's like, you know what person

1361
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 1: am I getting?

1362
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 10: Right?

1363
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 7: Like?

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00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 1: Am I? We're so stressed out? You know, we're trying

1365
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: to take care of our baby, and so I mean,

1366
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 1: you separate that from all of this, But they were

1367
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: having problems before that. Again, I don't know that it's

1368
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,280
Speaker 1: fair to judge people when they're under pressure, but they're

1369
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: both under pressure, and she doesn't feel supported. And I

1370
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: don't know how he feels because we haven't heard his

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00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: side of it. But eight five, five, five, nine, one

1372
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Speaker 1: one oh three five I'm curious what would you guys

1373
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:47,440
Speaker 1: do in this situation? I mean, this woman, you know,

1374
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: she doesn't feel like she's connecting with her partner anymore,

1375
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:52,600
Speaker 1: and you know they have gone to therapy and that

1376
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 1: at least she's tried. It seems, I don't know what

1377
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 1: comes to mind. You're the married one, what would you do?

1378
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Speaker 6: I am a married women.

1379
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 5: Honestly, you said the situation is a little bit different,

1380
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 5: and you know, there's uh they were they have a.

1381
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 6: Child, right, and then there was some health stuff going on.

1382
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Speaker 5: But I do feel like the first i'd say almost

1383
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 5: two years of being postpartum as a woman is already

1384
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 5: just extremely difficult, and I think it's difficult for both

1385
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 5: parties right, Like you're not gonna connect as much. You're

1386
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 5: not going to feel the same as you did, like

1387
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 5: you know when you first met or even when you

1388
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 5: first like got married or whatever. It might be just

1389
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Speaker 5: because there's so much going on the first year for sure,

1390
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Speaker 5: but I almost extended to two years of post baby life.

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Speaker 6: Life is different.

1392
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 5: They're going through a lot of stuff right now too,

1393
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:38,919
Speaker 5: and they did with their own child. So I feel

1394
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Speaker 5: like if both parties want to, like exactly like in

1395
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 5: therapy discussed this, do you want to be in this relationship?

1396
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 1: Do you want to work through this?

1397
00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 5: Because if you don't, then one person's already out the

1398
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:52,680
Speaker 5: door or whatever, then I would say this isn't gonna work.

1399
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Speaker 5: But I feel like it's so hard when you are

1400
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Speaker 5: freshly postpartum to really like make that choice right or

1401
00:59:58,040 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 5: to feel like, oh, do I want to be in

1402
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 5: this relationship or because they say it's the hardest.

1403
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 6: The challenges relationships and marriages a lot, and.

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Speaker 2: They were having problems beforehand, and I think she's just

1405
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:07,480
Speaker 2: looking for some effort.

1406
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 1: It's interesting.

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01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, that's hard if you're already having

1408
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 2: existing issues. We know, kids don't fix anything, They make

1409
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 2: them more difficulty.

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01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Like, the problem was there, and

1411
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 1: then they introduce a kid, and then you introduce some

1412
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:21,920
Speaker 1: of the biological things that occur anyway, and then on

1413
01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 1: top of that you introduce the stress of the kid

1414
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Speaker 1: being early and those challenges.

1415
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say, like you said, have a conversation

1416
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 2: where it's just a blacker white question do you want

1417
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 2: to save this? You know, and both parties answer, And

1418
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 2: then if there is no emotional or physical abuse, I say,

1419
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 2: then try to maybe work through it a little bit more,

1420
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 2: because it would be a very difficult time to go

1421
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 2: through a separation as well, and it is hard on

1422
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 2: both parties. But she said that getting to the end

1423
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 2: of the year even sounds difficult for her right now,

1424
01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 2: which makes me wonder, you know what else is going on?

1425
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, hello, good morning, Hi young, good morning. So you

1426
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 1: heard this scenario and stare go and you're saying stay, Why.

1427
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 10: I say stay? So my husband and I are actually

1428
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 10: going through almost the exact same thing. Like it's crazy

1429
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:15,680
Speaker 10: and insane how many couples are going through this right now.

1430
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 10: So what's helping us is actually reading that book the

1431
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 10: Five Love Languages, YEA, the popular one, and it teaches

1432
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 10: people what your partner's language might be, and it could

1433
01:01:26,960 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 10: be like two different languages, like he's thinking one and

1434
01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 10: she's speaking another, and they're just not on the same page.

1435
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 10: So getting an insight like that and actually writing something

1436
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 10: down like Okay, well this would make me feel loved

1437
01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 10: or this would make me feel hurt or open, and

1438
01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 10: then they both do the same thing and it's like,

1439
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 10: oh okay, something might click and they understand each other better.

1440
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 10: And the whole thing with the baby and the nick you,

1441
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 10: we actually had that too, and it's really hard and

1442
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 10: having a new baby it puts so much stress on

1443
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 10: a relationship. But you have to like try and look

1444
01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 10: at all your options to see what helps you guys

1445
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:02,440
Speaker 10: reconnect and understand each other because communication is so important

1446
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 10: and if they're like speaking totally different languages towards each other,

1447
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 10: it's never gonna help.

1448
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: The love language thing is temporarily better to your points

1449
01:02:10,720 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 1: you and the love language thing is really impactful because

1450
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:15,920
Speaker 1: you're right. I mean, I could be communicating, you know

1451
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 1: in a way, or I could be sharing my affection

1452
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:21,120
Speaker 1: with you in a way that isn't as useful as

1453
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:22,080
Speaker 1: a different way.

1454
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 8: You know.

1455
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:25,280
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm a gift giver, or maybe I'm a time

1456
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 1: spent person in your words of affirmation person and so

1457
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 1: here I think I'm putting in the effort, but it's

1458
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: not landing with you. It's not resonating with you the

1459
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 1: way I wanted to because I'm not connecting with you

1460
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 1: in a way that would be more productive.

1461
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 10: Yes, it's so real. How that is like that my

1462
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 10: husband and I were completely different too, So like we're

1463
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 10: trying so hard I have to like we're ready to

1464
01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 10: post it notes now like I felt this such and

1465
01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:50,919
Speaker 10: such way, and then it will come back to it later.

1466
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 10: Because he's a talker and he's the more the physical

1467
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 10: touch that I think most guys are, and I'm the

1468
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 10: quality time type of person. So it's they might just

1469
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 10: have very different things. So I think she should stay

1470
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 10: for now and really look at all the options. So

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01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 10: I'm curious to know if the therapist that they've been

1472
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:09,439
Speaker 10: going to even suggest to that or you know, brought

1473
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 10: something like that to their attention.

1474
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:12,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Jen, I appreciate it, and I hope

1475
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 1: everything gets better. I think, yeah, glad you called it.

1476
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: And there are a few people on the text saying

1477
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,360
Speaker 1: and you do hear this sometimes like if things are

1478
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 1: going so poorly, then why have a child? Well, I

1479
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 1: mean there are lots of variables there, like did they

1480
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 1: mean to have the child? And then yeah, this sir,

1481
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 1: I've heard of scenarios where things are going terribly and

1482
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 1: it's like, well, let's let's make a kid and then

1483
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: that'll bring us closer together. Now that's not necessarily great logic.

1484
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:36,959
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't say let's add a really really

1485
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 1: stressful element to something that's already not working. But I

1486
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, I think there are people that

1487
01:03:41,960 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 1: just relationships are hard. And I'm saying this mostly based

1488
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:50,240
Speaker 1: on what I know what I'm not firsthand, but relationship.

1489
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 1: I think we would all agree relationships are hard, and

1490
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 1: so I think maybe some people just assume that it's

1491
01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 1: going to be challenging and then they still go about

1492
01:03:57,360 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 1: their goals of creating a family, and maybe maybe for her,

1493
01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 1: the idea of divorcing him really wasn't on the forefront

1494
01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 1: until recently, you know. So it's like, well, I'm not

1495
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:07,640
Speaker 1: going to leave him, We're going to work through this.

1496
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 1: It's a hard time, we're going to get past it.

1497
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 1: But then as issues compound, it gets worse. So I

1498
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 1: don't know that it's as simple as why go and

1499
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 1: have a kid when things aren't going well. I don't

1500
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: know that that. I don't know. We don't know enough

1501
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: to say if that was the logic or not. Hey Emily,

1502
01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 1: Hey hi Emily, you hear this day? Orgo? What do

1503
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:29,440
Speaker 1: you think? I think that she needs to.

1504
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 15: Take all the energy she's spending up worrying about her

1505
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 15: marriage and everything else and just focus on the child.

1506
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 1: They didn't.

1507
01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 15: It doesn't sound like they were in a solid place

1508
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:41,560
Speaker 15: before the child. It's not going to get better. And like, honestly,

1509
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 15: she didn't list any reason for being with him, you know,

1510
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 15: and I yours can It could be she needs health

1511
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:52,000
Speaker 15: insurance or X y Z, but it's like, you know, why,

1512
01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:53,880
Speaker 15: just want to enhance your life, not the one that's

1513
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 15: going to make it more stressful.

1514
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:57,480
Speaker 1: Well, in fairness, if she's going to do that, Emily,

1515
01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 1: if she's not, if she's just going to sort of

1516
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 1: abandoned any effort towards the relationship, then she should leave

1517
01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:04,120
Speaker 1: it right because that's not going to help anything. If

1518
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: she just says, all right, I'm going to pretending this

1519
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 1: guy's not even there and focus on my kid, well,

1520
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 1: then then leave right.

1521
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 15: Oh yeah, I said, leave like she pokes from having

1522
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 15: healthy relationship and just focus on the child.

1523
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because yeah, Okay, I get what you're saying.

1524
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 1: Thank you, Emily. Here, have a good day. Yeah, fine,

1525
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 1: glad you called. Hey Katie, Hi, Katie, Hi, are you hi?

1526
01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:28,360
Speaker 1: Good morning? So sadly you've been in this situation, but

1527
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 1: you're saying stay.

1528
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 16: Yes, absolutely would tell me mom. So we so we

1529
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 16: have my husband and I have been together or we've

1530
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 16: been married for ten years together almost fourteen, four kids,

1531
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 16: lots of stress. We almost lost our two months or

1532
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 16: our baby when she was two months old at TURFB,

1533
01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:52,800
Speaker 16: so we were at the university for a few weeks.

1534
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 16: We just dealt with a two months stay at Riley

1535
01:05:57,560 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 16: with my nine year old for crones. Okay, So we've

1536
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 16: had a lot of a lot of stressful situations with

1537
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 16: our kids health wise, Money's tight. We both work full time,

1538
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 16: but supporting four kids is difficult. But you're going to

1539
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 16: have a lot of these stressful situations in your marriage

1540
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 16: and you kind of just have to look at each

1541
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 16: other and say is it worth it? And you just

1542
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 16: have to stop and say, you know, I love you,

1543
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 16: you love me. At the end of the day, that's

1544
01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 16: all we need. We're going to just work through it.

1545
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean it takes a lot of strength.

1546
01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:32,200
Speaker 10: You know.

1547
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 1: There are people saying in the text. One says, does

1548
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 1: he do have his half of the parenting? If he

1549
01:06:37,400 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 1: doesn't now, he never will. Do you think that's true?

1550
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 1: I mean, is it if the effort is there? I mean,

1551
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:44,440
Speaker 1: is that what we're looking for. We're looking for the effort.

1552
01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:49,160
Speaker 16: Even if we disconnect, You're you're going to put into

1553
01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 16: it what you want to put into it. So if

1554
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 16: he's not wanting to put that effort towards it, then

1555
01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:56,920
Speaker 16: maybe stop and you know, look at what you are

1556
01:06:56,960 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 16: dealing with. But I mean, it's a fifty thing, especially

1557
01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 16: when you have kids and when you're both working. Everyone

1558
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 16: has to work now, and if he's not putting toward

1559
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 16: his effort and he hasn't, then you kind of need to,

1560
01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:13,959
Speaker 16: you know, look at that and say, maybe this isn't

1561
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 16: worth it.

1562
01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:16,280
Speaker 1: She did say his effort is lacking.

1563
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 2: That's what she told me, and she's asked multiple times

1564
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 2: she feels like she's putting in more effort for the relationship.

1565
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:24,160
Speaker 1: Then yes, well.

1566
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:26,959
Speaker 16: Then I mean you can have that conversation with him,

1567
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 16: and if he doesn't seem to get it, then that

1568
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:33,439
Speaker 16: would definitely be something that I would kind of look

1569
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:34,520
Speaker 16: into a little bit further.

1570
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 1: Well, Katie, thank you for listening, for sharing and good luck.

1571
01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:38,680
Speaker 10: Thank you you too.

1572
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a good day. And again, you know,

1573
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:43,760
Speaker 1: if he were unwilling to get any sort of outside help,

1574
01:07:43,840 --> 01:07:46,840
Speaker 1: be it you know, therapy or faith based or whatever

1575
01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 1: it is, then you could say, well, maybe he's depressed

1576
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 1: or he has some sort of something going on with

1577
01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 1: him that if that's rectified, then that might improve the situation.

1578
01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 1: Because sometimes, you know, you can get in your own

1579
01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 1: head to where everything seems daunting and then you're not

1580
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 1: really maybe feeling like you're being productive or valuable to anyone.

1581
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:05,960
Speaker 1: But it sounds like he's done some of that, so

1582
01:08:06,160 --> 01:08:09,200
Speaker 1: he has made an effort. I don't know how much,

1583
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 1: but it's not as though he's living this way and

1584
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:13,440
Speaker 1: then saying why, well, I'm not going to do anything

1585
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:18,480
Speaker 1: about it, which we do here sometimes in this thing. Hey, Laurie,

1586
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:21,200
Speaker 1: you went through something similar and you say go. We've

1587
01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 1: had stay and we've had go from people who know this. Unfortunately,

1588
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:29,840
Speaker 1: why why go? Because he's not going to change, and

1589
01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 1: how do we.

1590
01:08:30,280 --> 01:08:36,360
Speaker 8: Know we can? Well, I went through it. I hope

1591
01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 8: that when they hurse that when the baby came, he

1592
01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:44,680
Speaker 8: would step up, you know, be there. And he was

1593
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 8: sometimes sometimes he was great, and then he would go

1594
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,040
Speaker 8: back to doing what he wanted to do and not

1595
01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:51,679
Speaker 8: be in there.

1596
01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:52,759
Speaker 12: And it was fighting.

1597
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:57,479
Speaker 8: And I tried to five years to make it work.

1598
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 8: But the same thing, he'll get you know, he's going

1599
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 8: to step up, He's going to step up. He was

1600
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 8: a great guy.

1601
01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:05,720
Speaker 6: He's still a great guy.

1602
01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 8: We're still friends. We co parents died together. But the

1603
01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:16,599
Speaker 8: unhappiness never went away. We tried, you know, working it out,

1604
01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 8: and we tried working it out, and he would get

1605
01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:20,680
Speaker 8: better for a little bit, and then he would just

1606
01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:25,720
Speaker 8: clide right back into his ways of doing what he

1607
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,800
Speaker 8: wanted to do, and he was a great husband and

1608
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:30,760
Speaker 8: a great father when he wanted to be.

1609
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 1: So no consistence, but I count on him.

1610
01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 8: No consistency.

1611
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 1: Well, Laurie, I'm sorry, but I appreciate the perspective. Have

1612
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 1: a good day you too. I'm not sure we've helped

1613
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:42,200
Speaker 1: much because you get a lot of people who've been

1614
01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 1: through this calling in and it's about fifty to fifty go, stay, go.

1615
01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:48,559
Speaker 1: I'm looking at all these right now, at a lot

1616
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 1: of go uh and then a lot of stay. You've

1617
01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 1: committed almost nine years to this so or ten years

1618
01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 1: to this, so you got to stick with it. You

1619
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 1: got to write it out and you got a lot

1620
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:03,760
Speaker 1: of this. Love is not all you need. Yeah, yeah,

1621
01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:06,599
Speaker 1: do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

1622
01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:08,720
Speaker 11: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown?

1623
01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:15,720
Speaker 1: Hoby, Hi, showbiz, Hey, good morning. All right, we got

1624
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:20,360
Speaker 1: good money, we got a tiebreaker, we got Jade Hi, Jane, Hello, Joe?

1625
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 1: All right, you both got five yesterday? Right, Yeah, boy,

1626
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:28,599
Speaker 1: let's go on for it. Yeah, Jane knows her stuff here,

1627
01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 1: but five questions a tiebreaker this morning? Eight hundred and

1628
01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:34,799
Speaker 1: fifty bucks is the price one thousand and seventy six wins?

1629
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 1: Only seventy four losses. You guys ready, yes, good enough? Jade,

1630
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 1: all right, you gotta go off. She goes to the

1631
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:46,000
Speaker 1: sound booth poop. She cannot hear the questions, uh one

1632
01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:47,720
Speaker 1: radio Joe, Well no, I think it's I don't know

1633
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 1: you want to speakerphone or something, because I hear myself

1634
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:55,600
Speaker 1: real time. I'm not I know I hear myself. Some

1635
01:10:55,760 --> 01:11:01,920
Speaker 1: decided to nurse Shenanigans. Are you yeah? What's going on here?

1636
01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: Are you playing this right? Anyway? Which star of the

1637
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:09,360
Speaker 1: Bear and Deliver Me from Nowhere said he just graduated

1638
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 1: high school at the age of thirty four. Jeremy Allen White,

1639
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:15,519
Speaker 1: Katy Perry and her new man made their first planned

1640
01:11:15,560 --> 01:11:18,120
Speaker 1: public appearance in Paris over the weekend. Who is she dating?

1641
01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 1: Justin the summer? I turned pretty Star? Lola Tongue is

1642
01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:25,840
Speaker 1: twenty three today? On which streaming service? Would you find

1643
01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:29,840
Speaker 1: that show video? It looks like Megan Fox and Machine

1644
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:32,800
Speaker 1: Gun Kelly maybe back together? Did they recently welcome a

1645
01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:34,000
Speaker 1: baby boy or girl?

1646
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 12: Girl?

1647
01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:39,200
Speaker 1: And Kim Kardashian says she's close to becoming a practicing lawyer,

1648
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 1: following in the footsteps of her dad. Who is Kim's

1649
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:47,320
Speaker 1: late father, Robert Kardashian. That's another five. Another one, My goodness,

1650
01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:52,400
Speaker 1: Oh boy, here she comes showing another five. Stop. I

1651
01:11:52,439 --> 01:11:55,080
Speaker 1: will stop. I refuse to stop. I will never stop.

1652
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:58,400
Speaker 1: Are you ready? Yeah? We may be doing this for

1653
01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:00,559
Speaker 1: a while. Which star of the Bear and Deliver Me

1654
01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 1: from Nowhere said he just graduated high school at the

1655
01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:06,759
Speaker 1: age of thirty four, Jeremy Allen Way. Yeah. Katy Perry

1656
01:12:06,760 --> 01:12:09,280
Speaker 1: and her new man made their first planned public appearance

1657
01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:13,360
Speaker 1: in Paris over the weekend. Who is she dating Justin Trudeau? Yeah,

1658
01:12:13,400 --> 01:12:16,040
Speaker 1: the summer I turned pretty star Lola Tongue is twenty

1659
01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:23,160
Speaker 1: three today on which streaming service would you find that show? Threeeks? No? No,

1660
01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:31,719
Speaker 1: it's Prime. No, it looks like Megan Fox and Machine

1661
01:12:31,920 --> 01:12:34,080
Speaker 1: Kelly maybe back together. Did they recently welcome a boy

1662
01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 1: or a girl? A girl? It was a girl? And

1663
01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian says she's close to becoming a practicing lawyer,

1664
01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:42,719
Speaker 1: following in the footsteps of her dad. Who is Kim's

1665
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 1: late father, Robert kardash Yeah, but that's the four that

1666
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 1: is afore. I'm sorry you did not win, Jane. You

1667
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:55,040
Speaker 1: won Jay eight hundred and fifty bucks.

1668
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:55,559
Speaker 9: Yeah, you.

1669
01:12:57,040 --> 01:13:00,920
Speaker 1: So, I'm so excited. That's good. Thirty dollars an hour.

1670
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:08,760
Speaker 1: That's way better seventy five, I think, Shelley, you have

1671
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 1: to say, my name is Shelley. I got showed up

1672
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:12,680
Speaker 1: in my own darn game. I got showed up on

1673
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:16,759
Speaker 1: the showdown by Jade. Yeah, and Jade, you can hang

1674
01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:25,320
Speaker 1: with real cato cats, cat cats, boobs cats, boo boom

1675
01:13:25,360 --> 01:13:28,840
Speaker 1: cat cat. Jade is really good at this boobs cat,

1676
01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 1: boo cat cats, boots cat cat cats. I know that

1677
01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:36,760
Speaker 1: was beautiful boots and cats. That was one of the

1678
01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 1: worst boots and cats in my life. It was really terrible.

1679
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 1: I'm dizzy from it. Actually, I'll work on it. Yeah,

1680
01:13:44,880 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 1: there was no synchronosity. There is that the worst synchronized.

1681
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:49,920
Speaker 12: Boy.

1682
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:55,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy Jade, I'm a little dizzy still. I'm a

1683
01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 1: little great out. Hey, hang on a second, Jade, have

1684
01:13:57,840 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 1: a good day.

1685
01:13:59,280 --> 01:13:59,840
Speaker 6: Thank you too.

1686
01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 1: Enjoy your money, Shelley. She was good.

1687
01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:03,519
Speaker 6: That's over with.

1688
01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:07,400
Speaker 1: Actually she was good though, she was really good. So

1689
01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:10,120
Speaker 1: it's one hundred bucks tomorrow. I want what she won?

1690
01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:11,759
Speaker 6: Eight like eight hundred dollars, he said.

1691
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:14,760
Speaker 1: Eight fifty eight fifteen cent got the fifty okay, yeah, no,

1692
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: that's a big deal eight hundred and fifty bucks. That's

1693
01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,080
Speaker 1: she got to end one hundred bucks tomorrow. We'll do

1694
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: it again. Have a good day show, right you too? Bye? Okay,

1695
01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:23,840
Speaker 1: but yeah, she was really good. It was gonna be

1696
01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:25,680
Speaker 1: five after five. I think for a while. Let's do

1697
01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:28,479
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone, The Fun Fact, the Entertainer Report,

1698
01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:32,479
Speaker 1: headlines and more. Next on the Fread Show. More Pread Show. Next,

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Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you. You did a good show.

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Speaker 1: You were nervous. You did a great show. That's gonna

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Speaker 1: be nervous about it. We're a bunch of clowns. It's

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Speaker 1: all good. You guys are unkinged today and I'm so

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Speaker 1: here for It's really becoming that way. Thank you, Jackie.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day. Fred's Show is on just that

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Speaker 1: day or I think it's just sort of every day

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Speaker 1: now is all the day? Is fun together. It's Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: October twenty eighth. Good morning, The Fred Show is on.

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01:15:35,240 --> 01:15:39,320
Speaker 1: Hi Caitlin, Hello, Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina. Kiky's back

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Speaker 1: on Friday. Bella means here to show. This is Shelley

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01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:44,400
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted? Will

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Speaker 1: investigate headlines, the biggest stories of the day, fun fact

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01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:50,360
Speaker 1: and the Entertainment Report this hour, what are you working on?

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Speaker 2: is a new band, Paulina, that you're going to be

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01:15:56,960 --> 01:15:59,439
Speaker 2: a fan of based on what they pass out during

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Speaker 2: their shows to the crowd.

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01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:02,679
Speaker 1: Oh I saw this, brilliant.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

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01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 1: It's The Fred Show. Hey Teddy, good morning, Welcome to

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01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:11,800
Speaker 1: the program. How are you?

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01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:13,160
Speaker 9: I'm doing all right?

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01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:15,600
Speaker 1: How are you doing doing? Okay? Man? What's going on

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01:16:15,680 --> 01:16:17,880
Speaker 1: with this woman? Lesa? It's waiting by the phone. We're

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01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:20,599
Speaker 1: trying to figure out if you've been ghosted. It sounds

1734
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:22,960
Speaker 1: like maybe you have, but we need the backstory. How

1735
01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:25,080
Speaker 1: did you meet Lisa? Tell us about any dates you've

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01:16:25,080 --> 01:16:26,559
Speaker 1: been on, and then where things are now?

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01:16:27,080 --> 01:16:29,720
Speaker 9: So we met on Hinge and I asked her out

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01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:34,160
Speaker 9: to dinner and we went out. She was even hotter, funnier,

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01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:36,559
Speaker 9: hitt in person than she was when we were texting.

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01:16:37,760 --> 01:16:40,080
Speaker 9: We had a great time, I thought, and we were

1741
01:16:40,120 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 9: planning date number two, but then she just sort of disappeared.

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01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:46,519
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Okay, and you look back on

1743
01:16:46,560 --> 01:16:48,640
Speaker 1: this date, I ask everybody, but you look back on

1744
01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:51,240
Speaker 1: this date and everything went well. I mean you left

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01:16:51,280 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 1: the date feeling pretty good about where things stood. Hey,

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01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:56,600
Speaker 1: I'm we're gonna go out again, Like I'm going to

1747
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:59,360
Speaker 1: reach out and she's going to be interested. The chemistry

1748
01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:02,439
Speaker 1: was there, conversation was there, and everything. Yeah.

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01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:05,680
Speaker 9: I mean, like I said, she was funny. I was

1750
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 9: actually really laughing a lot, and I was having a

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01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:10,640
Speaker 9: great time and she seemed like she was.

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01:17:10,640 --> 01:17:13,040
Speaker 1: Too, okay because the mood's light, you know. So then

1753
01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:15,800
Speaker 1: what could possibly have gone wrong? I've said that many

1754
01:17:15,840 --> 01:17:19,799
Speaker 1: times too, and then and then I find out But okay, well, Teddy,

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01:17:19,920 --> 01:17:22,880
Speaker 1: let's play a song. We'll come back and we'll call Lisa.

1756
01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:24,680
Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We'll ask these questions on

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01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:26,519
Speaker 1: your behalf, and you know, the hope is that we

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01:17:26,560 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 1: can figure out what's going on. It's possible that she

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01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:31,120
Speaker 1: has something on her end and we can straighten things out.

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Speaker 1: I've sent you guys have one another date that we

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01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 1: paid for. Sound good? Yeah?

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Speaker 15: Good?

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01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 1: Hey, Teddy? Yeah, all right, let's call Lisa. You guys met,

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01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: you went on a date. You thought the date went great,

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01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:44,880
Speaker 1: tales so oldest time. Hello, But you have not heard

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01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 1: from Lisa since the date, and you're puzzled. You're disappointed.

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01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:50,759
Speaker 1: You want to know why. Yeah, exactly.

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01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 9: I mean I've reached out to her, but she hasn't responded.

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01:17:53,880 --> 01:17:55,559
Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's call Lisa and see if we can

1770
01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 1: get her on the phone and figured this out. Good luck, Teddy, Okay,

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01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:09,439
Speaker 1: he Hi is Lisa? Yeah, Lisa, Hi, good morning. It's Fred.

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01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:11,559
Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,

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01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:13,240
Speaker 1: the morning radio show. I have to tell you that

1774
01:18:13,280 --> 01:18:14,960
Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now, and I would

1775
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:17,280
Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can reach

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01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:22,880
Speaker 1: out for just a second. Okay, all right, well, thank you.

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01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:25,680
Speaker 1: That's that was Yes, I like it we're calling on

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01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:28,719
Speaker 1: We have of a guy named Teddy, and he reached

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01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 1: out to us so that I guess you guys matched

1780
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 1: on an app or something, and and recently went on

1781
01:18:32,400 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 1: a date that he felt went really well. But he

1782
01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:37,080
Speaker 1: says he's reached out to you since the date and

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01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:40,120
Speaker 1: you haven't responded. He's puzzled. Why is why are you

1784
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:42,080
Speaker 1: not responding to uh? To Teddy?

1785
01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:47,120
Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, this is awkward.

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01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:57,280
Speaker 4: I mean, Teddy is okay, I'm I'm just not I'm

1787
01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:00,160
Speaker 4: just not interested, all right, I'm just but there there's

1788
01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:00,400
Speaker 4: more to.

1789
01:19:00,439 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 1: This story though, there's more to this story. Why are

1790
01:19:03,439 --> 01:19:05,920
Speaker 1: you not interested? Like, here's the thing. Maybe I don't

1791
01:19:05,920 --> 01:19:07,320
Speaker 1: know if you've ever been ghosted, maybe you never been

1792
01:19:07,320 --> 01:19:09,320
Speaker 1: ghosted before. But he feels like he's being ghosted. It's

1793
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:11,479
Speaker 1: bugging him. He kind of wants some closure if you're

1794
01:19:11,479 --> 01:19:13,559
Speaker 1: not going to go out with him again, So can

1795
01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:16,040
Speaker 1: you tell us what happened or why why you've changed

1796
01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:16,800
Speaker 1: your mind about him?

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01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:17,599
Speaker 10: Okay?

1798
01:19:17,640 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 17: So Teddy basically asks his mom for permission to do

1799
01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 17: absolutely everything.

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01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:26,479
Speaker 1: Okay, well what does that mean? Like give me an example?

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01:19:28,200 --> 01:19:32,200
Speaker 17: Okay, all right, So when we first matched, he he

1802
01:19:32,240 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 17: and I started talking.

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01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 10: It felt cool.

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01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:38,720
Speaker 17: And then I remember right when we started talking, he

1805
01:19:39,200 --> 01:19:41,760
Speaker 17: was just like, oh, I don't know what I want

1806
01:19:41,800 --> 01:19:42,560
Speaker 17: to eat.

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01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:44,759
Speaker 6: And he'd like, you know what, I need.

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01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:45,760
Speaker 17: To call my mom and ask her.

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01:19:45,960 --> 01:19:47,000
Speaker 10: I need calling that.

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01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:49,680
Speaker 17: No, And I was just I was like, all right,

1811
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:52,920
Speaker 17: in truth, jan but okay, kind of cute, like he

1812
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:54,280
Speaker 17: wants to call his mom.

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01:19:54,360 --> 01:19:54,760
Speaker 1: I don't know.

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01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 17: I just was like all right. Then when we were

1815
01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:00,439
Speaker 17: trying to figure out when and where to meet for

1816
01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:03,320
Speaker 17: the date, he made another comment and he was like, oh,

1817
01:20:03,439 --> 01:20:05,519
Speaker 17: I wanted I want to check. I want to check

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01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:08,679
Speaker 17: to see if my mom, you know, if we're committing

1819
01:20:08,720 --> 01:20:12,920
Speaker 17: before we're committing to anything. And I'm like, okay, I mean,

1820
01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:15,680
Speaker 17: I'll just give you the benefit of the doubt. You know,

1821
01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:18,519
Speaker 17: maybe you had plans, like maybe he just kind of

1822
01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 17: had plans with his mom or something, and you know,

1823
01:20:21,200 --> 01:20:24,599
Speaker 17: that was that. So I didn't really say anything. And

1824
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:28,200
Speaker 17: then my final straw was when we were on the

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01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:30,800
Speaker 17: date and towards the end of the date, I was like,

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01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:33,840
Speaker 17: we're like finishing up dinner and I was like, hey,

1827
01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:36,680
Speaker 17: actually I have an extra ticket to this concert the

1828
01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:38,840
Speaker 17: following week, and I don't know if he wanted to

1829
01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:40,719
Speaker 17: come with me, and he's like, oh, yeah, sounds fun.

1830
01:20:40,960 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 17: You know what, I just need to run by my

1831
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 17: mom really for so.

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01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:47,240
Speaker 1: This dude, he actually it was a good date, like

1833
01:20:47,320 --> 01:20:49,960
Speaker 1: you you were going to overlook that and go out

1834
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:53,160
Speaker 1: with him again. So he didn't actually fumble necessarily. But

1835
01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 1: it turns out that the dude can't even like put

1836
01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:58,280
Speaker 1: his pants on with that asking his mom if that's okay,

1837
01:20:58,320 --> 01:20:59,800
Speaker 1: which is very unattractive. I mean, it's one thing to

1838
01:20:59,840 --> 01:21:01,519
Speaker 1: have a great relationship with your mom. I think that's

1839
01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:05,720
Speaker 1: usually a good sign. But I also, you know, I

1840
01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:07,360
Speaker 1: don't need to ask my mom like where to take

1841
01:21:07,360 --> 01:21:09,120
Speaker 1: you on a date and if I can go to

1842
01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:12,599
Speaker 1: a concert next week. I mean, I'm a grown man, exactly.

1843
01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:13,080
Speaker 1: I was.

1844
01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:15,040
Speaker 17: I was like, this is you know what now, dude

1845
01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:16,799
Speaker 17: like absolutely, if you need to go to the bathroom

1846
01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:18,560
Speaker 17: to check with your mom, Like no, no, this is

1847
01:21:18,600 --> 01:21:19,840
Speaker 17: a lot is a lot.

1848
01:21:19,960 --> 01:21:22,000
Speaker 1: I forgot to mention Lisa that Teddy is here and

1849
01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:26,400
Speaker 1: Teddy's been very quiet throughout this. Teddy, what's it? Why

1850
01:21:26,400 --> 01:21:29,640
Speaker 1: do we Why are we asking mom, you know, for

1851
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:32,880
Speaker 1: permission to go out? Like we're grown ups, we don't

1852
01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:34,280
Speaker 1: have to do that. Anymore.

1853
01:21:34,360 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 9: Okay, So just to be clear, I don't need my

1854
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:40,200
Speaker 9: mom's permission, Like I'm not asking for her permission. I

1855
01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:41,839
Speaker 9: just I like to get her opinion.

1856
01:21:42,560 --> 01:21:43,320
Speaker 12: What do you talk?

1857
01:21:43,479 --> 01:21:47,599
Speaker 17: You ask her for anything, all her opinions before you

1858
01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:48,880
Speaker 17: do anything.

1859
01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:49,760
Speaker 12: Do you not?

1860
01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:51,400
Speaker 9: So what that's not weird?

1861
01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:53,760
Speaker 1: Yeah? No, it is weird. It is weird, Like at

1862
01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:55,960
Speaker 1: some point you have to make decisions for yourself because

1863
01:21:55,960 --> 01:21:57,920
Speaker 1: you're a grown up. I mean I don't. I can't

1864
01:21:57,920 --> 01:21:59,680
Speaker 1: remember the last time I called mom to ask her,

1865
01:22:00,200 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 1: you know, if I can go to a concert next week.

1866
01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:05,480
Speaker 9: So you don't consult your mom on anything.

1867
01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm not on. No, not as it pertains to you know,

1868
01:22:09,160 --> 01:22:11,640
Speaker 1: life issues and decisions that I need to make for myself. No,

1869
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:15,680
Speaker 1: Like my schedule is my schedule. You know what I

1870
01:22:15,680 --> 01:22:17,360
Speaker 1: do with my daisies, my call.

1871
01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:20,160
Speaker 6: You know you don't at your mound with the calendar invite.

1872
01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:22,400
Speaker 1: Well, I mean yes, but that doesn't mean that doesn't

1873
01:22:22,400 --> 01:22:24,720
Speaker 1: mean that she gets a vote. I mean she has

1874
01:22:24,720 --> 01:22:26,200
Speaker 1: a right to know where I am at all times.

1875
01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:29,439
Speaker 1: But other than that, you know, a couple facetimes throughout

1876
01:22:29,439 --> 01:22:33,680
Speaker 1: the date, but other than that, No, that's crazy. Man,

1877
01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:34,559
Speaker 1: you're grown up.

1878
01:22:34,960 --> 01:22:38,240
Speaker 9: I mean, honestly, she I checked in with her before

1879
01:22:38,280 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 9: I even did this. She thought it was a good

1880
01:22:39,800 --> 01:22:40,639
Speaker 9: idea to find.

1881
01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:42,439
Speaker 1: Out your mom told you to come on the radio.

1882
01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 14: Oh yeah, well in that case, you know, Mama's always

1883
01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 14: now we love Mama, get.

1884
01:22:48,200 --> 01:22:51,080
Speaker 1: Out of here on radio. I mean, there is a

1885
01:22:51,120 --> 01:22:55,120
Speaker 1: difference between having a close relationship and being a full

1886
01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:57,559
Speaker 1: on mama's boy. And I think this might be beyond that,

1887
01:22:57,920 --> 01:23:01,120
Speaker 1: This might be another level above and beyond just mama's boy.

1888
01:23:01,680 --> 01:23:03,559
Speaker 1: I mean, because this is like, this is like you

1889
01:23:03,600 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 1: need permission, This is like she still runs your life.

1890
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:10,040
Speaker 9: And I think, yeah, again, I don't I'm not asking

1891
01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:12,840
Speaker 9: for permission. Sometimes she says something's a good idea, and

1892
01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:14,400
Speaker 9: I'm like, I don't know. I just like to get

1893
01:23:14,400 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 9: her input.

1894
01:23:14,840 --> 01:23:17,559
Speaker 2: But why can't you on her own anything Like it's

1895
01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:19,320
Speaker 2: that's not an attractive quality?

1896
01:23:19,439 --> 01:23:21,439
Speaker 1: And why are you telling maybe this is something you

1897
01:23:21,479 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 1: do in you know, in your private life. But I

1898
01:23:24,040 --> 01:23:26,320
Speaker 1: don't know that I would tell everybody that, because again,

1899
01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:30,360
Speaker 1: I think women want a confident, decisive guy who has

1900
01:23:30,400 --> 01:23:33,200
Speaker 1: a good relationship with family, but doesn't need to ask

1901
01:23:33,200 --> 01:23:34,760
Speaker 1: for permission to do basic things.

1902
01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:38,400
Speaker 9: I mean, I guess I'm realizing that now. I mean,

1903
01:23:38,439 --> 01:23:41,040
Speaker 9: I again, I'm not asking for permission, it's just.

1904
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:45,840
Speaker 17: A okay, you're you're asking all the time.

1905
01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:47,360
Speaker 10: This is weird.

1906
01:23:48,479 --> 01:23:49,880
Speaker 9: Checking in, It's just checking in.

1907
01:23:49,960 --> 01:23:51,960
Speaker 1: It's a lot whatever, it is.

1908
01:23:52,600 --> 01:23:54,679
Speaker 17: All right, Well, next time you're going to ask if

1909
01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:55,559
Speaker 17: we should have sex?

1910
01:23:55,840 --> 01:23:56,040
Speaker 1: Is that?

1911
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Speaker 7: Like?

1912
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Speaker 1: What would mom say about that? Do you think you

1913
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Speaker 1: think mom would be in favor?

1914
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Speaker 9: I mean my mom, she's very encouraging of using protection.

1915
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Speaker 1: So I'm glad that mom says it's okay with protection.

1916
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Speaker 1: It's very strange. All right, Look, Lisa, I'll ask the question.

1917
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Speaker 1: I know the answer. It's rhetorical. Would you like to

1918
01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:23,720
Speaker 1: go out with Teddy again? And we'll pay for it.

1919
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Speaker 1: We'll ask Mom first and clear it all with her.

1920
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Speaker 1: This is way too excessive for me. Absolutely not weird. Yeah,

1921
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Speaker 1: not going to work out. Hey, Teddy, Look again, I'm

1922
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Speaker 1: glad that you have a good relationship with your mom.

1923
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Speaker 1: That's a nice thing. I might not tell everybody that

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Speaker 1: I have to ask for her permission to use the

1925
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Speaker 1: bathroom and and that I run every decision by her.

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Speaker 1: I might not share that. I might maybe consider not

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Speaker 1: doing that.

1928
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Speaker 9: I mean, I hear you. I think I'm just gonna

1929
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Speaker 9: not so I'll just say I need to think about it.

1930
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Speaker 1: Right, and then you're going to go to it anyway, Okay,

1931
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Speaker 1: all right, Well whatever flows about. I guess we've really

1932
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Speaker 1: got nowhere here but at Lisa. Thanks for your time, Teddy,

1933
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Speaker 1: good luck to you as well. Camlon's entertainment report and

1934
01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:09,840
Speaker 1: he's on the Bread Show.

1935
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Speaker 2: After those reports surfaced that Brittany acted erratically, Britney spears, Sorry,

1936
01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 2: she's just Brittany to me, but I should tell you

1937
01:25:16,840 --> 01:25:20,200
Speaker 2: which Brittany it is. Britney Spears acted erratically during a

1938
01:25:20,240 --> 01:25:24,920
Speaker 2: recent restaurant outing. The general manager of that restaurant, red Oh,

1939
01:25:25,400 --> 01:25:27,759
Speaker 2: has joined the Chat to defend her. So the manager,

1940
01:25:27,840 --> 01:25:30,920
Speaker 2: Oliver Wynn, said that the claims of odd behavior at

1941
01:25:30,920 --> 01:25:33,880
Speaker 2: his venue are not true. He said she was super

1942
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:35,880
Speaker 2: chill and really nice. She was in and out of

1943
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Speaker 2: the restaurant within an hour. That's a quick meal. She

1944
01:25:39,120 --> 01:25:40,760
Speaker 2: just kind of hung out, She grabbed a bite to

1945
01:25:40,760 --> 01:25:43,080
Speaker 2: eat and left, and he says she didn't even drink.

1946
01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:45,439
Speaker 2: All she got was a Casidia and then she dipped.

1947
01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:49,000
Speaker 2: So that sounds delicious. As for Britney now, she also

1948
01:25:49,479 --> 01:25:50,839
Speaker 2: joined the Chat to defend herself.

1949
01:25:50,840 --> 01:25:53,559
Speaker 1: She said the look alike was not me, okay, so.

1950
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Speaker 2: I don't know about that, and then she hinted that

1951
01:25:55,600 --> 01:25:58,960
Speaker 2: someone else was driving. And then she also included in

1952
01:25:59,040 --> 01:26:01,760
Speaker 2: the post a graphic of Mini Mouse and Daisy Duck

1953
01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:04,719
Speaker 2: and wrote that she feels disrespected and uninspired to create

1954
01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:06,599
Speaker 2: new arc. So that is what she has to say,

1955
01:26:06,960 --> 01:26:09,439
Speaker 2: and that is what the restaurant owner has to say

1956
01:26:09,479 --> 01:26:09,920
Speaker 2: or manager.

1957
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Speaker 10: Rather.

1958
01:26:10,680 --> 01:26:13,479
Speaker 2: Shack is looking for his custom built one hundred and

1959
01:26:13,560 --> 01:26:17,080
Speaker 2: eighty thousand dollars twenty twenty five range rover after it

1960
01:26:17,120 --> 01:26:18,439
Speaker 2: went missing in transit.

1961
01:26:18,640 --> 01:26:20,680
Speaker 1: So this thing is tailored to his.

1962
01:26:21,040 --> 01:26:24,160
Speaker 2: Seven feet frame seven foot frame, I think he's seven

1963
01:26:24,200 --> 01:26:26,439
Speaker 2: to one, which is crazy. And he was shipping it

1964
01:26:26,479 --> 01:26:29,600
Speaker 2: from Georgia to Louisiana, Louisiana. How do I try to

1965
01:26:29,600 --> 01:26:34,280
Speaker 2: say that Louisiana after modifications during transit the vehicle went missing,

1966
01:26:35,080 --> 01:26:38,240
Speaker 2: which again we're stealing things that are very specific, you know,

1967
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Speaker 2: like Napoleon's girls crown or ring or whatever those people

1968
01:26:42,000 --> 01:26:43,640
Speaker 2: stole at the louver, like this is I don't know

1969
01:26:43,680 --> 01:26:46,040
Speaker 2: what is it for parts that they're stealing it they

1970
01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:48,559
Speaker 2: cannot find it, and he is now offering or the

1971
01:26:48,560 --> 01:26:52,519
Speaker 2: dealership is offering a ten thousand dollars reward to lead

1972
01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:57,439
Speaker 2: to the recovery investigator. Investigators say that the company had

1973
01:26:57,479 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 2: some sort of sophisticated cyber attack as opposed to an

1974
01:27:01,439 --> 01:27:05,479
Speaker 2: unsophisticated cyber attack leading to the suv being rerouted or

1975
01:27:05,520 --> 01:27:08,920
Speaker 2: handed off under false pretenses. So he is missing his

1976
01:27:09,000 --> 01:27:13,160
Speaker 2: custom car. That will be very obvious when spotted.

1977
01:27:13,280 --> 01:27:15,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope that you can like move the seat up,

1978
01:27:15,240 --> 01:27:16,920
Speaker 1: you know, because if you're not seven to one, then

1979
01:27:17,160 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a problem. How are you going to

1980
01:27:18,520 --> 01:27:22,640
Speaker 1: drive it? You're gonna need like a I don't know,

1981
01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:26,800
Speaker 1: little six. Yeah, you're right, he like stilts or something

1982
01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:29,479
Speaker 1: to drive his car. That'd be my luck is I'd

1983
01:27:29,479 --> 01:27:31,519
Speaker 1: steal the car that was adapted for like a very

1984
01:27:31,600 --> 01:27:34,320
Speaker 1: very tall or very very short person. The tall might

1985
01:27:34,360 --> 01:27:36,320
Speaker 1: work for me, but that's what I would do. And

1986
01:27:36,439 --> 01:27:37,559
Speaker 1: I would be like, Oh, I'm going to steal this

1987
01:27:37,640 --> 01:27:39,519
Speaker 1: range Rover, Brandy range Rover, and it was like this

1988
01:27:39,640 --> 01:27:42,800
Speaker 1: was made for somebod who's five to one. It's great.

1989
01:27:42,880 --> 01:27:45,400
Speaker 1: Came and drive it and I'm going to jail. Yeah great.

1990
01:27:46,000 --> 01:27:47,400
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know what they plan to do

1991
01:27:47,400 --> 01:27:47,640
Speaker 1: with it.

1992
01:27:47,680 --> 01:27:50,679
Speaker 2: Maybe parts like I said, Country singer James and Rogers

1993
01:27:50,800 --> 01:27:52,720
Speaker 2: is being sued by a fan who says that he

1994
01:27:52,800 --> 01:27:55,479
Speaker 2: threw a full beer can into the crowd, hitting and

1995
01:27:55,520 --> 01:27:59,160
Speaker 2: injuring her. The lawsuit also targets his record label and

1996
01:27:59,280 --> 01:28:02,320
Speaker 2: the beer brand. An appeals court rules it right exactly,

1997
01:28:02,400 --> 01:28:04,800
Speaker 2: Sony Music must stay in the case. And the reason

1998
01:28:04,880 --> 01:28:07,280
Speaker 2: I'm bringing this up is because this case could set

1999
01:28:07,280 --> 01:28:10,479
Speaker 2: a precedent for how artists are held liable for crowd injuries.

2000
01:28:10,760 --> 01:28:13,360
Speaker 2: So what happens is kind of interesting. But the beer

2001
01:28:13,360 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 2: brand's probably like, how did I get I did not

2002
01:28:15,439 --> 01:28:17,920
Speaker 2: decide to throw that into the crowd, But there is

2003
01:28:17,960 --> 01:28:20,280
Speaker 2: something some things that you can give to the crowd

2004
01:28:20,320 --> 01:28:21,320
Speaker 2: that will make them happy.

2005
01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:23,400
Speaker 1: And Paulina, this one is just for you. I have

2006
01:28:23,439 --> 01:28:25,080
Speaker 1: a new band that you're going to be obsessed with.

2007
01:28:25,320 --> 01:28:28,120
Speaker 2: They are called They're based in Nashville, your favorite place

2008
01:28:28,200 --> 01:28:31,559
Speaker 2: music city. They are called Arts Fishing Club, and they

2009
01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:34,759
Speaker 2: went viral after a recent show at the Boogeyman Festival

2010
01:28:34,760 --> 01:28:37,439
Speaker 2: in South Carolina. While the rest of the band they

2011
01:28:37,439 --> 01:28:40,960
Speaker 2: were rocking out in Dad's style outfits, so like cargo shorts,

2012
01:28:41,000 --> 01:28:44,759
Speaker 2: tube socks, they had a dedicated grill master on stage,

2013
01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:48,000
Speaker 2: flipping hot dogs and tossing them into the crowd wrapped

2014
01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:50,519
Speaker 2: in foil for mess controls got a guitar.

2015
01:28:50,760 --> 01:28:52,840
Speaker 1: One guy's got you know, like whatever. And then there's

2016
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Speaker 1: a dude playing the grill.

2017
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Speaker 5: He's playing the girl that is a business model that

2018
01:28:58,360 --> 01:29:01,840
Speaker 5: we need more of. Literally, So in between songs, yeah,

2019
01:29:01,960 --> 01:29:04,960
Speaker 5: you get your hot dog and you can enjoy show.

2020
01:29:05,240 --> 01:29:07,439
Speaker 5: I love that and I love my hot dogs right right,

2021
01:29:07,600 --> 01:29:08,720
Speaker 5: you lie and I you have one.

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01:29:08,880 --> 01:29:09,400
Speaker 6: It's a lie.

2023
01:29:09,439 --> 01:29:10,960
Speaker 1: I E one a year, No, I E one week.

2024
01:29:11,439 --> 01:29:15,519
Speaker 1: I love a dog. Do you eat the Chicago style

2025
01:29:15,680 --> 01:29:18,360
Speaker 1: that has all the accoutermond because I think it's a

2026
01:29:18,400 --> 01:29:21,200
Speaker 1: perfect combination of food. I really do. I think they

2027
01:29:21,280 --> 01:29:23,040
Speaker 1: nailed it. A lot of people think it's too much.

2028
01:29:23,280 --> 01:29:26,280
Speaker 6: No, it's a great it's a great thing. I am sick.

2029
01:29:26,720 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 6: It's a great thing. I'm sick.

2030
01:29:27,960 --> 01:29:30,000
Speaker 5: And I put everything on there and I loaded. This

2031
01:29:30,040 --> 01:29:33,599
Speaker 5: is really gross with relish, like I just like loaded.

2032
01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:36,480
Speaker 5: And then I put like a picklejlapinios everything.

2033
01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:38,400
Speaker 1: That's that's basically Chicago style. No, but like I do

2034
01:29:38,479 --> 01:29:42,720
Speaker 1: ketchup a mustard yeah, bad girl. Wow, nobody puts his

2035
01:29:42,720 --> 01:29:46,800
Speaker 1: pa ketchup on that's are you a psychopath. Okay, no

2036
01:29:46,880 --> 01:29:49,320
Speaker 1: said one of everything, And if you're unfamiliar, the Chicago

2037
01:29:49,439 --> 01:29:51,840
Speaker 1: style would be the Vienna beef hot dog. And then

2038
01:29:51,840 --> 01:29:54,120
Speaker 1: you would have the celery salt. You would have the

2039
01:29:55,040 --> 01:29:58,719
Speaker 1: neon green relish like it's no color found in nature,

2040
01:29:58,840 --> 01:30:03,160
Speaker 1: no at all, even though it is a vegetable originally.

2041
01:30:03,960 --> 01:30:06,679
Speaker 1: And then you would have mustard, you would have sports peppers,

2042
01:30:06,720 --> 01:30:10,080
Speaker 1: you would have tomatoes and a pickle spear. I believe

2043
01:30:10,080 --> 01:30:12,240
Speaker 1: I got everything. Do you put onions on a Chicago style?

2044
01:30:12,240 --> 01:30:15,200
Speaker 1: I can't remember, I don't think. So, whatever the case,

2045
01:30:15,640 --> 01:30:18,280
Speaker 1: Polina ro does, Okay, well then that's no longer. That's

2046
01:30:18,320 --> 01:30:21,240
Speaker 1: your style, yeah, Paulina, and it's the one of everything.

2047
01:30:21,640 --> 01:30:23,080
Speaker 6: I just love loading it up.

2048
01:30:23,160 --> 01:30:25,320
Speaker 5: It's so good and then when it like drips off

2049
01:30:25,360 --> 01:30:26,639
Speaker 5: and then you're like, what are.

2050
01:30:26,600 --> 01:30:29,880
Speaker 1: We talking about? That we are still talking about a

2051
01:30:30,000 --> 01:30:32,400
Speaker 1: little hungry. Shout out to Arts Fishing Club and shout

2052
01:30:32,400 --> 01:30:34,840
Speaker 1: out to us. If you want a hot dog, hot dogs.

2053
01:30:34,840 --> 01:30:36,200
Speaker 2: If you want to catch up on anything from the

2054
01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:38,040
Speaker 2: show today or any day, take the Fred Show on

2055
01:30:38,040 --> 01:30:39,800
Speaker 2: Demands on the Free iHeartRadio.

2056
01:30:40,200 --> 01:30:44,760
Speaker 11: The Fread Show is on Fread's Fun Fact fredge Fund.

2057
01:30:50,200 --> 01:30:53,160
Speaker 1: Learn so much. It's been hard for me without Kiki

2058
01:30:53,240 --> 01:30:54,760
Speaker 1: here to like go through the rest of my day

2059
01:30:54,760 --> 01:30:56,800
Speaker 1: knowing if she would validate my fun fact, like if

2060
01:30:56,840 --> 01:30:59,679
Speaker 1: she thought it was good enough or non. However, did

2061
01:30:59,760 --> 01:31:05,240
Speaker 1: you know that turtles can breathe through their butts? What

2062
01:31:05,640 --> 01:31:11,880
Speaker 1: their butts? Yes, their booty. Turtles can breathe through their

2063
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Speaker 1: butts during winter hibernation. Some turtles use cloacal respiration coloical respiration,

2064
01:31:19,360 --> 01:31:23,240
Speaker 1: absorbing oxygen through their back end, so it goes in.

2065
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Speaker 1: I can do I can breathe out with mine. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's something that I knew but didn't need to be

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Speaker 11: Yeah, they talk better than these are the radio blogs

2077
01:32:05,439 --> 01:32:07,599
Speaker 11: on the Fresh Show like for running in our diaries,

2078
01:32:07,640 --> 01:32:08,679
Speaker 11: except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs. I'm going to take this one,

2080
01:32:10,160 --> 01:32:11,840
Speaker 1: dear blog. So you guys, if you've been listening for

2081
01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:13,840
Speaker 1: a little while, then you know I volunteer for an

2082
01:32:13,880 --> 01:32:17,479
Speaker 1: organization called Pilots and Pause, and I'm a pilot and

2083
01:32:17,520 --> 01:32:22,200
Speaker 1: so we we use your little airplanes to transport rescue

2084
01:32:22,240 --> 01:32:25,480
Speaker 1: animals around the country from you know, at risk environments

2085
01:32:26,880 --> 01:32:32,160
Speaker 1: pounds owner relinquished type stuff to no kills and new

2086
01:32:32,200 --> 01:32:36,519
Speaker 1: forever homes. And the way it works is any rescue

2087
01:32:36,520 --> 01:32:39,400
Speaker 1: can post their need to have whatever animal moved around.

2088
01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:43,200
Speaker 1: Typically it's dogs. Oftentimes I'm flying puppies around because I

2089
01:32:43,240 --> 01:32:46,040
Speaker 1: can get the most of them in the airplane. Kinglin's

2090
01:32:46,080 --> 01:32:49,519
Speaker 1: done a two hundred pound massive with me though a

2091
01:32:49,640 --> 01:32:54,560
Speaker 1: mission for hercules. So I've been doing this for a

2092
01:32:54,600 --> 01:33:00,479
Speaker 1: long time. And I get an email if the need

2093
01:33:00,520 --> 01:33:03,080
Speaker 1: of the whatever whatever the trip is, is within two

2094
01:33:03,160 --> 01:33:06,280
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty miles of me. So I get this

2095
01:33:06,280 --> 01:33:16,479
Speaker 1: this morning, Arkansas to Indiana. Two Fennec foxes, foxes all

2096
01:33:16,520 --> 01:33:19,920
Speaker 1: over it a fox you kidding me?

2097
01:33:20,240 --> 01:33:20,439
Speaker 7: Yeah?

2098
01:33:20,520 --> 01:33:23,920
Speaker 1: So cute and they got big ears. They are two

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01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:26,840
Speaker 1: pounds each, and they're two years old, and there are

2100
01:33:26,880 --> 01:33:28,880
Speaker 1: two of them and they're going to I guess an

2101
01:33:28,920 --> 01:33:31,000
Speaker 1: owner had them and they're relinquishing them. Now they're going

2102
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Speaker 1: to a rescue or like an organization that cares for foxes,

2103
01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:37,280
Speaker 1: domesticated foxes. Now, they didn't tell me if I can

2104
01:33:37,320 --> 01:33:38,600
Speaker 1: do it yet, but you know, I'm going to be

2105
01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:40,880
Speaker 1: in Texas. So it's like, well, Arkansas is near Texas,

2106
01:33:40,920 --> 01:33:42,280
Speaker 1: I think, and then Indiana is where I got to

2107
01:33:42,320 --> 01:33:44,760
Speaker 1: wind up, so surely I can make that work. I

2108
01:33:44,800 --> 01:33:46,360
Speaker 1: haven't looked at a map, but I think we can

2109
01:33:46,400 --> 01:33:49,400
Speaker 1: make that happen. But a fox, and then you guys

2110
01:33:49,400 --> 01:33:51,720
Speaker 1: were telling me about them, I guess they are a

2111
01:33:51,760 --> 01:33:54,240
Speaker 1: lot like me. I feel like I can relate to

2112
01:33:54,240 --> 01:33:56,519
Speaker 1: a fox. What were some of the things about FedEx foxes.

2113
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Speaker 1: They like to play alone.

2114
01:33:57,920 --> 01:33:59,720
Speaker 2: They do like to play alone. Now, you are a

2115
01:33:59,720 --> 01:34:02,800
Speaker 2: good so this one's not you. But they are mostly nocturnal.

2116
01:34:02,920 --> 01:34:04,920
Speaker 1: I would be nocturnal if I didn't have this job.

2117
01:34:04,760 --> 01:34:09,680
Speaker 2: Though, Yeah, probably there quick to flee if there's a situation.

2118
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Speaker 1: Don't yep there for that, absolutely one hundred percent. They

2119
01:34:12,200 --> 01:34:14,599
Speaker 1: don't love being handled. They do not love being handled.

2120
01:34:14,680 --> 01:34:17,000
Speaker 1: It's got to be people. They know, dude, this is

2121
01:34:17,040 --> 01:34:20,680
Speaker 1: me this, I'm made for this. I gotta fly the foxes.

2122
01:34:21,360 --> 01:34:23,200
Speaker 1: So we're working on it. We'll see if it happens.

2123
01:34:23,200 --> 01:34:26,519
Speaker 1: I'm so excited now. But I've flown a pig, remember

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Speaker 1: George the Pig. We've flown lots of different dogs, all

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Speaker 1: different types of dogs, everything from a two hundred. I

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Speaker 1: think the biggest one was Hercules, and then it was,

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Speaker 1: oh god, the other one, Frank the Tank. Yeah, Frank

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Speaker 1: the Tank. Yeah he was. He was on two ten pounds. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Frank the Tank.

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Speaker 6: I remember him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember. They sent me a picture of him

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Speaker 1: and he filled up half of the bed of a

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Speaker 1: pickup truck and I was like, no, they did something

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Speaker 1: to this picture. Oh no, he was absolutely that big. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he was that big. And did I bring anyone with me?

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Speaker 1: Or I don't think I did. I think he just

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Speaker 1: laid down. And which is I mean, that's probably pretty

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Speaker 1: stupid in me to go pick up an animal that's

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Speaker 1: two hundred and ten pounds that I've never met and

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Speaker 1: just fly away and in this hope that it doesn't

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Speaker 1: tackle me and eat me in flight. But uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: last time what.

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Speaker 2: Last time the puppies were covered in duty? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: and you stood behind me as I handled all the

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Speaker 2: duty puppies.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I like Caitlin handle. I've done my duty

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Speaker 1: puppy duty many many times. I've been in fancy airport restrooms,

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Speaker 1: like at the Face where the rich people are, and

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Speaker 1: I'm just washing these little puppies one by one in

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Speaker 1: a little sink. Nobody says anything. Everyone's cool everyone because

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Speaker 1: they know what's up, you know. But it's like rich

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Speaker 1: people everywhere in big jets, and like Elon Musk walked by,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like scrubbing a little puppy in a sink. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: most people are very cool. But anyway, so yeah, we're

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Speaker 1: doing I guess a fox is happening, or maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: a fox is happening. But I won't do snakes and

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Speaker 1: snaks in a plane, haha, I won't do. I don't

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Speaker 1: trust I don't. I just don't. I know a lot

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Speaker 1: of people love them, and I hope they all live

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Speaker 1: forever whatever wherever they live, just not with me, and

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Speaker 1: I just don't trust them. I don't. You guys know

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Speaker 1: that I believe that I can communicate with ninety eight

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Speaker 1: percent of wild animals. Would you buy a bird? I

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Speaker 1: don't trust a bird, but I would fly a bird.

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Speaker 1: I would. I think it might be a little annoying

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Speaker 1: if it, like talked a lot. They can find themselves. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what do they need me for? They don't need me

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Speaker 1: for nothing? Yeah, I got what do they need me for? Yeah? No,

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Speaker 1: but I think I think a snake and like a

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Speaker 1: like a tarantela. Yeah no, we're not not with a spider.

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Speaker 1: It's your only nose. But you know, I did get

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Speaker 1: a complaint one time. You know, I've talked for a year.

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Speaker 1: I've done this for probably a decade. I've been talking

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Speaker 1: about it, and then I did get an email. You know,

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Speaker 1: I think it's awful that you wouldn't fly a snake.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you wouldn't do that. I can't believe

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't save a snake's life. It's like, well, first

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Speaker 1: of I've never been asked to, but second of all,

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Speaker 1: I would probably help them find someone else who likes them.

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Speaker 1: You should be canceled for that. I should be. I

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Speaker 1: should be I'm not a snake guy, and I should

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Speaker 1: be canceled. And I don't even know. I don't really

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Speaker 1: deserve to even the spar snake boots Right now, bos

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Speaker 1: Well he is these are These are very expensive snake

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Speaker 1: of fans that I bought with a snake that I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't fly. So yeah, I'm crowling a villa of snakes.

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Speaker 1: You just get a coat I have at home.