WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: B Dub Flub + Red Light Green Light 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.840 Because two is officially better than one. Welcome to your 0:00:02.840 --> 0:00:03.840 second date classes. 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:04.800 I see what you did there. 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:06.880 Yeah, yeah, it's brig and Jeffrey in the morning. We're 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:09.000 putting two classics back to back for you so you 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:11.360 can get whatever you need to get done done today 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:13.800 and just have a little dose of second day on 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:15.240 your Saturday or the opposite. 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:21.280 Don't do anything and just sit and listen. Unproductive, you know, yeah, 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:21.760 we don't. 0:00:21.680 --> 0:00:24.440 Judge you, all right, just enjoy it starts right now. 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:31.360 The world is constantly evolving. Yeah, we're seeing new technology, 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:36.479 new trends, new social norms, even new jobs. 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:38.120 Oh yeah, for sure. 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:40.400 And one of our listeners has a job that we 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:45.199 had never heard of before. And when she described her 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:50.120 profession to us, the whole room was shocked. Yeah, Alexis 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:56.400 was jealous, seriously. Jose and I were impressed. And Brooke, well, 0:00:56.520 --> 0:00:58.960 she told this woman she should be ashamed of herself 0:00:59.000 --> 0:01:02.720 and can do better, but not wrong. Okay, to be fair, 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:07.520 that's Brooks response to everyone about everything. The question is 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:11.839 does her unusual job block her from a happy dating life. 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:15.399 We're gonna find out in a second date update right 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:15.880 after this. 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:19.120 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date update. 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:25.240 An important part of any blossoming relationship is the first 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:29.280 time a woman corrects her man and tells him he 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:32.039 messed up. You need to do better. 0:01:32.480 --> 0:01:34.039 All right, Well, this has to happen. 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:37.360 It's such a special moment because we need that as guys. 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:40.320 If left to our own devices, we'll wear four gallons 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:44.560 of axe body spray and think it smells good. We'll 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:50.800 wash our cashmere sweaters in hot water, Jeff, is that 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:54.840 what you do? Are we not supposed to? 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:55.680 Every man? 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:59.760 Thank goodness for women being there to correct us so 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:02.600 we can learn and go. Oh, that's how it works. 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:04.440 You have to use your own brain. 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:06.600 Well, a lot of women will wait a few dates 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:09.840 to correct their men, but not our listener, Monica. She 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:12.960 told the guy he messed up on night one, yikes 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:15.120 for his benefit, broke. 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:16.600 No, it's nice, it is. 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:20.040 That's what happened, Monica. Welcome to the show. Was that 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:22.200 intro to your liking? Or could I have done better? 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:23.760 No? You hit it? 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:28.640 Oh yeah, wow, it's not. Just made my day, Monica, 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:29.560 Thank you so much. 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:32.919 I'm always so curious why someone says a guy messes 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:34.840 up and then still wants to call him for another 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:35.600 date all that. 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:39.520 You know, we'll get into that, but let's start with 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:41.320 what's this guy's name? Who did you go out with? 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:46.120 Okay, so I met Isaac online at least seemed really cool. 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:50.280 I like his personality. I like his looks definitely. 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:52.160 So there's a lot of potential there. 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:54.919 Yeah. I really liked him because there's a lot of 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.360 guys on this app that there will catch you forever. 0:02:57.520 --> 0:02:59.520 I don't do the back and forth, back and forth thing. 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:01.720 He came right down with it. He was like, I 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:02.720 want to take you out. 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:09.680 And all the action just living in this weird world 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:10.680 of like what are we doing? 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:11.239 Yeah? 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:13.720 Right, that's a good note for men, because the more 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:16.720 you talk, the more opportunities you're giving yourself to say 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:19.440 something stupid, and we will do that. 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:22.280 Well, yes I'm talking. 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:24.400 Okay, good for Isaac. Now I'm not going to say 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:25.600 much more. Just keep going. 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:28.200 What happened? Yes, he says, come pick me up and 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:30.280 take me to the nice restaurant. So you know, I 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.079 got up in my nice little dress, thinking yeah hey, 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:35.960 and then he came close up, he got out, he 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:39.920 opened my door. Okay, yeah, he was a very nice 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:40.760 I ain't gonna lie he. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:44.920 Was nice, Okay, okay, so everything's working in his favor 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:45.440 right now. 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:48.240 I'm wondering where things start to turn and you have 0:03:48.320 --> 0:03:48.920 to step in. 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:51.680 And as soon as we got out the highway and 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:55.240 I'm like, oh no, because I see Buffalo Wow Wings. 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:59.760 Yeah, okay, let's go. 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.040 Are you excited about that or not excited? 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:04.760 I'm not excited at all. I just came from Buffalo 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:07.520 Wild Wings too much ago with my whole girls. I 0:04:07.640 --> 0:04:08.720 get excited for now. 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:11.200 Okay, So that he's taking you there for a date 0:04:11.240 --> 0:04:12.560 and you're not feeling. 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:18.320 That, you expect a lot better, not a little. He 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:21.360 puts it in park. He gets out of car, comes 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:24.080 around and opens my door like a perfect gentleman he is. 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:25.520 And I said, please close my door. 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:29.720 You said close. You said close the door while you're still. 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:30.040 In the car. 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:33.039 I said, please close my door. 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:36.039 Well it's nice to reply, let's close my door. 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.920 And I think that he thought I was kidding, because 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:39.920 he was like san in there. 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:45.240 I'm like, hello, Pa, so you're going to force him 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:46.359 to take you somewhere else. 0:04:46.800 --> 0:04:49.080 I don't force anybody to do anything. I'm letting him 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:51.480 know please close my door, because I don't do Buffalo 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:57.560 wild Wings as a date. 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:59.240 That's that's a messy food. It's a terrible first date. 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:02.760 It sucks your address and stuff together. 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:06.719 Especially uncomfortable women don't want to like sit and drink 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:09.440 beers and watch sports and scream and spilled beers. 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:10.960 I'm gonna tell you what I don't want to do 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:12.560 on a day. I don't want to watch the whole 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:14.560 grown man lick his fingers. 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:17.520 That's what I'm gonna write that down. 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:19.080 Sexy when we sucked on the bone. 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:24.440 So did he finally listen to you and shut the door? 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:26.800 Yes? He did. He touch the door. I said, I 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:29.280 got three choices for you, and he picked a nice 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:32.279 cocktail bar, and I said, okay, cool. I thought, okay, 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:34.360 he didn't know, right, he didn't know. I told him 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:36.679 let's go also. 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:39.640 And he adapted. And he would be offended, seem offended 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:40.760 by the way, like he. 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:42.400 Seemed more confused than offended. 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:46.720 That's that's a standard, you know, mental headspace for men, 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:48.240 just constantly right. 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:50.720 How was it though, when you got to the cocktail bar? 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:53.560 Were you able to still keep a good energy together? Yes? 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:57.200 He asked me questions about what had just happened. I'm 0:05:57.240 --> 0:05:59.960 like yo, I'm a lady for real, I want silk aware, 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:01.440 I don't want plastic utensil. 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:02.800 I'm with you. 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:04.800 So he was like, okay, I never thought of that. 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:07.040 So I'm teaking him what a real lady like. 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:10.200 I'm sure he actually appreciated the education on how to 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:11.480 properly woo a woman. 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:13.920 I don't I know he appreciated it because he's not 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:14.760 calling you back. 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:19.600 Oh yeah, oh man, that's a good question. I appreciate it, 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:21.120 and that's what I'm calling you. 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:22.880 See, I would be insulted. 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:24.800 See I'm thinking that's the reason he wasn't getting second 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:26.560 dates before, and now he's got it down. 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:28.560 She taught him too well. 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:33.719 Yeah, yeah, that's what a lot of women get upset 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:35.800 when they're like, oh great, I cleaned up my guy, 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:37.880 just for the next one to come and like swipe 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:38.280 him up. 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:40.120 He's taking ten girls in that cocktail bar. 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:42.120 We gotta get down to the nitty gritty because I 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:44.400 want to know, because I think I did everything right 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:46.440 and I taught him how to do everything right, and 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:49.560 somehow I want. 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.440 You deserve a medal and definitely a second date here. 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.279 But what if he feels like you're too high maintenance. 0:06:56.000 --> 0:06:57.080 Then screw that cop. 0:06:58.400 --> 0:07:00.120 He doesn't want a real woman, then you'll. 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:02.920 Lay into him, go fullhard against him, right Bro, that's 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:04.560 where you come in. You do your thing, noll. 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:07.040 I just think that if you have some boundaries like that, 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.000 they should be established before the date, not when you're 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:10.680 in the middle. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:12.640 Of But look, he's the want to ask me out 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:15.880 and I accepted, right, Yeah, so you're gonna learn me 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:18.040 on the date. And that's what he did. If he 0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:22.240 didn't like when he learned, hen responded, you haven't fallen 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:24.920 a whole radio show to find out what's ram with you. No, 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:26.120 I can't wait to hear this. 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:31.440 I don't want to hear it too, So hopefully he 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.920 picks up. But we're gonna come back. We'll call Isaac 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.320 for you and figure out why in the world he 0:07:36.320 --> 0:07:39.480 would not be calling back a classy woman like yourself, Monica. 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:41.679 Yeah, she's a cloth napkin type of lady. 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:44.440 That's right. Let's get some answers when we do your 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:46.080 second date update right after this. 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:49.560 Hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates. 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:53.480 If you're just joining us, we've been speaking to a 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:59.680 true hero. Her name is Monica heroically swooped in and 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:03.840 save her date Isaac from pulling a total rookie move 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:07.800 when he tried to bring her to Buffalo Wild Wings 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:11.240 for her, and that wasn't gonna fly with her, so 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:15.560 Monica refused to get out of his car in order 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:17.880 to show him this is not where you take a 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:19.080 lady of substance. 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:24.320 Yeah, they definitely had a miscommunication of what a dinner 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:25.120 date looks. 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:27.560 Like, but instead they ended up at a nice cocktail 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.720 bar and they did it the proper way, where she 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:34.160 actually discovered Isaac's a pretty good guy as some gentlemanly 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:38.040 qualities something to work with. So the question is why 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:42.400 is he not reaching out for cocktails? Round two, Monica? 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:46.040 Is it possible that maybe he saw your helpful sense 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:49.079 a teaching abilities as a little bit condescending. 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:53.080 That's a possibility. I just wish he would have expressed 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:54.119 that to me personally. 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:57.400 Yeah, you seem like a person who can take criticism, 0:08:57.600 --> 0:08:58.640 constructive criticism. 0:08:59.360 --> 0:08:59.520 Yeah. 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:02.320 Yeah, if I could d it, I definitely could take it. Yeah, 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:02.760 that's right. 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:05.600 That's a good attitude to have. It doesn't happen often on. 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:10.000 This Yeah, would you like to criticize her constructively? Before 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:11.360 we do this call? Is that where you're going. 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:14.160 She knows who she is, she knows what she wants, 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:15.440 and she wants to go out with Isaac. 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:17.760 So okay, So Brooke, you're scared of her and you're 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:18.720 afraid to say anything. 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:21.319 I think Isaac will be scared and it will be 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.000 afraid to say no. So I think you're getting a 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:27.960 date no matter what. I also like to scare men. 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:29.120 She seems like you broke. 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:32.600 You're going to intimidate this guy and saying yes to 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:34.920 a date. But let's see what he asked the safe 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:44.320 he picks up the phone. But here we go. Hello, 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:46.000 Hey is this Isaac? 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:48.120 Yeah, good bitch. 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:52.040 Hey man, we're a radio show. You're on it right now. 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:53.439 It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:54.640 Welcome to the show, Isaac. 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:55.640 Hey, good morning. 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:58.440 Why is a radio show calling me? 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:03.240 Uh well, it's kind of a good reason. We do 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:06.160 a segment on this show. It's called a second Date Update. 0:10:07.840 --> 0:10:09.560 It sounds like you haven't heard it, but this is 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:11.959 a segment where we help out our listeners who've been 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:15.040 on a date with someone and afterwards they're not getting 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:17.280 a call back to go on a second one. 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:18.400 I think I have. 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:18.719 Heard of it. 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:20.959 I think I've seen this online somewhere on something. 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:24.840 Yeah, a lot of them are viral on TikTok, sir 0:10:24.920 --> 0:10:25.120 on there. 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:26.640 You can follow us at Broke and Jeffrey if you 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:30.839 want to. No pressure. But basically the reason that we're 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:34.120 calling you is there's a woman named Monica who asked 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:35.280 us to get a hold of you. 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:40.280 Hey, yeah, I met Monica. 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:41.360 Yeah right, we know you. 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:44.400 Sounds like you guys could have had a great date. 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:47.720 Did she What did she tell you? What did you 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:48.160 tell you? 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:48.800 Question? 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:51.560 Okay, well, I guess the general recap of what we 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:55.120 heard from her is you picked her up, then you 0:10:55.160 --> 0:10:59.960 took her to Buffalo Wild Wings, which she uh politely 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:03.040 redirected over to a cocktail bar. 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:09.120 Well politely redirected. It would be wrong, jeff. 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:12.720 She's our friend, So you know we're not gonna be rude. 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:15.280 Well, I mean I wasn't rude either. She just simply 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:19.679 kind of barked closed my door. At first. I just 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:22.000 stood there, like, what do you mean? You like there's 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:27.679 a bug about to get inside my car. I was like, okay, 0:11:27.760 --> 0:11:29.600 so I close the door and I go back to 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:31.840 my side of the car. I get in and she 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:35.600 explains to me like, hey, I don't do Buffalo Wild 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:39.520 Wings And I was like, yeah, all right. I mean 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:42.040 the reason why I chose the Buffalo Wild Wings because 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:45.280 in these new dating apps, it's better to start out 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:49.000 something very casual. Another date, we graduate to something a 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:49.560 little better. 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:51.640 But wait, did you explain all of that to her? 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:53.520 What you just told us why you chose it? 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:54.199 No? 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:56.120 I didn't explain any of that to her, and also 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:59.200 didn't tell her this. I own that Buffalo Wild Wings. 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:02.400 You own it a franchisee. 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:04.000 You're gonna take her to your own job though? 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:08.360 That's civil lexis yaccep you get free food. 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:11.200 Yeah, guys, he's a business owner. 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:12.599 Who care? Okay? 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:15.320 So look, so look, I'm gonna be honest. I'm still 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:17.400 a gentleman. She wanted to go somewhere a little bit better, 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.200 so we made our way to this great cocktail lounge 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:20.520 that I know. 0:12:20.880 --> 0:12:24.160 Yeah, so what changed your mind to where now you're 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:25.800 not reaching out to her for a second date. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.200 Okay, So, while we're kind of enjoying each other's company, 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:31.800 it's the cocktail bar, I start asking her a little 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:33.840 bit more about her life, and of course we get 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:35.439 to like, what do we do for a living? 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:36.080 Uh huh. 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:38.199 She kind of skated around it for a while. So 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:40.800 she came to an answer I'd never heard in my 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:41.960 entire life. 0:12:42.080 --> 0:12:42.560 What is it? 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:45.920 She says she's a stay at home daughter. 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:49.760 A stay at home daughter. 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:52.320 What she's gotta be joking? 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:56.000 Not a joke, No, it's not a joke. That's what 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:59.640 she told me her occupation at thirty one years old, 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:01.800 that she's a stay at home daughter. 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:04.760 I'm supposed to be stay home girlfriend. 0:13:04.800 --> 0:13:07.360 I mean, that is a real fancy way to say 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:08.960 you're unemployed and live with mom and dad. 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:12.240 Okay, so you were turned off because she doesn't have 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:14.240 enough ambition or drive. 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:20.720 Or all right, we got we gotta cut this right here. Okay, 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:22.320 I don't know what's going. 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:25.440 On, all right, I don't want to make her mad, 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:28.160 But Isaac, that's Monica on the other line listening to 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:28.880 this conversation. 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:30.079 Clearly, it's Monica. 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:34.240 Clearly, maybe she's on her parents landline. 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:37.439 You better watch yourself. You supposed to be with. 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:42.320 Me here, Okay, Monica, clearly you want to jump in 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:44.959 and say something, So go ahead, talk to Isaac. 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:48.200 Hello, isa how are you hi? 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:50.680 Monica? From your mom's couch. How you doing? 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:55.200 Oh no, no, no, no, no, Let me tell you something, Isaac. 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:58.200 I don't know what's the disrespect about. I thought we 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:01.120 got along pretty well. I'm our date. We had a 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.560 good time. I didn't know you had a problem with 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:06.360 my daily occupation. What is the problemish? 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:10.880 But we're parents, like elderly. Do you stay home and 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:12.360 take care of them? Is that what's going on? 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:16.480 We're just no, they're perfectly healthy. They just take care 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:18.720 of me. I'm their baby girl and I always will be. 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:22.520 Okay, Monica, guess who else is perfectly healthy? You are? 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:27.600 Get a job? You know what. Let me tell you something. 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:30.640 I am perfectly healthy. Yes I am, as you could see. 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:33.120 And if I had to get a job, I would, 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:33.880 But guess what, I. 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:34.480 Don't have to. 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:41.120 I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Don't you want a job. Don't 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:43.440 you want your own career? Don't you have your own 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:44.880 dreams and ambitions? 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:49.000 Like? Yes, my dream and my ambition is sitting at home, 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:51.840 playing my day, going and doing what I have to 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:54.280 do and finding a man that's don't take care of 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:55.640 me so my parents could stop. 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:59.320 Oh so that's your goal, Brooke. 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:01.840 It sounds like you're judging her there, and she explicitly 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:02.960 asked you not to do so. 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:07.880 It's really hard not to because you would never date 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:09.800 a guy who is doing what you do. 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:12.840 You are exactly right, and they shouldn't. A man shouldn't 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:16.680 do what I do. Yeah, my bro is to be 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:19.560 taken care of. That's my love language. I love to 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:21.600 be taken care of, and if it works for me, 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:22.640 it works the. 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:23.800 Old school chivalry and stuff. 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:29.040 I cannot imagine imagine being a man going and meeting 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:31.400 your parents for the first time. That sounds like. 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:33.880 Both of them. 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:36.600 What's your dowry, sir? 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:39.880 Okay, well, Isaac, now that she's explained this a little 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:43.120 bit more, you're probably more receptive to going out with 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:44.040 her one more time. 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:47.360 Look. Look, I wish Monica the best. It's just not 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:51.160 the best with me. Oh, you have great life, Monica. 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:54.280 I hope you find a guy slash simp it will 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:55.640 take care what. 0:15:57.080 --> 0:15:59.200 I don't think. So, Isaac, You're gonna take me out 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:00.520 and that's just the way it is gonna be. 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:04.520 I love how you want to be the boss, but 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:06.240 you don't want to do any of the work. 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:07.200 To tell you a. 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:09.520 Boss a boss doesn't work. 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:14.120 No idea of a boss you don't want to make 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:15.760 And that is the problem. 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.760 Y'all just don't understand, and clearly I don't understand being 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:20.640 a whole business owner and want to take me to 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:22.240 his little budget wing stop. 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:27.480 I'm gonna be honest with you, Monica. See there's a difference. 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:30.200 There's a difference between a boss and a leader. You're 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:30.880 not a leader. 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:33.760 I never said I was a leader. I never said that. 0:16:35.760 --> 0:16:38.520 I am a leader. I'm a leader. 0:16:39.040 --> 0:16:42.320 Okay, but you could have been a man and leave 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:47.640 my all that you could have told me that why 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:49.200 are you dodg didn't running. 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:53.800 No one's dodging or running. What I'm doing is ghosting five. 0:16:56.000 --> 0:17:03.280 Who was uncalled for Okay, and. 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:05.200 You don't need him. I don't need him anyway. 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:10.720 He hung up by the way, a job, you don't. 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:12.280 You know what you need to do is you need 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:14.600 to go to Buffalo Wild Wings and spend your parents' 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:15.520 money over there. 0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:19.240 No, I'm not going in no more. Look I'm going to. 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:22.480 I feel like you're going to be on the phone 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:24.479 a lot with your expectations for dating. 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:27.680 That's okay. Look I got a lot of time boo. 0:17:30.040 --> 0:17:32.919 That's a good point, and are your parents hiring for 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:34.439 any open roles in your family? 0:17:34.600 --> 0:17:37.280 Because I would love to be that good. 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:41.040 Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:45.879 Well, hey, we all learned a new job today, stay 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:48.280 at home daughter a job. 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:50.200 Applying right now texting my mom? 0:17:50.359 --> 0:17:53.120 You would last I give you two days back home 0:17:53.160 --> 0:17:55.240 with your parents? Are you kidding me? 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:56.000 Isaac? 0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:01.160 Isaac did not like it, obviously Brook does not respect 0:18:01.200 --> 0:18:03.760 it either. But okay, Brook, let me ask you this, Okay, 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:06.919 would it have changed how you felt if Monica was 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:10.159 twenty one years old compared to thirty one, would you 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:11.119 give her more grace? 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:13.720 If she's not going to school, she should be working. 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:15.600 No, that's right. Brook believes you should start working at 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:19.919 age six in one of her overseas factories. So parents, 0:18:19.960 --> 0:18:22.280 if you're lazy, first grader is still mooching off of 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:24.880 you as a stay at home child, Yeah, and then 0:18:25.040 --> 0:18:28.040