1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: Do you remember a moment or at the moment when 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: you knew to coach? Uh? Yeah, Um, back on, my 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: dad was a position coach for the Patriots at in 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: ninety six. Um, he just had a really and when 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 1: he was the defensive coordinator with the Jets. Um, he 6 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 1: had a really close relationship with the players. Um. How 7 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: old did you have been in those years? I don't know, 8 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: you gotta do the math. I can't remember. I was third. 9 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: I was in fourth grade when we were here. Um. 10 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: He was in uh yeah, fourth grade when I was here, 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: and in fifth, sixth, and seventh grade when I was 12 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: in Long Island. So UM, I spent some time at 13 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: the Jets facility at Hofstra Um when I was kind 14 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 1: of being on teams on my own. Uh. I just 15 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: looked up to my dad and his relationship with the players, 16 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: how much the players liked him. And I think I 17 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: knew early on I wasn't going to be a professional athlete. 18 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: So that's kind of the path that I started going down. 19 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: What did you What did you like? What did you 20 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: see if your dad? And maybe that you've overres tried 21 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: to emulate in terms of establishing that. Um, I mean 22 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: I've played for a lot of coaches, good and bad, 23 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: and you know, you kind of learned more from the 24 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: bed than the good what not to do. So unfortunately 25 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: I've had some bad coaches, but I learned things to do. 26 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: I always saw how how much the players looked up 27 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: to my dad and responded to my dad and leaned 28 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: on him for information, and I wanted that. I wanted 29 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: players to come to me and ask me questions and 30 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: trust me. So I just loved the dynamic that he 31 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 1: had with his players, talking to the players when I 32 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: was a kid, how much they liked playing for him. 33 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:42,119 Speaker 1: This is what I want. And was he as open 34 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: for you guys, your kids if you asked him football 35 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 1: questions growing up or was it more by us most 36 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 1: or did you have a lot of those conversations if 37 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: you sat on the couch watching the game and I 38 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: watched the film. Um yeah, me and my dad spend 39 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: a ton of time going over my football stuff. But 40 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 1: the thing that he never did was he was never 41 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: that parent. It was like part of my team. You know, 42 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: he would coach me on the side because he has 43 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: a lot of knowledge on it. Same with lacrosse, he 44 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: did the same thing. He would have helped me out 45 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: on my individual stuff, but he would never try and 46 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: like coach the scheme of my teams that I was on. 47 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: He was just kind of my own coach. He was 48 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: my dad. So that's what dads do when you were 49 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: in your fifth year and Rutgers and I would decided 50 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: to play for football teams. Yeah, how much of that 51 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: decision was geared upon maybe kind of preparing yourself for here? Uh? None, none. 52 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: I was just I was just there to play football 53 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 1: for a great university obviously tremendous UM school, and uh, 54 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: you know, I was just I was just trying to 55 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 1: learn and continue my athletic career because it was it 56 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: was winding down at that point. So, UM, I was 57 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: coming off a thumb surgery from lacrosse, and UM Coachiano 58 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: gave me an opportunity and I just tried to make 59 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: the most of it. What did that entail, the sort 60 00:02:59,919 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: of making the most of it? What kind of stuff 61 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: did you ultimately learn and and participate in? Um? Yeah, 62 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: I mean I I was the backup long snapper. UM. 63 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 1: Like I said, I was coming off of a thumb surgery, 64 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: so my snaps weren't very good. But uh, Coachiano stuck 65 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: with me. Let me Um sitting whatever meetings I wanted 66 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: to sit too. I learned from a lot of different guys. 67 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: Um Coach Halfley, I learned a lot from him. Um, 68 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: who's that sorry? He's a defensive cording in for Ohio 69 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: State now. He was the DV coach at Rutgers when 70 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: I was there. Um, he's a tremendous coach. I learned 71 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: a ton from him, leaned on him a lot. Um 72 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: Coach Frazier was there when I was there, who works 73 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: on the staff now. I worked with Coach Fraser on 74 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: a bunch of different stuff. So it's just an opportunity 75 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: for me to get back into football. And I love 76 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: the sport. It's my it's my life. So it's just 77 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: an opportunity to be around a top tier program. When 78 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: your dad used to come to the campus, because we 79 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: know he had a good relationship right too, did you 80 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: get to see him in those times, like was that 81 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: a little bonus or did you stay away from each 82 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: other when No, I wouldn't. I would have seen my 83 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: dad when he came down to school and he would 84 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: come see me before he saw a coach. Joanna, I 85 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: hope yeah, do you know of another college roster that 86 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: had a backup long snapper? I think, I mean, most 87 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: college rosters have about one hundred and twenty players on him, 88 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: so I'm sure there's a backup long snapper in there. 89 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: We got a backup snapper, so I think most teams do. 90 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: You were happy to find a niche that got you. Yeah, 91 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: I was gonna. I was gonna play both sports at 92 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: Rutgers coming out of high school. UM didn't work out 93 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 1: with the lacrosse coach, so I ended up just playing lacrosse. 94 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: But um, it was kind of coming back into circle 95 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 1: once I um had an extra year of eligibility. I'm 96 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: wondering what they November being to service month in the NFL. 97 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: Just what you know, wondering up the military means to you. 98 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 1: It means everything. They protect our freedom and we wouldn't 99 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: be able to play this game if if they didn't 100 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: do what they do. Um. I think everybody on the 101 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: team recognized that and appreciate that. And uh, yeah, you 102 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: know my grandfather being in the service, it's obviously close 103 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: to home and UH definitely appreciate all that they do. 104 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: Can't can't thank him enough. And um, it's good that 105 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: we recognize their services because it's important to our country. 106 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: Do you remember the way you told your dad at 107 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: first you did want to get into coaching. Was it 108 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: even something that he needs to be said or was 109 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 1: there kind of a just an advice back from our 110 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 1: conversation in that regard? Um? Yeah, I mean obviously when 111 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:37,359 Speaker 1: I became a coach, there were some interactions between becoming 112 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 1: a coach specifically or um, I mean I think I 113 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: had my mind pretty set up on what I wanted 114 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: to do. He Um, I mean he was He's the 115 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: decision maker, so he was the one who gave me 116 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:51,919 Speaker 1: a job. So um yeah, I just I was happy 117 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: I got the opportunity to work for him as much 118 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: as you just love the job and coach in general, 119 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: but just the added bonus that you are in the 120 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 1: same building as your dad met get to see him. 121 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 1: What if you're working for a different friendchise just over 122 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: these years, what that has meant to you, or him 123 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: being around your kids, whatever it might be. Yeah, I mean, 124 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: um yeah, growing up in under a football coach, you 125 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: don't see your your dad as much as you would 126 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:16,359 Speaker 1: like to. So um, it was a total flip of 127 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: the script. I went from not seeing him, seeing him 128 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: once twice a week to seeing him too many hours 129 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: a day, So you know, it was it took a 130 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: little just in but um, I couldn't be happier. We 131 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 1: spent a ton of time together. Um, and it's great 132 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 1: to learn from somebody like him as well. Yeah, my 133 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: brother has been here for When you think about that, yeah, 134 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: I mean, m Yeah, it's you know, we have school, 135 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 1: we have stuff going on when we were in high 136 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 1: school and we spent time together, but it's nothing like 137 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: working in this business together. What was that job interview 138 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 1: like with your dad when you really decided. I'll keep 139 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: that between us, but yeah, there are some tough questions 140 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: to sell yourself a little bit. You already Yeah, I'm mean, 141 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 1: like I said, I've been committed to this for a while, 142 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: so I gave it everything I had. Did you know 143 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: that secondary to like, was that an area of interest 144 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: for you or you mentioned the coach at Rutgers was 145 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 1: influential art Um, he was just Yeah, I just spent 146 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 1: some time with coach half. I'll coach any position they 147 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: let me coach. It doesn't matter to me. I just 148 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: like being around football players and being around the guys, 149 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: I'll coach whatever they want me to coach. Would you 150 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: like to be a hacker or someday at a level? 151 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: I'm just I got my hands full right now. I 152 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: haven't thought about that. Doesn't that just sound like your dad? 153 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: But I don't listen to his press conferences? We do 154 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: I will. It's does anybody ever tell you this? Just 155 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: even at your voice? Though? Does sound like him? Did 156 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: the guys ever say it to you? Yeah? They get 157 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 1: army a little bit, but I'm just me. A big 158 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 1: difference is the haircut where that How did you decide 159 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: to go with that? Look? Um, I've been doing it 160 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: since college. I was just brought it out and donated. 161 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: So it's about the fourth or fifth time I did 162 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: it after the season. We had a good year last year, 163 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: so I tried to move on from it and get 164 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: a fresh start fresh cut. Is that like locks for Love? 165 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: Or I did Locks for Love once? I did Panting 166 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: a couple of times. There's a bunch of different organizations, 167 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: so cool whichever one they swan had a partnership with that, 168 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: It just kind of don't I figured to get to 169 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: the right hands. It probably doesn't surprise you that around 170 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: the NFL. There's plenty of sons who have followed their coach, right, 171 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: I mean when you when you grew up living around it, 172 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: probably not a shocker. Um yeah, I mean I just 173 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: my dad's my role model, He's my idol. I've always 174 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: looked up to him. I'm sure that influenced me, um, 175 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 1: getting to where I've come. But I'm my own person. 176 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: I'm uh, I'm just trying to beat me questions that 177 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: might acquire you to go back a few years memory, 178 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:46,119 Speaker 1: but there's uh, there are some clips for NFL films, 179 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,319 Speaker 1: clips your daddies over the years, huh, And I want 180 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: to particularly everything that's kind of interesting because it's actually Brian. 181 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: It's not you, but Brian's fading one of my cards 182 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: that received your dad right on sometimes you know, go ahead, 183 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 1: right down, yeah, over their Paul something like that. Did 184 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: you ever do something similar when you were younger? And 185 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: did that give you, I don't know, maybe like a 186 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 1: little bit of a taste of what it might be like. 187 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 1: Um yeah, I mean he used to give me projects 188 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: and stuff to do. Looking back, I don't know how 189 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: important they were at the time, but there were some 190 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 1: chores for me to do. He's trying to put me 191 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 1: to work. So, um, I've always just had an attitude 192 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: or anything I could do to help the team. So 193 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:28,439 Speaker 1: if he gives me something small, I used to think 194 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: it was big, but I'd say, you got to treat things. 195 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: Never be too big to do the little thing. So 196 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:34,839 Speaker 1: I just doing what I can, whatever you asked me 197 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,079 Speaker 1: to do. These other players said that you guys meet 198 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: as an entire secondary girl now corners and Sainties together. 199 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: What kind of went into that decision to put everybody 200 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: together and you'll kind of touch everybody all wants? Um, 201 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: just a big emphasis on communication, being on the same page. 202 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 1: Just um, we play a lot of guys, a lot 203 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: of guys doing different responsibilities, so just trying to get 204 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: everybody on the same page and make sure we don't 205 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: play coverage. Do you feel like that has just kind 206 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,199 Speaker 1: of showing itself on the field a little bit, that 207 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: you guys have been all together. Um, I don't know. 208 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: I haven't really thought about how it correlates. Is just 209 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: trying to do my thing, and I think that that's 210 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: what's best. So that's what we're trying to do. Your 211 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 1: first football one of your first football shows that he 212 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: asked you to do. Yeah, I got a couple of 213 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: memories of us. Uh, yeah, that was there between me 214 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: and him. Yeah, what's the best way we laugh about him? Now, 215 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: when did you first start watching film? But he started 216 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: when he was in high school. Um, I've been watching 217 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 1: it for a while. Like I said, football is my thing. Um, 218 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: I remember watching Prime Time with Chris berman Beck when 219 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: I lived in Cleveland and just watching highlights, learning, going 220 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 1: into my dad's office and Cleveland, spending time there trying 221 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 1: to watch film. Like I said, I don't think I 222 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 1: knew what I was doing, but I was trying. So, kid, 223 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 1: you're watching cartoons you were watching I mean, yeah, I 224 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: just wanted to spend time around football, spend time around 225 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 1: my dad.