1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,360 Speaker 1: This is the Fread Show. 2 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 2: Let's get you hotel a trip for two to see 3 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 2: Jennifer Lopez her brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez 4 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 2: off All Night Live in Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: twenty six, at the Coliseum at Caesar's Palace. Text Diva 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 2: to three seven three three seven right now for a 7 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 2: chance to win two tickets to the March thirteenth show 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 2: at two nut Hotels day March twelfth through the fourteenth 9 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 2: at the Flamingo Hotel and Casino, Las Vegas and ron 10 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 2: Javert Fair. 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I have? 23 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 6: You have? 24 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 7: Guys? I have too? 25 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 4: I have Okay, but not you're not on it right now? 26 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 3: No, because it's not in my area where I live. Okay, 27 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 3: but yeah, and. 28 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 2: So the people who don't know this is like an 29 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 2: app that alerts you to like police in emergency activity 30 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 2: and crime and things that are happening. And I don't 31 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 2: have it. But do you set like your you put 32 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 2: your zip code or does the phone just know where 33 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 2: you are? Does it use your GPS? 34 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 8: Yeah? 35 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 5: I think you put in where you are. I don't 36 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 5: have it, which is what this blog is about. But 37 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 5: I believe so because it's definitely if it is where 38 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 5: you are. I didn't realize that it's not everywhere. 39 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's only active like certain places, certain places. 40 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I need to have an intervention for my 41 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 5: boyfriend and my best friend Maddie because those two are 42 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 5: addicted to the Citizen app and it's getting a little 43 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 5: out of control. So my boyfriend, it's toot where he 44 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 5: gets alert so anytime anything happens near us, he is alerted, 45 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 5: and he thinks that he needs. 46 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 4: To do something. Okay, So the. 47 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 2: CBS the Citizen app already knows about it. That is 48 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: that like he's the hero. 49 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 4: He doesn't want to be the hero. 50 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 5: He just he's one of those people that wants to 51 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 5: be informed on any single thing. For me, I want 52 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 5: to be less informed on everything. I don't want to 53 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 5: know if it doesn't involve me. I have too much 54 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 5: going on in my head. So the CVS near our 55 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 5: apartment keeps getting robbed, okay, and obviously because we live 56 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 5: near it. 57 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 4: We know the people that work there. Whatever. Key to 58 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 4: the point. 59 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 5: It's to the point where the other day he goes, Kaylan, 60 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 5: someone just smacked one. 61 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 4: Of my people down at CVS. I gotta go down there. 62 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 5: I'm like, no, you do not mind your jes That's 63 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 5: what That's what I meant before. 64 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, stay out of it. 65 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 4: Stay out of it. 66 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: You don't need to do. 67 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 2: We don't need like citizen vigilante justice kind of stuff 68 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 2: going on here. 69 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,959 Speaker 1: Like let the cops handle it, I guess. 70 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 5: But even more so, you don't need to consume your 71 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 5: entire thoughts life things worried about what is going on 72 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 5: in your area. That can't be healthy. It cannot be 73 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 5: healthy to know all of the crime, all of it. 74 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 2: Guess if I knew everything was going on, It's the 75 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 2: same reason I look up like criminals in my building 76 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 2: you know, like public record criminals. 77 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: There's a way to do that too. I don't. I 78 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: just don't. I don't want to know. 79 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 2: I don't have kids, so I don't need to be 80 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 2: worried about, you know, certain types of criminals. 81 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: But I just ignorance is bliss. Like if I find out. 82 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,080 Speaker 2: That my next door neighbor is like some form of predator, Like, 83 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 2: it's gonna be terrible because every time it's just gonna 84 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 2: it's gonna make me miserable. I'm gonna wonder like if 85 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 2: they're gonna if I'm gonna be a victim of something. 86 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 5: Yes, I just I guess I want to understand it. 87 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 5: I don't understand how that information helps us in any way. 88 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 4: For me, ignorance is also bliss. 89 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: If there is he nosy? Is he a nosy Nancy? 90 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 4: No, he's not a nosy Nancy. 91 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: Is he? 92 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 2: Is he? 93 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: Uh? The King of the gossip, a big goss guy. 94 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 5: He's like Jason to where like Jason watches the news 95 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 5: every night and then hostously. 96 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 4: I don't get how. 97 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 5: Jason can watch the news and then go right to 98 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 5: back the news will stay. 99 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 4: With me and Jason always tells me, well, I need 100 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 4: to know what's going on? 101 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 3: My question is why, Well, like we Mike is the 102 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 3: same way as I am. We listen to the police scanner, 103 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 3: like if we hear a bunch of sirens, like we 104 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 3: got on the police scanner, Like what's going on? 105 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: Do you have a physical police on the phone? 106 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, And what does that do for you? 107 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 3: I guess like I feel better knowing that there's danger 108 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 3: near me that like I know about. 109 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 7: It's like in like I guess. 110 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 3: Prepare like either leave or like lock the door if 111 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 3: someone's on the loose running around my neighborhood or something 112 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 3: like that. 113 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: I don't know. 114 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 3: I mean, I avoid a traffic you know, accident. 115 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 2: I mean, if there's like it, god forbid, there's I 116 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 2: don't even want to say it, but like god forbid, 117 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: there's something active going on that I need to, like 118 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 2: on the street in front of me that I need 119 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 2: to avoid or not be involved with. Like then I 120 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 2: want to know about that. But usually there's mean they 121 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 2: have the phone has a way of like a you know, 122 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 2: if it's that big of a deal where you are, 123 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: then they'll send out an alert, you know, like that 124 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 2: there's something very bad going on. But if it's like 125 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 2: petty crime or just average kind of stuff, like I'm 126 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 2: not going to get involved, so and I did. I'm 127 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,919 Speaker 2: not standing there, you know, So to come into my house, 128 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 2: what am I going to do? Like, Okay, let me 129 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 2: get my basketball bat and go down there, Like I'm 130 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 2: not going to do that. Like that's a bad idea. 131 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: Nobody wants you to. The cops don't want you to 132 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 2: do that. 133 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 5: No, and even above that, I just don't understand how 134 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 5: it's serving you in any way. There's a drug deal 135 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 5: that went bad two blocks for me, I don't want 136 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 5: to know. I don't want any part of it, you 137 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 5: know what. 138 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: I like, I sat one of Shane Steelers. Was it 139 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: one of his guys? 140 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 5: Probably yeah, because he's a huge drug guy if you 141 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 5: know him. 142 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 4: But yeah, no, I don't. It's I just I want 143 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 4: it to stop. 144 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. 145 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 2: I don't necessarily need to know everything happening. I think 146 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 2: sometimes ignorance is bliss. Now again, if it's like, hey, 147 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,800 Speaker 2: don't go outside because there's this going on, or hey 148 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 2: don't get in the way of this, or or you 149 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 2: know whatever, like then I want to know about that. 150 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 2: But it's the reason we don't do a lot of 151 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 2: there's a lot of news that happens that we don't 152 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,039 Speaker 2: do on this show, because it's not that we're insulating 153 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 2: or that we don't want it's just it's just like 154 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 2: you can find that information if you'd like it. If 155 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 2: it's going to affect your your safety right now, then 156 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 2: we'll share it with you. If it's affecting, like you know, 157 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 2: something very large that you need to be aware of, 158 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 2: then then we'll share it with you. That's our job. 159 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 2: But other than that, like I don't need to go 160 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 2: through every murder, No, it needs to know knowing like every. 161 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 5: You know what I mean, it's between the two people 162 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 5: doing the drug deal down the street, Okay, I don't. 163 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 4: We don't need to be involved. 164 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: This is the Bread Show. Let's get you hotel, a 165 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 1: trip for Tunisye. 166 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 2: Jennifer Lopez her brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez 167 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 2: off All Night Live in Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty 168 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 2: twenty six, at the Coliseum at Caesar's Palace. Text Diva 169 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 2: to three seven three three seven right now for a 170 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 2: chance to win two tickets to the March thirteenth show 171 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 2: at Two Night Hotels Day March twelve, through the fourteenth 172 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 2: at the Flamingo Hotel and Casino, Las Vegas and Brown 173 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:38,239 Speaker 2: Trevert Fair. A confirmation text to be sent Dennard Message 174 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 2: and data rates may apply. 175 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 1: All thanks to Live Nation. 176 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 2: Tickets are on sale now at ticketmaster dot com for 177 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 2: all shows running December thirtieth through January third, and March 178 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 2: sixth through the twenty eighth. 179 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: It's Geek's Court. Okay, all rise for me, All rise 180 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 1: for me? Oh yeah, give me a gavel? 181 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 7: All right? 182 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: Oh, I get the gavel today. 183 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 4: You're so excited. 184 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: I am love it own. 185 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 2: Her in the court, Kiki is precibed. Well, no, not today, 186 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 2: not today, Judge Fred. Now, Kiki did not share with 187 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 2: me any of the hold on. 188 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: On the formica. She did not share with me any 189 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: of her cases. 190 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: So I went to the natural place to find, you know, 191 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 2: people's problems, Reddit, and I'll have you know it's It 192 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 2: took me about an hour and I've got about four 193 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 2: in front. 194 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: Of me here. 195 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 2: But I chose this one. So you know, for the 196 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 2: people who are like, oh, you go to rend, I 197 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: do go to Reddit. 198 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: You're right. 199 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: I look at Reddit every day and I go through 200 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 2: page after page we give for stuff to talk about 201 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: on this program. 202 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: So it's true. 203 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: Then again, that's what people are asking for on there 204 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 2: is advice, and I'm here to give it to you. Okay, 205 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 2: this is complicated, guys. So here's the case. Eight five 206 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 2: five five three five. You guys are the jury. The 207 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 2: person here. This is a woman saying this has been 208 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 2: messing with my head and I need some honest outside opinions. 209 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: We this is she and her and her husband. 210 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 2: We have another home that my husband has been saying 211 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: in recently because we're in the pri of separating due 212 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: to infidelity. I assume his infidelity only I checked the 213 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 2: Digital Scales memory out of curiosity, and it showed two 214 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 2: unassigned weigh ends at exactly one hundred and twenty pounds 215 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 2: logged at twelve twenty five am and twelve twenty six am, 216 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 2: back to back for context. I don't weigh one hundred 217 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 2: and twenty pounds and I was not there on that date, 218 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 2: just my husband. Needless to say, I'm shaken. I'm in 219 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 2: the middle of a separation from my husband due to 220 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 2: his past cheating. He's been staying at the condo and well, 221 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 2: I don't want to jump to conclusions. This feels more 222 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 2: like just more like than just a glitch. I didn't 223 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: say anything to him because in the past he's never 224 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 2: taken accountability for the for the infidelities I found. I 225 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 2: also want to protect my peace and not jump at conclusions, 226 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 2: but deep down I can't shake the feeling that someone 227 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 2: else was there. The scale doesn't automatically store numbers, and 228 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 2: neither one of us weigh one hundred and twenty pounds. 229 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 2: It only logs a reading when someone actually steps on it. 230 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: So what do you do here? Like? 231 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 2: What are you doing in this city? Okay, First of all, 232 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 2: do we give this kind of benefit of the doubt? 233 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 2: And they're separated, I assume that she wants to work 234 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 2: on it, or that she sees the world where they 235 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 2: get back together, because otherwise she wouldn't care if they 236 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 2: were separated pending divorce. Well, then I think you can 237 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 2: probably assume that someone who you think was cheating on 238 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 2: you before, now that you're getting divorced, is probably going 239 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 2: to hook up with someone, right or even I don't 240 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:27,719 Speaker 2: even think you have to be cheated on if you're 241 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 2: separated with the intent of getting a divorce. I don't 242 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 2: necessarily think it's unreasonable to expect someone to see someone else, right, 243 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 2: I think. 244 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 4: That's another level of disrespect. Like it's the house you 245 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 4: guys share. 246 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 5: You could wait, you can wait and put things on 247 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 5: pause until we get you know, you get your own house, 248 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 5: or we figure itself out. 249 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 2: Well that's her second house. Well and he owns it too. 250 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: And then but here's the thing. They're separated because she 251 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 2: thinks that he's been cheating. But clearly she saw a 252 00:09:56,400 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 2: world where they reconciled because again she I don't know 253 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 2: that she would be too concerned about infidelity if she 254 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 2: was leaving him. 255 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 9: I would still be upset either way. So we're gonna 256 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 9: go with this wasn't a glitch. Now at twelve thirty 257 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 9: in the morning, we're also gonna go with this probably 258 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 9: being a house guest. 259 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: You know. 260 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 2: The scenario that I'm thinking is she spent the night. 261 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened, you know, whatever happened. She 262 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 2: went to the bathroom, was like I wonder how much 263 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 2: I wait, and then jumped on it and then like 264 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 2: like all of us, looked at the number and was 265 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 2: like no, and then got on it again, like it's 266 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 2: gonna change. So I can relate to that. That's very human, 267 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 2: But what is this woman supposed to do? 268 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:36,439 Speaker 1: Right? 269 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 2: So more than likely this was a woman with her 270 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 2: husband in the middle of the night, which I there's 271 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: you know, I think we all know what she spent 272 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 2: the night like that. You know, it's not like it 273 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 2: was lunchtime. I don't I don't even know why somebody 274 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: else would be in the house. This wasn't a glitch, right, 275 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 2: He's never admitted to cheating in the past, so it's 276 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 2: not like calling him and being like, are you cheating 277 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 2: is going to do you any good. It's also not 278 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 2: as though, I mean, they're separated, so I guess maybe 279 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 2: that could be expected and he got caught. But part 280 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 2: of me is like, you think he's cheating on you, 281 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 2: and then you find this and you're this is he's 282 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 2: cheating on you, like he's or at least now he is, 283 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 2: or he's with another woman. So whatever the case may be, 284 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 2: you thought he was cheating before, he's probably with another 285 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 2: woman now. I don't know what are we hanging on 286 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 2: to here? My thing would be leave the guy because 287 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 2: you're already separated, right, well, but again I think she's separated. 288 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 2: I think I think this was more of like a 289 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,679 Speaker 2: break than it was, because again she didn't say, right here, 290 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,839 Speaker 2: we're getting divorced, because again, if you're separated, I think 291 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 2: there's a difference between being a part and being legally separated, right, 292 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 2: because legally separated means we're getting a divorce, is penda right? 293 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 2: But they're just a part because she needed a break 294 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 2: because she thought he was cheating, and then she finds 295 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 2: this more than likely he's cheating, and we're done. 296 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: So I don't even know what there is to debate. 297 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 2: My thing would be, I think, you know, I think 298 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 2: you now have confirmation of what he would and there's 299 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 2: no point asking him because you'll lie because he's lied 300 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 2: in the past, and. 301 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: Just divorce him. 302 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 4: Again. 303 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:12,719 Speaker 1: That's it case closed, guys, anything. 304 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 3: I mean, is it really cheating, like if you're on 305 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 3: a break but like, okay, so you guys aren't together, 306 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 3: and I'm just supposed to like sit and like twiddle 307 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 3: my thumbs until you figure it out if yes, you are, 308 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 3: but it's like okay, at that point, it's over anyway. 309 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 3: So if there's a scale or not, you could have been, 310 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 3: you know, his luggage, you could have been trying to 311 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 3: weigh his luggage. 312 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 7: I've done that before to meet him, you know, but. 313 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 2: He's upset because he's acting like someone who's having an affair, 314 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 2: so she asks for some distance. He goes somewhere else 315 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 2: and then probably has an affair. So I guess for me, 316 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 2: it's like I don't know what you're hanging on to, right. 317 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 7: Like your mind's already done made up, like. 318 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: This would have been a grantedy. 319 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 2: I don't know that. I never would have thought of 320 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 2: the scale. In fact, I didn't. I didn't even know 321 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 2: there was a scale that linked like that. Why do 322 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 2: they have a scale? It's not the eighties. That's my 323 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 2: biggest no. See, I don't scales are bad news, but but. 324 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 4: Eh no, I mean, if we are separated because I 325 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 4: think that you are cheating on me, I expect you 326 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 4: to be. 327 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 10: Begging for me back, and if you're not doing that, 328 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 10: that's the bare minimum, then I'm going to end this, 329 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 10: you know what I mean, I personally wouldn't probably take 330 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:21,439 Speaker 10: a cheater back. 331 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 1: That's my you know, hot take before someone comes at 332 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: me on my high horse. No, I wouldn't. 333 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 4: That's like the one thing I have. It's called the boundary. 334 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 4: But I just like people act like that's crazy. But 335 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 4: the only thing. 336 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 2: I I don't think anybody acts that it's crazy not 337 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 2: to take a cheater back. 338 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 4: Oh I got caught one time. 339 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 3: I got called the text line, I'll get off my 340 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:38,319 Speaker 3: high horse because I went off on a cheater. 341 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 2: I think if you don't want to take a cheaterback, 342 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 2: you don't have to take a cheater back, and that's okay. 343 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 2: And again she says that she's not with him for infidelity, 344 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 2: but she also says he's never admitted to his past infidelity, 345 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 2: so it's one of those things where she suspected it 346 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 2: he won't admit it because she said both of those things. Now, 347 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 2: I think she's got proof. I think she knows what 348 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 2: she needs to know it. I think you move on. 349 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 4: I understand though it is. 350 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:05,319 Speaker 5: Hard in that position to not have like hard proof, 351 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 5: and I know that this is quote unquote proof, but 352 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 5: I think some people really, I mean, you're definitely owed 353 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 5: the person to be honest with you, and I think 354 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 5: that's probably what she's looking for, although I don't know 355 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 5: if she's ever going to get that. It is easier 356 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 5: said than done to leave someone when you don't have 357 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 5: like them telling you, yes, I cheated. 358 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: Now, I guess he could argue. 359 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 2: He could say, Devil's advocate, Well, I was never cheating 360 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 2: on you to begin with. 361 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: You kick me out of the. 362 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 2: House, so so you know we're not together right now. 363 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do. And sorry 364 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 1: you found out. 365 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 2: I mean, but again, now I think that's gaslighting because 366 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 2: Oddsari's been doing it before and he never thought he 367 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 2: would get caught this way. 368 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 1: Because honest, this is a new one for me too. 369 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: I'm not a cheater. 370 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm very really in a relationship, and when 371 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 2: I am, I don't cheat. I'm very transparent about what 372 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 2: I'm looking for, what I want, and I have been 373 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 2: for a very long time. But I'm when I'm committed 374 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 2: to someone all the more reason why when I get 375 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 2: into a relationship, I don't do any of this kind 376 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 2: of stuff you're not supposed to. I don't expect a 377 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 2: pat on the back like that's just the right thing 378 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 2: to do. But the news flash, guys, you can you 379 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 2: can now get caught thanks to the scale scales. Yeah, 380 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 2: I don't, Hey, don't be hopping on the scale, you know. 381 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 2: But I will say when I'm in a when I'm 382 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 2: in a bathroom, if there's a scale, I usually. 383 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 4: Jump on same. 384 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: I don't care what I'm a massacres. I can myself 385 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: and then I'll cry about it. 386 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 2: Three five Hi Gabby, Gabby. Hey, So Kiki's court with 387 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 2: Judge Fred presiding in for Kiki. 388 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 1: You you heard the scenario. What do you do here? 389 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 8: I'm not gonna say what Kiki will say? Girl probally 390 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 8: talking about. 391 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 7: Here right right? 392 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 8: I mean, okay, bocuse me, move on. 393 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 2: It's on with it. 394 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 8: She knows she's kidding, so girls, come on. 395 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, this strikes me as she's looking for validation because 396 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: she maybe maybe still. 397 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 4: Loves him here. 398 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 8: I mean he has a chiming history with us. 399 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 2: Well, I agree, but I mean she's she's going to 400 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 2: a public forum because I think she probably still loves 401 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 2: him and doesn't want to believe it's true, and it's 402 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 2: hoping that someone out there is going to say to her, 403 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 2: oh no, there was a glitch in that in the 404 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 2: scale system and it was registered. 405 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 1: You didn't hear about that, you believe me or the scale. 406 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 8: Bab Yeah, is not? 407 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 6: You know. 408 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 8: The shadd thing about it is that in these case, 409 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 8: in these cases, you know that you're a good feel 410 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 8: it you know, you know that is true, and you 411 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 8: still tell have spaces and how do we she. 412 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 7: Look to me. 413 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Gaby, I'm glad you called. Have a 414 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 1: good day, Okay. 415 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what though, Like I've been in a 416 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 2: situation where I'm maybe not being cheated on per se, 417 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 2: but I'm being actively lied to about the nature of 418 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 2: a relationship with another another person or multiple people, and 419 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 2: I'm being actively gas lit and lied. 420 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 1: To about it, and yet I stay. 421 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 2: I stayed involved in that situation because I guess what 422 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 2: I needed was I needed the hard proof, like I 423 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 2: needed to know, I needed to see it. I needed 424 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 2: I needed to catch that person ready and then and 425 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 2: then in many ways I was catching that person, but 426 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 2: then I stayed still because it was like. 427 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: No, maybe not or maybe it'll stop or whatever. It's like, 428 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: but you want you. 429 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 2: Want to, Like it's almost like even though you know 430 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 2: you're right, and first your gut tells you, and then 431 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:27,879 Speaker 2: maybe you see emails or text messages or other people 432 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,639 Speaker 2: tell you things or worse, but it's almost like you 433 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:32,440 Speaker 2: want to walk in on them, like P and the 434 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 2: V Like it's like I gotta see it. And then 435 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:39,679 Speaker 2: even then I've heard of people who somehow that has 436 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 2: happened to me before, though, like I've been walking and 437 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, I'm like, WHOA, sorry, I 438 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 2: fell into a married person. But it happens from time 439 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 2: to time. But I can relate to the idea of 440 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:54,439 Speaker 2: like there's no one's gonna treat me this way, like 441 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 2: no one, no, come on, like no, no, no. I know, 442 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 2: like I'm gonna stick around because I'm going to get 443 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 2: exactly what I need so that I'm the one who 444 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 2: leaves with the closure that I need and all the 445 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 2: information that I need. And that can be a vicious cycle. 446 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 3: And it seems counterproductive to me for her to be like, 447 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 3: I think you're cheating on me. I'm going to try 448 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 3: to find out, so I'm going to leave you for 449 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 3: a while. Like that, She's. 450 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 2: Just like protect, she said, predicting her peace. So I 451 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 2: don't know if leaving was to catch him. I think 452 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 2: leaving was like I don't know what to do here, right, Yeah, 453 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 2: but I can tell you that's not going to and 454 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 2: that's only going to open the door for him to 455 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 2: act up and then try and act justified in it, 456 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 2: because it's like, well, we're separated, I mean we're not together. 457 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 4: We were he was waiting for this moment. 458 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 5: Also, somebody on YouTube live set if there's a big 459 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 5: dog in the mix, because maybe they weighed the dog. 460 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 4: But if you're wearing a dog at twelve thirty in 461 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 4: the morning. 462 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 2: Or at night, the dog got on the scale twice 463 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 2: consecutively and stood there and then read its own weight. 464 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 4: I wait, my dog in the middle of the night. 465 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 6: I gain. 466 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 7: Well, please don't believe. 467 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 1: This person getting a dog to stand on a scale from. 468 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 7: Her You have to do it twice. 469 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: Just to sure. 470 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 2: But that, by the way, the most relatable part of 471 00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 2: this story is getting on the scale, looking and then 472 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 2: getting off the getting back on thinking that somehow the 473 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 2: number will change. Hey, Mikayla, Hi, Hi, good morning. So 474 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:11,119 Speaker 2: this woman, you know, she's upset because she suspected her 475 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 2: husband of cheating. They separated, the living in two different places, 476 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 2: and she has access to the scale. Sees that a 477 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,400 Speaker 2: one hundred and twenty pound way In was registered twice 478 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,879 Speaker 2: in the middle of the night. He's not that she's 479 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:26,359 Speaker 2: not that she wasn't there. So he's so there was 480 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 2: a house guest what I mean, And I suppose it's 481 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 2: possible that somebody was there and he was Andrew. There's 482 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 2: a lot of scenarios that you could come up with, 483 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:35,720 Speaker 2: but more than likely that was a woman on the 484 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 2: scale in the middle of the night. 485 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: What do you do? 486 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,360 Speaker 6: So I had actually seen I did a deep dive 487 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,159 Speaker 6: because I couldn't sleep that she somebody had commented that 488 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 6: she had already seen that or known that he had cheated, 489 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 6: and that's why they were separated. 490 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's right, and I had mentioned that, but 491 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:55,399 Speaker 2: except she, he apparently has never admitted to it. So again, 492 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 2: for a person who doesn't have that confirmation, I think 493 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 2: when you're reaching out to a public forum or a 494 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 2: radio show or wherever trying to get you're trying to 495 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 2: get people to tell you that it's okay, or you're 496 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 2: trying to get people to tell you it's not. But 497 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 2: like you yourself, don't have enough somehow, is what I'm 498 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 2: guessing from her. 499 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:14,640 Speaker 1: No, Yeah, but. 500 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,480 Speaker 6: I think it's in her gut and she does want 501 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 6: people to try to tell her that's not what's happening, 502 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:21,119 Speaker 6: but she knows. 503 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and how can you go No, I think you're right, 504 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 2: And thank you for calling. Have a great day, Thank you, 505 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 2: Love you, guys, I love you too, and thank you 506 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 2: for listening. 507 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:30,439 Speaker 1: Rona, Hi, good morning, Any good morning? 508 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 6: Hey? 509 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 2: What do you think when you hear this? I mean, 510 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 2: is it is it cut and dry? Is it just 511 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 2: open and shut? 512 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 10: I don't think it's cut and dry. So you have 513 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 10: to get all the facts of the information at first 514 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 10: before you start accusing someone of cheating. So maybe just 515 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 10: ask is there anybody coming to clean the house? Is 516 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 10: anybody coming to do the laundry, cook clean anything like that? 517 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,400 Speaker 10: At first I thought house cleaner, but I wasn't sure 518 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 10: if this was like Tell thirty at night or Tell thirty. 519 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, if it were twelve thirty in the afternoon, I 520 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 2: suppose there might be an explanation, But no, it was 521 00:20:58,480 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 2: at night. 522 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 10: Oh okay, Well, so I think he needs to get 523 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 10: all the facts before because he's given to just deny, 524 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:05,199 Speaker 10: did I and I? So she needs to make sure 525 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 10: to get all the facts and ask all the questions. 526 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 1: Do you know what she did? 527 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 2: She also relatable she got on the scale because it 528 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:12,399 Speaker 2: was about a minute apart. I guess she got on 529 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,399 Speaker 2: the scale, didn't like the number. Peede got back on 530 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:18,399 Speaker 2: the scale, hoping the number would go down. No trust me, 531 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 2: been there, done this one. Tale's so old at time. 532 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 2: So this is absolutely a human being based on the 533 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:32,439 Speaker 2: way to see woman, unless he's into very small man a. 534 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 1: Whole different twist. 535 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 2: I'm surprised nobody's called up here and said that he's, 536 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:38,920 Speaker 2: you know, gay, just because I mean, that's usually where 537 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:39,400 Speaker 2: this goes. 538 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:41,640 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, Ron, I have a good day. 539 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 10: Thank you. 540 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: Well. 541 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 2: I mean people call up here with the most wild 542 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 2: possible scenarios. Oh no, he's totally gay. Once it's a 543 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 2: small man on the scale in the middle of the night. Oh, 544 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 2: I mean, it could be. 545 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:56,479 Speaker 4: There, it could be you wait, a small man, but 546 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 4: you thought he. 547 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 2: Was cheating, you got separated, he won't admit it, And 548 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 2: then then I think that's as good of a confirmation 549 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 2: as you're going to get. 550 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, girl like you already one FuG out the door 551 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:04,919 Speaker 7: and just get out. 552 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 2: And the problem is he's gonna gas like this woman 553 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 2: and say, well, we're not together. So but if I'm 554 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 2: accused of if I'm getting kicked out of my house 555 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 2: for cheating, I'm and I want to get back with 556 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,480 Speaker 2: my wife and I'm not cheating, then I'm not gonna 557 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,360 Speaker 2: have anybody over in the middle of the night. 558 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 7: That's the thing. It seems like he's done too like girl, 559 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 7: okay 560 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 2: It's like let's be a best behavior, you know what 561 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 2: I mean, Like now would not be the time.