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Speaker 1: This is a good one because today I want to

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Speaker 1: share with you something that affects every living soul, and

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Speaker 1: that one thing is your attitude. This affects everyone. It

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Speaker 1: is your attitude. You know. I don't know if anyone's

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Speaker 1: A positive attitude can bring about a change. Well, now

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Speaker 1: you mean if I'm just positive? Being changed. My MoMA gone.

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Speaker 1: What me being positive got to do with that? Okay,

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Speaker 1: now listen to me carefully. A positive attitude can bring

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Speaker 1: about change. Well, okay, Steve, I hear you saying that,

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Speaker 1: this is to start. It starts within you. See, life

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Speaker 1: that you was a stellar performer at. But now, how

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Speaker 1: does you having a positive attitude? How does that change

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Speaker 1: Here's what happens when you have a positive attitude. What

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Speaker 1: And when you have a positive attitude and a positive

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Speaker 1: You know, if you want for nothing, then nothing comes

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Speaker 1: Here's a positive attitude. Okay, two things have happened as

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Speaker 1: That's when you're a positive person. You see the positive

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Speaker 1: But if you don't have a positive attitude. Then you

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Speaker 1: But if you take it from the positive approach, some

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Speaker 1: And on May twenty, two thousand and five, when my when? When? When?

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Speaker 1: your altitude. Altitude is determined by your attitude, how high

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shockingly, the

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Speaker 1: This one is from Jewel in making Georgia Jewel writes,

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Speaker 1: I'm in my mid fifties and I'm dating a guy

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Speaker 1: that is my age. He's a hard working professional man,

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Speaker 1: but I have a big issue with his grooming. We've

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Speaker 1: his toenails. Well, that couldn't be true, because his toenails

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Speaker 1: along as heck, dating after divorce is so hard, and

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Speaker 1: I compare men to my well groomed ex am I

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Speaker 1: being overly critical. Well let's look at this, your whale groom,

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Speaker 1: So now you keep comparing yourself to somebody that don't

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Speaker 1: won't you. Now here's the problem with Dayton. Everybody's going

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Speaker 1: We've got to do something like that, thought, something Nah,

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Speaker 1: on it. Just say, hey, look, it really disgusted me

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Speaker 1: And it really disgusted me that you got claws on

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Speaker 1: your feet. Now, I'm gonna help you because obviously no

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Speaker 1: and because you're a professional and make a lot of

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Speaker 1: What you are me? Man? Brother Connelly? What harm is

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Speaker 1: What is it gonna hurt for you to give me

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Speaker 1: one of them kittens and both them? If both them

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Speaker 1: kidness is good, It ain't gonna hit him. Thinks you

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Speaker 1: ain't getting my kidney? Man, ain't gonna hit what's wrong

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Speaker 1: with you? Say? Man? All I'm saying is, if you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be olden laying on the table, what is it

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Speaker 1: gonna hurt? Old Man? You're gonna kill them? I'm open

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Speaker 1: laying on the table. What count of a tell you

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Speaker 1: in charge of? Mister? Let me tell you something. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: I need to meet you for I get to the

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Speaker 1: hospital and maybe I can hit kittting to yours and

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Speaker 1: I can tell you that we out you're gonna feeling

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Speaker 1: about that. It's too many games going on in the

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Speaker 1: church to day I'll be you're gonna call and talk

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Speaker 1: to me out of one of my kitteness. Man, I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to live just like you, trying to let the

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Speaker 1: Lord take care of me, because what you're talking about

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Speaker 1: it ain't got a thing to do with Jesus. You

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Speaker 1: can kiss my and get off my phone, that's what

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Speaker 1: you can do. Can I say one more thing to you?

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Speaker 1: What is you listening to me? Man? I don't listen

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Speaker 1: to you, and you ain't talking about nothing that's got

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Speaker 1: nothing to do with what's going on with me. Mister,

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Speaker 1: you're running the game. If I could get to y'all

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Speaker 1: put landing your But can I just say one more

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Speaker 1: thing and then I'm gonna let you go? Is you

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Speaker 1: listening for what? That's this? Nephew Towny from the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harby Morning Show. You just got thranked by your daughter.

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Speaker 1: Oh Lord have that girl. Lord have mercy. Lord have

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Speaker 1: much Jesus you all right, please forgive me God him Mercy. Whoa, y'all,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to Lord him Mercy. My heart is

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Speaker 1: power petting hill. Lord him, Mercy. Jesus brother, Commy, I

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Speaker 1: gotta ask you one more thing, man, What is the

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Speaker 1: baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the

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Speaker 1: land to the Steve Harby more Shoot right now, I'm tut.

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Speaker 1: That's my daddy's favorite, right there? Can I have your

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Speaker 1: kidney paby boy West Palm this week. Man's going down

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Speaker 1: Friday and Saturday, the Nephews in town at the improv

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Speaker 1: West Palm Beach two shows Friday, two shows Saturday, and

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Speaker 1: Stupid is coming. So I'm ready, I hope y'all ready,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna do this thing together. Put you put

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Speaker 1: your mask only come get it. I got it fake

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Speaker 1: all right? Thank you, nephew. Coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour Entertainment news right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Comedian Chris Rock has COVID and

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Speaker 1: he's urging people to get the vaccine. Chris tweeted, trust me,

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Speaker 1: you don't want this get vaccinated. Rock reportedly has been vaccinated.

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Speaker 1: In May. He told Jimmy Fallon, you know, I skipped

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Speaker 1: the line. I didn't care. I used my celebrity, Jimmy.

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Speaker 1: I was like, step aside Betty White, step aside old people.

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Speaker 1: I did POUTI tang let me in front of the line. Right, wow,

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Speaker 1: Well he got the vaccination. And he's saying, so many

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Speaker 1: people are getting COVID that got the vaccinate. Fact that

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Speaker 1: they're saying if they didn't get vaccinate, right right, right,

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Speaker 1: But a lot of people, like I know a lot

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Speaker 1: of people have got the vaccination that contracted it. And

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Speaker 1: I asymptomatic. Yes, yeah, I can attest to my in

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Speaker 1: laws who are in the eighties got COVID after vaccinated,

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Speaker 1: and neither one of them went to the hospital. And

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Speaker 1: to this day, my father in law say, I ain't

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Speaker 1: had COVID. Quit quit telling me that, you know, because

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Speaker 1: he didn't feel sick, because he didn't feel nothing. So

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Speaker 1: he wants you to quit telling him he had COVID.

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Speaker 1: He tests positive twice. Yeah, but I ain't got it though.

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Speaker 1: That's what he hung on too, and that was it,

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Speaker 1: and that's the way which your symptoms won't be as severe,

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Speaker 1: So get the vaccination, get it. Yeah, that's why I

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Speaker 1: want to be, not get sick. They say you've got something,

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Speaker 1: but you don't feel sick? Ye right, all right? And

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Speaker 1: other entertainment news if what whack one hundred says it's

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Speaker 1: true there's another sex tape out there featuring Kim Kardashian

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Speaker 1: and ray J. Whack one hundred is on CASEIA wondering

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Speaker 1: who that is. I know we all are. That's ray

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Speaker 1: Ja's former manager, and according to him, the one he has,

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Speaker 1: which hasn't been seen before, is longer and more graphic

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Speaker 1: than the first tape. Okay, ray J has already responded.

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Speaker 1: He says he is not pleased. He says, this ain't cool.

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Speaker 1: I've been staying off the radar, just staying focused and

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Speaker 1: being humbled and thankful for all the blessings I'm receiving.

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Speaker 1: He says, How can I show off growth and maturity

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Speaker 1: if this kind of stuff keeps happening. I'm a father now,

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Speaker 1: and my job, yeah, is to be a great parent

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Speaker 1: and put them first. This is not the message I

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Speaker 1: want to send out. Shaking my head, you know many,

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Speaker 1: great thing? Great thing? I mean, you know what really man.

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Speaker 1: I mean, ray J Wright on spot on message to said, manag,

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Speaker 1: you need to go sit here, nobody ass down somewhere

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Speaker 1: and lead a girl alone. Man, Damn, you've been done enough.

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Speaker 1: You know, people always I got more dirt, I got

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Speaker 1: moment your raggedy ass life. Yeah, and her lawyer is

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Speaker 1: saying it's false. Is not true. His name is Marty Singer.

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Speaker 1: He said this in a statement on her behalf that

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Speaker 1: it is unfortunate that people make these statements and try

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Speaker 1: to get their fifteen minutes of fame. Ain't that the truth?

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Speaker 1: That's it. I get so sick of people man trying

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Speaker 1: to bring down another person. Yeah, blowing out my candle

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna make yours brighter. Man, go sit you go

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Speaker 1: back to whereever you were. Did nobody know your ass

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Speaker 1: befolded story? You're not fit to be the dude cause

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Speaker 1: of this story. You're not and whack. But um, I

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Speaker 1: like what ray J said, I really do you know?

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Speaker 1: Ray J was on point. Yeah, that's how you grow up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, daughters, and that's right, that's right, that's right,

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Speaker 1: very mature statement. I like that a lot. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: I mean I did see one I ain't know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: why wouldn't I want to see too? I mean, I

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Speaker 1: never can I tell you something? Man, I never saw

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Speaker 1: the tape. I guess I'm different like that. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't have no design to watch somebody else having

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Speaker 1: sex for what? Really, no, Doc, I'm not in here.

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Speaker 1: Do you hear, your nephew, I hear. Really we do.

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Speaker 1: We're so different? Say that again? Say that again, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: we what we're so different? Mean Jesus, I mean, why

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Speaker 1: why would I want to see two? I saw Fast

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Speaker 1: and Furious one through ninety I saw all this. Are

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Speaker 1: you built for sequels? I said, Tommy, tom I said,

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Speaker 1: I don't care to watch two other people having sex.

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Speaker 1: That's never been much tried it though, Boy, to me,

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Speaker 1: this is how I know what I don't like you.

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Speaker 1: This is how I know what I don't like. I

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Speaker 1: think for you. Oh, it ain't like I ain't seen

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Speaker 1: two people having I walked in rooms on it. I walked.

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Speaker 1: I was in college. I was in the closet one time.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm done, dog, I'm college. Dog, Hey man,

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Speaker 1: they had porn on night at Kent State. Oh no, dog, dog,

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Speaker 1: listen to me, dog, this was the seventies, Tommy in

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Speaker 1: the dormitory, they had porn on night. They would show

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Speaker 1: porno films in the in the in the auxiliary room.

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Speaker 1: After college. This was the seventies. You don't understand the

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Speaker 1: seven got parents look at college like we missed that.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Why do y'all need porn on night?

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Speaker 1: Y'all got the internet? You gotta understand. That was major

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Speaker 1: at Kent State. Look many and was on a PROJECTI

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Speaker 1: we got a real what most CDs coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Boxing legend Manny Paccio is

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Speaker 1: gearing up for another fight, this time to be president

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Speaker 1: of the Philippines. The Filipino Boxing Icon accepted his party's

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Speaker 1: nomination to be their presidential candidate at a boxing political

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Speaker 1: convention on September nineteenth. Paccio, who is forty two, is

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Speaker 1: currently a Philippine senator, so he has political experience and

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Speaker 1: it is being rumored that he was being rumored to

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Speaker 1: retire after losing about to uh Your Dennis Yugas. In August,

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Speaker 1: Paccio released a statement saying I'm a fighter and I

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Speaker 1: will always be a fighter inside and outside of the ring.

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Speaker 1: Paccio said at Sunday's party event. All my life, I

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Speaker 1: have him backed down from any fight. Nothing if is

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Speaker 1: it impossible, if it's ordained by God? Don't you love that?

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, he's the next president of

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Speaker 1: the Philippines. I've been there before, telling you right now

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Speaker 1: what Listen to me. This is the order of the Philippines.

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Speaker 1: It is the President slash King, it is Manny Paki how,

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Speaker 1: it's Miss Universe, and it's Steve Harvey's not You're fourth,

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Speaker 1: that's the I'm fourth in the Philippine Listen to me.

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Speaker 1: I can't go nowhere overseas and anybody from the Philippines

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Speaker 1: see me discounts seats in the front anything. Wow. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you man that when I went out there

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Speaker 1: and gay that crown back to that girl right there,

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Speaker 1: because you don't understand, it's the president, is Manny packw Dennis,

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Speaker 1: Miss Universe. That's the pecking order in the Philippines of

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Speaker 1: importance then you and then Steve Harvey asked him, well,

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Speaker 1: Junior was over there with you, right, Junior you saw.

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Speaker 1: J oh my god, I'm talking about he got all

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Speaker 1: caravans taking him around a caravans well number four. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's really cool, Steve. Yeah. So you're saying, without a

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Speaker 1: doubt he'll be the next president of the philip is

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Speaker 1: no doubt. There's no one more popular than this man

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Speaker 1: in the Philippines, nobody. And he's a good guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's no way he can get beat. Well, he said

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Speaker 1: nothing is impossible if it's ordained by God. He said

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Speaker 1: that the only person could run against him in the

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Speaker 1: Philippines is Donald Trump. And then he'll say that the

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Speaker 1: election was read the big lie, a loser that wow. Okay, yeah, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I like how he's you know, been able to go

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Speaker 1: to be in the ring and then now he's in politics.

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Speaker 1: Hen he gonna win, make a difference. Yeah, leadership. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right. Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hours,

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Speaker 1: stay woke, Steve Harvey, Nation, we'll talk about voting registration

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Speaker 1: and what's going on in Texas. Right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening to show here's some possible good news trending out

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Speaker 1: of Texas. Former Democratic Senator Beto O'Rourke may run for governor.

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Speaker 1: The Democratic Party believes that Beto can can beat Republican

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Speaker 1: Governor Greg Abbott. Beto served three terms in the US

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Speaker 1: House from an El Paso district before resigning to run

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Speaker 1: for Senate back in twenty eighteen, and he lost that

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Speaker 1: race Raly very narrowly to Ted Cruz. Beto is expected

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Speaker 1: to make the announcement later on this year. We also

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Speaker 1: hear actor in Texas native Matthew McConaughey may run for governor.

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Speaker 1: Too many Texas voters are upset with Abbott telling women

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Speaker 1: what to do with their bodies. Oh my god, with

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Speaker 1: his anti abortion bill, his prohibition against mass mandates and

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Speaker 1: restricting voting laws against minorities. The Texas governor's races next

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Speaker 1: year twenty twenty two. But we want to prepare you now,

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Speaker 1: Get ready now for this election next year. The national

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Speaker 1: voter registration week of action September twenty September twenty seventh

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Speaker 1: through October third. So let's get your friends do this.

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Speaker 1: Texas almost flipped it last time. Yeah, Texas can do this,

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Speaker 1: and the multual Conservatives are deeply afraid of losing Texas.

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Speaker 1: But this guy Abbott, this anti mask campaign, this anti abortion,

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Speaker 1: it's just crazy that we are allowing men to dictate

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Speaker 1: to women what they should do with their body. I

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Speaker 1: do not understand this man. And some of the statements

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Speaker 1: that they make about abortion are utterly ridiculous. Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: horrible Greg Abbot is horrible, and voters in Texas, like

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Speaker 1: you said, Steve, we got to wake up. I mean,

632
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: Harris County, which is Houston, was blue the county, you know,

633
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 1: and so they both turned five Harris. So we got

634
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 1: to get the rest of the state on board. This man,

635
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 1: Greg Abbot and his leadership has failed. It failed miserably.

636
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you something else too. We have

637
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 1: to be really conscious of this party because their reador

638
00:41:55,000 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: rick is too faisty. They talk about morality, but they

639
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:05,439
Speaker 1: turn right around and do the most immoral things you've

640
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: ever seen. Oh you don't give a damn about people

641
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: of color, but you want to call yourself a Christian.

642
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: Oh you don't give a damn about voting right acts,

643
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: but you're gonna call yourself a Christian man, Miss me.

644
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: With this semester right here, y'all got all these policies

645
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 1: to say this is the party we are. But I'm

646
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: telling you, man, you're not a party of the people,

647
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: and you're even less now, Oh they're the party of

648
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 1: a few, but they include everybody with this, with these

649
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: moral principles that they say they're saying on but they

650
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: don't mean nothing, because let me tell you something, it's

651
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: equally the same amount, if not more Republicans get abortions

652
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: than Democrats. See, they m showed me the stat that

653
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 1: says democrats or liberals get more abortions than conservatives. They

654
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,280
Speaker 1: kids is having babies too. You don't know nothing about.

655
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: Oh you think them little kids ain't coming home talking

656
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: about they pregnant and their parents are doing something about it?

657
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:30,359
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? A party? Absolutely? Yeah, it's ridiculous.

658
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 1: And then the lies, the lies, don't forget all the lines,

659
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 1: the big lie, the big one they won and they

660
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: really didn't win, and just lying about it. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

661
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 1: And you got all of them on board with you

662
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: in this line. We got again, yep again. National voter

663
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,840
Speaker 1: Registration Week of action is September twenty seventh through October third.

664
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 1: Let's get your friends, your family, your boyfriends, your girlfriends, mama's, daddy's,

665
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: all of that neighbors to register to vote and check

666
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 1: their voter registration status right now so you can be ready.

667
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: Go to when we All Vote dot org for more details.

668
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 1: When we All Vote dot org for more details. All right, yeah,

669
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: next year, let's do it all right? Coming up next,

670
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 1: it is the nephew with today's prank phone call. Right

671
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:31,879
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming

672
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. Right about four

673
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,840
Speaker 1: minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today and the

674
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 1: subject is I don't like company and he knows it.

675
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,479
Speaker 1: But right now the nephew is here with today's prank

676
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:45,359
Speaker 1: phone call. We'll get you the letter in just a bit.

677
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: What you got for us? Next? A four three relationship?

678
00:44:51,920 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: Four three relationship? Yea curious find out. Let's go. It'll

679
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: be something stuff. Come on, let's go four three relationship. Hello. Hello,

680
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach my reaes. Yeah him, Hey, my reason.

681
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:17,800
Speaker 1: My name. My name is Devin Man. How are you

682
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 1: doing this evening? Brother? Oh man, I'm kind of sleeping

683
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: man working nice bro? What's going on? Who to this game?

684
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: This is Devin Man. I talked to your wife Kesha

685
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: the other day. That's that's your wife, right, Yeah, that's

686
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 1: my wife. Yeah, I talked to you wif she in

687
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: right now? No? She not worked, bro Okay, okay, I apologize.

688
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: I ain't me to wake you up. You work at

689
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,399
Speaker 1: night or something. Yeah, I'm a crane opera at night, bro, North,

690
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,399
Speaker 1: people don't call me. That's three o'clock. What's this? What

691
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 1: is it? What is a big collect or something? No?

692
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 1: No, no no, no, no, no, no no. I talked to

693
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 1: your wife, man. She's interested in um this thing we

694
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: got man called the four three relationship. She told me

695
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: she wanted me called back and talked to her husband

696
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 1: about it, and she gave me the number to hit

697
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,360
Speaker 1: you up at the house, man and let you know

698
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: all about the four to three relationship because she's really

699
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 1: interested in it. For three relationship. You say you talked

700
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: to my wife about it? Yeah, I talked to Keisha

701
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: a couple of days ago. She gave me the number.

702
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 1: She said, called him back. He'll be at home at

703
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: this time. You can hit him up and see if

704
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: he likes she said. But she definitely likes it, man,

705
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: And she wanted to see if you would be interested

706
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: in the four to three relationship too. You know, I

707
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 1: want to get your approval on it. Before we went

708
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 1: in it further. But your wife was very excited about it, man.

709
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 1: She was wanted to get started as soon as possible.

710
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: And I wanted to see about contacting you and making

711
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 1: sure that you agreed and approved on everything. But she

712
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 1: definitely wanted to get your blessing and get your approval

713
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: on it. Yeah. I try to do anything to make

714
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 1: her happy, though, but I got to get some some

715
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 1: information about this. What is said again for three four three? No? No,

716
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: it's a four to three. A four to three relationship,

717
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 1: is what it is. Okay, Well, if it makes her happy,

718
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 1: you know, I'm willing to listen. Okay, Well listen, man,

719
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 1: we're probably gonna get started right away, probably Monday. We'll

720
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 1: get started on Monday. You'll go through Monday through Thursday,

721
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: and then uh and then a couple you know, Friday

722
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: through Sunday, man, and we'll go ahead and get this

723
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: thing start. I think after a month you'll pretty much

724
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,280
Speaker 1: catch on everything. You know, there's something's gonna be shipped

725
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: to the house. Uh, you say, pick up. She shouldn't

726
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: have mentioned any of this to you. No, man, she's

727
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: nothing that's to me. Okay, all right, Well, what this is? Man?

728
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: A four three relationship, Maurice, is this? You know, you

729
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: spend four days with Keisha and she comes over to

730
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: my place and she spend the other three days with me.

731
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 1: That's what a four three relationship. So see this kind

732
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 1: of frees you up, man on anything you might want

733
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 1: to do on those other three days. Man, when she

734
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: might be tying you down. You know, So four them days,

735
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: you know you would herve but the other three days

736
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: you kind of have some free time to yourself. But

737
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: she'll be over in my place on the other three days.

738
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 1: That's what that's what Basically a four three relationship is

739
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: part of me? Say whatnot? I say part of me?

740
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 1: You say she will spend four days with me, three

741
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 1: days with you. That's that's it, sir, That's the four

742
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: three relationship right there. Maurice. You know you're you're really

743
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 1: gonna like this man, Like I say, she was excited

744
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 1: about it. Hold are you serious? Uh? Yeah, I'm dead serious, man,

745
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: Like I said, Keisha was excited about man. Hold hola name.

746
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 1: I know, wife ain't discuss you about relationship. Spinnish fol

747
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: days with me? Three days? Was he? Man? So you're

748
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: talking about my wife? No? Yeah, I know it's about meal.

749
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 1: Hold up, what name again? My name's Devin, Devin, say bro,

750
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: I don't play James man. I don't know how I

751
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: got my number. What's I mean, Maurice, what's wrong? I

752
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: mean a lot of couples are doing? What's wrong? That's

753
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 1: my wife back you're talking to. You ain't talking to

754
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: no plot? What's about you're talking to? Okay? Well, listen, man,

755
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,919
Speaker 1: A lot of couples are doing the four three man,

756
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 1: give what other couples is doing the hard But my

757
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:54,720
Speaker 1: wife and me ain't interested in no phol three relationship.

758
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,959
Speaker 1: I can't be. I can't believe you off for this? Man?

759
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: Are you saving? You're calling me talking about all three relationships?

760
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: And you know I told you I won't at night?

761
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: Why I didn't know you worked that night? Man, like

762
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 1: I said, see when I came over last week, man,

763
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: hold hold hold on, hold on, old you came over

764
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 1: well last week. I know you ain't said a set

765
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: without thank you for the thing? You bet not? I

766
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,919
Speaker 1: said you bet not? I said, go ahead, go ahead

767
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: saying it, go ahead, go ahead, player, you've been talking.

768
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: Don't stop now, go ahead, my reee. Hold on just

769
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: getting you know I'm a player. I'm up. Don't said

770
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 1: go ahead? I damn all, I'm saying. I came by

771
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 1: there last week many by, Well, I came by your house.

772
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 1: You come by my house? Okay? Are you at eighteen four?

773
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 1: Brill get boy? Been here for the last two years?

774
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: Oh so you been here? About your health? Okay? Dog?

775
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: Because because she said, okay, she said, I had to call.

776
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: You should write because this first man first of all,

777
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: you know walk he's gonna take you haven't been in

778
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 1: my house. I can't play. Okay, go ahead, go ahead,

779
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead. Okay, If y're not interested in

780
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: the four to three man, then I won't. I won't

781
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: be wasting them one more tie? You really? Are you

782
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 1: wait time? Calling me? What my little wife don't tell

783
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:14,959
Speaker 1: you about she want to go through? She never told

784
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: me nothing about plea you got the wrong homeball and

785
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: nothing wrong my relationship? Okay, okay, So why would she

786
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,839
Speaker 1: tell me she interested in the fourty three man? Give

787
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 1: up what she told you? I know. I take care

788
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: of my dead room, all right. Three? I wish she

789
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 1: willie is three days. I wish she would anyway. I

790
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 1: know you how you know it? I don't know you

791
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 1: for many I don't mind taking off one tonight to

792
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 1: sell what going on my house with my cleaning night,

793
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: working off night. Now I'm gonna ask you again, how

794
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: do you know us? Man? I know y'all through Tommy Man.

795
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: Who is Tommy? Tommy Who Tommy Man, Maurice, nephew Tommy.

796
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy Man from the Steve of been

797
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 1: More the show dog. Your wife Keisha got me to

798
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: break phone call you man. You're talking about the steam

799
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: hardy show yo. Man, if you tell the little ball

800
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: ahead the steam Man, I know y'all ain't with me, man,

801
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:23,919
Speaker 1: I know with me today, Mantu said, next you tell

802
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: him now? Why you watch Steve need to be over

803
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:33,400
Speaker 1: him slept. That's your battle ahead. But you ain't got

804
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:37,800
Speaker 1: nothing nessuper Man. You know I got to go to

805
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 1: work to see you. Got to go to where you

806
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:42,880
Speaker 1: work at night. Man. All right, all right, my red,

807
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:44,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you go back and sleep. Man, But

808
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: one more thing, dog tell me this man, what is

809
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: the what's the baddest that, I mean, the bad that's

810
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 1: been cute to you? Ain't I wish I was there?

811
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 1: I was you you hey, man, what's the baddest radio

812
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: show in the land, Man Steve Marty Show, three Baby

813
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: Free relationship. Took a minute for him to catch you

814
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: on what it was, but once he understood time you

815
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 1: said when I came by the whole hold man, when

816
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: you came about where Sai keep back, I say what

817
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,799
Speaker 1: I think you say said, I swear to God say,

818
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 1: I promise you. I know you ain't walk my fat

819
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 1: ass up behind this here right now. I know this

820
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 1: is not why I'm up. Broke it down. That thing

821
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: gives you time for three you three up. You got

822
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 1: time for yourself, time for yourself. Man, do some things

823
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: that you've been wanting to do, you know, But I

824
00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 1: still keep you up on th you know. Keep That's it,

825
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: that's it. That's what stupid. That's what stupid looked like

826
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: right there. That's true, that's what. That's brilliantly stupid. And

827
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 1: I know those two don't go together. Brilliantly stupid. That's

828
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 1: what it looks like. People see, that's stupid right there.

829
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 1: When you say you know they don't go together, but

830
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:27,440
Speaker 1: you put them together, that's stupid. No, it's brilliantly stupid,

831
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 1: geniusly stupid like that, you know, you don't. Okay, hey, listen,

832
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 1: Brilliance and Stupid will be at the improv in WestBam.

833
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: It's brilliant. I'm brilliant and I'm stupid. Get at all

834
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 1: these combinations are prey Okay, we got to go. Thank you,

835
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 1: Netew coming up at the top of the hour. I

836
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 1: don't like the company and he knows it. That is

837
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Speaker 1: the subject of the Strawberry Letter. We'll get into it

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Morning Show Time. Now,

839
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: guys for it Today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:06,319
Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please

841
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and

842
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:13,560
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843
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,320
Speaker 1: here that live on the air. You never know it

844
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: could be yours. Buckle up, hold on tight. We got

845
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:23,840
Speaker 1: it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter subject.

846
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 1: I don't like company and he knows it. Dear Stephen Shirley,

847
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: I've been married for seven years to a man that

848
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:34,360
Speaker 1: is wonderful in every way except one. He doesn't respect

849
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 1: my time or my privacy. I knew him for many

850
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: years prior to dating him, and we would meet his

851
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 1: friends for dinner and drinks when he was in between relationships.

852
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: He went from relationship to relationship before we started dating

853
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 1: because he is the type of man that does not

854
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:55,320
Speaker 1: ever want to be alone. He would always say he

855
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 1: was out of my league. But he grew on me

856
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: over time and asked me he wanted to if we

857
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: could start dating. Since then, he hasn't wanted me out

858
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: of his sight. It was cute at first, but then

859
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: he got his family all in the mix. They are

860
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 1: very clingy and there's a lot of them. Before we

861
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,720
Speaker 1: got married, I had to go to cookouts, birthdays, weddings

862
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,760
Speaker 1: and church with them. I don't see my own family

863
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: as much as I see his. My husband doesn't understand

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00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 1: that I need to have people around me all of

865
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 1: the time. My husband under My husband doesn't understand that

866
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: I don't need to have people all around me all

867
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: the time. He's a professional chef and partner in a

868
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 1: new restaurant, so he works long hours. I look forward

869
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 1: to the peace and quiet of our home when he's working,

870
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 1: but he seems to think he's depriving me of quality

871
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 1: time and I'm bored or lonely. They'll have his sisters

872
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 1: or his mom stop by unannounced and they sit and

873
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 1: chat for hours. I've had to literally put on my

874
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 1: pajamas like I'm going to bed so they'll leave. Recently,

875
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 1: his youngest brother asked to stay with us for the

876
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:05,240
Speaker 1: semester since we live close to the college. My husband

877
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 1: told him he's welcome to stay without asking me first.

878
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:11,760
Speaker 1: He knows I do not want to be bothered ninety

879
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 1: eight percent of the time, So why does he keep

880
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:17,840
Speaker 1: trying to push his family off on me. I definitely

881
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 1: don't hate him, but I would love to set boundaries.

882
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: How do I get my husband to understand? All right, Well,

883
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,359
Speaker 1: I think it's a little late for that, because you've

884
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 1: been letting this happen for seven years now, and it

885
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: started before you guys were married. You said you went

886
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:38,480
Speaker 1: to birthday celebrations, barbecues, weddings, all of that, all sorts

887
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: of family gatherings. How are they supposed to know you

888
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 1: don't like company. You're always around them. Your husband is

889
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 1: the one inviting them, though he's very sociable. Isn't he

890
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:52,879
Speaker 1: very sociable? Doesn't he know that it's crazy for them

891
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: to drop by unannounced, but they think you're home because

892
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: and they know your home because your husband tells them.

893
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: So you can't and hide in the room or anything

894
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 1: and act like you're not there. Your husband already told

895
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 1: him you're up in there. So instead of sitting around

896
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 1: being mad, being stressed out, you gotta let your husband

897
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 1: know that you enjoy your solitude. You got to be

898
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: serious about this. Tell him you like having your me time.

899
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: You know things have changed, you know you work and

900
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 1: all of that, and you gotta be serious with him.

901
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:25,919
Speaker 1: It is very disrespectful for him to invite his brother

902
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: to live with you without asking you. Come on, now,

903
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 1: he can't do that. You got to sit him down

904
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 1: and have a serious conversation with him. He's obviously very

905
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 1: protective of you that I guess that's why he wants

906
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 1: people around you all the time. But I'm sure you

907
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 1: can make him understand. So again, I think you got

908
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: to tell him in no uncertain terms. Steve, Well, you

909
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 1: know I always take the letters from the top all

910
00:57:54,640 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 1: the way down. Surely has a different approach. Shirley said

911
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: that it's too late in this letter, and the reason

912
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: she said it was because you knew all of this

913
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 1: before you married him. But you married him anyway. But

914
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: if that said, it's not too late and I have

915
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 1: some solutions. You've been married seven years as a very

916
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 1: wonderful man in everywhere except one. He doesn't respect your

917
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: time or privacy. I would like to tell you something.

918
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,920
Speaker 1: He doesn't know that he's disrespecting your time in privacy.

919
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: He just doesn't flat out know it. I knew him

920
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: for many years prior to dating him, and we would

921
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:44,960
Speaker 1: meet its friends for dinner and drinks when he was

922
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:49,959
Speaker 1: in between relationships. He went from relationship to relationship before

923
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 1: y'all started dating, because he's the type of man that

924
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 1: don't ever like to be alone. And let me point

925
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 1: this out. You knew that he would always say that

926
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 1: he was out of my league, but he grew on

927
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 1: me over time. Now, for those of you listening to

928
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 1: what he says, when he says he out of her league,

929
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: that means she was out of his league. That's what

930
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: that really means. That she was a little bit too

931
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: much polished and second greatness for you know, for him,

932
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 1: that's what that really means. But over time, he grew

933
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: on me, and I asked him if he wanted to

934
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 1: start dating. Well, since then, he hasn't wanted me out

935
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 1: of his sight. It was cute at first, but he

936
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 1: got his family in the mix. They're very cleaning, clinging.

937
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: It's a lot of them. Say, it's kind of like roaches.

938
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 1: You know. We get a big family and there's a

939
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 1: lot of them, and they clinging at roaches. That's what

940
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 1: that's like. And the reason I don't mean it in

941
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: a negative sense, but that's just the roaches. Let's look

942
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 1: at the and you'll see why. You can understand roaches

943
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:04,200
Speaker 1: is a always a lot of them. If you see one,

944
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 1: you better get the spraying. Because he ain't ever buy

945
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 1: myself another quality about roaches. They are well, they are well,

946
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:18,919
Speaker 1: I'm just letting him know. And they cling it. They're

947
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: on the walls, they're on the back of the refrigerator,

948
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 1: they're on the floor and the base cabino under the saint.

949
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 1: You've married into a family of roaches. And when we

950
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,880
Speaker 1: come back, I will offer you some type of solution,

951
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: right all right? Coming up Steve's response his part two

952
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:45,200
Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour, the subject is

953
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:48,200
Speaker 1: I don't like company, and he knows it. We'll get

954
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Morning Show

955
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter,

956
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: the subject I don't like company and he knows it well.

957
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: Been married for seven years to this wonderful man, and

958
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 1: everywhere except you say he don't respect your privacy. But

959
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 1: I don't think he realizes what he's doing. Man, And

960
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 1: I point this to you in the letter. You knew

961
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 1: him for years before, and he was always in and

962
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 1: out of relationships. And because he's the type of man

963
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: that never wants to be alone, he told you he

964
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:20,320
Speaker 1: knew that you was out of his league. But then

965
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:22,720
Speaker 1: you asked him if he wanted to start dating because

966
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 1: you ain't hand nobody, And then he said yes, And

967
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 1: then y'all got together, and he didn't want you out

968
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 1: of his sight. And at first it was cute, but

969
01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 1: now it didn't got on your damn names. So nine,

970
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:43,479
Speaker 1: he didn't got his family all up in the mix,

971
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 1: which means that they're very clinging. There's a lot of them.

972
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: I equated this before the break, that you have now

973
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: married into a family roaches, because roaches, and the reason

974
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 1: I mean there's not even like you bugs, but I

975
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:58,960
Speaker 1: mean just they is always more than one of them.

976
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 1: They everywhere, and they all over the damn place. And

977
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 1: before you got married, you had to go to cookouts, birthdays,

978
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 1: weddings in church with him. You know, I don't see

979
01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 1: my whole family as much as I see here. Yeah,

980
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 1: but your man in the heads though. And remember this

981
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 1: is the Roach family, last name roaches, Earl Roaches, Walter Roaches,

982
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:37,120
Speaker 1: Charlie Roaches, Gerald, Dan, Sheila Roaches, Keisha Roaches. It's just

983
01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 1: a lot of them. And so anyway, my husband doesn't

984
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:43,600
Speaker 1: understand that I don't need to have people around me

985
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 1: all the time. See, he's a professional chef and a

986
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: party in the new restaurant, Now that's a lot of hours.

987
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: So he works a lot, and and you look forward

988
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: to the peace and quiet in our home when he's working.

989
01:02:55,640 --> 01:03:00,120
Speaker 1: But he thinks he's depriving you of quality time. And

990
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 1: you bored and lonely, so here seeing his sisters or

991
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 1: his mother to stop by on announced and they sit

992
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:11,200
Speaker 1: and chat for hours. This got to stop. And a

993
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 1: couple of ways you need to do this. First of all,

994
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 1: you need to stop answering the damn dough. Yeah you can.

995
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 1: I used to do it all the time. Bill collectors

996
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 1: and witnesses they knew when you came to my house,

997
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: it's fit to be a little it's gonna be a

998
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 1: little tricky. Great men, I had a screen door on

999
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:36,400
Speaker 1: my house when I first got married, and the door

1000
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: would be open, and the screen door would be locked

1001
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 1: if you came up there on a Saturday morning, rang

1002
01:03:41,360 --> 01:03:45,440
Speaker 1: that doughbell. We wasn't hard. I walked out the kitchen

1003
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: and look right after screen though. They look right at me,

1004
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: and I turned around and gonna sit back down because

1005
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,920
Speaker 1: I'm not fen to hear this. I'm not fit to

1006
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 1: buy one. You could asking me do I wan't one.

1007
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 1: You can get off my poach. I'm all it. So

1008
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 1: I'm already not going down to the church. I'm chauffing

1009
01:04:04,600 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 1: and not go down to the hall. Y'all can get

1010
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:11,960
Speaker 1: off my poach. Okay, you're gonna have to stop answering

1011
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 1: your damn dough. I don't care if your car is

1012
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 1: in the driveway. Yeah you didn't hit, you were sleeping.

1013
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: I don't give a damn they're looking to when they

1014
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 1: see you looking at TV. Keep eating your popcorn. When

1015
01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:33,880
Speaker 1: they knock on the window, don't turn you know it's them. Man,

1016
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:38,080
Speaker 1: Why not better to be rude than them than to

1017
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 1: have them sitting up that chatting five hours and rude

1018
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 1: to you. You ton't putting you to literally had to

1019
01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 1: put on your pajamas like you're going to bed, so

1020
01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:51,040
Speaker 1: they'll lead. They still don't leave, So why not save

1021
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 1: yourself the trouble of going through all that while they

1022
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 1: knocking on the door looking in the one to go

1023
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 1: in your room and get your pajamas and come back

1024
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:01,959
Speaker 1: and put Yo Pa Jamma's on in the living room

1025
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:05,919
Speaker 1: and then turn the TV off and go getting the bed.

1026
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 1: They got to go home, all this in front of

1027
01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: their face. His youngest brother asked to stay with us

1028
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: for the semester since we live close to the college.

1029
01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 1: Bars and told him he welcome to stay without asking me.

1030
01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 1: He knows I don't want to be bothered ninety eight

1031
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 1: percent of the time, So why does he keep trying

1032
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 1: to push his family out on me. He don't know

1033
01:05:27,760 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 1: how to say no, and he don't like being alone.

1034
01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 1: So now you his wife, and he thinking you cool

1035
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: with it. The little boy can't stay here because it's

1036
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 1: close to the college. It's better get up on that bus,

1037
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 1: o berth. They got all types of stuff out now, Oh,

1038
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 1: berth Bus dormitory. They got a lot of things out

1039
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 1: that night that you can get cool. You can get

1040
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 1: real close to the college. You getting that damn done.

1041
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,440
Speaker 1: Your ask could be right there. But we're gonna try

1042
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 1: all that because you not standing in here, and you

1043
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 1: need to tell him you want to walk around your

1044
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 1: house like you want to, and this little boy his

1045
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 1: brother's gonna inhibit that. And you should never feel uncomfortable

1046
01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:12,040
Speaker 1: in your own house. So why does he keep trying

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Speaker 1: to push his family off on me? Because he thank

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Speaker 1: you lonely and you don't like being at the house,

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Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to prove him that you enjoy

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Speaker 1: the loneliness and just to help him understand better since

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Speaker 1: he don't like being alone. If you don't stop pushing

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Speaker 1: your family on me and don't allow me some meat time,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get me some meat time because you already

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Speaker 1: know I'm out your league. And you know this sounds

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Speaker 1: like a threat or damn threat. I definitely don't hate them,

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Speaker 1: but I would love to set boundaries. How can I

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Speaker 1: get my husband to understand? Just like I said, you

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Speaker 1: start by making their ass knock to they drop. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we gotta run Steve. Post your comments on today's Strawberry

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Speaker 1: Letter a Mary f M drawing, Instagram, role Facebook. Check

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Speaker 1: out the Strubberry and Letter podcast on demand. Coming up

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Speaker 1: to forty six minutes after sports Stalk with Junior. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, Junior is here with sports stock. What

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Speaker 1: you got Junior? All right? First of all, let me

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Speaker 1: just say congratulations again off to Steve and Cleveland Browns

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Speaker 1: for being in the Houston, Texas offer congratulations on a welcome.

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Speaker 1: Well man, they want already they didn't want. Well, what

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Speaker 1: they're trying to do, Tommy is trying to soften the blow.

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Speaker 1: What I may say, Yeah, front, you need to learn

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Speaker 1: that tech say what can't you say? We love? What

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Speaker 1: else can you say? I didn't say nothing, Nah, we

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Speaker 1: just just got in front of it. But also in

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Speaker 1: other sports news, man ways, Cam's gonna play that man?

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Speaker 1: You know? Do you know it's only week two and five?

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Speaker 1: Starting quarterbacks out already? I know somebody he could play

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Speaker 1: somewhere definitely. Okay, let's go down list Carson Witz for

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Speaker 1: the coach he out ain't probably two to four weeks.

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Speaker 1: You can really use Cam Newton. They can use Cam

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Speaker 1: Tyrod Taylor. The Texas Nord knows we can use Cam

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Speaker 1: right now? Lord, did you see our backed up quarterback

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Speaker 1: The first play he the first play he did on Sunday,

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01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 1: he tried to ham to a running back that wasn't there.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know we got did We should send

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Speaker 1: him one? We really could use him. I can't even

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Speaker 1: say this board name down in mind, but two a

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Speaker 1: tiger lot bore to two out. That's all. He out

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Speaker 1: with Blues reb he had about two to four weeks.

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Speaker 1: They could use Cam. And did Dalton for Chicago he out.

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Speaker 1: They're not gonna use him because Justin Fields brought them

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Speaker 1: back in to get the victory on Sunday. He's out

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Speaker 1: with a knee injury. And Ryan Vinzpatrick Fitzpatrick from Washington

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Speaker 1: football team, he is out. He has a help. He's

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Speaker 1: probably about six to eight weeks. And his old coach

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Speaker 1: they could really use them because his old coach is

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Speaker 1: Ron Rivera when he was at the Carol out of Panthers.

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Speaker 1: They should bring him in. Yeah, So we need Cam

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Speaker 1: to land somewhere. Best fit though, I probably think would

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Speaker 1: be Miami. I think, yeah, I think he could really

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Speaker 1: his and his dress code goes well with Miami. He

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01:09:16,600 --> 01:09:18,599
Speaker 1: can be wild like that, you know, with the kind

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Speaker 1: of the hats and they all all the all the

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Speaker 1: colors and everything colors. Yeah, he fitting in rped that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Miami will be a good fit for him, man. And

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Speaker 1: so you also, you know they're gonna probably start talks

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Speaker 1: back up to get the Shawn wantson. Miami might be

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Speaker 1: going back after de Shawn wantson. And this is what

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Speaker 1: we want for they have a masseuse form. I mean

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Speaker 1: in the contract. Hey, they won't save yourself, yourself all

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Speaker 1: that trouble. Let's just get it in the contract, I know, man,

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Speaker 1: Sean Man, look, man, we just want to say we

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Speaker 1: have it in court. Man, That's all I'm saying. But

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Speaker 1: they walked six. Hate that he made the mistake, you know.

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Speaker 1: I hate that he made the mistake. Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 1: And it's for it's for they're saying sexual assault. Um,

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Speaker 1: it's it's a lot that that can be wrapped into that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, And I just I wish it never had happened, man, true,

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Speaker 1: all right, see we're happening. Thank you, Junior, Thank you Junior.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Is your

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Speaker 1: partner your best friend? We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Here's a question for you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Is your partner your best friend? Were your friends before

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Speaker 1: you became romantic? Oh? Yeah? You know. It seems despite

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Speaker 1: the popularity of dating apps, most relationships start the old

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Speaker 1: fashioned way. That's right. Most of them do with people

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Speaker 1: who are friends first. In fact, researchers have found that

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Speaker 1: sixty six sixty six percent of people were platonic friends

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Speaker 1: with their partner before starting a romantic relationship. So, Steve,

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Speaker 1: I gotta go to you. Do you believe there are

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Speaker 1: benefits to being friends with someone before you date them?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it is. It's not necessary, but it but

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Speaker 1: it it is, But it's not necessary. And a lot

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Speaker 1: of relationships start the other way first, they get physical

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Speaker 1: before they're good friends. Yeah, and um, I'm right now,

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Speaker 1: I'm married to my best friend because I ain't got none.

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Speaker 1: You ain't got I ain't got no real friends. No,

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Speaker 1: you know I ain't. I ain't. I don't really have

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01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 1: no dudes I share everything with. I just don't. I've

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Speaker 1: grown out of that space. I want to ask you

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Speaker 1: this because it's always puzzled me. What about people who

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01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 1: are friends? They're really really good friends. We have a

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01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:08,679
Speaker 1: lot of strawberry letters about this. They're really good friends,

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Speaker 1: and then they try to be romantic and it doesn't

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01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:17,479
Speaker 1: work out and the friendship gets all weird after that. Look, look, look, look, look,

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01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:20,040
Speaker 1: I said a hundred times. I'm not gonna stop saying it.

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Speaker 1: If a man is attracted to you, it's hard for

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Speaker 1: him to stay your friend, right, you say that all

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Speaker 1: the time. I don't know how, I don't and I

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Speaker 1: don't know why we keep debating this thing. If a

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01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:37,559
Speaker 1: man is attracted to you, it's gonna be really hard

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Speaker 1: for him to stay your friend. It's really hard. So

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Speaker 1: let's just notice. If you know that you're attractive to

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Speaker 1: this guy and y'all just friends, it's just until he

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Speaker 1: see a crack in the door. A physical friend, and

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Speaker 1: he's gonna be physical friend. What a physical friend like

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Speaker 1: a friend with benefits? What are you talking about? We're

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Speaker 1: gonna be physical, but we're gonna be friends, you know

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01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's a friend. That's a kind of relationship.

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Speaker 1: That's a friends with benefit, that's a sexual relationship. Call

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Speaker 1: it what you want to call it's a sexual relationship

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Speaker 1: and eventually feelings on one one of the parts is

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Speaker 1: gonna get involved, usually the woman, Usually the woman exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm in love. Man ain't nobody sign up

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Speaker 1: for love. It's supposed to be just nice physical friends,

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01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:42,240
Speaker 1: says the host. Are Ready to Love from Julia from

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Speaker 1: Radio Tommy and TV Tommy, I got you, I got you.

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Speaker 1: You ain't all the way crazy taught me. Far from it.

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Speaker 1: So Steve, it is still your contention that men and

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Speaker 1: women it's hard for them to be friends without being physical.

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Speaker 1: That is that what you're saying If the man is

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Speaker 1: attracted to you, I've never seen what? How? What just

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Speaker 1: just show? That's that? So then the question is what

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01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 1: we just brought up surely with the with the second

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Speaker 1: to be friends? Can you first and then date? And

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Speaker 1: you're saying that if you are friends and that man

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01:14:28,800 --> 01:14:33,599
Speaker 1: is attracted to the woman, because said who We're trying

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Speaker 1: to say, if you're gonna be friends first and then

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01:14:36,000 --> 01:14:38,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna date, how does that work? If you say

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01:14:38,120 --> 01:14:40,720
Speaker 1: men and women can't be friends if a man is

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Speaker 1: attracted to you. Eventually, when there's a crack in the door,

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01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 1: he's going to annoy. If he can put his foot

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01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:51,680
Speaker 1: in the door and be more than friends, right, than

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01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 1: these relationships that turn start out that way can turn

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Speaker 1: out and blossom into wonderful and beautiful relationship, your ship.

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01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 1: It can happen then sometimes and that's a great way

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01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 1: for it to start because you started as friends. It's

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Speaker 1: a great thing to happen. Now here's a sad part.

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Speaker 1: Ain't attracted to you. Okay, we gotta go, Steve, hold on,

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01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:18,120
Speaker 1: we gotta go. All right, We'll be back with more

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Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steven Show. All right,

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01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:30,559
Speaker 1: we're back, Steve. Let's try to clear this up once

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Speaker 1: and for all if we can, because there's so much

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Speaker 1: debate about this. Can men and women be friends? And

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Speaker 1: once they cross that physical line, can they still be friends?

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Speaker 1: Because sometimes that gets weird. So so let's let's try

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Speaker 1: to clear this up because it is a debate, ongoing

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Speaker 1: debate between men and women all the time. You say,

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Speaker 1: what man did you? And this way I'd be teller.

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Speaker 1: Men and women can be friends only if the man

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01:16:09,240 --> 01:16:13,920
Speaker 1: does not find the woman attractive. Or is not attracted

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01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 1: to her for whatever the reason. If a man finds

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01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:21,479
Speaker 1: you attractive and is attracted to you and is your friend,

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01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:24,560
Speaker 1: I want you to understand that the moment there is

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01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:27,280
Speaker 1: a crack in the door, a chink in the armor,

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01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 1: and he see a way he can fit in and

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Speaker 1: be more than your friend, or you'll do that. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: he will unequivocally. Now, can you start a friendship that

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01:16:39,080 --> 01:16:41,519
Speaker 1: way and it blossom into a relationship? Yes? And you

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01:16:41,600 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 1: know why the blossom into a relationship because he's been

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Speaker 1: attracted to you the whole time period. Now here's the

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Speaker 1: sad part that you don't want to hear. If the

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Speaker 1: man is not attracted to you or find you unattractive,

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Speaker 1: you can be his friend. Okay, all right, we'll be

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Speaker 1: debating this for centuries to come. All Right, more of

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three

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Speaker 1: minutes after right after this, you're listening to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it's time now for

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Speaker 1: ask the CLO chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building.

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Speaker 1: This one is from Jewel in Macon, Georgia. Jewel writes,

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Speaker 1: I'm in my mid fifties and I'm dating a guy

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Speaker 1: that is my age. He's a hard working professional man,

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Speaker 1: but I have a big issue with his grooming. We've

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Speaker 1: been together one month, and on a few occasions I've

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Speaker 1: seen him bite his nails and spit them across the room.

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Speaker 1: I asked if he needed a nail clipper, and he

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Speaker 1: told me he has one that he only uses for

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Speaker 1: his toenails. Well, that couldn't be true, because his toenails

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Speaker 1: are long as heck. Dating after divorce is so hard,

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Speaker 1: and I compare men to my well groomed ex am,

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Speaker 1: I being overly critical. Well let's look at this well

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Speaker 1: groom ink didn't won't you no more? See, you have

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01:18:04,080 --> 01:18:08,439
Speaker 1: to realize who's ever fault. The divorce was at one

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Speaker 1: point in time, everybody got signed the paper. So there's

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Speaker 1: a particular moment. Who are neither either one of you

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01:18:16,040 --> 01:18:19,320
Speaker 1: won't each other? So now you keep comparing yourself to

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01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:23,120
Speaker 1: somebody that don't won't you. Now here's the problem with Dayton.

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Speaker 1: Everybody's gonna be different than somebody else. Everybody. He has

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Speaker 1: a habit of biting his nails, and his toenails is long.

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01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:38,800
Speaker 1: We gotta do something. Nah, you can work on that

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01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 1: he ain't had nobody working on it. Just say, hey, look,

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Speaker 1: it really disgusted me when you bite your nails and

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01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:50,560
Speaker 1: spit across the rule, and it really discussed me that

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01:18:50,760 --> 01:18:55,000
Speaker 1: you got claws on your feet. Now, I'm will help

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01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:57,800
Speaker 1: you because obviously no one else has taken the time

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01:18:57,880 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 1: to love you that way, and because you're a professional

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01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:03,040
Speaker 1: and and make a lot of money and you're doing

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01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 1: real wale in life. Anybody saying nothing but I'm gonna

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01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:09,160
Speaker 1: help you? Can I help you? Most men will accept

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01:19:09,200 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 1: the help you cut me with them. But but but

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01:19:13,200 --> 01:19:16,719
Speaker 1: first of all, compliment him on what he is before

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Speaker 1: you take him down with what he got. Nice knees.

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Speaker 1: That's girl. I love you. You are special. You're something

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Speaker 1: else you really do ooh you make money? Something something

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Speaker 1: your hand something. Yeah, yeah, I got two things I

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Speaker 1: would want. I would wonder if you would just consider

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Speaker 1: for me. Yeah, your nails, because I don't want nobody

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01:19:45,600 --> 01:19:47,680
Speaker 1: talking about my man. Because he got a habit of

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Speaker 1: chewing his nails and spinning across the room. Amazing, it's

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Speaker 1: gonna be hard for him to stop. You can't because

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Speaker 1: you can't get your foot in your mouth. No more

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01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:03,280
Speaker 1: to him last time you had your foot in your mouth,

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Speaker 1: you was a baby's time. He was all right, coming up.

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Speaker 1: It is our last break of the day. And also

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Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after the hour, we'll have some

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Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right

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Speaker 1: after this you're listening to show all right, here we

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Speaker 1: are our last break of the day on this Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's been a good day, um and Steve, this is

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Speaker 1: World Gratitude Day, World Gratitude. That's amazing. It is that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've never heard who did they just stought this? Well, yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I haven't heard the world. I've never

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Speaker 1: heard the World Gratitude Day. And I've been alive a

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Speaker 1: lot of days. But you know, man, that's a good thing,

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01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:56,680
Speaker 1: you know what. But it's also a reminder, and you

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01:20:56,760 --> 01:21:01,600
Speaker 1: know what because I think one of the most under

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Speaker 1: promoted principles of success, because you know, look, you go

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01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:08,200
Speaker 1: to a lot of success seminars and things like that,

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01:21:08,320 --> 01:21:10,200
Speaker 1: and you go to a lot of places. You know,

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01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:12,840
Speaker 1: people spend money to learn how to get into real

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01:21:12,960 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 1: estate with no money down. People find ways to buy

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01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:21,520
Speaker 1: these different training programs to better yourselves or increase your lifestyle.

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Speaker 1: People do all types of things. I mean, and I

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01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:26,240
Speaker 1: ain't mad at you. I don't blame you at all,

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Speaker 1: because you know, I got into Amway because they said,

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01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 1: you know, you could become a millionaire basically selling soap.

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01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:35,479
Speaker 1: But it was a bit more to that when I

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01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:38,320
Speaker 1: got into it. But I learned more about the principles

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Speaker 1: of success from Amway that I did from anything else.

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Speaker 1: And am Wi should contact me one day because I

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01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:46,680
Speaker 1: would be a great speaker at Amway because I just

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01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:51,800
Speaker 1: involved in it for almost three four years. Just a

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01:21:51,920 --> 01:21:54,479
Speaker 1: suggestion putting that out into the universe. That's how it

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Speaker 1: happens for me, though I put it out there and

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Speaker 1: in all of my trains and all of my learning

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Speaker 1: about success. Like I said, one of the most underpromoted

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Speaker 1: principles of success is the principle of gratitude. See gratitude man,

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Speaker 1: It's it's a way of putting into the universe. And

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Speaker 1: I'll start by saying that, or if you're spiritual enough,

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01:22:26,680 --> 01:22:31,559
Speaker 1: it's a way of saying to your heavenly father, thank

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Speaker 1: you for these many blessings that I often take for granted.

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01:22:37,880 --> 01:22:40,679
Speaker 1: You know, the simple act of waking up every morning,

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01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:44,160
Speaker 1: do you understand that you do not have the ability

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01:22:44,240 --> 01:22:48,040
Speaker 1: to wake yourself up in the morning. I'm sorry you don't.

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01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:51,800
Speaker 1: You can set your alarm clock, but a lot of

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01:22:51,840 --> 01:22:56,760
Speaker 1: people don't answer to Bill when your alarm goes off.

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01:22:57,160 --> 01:23:00,200
Speaker 1: God shakes you, wakes you up in a life allows

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Speaker 1: you to hear the alarm. To say thank you for

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01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 1: that alone is a very simple thing to do. But

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Speaker 1: how many times do we forget? How many times do

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Speaker 1: we forget that? How often do we forget that breathing

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Speaker 1: is not a given? You can ask people who have asthma.

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01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:24,600
Speaker 1: They will tell you in a heartbeat the significance and

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Speaker 1: the importance of breathing, man, because they, from time to

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01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:29,880
Speaker 1: time can lose get shortness of breath. And it's a

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Speaker 1: frightening thing. Man. I've had two children with asthma. I

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01:23:33,680 --> 01:23:36,800
Speaker 1: used to suffer from bron kill asthma. It's it's it's

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Speaker 1: it's a crippling thing. So those people are grateful for

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01:23:40,479 --> 01:23:44,000
Speaker 1: things as simple as breathing. People take walking for granted,

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Speaker 1: But talk to somebody who came or whish they could.

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Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, when you are thankful, when you

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01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:55,519
Speaker 1: offer up your gratitude to God, what he does is

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01:23:56,200 --> 01:23:59,840
Speaker 1: it causes him to go ahead and allow you to

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Speaker 1: have more things to be grateful for. I am telling you, man,

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01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:07,080
Speaker 1: it is the lack of gratitude that stops most people

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Speaker 1: from getting to the next level. I'll give you an example.

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Speaker 1: Let's say you have a job that you really don't

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Speaker 1: care for. Let's just use this as an example, and

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01:24:18,000 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 1: you have to get up and you have to go

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Speaker 1: to that job every day. Now, and what you're doing

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01:24:24,320 --> 01:24:27,920
Speaker 1: is you complain about the job. Man, I can't stand working.

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Speaker 1: I'm so sick of this job. Jobs get on my nerve.

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01:24:32,360 --> 01:24:36,200
Speaker 1: This job makes me sick. Well, now, guess what. Let

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Speaker 1: me ask you a simple question. Why would God give

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Speaker 1: you another job that you might complain about two So

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Speaker 1: guess what. Let's just leave you where you are and

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Speaker 1: just let you just be right here, because if I

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Speaker 1: give you another job, you ain't gonna be grateful for

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Speaker 1: that one either. But listen, even though you don't like

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Speaker 1: the job, you don't have a good enough sense to

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01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:03,679
Speaker 1: be grateful that you're working. You don't think it would

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01:25:03,680 --> 01:25:05,920
Speaker 1: be a smart move to say, hey, God, listen, I'm

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Speaker 1: not where I want to be, but I should appreciate

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Speaker 1: where I am. Thank you for this opportunity to pay

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01:25:10,880 --> 01:25:13,320
Speaker 1: my rent, to make my house notes, to pay my bills.

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Speaker 1: I'm grateful for that now, Heavenly Father. I wish I

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Speaker 1: had a job I like. I would love for you

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Speaker 1: to send a job that I love my way, but

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Speaker 1: I am also grateful for the fact that I'm working.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you you'll get a new job, but if

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01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:31,960
Speaker 1: you never thank him for the one you have, and

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01:25:32,120 --> 01:25:34,679
Speaker 1: you show a lack of gratitude for what that job,

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01:25:34,800 --> 01:25:36,639
Speaker 1: you may not like the job. Let's just think about

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01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:38,920
Speaker 1: what it does. Though. It does keep a roof over

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01:25:39,040 --> 01:25:42,240
Speaker 1: your head, it does keep you moving, it does keep

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01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:44,880
Speaker 1: the basics covered, and you're eating every day, but you're

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Speaker 1: not grateful for that because you're so busy complaining about

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01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:52,519
Speaker 1: it that you never thank him for it, and you,

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Speaker 1: in turn prohibit more blessings from coming your way. I'm

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Speaker 1: telling y'all this is how it works. If a person

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Speaker 1: came by your house to borrow a cup of sugar

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Speaker 1: every day and took the sugar and never said thank you,

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Speaker 1: how many days could he come back to your house

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Speaker 1: and ask you for sugar without you saying, holder, man,

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01:26:11,280 --> 01:26:13,000
Speaker 1: you come by here every day, get a cup of sugar.

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Speaker 1: You ain't gonna say thank you nowtime. I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 1: Don't come with this your last couple of sugar. Now,

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Speaker 1: that's what people do to you. Suppose God did that

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Speaker 1: to you. Do you imagine the trouble you will be

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Speaker 1: so on what they are calling National Gratitude Day. Don't

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Speaker 1: wait on the government to give you National Gratitude Day.

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Speaker 1: You better wake up with it every day. Thank God

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Speaker 1: for everything he's done for you. Now that don't stop

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01:26:39,240 --> 01:26:41,479
Speaker 1: you from asking him for more, but at least it

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Speaker 1: sends the message to him that you're grateful for what

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Speaker 1: he's done for you, and that will cause him to

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Speaker 1: do more things for you to be grateful for. It's

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Speaker 1: a simple principle that's oftentimes overlooked. Stop overlooking gratitude, be grateful,

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Speaker 1: and watch God open up the windows of heaven to

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Speaker 1: pour out a blessing that you won't have room enough

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Speaker 1: to receive. Steve Harve isn't living witness to that, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Let the church amen, Amen, have a great day, y'all

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Speaker 1: for all. Steve Harvey contests no purchase necessary void where

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Speaker 1: prohibited participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen

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Speaker 1: years old unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.