1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Happy Hour. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:06,359 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Sara. 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: And this is part two with Gary and Teresa and 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 1: Teresa's daughters on the line. 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 2: They're figuring out some wedding details. 6 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 1: And we're finding out Gary has a shellfish allergy. 7 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 3: We have to make some decisions. Oh my goodness, I 8 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 3: know it's she's here. 9 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 4: Literally in five minutes, we with her help, we wind 10 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 4: out the entire menu. 11 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 2: I know she's really killing it on the wedding planning front. 12 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really good. That's so great. Like I just 13 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 3: said to her, we got five minutes. I said yes 14 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 3: to this, Yes to this? 15 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 2: Yes, what are the specialty cocktail name options? Again? 16 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 3: Yes? So we've got turned. 17 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 4: Her into missus one headlight. 18 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 2: One headlight? Is that a reference back to your first date? 19 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 4: Yes, to the cordett, and we've got the final rose. 20 00:00:57,520 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 4: Love it, and then the birthday. 21 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 5: Suit, which is a reference back to your entrance out 22 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 5: of the limo. 23 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 2: I love that. Are you gonna have four cocktails or 24 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 2: those the four options? 25 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 3: So we get to have four? I was just asking 26 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 3: for four. I don't know. Yeah. 27 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 1: Can I ask Jenna question? 28 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 3: Yes? Okay, ask you? 29 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: She said, Hi, John, Hi, Hi, Jen, quick question for you, 30 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: what are you most excited about for this wedding? 31 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 3: I mean the wedding. She's just like, I'm real. We 32 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 3: just keep saying you can't even remember or find an 33 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 3: what's happening? Like, I'm so yeah, incredible. 34 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: It really is incredible because it's just something that I'm 35 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: assuming none of you would have ever expected this a 36 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: few years ago. 37 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, listen to a year ago that this is what 38 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 3: we'd be worth. 39 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 4: Like doing right now, we feel the same way, Jo, So. 40 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 5: You know, well give it a few weeks Jen, and 41 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 5: your answer that question is going to be I'm excited 42 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 5: to not be planning a wedding anymore. 43 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 3: So fast, Yeah, I get yeah, it's going to be 44 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:09,119 Speaker 3: like a whirlwind plan here. 45 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 2: That's so true. 46 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 3: I'm really blessed to have an incredible daughter, just like 47 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 3: Gary's blessed with his two incredible daughters. Like we have 48 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 3: a really good support system, right, really amazing. So Jen's 49 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 3: picked down every dress for me. I have a million dresses, 50 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 3: come to the house and then try it on. Yes, no, no, 51 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 3: it's gone back, it's gone. Yeah, it's been amazing, so. 52 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 5: Fun on I don't want to say, you know you guys, 53 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:35,959 Speaker 5: have a good rest of your chat. 54 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: Thank you, very nice meeting. 55 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 5: Great meeting you, good luck with wedding planning, and congrats 56 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 5: on everything. 57 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 3: Okay, great, thank you, I love you. J bye. 58 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: Actually I have I want to bring up a point 59 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: now that we're talking about family members. We're going to 60 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: get back into the beginning of the season and how 61 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: it all began for you Teresa, and how everything started. 62 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: But I do want to bring up Gary, your family 63 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: was actually at the engagement and that was the first 64 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: time in Bachelor history I think that that's ever happened. 65 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: How special of a moment was that for you? Having 66 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: them there? 67 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 4: Oh, it's incredible. I remember specifically when I was talking 68 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:23,640 Speaker 4: to Teresa, I'm giving the will you marry me? Speech, 69 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 4: and then I see my daughters and my granddaughters running 70 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 4: across the grassy area, and you could look on their face. 71 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 4: You could see the excitement and the joy they had, 72 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 4: and I know in talking to them since that day, 73 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 4: of their feelings about what was going on, it was. 74 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 4: I mean, there's no replacing the joy you have with 75 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 4: family when you get a little bit older, and we 76 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 4: both kind of enjoy that same thing with our families. 77 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 2: Did you not know that they were going to be there? 78 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 2: Was that a surprise? 79 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 4: I did not know. I knew that they had been there, 80 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 4: you know, the days before interviewing women, and I kind 81 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 4: of I kind of hoped that maybe they'd stayed over, 82 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 4: but I had no indication that they were there. So yes, 83 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 4: I was completely surprised and thrilled. 84 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 2: Oh that's so nice, it's so fun. Well should we 85 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 2: run it? Should we run a back joke all the 86 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,919 Speaker 2: way to all the way from night one? 87 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 5: We love to just go through the season with you 88 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 5: guys now and talk about all the amazing moments that 89 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 5: we saw between the two of you. If that's all right, sure, yeah, 90 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 5: all right, Well I think we should start with night one. 91 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, night one. So Teresa, you step out of that 92 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: limo and you see Gary. What are you feeling? Is 93 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: I love at first sight? Like what's going on here? 94 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 3: I really went and I stepped out of that limo 95 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 3: and I was just thinking, Okay, don't let me fall, 96 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 3: don't let me trip. And as soon as I got 97 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 3: up next to Gary, go, oh my god, I'm really 98 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 3: attracted to him. I am so attracted to him. I said, 99 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 3: what the heck? Like, what are the two answers. I 100 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,919 Speaker 3: didn't think that was going to happen. I really I 101 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 3: didn't expect it. So you see, at the end of it, 102 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 3: I actually voluntarily kiss him on the lips, and it 103 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 3: was just like a peck you would give to your 104 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 3: husband twenty years Like I want, I said, because I 105 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 3: remembered it back as you kiss me. And then I go, oh, no, 106 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 3: really I did it. 107 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 2: Wow, I do remember that. I remember that. 108 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 5: I was like, whoa, Teresa came out kind of naked 109 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 5: and just went it for a kiss. 110 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 2: This is a wild entrance. I love it. 111 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 3: And I tell you about the entrance was. It was 112 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 3: when I was interviewing with the producers and so I said, 113 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 3: you know, we were going to start filing me on 114 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 3: August thirty. He said, Oh, my birthday's August fourth. He goes, oh, 115 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 3: that's great. Maybe you can walk out with a birthday cake. 116 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 3: And then in my head, I'm going, or maybe I've 117 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 3: walked out my birthday suit. I said, do I really 118 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 3: say this? I said, well, maybe I can work walking 119 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:50,679 Speaker 3: out on my birthday suit. He goes, that's it, you're hired, 120 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 3: but you're just kidding, and he goes and then they 121 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 3: stuck with it. I was so nervous and then you 122 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 3: could see this is smile plastered on my face and 123 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 3: I just couldn't to get to the end of that sentence, 124 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 3: like I can't do that. I've got I don't know 125 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 3: if anyone heard this. I couldn't do that. I got 126 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 3: six grandsons. I don't know if you even heard it. 127 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 3: And I said, oh, I did it. I got through it. 128 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 3: But yeah, I was immediately attractive. 129 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: Gary, would you say Teresa was a big standout for 130 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 1: you night one? 131 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 4: She was one of several standouts. You know, I'm not 132 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 4: going to say I was singling someone out that quickly 133 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 4: because I was trying to stay so open minded. So yeah, 134 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 4: she was definitely one. And it was because of you know, 135 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 4: like after her exit from the limo and we did 136 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 4: the little cupcake thing and it was she just gives 137 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 4: me this look. I mean, it's like right now, and 138 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 4: it was there right from the beginning. 139 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 2: And then Gary, going into night one and Teresa, you 140 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 2: can answer this as well, did you have any like 141 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 2: rules for yourself about how many women you were going 142 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 2: to kiss or if you wanted to kiss anyone? Teresa, 143 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 2: were you like, you know, I'm not going to kiss 144 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 2: him on the first night, or I definitely want to 145 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 2: kiss him. What was what was the attitude there? 146 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I clearly came into the first night with 147 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 4: an edict from my daughters and granddaughters, do not kiss 148 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 4: anyone on the first night. And if you count, I 149 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 4: failed four times. I'm perfectly fine with it. 150 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. I came into it with open to the experience, 151 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 3: and I didn't expect to be kissing him that first night. 152 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 3: I didn't, you know, expect on the bench to do that. 153 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 3: And I said, you know what time is sleeping, like, 154 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 3: do it? Go for it? So, I mean, it's here, 155 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 3: he's asking me to do this. Why not? So yeah, 156 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting to do it, but went wholeheartedly into it. 157 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: Teresa, do you did you watch the show before coming 158 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: on it? Do you watch it? 159 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 4: That's a good question. 160 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 3: I used to watch with my husband from twenty twelve 161 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 3: to twenty fourteen. I took him kicking and screaming like 162 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 3: he didn't really want to watch it, but then he 163 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 3: was so interested in and had opinions about all the women, 164 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 3: and we really enjoyed it then. But after we passed away, 165 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 3: I started, you know, I kind of shied away from 166 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 3: things we did together because it was too sad. So 167 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 3: I hadn't watched it in a long long time, but 168 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 3: I did start watching it. This is really funny. Just 169 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 3: before I came on, I watched some seasons and there 170 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 3: was a season where this girl they were asking her, well, 171 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 3: how was the date? And she wouldn't tell them and 172 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 3: they thought she was still a bit. I said, well, 173 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 3: I don't want to be thought it as a bitch, 174 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 3: so I'm going to share kiss it down, Joy Gary. 175 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: How comfortable would you be if you came home to 176 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 1: your home in South Carolina and Teresa had five or 177 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: six of the girls from your season over having drinks? 178 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: Are you? Are you fine with that? 179 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 4: Oh? Are you kidding? I'd be elated that there's so 180 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 4: many of those women who are just big personalities that 181 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 4: you love to be around there entertaining. Yeah, I'd be 182 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 4: one hundred find if there was a dozen. 183 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, the more the merry are. This be amazing. And 184 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 3: I keep in touch with many of them by phone. Yeah, 185 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 3: we're talking a lot. 186 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, we had a few on the podcast recently and 187 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 5: they all they all mentioned your name, Teresa, about how 188 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 5: lovely you are. We we got to talk about dind 189 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 5: diner day. 190 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 2: You read my mind. 191 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,319 Speaker 5: So first day of the season, Teresa goes to you, 192 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:38,959 Speaker 5: were you expecting that or did that surprise you? 193 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 3: I had no idea where I going like, I just said, 194 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 3: I didn't even know how to dress. So it's amazing 195 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:46,719 Speaker 3: we were. We were wearing the same color, although he 196 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 3: wore blow a lot, but you know, I said, I 197 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 3: will I have this dress and how about this? And 198 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 3: I did and so Susan was so generous. Did my hair? 199 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 3: Had no idea I was getting into a car where 200 00:09:56,679 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 3: the one was going to be the yeah that's me, 201 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 3: or that we were going on a highlight, or that 202 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 3: we were going to be on the road for so long, 203 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 3: and just seeing him like so uncomfortable. The steering is 204 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 3: like so loose, the headlights are flashing on love, We've 205 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 3: got eighteen wheelers call and I said, I kept saying 206 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 3: I want to reach out and touch his shoulder. I 207 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 3: really want to reach out. And then finally I said, okay, 208 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 3: I'm doing it. 209 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 2: And I went like that And what did that mean 210 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 2: to you? Gary? 211 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 5: I know you talked about you know that calmness on 212 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 5: the show, but you know, Teresa was your first one 213 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 5: on one day. Ever, you know, it's your first time 214 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 5: on this show. She's there, You're kind of in a 215 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 5: stressful situation. What did that mean to you? 216 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 4: Well, so it was really a physical reaction. It wasn't 217 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 4: as much emotional. I literally felt the stress and the 218 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 4: nervousness drain out of me and it's like just that 219 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 4: little touch on the shoulder. It's like, Hey, I'm your 220 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 4: partner here. 221 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 3: I'm with you. 222 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 4: You know you've got this. We're good, you know. I 223 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 4: As time went by in the throughout the other episode, 224 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,319 Speaker 4: I tried to not think about that too much because 225 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 4: I didn't want to lock in on the very first person. 226 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 1: That's okay, that's fine, Yeah, okay, your daughter, no. 227 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 2: More wedding questions. 228 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just didn't want to lock in on the 229 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 4: very first person at risk of missing something with all 230 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:27,359 Speaker 4: of the other women. 231 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 5: Involved, would you say, out of everything on that first 232 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 5: date between the two of you, that shoulder touch was 233 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 5: the thing that stood out the most or stuck with 234 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 5: you the most. 235 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, that and one other thing. When we were sharing 236 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 4: the milkshake, and I looked back on this more than 237 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 4: in the moment realizing it, we both talked NonStop like 238 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 4: a couple of giggly high school kids. But the interesting 239 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 4: thing was we were still hearing each other. She was 240 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 4: talking about Billy and I was talking about Tony. We 241 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 4: were talking about past experiences, and we were talking about 242 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 4: future hopes and dreams, and we still heard everything. The 243 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 4: other person said it was really awesome. 244 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he knew that the song was coming on, 245 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 3: but I knew nothing. So like in the show, it goes, 246 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 3: what's this? And then they were dancing, and I did say, well, 247 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 3: let's get up and dance like this is And I 248 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 3: thought we were just going to dance in the diner. 249 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:24,719 Speaker 3: But wait, I have to tell you this though. When 250 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 3: you finally get to the diner. In my head, I'm 251 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 3: going a diner, like we have a thousand diners day. 252 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 4: That's an. 253 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 2: You're take me anywhere. You're taking me to a diner. 254 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 3: And then I see a jukebox and we weren't able to, 255 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 3: you know, listen to music. I go, I said to him, oh, jukebox, 256 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 3: can we play music? And he just completely ignores me. 257 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 3: And then and then the song comes on and I 258 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 3: go and he keeps telling me. The name of the 259 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 3: song is said, you know the name of the song, 260 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 3: like and then we're dancing and then all of a 261 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 3: sudden they're taking us out. In my mind, I'm saying, 262 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 3: oh my god, this is the coolest thing ever. I 263 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 3: cannot wait to show my daughter. I can't wait to 264 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 3: show it my entire family, Like, wow, we're in the 265 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 3: middle of the flash, mom. How incredible was it was? 266 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 2: It was amazing, it was adorable. 267 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 5: It was like a movie moment. Truly, it felt like 268 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 5: I was watching a rob cop. 269 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, did you see the funny things about me? 270 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 3: Like rowing the car and Gary? I loved all the 271 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 3: funny things that people did because it was a lot 272 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 3: of love to make fun of. You like to be 273 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 3: funny about it? 274 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, how dare they not tell you to put your 275 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 5: hair in a ponytail before you got in that car. 276 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 3: The funny thing is he gave me a scarf as 277 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 3: a gift, and he was on the floor and I 278 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 3: kept going, it's great for it, and I'm going, this 279 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 3: thing's gonna wick right out the window if I picked 280 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 3: this up at the back. So I didn't. I never 281 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 3: put it on my heads car. 282 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 1: When you guys both look back at your season, what 283 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: moment together stands out the most for you, Gary, you 284 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 1: go first. 285 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 4: The moment that most stands out for me is the 286 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:09,239 Speaker 4: dinner before the Fantasy Suite. I actually watched that episode 287 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:15,319 Speaker 4: by myself, and I remember calling Teresa and saying, Teresa, 288 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 4: I just watched the episode and watched the moment that 289 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 4: I fell in love with you, because in that moment, 290 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 4: we started talking about more meaningful things, and I watched 291 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 4: my body language go forward, and I watched the cadence 292 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 4: of my conversation quick and there was more and more excitement, 293 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 4: and then that just quickly led into the conversations that 294 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 4: we had in the Fantasy Suite. So it was right 295 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 4: then that I go, yep, this is my girl, this 296 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 4: is the one. 297 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. For me, it was two moments. It was the 298 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 3: car ride to the dinner, and it was in that 299 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 3: dinner and in the Fantasy Suite, in which you didn't 300 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 3: say so, they were the biggest moments. And I think 301 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 3: that on the dinner, FUND said Teresa, just be yourself, like, 302 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 3: just be yourself. What are you doing Like you're holding back, 303 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 3: You're you're pretty much surface level here and just and 304 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 3: when he said I want to ask you more about 305 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 3: your career, I said, yeah, asked me about my career. 306 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 3: You should have asked me about my career. Yes, ask 307 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:16,840 Speaker 3: me and so yeah. 308 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 2: No, that was a great conversation. 309 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 5: And I think what you both just described we saw 310 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 5: it when we were watching, Like Gary, I think we 311 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 5: saw you. You know, you leaned in, your eyes, were 312 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 5: like really engaged in what she was saying, and you know, 313 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 5: your enthusiasm with your questions just started flowing and you 314 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 5: really locked in on her. And Teresa, I feel like 315 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 5: Joe and I both said you seemed the most relaxed 316 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 5: and just confident in yourself in that conversation, just very 317 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 5: self assured. It was definitely a standout for me having 318 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 5: watched your relationship of just like wow, these two are 319 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 5: really connecting in this moment. 320 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 3: Thank you. I have to say this, we both weren't 321 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 3: happy with the course back writing because as soon as 322 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 3: as soon as I saw it, I said, oh, we're 323 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 3: not gonna be able to talk or be near each 324 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 3: other or interact, and yeah, it was it was difficult 325 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 3: to have a moment together and said, oh, you got 326 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 3: to be under a waterfall. That's what I wanted, like 327 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 3: riding I go waterfall. Let's just get right there, let's 328 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 3: let's get off the horses. 329 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 5: And Joe and I's first date in Paradise was a 330 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 5: what was it a wrestling dating? 331 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 6: Oh? 332 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, we had went on like Nacho Lebrey costumes and 333 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 5: run around this ring and I had been I'd been 334 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 5: throwing up. 335 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 2: I'd been so sick that day. 336 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 5: So, you know what, the date activity doesn't always dictate 337 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 5: the romance and the relationship. 338 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 3: My god, that's amazing. I have to go see that. 339 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. We have never watched it again. 340 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 1: I will never watch it again. 341 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 2: Made some very funny photos. 342 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: What what type of day are you? Still a day trader? 343 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 3: No, I'm not a day trader anymore because I work 344 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 3: in compliance, but I still love stocks so much. 345 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 2: Joe was Joe worked out? 346 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 1: I was, Yeah, I was a day trader at the 347 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: Chicago Mercantile Exchange. I did open I'll cry yeah for wow, 348 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: for wow almost almost five years. Yeah, when I was. 349 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: I got my badge when I was nineteen years old. 350 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 3: So wow, that's impress I mean, it just excites me 351 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 3: so much. The stuff market, like, you know, just just 352 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 3: trying to figure everything out and get all the puzzle 353 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 3: pieces together and figure out what the answer is. 354 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 1: But I said, am I going to look at Gary's portfolio. Yet, 355 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 1: what are you going to do now? 356 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:47,919 Speaker 3: I suggistic whatever it is fine, j trading is not 357 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 3: for the thing. 358 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 5: Target, No, I'm I go nowhere near it. I let 359 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:53,399 Speaker 5: someone else do it for me. 360 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: Okay, So now that we're we're stepping into the real world, 361 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: what is an ideal? Like, where do you guys plan 362 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: on first day? Where are you going? 363 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:06,439 Speaker 4: Food shopping, food chopping? 364 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 6: It's just a nice dinner, Oh yeah, where you know 365 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 6: we've held each other as a secret for weeks and 366 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 6: weeks now just to go out to dinner, sit down, 367 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 6: have like what every. 368 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 4: Other couple in America has, and and just enjoy each 369 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 4: other's company and just casual conversation and a glass of wine. 370 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:32,639 Speaker 3: And good food and take a look a like to 371 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 3: go outside and take a walk. 372 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 5: No, it's a great day, Like I really remember our 373 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,400 Speaker 5: enjoy Yeah. Like we we watched our finale and then 374 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 5: we had to do like interviews the next day, so 375 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 5: we didn't really get out until like three pm the 376 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 5: day after the finale, and we did exactly that. We 377 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 5: went for a walk, We sat on a patio, we 378 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:52,959 Speaker 5: had a beer, We went and met up with a 379 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 5: friend of mine. We went for dinner and just kind 380 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 5: of walked around the city and it's so exciting. So yeah, 381 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 5: really take that in because it's an awesome moment. 382 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you for that. 383 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 5: Of course, having been through it, I get so excited 384 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 5: for the couples at the end when they're about to 385 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 5: have it all be over, because I know how good 386 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 5: of a feeling it's gonna be. 387 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, we can't wait. 388 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 1: Any women from your season, will they be invited? What 389 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 1: women will be invited to the wedding? 390 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 3: I would every single one of them. 391 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: If you were to name a few names, maybe a 392 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: few names that you would you would love to be there. 393 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 3: Faith, Faith, I would invite Leslie. I don't know if 394 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 3: she would come, Edith, Ellen, Sandra, Anna, Yes, I don't 395 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 3: Anna all the time. 396 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 2: We just interviewed Anna. 397 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 3: Peggy, Pamela, Renee, Sylvia. 398 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 2: Did you ever try eat a squacamole? Teresa? 399 00:19:58,800 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 4: No? 400 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 3: I didn't. You didn't. I didn't. You know I should 401 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 3: have because. 402 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 2: Did you try Susan's meatballs? 403 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 3: And I but they look so good and they smell 404 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 3: so good, and everybody and house is so grateful for them. 405 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 3: So I don't think I don't think that was an issue. 406 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know if you heard me, 407 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 3: but I said Marina as well. 408 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, Maria, so every everyone like I love everyone, Yes. 409 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,400 Speaker 3: Every single every single one of them. They're all really wonderful, 410 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 3: wonderful women. 411 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, Gary, would you this is a little tougher of 412 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: a question, but would you feel comfortable with Leslie at 413 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: your wedding? 414 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 4: I think that would be more up to Leslie. I 415 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:45,719 Speaker 4: would be comfortable because I had such deep feelings for 416 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 4: her and a lot of respect, and if she were 417 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 4: comfortable being there, I certainly would be comfortable having her there. 418 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 419 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,919 Speaker 5: Well, I feel like, you know, we've got the finale 420 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 5: that's has happened, We've got the wedding, But there's a 421 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 5: lot of time in between your proposal to now that's 422 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 5: been going on and it has been filmed, and you've 423 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 5: been hiding, so it might seem like, you know, there's 424 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 5: not a lot to talk about there. 425 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 2: But I really want to know what have you guys 426 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:15,640 Speaker 2: been doing. 427 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 5: To keep that spark alive, to keep growing and furthering 428 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:22,439 Speaker 5: your relationship between the proposal and where we are today. 429 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 3: Great question. We talk every single night for hours. I 430 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 3: usually you know, I usually lie down on the moor 431 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:33,680 Speaker 3: and just really concentrate on him and just talking. We've yeah, 432 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 3: we've laughed so much. We've had such a great time. 433 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,400 Speaker 3: So it's been, you know, getting to know each other 434 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 3: more and more and more every single night on the phone. 435 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 3: We only got to see each other one person one weekend. 436 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:46,880 Speaker 4: That was it. 437 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 3: So it's been really hard. And he said, oh god, 438 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 3: damn it, this is too long. And I said, come on, 439 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 3: it's going to get here before you know it. It 440 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 3: will be here. See it's here. Yeah, So it's. 441 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 4: So so No, it's almost the opposite. We have so 442 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:06,120 Speaker 4: much on our plate, you know, wedding planning, getting families 443 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 4: together for holiday meals and getting them together for other 444 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 4: activities and so forth, that there's just so much going 445 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 4: on now that we're immersed in each other's interests and 446 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 4: families and stuff. So it's pain off. 447 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 3: But thankfully we have family tell us so that you 448 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 3: can see that. 449 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 5: Is there anything that you guys learned about each other 450 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 5: that surprised you? I know, Traesa, you just learned Gary's 451 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 5: allergic to show, So there's that, But anything in addition. 452 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 3: H anything about you like Showteresa? 453 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 2: Is there? 454 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 1: Is there anything that you know about Gary that you 455 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: wish the audience knew that maybe didn't come across on 456 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 1: the show. 457 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, that he's well, I don't know if it came 458 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 3: across from the show, but that he's just such a 459 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:53,919 Speaker 3: strong person and really stands up for what he leaves in, 460 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 3: and that he's Yeah, he's very not not only just 461 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:03,080 Speaker 3: good hearted and mind and sensitive, it's more him being 462 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 3: this strong leader of a man. Yeah. Yeah, Really, what 463 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:09,360 Speaker 3: about you, Gary? 464 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 5: Is there anything about Teresa that you want the world 465 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,239 Speaker 5: to know that maybe they didn't get to learn from 466 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 5: watching her on the show. 467 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 4: I think that people didn't see the level of unselfishness 468 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 4: and her ability to not be jealous in situations that 469 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,919 Speaker 4: I think the vast majority of women would have been 470 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 4: jealous in. Those are qualities that are easily recognized when 471 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 4: you see them one on one, but maybe through the 472 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 4: show they weren't recognized as much. 473 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 1: Gary, If you could give advice to the next Golden Lead, 474 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 1: whether that be a woman or a man, what advice 475 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 1: would you give? 476 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 4: Be open minded, don't lock in on one person, don't 477 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 4: set your heart in one in place, because you may 478 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 4: miss something that's critically important with one of the other 479 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:12,440 Speaker 4: people it's there. So I tried to, you know, compartmentalize 480 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 4: as much as I possibly could, and I think that 481 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 4: helped me so much. And learning about everyone. 482 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then Teresa, how about you for someone else 483 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 1: going on, Yeah, contestants that you know, the next batch 484 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: of of women vuying for the Golden Bachelor or vice versa, 485 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,679 Speaker 1: what would be your advice to them? 486 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 3: I would say, really try to be yourself as much 487 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 3: as possible, something I wasn't able to do fully the 488 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 3: entire time. But to be yourself, to be open to 489 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 3: the process, and to really say how you feel, like, 490 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 3: don't hold back. This is this is a process where 491 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 3: it's it's not dragged out in a normal time frame. 492 00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:00,359 Speaker 3: So you can't let opportunities pass you by. So if 493 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 3: you feel something, to say something, because you never know 494 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 3: when's the last opportunity you're going to get to say that, 495 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 3: And so to be vulnerable and to be open. Yeah, 496 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 3: just don't don't hold back, yes if you because otherwise, yes, 497 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 3: you might might miss it. You may miss Yeah. 498 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that to me, I've always said that's 499 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 1: like one of the most important things about this show 500 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 1: is realizing it's not a normal timeline, like if you 501 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:32,400 Speaker 1: want this to work, you're gonna have to speed. 502 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 5: It up, put it all out there all times. We 503 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 5: said that about you too, Teresa. About halfway through the season. 504 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 5: I think we were like, Teresa is moving at the 505 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:45,919 Speaker 5: pace she's got to move. It's great, Like she's feeling 506 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 5: things fast and she's opening up about it, and even in. 507 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 1: The part one episode of Happy Hour said she has 508 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 1: the correct mindset for the show, like you you do 509 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 1: need that? 510 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, No, of course. 511 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 5: And I think it's great that you did, because I 512 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,879 Speaker 5: think it allowed you to to really connect and find 513 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:06,320 Speaker 5: each other. 514 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 3: It was just an incredible experience, you know, like what 515 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:14,640 Speaker 3: it's an experience that's so different from anything that's ever 516 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 3: happened in your life. And so I was so excited 517 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,119 Speaker 3: about the process and so well incredibly glad that I 518 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 3: did it, Like, like, who would have thought this? You 519 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 3: wouldn't think this, that this is going to happen, that this, 520 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:28,119 Speaker 3: How does it happen? 521 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:28,719 Speaker 4: It really did? 522 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 3: It actually happened, So you don't think I don't know, 523 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 3: it happened for you guys. 524 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:39,280 Speaker 2: So it's crazy. We still can't believe it either, Right. 525 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 1: That's wonderful all right, we're going to play a little 526 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: game with you guys. 527 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 5: No, it's fun, It's like, yeah, it's like the newlyweds game, 528 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 5: but we're going to do the newly engaged game. 529 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 3: We're going to. 530 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 1: You want to do it? 531 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 2: Sure? Okay. 532 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,159 Speaker 5: So we're gonna throw a question at you and you 533 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 5: both have to answer are at the same time, and 534 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 5: you'll say either Gary or you'll say Teresa, depending on 535 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 5: who fits the question. 536 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 2: Does that make sense? 537 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: Okay, but make sure you say it and don't point 538 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: because it's a podcast. 539 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,399 Speaker 2: Okay, ready, So who is more romantic? 540 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 3: Gary? I'm sorry. 541 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:28,440 Speaker 2: Gary, Gary? Okay? Who is more organized? Who is more stubborn? 542 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 3: Teresa? Were both stubborn? 543 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 4: More stubborn? 544 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 2: Okay? 545 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 5: Who spends more time on social media? I was gonna say, 546 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:48,119 Speaker 5: must be Teresa. She's responding to everyone's messages. Who is 547 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 5: the pick your eater? Who is the better driver? 548 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:57,880 Speaker 3: Gary? Only? But I am? 549 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 2: Who is better in pickleball? 550 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 3: Yary? 551 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:06,880 Speaker 2: Have you guys been playing. 552 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 4: Not together? 553 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 5: That'll have to be on the to do list once 554 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 5: you're in public. Who is funnier? 555 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 3: Oh? God, I think Gary? 556 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I gotta say that that. 557 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,640 Speaker 2: Could be Okay, you're both funny. 558 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 1: This isn't part of the game, but what an all 559 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 1: time favorite movie? Tesa, what's your favorite movie? 560 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 5: You're hijacking the game to ask a random question that you. 561 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 2: Want to know. 562 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 1: That's how I get to know. Somebody sets the humor 563 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 1: chill interesting Gary, how about you Titanic? I don't. I 564 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 1: don't find either of those to be comedy true romantic. 565 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 2: Though true romantic. 566 00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 3: It would have been winning. 567 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 2: Crash that's the great one. 568 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 1: That's a good one for you. 569 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 2: Airplane Airplane, that's a goe too. 570 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 1: We just watched planes, trains, and automobiles. 571 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 5: I was so frustrated the whole movie. I was like, relax, 572 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 5: who is the better cook? 573 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 3: Theresa probably although he cooks Yeah, I mean that's TBD. Yeah, 574 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 3: that's right. 575 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 5: You know, Gary's get it ordering at a restaurant, and 576 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 5: Gary doesn't go to many restaurants, and that's what's going 577 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 5: to change. 578 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 4: I cooked, but I cooked more efficiency rather than elegance. 579 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 1: That's fair, honestly. 580 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 3: I said, so, do you want an omelet? And he 581 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 3: said no, he just had a hard boiled egg. And 582 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 3: then I had the omelet with spinach intead of cheese 583 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 3: in and He's going on, could you make me that 584 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 3: same one because that was good. 585 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 2: Well, there you go. 586 00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 5: Maybe things are going to change with your time in 587 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 5: the kitchen. Teresa, do you mind me asking you? So 588 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 5: you don't eat sugar, you don't eat meat? 589 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 2: Are you? Are you on like a paleo diet? Like 590 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 2: are you just kind of. 591 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 3: Like I would say that anything if you had to 592 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 3: have a light one. And it's Mediterranean? 593 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 5: Okay, So you like like vegetables, fish, big, I eat 594 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 5: an enormous salad every day with grilled I do eat 595 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 5: grilled chicken, fish, I eat turkey, I eat a lot 596 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 5: of salmon. 597 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's it's, you know, trying to say with sugar, 598 00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 3: I'm not a complete saint. So I do eat dark chocolate. 599 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 3: And while that says my snack, and I'm going to 600 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 3: try to get him to think that. 601 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 2: Instead of a donut. 602 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: You know what, We'll let you guys. We'll let you 603 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 1: guys go get some dinner because it's getting late and 604 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 1: I know you got to go. But Gary and Teresa, 605 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming on the podcast. We 606 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 1: really appreciate it. 607 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. You guys are wonderful. Whish we 608 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 3: were there in the studio with you. 609 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 5: I know we're looking forward to hopefully eventually meeting you both, 610 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 5: and and we're so so happy for you both, truly. 611 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 1: And thank you. 612 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 3: We're so happy for you guys. Thank you, and. 613 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 1: Thank you everyone for tuning in. 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