Speaker 1: Second d D. When you go on a first date
Speaker 1: to a restaurant or a bar, do you ever think
Speaker 1: about how there's probably other couples who are also having
Speaker 1: first dates at the exact same time right next to you.
Speaker 1: Don't that's really a bonding thought. Yeah, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't want to think of it bonding like, oh I
Speaker 1: don't want to be out romanced by somebody else in there.
Speaker 1: I thought it was a comforting thing, same awful position.
Speaker 1: It's a competition. It's not a good look. That's why
Speaker 1: I always buy flowers and cake for every woman in
Speaker 1: the bar to prove it. I'm the alpha lover of
Speaker 1: this siss love. I think you just got taken advantage of.
Speaker 1: But I appreciate the cake. But one of our listeners, Cameron,
Speaker 1: says he definitely got one up to buy another dude
Speaker 1: on his day and he was actually cool with it. Okay,
Speaker 1: say Cameron, I guess you're at that sizzler. Huh, sorry, man,
Speaker 1: I think I guess though. Did your date fall hard
Speaker 1: for Jeffrey and you just had no control over the situation.
Speaker 1: I mean that's the only explanation I guess. Yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: I apologize already, but tell us about the woman that
Speaker 1: you went out with. What's her name? Her name is Lauren? Okay,
Speaker 1: and I'm guessing you met on a dating app or
Speaker 1: something we did. Okay, what did you like? Whoa? What
Speaker 1: did you like about her? I mean she's really pretty
Speaker 1: and Okay, it happened really quick after her out pretty immediately.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, like second text message like hey sup on
Speaker 1: a date? Yeah? No, I wasn't really wasting any time here.
Speaker 1: That works. Appreciate the efficiency. Yeah, I mean that's going
Speaker 1: into like the date with not a lot of knowledge, right,
Speaker 1: you're pretty blind. Yeah, but it's good because you know,
Speaker 1: I've had dates where I've talked with the girl online
Speaker 1: forever and then there's just nothing to talk about at dinner. Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't waste all the conversation up front. I see what
Speaker 1: you're saying. Where did you end up going for your day? Well?
Speaker 1: I took her to a hangar where I fly planes.
Speaker 1: Who coming out of the gate with a flex Huh
Speaker 1: you're a pilot. Yeah, So I made a point in
Speaker 1: making my profile pick of me in a plane cockpit
Speaker 1: because I think that's why she went out with you.
Speaker 1: Immediately my head, he's a pilot. Well, do you own
Speaker 1: a plane or you share a plane with somebody. So
Speaker 1: not yet. Okay, I've been taking lessons. Okay, okay, Alexis
Speaker 1: has officially stopped listening to I already know people that
Speaker 1: are pilot. I don't need you anymore. But okay, So,
Speaker 1: I mean, what was the date plan? At the hangar? Though?
Speaker 1: You just walk around some planes and look at him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I go, I go to this flight school
Speaker 1: thirty minutes outside the city, and I thought that'd be
Speaker 1: a really cool first date. You know, just give her
Speaker 1: like exclusive access to an air field that I can
Speaker 1: get into, and you know, just look around, look at
Speaker 1: the planes. Was there any food involved? Yeah? Puts. I
Speaker 1: mean we were planning to go to a bar afterwards. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know, I just wanted to show her my thing.
Speaker 1: You know, she seemed interested. Why you didn't, No, I'm
Speaker 1: not allowed. Yeah, but that's cool though, I mean, it's
Speaker 1: cool that she was interested in it was she impressed
Speaker 1: by the plane tour. She was. The weird thing is
Speaker 1: when we got there, there were some huge letters on
Speaker 1: the runway. It's spelled out will you marry me? Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, bro, you're moving a little fast. Yeah, now,
Speaker 1: I didn't do that. I didn't do that. Are you sure?
Speaker 1: Because you asked her out second text message, I could
Speaker 1: see your immediately. Dude, there is a marriage proposal at
Speaker 1: the same time or someone else. That's why you were
Speaker 1: one uped on the date. Yeah, I mean it just
Speaker 1: proves my point that it's a romantic spot. But no,
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean it was awkward for a while,
Speaker 1: Like just seeing the letters, it's like, wow, you move quick.
Speaker 1: Did you guys actually witness the couple there or did
Speaker 1: you just see the letters on the runway. No, No,
Speaker 1: we didn't see the couple, saw the guy take it off.
Speaker 1: But you saying it was awkward, Like, what do you mean?
Speaker 1: It was awkward for a minute just to see that,
Speaker 1: and you know, she made a joke about it, and
Speaker 1: you know we moved through it pretty quick. But because
Speaker 1: it's got to be hard to witness somebody do something
Speaker 1: ultra romantic right in front of you on your first
Speaker 1: date and then have to try and come off looking smooth,
Speaker 1: you should have done a sign that's like ready to
Speaker 1: go to the bar now, attached it to a little
Speaker 1: paper airplane and tossed it in front of her. But
Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like you were able to make
Speaker 1: it work. Did you end up going with her to
Speaker 1: the bar? Well, we did, but it kind of died there.
Speaker 1: Why while we were there, we know, we went in
Speaker 1: this whole like big romantic gesture and everything, and I
Speaker 1: think we're all kind of hyped up on looking at
Speaker 1: planes and everything. Yeah, she really wanted to go up
Speaker 1: in a plane. She wanted me to take her up. Wait,
Speaker 1: she knew that you didn't have your license yet, right.
Speaker 1: I think she just thought we could sneak away with
Speaker 1: it and you know, just have like this spontaneous romantic
Speaker 1: adventure in the sky. What does this girl want to death?
Speaker 1: Wish would be some random dude who takes me out
Speaker 1: to a little air field with obsessnas and think, hey,
Speaker 1: pull me up in that plane. Well, it wasn't just
Speaker 1: that she wanted to sit in the cockpit too, but
Speaker 1: I had to tell her no. Right, she's getting experience
Speaker 1: because more like an educational another airplane. It's a good
Speaker 1: hook for a future date. Though, It's like, well, if
Speaker 1: you stick around, then maybe hundreds of flight hours. No,
Speaker 1: I mean it kind of paints you too. It is
Speaker 1: like you continually having to say no, no, no, on
Speaker 1: a date that you're kind of like not fun, do
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And I don't think that
Speaker 1: of you, but I could see from her perspective. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess, but I met my flight school. I didn't
Speaker 1: want to get dinged, so right, Yeah, I thought just
Speaker 1: showing her would be enough. I mean, how did you
Speaker 1: leave it on the day? How did it end? Um?
Speaker 1: The sparks kind of died down towards the end. I mean,
Speaker 1: I still like her, and I think we had a
Speaker 1: good time. I'm I just you know, I don't know
Speaker 1: what else I could have done, And she hasn't responded
Speaker 1: to you at all. No, Okay, it's almost like you backfired,
Speaker 1: like you're trying to impress her and you ended up like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds like maybe you should have stolen a plane
Speaker 1: and taken her up. Anyway, Well yeah, it would have
Speaker 1: been a rebel move, bold thing to do. But let's
Speaker 1: play a song. Come back and call Lauren for you,
Speaker 1: try to get you a second date. Update? All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: hold on second. Muscular dudes flying around in F sixteen,
Speaker 1: buzzing the tower, doing an inverted dive against the Russian
Speaker 1: MiG before jaging off into the sunset. All of that
Speaker 1: was not allowed. First day. You could just point at
Speaker 1: the planes parked on the tarmac and say, hey, it
Speaker 1: isn't isn't that one kind of cool? It's not mine,
Speaker 1: Let's move away. I can't even show you inside. That's
Speaker 1: because Cameron doesn't have his pilot's license yet. But he
Speaker 1: was able to show Lauren around the airfield where he's learning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: which is cool, and she was interested in it. I
Speaker 1: mean he told her that. Yeah. But to make matters worse,
Speaker 1: while they were there, they saw someone else proposing with
Speaker 1: a giant will you marry me? Banner? So after all
Speaker 1: that excitement at the airfield, the date kind of fizzled
Speaker 1: after that. Yeah, but Cameron, today, we're gonna be your
Speaker 1: goose for this second date. Up dates to pull him
Speaker 1: out of his nose dive? Is that what we're thinking?
Speaker 1: We're gonna try. Just promised me that you're not gonna
Speaker 1: eject until we hit the sweet spot? Can you do that?
Speaker 1: Because I didn't turn out so well for Goose. That's
Speaker 1: really nice you guys, yet, no spoilers. What happened to
Speaker 1: go Yeah that's the old one. Oh okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: good thing we're all yeah, whatever, But bottom line is
Speaker 1: we're gonna call Lauren and see if we can get
Speaker 1: you another date. Here you ready, man, I'm ready. Let's
Speaker 1: do it. Okay, and this next day, you know, you
Speaker 1: just make it a little bit more about her and
Speaker 1: maybe she'll be more into it. Yeah, and we'll just
Speaker 1: hope that there's not a lot of turbulence. Okay, I
Speaker 1: think there's more airplane puns coming. Let's just trying to
Speaker 1: hold back. Sorry, let's dial this number, talk to Lauren.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Lauren? Yes, Lauren. Hey,
Speaker 1: my name's jeff from a morning radio show called Brooke
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. I'm morning radio show. Yeah, hey, Lauren,
Speaker 1: we're all here. Hey, good morning. Sorry did we wake
Speaker 1: you up? No, I've actually just never heard of this show.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what's going on here. Well,
Speaker 1: we're on Spotify too, if you listen to podcasts that
Speaker 1: didn't sound really sad and desperate. But we're doing a segment,
Speaker 1: a very popular segment, O yes, extremely well known and
Speaker 1: beloved called Second Date Update. Okay, and clearly not beloved
Speaker 1: by Lauren, but we're trying to help out one of
Speaker 1: our listeners that you went out with recently, and who
Speaker 1: is that You guys went to an airfield together and
Speaker 1: then a bar. Cameron, I know exactly who you're talking about.
Speaker 1: Canon seemed like a nice guy, like a good dude
Speaker 1: who wanted to show you a good time a sexpot.
Speaker 1: If you asked me, what did you think of Cameron?
Speaker 1: It was a cool date. Um, Actually, it was the
Speaker 1: coolest day I've ever been on. What it was it was?
Speaker 1: I was really interested in the planes and seeing them
Speaker 1: and everything, And I was really happy because we didn't
Speaker 1: just go to the bar and hook up, because that's
Speaker 1: what most guys want to do. So his date was
Speaker 1: really our most girls want to do that. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's great to here. So yeah, I mean you weren't
Speaker 1: disappointed in the airfield at all because he was kind
Speaker 1: of worrying about that that maybe you know, you expected
Speaker 1: to go up in a plane and you didn't or something. No,
Speaker 1: but I was still excited to go. Okay, airplanes are
Speaker 1: cool guys, girls, kids, doesn't matter. Airplanes are just interesting. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: So if this is one of the best dates that
Speaker 1: you've ever been on, why not call Cameron back? Well,
Speaker 1: I said it was the most original date that I've
Speaker 1: been on it, and I liked his choice, but some
Speaker 1: things happened. He made a comment later on and threw
Speaker 1: me off. Comment. Doesn't seem like he remembers that. I mean,
Speaker 1: do you think it registered with him that he said
Speaker 1: something that upset you? Of course, can I tell you
Speaker 1: guys what he said? Yes, yes, nothing for us, So
Speaker 1: I don't know if he told you. There was this
Speaker 1: weird part where we saw a plane taken off. It
Speaker 1: was a proposal, yeah, he mentioned that to us, the
Speaker 1: big will you marry me? Yeah, and it was that
Speaker 1: was pretty weird. But as a plane was taken off,
Speaker 1: it was the comment that he made that he expects
Speaker 1: the woman to ask him to marry him, so I
Speaker 1: better be taken notes serious. Sounds like a joke, no,
Speaker 1: I laughed. He said he was a feminist, so he
Speaker 1: believed that women should be able to ask me to
Speaker 1: marry them. And yeah, why is that bad? Because maybe
Speaker 1: I'm more traditional. But in my dream, the man is
Speaker 1: supposed to propose to me, Like I thought, maybe you know,
Speaker 1: this could be a great dream. If it turns out good,
Speaker 1: then he'll do that for me, you know. But away
Speaker 1: I state, like maybe he's just trying to read you
Speaker 1: as an independent woman and he thought that that would
Speaker 1: be something that you would also stand behind. You know,
Speaker 1: like you don't know for sure that he would never
Speaker 1: propose to you, right, Like he's just making a simple comment.
Speaker 1: He said, for sure, you'll need to ask me to
Speaker 1: marry you. Wow, even if it was a woman coming
Speaker 1: to a man, it would be a first day. We
Speaker 1: didn't know that that first day. We didn't know that
Speaker 1: any of that was coming up in conversation between you guys.
Speaker 1: He didn't mention it, But maybe we should ask him
Speaker 1: about it, because, I mean, I don't know what your
Speaker 1: dreams say about your perfect man. Maybe you're dreaming that
Speaker 1: he's on the other line listening. Why dreams do come
Speaker 1: true because's been there the whole time and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Yeah, I didn't realize that set you off? Really?
Speaker 1: What what do you mean you don't realize that set
Speaker 1: me off? Cameron? You're a madman? A madman? What does
Speaker 1: that mean? On the wing date? Why don'd you say
Speaker 1: I need to ask you to marry me? Why would
Speaker 1: you I'm having you know that I'm a feminist and
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm into the cause and whatever, and
Speaker 1: you know, I just want you to know that up front.
Speaker 1: You know, I want you to know that you know
Speaker 1: you have I believe you have, you know, agency, and
Speaker 1: I think as sort of women are sexy and okay,
Speaker 1: but so Cameron, you believe that all women should be
Speaker 1: proposing to men or just Lauren to you? No, I
Speaker 1: think all women should be doing that, Okay. I want
Speaker 1: to just empower women to propose, Like I think it's
Speaker 1: going to be healthier for society is you don't pay
Speaker 1: for a ring. I don't because I get what you're
Speaker 1: trying to say. And I appreciate any man who you
Speaker 1: know is open to the feminist, but um, you'd be
Speaker 1: open if the if the woman wanted you to propose,
Speaker 1: you would be open to then taking on that role, right,
Speaker 1: I mean I could, but I you know, I find
Speaker 1: a way to screw it up. You know, I would
Speaker 1: like a ring on a k chicken wing or something,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like guys are just like
Speaker 1: not good at that. I think. You know, my mom
Speaker 1: proposed to my dad and it was really romantic. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you want you want what your parents have in
Speaker 1: a relationship. You want to marry your mom. I'm having
Speaker 1: this conversation before. It's always mixed. Some guys are all
Speaker 1: about and other guys are like, no, I want to ask,
Speaker 1: like traditionally, so maybe it's just kind of a more
Speaker 1: of a surprise to herd Yeah, I mean, Lauren, is
Speaker 1: this a first for you? Have you? Have you never
Speaker 1: met a guy like this? This? This is a first
Speaker 1: and only and a one and done. Oh it's that
Speaker 1: much of a deal breaker for you, A deal breaker completely, Like,
Speaker 1: especially after I saw that romantic couple going out. I
Speaker 1: wanted that immediately and he immediately like crushed my dream
Speaker 1: with that. Don't bring a marriage on a first date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're coming in for a rough landing here, But I
Speaker 1: got Lauren. We'd like to offer to send you out
Speaker 1: on another date with Cameron and we'll let you pay
Speaker 1: it as a feminist, because yeah, that's what a good
Speaker 1: feminist man would do. You guys are really I think
Speaker 1: we need to do some more research into feminism. I
Speaker 1: don't know a lot about broad Lauren. I do think
Speaker 1: I know your answer, but I need to hear it
Speaker 1: from you. It's a very strong no for me. Guy,
Speaker 1: that's all right, I mean Cameron you can't be too disappointed,
Speaker 1: like she's not doesn't seem like the right person for you.
Speaker 1: I guess not. I mean she is making her own choice,
Speaker 1: and you know that's I'm all for that. I love this.
Speaker 1: I think that's sexy. If she wants to set women
Speaker 1: back another fifty years by not proposal, and that's good
Speaker 1: for her. Exactly, Jeffrey in the Morning,