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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to bet your Happy Hour. I'm

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Speaker 1: Joe and I'm Serena, and we are here with the

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Speaker 1: lovely Rachel. Rachel. Welcome.

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, thank you, thank you. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 3: We're so excited too, Welcome to Happy Hour. I heard

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Speaker 3: is this true that you didn't wear any makeup on

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Speaker 3: the show.

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Speaker 2: Like very seldom. I think I wore only at rost ceremonious.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god. And did you just wear you were

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Speaker 4: your hair natural the whole time?

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Speaker 2: I did, but like night one, I have my hair

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Speaker 2: naturals curly. I wore down. I think a couple of

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Speaker 2: the times I wore down, and then I think as

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Speaker 2: the show progressed, I probably got lazy and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna bun it, yeah, because I sleeped it

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Speaker 2: back because it was just easy. Like curls, you just

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Speaker 2: it's just such a hassle.

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Speaker 4: Curls.

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Speaker 3: They also just like you never know what you're gonna

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Speaker 3: get a few hours later, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: Like I get it, like the weather, they're temperamental.

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Speaker 4: So I'm with you on that.

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Speaker 1: I will say, I will I will say Rachel. Serena

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Speaker 1: definitely was talking shit because she heard you didn't wear makeup.

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Speaker 1: She's like, she's definitely not makeup on right now?

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Speaker 4: Yeah I did.

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Speaker 1: I just didn't.

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Speaker 3: I was like, there's no but that. I was honestly

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Speaker 3: looking at your face the whole season. I was like,

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Speaker 3: I actually think that those are just her natural lips

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Speaker 3: and eyelashes.

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Speaker 4: They are you are well.

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Speaker 2: I mean at the rest ceremonies, I had like I

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Speaker 2: only work and see her and blush and mass her.

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Speaker 2: I don't know which to makeup. I you know what

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Speaker 3: Literally must be. I mean, Paradise is one thing, like

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Speaker 3: it's so hard makeup. No, I don't wear a lot

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Speaker 3: of makeup and I didn't wear a lot of makeup

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Speaker 3: on the show, And I honestly stopped wearing makeup on Paradise.

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Speaker 4: I got so freaking tired of doing it.

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Speaker 3: But on The Bachelors right Now, well, I mean I

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Speaker 3: like makeup, but I like I'm like a light, natural

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Speaker 3: makeup girly on a day to day. But on the show,

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Speaker 3: I was definitely doing like a full face, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, contour, liner, the works.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how to do that.

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Speaker 4: You don't need it, do you look? You do not

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Speaker 4: need it. You look beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Good. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's talk. You live in California, right.

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Speaker 2: I do seven California.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and how did you get on the show?

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Speaker 2: So I've never seen the show. I actually don't know

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Speaker 2: who Joey was at all. It's my best friend who's

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Speaker 2: also my roommate. She watches the show like she was

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Speaker 2: up on Mondays like Bacher Monday. I was like, yeas

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Speaker 2: one with that girl. I'm gonna go read my book.

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Speaker 2: And I remember I was laying in bed and she

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Speaker 2: sent me a video. She's like, you're never going to

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Speaker 2: believe this. Shoe Be Crossey today is a bacher. I said, who.

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Speaker 2: She's like, don't worry, he's amazing. He's like, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: nominate you. You're gonna You're gonna do it. And I

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Speaker 2: was like, they'll never pick me because I'm like such

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Speaker 2: a I feel like I'm not like the most aesthetic

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Speaker 2: the box, like behind the scenes type of person. And

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Speaker 2: then I got picked and the rest is history.

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Speaker 4: I guess that's amazing. Shout out to the.

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Speaker 2: Room, Shout out to Noel. That's my girl. Maybe great

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Speaker 2: oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it was you saying you'd never watch the show.

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Speaker 1: Then once she nominates you and you get chosen, did

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Speaker 1: you like go and like watch a few episodes to

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Speaker 1: kind of prep I.

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Speaker 2: Did see Sorry, Joey, I did see him about to

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Speaker 2: go on one knee. She showed me that clip because

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Speaker 2: I saw that and I was just like okay. So

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Speaker 2: I was like, so I'm going to date this guy

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Speaker 2: with everybody else. I was like, okay, And that's kind

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Speaker 2: of you tried to prepare me, but I think I

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Speaker 2: was so caught up with it was such a quick process,

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Speaker 2: was telling me. So when I got to like the mansion,

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Speaker 2: I was kind of, what's the first impression? Rose? What

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Speaker 3: So gotcha, Well, it's so interesting the different scale of

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Speaker 3: people that go on this show and like how much

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Speaker 3: and how little, Like I feel like you didn't know

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Speaker 3: a lot, but you had a best friend who was

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Speaker 3: kind of like giving you the GISTs, like the vibe,

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Speaker 3: the breakdown. She obviously is a fan. She's not going

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Speaker 3: to nominate you if she doesn't think like you and

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Speaker 3: handle it. And then I feel like, who was it

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Speaker 3: that Autumn? I feel like Autumn is like a super fan.

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Speaker 3: I feel like she literally was having the time of

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Speaker 3: her life. She was living her dream.

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Speaker 4: Am I right?

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Speaker 2: I love her? Yeah? She was.

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Speaker 3: She was having the best time. I was like, I

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Speaker 3: feel like, this girl's watched the show her whole life.

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Speaker 3: And then you got like Dowton, who was on a

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Speaker 1: She was halfway through that engagement.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, halfway through he was like, oh we get engaged here.

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Speaker 3: She was like, yeah, sure, I'm down, like love this girl,

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Speaker 3: let's do it. But that he's an exception, like that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of crazy. I think you should know that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, how where was your headspace going onto the

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Speaker 1: show thinking that there's you could potentially get engaged at

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Speaker 2: I mean, I've been a relationship where I was almost

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Speaker 2: engaged once. So I Micha love a girl at heart.

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Speaker 2: I love to be in love. So the idea of

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Speaker 2: and I've fallen through each other, I thought it could

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Speaker 2: be the best thing ever also the worst thing, and

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Speaker 2: so my mindset was just why not I could end

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Speaker 2: up how it should. Honestly, it did in the most

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Speaker 2: beautiful way despite the outcome.

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Speaker 1: Are you Are you typically a person that will take

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Speaker 2: I do. I'm kind of a full Sain type of person,

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Speaker 2: like I think before I jump, and I'm also like,

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Speaker 2: let's just jump them no matter what the outcome. It's

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Speaker 2: probably a toxic trade of mind, to be honest, but.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you break your jaws.

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Speaker 2: I mean, jumping in my recent experience has not been

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Speaker 4: But how high was do you know how high it was?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I feel like when you watch it doesn't look

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Speaker 2: So I want to say I could be wrong. It

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Speaker 2: has to be more than twenty feet. I want to say, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that sounds like a lot, but it was kind of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, that does sound like Honestly, my sister was

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Speaker 3: it was like straight ten meters. It's not ten meters,

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Speaker 4: I was like, I feel it's.

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Speaker 3: Probably like ten meters, but like, I also feel like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like damn yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then back home, I was telling them, like, when

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Speaker 1: And how long How long did you live in Hawaii

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Speaker 2: I was born and raised in Hawaii, So I left

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Speaker 2: and then I move to Maine for two years. Never again,

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Speaker 2: I would love to settle down Hawaii. I love the

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Speaker 2: But I'm also open to whatever it feels right in

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Speaker 1: If you're if you're from there and you and you

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Speaker 2: It's expensive. I mean a gallon of milk is like

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Speaker 1: Now, that's what I've heard. Yeah, so that is true.

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Speaker 2: Huh no, it's it's pretty true. I mean even living.

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Speaker 2: I was looking at a one bedroom and it was

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Speaker 2: I was like, I can't I live, can't afford that's.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I mean New York and cheap there, but yeah, new York,

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Speaker 1: Well you could still get cheap milk though, like groceries

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Speaker 1: and stuff. Is that's still affordable like property isn't. So

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Speaker 1: let's talk about your job. So how did you get

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Speaker 1: So you're you're in trauma nursing, so I'm I.

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Speaker 2: See you trained, But as a travel nurse, I kind

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Speaker 2: of pop around two different units. So I can work

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Speaker 2: in the er, I can do icy, I can do telemetry,

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Speaker 2: but trauma is like kind of my home. It's where

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Speaker 2: I feel the most comfortable. I guess it's kind of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was going to say, is there do you

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Speaker 1: want to want to tell us why you feel that way?

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Speaker 2: Well, so my dad works in trauma. Back home, I

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Speaker 2: kind of always grew up. He would just tell me

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Speaker 4: Right, time to bring up your time to ring? Well,

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Speaker 2: But my first impression, obviously is that he was so handsome.

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Speaker 1: So why do you think you got a rose?

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Speaker 2: I guess that lay really did its job. I was

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Speaker 3: And then we don't see you get a one on

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Speaker 3: That was the first time where you were like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you know, but Michael Bolton was there, so it was

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was crazy. Why was it such an interesting

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Speaker 2: Us for me. I think it was so interesting that

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Speaker 2: we had our chance to walk around, I can show

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Speaker 4: That's such a good point.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because a lot of girls on that date had

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Speaker 3: They're also like parading it around like the one on

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Speaker 2: But it was honestly the best time. I had, the

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Speaker 3: Say, Yeah, it's very hard to make them ever feel comfortable. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that was honestly, that first dance was

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Speaker 2: and that's kind of what we needed. It was just

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Speaker 2: No, I was solely focused. I used to make a

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Speaker 3: feel like they kind of did Joey a disservice and

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00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:27,760
Speaker 3: like never showed him opening up to anyone until like

442
00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:30,840
Speaker 3: this point in the season, and like you're seeing so

443
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,680
Speaker 3: many of the women open up and having these yerious conversations.

444
00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:35,560
Speaker 3: So it's nice to hear that he was also like

445
00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:37,280
Speaker 3: giving that back to you guys.

446
00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean, just like give Joey

447
00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,240
Speaker 4: a little shout out.

448
00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:43,520
Speaker 2: Here exactly, because you know, he's taking on all of

449
00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,399
Speaker 2: our stories and like listening to us. So I definitely

450
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,200
Speaker 2: always like wanted to check up on him and give

451
00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:52,399
Speaker 2: him the chance to just relax and breathe and yeah,

452
00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:55,040
Speaker 2: he said shared some things that I loved that. Obviously

453
00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,040
Speaker 2: everything's going to be shown because there's just so much

454
00:19:57,080 --> 00:20:00,280
Speaker 2: going on. But I had the live, you know, the

455
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:01,840
Speaker 2: life footage with him. You know, I had the best

456
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:03,800
Speaker 2: time with him, and him opening up allowed me to

457
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,040
Speaker 2: feel safe with him as well.

458
00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:06,400
Speaker 4: That's amazing.

459
00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:10,480
Speaker 1: Is there anything that wasn't shown between you two that

460
00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:11,639
Speaker 1: you want to share?

461
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:16,440
Speaker 2: I mean, I know for a fact that Joey and

462
00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,000
Speaker 2: I did have a great, strong connection. We had a

463
00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:23,920
Speaker 2: beautiful relationship. I do wish more of our moments could

464
00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:28,439
Speaker 2: have been shared with people, but I think in everything

465
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,080
Speaker 2: you see is kind of what you what you get,

466
00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 2: and Joey and I know how raw and true our

467
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,360
Speaker 2: relationship was, and at the end of the day, that's

468
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:35,560
Speaker 2: all that really matters to me.

469
00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:38,359
Speaker 4: How does it make you feel?

470
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 3: I feel like there's been a lot of comments that

471
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 3: you guys are like friends first.

472
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,200
Speaker 4: How does that make you feel? Saying that?

473
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,120
Speaker 2: I mean best relationships office friends, right, So I don't

474
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 2: see that. I don't think that's an issue. I think

475
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:55,719
Speaker 2: people are trying to find any reason to kind of

476
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:59,680
Speaker 2: downplay my experience with Joey, and I'm kind of trying

477
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 2: to ignore that because I was the one who was there.

478
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 2: I spoke with him, I spent all that time with him,

479
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 2: and even if it's just a friendship that came out

480
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:10,119
Speaker 2: of it, it's still something so beautiful to be proud of.

481
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:11,400
Speaker 2: I don't think that's an issue at all.

482
00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you also, you also are the third girl,

483
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,440
Speaker 1: so it's like it wasn't like like he really really

484
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 1: liked you, so like there is.

485
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:25,120
Speaker 2: A reason to keep me to top three, but.

486
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 1: Like there's a reason that you. You made it that fire,

487
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:30,800
Speaker 1: and it's not just because he wanted to be back

488
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 1: have a bear with you at a bar and then

489
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 1: fucking slap your high five and see you later.

490
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:44,440
Speaker 2: But I think towards the end, he and I definitely

491
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,720
Speaker 2: knew that that's as far as our relationship was going

492
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:51,200
Speaker 2: to go. And I know I've said this before, and

493
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 2: I've said it to him. I think my favorite memory

494
00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,200
Speaker 2: is he and I parting ways because you can't force anything,

495
00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 2: and we both gave it our all, and I know

496
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 2: we're both so proud that we both cared about each

497
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 2: other and respect each other. So yeah, I keep saying

498
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 2: we're friends. I'm so glad I have to be acting

499
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 2: friends of my ex. That's like a beautiful, beautiful thing.

500
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:14,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, did you see it coming then? Because we obviously

501
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 3: saw you getting sent home at the Women Tell All.

502
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 3: They showed it and it was obviously a very emotionally

503
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 3: charged moment. Were you shocked or because he kind of

504
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 3: made a comment when we interviewed him that made me

505
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,439
Speaker 3: think that maybe there was like a vibe that the

506
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 3: relationship was coming to an end between you two.

507
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wish I knew what he said, but you

508
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 2: can listen. I'll listen to it. I knew that I

509
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,680
Speaker 2: was I was going to go home. I think it's

510
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 2: so emotional because you've come, I went so far with him,

511
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 2: and you're pretty much at the end, and so a

512
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,639
Speaker 2: natural instinct is I was thinking, was I enough that

513
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 2: I not do enough? Was there? We ran out of time?

514
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 2: What was it? And it was definitely an unspoken understanding

515
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: that this was the end for us. So the tears

516
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,159
Speaker 2: I'm going to cry now, I'm not going to cry,

517
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 2: but the tears I used are all real because it's

518
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 2: not hearing my name called. I felt that our friendship

519
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 2: was also done. I had no say in it, So

520
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 2: a part of me I was thinking I was like, oh, well,

521
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 2: I know I'm going to go home. Maybe I just

522
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 2: shouldn't go to the road ceremony. That was like what

523
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 2: I was really thinking to myself. But I didn't want

524
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 2: to take away the joy and happiness of hearing your

525
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,199
Speaker 2: name being called for the other two women, just because

526
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 2: I love and respect them so much, and I think

527
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 2: it'd be a disservice if I didn't show up because

528
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 2: I would love to hear my name being called as

529
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 2: the final tier, right, So I didn't want to take

530
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,199
Speaker 2: that joy for the other women. So it's also why

531
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 2: I was crying because I knew it was going to happen.

532
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,199
Speaker 2: I knew this was the end for Joey and I.

533
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:54,399
Speaker 2: But again, it was probably my favorite moment of he

534
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 2: and I because I could really feel that there was

535
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 2: just so much love there, even as platon and I

536
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 2: think that's also my favorite type of love. That's too hard,

537
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 2: So it was hard to watch.

538
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, I think it's really difficult at the

539
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 1: end too, because I feel like the lead like that's

540
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 1: when your relationship really starts progressing, but the lead then

541
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 1: he has to step back and kind of like mentally

542
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: turn off two relationships. Because he has to take one.

543
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,919
Speaker 1: So it's like he like and that's like, that's the

544
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:30,479
Speaker 1: difficult part because it's like like who knows, Like, you know,

545
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: in the real world, you could like nothing, nothing, rub

546
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: it in, but like you could have worked in the

547
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 1: real world, you know. But like now he's now it's

548
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 1: like this thing where he's like, well, I have like

549
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,679
Speaker 1: at this point, I feel a stronger connection with a

550
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: Daisy y or a Kelsey, So now I have to

551
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 1: turn off this relationship and that's hard because it's like

552
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 1: no one did anything wrong, and that's yeah, that's that's

553
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 1: the Yeah.

554
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 2: You know, I give Joys all my respect for having

555
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,199
Speaker 2: to be the one in that position to do it,

556
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 2: because I don't know if I could be able to

557
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,159
Speaker 2: do it at the same time, Yeah, it was a

558
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:12,400
Speaker 2: hard decision, but someone had to do it. So kudo's

559
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:16,680
Speaker 2: joy for breaking it because that was a tough one.

560
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 2: Definitely a tough one.

561
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like it's emotional to experience and then

562
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 3: to have to sit there and watch it back is

563
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:26,959
Speaker 3: just a whole different type of emotional.

564
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't think I was gonna be that emotional.

565
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 2: I was going into a girl. I was going to

566
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 2: tell all. I was like, I'm gonna watch it. It's fine,

567
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 2: but yeah, it hit me like a ton of bricks

568
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 2: because just after filming, I kind of went home and

569
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 2: I was like, how do I just pick up from here?

570
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 2: That's kind of what my thought process was. So I

571
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 2: went back to work and I just tried to be busy,

572
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 2: be busy, not think about it. So seeing that over

573
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 2: and reliving that whole thing and kind of just to

574
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 2: be back to that place.

575
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to get into your time in the

576
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 3: high with Joey at the Women TLL. But before that,

577
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 3: there's so much went down at the Women t Hall

578
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 3: and you were not sitting out there with the girls,

579
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 3: but you were there. You were behind the scenes waiting

580
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 3: for your moment. So I want to get your take

581
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 3: on the drama. What are your thoughts? You know, we

582
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 3: had the Maria versus Jess, Sidney and leya moment. You

583
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 3: were in the house through all of it, which is

584
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 3: you know you're seeing everything that's going down.

585
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 4: What's your take on it all?

586
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: I mean, as you can see also, like if you watch,

587
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 2: I was always pretty neutral and I always tried to

588
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 2: be kind of see what was happening on both sides.

589
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 2: I also was not on the group dates where most

590
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 2: of the drama happened. So a lot of times girls,

591
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,120
Speaker 2: you know, they were sharing like oh this took place,

592
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 2: this transpired, but I wasn't there, so I don't know

593
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 2: what happened when didn't happen. My whole thing was Sidney, Leah, Maria, Jess.

594
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 2: I give these girls all my respect because they all

595
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 2: stood their ground, and I think that's a hard thing

596
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 2: to do. Like, you know, for most people, they'd be like, Okay,

597
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 2: let's just move on, let's move on. But they stuck

598
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 2: to their side of the story, each of them, and

599
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 2: I think it's bound to happen to have this disagreement.

600
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,679
Speaker 2: You're putting so many different personalities in a small environment.

601
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: Some personalities are stronger than the other. But I did

602
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 2: hear that they hugged it out. So I'm glad we're able,

603
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 2: you know, at our age as women's let's just put

604
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 2: it aside. We're there for Joey, and you know, we

605
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 2: all have those people that we hang out with them

606
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 2: we're closest to. I just was just over the whole thing.

607
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 2: Honestly the whole time. I was like, okay, guys, but

608
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 2: where's Joey question? Where's Joey? Right?

609
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 3: We didn't see you involved in literally any drama this season,

610
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 3: which is not surprising to me. We did see you

611
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 3: have a little miniature tiff with Maria at one of

612
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 3: the Rose ceremonies. Do you want to expand or just

613
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 3: give any context?

614
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: And how cold was it in that hangar? Because I

615
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 1: bet it was fucking.

616
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 4: Freezing to that moment, it was pretty cold.

617
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 2: Act no, it was actually really cold that night. I

618
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 2: don't I wouldn't even call it a tiff. I think

619
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 2: we were all so exhausted. We just finished hometowns. It's

620
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 2: late at night. You know, these ceremonies can go as long.

621
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 2: We don't even know how long it was going to be,

622
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 2: So I think it was more emotions are high, and

623
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 2: I was the closest to and I just asked a

624
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 2: simple question. We hugged it out. I don't think there

625
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 2: was any ill will in that moment. And you know,

626
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 2: one thing about your Rehni is that we could talk

627
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 2: straight to each other. We were just blunt, and that's

628
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 2: why we just never really had an issue. I said

629
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 2: what I said, and she would say what she said,

630
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 2: and we moved on but of course from outside perspective,

631
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 2: you're not thinking about what's going through my mind was

632
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 2: going through her mind. So it looks like a tiff,

633
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 2: but it wasn't.

634
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: I threw plenty of TIFFs in Paradise. We would be

635
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: if like Row ceremony, people would like pass out, I'd

636
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 1: be like, are you fucking hur meet, drink some water?

637
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 4: One of the worst.

638
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: Well, I'm saying, like roast ceremonies, like what you're once

639
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: you're at the for like our listeners like, once you're

640
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: at the roast ceremony, like at this point, you're like

641
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 1: you're pretty tired and you're just exhausted, and you're just

642
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: kind of like, let's get this. We want to get

643
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: this going, like it's it's the end.

644
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 4: That was go ahead, Sorry, no, go, Rachel go.

645
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 2: It was obviously it wasn't. So like more that was

646
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 2: happening in the background is I was also very emotional

647
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 2: going into that hometown I mean going into that Row

648
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 2: ceremony because as I was leaving my hometowns my I

649
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 2: found out that my auntie passed away a while I

650
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 2: was filming, and so I was kind of like the

651
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 2: space where I was like, I'm missing so much of

652
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 2: like what's going on back home? And I'm so out

653
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 2: of the loop, and I'm so close to my dad

654
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 2: and it was my dad's sister, So going to the ceremony,

655
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 2: I felt like there was just like a lot. We

656
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 2: were all having so many emotions, seing our families and

657
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 2: like thinking about things like am I should I be here?

658
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 2: Like what what am I doing here? So I think

659
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 2: people are just so quick to judge and not take

660
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 2: a second to realize, like there's other things that they're

661
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 2: thinking about besides getting a rose that night.

662
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 3: I also think the Maria fans are on the defense

663
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 3: for Maria with everything that went down this season, and

664
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 3: they're like, anyone that's Antia, we're coming for you. And

665
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 3: it's like guys like Maria and Rachel I.

666
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 2: Put that army too, dang her army spears.

667
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 4: Her army is spears.

668
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 2: They're hardcore. They're hardcore.

669
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So let's talk about you seeing Joey again at

670
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: the reunion in your hot seat? How was How was that?

671
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 2: I wasn't nervous at all, Jesam. I was actually very

672
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 2: excited because we left. I guess you could say there

673
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 2: was no closure when we left we both didn't need closure.

674
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 2: We knew this was the end of it, so I

675
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: could feel that we both were it was just a

676
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 2: calmness when we saw each other, and it's just so

677
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 2: much love. As soon as we saw each other, it

678
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 2: was like, hey, man, what's.

679
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 3: Up to Yeah, and I feel like I had like

680
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 3: you had great banter on the show, like he said,

681
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 3: this is the woman tell all. But like, truly, I

682
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 3: feel like so many of the interactions we saw between

683
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 3: the two of you was you making him laugh and

684
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,719
Speaker 3: you could tell like he just there's good banter and

685
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 3: like ease between the two of you, and I feel

686
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 3: like we saw that right away from like the moment

687
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 3: he sat down with your little interaction, yeah.

688
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: Which is like there's always a like I said, a

689
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: sense of familiarity, a sense of home with the both

690
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 2: of us, and you know, seeing him cry. I think

691
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 2: I think I told him. I was like, I'm so

692
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 2: glad you cried on my left because.

693
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 4: You did you did?

694
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if I did, because I was like, listen, man,

695
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 2: if there's no tear to be shed, please redo it.

696
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 3: You know, it feels good when they're a little upset,

697
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 3: You're like, Okay, I'm glad I've been something to you too.

698
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 2: Okay, I want you on your hands and knees, but

699
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 2: if it's not, you'll take a bug, dear. It's fine.

700
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

701
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 4: Yeah.

702
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 3: We saw you speak you know, Joe and you kind

703
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 3: of had your moment and just he had said that

704
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 3: you were giving so much to the relationship that he

705
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:18,719
Speaker 3: just couldn't give back. I feel like we saw you

706
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 3: really take a turn and open up so much after

707
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 3: your conversation with Susan, who was in the audience.

708
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 4: How was that conversation.

709
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 3: I feel like, out of the three conversations, like you,

710
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 3: Daisy and Kelsey all chatted with a gold woman, you

711
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 3: and Susan just had like the best chemistry and like.

712
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 2: Oh yes, I mean it's Susan, right, Like see Susan.

713
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 2: Susan is iconic, She is amazing. She definitely I felt

714
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 2: like I was talking to an auntie or a mom

715
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: in that moment. That's what I was needing because in

716
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 2: my head, I was like, Okay, it's now or never

717
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 2: I opened up to Joey or I don't open up

718
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 2: to Joey. And she really kind of pushed me into

719
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 2: the right direction to just give it my all. And

720
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 2: I think even though the ALcom is not what anyone

721
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: would have wanted, it was everything I wanted. I opened up,

722
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 2: I pushed myself, and I'm just really proud of you

723
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 2: know how far it came towards the end.

724
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 1: So what does this mean for you now, stepping into

725
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: the dating world and back into the real world and

726
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: being single but having I guess grown in the relationship sense.

727
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm so so happy with where I'm

728
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 2: at life right now. I think a lot of us

729
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 2: when we're single, especially in our twenties or mid twenties

730
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 2: or late twenties, we think we're behind. I'm like, girl,

731
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 2: you can literally do whatever you want. Like, you can

732
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: literally do whatever you want.

733
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: Tell you thought, I'm.

734
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 2: Sure you still can do whatever you want. But I am.

735
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 2: I think right now I'm taking a step back from

736
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 2: the dating world. I'm not opposed to anybody, but obviously

737
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 2: my standards are very high. I mean, who can top

738
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: date in Spain? I don't know. Yeah, like that one.

739
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 2: It's kind of hard, but yeah, I mean, if you

740
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:06,239
Speaker 2: can meet my standards, give me a call.

741
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 3: If not, are the d ms open, are we like

742
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 3: at least like casually dating or are you like, no,

743
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 3: give me space.

744
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 2: I need space right now. I definitely need space right now.

745
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 2: I think, like, I think a lot of opportunities are

746
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 2: coming out of all this, and I really focused on

747
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: just relaxing and kind of touching grass and like visiting

748
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,320
Speaker 2: my family to kind of just take a break from everything.

749
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: But I'm not a posey, right, you're open? What what

750
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: was the What was your favorite place you went to

751
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: on the show? Because you basically went you went everywhere.

752
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 2: I went everywhere I didn't, Thank god. I want to

753
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:46,919
Speaker 2: say Spain was probably my favorite landscape because I've always

754
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 2: wanted to go to Spain. I'm I'm obsessed with Spanish culture,

755
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: but lodging and like just the scenery and everything. Jasper

756
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 2: was insane. Yeah, yeah, I mean that it was insane.

757
00:34:58,040 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 2: I was like, where are we guys? I would definitely

758
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 2: go back to Jasper's made. Yeah, I love that.

759
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 4: Very different places, but yeah, it's very beautiful.

760
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, I got a Hawaii question. So we're going

761
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: to Hawaii for the first time, even though neither of

762
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 1: but this isn't I'm just throwing this other.

763
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 4: Far from the East coast, you know it is?

764
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 2: It is far from the east coast.

765
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: What is one thing that we had? Like what what

766
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 1: does Hawaii do best? As far as food?

767
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 2: I want? Is the best for sure, But I mean

768
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: there's like my favorite place on the island is called

769
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 2: Kina the Sandwich Shop. It's in the North Shore. It's

770
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,720
Speaker 2: on the Wahoo and they have the best tarry chicken

771
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 2: sandwich but the best fries. I've had it myself, So

772
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 2: I don't know I'm over hyping it because it's it's

773
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 2: I've had since I was like a fetus, like I've

774
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 2: gone because that was an actual child. So to me,

775
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,919
Speaker 2: it's just like a nostalgic sandwich. But it's the North

776
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 2: Shore where it's like that's like the raw Huwai, like

777
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 2: nothing's really there's no like a lot of buildings and stuff.

778
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 1: As a as a as a tourist, where should you

779
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: go if you're going for if you're going for two man,

780
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: if you're going for ten days?

781
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 2: Are you planning the trip right now?

782
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: Apparently I'm just trying to get as much information as that.

783
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 4: Joe is always planning multiple trips that.

784
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, like do you go to

785
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: the what is it like Maui's We almost.

786
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,320
Speaker 3: Went to Hawaii on our honeymoon and we did it,

787
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 3: so it's like on it's near the top of the

788
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 3: list of places like we really want to go. So yeah,

789
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 3: we're always picking people's brains that have been there or lived.

790
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 2: There and decided which island I should go to because

791
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 2: a Wahu has great nightlife, but then you also have

792
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 2: like the good countryside. He just has the beautiful country

793
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,280
Speaker 2: Maui as well. Just go to every island.

794
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:53,439
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, assault message, you know, give you a list

795
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 3: of things to do, and then don't ask Joey ask me.

796
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: Okay, I wouldn't you think you think I'm gonna ask

797
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 1: the the Philly kid who's a tennis instructor in Hawaii,

798
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: where to go to Hawaii.

799
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people think he's from Hawaii.

800
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 2: I feel like I've been getting comments and people saying

801
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 2: they're both from Hawaii that I.

802
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 3: Feel like it confuses people because when you're on the show,

803
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 3: they have like name age where you're from, or like

804
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 3: name age occupation, like in the little bios, and I

805
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 3: think they had they had him as Hawaii on his

806
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,879
Speaker 3: when he was attested, because it's not necessarily where you're born,

807
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 3: where you grew up. It's like where you are most

808
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 3: recently living. So I think it gets confusing for some people.

809
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:39,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, that it's to be clarified.

810
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: Take care they switch it up, Okay, I think yeah,

811
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: I mean we probably could wrap this anything else, anything

812
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 1: else you want to talk about, anything that we may

813
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: not have saw with you and Joey or are you chilling?

814
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 4: They want people to know.

815
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,760
Speaker 2: I mean, I definitely would love to just address again.

816
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 2: Thing I addresses that tell all at the end was

817
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 2: just the comments that people had been making, I guess

818
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 2: to or to me, especially after hometowns. I'm not one

819
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 2: to really speak up, I guess for myself, so doing

820
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 2: that was like a huge there's a huge thing for me.

821
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 2: And you know, coming from my Asian background, were always

822
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: taught like not to take up space, like not to

823
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 2: speak up, just be quiet. And so I'm really trying

824
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 2: to encourage people like who look like me, or just

825
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 2: anyone of color to take up that space and to

826
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 2: speak up. I think people are so quick to realize,

827
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 2: are so quick to think that it doesn't affect any

828
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 2: of us. And I'm not saying that the comments I'm

829
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 2: getting are tearing me down. It's just very frustrating, and

830
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 2: I wish more people would just be more kind with

831
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 2: their words and just know that their words have weight

832
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,760
Speaker 2: to them. And you know, I'm still just a normal person.

833
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 2: You know. I went on the show, and I think

834
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 2: going in the show takes a lot of courage and

835
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 2: bravery because they're so much that you go through, and

836
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 2: you know, people getting mad because of my skin color

837
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,280
Speaker 2: of how I look and just dropping all these names

838
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 2: like jungle Asian and all these slurs that just are

839
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,280
Speaker 2: coming from left field, all because I got a rose.

840
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 2: I wish people would just know that if you want

841
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 2: to watch reality TV, you have to know that people

842
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 2: are real on reality TV and just to be more

843
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 2: kind and have more grace on us.

844
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and just don't be a fucking dick. It's like

845
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: I don't. It's like it's it's actually it's terrible. It's insane,

846
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: and it's just like like yeah, and like you have

847
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: to expect some of it, but like, especially like in

848
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: your case, it's just like it's so unwarranted and it's

849
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 1: just yeah, I feel for you, like it sucks, and

850
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 1: like I feel like you are in like a great

851
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 1: headspace and I would just like stay there and focus

852
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: on all the good that does come from it, because

853
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,840
Speaker 1: there is a lot of it, and yeah, like hopefully

854
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 1: the haters you know, go away or at least start,

855
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 1: you know, or grow up a little bit, because.

856
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, it is.

857
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 3: It's like, if you want to watch a show where

858
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 3: it's only people that look like you, you're probably not

859
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 3: gonna be able to turn on your TV and you

860
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 3: probab shouldn't suit outside your house because that's just not

861
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 3: how The Friends would works. No, and it is. It

862
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 3: is a struggle for everyone in this franchise. A lot

863
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 3: of the hateful comments and something that we as past contestants,

864
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 3: me as a woman of color, can definitely relate to

865
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 3: your experience to an extent with dealing with that struggle.

866
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 3: But thank you for your bravery and sharing your culture

867
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 3: and sharing your family and your experiences and your traditions

868
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,760
Speaker 3: on the show, because it does take so much bravery.

869
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 3: You are putting yourself out there for you know, people

870
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 3: to love on and accept, and also for people to

871
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 3: criticize and say horrific things in your DM. Sadly that

872
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:53,879
Speaker 3: is part of being on this show. But I hope

873
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Speaker 3: that you know that the good that you do and

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Speaker 3: the good that comes out of this and the people

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Speaker 3: you touch is so much greater that.

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Speaker 4: Oh got well choked up there for a second.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, Then the people that you hurt that are hurting you.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't prepared for. Oh yeah, no, I think I

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Speaker 1: think I agree with everything you said, and yeah, just

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Speaker 1: you're you're an amazing person and just know that and

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Speaker 1: fuck those people really yeah, for lack of a better word. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then if if if there was a Bachelor of Paradise,

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Speaker 1: would you do it?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I don't know, man, I know, I mean, I'm

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Speaker 2: not going to say no. I'm not going to give

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Speaker 2: a definitive answer and say no. How mean, we'll just

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Speaker 2: see what what I in the moment, I guess is

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Speaker 2: there even going to be a b I P is there?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I know there's going to be a bachelorette.

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Speaker 2: How about that there's gonna be a bachelor that?

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Speaker 1: Would you do that?

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Speaker 2: I'd be the worst bacheorette ever? Don't say that?

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Speaker 4: Why do you think that?

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Speaker 1: And sometimes that makes for the best TV.

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Speaker 2: Because I think, like night when I would say, ah,

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Speaker 2: I mean half of you guys to go home. I

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Speaker 2: can't kiss, I can't no, I don't know. We'll see.

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Speaker 2: I think it would be fun. I'd have a great experience,

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Speaker 2: but I'm also like very blunt. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: that's what would be good as a bachelorette, but.

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Speaker 4: I think you would be great.

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Speaker 3: You couldn't send fifty percent of the men home night

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Speaker 3: one because that's how the show works, but I think

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Speaker 3: if you could get past that, you.

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Speaker 4: Would be a great bachelorette.

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Speaker 2: I would have fun. It would be a fun time,

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Speaker 2: but we'll see. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Cool. Okay, Well, Rachel, thank you so much for coming on.

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Speaker 1: We've been waiting to interview you, so we're really happy

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Speaker 1: and yeah, thanks so much. Appreciate it as.

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Speaker 2: The best time. Also, you guys are just stunning, like

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Speaker 2: you are literally how I pictured you guys?

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Speaker 4: Really? Thank you well?

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Speaker 1: Thank you yeah, and I'm not even like I mean

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Speaker 1: you should see me dressed up. No, anyways, and thank

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Speaker 1: you to all our listeners who tune in to Batchery

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Speaker 1: Happy Hour. We appreciate you guys. I know most of you,

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Speaker 1: if not majority of you, are not the people that

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00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: send hateful messages. But if you are, like, chill out

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Speaker 1: for real, CHIU. I guess I said that a lot

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Speaker 1: that word of the day. Yeah, I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I guess, yeah, I do say chill a

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Speaker 1: lot though, Okay, okay, yes, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Thing, And don't forget that Joey. Season of The Bacher's

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Speaker 3: Finale is coming out very soon.

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Speaker 4: Will it be Kelsey? Will it be Daisy? Will it

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Speaker 4: be both? Will it be neither?

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Speaker 3: We will We will find out, So be sure to

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Speaker 3: tune in and be sure to subscribe to Bacher Happy

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Speaker 3: Hour because we will have our recaps and many more

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Speaker 3: exclusive interviews to come.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye