WEBVTT - Amy Reveals The Thing She’s Most Proud Of 

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<v Speaker 1>The best bits of the week with Morgan. It's listener

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<v Speaker 1>Q and daytime. We're Morgan in a show member answer

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<v Speaker 1>almost all your questions. Here we are.

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<v Speaker 2>We've made it over into a part three listener question

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<v Speaker 2>and we answer time. So we're gonna do something fun here.

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<v Speaker 2>Because Eddie kind of started this. He wanted to choose

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<v Speaker 2>his questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do some shout outs that I have written down,

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<v Speaker 2>but you get to look through and decide what we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're gonna choose.

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<v Speaker 2>Like three in the beginning, three in the second half,

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<v Speaker 2>unless you we go along in some of them. But

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<v Speaker 2>the shout outs to start, I'm really enjoying the Feeling

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<v Speaker 2>Things podcast with Amy. Amy's skin care routine is fire,

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<v Speaker 2>her skin looks amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara in Kentucky.

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<v Speaker 2>So those are some shout outs to start get us

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<v Speaker 2>feeling good.

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<v Speaker 1>Now Amy gets to decide, Okay, question.

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<v Speaker 3>The very first one at the top, is she going

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<v Speaker 3>to take a trip to Paris? I hope she does?

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<v Speaker 3>And that's from Morgan and Louisiana and I.

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<v Speaker 1>I so hope.

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<v Speaker 3>So Morgan, I'm manifesting it. This Morgan here got me

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<v Speaker 3>a little Paris book and a scarf to help me

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<v Speaker 3>manifest the trip. And I, you know, I can't say

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<v Speaker 3>for certain it's going to happen this summer, but potentially

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<v Speaker 3>we have two vacation times this summer through the show,

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<v Speaker 3>and maybe one of them will be to Paris.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think you can talk your sister into doing

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<v Speaker 1>it with you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just our schedules lining up is so difficult. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I think I could. She just was in Paris last year,

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<v Speaker 3>so that might be another thing of like, oh and

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<v Speaker 3>between her businesses and her four kids and our schedules.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, but I have thought a lot lately

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<v Speaker 3>about going alone and not even worrying about if anybody

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<v Speaker 3>else can go, like intentionally going alone, because people say

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<v Speaker 3>that that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we'll see, okay, TVD I am. I'm really

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<v Speaker 2>trying to manifest this for her. So hopefully this year

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<v Speaker 2>will be Amy in Paris.

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<v Speaker 3>Barbie and Kentucky. Would Amy ever like to or consider

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<v Speaker 3>getting married again? Yeah, I'd consider it. I like too.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what that looks like obviously, but I

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<v Speaker 3>am definitely open to it.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to. I think we've talked about that before.

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<v Speaker 2>Too. I think you've you've really been open to the

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<v Speaker 2>idea for a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>So, speaking of relationships TP from VA. So maybe Terry

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<v Speaker 3>Terry Bucker from Virginia. Bucker is asking any chance of

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<v Speaker 3>Amy and Alex getting back together? I like happy endings,

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<v Speaker 3>there could.

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<v Speaker 1>Be tbd TP from VA. That was quite the t Well.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't. I mean, I'm just saying I'm not I'm

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<v Speaker 3>open to everything and anything like I'm not again, especially

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<v Speaker 3>because it was such a healthy ending. I think we

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if it was that we needed a break.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. We have held so many variables in

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<v Speaker 3>our lives.

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<v Speaker 1>That who knows, who knows?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Like maybe it's just like not like a time thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think we're both okay with where we are.

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<v Speaker 3>Things are just so amicable. I don't know. Uh, can

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<v Speaker 3>you talk about how life has improved since we're covering

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<v Speaker 3>from an Ed Bailey in Oklahoma? Well, it improves a lot. However,

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<v Speaker 3>I know how difficult it is to come out from

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<v Speaker 3>an eating disorder. What you do have to look forward to,

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<v Speaker 3>whether it's Bailey specifically or you're asking for someone in

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<v Speaker 3>your life, is such a freedom that I can't describe. Uh,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like the thoughts are have held you captive for

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<v Speaker 3>so long. It's like, you know, the jackals have been

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<v Speaker 3>removed because it's something that stunts you and consumes you,

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<v Speaker 3>so you can't enjoy other areas in life when you're

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<v Speaker 3>constantly thinking about what your workout's going to be, or

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<v Speaker 3>what you've eaten or what you haven't eaten, and if

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<v Speaker 3>you're restricting and then bingji, I mean, it's just a

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<v Speaker 3>constant cycle of like, oh, then the dieting begins tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's exhausting. So when you can finally get a

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<v Speaker 3>handle on those thoughts and they become less and less

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<v Speaker 3>and less your brain space you have more capacity for

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<v Speaker 3>things that bring you joy and speaking of meals with

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<v Speaker 3>friends or family, like, you get to actually enjoy that

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<v Speaker 3>instead of internally stressing about the entire situation.

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<v Speaker 1>It does take a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not minimizing what goes into that type of freedom,

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<v Speaker 3>but life has improved significantly, drastically, dramatically. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what are their words I can use, but yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 3>it is worth the fight. If you can put in

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<v Speaker 3>the work and fight through it, it's worth the fight.

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<v Speaker 3>And there will still be lingering thoughts or moments or

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<v Speaker 3>seasons of I don't know that it just fully goes away,

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<v Speaker 3>ever fully, fully fully, but I would consider myself in

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<v Speaker 3>active recovery and experiencing a freedom that I never thought

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<v Speaker 3>was possible, Like for decades that I just thought, well,

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<v Speaker 3>my brain is just this way, and I'm like the

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<v Speaker 3>only one having these thoughts and this is the way

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<v Speaker 3>my life's going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, and that's what I was going to ask.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct me if I'm wrong. It's never something that you're

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<v Speaker 2>it's completely gone. No, that's why it's called recovery. You're

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<v Speaker 2>in recovery. You're not recovered, I think. And that's I

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<v Speaker 2>mean for people that have an addiction to other things.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I've alcohol or and they're sober, they're in

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<v Speaker 2>recovery knowing that every day's a gift. I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 2>a total I mean, they're two different categories, but there

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<v Speaker 2>are some similarities of like then you have this new

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<v Speaker 2>appreciation for life because you're seeing it through a different lens. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So when you're sober from alcohol, you feel that way,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's not that you're sober from food, Like we

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<v Speaker 2>need food to survive. That was always What was so

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<v Speaker 2>tricky is someone in your life might be addicted to

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<v Speaker 2>drugs or an alcoholic, and they can remove that from

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<v Speaker 2>their lives and their life will get better. You still

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<v Speaker 2>have to think about food and working out because those

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<v Speaker 2>things actually contribute to you living healthy life. But when

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<v Speaker 2>you've had an unhealthy relationship with food and an unhealthy

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<v Speaker 2>relationship with working out, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, well, what am I supposed to do?

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<v Speaker 3>Because like you just like eliminate something for my life

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<v Speaker 3>and not ever have it again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a double edged word.

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<v Speaker 2>You're you're fighting two battlefronts instead of just the one.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's a really good point for a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people that are out there probably struggling with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, do one more and then we're going to take

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<v Speaker 1>a break.

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<v Speaker 3>How do if someone said, how do I attract fun

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<v Speaker 3>birds to my birdhouse? I only get pigeons and miners.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, by the way, pigeons are awesome. Everybody's a hater

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<v Speaker 2>of pigeons.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they can be a little annoying, but they're cute.

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<v Speaker 3>I think they're cute. But they can be annoying, but

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<v Speaker 3>they probably maybe they want to just see more varieties.

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<v Speaker 1>Because they want to you.

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<v Speaker 3>If you only got pigeons, you might be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to see but this person is listening in

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<v Speaker 3>Australia though, So I have no idea. I don't even

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<v Speaker 3>know what a miner is, and I don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>other birds you could get, but let's see what is

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<v Speaker 3>a miner searching up food, like doing research of food

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<v Speaker 3>that is going to attract particular birds in your area,

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<v Speaker 3>or getting bird calls like these little whistles you can get,

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<v Speaker 3>but get specific ones that birds are of a bird

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<v Speaker 3>that's actually in your area that you want to call.

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<v Speaker 3>And Lunchbox got me a gift one year and this

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<v Speaker 3>was something that was on shark Tank, So just google

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<v Speaker 3>birds seed chark Tank and it'll probably come up because

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<v Speaker 3>I don't remember the name of the company. But he

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<v Speaker 3>got stuff specifically for my area, like my zip code.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know if the shark take thing is

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<v Speaker 3>a global situation, but they may have a special Australian brand. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, but if they have a mix for that region,

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<v Speaker 3>I bet they would. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Birds are everywhere and a minor looks like our regular

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<v Speaker 2>birds here, so okay, that's probably what they're referring to.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, We're gonna take a quick break. We'll be

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<v Speaker 2>right back, all right. So we got some more questions here,

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<v Speaker 2>Amy Howe is botox free going? I'm pregnant, so I'm

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<v Speaker 2>also on my natural journey.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh oh, I did get I don't know what it's called,

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<v Speaker 3>but in December I got Hm it's like a Korean botox,

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<v Speaker 3>but I haven't had I got it. What's it April now?

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<v Speaker 3>So I got it in December and I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 3>I really liked it.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, so is it still a regular botox injection

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<v Speaker 1>or is it different?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's not botox. Botox is a is a brand,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a type. So this is some Korean It's supposed

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<v Speaker 3>to be similar. So I did go a year or

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<v Speaker 3>more without botox botox as was lasering off my brows.

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<v Speaker 3>But then and I it's holding up in my forehead

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit, but around my crow's feet it's already gone.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm not I mean, I may go back and

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<v Speaker 3>get more, but I'm not sure yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh my, well, I guess I can talk about this

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<v Speaker 3>because Kat has but she's pregnant. My friend Kat, she

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<v Speaker 3>but she stopped getting botox before her pregnancy, so she

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<v Speaker 3>already went through the acceptance of what that was like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, just it's more so just getting used to

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<v Speaker 3>your face again. And I think once you would get

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<v Speaker 3>comfortable with that, then it's okay. So she went into

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<v Speaker 3>it before her pregnancy and so now, but I would

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<v Speaker 3>imagine had she stopped, and then she's all hormonal and

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<v Speaker 3>then she's dealing with that at the same time, and

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<v Speaker 3>then other pregnancy things, which she opened up on our

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<v Speaker 3>podcast talking about some of the things people don't talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>And she's a therapist that specializes in body image, and

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<v Speaker 3>she's like, I am really struggling with how quickly and

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<v Speaker 3>rapidly my body is changing and it's very hard and

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<v Speaker 3>I don't I'm not comfortable, my clothes are not fitting.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gaining more weight than other girls that I'm seeing

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<v Speaker 3>online that you have these cute little bumps, And she's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even look pregnant. I just look like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gaining weight. And she's like, and it's really hard, and

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<v Speaker 3>so she wanted to put that out there because she's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really feel like I hear people talking about

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<v Speaker 3>this and it sucks no.

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<v Speaker 2>Because everybody talks about the joy and your glow up

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<v Speaker 2>that you're having when you get pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you're glowing now, And she wouldn't. She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also happy.

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<v Speaker 3>This is like a yes and it's not a butt

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<v Speaker 3>like She's like, I would not change a thing. And

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just not one of those girls online like oh

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<v Speaker 3>look at my cute little bump, you know. And she's like,

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<v Speaker 3>and it sucks and it's hard. So I think if

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<v Speaker 3>she was processing also like and I can't give up boatoks,

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<v Speaker 3>but she had already gotten used to that and had

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<v Speaker 3>that acceptance and we can all have tools, like we

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<v Speaker 3>have wrinkles because we're getting older. I was annoyed the

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<v Speaker 3>other day because I felt so super pale and the

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<v Speaker 3>sun's coming out now and I'm wearing shorts for the

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<v Speaker 3>first time, and I was annoyed because I didn't it

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<v Speaker 3>was too lazy and I didn't want to put myself

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<v Speaker 3>tainer on. And I was texting with Cat about it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, but you know what, also like

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<v Speaker 3>it is what it is, like I'm white, like and

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<v Speaker 3>that's it may sound weird, but that's a simple tool

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<v Speaker 3>and your toolbox of like, oh, also it's okay to

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<v Speaker 3>have wrinkles, Like it's it's okay to be your age.

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<v Speaker 1>It's also okay to get botox.

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<v Speaker 3>It's also okay to try whatever Korean thing I tried

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<v Speaker 3>that I injected that's similar to botox. I just don't

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<v Speaker 3>know the exact name because there's like disport, there's botox,

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<v Speaker 3>and then whatever this is. Uh, And you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's okay to do either. And the life you're

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<v Speaker 3>growing is far more important than the botox, so you'll adjust.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny you say that about the realization, like, oh yeah, whit.

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<v Speaker 2>I like, there's a lot of things that I won't

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<v Speaker 2>wear unless I have a spray tan on, Like I

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<v Speaker 2>have specific clothes that I will not wear if I

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<v Speaker 2>do not have Ye.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I'm with you on that.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel so uncomfortable being so fair skinned. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>why I don't know. I'm the same way.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't And you know, you see those videos all

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<v Speaker 3>the time like, oh I thought I was depressed and

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<v Speaker 3>then I just went got a spray tan. I'm fine. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm totally fine.

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<v Speaker 2>It changes everything everything, and it bothers.

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<v Speaker 1>Me that it changes that much for me, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>showed uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how psychological the whole thing is. So if we

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<v Speaker 3>had somehow been conditioned to think that our pale skin

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<v Speaker 3>was beautiful, or all of us just accepting our skin

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<v Speaker 3>for the way that it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they haven't, so real I completely understand.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why. Also I'm not fan of summer. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like wearing dresses unless I have a spray tan. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot of efforts.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know what I realize about us and our

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<v Speaker 3>insecurities and things that we want to do to alter

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<v Speaker 3>our you know selves in any way, whether it's a

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<v Speaker 3>spray tan or botox or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people like you would.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably wear one of your non tan outfits and I'd

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<v Speaker 3>be like, oh, Morgan, looks cute, right, I'm not thinking

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<v Speaker 3>anything about it. I have another friend who hasn't been

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<v Speaker 3>getting botox, and I mean it's been a minute, like

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<v Speaker 3>and I feel like she looks the same, but she

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't see that, and I'm like, you look the same.

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<v Speaker 3>I just wish we could see ourselves how other people

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<v Speaker 3>see us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, that's just a good reminder. We have our own

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<v Speaker 1>filters of ourselves like we should be.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's funny. My fiance literally said this. He's like,

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<v Speaker 2>you wouldn't say that to one of your friend Why

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<v Speaker 2>are you saying that to yourself? And I'm like, you're right,

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<v Speaker 2>but I can't help it. So here I am. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let's end on a really fun one. What is she

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<v Speaker 2>most proud of? This is from Sierra in New York.

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<v Speaker 3>Gosh, my kids. Right now, my daughter's finished with high

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<v Speaker 3>school pretty much. I mean, it's almost done, and we've

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<v Speaker 3>got a sneak peek at her grades and she made

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<v Speaker 3>all as except for one class if that's not for

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<v Speaker 3>me to share, which I mean, that's up to her.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm just so proud of her grades and her

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<v Speaker 3>finishing high school and figuring out what's next for her.

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<v Speaker 3>And then my son's also doing well in school, and

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<v Speaker 3>they both have a good reputation with the school staff,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, And I don't mean, I don't think they're

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<v Speaker 3>lying when they talk about how they interact with people

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<v Speaker 3>at school, and that just warms my heart. And then

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<v Speaker 3>Stevenson's killing it at track. So right now it's just them,

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<v Speaker 3>and I mean, I can't take any credit for I'm

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<v Speaker 3>proud of them, so I don't know if that somehow

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<v Speaker 3>I'm proud of myself for supporting them in the ways

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<v Speaker 3>that I could to get them to wear they are.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's all them. But it's cool to see them

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<v Speaker 3>flourishing in their own little ways.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you did have a role in that.

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<v Speaker 2>You are their mom, so yeah, it was definitely just

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<v Speaker 2>them that you did play a part in all of that,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think the stability and consistency that you provide

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<v Speaker 2>them is a big part of that. And to be

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<v Speaker 2>where they are now, so it's probably cool to look

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<v Speaker 2>back on just where they started to where they are now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but also a little bit emotional as they are starting

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<v Speaker 2>to grow up and become their own, full fledged human

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<v Speaker 2>beings and go out into the world.

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<v Speaker 3>I know it's kind of crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, thank you Amy for joining and check out her

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<v Speaker 2>podcast Feeling Things with Amy Brown and Cat or Amy.

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<v Speaker 1>Kat Feeling Things with Amy and Kat.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it and you can go subscribe to the

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<v Speaker 2>show YouTube at Bobby Bone Show or really anything at

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<v Speaker 1>Otherwise, this is where we're going to get out of here. Amy,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for being here. Thank you bye everybody. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Be sure to check out the other two parts this weekend.

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