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Speaker 1: Hello, my little gorgeous faces. Today is super exciting because

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Speaker 1: I have my most favorite couple in the entire world

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Speaker 1: on the podcast. We have Nats Getty and Gigi Gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm so sweet, am I?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Nice?

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Speaker 1: Well, so Randall's not here, so today is the Give

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Speaker 1: Them La Lat with GG podcast. She's going to co

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Speaker 1: host with me and Nats is our guest.

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Speaker 4: Yes, welcome, no, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I'm super I'm super excited, but I'm also very nervous

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Speaker 1: because you guys, I obviously instagram stock you both, I

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Speaker 1: mean diddo.

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Speaker 4: We honestly are like the biggest fans of you and Randall,

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Speaker 4: so the feelings mutual.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you, and you guys have amazing content on

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Speaker 1: the Gram and I'm like, how does it happen? I

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Speaker 1: don't get it. How long do you spend on your gramjee?

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Speaker 4: I mean addicted to social media.

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Speaker 1: But you're like good at it. Thanks.

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Speaker 4: I mean, just like you know, content photo shoots, you

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Speaker 4: always got to get the photo. Yeah, I mean yeah,

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Speaker 4: I try to like stay up with it, but it's

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Speaker 4: it's honestly not as bad as it used to be.

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Speaker 4: I used to be like god to post every day,

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Speaker 4: like always on my phone. But now I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I haven't posted in a few days. Like it's not

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Speaker 4: that deep.

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Speaker 1: It's not that deep.

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Speaker 4: It's not that deep for him. It's like really not

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Speaker 4: that deep though. I really don't like you barely go

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Speaker 4: on anything like your phone's for like texting and.

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Speaker 3: Calling, yeah, if that and shopping, I mean barely. Like

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Speaker 3: just no, I don't like my phone.

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Speaker 1: I mean you're a fucking getdy so you can do

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Speaker 1: whatever the fuck you want totally, and like mental.

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Speaker 4: Health and all that, like it's a big thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: like it can really mess with your head being on

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Speaker 4: it too much.

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Speaker 1: That's so true. I notice when I start getting in

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Speaker 1: a funk, I'm like, you scrolled too much?

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Speaker 4: Yes, And you know, like why am I picking myself

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Speaker 4: apart so much?

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Speaker 1: Yep? Totally I'm the same way. And I'll like look

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Speaker 1: at girls and I'm like, how do they like I

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Speaker 1: want to look like that? I'm like, bitch you, Oh,

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Speaker 1: they don't even look like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, It's just like, why am I obsessing over shit?

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Speaker 2: That's not real?

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Speaker 1: And it's like it's not real.

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Speaker 4: Like probably obsess over us as much as we do

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Speaker 4: other people sometimes, you know.

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Speaker 1: I do it's just like that's absolutely true because I

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Speaker 1: look at your guys's graham and I'm like, they have

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Speaker 1: so much and you guys do have so much fun obviously,

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Speaker 1: but then I sit there and I'm like, your life

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Speaker 1: kind of sucks.

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Speaker 4: It's the highlight reel of everyone's life. It just is

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Speaker 4: like people just post the best stuff. I mean, us

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Speaker 4: really not included though, because we really do share some

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Speaker 4: dark stuff and you.

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Speaker 3: Feel like it's like really hardcore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your Instagram's hardcore, but I think it's something that

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Speaker 1: people it's refreshing. Yeah, you know, like I wouldn't say

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Speaker 1: that it's hardcore where it's like I gotta get off

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Speaker 1: of this. You know. It's like you really do make

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Speaker 1: people feel like I can relate to this person. I'm

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Speaker 1: going through a tough time. I want to follow him

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Speaker 1: just because he speaks some real shit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I try, because like it used to

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Speaker 2: be like superficial as how, just like my muddling picks

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Speaker 2: and it's like when I felt skinny, I'm gonna take

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Speaker 2: a picture, and now it's like, okay, I know, like

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Speaker 2: I struggled with drugs, I hadn't eating disorder, Like that's

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Speaker 2: all real shit, and it's like stuff that sits with

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Speaker 2: me on the daily. So like if I don't include

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Speaker 2: that and what I'm posting, then like I'm just being super.

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Speaker 1: Fake, right, No, I totally get that. And the realization is, wow,

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Speaker 1: if you're not gonna talk about it, Like there are

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Speaker 1: people in different places, little small towns who who don't

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Speaker 1: feel comfortable talking about these things, and you're the person

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Speaker 2: No, And whenever I get like dms or like comments

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Speaker 2: from people like reaching out talking about like oh I'm

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Speaker 2: struggling with this, I'm going through that, Like it always

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Speaker 2: interact with them, like I respond to whoever, like, especially

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Speaker 2: if they're going through like a hard time. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: like super conscious of that and like that makes me

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Speaker 2: like selfish, you feel like amazing.

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Speaker 1: So I love that you brought that up, because I'll

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Speaker 1: have people reach out to me about their alcoholism and

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Speaker 1: it's it's kind of I don't want to call it

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Speaker 1: a burden, but in those dark moments that people are

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Speaker 1: reaching out to you, it's that's something that you know

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Speaker 1: you have something heavy too. I keep I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: find the words, but it's like they could be in

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Speaker 1: the darkest time ever and you are the person that

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Speaker 1: could single handedly change it all for that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a responsibility.

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Speaker 1: There's the word responsibility, is it is?

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Speaker 4: And when that's goes on the gram or on social

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Speaker 4: media in general, even like this podcast, like he just

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Speaker 4: spits so much truth and that's why I think, like

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Speaker 4: I have so much respect for him. One of the

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Speaker 4: reasons why because it's just like people just post selfies

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Speaker 4: and you know, I'm guilty, guilty of this, but it's

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Speaker 4: like every time he pops off, he pops off in

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Speaker 4: like the most real, respectful way, right, and like for

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Speaker 4: his community, it's like he holds the responsibility so high.

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Speaker 1: I love that you said that. And even though you

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Speaker 1: may post like your gorgeous selfies, the caption the captions

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Speaker 1: are the money.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yes, you know you have to you have

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Speaker 4: to keep it real for real. I mean, it's just

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Speaker 4: it's just fun at the end of the day, it

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Speaker 4: really is. If you're not having fun, then just like

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Speaker 4: don't do it. Log off for a minute, right.

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Speaker 1: I like to turn my comments off because there was

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Speaker 1: so okay, yeah, I do it, tid I have to.

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Speaker 1: There was one I've never gotten, not that I've seen

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Speaker 1: messages that have been directly derogatory toward my child and

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Speaker 1: someone someone the other day was so mean about her

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Speaker 1: and I won't even lie. I went insane on this

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Speaker 1: gang cry I nope, rage blind, rage, Like I'm almost embarrassed.

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Speaker 4: How does she say? I?

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Speaker 1: So I went to slide into her DM. She had

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Speaker 1: actually written me a bunch of times, like just tearing

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Speaker 1: me apart. But now, like what I saw originally was

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Speaker 1: she was being mean about my kid. So I told

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Speaker 1: her she was a human trash bag. I said, I

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Speaker 1: want you to remember that you're a waste of flesh

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Speaker 1: on this earth, and I feel so sorry that your

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Speaker 1: kid has to call you mom.

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Speaker 3: I went too, Yes, that's insane.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you guys, if it would have just been

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Speaker 1: mean towards me like I would never stoop to that level.

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Speaker 1: I also told her I'd pay for her therapy.

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Speaker 4: It probably won't work.

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Speaker 1: It won't work. She's the lost cause. But when you're

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Speaker 1: mean about a three month.

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Speaker 4: Old like that's crazy, along with you just trying to

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Speaker 4: reach desperately for any kind of attention, she's clearly obsessed.

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Speaker 4: If she started with you announced to the kid, it's like, okay,

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Speaker 4: well she's really grasping its straws here, right. It's sick,

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Speaker 4: I know, and really sad. I mean, people will say

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Speaker 4: the craziest shit just to get you riled up, and

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Speaker 4: its better. Did you feel better off?

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Speaker 1: I did?

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Speaker 4: You did? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Only because it had to deal with my baby, right,

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Speaker 1: You're like what I had to say? Yeah, in that moment,

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Speaker 1: I was like, I am defending my young bitch. You know,

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Speaker 1: I was like a mama bear.

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Speaker 4: Did you like screenshot it and post it so other

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Speaker 4: bitches new?

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Speaker 1: You know? I wanted to, but then I was so

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Speaker 1: embarrassed about my response. Yeah, I can't do it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I feel like it won't be the

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Speaker 4: last time people are crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, people are nuts.

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Speaker 1: It definitely won't be the last time. But that needs

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Speaker 1: to be the last time that I do that.

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Speaker 4: And sometimes I regret it whenever I like comment back

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Speaker 4: or I you know, just give any of my energy,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I shouldn't have fucking done that. I would

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Speaker 4: you get deleted or just have them see that I

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Speaker 4: didn't see it. That's like giving them so much. I

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Speaker 4: don't know.

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Speaker 1: The scene part leaving them on scene is like pretty

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Speaker 1: powerful to I saw it and I didn't even respond. So,

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Speaker 1: how was your guys's pride? I was fine.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's like virtual, right. So we've been doing

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Speaker 4: not as much traveling.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean getting to go out in West Hollywood

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Speaker 1: Did you guys go to West Hollywood yesterday?

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Speaker 2: No, yesterday was a personal day for me because I

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Speaker 2: was watching movies.

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Speaker 4: It was his brother's birthday this.

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Speaker 3: Weekend, this weekend, so we had is that August August?

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Speaker 1: Yes, he is so gorgeous and hot name. Your family

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Speaker 1: just breathes beauty.

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Speaker 4: They really do. Like the jeans like I've always I've

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Speaker 4: always said it, it's like they're like God.

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, it's true, it really is. When

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Speaker 1: you guys all have pictures together, I'm like, what the fun?

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Speaker 1: Everyone is like so.

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Speaker 4: Good looking in their family, and it's insane because they

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Speaker 4: I meet an uncle or what was it two three

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Speaker 4: years ago, we went to London for Mark's wedding and

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Speaker 4: I met so many of the family that I was

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Speaker 4: like so overwhelmed and so nervous. Okay, I'm like, I

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Speaker 4: don't want them to think that. I'm like, you know,

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Speaker 4: it's so much pressure. But they all are so stunning.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, of course you're in the family or

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Speaker 4: spaghetty jaw baghetty eyes.

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Speaker 1: People pay mad money for that job. I'm one of them,

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Speaker 1: and it still just doesn't look like that.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's just not you got to have it

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Speaker 4: built in from the jump totally.

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Speaker 1: So I have to know how did you guys meet?

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Speaker 2: We met actually because of my brother. We were both

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Speaker 2: in his fashion show. He did a show with Davel

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Speaker 2: Chappelle and we were both like his muses at the time,

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Speaker 2: but we were on like opposite ends of the presentation,

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Speaker 2: so we never like saw each other directly. And then

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Speaker 2: like two weeks later we went to Paris for fashion

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Speaker 2: week all together for ten days or two weeks or

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Speaker 2: something like that, and I stumbled into lax, like still

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Speaker 2: up from the night before, definitely like yeah, like not

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Speaker 2: one of my healthier moments, and I.

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Speaker 3: Like saw gig.

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Speaker 2: I just like my mind explode and it was just

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Speaker 2: like instant.

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Speaker 4: And I was in this like faux fur jacket of Paris,

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Speaker 1: I totally get that, because if you were to write

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Speaker 4: You guys are like Bonnie and Clyde. I feel yeah whenever, yeah, duo.

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Speaker 3: The dynamic is like super real.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I tell people, I'm like, you literally

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Speaker 4: Yeah, right, and you just know like when you know

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's so cut me. And then how long were

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Speaker 4: That makes total sense, makes sense to me. I think

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Speaker 4: Always lived alone, always my whole life. I just feel

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Speaker 3: But we spend every day at my house. You slept

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Speaker 4: Like my hang up was like I'm going to move

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Speaker 4: I don't think you're ready.

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Speaker 1: The valley amazing, which I'm obsessed with. Yeah, you get

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like can't wait to have like an extended family,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm obsessed with I'm.

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Speaker 4: That's it's a game changer. I'm just so like, I

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Speaker 3: To have help, right And yeah, you're you're both too.

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Speaker 1: a scene could she filming? Yeah, Oh my god, I

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00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:06,439
Speaker 1: was wondering that.

444
00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:07,320
Speaker 3: She's a star.

445
00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:09,720
Speaker 4: She's a baby.

446
00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:12,720
Speaker 1: She was very colicky at the beginning, and it was like,

447
00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,639
Speaker 1: it just means they cry for no reason.

448
00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,480
Speaker 4: It's like usually oh right, like they're just like feeling it.

449
00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:21,280
Speaker 1: Three months, it's out of their system.

450
00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:21,520
Speaker 2: Now.

451
00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:22,639
Speaker 3: She's more like diva baby.

452
00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:24,400
Speaker 1: Like she'll be sitting there and she'll be like, why

453
00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,840
Speaker 1: the fuck have I been sitting here for twenty minute? Cry?

454
00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:30,240
Speaker 1: You know, like do something for me.

455
00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:32,399
Speaker 4: What's your sign?

456
00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:37,119
Speaker 1: She is a hold on She's a Pisces.

457
00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,080
Speaker 4: Pisces. Pisces.

458
00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:41,240
Speaker 1: Pisces are my soulmates?

459
00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:46,359
Speaker 4: Is Randall? You're like, no, Randall's and Aries? Oh my god,

460
00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:53,400
Speaker 4: me too? Okay, bullheaded, goal oriented fire stoners. Yeah, wait,

461
00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:54,040
Speaker 4: what's your sign?

462
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:57,440
Speaker 1: I'm a sage? Okay. Sages are very like I love

463
00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:02,080
Speaker 1: my mom's a sage. She's going keeps it real, very

464
00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,800
Speaker 1: chill unless you fuck with them over game over. But

465
00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 1: there's no middle speed.

466
00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:08,880
Speaker 4: No I agree with.

467
00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:10,000
Speaker 3: That, Yeah I do.

468
00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,399
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah. Whereas Aries, I feel like there's a lot

469
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,440
Speaker 4: of middle speed, Like we could just be.

470
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,320
Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, kind of what you see is what

471
00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,160
Speaker 1: you get. You're never gonna be thrown off by a arees.

472
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:24,000
Speaker 4: I heard once, like once like two days ago. I

473
00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:28,399
Speaker 4: heard one like on Instagram someone said Aries is they

474
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:31,640
Speaker 4: either are so obsessed with you or they just don't care.

475
00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 4: There's no room for hate. I feel like that's kind

476
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,680
Speaker 4: of very me. I never really thought about it like that.

477
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 1: Oh I like that. I actually just.

478
00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,040
Speaker 4: Don't really care a lot of the time when I

479
00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 4: don't like somebody.

480
00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 1: I get that vite from you.

481
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I feel like I do hate.

482
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 3: Those sometimes too, not really, though you don't think. It's

483
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 3: kind of been going.

484
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,119
Speaker 2: Like I'll really hate something and I'll be like Gigi,

485
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:52,440
Speaker 2: like please get on board, and you're just like so indifferent.

486
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,119
Speaker 3: It's just like irritated.

487
00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Wait, is that how she is when

488
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 1: you guys talk shit?

489
00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, for like I mean not that I talk shit

490
00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 3: all the time. Like if there's like.

491
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 2: Something like specifically that I like loath, I'll be like, babe,

492
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 2: like get into it, and she'll just be like, like,

493
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 2: I don't really get.

494
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:08,359
Speaker 3: Why you're getting so worked out.

495
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 1: You're like, no, I need you to, like, I need

496
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,200
Speaker 1: you hate this as much as I do.

497
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,680
Speaker 4: That's true. That's true.

498
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:20,160
Speaker 1: That is so amazing. I have Matts, Getty and Jugi Gorge.

499
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:27,080
Speaker 1: We will be right back after this break. We are back,

500
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,399
Speaker 1: and I love it because well, obviously because I have

501
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:35,400
Speaker 1: you guys, but Also, it is the end of at

502
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 1: our house and I'm sure at your guys' houses and

503
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 1: houses in anywhere that's normal. Pride is celebrated all day,

504
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:46,359
Speaker 1: every day year round, but for the month, today's the

505
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,639
Speaker 1: last day of Pride month. So this is like the

506
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:53,200
Speaker 1: best way to quote unquote wrap it up. I love

507
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:57,520
Speaker 1: for last, save the best for last. So we I

508
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:02,199
Speaker 1: really want to dive into you, naxt because when and

509
00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 1: I'm going to try my best not to get emotional, cabin,

510
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 1: but you're posting on social media look at me.

511
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 4: Take off.

512
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 1: So I just sorry, I just I think you're incredible.

513
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: I always have since I met you. And when you

514
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:32,160
Speaker 1: decided to come out with your story, I was shook. Yeah,

515
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: and not shook like oh my god, what the fuck,

516
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:40,359
Speaker 1: but just shook because you're so well spoken when you

517
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 1: explained your path. So tell me a little bit about

518
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 1: how this whole you. I read somewhere that you you

519
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 1: told your friend first and then went into that I

520
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 1: told and GEEJ said you better work.

521
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 3: Okay, So but I.

522
00:22:58,680 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 4: Was just as shook as you.

523
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 1: By the way, where are you? Yes? Okay, so kind

524
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:06,199
Speaker 1: of kind of walk me and my co host ye

525
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 1: through it.

526
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I mean it's crazy because so during quarantine,

527
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 2: obviously alone with your thoughts, just like thinking, thinking, thinking

528
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 2: all the time, and I just like noticed more and

529
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 2: more how uncomfortable I was like with my body, Like

530
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 2: and I used to like be obsessed with being like

531
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 2: shirtless all the time and just like would stare at

532
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 2: myself in the mirror like naked all the time and

533
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 2: just be like, oh my god, you're like the hottest

534
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 2: thing ever.

535
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 3: Like I was like obsessed with myself.

536
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: Good for you.

537
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 2: And then it stopped, and I was like, what what's

538
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 2: this about? And I just started thinking more and more

539
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 2: like okay, like I need to dive deeper here and

540
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 2: kind of figure it out. And at that time, my

541
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 2: best friend kid, who's also like a trans guy, was

542
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,439
Speaker 2: quarantined with us, so I was just like talking a

543
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 2: lot with him, and we were just like having like

544
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 2: really like honest and open like conversations, and it really

545
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 2: just opened my mind up, and I just one day

546
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 2: out of no where where I realized, damn it, like

547
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,160
Speaker 2: I need to get top surgery.

548
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 3: Like I'm completely unhappy with the way that I.

549
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 2: Look, and I know that it's like based around my gender,

550
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 2: and I think, what's like interesting is like I decided

551
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 2: top surgery first and then I'm going to figure out

552
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 2: my pronouns and like how I identify after I get

553
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 2: this surgery, when like.

554
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 3: Normally it's the other way around, Okay, But I.

555
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 2: Decided, like I'm going to do this surgery first because

556
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,919
Speaker 2: it was like my body for my eyes, for like

557
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:34,479
Speaker 2: my feelings and I feel like genders almost for other people,

558
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,639
Speaker 2: it's like allowing them to put you in a box.

559
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 2: And so I wanted to like make my body right

560
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 2: in my mind right first and then like live in

561
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 2: my new body and then figure out like what my

562
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 2: pronouns are, and like obviously they now are like he him,

563
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,919
Speaker 2: but I like allowed myself this space to really figure

564
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 2: it out for a while. And we didn't I didn't know,

565
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,919
Speaker 2: Gidi didn't know, and it was just like, okay, I

566
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 2: have to live with this new version of me. I

567
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 2: kind of get into.

568
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: It, right, Yeah, I mean you had overwhelming support.

569
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, Yeah, I mean it was insane.

570
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 1: And then to see you guys released footage of like

571
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: the whole trip. I believe it was San Francisco, y yes, yeah,

572
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 1: doctors out. Yeah, I love it. And so what was

573
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 1: that I mean, the trip looked like it was amazing,

574
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: but you were going to have top surgery. So how

575
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,239
Speaker 1: long were you guys there for? And where did the

576
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 1: top surgery take place? In that time?

577
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 2: We went only in specifically for the top surgery, right,

578
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 2: And so I think we were there a total of

579
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 2: like what eight days or something.

580
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 3: Like that, maybe nine?

581
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 1: And how long were you there before you had your surgery?

582
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 1: In the eight days?

583
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 3: Less than two days?

584
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 4: Okay?

585
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,679
Speaker 2: Was there a quick little merry up just like a

586
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 2: ten minute in and out think because we had done

587
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:56,440
Speaker 2: everything else like virtually over like two months or something,

588
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 2: and then it was surgery day?

589
00:25:59,200 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 4: Just like that.

590
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 3: W was crazy?

591
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: And what was your headspace like going into it? Were

592
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 1: you nervous?

593
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 2: I was like normally like before I had like knee

594
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 2: surgery before, and I'm always like a little bit nervous,

595
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 2: But for some reason, I had just like this overwhelming

596
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 2: sense of calm and I just was like, I'm doing

597
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 2: the right thing.

598
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 3: And for the first time in so long, like I finally.

599
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: Felt like still, which was so strange because like during

600
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 2: all of COVID, like we were maybe being like physically

601
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 2: still and not doing that much. But I felt like

602
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 2: my mind was ping ponging, and my emotions were just

603
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 2: like all over the place, and I was just like

604
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 2: literally like rattled, like my body felt rattled. And I

605
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 2: woke up for surgery and I just was like, yo,

606
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,640
Speaker 2: I'm totally at peace, and like that was just.

607
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 3: The best feeling ever.

608
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: Waking up was painful and kind of gnarly, but.

609
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: Right, it was right.

610
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was definitely like a way more intense surgery

611
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: than I had thought of, okay, because it's literally stitches

612
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 2: from one side of your body to the other.

613
00:26:59,440 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: Okay.

614
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: As a wonderful person on Instagram pointed out, it looked

615
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 2: like I'd been cut in half by a chainsaw. But no,

616
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 2: literally that's kind of what it does. Like look like

617
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 2: that person's a dick though, home. Yeah, No, waking up

618
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 2: was kind of gnarly, but I called Gigi immediately and

619
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 2: it had like one eye closed, and I was like,

620
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 2: gg I woke up like I was just so excited

621
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 2: that I had woken up.

622
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 3: And it was over with. I couldn't believe it was crazy.

623
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I I'm sure because even though that person

624
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: is an asshole, I mean essentially that is what is happening,

625
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: Like the way they have to cut you open. How

626
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: long is the healing time with that?

627
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 2: Okay, so we I keep saying weep. It was like

628
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 2: a team effort because like Gig was there, like.

629
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: You took it home like a gang of support.

630
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like everyone that lives at my house

631
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 2: and kid who like technically doesn't live with us, but

632
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 2: like kind of does.

633
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 3: So we all went.

634
00:27:56,200 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 2: The first like seven days you have drains in and

635
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 2: so like three times a day somebody aka Gigi had

636
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 2: to empty the drains, which was like horrifying, Like I

637
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 2: couldn't look. So it just was like horrible because it's

638
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 2: just her blood.

639
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 3: Coming out of your body.

640
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,199
Speaker 1: Do you think you could have looked if you were

641
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 1: taking care of someone else that had been through it?

642
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yes, I've seen Like when Caid had his drains,

643
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 2: we did, we took we went, we did the same trip,

644
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 2: just with the shame group of people. Yeah, so we'd

645
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 2: like done it before, but with him, and so everyone

646
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 2: was just like now doing it for me. The drains

647
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 2: were normally that was like seven days and then they

648
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 2: take off all the bandages and it's the first time

649
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 2: you get to see your body since before you went under. Yeah,

650
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 2: and that was when it really just like hit me

651
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 2: and I got so emotional and it still makes me

652
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 2: get so emotional now when I think about it, because

653
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 2: like I was laying down and they were like cutting

654
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: everything off.

655
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 3: They have to pull the drains out, which is like horrible,

656
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 3: and I remember being like, wait, so.

657
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 2: You can see my whole chest and she kept be

658
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 2: like yes, nuts, like I can see it.

659
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,479
Speaker 3: I was like, no, but you can see all of it,

660
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 3: and like for.

661
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 2: Some reason, I just like didn't believe her, or I

662
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 2: thought that's like the surgery had been like fucked up,

663
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 2: and like it was like I still had tits or

664
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: something like. I just was like because I couldn't like

665
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 2: bend down and look at the angle that I was at.

666
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: So when I finally stood up and walked towards the

667
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 2: mirror and I saw myself, it was just like I

668
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 2: don't know, I just felt like a wave of gratitude

669
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 2: and just.

670
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 3: Like I don't know, it was like pure joy. It

671
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 3: was crazy.

672
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: I mean, of course, I can only imagine like you

673
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: probably looked at yourself and you felt like you had

674
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: come into your own Yeah.

675
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 2: No, I finally was like this is the person that

676
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 2: I've been like supposed to be looking at every time

677
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 2: I look in a mirror or like see a picture,

678
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 2: and like that was just like so real and crazy.

679
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: Wow you look hot as fucka right, yeah, for real.

680
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 4: I like if it wasn't enough before.

681
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 1: But I mean before and then just when you see

682
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: somebody really come into who they are, there's something about

683
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 1: it where it's.

684
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 4: Like, yes, we can all relate, you know, not feeling

685
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 4: good when we wake up or whatever. A gender is

686
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 4: like a whole other realm. But it's so like it's

687
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 4: so freeing when you have people around you who are

688
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 4: gonna fight for you because you know, you can just

689
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 4: live your life right. And that's like we like wound

690
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 4: right around NAT's we were like one hundred percent like

691
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 4: he him, let's get this done. You want top surgery,

692
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 4: We're all gonna come. Like it wasn't like a struggle.

693
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 2: It was.

694
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 4: It was hard, but we tried to make it not

695
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 4: a struggle. We're like, we're just gonna do this right,

696
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 4: and we're just gonna kill it for you because that's

697
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 4: what anybody needs going through her time.

698
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I know. And obviously your mom, you're

699
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: super close with your mama.

700
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's the best.

701
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: What was her reaction when you told her, I mean, obviously,

702
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 1: I know you're gonna stay supportive, but like for people

703
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: that don't know.

704
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, she just started like sobbing, but not out of

705
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 2: like anything bad. I think she was just like really

706
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 2: stop for me that I had been feeling this way,

707
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 2: and then on the flip side, so happy that I

708
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 2: was able to like realize it, kind of confront it

709
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 2: and then make a plan. It's like, Okay, this is

710
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 2: what I'm going to do to get through this and

711
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 2: make myself like who I want to be. And she

712
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 2: was just like obviously like the most supportive woman in

713
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 2: the world, Like I'm so blessed, and like it's not

714
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 2: lost on me because a lot of people can't afford

715
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 2: to get surgery, a lot of people don't have the

716
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 2: support of their friends or family. So like I'm doubly

717
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 2: blessed and like super lucky, and it's like it.

718
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,719
Speaker 3: Doesn't fall like I'm not blind to that.

719
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: I love that you say that, because you know, I

720
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: surround myself and as do you guys, with people who

721
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: are very accepting, and you know they don't think about

722
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: things that maybe other people and other parts of the

723
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: world think. And so when I hear someone talk about

724
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: like them going through what you went through and them

725
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: saying like my parents were supportive, and it's like well done,

726
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: and it's like, well no, not well doe, Like this

727
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: is something that a lot of people go through and they.

728
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 3: Have zero support, like none, It's crazy.

729
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 4: I don't know why people do it. And that's like

730
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 4: the messages that we get all the time.

731
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: You know that those are the people that are turning

732
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: to you guys see yes.

733
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 4: And it's like, oh my god, Like we're literally like

734
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 4: diving into all of these stories. And it does show

735
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 4: us how privileged we are. It does show us how

736
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 4: lucky and blessed we are. It's like not lost on us.

737
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:27,959
Speaker 2: Just no.

738
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

739
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 2: And I think that's why Gig and I take so

740
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 2: seriously kind of like our unofficial jobs of just like

741
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 2: kind of being like champions for our community and like

742
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 2: whatever way we can, like whether it's like responding to

743
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: people on Instagram or just like doing anything that's asked

744
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 2: of us when it comes to like stuff to do

745
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 2: with the community. Just like anytime there's like a pride

746
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 2: something and somebody wants like a video for whatever, Like

747
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 2: we're always.

748
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 3: Just the first people to be like, yeah, we're so down,

749
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 3: We're in.

750
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 4: And that's didn't have to share this, you know, that's

751
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 4: not auguest like wow, because he's like such a private

752
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 4: person at the end of the day. And when we

753
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 4: started dating, it was a constant reminder to me that

754
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 4: he didn't sign up to be on my YouTube channel

755
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 4: or just like going to events anything. You know, his job,

756
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 4: he doesn't have to do that. He can stay home.

757
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 4: I like, send me off and I'll see him later.

758
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 4: But he was like, I'm kind of down. And then

759
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 4: when the whole transition thing happened, he was like, let's

760
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 4: film it, like I want this, and I was like,

761
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 4: can I put it on my channel right just for

762
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 4: documentation like purposes for us because we always want to

763
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 4: remember it. And totally he was free game and like

764
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 4: does interviews. He just did like this dope spread with

765
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 4: paper magazine.

766
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 1: I sign fantastic.

767
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 4: It's like, hello, like being so loud and proud. That's

768
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 4: saving people's lives at the end of.

769
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: The day, right, like you realize that this is way

770
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: bigger than just you know.

771
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's like I used to be like such an

772
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 2: introvert and I was like riddled with anxiety, and I'm

773
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 2: sure I had like a lot to do with like

774
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 2: my gender related like insecurities and like coming off the

775
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 2: tail end of like being like really addicted to like

776
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 2: hardcore drugs and stuff like that. But it took me

777
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 2: like a really long time to just be able to

778
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 2: even be in a room filled with people. Like we'd

779
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 2: go to the club or like to an event and

780
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,959
Speaker 2: I would just be like cold sweats, like shaking, because

781
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 2: I just like couldn't be around people.

782
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 3: I couldn't interact, and I.

783
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 2: Just like had to tell myself, like, dude, like this

784
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 2: is bigger than you. It's like more important to be

785
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: like visible and to do as much as you can

786
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 2: for people that like need GEO. Right. I mean I

787
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 2: don't think I'm like fucking Superman or anything, but like

788
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 2: I know a lot of people you are, actually yeah,

789
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 2: but like doing my best to like live like a

790
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 2: really out loud and proud life. I know that it

791
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 2: affects like some people because I hear from them on

792
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,439
Speaker 2: Instagram and like in person when I've like gone around

793
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 2: and just like randomly met people. So that's when I

794
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 2: really kind of turned it around, because I used to

795
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,240
Speaker 2: hate all I just like hated.

796
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 3: Being like public about anything.

797
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:49,879
Speaker 1: I don't know why.

798
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 3: It was just like super insecure.

799
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: I think, wow, I would never get that from you.

800
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was crazy. And everyone just thought I

801
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 3: was such a dick because.

802
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 1: I was just yea everyone everyone sh Now, I feel

803
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: like really good because I've never like you've never been

804
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:03,439
Speaker 1: a dick.

805
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 2: Yea.

806
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: God God, So how was I know You've always been

807
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: a part of the community, but was this Pride different

808
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: for you?

809
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 3: It definitely felt.

810
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 2: Different, Like I made sure, like every Pride is important.

811
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 2: I've been going and attending Pride since me and my

812
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 2: brother first came out. And I think my brother was

813
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,720
Speaker 2: like fourteen, and I was like dragging him down because

814
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 2: your brother older, younger than he's younger than me, younger

815
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 2: than you. So like I took him to his first Pride.

816
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 2: We went to our first Pride together in West Hollywood.

817
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 2: We were like sneaking into bars and just like being

818
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 2: bad and just having the best time.

819
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 3: We definitely like went to sir and got fucked up.

820
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:45,959
Speaker 3: Amazing yeah full circle. Yeah, no, we totally did.

821
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 2: And you know, I've been like a part of Pride

822
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 2: each year since then.

823
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 3: This one just felt different. Because I think I have

824
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 3: like a new layer or like level of pride. To me,

825
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 3: I have so much more to be proud of and

826
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 3: to like.

827
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 2: Celebrate, And I feel like I have a newfound community

828
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 2: within my community, which is like really cool too, because

829
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 2: I randomly have been meeting, like recently in the last

830
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 2: couple of weeks, like so many trans guys, Like I

831
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 2: know a lot of trans women, but I really didn't

832
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 2: know that many trans men, And in the last two weeks,

833
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 2: like I've met more trans guys than I ever have

834
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 2: in my entire life. And it just felt like really

835
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 2: nice to be a part of like our and like

836
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 2: their community.

837
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: Totally. Yeah, I love that, And sorry, I'm getting like

838
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 1: I just I think you guys are so amazed.

839
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,399
Speaker 4: That was a really good question, by the way, How

840
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 4: is pride different this time around? I didn't even really

841
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 4: think about that, that it would be so different for you.

842
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, this was like my first pride as like a transperson.

843
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, I felt super major, Like I've been like right,

844
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I haven't been verbally like talking

845
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 2: about it because like you were totally unaware, but like

846
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 2: I've been like very.

847
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 3: Conscious of it, like in my mind.

848
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and it's like you are prouder than ever.

849
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I really am.

850
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I made sure that I did like as

851
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,240
Speaker 2: much like pressed stuff.

852
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 3: I mean, you can't see my air quotes.

853
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 5: Because they're not feing this, but like, yeah, I've been

854
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:13,959
Speaker 5: like doing as much like Pressed ship as I can,

855
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 5: just to like I don't know, like further the pride

856
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:20,439
Speaker 5: and like further like like a message of like love.

857
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like and in Utah, I'm sure a

858
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: lot of people will be shook by this. We have

859
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 1: one of the largest gay pride I've been parades. Have

860
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: you been.

861
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:29,879
Speaker 4: Yeah.

862
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 3: When I was spending some time at Circlub.

863
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: I love it. He's like really, He's like, I'll be

864
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: at sir, but best believe I'll be a Pride.

865
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 2: Yeah. I know. They took me because I was the

866
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 2: only gay kid there and they're like, you want to

867
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 2: go to Pride and I was like, yeah.

868
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 4: That's fine.

869
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: Out of this place. I can't believe they did that.

870
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: That's actually pretty bad ass.

871
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 3: Yeah that was cool then.

872
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, we have a really large Pride parade. So,

873
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: like I was out and about with my like science

874
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: tits out obviously to do it. It's out and so

875
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: I've always wondered, you know, even though I'm not directly

876
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 1: a part of the community, I'm an ally. So I

877
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: was just like I always ask my friends who are

878
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: in the community, like.

879
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 3: How is pride for you, right, you know?

880
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: And how has it changed when you go through a

881
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 1: transformation like you have No.

882
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 2: I mean it's like I think I have like a

883
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 2: newfound respect for it because I was so.

884
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 3: Young when I came out.

885
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: How old were you?

886
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 2: I think I was like fifteen or like fourteen fifteen.

887
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: And it wasn't like some big, crazy, like dramatic moment.

888
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 3: It was like I hyped it up to be and

889
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 3: I like told my mom and.

890
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 2: She was like, oh my god, I thought you were

891
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 2: gonna tell me that you got a fucking tattoo.

892
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 3: Not so I've known since you were born.

893
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,439
Speaker 4: Like relax, she's like the biggest ally of life.

894
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can totally tell them. Yeah, she's so gangs,

895
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: I might.

896
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 4: As well be within the community. She's like that much

897
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 4: of a mother.

898
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.

899
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

900
00:38:56,560 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: Every So even my usbands, I asked them and I'm like,

901
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 1: I'm hoping to find someone some day. And I have

902
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: a lot of friends a part of the community, right

903
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 1: m hm. And I'm like waiting for my Hallmark story

904
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 1: of their come out and they're like no, my parents

905
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: were like really okay, cool, like every single one of

906
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 1: them yes, wow, which I'm like, I'm happy about it.

907
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I'm like, I want, like, give me

908
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 1: my lifetime moment king and everyone's like no, my parents

909
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: were like what whatever? That is?

910
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 4: No money? I feel like, I mean, that's amazing to

911
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 4: hear for real, but I thought you won't get that

912
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 4: from Mari. She like is queer God, She's like, give

913
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 4: me bring another Yeah.

914
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:44,919
Speaker 1: If you're like no, I'm straight, She'll be like are

915
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 1: you yeah?

916
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 2: Are you?

917
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: Are you?

918
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 4: Are you? Like not, everyone is come in, come into

919
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:51,840
Speaker 4: my office and.

920
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 3: Talking about it.

921
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 4: Like literally, though.

922
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, was your mom alive when you transitioned, Gigi?

923
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,919
Speaker 4: She wasn't. So she passed when I was nineteen and

924
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 4: I transitioned right after, like same year when I was nineteen,

925
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:09,399
Speaker 4: and I don't know, a part of me thinks that

926
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 4: she knew, but I don't know if she knew because

927
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 4: being trans wasn't only a thing in my town. It

928
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 4: was literally something you saw like on CSI like a

929
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 4: dead hooker like that would be the trans representation pretty

930
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 4: much so and like you know, Jerry Springer and things

931
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 4: like that, Like it just was never like a thing.

932
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 4: So I don't even know if she was like, this

933
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 4: is possible for where you're from again, Toronto, that's right. Yeah,

934
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 4: So it's like a very very open minded, amazing city.

935
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 4: I never really had problems there. I would go out

936
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 4: in like the littlest dresses, like fully as a boy,

937
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 4: and I'd be like hey and everyone and be like

938
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 4: oh dope, Like it was never like scary or anything,

939
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 4: but yeah, I think like that was That's one of

940
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 4: my biggest regrets not being able to tell her because

941
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 4: when she did pass, I did know that I was

942
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 4: trans okay, and I wasn't taking active steps, but I

943
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 4: had known some trans people in my life, and I

944
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 4: was like, this is me. And then when she passed,

945
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 4: I was like, that's the ultimate learning lesson for me.

946
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 4: I just life is too short. You can't fuck around.

947
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 4: You got to live every day to your as it

948
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 4: fits your last. And that's kind of still how I

949
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 4: live my life now every single day because I'm like,

950
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 4: you know what shens like, yes you do. I just

951
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 4: feel like, you know, like if she like was taken

952
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 4: such a beautiful soul too young, and then like anybody

953
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 4: could be.

954
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: I know, I don't know if you experienced this, and

955
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: I'm sure you did because of the way you're talking

956
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: about your mom. But when my like it's very easy

957
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: to talk about like time is precious. But it wasn't

958
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 1: until I lost my dad that I realized, like I

959
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: have a really funny, funny relationship with time. Like I

960
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: was cleaning out Ocean's closet because she's now into her

961
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: like three month old, and I was remembering like being

962
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 1: pregnant shopping for her, and now she's just like warn

963
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: them and they're done, Like that's this is, it's just done.

964
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 1: I don't and it was fucking with me. I was

965
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: stabbing and Randall was like, it's okay, we'll get her

966
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: more clothes, and like it has nothing to do with

967
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 1: the clothes.

968
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally.

969
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: Like I'm so weird about time, Like I'll sit in

970
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 1: moments and be like, you're never going to get this back,

971
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 1: so you need to be very aware of what's happening.

972
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 4: That's amazing that you can do that by yourself, because

973
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 4: a lot of people don't. They get caught up and

974
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 4: like life happens, and sary like live, laugh, love, but

975
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 4: like life happens, we're in it right now. So it's

976
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 4: like you even look at last year, it's like, oh

977
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 4: my god, last year's Pride was virtual, and it's like

978
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 4: this year's pride is still virtual. It's like, where the

979
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 4: fuck did the year go? I know, Yeah, you think

980
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,280
Speaker 4: it would be a completely different situation.

981
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: It's it's not, I know. And if it will fuck

982
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 1: with you if you get into that k hole of

983
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:46,320
Speaker 1: like time.

984
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 3: Time, yeah, yeah, slowly time.

985
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 1: So I so appreciate you saying that that's something that

986
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: you wish you would have.

987
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 3: Told her before she passed away.

988
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I feel like that's also something that is

989
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 4: like just a huge learning lesson because sometimes I hear,

990
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,839
Speaker 4: you know, my parents are really accepting, but like I

991
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 4: just I don't want to come out to them. And

992
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 4: I'm like, well, if you feel like you're not in

993
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 4: a dangerous space, or you feel like you can do it,

994
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 4: maybe you steep to jump and do it, because you

995
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 4: never know if you're not going to be able to

996
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 4: tell them. And I know how that.

997
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: Feels, right, you know, and if you're not happy, you've

998
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 1: become pretty worthless. To everyone around you.

999
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 4: Totally true, it is, it absolutely is. Misery loves company

1000
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 4: and really loves a miserable bit.

1001
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: No one wants a miserable bit around. So all right,

1002
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 1: I'm here with NAT's Getty and Gigi gorgeous.

1003
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 3: We will be right back.

1004
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: We are back with my sexy babes. What a way

1005
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: to wrap up the month of pride last truly for

1006
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 1: real though?

1007
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:56,479
Speaker 4: How is your pride though?

1008
00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, my pride consisted of a lot of sucking on

1009
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 1: my nipples by my baby, fun baby stuff, got it,

1010
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: got it, total babe stuff.

1011
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 4: How is that is that painful for you? I've heard

1012
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 4: it can be like a gnarly experience. So there's like

1013
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 4: you're a little You're like a little girl.

1014
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,439
Speaker 1: I'm a little human and I can I can take

1015
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,720
Speaker 1: down like a full cow right now because I'm so hungry.

1016
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: Right the other day we went to get sushi and

1017
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 1: this woman was like, are you going to eat all? Oh,

1018
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: that's just your order.

1019
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:29,240
Speaker 4: I was like, that's just my way in la saying

1020
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 4: that to somebody.

1021
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: She was really cute. Okay, she was cute about it

1022
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: because she was like, where do you put it? Right?

1023
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 4: Thank you?

1024
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:36,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm swallen gorgeous.

1025
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: And then because I love compliments, I was like, and

1026
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 1: I just had a baby.

1027
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 4: I want to see I'm not bad. She's like, I

1028
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 4: know you, Lala, I know you.

1029
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: She's like little Ocean. I watched vander Pump Rule. Yeah,

1030
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: I love it.

1031
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 4: So wait, speaking of vander Pump, how is filming like

1032
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 4: you just started right filming?

1033
00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: Yes, we just started, which, by the way, you guys

1034
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: are coming to give them all a beauty events.

1035
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 4: Yeah this week? Yeah, right Wednesday?

1036
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: So today today, today, and it will be a filmed event.

1037
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:14,879
Speaker 5: Yes.

1038
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:19,439
Speaker 1: And production saw your name, Geg on the rs VP

1039
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: list and they were like, is there any way that

1040
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: she would like be into talking to you on camera?

1041
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: And of course Geg is my writer dying. She was like,

1042
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: for sure, here's the thing. Give me like, I'm nervous

1043
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 1: to film with you because because you're so damn gorgeous.

1044
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 4: Ever please no.

1045
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: Gigi literally texts me and she's like, so is this

1046
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: going to be like a filmed thing? Like do you

1047
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: put it on camera? I was like no, it's just audio.

1048
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 1: So like you don't need to worry about it.

1049
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 6: She shows that gorgeous I just rolled out of bed,

1050
00:45:53,200 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 6: so this is my looking hats, staring.

1051
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 4: At them the whole time, realizing, well, I wouldn't have

1052
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 4: gotten ready. I just have stuff to do later, and

1053
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 4: there's not gonna be enough time because it took us

1054
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 4: like thirty plus minutes to get here. I know I'm

1055
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 4: not trying to rush when I get home. No, and

1056
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 4: also it's smoking mirror's baby. This hair is like two

1057
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 4: weeks old.

1058
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 1: What does that even mean?

1059
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 4: I just have not washed it. Just dry shampoo on,

1060
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:21,720
Speaker 4: dry shampoo, makeup is all.

1061
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: It tell me this. Yeah, do you go the wig route?

1062
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,919
Speaker 4: Because I love wigs, but I have tape bins right now,

1063
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 4: the tape in Yeah, I know you like wigs too.

1064
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: Right I have. I have yet to find someone who

1065
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: can put a wig on me and me feel like

1066
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: it's your legit looking.

1067
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it does get hard, I would say. I mean,

1068
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 4: you don't drink. But usually when I wear a wig

1069
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 4: and it's feeling a little weird on my head, like

1070
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm wearing a hat. Right, I'll go

1071
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,399
Speaker 4: out have a few drinks and by the time i'm out,

1072
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 4: I forget it's my hair and you can't tell me

1073
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 4: it's not putting out of my scalp. Really, yeah, I forget.

1074
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 4: I feel like sometimes, like even just when I'm not drinking,

1075
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 4: it's like you just get used to it. Just it's

1076
00:46:58,239 --> 00:46:59,760
Speaker 4: definitely a weird feeling, I believe.

1077
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 1: So you just like naturally have great hair. Then if

1078
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: those are just tapens, because.

1079
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 4: It just tapens. But like it's so hair sprayed rock

1080
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 4: hard right now, I need to wash it.

1081
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 1: It's you got to teach me the fucking way.

1082
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 4: Too many days. I mean, just extensions. I feel like

1083
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 4: they make you pretty instantly they did prettier.

1084
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that way.

1085
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 3: It all on extensions.

1086
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:22,839
Speaker 4: Here, but yeah, it just helps you know, little extra hair. Yeah,

1087
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 4: that's a pro extension kind of girl you are. Yeah,

1088
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 4: the more hair the better.

1089
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 1: Right, Like the bigger the hair, the hotter. Literally, I

1090
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 1: think I would rather have like a not so great

1091
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 1: makeup day than a bad hair day because the hair

1092
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: kind of just the booms.

1093
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 4: It all a hundred percent right one. When your hair

1094
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 4: looks great, it's like, oh she's stunning, one hundred percent. Okay,

1095
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:46,479
Speaker 4: she's a rock star.

1096
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: Did you do your own glam today? Shut the fuck.

1097
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 4: I'm very self sufficient. I'm h I can do it.

1098
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:56,280
Speaker 2: Almost think that Gigi has like a fucking ten person

1099
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 2: glam team.

1100
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,479
Speaker 3: It's legit, just ge.

1101
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: Like, well, that's why you have a YouTube pannel because

1102
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: it's like not everyone in the world can afford to

1103
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 1: have a full staff of just glam.

1104
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 4: And I'll find sometimes when I do, when I do

1105
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 4: get the glam done, they'll leave and I'll still you

1106
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 4: will go and like for like thirty minutes, I'm like,

1107
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 4: well that took three hours when I could have done

1108
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:17,359
Speaker 4: it in forty five.

1109
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 1: And why do I feel hotter than I did when

1110
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: they did it? Totally?

1111
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 4: Everyone's so specific about how they look. You know, sometimes

1112
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 4: you're just like this person just doesn't get it right.

1113
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: Has Nat says your vibe changed since you've transitioned, Like

1114
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: have you, like, do you feel more comfortable in certain

1115
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 1: things that you didn't feel so comfortable in?

1116
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, Like I'm obsessed with just like I mean,

1117
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 2: I've always been obsessed with T shirts, okay, but now

1118
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 2: I find that, like I used to wear like really

1119
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 2: crazy oversized.

1120
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 3: One today is not a good example because this is like.

1121
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: An over by the way, I'm loving the Rick and Morning.

1122
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 1: I love Wrick in Morning the same.

1123
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 3: But like I love wearing like tight T shirts and just.

1124
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 2: Stuff like that because I don't have a chest and right,

1125
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,800
Speaker 2: so it's just like and also I love being shirtless.

1126
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 3: I'm sure this is like all the time. Yea, literally

1127
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:00,319
Speaker 3: all the time.

1128
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 2: By the end of every party, my shirts off, sleeping shirtless, so.

1129
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 3: Much fun walking around the house.

1130
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 4: Just like like tops and stuff for summer, like the more.

1131
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 4: It used to be very like cover.

1132
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're like crazy, yeah okay, yeah, when you

1133
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: were like the most stylish, stylish person I know. Yeah, no,

1134
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 1: I won't even lie. I for sure copied some of

1135
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:20,760
Speaker 1: your looks.

1136
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 4: Oh my god, and you wear Strike Oil, oh his brand,

1137
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 4: let's talk about MGK had to.

1138
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 2: How crazy I died because I love him and I've

1139
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 2: been wanting to address him forever and we actually made

1140
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 2: that custom for him.

1141
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,880
Speaker 1: Shut up. Yeah, he looked amazing.

1142
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 3: He looks so dope. He looks so cool.

1143
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 1: When did you start Strike Oil, which, by the way,

1144
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: for the listener's, Strike Oil is Nats's clothing line.

1145
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 3: So I started it like two years before.

1146
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 2: Me and g started dating, so like eight years ago, okay, yeah,

1147
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,919
Speaker 2: And it started off with just like one of a kind,

1148
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 2: like painted on. I used to paint on leather jacket,

1149
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:03,800
Speaker 2: it's okay. And then I started doing merch and then

1150
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 2: it just kind of kept growing and now it's just

1151
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 2: like a full fledge and now it's just.

1152
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 1: On MGK and he's performing.

1153
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 4: Like you guys had to check it out. It's like

1154
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 4: with his blonde hair and the blue and the white

1155
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 4: and the fit of it, I was like, he needs

1156
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,839
Speaker 4: to be in Strike Oil more. It just looks so

1157
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 4: good on him.

1158
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1159
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: Look well he just has like that vibe, like he

1160
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,399
Speaker 1: has the Strike Oil vibe. Yes, I hope that You're

1161
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 1: proud when I've worn it? Yeah, now you Yeah what

1162
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: was that one?

1163
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 4: You actually wore it on the show? I think I

1164
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 4: did the button down and didn't you do?

1165
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:40,959
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I did we off sleeve eyes. It's such

1166
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: a vibe. I love your stuff.

1167
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1168
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: So then how so you would do the artwork for

1169
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 1: the actual like did you do the artwork of the

1170
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 1: one that I wore?

1171
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that came straight out of my like notebook, just

1172
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 2: like from doodleing cool.

1173
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a man.

1174
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 2: We just turned it into a fabric and so like

1175
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 2: I do that for a lot of like the and stuff.

1176
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 3: I line the bombers with my artwork.

1177
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 2: So it's like actually reversible, so you can wear it

1178
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 2: like on either side.

1179
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm not lying. When I leave here, I'm literally filling

1180
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 1: a cart and no serious tricoil dot com need to

1181
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 1: be fed.

1182
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 4: There's a bunch of good stuff, and I love how

1183
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 4: quickly the drops come. It's not like once this season right, No,

1184
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 4: it's not seasonal.

1185
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 2: It's just like I put together a whole collection and

1186
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,759
Speaker 2: we just drop it like every couple of weeks. So

1187
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 2: like there was just like a new drop of a

1188
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 2: bunch of really dope shit like less than a month ago,

1189
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 2: I think.

1190
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 4: And I like it too. Speaking of Pride, it's not

1191
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 4: I mean all clothing is unisex obviously, yeah, but it's

1192
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 4: a very unisex vibe.

1193
00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 1: Oh it's like so into that you feel.

1194
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 4: Like it's not like little mini dresses or like whatever.

1195
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 4: It's like a lot of the stuff is like and

1196
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 4: then since we've started dating forever ago, I started becoming

1197
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,640
Speaker 4: more of like I have my more tomboids days because

1198
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 4: I'm wearing a lot of his stuff. You know, one

1199
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 4: d oil is very that it's like boyfriend clothing, but

1200
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 4: it's like dope and one of a kind, Like you'll

1201
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 4: see this shit around no.

1202
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 1: And like I feel these days with like the vibe

1203
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 1: that everyone's trying to pull off, like I'm just a

1204
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:20,399
Speaker 1: straight bitch, like nothing, like it's just like whatever, Verry

1205
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 1: Vanilla whatever, And I I prefer like oversize everything. I

1206
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,360
Speaker 1: want to be cozy. There are days where I get

1207
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 1: my like chic on right, like can be very Gugi Gore,

1208
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: But for the most part, I'm like, I don't want

1209
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: to fucking do that.

1210
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, Hunt, I feel you, I feel you.

1211
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:43,400
Speaker 1: I just want to walk out in my sneakers and

1212
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: something fucking dope.

1213
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 4: Huge, huge, no to do. We got to get the

1214
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 4: cast of vander pump On a little more strike oil

1215
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 4: this season, Oh my god, because I feel like it

1216
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:56,320
Speaker 4: really levels your pussy up level are pussy up? Like truly,

1217
00:52:56,360 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 4: it's just like wearing like so dope looking for it. Yeah,

1218
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 4: I love that you said.

1219
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 1: That, but it does tell it cool, tell our listeners

1220
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,359
Speaker 1: what leveling the pussy I mean, I don't know.

1221
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 4: I feel like everyone just kind of dresses the same

1222
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 4: in La, you know, like a little just like I

1223
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 4: don't know, I'm not like the fashionista really but Nazas

1224
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 4: and like He's like, I don't know, it just like

1225
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 4: breaks the mold, like the little strike Oil moment. It

1226
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 4: just like levels you up totally. Yeah, I don't know.

1227
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 1: I do all kind of look like a cookie cutter

1228
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 1: version of each other.

1229
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 4: And I'm guilty of that as well.

1230
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,840
Speaker 1: But when I wear strike Oil, what planet do you like?

1231
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm wearing like a ten dollars dress from

1232
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:35,359
Speaker 4: like Walmart right now?

1233
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 3: Are you really?

1234
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 4: I think it's from Walmart? Only you could Amazon. Don't

1235
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 4: even Swiss sneaks for pride.

1236
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: Okase, Swiss, I haven't heard you look adorable?

1237
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 4: Good? Thanks you, but you always do as if you

1238
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 4: should see me in the morning.

1239
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:51,280
Speaker 1: What is her closet?

1240
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: Like?

1241
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 1: Is your closet just as intense as hers?

1242
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 3: Yeah? I have more we have. I have two closets.

1243
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:01,320
Speaker 4: And half closet and there not closes their rooms.

1244
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 1: Well I've seen like on your gram and YouTube where

1245
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: you have done and I'm like, what is this? This

1246
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:10,920
Speaker 1: This is like a full master bedroom.

1247
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, we live clothing. We live in clothes. It's really bad.

1248
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 4: We've been meaning to get like a professional to come

1249
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 4: organize it all.

1250
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 3: It's like a lot. It's overwhelming.

1251
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 4: It's to get you organized when you want that one

1252
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 4: piece of clothing, and then it's like I got to

1253
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 4: go through racks, right, whereas if it was like just

1254
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:31,360
Speaker 4: dresses or pants all in one area. Yeah, so much easier.

1255
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 1: I have someone for you, really, yeah cool, one hundred

1256
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 1: person for you. See, I have the opposite problem. I'm like,

1257
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: very Randall is a mess, right, He's like a bull

1258
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 1: in a china shop.

1259
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 4: And I love that for him.

1260
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: Right, you just look at him and you know you

1261
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 1: use a mess, right stop just ship everywhere. And he

1262
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: doesn't get rid of anything. And I'm like the queen

1263
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: of getting rid of things. So when he comes home,

1264
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 1: like he takes inventory before he leaves town because he

1265
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:02,959
Speaker 1: knows if he leaves, you're gonna get rid of Yeah,

1266
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 1: I'll get ready.

1267
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 4: We call it flipping. So if I'm in a mood

1268
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 4: and i want a room to look a certain way,

1269
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,399
Speaker 4: like I've just done two rooms and they look fabulous, right,

1270
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 4: But if I'm in a mood, Nats will be like,

1271
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 4: oh my god, she's flipping. She's gonna flitch, and I.

1272
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 3: Flip the room.

1273
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,840
Speaker 4: I'll throw out so much stuff I'll donate, put it

1274
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 4: in like garbage bags and stuff, and he'll be like,

1275
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 4: oh my god, you gave these pants away that I

1276
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 4: love so much but I had worn in five years.

1277
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:29,760
Speaker 4: I was like, well, you don't need them though.

1278
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 1: You don't need them if you haven't worn them in

1279
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 1: five years, then time for them to go out. No, seriously,

1280
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 1: my housekeeper and house manager love me because like I'm

1281
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 1: like giving them Sendy and Gibonche and they're just like

1282
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: walking around and I'm like, you look so fabulous, and

1283
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: They'll tell me, like their daughters will be like, do

1284
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: you realize like the shoes you have on?

1285
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 4: Right?

1286
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 1: My my housekeeper took my hooker lubetins that I'm like

1287
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:53,879
Speaker 1: obsessed with, and yeah, she sent me a picture of her.

1288
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 4: And they gave them away though.

1289
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gave them to her. Why because I was like,

1290
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 1: I'm not going to wear them again.

1291
00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:00,879
Speaker 4: I got it. You know you've already You've already worn them.

1292
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: And then like my business manager was like, you could

1293
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: sell it. I'm like, I'm not going to sell it.

1294
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 4: I'm not going to sell it to the real reel

1295
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:08,720
Speaker 4: or something.

1296
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,799
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I'm gonna give it to freaking Isabelle, who's

1297
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: gonna look like a hot bitch. You know. I love that. Yeah,

1298
00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: And Isabelle fucking works. Those lubtons like nobody's business that

1299
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 1: you know. Love that, So I have someone for you

1300
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,719
Speaker 1: for sure. My closet is the opposite. I'm like, wore

1301
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:28,239
Speaker 1: it one time, never gonna wear it again. But then

1302
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: you look at my sweatshirts and it's like do you

1303
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 1: have enough? Yeah, black T shirts and sweatshirts I refuse

1304
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 1: to get rid of.

1305
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 4: It's you went so special, like I need that one.

1306
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,399
Speaker 4: I need, Like the sweat closet over at our house

1307
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 4: is the exact same way.

1308
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 2: You have a sweat closet, yes, and it's mine, and

1309
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 2: it's just like it's like merch and stuff from like Coachella,

1310
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 2: Like I want to keep every.

1311
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 3: Coachella hoodie that I've ever bought.

1312
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,319
Speaker 2: Of course, and it's like my sneaker room at the

1313
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 2: same time, So it's just like merch, yeasy stuff, sneaker stuff.

1314
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: I think I would have more of a Heyday in

1315
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:00,160
Speaker 1: his closet.

1316
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:04,320
Speaker 4: Than well, I don't know, really awesome, pretty cool stuff.

1317
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would probably need both because there's no middle

1318
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: speed with me. It's like we're going full on tomboy

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Speaker 1: oversize everything or we are getting clammed.

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Speaker 4: Yes, like tonight for your event.

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Speaker 1: Glammed as fuck, Glammed as fuck. Love it, I know,

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Speaker 1: can't wait, can't Oh, you're both gonna do me so

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Speaker 1: proud of definitely, I know it.

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Speaker 4: We're ready.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So with this podcast and us wrapping up, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna get We're going to get the feels for anyone

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Speaker 1: listening who is going through a tough time and you

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Speaker 1: are the people they look to, like, what is your

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Speaker 1: inspiring note to them?

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Speaker 2: Gee?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to go first?

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Speaker 2: Ah?

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Speaker 4: Sure, I would say from personal experience, I think when

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Speaker 4: I started my transition, it was like, I gotta get

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Speaker 4: it done now. I like, this is the list of

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Speaker 4: things I need to get done by this month and

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Speaker 4: this month, and then by the end of it, I

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Speaker 4: was like I just was rushing the whole thing. You know.

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Speaker 4: It's like you really just got to take your time.

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Speaker 4: So I would just let people know that they are

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Speaker 4: where they're supposed to be and it is fine. Don't

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Speaker 4: put more like unnecessary pressure on yourself because of comparing

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Speaker 4: yourself to people you see online or you know, things

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Speaker 4: you read. It's like, no, no, no, you are unique,

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Speaker 4: you are fine. You can do anything you set your

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Speaker 4: mind to, but just be easy on yourself. I love that,

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Speaker 4: and it's it works, it really does. Oh I love that,

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Speaker 4: gene and put away the pressure because you're killing it already.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm true.

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Speaker 1: Yes, amen, Sis, what about you? And next?

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Speaker 2: I think the most important thing is that I've realized

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Speaker 2: I spent a lot of my younger years when I

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Speaker 2: was just like a lesbian without a sense of community

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Speaker 2: or like chosen family. And now, especially since Gigi and

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Speaker 2: I got together, I had like the most incredible chosen.

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Speaker 3: Family around me, like friends, wife.

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Speaker 2: People that I live with, and like, obviously my real

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Speaker 2: family is so accepting, but it's so important to have

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Speaker 2: that core group of friends. And a lot of people

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Speaker 2: don't have, you know, their real family to support them.

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Speaker 2: So it's just like find that chosen family, whether it's

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Speaker 2: like an actual community of people you get to see

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Speaker 2: face to face or like a bunch of people you

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Speaker 2: meet online, Like there's always going to be a group

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Speaker 2: for you. You just have to go and like actively

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Speaker 2: search for them.

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Speaker 1: Dude, that's amazing.

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Speaker 4: Family is almost as important, if not more important, than

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Speaker 4: your real family.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well someone told me once, because we don't get along

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Speaker 1: with my extended family, and it's like you can pick

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Speaker 1: your friends. You don't get to pick your family. So

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Speaker 1: it's okay if you go out and you find friends

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Speaker 1: that you're like, I'm going to make you my family.

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Speaker 4: My especially if you're living in a town that your

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Speaker 4: family's not in.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, totally.

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Speaker 4: All LA people basically have chosen families because they're all

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Speaker 4: what's it called.

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Speaker 1: Important implant implant implants grab, that's where my mind went to.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, exactly, yeah, So I feel like it's like

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Speaker 4: who you surround yourself with, you know, if people want

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Speaker 4: to see you doing well, it's like you're gonna you're

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Speaker 4: gonna flourish.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 1: You guys are amazing again. We had on the podcast

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Speaker 1: today and Nats, Getty and Gigi gorgeous. We hope that

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Speaker 1: you go out and you slay the day. Remember you

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Speaker 1: are everything and more and we will catch you next week.

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Speaker 4: Fine app