Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,
Speaker 1: and she couldn't.
Speaker 2: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man
Speaker 2: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.
Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature.
Speaker 2: She was a good woman who always made good choices.
Speaker 2: That we're good Mom's bad choices too.
Speaker 3: Single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all their
Speaker 3: bad choices and.
Speaker 2: Found out they were so bad after.
Speaker 1: All, we're experts.
Speaker 2: Overshares and your new besties. Sit back and enjoy the ride.
Speaker 2: I can do it. Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices.
Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Mela. Happy Wednesday, Bah, It's.
Speaker 4: A happy home day.
Speaker 2: How are you doing. I'm great, I feel good. My
Speaker 2: hair is popping. I got an unexpected beating on my face,
Speaker 2: not like a beating, but you know, like a makeup
Speaker 2: beat on my face by our guest today.
Speaker 4: Thank you for the clarification.
Speaker 2: You know, some people don't know because you didn't want.
Speaker 4: The streets out here talking about Eric's getting beat up.
Speaker 2: Well, people on you tube, we are stupid. That's what
Speaker 2: I'm really starting to realize that people on YouTube are
Speaker 2: fucking slow. People in the world are slow. No, no, no,
Speaker 2: but I know you don't really go into comments on
Speaker 2: YouTube of our our on our videos, but people like,
Speaker 2: really are fucking slow.
Speaker 4: I looked today, did you our sex comment?
Speaker 2: Okay? I had to curse like one of the people out.
Speaker 3: So they were talking about Orlando, and uh, she kim
Speaker 3: that I'm the dom in my relationship and they know
Speaker 3: that she comes over there dombing you, and I was like,
Speaker 3: this is interesting. I've only I was like, not really,
Speaker 3: I'm the sub but I was just yeah, I was
Speaker 3: looked over there today. But a lot of times those
Speaker 3: people are pretty a little bit on the slower side.
Speaker 2: Yeah. The shout out to those smart people on YouTube.
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Speaker 2: How are you doing.
Speaker 4: I'm doing good.
Speaker 3: It's been cold in La even though it's obviously supposed
Speaker 3: to be fucking summer, fucking ninety degrees, so it's been
Speaker 3: making me feel like a little bit slow, like I
Speaker 3: just want to rest, you know.
Speaker 2: I realize the weather has a lot to.
Speaker 3: Do with like my moods overall, Like if it's too cold,
Speaker 3: then I'm just I don't want to move.
Speaker 4: But you know, I'm ready for a hot girl summer.
Speaker 3: I'm ready to get the fuck up out of the
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Speaker 2: this beautiful beat I have on my face, I'm really
Speaker 2: excited because we have a really special fun ass guest
Speaker 2: this week. Yeah, Hi, we have Lovely meet Me. On
Speaker 2: the show.
Speaker 1: Y'all was talking all sex.
Speaker 2: Do I have to No? You know, we have Lovely Memi,
Speaker 2: who is a mom entertainer. Guess she is a cook,
Speaker 2: a cook cause shout out to Sebastian, my gay Bessie.
Speaker 2: He was like, tell her she be throwing down. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: right now, I gotta go check out the food. You
Speaker 2: got recipes online and shit, or do a lot of
Speaker 2: cooking videos to your house. Would be like, are we
Speaker 2: just happen to be in the neighborhood meet me? Which
Speaker 2: you could? I took a lot of different stuff.
Speaker 1: Well I cooked less now since my knives are sold out,
Speaker 1: So like I said, you know, if I'm promoting something,
Speaker 1: I'm going to like make a bunch of videos on it.
Speaker 1: So I was doing a lot of cooking, but everybody
Speaker 1: in the house was getting weight, so we had a
Speaker 1: step back.
Speaker 2: Everybody in the house is getting weight. Shit, let me
Speaker 2: move it. Are you gonna reload your knives?
Speaker 1: I want to do it when I move because I
Speaker 1: actually do it for my garage and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: So I was just like, I want to do when
Speaker 1: I move. I'm like, the house is getting cluttered.
Speaker 2: What are the names of your knives? Chop chop, Chop,
Speaker 2: chop chop. I love that I can relieve stress.
Speaker 1: Chop chop, motherfuckers, chop chop away your stress.
Speaker 2: You know, I recently of the last year, I started
Speaker 2: to cook more, and A fused to not really Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: I didn't really like to cook. But now I'm starting
Speaker 2: to appreciate cooking. I realized that it's a economical because
Speaker 2: the amount of money I was spending eating out every
Speaker 2: single day, and b it is kind of a stress
Speaker 2: reliever because my brain is always going going, going, work, work, work,
Speaker 2: that when I'm cooking, like that's all I can really
Speaker 2: focus on.
Speaker 1: So grocery is so damn high right now, you might
Speaker 1: as well just you know, everything used to make a difference.
Speaker 2: You break it out because you have leftovers. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: made soup last week. We've been eating soup for a week.
Speaker 3: Anything we have in that, we've eating that ship for
Speaker 3: a week and then it and a lot of times
Speaker 3: I realized, like, my food is better than eating out.
Speaker 3: You know, you have your certain places and you can
Speaker 3: go do that only so much and then you're like,
Speaker 3: let me make my own ship.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I enjoy cooking.
Speaker 1: I do it fast, Like everything I do it do fast.
Speaker 1: I'm miel pair cooking like I'm like adhd.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm very hyperactive, so everything hurry up. That's why
Speaker 1: I can never do like slow cook stuff. I have
Speaker 1: to literally walk away. I have to go to the
Speaker 1: gym or go somewhere and then come back because I
Speaker 1: don't have the patience.
Speaker 2: It takes so long.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's why you leave it and you said
Speaker 3: it and you forget it. We're so happy to have
Speaker 3: you on the show today.
Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you for having me so cute in here.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: First off, I love y'all. Name good mom by choices.
Speaker 1: It's such it's relatable. You know, you know, I.
Speaker 2: Think that I think that all moms can relate to me.
Speaker 5: I think bad choices make you a good mom, absolutely.
Speaker 3: I agree, because you learn and sometimes you got to
Speaker 3: have some fun. And I think most moms have been
Speaker 3: told that making bad like having fun and making bad
Speaker 3: choices is so bad, you're a terrible woman, your terrible mom.
Speaker 3: But we have learned firsthand that you got to make
Speaker 3: some bad choices and have some fun in order to
Speaker 3: be a good mom. Or if she gonna be bored
Speaker 3: to death, and then you're gonna resent those fucking kids
Speaker 3: because you're gonna be like forty five and you like
Speaker 3: do shit and doing and secondy dicks and then and
Speaker 3: then you're like, yeah, now you're gonna be old and
Speaker 3: you should.
Speaker 2: Have sucked dicks when you're in your thirties like us. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean I was sucking dick in my twenties.
Speaker 3: Also in the twenties and thirtiesens.
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 3: Not to say that all bad choices revolve around sucking dicks.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying that you gotta, you know, suck some
Speaker 3: bad dicks to get to the right ones.
Speaker 2: This is true, And then I'm not bad at Not
Speaker 2: all bad choices are bad, and that's really the whole
Speaker 2: point of the bad choices. It's life.
Speaker 1: You live, you learn, you grow.
Speaker 2: Speaking of bad choices, have you made any bad choices
Speaker 2: this week? Do you have any bad choices that maybe
Speaker 2: you've made? No.
Speaker 1: I think what's in the air right now is like
Speaker 1: when it comes in a nail community. So I've been like, uh,
Speaker 1: I've been going at it with some nail people nail text.
Speaker 2: There's nail beefs. Yeah, kind of.
Speaker 1: They don't like the way I function, like I popped them.
Speaker 1: I popped some clients nails off, but I'm not if
Speaker 1: it's poppable, I'm popping bitches off. I'm not soaking them astones.
Speaker 1: I've been arguing with bitches about like you know that.
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, they're like, you need to soak off.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, So you're telling me that soaking
Speaker 1: your hands in acetone chemical that literally can melt fucking
Speaker 1: plastic and different materials is safer for you and better
Speaker 1: for you than popping it off.
Speaker 5: Kiss my ass.
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's my only bad choice this week. I
Speaker 1: don't don't even think it's a bad choice.
Speaker 2: But you know, you know what. I'm petty.
Speaker 3: I'm petty, petty, but yeah, people say shit in the
Speaker 3: comments and you think I'm gonna be the taking the
Speaker 3: high road. And sometimes I don't have time, but sometimes
Speaker 3: I do, and I'll sit up in those motherfuckers and
Speaker 3: go back and forth until I'm dumb with that on
Speaker 3: the board. But I'm been like, don't ever come over
Speaker 3: here talking shit thinking no one's gonna respond, because I'll
Speaker 3: be the I.
Speaker 1: Will respond and I do you bring it up? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean five more videos after I had to bring
Speaker 1: it up to do the nails that I just I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna pop off.
Speaker 2: Some more nails. I look at your page.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna look at and made the comments, and I'm
Speaker 3: gonna make personal comments about your appearance, because bitch, who
Speaker 3: the fuck are you talking to?
Speaker 1: I go on there, look at them and then make
Speaker 1: a comment everything. You're not going to comment back, Oh
Speaker 1: I will, Oh, I guess. But you gotta word stuff
Speaker 1: different now because.
Speaker 2: Because Instagram will be bully.
Speaker 1: You let the person say all that stuff about me,
Speaker 1: but I can't reply, and you say it's bullying, So
Speaker 1: you had to have to word it different now. Back
Speaker 1: in the day, oh, it's crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really wish they would stop that bullshit, because
Speaker 3: if I'm gonna curse a bitch.
Speaker 2: Out, just let me do it.
Speaker 1: Let me alone.
Speaker 2: Amount of other traumatic ship we see on the internet,
Speaker 2: me calling someone this bitch, it's not the least of
Speaker 2: your problems on fucking Instagram spell stuff different.
Speaker 4: Ye oh my god, this is too much.
Speaker 5: You're talking to me.
Speaker 2: Your phone number sounds like we used to do in
Speaker 2: the old days. Let me just call you a cursey round.
Speaker 2: Get on live right now, bitch, TikTok live. It took
Speaker 2: me off.
Speaker 1: Everywhere.
Speaker 2: Same girl. Have you been a bad girl? Mabe?
Speaker 1: I don't know. You know what I was like, I
Speaker 1: say what I I just say shit, you know, say
Speaker 1: what I want to say, what I think.
Speaker 3: You know, it's freeing to say, deliberating to say the thing.
Speaker 3: If you hold it in, it's gonna make you sick.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I watch would you say twenty twenty five?
Speaker 2: It's not like it's so boring. It is so boring.
Speaker 2: We can't even joke about no. I never for.
Speaker 1: Body. Yes, bitch, I am you're racist.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I know everybody's so fucking sensitive. You
Speaker 2: know what.
Speaker 3: I just prefer people to just be straight up racist,
Speaker 3: so then I know where to put you and where
Speaker 3: to identify you.
Speaker 2: I don't need. Sometimes I watch old movies and I'm like,
Speaker 2: this would never fly.
Speaker 1: Now white chicks, and they're making a new white Chicks.
Speaker 1: I'm like, bet be offensive, yeah, because I'm like nineties comedians,
Speaker 1: like all the jokes was racist.
Speaker 2: I really go on, everyone could get it and would
Speaker 2: be funny.
Speaker 5: But I can't make no more the fucking jokes.
Speaker 1: What do you want from me?
Speaker 2: I know it's like, you can't talk about the Jews,
Speaker 2: the gays, the trans.
Speaker 3: You can't talk about the blacks, the Asians, the skinnies,
Speaker 3: the fats, nobody can.
Speaker 2: I see people even get mad at you for, you know,
Speaker 2: talking the boys.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what you want me doing?
Speaker 2: What you want from?
Speaker 5: You know who the fuck is unhinged?
Speaker 2: Fucking Donald Trump.
Speaker 1: Did you see when the Indian guy asked the question,
Speaker 1: he was like, I can't understand the accent. Next dead ass,
Speaker 1: And then like a couple of days later, he went
Speaker 1: and got another Indian guy to translate Indian accent with
Speaker 1: another Indian accent. Everybody's like, huh my Indian accent.
Speaker 3: Then I said, I you know, I don't want to
Speaker 3: laugh at the accents, but sometimes you do.
Speaker 2: It's just funny.
Speaker 5: It's very hard to understand.
Speaker 2: It's very very and all the customer service are a higher.
Speaker 1: Indian from at least press the one. Can I help you?
Speaker 1: Welcome to aden D Like what what?
Speaker 2: Literally? The man on the phone was like, this is
Speaker 2: the I R S.
Speaker 1: People are all Indians.
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is how I get you. That's why
Speaker 2: you don't call anywhere because I don't even understand.
Speaker 3: It's a brain fund, so they know you're not gonna
Speaker 3: call customer service.
Speaker 4: I see what you're doing. I see what you're doing.
Speaker 5: It's hard.
Speaker 2: It's hard.
Speaker 1: I'm like, why there's so many people in America with
Speaker 1: no jobs?
Speaker 2: Can we give them a job? Could I have an English? Right?
Speaker 3: When Orlando laughed at that man and he said, why
Speaker 3: are you laughing at me?
Speaker 2: Why are you I couldn't believe he did that. That
Speaker 2: was so many.
Speaker 3: Him, but he just he waited on the phone for
Speaker 3: him to get back on It's like and then said,
Speaker 3: why are you laughing at me?
Speaker 2: Poor man? I try to do his job and feed
Speaker 2: his family today.
Speaker 3: I was like, I would never do anything like that.
Speaker 3: And I was like, but it was so funny. Oh god,
Speaker 3: I'm a mean girl.
Speaker 5: Get canceled.
Speaker 3: I probably have been camp have already been canceled before,
Speaker 3: if you if you just listen carefully.
Speaker 1: I just found out that Aladdin and Jasmine were an Indian.
Speaker 5: They were Middle Eastern.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I thought a Raby and knights bitch.
Speaker 1: I was thinking, yeah.
Speaker 3: They were just brown. We didn't even need to know.
Speaker 3: We didn't need we didn't know Blank King was in Africa.
Speaker 3: They didn't really specify. They just that was the only
Speaker 3: reference to where they were in Arabian nights.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right. I think that they thought the names
Speaker 2: were enough.
Speaker 3: I was watching a clip from when you were on
Speaker 3: Love and hip Hop So Fat, and this girl was like,
Speaker 3: you look so cute. And the girl was like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I like you because what you is you Asian or something?
Speaker 2: Hi literally wing for one minute thirty seconds and she
Speaker 2: was like, I like you, what shoe is Asian? And
Speaker 2: I was like, how was that experience?
Speaker 1: Love and hip Hop was streaming because it's like they
Speaker 1: film for like nine months, so like in the nine months,
Speaker 1: you know, I've been a bunch of different weights, Like
Speaker 1: I can't get over my weight. I'm gonna I'm like
Speaker 1: one of those women who care about their way all
Speaker 1: the time, like damn so.
Speaker 2: Fat, you and everybody else.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then like one scene on Skinny, one scene
Speaker 1: on Fat because it took months, it's a fucking show,
Speaker 1: and it was stressful, Like it's just too much drama,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like it's constant. I don't have the
Speaker 1: drama for you. I'm not exposing my family. I'm not
Speaker 1: here for that. So they have to create drama for
Speaker 1: me and make me messy. But in real life, like no,
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck about none of y'all. Who
Speaker 1: y'all fucking so Yeah, And they had it like I
Speaker 1: hate I were you only one season I.
Speaker 3: Could tell it was even I literally watched it for
Speaker 3: like ten minutes and I was like, this is ridiculous,
Speaker 3: And I'm like anybody who can like participate in this
Speaker 3: long term, like I get it.
Speaker 2: You got to be built for it. You got to
Speaker 2: be built for it. Some of those which are really
Speaker 2: built for it, they're still on there right now.
Speaker 1: Every season they're fucking somebody knew what somebody's cheating, Like
Speaker 1: you have to have a storyline.
Speaker 2: And you're got to it within the circle or else
Speaker 2: it's not worth it. I mean, maybe maybe the checks
Speaker 2: afterwards are worth it, like the checks you get from that.
Speaker 5: They've been there for a long time.
Speaker 1: But me, it wasn't worth it because, like, you only
Speaker 1: get paid for one episode that's air. So they then
Speaker 1: took four or five scenes. I mean, I took off
Speaker 1: of work four or five times to film this shit
Speaker 1: and they put it all in one episode, So I
Speaker 1: only got paid for one fucking episode.
Speaker 2: Like five days off. I'm like, I kind of went
Speaker 2: to work for this ship.
Speaker 1: And then I'm I don't know. I feel like they
Speaker 1: turned my mic. I know I'm loud, but when I
Speaker 1: like see it, I'm like, why the fuck was I
Speaker 1: so loud?
Speaker 2: I'm so squeaky.
Speaker 1: Hey, yeah girl, I'm like it's so loud.
Speaker 2: Well, you accuse me of turning your mic up.
Speaker 5: They felt like they turned my mic up.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but and again I was it was
Speaker 1: almost ten years, so I was much younger.
Speaker 2: I was waiting.
Speaker 5: There was ten years ago, six ten years, oh wow,
Speaker 5: twenty sixteen. It's twenty five.
Speaker 2: But you already had like a large audience before you
Speaker 2: came on the on there.
Speaker 5: And I know what.
Speaker 1: I actually didn't watch the show before that, so when
Speaker 1: they asked me, I didn't know what I was signing
Speaker 1: up for. Or well, it took me a year to
Speaker 1: say yes. So after a year I went down there.
Speaker 1: I went to an audition, but a whole bunch of
Speaker 1: other people auditioning. I had no idea. I walked in.
Speaker 1: It was like twenty producers and I fail. I fell
Speaker 1: flat on my face, like, all shit, right, I.
Speaker 2: Don't know they picked me?
Speaker 4: I guess.
Speaker 5: So I didn't move to Atlanta.
Speaker 2: Oh so you were already you were in the DMV
Speaker 2: and then to Atlanta for.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was very random.
Speaker 4: What did you do reality TV? Again?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do no if I was if I had
Speaker 1: somebody who backed me up, if I had like a show,
Speaker 1: you know, a budget people. I want to do a
Speaker 1: show that makeover like makeover single moms or you know,
Speaker 1: struggling moms or yeah, women, like ninety percent of my
Speaker 1: followers are women and gay boys, and I want to
Speaker 1: do their hair, do their makeup, do to nails, take
Speaker 1: them out to eat, take them for a massage, just
Speaker 1: you know, make women feel good.
Speaker 5: That's the type of show that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, if a drama. No, me and me did
Speaker 2: my makeup today, guys, and she did a very beautiful job.
Speaker 1: Which the stuff that she had I had was very
Speaker 1: limited things.
Speaker 2: I just got back from New York and I had
Speaker 2: brought my like little I had like a very condensed
Speaker 2: version of my makeup bag and I just threw it
Speaker 2: in my cars today. So thank you. It looks really
Speaker 2: thank you.
Speaker 1: You have a beautiful skin and bone structure.
Speaker 4: Very beautiful.
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. It's an easy face. Thanks.
Speaker 5: Some people was like, what the fuck do you want
Speaker 5: me to do?
Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, what you want me to do? You got
Speaker 2: to re really resculpting reshape. So maybe tell me like
Speaker 2: a little bit about like how you even became lovely Mimi,
Speaker 2: Like where did you? I know you've on love and
Speaker 2: hip hop before you grew your audience through what were
Speaker 2: just funny videos and.
Speaker 1: Oh so so I was doing nails Lovely, the name came,
Speaker 1: that's my Juvi name.
Speaker 5: So I got that name all right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, And speaking of what I heard about that, like
Speaker 2: you growing up?
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I grew up in a system from twelve
Speaker 1: to sixteen. So I've been to a group homes attention center.
Speaker 1: I did a wilderness program. I lived outside the whole
Speaker 1: fucking year. Oh yeah, I've been through a lot of therapy.
Speaker 1: So when it comes to like human therapy and understanding,
Speaker 1: like I pretty have a good you know insight. When
Speaker 1: it comes to therapy is they put you have to
Speaker 1: complete a therapeutic program. And then when I was sixteen,
Speaker 1: I dropped out, started doing nails, have my son seventeen eighteen,
Speaker 1: been on my own and I bought a shop. That's how.
Speaker 1: Then Instagram News only had pictures. Then they switched to videos.
Speaker 1: So once they switched to videos, and I was trying
Speaker 1: to do funny videos to promote the shop because I
Speaker 1: bought this shop in Hood, but they didn't have walkins,
Speaker 1: so I was trying to build clienteles. So then that
Speaker 1: ship took off, went viral. I think it's because I
Speaker 1: do the lingling accent really well. And then that one
Speaker 1: video I went from lingling accent to you know, just
Speaker 1: fucking hood. That's when everybody's like, oh wow, how she switched?
Speaker 1: How she do that? So that went viral for me
Speaker 1: and then just saying whatever's on my mind.
Speaker 2: And you so you grew up.
Speaker 1: But I used to say crazy shit, I can't do
Speaker 1: that no more.
Speaker 2: I will get you're you are from Vietnam, You're born
Speaker 2: in Vietnam, and then how old were you removed here? Oh?
Speaker 2: So then you grew you really grew up here and
Speaker 2: we're in the DMV area, and so why are you
Speaker 2: being such a badass kid? What are you getting into
Speaker 2: over there? It's just because the environment that you were in.
Speaker 1: I think I struggled more with.
Speaker 2: Or your parents or your mom was what was that relationship?
Speaker 2: Like with your mom?
Speaker 1: Not good? We were never closed. Asian families are not.
Speaker 1: Like they're very strict, they're very judgmental, they're very racist,
Speaker 1: all of the above. Like there was no there was
Speaker 1: no love. I never was close with my mom. We
Speaker 1: always butt his, we always fight.
Speaker 3: So yeah, how about now that we're better, like my
Speaker 3: vienemies got better, so I'm able to have these hard
Speaker 3: conversations with her.
Speaker 1: So I've recently had really tough conversations with her.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, And.
Speaker 1: It's like either you listen or I will cut you off,
Speaker 1: just like everybody else cut you off. Because she I
Speaker 1: have like five sisters and two of them already cut
Speaker 1: her off. Wow, So I'm telling her like at what
Speaker 1: point do you not see that you're the problem, Like
Speaker 1: do you want me to cut you off too? Like
Speaker 1: you have to know that you're right wrong and she's.
Speaker 5: Been doing better.
Speaker 2: Are your parents still together?
Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad passed right before my daughter was born,
Speaker 1: So right before my daughter was Oh, when I was pregnant,
Speaker 1: girl was facing thirteen years fellonies.
Speaker 2: For doing what you're doing.
Speaker 1: I'm selling drugs. I was pregnant with her. Then my
Speaker 1: father had a stroke. So my dad died when I
Speaker 1: was eight months pregnant, and I was facing all this
Speaker 1: jail time all during that time. So they said I
Speaker 1: was gonna have a cry baby. They told me to
Speaker 1: get the candles from his funeral and burn it over
Speaker 1: her and pray. And she was not a cry baby
Speaker 1: at all.
Speaker 2: Now they told you're gonna have a cry baby because
Speaker 2: she was in trouble.
Speaker 4: Yeah, doing a lot of shit.
Speaker 5: No, but a lot of my pastes.
Speaker 1: The one advice I have for young girls is don't
Speaker 1: be a ride or die. Is not fucking worth it.
Speaker 1: I do not be a ride or die. The one
Speaker 1: thing that I fucking regret is having that hood mentality,
Speaker 1: like just being that ride to die and doing this
Speaker 1: and doing that and just being tough like that shit
Speaker 1: set me back because now I can't leave the country.
Speaker 1: I regret all of that shit.
Speaker 4: That's interesting, like being.
Speaker 3: A child of immigrants who you know, like a lot
Speaker 3: of families are racist because you're coming into America. You're
Speaker 3: like believing stereotypes, and then you bring your kid for
Speaker 3: like this different environment, and then they become the environment
Speaker 3: in which they grow up in and which that you
Speaker 3: are racist to get.
Speaker 1: It never made such. Our church was eighty percent black.
Speaker 1: I went to an international church for I'm thirty five.
Speaker 1: Over thirty years our church was black. So I'm confused
Speaker 1: on where does this racism come from?
Speaker 2: Or church?
Speaker 1: What do you y'all? What would y'all expect it from me?
Speaker 4: It's learned?
Speaker 1: How will you be a Christian racist? At the same time,
Speaker 1: it never made sense to me.
Speaker 2: Like till this day.
Speaker 1: If I want to talk to her about it, she
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I wasn't racist.
Speaker 2: I'm like her, goodbye, how she was her black children?
Speaker 1: She never babysitting one of my kids though, you know,
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, listen, why moved out? Sixteen I moved out.
Speaker 2: I never go back. So she she sees them.
Speaker 4: Sparingly, and she is in the nail industry too.
Speaker 1: Or was you just oh she had me in forty seven,
Speaker 1: Oh wow, she was.
Speaker 4: Older rom seven.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so what made you get into the nail industry? People?
Speaker 1: You know, go school, you go do nail. You go
Speaker 1: to school, you go do nail.
Speaker 5: I did nails, and nails became hustle. Nails is a hustle.
Speaker 1: Either you get good or you just stay at is
Speaker 1: what you put out. So you have to get good.
Speaker 5: So I got good.
Speaker 3: A lot of people don't know that a lot of
Speaker 3: Vietnamese people are in the nail industry because during the
Speaker 3: Vietnam War when they came here, one of the easiest,
Speaker 3: like one of the quickest trades in cosmetology school is nails.
Speaker 3: It's like the lowest number.
Speaker 2: Of like.
Speaker 1: Seventies, huh, in the seventies that the nail really took
Speaker 1: over with five been amuse people. So we was having
Speaker 1: this conversation yesterday on nine because you know, I'm surprised
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't know what because people be saying, oh,
Speaker 1: the chop shops, a lot of home text call you know, nails,
Speaker 1: so long as the chop shop, it's a derogatory term.
Speaker 1: It's racist. But a lot of people like, no, a
Speaker 1: chop chop is you know where you take your cars,
Speaker 1: So I say, yeah, that is also. But in the
Speaker 1: nail world they people say the chop shop. It's the
Speaker 1: derogatory term. So I was surprised having that conversation yesterday
Speaker 1: with a lot of people that they didn't know that.
Speaker 1: People say that ship.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that. So the chop shop is derogatory, derogatory.
Speaker 1: The Asian like, oh, don't go to the chop shop.
Speaker 1: You'll go in to the chop shop, which is like
Speaker 1: an Asian shop that's not sanitary or do stuff like that,
Speaker 1: you know, like they get you in and out and
Speaker 1: you know, rush you.
Speaker 5: They call it chop shop.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had no idea neither, can hear you. I
Speaker 2: don't know either.
Speaker 1: Like a lot of people don't know either.
Speaker 2: That is that an East Coast term?
Speaker 1: I don't know now, Like they gotta be questioning because
Speaker 1: I've always heard it when even my shops in Atlanta,
Speaker 1: we always said it open.
Speaker 2: There it goes.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna roll it backward because.
Speaker 2: Can not we strong throat. Oh no, so this is
Speaker 2: our backward banana flavor.
Speaker 1: Wow, banana, foster banana. We love bananas banana.
Speaker 2: So so what was the thing that helps you turn
Speaker 2: your life around this one? Like as far as like
Speaker 2: I guess you were in Juvie, got your got your
Speaker 2: life together, as far as like starting a business, but
Speaker 2: did then? Was it just you were good after that
Speaker 2: or you still were struggling?
Speaker 1: Then I had my son, so I had to be
Speaker 1: a mom. I was not a great mom, so I was.
Speaker 1: I always had him. I always had him full time,
Speaker 1: but I used to drop him off and go clubs
Speaker 1: and ship. You know.
Speaker 5: That was one thing.
Speaker 2: Who was who was watching him during that time?
Speaker 5: Trap houses? It's terrible.
Speaker 1: I was like, he survived everything with me. Sometime I
Speaker 1: look at him like how is he now succeed I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: You've been.
Speaker 5: Through everything with me?
Speaker 1: Hop houses are four, you know, because the house I
Speaker 1: was in we had no we ain't had no heat,
Speaker 1: so me and him used to chop it out all
Speaker 1: the time.
Speaker 5: I drop them off.
Speaker 1: Anywhere for real, like to go. I was only what
Speaker 1: seventh eighteen so nineteen I was partying, you know, trying
Speaker 1: to do something. But I always had him full time regardless,
Speaker 1: I still hadn't.
Speaker 2: Full was her. Was his dad involved in his life?
Speaker 1: Yeah when I was living there, but not really. Now
Speaker 1: he got like fucking seven eight kids.
Speaker 5: Jeez, you're doing well.
Speaker 2: You know, I respect you saying the thing.
Speaker 3: You know, a lot of moms would be you be
Speaker 3: in your twenties, you being your teens, and it's like
Speaker 3: such forbidden, it's so forbidden to be like, yeah I
Speaker 3: fucked up.
Speaker 2: Yeah I was dropping you off a lot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, and like and also
Speaker 3: being able to have that conversation with your son and
Speaker 3: have it publicly and say and I've grown because I
Speaker 3: think moms get such get so ridiculed. Even if you're
Speaker 3: the only primary parent, niggas are nowhere to be found,
Speaker 3: you're still the one ridiculed, not the nigga who's in
Speaker 3: mia missing in action.
Speaker 1: But you, you know, and you were a kid having a kid, Well,
Speaker 1: my mom always be like, oh, don't let them see
Speaker 1: their dads, Like when it comes to like Asian families,
Speaker 1: or when if you break up or you have a divorce,
Speaker 1: normally the mom takes the kids and the dad never
Speaker 1: is never to be seen ever again.
Speaker 5: So and they don't care. That's like their choice.
Speaker 1: Oh, he don't need to see so my mom used
Speaker 1: to always say that, I'm like, no, regardless how shitty his
Speaker 1: dad is, that's not my place because my child will
Speaker 1: hate me in the future. I was always let them
Speaker 1: go to your dad until they don't want to. If
Speaker 1: they open their mouth and I s they they don't
Speaker 1: want to, Okay, they don't have to go, but that's
Speaker 1: what their choice they'll make. I would never force that
Speaker 1: on my kids. So both of them make shit, but
Speaker 1: I don't care. Y'all still can go.
Speaker 2: You're not you're not cool with the second baby daddy either.
Speaker 5: Oh my, I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1: Don't even I don't talk to none of my exes'
Speaker 1: you're done. The kids have phones. There's no need for
Speaker 1: you to come to a party that I throw. Have
Speaker 1: your own fucking party. There's no need to Like, I
Speaker 1: don't really co parent. You have the child, you can
Speaker 1: talk to the child, you can call whatever they speak.
Speaker 1: They have phones. There's no need for you to talk
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think I think that there's like
Speaker 2: this uh fairy tale around like especially I think when
Speaker 2: my mom split from their child, that they like are
Speaker 2: supposed to make it work. Under any condition, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean, even at the expense of your own
Speaker 2: well being, because you decided to lay down with this
Speaker 2: man and have the baby. So now this person is
Speaker 2: permanently a permanent fixture in your life. And it's like, no,
Speaker 2: you're allowed to separate. We don't need to go to
Speaker 2: Disneyland together. And especially when and especially once they become
Speaker 2: of age of like where they can communicate and have
Speaker 2: their own relationship. Yeah, I think it's like healthy for
Speaker 2: you to be like, yeah, no, thank you.
Speaker 1: You have your own family, you have your own life,
Speaker 1: have my own life.
Speaker 2: That's how they abuse you.
Speaker 3: Thinking they can keep having conversations with you, pulling you
Speaker 3: in and talk about shit that you don't give a
Speaker 3: fuck about, like leave me, they.
Speaker 1: I mean, and I think it's disrespectful to you're whoever
Speaker 1: you with your new partner, Like just what the fuck
Speaker 1: I need to wrap to my baby daddy about, you know,
Speaker 1: like I have nothing to talk to you about.
Speaker 3: Unless it's like a mature, stand up guy who genuinely
Speaker 3: just wants to talk about the kids in their schedule
Speaker 3: and like you've done great with your baby daddy choosing
Speaker 3: and then in which case it's not disrespectful and I
Speaker 3: wish that we could all have dinner together like normal
Speaker 3: white people.
Speaker 1: But I think it's different for everybody because I have
Speaker 1: friends who are like friends and they'll go out with
Speaker 1: the baby daddies and stuff like that, Like, Yo, great
Speaker 1: for you, that's very mature of you. Like I think
Speaker 1: it just is for everybody has different.
Speaker 2: Situations, for sure. Do you think that, like as far
Speaker 2: as your son goes, and like the relationship that you
Speaker 2: had with him growing up with like as as a kid,
Speaker 2: raising a kid, and now where he's at now, Like
Speaker 2: if you guys had those conversations around how he felt
Speaker 2: growing up with a mom that was figuring it out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we we're very close.
Speaker 1: We talk like I haven't worked in a nail salon
Speaker 1: right now, so doing pedicure.
Speaker 2: I love.
Speaker 1: So he started he wanted to go to try to
Speaker 1: charter school, so he's at this charge of school. So
Speaker 1: that's the only reason I'm doing nails because of him.
Speaker 1: So it's Monday and Wednesday. He don't have his license yet,
Speaker 1: he just have his permit, so I ride with him
Speaker 1: and then I've worked at the shop those two days.
Speaker 5: So we're in here. You might as well. I started
Speaker 5: working at sixteen, you might as well start working. So
Speaker 5: he's been doing pedicures and nails.
Speaker 2: But he opposed to it.
Speaker 4: He's like okay, he's like okay.
Speaker 5: Yeah he loved Now he does a really good job.
Speaker 2: And then how does you have a daughter? Eleven?
Speaker 1: Eleven is different me and haven't have the same personality.
Speaker 2: When you say, say what she's like more quiet.
Speaker 1: Quiet, She's quiet. She do not like people. She don't talk.
Speaker 1: She acts like a mind like. It got to a
Speaker 1: point where juice, like you have to say high back
Speaker 1: is giving disrespectful now you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: I understand your introvert, but you have to be respectful
Speaker 1: like when we were younger's like elder talk to you
Speaker 1: have to say back. It's just to be you know,
Speaker 1: she's shady, not the cancer leo leo.
Speaker 4: Maybe it don't come out later when she's older.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's a good kid. She's they're both really
Speaker 1: good kids.
Speaker 2: Do you want more kids? Yeah? I do? How many
Speaker 2: more are you trying to have too?
Speaker 1: Only because I don't want to have one and they
Speaker 1: don't have a friend to play with.
Speaker 2: You know, I know that you were, but then agate
Speaker 2: you like I don't want to fuck this body yet.
Speaker 2: Do you know any surgeries I had? Like you, how
Speaker 2: many surgeries that you have? Space?
Speaker 1: I have everything, boots, stomach, ass. I saw that space,
Speaker 1: I saw that ass.
Speaker 2: That cat.
Speaker 3: I said, I don't know women, but I know, but
Speaker 3: me to means ain't necessarily built like that.
Speaker 1: Now we built flat, flat face, flat back of the head,
Speaker 1: flat ass these asses.
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna I'm gonna smoke my banana foster back
Speaker 3: match box. It's ours manifest how we manifest over our weeds.
Speaker 2: So let's just put a little little voo and ship.
Speaker 4: Manifest with the backwood.
Speaker 3: Get all the things that you want before inhaling and
Speaker 3: exhaling all the bullshit.
Speaker 2: A manifested, bigger ass like me, me too, I mean,
Speaker 2: I want go get it, go get that ass, give
Speaker 2: me the fat. I work.
Speaker 1: I work with Miami, like plastic surgery there in Miami.
Speaker 1: I literally just took three of my friends.
Speaker 2: Are let me disco might girl, I might need to
Speaker 2: get a reap.
Speaker 1: I took care of them afterwards, really pick up medicine
Speaker 1: and food and cooking.
Speaker 2: I did it. We literally just did it three weeks ago.
Speaker 2: I get my booms and the dollars girl for BBL.
Speaker 1: Thirty five thirty five. Okay, they're great. I've been working
Speaker 1: with them for like what three four years? Thirty five
Speaker 1: hundred dollars for as that's it?
Speaker 2: And how long can you not say six weeks?
Speaker 1: With girl?
Speaker 5: My fucking riding around? Like you give BBO pillow?
Speaker 2: And where do you take the fat from?
Speaker 4: Anywhere?
Speaker 5: You can't, you're too small.
Speaker 2: You can brought some of mine? You can't. You can't,
Speaker 2: you can't.
Speaker 1: And that's the problem with me, Like I literally can
Speaker 1: sit here and like you look at a women star dissecting,
Speaker 1: but you can get, but you should get.
Speaker 2: Tell me what should I get?
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't force no body down.
Speaker 2: I already had my My titties are done, but they
Speaker 2: might need to re bb girl, just a little bit,
Speaker 2: not a little baby. When are you going to get back?
Speaker 1: You have to get ashots?
Speaker 5: But is illegal?
Speaker 1: So that's what I had. There's legal ashots, of course,
Speaker 1: it's still legal.
Speaker 2: Been legal. That's what I got.
Speaker 1: I got illegal ashots, so those are.
Speaker 2: That's not a fact. You didn't watch The Beauty of
Speaker 2: Black Oh was that the new show on Netflix? Yeah?
Speaker 5: The Tyler Peer one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I keep hearing about that.
Speaker 2: Are they what are they doing that? Are they getting
Speaker 2: a shouts in there?
Speaker 5: Yeah, she got ash in there.
Speaker 1: But it's crazy because the girl who got ashes in
Speaker 1: there and she like went to the hospital and her
Speaker 1: name was Rain, the girl that hooked me up in
Speaker 1: my ashot her she's my friend who was a stripper,
Speaker 1: and she went into a comas. That's how my shit
Speaker 1: ended because I was putting girls on back then too
Speaker 1: fast for a long time.
Speaker 2: Since I was eighteen. She was that's all from shots.
Speaker 1: Well, No, when I got the ashots, I was still
Speaker 1: only like a size five, size six, but then I
Speaker 1: had my daughter and it all spread. So I'd be like,
Speaker 1: my ass is like seventy five percent real because it
Speaker 1: didn't blow up until after I had my daughter since
Speaker 1: I got pregnant.
Speaker 2: So you haven't touched your ass since I did.
Speaker 1: Recently, I just got some something was drooping down here,
Speaker 1: so I got that sucked out.
Speaker 5: With stuff like that, just reshaping.
Speaker 2: Are you beautiful? They do look great?
Speaker 1: They got look I'm like, people think I'm like doing
Speaker 1: too much, but I'm like, that's.
Speaker 2: What I like.
Speaker 1: I like what I like.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I appreciate you being honest about it,
Speaker 2: because I think a lot of women want to do
Speaker 2: it and then go.
Speaker 3: To the gym and they're like, I've been working out, bitch, No,
Speaker 3: there's no squats that do that.
Speaker 1: You do got to maintain your fake body. That's what
Speaker 1: I hate when I like when I took my friends
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, yeall could just to the gym.
Speaker 5: No, you can't.
Speaker 1: You fucking if you're genetically you're built wrong. There's nothing
Speaker 1: you can do about. You can't go to the gym
Speaker 1: and fucking lift your titty.
Speaker 3: Your Vietnamese ass original would have never no squatted to that.
Speaker 1: And what I do ten thousand squads today.
Speaker 2: So you'd be squatting a lot, doing a lot of squats.
Speaker 1: I do a lot of cardio now cardio. I just
Speaker 1: do card because I eat a lot, so I had
Speaker 1: to do cardio too. Because like the way that I
Speaker 1: get fat is like because I was thirty pounds heavier
Speaker 1: and people be like, well, what do you need to lose?
Speaker 5: Where are you going to lose it?
Speaker 1: At You may not see a fat stomach or a
Speaker 1: fat this, but it's body mass. I want to lose
Speaker 1: body masks just.
Speaker 2: Like all over all over.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because when you get life ms, you will blow
Speaker 1: the fuck up. Like bitches will get their body done
Speaker 1: and think that they can even well.
Speaker 2: That's what I see, and then the fat moves out
Speaker 2: the places. Yeah, really having the big backs.
Speaker 1: Your face, your throat, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'd be looking at women this. We live
Speaker 2: in such a weird world that you could literally be like,
Speaker 2: I want that. I mean, but I went about me,
Speaker 2: I can't, I don't.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to.
Speaker 2: When I went to go to get when I went
Speaker 2: originally to get LiPo, and then they were like, you
Speaker 2: don't need light bo you need tits. And then I
Speaker 2: was like do I I was not there for I
Speaker 2: love for titties. I didn't even get because they were
Speaker 2: talking about they were well at the time they said
Speaker 2: that my probably it's still probably true that my, because
Speaker 2: I have like a little bit of loose skin that
Speaker 2: getting LiPo was just was just gonna make the skin
Speaker 2: looser underneath it.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've rocked that loose elephant as stomach for
Speaker 1: a while before I got a tommy tuck. You covered
Speaker 1: it with the tattoo or something. Well, I I fucked
Speaker 1: up my tummy tuck because I was smoking cigarettes. I
Speaker 1: was smoking and that shit kills your skin, so like
Speaker 1: it just died.
Speaker 5: So I had to wear this whole fucking machine.
Speaker 2: I had this.
Speaker 1: It's like a thing like grow back the skin, the
Speaker 1: blood and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: Stimulate the cells, like stimulate the blood circular like vampire
Speaker 2: official think.
Speaker 4: It probably like moves.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: No, it's like a machine that pushes oxygen to the scar.
Speaker 2: So did it work.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my skin grew back, So wow, girl, because that
Speaker 1: ship was dead. And I used to carry that backpack.
Speaker 1: It was in Atlanta, and I remember because I seen
Speaker 1: this some podcasts. I was on some podcasts and I
Speaker 1: had that book bag and I carried this book bag
Speaker 1: because it was like it was it.
Speaker 2: Was in motion.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and everybody's like, what the is that noise? I'm
Speaker 1: like work and the security is like, you can't.
Speaker 2: Take that in. I'm like, it's connected to my stomach.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna club with his backpack of the oxygen
Speaker 1: tank in there like audio.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call Memi when I get my boothstone so
Speaker 3: she could be my nurse.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because she said he's don't hurt girl, don't you know?
Speaker 1: The Q was like a full b Yeah, yeah, or
Speaker 1: a full b but even like you think that you
Speaker 1: can gain weight, to get a BBL, you have to
Speaker 1: gain good fat, so that fat has to be on
Speaker 1: your body for like at least sixty eight months.
Speaker 3: I could never if I if I come out or
Speaker 3: to ask you guys, I got the illegal ship because
Speaker 3: I can't gain weight.
Speaker 4: It's just not gonna happen.
Speaker 2: It would have to be the legal ship.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna wait till I another baby and bars feed
Speaker 3: that baby, and then I'm gonna go and get the booms.
Speaker 1: Why not? Like I have a lot of friends, like
Speaker 1: a lot of women that are going in their forties
Speaker 1: like fuck it.
Speaker 2: What I mean?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I've done my forty years. Give me some boobs.
Speaker 2: M hmm.
Speaker 1: A lot of time when I promoted be like, oh,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be pushing this for women.
Speaker 2: Like let me tell you right now, maybe all the
Speaker 2: pictures that are listening right now that heard the book,
Speaker 2: the BBLS thirty five hundred, they're about to be in
Speaker 2: your DMS or the doctor's DM. They needn't give you
Speaker 2: a discount code because you just you just get thirty
Speaker 2: five hundred, but your discount cod or thirty five hundred
Speaker 2: just every day, all the time.
Speaker 1: I do giveaways and everything, like I did meet and
Speaker 1: Greenen Rivers that I gave away like two bbls to
Speaker 1: three light bos, like.
Speaker 3: Not two bbls life, one bb out for you, one
Speaker 3: lfe out for you. Dead is like, well, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: have to use your plug, gonna go get the boobs done.
Speaker 4: Because you seem like you.
Speaker 1: Can get sailing for only twenty five hundred dollars.
Speaker 2: Twenty five hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: When I be fucking driving out here, driving to LA
Speaker 1: and I see the billboard and it'd be like seventy
Speaker 1: two hundred for sailing tists, I'm like crazy, Miami's only
Speaker 1: twenty five hundred. They'd be robbing people out in galley.
Speaker 1: Ain't no fucking way.
Speaker 2: You hear that.
Speaker 3: If you're l a getting your boobs and you're getting wrong,
Speaker 3: I'm having.
Speaker 5: It's like clockwork in Miami. Everybody does.
Speaker 3: Miami is like a plastic surgery hub. Like it's it's
Speaker 3: it's almost like a like a how do you say
Speaker 3: your status?
Speaker 2: Like it just makes make sure like you got money. Yeah,
Speaker 2: big teeth and like big ass and big.
Speaker 3: Even the guys have like fake apps they have the botching.
Speaker 2: And then I got to then you have a little
Speaker 2: like yellow as like.
Speaker 1: What I had some abs before. But now I notice
Speaker 1: the difference.
Speaker 2: I can see it.
Speaker 1: I don't want my man to go like gay boys.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean I've seen some straight guys with.
Speaker 3: I just had a high thought. What is it but
Speaker 3: your high thought? This is our segment high thoughts. You're
Speaker 3: not high, but.
Speaker 2: That was always gives me high thoughts. I know I
Speaker 2: got high immediately. My hot thought is so when we
Speaker 2: die and we're in like and I just can't wait
Speaker 2: to see what like when they unearthed us, unearthed all
Speaker 2: of us, all of us visions from the caskets, what
Speaker 2: the is gonna be there?
Speaker 1: And you can't take it to the grave, Yes I can't.
Speaker 2: I haven't ye porcelain fillers. I was having a high
Speaker 2: thought the other day. I wrote it down because I
Speaker 2: was like, I need to bring this up on high thoughts.
Speaker 2: I was like, I wrote it. I did. I was like,
Speaker 2: do spirits sleep? And I said, do angels? Fuck you?
Speaker 2: What's going on there? Do spirits sleep? I would have
Speaker 2: to say, you don't need ever. They don't need food
Speaker 2: or sleep. That's why like this is such an they
Speaker 2: have sex, they have are having sex.
Speaker 3: They have energetic energy sex, like it's so much bigger
Speaker 3: than regular sex. This is why this isn't a unique
Speaker 3: like a unique opportunity to be human, because we're not
Speaker 3: able to touch, you know, so this is like a
Speaker 3: unique opportunity to eat, to fuck, you know, to be like,
Speaker 3: oh my.
Speaker 2: God, I loved you many touch.
Speaker 1: Like when they say everlasting life and then you go
Speaker 1: to heaven. What are we doing in heaven? Is that
Speaker 1: movies is there?
Speaker 2: Because they are the low level spirits that are probably
Speaker 2: like still not evolved, like they're never going to like
Speaker 2: really like go to really transpire to the other side
Speaker 2: because they're a little ghetto and they're still causing drama
Speaker 2: up in the middle in the mid space.
Speaker 3: If I was gonna be an angel, I would be
Speaker 3: fucking a lot because you can't get pregnant, could you
Speaker 3: there's no STV?
Speaker 1: Could you get pregnant?
Speaker 2: Could you have a spirit baby?
Speaker 1: What is after life that I'm always curious?
Speaker 2: I mean spirit.
Speaker 3: STDs, if you could design an afterlife? No, that's why
Speaker 3: that's why you could be like a spirit ho. It's
Speaker 3: like if you're good and.
Speaker 1: You're still working, because who's gonna do my nails? Who's
Speaker 1: going to do my hair?
Speaker 3: They got angel hose, angel host. I'm gonna be an
Speaker 3: angel house. And then like there'll be no judgment, so
Speaker 3: your boyfriend can't judge. You still love you and you
Speaker 3: come home after being a house.
Speaker 1: It's a spirit life like a human life can't be
Speaker 1: It has to be better, right, But what is better?
Speaker 4: We will I guess we won't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what what's better than fucking? I gotta ask my
Speaker 2: guys send me the like I never.
Speaker 1: Saw my dad after like he passed, but then one
Speaker 1: time I did and in my dreams and it was
Speaker 1: my dad and a little girl running around. But I
Speaker 1: didn't know who the little girl was when I was dreaming.
Speaker 1: But when I woke up, I remember my oldest sister.
Speaker 1: She passed when she was about two three years old,
Speaker 1: so I had to be that little girl together and
Speaker 1: red and I was like, I told my mom she
Speaker 1: was wearing red and she's like, yeah, your sister was
Speaker 1: buried in a red shirt.
Speaker 5: But in the dream it was so eerie.
Speaker 1: It was so confusing because he kept saying it hurts,
Speaker 1: I'm about to die, and I was like, well, you're
Speaker 1: already dead. He's about to die again. I'm like, why
Speaker 1: are you dying again? Like what's going on? Like where
Speaker 1: are you going now? Like what do you mean you're
Speaker 1: dying again? And when I woke up, the PlayStation was on,
Speaker 1: so it was like it was very eerie, but that.
Speaker 2: Was the only PlayStation. Meant what does that mean there? Oh,
Speaker 2: like he was playing.
Speaker 1: Spirit Travels through Energy, Right, he was there, But that's
Speaker 1: my only time dreaming about him.
Speaker 5: But it just still does makes sense today.
Speaker 1: What do you mean you're dead?
Speaker 5: What do you mean you're dead? You're dying again?
Speaker 1: Now I haven't even more questions to go somewhere else,
Speaker 1: And now you're getting kicked out of there and you're
Speaker 1: dying again.
Speaker 2: Like maybe he was. Maybe he's stuck in between and
Speaker 2: he needs you to like, you know, listen, leave him
Speaker 2: an offering. Feet I'm give him some water, leave him
Speaker 2: some fruit.
Speaker 1: Like in Vinery's culture, like they they don't celebrate birthdays,
Speaker 1: but they celebrate the data to die. So they have
Speaker 1: like a memorial party. They cook a whole bunch and
Speaker 1: they pray and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: And my nail shop, they have alter and they have
Speaker 2: offerings like a lot of them are they A lot of.
Speaker 3: Them have Buddha on them though a lot of the
Speaker 3: Buddhists are Vietnamese, usually Buddhist or Christian Buddhists.
Speaker 5: But I thing my family is the only Baptist.
Speaker 1: I don't specifically like, my dad's a pastor. My dad's
Speaker 1: a pastor. And then back in the wartime, he needs
Speaker 1: to get beat up and once they catch him preaching.
Speaker 2: He was a Baptist in Vietnam.
Speaker 1: Yes, it was not pastor. Yeah, it wasn't allowed during Communists.
Speaker 1: So they would catch him and they would beat his
Speaker 1: ass and they lock him up for preaching the word God.
Speaker 1: So that was I've always been different. I feel like
Speaker 1: my family has always been different than most Asians.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: Well but before you guys, when we were off camera,
Speaker 3: we asked her to pull the card and she was.
Speaker 2: Like, cars, it matches my outfit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so tell me what's the king?
Speaker 5: I pulled the King of.
Speaker 1: Time.
Speaker 4: I'm probably a little spiritual witch.
Speaker 2: You probably have all I am.
Speaker 1: No, I went through a whole spiritual journey.
Speaker 2: My friend called me the other day and she was like.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm candding second hand.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, should be open and so she
Speaker 2: doesn't you're getting paranoid.
Speaker 3: But you hit it once on eighty five South, you could,
Speaker 3: you could, you can handle a little second hand.
Speaker 2: It's okay. It's a good mom's blunt. It's different. I
Speaker 2: hit it, prayed over it. The good mom's backwould, but
Speaker 2: hits a little different. Meme. My friend called the other day.
Speaker 2: I was like, girl, I have to tell you something, like, God,
Speaker 2: I slept with this guy and we didn't use a condom.
Speaker 2: I was like, bitch you and everybody's like she was
Speaker 2: like for real, I was like a girl, Yeah, oh
Speaker 2: I was. I was like, yeah, it happens. She was distraught. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean I get it, and she didn't. Yeah, because
Speaker 2: he's a hope and I get it. She probably needs
Speaker 2: to go get tested. But yeah, I don't. I think
Speaker 2: that also once your mom, Like, I don't think you
Speaker 2: has be moms and not use condos, But I think
Speaker 2: after you've created life and life has come out of
Speaker 2: your body, like, it's a little bit harder to put
Speaker 2: the separation between. It's always been hard. I think I
Speaker 2: think it's both.
Speaker 1: No, we're fucking we're together, are your relationship relationship? We're
Speaker 1: together because I don't just fuck anybody.
Speaker 4: You go from my relationship to the next.
Speaker 1: Yeah, whoever I decided to fuck, we're together, We're in
Speaker 1: a relationship, and I'm not needing to con them because
Speaker 1: that we're in a relationship. Gotten them for But I
Speaker 1: don't have a lot of high count I don't have
Speaker 1: a high count them.
Speaker 2: Then how long were you married?
Speaker 1: For?
Speaker 2: Ten years? Ten years? So in that ten year I
Speaker 2: never cheated? Never.
Speaker 1: No, I can't even cheat in my dreams, like dream
Speaker 1: trying to fucking cheating my trickenet that for me, I
Speaker 1: have to be done with a person completely, like I
Speaker 1: have to cut you off completely.
Speaker 5: Then I move on.
Speaker 2: Well, that means your your karma is pretty clean then,
Speaker 2: especially in that regard.
Speaker 1: I do a lot of the deeds that are unset
Speaker 1: or unseen.
Speaker 2: Try to live for my good karma. Was your divorced smooth?
Speaker 2: Was it easy? No? It was horrible? Could know?
Speaker 1: Okay, it's very complicated. So when I got married, I
Speaker 1: went to the courthouse, Well what was I only did
Speaker 1: it because we had a wedding, but we didn't sign papers,
Speaker 1: so we just had a ceremony like a party.
Speaker 2: And this is not you don't have kids with this,
Speaker 2: so I went to.
Speaker 1: The courthouse to do do the marriage license. The girl
Speaker 1: was like, oh, girl, just come to your house and
Speaker 1: do it for you, you know. So she came over
Speaker 1: to the house, she did it. She never put the
Speaker 1: paperwork in, so I had to sign, but I never
Speaker 1: had the printed. So when we had the whole bad breakup,
Speaker 1: I went to the courthouse and I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: kind of file for a divorce and she was like,
Speaker 1: the courthouse is like, oh, there's no paper, you're not married.
Speaker 5: They never finished it.
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking that I don't have to get a divorce,
Speaker 1: and then I get audited by the I r S
Speaker 1: and now the IRS, and I need proof of a
Speaker 1: fucking divorce. So I literally just got my divorced paper
Speaker 1: two months.
Speaker 2: Ago because did you think, oh my god, I was
Speaker 2: never even married.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but now.
Speaker 2: There's according to the IRS.
Speaker 1: Said, yes, I need to fucking sue the courthouse because
Speaker 1: I'm paying all these I R S fines because I,
Speaker 1: you know, was following marriage and then following a head
Speaker 1: of households. I'm getting fined so all this ship they need.
Speaker 5: To pay for it.
Speaker 1: When you talked to the lawyer and then he never
Speaker 1: called me back.
Speaker 2: So would you get married again? Yeah, dude, okay, good.
Speaker 2: A lot of people that when they have I guess
Speaker 2: traumatic breakups or divorces, they're like, yeah, never again, not necessary.
Speaker 2: You would get married like paperwork married.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I think so. I think I have to
Speaker 1: do it the right way. I think I did it
Speaker 1: way you got. The Asian people are fucking scammers. Like
Speaker 1: a lot of people do that because you know, I
Speaker 1: need to be on like food stamps and ship. You know,
Speaker 1: like if I get married, then you get I can't
Speaker 1: get my food stamp, my medicares. Oh you can't if
Speaker 1: you get care, you get married to be a two
Speaker 1: income household.
Speaker 2: Oh wow?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I was on.
Speaker 2: I was on a government assistant for a long time.
Speaker 4: I didn't recognize it.
Speaker 2: If you're married, you can't get government I mean.
Speaker 1: I mean both of y'alls broke then yeah, you still
Speaker 1: can write, but yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Do you want me to read your tarot cards? Okay?
Speaker 5: Scared?
Speaker 2: Are you ready? Okay? King of Ones, the King of.
Speaker 6: Wands, Well, apparently you're a national born leader, natural born leader, vision, entrepreneur,
Speaker 6: and honor. The King of Wands represent it pure fire
Speaker 6: energy in its masculine form. Unlike the other wand courts,
Speaker 6: the King is not so interested in creation and creativity,
Speaker 6: or in dreaming up ideas and implementing them himself. Instead,
Speaker 6: he is more inclined to take an idea and then
Speaker 6: enlist others to help him actualize it. Thus, when the
Speaker 6: King of WANs appears in a terror reading, it's a
Speaker 6: sign you are stepping into a role of visionary leader,
Speaker 6: ready to direct your people towards a common goal. You
Speaker 6: have a clear vision of where you want.
Speaker 2: To go, and now you're manifesting that vision with the
Speaker 2: support of others around you. The King of WANs reminds
Speaker 2: you to lead your life with intent, vision and a
Speaker 2: long term view. You have a grand idea of what
Speaker 2: is truly possible, and you will stop at nothing to
Speaker 2: see it through. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of my readings like are good,
Speaker 1: Like couldn't I like you know how like Asian people
Speaker 1: have the Chinese zodiac and the horse and when you
Speaker 1: read that up it just it fits me towards fit me.
Speaker 1: That fits me a lot. Yeah, this is like, you know,
Speaker 1: being in a nail shop. You know, like my vision
Speaker 1: is a nail shop. Now I have all these employees
Speaker 1: and where do I want to go with it?
Speaker 2: And you're directing them.
Speaker 1: I like being around groups of people, like I can
Speaker 1: be in a house full of girls. You know, I
Speaker 1: did it growing up in group homes and detentions, and
Speaker 1: I ran almost.
Speaker 5: All of them.
Speaker 2: Then I ran all ran, Are you mad me?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I have been, Yeah, I have been. I have
Speaker 1: this way. I have ways with women. I have ways
Speaker 1: with women like I don't get in like fights arguments
Speaker 1: with my friends like that, like we get along. I
Speaker 1: get along well with women. I do it will win
Speaker 1: all day and you know when when I'm doing now
Speaker 1: or whether I'm out and.
Speaker 2: About, Like, I think that's I mean, I think it's
Speaker 2: a gift. I mean obviously that you probably had before,
Speaker 2: but I think working in service of women, you actually
Speaker 2: you actually serve women too in a lot of ways.
Speaker 2: I mean, they obviously they pay you, but you're you're
Speaker 2: in service to them. You're making them feel beautiful, You're
Speaker 2: making them feel confident, and I probably I'm assuming.
Speaker 5: That that's how men don't know me.
Speaker 1: So like I've walked past a couple of the wife
Speaker 1: it is like, oh my god, it's me me, honey,
Speaker 1: you don't know me me.
Speaker 5: Like, men don't know me.
Speaker 1: I look like this. Men just don't give a fun
Speaker 1: They do not know me.
Speaker 2: Would you say most of your audience as women?
Speaker 1: Then yeah, mostly all women.
Speaker 5: I mean that's range is crazy.
Speaker 1: Age would be like fucking ten years old or fucking
Speaker 1: eighty seven.
Speaker 2: You know, how did you meet your current partner stretch?
Speaker 1: We were we dated when I dated my ex husband.
Speaker 1: I dated both of them at the same time. But
Speaker 1: at the time he wasn't ready to like move in
Speaker 1: be you know, be in a relationship. But my ex
Speaker 1: was a bum so he's very moving. And then I remember,
Speaker 1: I told you only have one type?
Speaker 2: So after what is your type? Tell us telling people
Speaker 2: what your type is?
Speaker 1: Tall, slim head, you dread head you're from you know DMV,
Speaker 1: Like that's my type.
Speaker 5: I don't have one type.
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened to me during that time,
Speaker 1: Like something happened mentally during that time during my club era,
Speaker 1: like after I had my son, and it's like that
Speaker 1: that was like the look in like the area, and
Speaker 1: so I've been stuck with that look for a long time.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm attracted to. I don't really look at
Speaker 1: other men. I don't really look at men. Like a
Speaker 1: man who walked by right now, I wouldn't be like,
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck, you know, but a beautiful
Speaker 1: woman walk by, I'll break my neck. So so I
Speaker 1: have this one type. So after I broke broke oup
Speaker 1: my ex and I had dated this other guy who
Speaker 1: couldn't stand me, I was like, lord, can you please?
Speaker 1: I was like, I need to get over him. So
Speaker 1: you know, you need to replace I'm one of those women.
Speaker 1: I need another somebody to replace it for me to
Speaker 1: move on.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. There's no there's no like
Speaker 2: that moment, the little era of being alone.
Speaker 4: And tapping into yourself.
Speaker 2: This is annoying. It doesn't work. That doesn't work.
Speaker 1: I went to therapy and ship.
Speaker 2: I'm still how do you know it works? But if
Speaker 2: you ain't done it, I did. I tried to work.
Speaker 1: I went to therapy.
Speaker 2: How long How long did you? How long have you
Speaker 2: ever been single in between relationships?
Speaker 5: Oh no, that's not thing.
Speaker 2: One month, one week, two weeks.
Speaker 1: Because I mean I was still talking.
Speaker 2: You see that she went and got stretched. Are you
Speaker 2: ready yet, nigga? Yeah? Technically you weren't you known physically cheap,
Speaker 2: but you might keep an emotional attachment in your back pocket,
Speaker 2: so then you can kind of jump to the next.
Speaker 1: Not necessarily like I. I think it's good because I
Speaker 1: have one time I'll talk to that person, like I
Speaker 1: kind of know who, like how most women are, because
Speaker 1: I'm really like dating.
Speaker 2: I don't like the hey, how are you?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 1: Someone asked I was trying to date and it was annoying,
Speaker 1: like the one guy was like, he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I know you, Oh you know me. Then I was
Speaker 1: like and I was like, so you have dated Asian
Speaker 1: and he was like, oh no, but I fucked them
Speaker 1: first off, that was disrespectful, right, And then I was like, well,
Speaker 1: I was like, he said something you like black guys.
Speaker 1: I like, bitch, you say you follow me? Clearly see
Speaker 1: my black kids you're talking about. So that irritated me.
Speaker 1: But no, so then I asked God. I was like, Lord,
Speaker 1: can you please just send me a fucking dread so
Speaker 1: I can move on, you know, so I can move
Speaker 1: on from this chapter. As much as we want to say,
Speaker 1: oh self care, you need to work on yourself. You
Speaker 1: need to be alone, you lure therapy, you need to
Speaker 1: learn how to love yourself. That works for some people
Speaker 1: and doesn't work for everybody.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like I tried it, it didn't work. I'm still fucking miserable,
Speaker 1: Like I don't be here, like I fucking try to
Speaker 1: try the therapy, I try to be alone.
Speaker 2: I don't like it.
Speaker 1: I didn't ready to be in an next relationship because
Speaker 1: I was crying all the time. Why the fuck am
Speaker 1: I crying? Like off this is And he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you need to work on yourself. No, you just don't
Speaker 1: like me, so you make me cry. The fact that
Speaker 1: you don't like me, no one view with me and
Speaker 1: you're making me cry, so you know, and once I
Speaker 1: got with stressed, I stopped crying crying more, you know,
Speaker 1: like some things work for some people.
Speaker 2: Self care sometimes work. But you know, how long have
Speaker 2: you all been together? Almost five years now? Oh no?
Speaker 2: So yeah. So I was dating them at the same time.
Speaker 1: And when I was really done with the other guy,
Speaker 1: I went in my DM and he was like, hey,
Speaker 1: you remember me, Yeah, bitch, I remember you. I always
Speaker 1: wanted to be with you. You always what do you
Speaker 1: mean where the fuck you've been at? And people were like,
Speaker 1: oh so, so people were joking like, oh, she always
Speaker 1: has stretching her phone.
Speaker 5: It's pizza.
Speaker 1: No, we just we haven't talked for ten those ten years,
Speaker 1: like we never talked. We never we lost contact. But
Speaker 1: I knew I always wanted to be with him because
Speaker 1: you're the one with the light eyes and tattoos. Your
Speaker 1: hair was longer than you're the one, you know. So
Speaker 1: like when people would be like, oh, she she has
Speaker 1: a type, and he would get mad, he'd be like, no,
Speaker 1: I was around before him. You know, I'm the fucking original,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: But I was like, okay, I thought.
Speaker 1: And then he was out here and I had moved
Speaker 1: back to the DMV, and then I was like, well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna be together. Somebody has to move. I was like,
Speaker 1: I ain't got a real job. I'm on my way.
Speaker 5: I packed up and moved.
Speaker 2: I'm'm closing all these shops I got open out there.
Speaker 1: No, it was COVID, so all the shops were closed.
Speaker 1: I sold my house, I sold my shops, I sold dogs,
Speaker 1: sold everything, and I left Atlanta and went back to
Speaker 1: the DMV.
Speaker 5: And you you date women, No, I don't date when,
Speaker 5: never never dated women.
Speaker 1: We have threesomes women, Yes, Do you have rules.
Speaker 5: We're very different, so I don't get jealous.
Speaker 1: I do not get jealous. And a lot of my
Speaker 1: friends is like, how do you have three someomes? And
Speaker 1: how are you so confident? How do you not get jealous?
Speaker 5: How are you do this?
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm a professional. I wasn't always like that,
Speaker 1: but I'm a very professional three some having a person?
Speaker 2: Can you give us the steps? Give us, give us
Speaker 2: like a few tips on being.
Speaker 1: Because a lot of times women think that, oh, the
Speaker 1: other person is trying to come in and like take
Speaker 1: over your life or like have y'all cheap, But whole
Speaker 1: time they're just trying to get a fuck. They're just
Speaker 1: trying to bust the nut, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And my vision with three some is like this is
Speaker 1: like a it's like a toy. This is like a
Speaker 1: wander or something like. It's a it's a toy for
Speaker 1: the night. But he is very strict. I'm the opposite,
Speaker 1: you know. He'd be like, these bitches need to get out.
Speaker 1: I bust in my nud, they need to go. I'm
Speaker 1: more like, you want to have lunch.
Speaker 2: And lunch with these bitches? Do you want me to cook?
Speaker 2: I'll do now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't mind, Like polygamy, I wouldn't mind. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't mind at all. But he's he's not down for it.
Speaker 4: Probably that's too much mothers.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, bitch, you get on my nervous thing.
Speaker 1: I want to deal with two bitches. Absolutely not. But
Speaker 1: I would be down because I never have like issues
Speaker 1: in friendships, like I always have fun, like I I
Speaker 1: know how to have fun with girls, like not just sex,
Speaker 1: like you know, like doing girl fun stuff like doing
Speaker 1: your hair, doing.
Speaker 5: Your makeup, having a friends whole time.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So, but he's not down for it. So he always like,
Speaker 1: you're gay, but I'm not gay. I'm not. I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm not gay. I'm bisexual, but I'm not gay because
Speaker 1: I've never been in a relationship. You don't want to
Speaker 1: be like yeah, solely.
Speaker 2: Or in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Surprisingly, even though I like made myself to look like this,
Speaker 1: I'm not even attracted. I'm actually attracted to like natural women,
Speaker 1: like a very pretty face. I love a pretty face,
Speaker 1: just the face. I don't care about the body like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: kind of like I like a fit, natural.
Speaker 5: Gym body, like they're cute. But I do really like
Speaker 5: a pretty face, So you don't.
Speaker 4: That's the only thing, Just a pretty face.
Speaker 1: I don't even like bitches that look like me, like
Speaker 1: fucking nails and hair. I'm not attracted to that. I'm
Speaker 1: actually attracted to like a very natural.
Speaker 2: Have you guys ever had a girlfriend?
Speaker 3: No, he said, no, What about it's like a reoccurring
Speaker 3: three away Yeah, or like one of your homegirls.
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: No, no homegirls. So I'm not allowed to date my friends.
Speaker 1: I mean when i'm we're not allowed to fuck my friends.
Speaker 2: That's your rule, his rule.
Speaker 1: We're not allowed too. Yeah, I've moved them all in,
Speaker 1: but it's like a house.
Speaker 2: Five is too many.
Speaker 3: You keep bringing him home like pets. So kissing everything goes.
Speaker 3: There's there's no, there's never been time like don't do that,
Speaker 3: don't do this.
Speaker 5: Or like we're not really kissers even with each other.
Speaker 2: No tongue. What you got these big old, beautiful ass
Speaker 2: lips for if you're gonna use a bitch. I mean,
Speaker 2: I'll kiss the girls and stuff like that, but you
Speaker 2: know you and you don't kiss your man.
Speaker 1: We kissed, but not no, we're not tonguing down each other.
Speaker 4: Interesting that everybody wanted to make out.
Speaker 2: No, no, making out. You want to you want to
Speaker 2: make out. You guys want to make up all together,
Speaker 2: all three of us, Okay, everybody coming on.
Speaker 1: No, he's he's o CD.
Speaker 2: Yeah he's a germophobe.
Speaker 1: So no, that's And even when girls come over and
Speaker 1: they'd be like, already took shower home.
Speaker 2: I didn't see it. Get in the shower. You need
Speaker 2: a razor, Like.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna yo, you gotta be a ball bitch to
Speaker 1: bring some harry pussy to a three something that's wow.
Speaker 3: Bitch took her whole wig off in the threesome with
Speaker 3: like straight backs underneath, and I was appalled.
Speaker 5: Okay, so you have three some Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Mean I guess I don't have any roles in the threesome.
Speaker 3: I don't really believe in roles in the threesome because
Speaker 3: who's going to be following roles if you're having sex?
Speaker 2: I meant so, I meant more so, like even like
Speaker 2: the not just the rules of the threesome, but the
Speaker 2: rules of like the dynamic before and after the threesome.
Speaker 2: Are we in group texts? Are we texting each other individually?
Speaker 2: Am I doing the choosing? Like those type of rules
Speaker 2: do you usually do the choosing.
Speaker 1: I think we do together. I mean, like what you
Speaker 1: think you know he's down, Like, oh no, you know
Speaker 1: I'll make them.
Speaker 2: I'm very blunt, are you the recruiter? I was gonna say, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 1: Straightforward, like you're trying to fuck what.
Speaker 2: They or not?
Speaker 1: I hate me some drunk, fake gay bitches. I can't
Speaker 1: slam them, like you want to be gay when you're drunk,
Speaker 1: but you're not moving forward, You're not doing nothing. Have
Speaker 1: some girls like I see them once in a while,
Speaker 1: like you know, like every time they're gay, I mean
Speaker 1: every time you drunk, they all on me. So this
Speaker 1: time I was like, fuck y'all bitches. I was like,
Speaker 1: y'all fake gay.
Speaker 2: I don't want to convince a bitch to be gay.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: I'm I move around.
Speaker 1: But it's it's just so many complicated elements to it too,
Speaker 1: because it's like is the bitch really gay or is
Speaker 1: she really just here for the dick? You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because there's fake gay girls here fucking man, yeah,
Speaker 1: who just want to fuck my man. And then it's
Speaker 1: like so it's hard to find that to see if
Speaker 1: the bitch is really gay or not. And then there's
Speaker 1: some girls who like only want to they only hear
Speaker 1: from me because they're being groupies. They only fucking me.
Speaker 1: Like so he's like, is she even attracted to me?
Speaker 1: Or she's just doing this to get groupie?
Speaker 7: You know.
Speaker 1: So there's just so many.
Speaker 2: Have you ever had a threesome go wrong where like
Speaker 2: the kids, it goes, it goes the internets and people
Speaker 2: are talking and ship.
Speaker 1: We don't have that pretty I'm pretty I get along
Speaker 1: well with women, So I don't think I give off
Speaker 1: that energy for a bitch to like expose me or
Speaker 1: hate me.
Speaker 2: And it's really what to expose that? You got fun?
Speaker 2: Like crazy, yeah you got you know, it's crazy as club.
Speaker 1: I'm like Surety was doing splits and doing all types
Speaker 1: of ship and you know, like giving off real freaky vibes.
Speaker 1: Get get in there and like rope drive, pussy drivething dry.
Speaker 1: It was just dry, like no no moaning, no, everything
Speaker 1: just dry.
Speaker 2: It was just like, what the hell is this? Yeah,
Speaker 2: what is this?
Speaker 1: It's not the same person, It's not the same energy.
Speaker 2: Not the splits.
Speaker 1: Yeah, in the club and splits all types of ship
Speaker 1: and they get in the bedroom and it was just
Speaker 1: dry man.
Speaker 3: There definitely has to be. I mean, I don't know
Speaker 3: if we tell each other that like boring pussy. Have
Speaker 3: you heard the three some with two guys?
Speaker 5: That's not a three that's a train.
Speaker 4: Now, it's not funny.
Speaker 2: Do you have two dick?
Speaker 1: Is a train one to and then the two dicksie
Speaker 1: each other.
Speaker 2: That's gay when they see each other. When I see.
Speaker 1: Another I mean, I mean, I'm still very old school.
Speaker 1: I'm still stuff on a double standard. You know, two
Speaker 1: women's are hot too men, it's not I'm still very
Speaker 1: old school, like double standard.
Speaker 4: They see each other, it's gay.
Speaker 1: You what do you see that's gay? Like?
Speaker 2: I mean, you never you don't watch like the orgy
Speaker 2: category and point I.
Speaker 5: Have it isn't there's too much going on you watch one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wach your category, bitch eaten another girl, pussy wash.
Speaker 2: Categories. I think we should play a little game we
Speaker 2: have on our show called trigger. Okay, so this explained
Speaker 2: the game to it.
Speaker 3: Okay, she's going to say one word, and you're gonna
Speaker 3: just say the first thing that comes to mind, quick,
Speaker 3: just on your toes, say whatever comes to mind first.
Speaker 2: Bad habits spoken Vapon astrology sign tours, marriage, motherhood.
Speaker 5: That's so terrible.
Speaker 2: Why say that? Cooking religion, Christian? Last time you had
Speaker 2: sex last week? Anal? No eating pussy? Wait, no, Anal,
Speaker 2: I can't, bitch.
Speaker 1: I can't and it hurts so bad.
Speaker 2: That ship hurts so bad.
Speaker 1: You gotta be staying a little dick in or do that.
Speaker 2: But guy gonna breathe about every wind.
Speaker 1: I still can't do it.
Speaker 2: It's just you trained it. I try it, just can't.
Speaker 4: You have to do it consistent, and.
Speaker 1: Then I'll be a fart scared ship gonna come out away.
Speaker 2: As much as I eat. I mean, that could be
Speaker 2: a troublesome situation. You really got to prepare the.
Speaker 1: Ass for wear diaper than because their biggest to know.
Speaker 2: Because the way I heard you be cooking, bitch, I
Speaker 2: definitely don't need to have no anal.
Speaker 1: I'm explosive. Far is just shipping on myself all day?
Speaker 1: What you do last night, Anal?
Speaker 5: You can smell it.
Speaker 2: Yourself after an eating pussy?
Speaker 1: Sure?
Speaker 2: Love language, uh, white women, MHM, Asian women, black women,
Speaker 2: toxic trait, my mouth, favorite sex position. Last good choice.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to differentiate good choice and bad choice. Last
Speaker 1: good choice, waking.
Speaker 2: Up happily ever after. Yeah, monogamy, poligat me. Cannabis.
Speaker 1: Oh, that's a weed. I was looking cannibal.
Speaker 2: I was like, what we were canabis? Oh m hmm,
Speaker 2: too high, cocaine, m.
Speaker 5: Hm, my nose.
Speaker 1: Little I tried that ship.
Speaker 2: To do cokay. I was on Google.
Speaker 1: I was like, how do you do my nose? Little
Speaker 1: ship went up my nose into my brain, back of
Speaker 1: my throat all day. I was like, and this shit expensive.
Speaker 1: Ain't no fucking way y'all do this.
Speaker 2: It's only last thirty minutes.
Speaker 1: I'm like, should buy EPs?
Speaker 2: Let me have two days? Narcissism, crazy rapping, fun, only
Speaker 2: fans money? Do you have an only fans? Yeah? What
Speaker 2: are you doing on other fans?
Speaker 1: My titties? I never showed my pussy, but showing your titties. No.
Speaker 1: I make videos.
Speaker 5: I'm a content creator, so I'm good at making contents
Speaker 5: I have.
Speaker 4: Are you cooking with your titties out?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 1: I do? I do soft porn. So I do like
Speaker 1: HBO After Dark?
Speaker 2: Well we do HBO?
Speaker 1: Yeah we do together?
Speaker 4: Oh okay, have you guys always done it together?
Speaker 5: Yeah, we've been doing it for about three years.
Speaker 4: But no, penetration.
Speaker 1: We may be penetration, but I can I angle it
Speaker 1: where you don't see nothing. I got leaked on Facebook
Speaker 1: like a couple of months ago, and there Facebook, Yeah,
Speaker 1: they were going crazy about it. But I'm like, y'all
Speaker 1: can't see our pussy or our dick, Like it's not
Speaker 1: that big of a deal. You guys, like, I know
Speaker 1: I made this video. How are you going to tell
Speaker 1: me about the video? I know I made it, Like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, put it out there?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? How much you make on only fans?
Speaker 1: A lot?
Speaker 5: Okay, the most money all things I do, most easy money.
Speaker 2: Most easy money. What was most of your audience Because
Speaker 2: you said your audience on like Instagram YouTube is women,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Percent of men they're rocking for me. It might be
Speaker 1: women too, but I have a ten percent of men
Speaker 1: rocking for me.
Speaker 2: I've long been doing only fans three years. Yeah. I
Speaker 2: couldn't even believe it.
Speaker 1: We couldn't believe it. I was like, no, fun, way,
Speaker 1: this numbers are real. These are real numbers. I should
Speaker 1: have been did this.
Speaker 2: And then like with your kids, how do they know
Speaker 2: they have?
Speaker 1: Like, oh what if your kids see you?
Speaker 5: Like my kids not looking you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 5: my kids know wh I do it? They're not looking.
Speaker 1: MoU Why would the would they look? They don't want
Speaker 1: to go see this ship. They stay in the kids place.
Speaker 2: Did you have to tell them to have a conversation
Speaker 2: with them or it's just I.
Speaker 1: Talk very freely, so you know that they're shocked about
Speaker 1: you know, and like you know, some boys, some kids
Speaker 1: were you know, messing with my son. Oh, we got
Speaker 1: dressed up. We went up to the school.
Speaker 2: Actually I group called.
Speaker 1: All of them, then went up to the principal. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And then me and structures outside
Speaker 1: all black.
Speaker 2: Waiting for the kids. Yeah, I think you say in
Speaker 2: your suit like you I was talking shit.
Speaker 1: Then I went to the principal.
Speaker 5: I was like, you know, these kids, you don't call
Speaker 5: their parents?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 1: After that, we never had a problem after that.
Speaker 2: Did he say anything to you like this? He told me.
Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, you need to put your hands
Speaker 1: on them, like my son box he's a boxer. Put
Speaker 1: your hands on them. Sometimes you guys to put your
Speaker 1: hands on people. You're not gonna get in trouble. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Don't let nobody talk about your mama.
Speaker 1: You guys, someone say beat the ass, period and then
Speaker 1: you're not gonna get in trouble. But he's so nice,
Speaker 1: you know, he's he's kind. But you know, it's not
Speaker 1: a very big deal. And if my daughter, she don't
Speaker 1: talk to you, So how can you bully somebody who
Speaker 1: doesn't talk like you know what I'm saying, Like, you
Speaker 1: can't bully somebody who does have no reaction to you,
Speaker 1: like you don't even.
Speaker 2: Exist to her. So you know that's always been a
Speaker 2: topic discussion.
Speaker 1: But my kid's not looking and they understand what they have,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like they're they're gonna have
Speaker 1: a Somebody's like, well, how would you feel.
Speaker 2: If your daughter do this?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm doing this so my daughter doesn't
Speaker 1: have to do it. I will put her in a
Speaker 1: position where she doesn't have to. I grew up poor.
Speaker 1: I never saw this type of amount of money. You know,
Speaker 1: I had to bust my ass six days a week
Speaker 1: in a nail shop back hurting. I'm hurting, like six
Speaker 1: ten fifteen hours per day, six days a week. I'm
Speaker 1: doing this so she never has to do it. She's
Speaker 1: gonna be able to go to college, have whatever career,
Speaker 1: put money on a home, and do whatever she wants.
Speaker 2: M H and I do with my man.
Speaker 1: It's not like they act like I'm always just fucking everybody.
Speaker 1: Hell no, it's just me and my man.
Speaker 2: That's it. You're gonna have sex anyway, right, you know,
Speaker 2: Like it's content.
Speaker 4: You know, how often do you have How often are
Speaker 4: you putting new content out?
Speaker 1: We try to do it once a week.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's so much.
Speaker 1: There's so many different ways to make money on a
Speaker 1: of It's not just like cause you make it subscription.
Speaker 1: So anything subscription like car washes and Netflix and stuff
Speaker 1: like anything subscription you're gonna make money from. Right, there's
Speaker 1: residual regardless if you put anything out, there're still subscribed
Speaker 1: and sometimes a lot of people forget their subscribe, so
Speaker 1: the money is constantly coming in. And then the other
Speaker 1: way is just put sales out. You know, you put
Speaker 1: these content, they buy it. Oh additional yeah, additional Those
Speaker 1: are private messages and you just like mass send it
Speaker 1: out and people can purchase that way.
Speaker 5: Then they also have live and stuff like that, so
Speaker 5: they have a lot of way in money.
Speaker 2: It's been very tempting.
Speaker 1: Hopped on it.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, You could just slide around
Speaker 2: and baby like, I don't have no.
Speaker 1: Shame in my game. Like when people bring that up
Speaker 1: and think it's like, you know, oh, it's gonna like
Speaker 1: affect me or embarrassment, I'm like, my bills are paid. Yeah,
Speaker 1: bill paid more money save than ever in my life,
Speaker 1: you know, So you can't shame me, bitch.
Speaker 4: Not this economy.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it does take like a certain
Speaker 2: person who really knows herself to be able to stand
Speaker 2: and and especially a decision like that, because you are
Speaker 2: going to get so much pushback, you are going to
Speaker 2: have a lot of people who love opinions, and especially
Speaker 2: because you're a mother, because being a mom puts another
Speaker 2: level of like shame on women in general and this
Speaker 2: expectation of us having to show up a certain way.
Speaker 1: So I got to be strong. For social media.
Speaker 2: It's social media, it's also your family. I mean, it's
Speaker 2: it's like people are going to talk all the time regardless.
Speaker 5: But they're not paying your bills.
Speaker 2: So that's true. What does it matter boxes or briefs
Speaker 2: for your nigga?
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm like, what is what.
Speaker 2: Briefs? The short under the panties are no panties.
Speaker 5: Cameo, No commando, came.
Speaker 1: Commando.
Speaker 2: Camerameal camera.
Speaker 4: That was the type of panty like, no panties.
Speaker 1: Girl, his ass, that should be wedgie full time.
Speaker 2: I hate it? Turn on? Uh, turn on?
Speaker 5: Why is this so hard?
Speaker 2: Turn on?
Speaker 1: Touch me?
Speaker 2: Turn off? Turn off? Here masturbation, Oh a rose, Oh bitch,
Speaker 2: celebrity crash.
Speaker 1: She's too young.
Speaker 5: I've always been Lord London, Lauren London.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. And then, last, but not least, what's one
Speaker 2: thing people would be surprised about you?
Speaker 5: One thing people be surprised about me?
Speaker 1: I can sleep seventeen to twenty hours straight without waking
Speaker 1: up and want to the bathroom. Okay, it's so fucking
Speaker 1: funny because yes, yesterday my tattoo artists, what are you
Speaker 1: passionate about? Because I told him I'm not passionate about nails.
Speaker 1: I do as a hustle for money. I'm not passionate.
Speaker 5: He said, what do you have?
Speaker 1: What are you passionate like?
Speaker 2: Sleep?
Speaker 1: Sleep?
Speaker 2: I love to sleep. Sleeping is amazing. I love sleep.
Speaker 2: You know, it's really important, it's great, crucial. And some
Speaker 2: people don't sleep. Some people are like, oh, I only
Speaker 2: need four hours. Yeah, you mean, I don't know if
Speaker 2: people do, I don't know. I mean there's that's like
Speaker 2: a neurological disorder.
Speaker 4: I need to rest.
Speaker 2: I can sleep well. Thank you for playing trigger.
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you.
Speaker 2: I've learned so mu much. That was fun. Before we
Speaker 2: get out of here, and if you guys are still listening,
Speaker 2: make should you ever read the bad choice of the week? Oh,
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Speaker 4: I want we need it.
Speaker 3: We need people to call though. We need to have
Speaker 3: numbers to call and ask specific questions.
Speaker 1: You should have one of those cute little phones. It'stually
Speaker 1: so cute. We had one, wait, but those don't get
Speaker 1: put on speaker.
Speaker 2: No, I think we can.
Speaker 4: Phones are a thing of the past.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, where were we plugging in? Right? Do
Speaker 2: you connected to your cell phone?
Speaker 4: So confusing?
Speaker 5: So I think they have a connect Yeah, yeah, Wow
Speaker 5: they have stuff.
Speaker 4: Now time has really shifted. Do you have a horror
Speaker 4: story for us?
Speaker 1: A whore horror, scary or horror like a slut w Yes,
Speaker 1: a slutty story.
Speaker 2: No, I'm not a slut lies lies? Well, I don't.
Speaker 5: I mean with three sons, I can put it that way,
Speaker 5: but I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Is there like a one three so that just sticks
Speaker 4: sticks out in particular that.
Speaker 2: It could be bad like maybe maybe, I mean had
Speaker 2: to go, that had to go Like that was about it.
Speaker 2: The horror story was having a dry throat? Have you
Speaker 2: ever kicked out of her in the middle of the three?
Speaker 5: Yes, he has for what?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 1: The bitches don't listen like I'd be like, don't give
Speaker 1: off groupie. The bitch kept giving off groupie and then
Speaker 1: she kept saying the N words. It's just like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you gotta go, you gotta go. Filipino Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Filipino girls saying the N word yeah, and I brought
Speaker 1: I brought it up to her like you can't say that,
Speaker 1: you know. She's like, oh, well, I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: mean in a rude way.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, but you can't say it.
Speaker 1: And then she kept saying it, so it just got
Speaker 1: real uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: And he's like, sure, you gotta go.
Speaker 4: She's giving them twenty two.
Speaker 2: That's a hard story. Yeah, that's pretty bad.
Speaker 5: This is weird, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like I told a bitch, bring a bottle, bitch, bottle pine.
Speaker 2: Who the fuck? She wasn't reading a room.
Speaker 7: Like you know.
Speaker 2: The next time I got back your short he was like.
Speaker 1: Hey, you're in town.
Speaker 5: I'm like, you don't remember last time.
Speaker 2: You don't value this relationship?
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you got kicked out, so you're not listening.
Speaker 5: Like I tell you everything.
Speaker 1: I tell them everything that if you want everything to
Speaker 1: go smooth, I tell you everything.
Speaker 5: To not be a groupie.
Speaker 1: Don't keep fucking saying this and that I love you
Speaker 1: so much. I watched those like don't I'm here to
Speaker 1: fuck not talk about how much you're a fan of me.
Speaker 1: That's gonna that's a turn off. Like he don't want
Speaker 1: to hear it. I don't want to hear it. And
Speaker 1: then you know I told you not to kids keep
Speaker 1: saying the N word. You keep fucking saying it like
Speaker 1: nobody's wet now, nobody's hard. Every good to go now
Speaker 1: it was uncomfortable. Now you just gotta go. Now I
Speaker 1: can't have a nut, Just go bye.
Speaker 2: Bye, damn. The group checklist, rupie threesome checklist. You know,
Speaker 2: you know what we might have might have needed this
Speaker 2: checklist at the time.
Speaker 3: I've gotten into some situations where we could have used
Speaker 3: the checklist.
Speaker 4: Hey, don't be a groopie Number one.
Speaker 7: That is that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, like just act like you don't know me, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like then you keep saying it
Speaker 1: is shut up.
Speaker 2: But sometimes people get drunk and it just like they
Speaker 2: can't help. They can't help. Yeah, stupid, They're sucking up
Speaker 2: their chances. Yeah mm hmmm.
Speaker 3: You know what, I really appreciate you coming with the
Speaker 3: threesome checklist and sharing your experience because I feel like
Speaker 3: not a lot of women come and tell us there
Speaker 3: are like threesome experiences.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm glad that you guys actually have them too,
Speaker 1: because like a lot of my friends don't really. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of them don't, and a lot of in
Speaker 1: relationship want to but don't know how to go about
Speaker 1: it with the other man. I'm just straight forward.
Speaker 2: You're trying to like I think, Yeah, I was gonna say,
Speaker 2: I was gonna say I think a lot of people
Speaker 2: are having threesomes, but I don't think that. Actually, that's
Speaker 2: just not true. That's a crazy assumption to think everybody's
Speaker 2: not a lot. Well, I know, yeah, yeah, I had
Speaker 2: a chill.
Speaker 1: I think mentally I had to chill because there got
Speaker 1: to a point where I felt like I couldn't develop
Speaker 1: a genuine friendship because I just want to fuck you,
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: Like.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like you give me a compliment. It was
Speaker 1: like you're trying to like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It got out of control.
Speaker 2: So I actually had a step back from it for
Speaker 2: a while, living the best life.
Speaker 1: He's stressed out, like made me shut the fuck up.
Speaker 2: Had just come chill. Do you have any friends now?
Speaker 1: He's just like, you're fucking gay, and I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: not gay. It's like you're fucking gay.
Speaker 2: Bit your eyes.
Speaker 1: I am like fighting for my life defending myself that
Speaker 1: I do love you, I'm not gay.
Speaker 2: Serious, you're the man, You're the person.
Speaker 1: Then talking about I'm terrible, I'm terribly.
Speaker 2: Why is it just more thrilling? Is it just more
Speaker 2: entertaining when there's a pussy there. I don't know. I
Speaker 2: like my pus.
Speaker 1: Everybody needs to serious amazing and say, bitch is amazing feeling?
Speaker 4: It really is.
Speaker 5: You know, you can't have that with your train with
Speaker 5: two guys, like the guy can't.
Speaker 2: That's I mean, use the rose and get fucked as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like my nails along, I'm just holding
Speaker 1: him static.
Speaker 5: Oh no, I never, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't finger myself with the nails. I can't function
Speaker 1: with short nails. Like you see how I did your makeup.
Speaker 1: You didn't feel my nails. Because I know how to
Speaker 1: hold my hand certain ways. I can't function without them
Speaker 1: because now I got to hold my hand a different way.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, now you know she's gay bisexual?
Speaker 2: I do, but people seem to like not get it
Speaker 2: click or not.
Speaker 5: No, I'm bisexual by bisexual, but he calls me gay, so.
Speaker 2: That's why it doesn't joke to me. So he like
Speaker 2: calls me gay or whatever. You know, No, I'm not.
Speaker 7: That you.
Speaker 4: He has a problem with you. That all niggas which
Speaker 4: they have.
Speaker 2: With I just don't.
Speaker 1: I don't find men. Men don't have nothing for you
Speaker 1: to look at.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, it's just ridiculous,
Speaker 2: you know yeah, like when.
Speaker 1: You want me to look at like you're not like
Speaker 1: your h the hair, makeup, Eyelash's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: like looking at the jewelry and your close your outfits,
Speaker 1: and you know, women have just have more to look at.
Speaker 1: Men It's like okay, wow, yeah, wow, wow, yeah he
Speaker 1: got big muscles now. It's just got big muscles now
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. And men are so fucking gay
Speaker 1: for him. All these Asian men are so fucking gay.
Speaker 1: Like we go to a lot of these Asian restaurants.
Speaker 1: They're so gay for him. They're like, oh wow, big muscle,
Speaker 1: Like did I squeeze?
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I've I've always liked slim guys like muscles has never
Speaker 1: like that's not that's not a bonus point for me.
Speaker 2: I've always liked the skinny motherfuckers. I don't know why,
Speaker 2: I just do.
Speaker 1: And so I'm like, okay, there's a plus, but it's like,
Speaker 1: really it's more for men.
Speaker 2: Men like that shit that men do notice other men
Speaker 2: like oh yeah you work.
Speaker 1: Out, Wow, you work out? What's your routine?
Speaker 2: What you take?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, what's your protein? Didn't take
Speaker 1: my eye?
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, can I squeeze it?
Speaker 3: They're always so gay for him, somebody needs to appreciate
Speaker 3: the muscles you right.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad that both of you guys are getting
Speaker 2: the love and attention that you both deserve. And I
Speaker 2: wouldn't be surprised if maybe some of your only fans
Speaker 2: audience was mostly gay for stretch.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, the gay boys always commented in well, no, bitch,
Speaker 1: when is he making one? I was like, baby, you
Speaker 1: gotta make one movie. You gotta make one now let me.
Speaker 1: But he's like, I can't.
Speaker 2: I can't do that sexy stuff.
Speaker 5: Like he's like, I can't.
Speaker 2: You better face front of how old you up?
Speaker 1: I'll take the picture. You're not gonna make so much money,
Speaker 1: come on, like you know, put your hair on front,
Speaker 1: like you have that look, you know, like fucking money
Speaker 1: is money.
Speaker 2: Right, you better get that pay?
Speaker 1: Yeah, all the gay boys be like.
Speaker 5: When is he making one?
Speaker 2: I'm seeing you in the video in the video.
Speaker 1: Like, move, bitch, let us see him?
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Okay, before we get out of here, well,
Speaker 2: first firstly, if you if you haven't tuned into our
Speaker 2: YouTube channel, we do have a channel on there for ASMR. Okay,
Speaker 2: and so ware is here. So mem and me and
Speaker 2: Mila are going to be doing an a SMR video
Speaker 2: eating crab legs, which I'm terrified. I don't really I
Speaker 2: don't like crab, but I'm doing it for it for y'all, Okay,
Speaker 2: so maybe maybe I'll change my mind. Maybe this is
Speaker 2: the day where I crabs. So I don't have that
Speaker 2: out here. They don't the cracking of it. And just
Speaker 2: gonna text me, do you do you need the crab
Speaker 2: crab crab cracker crab crackers? I said, do you have one?
Speaker 4: She said no?
Speaker 2: I said no, bitch, you used your hands and your teeth.
Speaker 2: She's like, oh god, I said, my teeth.
Speaker 1: Now do you think I see that might fall off?
Speaker 2: I literally when she said we're using our teeth, I
Speaker 2: literally said, fuck red loves. I don't know. I don't
Speaker 2: eat crabs. I thought, you know, I see the little.
Speaker 1: Cracker pussy and you see food eat pussy.
Speaker 2: Yes, I will pussy, but not just any pussy. But yes,
Speaker 2: but I don't. I don't know about the crab crackers whatever.
Speaker 2: Check out our video with a lively mem as we
Speaker 2: as I and.
Speaker 1: Me Her we eat our we're doing a smr are
Speaker 1: we doing?
Speaker 2: What's the difference? Is talking? Is not talking? We're gonna
Speaker 2: talk a little bit, like okay, finally someone can clarify
Speaker 2: the fucking difference. I thought the book bonger were still
Speaker 2: whispering though, right, it's not talking and doing like this.
Speaker 2: You don't have Maybe we do?
Speaker 7: Maybe?
Speaker 2: Are we like treble trail. We've combined them. We've we've
Speaker 2: done it's called look babod content.
Speaker 1: Content content always do good, but they always do.
Speaker 5: Good food content, especially seafood. All my seafood videos do good.
Speaker 4: That's so interesting. Do you have an affirmation?
Speaker 5: Oh, do what you want?
Speaker 4: Do what the fuck you want?
Speaker 2: Do what the dude, do what you do?
Speaker 1: Say what you want to say.
Speaker 3: I forgot about Devon the dude shout out to my
Speaker 3: friend Shack. I think he's from like Kansas. They're like
Speaker 3: he's from somewhere. Listening back, I feel very out of
Speaker 3: the loop. But he was out there on time bomby
Speaker 3: and stuff without Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: So that's back in the day. Okay anyway, so do
Speaker 2: what the fuck you do, Do what you want to do.
Speaker 1: I have a quote that I always say was that
Speaker 1: be like a lotus flower, although it grows in the mud,
Speaker 1: is still bloom into a beautiful flower. So it doesn't
Speaker 1: matter where you come from, how poor, how struggle or
Speaker 1: the hood or whatever, you can still bloom into a
Speaker 1: beautiful flower like a lotus.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 5: Your past doesn't define your future.
Speaker 2: I like that. Look at her, she's got you on
Speaker 2: another affirmation.
Speaker 1: Because my family just wore I was just going and
Speaker 1: ship ain't gonna be sh it ain't never gonna be.
Speaker 1: Look at now, glow that still the ship being the
Speaker 1: same person.
Speaker 2: Being you are I am. I think that's always like
Speaker 2: the the thing people always realize too late in life.
Speaker 2: It's like being yourself is actually the currency. Being yourself
Speaker 2: is actually why people are successful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, can't nobody copy the original you. But if you're
Speaker 1: copying somebody else, somebody else can copy that. But if
Speaker 1: you're you know, originally you, nobody can copy that, Especially
Speaker 1: like when you do. Like a lot of people who
Speaker 1: want to do social media, want to be a content creator,
Speaker 1: but they haven't accepted who they are. Like I noticed
Speaker 1: like as soon as I recourd somebody and the persons.
Speaker 2: Like, I hate my voice.
Speaker 1: I can't stay on my voice. Well, that's your voice.
Speaker 2: That's what you got.
Speaker 1: You can't change it.
Speaker 2: That's you.
Speaker 1: If you want to be a content creator, you have
Speaker 1: to accept who you are. You get past that, and
Speaker 1: then when you can be yourself, because then you can
Speaker 1: accept yourself. You can't expect the world accept you for
Speaker 1: who you are if you don't even like who you are.
Speaker 2: And that's where the freedom. That's where freedom is. People say,
Speaker 2: I want to be free, How do I be free? Bitch?
Speaker 2: Start with being yourself. That's that's the code, that's the
Speaker 2: cheap You.
Speaker 5: Can't change your voice, you can't change you can't change
Speaker 5: how you look.
Speaker 2: That you but you can't change your body.
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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for always being yourself and showing up
Speaker 2: as yourself and living your life the way the fuck
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Speaker 5: You don't have to be a perfect mom, but you
Speaker 5: can be a good mom.
Speaker 4: Nobody's perfect.
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Speaker 1: I think that's very important. I think that what I lacked,
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Speaker 1: the opposite for my mother.
Speaker 2: That's like that.
Speaker 1: She was a terrible mom, but very toxic, very toxic mom.
Speaker 2: Well, they're lucky to have you.
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Speaker 1: I know when you do it somewhere I can go.
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Speaker 5: I think I can actually get a lot.
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Speaker 5: Yeh fun wait y'all go do therapyan sessions and ship
Speaker 5: like that.
Speaker 3: Tanta, like you're not really therapy but just getting deep
Speaker 3: in your connection, intimacy.
Speaker 2: That sounds it's sexy. It's sexy. Shit, this is this
Speaker 2: is really about fun and play and pleasure. But obviously
Speaker 2: healing will happen just because we can't help it, and
Speaker 2: we can't help but pull things out of people. But
Speaker 2: for the most part, it's really about deeping in your
Speaker 2: connection with your partner. And I love that. Matter of fact,
Speaker 2: we need to watch that movie after retreat.
Speaker 1: Yeah you should.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna bring my projector your projector yeah, anyway, you
Speaker 2: guys will see you next week. By Yeah, i'mna have
Speaker 2: been so good? Can't you tell?
Speaker 1: I went through a drought.
Speaker 7: That's until I find a well may might have been known?
Speaker 7: Earth that used to be broken tail now got the
Speaker 7: blues dants. It might be Yonce just now throat shots
Speaker 7: from popping. It's cow wearing our voices. Patriarch get catched
Speaker 7: in the box to exploit it.
Speaker 1: Women put the pe and powers.
Speaker 2: So what's the point is? They want me to be good?
Speaker 2: So I mean bad noises, bad mom. Not a bad mom,
Speaker 2: but a bad mom.
Speaker 7: HER's in on Fort Cannapus in their bathball walked in
Speaker 7: Boston's cap and I blew his cat, boll tipe dog.
Speaker 1: Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie.
Speaker 2: And the waisted straight to it like a dollar sign.
Speaker 7: Mother, rent the lover, when to it look like a
Speaker 7: water sign where you're rent the winter essential will when
Speaker 7: the summertime, I do what all ain't
Speaker 2: No one that needs to run it by