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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,

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Speaker 1: and she couldn't.

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Speaker 2: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man

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Speaker 2: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.

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Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature.

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Speaker 2: She was a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 2: That we're good Mom's bad choices too.

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Speaker 3: Single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all their

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Speaker 3: bad choices and.

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Speaker 2: Found out they were so bad after.

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Speaker 1: All, we're experts.

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Speaker 2: Overshares and your new besties. Sit back and enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 2: I can do it. Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Mela. Happy Wednesday, Bah, It's.

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Speaker 4: A happy home day.

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Speaker 2: How are you doing. I'm great, I feel good. My

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Speaker 2: hair is popping. I got an unexpected beating on my face,

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Speaker 2: not like a beating, but you know, like a makeup

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Speaker 2: beat on my face by our guest today.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for the clarification.

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Speaker 2: You know, some people don't know because you didn't want.

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Speaker 4: The streets out here talking about Eric's getting beat up.

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Speaker 2: Well, people on you tube, we are stupid. That's what

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Speaker 2: I'm really starting to realize that people on YouTube are

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Speaker 2: fucking slow. People in the world are slow. No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: but I know you don't really go into comments on

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Speaker 2: YouTube of our our on our videos, but people like,

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Speaker 2: really are fucking slow.

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Speaker 4: I looked today, did you our sex comment?

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Speaker 2: Okay? I had to curse like one of the people out.

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Speaker 3: So they were talking about Orlando, and uh, she kim

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Speaker 3: that I'm the dom in my relationship and they know

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Speaker 3: that she comes over there dombing you, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: this is interesting. I've only I was like, not really,

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Speaker 3: I'm the sub but I was just yeah, I was

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Speaker 3: looked over there today. But a lot of times those

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Speaker 3: people are pretty a little bit on the slower side.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. The shout out to those smart people on YouTube.

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Speaker 2: I love you. I know I did not get my

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Speaker 2: face beat. If you're listening to this, go in head

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Speaker 2: over to YouTube so you could see our YouTube channel.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you subscribe. Make sure you subscribe to our podcast.

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Speaker 2: If you have not yet subscribed on Apple Podcasts or Spotify,

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Speaker 2: what the fuck are you doing? You've been listening for years?

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Speaker 2: Do it? Please?

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Speaker 4: Thank you, support your sisters. What the fuck are you doing?

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Speaker 3: And also if you haven't seen us and you're just

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Speaker 3: listening to us, We're fine, So go look at us

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Speaker 3: on YouTube. We get dressed up up and we designed

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Speaker 3: a set just so we can impress you guys.

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Speaker 2: So for the very least you could do is go

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Speaker 2: leave a fucking comment.

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Speaker 4: Thanks.

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Speaker 2: How are you doing.

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Speaker 4: I'm doing good.

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Speaker 3: It's been cold in La even though it's obviously supposed

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Speaker 3: to be fucking summer, fucking ninety degrees, so it's been

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Speaker 3: making me feel like a little bit slow, like I

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Speaker 3: just want to rest, you know.

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Speaker 2: I realize the weather has a lot to.

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Speaker 3: Do with like my moods overall, Like if it's too cold,

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Speaker 3: then I'm just I don't want to move.

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Speaker 4: But you know, I'm ready for a hot girl summer.

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Speaker 3: I'm ready to get the fuck up out of the

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Speaker 3: country as many times as possible.

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Speaker 4: And that's it.

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Speaker 2: Speaking about of the country, y'all. If you haven't checked

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Speaker 2: out our retreats, we have three retreats going on this summer.

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Speaker 2: We have our Couples Retreat in June from June fourteenth

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Speaker 2: to the nineteenth, So grab your lever, even if you're

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Speaker 2: in a new relationship, this is a beautiful opportunity to

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Speaker 2: set the foundation for your shit. Come get sexy, come

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Speaker 2: learn practices to take home and deepen your relationship. And

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Speaker 2: then we have our women's retreat in July and August

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Speaker 2: that we do every single year. We have two dates

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Speaker 2: and that retreats almost sold out, so make sure you

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Speaker 2: put down your deposit. You have plenty of time to

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Speaker 2: pay and come hang out with us in Costa Rica

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Speaker 2: at our annual Summer Costa Rica Retreat. Anyway, speaking of

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Speaker 2: this week. Yeah, Hi, we have Lovely meet Me. On

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Speaker 1: Y'all was talking all sex.

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Speaker 2: Do I have to No? You know, we have Lovely Memi,

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Speaker 2: who is a mom entertainer. Guess she is a cook,

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Speaker 2: He was like, tell her she be throwing down. I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 2: just happen to be in the neighborhood meet me? Which

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Speaker 2: you could? I took a lot of different stuff.

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Speaker 1: Well I cooked less now since my knives are sold out,

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Speaker 1: So like I said, you know, if I'm promoting something,

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Speaker 1: So I was doing a lot of cooking, but everybody

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Speaker 2: Everybody in the house is getting weight. Shit, let me

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Speaker 1: I want to do it when I move because I

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Speaker 2: What are the names of your knives? Chop chop, Chop,

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Speaker 2: chop chop. I love that I can relieve stress.

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Speaker 1: Chop chop, motherfuckers, chop chop away your stress.

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Speaker 2: You know, I recently of the last year, I started

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Speaker 1: So grocery is so damn high right now, you might

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Speaker 3: Anything we have in that, we've eating that ship for

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Speaker 3: I realized, like, my food is better than eating out.

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Speaker 2: I enjoy cooking.

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Speaker 1: I do it fast, Like everything I do it do fast.

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Speaker 1: I'm miel pair cooking like I'm like adhd.

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Speaker 2: It takes so long.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's why you leave it and you said

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Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you for having me so cute in here.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: First off, I love y'all. Name good mom by choices.

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Speaker 1: It's such it's relatable. You know, you know, I.

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Speaker 2: Think that I think that all moms can relate to me.

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Speaker 5: I think bad choices make you a good mom, absolutely.

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Speaker 3: I agree, because you learn and sometimes you got to

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Speaker 3: have some fun. And I think most moms have been

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Speaker 3: told that making bad like having fun and making bad

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Speaker 3: choices is so bad, you're a terrible woman, your terrible mom.

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Speaker 3: But we have learned firsthand that you got to make

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Speaker 3: because you're gonna be like forty five and you like

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Speaker 3: then you're like, yeah, now you're gonna be old and

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Speaker 2: Have sucked dicks when you're in your thirties like us. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean I was sucking dick in my twenties.

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Speaker 3: Also in the twenties and thirtiesens.

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Speaker 2: I mean.

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Speaker 3: Not to say that all bad choices revolve around sucking dicks.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying that you gotta, you know, suck some

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Speaker 2: This is true, And then I'm not bad at Not

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Speaker 2: all bad choices are bad, and that's really the whole

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Speaker 2: point of the bad choices. It's life.

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Speaker 1: You live, you learn, you grow.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of bad choices, have you made any bad choices

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Speaker 2: this week? Do you have any bad choices that maybe

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Speaker 1: I think what's in the air right now is like

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Speaker 1: when it comes in a nail community. So I've been like, uh,

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Speaker 2: There's nail beefs. Yeah, kind of.

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Speaker 1: They don't like the way I function, like I popped them.

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Speaker 1: I popped some clients nails off, but I'm not if

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Speaker 1: it's poppable, I'm popping bitches off. I'm not soaking them astones.

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Speaker 1: I've been arguing with bitches about like you know that.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, they're like, you need to soak off.

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, So you're telling me that soaking

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Speaker 1: plastic and different materials is safer for you and better

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Speaker 5: Kiss my ass.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, that's my only bad choice this week. I

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Speaker 2: But you know, you know what. I'm petty.

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Speaker 3: I'm petty, petty, but yeah, people say shit in the

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Speaker 3: comments and you think I'm gonna be the taking the

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Speaker 3: high road. And sometimes I don't have time, but sometimes

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Speaker 3: the board. But I'm been like, don't ever come over

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Speaker 3: here talking shit thinking no one's gonna respond, because I'll

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Speaker 1: Will respond and I do you bring it up? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean five more videos after I had to bring

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Speaker 1: it up to do the nails that I just I'm

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Speaker 2: Some more nails. I look at your page.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna look at and made the comments, and I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna make personal comments about your appearance, because bitch, who

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Speaker 3: the fuck are you talking to?

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Speaker 1: I go on there, look at them and then make

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Speaker 1: a comment everything. You're not going to comment back, Oh

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Speaker 1: I will, Oh, I guess. But you gotta word stuff

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Speaker 1: different now because.

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Speaker 2: Because Instagram will be bully.

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Speaker 1: You let the person say all that stuff about me,

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Speaker 1: but I can't reply, and you say it's bullying, So

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Speaker 1: you had to have to word it different now. Back

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Speaker 1: in the day, oh, it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I really wish they would stop that bullshit, because

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Speaker 3: if I'm gonna curse a bitch.

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Speaker 2: Out, just let me do it.

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Speaker 1: Let me alone.

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Speaker 2: Amount of other traumatic ship we see on the internet,

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Speaker 1: Everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Same girl. Have you been a bad girl? Mabe?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You know what I was like, I

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Speaker 3: You know, it's freeing to say, deliberating to say the thing.

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Speaker 1: Body. Yes, bitch, I am you're racist.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. I know everybody's so fucking sensitive. You

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Speaker 3: I just prefer people to just be straight up racist,

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Speaker 1: Now white chicks, and they're making a new white Chicks.

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Speaker 5: But I can't make no more the fucking jokes.

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Speaker 2: I know it's like, you can't talk about the Jews,

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Speaker 2: What you want from?

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Speaker 5: You know who the fuck is unhinged?

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Speaker 2: Fucking Donald Trump.

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Speaker 5: It's very hard to understand.

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Speaker 2: It's very very and all the customer service are a higher.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, this is how I get you. That's why

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Speaker 5: It's hard.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why there's so many people in America with

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Speaker 3: When Orlando laughed at that man and he said, why

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Speaker 2: Why are you I couldn't believe he did that. That

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Speaker 2: Poor man? I try to do his job and feed

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Speaker 3: I was like, I would never do anything like that.

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Speaker 3: I'm a mean girl.

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Speaker 5: Get canceled.

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Speaker 3: I probably have been camp have already been canceled before,

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Speaker 1: I just found out that Aladdin and Jasmine were an Indian.

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Speaker 5: They were Middle Eastern.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I thought a Raby and knights bitch.

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Speaker 3: They were just brown. We didn't even need to know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right. I think that they thought the names

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Speaker 3: I was watching a clip from when you were on

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Speaker 3: Love and hip Hop So Fat, and this girl was like,

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Speaker 3: I like you because what you is you Asian or something?

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Speaker 1: Love and hip Hop was streaming because it's like they

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then like one scene on Skinny, one scene

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Speaker 1: you know, it's like it's constant. I don't have the

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Speaker 1: me and make me messy. But in real life, like no,

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Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck about none of y'all. Who

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Speaker 1: y'all fucking so Yeah, And they had it like I

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Speaker 3: Could tell it was even I literally watched it for

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Speaker 3: And I'm like anybody who can like participate in this

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Speaker 2: You got to be built for it. You got to

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Speaker 1: Every season they're fucking somebody knew what somebody's cheating, Like

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Speaker 2: And you're got to it within the circle or else

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Speaker 2: it's not worth it. I mean, maybe maybe the checks

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Speaker 5: They've been there for a long time.

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Speaker 1: But me, it wasn't worth it because, like, you only

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Speaker 2: Like five days off. I'm like, I kind of went

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Speaker 1: And then I'm I don't know. I feel like they

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Speaker 2: I'm so squeaky.

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Speaker 1: Hey, yeah girl, I'm like it's so loud.

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Speaker 2: Well, you accuse me of turning your mic up.

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Speaker 5: They felt like they turned my mic up.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but and again I was it was

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Speaker 5: There was ten years ago, six ten years, oh wow,

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Speaker 5: twenty sixteen. It's twenty five.

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Speaker 2: But you already had like a large audience before you

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Speaker 5: And I know what.

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Speaker 1: I actually didn't watch the show before that, so when

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Speaker 1: up for. Or well, it took me a year to

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Speaker 1: It was like twenty producers and I fail. I fell

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Speaker 2: Don't know they picked me?

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Speaker 4: I guess.

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Speaker 5: So I didn't move to Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: Oh so you were already you were in the DMV

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was very random.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do no if I was if I had

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Speaker 5: That's the type of show that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, if a drama. No, me and me did

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Speaker 2: I just got back from New York and I had

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. It's an easy face. Thanks.

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Speaker 5: Some people was like, what the fuck do you want

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Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, what you want me to do? You got

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Speaker 2: to re really resculpting reshape. So maybe tell me like

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Speaker 2: Like where did you? I know you've on love and

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Speaker 1: Oh so so I was doing nails Lovely, the name came,

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Speaker 1: So when it comes to like human therapy and understanding,

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Speaker 1: and then just saying whatever's on my mind.

446
00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:17,000
Speaker 2: And you so you grew up.

447
00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:18,560
Speaker 1: But I used to say crazy shit, I can't do

448
00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:18,959
Speaker 1: that no more.

449
00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:23,280
Speaker 2: I will get you're you are from Vietnam, You're born

450
00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:26,199
Speaker 2: in Vietnam, and then how old were you removed here? Oh?

451
00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:28,159
Speaker 2: So then you grew you really grew up here and

452
00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:30,280
Speaker 2: we're in the DMV area, and so why are you

453
00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:33,560
Speaker 2: being such a badass kid? What are you getting into

454
00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:35,520
Speaker 2: over there? It's just because the environment that you were in.

455
00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:37,160
Speaker 1: I think I struggled more with.

456
00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:41,320
Speaker 2: Or your parents or your mom was what was that relationship?

457
00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:41,920
Speaker 2: Like with your mom?

458
00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:44,560
Speaker 1: Not good? We were never closed. Asian families are not.

459
00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:49,040
Speaker 1: Like they're very strict, they're very judgmental, they're very racist,

460
00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:51,920
Speaker 1: all of the above. Like there was no there was

461
00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:53,840
Speaker 1: no love. I never was close with my mom. We

462
00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:55,200
Speaker 1: always butt his, we always fight.

463
00:17:55,560 --> 00:18:02,040
Speaker 3: So yeah, how about now that we're better, like my

464
00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:04,280
Speaker 3: vienemies got better, so I'm able to have these hard

465
00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:05,160
Speaker 3: conversations with her.

466
00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:08,200
Speaker 1: So I've recently had really tough conversations with her.

467
00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:09,320
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, And.

468
00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:12,680
Speaker 1: It's like either you listen or I will cut you off,

469
00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:14,600
Speaker 1: just like everybody else cut you off. Because she I

470
00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,119
Speaker 1: have like five sisters and two of them already cut

471
00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,159
Speaker 1: her off. Wow, So I'm telling her like at what

472
00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,840
Speaker 1: point do you not see that you're the problem, Like

473
00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:23,520
Speaker 1: do you want me to cut you off too? Like

474
00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,080
Speaker 1: you have to know that you're right wrong and she's.

475
00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:26,560
Speaker 5: Been doing better.

476
00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:27,920
Speaker 2: Are your parents still together?

477
00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:31,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad passed right before my daughter was born,

478
00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,000
Speaker 1: So right before my daughter was Oh, when I was pregnant,

479
00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:37,480
Speaker 1: girl was facing thirteen years fellonies.

480
00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:39,399
Speaker 2: For doing what you're doing.

481
00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:43,919
Speaker 1: I'm selling drugs. I was pregnant with her. Then my

482
00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,080
Speaker 1: father had a stroke. So my dad died when I

483
00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,639
Speaker 1: was eight months pregnant, and I was facing all this

484
00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:50,600
Speaker 1: jail time all during that time. So they said I

485
00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:52,240
Speaker 1: was gonna have a cry baby. They told me to

486
00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:54,160
Speaker 1: get the candles from his funeral and burn it over

487
00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,120
Speaker 1: her and pray. And she was not a cry baby

488
00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:56,440
Speaker 1: at all.

489
00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:58,680
Speaker 2: Now they told you're gonna have a cry baby because

490
00:18:58,680 --> 00:18:59,359
Speaker 2: she was in trouble.

491
00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:00,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, doing a lot of shit.

492
00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:02,520
Speaker 5: No, but a lot of my pastes.

493
00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:05,640
Speaker 1: The one advice I have for young girls is don't

494
00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,400
Speaker 1: be a ride or die. Is not fucking worth it.

495
00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:10,080
Speaker 1: I do not be a ride or die. The one

496
00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,680
Speaker 1: thing that I fucking regret is having that hood mentality,

497
00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,679
Speaker 1: like just being that ride to die and doing this

498
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,040
Speaker 1: and doing that and just being tough like that shit

499
00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,240
Speaker 1: set me back because now I can't leave the country.

500
00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:22,200
Speaker 1: I regret all of that shit.

501
00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:23,960
Speaker 4: That's interesting, like being.

502
00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:29,040
Speaker 3: A child of immigrants who you know, like a lot

503
00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:31,600
Speaker 3: of families are racist because you're coming into America. You're

504
00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:34,399
Speaker 3: like believing stereotypes, and then you bring your kid for

505
00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,720
Speaker 3: like this different environment, and then they become the environment

506
00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:39,840
Speaker 3: in which they grow up in and which that you

507
00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,760
Speaker 3: are racist to get.

508
00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,440
Speaker 1: It never made such. Our church was eighty percent black.

509
00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:48,680
Speaker 1: I went to an international church for I'm thirty five.

510
00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,240
Speaker 1: Over thirty years our church was black. So I'm confused

511
00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,280
Speaker 1: on where does this racism come from?

512
00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:54,760
Speaker 2: Or church?

513
00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:56,439
Speaker 1: What do you y'all? What would y'all expect it from me?

514
00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:57,159
Speaker 4: It's learned?

515
00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:59,160
Speaker 1: How will you be a Christian racist? At the same time,

516
00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,360
Speaker 1: it never made sense to me.

517
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:00,919
Speaker 2: Like till this day.

518
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:02,240
Speaker 1: If I want to talk to her about it, she

519
00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:03,399
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I wasn't racist.

520
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:06,320
Speaker 2: I'm like her, goodbye, how she was her black children?

521
00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:09,760
Speaker 1: She never babysitting one of my kids though, you know,

522
00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:13,679
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, listen, why moved out? Sixteen I moved out.

523
00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:17,120
Speaker 2: I never go back. So she she sees them.

524
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,840
Speaker 4: Sparingly, and she is in the nail industry too.

525
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 1: Or was you just oh she had me in forty seven,

526
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:23,639
Speaker 1: Oh wow, she was.

527
00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:24,320
Speaker 4: Older rom seven.

528
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:27,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so what made you get into the nail industry? People?

529
00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:30,320
Speaker 1: You know, go school, you go do nail. You go

530
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:31,200
Speaker 1: to school, you go do nail.

531
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:34,000
Speaker 5: I did nails, and nails became hustle. Nails is a hustle.

532
00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,919
Speaker 1: Either you get good or you just stay at is

533
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,200
Speaker 1: what you put out. So you have to get good.

534
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:39,719
Speaker 5: So I got good.

535
00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:41,280
Speaker 3: A lot of people don't know that a lot of

536
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 3: Vietnamese people are in the nail industry because during the

537
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:46,440
Speaker 3: Vietnam War when they came here, one of the easiest,

538
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,760
Speaker 3: like one of the quickest trades in cosmetology school is nails.

539
00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,359
Speaker 3: It's like the lowest number.

540
00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 2: Of like.

541
00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 1: Seventies, huh, in the seventies that the nail really took

542
00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 1: over with five been amuse people. So we was having

543
00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,639
Speaker 1: this conversation yesterday on nine because you know, I'm surprised

544
00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't know what because people be saying, oh,

545
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 1: the chop shops, a lot of home text call you know, nails,

546
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 1: so long as the chop shop, it's a derogatory term.

547
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 1: It's racist. But a lot of people like, no, a

548
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,120
Speaker 1: chop chop is you know where you take your cars,

549
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 1: So I say, yeah, that is also. But in the

550
00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 1: nail world they people say the chop shop. It's the

551
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:21,360
Speaker 1: derogatory term. So I was surprised having that conversation yesterday

552
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 1: with a lot of people that they didn't know that.

553
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 1: People say that ship.

554
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:28,880
Speaker 2: I didn't know that. So the chop shop is derogatory, derogatory.

555
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 1: The Asian like, oh, don't go to the chop shop.

556
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:31,720
Speaker 1: You'll go in to the chop shop, which is like

557
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 1: an Asian shop that's not sanitary or do stuff like that,

558
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,639
Speaker 1: you know, like they get you in and out and

559
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:37,359
Speaker 1: you know, rush you.

560
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 5: They call it chop shop.

561
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had no idea neither, can hear you. I

562
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 2: don't know either.

563
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 1: Like a lot of people don't know either.

564
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 2: That is that an East Coast term?

565
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,720
Speaker 1: I don't know now, Like they gotta be questioning because

566
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,880
Speaker 1: I've always heard it when even my shops in Atlanta,

567
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 1: we always said it open.

568
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 2: There it goes.

569
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 4: I'm gonna roll it backward because.

570
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:08,199
Speaker 2: Can not we strong throat. Oh no, so this is

571
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,440
Speaker 2: our backward banana flavor.

572
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 1: Wow, banana, foster banana. We love bananas banana.

573
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: So so what was the thing that helps you turn

574
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 2: your life around this one? Like as far as like

575
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 2: I guess you were in Juvie, got your got your

576
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 2: life together, as far as like starting a business, but

577
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 2: did then? Was it just you were good after that

578
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 2: or you still were struggling?

579
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 1: Then I had my son, so I had to be

580
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: a mom. I was not a great mom, so I was.

581
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 1: I always had him. I always had him full time,

582
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 1: but I used to drop him off and go clubs

583
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 1: and ship. You know.

584
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 5: That was one thing.

585
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 2: Who was who was watching him during that time?

586
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 5: Trap houses? It's terrible.

587
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 1: I was like, he survived everything with me. Sometime I

588
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 1: look at him like how is he now succeed I'm like, damn,

589
00:22:58,320 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 1: You've been.

590
00:22:58,600 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 5: Through everything with me?

591
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: Hop houses are four, you know, because the house I

592
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 1: was in we had no we ain't had no heat,

593
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 1: so me and him used to chop it out all

594
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 1: the time.

595
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 5: I drop them off.

596
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,959
Speaker 1: Anywhere for real, like to go. I was only what

597
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: seventh eighteen so nineteen I was partying, you know, trying

598
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: to do something. But I always had him full time regardless,

599
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 1: I still hadn't.

600
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 2: Full was her. Was his dad involved in his life?

601
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: Yeah when I was living there, but not really. Now

602
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: he got like fucking seven eight kids.

603
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 5: Jeez, you're doing well.

604
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 2: You know, I respect you saying the thing.

605
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 3: You know, a lot of moms would be you be

606
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 3: in your twenties, you being your teens, and it's like

607
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 3: such forbidden, it's so forbidden to be like, yeah I

608
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:35,439
Speaker 3: fucked up.

609
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah I was dropping you off a lot.

610
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, and like and also

611
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 3: being able to have that conversation with your son and

612
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 3: have it publicly and say and I've grown because I

613
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 3: think moms get such get so ridiculed. Even if you're

614
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 3: the only primary parent, niggas are nowhere to be found,

615
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 3: you're still the one ridiculed, not the nigga who's in

616
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 3: mia missing in action.

617
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 1: But you, you know, and you were a kid having a kid, Well,

618
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,880
Speaker 1: my mom always be like, oh, don't let them see

619
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 1: their dads, Like when it comes to like Asian families,

620
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 1: or when if you break up or you have a divorce,

621
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: normally the mom takes the kids and the dad never

622
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 1: is never to be seen ever again.

623
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 5: So and they don't care. That's like their choice.

624
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: Oh, he don't need to see so my mom used

625
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 1: to always say that, I'm like, no, regardless how shitty his

626
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: dad is, that's not my place because my child will

627
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: hate me in the future. I was always let them

628
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 1: go to your dad until they don't want to. If

629
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 1: they open their mouth and I s they they don't

630
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 1: want to, Okay, they don't have to go, but that's

631
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 1: what their choice they'll make. I would never force that

632
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: on my kids. So both of them make shit, but

633
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: I don't care. Y'all still can go.

634
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 2: You're not you're not cool with the second baby daddy either.

635
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,359
Speaker 5: Oh my, I don't give a fuck.

636
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 1: Don't even I don't talk to none of my exes'

637
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: you're done. The kids have phones. There's no need for

638
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: you to come to a party that I throw. Have

639
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 1: your own fucking party. There's no need to Like, I

640
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,479
Speaker 1: don't really co parent. You have the child, you can

641
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,199
Speaker 1: talk to the child, you can call whatever they speak.

642
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: They have phones. There's no need for you to talk

643
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: to me.

644
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think I think that there's like

645
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 2: this uh fairy tale around like especially I think when

646
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 2: my mom split from their child, that they like are

647
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 2: supposed to make it work. Under any condition, you know

648
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 2: what I mean, even at the expense of your own

649
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 2: well being, because you decided to lay down with this

650
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 2: man and have the baby. So now this person is

651
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 2: permanently a permanent fixture in your life. And it's like, no,

652
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 2: you're allowed to separate. We don't need to go to

653
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 2: Disneyland together. And especially when and especially once they become

654
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 2: of age of like where they can communicate and have

655
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 2: their own relationship. Yeah, I think it's like healthy for

656
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 2: you to be like, yeah, no, thank you.

657
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 1: You have your own family, you have your own life,

658
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 1: have my own life.

659
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 2: That's how they abuse you.

660
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 3: Thinking they can keep having conversations with you, pulling you

661
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 3: in and talk about shit that you don't give a

662
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,120
Speaker 3: fuck about, like leave me, they.

663
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 1: I mean, and I think it's disrespectful to you're whoever

664
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 1: you with your new partner, Like just what the fuck

665
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: I need to wrap to my baby daddy about, you know,

666
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 1: like I have nothing to talk to you about.

667
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 3: Unless it's like a mature, stand up guy who genuinely

668
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 3: just wants to talk about the kids in their schedule

669
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 3: and like you've done great with your baby daddy choosing

670
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 3: and then in which case it's not disrespectful and I

671
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 3: wish that we could all have dinner together like normal

672
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 3: white people.

673
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: But I think it's different for everybody because I have

674
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 1: friends who are like friends and they'll go out with

675
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: the baby daddies and stuff like that, Like, Yo, great

676
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: for you, that's very mature of you. Like I think

677
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: it just is for everybody has different.

678
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 2: Situations, for sure. Do you think that, like as far

679
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: as your son goes, and like the relationship that you

680
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 2: had with him growing up with like as as a kid,

681
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 2: raising a kid, and now where he's at now, Like

682
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 2: if you guys had those conversations around how he felt

683
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 2: growing up with a mom that was figuring it out.

684
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, we we're very close.

685
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: We talk like I haven't worked in a nail salon

686
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 1: right now, so doing pedicure.

687
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 2: I love.

688
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: So he started he wanted to go to try to

689
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 1: charter school, so he's at this charge of school. So

690
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 1: that's the only reason I'm doing nails because of him.

691
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: So it's Monday and Wednesday. He don't have his license yet,

692
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: he just have his permit, so I ride with him

693
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 1: and then I've worked at the shop those two days.

694
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 5: So we're in here. You might as well. I started

695
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 5: working at sixteen, you might as well start working. So

696
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 5: he's been doing pedicures and nails.

697
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: But he opposed to it.

698
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 4: He's like okay, he's like okay.

699
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 5: Yeah he loved Now he does a really good job.

700
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 2: And then how does you have a daughter? Eleven?

701
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: Eleven is different me and haven't have the same personality.

702
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 2: When you say, say what she's like more quiet.

703
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 1: Quiet, She's quiet. She do not like people. She don't talk.

704
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 1: She acts like a mind like. It got to a

705
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 1: point where juice, like you have to say high back

706
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: is giving disrespectful now you know what I'm saying, Like,

707
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,920
Speaker 1: I understand your introvert, but you have to be respectful

708
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: like when we were younger's like elder talk to you

709
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: have to say back. It's just to be you know,

710
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 1: she's shady, not the cancer leo leo.

711
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 4: Maybe it don't come out later when she's older.

712
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's a good kid. She's they're both really

713
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 1: good kids.

714
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 2: Do you want more kids? Yeah? I do? How many

715
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 2: more are you trying to have too?

716
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: Only because I don't want to have one and they

717
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: don't have a friend to play with.

718
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 2: You know, I know that you were, but then agate

719
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 2: you like I don't want to fuck this body yet.

720
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 2: Do you know any surgeries I had? Like you, how

721
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 2: many surgeries that you have? Space?

722
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: I have everything, boots, stomach, ass. I saw that space,

723
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: I saw that ass.

724
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:58,200
Speaker 2: That cat.

725
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 3: I said, I don't know women, but I know, but

726
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 3: me to means ain't necessarily built like that.

727
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 1: Now we built flat, flat face, flat back of the head,

728
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: flat ass these asses.

729
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna I'm gonna smoke my banana foster back

730
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 3: match box. It's ours manifest how we manifest over our weeds.

731
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 2: So let's just put a little little voo and ship.

732
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 4: Manifest with the backwood.

733
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 3: Get all the things that you want before inhaling and

734
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 3: exhaling all the bullshit.

735
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 2: A manifested, bigger ass like me, me too, I mean,

736
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 2: I want go get it, go get that ass, give

737
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 2: me the fat. I work.

738
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: I work with Miami, like plastic surgery there in Miami.

739
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: I literally just took three of my friends.

740
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: Are let me disco might girl, I might need to

741
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 2: get a reap.

742
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: I took care of them afterwards, really pick up medicine

743
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: and food and cooking.

744
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 2: I did it. We literally just did it three weeks ago.

745
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 2: I get my booms and the dollars girl for BBL.

746
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: Thirty five thirty five. Okay, they're great. I've been working

747
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: with them for like what three four years? Thirty five

748
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: hundred dollars for as that's it?

749
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 2: And how long can you not say six weeks?

750
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: With girl?

751
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 5: My fucking riding around? Like you give BBO pillow?

752
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 2: And where do you take the fat from?

753
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 4: Anywhere?

754
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 5: You can't, you're too small.

755
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 2: You can brought some of mine? You can't. You can't,

756
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 2: you can't.

757
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 1: And that's the problem with me, Like I literally can

758
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: sit here and like you look at a women star dissecting,

759
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: but you can get, but you should get.

760
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 2: Tell me what should I get?

761
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't force no body down.

762
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 2: I already had my My titties are done, but they

763
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,719
Speaker 2: might need to re bb girl, just a little bit,

764
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 2: not a little baby. When are you going to get back?

765
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: You have to get ashots?

766
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 5: But is illegal?

767
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 1: So that's what I had. There's legal ashots, of course,

768
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: it's still legal.

769
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 2: Been legal. That's what I got.

770
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: I got illegal ashots, so those are.

771
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 2: That's not a fact. You didn't watch The Beauty of

772
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 2: Black Oh was that the new show on Netflix? Yeah?

773
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 5: The Tyler Peer one.

774
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I keep hearing about that.

775
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 2: Are they what are they doing that? Are they getting

776
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 2: a shouts in there?

777
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, she got ash in there.

778
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: But it's crazy because the girl who got ashes in

779
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: there and she like went to the hospital and her

780
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 1: name was Rain, the girl that hooked me up in

781
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: my ashot her she's my friend who was a stripper,

782
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: and she went into a comas. That's how my shit

783
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: ended because I was putting girls on back then too

784
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:27,719
Speaker 1: fast for a long time.

785
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 2: Since I was eighteen. She was that's all from shots.

786
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: Well, No, when I got the ashots, I was still

787
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: only like a size five, size six, but then I

788
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: had my daughter and it all spread. So I'd be like,

789
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 1: my ass is like seventy five percent real because it

790
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: didn't blow up until after I had my daughter since

791
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: I got pregnant.

792
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 2: So you haven't touched your ass since I did.

793
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: Recently, I just got some something was drooping down here,

794
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: so I got that sucked out.

795
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 5: With stuff like that, just reshaping.

796
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 2: Are you beautiful? They do look great?

797
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 1: They got look I'm like, people think I'm like doing

798
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: too much, but I'm like, that's.

799
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 2: What I like.

800
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: I like what I like.

801
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,320
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I appreciate you being honest about it,

802
00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 2: because I think a lot of women want to do

803
00:30:59,960 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 2: it and then go.

804
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 3: To the gym and they're like, I've been working out, bitch, No,

805
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 3: there's no squats that do that.

806
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: You do got to maintain your fake body. That's what

807
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: I hate when I like when I took my friends

808
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, yeall could just to the gym.

809
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 5: No, you can't.

810
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: You fucking if you're genetically you're built wrong. There's nothing

811
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: you can do about. You can't go to the gym

812
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: and fucking lift your titty.

813
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 3: Your Vietnamese ass original would have never no squatted to that.

814
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: And what I do ten thousand squads today.

815
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 2: So you'd be squatting a lot, doing a lot of squats.

816
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 1: I do a lot of cardio now cardio. I just

817
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: do card because I eat a lot, so I had

818
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: to do cardio too. Because like the way that I

819
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: get fat is like because I was thirty pounds heavier

820
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 1: and people be like, well, what do you need to lose?

821
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 5: Where are you going to lose it?

822
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: At You may not see a fat stomach or a

823
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: fat this, but it's body mass. I want to lose

824
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: body masks just.

825
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 2: Like all over all over.

826
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, because when you get life ms, you will blow

827
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: the fuck up. Like bitches will get their body done

828
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: and think that they can even well.

829
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 2: That's what I see, and then the fat moves out

830
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 2: the places. Yeah, really having the big backs.

831
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 1: Your face, your throat, you know.

832
00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'd be looking at women this. We live

833
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: in such a weird world that you could literally be like,

834
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 2: I want that. I mean, but I went about me,

835
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 2: I can't, I don't.

836
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to.

837
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 2: When I went to go to get when I went

838
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 2: originally to get LiPo, and then they were like, you

839
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 2: don't need light bo you need tits. And then I

840
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 2: was like do I I was not there for I

841
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 2: love for titties. I didn't even get because they were

842
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 2: talking about they were well at the time they said

843
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 2: that my probably it's still probably true that my, because

844
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 2: I have like a little bit of loose skin that

845
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 2: getting LiPo was just was just gonna make the skin

846
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 2: looser underneath it.

847
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I've rocked that loose elephant as stomach for

848
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: a while before I got a tommy tuck. You covered

849
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: it with the tattoo or something. Well, I I fucked

850
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 1: up my tummy tuck because I was smoking cigarettes. I

851
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: was smoking and that shit kills your skin, so like

852
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: it just died.

853
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 5: So I had to wear this whole fucking machine.

854
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 2: I had this.

855
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: It's like a thing like grow back the skin, the

856
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 1: blood and stuff like that.

857
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 2: Stimulate the cells, like stimulate the blood circular like vampire

858
00:32:58,200 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 2: official think.

859
00:32:59,160 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 4: It probably like moves.

860
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 2: No.

861
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: No, it's like a machine that pushes oxygen to the scar.

862
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 2: So did it work.

863
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, my skin grew back, So wow, girl, because that

864
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: ship was dead. And I used to carry that backpack.

865
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: It was in Atlanta, and I remember because I seen

866
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: this some podcasts. I was on some podcasts and I

867
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: had that book bag and I carried this book bag

868
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: because it was like it was it.

869
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 2: Was in motion.

870
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and everybody's like, what the is that noise? I'm

871
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: like work and the security is like, you can't.

872
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: Take that in. I'm like, it's connected to my stomach.

873
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna club with his backpack of the oxygen

874
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: tank in there like audio.

875
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call Memi when I get my boothstone so

876
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 3: she could be my nurse.

877
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, because she said he's don't hurt girl, don't you know?

878
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: The Q was like a full b Yeah, yeah, or

879
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: a full b but even like you think that you

880
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 1: can gain weight, to get a BBL, you have to

881
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 1: gain good fat, so that fat has to be on

882
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: your body for like at least sixty eight months.

883
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 3: I could never if I if I come out or

884
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 3: to ask you guys, I got the illegal ship because

885
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 3: I can't gain weight.

886
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 4: It's just not gonna happen.

887
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 2: It would have to be the legal ship.

888
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 3: I'm gonna wait till I another baby and bars feed

889
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 3: that baby, and then I'm gonna go and get the booms.

890
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: Why not? Like I have a lot of friends, like

891
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: a lot of women that are going in their forties

892
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: like fuck it.

893
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 2: What I mean?

894
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I've done my forty years. Give me some boobs.

895
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 2: M hmm.

896
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 1: A lot of time when I promoted be like, oh,

897
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be pushing this for women.

898
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 2: Like let me tell you right now, maybe all the

899
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 2: pictures that are listening right now that heard the book,

900
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 2: the BBLS thirty five hundred, they're about to be in

901
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 2: your DMS or the doctor's DM. They needn't give you

902
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 2: a discount code because you just you just get thirty

903
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 2: five hundred, but your discount cod or thirty five hundred

904
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 2: just every day, all the time.

905
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 1: I do giveaways and everything, like I did meet and

906
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 1: Greenen Rivers that I gave away like two bbls to

907
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: three light bos, like.

908
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 3: Not two bbls life, one bb out for you, one

909
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,439
Speaker 3: lfe out for you. Dead is like, well, I'm gonna

910
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 3: have to use your plug, gonna go get the boobs done.

911
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 4: Because you seem like you.

912
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: Can get sailing for only twenty five hundred dollars.

913
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 2: Twenty five hundred dollars.

914
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: When I be fucking driving out here, driving to LA

915
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 1: and I see the billboard and it'd be like seventy

916
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: two hundred for sailing tists, I'm like crazy, Miami's only

917
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: twenty five hundred. They'd be robbing people out in galley.

918
00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: Ain't no fucking way.

919
00:34:59,239 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 2: You hear that.

920
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 3: If you're l a getting your boobs and you're getting wrong,

921
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:02,760
Speaker 3: I'm having.

922
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 5: It's like clockwork in Miami. Everybody does.

923
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 3: Miami is like a plastic surgery hub. Like it's it's

924
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 3: it's almost like a like a how do you say

925
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 3: your status?

926
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 2: Like it just makes make sure like you got money. Yeah,

927
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 2: big teeth and like big ass and big.

928
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 3: Even the guys have like fake apps they have the botching.

929
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 2: And then I got to then you have a little

930
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 2: like yellow as like.

931
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,240
Speaker 1: What I had some abs before. But now I notice

932
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: the difference.

933
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 2: I can see it.

934
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 1: I don't want my man to go like gay boys.

935
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean I've seen some straight guys with.

936
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,320
Speaker 3: I just had a high thought. What is it but

937
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 3: your high thought? This is our segment high thoughts. You're

938
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 3: not high, but.

939
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 2: That was always gives me high thoughts. I know I

940
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 2: got high immediately. My hot thought is so when we

941
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 2: die and we're in like and I just can't wait

942
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 2: to see what like when they unearthed us, unearthed all

943
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: of us, all of us visions from the caskets, what

944
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 2: the is gonna be there?

945
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: And you can't take it to the grave, Yes I can't.

946
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 2: I haven't ye porcelain fillers. I was having a high

947
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 2: thought the other day. I wrote it down because I

948
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: was like, I need to bring this up on high thoughts.

949
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 2: I was like, I wrote it. I did. I was like,

950
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 2: do spirits sleep? And I said, do angels? Fuck you?

951
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 2: What's going on there? Do spirits sleep? I would have

952
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,439
Speaker 2: to say, you don't need ever. They don't need food

953
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 2: or sleep. That's why like this is such an they

954
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 2: have sex, they have are having sex.

955
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 3: They have energetic energy sex, like it's so much bigger

956
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 3: than regular sex. This is why this isn't a unique

957
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 3: like a unique opportunity to be human, because we're not

958
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 3: able to touch, you know, so this is like a

959
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 3: unique opportunity to eat, to fuck, you know, to be like,

960
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 3: oh my.

961
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 2: God, I loved you many touch.

962
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: Like when they say everlasting life and then you go

963
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: to heaven. What are we doing in heaven? Is that

964
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: movies is there?

965
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 2: Because they are the low level spirits that are probably

966
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: like still not evolved, like they're never going to like

967
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 2: really like go to really transpire to the other side

968
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 2: because they're a little ghetto and they're still causing drama

969
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 2: up in the middle in the mid space.

970
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 3: If I was gonna be an angel, I would be

971
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 3: fucking a lot because you can't get pregnant, could you

972
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 3: there's no STV?

973
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: Could you get pregnant?

974
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:18,280
Speaker 2: Could you have a spirit baby?

975
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: What is after life that I'm always curious?

976
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 2: I mean spirit.

977
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,839
Speaker 3: STDs, if you could design an afterlife? No, that's why

978
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 3: that's why you could be like a spirit ho. It's

979
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 3: like if you're good and.

980
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,439
Speaker 1: You're still working, because who's gonna do my nails? Who's

981
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: going to do my hair?

982
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 3: They got angel hose, angel host. I'm gonna be an

983
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 3: angel house. And then like there'll be no judgment, so

984
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 3: your boyfriend can't judge. You still love you and you

985
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 3: come home after being a house.

986
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: It's a spirit life like a human life can't be

987
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: It has to be better, right, But what is better?

988
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 4: We will I guess we won't know.

989
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, what what's better than fucking? I gotta ask my

990
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,839
Speaker 2: guys send me the like I never.

991
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: Saw my dad after like he passed, but then one

992
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: time I did and in my dreams and it was

993
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: my dad and a little girl running around. But I

994
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,720
Speaker 1: didn't know who the little girl was when I was dreaming.

995
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: But when I woke up, I remember my oldest sister.

996
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 1: She passed when she was about two three years old,

997
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 1: so I had to be that little girl together and

998
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: red and I was like, I told my mom she

999
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 1: was wearing red and she's like, yeah, your sister was

1000
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 1: buried in a red shirt.

1001
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 5: But in the dream it was so eerie.

1002
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 1: It was so confusing because he kept saying it hurts,

1003
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm about to die, and I was like, well, you're

1004
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 1: already dead. He's about to die again. I'm like, why

1005
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: are you dying again? Like what's going on? Like where

1006
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: are you going now? Like what do you mean you're

1007
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 1: dying again? And when I woke up, the PlayStation was on,

1008
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: so it was like it was very eerie, but that.

1009
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 2: Was the only PlayStation. Meant what does that mean there? Oh,

1010
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 2: like he was playing.

1011
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: Spirit Travels through Energy, Right, he was there, But that's

1012
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: my only time dreaming about him.

1013
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 5: But it just still does makes sense today.

1014
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: What do you mean you're dead?

1015
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 5: What do you mean you're dead? You're dying again?

1016
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: Now I haven't even more questions to go somewhere else,

1017
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 1: And now you're getting kicked out of there and you're

1018
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: dying again.

1019
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 2: Like maybe he was. Maybe he's stuck in between and

1020
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 2: he needs you to like, you know, listen, leave him

1021
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 2: an offering. Feet I'm give him some water, leave him

1022
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:57,479
Speaker 2: some fruit.

1023
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: Like in Vinery's culture, like they they don't celebrate birthdays,

1024
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: but they celebrate the data to die. So they have

1025
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 1: like a memorial party. They cook a whole bunch and

1026
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: they pray and stuff like that.

1027
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 2: And my nail shop, they have alter and they have

1028
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 2: offerings like a lot of them are they A lot of.

1029
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 3: Them have Buddha on them though a lot of the

1030
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:18,760
Speaker 3: Buddhists are Vietnamese, usually Buddhist or Christian Buddhists.

1031
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 5: But I thing my family is the only Baptist.

1032
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:26,959
Speaker 1: I don't specifically like, my dad's a pastor. My dad's

1033
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,399
Speaker 1: a pastor. And then back in the wartime, he needs

1034
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: to get beat up and once they catch him preaching.

1035
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 2: He was a Baptist in Vietnam.

1036
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 1: Yes, it was not pastor. Yeah, it wasn't allowed during Communists.

1037
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 1: So they would catch him and they would beat his

1038
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,439
Speaker 1: ass and they lock him up for preaching the word God.

1039
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: So that was I've always been different. I feel like

1040
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: my family has always been different than most Asians.

1041
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 2: Wow.

1042
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 3: Well but before you guys, when we were off camera,

1043
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 3: we asked her to pull the card and she was.

1044
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 2: Like, cars, it matches my outfit.

1045
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, so tell me what's the king?

1046
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 5: I pulled the King of.

1047
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: Time.

1048
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 4: I'm probably a little spiritual witch.

1049
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 2: You probably have all I am.

1050
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 1: No, I went through a whole spiritual journey.

1051
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: My friend called me the other day and she was like.

1052
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm candding second hand.

1053
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, should be open and so she

1054
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 2: doesn't you're getting paranoid.

1055
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:18,959
Speaker 3: But you hit it once on eighty five South, you could,

1056
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 3: you could, you can handle a little second hand.

1057
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 2: It's okay. It's a good mom's blunt. It's different. I

1058
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 2: hit it, prayed over it. The good mom's backwould, but

1059
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 2: hits a little different. Meme. My friend called the other day.

1060
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 2: I was like, girl, I have to tell you something, like, God,

1061
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 2: I slept with this guy and we didn't use a condom.

1062
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 2: I was like, bitch you and everybody's like she was

1063
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 2: like for real, I was like a girl, Yeah, oh

1064
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 2: I was. I was like, yeah, it happens. She was distraught. Yeah,

1065
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,439
Speaker 2: I mean I get it, and she didn't. Yeah, because

1066
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 2: he's a hope and I get it. She probably needs

1067
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 2: to go get tested. But yeah, I don't. I think

1068
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 2: that also once your mom, Like, I don't think you

1069
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:53,839
Speaker 2: has be moms and not use condos, But I think

1070
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 2: after you've created life and life has come out of

1071
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 2: your body, like, it's a little bit harder to put

1072
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 2: the separation between. It's always been hard. I think I

1073
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:02,479
Speaker 2: think it's both.

1074
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:07,399
Speaker 1: No, we're fucking we're together, are your relationship relationship? We're

1075
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 1: together because I don't just fuck anybody.

1076
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 4: You go from my relationship to the next.

1077
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, whoever I decided to fuck, we're together, We're in

1078
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: a relationship, and I'm not needing to con them because

1079
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 1: that we're in a relationship. Gotten them for But I

1080
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: don't have a lot of high count I don't have

1081
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 1: a high count them.

1082
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:21,879
Speaker 2: Then how long were you married?

1083
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: For?

1084
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 2: Ten years? Ten years? So in that ten year I

1085
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 2: never cheated? Never.

1086
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 1: No, I can't even cheat in my dreams, like dream

1087
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 1: trying to fucking cheating my trickenet that for me, I

1088
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 1: have to be done with a person completely, like I

1089
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:38,760
Speaker 1: have to cut you off completely.

1090
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:39,359
Speaker 5: Then I move on.

1091
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 2: Well, that means your your karma is pretty clean then,

1092
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 2: especially in that regard.

1093
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: I do a lot of the deeds that are unset

1094
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:46,760
Speaker 1: or unseen.

1095
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 2: Try to live for my good karma. Was your divorced smooth?

1096
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 2: Was it easy? No? It was horrible? Could know?

1097
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 1: Okay, it's very complicated. So when I got married, I

1098
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 1: went to the courthouse, Well what was I only did

1099
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: it because we had a wedding, but we didn't sign papers,

1100
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:03,439
Speaker 1: so we just had a ceremony like a party.

1101
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 2: And this is not you don't have kids with this,

1102
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 2: so I went to.

1103
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: The courthouse to do do the marriage license. The girl

1104
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 1: was like, oh, girl, just come to your house and

1105
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: do it for you, you know. So she came over

1106
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 1: to the house, she did it. She never put the

1107
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 1: paperwork in, so I had to sign, but I never

1108
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: had the printed. So when we had the whole bad breakup,

1109
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:20,839
Speaker 1: I went to the courthouse and I was like, hey,

1110
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: kind of file for a divorce and she was like,

1111
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 1: the courthouse is like, oh, there's no paper, you're not married.

1112
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:26,400
Speaker 5: They never finished it.

1113
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking that I don't have to get a divorce,

1114
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 1: and then I get audited by the I r S

1115
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 1: and now the IRS, and I need proof of a

1116
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: fucking divorce. So I literally just got my divorced paper

1117
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: two months.

1118
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 2: Ago because did you think, oh my god, I was

1119
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 2: never even married.

1120
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but now.

1121
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:40,439
Speaker 2: There's according to the IRS.

1122
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 1: Said, yes, I need to fucking sue the courthouse because

1123
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: I'm paying all these I R S fines because I,

1124
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: you know, was following marriage and then following a head

1125
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,479
Speaker 1: of households. I'm getting fined so all this ship they need.

1126
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 5: To pay for it.

1127
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 1: When you talked to the lawyer and then he never

1128
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: called me back.

1129
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 2: So would you get married again? Yeah, dude, okay, good.

1130
00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:59,760
Speaker 2: A lot of people that when they have I guess

1131
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 2: traumatic breakups or divorces, they're like, yeah, never again, not necessary.

1132
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 2: You would get married like paperwork married.

1133
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I think so. I think I have to

1134
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 1: do it the right way. I think I did it

1135
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: way you got. The Asian people are fucking scammers. Like

1136
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 1: a lot of people do that because you know, I

1137
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: need to be on like food stamps and ship. You know,

1138
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 1: like if I get married, then you get I can't

1139
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: get my food stamp, my medicares. Oh you can't if

1140
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 1: you get care, you get married to be a two

1141
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 1: income household.

1142
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 2: Oh wow?

1143
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I was on.

1144
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,439
Speaker 2: I was on a government assistant for a long time.

1145
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 4: I didn't recognize it.

1146
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:30,359
Speaker 2: If you're married, you can't get government I mean.

1147
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: I mean both of y'alls broke then yeah, you still

1148
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: can write, but yeah, yeah.

1149
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 2: Do you want me to read your tarot cards? Okay?

1150
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 5: Scared?

1151
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 2: Are you ready? Okay? King of Ones, the King of.

1152
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 6: Wands, Well, apparently you're a national born leader, natural born leader, vision, entrepreneur,

1153
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:00,760
Speaker 6: and honor. The King of Wands represent it pure fire

1154
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 6: energy in its masculine form. Unlike the other wand courts,

1155
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 6: the King is not so interested in creation and creativity,

1156
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,280
Speaker 6: or in dreaming up ideas and implementing them himself. Instead,

1157
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 6: he is more inclined to take an idea and then

1158
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 6: enlist others to help him actualize it. Thus, when the

1159
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 6: King of WANs appears in a terror reading, it's a

1160
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 6: sign you are stepping into a role of visionary leader,

1161
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 6: ready to direct your people towards a common goal. You

1162
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:22,720
Speaker 6: have a clear vision of where you want.

1163
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 2: To go, and now you're manifesting that vision with the

1164
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:27,800
Speaker 2: support of others around you. The King of WANs reminds

1165
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 2: you to lead your life with intent, vision and a

1166
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 2: long term view. You have a grand idea of what

1167
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 2: is truly possible, and you will stop at nothing to

1168
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,800
Speaker 2: see it through. Yeah.

1169
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: I think a lot of my readings like are good,

1170
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: Like couldn't I like you know how like Asian people

1171
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: have the Chinese zodiac and the horse and when you

1172
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 1: read that up it just it fits me towards fit me.

1173
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 1: That fits me a lot. Yeah, this is like, you know,

1174
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,479
Speaker 1: being in a nail shop. You know, like my vision

1175
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 1: is a nail shop. Now I have all these employees

1176
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 1: and where do I want to go with it?

1177
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:57,439
Speaker 2: And you're directing them.

1178
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: I like being around groups of people, like I can

1179
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: be in a house full of girls. You know, I

1180
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 1: did it growing up in group homes and detentions, and

1181
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 1: I ran almost.

1182
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 5: All of them.

1183
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 2: Then I ran all ran, Are you mad me?

1184
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: Yeah? I have been, Yeah, I have been. I have

1185
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,399
Speaker 1: this way. I have ways with women. I have ways

1186
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: with women like I don't get in like fights arguments

1187
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: with my friends like that, like we get along. I

1188
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 1: get along well with women. I do it will win

1189
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: all day and you know when when I'm doing now

1190
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 1: or whether I'm out and.

1191
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 2: About, Like, I think that's I mean, I think it's

1192
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,720
Speaker 2: a gift. I mean obviously that you probably had before,

1193
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 2: but I think working in service of women, you actually

1194
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 2: you actually serve women too in a lot of ways.

1195
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 2: I mean, they obviously they pay you, but you're you're

1196
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 2: in service to them. You're making them feel beautiful, You're

1197
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 2: making them feel confident, and I probably I'm assuming.

1198
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 5: That that's how men don't know me.

1199
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: So like I've walked past a couple of the wife

1200
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,240
Speaker 1: it is like, oh my god, it's me me, honey,

1201
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: you don't know me me.

1202
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 5: Like, men don't know me.

1203
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 1: I look like this. Men just don't give a fun

1204
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: They do not know me.

1205
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 2: Would you say most of your audience as women?

1206
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: Then yeah, mostly all women.

1207
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 5: I mean that's range is crazy.

1208
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: Age would be like fucking ten years old or fucking

1209
00:45:59,040 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 1: eighty seven.

1210
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 2: You know, how did you meet your current partner stretch?

1211
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: We were we dated when I dated my ex husband.

1212
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 1: I dated both of them at the same time. But

1213
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 1: at the time he wasn't ready to like move in

1214
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 1: be you know, be in a relationship. But my ex

1215
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 1: was a bum so he's very moving. And then I remember,

1216
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: I told you only have one type?

1217
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 2: So after what is your type? Tell us telling people

1218
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 2: what your type is?

1219
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 1: Tall, slim head, you dread head you're from you know DMV,

1220
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: Like that's my type.

1221
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:30,439
Speaker 5: I don't have one type.

1222
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened to me during that time,

1223
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 1: Like something happened mentally during that time during my club era,

1224
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 1: like after I had my son, and it's like that

1225
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 1: that was like the look in like the area, and

1226
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 1: so I've been stuck with that look for a long time.

1227
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 1: That's what I'm attracted to. I don't really look at

1228
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: other men. I don't really look at men. Like a

1229
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 1: man who walked by right now, I wouldn't be like,

1230
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck, you know, but a beautiful

1231
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: woman walk by, I'll break my neck. So so I

1232
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,960
Speaker 1: have this one type. So after I broke broke oup

1233
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: my ex and I had dated this other guy who

1234
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 1: couldn't stand me, I was like, lord, can you please?

1235
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 1: I was like, I need to get over him. So

1236
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: you know, you need to replace I'm one of those women.

1237
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: I need another somebody to replace it for me to

1238
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: move on.

1239
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. There's no there's no like

1240
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 2: that moment, the little era of being alone.

1241
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 4: And tapping into yourself.

1242
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 2: This is annoying. It doesn't work. That doesn't work.

1243
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: I went to therapy and ship.

1244
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 2: I'm still how do you know it works? But if

1245
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:21,399
Speaker 2: you ain't done it, I did. I tried to work.

1246
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: I went to therapy.

1247
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 2: How long How long did you? How long have you

1248
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: ever been single in between relationships?

1249
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 5: Oh no, that's not thing.

1250
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 2: One month, one week, two weeks.

1251
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 1: Because I mean I was still talking.

1252
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 2: You see that she went and got stretched. Are you

1253
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 2: ready yet, nigga? Yeah? Technically you weren't you known physically cheap,

1254
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 2: but you might keep an emotional attachment in your back pocket,

1255
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 2: so then you can kind of jump to the next.

1256
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 1: Not necessarily like I. I think it's good because I

1257
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: have one time I'll talk to that person, like I

1258
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: kind of know who, like how most women are, because

1259
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:49,919
Speaker 1: I'm really like dating.

1260
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 2: I don't like the hey, how are you?

1261
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 7: Like?

1262
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:53,760
Speaker 1: Someone asked I was trying to date and it was annoying,

1263
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: like the one guy was like, he was like, oh,

1264
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: I know you, Oh you know me. Then I was

1265
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 1: like and I was like, so you have dated Asian

1266
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:02,839
Speaker 1: and he was like, oh no, but I fucked them

1267
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: first off, that was disrespectful, right, And then I was like, well,

1268
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 1: I was like, he said something you like black guys.

1269
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:10,359
Speaker 1: I like, bitch, you say you follow me? Clearly see

1270
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 1: my black kids you're talking about. So that irritated me.

1271
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:15,959
Speaker 1: But no, so then I asked God. I was like, Lord,

1272
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: can you please just send me a fucking dread so

1273
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: I can move on, you know, so I can move

1274
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 1: on from this chapter. As much as we want to say,

1275
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: oh self care, you need to work on yourself. You

1276
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 1: need to be alone, you lure therapy, you need to

1277
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,959
Speaker 1: learn how to love yourself. That works for some people

1278
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 1: and doesn't work for everybody.

1279
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

1280
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 1: Like I tried it, it didn't work. I'm still fucking miserable,

1281
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 1: Like I don't be here, like I fucking try to

1282
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,320
Speaker 1: try the therapy, I try to be alone.

1283
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 2: I don't like it.

1284
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: I didn't ready to be in an next relationship because

1285
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: I was crying all the time. Why the fuck am

1286
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 1: I crying? Like off this is And he's like, oh,

1287
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 1: you need to work on yourself. No, you just don't

1288
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: like me, so you make me cry. The fact that

1289
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 1: you don't like me, no one view with me and

1290
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: you're making me cry, so you know, and once I

1291
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: got with stressed, I stopped crying crying more, you know,

1292
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 1: like some things work for some people.

1293
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 2: Self care sometimes work. But you know, how long have

1294
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 2: you all been together? Almost five years now? Oh no?

1295
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 2: So yeah. So I was dating them at the same time.

1296
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,879
Speaker 1: And when I was really done with the other guy,

1297
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 1: I went in my DM and he was like, hey,

1298
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 1: you remember me, Yeah, bitch, I remember you. I always

1299
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 1: wanted to be with you. You always what do you

1300
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: mean where the fuck you've been at? And people were like,

1301
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: oh so, so people were joking like, oh, she always

1302
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:15,799
Speaker 1: has stretching her phone.

1303
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 5: It's pizza.

1304
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: No, we just we haven't talked for ten those ten years,

1305
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: like we never talked. We never we lost contact. But

1306
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: I knew I always wanted to be with him because

1307
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: you're the one with the light eyes and tattoos. Your

1308
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: hair was longer than you're the one, you know. So

1309
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: like when people would be like, oh, she she has

1310
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: a type, and he would get mad, he'd be like, no,

1311
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: I was around before him. You know, I'm the fucking original,

1312
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 1: you know.

1313
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 2: But I was like, okay, I thought.

1314
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: And then he was out here and I had moved

1315
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 1: back to the DMV, and then I was like, well,

1316
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna be together. Somebody has to move. I was like,

1317
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 1: I ain't got a real job. I'm on my way.

1318
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:45,839
Speaker 5: I packed up and moved.

1319
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 2: I'm'm closing all these shops I got open out there.

1320
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:50,439
Speaker 1: No, it was COVID, so all the shops were closed.

1321
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 1: I sold my house, I sold my shops, I sold dogs,

1322
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: sold everything, and I left Atlanta and went back to

1323
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: the DMV.

1324
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 5: And you you date women, No, I don't date when,

1325
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 5: never never dated women.

1326
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 1: We have threesomes women, Yes, Do you have rules.

1327
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 5: We're very different, so I don't get jealous.

1328
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: I do not get jealous. And a lot of my

1329
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 1: friends is like, how do you have three someomes? And

1330
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: how are you so confident? How do you not get jealous?

1331
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 5: How are you do this?

1332
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm a professional. I wasn't always like that,

1333
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 1: but I'm a very professional three some having a person?

1334
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 2: Can you give us the steps? Give us, give us

1335
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 2: like a few tips on being.

1336
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: Because a lot of times women think that, oh, the

1337
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 1: other person is trying to come in and like take

1338
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:36,120
Speaker 1: over your life or like have y'all cheap, But whole

1339
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: time they're just trying to get a fuck. They're just

1340
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 1: trying to bust the nut, you know what I'm saying.

1341
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,360
Speaker 1: And my vision with three some is like this is

1342
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: like a it's like a toy. This is like a

1343
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 1: wander or something like. It's a it's a toy for

1344
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: the night. But he is very strict. I'm the opposite,

1345
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 1: you know. He'd be like, these bitches need to get out.

1346
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 1: I bust in my nud, they need to go. I'm

1347
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,320
Speaker 1: more like, you want to have lunch.

1348
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 2: And lunch with these bitches? Do you want me to cook?

1349
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 2: I'll do now.

1350
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't mind, Like polygamy, I wouldn't mind. I

1351
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 1: wouldn't mind at all. But he's he's not down for it.

1352
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 4: Probably that's too much mothers.

1353
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, bitch, you get on my nervous thing.

1354
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: I want to deal with two bitches. Absolutely not. But

1355
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 1: I would be down because I never have like issues

1356
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: in friendships, like I always have fun, like I I

1357
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,760
Speaker 1: know how to have fun with girls, like not just sex,

1358
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: like you know, like doing girl fun stuff like doing

1359
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: your hair, doing.

1360
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,879
Speaker 5: Your makeup, having a friends whole time.

1361
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1362
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 1: So, but he's not down for it. So he always like,

1363
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 1: you're gay, but I'm not gay. I'm not. I'm not

1364
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 1: I'm not gay. I'm bisexual, but I'm not gay because

1365
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: I've never been in a relationship. You don't want to

1366
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 1: be like yeah, solely.

1367
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 2: Or in a relationship.

1368
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: Surprisingly, even though I like made myself to look like this,

1369
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 1: I'm not even attracted. I'm actually attracted to like natural women,

1370
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 1: like a very pretty face. I love a pretty face,

1371
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 1: just the face. I don't care about the body like that. Yeah,

1372
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: kind of like I like a fit, natural.

1373
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 5: Gym body, like they're cute. But I do really like

1374
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 5: a pretty face, So you don't.

1375
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:07,839
Speaker 4: That's the only thing, Just a pretty face.

1376
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: I don't even like bitches that look like me, like

1377
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 1: fucking nails and hair. I'm not attracted to that. I'm

1378
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: actually attracted to like a very natural.

1379
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:16,800
Speaker 2: Have you guys ever had a girlfriend?

1380
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 3: No, he said, no, What about it's like a reoccurring

1381
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 3: three away Yeah, or like one of your homegirls.

1382
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:22,879
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1383
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 5: No, no homegirls. So I'm not allowed to date my friends.

1384
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: I mean when i'm we're not allowed to fuck my friends.

1385
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 2: That's your rule, his rule.

1386
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: We're not allowed too. Yeah, I've moved them all in,

1387
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: but it's like a house.

1388
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:42,440
Speaker 2: Five is too many.

1389
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:46,279
Speaker 3: You keep bringing him home like pets. So kissing everything goes.

1390
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 3: There's there's no, there's never been time like don't do that,

1391
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 3: don't do this.

1392
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 5: Or like we're not really kissers even with each other.

1393
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:56,879
Speaker 2: No tongue. What you got these big old, beautiful ass

1394
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 2: lips for if you're gonna use a bitch. I mean,

1395
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:00,080
Speaker 2: I'll kiss the girls and stuff like that, but you

1396
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 2: know you and you don't kiss your man.

1397
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: We kissed, but not no, we're not tonguing down each other.

1398
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 4: Interesting that everybody wanted to make out.

1399
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 2: No, no, making out. You want to you want to

1400
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 2: make out. You guys want to make up all together,

1401
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 2: all three of us, Okay, everybody coming on.

1402
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 1: No, he's he's o CD.

1403
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 2: Yeah he's a germophobe.

1404
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 1: So no, that's And even when girls come over and

1405
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 1: they'd be like, already took shower home.

1406
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 2: I didn't see it. Get in the shower. You need

1407
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 2: a razor, Like.

1408
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna yo, you gotta be a ball bitch to

1409
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: bring some harry pussy to a three something that's wow.

1410
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 3: Bitch took her whole wig off in the threesome with

1411
00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 3: like straight backs underneath, and I was appalled.

1412
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 5: Okay, so you have three some Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, I.

1413
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 3: Mean I guess I don't have any roles in the threesome.

1414
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 3: I don't really believe in roles in the threesome because

1415
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,439
Speaker 3: who's going to be following roles if you're having sex?

1416
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 2: I meant so, I meant more so, like even like

1417
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 2: the not just the rules of the threesome, but the

1418
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:03,280
Speaker 2: rules of like the dynamic before and after the threesome.

1419
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 2: Are we in group texts? Are we texting each other individually?

1420
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 2: Am I doing the choosing? Like those type of rules

1421
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 2: do you usually do the choosing.

1422
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 1: I think we do together. I mean, like what you

1423
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 1: think you know he's down, Like, oh no, you know

1424
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 1: I'll make them.

1425
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 2: I'm very blunt, are you the recruiter? I was gonna say, yeah, I'm.

1426
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: Straightforward, like you're trying to fuck what.

1427
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 2: They or not?

1428
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:26,359
Speaker 1: I hate me some drunk, fake gay bitches. I can't

1429
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: slam them, like you want to be gay when you're drunk,

1430
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: but you're not moving forward, You're not doing nothing. Have

1431
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:35,959
Speaker 1: some girls like I see them once in a while,

1432
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: like you know, like every time they're gay, I mean

1433
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 1: every time you drunk, they all on me. So this

1434
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: time I was like, fuck y'all bitches. I was like,

1435
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:41,879
Speaker 1: y'all fake gay.

1436
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 2: I don't want to convince a bitch to be gay.

1437
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 1: I don't.

1438
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:47,880
Speaker 2: I'm I move around.

1439
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: But it's it's just so many complicated elements to it too,

1440
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 1: because it's like is the bitch really gay or is

1441
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 1: she really just here for the dick? You know what

1442
00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because there's fake gay girls here fucking man, yeah,

1443
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 1: who just want to fuck my man. And then it's

1444
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 1: like so it's hard to find that to see if

1445
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,359
Speaker 1: the bitch is really gay or not. And then there's

1446
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:07,839
Speaker 1: some girls who like only want to they only hear

1447
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 1: from me because they're being groupies. They only fucking me.

1448
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:12,800
Speaker 1: Like so he's like, is she even attracted to me?

1449
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,240
Speaker 1: Or she's just doing this to get groupie?

1450
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 7: You know.

1451
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: So there's just so many.

1452
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 2: Have you ever had a threesome go wrong where like

1453
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:21,359
Speaker 2: the kids, it goes, it goes the internets and people

1454
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 2: are talking and ship.

1455
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,399
Speaker 1: We don't have that pretty I'm pretty I get along

1456
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 1: well with women, So I don't think I give off

1457
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 1: that energy for a bitch to like expose me or

1458
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 1: hate me.

1459
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:32,799
Speaker 2: And it's really what to expose that? You got fun?

1460
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 2: Like crazy, yeah you got you know, it's crazy as club.

1461
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:46,320
Speaker 1: I'm like Surety was doing splits and doing all types

1462
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: of ship and you know, like giving off real freaky vibes.

1463
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: Get get in there and like rope drive, pussy drivething dry.

1464
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,280
Speaker 1: It was just dry, like no no moaning, no, everything

1465
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:56,839
Speaker 1: just dry.

1466
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 2: It was just like, what the hell is this? Yeah,

1467
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:01,360
Speaker 2: what is this?

1468
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 1: It's not the same person, It's not the same energy.

1469
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:04,360
Speaker 2: Not the splits.

1470
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:07,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, in the club and splits all types of ship

1471
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 1: and they get in the bedroom and it was just

1472
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 1: dry man.

1473
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 3: There definitely has to be. I mean, I don't know

1474
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 3: if we tell each other that like boring pussy. Have

1475
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 3: you heard the three some with two guys?

1476
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 5: That's not a three that's a train.

1477
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 4: Now, it's not funny.

1478
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 2: Do you have two dick?

1479
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 1: Is a train one to and then the two dicksie

1480
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:28,160
Speaker 1: each other.

1481
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:32,280
Speaker 2: That's gay when they see each other. When I see.

1482
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 1: Another I mean, I mean, I'm still very old school.

1483
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 1: I'm still stuff on a double standard. You know, two

1484
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: women's are hot too men, it's not I'm still very

1485
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:46,280
Speaker 1: old school, like double standard.

1486
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 4: They see each other, it's gay.

1487
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:52,719
Speaker 1: You what do you see that's gay? Like?

1488
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 2: I mean, you never you don't watch like the orgy

1489
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 2: category and point I.

1490
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 5: Have it isn't there's too much going on you watch one.

1491
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:06,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, wach your category, bitch eaten another girl, pussy wash.

1492
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 2: Categories. I think we should play a little game we

1493
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 2: have on our show called trigger. Okay, so this explained

1494
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 2: the game to it.

1495
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 3: Okay, she's going to say one word, and you're gonna

1496
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:19,479
Speaker 3: just say the first thing that comes to mind, quick,

1497
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 3: just on your toes, say whatever comes to mind first.

1498
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 2: Bad habits spoken Vapon astrology sign tours, marriage, motherhood.

1499
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 5: That's so terrible.

1500
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:43,040
Speaker 2: Why say that? Cooking religion, Christian? Last time you had

1501
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 2: sex last week? Anal? No eating pussy? Wait, no, Anal,

1502
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 2: I can't, bitch.

1503
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:52,439
Speaker 1: I can't and it hurts so bad.

1504
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 2: That ship hurts so bad.

1505
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: You gotta be staying a little dick in or do that.

1506
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 2: But guy gonna breathe about every wind.

1507
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: I still can't do it.

1508
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 2: It's just you trained it. I try it, just can't.

1509
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 4: You have to do it consistent, and.

1510
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: Then I'll be a fart scared ship gonna come out away.

1511
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 2: As much as I eat. I mean, that could be

1512
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 2: a troublesome situation. You really got to prepare the.

1513
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 1: Ass for wear diaper than because their biggest to know.

1514
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:32,440
Speaker 2: Because the way I heard you be cooking, bitch, I

1515
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:33,479
Speaker 2: definitely don't need to have no anal.

1516
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm explosive. Far is just shipping on myself all day?

1517
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 1: What you do last night, Anal?

1518
00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 5: You can smell it.

1519
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 2: Yourself after an eating pussy?

1520
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 1: Sure?

1521
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:52,919
Speaker 2: Love language, uh, white women, MHM, Asian women, black women,

1522
00:58:54,040 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 2: toxic trait, my mouth, favorite sex position. Last good choice.

1523
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 1: I'm trying to differentiate good choice and bad choice. Last

1524
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: good choice, waking.

1525
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 2: Up happily ever after. Yeah, monogamy, poligat me. Cannabis.

1526
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: Oh, that's a weed. I was looking cannibal.

1527
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 2: I was like, what we were canabis? Oh m hmm,

1528
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 2: too high, cocaine, m.

1529
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 5: Hm, my nose.

1530
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 1: Little I tried that ship.

1531
00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 2: To do cokay. I was on Google.

1532
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:46,439
Speaker 1: I was like, how do you do my nose? Little

1533
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 1: ship went up my nose into my brain, back of

1534
00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 1: my throat all day. I was like, and this shit expensive.

1535
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 1: Ain't no fucking way y'all do this.

1536
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 2: It's only last thirty minutes.

1537
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, should buy EPs?

1538
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 2: Let me have two days? Narcissism, crazy rapping, fun, only

1539
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 2: fans money? Do you have an only fans? Yeah? What

1540
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 2: are you doing on other fans?

1541
01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: My titties? I never showed my pussy, but showing your titties. No.

1542
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:15,400
Speaker 1: I make videos.

1543
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:17,720
Speaker 5: I'm a content creator, so I'm good at making contents

1544
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 5: I have.

1545
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 4: Are you cooking with your titties out?

1546
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 7: No?

1547
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 1: I do? I do soft porn. So I do like

1548
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: HBO After Dark?

1549
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:23,959
Speaker 2: Well we do HBO?

1550
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 1: Yeah we do together?

1551
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 4: Oh okay, have you guys always done it together?

1552
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, we've been doing it for about three years.

1553
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 4: But no, penetration.

1554
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 1: We may be penetration, but I can I angle it

1555
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: where you don't see nothing. I got leaked on Facebook

1556
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 1: like a couple of months ago, and there Facebook, Yeah,

1557
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 1: they were going crazy about it. But I'm like, y'all

1558
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 1: can't see our pussy or our dick, Like it's not

1559
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 1: that big of a deal. You guys, like, I know

1560
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:48,200
Speaker 1: I made this video. How are you going to tell

1561
01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: me about the video? I know I made it, Like,

1562
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 1: oh my god, put it out there?

1563
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? How much you make on only fans?

1564
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 1: A lot?

1565
01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:01,160
Speaker 5: Okay, the most money all things I do, most easy money.

1566
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 2: Most easy money. What was most of your audience Because

1567
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 2: you said your audience on like Instagram YouTube is women,

1568
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1569
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 1: Percent of men they're rocking for me. It might be

1570
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 1: women too, but I have a ten percent of men

1571
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 1: rocking for me.

1572
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 2: I've long been doing only fans three years. Yeah. I

1573
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:17,640
Speaker 2: couldn't even believe it.

1574
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 1: We couldn't believe it. I was like, no, fun, way,

1575
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: this numbers are real. These are real numbers. I should

1576
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: have been did this.

1577
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 2: And then like with your kids, how do they know

1578
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 2: they have?

1579
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: Like, oh what if your kids see you?

1580
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 5: Like my kids not looking you know what I'm saying, Like,

1581
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 5: my kids know wh I do it? They're not looking.

1582
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 1: MoU Why would the would they look? They don't want

1583
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: to go see this ship. They stay in the kids place.

1584
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 2: Did you have to tell them to have a conversation

1585
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 2: with them or it's just I.

1586
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 1: Talk very freely, so you know that they're shocked about

1587
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 1: you know, and like you know, some boys, some kids

1588
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 1: were you know, messing with my son. Oh, we got

1589
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 1: dressed up. We went up to the school.

1590
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 2: Actually I group called.

1591
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:51,280
Speaker 1: All of them, then went up to the principal. You

1592
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And then me and structures outside

1593
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 1: all black.

1594
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 2: Waiting for the kids. Yeah, I think you say in

1595
01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 2: your suit like you I was talking shit.

1596
01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 1: Then I went to the principal.

1597
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 5: I was like, you know, these kids, you don't call

1598
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 5: their parents?

1599
01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 7: You know?

1600
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 1: After that, we never had a problem after that.

1601
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 2: Did he say anything to you like this? He told me.

1602
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, you need to put your hands

1603
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: on them, like my son box he's a boxer. Put

1604
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 1: your hands on them. Sometimes you guys to put your

1605
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 1: hands on people. You're not gonna get in trouble. You

1606
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Don't let nobody talk about your mama.

1607
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 1: You guys, someone say beat the ass, period and then

1608
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: you're not gonna get in trouble. But he's so nice,

1609
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,120
Speaker 1: you know, he's he's kind. But you know, it's not

1610
01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 1: a very big deal. And if my daughter, she don't

1611
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 1: talk to you, So how can you bully somebody who

1612
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: doesn't talk like you know what I'm saying, Like, you

1613
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 1: can't bully somebody who does have no reaction to you,

1614
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: like you don't even.

1615
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 2: Exist to her. So you know that's always been a

1616
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 2: topic discussion.

1617
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:42,080
Speaker 1: But my kid's not looking and they understand what they have,

1618
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like they're they're gonna have

1619
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: a Somebody's like, well, how would you feel.

1620
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 2: If your daughter do this?

1621
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:49,440
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm doing this so my daughter doesn't

1622
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,280
Speaker 1: have to do it. I will put her in a

1623
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 1: position where she doesn't have to. I grew up poor.

1624
01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: I never saw this type of amount of money. You know,

1625
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: I had to bust my ass six days a week

1626
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 1: in a nail shop back hurting. I'm hurting, like six

1627
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: ten fifteen hours per day, six days a week. I'm

1628
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:06,200
Speaker 1: doing this so she never has to do it. She's

1629
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 1: gonna be able to go to college, have whatever career,

1630
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 1: put money on a home, and do whatever she wants.

1631
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 2: M H and I do with my man.

1632
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:16,360
Speaker 1: It's not like they act like I'm always just fucking everybody.

1633
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 1: Hell no, it's just me and my man.

1634
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:22,640
Speaker 2: That's it. You're gonna have sex anyway, right, you know,

1635
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 2: Like it's content.

1636
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 4: You know, how often do you have How often are

1637
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:27,200
Speaker 4: you putting new content out?

1638
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:28,919
Speaker 1: We try to do it once a week.

1639
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:30,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's so much.

1640
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: There's so many different ways to make money on a

1641
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 1: of It's not just like cause you make it subscription.

1642
01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 1: So anything subscription like car washes and Netflix and stuff

1643
01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 1: like anything subscription you're gonna make money from. Right, there's

1644
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 1: residual regardless if you put anything out, there're still subscribed

1645
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 1: and sometimes a lot of people forget their subscribe, so

1646
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:48,440
Speaker 1: the money is constantly coming in. And then the other

1647
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: way is just put sales out. You know, you put

1648
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 1: these content, they buy it. Oh additional yeah, additional Those

1649
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 1: are private messages and you just like mass send it

1650
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 1: out and people can purchase that way.

1651
01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 5: Then they also have live and stuff like that, so

1652
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:00,400
Speaker 5: they have a lot of way in money.

1653
01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 2: It's been very tempting.

1654
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 1: Hopped on it.

1655
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, You could just slide around

1656
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 2: and baby like, I don't have no.

1657
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:12,640
Speaker 1: Shame in my game. Like when people bring that up

1658
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 1: and think it's like, you know, oh, it's gonna like

1659
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 1: affect me or embarrassment, I'm like, my bills are paid. Yeah,

1660
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:20,840
Speaker 1: bill paid more money save than ever in my life,

1661
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 1: you know, So you can't shame me, bitch.

1662
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 4: Not this economy.

1663
01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:31,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it does take like a certain

1664
01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 2: person who really knows herself to be able to stand

1665
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 2: and and especially a decision like that, because you are

1666
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 2: going to get so much pushback, you are going to

1667
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 2: have a lot of people who love opinions, and especially

1668
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 2: because you're a mother, because being a mom puts another

1669
01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 2: level of like shame on women in general and this

1670
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 2: expectation of us having to show up a certain way.

1671
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 1: So I got to be strong. For social media.

1672
01:04:57,200 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 2: It's social media, it's also your family. I mean, it's

1673
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 2: it's like people are going to talk all the time regardless.

1674
01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 5: But they're not paying your bills.

1675
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:07,520
Speaker 2: So that's true. What does it matter boxes or briefs

1676
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 2: for your nigga?

1677
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm like, what is what.

1678
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 2: Briefs? The short under the panties are no panties.

1679
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 5: Cameo, No commando, came.

1680
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 1: Commando.

1681
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 2: Camerameal camera.

1682
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 4: That was the type of panty like, no panties.

1683
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: Girl, his ass, that should be wedgie full time.

1684
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 2: I hate it? Turn on? Uh, turn on?

1685
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:41,840
Speaker 5: Why is this so hard?

1686
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 2: Turn on?

1687
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 1: Touch me?

1688
01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 2: Turn off? Turn off? Here masturbation, Oh a rose, Oh bitch,

1689
01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 2: celebrity crash.

1690
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: She's too young.

1691
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 5: I've always been Lord London, Lauren London.

1692
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. And then, last, but not least, what's one

1693
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 2: thing people would be surprised about you?

1694
01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 5: One thing people be surprised about me?

1695
01:06:15,600 --> 01:06:19,439
Speaker 1: I can sleep seventeen to twenty hours straight without waking

1696
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 1: up and want to the bathroom. Okay, it's so fucking

1697
01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:29,040
Speaker 1: funny because yes, yesterday my tattoo artists, what are you

1698
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 1: passionate about? Because I told him I'm not passionate about nails.

1699
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 1: I do as a hustle for money. I'm not passionate.

1700
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 5: He said, what do you have?

1701
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: What are you passionate like?

1702
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 2: Sleep?

1703
01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 1: Sleep?

1704
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 2: I love to sleep. Sleeping is amazing. I love sleep.

1705
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 2: You know, it's really important, it's great, crucial. And some

1706
01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 2: people don't sleep. Some people are like, oh, I only

1707
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:47,920
Speaker 2: need four hours. Yeah, you mean, I don't know if

1708
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 2: people do, I don't know. I mean there's that's like

1709
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 2: a neurological disorder.

1710
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:52,160
Speaker 4: I need to rest.

1711
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 2: I can sleep well. Thank you for playing trigger.

1712
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:56,120
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you.

1713
01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 2: I've learned so mu much. That was fun. Before we

1714
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:01,400
Speaker 2: get out of here, and if you guys are still listening,

1715
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 2: make should you ever read the bad choice of the week? Oh,

1716
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 2: it wasn't so bad. It wasn't I thought I can't

1717
01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:11,360
Speaker 2: read it. It was not bad. We think real juice, guys,

1718
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 2: make sure you click the link in this episode description

1719
01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:15,480
Speaker 2: and sending your bad choices of the week, sending your

1720
01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 2: horror stories, sending your secrets, and sending body Daddy's numbers

1721
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 2: so we can call him because we really need we

1722
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:23,240
Speaker 2: need better content. Y'all are living. I know you all

1723
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:24,840
Speaker 2: living juice your lives than this, and if you're not,

1724
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 2: then start because we need it. We can't be the

1725
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 2: way call people. I just do that on Bogle Live.

1726
01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:31,760
Speaker 4: I want we need it.

1727
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:33,920
Speaker 3: We need people to call though. We need to have

1728
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:35,960
Speaker 3: numbers to call and ask specific questions.

1729
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:38,880
Speaker 1: You should have one of those cute little phones. It'stually

1730
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 1: so cute. We had one, wait, but those don't get

1731
01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: put on speaker.

1732
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 2: No, I think we can.

1733
01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 4: Phones are a thing of the past.

1734
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, where were we plugging in? Right? Do

1735
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 2: you connected to your cell phone?

1736
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 4: So confusing?

1737
01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 5: So I think they have a connect Yeah, yeah, Wow

1738
01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:55,919
Speaker 5: they have stuff.

1739
01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 4: Now time has really shifted. Do you have a horror

1740
01:07:59,280 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 4: story for us?

1741
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:04,440
Speaker 1: A whore horror, scary or horror like a slut w Yes,

1742
01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:05,160
Speaker 1: a slutty story.

1743
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 2: No, I'm not a slut lies lies? Well, I don't.

1744
01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 5: I mean with three sons, I can put it that way,

1745
01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 5: but I don't.

1746
01:08:17,800 --> 01:08:18,040
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1747
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 4: Is there like a one three so that just sticks

1748
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:21,080
Speaker 4: sticks out in particular that.

1749
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 2: It could be bad like maybe maybe, I mean had

1750
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:26,600
Speaker 2: to go, that had to go Like that was about it.

1751
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 2: The horror story was having a dry throat? Have you

1752
01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 2: ever kicked out of her in the middle of the three?

1753
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 5: Yes, he has for what?

1754
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 7: Uh?

1755
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 1: The bitches don't listen like I'd be like, don't give

1756
01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 1: off groupie. The bitch kept giving off groupie and then

1757
01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 1: she kept saying the N words. It's just like, oh

1758
01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:48,360
Speaker 1: my god, you gotta go, you gotta go. Filipino Yeah, yeah,

1759
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:54,280
Speaker 1: Filipino girls saying the N word yeah, and I brought

1760
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 1: I brought it up to her like you can't say that,

1761
01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:57,720
Speaker 1: you know. She's like, oh, well, I don't. I don't

1762
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:58,439
Speaker 1: mean in a rude way.

1763
01:08:58,479 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, but you can't say it.

1764
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:01,720
Speaker 1: And then she kept saying it, so it just got

1765
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:02,520
Speaker 1: real uncomfortable.

1766
01:09:02,520 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 2: And he's like, sure, you gotta go.

1767
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:05,320
Speaker 4: She's giving them twenty two.

1768
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:08,160
Speaker 2: That's a hard story. Yeah, that's pretty bad.

1769
01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:09,760
Speaker 5: This is weird, you know what I'm saying.

1770
01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:11,920
Speaker 1: Like I told a bitch, bring a bottle, bitch, bottle pine.

1771
01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 2: Who the fuck? She wasn't reading a room.

1772
01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:21,640
Speaker 7: Like you know.

1773
01:09:21,760 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 2: The next time I got back your short he was like.

1774
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:24,000
Speaker 1: Hey, you're in town.

1775
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:25,880
Speaker 5: I'm like, you don't remember last time.

1776
01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 2: You don't value this relationship?

1777
01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:30,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you got kicked out, so you're not listening.

1778
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 5: Like I tell you everything.

1779
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:35,000
Speaker 1: I tell them everything that if you want everything to

1780
01:09:35,080 --> 01:09:36,719
Speaker 1: go smooth, I tell you everything.

1781
01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:37,679
Speaker 5: To not be a groupie.

1782
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:40,240
Speaker 1: Don't keep fucking saying this and that I love you

1783
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:42,400
Speaker 1: so much. I watched those like don't I'm here to

1784
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:44,160
Speaker 1: fuck not talk about how much you're a fan of me.

1785
01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:46,880
Speaker 1: That's gonna that's a turn off. Like he don't want

1786
01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 1: to hear it. I don't want to hear it. And

1787
01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:49,599
Speaker 1: then you know I told you not to kids keep

1788
01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 1: saying the N word. You keep fucking saying it like

1789
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:55,559
Speaker 1: nobody's wet now, nobody's hard. Every good to go now

1790
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 1: it was uncomfortable. Now you just gotta go. Now I

1791
01:09:57,880 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 1: can't have a nut, Just go bye.

1792
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 2: Bye, damn. The group checklist, rupie threesome checklist. You know,

1793
01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 2: you know what we might have might have needed this

1794
01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 2: checklist at the time.

1795
01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 3: I've gotten into some situations where we could have used

1796
01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:11,839
Speaker 3: the checklist.

1797
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 4: Hey, don't be a groopie Number one.

1798
01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:15,040
Speaker 7: That is that?

1799
01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:17,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, like just act like you don't know me, you

1800
01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like then you keep saying it

1801
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: is shut up.

1802
01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 2: But sometimes people get drunk and it just like they

1803
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:26,479
Speaker 2: can't help. They can't help. Yeah, stupid, They're sucking up

1804
01:10:26,479 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 2: their chances. Yeah mm hmmm.

1805
01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:31,840
Speaker 3: You know what, I really appreciate you coming with the

1806
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:35,400
Speaker 3: threesome checklist and sharing your experience because I feel like

1807
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 3: not a lot of women come and tell us there

1808
01:10:37,400 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 3: are like threesome experiences.

1809
01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm I'm glad that you guys actually have them too,

1810
01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:44,479
Speaker 1: because like a lot of my friends don't really. Yeah,

1811
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 1: a lot of them don't, and a lot of in

1812
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 1: relationship want to but don't know how to go about

1813
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,720
Speaker 1: it with the other man. I'm just straight forward.

1814
01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:53,160
Speaker 2: You're trying to like I think, Yeah, I was gonna say,

1815
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 2: I was gonna say I think a lot of people

1816
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:55,840
Speaker 2: are having threesomes, but I don't think that. Actually, that's

1817
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 2: just not true. That's a crazy assumption to think everybody's

1818
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:02,439
Speaker 2: not a lot. Well, I know, yeah, yeah, I had

1819
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 2: a chill.

1820
01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:05,960
Speaker 1: I think mentally I had to chill because there got

1821
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:07,679
Speaker 1: to a point where I felt like I couldn't develop

1822
01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 1: a genuine friendship because I just want to fuck you,

1823
01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:12,559
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying.

1824
01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:12,680
Speaker 7: Like.

1825
01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 1: It wasn't like you give me a compliment. It was

1826
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:16,599
Speaker 1: like you're trying to like you know what I'm saying.

1827
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:17,679
Speaker 1: It got out of control.

1828
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:19,519
Speaker 2: So I actually had a step back from it for

1829
01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 2: a while, living the best life.

1830
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 1: He's stressed out, like made me shut the fuck up.

1831
01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 2: Had just come chill. Do you have any friends now?

1832
01:11:32,760 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 1: He's just like, you're fucking gay, and I'm like, I'm

1833
01:11:34,240 --> 01:11:35,679
Speaker 1: not gay. It's like you're fucking gay.

1834
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:38,639
Speaker 2: Bit your eyes.

1835
01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:40,680
Speaker 1: I am like fighting for my life defending myself that

1836
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:42,479
Speaker 1: I do love you, I'm not gay.

1837
01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:46,519
Speaker 2: Serious, you're the man, You're the person.

1838
01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 1: Then talking about I'm terrible, I'm terribly.

1839
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 2: Why is it just more thrilling? Is it just more

1840
01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 2: entertaining when there's a pussy there. I don't know. I

1841
01:11:55,640 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 2: like my pus.

1842
01:11:58,760 --> 01:12:04,599
Speaker 1: Everybody needs to serious amazing and say, bitch is amazing feeling?

1843
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 4: It really is.

1844
01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 5: You know, you can't have that with your train with

1845
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:09,800
Speaker 5: two guys, like the guy can't.

1846
01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 2: That's I mean, use the rose and get fucked as well.

1847
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like my nails along, I'm just holding

1848
01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 1: him static.

1849
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 5: Oh no, I never, I don't.

1850
01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:29,160
Speaker 1: I don't finger myself with the nails. I can't function

1851
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 1: with short nails. Like you see how I did your makeup.

1852
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:32,600
Speaker 1: You didn't feel my nails. Because I know how to

1853
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 1: hold my hand certain ways. I can't function without them

1854
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:36,920
Speaker 1: because now I got to hold my hand a different way.

1855
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:38,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1856
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:42,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, now you know she's gay bisexual?

1857
01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 2: I do, but people seem to like not get it

1858
01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:50,640
Speaker 2: click or not.

1859
01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 5: No, I'm bisexual by bisexual, but he calls me gay, so.

1860
01:12:54,360 --> 01:12:56,800
Speaker 2: That's why it doesn't joke to me. So he like

1861
01:12:56,840 --> 01:12:58,680
Speaker 2: calls me gay or whatever. You know, No, I'm not.

1862
01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:01,760
Speaker 7: That you.

1863
01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:03,720
Speaker 4: He has a problem with you. That all niggas which

1864
01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 4: they have.

1865
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:04,599
Speaker 2: With I just don't.

1866
01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:06,439
Speaker 1: I don't find men. Men don't have nothing for you

1867
01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:06,880
Speaker 1: to look at.

1868
01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:09,679
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, it's just ridiculous,

1869
01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:10,920
Speaker 2: you know yeah, like when.

1870
01:13:10,840 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 1: You want me to look at like you're not like

1871
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:14,600
Speaker 1: your h the hair, makeup, Eyelash's what I'm saying. I

1872
01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:17,120
Speaker 1: like looking at the jewelry and your close your outfits,

1873
01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 1: and you know, women have just have more to look at.

1874
01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 1: Men It's like okay, wow, yeah, wow, wow, yeah he

1875
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:25,320
Speaker 1: got big muscles now. It's just got big muscles now

1876
01:13:25,360 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. And men are so fucking gay

1877
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:29,519
Speaker 1: for him. All these Asian men are so fucking gay.

1878
01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 1: Like we go to a lot of these Asian restaurants.

1879
01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 1: They're so gay for him. They're like, oh wow, big muscle,

1880
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:34,360
Speaker 1: Like did I squeeze?

1881
01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:35,160
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1882
01:13:35,240 --> 01:13:38,080
Speaker 1: I've I've always liked slim guys like muscles has never

1883
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:40,120
Speaker 1: like that's not that's not a bonus point for me.

1884
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 2: I've always liked the skinny motherfuckers. I don't know why,

1885
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 2: I just do.

1886
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 1: And so I'm like, okay, there's a plus, but it's like,

1887
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:46,720
Speaker 1: really it's more for men.

1888
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:50,519
Speaker 2: Men like that shit that men do notice other men

1889
01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:51,360
Speaker 2: like oh yeah you work.

1890
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 1: Out, Wow, you work out? What's your routine?

1891
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:53,720
Speaker 2: What you take?

1892
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, what's your protein? Didn't take

1893
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 1: my eye?

1894
01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:57,519
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, can I squeeze it?

1895
01:13:58,120 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 3: They're always so gay for him, somebody needs to appreciate

1896
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 3: the muscles you right.

1897
01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:06,000
Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad that both of you guys are getting

1898
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:07,680
Speaker 2: the love and attention that you both deserve. And I

1899
01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:10,120
Speaker 2: wouldn't be surprised if maybe some of your only fans

1900
01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:12,160
Speaker 2: audience was mostly gay for stretch.

1901
01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:16,080
Speaker 1: Yeah no, the gay boys always commented in well, no, bitch,

1902
01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:18,040
Speaker 1: when is he making one? I was like, baby, you

1903
01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 1: gotta make one movie. You gotta make one now let me.

1904
01:14:20,040 --> 01:14:21,240
Speaker 1: But he's like, I can't.

1905
01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:22,960
Speaker 2: I can't do that sexy stuff.

1906
01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:23,720
Speaker 5: Like he's like, I can't.

1907
01:14:23,800 --> 01:14:28,840
Speaker 2: You better face front of how old you up?

1908
01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 1: I'll take the picture. You're not gonna make so much money,

1909
01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 1: come on, like you know, put your hair on front,

1910
01:14:33,439 --> 01:14:35,719
Speaker 1: like you have that look, you know, like fucking money

1911
01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 1: is money.

1912
01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 2: Right, you better get that pay?

1913
01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, all the gay boys be like.

1914
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:42,000
Speaker 5: When is he making one?

1915
01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:45,599
Speaker 2: I'm seeing you in the video in the video.

1916
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:47,880
Speaker 1: Like, move, bitch, let us see him?

1917
01:14:50,120 --> 01:14:52,439
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Okay, before we get out of here, well,

1918
01:14:52,479 --> 01:14:55,840
Speaker 2: first firstly, if you if you haven't tuned into our

1919
01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:59,120
Speaker 2: YouTube channel, we do have a channel on there for ASMR. Okay,

1920
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:03,439
Speaker 2: and so ware is here. So mem and me and

1921
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:05,679
Speaker 2: Mila are going to be doing an a SMR video

1922
01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:10,240
Speaker 2: eating crab legs, which I'm terrified. I don't really I

1923
01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:13,840
Speaker 2: don't like crab, but I'm doing it for it for y'all, Okay,

1924
01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:15,880
Speaker 2: so maybe maybe I'll change my mind. Maybe this is

1925
01:15:15,920 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 2: the day where I crabs. So I don't have that

1926
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 2: out here. They don't the cracking of it. And just

1927
01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:25,920
Speaker 2: gonna text me, do you do you need the crab

1928
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 2: crab crab cracker crab crackers? I said, do you have one?

1929
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:29,840
Speaker 4: She said no?

1930
01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 2: I said no, bitch, you used your hands and your teeth.

1931
01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 2: She's like, oh god, I said, my teeth.

1932
01:15:35,400 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 1: Now do you think I see that might fall off?

1933
01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:40,600
Speaker 2: I literally when she said we're using our teeth, I

1934
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:46,040
Speaker 2: literally said, fuck red loves. I don't know. I don't

1935
01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 2: eat crabs. I thought, you know, I see the little.

1936
01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:50,080
Speaker 1: Cracker pussy and you see food eat pussy.

1937
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:52,960
Speaker 2: Yes, I will pussy, but not just any pussy. But yes,

1938
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:55,639
Speaker 2: but I don't. I don't know about the crab crackers whatever.

1939
01:15:56,800 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 2: Check out our video with a lively mem as we

1940
01:15:58,800 --> 01:15:59,360
Speaker 2: as I and.

1941
01:15:59,439 --> 01:16:02,640
Speaker 1: Me Her we eat our we're doing a smr are

1942
01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:02,920
Speaker 1: we doing?

1943
01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 2: What's the difference? Is talking? Is not talking? We're gonna

1944
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:10,759
Speaker 2: talk a little bit, like okay, finally someone can clarify

1945
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:12,800
Speaker 2: the fucking difference. I thought the book bonger were still

1946
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:15,040
Speaker 2: whispering though, right, it's not talking and doing like this.

1947
01:16:17,040 --> 01:16:18,640
Speaker 2: You don't have Maybe we do?

1948
01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:19,400
Speaker 7: Maybe?

1949
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:24,200
Speaker 2: Are we like treble trail. We've combined them. We've we've

1950
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:26,639
Speaker 2: done it's called look babod content.

1951
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 1: Content content always do good, but they always do.

1952
01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:34,320
Speaker 5: Good food content, especially seafood. All my seafood videos do good.

1953
01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:36,519
Speaker 4: That's so interesting. Do you have an affirmation?

1954
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:38,920
Speaker 5: Oh, do what you want?

1955
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 4: Do what the fuck you want?

1956
01:16:40,960 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 2: Do what the dude, do what you do?

1957
01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:46,280
Speaker 1: Say what you want to say.

1958
01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:48,800
Speaker 3: I forgot about Devon the dude shout out to my

1959
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:54,040
Speaker 3: friend Shack. I think he's from like Kansas. They're like

1960
01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 3: he's from somewhere. Listening back, I feel very out of

1961
01:16:57,240 --> 01:16:59,240
Speaker 3: the loop. But he was out there on time bomby

1962
01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:01,000
Speaker 3: and stuff without Yeah, okay.

1963
01:17:00,760 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 2: So that's back in the day. Okay anyway, so do

1964
01:17:04,080 --> 01:17:05,680
Speaker 2: what the fuck you do, Do what you want to do.

1965
01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:09,760
Speaker 1: I have a quote that I always say was that

1966
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:15,800
Speaker 1: be like a lotus flower, although it grows in the mud,

1967
01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:18,559
Speaker 1: is still bloom into a beautiful flower. So it doesn't

1968
01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:21,600
Speaker 1: matter where you come from, how poor, how struggle or

1969
01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:23,560
Speaker 1: the hood or whatever, you can still bloom into a

1970
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:24,880
Speaker 1: beautiful flower like a lotus.

1971
01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:27,280
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1972
01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:29,200
Speaker 5: Your past doesn't define your future.

1973
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:32,760
Speaker 2: I like that. Look at her, she's got you on

1974
01:17:32,800 --> 01:17:33,720
Speaker 2: another affirmation.

1975
01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:35,760
Speaker 1: Because my family just wore I was just going and

1976
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:37,640
Speaker 1: ship ain't gonna be sh it ain't never gonna be.

1977
01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:42,280
Speaker 1: Look at now, glow that still the ship being the

1978
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:43,200
Speaker 1: same person.

1979
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:45,880
Speaker 2: Being you are I am. I think that's always like

1980
01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:49,880
Speaker 2: the the thing people always realize too late in life.

1981
01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:52,880
Speaker 2: It's like being yourself is actually the currency. Being yourself

1982
01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:54,520
Speaker 2: is actually why people are successful.

1983
01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:57,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, can't nobody copy the original you. But if you're

1984
01:17:57,840 --> 01:18:00,360
Speaker 1: copying somebody else, somebody else can copy that. But if

1985
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:05,080
Speaker 1: you're you know, originally you, nobody can copy that, Especially

1986
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:07,519
Speaker 1: like when you do. Like a lot of people who

1987
01:18:07,560 --> 01:18:09,760
Speaker 1: want to do social media, want to be a content creator,

1988
01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 1: but they haven't accepted who they are. Like I noticed

1989
01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:14,000
Speaker 1: like as soon as I recourd somebody and the persons.

1990
01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:14,719
Speaker 2: Like, I hate my voice.

1991
01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:16,960
Speaker 1: I can't stay on my voice. Well, that's your voice.

1992
01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:18,479
Speaker 2: That's what you got.

1993
01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: You can't change it.

1994
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:19,920
Speaker 2: That's you.

1995
01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:21,880
Speaker 1: If you want to be a content creator, you have

1996
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:24,600
Speaker 1: to accept who you are. You get past that, and

1997
01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:26,360
Speaker 1: then when you can be yourself, because then you can

1998
01:18:26,400 --> 01:18:28,280
Speaker 1: accept yourself. You can't expect the world accept you for

1999
01:18:28,360 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 1: who you are if you don't even like who you are.

2000
01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:33,240
Speaker 2: And that's where the freedom. That's where freedom is. People say,

2001
01:18:33,240 --> 01:18:34,639
Speaker 2: I want to be free, How do I be free? Bitch?

2002
01:18:34,720 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 2: Start with being yourself. That's that's the code, that's the

2003
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:38,439
Speaker 2: cheap You.

2004
01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:40,679
Speaker 5: Can't change your voice, you can't change you can't change

2005
01:18:40,680 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 5: how you look.

2006
01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:42,559
Speaker 2: That you but you can't change your body.

2007
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 3: Classic right in Miami, you take the food bat and

2008
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:50,240
Speaker 3: put it in your koolo.

2009
01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:53,160
Speaker 1: Now you look like cheap bottle baby ship.

2010
01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:54,680
Speaker 2: I got a little food bef for your baby, a

2011
01:18:54,680 --> 01:19:00,519
Speaker 2: little food for this ask tell you I'm going to

2012
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 2: Miami and I come back with My Makeover sixty five

2013
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:04,680
Speaker 2: hundred dollars. Oh damn you hear that? Mommy is.

2014
01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 4: Do you gall in the country? Just go right down

2015
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:08,320
Speaker 4: to Miami.

2016
01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:10,519
Speaker 2: Just be safe, please lord Ess, make sure you check

2017
01:19:10,520 --> 01:19:12,679
Speaker 2: your vitals and your health and all the things. They don't.

2018
01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:14,600
Speaker 2: You gotta get cleared. Yeah, so they do.

2019
01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:17,800
Speaker 1: They would turn They turn my girl away four days

2020
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:19,559
Speaker 1: because she had nicotine in her system.

2021
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:21,400
Speaker 2: So they don't play that ship. Yeah, good, good, good

2022
01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:25,680
Speaker 2: good Well Lovely me Me, where can our audience find you? Oh?

2023
01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:28,960
Speaker 1: Instagram, it's lovely me Me twenty seven, So its lovely

2024
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Speaker 1: m I m I twenty seven. On TikTok is lovely

2025
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Speaker 1: me Me eight six four. Such a random number they

2026
01:19:34,400 --> 01:19:34,720
Speaker 1: chose it.

2027
01:19:36,479 --> 01:19:37,960
Speaker 2: YouTube lovely me Me and.

2028
01:19:38,400 --> 01:19:41,960
Speaker 1: Yeah OnlyFans dot com backslash it's lovely to me twenty seven. Hey,

2029
01:19:43,760 --> 01:19:46,440
Speaker 1: I do nail Monday and Wednesday in Montclair, California.

2030
01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:47,519
Speaker 2: What is the shot?

2031
01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:50,840
Speaker 1: Oh bel Rose nails. And then when I moved to Vegas.

2032
01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:53,439
Speaker 2: Well you have like a long waiting list. People just

2033
01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 2: walk in and no.

2034
01:19:54,360 --> 01:19:55,840
Speaker 5: Natural pointments, pointments.

2035
01:19:55,880 --> 01:19:56,320
Speaker 2: It's just want to.

2036
01:19:56,360 --> 01:19:57,920
Speaker 4: People be driving in Montclaiter come see.

2037
01:19:58,320 --> 01:20:00,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, look I don't have no low cool clients. Like

2038
01:20:00,920 --> 01:20:03,479
Speaker 1: people don't get the nails done. I don't know what's

2039
01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:06,639
Speaker 1: going on, but they don't need to be in the hood.

2040
01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:07,800
Speaker 1: I'm used to being in the hood. All my other

2041
01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:09,200
Speaker 1: shops in the hook is the hood is where you

2042
01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:11,639
Speaker 1: get the nails done. I'm it's too nice or something.

2043
01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:17,200
Speaker 1: I know, but there's I have people drive far nice Alaska, Canada.

2044
01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:18,240
Speaker 2: Alaska, they fly in.

2045
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:20,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, you make a trip.

2046
01:20:21,560 --> 01:20:24,519
Speaker 2: Over there, whatever you want. I think it's just coming

2047
01:20:26,600 --> 01:20:29,760
Speaker 2: and get a dose. Yeah that's it. Yeah therapy, Yeah,

2048
01:20:30,280 --> 01:20:33,360
Speaker 2: well that's dope. That's stuff that you that you do

2049
01:20:33,520 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 2: that still, that you even want to do that and

2050
01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:37,360
Speaker 2: that like you're getting my.

2051
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:40,840
Speaker 1: Son switch school. So but I think I'm gonna continue

2052
01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:42,360
Speaker 1: doing it because you know, you can't forget where you

2053
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:42,720
Speaker 1: come from.

2054
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:45,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what nails made me here, got me here,

2055
01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 5: so and I'm good at it.

2056
01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:49,920
Speaker 2: Well, thank you for always being yourself and showing up

2057
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:52,760
Speaker 2: as yourself and living your life the way the fuck

2058
01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:54,400
Speaker 2: you want to. That's all about. That's what good mom's

2059
01:20:54,400 --> 01:20:55,360
Speaker 2: bad choices is all about.

2060
01:20:56,960 --> 01:20:58,280
Speaker 5: You don't have to be a perfect mom, but you

2061
01:20:58,320 --> 01:20:58,920
Speaker 5: can be a good mom.

2062
01:20:59,040 --> 01:20:59,759
Speaker 4: Nobody's perfect.

2063
01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:01,680
Speaker 1: You will always be there for you kid emotionally. That's

2064
01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:03,639
Speaker 1: I think that's very important. I think that what I lacked,

2065
01:21:04,360 --> 01:21:06,080
Speaker 1: so people know how you do it. I'm doing everything

2066
01:21:06,120 --> 01:21:07,000
Speaker 1: the opposite for my mother.

2067
01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:09,560
Speaker 2: That's like that.

2068
01:21:09,640 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 1: She was a terrible mom, but very toxic, very toxic mom.

2069
01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:14,640
Speaker 2: Well, they're lucky to have you.

2070
01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm lucky to have them.

2071
01:21:19,200 --> 01:21:22,280
Speaker 2: Well, y'all time, thank you for joining us. Make sure

2072
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:27,240
Speaker 2: you go chap into our YouTube video ASMR Bang with Mimi.

2073
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:29,439
Speaker 2: Thank you guys for having me. You're very welcome, and

2074
01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:31,599
Speaker 2: make sure you follow us on Good Mom's Underscore Bach

2075
01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:34,439
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2076
01:21:34,560 --> 01:21:36,519
Speaker 2: leave a review. Check out the Good Vibe re treat.

2077
01:21:36,600 --> 01:21:39,160
Speaker 2: We're going to Costa Rica three times this summer, so

2078
01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:42,160
Speaker 2: a couple. I think guy should come.

2079
01:21:42,640 --> 01:21:44,200
Speaker 1: I know when you do it somewhere I can go.

2080
01:21:45,200 --> 01:21:45,400
Speaker 2: I can.

2081
01:21:47,400 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 1: I'll totally go for I can Dowaii, I can do

2082
01:21:51,160 --> 01:21:52,800
Speaker 1: Hawaii and then I can get it.

2083
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:54,400
Speaker 5: I think I can actually get a lot.

2084
01:21:54,360 --> 01:21:55,479
Speaker 2: Of people to come out come on.

2085
01:21:55,720 --> 01:21:59,720
Speaker 5: Yeh fun wait y'all go do therapyan sessions and ship

2086
01:21:59,760 --> 01:21:59,880
Speaker 5: like that.

2087
01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:04,599
Speaker 3: Tanta, like you're not really therapy but just getting deep

2088
01:22:04,640 --> 01:22:06,000
Speaker 3: in your connection, intimacy.

2089
01:22:07,080 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 2: That sounds it's sexy. It's sexy. Shit, this is this

2090
01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:13,799
Speaker 2: is really about fun and play and pleasure. But obviously

2091
01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:15,960
Speaker 2: healing will happen just because we can't help it, and

2092
01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:18,160
Speaker 2: we can't help but pull things out of people. But

2093
01:22:18,520 --> 01:22:20,760
Speaker 2: for the most part, it's really about deeping in your

2094
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:25,160
Speaker 2: connection with your partner. And I love that. Matter of fact,

2095
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:26,799
Speaker 2: we need to watch that movie after retreat.

2096
01:22:27,600 --> 01:22:28,320
Speaker 1: Yeah you should.

2097
01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:32,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna bring my projector your projector yeah, anyway, you

2098
01:22:32,360 --> 01:22:37,320
Speaker 2: guys will see you next week. By Yeah, i'mna have

2099
01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:38,720
Speaker 2: been so good? Can't you tell?

2100
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:40,000
Speaker 1: I went through a drought.

2101
01:22:40,080 --> 01:22:42,280
Speaker 7: That's until I find a well may might have been known?

2102
01:22:42,360 --> 01:22:44,560
Speaker 7: Earth that used to be broken tail now got the

2103
01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:47,439
Speaker 7: blues dants. It might be Yonce just now throat shots

2104
01:22:47,479 --> 01:22:50,559
Speaker 7: from popping. It's cow wearing our voices. Patriarch get catched

2105
01:22:50,640 --> 01:22:51,800
Speaker 7: in the box to exploit it.

2106
01:22:52,120 --> 01:22:53,679
Speaker 1: Women put the pe and powers.

2107
01:22:53,760 --> 01:22:55,639
Speaker 2: So what's the point is? They want me to be good?

2108
01:22:55,720 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 2: So I mean bad noises, bad mom. Not a bad mom,

2109
01:22:58,960 --> 01:22:59,840
Speaker 2: but a bad mom.

2110
01:23:00,120 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 7: HER's in on Fort Cannapus in their bathball walked in

2111
01:23:03,200 --> 01:23:05,720
Speaker 7: Boston's cap and I blew his cat, boll tipe dog.

2112
01:23:05,880 --> 01:23:08,440
Speaker 1: Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie.

2113
01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 2: And the waisted straight to it like a dollar sign.

2114
01:23:10,439 --> 01:23:12,240
Speaker 7: Mother, rent the lover, when to it look like a

2115
01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 7: water sign where you're rent the winter essential will when

2116
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:16,760
Speaker 7: the summertime, I do what all ain't

2117
01:23:16,760 --> 01:23:18,040
Speaker 2: No one that needs to run it by