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Speaker 3: We have some great questions today that we'll get to

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Speaker 3: with our special special guests.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited, so am I.

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Speaker 1: Today we have our beloved former bachelorette, Rachel Recya is here.

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Speaker 1: Hey Rachel, thank you so much for joining us. We

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Speaker 1: are so excited to have you. You look fabulous as always.

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Speaker 1: And guys, if you can't see you can't see her.

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Speaker 1: We can see her. She's absolutely drop dead gorgeous.

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Speaker 4: I am so excited to be here. I feel like

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Speaker 4: we have not had a chat since like the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so catch us up. I want to hear about

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Speaker 1: your life, your health. I know you've been traveling the world.

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Speaker 1: I want to hear if you've had any international dates.

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Speaker 3: Come give Yes, that is good.

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Speaker 4: So many things to update. Well, starting off, I right

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Speaker 4: now have a pick line in my arm. I've been

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Speaker 4: sick for like two months. I had kidney.

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Speaker 2: Infection and kidney infection.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's spread like through my back like it's

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Speaker 4: pretty messy.

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Speaker 3: So I'm painful.

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Speaker 4: It was like when I went to the hospital. But

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Speaker 4: it's gotten so much better, but it's still not gone.

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Speaker 1: Okay, can I just be stupid for a minute. Is

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Speaker 1: a pickline? How they give you the medication?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So the.

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Speaker 4: I guess what is it? IV thing? It runs like

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Speaker 4: through my up here, it's like all the way in

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Speaker 4: my chest.

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Speaker 1: Somehow, I just don't get it. I know people can't

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Speaker 1: see you. This girl is so beautiful. She is on

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Speaker 1: a fabulous off the shoulder black dress and her pickline

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Speaker 1: covering looks like, you know, some beautiful white glove that

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Speaker 1: you just added.

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Speaker 2: That's what it looks like. It's just like you added

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Speaker 2: something for the effect, so you are better.

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you this, what gave you an idea

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Speaker 3: that you had some kind of infection? Was it something

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Speaker 3: bothering you painful or just routine checkup? How did you

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Speaker 4: I thought I had the flu, which is insane. I

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Speaker 4: was like all the symptoms of the flu, fever. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She was like, I think you have a kidney infection.

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Speaker 4: And I went in and I did, so they put

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Speaker 4: me on antibiotics. I was on those for two weeks

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Speaker 4: and then my fever spiked again and they were like,

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Speaker 4: you could go to the er right now. And then

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Speaker 4: I was in the hospital for nine days?

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Speaker 3: Are you?

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Speaker 4: And I was in a room with like twenty people

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Speaker 2: I never had my own room.

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Speaker 4: Area.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Rachel, I'm just wait, I'm just gonna go

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Speaker 1: with you. Are the first woman I've ever heard who's

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Speaker 1: talks about a hospital like it should be a resort.

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Speaker 1: I didn't have my own room, I didn't have room service.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you were there to get well girlfriend, and

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you are laying in my.

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Speaker 4: Bed like having to ask every time I had a

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Speaker 3: It was I'm glad you're feeling thank you.

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Speaker 2: So wait, have you been traveling? Then? Are you traveling?

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Speaker 4: So? I was traveling a lot before this. I was

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Speaker 4: in Asia. I did some sea turtle stuff, not with Blake,

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Speaker 4: that was really fun that I got to do that.

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Speaker 4: I've been in England with Jill Chin, who was on

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Speaker 4: my season of the Bachelor. So I've been like traveling

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Speaker 4: around a lot, which has been a lot of fun.

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Speaker 2: Are you dating?

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Speaker 4: See, I'm going through something right now. I'm just like,

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Speaker 4: I don't want men to speak to me right now,

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Speaker 4: like I'm you know, I did. I've been trying to

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Speaker 4: put myself out there. They say, you know, you're supposed

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Speaker 4: to give everyone a chance, and I'm like, I'm just

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Speaker 4: no one talked to me right now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, It's okay, that's totally understand.

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Speaker 1: Listen, if you look that good, if you look that

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Speaker 1: good with no one talking to you, you know, maybe

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Speaker 1: you're onto something.

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Speaker 2: Here I know, and.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you know, I'm going back to work. I

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Speaker 4: started flying again. I flew over the Bachelor man right

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Speaker 4: before Jones, like first day. I got to see all

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Speaker 4: like the production set up. It was so cool.

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Speaker 3: Brings back a lot of memories.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry I missed it. Why were you flying

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Speaker 2: over the Bachelor mansion?

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Speaker 4: I so, I'm a pilot and I'm going back to

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Speaker 4: work and I'm working in La So I got to

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Speaker 4: fly over the mansion, which was it was so cool.

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Speaker 1: I know I've read this, but help me remember you

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Speaker 1: fly private pilot, right or your private pilot.

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Speaker 4: So I'm an instructor, so I will like teach people

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Speaker 4: to get their pilot's license their place.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so so i'd like to do that.

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Speaker 2: I would too, but really teach both of you. Let's

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Speaker 2: do it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'll do it, Susan, I'm in. When

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Speaker 1: we were on the Bachelor, I wanted I told the

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Speaker 1: producers in one of my interviews, I wanted to jump

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Speaker 1: out of an airplane.

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Speaker 2: I haven't done that yet.

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Speaker 1: So here's the thing, Rachel, fly you jump Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't think I want you. You'll turn the engine back

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Speaker 1: and whip me with a wing. Now I'm going to

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Speaker 1: let Rachel do that.

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Speaker 4: All fly will record an episode. Yes, when you jump

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Speaker 4: and do it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, wave wave, No, you're coming with me. We're doing

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Speaker 1: down and land and pick you up.

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Speaker 2: Now we're doing jump. That's right, we're jumping together.

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Speaker 1: Those who jump to Susan, I want a big strong

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Speaker 1: man behind me. Yeah, listen to me. Rule number one.

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Speaker 1: Those who jump together stay together.

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Speaker 3: Oh God, here we go. All right, I have a question.

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Speaker 2: I have a question.

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Speaker 3: Obviously all three of us have had breast reductions.

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Speaker 2: Well it's not obvious.

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Speaker 3: Because I know you did, and she did and I did,

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Speaker 3: So it's obvious you have yes, and I'm ready for

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Speaker 3: my second. My second, I want to know the whole

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Speaker 3: same reason.

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Speaker 1: Guys, I will up you one breast production and add

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Speaker 1: in a breast lift. Yeah, I'm just saying. So, I

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Speaker 1: had a breast reduction done in mind was about I

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Speaker 1: don't know, thirty something, and I wore a bra that

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Speaker 1: ended in H and people like in H. I was like, yes, huge, horrible, horrific,

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Speaker 1: and then they took me down to a normal size

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Speaker 1: and then God's cruel joke, they grew back.

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Speaker 2: So why are you doing it?

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Speaker 4: Same thing? And I told my doctor too, which no

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Speaker 4: fault of his. I think it's just our bodies, like

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Speaker 4: women who just are naturally larger chested. I was like,

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Speaker 4: I want to go as small as I can, like

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Speaker 4: take me down to like a B cup, because I

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Speaker 4: know they're going to grow back.

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Speaker 2: How big were you, Rachel? How big were you?

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Speaker 4: I was probably a triple D and I'm a triple D.

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Speaker 2: That's what I am. Now, you were a triple D.

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Speaker 4: I was a triple D five foot two like they

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Speaker 4: were just like, God, bring my back. I was in

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Speaker 4: so much pain. I was like, I cannot do this anymore.

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Speaker 4: Take me as small as I can. And when I

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Speaker 4: got them done, they were like great. I think they

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Speaker 2: A C How long ago?

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Speaker 4: It was a year ago on March of twenty three.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, wait a minute. They can't grow back that fast.

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Speaker 1: You got to start taking vitamins. No, they're doing something, because.

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Speaker 4: I'm a musing weight. I've lost like fifteen pounds since

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Speaker 4: I got them done, and I've seen pictures. Not only

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Speaker 4: have they grown back to the point that like my

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Speaker 4: bras don't fit, they're uneven ones.

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Speaker 1: Like the way Oh no, wait, listen, this is a

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Speaker 1: whole different conversation, Rachel. You can sell this story like

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Speaker 1: this is Ripley's believe it or not material.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how it happened because they say you

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Speaker 4: gain weight hormones, which I'm like, okay, but I lost a.

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Speaker 2: And they no, I did too, Rachel.

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Speaker 1: When I had my breast production done, I was probably

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Speaker 1: thirty pounds heavier than I am now. And when I

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Speaker 1: lost weight mine, I mean, they just but sus not

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Speaker 1: about you, but at my age. Like you know, when

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Speaker 1: you're kid, your boobs begin where they're supposed to, but

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Speaker 1: when you're our age, they begin up under your chin.

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Speaker 2: It just all starts falling into your brack up.

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Speaker 3: So let me let me tell you a short story.

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Speaker 3: When I went to the plastic surgeon and he said, well,

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Speaker 3: what is it you want? I said, well, I don't

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Speaker 3: mind if I failed the pencil test. I don't want

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Speaker 3: to hold the remote control anymore. He told to me, like,

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Speaker 3: I have two heads, I lift them up, shrink them

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Speaker 3: and lift them, so what do you do?

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Speaker 2: That's that was I like that.

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Speaker 3: I hate brals. They cut me in my shoulder, they're

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Speaker 3: annoying around my I just hate.

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Speaker 2: Them, so, yeah, what are you doing with, Rachel?

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Speaker 4: Well, so I have it scheduled for next month. I

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Speaker 4: was supposed to do it this last in June, but

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Speaker 4: then I got sick and I was on antibiotics, so

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Speaker 4: we had a like schedule. But my surgeon telling me like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: like you could use the revision. I was like, they

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Speaker 4: really did grow back, which is freaking Yeah, my hormones

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Speaker 4: must just be like very I'm getting those checks.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, yeah, it's.

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Speaker 4: Been insane, but hopefully this will be.

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Speaker 2: Like this will be the one.

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Speaker 3: Well as they can go and then for ten years,

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Speaker 3: nine years at least.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like, I will do this as many times

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Speaker 4: as I have to. If I never have to feel

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Speaker 4: that pain.

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Speaker 1: Again, I want Well, Rachel, I think we need to

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Speaker 1: discuss this because now that you know we're all three

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Speaker 1: in this together, I think we needed to do for one,

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Speaker 1: well three for one. I think here's what I've got

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Speaker 1: a planned. What do you think, Rachel, all three of

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Speaker 2: You know. You know what? She says, Yeah, rag, you

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Speaker 3: No, seriously, it's called chemistry. Sometimes you're really attracted to

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Speaker 1: So where's your ideal to meet a guy? Where's where's

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Speaker 4: I mean, it has to be in person at this point.

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Speaker 4: I'm not on any of the apps. I'm not online.

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Speaker 3: About on reality TV? Would you ever do that again?

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Speaker 3: Not even just Bachelor, any kind of reality TV dating show.

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Speaker 4: I am the expert dating. See, okay, I've done all three?

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's right? Cat, we are trailing here.

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Speaker 1: We needed what about Golden Paradise is what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 1: I mean, listen, I have got two orange shoes, cans

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Speaker 2: Send.

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Speaker 4: Having the best time.

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Speaker 2: I'm Can you not see how Susan and I are

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Speaker 3: They?

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Speaker 2: Can you not see it?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I just want to meet all the people that were

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Speaker 4: So I know you guys will be able to date

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Speaker 2: I would do another one. I would.

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Speaker 4: I need to see you guys on Golden Paradise.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I like it.

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Speaker 1: It's not happening breast production or not. Unless you know

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Speaker 2: We're good.

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Speaker 4: Okay, First of all, absolutely not. You guys look amazing

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Speaker 4: and question for compliments. Here idea, what if we do

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Speaker 2: Oh, I like that.

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Speaker 1: You could hike it, Susan in our mucklucks and our

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Speaker 3: You guys can puddle up and little like they could

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Speaker 2: We'd be dead and in paradise.

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Speaker 4: We're sweating, and what wouldn't be there?

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Speaker 2: We're not doing that.

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Speaker 3: They couldn't do that.

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Speaker 2: To the golden.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I agree. All right, here's another one. What's the

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Speaker 2: Do you want some of the air? Really, Susan, is

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Speaker 4: Can you believe it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I was on the show and didn't even have

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Speaker 2: We want to redo you hear.

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Speaker 4: But literally, yes, redo for all of us, Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so that's a good part.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I feel like right now I'm I'm really preferring it, which.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm loving it.

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Speaker 2: Cooking cooking for one or not cooking.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, not having to update someone all day

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Speaker 4: Yes, no one speaking.

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Speaker 1: I'm in bed at four pm because I want to

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Speaker 4: I'm just I'm over it at this point.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 2: Wait, wait, I want Susan. Can I ask one more question?

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Speaker 1: I realize you haven't found the one, but I'm always

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Speaker 4: I've tried this show three times and not once has

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Speaker 4: Clearly not or I might have used it.

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Speaker 3: No, you probably use this one when you see the

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Speaker 1: I mean how do you meet people? Because I know

447
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Speaker 1: in Marshalls, but how else you? Because I am struggling.

448
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 1: I'm not on the dating apps either, and Susan you're

449
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 1: not either, right, So, but we'd like to be dating.

450
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Speaker 1: So I don't know, Susan, you got any good advice

451
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Speaker 1: from me?

452
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Speaker 3: I mean the newspaper. I don't know they even have

453
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Speaker 3: newspapers anymore.

454
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Speaker 1: Did you see put an ad in the newspaper available?

455
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Speaker 3: No, I'm not doing that. I got tried all the

456
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Speaker 3: dating sites. I'm just burnt spent.

457
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Speaker 2: I don't know, Rachel.

458
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:53,159
Speaker 1: I think I'm going to start like going coffee house hopping,

459
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 1: because you know. I mean, I was in a bar

460
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 1: with some friends last week and this guy went his

461
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,199
Speaker 1: wife was sitting next one. He went off. It's on

462
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,400
Speaker 1: my Instagram. You can see it. Like, I didn't put

463
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 1: this guy up to it. I had a video though.

464
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,920
Speaker 1: He was like, she's so fabulous. Why what's wrong with guys?

465
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:09,160
Speaker 4: Why?

466
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 2: You know? And I'm like, I mean, it's hard.

467
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 4: It's hard hard out here.

468
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Speaker 2: Oh no, Rachel, it's not hard for you. You just

469
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 2: told us you like not dating.

470
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 4: But it's hard in general. I think dating now, because

471
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Speaker 4: of the apps and because everything is so available to men,

472
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Speaker 4: I think it is just hard in general.

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Speaker 2: Rachel, tell me again, how old you are?

474
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Speaker 4: I'm twenty eight.

475
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Speaker 2: What's the oldest guy you'll date?

476
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Speaker 1: Twenty eight? I had my first kid when it's twenty eight.

477
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 1: How what's your max dating age?

478
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Speaker 4: I would say, probably like forty five.

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Speaker 1: Wait did you hear that? Susan twenty eight? And she no,

480
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Speaker 1: forty five?

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Speaker 3: I heard her?

482
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Speaker 2: Okay, Rachel, what's the youngest you'll go?

483
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Speaker 4: I maybe like twenty five, Susan.

484
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Speaker 2: What about you?

485
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Speaker 3: You already know my story can still ten years. I

486
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 3: could go a little more. It depends on the person.

487
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Speaker 1: Well, I'm just going to say. You know, I'm a

488
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Speaker 1: New England Patriots fan and Bill Belichick, who was the

489
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 1: general manager. He is seventy two and he is dating

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Speaker 1: a twenty four year old and I was, and I'm

491
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Speaker 1: just gonna do the math for you. He is three

492
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Speaker 1: times as old as she, and I was like, pick her.

493
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Speaker 1: He would pick her, but of course he would. And

494
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Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, Kathy, give it up. Dad older,

495
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 1: day older. And then I started thinking, wait, if I

496
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Speaker 1: date a guy three times my age, first of all,

497
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Speaker 1: I'm going to have to dig him up. He's going

498
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: to be very dusty and brittle, and he's not gonna

499
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Speaker 1: be able to talk, and you know he's probably not

500
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Speaker 1: walking well either.

501
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Speaker 2: I mean, this is it's like I can't win.

502
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 1: Okay, we found each other. We got travel buddies. I mean,

503
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 1: we could travel, we could do everything. Except it is true,

504
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: Rachel for us, for us on the Golden it's true.

505
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Speaker 1: I don't know, you've made a lot of good friends too.

506
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 1: I know you have, uh and for us. To me,

507
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 1: that's the you know, the joy of doing the Golden

508
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 1: Bachelor's the friends it.

509
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Speaker 4: Really is, and the friends that you make. Everyone is

510
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 4: always like, oh, it's just because like of the TV show,

511
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 4: But you truly form those bonds when you're in the

512
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 4: house together and you don't have any outside influence and

513
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 4: you like make friends for life, and it really is

514
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Speaker 4: like the best part.

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Speaker 2: It is, it is.

516
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Speaker 3: And the other best part for us, Kathy, and I'm

517
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Speaker 3: sure you agree is letting the other women in the

518
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 3: world know at our age, life's not over. There's so

519
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:37,640
Speaker 3: much more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like the age of possibilities, like don't

521
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,679
Speaker 1: give it up, don't give up, keep on living. Of course,

522
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: Rachel is allowed to give up right now because she's

523
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Speaker 1: twenty eight.

524
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Speaker 2: Time, she's got.

525
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Speaker 1: Times on that girl's side. We do a thing, Rachel.

526
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: We get questions from fans and then we answer them

527
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 1: and we want we give advice to them. Sometimes we

528
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: give good advice, sometimes bad advice. Sometimes we just don't

529
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 1: know what to say. But we're hoping that you'll join

530
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Speaker 1: in with us when you do it.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm excited to hear what you guys have to say.

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Speaker 3: First, Okay, This is from anonymous, age forty two from Nevada,

533
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Speaker 3: Hi Golden Hour podcast. I'm staying anonymous for this one

534
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 3: because I don't know who to talk to and I

535
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 3: just need some advice. My husband and I have been

536
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 3: together for twelve years and have two little kids. Last week,

537
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 3: my three year old, who loves opening and closing every

538
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Speaker 3: drawer and throwing things on the floor, pull down condoms

539
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Speaker 3: from the back of my husband's closet drawer while he

540
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 3: wasn't home. My husband and I don't use condoms and

541
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Speaker 3: haven't in many, many years. Oh, this is also a

542
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 3: newer home for us, so he would have had to

543
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Speaker 3: put them there within the last year.

544
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Speaker 2: Yikes.

545
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Speaker 3: I want to know if you think I should confront

546
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 3: him about why he has condoms, and if you think

547
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:19,639
Speaker 3: it could mean anything suspicious is going on. I didn't

548
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 3: have any suspicions he could be cheating on me before,

549
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 3: but now that I've seen hidden condoms, I can't get

550
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Speaker 3: it out of my head. Any advice is appreciated. Love you, ladies,

551
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 3: and if you read this, thank you.

552
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Speaker 1: Wait wait, can I just say I want to know

553
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Speaker 1: what the three year old did fetch twenty bucks?

554
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: The three ill was trying to blow him up like balloons.

555
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Speaker 1: I didn't know that they opened it ouch. Okay out,

556
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 1: all right, you're going first, babe me No, Rachel, go.

557
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Speaker 4: I've had friends who this has happened to you, who

558
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 4: have been in relationships cheating. I mean they're married, so

559
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 4: this is different. But when this has happened to my

560
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:10,479
Speaker 4: friends who were just dating, they were cheating. Because if

561
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,400
Speaker 4: you're not using them, there's no reason he should have them.

562
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 4: I would get if it's an old house.

563
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,959
Speaker 3: And yes, she specifically said he would have had to

564
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Speaker 3: put them there within the last year. Pack his freaking bags.

565
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 2: Susan, you're not serious.

566
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no.

567
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 2: You know what.

568
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: No, you know what Susan really meant. She will pack

569
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: his freaking bags for him. That's what she meant to say.

570
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 4: Could there be another reason?

571
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, honey, my buddy and he gave him to

572
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 1: me and I didn't know what to do with them,

573
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Speaker 1: so I just stuck him in the.

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Speaker 3: Back of the closet. You are dead to me.

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00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 1: No, guys, wait a minute, this could easily have come

576
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Speaker 1: from an old packing box. You know, I'm just bullshitting

577
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 1: you here, Kathy, I said, I'm bullshitting here's the thing.

578
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 1: If they just moved into the house and the cons

579
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Speaker 1: are there, you know what I would do, because I'm

580
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: this person, I would take them out and put them

581
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Speaker 1: next to a sink.

582
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say word. I would just take them out.

583
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 2: And that's what I would do.

584
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, the older I get the confrontation, the

585
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 1: smarter we are. You know, he's going to say something

586
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: like you know my friend Joe Ga. He's going to

587
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,199
Speaker 1: say what Susan said. So just put him by a

588
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: sink and watch his reaction.

589
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 3: And Anonymous forty two from the Bata I'm sorry. I'm

590
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 3: really sorry for you. That sucks.

591
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: Well wait a minute, guys, were you still in the

592
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 1: US where you're innoc until proven guilty.

593
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:36,479
Speaker 2: Do you think he's cheating Rachel?

594
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 3: Yes, oh, or he plans to.

595
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 4: There's no reason that he should still have them if

596
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,479
Speaker 4: it was an old house. Again, that's a separate, separate argument.

597
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 4: I don't see anyway.

598
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: So I'm a writer by training, and she very clearly

599
00:28:54,920 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: here says the back of my husband's they were hidden.

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00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 1: So I think Anonymous age forty two from Nevada, you

601
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: may be joining us for breast productions drinking and bar

602
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: hopping when you're forty.

603
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 3: Jumping out of airplanes. Thank you so much for writing us.

604
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 3: We got to move on to the next time. I

605
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 3: feel bad. I couldn't even help.

606
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:21,959
Speaker 2: I know, I'm sorry. I don't you know.

607
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 1: I do feel sorry for you, and I hope it's

608
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: not true, but the three of us think it's probably likely.

609
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 3: Rachel's an agreement.

610
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Speaker 1: Okay, all right. This one is from Sienna. She's twenty

611
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: nine from dan Berry, Connecticut. Hello, ladies, I need you

612
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: to tell me if my boyfriend's mom is crossing a line.

613
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: I think so, but he doesn't. My boyfriend and I

614
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: started dating six ish months ago, and we have been

615
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: spending time at his family's lake house a lot this summer.

616
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: I'm just getting to know his parents, and I'm very

617
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: grateful they are letting us stay with them. His mom

618
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: is so happy her son found love and loves taking

619
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 1: fun what of us together. I don't mind the candidates

620
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 1: and posing here and there, But what I don't like

621
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: is that she keeps taking photo of us, photos of

622
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 1: us while we're sleeping, Sorry, while we're sleeping. She'll sneak

623
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Speaker 1: sneak into our room that doesn't have a lock at

624
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Speaker 1: like six am before we wake up, snap a pick

625
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: and then send it to the family group chat saying like,

626
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: oh how cute. I feel like this is a strange

627
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: invasion of privacy and I literally don't know what to

628
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: do about it. Any thoughts on this would be helpful.

629
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: How would you handle the situation? Love the pod and

630
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: love you both. Thank you, Sianna. What do you think, Rachel?

631
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Speaker 4: Well, I think, first of all, it's crossing a line.

632
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 4: Yes for sure, Yes, yes, she's letting them stay at

633
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 4: the lake house. Amazing, they're getting to know each other.

634
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 4: But there has to be a certain level of privacy

635
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 4: which I think is being invaded in this situation. And

636
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 4: I think going to the boyfriend and telling him how

637
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 4: uncomfortable you are. I think it's his place to probably

638
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 4: talk to.

639
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 3: Mom like seriously. Or or one you could put a

640
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 3: chair up against the door so she can't get in.

641
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 3: Or two, have no covers, be totally naked and say.

642
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 1: That you know mom, Oh god, Susan, no, get mom.

643
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: You know what I'd see, That's the thing. Susan would

644
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: be naked. I'd be at home depot getting a dead bolt.

645
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: I mean, there's one difference between us right there. But

646
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: here's what is bizarre to me, shock value his boyfriend.

647
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: What'd you say, shock value?

648
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 2: Yeah?

649
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: Really, her boyfriend doesn't think it's strange, Sienna. I don't

650
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: like saying this, but I think you better reconsider your

651
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 1: boyfriend if he doesn't think that's strange. All three of

652
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: us here, you know, from twenty eight to whatever, I

653
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: think that's really strange.

654
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 4: Right.

655
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 3: Also, it was like, aw, like she might be that real.

656
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 1: Old fashioned mommy and she just I swear to God,

657
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 1: if you defend this, I'm throwing out of the airplane

658
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: without a parachute.

659
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 2: I swear to god.

660
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 4: If they were taking a nap on the couch and

661
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 4: she took the picture and they were like in the

662
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 4: family area, fine, uncomfortable, but whatever going into the room

663
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 4: is crossing the line, Like what if you were changing

664
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 4: or it's like you have no privacy.

665
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Speaker 1: I would say something to the boyfriend, not like honey,

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Speaker 1: what do you think it'd be? Like is there something

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Speaker 1: wrong with you? Like I'd be single in ten minutes

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Speaker 1: because the fact that he doesn't think there's something wrong

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Speaker 1: with that.

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Speaker 3: But really, she should have the conversation with that woman

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Speaker 3: and say exactly what Rachel just said, I don't mind

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Speaker 3: if we're taking a nap or something, but really I

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Speaker 3: have mourning hair or whatever. Don't do it when we're sleeping,

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Speaker 3: like napping, you know what. Ever you don't that's crossing

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Speaker 3: the line. But be kind about it because maybe the

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Speaker 3: mother is so excited.

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Speaker 2: They've been dating six months.

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Speaker 1: Sienna, you got only freak out of the road out,

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Speaker 1: You've got six months invested in this relationship.

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Speaker 2: Move along, move along. I think it's bizarre.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, to be that comfortable to go into the room

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Speaker 4: that early into the relationship. If she's excited, she should

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Speaker 4: want to like preserve this.

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Speaker 2: No, she's probably trying to get rid of the girl.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that actually is a good point.

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Speaker 1: I think she is definitely trying to get rid of

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Speaker 1: the girl, because that is the moms meddling moms.

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Speaker 2: I would Susan, would you ever do? Well?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Rachel, you and your boyfriend, Susan and I are

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Speaker 1: your mothers because you know, we come in a pair

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Speaker 1: and we're in there snapping pics.

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Speaker 2: Are you come on?

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Speaker 3: Well, if it was you two, I'd be I jump

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Speaker 3: in the bed with.

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Speaker 1: Them and see, but I'd be like we start singing

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Speaker 1: there we're four in the bed and the little and

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Speaker 1: said roll all over.

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Speaker 4: It seems too early like for this bizarre behavior. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I didn't realize the six month part.

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Speaker 1: You're right, okay, I think well, Sana, good luck. Yeah, Sienna,

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Speaker 1: we wish you all the best. And I would say

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Speaker 1: to you there are many more fish in the sea.

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Speaker 1: You're twenty nine. I would cast your net far and

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Speaker 1: wide and move along.

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Speaker 2: That's what I do. Or you do that.

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Speaker 3: Before you do that, have a serious conversation with your boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: And then moving a jump ship. All right, well that

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Speaker 1: does it. Unfortunately, that doesn't I know.

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Speaker 4: For this episode one.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: So Rachel, have you've got to promise us you have

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Speaker 1: to come back next time. We want to see you

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Speaker 1: with boobs coming out of your throat. We can all compare, Yeah,

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00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: we'll all compare. We'll all you know, maybe we can.

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Speaker 1: We'll do a topless one, Susan.

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Speaker 4: We'll do a topless one. She agreed.

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Speaker 2: I'll do it anyhow, Rachel. Rachel, So, if you heard

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Speaker 2: of dry humor, I was kidding.

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Speaker 1: Not Yeah, Susan, O be and you know what's gonna happen, Susan,

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Speaker 1: They're gonna go Jesus, she did that next to Rachel.

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Speaker 2: What was she thinking? You you got to know where

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Speaker 2: to just gat some life?

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Speaker 3: Bow am I tell me with it?

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Speaker 4: So I look the same surgeon.

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Speaker 2: Oh that poor guy. He'll retire after he does us.

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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, all right, well listen, it is so Rachel,

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Speaker 1: thank you all so much for joining us. It's just

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Speaker 1: and Rachel, thank you for joining us. And you're a

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Speaker 1: wise woman beyond your years. And we love you and

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Speaker 1: we hope your health continues to improve.

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Speaker 2: Truly, thank you for having me.

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Speaker 4: I love you both.

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Speaker 1: We love getting the chat to you with you, and

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Speaker 1: we'd like to hear all this good stuff about you

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Speaker 1: going back to flying, your surgeries that we all want.

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Speaker 1: And I really really love the fact that you're just

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Speaker 1: doing you right now.

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Speaker 3: You don't have to date to be happy. And I

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Speaker 3: hope the best one of all comes along for you

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Speaker 3: for all of us too.

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Speaker 2: Season I know, I know, and be ducha, we'll take

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Speaker 2: second best.

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Speaker 3: joining us and enjoying her like we did. Make sure

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Speaker 3: you follow us at Bachelor Happy Hour as we have

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