1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: I ignored my dates twelve red flags, and now I'm 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: paying for it. This is okay, Ope, the home of 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: the craziest stories on Earth. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 2: I'm Sam and John. What is your red flag? 5 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: My red flag is that. I do not believe in 6 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: red flags. Bro, it's a walking red flag right there 7 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: does not exist. 8 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,639 Speaker 3: I'm not holding anything you're I read your sweater and 9 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 3: I read nothing. 10 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 2: He's color blind. I'm flag blind. He's flag he doesn't. 11 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: See flag colors. 12 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 2: Where is this where? 13 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: No? Wow, I'm so progressive, Prue. The audience says, my 14 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: red flag is that I'm a fuck boy. So they 15 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,279 Speaker 1: said that about you. Oh my god? 16 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 2: What is John's red flag? Yeah? Yeah? Actually comment below? 17 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 2: What is my red flag? I'm very curious to know. 18 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 3: Let's get into this story recent inflation three seventy one. 19 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,879 Speaker 3: They say, Hello, I just saw your YouTube video, so 20 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 3: I wanted to post my story. 21 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 2: Hey, yo, that exists. 22 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 3: Is my first time posting here, so sorry if it 23 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 3: might be a long post. 24 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 2: By the way, y'all, we want the long post. We 25 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: long posts. Long posts are great, fifteen hundred words plus. 26 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 2: We love it makes my job here. That's right. Help 27 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 2: help big protein out of it's been a long story. 28 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 3: I thirty six female, met my husband thirty seven mail 29 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 3: nine years ago on plenty of Fish. 30 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: I had been and the second person that we recently 31 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 1: read on plenty of Fish. 32 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 2: Right, I think that the other one was also was okay? 33 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 2: Our s okay? What is is plenty of Fish? Good? 34 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 2: Are you just all on plenty of Fish? And we 35 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 2: have no idea? I think I've made a profile before, 36 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: have I? We're about to No? No, no, no no Riley. 37 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: Riley makes the dating god. Now that would kill me. Yeah, 38 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 2: you would be burnered. Make quit for me and save 39 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 2: your life job, save a john life today. 40 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 3: I had been in a dating slump because I didn't 41 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 3: really want a ready made family, as I didn't have 42 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 3: kids yet and it was hard to find someone without 43 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 3: a child or having children here. So maybe OP is 44 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 3: a little older, and it's like, hey, I you know 45 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 3: people my age already have kids and that's kind of tough. 46 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 2: That's how I'm going for him. Yeah. 47 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 3: My stepfather asked me if I had tried plenty of 48 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 3: Fish yet, since I had tried all the other dating. 49 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: Apps at this point, I hadn't, so I figured why not. 50 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: Maybe it's an older crowd on Plenty of Fish. 51 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 2: There we go. That would make sense. 52 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 3: But I feel like the last story was like super 53 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 3: young too, like twenty or something, right, but I could 54 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 3: I could see still being I have no idea. 55 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: We are not experts. John and I are both not 56 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: on data. That is correct. 57 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship to be glare because I don't 58 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: like him. 59 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 2: That's good because you want real human connection. 60 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: Oh the other Plenty of Fish was the dude that 61 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: tried to propose like on the second date. 62 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 2: On the second Yeah, there we go. Yeah that's what 63 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: that was. 64 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 3: So after getting nothing but d bags and f boys 65 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 3: not talking about Sam. 66 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:33,959 Speaker 2: Here, Sorry, Sam's Ken's shrapnel. 67 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 3: Sorry guys. Sorry guy readly fire wanting nothing but in 68 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 3: O n S. 69 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 2: Only non sexual. I thought, you know what is that? 70 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: Because you're. 71 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,079 Speaker 3: Dude, poor Sam. But it puts some hard emojis in 72 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 3: the comments for Sam today. He's been he's been catching fire. 73 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:53,119 Speaker 3: He's been catching fire. 74 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 2: He really isn't that's right? When I stand, Wow, there we. 75 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,679 Speaker 1: Go, like Sam knows all about that. I haven't had 76 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 1: any one night I've had one one night stand. 77 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 2: I have one. 78 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: I've had one accidental one night stay. Yeah, it was accidental. 79 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: I was down to to actually was with my neighbor 80 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 1: yo over there. 81 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 3: I'm like looking at them and like, nothing but a 82 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 3: one night stand. I'm not the type to go for that, 83 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 3: not that there's anything wrong with that, It's just enough 84 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 3: for me. I decided to give some men who were dad's. 85 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 2: A try, okay, daddy, daddy's Yeah. 86 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 3: As soon as I changed the filter on my Plenty 87 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 3: of Fish profile to. 88 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: Kids, okay, I found my husband. Wow, let's call him Brad. 89 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: Honestly like being able to have not necessarily, but sometimes 90 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: having kids could be at least it's a uh, it 91 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: is an indicator to this guy fox. 92 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 2: I was. 93 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,559 Speaker 3: I was going to say that they've been like responsible 94 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 3: for raising a human being, which is like. 95 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: No, you can't say that. Yeah, no, you don't know that. 96 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 2: You don't know if they're responsible for raising that. 97 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 3: But you do know that this guy fucks fair enough, 98 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 3: fair enough. Yes, Okay, there you go. The one thing 99 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 3: we know for sure, only guarantee. 100 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: That's the only guarantee. He has multiple kids, then maybe 101 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: he does it. 102 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 3: Well, you got you got it, Bill, True enough, he's 103 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 3: a good at it or at insemination's that's true. 104 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: That's true. Maybe he busted so quick that that is true. Honestly, 105 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: it is a like I feel like it's evolutionarily helpful 106 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: to bus Quick if you think about it, it is. 107 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: But they're not happy with it. They always got to 108 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 2: say something about it. Part of evolution. Oh man, right, 109 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 2: all right, do you have another sad story time for us? Okay, 110 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: they always say something about it. 111 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: If I want to girl and I bus Quick, they're 112 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 1: gonna love it because they're gonna be like, oh, that's 113 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 1: a compliment, like, don't love me for it. 114 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 2: It's that true. I hope so, because I hope I do. 115 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 3: Hey, ladies, ladies, there's a reason he's called big protein 116 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 3: for a reason. No further comment, not quick protein fire 117 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 3: has been returned, ladies and gentlemen like. 118 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 2: Okay, honestly, if I do, I don't care, because there's 119 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 2: always gonna be round two, and I know I'm a 120 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 2: trooper in round two. There we go, There we go. 121 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 2: You just you just got it, you just brow. Have 122 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 2: you ever seen Wolf of Wall Street? Watched that scene? 123 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 1: Okay, I don't even know what the scene is. 124 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 2: Then I. 125 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: Don't know if you should model your sexual lifestyle off 126 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: the street. 127 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 2: That was his wife and of all the ladies, that 128 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 2: was his wife that he that happened to. That's true. 129 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 2: There we go. I didn't turn it out well though, 130 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 2: but like in the moment, that one was perfect. Yeah. 131 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 1: Wow, we're firing on all cylinders podcasting today, Ladies and 132 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 1: gentlemen today, ready to podcast. Honestly, this has been a 133 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: war class session today, banger bangers because we've been missing it. 134 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 2: That's true. Yeah, I did miss you guys, being like 135 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 2: in my day. We're busting quick. Okay, okay, been a 136 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 2: minute and we bust. Yes, that's right. Okay, we're getting 137 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 2: back to the story. 138 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: Laza, gentle and I hope you enjoyed that wonderful, wonderful 139 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 1: banter today. 140 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 2: Okay, star right, my. 141 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: Man, Brian, just really quick. My question is from Riley. 142 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: Is it a compliment? Put your answers below. 143 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 2: There we go. The ladies of the show always let 144 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: us know, tell us what's up. 145 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 1: He was good looking around my age and as dumb 146 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: as it sounds, checked everything off on my list. 147 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 2: A little backstory. 148 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 3: I come from a broken home where my mom is 149 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 3: married for fifteen years now to my second stepdad, but 150 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: from when I was twelve, it was just the two 151 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 3: of us. 152 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: Dang, do people say broken home instead of divorce or 153 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: is that like, does that just mean divorced? 154 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 2: I think yeah, I think it's like synonym. 155 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so much sadder. 156 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, it does sound a lot worse. 157 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 3: Honestly, my stepdad was abusive to both of us, and 158 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:38,039 Speaker 3: I was so happy when we finally left him. 159 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 2: Wow. 160 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 3: Okay, anyways, this caused me to be very picky about 161 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 3: the men I dated and let into my life. 162 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: Air as you should be, as you should be. 163 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 3: I can't remember, but I think I messaged him first 164 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 3: on Plenty of Fish. But we hit it off and 165 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 3: we started talking constantly, exchange phone numbers, texting, social media's, et. 166 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 2: Cetera, et cetera. 167 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 3: One day, I was at work and I was talking 168 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 3: with a coworker let's call her Kathy at the time, 169 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 3: fifty seven female, and she asked me to show her 170 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 3: a picture of him. When I did, she explained that 171 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 3: she knew Brad and her son were friends, but she 172 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 3: went on to explain that she thought that he was 173 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 3: still married. 174 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 2: Oh he wasn't. His divorce had been final for a 175 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 2: few months at that point. 176 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: Wow, but it's fresh. It's still a little fresh. Yeah, man, 177 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: that's usually when you get divorce, you're kind of like 178 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: not on good terms for a while. Yeah, exactly, it 179 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: might be a year when they kind of emotional separated. 180 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. 181 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 3: I was so upset because I thought here that Brad 182 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 3: seemed to be a wonderful guy, but he was still 183 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 3: just married. So maybe, oh he's still a little still 184 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 3: a little little on the fence about it. 185 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: So he's still oh he's on the fence that he's 186 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: just came out of a marriage. Oh it's a little 187 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: fresh fresh. 188 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 189 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 1: But like we said, like it could be that they 190 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: were separated for years. Potentially the divorces can take a while. 191 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 2: This is true, just my luck. 192 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 3: Very next day, Kathy informed me that she had spoken 193 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 3: to her son and realized that Brad was in fact single, 194 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 3: and she told me to go for it because as 195 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 3: he is a great man. Well, come to find out, 196 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 3: at this time, Brad owned his own small restaurant. 197 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 2: That's kind of fire. That's that is a major what 198 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 2: a flex Wait wait, wait, that's a. 199 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: Green flag, not a financial green flag, because restaurants usually 200 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: are very hard to operate and have a razor thin margins. 201 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 2: But cool, but you can literally. 202 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: Close out the restaurant for the night and be like 203 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 1: you'll be, let's set down a blanket and a bottle 204 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: of wine. 205 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 3: That's kind of sick. You walk in and there's one 206 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 3: candlelit table. Ah, dude, and your dog is on a plate. 207 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 3: I can't beat it. 208 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, baby, give me sixty seconds. Yeah the bus 209 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 1: quick special, Yeah yeah, quick protein. 210 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 3: Throw quick protein in the comments, Guys, how many can 211 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 3: we get? 212 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 2: That's it. That's it. I'm done. I'm done. That's it. 213 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 2: That's my last time, last time raking out Riley. We're done. 214 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 3: We're done, but just do it. Please, thank you, goodbye? Okay, 215 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 3: we we love we love. 216 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 2: You, you know we love you. Yeah. 217 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 3: Now he had this amazing made from scratch brick oven 218 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 3: pizza and frozen stone ice cream parlor. 219 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 2: Wow that say, So what did Kathy make me do? 220 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: She'd ordered a pizza to go and made me pick 221 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: it up just so I could meet him. That's cute, 222 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: w Cathy. I was so nervous when I got there. 223 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: I'm sure my face was as red as a tomato. 224 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 2: Same once he was fash that pizza. There was a 225 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 2: nice guy, but not my hobby behind the register. 226 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 3: But I kept looking at him, thinking that it didn't 227 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 3: look like the pictures of Brad that I had seen. 228 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: Uh oh, oh, so she's confused. 229 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's looking at the wrong guy, being like, wait, 230 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 3: what been his brother? I know I had to have 231 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 3: been starring at him for a while because the guy 232 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 3: said is there anything else second it for you, which 233 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 3: jerked me out of my thoughts, and I quickly said, oh, no, 234 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 3: thank you, and I bolted out of the door. When 235 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 3: I got back to work, Kathy asked me how it went, 236 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 3: and when I told her that I didn't meet him, 237 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 3: she got so frustrated that I didn't make an attempt 238 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 3: to meet him that she called me and placed an 239 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 3: ice cream order to go and made. 240 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 2: Me pick it up again. That's so funny, Kathy is 241 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 2: going for it this time. 242 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 3: When I got there, the male employee wasn't upfront, but 243 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 3: a female employeelet's call her Joy. I stood there for 244 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 3: a second while waiting for my order, and when Joy 245 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 3: asked if there was anything else she could do, I 246 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 3: did it. I asked if Brad was there and if 247 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 3: I could talk to him. She said, yeah, hang on 248 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 3: a sec and disappeared to the back. Next thing I know, 249 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 3: a few minutes later, there he was, in all of 250 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 3: his glory walking to the front, and my heart just 251 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 3: started racing so fast. I introduced myself and said I 252 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 3: apologized for the abruptness of my visit, but that Kathy 253 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 3: was insistent. 254 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 2: That we meet in person. That's cute. I'm getting cute vibes. 255 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 2: This is cute vibe so great. I love this. 256 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 3: Of course, between both orders, Brad and I had texted 257 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 3: and I explained that I had just picked up a 258 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 3: pizza order and looked for him, but I didn't see him. 259 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 3: He texted back and said that I should have asked 260 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 3: for him anyway. After I explained everything, I could tell 261 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 3: that he was nervous too. 262 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: Ah, this is adorable. 263 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 2: He was so quiet, but so sweet. 264 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 3: I finally left after a few minutes, but I just 265 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 3: had this feeling, this wonderful, warm feeling that I had 266 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 3: just met my soulmates. Sorry to get sappy, Lole, don't 267 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 3: don't apologize that, Paul. 268 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 2: We we love us. 269 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 3: We stand a good, sweet, sappy story. When I got 270 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 3: back to work, I was happy to report to Kathy 271 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 3: that I had in fact summoned the courage to meet 272 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 3: Brad and the subsequent feelings that followed. She beamed and 273 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 3: said I knew it. And after that night we spent 274 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 3: all the time that we could together and texted and 275 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 3: talked constantly. 276 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:13,840 Speaker 2: Oh. 277 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 3: He and my son were living with my father in 278 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 3: law at the time, helping with his mom, fifty seven female, 279 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,559 Speaker 3: who had dementia. About a week or so later, when 280 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 3: I accidentally met my son and father in law. A 281 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 3: week ago or so later is when I accidentally met 282 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:27,599 Speaker 3: my son and father in law. I had gone to 283 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 3: the restaurant. I'm a little confused, what what's happening now? 284 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 2: I had met my son and father in law Like 285 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 2: that is her father in law and her son. 286 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 3: Ah, okay, so she's meeting the future step son and 287 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 3: future father in law. Oh by accident now, but obviously 288 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 3: they're not the father in law steps on yet. I 289 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 3: had gone to the restaurant and was waiting for Brad 290 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 3: when they walked in. Here go the nerves again. 291 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: Lol. 292 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 3: They were so nice and kind, and my son, let's 293 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 3: call him timmy five male, was so cute and sweet 294 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 3: it actually went airy. 295 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 2: Well. 296 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 3: After all of that, everything else just seemed to fall 297 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 3: into place. I was living on my own in a 298 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 3: two bedroom townhouse Loki flex uh, and they moved in 299 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 3: with me after we dated for a couple of months. 300 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 1: Wait, wait, Brad moved in. Brad moved in with his 301 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: kid really to Op's two bedroom after. 302 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:13,599 Speaker 2: I guess, like he's still close to his mother in 303 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 2: law or mother that had dementia. So I guess he 304 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 2: was getting out of the house or the mother had dementia. 305 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: He had his own house, but the mother was staying there. 306 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 2: Perhaps. 307 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: I was like, if he owns a restaurant, like I imagine 308 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: he would have. 309 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 2: Like, he's not he's not home. 310 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, yeah, fair enough, there could be. But yeah, basically, 311 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 3: it seems like the dating was just going so well. 312 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 3: They're just like, hey, let's move in together. This is 313 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 3: going going great. I know it seems too fast to 314 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 3: our to our point conversation, three months is fast, but 315 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 3: when you're older, so it could be four or five 316 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 3: you know, who knows. And it was, but like they say, 317 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 3: when you know, you know. 318 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 1: We got engaged shortly after that and married by the 319 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: end of the year. 320 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 3: Everything was perfect. Honestly, if Joy hadn't pushed Brad to 321 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 3: come to the front to talk to me, I do 322 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 3: not know where we would be. On our first date, 323 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:00,839 Speaker 3: he took me to. 324 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 1: His restaurant when it was closed and let me make 325 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 1: my own pizza, and we took it back to my 326 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 1: house and watched a movie. I mean, dude, I mean, 327 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:13,079 Speaker 1: come on, flex just just kneed in the dough like 328 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,199 Speaker 1: home here, hell show you need it like this and 329 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: he gets behind her. It's like the pottery scene from 330 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: that movie well, Patrick Swayze or whatever. 331 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:21,839 Speaker 2: See, I don't know movies, but I know that one. 332 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 2: What movie is that? I don't know. 333 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 3: She's like classic eighties movie where it's like, nah, babe, 334 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 3: there's they're sitting next to a pretty uh phallic looking 335 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 3: at pottery that like, let me show you here you go, babe, Yeah, 336 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 3: Patrick Swayze pottery. 337 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 2: There we go. 338 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:37,839 Speaker 1: Come on, I know movies, That's what I'm talking. I mean, 339 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: replace that with oh, a couple of your so in 340 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:41,719 Speaker 1: you're in like a twin. 341 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 2: There you go. 342 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 1: I kind of want to see that. Can we can 343 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: we see that scene? 344 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 2: Really? 345 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: Well, let's see give me the scene the most famous 346 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:47,319 Speaker 1: pottery scene. 347 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 3: On our second or third day, I knew I was 348 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 3: comfortable and had no reservations with him about anything too. 349 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 3: We just sat on the couch listening to the rain outside. 350 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 2: Oh my God. 351 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 1: I had my head on his shoulder and his arm 352 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: around me, and I actually fell asleep for several minutes. 353 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: There was no pressure for anything, no expectations, just pure 354 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: comfort and silence. And that is when I knew for 355 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: sure that this was the man I had prayed and 356 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: waited for. We just celebrated our eighth wedding versus our 357 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 1: eighth wedding anniversary on October. 358 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 3: Of twenty twenty three. He knows me better than anybody 359 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 3: else in the world and is my rock and helps 360 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 3: me keep my sanity when my crazy family starts crap. 361 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 3: That's a whole different story. 362 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 2: Lol than that. 363 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 3: In OK, please, we did move fast. Just started talking 364 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 3: in March twenty fifteen. Engaged, June twenty fifteen, married, Oh 365 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 3: married October twenty fifteen. 366 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 2: Three months to engage. That's big. Wow, that's big. 367 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 3: I can't explain it other than I've never felt more 368 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 3: sure about any about something or someone in my life. 369 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 3: We've now had our son, my bonus son, although let's 370 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 3: face it, he's mine fourteen mail and our daughter by female. 371 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 3: Life isn't perfect by any means, but the family you 372 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 3: choose slash makes help, makes life easier, and I wouldn't 373 00:14:58,520 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 3: change a thing. 374 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 2: Two damn cutes. Come on, I. 375 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 1: Love a wholesome ada. I love a wholesome ending perfect. 376 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: Can we do more wholesome stories? 377 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll get more. Just make more wholesome stories. They're 378 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 2: hard to come by, that's true. We do. We have 379 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 2: some crazy There are more broken people than wholesome people. 380 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: If you have wholesome stories, please submit them. We would 381 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: we would love to hear them. Every story has to 382 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 1: be crazy and terrible. It can be that is true loving. 383 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 2: Like some dude said about cheating, yeah, just what people want. 384 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 1: So what actually said in the comments recently that was like, hey, like, 385 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: you guys should do other stories behind it's cheating and 386 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: I'll still watch. 387 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 3: That's true. You know what we are. We read the comments, 388 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 3: we take the feedback. 389 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 1: We actually we do read like a lot of the 390 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: a lot. So I'm so excited for them to see 391 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: the video coming up. 392 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 2: It's gonna be so good. You guys don't even know. 393 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 2: You guys don't already. 394 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: Maybe this will come out before this one true true, 395 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: we'll see it could because we might move it up 396 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: in the production. 397 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 3: Sle'll go check out a video about well this has 398 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 3: been a wholesome story that has a very fun episode. 399 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 2: If you love us, make sure to subscribe. We love 400 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 2: you and see you tomorrow.