WEBVTT - Work Week Sounds Kinda Crazy 

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with

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<v Speaker 1>your hosts me Gia.

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<v Speaker 2>Judice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Fessler.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a very special episode of Dirty Rush. We

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<v Speaker 3>are on a top secret sorority girl and one fraternity

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<v Speaker 3>boy retreat. I will not even say where we are,

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<v Speaker 3>but what we want you all to know is that

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<v Speaker 3>it's work week and a lot of people are probably

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<v Speaker 3>saying to themselves, the hell is work week? A sorority girl,

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<v Speaker 3>especially this younger era of sorority girls, really knows what

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<v Speaker 3>work week is. I think in I am fifty, so

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<v Speaker 3>in my era, I don't know that we actually called

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<v Speaker 3>it work week, but we called it pre rush. So

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<v Speaker 3>we want to let everybody listening in on the secrets

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<v Speaker 3>of work week. So we begin with Catherine, who is

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<v Speaker 3>a current Kapa Kapa gamma at a school we will

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<v Speaker 3>not name.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, Catherine, what year are you?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to be a senior, So let me ask

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<v Speaker 5>you this first.

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<v Speaker 3>Do seniors get to do less work during rush than

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<v Speaker 3>sophomores and juniors?

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<v Speaker 5>We do less during work week?

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<v Speaker 6>We do the same amount as Rush just because we've

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<v Speaker 6>already done it in the past.

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<v Speaker 5>We've learned everything. We kind of the gist.

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<v Speaker 6>We'll go into work week the last day just to

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<v Speaker 6>like get our groove.

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<v Speaker 5>With the younger people.

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<v Speaker 6>Make sure that like we can like memory, like re

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<v Speaker 6>memorize everything, because it's like it's like riding a bike,

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<v Speaker 6>like you learn the songs once, like you get it

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<v Speaker 6>again after doing it with the group.

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<v Speaker 5>But Rush you are there for the entire part of it.

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<v Speaker 3>So for people listening, work week is happening right now

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<v Speaker 3>all over the country, and at some schools work week

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<v Speaker 3>is actually two weeks. I was astounded to learn that

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<v Speaker 3>at your school, is it work week?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it how long? It's taking a.

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<v Speaker 6>Week and half like counting weekends and like a couple

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<v Speaker 6>like two days before rush as well, So it's probably

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<v Speaker 6>it's around like nine days for us.

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<v Speaker 3>So can you give us an overview of for you,

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<v Speaker 3>what work week is? What is happening during work week?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we A lot of it revolves around learning bump groups.

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<v Speaker 6>Bump groups change each round of Rush. It can change

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<v Speaker 6>depending on how many people are in each party. I

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<v Speaker 6>mean some days you're having twelve parties in just sisterhood day,

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<v Speaker 6>and there's a certain amount of number of girls, and

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<v Speaker 6>like you're figuring that out day of five minutes before

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<v Speaker 6>you're opening those doors and having these p and ms

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<v Speaker 6>come in. So a lot of it is you're matching

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<v Speaker 6>girls in your bump group.

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<v Speaker 3>You're literally like you don't start to interrupting, but you

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<v Speaker 3>don't do the same bump group for the whole week. No,

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<v Speaker 3>what is the strategy behind changing the bump group?

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<v Speaker 5>We our first two days we do randoms.

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<v Speaker 6>So when we have the p and ms in front

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<v Speaker 6>of the door, you grab the first girl that you see,

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<v Speaker 6>Like we teach everyone, like the first person you lock

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<v Speaker 6>guys with, you were grabbing them and you were walking

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<v Speaker 6>with them.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you also.

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<v Speaker 3>Taught that that girl is the shiniest star you've ever

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<v Speaker 3>met in your life?

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely? Absolutely, you are. You better know their name.

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<v Speaker 6>And you better know where they're from, their hometown, asking

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<v Speaker 6>them questions because those things also then you need to

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<v Speaker 6>remember it going to vote for them right after, because

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<v Speaker 6>you're gonna talk to like three girls in one party,

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<v Speaker 6>and if you don't remember their name, you don't remember

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<v Speaker 6>like the facts about them, You're gonna go after they

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<v Speaker 6>leave and have to go vote on them and be like,

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<v Speaker 6>oh my god, like who was this girl? I'm trying

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<v Speaker 6>to remember her. I'm trying to remember her face. It's

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<v Speaker 6>like you need to like lock those things then for

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<v Speaker 6>sure as a.

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<v Speaker 3>Bump group whole. Or do you vote individually and do

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<v Speaker 3>you vote on an app?

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<v Speaker 5>We vote on an app.

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<v Speaker 6>We you go into a private room with your bump group.

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<v Speaker 6>Our bump groups are normally around three girls. Max, You're

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<v Speaker 6>really not supposed to talk to your people about it

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<v Speaker 6>if you need to ask a question of like, hey, like,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm really feeling kind of conflicted right now because like

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<v Speaker 6>I liked this girl, but like I don't know like

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<v Speaker 6>how well she would fit in the or like I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know if she seems like she really cares or

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<v Speaker 6>like values like our chapter, et cetera. So like you

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<v Speaker 6>can ask for like advice, like you really should not

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<v Speaker 6>like be trying to And.

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<v Speaker 3>Two quick questions, can somebody that knows that girl previously

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<v Speaker 3>vote on her?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>And also do you have I don't know what we

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<v Speaker 3>call them, maybe roamers, Like they're not in a bump group,

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<v Speaker 3>but they're roaming and they can go up and talk

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<v Speaker 3>to anyone they want during a party and then go

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<v Speaker 3>vote on that girl.

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<v Speaker 6>No, we cannot do that. You like absolutely. The only

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<v Speaker 6>time that you can do that is PREF. And what

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<v Speaker 6>we do is if you know the girl as like

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<v Speaker 6>you went to high school with her or you were

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, some type of like hometown person to her,

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<v Speaker 6>you can go into their like the room that she's

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<v Speaker 6>talking to someone in and like walk in and be

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<v Speaker 6>like hi, Like we do this thing where for PREF

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<v Speaker 6>we read like letters, like we read like letters from

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<v Speaker 6>like your like their parents, and like we surprise them

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<v Speaker 6>with them. So like sometimes like we'll have like the

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<v Speaker 6>person that they know like homeship come in and be

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<v Speaker 6>like hey, like I wanted to come in and like

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<v Speaker 6>like read these letters to you.

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<v Speaker 5>And then's supposed to do this like whole floaterer buying.

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<v Speaker 3>So a floater could go during the party and talk

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<v Speaker 3>to anyone they want and then go vote on the person.

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<v Speaker 6>If a floater for us, you can only vote on

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<v Speaker 6>them if you had a conversation with them. If you

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<v Speaker 6>did not have a conversation with them, you cannot vote

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<v Speaker 6>on them.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting, all right, So for everybody again, sum up what

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<v Speaker 3>is happening during work week? What is possibly being done

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<v Speaker 3>twenty four hours a day for more than a week

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<v Speaker 3>to prepare.

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<v Speaker 6>For Rush overall grand things, your songs, memorizing them, doing

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<v Speaker 6>them with one hundred and twenty girls.

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<v Speaker 4>You sing a little of one of your songs. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I could let.

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<v Speaker 6>Me think Kaya Pfea take it twice an Ada Ga

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<v Speaker 6>Mma Kapa Kappa Gamma. Yeah, and we do that. That's

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<v Speaker 6>like our day one song. And you do that for

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<v Speaker 6>maybe ten minutes while all the girls are coming into

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<v Speaker 6>the house.

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<v Speaker 5>And then once everyone's say.

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<v Speaker 4>Open while you're singing or do you have to wait

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<v Speaker 4>till it's closed.

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<v Speaker 5>Once the door closes, that's when we stop singing.

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<v Speaker 4>That's like that you're now allowed to sing when they

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<v Speaker 4>come in.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so they'll be coming in, everyone's singing, and then

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<v Speaker 6>once that door closes, that's like the queue for everyone

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<v Speaker 6>to stop singing. It has to like travel down throughout

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<v Speaker 6>the house for everyone to know like done.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so we'll get I mean, obviously, welcome to season

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<v Speaker 3>two of Dirty Rush. This is you know, great stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to bring this all to you live from

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<v Speaker 3>all over the country at Sorority Rush everywhere. But right

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<v Speaker 3>now we're focusing on work week. So again, tell me

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<v Speaker 3>the most probably the top five things other than a

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<v Speaker 3>bump group that happened, So bump group song. Give me

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<v Speaker 3>three more things.

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<v Speaker 6>The things that you need to ask them and how

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<v Speaker 6>to respond to questions of like day for example, they

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<v Speaker 6>prepare you of like you might have a girl that's

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<v Speaker 6>going to come in and say, like I want to

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<v Speaker 6>be in a sorority, to go to frat day parties

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<v Speaker 6>and meet a frat guy and have him be my boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 6>which is exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>What ninety nine percent of every girl wants.

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<v Speaker 6>And so we'll do like practice conversations, like literally like

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<v Speaker 6>our like president and vice president will walk around and

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<v Speaker 6>make sure that we're like actually practicing this, and like

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<v Speaker 6>we'll like literally practice I use this question.

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<v Speaker 3>Say if someone says I want to be in this

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<v Speaker 3>house because you party with the cutest fraternity boys.

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<v Speaker 6>You have to just really divert and be like, well,

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<v Speaker 6>so being in Greek life obviously, like we have a

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<v Speaker 6>lot of great fraternities. They're very very You have to

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<v Speaker 6>be so careful about not saying rats.

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<v Speaker 5>You cannot say frat names.

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<v Speaker 6>It has to be a fraternity or a sorority or

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<v Speaker 6>just overall cross life.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we are.

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<v Speaker 5>Greek life is a community.

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<v Speaker 6>You're gonna get to know so many other people, and

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<v Speaker 6>it's really a school inside of a school, and luckily,

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<v Speaker 6>like we're able to do so many fun events with

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<v Speaker 6>and it can all be real.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's one, two, three, four, five, six, seven of

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<v Speaker 3>us here, all in a sorority and one fraternity.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you ever.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel like and again we're gonna get back to work week,

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<v Speaker 3>that you're lying during rush? I mean yeah, like that

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<v Speaker 3>just seems like a lie. Like if somebody actually said

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<v Speaker 3>to me, Hey, I want to be in this sorority

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<v Speaker 3>because you hang out with really fun boys and I

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<v Speaker 3>hope one of them is gonna be my boyfriend and

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<v Speaker 3>just make my college experience great.

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<v Speaker 4>That is actually true.

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<v Speaker 6>We have this thing, and it's like a very like

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<v Speaker 6>common known thing I think amongst people who've done rush.

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<v Speaker 6>Now to where the very every single day until pref

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<v Speaker 6>PREF is the day to where you can like let

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<v Speaker 6>loose and like you actually talk about.

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<v Speaker 5>Like drinking and dating and partying.

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<v Speaker 4>So we lie to you. We lied to you.

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<v Speaker 6>We lie to you, like that's like the rules of

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<v Speaker 6>like you don't talk about like the.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so we're handing them my phone to M. We're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna call her M who we love, hold on who

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<v Speaker 3>went to a different school, and what sorority were you

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<v Speaker 3>at this unnamed school?

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<v Speaker 7>I was in Alpha Fie Alpha Fee.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, these are top houses these girls are in.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay to you and then you get haste.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, well let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna we're getting distracted here at our sorority retreat.

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<v Speaker 4>We're on, but we're gonna go back to work week.

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<v Speaker 3>But give the microphone to em for a second there,

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<v Speaker 3>so EM, do you hayes because I was in a.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorority and we do not hayes.

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<v Speaker 3>We hayze interesting And would you say, uh, that's at

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<v Speaker 3>your school, this particular unnamed school, Alpha Fee or do

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<v Speaker 3>you feel that that could be the case.

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<v Speaker 4>Of Alpha FI in general?

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like it's definitely a mix of both.

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<v Speaker 8>I feel like a lot of schools try to make

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<v Speaker 8>it like an undercover thing, but they must definitely do it.

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<v Speaker 8>And the girls depending who you get preffed by, and

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<v Speaker 8>the girls who's like gonna be your big or like

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<v Speaker 8>you connected with during work week and rush they you

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<v Speaker 8>got with them, at least we did. We went out

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<v Speaker 8>with them on the first night after you got your bid,

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<v Speaker 8>and they would.

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<v Speaker 5>We'd go out and do whatever and.

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<v Speaker 9>Go to frash.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, okay, this is gonna be a whole other episode

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<v Speaker 3>because right now we're gonna focus back on work week.

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<v Speaker 3>But this sorority retre we're on is gonna bring you

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of top secret information. And the reason we

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<v Speaker 3>don't use real names, and the reason we don't say

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<v Speaker 3>schools is because we want to be able to bring

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<v Speaker 3>you the real truth. So back to work week. So

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<v Speaker 3>bump groups, songs, how to answer really lie? How lie

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<v Speaker 3>when someone asked you a question?

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<v Speaker 4>Got it? And what are two more things that happened

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<v Speaker 4>during work week?

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<v Speaker 5>Your social videos? Okay, with all the other houses too.

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<v Speaker 4>From my era?

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<v Speaker 3>Also, I can unequivocally say there was no hazing at

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<v Speaker 3>all zero in my era. But we'll go that'll be

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<v Speaker 3>a different episode. So these social videos, So what is

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<v Speaker 3>the point of them? What do you feel as the

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<v Speaker 3>point of these?

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<v Speaker 6>I think the main point is honestly for the p

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<v Speaker 6>and ms to see the like overall the vibes of

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<v Speaker 6>the houses, but then also be able to tell like

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<v Speaker 6>this looks like it would be the top house, Like

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<v Speaker 6>this looks stizing advertising is like the this is like

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<v Speaker 6>all the really pretty girls with really cute style and

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<v Speaker 6>like they look fun and like energetic and like they

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<v Speaker 6>like I think it's like a way for you to

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<v Speaker 6>like be able to try to compete with all the

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<v Speaker 6>other houses of like we're the coolest house, Like we're

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<v Speaker 6>the best house, and like so the p and ms

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<v Speaker 6>know when they're going in, like we want them to

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<v Speaker 6>be like out in front of our door being like

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<v Speaker 6>oh my god, I'm at Kappa right now, like like nervous,

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<v Speaker 6>but like a good nervous, like I want this house.

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<v Speaker 3>It is the social media that does that or reputation

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<v Speaker 3>through the years.

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<v Speaker 6>I think mainly social media, because unless they know someone

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<v Speaker 6>that goes to that school, they're not really gonna have

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<v Speaker 6>a full answer as to like what the top houses

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<v Speaker 6>are at least I know, like when I was coming

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<v Speaker 6>into my school, like I was able to solidly like

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<v Speaker 6>look at each school's Instagram and kind of be like

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<v Speaker 6>I see this vibe, like I see this house, like

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<v Speaker 6>I see that house, and like you can kind of

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<v Speaker 6>see like where you would want to probably fit in

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<v Speaker 6>and yeah, So.

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<v Speaker 3>How much time is put into all that hoopla that

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<v Speaker 3>is happening in those videos which I also just realized

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<v Speaker 3>it's really only the front girls actually doing the dances.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't realize that until I really zoomed in. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought the whole house was doing these dances, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I realized, like the majority of the girls are just

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<v Speaker 3>doing waving in the background, and then this handful of

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<v Speaker 3>like eight ten girls is actually performing.

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<v Speaker 4>How much time do those things take?

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<v Speaker 6>It takes a few tries, Like it definitely like you're

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<v Speaker 6>out there for probably like an hour, like in the sun,

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<v Speaker 6>like in your guys's costumes, and when doing these dances,

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<v Speaker 6>cracking those things.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm coming over.

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<v Speaker 3>We got people we at this retreat we're at. There's

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of sority girls and they are ready to

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<v Speaker 3>raise their hands.

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<v Speaker 4>We're coming in to you.

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<v Speaker 6>But a lot of them for us, we choose all

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<v Speaker 6>the girls who are on the dance team have been

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<v Speaker 6>on the dance team, and like our social media chair,

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<v Speaker 6>like she will have the tiktoks that we're gonna do

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<v Speaker 6>the night before, She'll send them to the girls who

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<v Speaker 6>are like our dance girls, Hey, learn this choreo tonight

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<v Speaker 6>and like Uriah, yeah, all the linga, this is how

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<v Speaker 6>it's gonna be, and have it ready to go by them.

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<v Speaker 3>All that would be the social media chair as opposed

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<v Speaker 3>to the rush chair. Does the rush chair have any

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<v Speaker 3>say approval over it?

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly no, I think they're so word with so much

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<v Speaker 6>other stuff that they're like I don't care about, like

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<v Speaker 6>the social media crop.

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<v Speaker 4>And is rush chair what do you guys call that?

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<v Speaker 4>We call it rush chair? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Is that recruitment chair?

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<v Speaker 3>Recruitment chair? Is that a coveted office? What did you

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<v Speaker 3>do you guys we called office? What do you guys

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<v Speaker 3>call it leaders leadership?

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<v Speaker 5>We call it leadership?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that something that is a coveted position? Or is

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<v Speaker 3>that known as like that job as hell?

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<v Speaker 5>It's kind of known as like that job as hell?

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<v Speaker 6>And like you are gonna it's like you're committing your

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<v Speaker 6>whole summer to it, pretty much like you're once you're

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<v Speaker 6>done after mid day, like your job is pretty much done,

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<v Speaker 6>but like your summer is literally dedicated to planning.

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<v Speaker 4>So does the rush chair prepare that plan the outfits?

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<v Speaker 6>They plan the outfits, they plan the hours like they're

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<v Speaker 6>the ones to like do the timing for everything.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And is that are these outfits?

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<v Speaker 3>So do you get like a note during summer like

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<v Speaker 3>please bring one black, this one white, this one pink this.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's it's very like your first two days, everyone's

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<v Speaker 6>handed shirts. Then we have to do floral, and then

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<v Speaker 6>the next floral we do floral dresses.

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<v Speaker 5>Everyone.

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<v Speaker 6>Everyone has to wear a certain type of floral dress.

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<v Speaker 6>The next day we have to wear a specific blue

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<v Speaker 6>shade dress for philanthropy.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, quick question, now, is it like if you don't

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<v Speaker 3>have love shack fancy poo poo on you, or is

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<v Speaker 3>it like hey, got this at home goods.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean not home goods, sorry, TJ Max, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 6>It's more so just like don't be wearing a kind

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<v Speaker 6>of more like skimpy dress, like okay, look like like

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<v Speaker 6>they're more so like we want to look classy.

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<v Speaker 4>Like we're not here to like find you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, like yes, like we want to look like we're

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<v Speaker 6>speaking ell again, got it?

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<v Speaker 4>Got it? Got it? Great?

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<v Speaker 3>So nobody's too brand name me labely conscious. It's just

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<v Speaker 3>like fit the theme.

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<v Speaker 6>It's fit the theme and like look like you know,

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<v Speaker 6>you could go to like lunch with your grandma on

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<v Speaker 6>this dress. Like we don't want to be looking like

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<v Speaker 6>we're gonna go out to the.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the in your opinion sort of thought process behind

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<v Speaker 3>that that it's just classier for the rushies.

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<v Speaker 6>I think, like at least with my house, like we've

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<v Speaker 6>definitely there's definitely stereotypes and like negative things that go

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<v Speaker 6>around top houses when you go through recruitment of like

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<v Speaker 6>they like our house is very much like they only

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<v Speaker 6>take in blondes or like all their girls are just

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<v Speaker 6>like dumb and like partiers or whatever. So it's like

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<v Speaker 6>you more so like want to like go into rush

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<v Speaker 6>of Like no, like we have our shit together, like

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<v Speaker 6>I promise, like we're not like a mess or anything

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<v Speaker 6>like that. So it's more just to like keep a

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<v Speaker 6>good reputation going because like if you're a top house

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<v Speaker 6>like on like your yik yak and whatever, like you're

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<v Speaker 6>gonna get like slander and hate for a lot of things.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, okay, so I yik yak I've heard of

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<v Speaker 3>that was not around in my day. Let's pass the

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<v Speaker 3>microphone to M. Now, M, you went to.

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<v Speaker 4>A school.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe, I'll say on the West coast. You're not a

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<v Speaker 3>Southern school, You're not a Texas school. So what does

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<v Speaker 3>work week mean to you? And how long was work week?

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<v Speaker 7>Work week was kind of like a dedicated week.

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<v Speaker 8>It was a week for us just one week, and

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<v Speaker 8>it was dedicated for us where we could not go out,

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<v Speaker 8>could not drink.

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<v Speaker 7>It was like super locked in.

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<v Speaker 3>So does that mean like you have every meal in

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<v Speaker 3>the house, like can you walk down to yogurt park

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<v Speaker 3>or so for.

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<v Speaker 8>Us we could only eat in on Mondays on Monday

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<v Speaker 8>night dinner after a chapter house. Yes, so you're allowed

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<v Speaker 8>to leave the house. And I didn't ever live in

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<v Speaker 8>the Chopter house.

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<v Speaker 9>So during week.

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<v Speaker 8>Work week, and our houses are so small they couldn't

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<v Speaker 8>even house all of us.

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<v Speaker 3>So is are you going over to the sorority to practice?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it similar to what Catherine was talking about at

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<v Speaker 3>all with all all her priorities.

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<v Speaker 7>No kind of yes and no, oh wait, give them

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<v Speaker 7>mic back.

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<v Speaker 6>Work week is like your week to go out and

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<v Speaker 6>like party. It's like, oh that's not dry. Rush is dry.

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<v Speaker 6>But so like since rush is dry, they're very much like,

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<v Speaker 6>so this is your time to go out and have fun.

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<v Speaker 3>When when work day is done, then it's at nine

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<v Speaker 3>o'clock or whatever it is, then it's on and you're

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<v Speaker 3>heading down the hill.

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<v Speaker 6>Literally, girls are like looking at it like to the

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<v Speaker 6>hour of like once twelve o'clock hits, like you're dry

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<v Speaker 6>and then the moment after mid day immediately go out.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, now back to you, M what would happen if

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<v Speaker 3>somebody did not show up for work week.

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<v Speaker 8>I did not show up for work week and I

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<v Speaker 8>did not get punished.

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<v Speaker 4>Really yeah, and why did you not show up?

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<v Speaker 8>I just knew how horrible it was my big how

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<v Speaker 8>horrible was but my first year, I was actually out

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<v Speaker 8>of town did not go to work week, and then

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<v Speaker 8>after that I was like, Okay, I heard all this

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<v Speaker 8>horrible things after my bid group like went and my

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<v Speaker 8>piano like year went, and they're like, it's so horrible

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<v Speaker 8>to not go. So I was on vacation actually the

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<v Speaker 8>last week.

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<v Speaker 3>Question not sorry to do so when they describe it

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<v Speaker 3>as horrible, why why do you think work week has

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<v Speaker 3>this reputation of being horrible.

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<v Speaker 8>It's kind of just like a dedicated week where you

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<v Speaker 8>put in like so much effort and so much time

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<v Speaker 8>for p and ms. Yes, and like the outcome as

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<v Speaker 8>you can find like a great little but at the

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<v Speaker 8>same time it's like cool, like we're just dying to

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<v Speaker 8>go out.

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<v Speaker 4>WHOA, Okay, I didn't follow any of that. I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>gonna lie. I just totally did not follow that give

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<v Speaker 4>it to me again. So is it the work of

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<v Speaker 4>work week?

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<v Speaker 8>Or yeah, see the dresses you have to buy, the

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<v Speaker 8>punishments that you get if you don't show up.

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<v Speaker 4>If you can't go back, get a punishment.

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<v Speaker 8>Well like once you're in it, Like I mean, all right,

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<v Speaker 8>and it's just like a lot of work, Like people

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<v Speaker 8>dread having to buy the dresses, going standing in the sun,

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<v Speaker 8>learning the dances, posting on social media, having alpha fy.

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<v Speaker 7>In your bio, not talking to the p and ms

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<v Speaker 7>like it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Just I have to laugh because honestly, it doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 4>hard at all. It really doesn't. So all you.

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<v Speaker 3>Delicate flowers out there when you actually have to go

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<v Speaker 3>to work are gonna be.

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<v Speaker 6>In nice hour days of like not our days longer

0:19:12.640 --> 0:19:16.600
<v Speaker 6>and longer like guys the real world days sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>But give it back to m m uh. Did you

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<v Speaker 3>participate in rush? And I guess my question is if

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<v Speaker 3>you don't participate in work week, are you like totally

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<v Speaker 3>not aware of how to do rush?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you screwed? Essentially? If you don't do work week

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<v Speaker 4>and then you show up for Rush.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't show up for Rush either, I just like

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<v Speaker 7>didn't do the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 9>I never had a little.

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<v Speaker 4>You seem like not a great sorority member.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we're gonna take the mic from m and

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<v Speaker 4>pass that along.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, before we go to the girls, let's go to

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<v Speaker 3>our one fraternity boy. Man who's here, he's a man boy.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello Michael, nice to see you. So, Michael, we will

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<v Speaker 3>not name your school, but what is your fraternity?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm in Sigma Kay.

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<v Speaker 3>Great so well known fraternity across the country. Hearing the

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<v Speaker 3>girls here, women ladies talk about work week? Is there

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<v Speaker 3>anything that a fraternity does similar to this at all?

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<v Speaker 2>I think the biggest thing is just meeting the guys.

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<v Speaker 2>So the rush chair has kind of go through the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing, making a list of all the new guys Instagrams,

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<v Speaker 2>social medias and trying to meet them. I know people

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<v Speaker 2>do some our meetups in certain towns, like there was

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<v Speaker 2>a Chicago one I knew some kids at. There was

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people from Seattle at my school that

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<v Speaker 2>all met up before.

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<v Speaker 3>It does seem like there's way less rules, way less

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<v Speaker 3>restrictions total, and you kind of meet each other in

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<v Speaker 3>the summer and have an idea of the guys you

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<v Speaker 3>want to have probably become pledges, yeah, and are you okay?

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<v Speaker 4>So for guys, there is there a work week at all.

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<v Speaker 3>No, So they're literally like rush starts this day, see

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<v Speaker 3>you the night before.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, technically we do have a work week, it's mainly

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<v Speaker 2>it's like rush week.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, it would be the same pil.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I think the last two nights were up to

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<v Speaker 2>like four am talking about the guys okay, deciding who

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<v Speaker 2>you want to get, going through all them voting, But

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<v Speaker 2>the first two nights are kind of just getting down

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<v Speaker 2>getting some stories. I know it's different for every frattorney,

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<v Speaker 2>but we had to get like seven stories for like

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<v Speaker 2>each one's like ones and if their social ones like

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<v Speaker 2>man of good character, man like it's stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to get some similarity, you have to get.

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<v Speaker 4>Most attorneys are not like that, are not like that.

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<v Speaker 2>We have to ask questions during rush week about filling

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<v Speaker 2>these I guess like I don't know, yeah, yeah exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>but I wouldn't you say over there, yes, But it's

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<v Speaker 2>not really a work week.

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<v Speaker 3>So I would think again, the work week for the

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<v Speaker 3>boys men would be cleaning the house. Is that part

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<v Speaker 3>of it? Like trying to make the house look a

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<v Speaker 3>little less yucky?

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<v Speaker 2>No, they don't care about don't care. I mean it

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<v Speaker 2>looks clean it before a party.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh but not before rush?

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<v Speaker 7>But before rush?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean no, now is.

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<v Speaker 4>There can you show Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>So if you are a guy going through rush, can

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<v Speaker 3>you just show up at a house or no? Do

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<v Speaker 3>you have to be invited to come in? Is there

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<v Speaker 3>any like open day? Like any dude can come in?

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<v Speaker 4>There are open days? I know it's different.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been I've done Rush at two different schools transferred,

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<v Speaker 2>but there's usually one or two days that are open

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<v Speaker 2>and like the next day will be like.

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<v Speaker 4>A to have a text or something.

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<v Speaker 2>But oh wow, Yeah, it's interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>That panelmic is so strict with women and just lets

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<v Speaker 3>these men go hogwild. Really kind of uh, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what to say about that. Maybe we'll dig into

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<v Speaker 3>that as season two of Dirty Rush goes on, because

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<v Speaker 3>that really Panelmic is very strict with these rush rules

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<v Speaker 3>for women, and yet it does seem like guys and

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<v Speaker 3>I guess it's you know, over the you know, years

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<v Speaker 3>and years and years. That's the way it goes Like,

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<v Speaker 3>is there any there doesn't seem to be the same rules,

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<v Speaker 3>like can you.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys go out during Rush week?

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<v Speaker 7>Totally.

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<v Speaker 4>And can you.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk to a dude and say, hey, we're probably gonna

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<v Speaker 3>give you a bid. There any rules about.

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<v Speaker 2>That where you have to be Attorney's different in the

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<v Speaker 2>promising bid things. We don't promise that at all. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of frattorneys that will promise you a

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<v Speaker 2>bid and it gets a kid all excited because he's

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<v Speaker 2>like a freshman in college.

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<v Speaker 4>He gets super stoked.

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<v Speaker 9>But we don't promise that.

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<v Speaker 4>Interesting, all right, thank you for contributing, Michael, great work.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna now go to zoom where we have a

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<v Speaker 3>top secret person joining who wasn't even able to come

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<v Speaker 3>to this retreat we're on. We're we gathered this group

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<v Speaker 3>together and we're in a secret location so that we

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<v Speaker 3>can really find out, like really really, what is happening

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<v Speaker 3>at work weeks all over the country. This is an

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<v Speaker 3>interesting sorority member who has to participate in work week.

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<v Speaker 3>But then we'll become what the older generation would call

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<v Speaker 3>a roki. I think people call it a rogue, gam

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<v Speaker 3>a rush counselor et cetera. So let's talk to our secret,

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<v Speaker 3>secret secret person right now to get some information on

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<v Speaker 3>what happens when you are a Rush counselor hello, secret

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<v Speaker 3>person who is We are not going to give a

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<v Speaker 3>name or a location for you, but we have some

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<v Speaker 3>quest es. So, uh, we know that you will be

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<v Speaker 3>not participating in sorority Rush because you will be a

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<v Speaker 3>roki rush counselor what do they call it at your school?

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<v Speaker 10>My school, we call it a recruitment counselor or an

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<v Speaker 10>RC for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, great, So do you have to participate in work

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<v Speaker 3>week even though you are not able to participate in

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<v Speaker 3>Rush because you disaffiliate?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that the right word?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 10>I become a disaffiliated member. So that pretty much means

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<v Speaker 10>I have to remove myself with all affiliation for my sorority.

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<v Speaker 10>I delete everything for my Instagram, I take it off

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<v Speaker 10>my LinkedIn. My chapter deletes me from their Instagram, and

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<v Speaker 10>I become pretty much like an anonymous member.

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<v Speaker 4>What is the reason for that?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that?

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<v Speaker 3>Why does it have to be so top secret for

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<v Speaker 3>the roki because they really don't want these new rushies

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<v Speaker 3>as we would call them PA and.

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<v Speaker 10>M cnm's yeah, potential new member.

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<v Speaker 3>Why do they want so much for them to not

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<v Speaker 3>know the house that the Roqui is a part of.

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<v Speaker 10>You're RC, like the only contact you really have throughout

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<v Speaker 10>rush week, and oftentimes p and MS become very close

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<v Speaker 10>with rcs, and we would never want PNM to choose

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<v Speaker 10>a chapter solely based on if there r C is

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<v Speaker 10>in it or not. We want P and MS to

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<v Speaker 10>focus on what happens during rounds when they talk to houses,

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<v Speaker 10>not what happens outside of rounds. So by eliminating the

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<v Speaker 10>bias of the chapter of the RC, we help P

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<v Speaker 10>and MS make a values based recruitment decision instead of

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<v Speaker 10>choosing chapter based on more typical stereotypes.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, what made you want to become RC as opposed

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<v Speaker 3>to participating in rush with your sorority.

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<v Speaker 10>When I went through primary recruitment as a P and M,

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<v Speaker 10>I was very close with my RC and she helped

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<v Speaker 10>me a lot during recruitment, and I thought it would

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<v Speaker 10>be interesting to not only see what the other side

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<v Speaker 10>of recruitment was like, but also help other girls who

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<v Speaker 10>are going through something similar and help them choose a

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<v Speaker 10>chapter where they see themselves being most successful.

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<v Speaker 3>So I guess my question is how, how and why

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<v Speaker 3>do you participate in work week when you then have

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<v Speaker 3>to disaffiliate. What will you do during work week with

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<v Speaker 3>your chapter and is there a reason they want, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>roquis rcs to stay and still participate in work week.

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<v Speaker 10>There are so many things that we need to learn

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<v Speaker 10>as rcs, and like special ways we talk about things.

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<v Speaker 10>Certain chapters at my campus are unhoused. One could say,

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<v Speaker 10>but technically we're supposed to use the term flexible housing.

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<v Speaker 4>What does that mean in real terms? What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 10>In real terms? It means one sorority at our school

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<v Speaker 10>lost their house because they couldn't have enough members joining

0:28:10.880 --> 0:28:14.520
<v Speaker 10>the sorority. So during recruitment, they're the only chapter who

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<v Speaker 10>recruits from a recruitment facility instead of their chapter house.

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<v Speaker 10>So we have to speak very loosely when we talk

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<v Speaker 10>about chapter houses as to.

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<v Speaker 4>Not hurt ex.

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<v Speaker 10>Yes, as to not exclude anyone from the primary recruitment process.

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<v Speaker 5>There's also.

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<v Speaker 10>Primary recruitment can be really hard for p and ms,

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<v Speaker 10>so finding ways to help them and like we have

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<v Speaker 10>a lot of training on John Gille conversations.

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<v Speaker 3>My apologies for interrupting during work week? Do you get

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<v Speaker 3>trained how to be a rokui as opposed to do

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<v Speaker 3>a bump group or learn the songs or all the

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<v Speaker 3>things that other people are doing during Russia are you

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<v Speaker 3>getting your training to be an RC?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

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<v Speaker 10>Instead of spending my day doing a bump group or

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<v Speaker 10>talking to members, I'm like sitting in presentations and learning

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<v Speaker 10>about what it means to be an RC and kind

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<v Speaker 10>of what my responsibilities might be.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you have to get picked to be an RC?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you volunteer? How does that work to be a

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<v Speaker 4>ROCI at my school?

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<v Speaker 10>Least, it's a pretty extensive application process. A lot of

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<v Speaker 10>people want to be an RC just because they are

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<v Speaker 10>tired of recruiting, and it's kind of easier some people think.

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<v Speaker 10>But we have to apply, submit essays, and then we

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<v Speaker 10>are called in for an interview, and after your interview

0:29:40.440 --> 0:29:43.600
<v Speaker 10>you hear back via email. But each chapter does have

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<v Speaker 10>to have five people apply to the positions, so they

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<v Speaker 10>want the number of our ces to be balanced throughout

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<v Speaker 10>the chapters.

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<v Speaker 4>Got it?

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<v Speaker 3>Got it so that not one house has all the

0:29:54.200 --> 0:29:58.440
<v Speaker 3>roquies exactly, don't have representation exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>It's almost like a therapist these the rush.

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<v Speaker 10>Yes. Yeah, we've had some crazy stories from recruitment, as

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<v Speaker 10>in our sea my friend had a P and M

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<v Speaker 10>who like locked themselves in the bathroom and refused to

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<v Speaker 10>leave until they got the house back that they wanted,

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<v Speaker 10>and obviously there's nothing that anybody can do after a

0:30:19.840 --> 0:30:20.840
<v Speaker 10>round has been decided.

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<v Speaker 4>So oh wow, it's story dramatic.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the word I was going to use as well. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you so much. I appreciate it. Welcome back to

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<v Speaker 3>Dirty Rush. So basically what is happening is we are

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<v Speaker 3>doing our own version of a work week where we

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<v Speaker 3>gathered many sorority members in one fraternity member.

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<v Speaker 4>Somehow we got like we had one guy here.

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<v Speaker 3>But to really be able to bring you everything that's

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<v Speaker 3>happening at Rush around the country work week, we have

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<v Speaker 3>people live at Rush throughout the country to really peel

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<v Speaker 3>back the curtain and let you guys know what really

0:31:11.560 --> 0:31:17.320
<v Speaker 3>goes on behind these Greek lettered closed doors. So Lee,

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<v Speaker 3>first of all, does work week seem a little bit crazy?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it a little bit? How do I ask? This?

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of work for something that maybe could be easier.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, so, I feel like it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>especially nowadays with social media, I would say it's extra.

0:31:42.600 --> 0:31:45.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like it seems like we're putting in maybe twice

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<v Speaker 3>as much time to some of these things as maybe

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<v Speaker 3>as necessary.

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<v Speaker 4>But I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember doing it So at your school, which we

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<v Speaker 3>won't name, your sorty with theta, what does work week

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<v Speaker 3>mean to you?

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<v Speaker 4>From your school?

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<v Speaker 5>Work week?

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to encapsulate it into word one word. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just intense and kind of to your point for no reason,

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:16.080
<v Speaker 1>Like it's a really big everybody's just so intense about.

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<v Speaker 4>I was getting fights and screaming matches and drama.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, there's a lot of drama.

0:32:20.160 --> 0:32:24.720
<v Speaker 1>Emotions are high, people are overtired, people feel like they're overwork.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and dancing is hard.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean it's so hard out in the Texas Sea.

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<v Speaker 3>But also is it fun at all? I have many

0:32:34.440 --> 0:32:36.920
<v Speaker 3>memories of its sort of being fun. Would anyone call

0:32:36.960 --> 0:32:37.480
<v Speaker 3>it fun?

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, Yeah, I think some people would. It's

0:32:40.920 --> 0:32:43.280
<v Speaker 1>just not everybody's cup of tea. But it kind of

0:32:43.360 --> 0:32:45.760
<v Speaker 1>just comes with the gig. So some people love it,

0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:49.760
<v Speaker 1>some people hate it. But what's interesting, at least about

0:32:49.800 --> 0:32:54.000
<v Speaker 1>where I went to school is how kind of, like

0:32:54.080 --> 0:32:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I was saying, intense, it's gone and we're like, now

0:32:56.400 --> 0:33:00.640
<v Speaker 1>you need to submit your outfits weeks before and they can.

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<v Speaker 4>Do that with a photo.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you need to have it all map sounds

0:33:05.560 --> 0:33:09.200
<v Speaker 3>different than Catherine's school, so you commit a photo, and again,

0:33:09.480 --> 0:33:16.040
<v Speaker 3>is a brand name label more is a brand name label.

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<v Speaker 4>Easier to get approved.

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<v Speaker 3>Than TJ Max or you know, Problem Macs Amazon.

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<v Speaker 9>But it kind of depends.

0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:28.200
<v Speaker 1>Because work week itself, there's two things you need to

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<v Speaker 1>get approved, and it's your work week outfits and.

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<v Speaker 9>It's Rush week outfits.

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<v Speaker 4>A prison every day is themed of work week? Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>why because of social media?

0:33:38.880 --> 0:33:40.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because of social media and they use it to

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<v Speaker 1>market the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>And so if it's would you say you have to

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<v Speaker 4>have for all of this all.

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<v Speaker 1>In Well, there's five weekdays of work week, which are

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<v Speaker 1>like the five days you're posting about it and doing

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<v Speaker 1>social along with preparing for Rush. So those five outfits

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<v Speaker 1>need to match the theme and you need to submit

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<v Speaker 1>them and get them approved.

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<v Speaker 3>And then for Rush person has to go through all

0:34:00.160 --> 0:34:04.320
<v Speaker 3>these photos approving the Rush chair terrible, like they don't

0:34:04.360 --> 0:34:04.880
<v Speaker 3>already have.

0:34:04.960 --> 0:34:05.800
<v Speaker 4>Enough things on there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, but yeah, then for Rush Week, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you get two T shirts for the first two rounds

0:34:10.920 --> 0:34:13.440
<v Speaker 1>because it's two days of I don't even remember what

0:34:13.440 --> 0:34:16.560
<v Speaker 1>it's called the first round, but everybody coming through and

0:34:16.600 --> 0:34:18.840
<v Speaker 1>you just wear a T shirt that says cap alphatata

0:34:18.880 --> 0:34:21.160
<v Speaker 1>on it, and then after that you need to wear

0:34:21.239 --> 0:34:22.960
<v Speaker 1>dresses and those need to get a purch.

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<v Speaker 4>You have a floral day like Catherine over there.

0:34:25.239 --> 0:34:26.600
<v Speaker 9>I don't think we had a floral day. All of

0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:31.560
<v Speaker 9>ours were colored like we did because those are our colors,

0:34:32.040 --> 0:34:32.839
<v Speaker 9>as colors.

0:34:32.520 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 4>Are black and gold.

0:34:33.520 --> 0:34:36.320
<v Speaker 9>And then there was one other day that was like runch.

0:34:36.200 --> 0:34:37.879
<v Speaker 3>You could wear and were you allowed to drink during

0:34:38.120 --> 0:34:40.040
<v Speaker 3>work week? No, you have to be completely dry, and

0:34:40.040 --> 0:34:42.960
<v Speaker 3>I feel like to leave the house, you're allowed to.

0:34:43.120 --> 0:34:45.359
<v Speaker 3>But you what's interesting is you have to wear a pin.

0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:49.200
<v Speaker 3>So every sorority like you have this big pin that

0:34:49.800 --> 0:34:50.600
<v Speaker 3>you have to have.

0:34:50.520 --> 0:34:53.480
<v Speaker 9>On your shirt. So you'll see the girls who are p.

0:34:53.560 --> 0:34:57.600
<v Speaker 1>And ms at the gym and you're wearing this pin

0:34:57.719 --> 0:34:59.080
<v Speaker 1>so they know they can't talk to.

0:34:59.040 --> 0:35:02.560
<v Speaker 3>You, or you'll all right moving in around. So that

0:35:02.640 --> 0:35:04.759
<v Speaker 3>the town just says like I'm in a sorority. It

0:35:04.800 --> 0:35:08.399
<v Speaker 3>doesn't say it says your sorority. So what if some

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:11.600
<v Speaker 3>rushie is there early and then they start figuring out

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<v Speaker 3>who's in what house.

0:35:12.680 --> 0:35:16.480
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter because they'll they'll okay, yeah, correct. And

0:35:16.480 --> 0:35:20.680
<v Speaker 1>then if you're a rogramma, you get I think you

0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:22.319
<v Speaker 1>get like a rogamma pin, so.

0:35:22.280 --> 0:35:24.799
<v Speaker 3>They know that you're okay. So you go to the gym,

0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:27.200
<v Speaker 3>and who's not allowed to talk to you? Anyone going

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<v Speaker 3>through rush?

0:35:28.160 --> 0:35:29.240
<v Speaker 9>Anyone going through rush?

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<v Speaker 4>Now can you talk to other sororities if you want to?

0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:35.319
<v Speaker 1>You can, but you shouldn't, like technically you shouldn't, but

0:35:35.400 --> 0:35:38.760
<v Speaker 1>some kind of a tie fire or dj oh, girls

0:35:38.760 --> 0:35:40.759
<v Speaker 1>and other sororities. You mean, yeah, you can talk to

0:35:40.760 --> 0:35:42.239
<v Speaker 1>girls and other sorties. I thought you meant the p

0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:44.560
<v Speaker 1>and ms you shouldn't talk to the p and ms.

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:46.880
<v Speaker 1>But some girls kind of instigate and they test the

0:35:46.920 --> 0:35:48.080
<v Speaker 1>waters and see how others.

0:35:47.920 --> 0:35:52.400
<v Speaker 4>And would that be classified as dirty rush? Or okay?

0:35:52.600 --> 0:35:55.400
<v Speaker 3>Now what if, like you have a friend from hometown

0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:57.759
<v Speaker 3>going through rush, and are they technically not supposed to

0:35:57.760 --> 0:35:58.279
<v Speaker 3>talk to you?

0:35:58.320 --> 0:36:00.640
<v Speaker 1>Technically not, but you can give a hug and be like, hey,

0:36:00.640 --> 0:36:01.600
<v Speaker 1>how are you welcome?

0:36:01.680 --> 0:36:04.160
<v Speaker 9>We're so excited that you're made it to X y

0:36:04.280 --> 0:36:04.680
<v Speaker 9>Z school.

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:07.320
<v Speaker 1>Okay, got it, But it just shouldn't be any conversation

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:08.320
<v Speaker 1>shrouding rush.

0:36:08.600 --> 0:36:09.600
<v Speaker 9>So it looks suspended.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you feel also that during work week your coach

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<v Speaker 3>to give the proper answer as opposed to maybe what's

0:36:17.520 --> 0:36:22.719
<v Speaker 3>the most truthful answer. I'd say in analyzing all this,

0:36:23.239 --> 0:36:26.399
<v Speaker 3>the one flag I have is like, why we're all

0:36:26.440 --> 0:36:28.960
<v Speaker 3>putting on airs is what I would call it, as

0:36:29.000 --> 0:36:31.560
<v Speaker 3>opposed to just being like, here's what college is really like.

0:36:33.239 --> 0:36:35.560
<v Speaker 4>Enjoy I know, do you know what I'm saying, because.

0:36:35.360 --> 0:36:37.920
<v Speaker 3>I know two days later after Rush you're just suddenly

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:41.440
<v Speaker 3>real I'm like, that's probably maybe something we.

0:36:41.400 --> 0:36:44.160
<v Speaker 4>Should dig into this season on Yeah, Rush.

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<v Speaker 3>So would you say work week is valuable in some regards?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, because I mean you would be amazed at the

0:36:54.560 --> 0:36:57.719
<v Speaker 1>way that college girls can pull together an event like

0:36:57.760 --> 0:37:01.120
<v Speaker 1>this and have it so organized. It It honestly is

0:37:01.400 --> 0:37:05.680
<v Speaker 1>very very impressive what gets pulled off and work week

0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:09.200
<v Speaker 1>and it's it's like a little business and you're marketing yourself,

0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:10.760
<v Speaker 1>you're doing the social media whatever.

0:37:10.920 --> 0:37:14.000
<v Speaker 4>But I like what I would consider a semi Broadway production.

0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:16.680
<v Speaker 4>I guess I would want to it the same thing.

0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:21.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's pretty intense, and it really does amaze me

0:37:21.560 --> 0:37:23.440
<v Speaker 1>how many things actually do get done.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess the question I have is do twenty percent

0:37:25.960 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 3>of the girls do ninety percent of the work? I

0:37:28.000 --> 0:37:30.359
<v Speaker 3>would say so, And would you say that that's the

0:37:30.400 --> 0:37:33.680
<v Speaker 3>case for your schools we're not even gonna ask m

0:37:33.719 --> 0:37:35.560
<v Speaker 3>because she didn't even participate.

0:37:35.680 --> 0:37:37.960
<v Speaker 4>So the answer is yes, Catherine.

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<v Speaker 3>Would you say a small number of girls are doing

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<v Speaker 3>way more than their share of work during work week?

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<v Speaker 5>Hundred percent? I think it depends.

0:37:47.880 --> 0:37:50.560
<v Speaker 6>So for us, we put the younger girls because those

0:37:50.560 --> 0:37:52.560
<v Speaker 6>are the girls who are going to be getting littles.

0:37:52.880 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 5>We have them do majority of the work.

0:37:54.680 --> 0:37:58.320
<v Speaker 6>Of you're talking to multiple girls in one round, you're

0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:01.480
<v Speaker 6>the one that's kind of your both talking, you're singing,

0:38:01.600 --> 0:38:04.880
<v Speaker 6>you're it's like a whole mix of things to compare

0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:06.759
<v Speaker 6>to some girls where it's like we're gonna have you

0:38:06.800 --> 0:38:08.480
<v Speaker 6>kind of just float around and maybe like walk a

0:38:08.480 --> 0:38:08.799
<v Speaker 6>girl off.

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:11.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and does anyone like come in the house, gets

0:38:11.160 --> 0:38:12.879
<v Speaker 3>their name checked off, like they're here, and then they

0:38:12.880 --> 0:38:14.960
<v Speaker 3>go hide in a room and like play on their

0:38:14.960 --> 0:38:15.680
<v Speaker 3>phone or whatever.

0:38:15.920 --> 0:38:17.680
<v Speaker 6>Like I mean, like the seniors when it comes to

0:38:17.800 --> 0:38:20.360
<v Speaker 6>work week, it's like they're planning their Vegas trips for

0:38:20.360 --> 0:38:20.800
<v Speaker 6>that week.

0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:23.800
<v Speaker 3>And then I don't know how memories of yeah, work

0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:26.960
<v Speaker 3>week be rash as a senior. All right, So to

0:38:27.000 --> 0:38:30.920
<v Speaker 3>wrap it up, first of all, it's an interesting concept

0:38:31.080 --> 0:38:34.760
<v Speaker 3>work week. I do think in some ways it makes

0:38:34.760 --> 0:38:38.880
<v Speaker 3>sense right, You have to prepare to put on events.

0:38:39.239 --> 0:38:42.319
<v Speaker 3>Like Lee was saying over here that it's like you

0:38:42.360 --> 0:38:45.400
<v Speaker 3>can't just open the door for a party without planning

0:38:45.440 --> 0:38:49.600
<v Speaker 3>the party. What's also interesting is, like a party, you

0:38:49.680 --> 0:38:52.320
<v Speaker 3>prepare for the party, and then the party.

0:38:52.160 --> 0:38:53.880
<v Speaker 4>Last twenty minutes. Do you know what I mean? Like

0:38:53.920 --> 0:38:55.600
<v Speaker 4>when you're throwing a dinner party.

0:38:55.480 --> 0:38:58.839
<v Speaker 3>You prepare, prepare, prepare, buy all the things, decorate the house,

0:38:58.920 --> 0:39:01.320
<v Speaker 3>clean the house, do all these things, and then your dinner.

0:39:01.200 --> 0:39:01.960
<v Speaker 4>Last two hours.

0:39:02.560 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 3>The work is much more than the actual event. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess My thing I want to know as we wrap

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<v Speaker 3>up here is one word to describe work week? Did

0:39:17.400 --> 0:39:22.080
<v Speaker 3>you actually love it or hate it? And is it

0:39:22.120 --> 0:39:26.879
<v Speaker 3>effective for each of you? One word to describe work week.

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<v Speaker 5>I liked the word intense, but I'll also say dramatic.

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<v Speaker 4>Great, And do you think it's worth it? Ultimately?

0:39:36.239 --> 0:39:37.120
<v Speaker 5>I think it's worth it.

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:39.160
<v Speaker 6>I think depending on your school obviously and how you

0:39:39.200 --> 0:39:42.640
<v Speaker 6>guys orchestrate it. But it's all rehearsed. It's more so

0:39:42.800 --> 0:39:47.239
<v Speaker 6>what yeah, it's work weeks about like rehearsing for the.

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<v Speaker 4>Day of Would you use the word fake or not quite?

0:39:49.600 --> 0:39:51.640
<v Speaker 5>No, I would use the word fake Okay, great.

0:39:51.400 --> 0:39:53.640
<v Speaker 3>Good to know and I forgot my last question menopause,

0:39:53.680 --> 0:39:54.600
<v Speaker 3>but I think it was.

0:39:55.360 --> 0:39:55.960
<v Speaker 4>Is it worth it?

0:39:57.239 --> 0:39:57.439
<v Speaker 9>Yeah?

0:39:57.440 --> 0:39:58.680
<v Speaker 6>I mean you want to, like, you want to show

0:39:58.760 --> 0:40:00.719
<v Speaker 6>up day of have these p and m's come in,

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:01.759
<v Speaker 6>and like you want to know what you're doing. You

0:40:01.800 --> 0:40:03.560
<v Speaker 6>don't want to feel lost, and you don't want them

0:40:03.600 --> 0:40:05.400
<v Speaker 6>to know that you are lost either. And like if

0:40:05.400 --> 0:40:08.560
<v Speaker 6>they pick up on any little queue that you guys have,

0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:11.120
<v Speaker 6>that you guys are practicing, like, they'll immediately know that

0:40:11.200 --> 0:40:11.719
<v Speaker 6>that's all say.

0:40:11.800 --> 0:40:15.799
<v Speaker 3>The hammock of messing up a bump group is like

0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:17.640
<v Speaker 3>actual full fear.

0:40:17.800 --> 0:40:19.439
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's full body fear.

0:40:19.520 --> 0:40:21.480
<v Speaker 5>There are so many little things that we I.

0:40:21.400 --> 0:40:23.560
<v Speaker 3>Don't know where I'm going, I don't know what I'm doing,

0:40:23.640 --> 0:40:25.360
<v Speaker 3>and my whole body has gone limp.

0:40:25.480 --> 0:40:30.080
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, m over to you. Can you even describe

0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:35.279
<v Speaker 4>work week? Since you seem like the very bad sorority member.

0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:39.920
<v Speaker 7>I would say it's very overhyped.

0:40:39.480 --> 0:40:44.120
<v Speaker 3>Okay, and uh worth it now because you didn't even

0:40:44.160 --> 0:40:44.960
<v Speaker 3>do it exactly?

0:40:44.960 --> 0:40:45.840
<v Speaker 4>What was my other question?

0:40:47.480 --> 0:40:48.160
<v Speaker 5>Did you like?

0:40:48.239 --> 0:40:52.000
<v Speaker 11>Who cares? Who cares? Did you love it or hate it?

0:40:52.000 --> 0:40:55.160
<v Speaker 11>She doesn't hate it, she didn't do it? Okay, Lee,

0:40:56.800 --> 0:41:00.040
<v Speaker 11>work week, I literally menopause. I forgot my questions worth.

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<v Speaker 1>It in one word, I would keep giving, give another word,

0:41:03.719 --> 0:41:05.440
<v Speaker 1>give another word, like.

0:41:05.480 --> 0:41:11.520
<v Speaker 4>Hell or fun like hell. But to me, overhyped was

0:41:11.560 --> 0:41:12.040
<v Speaker 4>a good word.

0:41:12.200 --> 0:41:14.440
<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I think overhyped is a good word to me.

0:41:14.719 --> 0:41:17.080
<v Speaker 9>I just didn't like how calculated it felt.

0:41:17.120 --> 0:41:17.680
<v Speaker 4>Calculated.

0:41:17.760 --> 0:41:21.240
<v Speaker 1>Okay, how calculated and you're just like planning your every

0:41:21.320 --> 0:41:22.880
<v Speaker 1>move and what you were saying earlier.

0:41:22.960 --> 0:41:23.920
<v Speaker 9>It's kind of fake.

0:41:24.440 --> 0:41:27.200
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like you can't talk about these things

0:41:27.239 --> 0:41:30.520
<v Speaker 1>that immediately the second reends, you're gonna talk about and

0:41:30.560 --> 0:41:32.520
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna bond over and that's the whole reason you're

0:41:32.520 --> 0:41:34.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna be friends, because you're in college and you're going

0:41:34.239 --> 0:41:37.279
<v Speaker 1>out and you're kissing wooz and you're having it misleading.

0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:39.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if the word is misleading, but you

0:41:39.239 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 3>are misleading these rushies, as you you know, as.

0:41:42.920 --> 0:41:43.879
<v Speaker 4>Me said a little bit.

0:41:43.840 --> 0:41:45.520
<v Speaker 1>But I do feel like most of them are cuted

0:41:45.520 --> 0:41:48.240
<v Speaker 1>into like what happened gets after they get the vibe.

0:41:48.040 --> 0:41:51.879
<v Speaker 4>They get worse. It is all that work worth it, I.

0:41:51.800 --> 0:41:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Don't know, Like to me, no, but I think it

0:41:55.160 --> 0:41:58.520
<v Speaker 1>also depends on your experience and your sority. I was

0:41:58.680 --> 0:42:02.640
<v Speaker 1>like kind of met about some people love their sorority.

0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:03.440
<v Speaker 4>Minute of it. I'd go back today. I'd like to

0:42:03.440 --> 0:42:03.759
<v Speaker 4>live there.

0:42:03.880 --> 0:42:06.200
<v Speaker 3>Literally, we're like planning a reunion right now, and there's

0:42:06.239 --> 0:42:08.560
<v Speaker 3>like every day I add a new member to the

0:42:08.640 --> 0:42:11.840
<v Speaker 3>text chat for our reunion and I get so happy.

0:42:11.960 --> 0:42:13.879
<v Speaker 3>I loved every second of it. I hope when we're

0:42:13.880 --> 0:42:15.880
<v Speaker 3>eighty that we all just moved back into the house together.

0:42:16.360 --> 0:42:21.520
<v Speaker 4>Work week was like rough. It just was a lot.

0:42:22.040 --> 0:42:23.719
<v Speaker 4>That's I guess that was what I would say, It's

0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:25.520
<v Speaker 4>just a lot. It's a lot.

0:42:25.719 --> 0:42:28.640
<v Speaker 3>But I also know that, like I said, messing up

0:42:29.320 --> 0:42:32.040
<v Speaker 3>is worse. Honestly, Yeah, it's real stressful.

0:42:32.120 --> 0:42:32.719
<v Speaker 4>It would be.

0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:33.480
<v Speaker 5>It would be.

0:42:33.800 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 4>So look, you're you're you.

0:42:35.160 --> 0:42:38.200
<v Speaker 3>Want to put on a good front to these people

0:42:38.280 --> 0:42:42.920
<v Speaker 3>coming in who it does impact their college experience completely,

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:43.920
<v Speaker 3>So you don't want to just.

0:42:43.880 --> 0:42:45.920
<v Speaker 4>One hundred percent lazy about it.

0:42:46.040 --> 0:42:47.839
<v Speaker 1>Yet you want to choose a great pledge cost because

0:42:47.840 --> 0:42:50.760
<v Speaker 1>you want to continue your legacy and remain a house

0:42:51.440 --> 0:42:54.120
<v Speaker 1>that is top and whatever that regardless for you. Like

0:42:54.160 --> 0:42:57.040
<v Speaker 1>for my sorority grades, we were always hopping grades for

0:42:57.080 --> 0:42:58.640
<v Speaker 1>the past like ten years.

0:42:58.640 --> 0:43:00.839
<v Speaker 9>Once I had got there. I don't know how I know.

0:43:02.280 --> 0:43:05.560
<v Speaker 1>That's a different story. But they were so serious about grades,

0:43:05.560 --> 0:43:08.200
<v Speaker 1>and so they really wanted to choose girls who were

0:43:08.680 --> 0:43:11.480
<v Speaker 1>fun and nice but also academic and whatever. So whatever

0:43:11.480 --> 0:43:13.759
<v Speaker 1>your values are, you really want to right, we hold

0:43:13.840 --> 0:43:14.160
<v Speaker 1>the line.

0:43:14.200 --> 0:43:17.080
<v Speaker 3>I think that wraps up sort of our inside look

0:43:17.080 --> 0:43:19.759
<v Speaker 3>at work week. We're going to continue it. And thanks

0:43:19.800 --> 0:43:20.919
<v Speaker 3>for listening to Dirty Rush.

0:43:21.000 --> 0:43:21.760
<v Speaker 4>Let's get dirty.

0:43:22.040 --> 0:43:25.360
<v Speaker 1>Thanks