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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: It's your girl licks Peak.

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Speaker 3: And it's sugarl dry in the cold, and you.

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Speaker 1: Are tuned in to another episode afore.

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Speaker 3: Mine, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: I'll say one thing. We are totally dress opposite right now.

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Speaker 1: They don't know where it's my it's codd.

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Speaker 3: I yeah, I mean when you have sweatpants on.

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Speaker 2: I do have sweatpants on. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: To Oh, you don't know where it's it's cold.

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Speaker 1: It's been enjoying my new titties, so I don't know

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Speaker 1: how to act. I have never been able to wear

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Speaker 1: tops like this, so I'm just getting it all out

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Speaker 1: while I.

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Speaker 3: Can we understand sis rain.

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Speaker 2: Sleep or snow.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm gonna be in a top the only cover

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Speaker 1: my nipples.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been raining a light this past few days.

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Speaker 2: It's real ugly in the A.

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Speaker 3: In the A I'm.

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Speaker 4: Completely over it, you know. And it's cold. I mean

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Speaker 4: it's not like super cold, but it's a little chilly.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm trying to realize.

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Speaker 1: I think I like to take vacations better in the

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Speaker 1: winter time because like summertime, I don't mind being at

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Speaker 1: home or just going by the food chilling whatever.

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Speaker 2: Because it's warm, it don't matter. But the winter time

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Speaker 2: and the fall is when I need to leave town.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think I'm gonna start traveling and doing my

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Speaker 1: vacations more like in the fall and the winter.

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Speaker 2: Like that's what I'm gonna start doing from now on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, cause this this weather is atrocious. It's not I

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Speaker 3: don't like.

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Speaker 4: I could deal with the cold, and I could deal

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Speaker 4: with it raining, but I don't like when he's bold.

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Speaker 3: At the same time, you need like that's the worst

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Speaker 3: you need to choose?

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Speaker 1: Said that?

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Speaker 3: What did I say you? It wasn't even a word.

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Speaker 3: That's the worst.

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Speaker 1: I like your hair, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Your hair looks real, real cute sos girl.

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Speaker 1: I don't I think I said this on the show

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Speaker 1: before I'm over weeks. I got my hair braided. Recently,

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Speaker 1: I went to Kay Jonathan Glam shout out to her

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Speaker 1: because she did a wonderful job with her.

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Speaker 2: She really cool.

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Speaker 1: I love people who I can know sit in their chair,

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Speaker 1: we can have a good conversation, but they keep it professional.

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Speaker 1: Like she's very professional. She real cool and she does

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Speaker 1: a good job.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, my got a dad did in my hair.

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Speaker 4: She was quick as fuck too, And that's thing that

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Speaker 4: I was really surprised about because god Is slocks take

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Speaker 4: a long time, and that's why I haven't got them,

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Speaker 4: because it actually used to be one of my favorite hairstyles.

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Speaker 4: But that's why I haven't got them since like twenty

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Speaker 4: eighteen because at the time, too, my hair was way

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Speaker 4: longer before I put it into a bob, and it

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Speaker 4: just took two days to take.

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Speaker 3: My hair down.

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Speaker 4: Like if you have hair that's passed shoulderlings, I would say.

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Speaker 2: I ain't got to worry about that.

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Speaker 4: I got that have y'all hair, If you have long hair,

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Speaker 4: Goddess locks gonna take a long ass time to take

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Speaker 4: out of your head, at least the way that some

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Speaker 4: people do.

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Speaker 3: With the myth that there's some people us.

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Speaker 4: But I still, you know, y'all know, I cut my

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Speaker 4: So I was like, well, let me go ahead and

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Speaker 4: gonna take a long ass time. I knew I was

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Speaker 4: gonna be here all day. She did my hair in

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Speaker 4: five hours, five hours. Her name, Yes, I lock on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, man, real quick process.

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Speaker 1: I don't care how good you are at doing hair.

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Speaker 1: If you're bad, good, whatever. Every time I take my

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Speaker 4: I'll see I always just cut my braids, like whenever

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Speaker 4: I take my hair down, I always just cut 'em

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I know how long my.

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Speaker 4: Hair is, so I always like cut it like an

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Speaker 3: I mean an inch longer.

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Speaker 2: I don't girl, when I take out my hair, I

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: I don't touch my hair at all.

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Speaker 1: Every time I get my hair washed, I get somebody

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Speaker 1: to wash it every time. I'm just not good with you.

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Speaker 3: Don't wash your own hair, no, like when you take

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Speaker 3: your hair down.

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Speaker 1: And the last time I got my hair done, I

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Speaker 1: washed my own hair. But when I went to cos,

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Speaker 1: the sink. I was like, oh, I didn't know you

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Speaker 1: washed hair like cause you know, I've been going to

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Speaker 1: the same girl. Uh d d rich look hair on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: I've been going to her for years. So Dde wash

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Speaker 1: his hair. She does all that stuff, So I'm just

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. But well, I wash his hair. So

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Speaker 1: that was the first time I've washed my hair in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, cause I say, I mean with braiders, normally I

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Speaker 4: be washing my own hair a lot of the time.

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Speaker 4: But with girls, they do like sewings and quick weaves

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Speaker 4: and stuff. Oh yeah, I'm absolutely not washing my own hair.

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Speaker 4: You charging me three hundred dollars and you think that

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna wash my own hair before I come, Absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: And if I do wash it, I still be knowing

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Speaker 4: that they're gonna wash it when I get there. But

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Speaker 4: I'm just real metiiculous about stuff like that because I

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Speaker 4: feel like that's how your hair get madded up and tangled.

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Speaker 4: I had a friend and I can't remember who it was,

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Speaker 4: but it was somebody that I was cool with, and

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Speaker 4: they didn't like detangle their hair. After they took their

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Speaker 4: and the girl didn't entangle their hair first. They just

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Speaker 4: like all matted up in like a lot of nights

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Speaker 4: and it took like hours to detangle those nights, and

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Speaker 4: So I just I'm big on and no shade to

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Speaker 4: the girls, to the stylaces they do hair with some

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll say, and.

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Speaker 4: Taking care of your natural hair. So I'm always make

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Speaker 1: It's all slogy, it's all shape, because I feel like

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Speaker 1: the hair game is fucked up right now. Everything fucked

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Speaker 1: up right now, because if you are doing somebody's hair,

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Speaker 1: you need to wash their hair period.

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Speaker 2: Like like I said, the only reason Kanye.

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Speaker 1: Washed my hair because I literally had washed my hair

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Speaker 1: that morning because I truly didn't know because I don't

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Speaker 1: be knowing. But like I said, I love.

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Speaker 2: Her and she has a whole little nice setup. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: If I book your services and I come and I'm

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Speaker 1: showing up, you give me an address and I'm showing

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go to nobody house to get

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get away, have my little day to

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Speaker 1: get my hair done, to be hair. I'm not trying

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Speaker 2: I ain't trying to do it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It depends to me. I don't really care about location.

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Speaker 4: As long as you have a nice home and it's clean.

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Speaker 4: I don't mind going to somebody house to get my

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Speaker 3: And I really don't say this.

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Speaker 4: I feel like she'd I'll be watching TV. I don'et

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Speaker 4: been offered a little refreshment before.

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Speaker 1: Let me not say that because I have had my

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Speaker 1: was by herself. She everything was set up nice. Now

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Speaker 4: Yet a girl who did my hair recently, the girl

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Speaker 4: who did my God is like she do hair out

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'll say, let me, let me not be

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Speaker 1: be mean like that, because sometimes people do have a

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Speaker 1: she had a whole setup.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she had a whole room and she had like

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Speaker 2: So like I've showed up at people house before and

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Speaker 1: I've gotten my hair done before and it was like

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Speaker 1: I'm just like sitting in like a damn near like

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Speaker 2: She sitting behind me.

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Speaker 1: People in and out the house, which is weird because

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Speaker 1: I don't know you, and I don't know these people

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Speaker 1: I don't want to feel uncomfortable if I'm coming to

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Speaker 2: Nobody needs to be in the house.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean I feel you. I feel you.

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Speaker 4: Like I said, I don't have a I don't have

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Speaker 4: a problem with it as long as it's a clean

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Speaker 4: I don't have a problem with that, ye cause, honestly, bitch,

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Speaker 4: you know, growing up as a black girl in like

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Speaker 4: of people house. Yeah, so I feel like that's like,

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Speaker 4: you know, it's normal, but I do. And I also

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Speaker 4: do feel like two right now, people be struggling, like you.

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean, boothing and stuff be high.

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Speaker 1: So and That's why I said. That's why I like,

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Speaker 1: I feel like, oh damn.

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Speaker 5: What was it?

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Speaker 4: Because I used to get my hair burden in this

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Speaker 4: lady house in Houston and third Ward all the time.

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Speaker 1: When I was a little kid, the girl hood bringing

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Speaker 1: my hair before cop Why can't And I love her

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Speaker 1: what's her.

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Speaker 3: Name out crown and see yes, now she had a.

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Speaker 1: Whole setup, bitch, and it was very comfortable. I'll go

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Speaker 1: over there any time.

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Speaker 3: Like.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about, though, Like you have a

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Speaker 1: whole setup and it's comfortable. Ain't nobody walking in and out?

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Speaker 1: Even the girl who did my nail like I said,

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Speaker 1: Janet Janet did my nails. I can't think of her

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Speaker 1: Instagram name right now, pulled up, but she has a

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Speaker 1: whole you know, extra bedroom and the whole stuff. Like

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Speaker 1: I said, I just wanna feel like the experience like

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Speaker 1: I'm in, like getting in a salon.

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Speaker 3: If you have that expensive, bitch, why are you not

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Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. A lot of people are

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Speaker 2: But that's why I'm saying that.

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Speaker 1: But if you're a license, if you're a license, you

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Speaker 4: Yet with braids, almost everybody I know they do braids.

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Speaker 2: And I didn't even know. I was like, girl, I

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Princess, love her now crowned asses did

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Speaker 3: Out to bar but bar back, Yeah, out to Borrow.

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Speaker 3: That's my girl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love girl. I love me so bar that

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Speaker 1: I love barbed down, so we always be dating each other. Hey, girl, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I just like this length on me, you would, And

449
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Speaker 2: then my lashes was getting longer and longer even you know,

450
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Speaker 1: What is it on? Is it jylash jay Lily j

452
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Speaker 1: Lily jy? I think it is it j or ji

453
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Speaker 1: because when I said.

454
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Speaker 3: It don't matter, that's her instagram j A I l

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Speaker 3: I l l y.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, come on, but either ways, like when she

457
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Speaker 1: was on my lashes, we were getting longer and longer,

458
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Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, what let me take

459
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Speaker 1: it back in the little bit and she was like, girl,

460
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Speaker 1: these looks so much better.

461
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I been getting my shit. I been getting my.

462
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Speaker 4: Shit super short, like not super short, but way shorter

463
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Speaker 4: than I used to get them in like really whisky.

464
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

465
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Speaker 4: I'm just like very minimalistic these days when it comes

466
00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:17,919
Speaker 4: to like products, yeah, when it comes to face products,

467
00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:21,760
Speaker 4: when it comes to skincare, when it comes to lashes,

468
00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:23,679
Speaker 4: all of that stuff. And you know, but I always

469
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Speaker 4: kind of wore my nails pretty short or whatever because

470
00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,040
Speaker 4: I don't like my thing with long nails. And I

471
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Speaker 4: think they look super cute on a lot of people,

472
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Speaker 4: but me personally, they just will always break. So I

473
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Speaker 4: never seen a point because I'm like, okay, if my

474
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Speaker 4: nail gonna break three days after I get it up,

475
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Speaker 4: and then I gotta go back three four times before

476
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Speaker 4: I'm due for a refiel, why get them so so long?

477
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Speaker 2: Now? It's hard as fuck.

478
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Speaker 1: Yeah, this length, it's not short, but it's not long.

479
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Speaker 2: This is short for me. And I'm just really loving

480
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Speaker 2: this list. I'm in my French tip era.

481
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Speaker 1: I absolutely love it.

482
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Speaker 4: So you know, I'm a friend tip world, So fresh

483
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Speaker 4: took me down on my toes.

484
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Speaker 3: That is all I wear.

485
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Speaker 4: Well, I actually got white polish today, Well I did.

486
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Speaker 4: I went back to funny.

487
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Speaker 1: But that's what I have on my toes right now too,

488
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Speaker 1: a funny bunny base. But I did a white tips.

489
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Speaker 4: I saw that on I saw somebody's tweet about that

490
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Speaker 4: on Twitter. But I just got funny Bunny on my

491
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Speaker 4: toes and I got funny Bunny on my hands too.

492
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Speaker 1: I got funny Bunny on my toes with a white tip.

493
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Speaker 2: To talk cub anyway, Funny.

494
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Speaker 3: Bunny is the world, girl and bubble.

495
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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's get into these topics. All right, let's

496
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Speaker 1: go go ahead, go ahead, girl.

497
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Speaker 4: So for the first topic I wanted to talk about,

498
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Speaker 4: can you grow incompatibility with the person?

499
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Speaker 3: Mmm?

500
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Speaker 4: I used to think that you couldn't, But now that now,

501
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Speaker 4: I kind of feel like you can. I wouldn't want

502
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Speaker 4: to to be honest, I prefer to be around people

503
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Speaker 4: that I'm compatible with automatically. Nothing is wrong with if

504
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Speaker 4: you're not automatically compatible with the person. But to me,

505
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Speaker 4: that just makes life easier to me because it's the

506
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Speaker 4: way less work. If we already compatible, we ain't gotta

507
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Speaker 4: work the hard.

508
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Speaker 1: I mean, we do.

509
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Speaker 4: You still gotta work hard, but you know what I mean, like,

510
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Speaker 4: but we already fuck with each other.

511
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Speaker 3: It's already there.

512
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Speaker 4: I do think though, now that I'm older, you can

513
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Speaker 4: grow incompatibility as long as you w and a person

514
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Speaker 4: have like similar core values.

515
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Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say, because I feel like

516
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Speaker 1: a lot of times people think of being compatible with

517
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Speaker 1: someone is that y'all are perfect in every way, and

518
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Speaker 1: it just stays how it is. I have been compatible

519
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Speaker 1: with people, but I want to see them reach this goal,

520
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Speaker 1: and they want to see me reach this goal. So

521
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Speaker 1: how can we grow together or how can we fig this.

522
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Speaker 2: Out to make things work?

523
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Speaker 1: I feel like, and that's not only with relationships, that's

524
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Speaker 1: with friendships as well. I feel like a lot of

525
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Speaker 1: times when we talk about things, people automatically go to, oh,

526
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Speaker 1: this is what they're trying to do for a man

527
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Speaker 1: or for a woman. And a lot of times we

528
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Speaker 1: so we're so concerned about being a good partner. And

529
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Speaker 1: I've said this before, y'all don't even know how to

530
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Speaker 1: be good friends to people.

531
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Speaker 3: First.

532
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Speaker 1: I feel like it's very important to be a person's friend,

533
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Speaker 1: whether it's just gonna stay platonic or it's something that

534
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Speaker 1: eventually will be romantic. We need to put value back

535
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Speaker 1: in friendships again, like between opposite sex, same sex, whatever.

536
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Speaker 4: Yeah, because if you can't be friends with the person

537
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Speaker 4: you and y'all are absolutely not compatible, right right, Like

538
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Speaker 4: if you feel like you can't stand this person, like

539
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Speaker 4: I hate him, but I love him, this is not

540
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Speaker 4: your person, and y'all are not gonna have any growth

541
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Speaker 4: because y'all can't stand each other, right, There's gonna be

542
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Speaker 4: no growth there if y'all are still talking about petty things,

543
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Speaker 4: talking about trust issues, Uh, you liking this girl picture,

544
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Speaker 4: you know, like little stuff like that. Like if you're

545
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Speaker 4: friends with somebody, you have a certain level of trust there.

546
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Speaker 4: So if you trust somebody and y'all are true friends,

547
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Speaker 4: no matter how compatible y'all are or y'all aren't, there's

548
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Speaker 4: gonna be growth there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like like I'll use us for example, Like we're friends,

551
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Speaker 1: Like we're compatible as friends and we have grown so

552
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Speaker 1: much in our friendship. But that's just automatically gonna happen

553
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Speaker 1: when you're compatible with somebody. It's just inevitable, Yeah, that

554
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Speaker 1: y'all grow together because I'm not gonna be the same

555
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Speaker 1: person I am a year from now, But a year

556
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Speaker 1: from now, I know we're still gonna be friends, you

557
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So it's like it's.

559
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Speaker 1: Just natural for us to grow if you're compatible with somebody, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, no, that makes sense.

561
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Speaker 4: And I also just feel like, I don't know, like

562
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Speaker 4: people play so much emphasis on compatibility, but like your

563
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Speaker 4: compatibility can change. Also, That's why I said too, if

564
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Speaker 4: you have the same set of core values as a person,

565
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Speaker 4: like y'all believe in the same things, y'all have the

566
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Speaker 4: same morals, then compatibility is kind of relative to me

567
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Speaker 4: because you and a person could be compatible when y'all

568
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Speaker 4: get married, but then a few years later, y'all might

569
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Speaker 4: not be compatible no more because people change all the

570
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Speaker 4: time all the time. People are constantly changing, constantly evolving,

571
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Speaker 4: So that person that you married five years ago might

572
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Speaker 4: not be that person now, you know. But if you

573
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Speaker 4: and this person have the same beliefs and y'all have

574
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Speaker 4: a certain amount of love for each other, I think

575
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Speaker 4: that you can grow incompatibility. Again, so I don't necessarily

576
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Speaker 4: think for a lot of people, And I probably really.

577
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Speaker 3: Shouldn't speak on this because neither one of us has

578
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Speaker 3: been married before.

579
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Speaker 4: But I also feel like when that's the reason why

580
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Speaker 4: people get divorces.

581
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Speaker 3: That's kind of crazy to me.

582
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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I do, cause if the love is there

583
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Speaker 4: and y'all have the same core values, y'all can't grow

584
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Speaker 4: incompatibility again if the love is.

585
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Speaker 3: Still there, cause people are always changing.

586
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Speaker 4: Like, that's unfair to feel like somebody is supposed to

587
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Speaker 4: be the same person that they was when you first

588
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Speaker 4: met them.

589
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Speaker 1: I don't wanna.

590
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Speaker 4: I personally don't want to be friends with nobody. I

591
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Speaker 4: don't want to be in a relationship with nobody date

592
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Speaker 4: anybody who is the same person that they was three

593
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Speaker 4: years ago. If you're the exact same person, Like, where's

594
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Speaker 4: the growth, right and what's the fun in that?

595
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Speaker 3: Too?

596
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Speaker 1: Cause I do feel like this cause I kind of

597
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Speaker 1: agree with you, and like I said, neither one of

598
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Speaker 1: us obviously have ever been married, but I do feel like,

599
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Speaker 1: damn like y'all couldn't work through it, like there was

600
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Speaker 1: nothing right left. No, sometimes it does get to that point.

601
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Speaker 1: We've all been through breakups before, I can say that.

602
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Speaker 1: But I do feel like when there is a solid

603
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Speaker 1: foundation of love and friendship and you really okay, you

604
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Speaker 1: see this person changing and I'm not saying that you

605
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Speaker 1: have to change yourself to mold them into but I

606
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Speaker 1: feel like there should be a level of understanding, like

607
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Speaker 1: why is this happening? Okay, let's get to the root

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Speaker 1: of the issue.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, and maybe that's my downfall. I am

610
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Speaker 2: a fighter.

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Speaker 1: I like if I love somebody, like I said, whether

612
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Speaker 1: it's a family member or friend.

613
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Speaker 2: Sometimes relationships that I shouldn't have fought for, but.

614
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Speaker 1: I always fight for things that I want, Like if

615
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Speaker 1: I want you in my life, I'm gonna fight for

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Speaker 1: you to be there. So I just feel like it

617
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Speaker 1: depends on the amount of effort that you're willing to

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Speaker 1: put in and also how unhappy you are, Like I've

619
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Speaker 1: never been in a situation.

620
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Speaker 2: Where I'm like downright depressed.

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Speaker 1: Also, you know, like I've never been with somebody where

622
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Speaker 1: I'm fighting for a friendship or fighting for a relationship,

623
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Speaker 1: and it's like draining to me. Like once you get

624
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Speaker 1: to that point, it's a little different.

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Speaker 4: No, yeah it is, but I don't know, Like a

626
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Speaker 4: lot of the time when people get the and stuff,

627
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 4: that shit is weird to me anyways, because I don't

628
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Speaker 4: understand how you can't be amicable with somebody that you

629
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Speaker 4: was married to for ten years, twenty years, y'all built

630
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Speaker 4: a family, y'all have children together. Like, I can't see

631
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Speaker 4: myself having a child with somebody, being married to them,

632
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Speaker 4: building a life with them, and then we're getting a

633
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Speaker 4: divorce and I hate you so much.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but I will say people are evil, People

635
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Speaker 2: are mean.

636
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Speaker 1: People do some evil ass they.

637
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Speaker 3: Do know they do.

638
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Speaker 4: But then I also just feel like people don't really

639
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Speaker 4: be taking inventory on who they have around them before

640
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Speaker 4: they get involved in those situations.

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Speaker 3: A lot of design, I mean, but.

642
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Speaker 4: People do change. Don't get me wrong. People definitely change.

643
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Speaker 4: But I always say this, I am really an advocate

644
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Speaker 4: for anybody that would do some grimy shit to me.

645
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Speaker 3: The signs been there.

646
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Speaker 1: I mean, I agree, the signs be there.

647
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Speaker 4: I've never been around nobody who done did some grimy

648
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Speaker 4: shit and I was like, oh my god, I can't believe.

649
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Speaker 4: I just can't believe it. Like maybe you're taking back

650
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 4: because you're like, damn, why would they do that to me?

651
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 4: But when you really sit in it, you like, the

652
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,959
Speaker 4: signs was there that person was giving me cues that

653
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 4: they wasn't really the best person. But I think a

654
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Speaker 4: lot of the time too, people will think, oh, well

655
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Speaker 4: they that person won't do that to me, though, like, yeah,

656
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:17,919
Speaker 4: they did X, Y, and Z to this person and

657
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Speaker 4: that person, but they wouldn't do it to me though,

658
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 4: that's your first mistake.

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Speaker 1: Well, and I do feel like though I agree with

660
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Speaker 1: you on that statement, but I also feel like me

661
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Speaker 1: playing Devil's advocate a little bit. A lot of people

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Speaker 1: really are good at hiding who they are. It's some

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Speaker 1: people out here who are like, no, listen, listen, just

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Speaker 1: hear me out. I have seen situations where it's like

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Speaker 1: you really think you know somebody, You really think you

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Speaker 1: know somebody, and they really will blindside you seriously. I

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Speaker 1: have been in situations when I I can't save me personally.

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Speaker 1: But like I said, I've seen situations where I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I would never I would have never expect that would

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Speaker 1: have happened. Like sometimes people are just really good at

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Speaker 1: hiding their hands, like some people are. There's a really

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Speaker 1: good poker players be It's like some people are just

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Speaker 1: they can live that double life. They really can't. I

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Speaker 1: can't agree with that.

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Speaker 4: But then to a certain extent, I feel like it's

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Speaker 4: way less people out there in the world like that

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Speaker 4: than of these people that's gonna show you who they are,

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Speaker 4: because I feel like you have to have a certain

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Speaker 4: skill set and you have to have a certain type

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Speaker 4: of mind to be able to con people in that

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Speaker 4: type of way, and most people are not equipped mentally

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Speaker 4: like that. I really do feel that way.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, that's your opinion, but you can

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Speaker 1: only base it off of you know, you know, your

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Speaker 1: life experiences with people that you're around.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, that's why I'm talking about my opinion, right.

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Speaker 1: So I just feel like and in my.

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Speaker 4: Opinion, most people that I have came across in life,

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Speaker 4: I just don't be feeling like they equipped the new

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Speaker 4: to like con people like that because most people show

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Speaker 4: you who they are eventually, because most people don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I just feel like most people don't be having what

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Speaker 4: it takes to keep up the facade for.

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Speaker 3: A long time.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I.

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Speaker 3: Said, I feel like that's why you have a con

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Speaker 3: artist people who actually really do that shape or a living.

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Speaker 1: I mean, just cause I feel like some people, when

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Speaker 1: they want to reach a goal, they will do anything

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Speaker 1: to get there. They will fake whatever, f they will

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Speaker 1: do whatever, like when they are that desperate if they

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Speaker 1: want something that bad.

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Speaker 4: I feel like most people. I feel like a lot

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Speaker 4: of people are like that. Though I'm not gonna say

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Speaker 4: most people, but I feel like a lot of people

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Speaker 4: are like this.

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Speaker 1: MM.

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Speaker 3: I don't really see nothing wrong with it, though, What

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Speaker 3: doing what you feel like you need to do to

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Speaker 3: reach a goal?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, but I'm talking about like as far as

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Speaker 1: like being fake and pretending that you're somebody you're not

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Speaker 1: and then follow Okay, that's what I'm talking about, as

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Speaker 1: far as like fooling a person, you know, like pretending

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Speaker 1: that you're something that you're not.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like everybody don't fool people though.

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Speaker 1: Now before listen, let's talk about it, cause you said

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Speaker 1: a lot of people.

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Speaker 4: God fool people before, you fool people before. It doesn't

721
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Speaker 4: make us bad because my thing is everybody people always

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Speaker 4: like to place a negative connotation on things that we've

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Speaker 4: all done.

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Speaker 3: So are we all bad people?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: I just say that.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying that we all have like moments where

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Speaker 3: it was.

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Speaker 4: Kind of like, mm, life be life, and I'm doing

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Speaker 4: what I gotta do.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, So some people have really been fooled,

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Speaker 1: Like some people have really fooled. For example, some people

733
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734
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Speaker 1: they just trying to get money from him, or I'm

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Speaker 1: really into you, but they just trying to get some

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Speaker 1: you get blindsided.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna use this. This is a terrible example.

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Speaker 1: But in some situations, like you said, the science be there.

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Speaker 1: For example, the lady that wrote the book Stella got

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Speaker 1: her groove back. Remember he came out and he was gay. Yes, okay,

742
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Speaker 1: so the lady that wrote the book still how Stella

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Speaker 1: got her groove back.

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Speaker 2: It was a true story.

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Speaker 1: She yeah, to make a met this man, they got

746
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Speaker 1: she brought him back to America, they got married. Then

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Speaker 1: like a couple years later, it came out and he

748
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Speaker 1: was gay, and everybody was like, oh my god. Because

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Speaker 1: Going on Oprah.

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Speaker 4: And that's what I be saying, Bro, That's what I mean.

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Speaker 4: That's what I be talking about though. That's the stuff

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Speaker 4: that I be talking about. I think people always, I'm

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Speaker 4: not gonna say always, but a lot of time people

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Speaker 4: turn the blind eyes to things when it's what they want.

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Speaker 2: Now, I feel like.

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Speaker 4: And we don't know this lady what was her name,

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Speaker 4: Terry McMillan or something like that. We don't know this lady,

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Speaker 4: but I feel like, depending on what it was that

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Speaker 4: she wanted that relationship for or wanted to be in

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Speaker 4: that relationship, maybe she just didn't want to be single,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean, because obviously still a got

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Speaker 4: her groove back. The lady was older, the man was younger,

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Speaker 4: and it's the true story.

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Speaker 3: So it's like, maybe she just doesn't want to be single,

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Speaker 3: or she wants to have her.

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Speaker 4: Some fun with a young nigga, Like you just never

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Speaker 4: know what I feel like the signs of him being

828
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Speaker 4: gay was probably there.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes they don't, though, so we do have to play

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Speaker 4: Debble's advocate with that because you got download niggas.

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Speaker 1: That you would never you would never know, Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: would never.

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Speaker 3: Get Oh, so you don't weldn't do any man.

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Speaker 1: When I tell you, like, I just feel like, like

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Speaker 1: I said, some people are really good at pretending and

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Speaker 1: some people aren't. So that's why I said, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to hold it against people, but I will say

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Speaker 1: I don't loneliness.

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Speaker 2: Loneliness is the roots.

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Speaker 1: Like people say money is the root of all evil,

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Speaker 1: so is fucking loneliness. Loneliness will put you in some

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Speaker 1: positions that you never should have been in. It will

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Speaker 1: have you fucking people you shouldn't fuck, It will have

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Speaker 1: you hanging out with people you shouldn't be hanging out with,

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Speaker 1: and it'll have you turning an eye to the red flags.

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Speaker 1: So sometimes people really don't see the signs, Dreah because

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Speaker 1: they are so lonely, are there so desperate for friends

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Speaker 1: or whatever the case may be.

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Speaker 4: But that's because you don't want to see it though,

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Speaker 4: because if you're desperate for anything, then of course you're

852
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Speaker 4: gonna turn the blind eyes to it. But maybe you

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Speaker 4: might be like, oh, it's not really that big of.

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Speaker 2: A deal, or maybe they really don't see.

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Speaker 4: So I have a question for you. Out of all

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Speaker 4: the people that you've met in your life, and obviously

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Speaker 4: that's a lot of people, because we don't meet a

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Speaker 4: lot of people in our lives, So out of all

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Speaker 4: the people that you met in your life, you don't

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Speaker 4: feel like only a handful of them were really actually

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Speaker 4: good at like being manipulative and like playing mind games

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Speaker 4: or hiding stuff from you and you not really knowing

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Speaker 4: what's going on. I can friend, I feel like most

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Speaker 4: people who try to play games with me, I see

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Speaker 4: right through people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I right through them.

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Speaker 4: I just don't think people are that mental. Most people

868
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Speaker 4: are that mentally equipped to really play somebody like that.

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Speaker 3: Like I feel like some people can't help but.

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Speaker 4: Show they true and teations because one thing about a

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Speaker 4: lot of people, as soon as you don't get what

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Speaker 4: you want, they switch go off and you turn into

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Speaker 4: that person that you really are because you're not getting

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Speaker 4: your way. I feel like you have to be a

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Speaker 4: very calculated person, very smart person to still keep you cool,

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Speaker 4: because you still haven't got what you wanted.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, Like I said, I have never

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Speaker 1: been in that situation like I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: I've been in a situation where I'm like, damn, you

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Speaker 2: gonna do me like that? But was I surprised?

881
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 4: No, you never, And that's what I'm saying, you never surprised.

882
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 4: Every time I done got done dirty, every time I

883
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 4: done got played by a friend, by a nigga, by

884
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:32,800
Speaker 4: whoever bitch.

885
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 3: The signs was there. The signs was there.

886
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 4: But I either stayed in their friendship, stayed in their

887
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 4: relationship because it.

888
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 3: Was something that I wanted.

889
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 4: So I was turning a blind eye to the signs.

890
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 4: But if I would have walked away, I would have

891
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 4: never gave that shit a chance to happen, because the

892
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 4: signs was there, the signs, opnes I saw the signs.

893
00:35:56,480 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 4: No that ah, I swear to God and everybody that's

894
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 4: around me and everybody that's around me that I be

895
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 4: feeling like you a good person, you a decent person,

896
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 4: Like I don't feel like I really got to worry

897
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 4: about you in that way I've been right now, I'm

898
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,240
Speaker 4: not saying fuck shit won't necessarily happen in the future,

899
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 4: or it can't happen in.

900
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 3: The future because again, people change.

901
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 4: But for the most part, I've been a good judge

902
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,919
Speaker 4: of character about those things, and I feel like if

903
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 4: people really pay attention to the signs, it be there

904
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 4: because people be showing their character like you could, so

905
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:30,879
Speaker 4: you can't tell.

906
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 3: I know when people be trying to use me. I

907
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 3: could feel it.

908
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 4: I could feel it, or I could feel like if

909
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 4: I could feel if you want to be cool with me,

910
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 4: or you want to be around me for your own

911
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 4: personal motives or whatever the case may be, like the

912
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 4: energy just be there, or if a nigga want to

913
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 4: fuck with me for his own intentions, like that nigga from.

914
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 3: Last year to when they brought me the car, but

915
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 3: you could.

916
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,919
Speaker 4: Feel it like it was not with him. But I'm

917
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 4: just saying nothing. But you saw it. I saw it,

918
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 4: Lan saw We all saw it. Like the intentions wasn't genuine.

919
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 4: You wanna be around for your own personal reason, right, Yeah,

920
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 4: you probably like me to a certain extent, but you

921
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 4: got ulterior motives that we can all see.

922
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 3: The feel the vibes, you know, I just feel like

923
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 3: the shit be there.

924
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, they do for the most part.

925
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:19,760
Speaker 1: But like I said, I feel like sometimes people really

926
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: do be Sometimes it.

927
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 4: Saw you a little yeah, like it's.

928
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: One lie, it's one liar here, and I thought it

929
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 1: was maybe.

930
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,879
Speaker 4: And maybe too and maybe to let me say these,

931
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 4: maybe I just haven't had that many experiences like that

932
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 4: in my life as well, because I'm already super protective

933
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,959
Speaker 4: about who I be around. I feel like I don't

934
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 4: know you already can't really.

935
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 3: Get close to me.

936
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 4: Not saying that only probably happen to people that are

937
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 4: friends with a lot of people, But I feel like

938
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 4: the most people you friends with, the more of a likelihood.

939
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 1: I feel like my circle right now is just so small,

940
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: but it's just like good, Like I'm in a good

941
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: space right now. I feel like the more people around,

942
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: the more hectic shit gets. You know what I'm saying,

943
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: you gotta watch.

944
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 4: The more people around, the more people you gotta watch. Men,

945
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 4: I ain't got.

946
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: Time, you know what. I don't got time. I have

947
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 1: made like I really don't hang out with new people

948
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 1: or make new friends. But I feel like the last

949
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: person I made a friend with, I kept seeing him

950
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: do weird ass shit, and me and my homegirl kept

951
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 1: having conversations. Bitch, you already know home talking about me.

952
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 3: And even not gonna say who, but I'm just like.

953
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 2: Once I finished, you gonna know who I'm talking about her.

954
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: Anyways, me and my homegirl kept having conversations like why

955
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: does he do these?

956
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 2: Why does he? You know what?

957
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 1: I was like, well, bitch, well you know what. He cool,

958
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 1: so let's just, you know, let's stay cool with him until.

959
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 2: He finally finally took that.

960
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: Ship home and did some whole assh it to her

961
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: and did some whole ass shit to me. And it

962
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: was just like, bro, you're a fucking weirdo. And I

963
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: should have known because you know what. The signs was there.

964
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 1: I kept seeing him do the shade, the sign that.

965
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 2: Open dump my eyes.

966
00:38:56,080 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 1: I saw the motherfucking sons, bitch, and I okay, sorry,

967
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:02,320
Speaker 1: but like I said, you're.

968
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,839
Speaker 4: If everything okay, hold, I said.

969
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,439
Speaker 1: God, if I see that nigga, I swear to God,

970
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 1: I spit on that nigga.

971
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 2: If that nigga was on five on it.

972
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 3: My mom gonna say, I don't spit on people because

973
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 3: they spit on Jesus.

974
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, bitch, I ship on them something. Bitch put

975
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 2: that little corner.

976
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 4: But no, while you can't do you know how many

977
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 4: steps you gotta go through this actually ship on someone?

978
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 2: I'll take them.

979
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 3: How are you gonna even get to that point?

980
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 4: I'll take them even look like if it was she

981
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 4: even looked like they was attempting to shop on me?

982
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 1: Do you know how hard I was.

983
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 2: Easy to shop on? Somebody?

984
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 1: Say, we at the club and I got a skirt on,

985
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 1: I ain't got no pennies, and I start rolling you up.

986
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: I can let one out on you real quick, but

987
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 1: it got your ass, bitch.

988
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, and not as ship on your ass cheeks and

989
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 4: you walking around smelling like shit.

990
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 1: I'll go home, you the one with my shit on you,

991
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 1: your shit on.

992
00:39:56,600 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 2: Myself before everybody has you know, to.

993
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 3: Be a person, you know why?

994
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 4: You know when people be like, if you could have

995
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 4: any superpower, what would you want it to be. I

996
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 4: used to want it to be reading minds. Until I

997
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 4: made you.

998
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 2: I didn't think I was going.

999
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where it was going. What what?

1000
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 2: I have a lot of interesting things going on.

1001
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:22,800
Speaker 4: And that's one mind I would not want to get

1002
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 4: and see. I would not want to get in there

1003
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 4: and see what's going on, clearly because who think about

1004
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 4: ways to shit on people.

1005
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: Because sometimes people make me that fucking mad. I'm like,

1006
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: what can I do?

1007
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 2: That would just be.

1008
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:38,359
Speaker 3: But if a.

1009
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,879
Speaker 4: Person don't like you, why would they let you get

1010
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 4: close enough to them to roll them up?

1011
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: Because that dumb ass nigga would because he would think

1012
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: shit would be cool because he's such.

1013
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,240
Speaker 2: A cloud chaser. He'd be like, oh, we're friends again.

1014
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 4: I'd be like, yeah, but have you ever rolled him

1015
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 4: up when y'all was friends?

1016
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 5: No?

1017
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: But I'd be like, so why would he see? That's

1018
00:40:56,960 --> 00:41:00,399
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. People gotta use their brain. I'm

1019
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: not saying not you him, no, but that's what I'm saying, Like,

1020
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 1: if you no, I ain't never rolled him up before,

1021
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,800
Speaker 1: but we've been to the club and we was like dancing,

1022
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 1: like turning up.

1023
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 2: So if I turned around and put this.

1024
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: Little dookie shooter on, he probably wouldn't think nothing of it.

1025
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. He probably wouldn't think nothing

1026
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 2: of it. That's all I'm saying.

1027
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 1: I would shoot on that nigga if I saw him

1028
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: morel of the story or whatever's easiest. You know those

1029
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: easy after you get a BBL to pee through your thing.

1030
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 2: I would the funnel, the funnel, I would do that.

1031
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,879
Speaker 1: Piss on him. If I had to dick, I would

1032
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 1: pull it out a piss on him, shut out the nigga.

1033
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 4: Why wouldn't you just I just like to simplify things.

1034
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:41,879
Speaker 4: If I was gonna do stuff like that, I would

1035
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 4: pee already and have it in my person.

1036
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: I just.

1037
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 2: I'm like that.

1038
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:53,240
Speaker 4: I was getting you gotta use your mind.

1039
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 2: So if you.

1040
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, have any your person, then.

1041
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:02,479
Speaker 2: A little shit back.

1042
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:12,879
Speaker 4: I like it, right, Okay, we like party was when

1043
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 4: we always go off a topic. The answer to the

1044
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:20,360
Speaker 4: first topic, yes, we both think that you can grow incompatibility.

1045
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 3: So for to take a topic, I wanted to.

1046
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 4: Talk about transitioning from arm candy to be a plus

1047
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 4: one to being a boy.

1048
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 2: I feel like this is crazy that we're talking about

1049
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:33,760
Speaker 2: this today.

1050
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: Because I'm a I love history documentary, so I am

1051
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: currently in the middle of watching a documentary about Anne Bolin.

1052
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: It's the story of the woman who was about to

1053
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: become queen to marry King Henry. He was fucking her

1054
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: sister at first because she was his mistress. When he

1055
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 1: wanted to start fucking with her, he wanted to make

1056
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 1: her his mistress, but she was like, no, you gotta

1057
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,760
Speaker 1: marry me period. I'm not finished. It really good story.

1058
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: They actually made it a movie a long time ago.

1059
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: It's a very famous story as well. But I feel

1060
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 1: like we need to all be on some am Boland

1061
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 1: type time.

1062
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 2: Bitch, that's what you're supposed to do.

1063
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: I feel like, now this is not a dish to

1064
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 1: the women out there that have been married for years,

1065
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: that are arm candy, that are you know, the whatever

1066
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: they are. But let me tell you something. I'm thirty

1067
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 1: three years old and I lived that life, you know

1068
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 1: where I was just like, oh, let's bring the girls

1069
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 1: to the game, or you got some pretty girls that

1070
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: want to show up, and it's so much better to be. Oh,

1071
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: let's make sure that lexp and Drena Cole are they're

1072
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 1: from poor minds, like they some boss ass bitches, they

1073
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,319
Speaker 1: some boss women, whatever the case may be. It's so

1074
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: much better on this side.

1075
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 2: It really is. Don't get me wrong, both sides are fun.

1076
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 1: But I feel like having your own money and running

1077
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 1: your own shit, can't nobody tell me nothing, can't nobody

1078
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 1: take shit away from me.

1079
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 2: So I feel like, if.

1080
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 1: You are trying to be somebody's arm candy or you

1081
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: want to be the girlfriend or what whatever.

1082
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 2: You should always have.

1083
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: An end goal that's outside of that. Man, I feel

1084
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: like that is something that you should do. You always

1085
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 1: supposed to make that transition.

1086
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 4: I just feel like, yeah, be both, you know, be

1087
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 4: a boss and have your own shit to where nobody

1088
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 4: can't take nothing away from you and you can still

1089
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 4: be on a nigga arm too. But I do think

1090
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 4: that it's harder. I do think that transitioning is hard though.

1091
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:25,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1092
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 4: So I'm not gonna act like it's not difficult because

1093
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 4: it is. Because I feel like then even when you

1094
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 4: get into the space of being a boss and making

1095
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 4: your own money and making moves and shit, you still

1096
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 4: gonna always have people that look at you like she

1097
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 4: just arm candy.

1098
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, like she ain't got nothing.

1099
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: To say, it's been so much, she ain't.

1100
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:43,479
Speaker 4: Really doing nothing, or else, she just got there because

1101
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 4: she look a certain way, right. So I feel like

1102
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 4: you definitely have people who are still gonna underestimate you

1103
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,399
Speaker 4: even when you do transition into their role.

1104
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 1: Cause I feel like a lot of times, you know

1105
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 1: guys that I knew back in the day, even though

1106
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: I'm running a whole fucking company, and I've been on

1107
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: tour and I'm doing a lot of things. They still

1108
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: look at me as like the bartender from Dreams or

1109
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: oh man, that's my homie from back in the day.

1110
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: You know we used to be outside. It's like, no,

1111
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 1: I'm not that person anymore. I have grown like, oh, well,

1112
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 1: you want to come with me to this, and I'm like, no,

1113
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: I gotta I got shit to do, like I got

1114
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 1: business handled, Like I'm not on that type of time

1115
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:22,479
Speaker 1: no more. You know what I'm saying.

1116
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 4: So, do you think that's because men don't really respect

1117
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 4: like money that women made, Because I think a lot

1118
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:29,399
Speaker 4: of men don't.

1119
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 3: I think a lot of men they don't care about money.

1120
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: Men that about the money.

1121
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 2: Don't care a lot.

1122
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: Yeah that make money, don't care about yeah peomen who

1123
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: make money, they don't give a fuck.

1124
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 4: Right, So then it's like, so, now that you've bossed

1125
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 4: up and you got into this position, then maybe that's

1126
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 4: why they still look at it like that, because it's

1127
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 4: like I don't give a fuck.

1128
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 3: Like that's cute or whatever.

1129
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 1: But they'd be like that, yeah, that's cool. They be

1130
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 1: proud of me. They're like, yeah, I'm proud of you,

1131
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 1: but like, okay.

1132
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 2: Whatever, what else?

1133
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So that's why I don't

1134
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: give a fuck to be around those people anymore. Like

1135
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: you said, growing, those niggas are still doing the same shit. Yeah,

1136
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: they still making money, but you're still making the same

1137
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: amount of money that you made six years ago when

1138
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 1: I knew you. I literally every year I make more money.

1139
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: Every year, I educate myself more. Every year I grow more.

1140
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 3: And what Diamond said on Players Club, all money ain't

1141
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 3: good money.

1142
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 1: So how you made yours exactly period. So I feel

1143
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 1: like the growth that I've experienced money can't by anyways

1144
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 1: because the knowledge that I have is priceless.

1145
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 2: So I have made that transition. I have because the.

1146
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: Things that I used to do and the things I

1147
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: used to be into.

1148
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 2: I'm not anymore.

1149
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 3: I have.

1150
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 1: We got a company to run, bitch, we got shit

1151
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: to motherfucking do. I cannot go and spend X amount

1152
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 1: of money on this because I have to put it

1153
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: back in my business, you know what I'm saying. So

1154
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,880
Speaker 1: the decisions that I make are totally different now, and

1155
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: I've made that transition, but it comes with responsibility, you

1156
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying I can't just get up and well, yes,

1157
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 1: I can just get up and go mm, but it's

1158
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 1: not a smart decision a lot of the times, cause

1159
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:07,240
Speaker 1: I have to be here to handle my business.

1160
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 3: So me and you just also have to be growing too.

1161
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 4: As a business person, and especially with the type of

1162
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 4: business that we're in, you just always have to be

1163
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 4: mindful to of the people that you surrounding yourself with.

1164
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 4: So a lot of the people that we used to

1165
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 4: hang around a lot of niggas that we used to

1166
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 4: talk to. I wouldn't talk to none of the niggas today.

1167
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 1: That's nothing against them, No, it is, Oh don't it's.

1168
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 3: All against them. I meant that, like said, I wouldn't

1169
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:32,320
Speaker 3: fuck with none of you niggas.

1170
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 2: I'm fucking wake. I do feel like like I said,

1171
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 2: though some hell who was that?

1172
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 3: Ol mm?

1173
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what it was. Some people, I'm not

1174
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: dissing them. Some people don't wanna work. I don't wanna

1175
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: work either, got me, neigh, I can't wait till I

1176
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: can retire me too. So so, some women and some

1177
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: men are just arm candy and they enjoy that. They

1178
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 1: enjoy like you know, it's exciting to them. Oh, where's

1179
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: my next lick gonna come from? Around next trick or

1180
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 1: my next situation. Like some people find excitement in that,

1181
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:09,439
Speaker 1: they really do, So I'm not listening. If you're doing

1182
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: what you want to do.

1183
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 3: Then do it.

1184
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: But like I said, I love my independence. Now.

1185
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 4: The only part of being arm candy for me to

1186
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 4: me for real is like if you get married, Yeah.

1187
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 2: I feel like cause you have that partnership.

1188
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 4: Like I feel like, bitchin you got that cushion. You

1189
00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:32,359
Speaker 4: got that cushion cause you the wife, you got all

1190
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 4: type of she all type of.

1191
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 3: Assays, right.

1192
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, Like I feel like you if.

1193
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: You did your pren break right, and also if you

1194
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: marry somebody who has things of value of well, that's

1195
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 1: the only way you arm candy. You ain't arm candy.

1196
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 2: Tell me, ain't got no one that.

1197
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,280
Speaker 1: You could be arm kiddy to somebody in what rooms?

1198
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: When I'm talking about.

1199
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 3: Mention what room?

1200
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 1: Then what place is? When I'm talking about being.

1201
00:48:56,320 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 4: Arm candy, I'm specifically thinking of like for example me

1202
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 4: and for example me and you. It was a time

1203
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 4: in my life where I was getting invited places and

1204
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 4: going places and being around certain people because I was

1205
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 4: with a person I was a plus one to somebody else.

1206
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 4: That's why I'm at this party. That's why I'm at

1207
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 4: this event. That's why I'm around these people. Not because

1208
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 4: of things that I did with my own may off

1209
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 4: of my own married right, but because I'm attached to

1210
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 4: this person.

1211
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: Even now, we're in.

1212
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 3: Rooms and we get invited places and we do a

1213
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 3: lot of things because it's just Drea and leg right.

1214
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 4: That's what I was thinking about when I said armhand,

1215
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 4: I mean, not being funny.

1216
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: That's how I met Big Papa. Like my friend had

1217
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: hit me up, like hey, he's come to town. This

1218
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 1: one was like, you know some pretty girls, so blah

1219
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 1: blah blah, and I was like okay, and that's how

1220
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 1: we met and luckily we ended up hitting off and

1221
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 1: it was a cool situation. But yeah, like the woman

1222
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: that he met three years ago versus now is completely

1223
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 1: fucking different.

1224
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I said, he loves the fact that

1225
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:01,319
Speaker 2: I'm running my business. But do he give a fuck?

1226
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 3: No, you don't, because when we're making is still pennies.

1227
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: Absolutely, But I will say it's like for me though,

1228
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 1: I feel good to now when we walk in the

1229
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: places people like, oh my god, Lex p oh my god.

1230
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: So it's not like I'm just somebody small hiding behind

1231
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 1: him and this and that. So it's definitely different. But

1232
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 1: I feel like that's one thing I love about this

1233
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: show is the growth. And I try to say that

1234
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 1: so much. I feel like things that me and you

1235
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 1: have gone through we're trying to tell y'all, So y'all

1236
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: ain't got to go through it. Yes, get your money

1237
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: running up and have fun, but please boss up make

1238
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: that transition.

1239
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but being an arm kiddie was fun though, Yes

1240
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,320
Speaker 3: it is fun, but I like fun. That's like you.

1241
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 4: But I also think that you have to have an

1242
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 4: end goal too, like I think too. You know, if

1243
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 4: you're gonna do that, then you need to be trying

1244
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 4: to learn what you can from a person. You need

1245
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 4: to be trying to get game. You need to be

1246
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 4: trying to learn what you can about business and Boston up,

1247
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 4: like you need to make it worth your while if

1248
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:04,319
Speaker 4: you just gone, yeah, I'm not like have And that's

1249
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 4: something that I've learned as I've gotten older that I

1250
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 4: wish that I would have.

1251
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 2: It's so much when I.

1252
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,720
Speaker 1: Was younger, like my next business venture that I'm getting

1253
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,920
Speaker 1: into just from him and having a conversation from him.

1254
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1255
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:16,879
Speaker 1: I feel like that that can be the valuable shit

1256
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 1: to me, you know what I'm saying. So I feel

1257
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: like but also being arm candy. And I hate to

1258
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: say this, but like give that lead that to the

1259
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: girls in their twenties, you know what I'm saying, Right,

1260
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 1: like the young girls in their twenties, Like, I feel

1261
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: like once you have the like the early Well, I'm

1262
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 1: not saying nothing's wrong with it in your in your

1263
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 1: thirties because I am not ages at all, but I

1264
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: feel like at my age, I'm in my mid thirties now,

1265
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: so I feel like, what else at thirty three?

1266
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 2: I can't just be out here waiting on a nigga.

1267
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like some people would be late

1268
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 3: to the party.

1269
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 1: That's cool.

1270
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,439
Speaker 2: You can be late to the party, that's fine.

1271
00:51:57,480 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is you can be and be

1272
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 1: in arm candy and just trying to figure shit out.

1273
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,399
Speaker 1: You can't be thirty three trying to be arm candy

1274
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: and you don't know what the end goal is. If

1275
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 1: you're gonna be arm candy at thirty three, you need

1276
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: to have an end goal.

1277
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:11,919
Speaker 2: You can't just be out here on a whim.

1278
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 1: Bitch.

1279
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 2: You gotta figure it out now.

1280
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 3: You're don't attack ninety for saying other beaches in Atlanta.

1281
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 2: I didn't say that.

1282
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 1: I didn't say that. I'm just saying me. I had

1283
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: a plan when I moved to Atlanta. I didn't know

1284
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:26,800
Speaker 1: exactly what, but I knew I wanted to get in media.

1285
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 1: I knew who I wanted to connect with.

1286
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 4: I knew what I wanted to do, but I had

1287
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,839
Speaker 4: no plan. I just knew what I wanted. I knew,

1288
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 4: I knew what I saw my division being at some point,

1289
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 4: Like I knew I was gonna get there some kind

1290
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 4: of way, but I ain't know what road.

1291
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 1: We knew that we wanted to be in media. We

1292
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 1: knew we wanted to do something with YouTube. We knew

1293
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: we wanted to create something. We didn't know exactly what,

1294
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 1: but we were we started making the right connections, That's

1295
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1296
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 2: Like we didn't know how we was gonna get there,

1297
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 2: but bitch, we was gonna get there. Goddamn it.

1298
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1299
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 1: If you was like, oh, I don't know what I

1300
00:52:57,960 --> 00:52:59,320
Speaker 1: want to do, I think I want to start a

1301
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: hair business. So I think I wanna start a last business.

1302
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 1: I think I wanna do a skincare line. Oh, I

1303
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 1: think I wanna have a clothing line, which is all

1304
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 1: very good sources of income. And that's one thing I

1305
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 1: hate that we do saying, oh, everybody does lashes, everybody

1306
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: does hair, So start that motherfucking business.

1307
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 3: Cause your GIRs might be the one that pop up, big,

1308
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 3: pop out, and it don't matter.

1309
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 1: There's no such thing as oversaturation, I don't. I hate

1310
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: when people say that. I hate when people say that

1311
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 1: there is a lane for everybody. So don't feel intimidated

1312
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 1: by that. Just have an idea of what you want

1313
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,840
Speaker 1: to do. Don't be out here just fucking niggas and

1314
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:33,760
Speaker 1: winging it and going to this and going.

1315
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 2: That, and you just flying by the CD of pain.

1316
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 3: I agreed.

1317
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 4: I do feel like thou, you know, being an arm candy.

1318
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 4: That's cool, cause some people really do just aspire. Some

1319
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 4: people really do just aspire to be wife. And that's

1320
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 4: not what I do feel like. And I will say this,

1321
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 4: at this point in my life, that's the goal. I

1322
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 4: can't believe ice society and care about getting married.

1323
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: I feel like you really good you care.

1324
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 4: Now, it's not that I care, but when you really

1325
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 4: sit down and think about it. And I think we

1326
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 4: had talked about this on the episode a while ago.

1327
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 2: Wait, were talking about get the benefits of getting married.

1328
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:10,880
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, like when you die, like when that nigga

1329
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 4: die or anything like that. Like if you're not his wife,

1330
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,800
Speaker 4: who are you the friend?

1331
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 2: What you said last, yek a lord a loyal.

1332
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 3: I'm not being a nigga loyal companion.

1333
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 1: The fuck No, You're gonna put a fucking bring on,

1334
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: that's why.

1335
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 3: And last you will always be going back home alway.

1336
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: But like no, absolutely, n.

1337
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:41,719
Speaker 3: Yes, And that's I will say this.

1338
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 4: That's probably well the growth, but that's probably one of

1339
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 4: the only reasons why I'm here now, just because I'm

1340
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 4: older and I know more and I'm smarter.

1341
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 3: Like when it comes to why would I do the.

1342
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:54,360
Speaker 4: Same thing with a nigga being his girlfriend or common

1343
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 4: law wife when for like ten years, twenty years however long,

1344
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 4: and then God I forbid, something happened to that nigga

1345
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 4: and I'll spend all this time with him and I

1346
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 4: don't get nothing. Yeah, me and my kids don't get nothing. Well,

1347
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 4: maybe my kids will get something but you know.

1348
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 1: What I mean, But like, no, hope, he don't got

1349
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 1: no other kids that pop up, right, you have to

1350
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 1: split everything.

1351
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 4: Right, and then we don't share no assets or nothing,

1352
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:19,880
Speaker 4: because let's be real, it's a lot of women who

1353
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 4: been with niggas for like twenty years or whatever, and

1354
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:25,399
Speaker 4: they name's not indeed to the house. And so then

1355
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 4: if that nigga, he might have been paying the bills

1356
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 4: the whole time, but if he dies, you have no

1357
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 4: rights to that house.

1358
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: I have no fucking Let me tell you something, if

1359
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: that person that passes away doesn't have a will, it

1360
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:37,320
Speaker 1: don't matter.

1361
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 2: That shit is gonna go to.

1362
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: The state and guess what.

1363
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 3: As a wife, that's the type of sit you make

1364
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 3: sure he's in place. Sit in place.

1365
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 1: And I'm saying so I agree with you, cause I

1366
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 1: felt like I kind of I'll say this, I didn't care.

1367
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: I don't care for marriage as far as if I'm single, Like,

1368
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 1: if I'm single, whatever, but if I'm with somebody at

1369
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: this age, we gotta be working towards something. I mean,

1370
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 1: I gotta be working towards something.

1371
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 4: And then my views on marriage have changed shoe as

1372
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 4: far as like I look at marriage as a business.

1373
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 4: I always said that though, Yeah, but I really look

1374
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:10,799
Speaker 4: at it. Look at it as a business now for real,

1375
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 4: Like it's a business. I mean it's not different from like.

1376
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 2: Me and you, well who let's getting every that is legal?

1377
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 2: Now you wanna marry me?

1378
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 3: Who proposing to?

1379
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 1: Who you proposed to be of court?

1380
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 2: Walking down the steps?

1381
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 3: Are you gonna wear a SUCCEEDO?

1382
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 1: I would?

1383
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 2: I swagged that bit y'all.

1384
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 1: You know what I realized, So shout out to my

1385
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:39,319
Speaker 1: friendly I'm always tell me I'm a BDB now, she said.

1386
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 1: The way I was sitting in the chair with my

1387
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 1: bucket hat, she was like, I'm trying what it was?

1388
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 2: She said, I was getting. Yeah, I feel like I'm

1389
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 2: about to That's what I'm about. That's a swag. I'm

1390
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 2: about to be on. I'm amosa start fucking bro.

1391
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 3: You don't even like girls.

1392
00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: I tried it.

1393
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 2: It sounded good though.

1394
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 1: Indeed, if you like girl, I wish I did. Why

1395
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 1: because I know you don't.

1396
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 4: No, you don't because women be stressful. That's why I

1397
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 4: can't be stressful, but women be real stressful.

1398
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 2: Okay, so let's move on.

1399
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:15,800
Speaker 1: Transition from arm candy to a boss. I'm for it

1400
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: ten out of ten. Make that transition. Always have a

1401
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 1: backup plan.

1402
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 2: Be smart.

1403
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 3: Facts.

1404
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 1: So now we gonna get into the bid.

1405
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 4: Dubbow bow bow bow bow bow.

1406
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 2: Okay.

1407
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 1: Uh and you you like these pretty little cities they

1408
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: q they c.

1409
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 2: They h Okay. So today we're gonna talk about dating

1410
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 2: a man with ED.

1411
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 1: So we talked about things that cause ED in the past,

1412
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna talk about would you actually date

1413
00:57:54,640 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 1: a person who suffers from erectile dysfunction? Nop you No, Okay,

1414
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: that's fair. I'm not absolutely I'm just absolutely not. Like

1415
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 1: what the fuck? Like, that's one of the best things

1416
00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 1: about being in a relationship is fucking.

1417
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 4: And you mean you can't fuck whenever we need the

1418
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 4: fuck Like, no, I'm not doing it now when we

1419
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:21,440
Speaker 4: get old, not, this is my man, and then we've

1420
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 4: been together and then now we're older and obviously that's

1421
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 4: something that comes with age for a lot of men.

1422
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 4: If you get older and then that's something that comes

1423
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 4: with it, and you're my husband, then we could try

1424
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,040
Speaker 4: some different shit. But like at my age right now,

1425
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:39,920
Speaker 4: being with a man who openly tells me I can

1426
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 4: openly see that you have that problem, Like no, I

1427
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 4: don't feel like it's not room for a relationship.

1428
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:47,000
Speaker 1: So this is I agree with you one percent because

1429
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 1: I feel like at this age, if you have ed,

1430
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 1: it's because it's something that you're putting in your own

1431
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 1: system that's causing that.

1432
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 2: So we talked about.

1433
00:58:56,560 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: Alcohol, promises, yes, parmentthesy, tobacco.

1434
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 2: Tobacco causes it. So I feel like, if it's something

1435
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 2: that you need to give up in order to make

1436
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 2: your dick.

1437
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 1: Stand up, nigga, get that ship up because I'm trying

1438
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 1: to fuck. So if you can't give that up, then

1439
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: we need to break up.

1440
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 4: And as a woman, when you hit thirty, you would

1441
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 4: need to be like EO sexual prime, so you may

1442
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 4: wanted to have saxes all the time.

1443
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: I cannot be with that. Nigga who gotta take a

1444
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,960
Speaker 1: blue choo? Now?

1445
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 3: I do think you niggas shout out to bluetooth because

1446
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 3: but I.

1447
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 1: Don't talked about a lot of things can cause edy though.

1448
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 2: It can be like a blood.

1449
00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 1: Disease, heart disease, something going on with your prostate, like

1450
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: low test toss. It's a lot of different things. So

1451
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: if it's something medical, I feel like, well, let's get

1452
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: to the bottom of it and how can we fix it.

1453
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna leave you if it's something that you

1454
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:54,600
Speaker 2: can't control. I'm not gonna lie.

1455
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: If it's something with your health, and it can be

1456
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 1: like we gotta go to the doctor, I'll see I'll

1457
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 1: see it through with you for that. But if it's

1458
01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 1: something because you wanna sit lean, you popping perks, you

1459
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 1: smoking hookah, you keep drinking Hennessy, and you can't get

1460
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: your dick up, like, I'm not fucking with that.

1461
01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:13,760
Speaker 2: Like you need to get your life in order.

1462
01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:16,560
Speaker 1: Like we said last week, I don't fuck with addictive behaviors.

1463
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: I don't like that.

1464
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 4: I just need a good ballance. Like I don't need

1465
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 4: a nigga who'll be two horny all the time. But

1466
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:22,959
Speaker 4: I also don't want.

1467
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 2: Can't get horny.

1468
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 3: Yah.

1469
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good it's a good balance because I

1470
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: feel like, as women, we know things that make our

1471
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 1: kuchie dry. So if we have one night where God forbid,

1472
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 1: we have one night when our kuchie draw bitch nigga,

1473
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he can't pussy was wag?

1474
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 5: Oh whack ass pussy? He bet to hit up his

1475
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 5: ex right now? A nigga can have an off night

1476
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 5: and it's cool. Yo, kochie dry one time. He already

1477
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 5: back in his baby house.

1478
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 2: Bitch, it's hard out here.

1479
01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1480
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 4: So, but the crazy thing of my niggas though, when

1481
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:00,640
Speaker 4: it comes to the commence, I should have had it

1482
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 4: dry pussy and wet pussy.

1483
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 3: If a beach pussy is not wet, it's your fault.

1484
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: Sex, it's your fault.

1485
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 2: I've seen a tweet the other day.

1486
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 3: By it it's your duty to please.

1487
01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: But you know, women are our region down there. It

1488
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 1: works when we're around, you know what I'm saying. Unfortunately,

1489
01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:31,600
Speaker 1: men just be hard when they wake up like so's

1490
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 1: it's a lot different.

1491
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 3: That's all you make up me on your booty, you mean,

1492
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 3: like what going on?

1493
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 2: I'll be happy. So dating a man with edie.

1494
01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:52,640
Speaker 1: If he can't control it and why it's happening and

1495
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 1: you're not trying to fix it, we're done. But if

1496
01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: it's something you can't control and we have to get

1497
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: to the medical reasons, I'll work. So what did you

1498
01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 1: look up a medical reason? Why?

1499
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:02,160
Speaker 3: Yeah? What was it?

1500
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 2: We talked about it. It's a lot of different ones.

1501
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 2: We talked about this.

1502
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:10,280
Speaker 1: These blood vessels, high cholesterol, high blood pressure. I mean,

1503
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 1: but things that you kind of can control. It's like obesity, tobacco,

1504
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 1: used parks, drink, all that shit, and we know how

1505
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 1: it is. Fucking the nigga on drink bitch were from Houston.

1506
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:24,480
Speaker 1: We done have them.

1507
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:28,640
Speaker 2: Little I'm so high coming down back?

1508
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 3: Sure they don't come down and stay down.

1509
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 2: So let us know how y'all feel about dating a

1510
01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 2: man with ed Okay.

1511
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 4: Yes, now it's time to get into the bowl, the

1512
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 4: bowel ot bowl.

1513
01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 1: Boo bo okay. So I was supposed to look this

1514
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:52,480
Speaker 1: up beforehand, but I didn't. So my bop of the

1515
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 1: week is by Destin Conrad. It's called It's Yours.

1516
01:02:56,280 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 2: And this guy he used to.

1517
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 1: Go viral on vine when vine was a thing, and

1518
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 1: I can't remember the vine that he went viral on,

1519
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: but he was like a little boy and he was

1520
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:09,760
Speaker 1: so funny. But now he's like a grown man. And

1521
01:03:10,200 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 1: this is what I love about creating content. I love

1522
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 1: when people can really spread their wings and find what

1523
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 1: they're good at. Cause back in the day, you would

1524
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 1: have never guessed that this boy could sing. And he's

1525
01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 1: an amazing like he can make amazing music and I

1526
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: feel like that's what I love about the freedom of

1527
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: being a creative, Like you can really find things that

1528
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: you're good at that you would never know. So Desson

1529
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:34,920
Speaker 1: Conrad has a song called It's Yours and it's very

1530
01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: like giving you know when you know when you leave

1531
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:39,920
Speaker 1: the club and you trying to just pull up on

1532
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:41,640
Speaker 1: a nigga real quick and just be.

1533
01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:43,360
Speaker 2: Like it's yours, like what's up?

1534
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 1: So it gives those type of like late night, leave

1535
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 1: the club, this is the song you put on after

1536
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 1: the club, but you're trying to go get you some

1537
01:03:50,280 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, Deson Conrad, It's yours. His EPs is very good.

1538
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 1: I fuck with it. I'm liking it, and me can

1539
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 1: I do a BAP of the Week honorary Bop of

1540
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: the Week. Santana just dropped a song called Bop but.

1541
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 4: I love it.

1542
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 3: I like that song.

1543
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 2: I love Santana.

1544
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:13,000
Speaker 1: So she said, yeah, show he just he knows how

1545
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 1: to make fun clubs. He knows how to make fun music,

1546
01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 1: and I feel like he is really good. Now I

1547
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:23,920
Speaker 1: will say, I don't know who gonna see this or

1548
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 1: who gonna watch this. There's these two guys on TikTok.

1549
01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: They sit in their car and they freestyle. So did

1550
01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 1: you ever see that TikTok that went viral when it

1551
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 1: was like ooh, I'm trying to handle that as oh yeah, yeah,

1552
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 1: So they always make little TikTok jingles and they're so

1553
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 1: good they're giving me ying Yang twin vibes. I really

1554
01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 1: want somebody to sign those two boys, I really do.

1555
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 1: I wish ya knew their names, but I don't. Maybe

1556
01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 1: I'll find it while you're talking about your bop of

1557
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:53,880
Speaker 1: the week, okay, but yes.

1558
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 2: I really want somebody to sign them.

1559
01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:58,720
Speaker 1: I feel like they could really make some good fun music,

1560
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: Like we need to get back to shaking ass in

1561
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 1: the club, kind of whetting up the block, spotting all

1562
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:06,160
Speaker 1: my ops. I'm not I'm not trying to do that

1563
01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 1: in the club no more.

1564
01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:10,040
Speaker 3: I'm trying to shake some not miss o Block herself.

1565
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 2: Miss o' block is retired.

1566
01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: I left the block. I'm ready to to work again.

1567
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 1: I am we so, but yeah, I'm a fine And

1568
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 1: why you do yours?

1569
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:23,320
Speaker 3: So, y'all, I don't know if you had this.

1570
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 4: I can't remember if you had this song as year

1571
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:28,000
Speaker 4: about of the week before, I can't remember, But I

1572
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 4: like that song spreading by Mariah the Scientist.

1573
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 2: Okay, I didn't make this.

1574
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:36,200
Speaker 4: You haven't had that ass you'r about before? Okay, because

1575
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:38,360
Speaker 4: I feel like you had one of her songs as

1576
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 4: your about before.

1577
01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 3: But I just couldn't because I like her. I remember

1578
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:43,360
Speaker 3: what song it was, but yeah, I really liked that song.

1579
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 4: And then I also really liked the song with her

1580
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:49,440
Speaker 4: and is the song called well I told you he

1581
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 4: was calling?

1582
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I really like those two songs.

1583
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 4: So, like now I feel like I need to start

1584
01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 4: probably like trying to listen to her music is.

1585
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: Actually like a lot of people try to get on

1586
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:04,840
Speaker 1: her because they feel like she's not like a powerhouse vocalist,

1587
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 1: but she makes good music.

1588
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 2: I feel like she kind of gives Janiko bab I.

1589
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 4: Knew you was about to disrespect that lady like that

1590
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 4: and say that I knew you was gonna You always

1591
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:16,080
Speaker 4: say this.

1592
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:20,680
Speaker 2: She makes good music. It's not for me specifically, but

1593
01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:22,920
Speaker 2: you always be like.

1594
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 3: Oh, he's good.

1595
01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: It feels so good when you touch my booty, Nigga,

1596
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 1: I need to give it.

1597
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make it feel good. I love her, I

1598
01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:45,120
Speaker 2: feel it. Though she got a bob about her, I

1599
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:47,200
Speaker 2: don't like people who make music true to themselves.

1600
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,240
Speaker 3: Her own thing. But that's why she has her own name.

1601
01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 3: Yeah she does.

1602
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:54,840
Speaker 1: Okay, So these are the boys I'm talking about real quick.

1603
01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 1: So his TikTok is k dot comedy underscore. So they

1604
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 1: always be sitting in the car.

1605
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 2: Making the music.

1606
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 1: So they was this is a song? Remember, I don't know. Yeah.

1607
01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 2: Now I feel like they make really cute music.

1608
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:15,400
Speaker 1: I feel like if they really got in the studio

1609
01:07:15,520 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 1: with some good producers, they could make some fire songs.

1610
01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 2: So if anybody is watching this, that's a producer or

1611
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:21,960
Speaker 2: somebody that's.

1612
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:24,200
Speaker 1: The signing boy boy so we can have fun in

1613
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:27,000
Speaker 1: the club Santana is making fun music for the girls

1614
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 1: and the boys, so let them make the you know,

1615
01:07:30,880 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 1: the music like trying to have fun again. I'm tired

1616
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:35,800
Speaker 1: of talking about the killing and the shooting and all

1617
01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 1: that stuff.

1618
01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 3: We over it, period, period.

1619
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 4: So now we gonna get into the item of the

1620
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 4: week because we told y'all last week we're gonna start

1621
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 4: back doing item of the week again. And we also

1622
01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 4: will have the opportunity to where you know, if you

1623
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 4: have a business or you have any item that you

1624
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 4: would like for us to try, you can get it

1625
01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 4: sponsored during.

1626
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 3: Our Item of the Week segment.

1627
01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:00,840
Speaker 4: But it gotta be good, but he gotta be good,

1628
01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 4: and then we'll also have it on display in the

1629
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:06,000
Speaker 4: new studio behind it.

1630
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 3: It's like during the episode. So yeah, so y'all know, I'm.

1631
01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 4: Like a smells girl, like I am such a fragrance

1632
01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 4: girl like I and I and I hate the fact

1633
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:19,120
Speaker 4: that I'm like getting to the point where I feel

1634
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:20,080
Speaker 4: like I'm one of them girls.

1635
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:22,720
Speaker 3: They be like, oh d like I'm always put me

1636
01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:23,879
Speaker 3: on that perfume.

1637
01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 1: You know, I've worn the same perfume.

1638
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 3: For fo.

1639
01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, Cassiopia by what's her name, Teresa Tetrasini or something

1640
01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:35,280
Speaker 4: like that. Let me look it up real quick because

1641
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:36,519
Speaker 4: I don't want to because I don't want to.

1642
01:08:36,560 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 1: Butcher, it's I always have a spaghetti.

1643
01:08:40,280 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 2: Do you all remember the episode?

1644
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,600
Speaker 4: It's not chicken Tetrasini.

1645
01:08:48,200 --> 01:09:00,160
Speaker 3: Okay, Cassio, I feel o tusianai. That's what you can

1646
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 3: not say, that friend.

1647
01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 2: You really hurt my feelings yesterday.

1648
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:11,760
Speaker 4: Tensya tar tarnsy torrensy torrensy. And that sound bad cause

1649
01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 4: we ain't even pronouncing any shit right and we be

1650
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 4: wearing this shit. And I got like two of her perfunit.

1651
01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:18,519
Speaker 4: But can I tell how you hurt my feelings yesterday?

1652
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:19,559
Speaker 3: How did I hurt your feelings?

1653
01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:21,400
Speaker 1: Well, when you were on the phone and you were

1654
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:23,680
Speaker 1: talking about like eating healthy and all the stuff you've

1655
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:25,760
Speaker 1: been doing, you were like, yeah, I had a salad today,

1656
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 1: ba ba, and I was like, it's a chicken salley,

1657
01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:31,760
Speaker 1: and you didn't laugh like I just did. Just now.

1658
01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:36,200
Speaker 3: It's friend, That's not funny to me.

1659
01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 1: Chicken salad is funny.

1660
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 3: Not no more.

1661
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:42,640
Speaker 4: These not no more, because I feel like people have

1662
01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 4: worn it out. But I never really thought it was

1663
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 4: that funny to begin with. I think it was like

1664
01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 4: one of those things where I be confused and again

1665
01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 4: where TikTok is its own world, because I never understood TikTok.

1666
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 2: I don't I speak fluent.

1667
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:58,559
Speaker 3: I do not speak TikTok, and thee I see.

1668
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:01,360
Speaker 1: I speak fluent TikTok. So it was like the reason

1669
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 1: it was funny because she was dead serious and she

1670
01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:05,280
Speaker 1: was into it. She because that's style. It was good

1671
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 1: as fuck.

1672
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 3: I mean like that when I'm hungry too.

1673
01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:12,439
Speaker 2: Okay, got to the item was good, it looked good.

1674
01:10:12,760 --> 01:10:13,280
Speaker 3: I didn't like.

1675
01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:16,800
Speaker 4: It's not that I didn't like it, But like I said,

1676
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:21,000
Speaker 4: it's just so like it's been everywhere. So I can't

1677
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:23,640
Speaker 4: laugh anymore because I've already laughed like three times. But

1678
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,439
Speaker 4: then I also didn't never really see why.

1679
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 2: Okay, but what about the snapping turlow?

1680
01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:36,040
Speaker 3: I don't know what that is? What is it?

1681
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:42,320
Speaker 2: Oh it's a snapping turlough? You would see the ladies?

1682
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 3: All right, go ahead, I'm so so yeah, y'all.

1683
01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:50,120
Speaker 4: Felt like I love perfumes like I have like a

1684
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:53,799
Speaker 4: pretty extensive collection at this point. They just keep growing

1685
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:56,799
Speaker 4: because I stayed buying some new sheet like every few weeks.

1686
01:10:57,360 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 1: So I this is my item of the weed.

1687
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:04,439
Speaker 4: It's called Hypnotizing Fire and it's by the Harmonies. Now

1688
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:07,439
Speaker 4: I will say DC y'all, cause i'm'a start putting y'all

1689
01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:07,920
Speaker 4: up on my.

1690
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 3: Fragrancies that I like to wear.

1691
01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 4: But don't say nothing to me because I know that

1692
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 4: some of them gonna be don't don't be looking crazy

1693
01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:14,320
Speaker 4: when you.

1694
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:16,719
Speaker 3: Go to the store and see how much your gross. Okay,

1695
01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:17,759
Speaker 3: it's really.

1696
01:11:20,560 --> 01:11:29,880
Speaker 4: Something you ain't sprayed enough. If you don't smell it, Oh,

1697
01:11:29,960 --> 01:11:30,479
Speaker 4: it's no good.

1698
01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:33,679
Speaker 2: What Now? Can you talk about the notes?

1699
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 4: Do you have the notes and I don't, kay, but

1700
01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:40,920
Speaker 4: I can look 'em up, That's what I'm saying.

1701
01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:43,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's a really.

1702
01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:46,560
Speaker 4: Good idea actually to start talking about. I know I like,

1703
01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 4: but truly, I like a lot of and I like

1704
01:11:51,560 --> 01:11:53,880
Speaker 4: a lot of ood sents. I like a lot of

1705
01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:54,639
Speaker 4: old sins.

1706
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 1: I love a niggas some ood baby, Yeah, I love

1707
01:11:58,200 --> 01:11:58,719
Speaker 1: a hoo.

1708
01:12:00,160 --> 01:12:02,719
Speaker 3: The food ood sense.

1709
01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I cannot spill today. Excuse me. Okay, do

1710
01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:21,679
Speaker 4: I say you know si oh pimento madagaskin vanilla? No pmento?

1711
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:25,439
Speaker 2: Is she oh warm spicy vanilla?

1712
01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 3: Okay, balsamic.

1713
01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 4: Like you said, rolls amber, woody, sweet, fresh and earthy.

1714
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:35,280
Speaker 3: But those aren't the note.

1715
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:39,799
Speaker 4: But those aren't the notes, friend, It's pimento, bangarian rose,

1716
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 4: madagascar vanilla, Indonesian petchuli leaf and.

1717
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:46,600
Speaker 3: Opah oprah panics.

1718
01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:48,960
Speaker 2: Vanilla.

1719
01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 4: I don't really know if I'm a vanilla girl because

1720
01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:53,599
Speaker 4: I don't really like sweet stuff.

1721
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:56,240
Speaker 2: Well, that's what I'm saying, A musk vanilla like you know,

1722
01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:57,720
Speaker 2: putting because.

1723
01:12:57,720 --> 01:13:00,280
Speaker 4: I'm more of a woody I am more of a

1724
01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 4: woody ood type of girl. Like I like masculine sents

1725
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:07,080
Speaker 4: to a certain cent too. I I I love woody stuff,

1726
01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:11,799
Speaker 4: and I love anything that smells masculine, like tom Ford

1727
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:16,120
Speaker 4: has what is it tobacco vanilla vanilla or something like that,

1728
01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:18,800
Speaker 4: And I actually really like that sent especially as a

1729
01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 4: scent to mix with other sents. So yeah, you know,

1730
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 4: but yeah, see'all, this is my item of the week.

1731
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 4: Smells amazing. I feel like all of the perfumes i'm'a

1732
01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:29,840
Speaker 4: tell you all about is the type of shit that

1733
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:31,560
Speaker 4: when you walk into the room, people gonna be like,

1734
01:13:31,680 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 4: beach mm what the bug is said?

1735
01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:36,080
Speaker 3: Woo are you go to own? Cause I ain't never

1736
01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:37,560
Speaker 3: smell nobody that smell like you?

1737
01:13:37,960 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 2: So period, period.

1738
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:40,720
Speaker 1: Okay, I like it.

1739
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:45,679
Speaker 2: How about your costs? Yeah, how about your costs?

1740
01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:48,680
Speaker 3: It's like three hundred dollars, three hundred and fifty dollars, I.

1741
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 1: Feel but that's how that's the average of a good,

1742
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 1: you know, perfume. Yeah, I don't know.

1743
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:55,759
Speaker 3: I feel like you could find some nice stuff.

1744
01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:58,160
Speaker 4: So that's within like the hundred dollar range, hundred and

1745
01:13:58,200 --> 01:13:59,840
Speaker 4: fifty dollars rain and it's just it's.

1746
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:02,599
Speaker 2: Three twenty for a one point seven ounce at Nema marky.

1747
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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, what don't you almost answer that I

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01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:08,200
Speaker 3: want to say.

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Speaker 1: First of all, who is this?

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01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:12,960
Speaker 2: I can find it? All right, So now we're.

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01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:15,200
Speaker 1: Going to get into our favorite segment of the week,

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01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:16,759
Speaker 1: the pour your Heart Out segment.

1753
01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:18,720
Speaker 2: If you want your question answered.

1754
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 1: On the show, email us at ask poor Minds at

1755
01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. If you're a Patreon member, make sure

1756
01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 1: that you put that you're a Patreon member the subject

1757
01:14:29,360 --> 01:14:32,280
Speaker 1: and you'll get to skip the one. Now. Also, y'all

1758
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:35,240
Speaker 1: know we you can leave voicemails on the show. Now, Dad,

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01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:36,719
Speaker 1: what's the number for the voicemail? Again?

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01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 2: You can leave the voicemail on the show.

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01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:38,640
Speaker 3: Now.

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01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:41,680
Speaker 1: This is not to ask questions. This is just to

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01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 1: you know, say how you feel about us, give us

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01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:47,880
Speaker 1: a little one two whatever you want to say, So

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01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:50,599
Speaker 1: leave a voicemail.

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Speaker 3: But you don't want them to be able to leave

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01:14:51,800 --> 01:14:52,320
Speaker 3: questions too.

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01:14:52,479 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 1: No questions is for pour your heart out this or

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01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 1: you know, just to express get up whatever is grinding

1770
01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: your gears. We haven't named the segment yet, okay, so

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Speaker 1: the number is six seven eight eight two seven one

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01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:09,120
Speaker 1: eight two six okay, six seven eight eight two seven

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Speaker 1: one eight two six. Do not ask questions, y'all. This

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01:15:12,439 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: is just to get something off your chest, what grinds

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01:15:15,280 --> 01:15:18,439
Speaker 1: your gears, what you love about Cormons, anything. This is

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01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:20,640
Speaker 1: not a question why I just spill your heart out.

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Speaker 1: Believe it under a minute. Okay, don't don't be getting

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01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:25,360
Speaker 1: long winded.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, So okay, okay, So question number one, Hey, girlies,

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01:15:31,520 --> 01:15:33,400
Speaker 4: I started watching y'all in two thousand and one, and

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01:15:33,520 --> 01:15:34,719
Speaker 4: I've been hooked ever since.

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01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:37,760
Speaker 1: It says twenty twenty one, because two thousand and one,

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01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:44,880
Speaker 1: okay me, y'all was very much ten not doin no podcasts.

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01:15:45,000 --> 01:15:48,280
Speaker 4: But yes, I started watching y'all in twenty twenty one,

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01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:51,439
Speaker 4: and I've been hooked ever since. I love y'all so much.

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01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:54,160
Speaker 4: I went to the Chicago Live show and y'all turned

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01:15:54,240 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 4: us up. I can't wait for the next one.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So I'm twenty three and I've been fucking the same

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01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:00,400
Speaker 3: nigga for us someone. Now.

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01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:03,880
Speaker 4: We fuck with each other heavily. He takes me on dates,

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01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:06,720
Speaker 4: buys me, sit, sends me money, and fucks me really well.

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01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:09,560
Speaker 4: I'm not complaining at all, but things are starting to

1794
01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 4: get boring in the bedroom and we do the same stuff.

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01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:13,719
Speaker 3: I love having sex.

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Speaker 4: I like trying new shit in the bedroom, like y'all

1797
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:18,439
Speaker 4: put me onto a lot of new freaky sit shout

1798
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:21,519
Speaker 4: out to the Patreon leffing my ass off. But he

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01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:24,800
Speaker 4: doesn't like trying new things at all. Like I tried

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Speaker 4: buying him a vibrating toy to put around his balls

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01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 4: and he said, fuck no. He says he's pleased enough

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01:16:30,280 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 4: with me fucking him and sucking his dick. Now I

1803
01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:34,799
Speaker 4: do suck a mean dick, but I want to continue

1804
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:37,400
Speaker 4: to explore his body so I could please him even more.

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01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:39,680
Speaker 4: This is not a deal worker, because he is a

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01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:42,600
Speaker 4: BDB and I fucks with him. But how can I

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01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:44,560
Speaker 4: get him to be more open in the bedroom? Or

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01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:47,519
Speaker 4: should I just stop trying because he says I please

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01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 4: him enough. I feel like if it's something that's important

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01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:53,760
Speaker 4: to you, like if you're a person who you have

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01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:56,760
Speaker 4: to always be trying new things in the bedroom, then

1812
01:16:56,800 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 4: you need to be with a partner that's okay with it.

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01:16:59,200 --> 01:17:01,920
Speaker 4: Because I I personally like toys and stuff, and I

1814
01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 4: like the little toy that you put around the the

1815
01:17:05,400 --> 01:17:06,640
Speaker 4: you know, I like stuff like that.

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01:17:07,000 --> 01:17:07,519
Speaker 3: I got one.

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01:17:08,160 --> 01:17:13,600
Speaker 4: So because I'm leaking in your eyes, you don't like

1818
01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:16,479
Speaker 4: to try toys and stuff in a bit every now?

1819
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 1: And then but I love I told you, I like

1820
01:17:19,400 --> 01:17:23,759
Speaker 1: vanilla sent I'm more about the passion and the talking

1821
01:17:23,800 --> 01:17:24,280
Speaker 1: to each other.

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01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:26,800
Speaker 2: I don't need all that extra shit, but some people do.

1823
01:17:27,400 --> 01:17:31,439
Speaker 1: So I feel like, if you've had conversations with him

1824
01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:33,519
Speaker 1: and he's just not some people are really just okay

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01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:35,519
Speaker 1: with just you know, regular says.

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01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying.

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01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 4: I feel like, if you're a person who you need

1828
01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:42,439
Speaker 4: that constant stimulation and you need to always be trying

1829
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:44,280
Speaker 4: new things and stuff, then this is just not the

1830
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:47,360
Speaker 4: person for you. I wouldn't keep trying to press the issue.

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01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:49,600
Speaker 4: I would either be like, Okay, cool, he just not

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01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 4: into that stuff, or I would stop talking to him.

1833
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:55,519
Speaker 4: You said it's not a deal breaker a deal so.

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01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:57,679
Speaker 3: I just feel like, yeah, I mean.

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01:17:57,600 --> 01:17:59,600
Speaker 4: I would stop trying to press the issue because I

1836
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 4: do feel then you could make him a little uncomfib.

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01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:04,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like it's imagine as a man

1838
01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 1: was asking you, can I put it in your booty hole?

1839
01:18:06,400 --> 01:18:08,439
Speaker 1: Can I put it in your booty hole? You hardly

1840
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:11,120
Speaker 1: told him no once, and you keep fucking asking. So

1841
01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:14,080
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you already done try different things

1842
01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:15,840
Speaker 1: and he not with it, this kind of gets a

1843
01:18:15,880 --> 01:18:17,920
Speaker 1: little in an area to where you can be kind

1844
01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:21,040
Speaker 1: of like overbearing, you know what I'm saying. So I

1845
01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:23,240
Speaker 1: feel like, if it's not a deal breaker, girl, just

1846
01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:24,000
Speaker 1: enjoy y'all.

1847
01:18:24,080 --> 01:18:26,240
Speaker 4: But I do feel like some I don't know, I

1848
01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:28,720
Speaker 4: feel like people should be open minded to things though,

1849
01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 4: Like nobody's saying you gotta use a toy every time

1850
01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:33,599
Speaker 4: you have sex, But if you with a partner who

1851
01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 4: like trying new things, why all that's all I was

1852
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:39,600
Speaker 4: about to say, why you can't compromise and try it

1853
01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:40,240
Speaker 4: every once.

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01:18:40,080 --> 01:18:41,880
Speaker 2: In a while, So maybe have a conversation with him

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01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:42,200
Speaker 2: about that.

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01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:46,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't necessarily get into like, Okay, well let's try this,

1857
01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:47,840
Speaker 1: let's try this, let's try it. Just be like, can

1858
01:18:47,920 --> 01:18:50,360
Speaker 1: we compromise, like sometimes I want to use this toy

1859
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:52,640
Speaker 1: whatever toys that you really really like?

1860
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:53,960
Speaker 2: Ask him if y'all, can.

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01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:55,519
Speaker 4: You know, go back and forth with it and let

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01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:57,080
Speaker 4: him know, Yeah, it doesn't have to be an all

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01:18:57,160 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 4: the time thing, but you would like to explore different

1864
01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:01,799
Speaker 4: if in the bedroom sometime.

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01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:04,760
Speaker 1: That's a good that's a good idea, all right. Question

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01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 1: number two, Hi, Lexandrea. I started watching in twenty twenty

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01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:10,560
Speaker 1: and I had amazing time at the Chicago Show. I

1868
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:13,120
Speaker 1: have a question as I'm entering a new phase in life.

1869
01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 1: I'm finished with school and I started my first corporate.

1870
01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:17,040
Speaker 2: Job next week.

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01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:19,479
Speaker 1: In the next month, this will be my very first

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01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:21,639
Speaker 1: time managing this amount of money, and I was curious

1873
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 1: if you all had any financial advice for a twenty

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01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 1: two year old. I want to be as responsible as

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01:19:26,360 --> 01:19:30,000
Speaker 1: possible when growing my money. Thank you and aspiring financially

1876
01:19:30,280 --> 01:19:34,840
Speaker 1: literate poor girl, Well, for me, I will say this,

1877
01:19:36,200 --> 01:19:41,599
Speaker 1: I write everything down as far as how much money

1878
01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:44,720
Speaker 1: I have coming in and how much I have to pay,

1879
01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:50,400
Speaker 1: as far as like bills, you know, food, extra curricular activities, budgeting.

1880
01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:53,479
Speaker 1: You have to budget and that's how you help like

1881
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:56,160
Speaker 1: save oh, and then you have, oh, I have X

1882
01:19:56,200 --> 01:19:58,160
Speaker 1: amount of money, this much, I can invest this into

1883
01:19:58,240 --> 01:20:01,719
Speaker 1: something small, tiny is whatever you want to do. Budgeting

1884
01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 1: and writing everything down has definitely, like completely changed the

1885
01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:08,360
Speaker 1: way I look at money, the way I use my money,

1886
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:12,400
Speaker 1: Like if something happened God forbid and we can't record

1887
01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:15,160
Speaker 1: for a year, like I would be straight because the

1888
01:20:15,240 --> 01:20:18,400
Speaker 1: way I just have budgeted myself and also do not

1889
01:20:18,520 --> 01:20:20,840
Speaker 1: try to live outside your means as well, like a

1890
01:20:20,880 --> 01:20:22,559
Speaker 1: lot of people think, Oh, as soon as I start

1891
01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:24,880
Speaker 1: making more money, I need to go get me a

1892
01:20:25,000 --> 01:20:25,720
Speaker 1: brand new car.

1893
01:20:26,080 --> 01:20:28,600
Speaker 2: I need to go get the penthouse high rise. No,

1894
01:20:29,439 --> 01:20:31,360
Speaker 2: keep your living costs.

1895
01:20:31,120 --> 01:20:33,439
Speaker 1: And your bills down as low as possible, and that's

1896
01:20:33,520 --> 01:20:36,400
Speaker 1: how you find yourself being better in the long run.

1897
01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 2: That's what has worked for me so far.

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01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:41,920
Speaker 4: I feel like I had tweeted about this like a

1899
01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:44,439
Speaker 4: few weeks ago or maybe last week, and I was

1900
01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:46,479
Speaker 4: just kind of saying, like, saving your money don't make

1901
01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:49,880
Speaker 4: you reach so and it'll never make you reach. So

1902
01:20:50,640 --> 01:20:54,160
Speaker 4: that's probably the best advice that I could give, is like,

1903
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:57,120
Speaker 4: you definitely want to put money aside, but you want

1904
01:20:57,160 --> 01:20:59,200
Speaker 4: to have a purpose for it, right, Like you want

1905
01:20:59,240 --> 01:21:01,479
Speaker 4: to stack up some bread, Yeah, but you want to

1906
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:02,120
Speaker 4: have a purpose for it.

1907
01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 3: You don't ever just want your money sitting there.

1908
01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:07,160
Speaker 4: And I'm also a big advocate on which I probably

1909
01:21:07,160 --> 01:21:09,439
Speaker 4: shouldn't even say these on the show because they're.

1910
01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:10,320
Speaker 3: Not sponsoring us.

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01:21:11,320 --> 01:21:13,640
Speaker 1: But before you say that, but Trapp told us that

1912
01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:17,479
Speaker 1: the more your money sits, it's losing value every day, right.

1913
01:21:17,720 --> 01:21:19,960
Speaker 4: And so I'm really big on trying to make your

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01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 4: money work for you. You shouldn't just be having it

1915
01:21:22,160 --> 01:21:25,000
Speaker 4: sitting there. So I think that that's a really good

1916
01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:26,760
Speaker 4: tip that I could give you that at twenty two,

1917
01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:29,880
Speaker 4: I didn't know because everybody around me was always telling

1918
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:33,120
Speaker 4: me Save, Save, Save. You definitely want to have some

1919
01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:35,479
Speaker 4: money saved up, but you want to use that money

1920
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:37,760
Speaker 4: for something, you don't want to just have it sitting here.

1921
01:21:38,200 --> 01:21:40,240
Speaker 4: And so yeah, I'm gonna still tell you all about

1922
01:21:40,280 --> 01:21:42,679
Speaker 4: this app. Even though they're not sponsoring this. I'm saying

1923
01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:45,120
Speaker 4: this so they think it's fund serious one day. So

1924
01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:50,639
Speaker 4: it's this app called Acorns that I use and I love.

1925
01:21:51,160 --> 01:21:52,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I love this app, y'all.

1926
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:56,320
Speaker 4: I've been using it for a while now, and you

1927
01:21:56,360 --> 01:21:58,519
Speaker 4: would just be surprised how much money that you will

1928
01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:01,080
Speaker 4: save up. And you don't even realiz because basically what

1929
01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 4: the app does is you could set aside a certain

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01:22:04,040 --> 01:22:06,439
Speaker 4: amount of money every week that you want them to

1931
01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:09,040
Speaker 4: automatically take out of your bank account. So that could

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01:22:09,080 --> 01:22:11,800
Speaker 4: be whatever work for your budget, where there is five

1933
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:14,880
Speaker 4: dollars all the way up to I think like five

1934
01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:17,639
Speaker 4: hundred dollars. However much or even more than that, whatever

1935
01:22:17,800 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 4: is in your budget you could put aside to where

1936
01:22:20,479 --> 01:22:23,400
Speaker 4: they take that out automatically. Every week, but then also

1937
01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:26,519
Speaker 4: every time you spend money, anytime you use your debit card,

1938
01:22:27,040 --> 01:22:31,439
Speaker 4: the app automatically rounds up and invests the change into

1939
01:22:31,640 --> 01:22:35,280
Speaker 4: a savings account for you. So say you go to

1940
01:22:35,400 --> 01:22:37,160
Speaker 4: the store and you get a pack of gum, and

1941
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:41,720
Speaker 4: a gum is like two dollars and fifty cents, the

1942
01:22:41,840 --> 01:22:45,559
Speaker 4: app is gonna automatically invest that other fifty cents into

1943
01:22:45,680 --> 01:22:48,120
Speaker 4: a savings account for you. And it's a whole separate

1944
01:22:48,160 --> 01:22:51,360
Speaker 4: account that you don't take the money out unless you're ready.

1945
01:22:51,160 --> 01:22:51,720
Speaker 3: To take it out.

1946
01:22:51,840 --> 01:22:54,240
Speaker 4: And personally, I don't really look at my account all

1947
01:22:54,280 --> 01:22:56,439
Speaker 4: the time, like that's already be forgetting about the money in.

1948
01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:59,479
Speaker 4: Before you know it, it'll be like two years, three years,

1949
01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 4: and you don't save like fifteen mens, twenty men, and

1950
01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:04,600
Speaker 4: you don't even know cause there's money that you're not

1951
01:23:04,680 --> 01:23:05,360
Speaker 4: even thinking about.

1952
01:23:05,560 --> 01:23:07,800
Speaker 3: Right, So I think that that's a good app.

1953
01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 4: And I think that a lot of y'all, all of

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01:23:10,200 --> 01:23:13,560
Speaker 4: y'all that watch this show should definitely sign up for

1955
01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:15,360
Speaker 4: the app, cause y'all gonna save a lot of money

1956
01:23:15,400 --> 01:23:18,439
Speaker 4: and not even be think about it. M And yeah,

1957
01:23:18,479 --> 01:23:21,280
Speaker 4: i'm'a put the link to in the description box. So

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01:23:21,360 --> 01:23:23,320
Speaker 4: that y'all could click on their enjoin the app.

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01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:27,080
Speaker 2: MM I love that, you know what's some a caller

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01:23:27,200 --> 01:23:27,600
Speaker 2: used to do that.

1961
01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:30,479
Speaker 4: The best type of money to do that. The best

1962
01:23:30,560 --> 01:23:34,000
Speaker 4: thing is when you got money stashed and you won't

1963
01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:35,400
Speaker 4: even be thinking about it and you don't even know

1964
01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:35,760
Speaker 4: about it.

1965
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:37,360
Speaker 3: Like I be having so m.

1966
01:23:37,520 --> 01:23:40,040
Speaker 4: Much money in different places that I be forgetting I

1967
01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:42,160
Speaker 4: even have because I just let it come out of

1968
01:23:42,200 --> 01:23:43,960
Speaker 4: my account and I don't think about it. I have

1969
01:23:44,080 --> 01:23:45,760
Speaker 4: and if it's out of sight, it's out of mind.

1970
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:46,800
Speaker 3: Right, I have like X.

1971
01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:48,679
Speaker 1: Amount of money. Like I put myself on a budget

1972
01:23:48,720 --> 01:23:50,639
Speaker 1: cause I'm not gonna lie. Like when we first started

1973
01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:52,479
Speaker 1: having I was going wild. I'm not gonna lie for

1974
01:23:52,520 --> 01:23:55,479
Speaker 1: a little bit. But that's what But like now like

1975
01:23:56,520 --> 01:23:58,360
Speaker 1: I just have my Okay, this is your limit for

1976
01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:00,840
Speaker 1: the month for everything, no matter what you're trying to do, Like,

1977
01:24:00,960 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 1: this is your limit. So it's like whatever is left,

1978
01:24:04,240 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 1: I always just like, you know, put it in my savings.

1979
01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:08,120
Speaker 1: Like I said, I invest little stuff here and there.

1980
01:24:08,200 --> 01:24:11,160
Speaker 1: You know, I'm trying to get into the little investing shit.

1981
01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:14,240
Speaker 2: So it's like its just be little stuff like I

1982
01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:17,320
Speaker 2: just never just go over. So don't go over with

1983
01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 2: your spending habit.

1984
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:20,639
Speaker 4: Yes, don't go over with your spending habits. I definitely

1985
01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:22,599
Speaker 4: have always been a person that liked to live within

1986
01:24:22,720 --> 01:24:24,960
Speaker 4: my means. But I'm not gonna lie. I'm not really

1987
01:24:25,000 --> 01:24:27,680
Speaker 4: a budget. If I want something, I'm gonna go buy it.

1988
01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:30,800
Speaker 4: My philosophy of life is just always being go get

1989
01:24:30,840 --> 01:24:32,920
Speaker 4: some more money, Like I need to make some I'm

1990
01:24:32,920 --> 01:24:34,800
Speaker 4: gonna just make some more money because I ain't never

1991
01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:35,679
Speaker 4: gonna run out of money.

1992
01:24:35,720 --> 01:24:37,120
Speaker 3: That's the type of mentality I have.

1993
01:24:37,640 --> 01:24:40,080
Speaker 4: But that's why that's something that works for me, because

1994
01:24:40,120 --> 01:24:42,840
Speaker 4: I do like to save money on my own, but

1995
01:24:43,240 --> 01:24:45,120
Speaker 4: I love the fact that this money just come out

1996
01:24:45,160 --> 01:24:45,920
Speaker 4: of my account and I.

1997
01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:46,760
Speaker 3: Don't even think about it.

1998
01:24:47,200 --> 01:24:49,200
Speaker 4: I don't even think about it every week, and so

1999
01:24:49,360 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 4: I think that that's really good for people too who

2000
01:24:51,320 --> 01:24:53,000
Speaker 4: are not super great at budgeting.

2001
01:24:53,040 --> 01:24:53,639
Speaker 1: Its turn.

2002
01:24:56,400 --> 01:24:58,400
Speaker 3: Me neither me either.

2003
01:24:58,560 --> 01:25:01,479
Speaker 2: Okay, I wrap this shit up. Anything else you want

2004
01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:01,760
Speaker 2: to add?

2005
01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:03,240
Speaker 4: See?

2006
01:25:03,479 --> 01:25:05,800
Speaker 1: Okay, So look, next time y'all to me, it's gonna

2007
01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:08,760
Speaker 1: be a Christmas gift for y'all. Okay, So y'all make

2008
01:25:08,800 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 1: sure y'all ton in next week period you ready, you

2009
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:13,000
Speaker 1: want me to snap.

2010
01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:18,479
Speaker 2: Pretty Ricky rick Reckay, Hey pretty Ricky Rick here, Ricky you.

2011
01:25:18,560 --> 01:25:20,559
Speaker 1: Ready, It's five in the morning.

2012
01:25:22,120 --> 01:25:26,360
Speaker 2: I'm up having a sex with yell So her name

2013
01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:28,800
Speaker 2: so her nay.

2014
01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:32,800
Speaker 1: Now, I'm on a hot line over here.

2015
01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:37,880
Speaker 3: Lest thing for you holiday, So.

2016
01:25:38,720 --> 01:25:43,040
Speaker 4: Let's talk about sex, baby, Let's talk about you and me.

2017
01:25:43,640 --> 01:25:46,920
Speaker 4: Let's talk about bubbles in the tub, Let's talk about

2018
01:25:47,120 --> 01:25:52,080
Speaker 4: making love. Let's talk about you on top or me

2019
01:25:52,479 --> 01:25:56,360
Speaker 4: going down. Let's have a little pole sex baby.

2020
01:25:56,920 --> 01:26:03,479
Speaker 1: On the high line, on the hot line, away on

2021
01:26:03,600 --> 01:26:04,360
Speaker 1: the hot line.

2022
01:26:04,439 --> 01:26:04,680
Speaker 2: That's it.

2023
01:26:04,720 --> 01:26:07,759
Speaker 4: Ain't what I had to call you because I'm home alone.

2024
01:26:07,840 --> 01:26:10,600
Speaker 4: Lest thing for you, I'm in my room, but a

2025
01:26:10,720 --> 01:26:13,400
Speaker 4: towel along. Take the Greenny pennies off. Put a throng

2026
01:26:13,560 --> 01:26:15,920
Speaker 4: of I love it when I hear your mom. You

2027
01:26:16,040 --> 01:26:18,280
Speaker 4: got that sexy toe and that makes the dick loan

2028
01:26:19,880 --> 01:26:26,000
Speaker 4: you just like You're the kind of girl that's sexy

2029
01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:28,400
Speaker 4: and the boys shorts. I'm the kind of nigga make

2030
01:26:28,439 --> 01:26:30,680
Speaker 4: you ride in like a Porsche. Yeah, I met you

2031
01:26:30,920 --> 01:26:32,840
Speaker 4: on my Space. Not about to fly you out to

2032
01:26:32,960 --> 01:26:34,479
Speaker 4: my place in the morning.

2033
01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:36,080
Speaker 3: What's how go?

2034
01:26:36,320 --> 01:26:37,479
Speaker 2: How go again? What's the hook?

2035
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:38,800
Speaker 1: Oh? We do we get?

2036
01:26:39,280 --> 01:26:40,200
Speaker 2: That was good, bitch?

2037
01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:42,559
Speaker 1: Because you did that baby blue period.

2038
01:26:43,200 --> 01:26:45,599
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for tuning in. Like I said,

2039
01:26:45,600 --> 01:26:46,080
Speaker 2: we got.

2040
01:26:47,600 --> 01:26:48,240
Speaker 1: Next week.

2041
01:26:48,600 --> 01:26:52,479
Speaker 3: It ain't a damn, but we have a whole pretty

2042
01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:57,200
Speaker 3: ricky concert one day, because all right, we know that

2043
01:26:57,439 --> 01:26:58,120
Speaker 3: was my shoe.

2044
01:26:58,360 --> 01:27:00,720
Speaker 1: You learn how to hormonize this over for bitches. What'll

2045
01:27:00,720 --> 01:27:01,559
Speaker 1: see y'all next week.

2046
01:27:02,080 --> 01:27:04,720
Speaker 4: Just getting scary for you hoes every time we pop out,

2047
01:27:04,760 --> 01:27:05,920
Speaker 4: and getting scary for y'all.

2048
01:27:05,960 --> 01:27:06,679
Speaker 1: That's my phone.