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Speaker 1: your second day update is Broken Jewel in the morning.
Speaker 1: And we've all had one crush that never quite worked out.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's because the timing goes off, or you simply
Speaker 1: never had the nerve to corner them in a back
Speaker 1: alley and demand that they grab a drink with you.
Speaker 1: But what would you do if the universe gave you
Speaker 1: a second shot? That was what happened to one of
Speaker 1: our listeners And will it be a great love story
Speaker 1: or a complete disaster? To find out right now in
Speaker 1: your second date update Brooking Jewels second dat up dates.
Speaker 1: You know, dating is a lot like shopping at the
Speaker 1: grocery store for a grapefruit. You can either sift through
Speaker 1: all the grapefruits to try to find that perfect one,
Speaker 1: you know, or you can take the easy way and
Speaker 1: just grab one of the ones on the outside that's
Speaker 1: been kicked around a little bit, it's a little damaged,
Speaker 1: it's a lot ea here, just to go for one
Speaker 1: of those grape fruits, you know, Sure it might have
Speaker 1: some bugs and some bruises, but it's still a grapefruit.
Speaker 1: And that's what Huxley did today. Huxley is a man
Speaker 1: after my own heart and decided to go after the
Speaker 1: damaged grapefruit. Still working on this analogy. Hey Huxley, what's
Speaker 1: the grapefruit's name. The grapefruit's name, she's actual woman. Her
Speaker 1: name's Alicia, Alicia. All right, tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about Alicia. So Alicia and I go like way way back.
Speaker 1: We were good friends in college, and I was always
Speaker 1: like that guy that had a crush on her. Okay, wait,
Speaker 1: so you're the damaged grapefruit or she's the damaged grapefruit. Well,
Speaker 1: I guess in this scenario, we're both damaged grapefruit. A
Speaker 1: couple of damaged grapefruits trying to go out and have
Speaker 1: a good time. Yeah. I always had a crush from Alicia.
Speaker 1: She's always been like the most attractive girl. So she
Speaker 1: of course always had a boyfriend, and every single time
Speaker 1: that something would happen with her, and her boyfriend is
Speaker 1: always the guy that was Therefore, Oh, well, you're trying
Speaker 1: to position yourself right, Yeah, Well, no, I did have
Speaker 1: a crush on her, but I swear in her book
Speaker 1: there was no like agenda. I'm a I'm a really
Speaker 1: good great fruit. I'm one of the one coming inside.
Speaker 1: So anyway, Tatsu present day, I see over Facebook that
Speaker 1: she got a divorce recently, and I saw maybe like
Speaker 1: a potential opening. You saw that she had been divorce
Speaker 1: and you're like just damaged enough now that I could
Speaker 1: probably date her. Yeah, well, I thought, to be honest,
Speaker 1: I thought about some of the good times we had
Speaker 1: in college and figured why not reach out. I did
Speaker 1: see like a little bit of an opening that maybe
Speaker 1: something could develop. Like she's single, I'm single. There's really
Speaker 1: no reason why not. And you guys had kind of
Speaker 1: dropped off in terms of your friendship post college. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she got married pretty early on, and then I left
Speaker 1: and moved like a couple hundred miles away. I mean,
Speaker 1: keeping in touch today it's like so easy, but back
Speaker 1: then it wasn't that easy, I guess. So, yeah, we
Speaker 1: kind of fell out of touch with each other, and
Speaker 1: I decided to, like I said, to reach out, and then,
Speaker 1: to my surprise, reached back out to me after I
Speaker 1: messaged her over Facebook. Did you proposition this as a date?
Speaker 1: M No, well, I just kind of like shared my condolences,
Speaker 1: you know, on her divorce. That's never easy. And we
Speaker 1: started to like chit chat back and forth, and eventually
Speaker 1: I did ask her to, like, you know, maybe we
Speaker 1: should meet up drinks. She thought that was a good idea. Okay,
Speaker 1: but do you know, did she consider it a date
Speaker 1: when you guys went out. I didn't cross that boundary
Speaker 1: because I didn't know how fresh the divorce was and
Speaker 1: I didn't know she would be kind of turned off.
Speaker 1: I asked her on a formal date, you should have
Speaker 1: just sent her a message on Facebook that simply said
Speaker 1: break up sex with a question. Yeah. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know if that would have if that would have worked.
Speaker 1: She keep that in mind for next time. All Right,
Speaker 1: So did you guys actually get together? We did? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was. We met at a bar and when I
Speaker 1: saw her walk through the door, it was like a
Speaker 1: little flashback to college and like a lot of feelings
Speaker 1: were immediately felt by me. She did not age at all.
Speaker 1: I was like smitten to I guess, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was like taken aback. It was pretty, it was cool,
Speaker 1: like it was a cool moment. So how it was good.
Speaker 1: We had a couple of drinks, we caught up, and
Speaker 1: then she kind of opened up to me about her marriage,
Speaker 1: and because I knew the guy and the actually like
Speaker 1: her vulnerability, allowed me to open up about my divorce
Speaker 1: that I had too. So how did everything end with
Speaker 1: you guys? Well, I mean we were you know, had
Speaker 1: another drink and we decided to call it a night,
Speaker 1: And on my way out the door, I still was
Speaker 1: venting a little bit about my breakup, which was nothing
Speaker 1: like hers. My marriage only lasted like a year and
Speaker 1: that ended like seven years ago, which it's not even
Speaker 1: all my radar. I don't even know why I said
Speaker 1: this next thing, but while we were walking out the door,
Speaker 1: I admitted that the last six months of my marriage
Speaker 1: we didn't even like have sex at all. Okay, right
Speaker 1: when I said it, it it was like word vomit. You
Speaker 1: feel like that was too much information for her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she played it real cool and she was real nice
Speaker 1: about everything. But it's like one of those moments where
Speaker 1: you like too much and now like you can't take
Speaker 1: those words back. And I felt like maybe that's the
Speaker 1: reason why she hasn't called or texted me back. Because
Speaker 1: it was a good date. Other than that. Okay, but
Speaker 1: did she know it was a date? Yeah, it doesn't
Speaker 1: sound it doesn't sound like it. Yeah, well for me,
Speaker 1: it was a date. It was nice. You know, I
Speaker 1: did ask her, like I said while we were leaving
Speaker 1: that we should hang out again, as like a formal
Speaker 1: date invitation. You know, so you said quote as a
Speaker 1: formal date invitation. No, I'm not. I'm a great for
Speaker 1: not a robot. I said, like, we should hang out again.
Speaker 1: This was fun. Again, that doesn't sound like a date. Well,
Speaker 1: like the way I said it though, it was like
Speaker 1: there was like a vibe. I was sending some signals
Speaker 1: out that it was like more than just friends. And
Speaker 1: what did she say to that? She said yeah, and
Speaker 1: she was like in twos and it was cool and
Speaker 1: U And that was the last I heard of Alice show.
Speaker 1: You know, like I reached out to her again on
Speaker 1: Facebook to try to put some dates on the calendar
Speaker 1: so we could go out, and then I haven't heard
Speaker 1: from her. And on Facebook you can see when they've
Speaker 1: seen your message, and I know she's seen the messages,
Speaker 1: which is have you sent her a message in all
Speaker 1: caps saying I know you're seeing these answer. I'm teaching
Speaker 1: you a lot of good tools here, Huxley. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: leave you down some good stuff. I am reading. We'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call her and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, awesome, Thank you so much. Yea,
Speaker 1: hang on rooking Jubil in the morning. Se Hey, Huxley,
Speaker 1: I think this second date update is gonna work out
Speaker 1: for you? Oh really, yeah? I do. Well, you know
Speaker 1: because the girl that you want to call she just
Speaker 1: went through a divorce. You went through a divorce. I
Speaker 1: think once you guys talk it out, you both will
Speaker 1: realize you don't have many options, and at the end
Speaker 1: of the second date she will agree to go out
Speaker 1: with you again, because hey, why not, That's what I'm thinking. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you're just tuning in for the second date update,
Speaker 1: Huxley is on the phone. He wants to call a
Speaker 1: girl named Alicia. They actually have known each other since college.
Speaker 1: They kind of fell off a little bit after college,
Speaker 1: but he always had a crush on her. She always
Speaker 1: had a boyfriend. Then she got married. He recently saw
Speaker 1: on Facebook that she was divorced, and they started chatting
Speaker 1: and he said, hey, we should go out and talk
Speaker 1: and hang out. They did, but now she's not responding
Speaker 1: to him, and maybe have you thought about this, Huxley,
Speaker 1: Maybe your date was so bad that she went back
Speaker 1: into the arms of her axe. Ye, a second date
Speaker 1: update is doing wonders for my confidence. No problem, man,
Speaker 1: all right, I'll dial her phone number right now here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, is this Alicia? Yeah, this is Alicia.
Speaker 1: Hi Alicia. This is Jebil and I host a radio
Speaker 1: show called Brooke and Jebil in the Morning. What my name?
Speaker 1: My name is Jubil and I host a radio show
Speaker 1: called Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Have you ever
Speaker 1: heard of it? I don't think so. Wonderful it means
Speaker 1: we're doing our job. Yeah, I actually wanted to call
Speaker 1: you today to ask you about a guy that you
Speaker 1: recently went on a date with. What we do a
Speaker 1: segment on our radio show called the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's basically where if you go out on a date
Speaker 1: with somebody and then don't call them back, they email
Speaker 1: us to see if we can get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and ask why. Oh, okay, that's that's fine. I
Speaker 1: guess it is kind of fun. I like it. And
Speaker 1: the guy that emailed us about you, his name is Huxley.
Speaker 1: Huxley Huxley. Yeah, do you know a lot of Huxley's.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's not a very common name. No,
Speaker 1: only I only know one Huxley. And have you gone
Speaker 1: out with Huxley lately? Yes? I didn't hang out with
Speaker 1: him recently. Okay, good, we've got the right person on
Speaker 1: the phone. Then, Well, Huxley is wondering why you won't
Speaker 1: answer any of his Facebook messages or phone calls or
Speaker 1: anything after you guys hung out. I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: You don't know what. I don't know why I haven't
Speaker 1: called him back. You have to know why you haven't
Speaker 1: called him back. There's got to be a reason. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I should talk about it? Why not?
Speaker 1: He's the one that's asking. I mean, we're this is
Speaker 1: a radio station. Yeah yeah, but I mean he's he
Speaker 1: contacted us to get a hold of you because you
Speaker 1: won't tell him, and so he's confused. Is there anything
Speaker 1: that you can tell us? I mean, least to be
Speaker 1: really good friends in college. Come on, you've got you
Speaker 1: gotta give this man something. He has been crushing on
Speaker 1: you hard for a really long time. He has, Yeah,
Speaker 1: he says he's had a crush on you since college,
Speaker 1: and you always had a boyfriend, so he could never
Speaker 1: ask you out. And then he saw that you were
Speaker 1: recently single, so he decided to take the chance, and
Speaker 1: you guys actually went out, and now he wants to
Speaker 1: see you again, but apparently you're not calling him back. Um.
Speaker 1: I mean it's really flattering, but I don't think I'm
Speaker 1: going to go out with him again. Oh you should
Speaker 1: have heard the way he described you in your beautiful smile,
Speaker 1: and how lovely you are and what a good person
Speaker 1: you are. I know. I mean he is a really
Speaker 1: nice guy. I mean, Huxley has great Okay, so if
Speaker 1: if you like him so much and he's a really
Speaker 1: great guy, why not give him the respect of at
Speaker 1: least letting him know why you don't want to go
Speaker 1: out with him again? Okay, fine, I just don't want
Speaker 1: to date a guy who's been divorced. Wait what what?
Speaker 1: You don't want to date a guy who's been divorced. No,
Speaker 1: it's a huge turn off to me. Well, wait, Huxley
Speaker 1: told us that you were recently divorced. Is that not true?
Speaker 1: That is true. I just don't want to date a
Speaker 1: guy who's divorced. So is it because you're just not
Speaker 1: ready to date yet. No, I just I don't want
Speaker 1: to date a guy with all of that baggage from
Speaker 1: being divorced to deal with. But you can see all
Speaker 1: that sounds a little strange though, right, Like you're divorced
Speaker 1: and you're saying you don't want to date a guy
Speaker 1: who's divorced. Yeah, I mean it's it's just it's just different.
Speaker 1: It's it's very different, all right, So even though you've
Speaker 1: been divorced, you just will not date a dude who's
Speaker 1: been divorced. Yeah, that's right. You understand how hypocritical that sounds, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, divorced guys are just always bitter and they're
Speaker 1: always talking about how women are going to take their
Speaker 1: money just like their ex life did. That is a
Speaker 1: huge stereotype that I don't think holds true those I
Speaker 1: know a lot of divorce dudes, and I've never heard
Speaker 1: one of them say that, Actually we are, no, unfortunately,
Speaker 1: because a few of them are loaded and I would
Speaker 1: love to take Hey, Alicia, it's very interesting reasoning. Thank
Speaker 1: you for being honest with us and giving us an answer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just prefer a single guy who is completely unattached thing, okay,
Speaker 1: And My thing is surprising people by letting them know
Speaker 1: that somebody's on the other line and they're listening, and
Speaker 1: Huxley is actually on the phone and heard this whole
Speaker 1: conversation and wants to talk to you. No, he's not. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm here. Okay. I don't understand your reasoning at all.
Speaker 1: It makes no sense. It's just my thing. I don't
Speaker 1: want to date a divorce guy. But you're divorced. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you're a divorced guy and I'm a divorced woman,
Speaker 1: and it's very, very different. I don't think it's very
Speaker 1: very different at all, the differences. I divorced my husband,
Speaker 1: but you lost your wife, so that's a very it's
Speaker 1: a very different dynamic. Oh my god. Yeah, I won
Speaker 1: my divorce. You lost your So you you have more
Speaker 1: baggage because you didn't win your divorce. Are kidding me?
Speaker 1: So are you saying, Alicia that because you're the one
Speaker 1: that divorced your husband, you have less baggage than Huxley. Yeah.
Speaker 1: When we were at the bar, he told me that
Speaker 1: his wife broke up with him. I mean I left
Speaker 1: my ax, So there's a big difference there. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I did not know that my my acc and I
Speaker 1: split like seven years ago. It was like an amicable splitch.
Speaker 1: He left, but it was like amicable both sides agreed
Speaker 1: that it was over. So it sounds like you're changing
Speaker 1: your story now because that's not what told me. It's
Speaker 1: a bar. What are you talking. I mean, I said
Speaker 1: she left me, which implied like she left the relationship.
Speaker 1: I mean, I would have thought differently if you had
Speaker 1: left her. But it sounds like you are not the
Speaker 1: one in the driver's seat relationship. Are you just being
Speaker 1: mean and petty because you're really hurt by your own
Speaker 1: stuff you're going through. No, I'm not being mean and petty.
Speaker 1: I'm telling this guy what I want out of a relationship.
Speaker 1: How is that being mean and petty? So you look
Speaker 1: me better if I divorced my wife. Yeah, actually I
Speaker 1: would prefer that you weren't divorced at all, But since
Speaker 1: you were divorced, it is better if you left her
Speaker 1: the other way around. Wow, I mean, look at it
Speaker 1: this way. When some people get a dog, some people
Speaker 1: like get a new puppy, and some people like to
Speaker 1: adopt a rescue. I want a new puppy. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: that's awesome. Hey, Alicia, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: on a second date with Huxley? I probably know the answer,
Speaker 1: but we will pay for a date if you go
Speaker 1: out with him again. You know, I think I made
Speaker 1: my point pretty clear, but I still would like to
Speaker 1: be friends with him. Alicia, how can I possibly just
Speaker 1: be friends with you? After all of the stuff you
Speaker 1: just said about it? You're damaged. I just don't want
Speaker 1: that in a relationship, but I'm fine working with you
Speaker 1: through it as a friend. Your damage here damage, but
Speaker 1: here yourself. You are damaged. You are the damaged one.
Speaker 1: But I'm not as damaged as you because I left
Speaker 1: my husband. I'll let you guys argue this out later
Speaker 1: about who's the more damaged in this situation. Alicia, thank
Speaker 1: you for your time. Huxley. I'm sorry you didn't get
Speaker 1: a second date out of this whole thing. Yeah. Thanks,
Speaker 1: But you know what I will do for you, Huxley,
Speaker 1: what's up? I'll ask our listeners. Text in at seven
Speaker 1: eight five to nine two. We have a beautiful rescue
Speaker 1: on the phone. His name is Huxley. If you'd like
Speaker 1: to adopt him, text us seven eight five nine two.
Speaker 1: Broken jewel in the morning, text in at seven, eight,
Speaker 1: five to nine two. It says, according to the Crazy
Speaker 1: slash Hot Matrix, Alicia must be at ten, she must
Speaker 1: be super hot because she's also super crazy. Talking about
Speaker 1: today's second eight update, if you missed it, this dude
Speaker 1: Huxley wanted to call a girl named Alicia. They actually
Speaker 1: met in college and he always had a huge crush
Speaker 1: on her, but after they graduated, they lost touch and
Speaker 1: she got married and he got married. But he recently
Speaker 1: found out that she was divorced and so was he,
Speaker 1: so they started chatting again and decided to hang out.
Speaker 1: When we called her, she told us that she didn't
Speaker 1: want to date him again because she didn't want to
Speaker 1: date a dude that's been divorced, even though she was
Speaker 1: just divorced. Yes, but she's like, no, no, I divorced
Speaker 1: my husband. You got left. Yeah, it's way different. She
Speaker 1: said he had baggage and she didn't want to take
Speaker 1: in a rescue. Yes, she really, I think is the
Speaker 1: only damn it one in that situation. Pretty hypocritical. But
Speaker 1: either way, they're not going out on a second date.
Speaker 1: I think that's probably good for him. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: he dodged a pull it. Yeah, remember you want to
Speaker 1: do a second day update. All you have to do
Speaker 1: is email the show and we will call the person
Speaker 1: who didn't call you back. Ninety two point five