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Speaker 1: And we've all had one crush that never quite worked out.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's because the timing goes off, or you simply

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Speaker 1: our listeners And will it be a great love story

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Speaker 1: your second date update Brooking Jewels second dat up dates.

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Speaker 1: You know, dating is a lot like shopping at the

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Speaker 1: grocery store for a grapefruit. You can either sift through

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Speaker 1: all the grapefruits to try to find that perfect one,

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Speaker 1: you know, or you can take the easy way and

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Speaker 1: just grab one of the ones on the outside that's

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Speaker 1: it's a lot ea here, just to go for one

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Speaker 1: of those grape fruits, you know, Sure it might have

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Speaker 1: some bugs and some bruises, but it's still a grapefruit.

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Speaker 1: And that's what Huxley did today. Huxley is a man

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Speaker 1: after my own heart and decided to go after the

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Speaker 1: damaged grapefruit. Still working on this analogy. Hey Huxley, what's

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Speaker 1: the grapefruit's name. The grapefruit's name, she's actual woman. Her

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Speaker 1: name's Alicia, Alicia. All right, tell us a little bit

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Speaker 1: about Alicia. So Alicia and I go like way way back.

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Speaker 1: We were good friends in college, and I was always

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Speaker 1: like that guy that had a crush on her. Okay, wait,

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Speaker 1: so you're the damaged grapefruit or she's the damaged grapefruit. Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess in this scenario, we're both damaged grapefruit. A

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Speaker 1: couple of damaged grapefruits trying to go out and have

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Speaker 1: She's always been like the most attractive girl. So she

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Speaker 1: there was no like agenda. I'm a I'm a really

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Speaker 1: So anyway, Tatsu present day, I see over Facebook that

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Speaker 1: M No, well, I just kind of like shared my condolences,

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Speaker 1: caps saying I know you're seeing these answer. I'm teaching

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Speaker 1: you a lot of good tools here, Huxley. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: leave you down some good stuff. I am reading. We'll

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Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, awesome, Thank you so much. Yea,

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Speaker 1: hang on rooking Jubil in the morning. Se Hey, Huxley,

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Speaker 1: I think this second date update is gonna work out

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Speaker 1: of the second date she will agree to go out

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Speaker 1: girl named Alicia. They actually have known each other since college.

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Speaker 1: They kind of fell off a little bit after college,

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Speaker 1: Maybe your date was so bad that she went back

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Speaker 1: update is doing wonders for my confidence. No problem, man,

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, is this Alicia? Yeah, this is Alicia.

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Speaker 1: Hi Alicia. This is Jebil and I host a radio

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Speaker 1: My name is Jubil and I host a radio show

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Speaker 1: heard of it? I don't think so. Wonderful it means

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Speaker 1: we're doing our job. Yeah, I actually wanted to call

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Speaker 1: That's basically where if you go out on a date

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Speaker 1: Huxley Huxley. Yeah, do you know a lot of Huxley's.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's not a very common name. No,

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