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Speaker 1: Get your hands together, and we're going to start to

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Speaker 1: party and start the parts.

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Speaker 2: I'm reading a party.

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Speaker 3: The Elvis DA Ran After Party.

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Speaker 2: It is the After Party Podcast. Hi y'all, how y'all doing?

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Speaker 2: I got Scary here, And there's Danielle and Straight and

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Speaker 2: Nate and of course Gandhi and Scotty B and Garrett.

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Speaker 2: We're all here just to do something. I'm not quite

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Speaker 2: sure what's going to happen, but I won't tell you

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Speaker 2: something that goes on here in the studio. People always

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Speaker 2: want to know what's happening backstage. Scary has a lot

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Speaker 2: of stuff. Technically he has to be on top of

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Speaker 2: He has all these computers he has to mouse and

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Speaker 2: mice or whatever rolling around and pushing buttons and playing

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Speaker 2: songs and stuff. So he has to think through what

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Speaker 2: he's about to do. Yeah, he's supposed to be. He

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Speaker 2: says it all out loud. He speaks to himself right

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Speaker 2: in front of all of us, and he doesn't even

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Speaker 2: know he does it, do you, Scary?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 5: I you know, sometimes I have a conversation with myself

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Speaker 5: and they'reasically backstage directions exactly.

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Speaker 2: As a matter of fact, a second ago, we heard

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Speaker 2: Scary go okay, what are we gonna do here? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I know, let me play this right here? Okay done? Okay,

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Speaker 2: Well now I shouldn't do that. Sorry, I can't do that,

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Speaker 2: he apologized to himself conversation in the middle of a

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Speaker 2: conversation with himself. It's the strangest, honest thing.

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Speaker 4: Realize this until Gandhi did a story one day that

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Speaker 4: what percentage of people don't have any internal dialogue with themselves.

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Speaker 4: Let me look like we're thinking about stuff right now,

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Speaker 4: and you're kind of talking to your stuff. That Scary

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Speaker 4: doesn't have that, So in order to do that, he

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Speaker 4: must speak out loud in order to have internal thoughts.

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Speaker 2: We can't get you into trouble, Scary. If you're saying, Wow,

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Speaker 2: look at her, she's nasty looking. Would you say that

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Speaker 6: Would you say that?

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Speaker 5: I stop myself before because my mouth moves before my

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Speaker 5: brain kicks in and tells me that it's wrong to

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Speaker 6: You got to train that thing. Yeah, it's about thirty percent,

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Speaker 6: which to me is a strikingly high number of people

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Speaker 6: to have no thoughts or inner dialogue, Like do you

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Speaker 6: really have no thoughts unless you're.

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Speaker 2: Speaking well, explain to me what goes on in your minds?

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Speaker 5: Oh god, Well, like right now, what what give me

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Speaker 5: an example of an inner dialogue that you you might beg.

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Speaker 2: With you, something simple that you could probably relate to.

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Speaker 2: You're driving down the street and then some some car

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Speaker 2: pulls in front of you and cuts you off. I'll

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Speaker 2: say in my mind, oh my god, what a jerk.

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Speaker 2: I mean, let me let me compensate and move over

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Speaker 2: to this other lane so I don't hit him. But

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Speaker 2: you would say that out loud, I would compensate by

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Speaker 2: moving into this other lane.

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Speaker 5: You can say that I would. It's reacting, But that's

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Speaker 5: a reactionary example. I'm talking about an example of your

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Speaker 5: body is at rest, there's nothing happening. What kinds of

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Speaker 2: Milk.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking about what I have to do later on

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Speaker 3: I got an Amazon return I gotta do. Like I'm

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Speaker 3: thinking of those things, like what happens after, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: No, I don't plan that way.

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Speaker 6: I mean the moment here, an interaction that you've had

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Speaker 6: Like say you had a little argument with someone. You

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Speaker 2: Okay, those types of things.

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Speaker 5: Yes, oh you do then doing the show, or like

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Speaker 5: right now, right now, I'm just talking out loud because

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Speaker 5: I know that technically things need to happen in this room.

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Speaker 4: So when nothing else is happening, then you can actually

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Speaker 2: Okay, for instance, you're sitting on your couch, it's it's

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Speaker 2: They're picking me up in thirty minutes to yourself. Do

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Speaker 2: you say that to yourself? I do. If not, he'd

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Speaker 1: I've been on the phone with him and he's been

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Speaker 1: cooking and I'm like, oh, who you cooking for? He goes,

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Speaker 1: He's giving himself direction in the kitchen.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I have to crack this egg, and I

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Speaker 2: So you say it out loud as you're cooking like

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Speaker 4: Here's me.

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Speaker 2: I showed my place.

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Speaker 4: So we were on the train yesterday coming back, and

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Speaker 4: you know, of course, you know, we had thirty minutes

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Speaker 4: of we're on our phones. You're scary narrating his own existence.

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Speaker 2: He's like, oh, I got to get back to this person.

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Speaker 2: What does this person want? All right?

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Speaker 4: Let me see here?

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Speaker 2: And he's literally the entire ride. Wow, he's muttering the

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Speaker 2: entire Okay, well that's scary. Scary is a He's scary? Okay,

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Speaker 2: what about the rest of us? I talk out loud

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Speaker 2: in the shower in the mornings, typically every single time.

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Speaker 2: Alex ask me, yo, what who are you talking to?

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Speaker 2: And I'm talking to me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Do you guys ever talk to yourself all in the

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Speaker 6: I talk to myself as if there are not other

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Speaker 6: to myself. But I talk to myself out loud constantly,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if my mom, if I go to my mom's

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Speaker 3: having a whole conversation and I'm like, MA, who are

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Speaker 3: you talking to doing a lot of times she says,

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Speaker 3: I'm talking to you father, and I'm like really. She's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm just telling him, le you know how my day was.

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Speaker 3: But then a lot of times I catch her like, oh,

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Speaker 3: why did I do this? Why did I put this here?

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Speaker 3: Why did I? Like, Ma, you know that this everything

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Speaker 3: you're thinking is coming out of your mouth, right She's like,

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Speaker 3: I know, but I don't. I live alone, So that's

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I.

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Speaker 4: Really only do it in moments of exasperation, like what

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Speaker 4: most part, no, nothing. I never talked to myself.

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Speaker 6: I yell at myself a lot.

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Speaker 2: It always starts yell at yourself.

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Speaker 6: I'll think about something I did. Not necessarily put yourself down. Well,

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Speaker 6: you silly bitch.

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Speaker 2: You say out loud, you silly bitch.

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Speaker 6: Oh constantly, yeah, you silly bitch. A lot sometimes it's

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Speaker 6: you dumb asshole? How did you do that? Why did

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Speaker 2: You call yourself a silly bitch out loud. Yeah, something

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Speaker 2: like that. I'd be like, why did I do that?

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Speaker 2: I'm such a fucking moron, really, Oh my god, I

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Speaker 2: would never call myself a more on good.

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Speaker 1: I called myself an idiot. I use idiot.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 2: You guys shouldn't dumb as. I want to tell you.

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Speaker 2: One time I was on I was leaving a voicemail

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Speaker 2: back in the day on my on the phone in

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Speaker 2: the car, and when I was done, I thought I

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Speaker 2: thank god. I was talking about someone who was pulling

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Speaker 2: in front of me. I'm like, ill, this light is

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Speaker 2: so fucking long. We're never going to get out of here.

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Speaker 2: Ah God, And I realized it had been recording the

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Speaker 2: whole time. Was Oh, did you delete it?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: I called him and told him later. I said, did

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Speaker 2: you hear that? He said yeah, and I said, thank god,

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Speaker 2: I didn't say anything nasty about you.

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Speaker 1: Be careful on iPhones too, because I noticed most of

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Speaker 1: my friends think that I'm the one going to hang up,

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Speaker 1: but they don't, and then I just end up hearing

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Speaker 1: them talking right right after. Because you're so used to

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Speaker 1: all right, see you later. And then you just assume it.

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Speaker 2: Do you just assume they're going to push and so

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Speaker 2: it's going to hang you up, so you don't have

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Speaker 2: to like push the end. Oh please, My parents never

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Speaker 2: hang out. My dad would just keep talking to my

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Speaker 2: mom and I'm listening to him, like what are they doing?

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Speaker 2: It never hits end. How about when you get butt dials?

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Speaker 2: Do you sit here and listen ye voicemail, the whole voicemail.

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Speaker 2: The only thing is though, then they can go back

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Speaker 3: Okay, I want to see the doing anything they shouldn't.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, where is that?

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Speaker 2: Perfect?

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Speaker 6: They also it could have been a voicemail. Maybe they

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Speaker 6: left you like a two minute voice.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I got a butt dial. Four thirty people

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Speaker 2: people who butt dial and they don't know it, and

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Speaker 2: it goes to your voicemail and they as long as

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Speaker 2: they're making noise, it's going to continue to record.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Can can we go back to scary having no

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Speaker 6: inner dialogue for one second?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely? List end with that?

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Speaker 6: He okay, so we talk about what he does when

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Speaker 6: he goes home, and he will tell you he's the

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Speaker 6: first to say he goes home and he rots, And

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Speaker 6: he says he scrolls on his phone the entire day

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Speaker 6: because he doesn't have any conversations with himself or think

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Speaker 5: It's fascinating and if I have something that I need

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Speaker 5: to get done, I'll do it. But you know, they say,

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Speaker 5: a body at rest stays at rest.

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Speaker 2: Are you talking about body emotion stays in motion? Are

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Speaker 2: you talking us? You're talking to himself? You know, when

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Speaker 2: you're with Scary. That's a good point, Nate. Sometimes you're

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Speaker 2: with someone and they're talking and you realize, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: they're on the phone. They have their earbutt right. But

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Speaker 2: with Scary, we don't know if he's talking to himself

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Speaker 2: or us.

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Speaker 4: It took me eleven years to realize he's talking to himself.

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Speaker 2: Like what am I supposed to do about it?

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Speaker 4: And he goes, oh no, I'm just I'm over here,

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Speaker 4: like what okay?

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Speaker 5: Thinking out loud, and Sharon wrote a song about it.

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Speaker 6: He did, I like that you brought science into it.

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Speaker 6: A body at what rest? Will say?

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Speaker 5: A body emotion stays in motion? The law in their

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Speaker 5: share we all know it. So when I'm at rest,

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Speaker 5: I'm at rest.

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Speaker 2: And with that said, there you go. I have a

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Speaker 2: nice days. RAN after party