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Speaker 1: It's topic times called eight hundred five five one five

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Speaker 2: Morning everybody in cj Envy Charlamagne the Guide. We are

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Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club now if you just join us. We're

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Speaker 2: talking about an incident that we've seen happen at Costco.

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Speaker 2: I guess a lady was body shamed because of the

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Speaker 2: way that she looked in attire, and her coworkers might

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Speaker 2: not have looked the same way.

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Speaker 3: Right now, we're asking eight hundred five eight five one

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Speaker 2: We're just talking about our culture and the fact that

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Speaker 2: you know, usually our women are more thicker black women, is.

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Speaker 3: What you're saying.

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Speaker 4: So is this a regular thing women go through that

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Speaker 4: your body shape makes your tire look inappropriate? We got

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Speaker 4: aj and Tam Bam from the We Talked Back podcasting.

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Speaker 3: Hell, that's a question, Larry Lady.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, man, We've been going through that whole lives for real,

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Speaker 5: in a real way. I think women of other ethnic

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Speaker 5: women and girls are over sexualized from a very young age.

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Speaker 5: So it is a real thing, and a lot of

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Speaker 5: the disrespect come from other women now, So I deal

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Speaker 5: I dealt with that in a corporate setting. You know,

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Speaker 5: my clothes might look a little better on me, may

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Speaker 5: not be inappropriate. But and this was coming from other women,

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Speaker 4: In this morning, I saw the sanitation workers losing their mind.

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Speaker 4: They looking good girl early in the morning in New York.

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Speaker 4: But that's just jealousy though, right the other women, the

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Speaker 4: women they see you come into corporate workplace. You might

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Speaker 4: have on the same dress that they have, on the

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Speaker 4: same outfit that they have on, but because of your

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Speaker 4: body shape, they probably just feel jealous or intimidated.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 2: One of another producer of Iour said she used to

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Speaker 2: a uniform that she had to wear. And she said that,

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Speaker 2: you know, when she was younger, she was a lot

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Speaker 2: she wore the uniform that the other girls and have

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Speaker 2: a problem. But when teacher pulled it to the side,

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Speaker 2: I was like, you can't wear that, and she was like,

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Speaker 2: They actually took her to the principal. She said, thank god,

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Speaker 2: the principle was black and was like, no, this is

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Speaker 3: She can do it. And she was like the white

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Speaker 4: White teacher ain't got no ass. That's just jealousy. The

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Speaker 4: white teacher ain't got no hips. That's just jealousy.

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Speaker 5: And her husban there on whatever the porn site ws.

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Speaker 6: You know, women are made very conscious of their body

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Speaker 6: from very young. I remember my mom would tell me

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Speaker 6: she's too big to be in a panther. Still, well,

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Speaker 6: you need to take her out of paper.

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Speaker 7: She's like that, ain't no pamp I.

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Speaker 8: Don't know, no, maybe not.

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Speaker 7: Maybe I just looked like I had one.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I know what you say.

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Speaker 2: Wearing what you said, you was saying you were in

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Speaker 6: Like I had a pamper on it was like bomb Square,

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Speaker 6: We had a homeboy, like do y'all know Dre?

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Speaker 3: What Dre?

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Speaker 4: We used to call dra dirty diaper because I remember

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Speaker 3: Well, let's listen.

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Speaker 4: I do feel like that when when someone says that

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Speaker 4: so they're sexualizing, exactly objectifying them.

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Speaker 3: Very young Ashley, good morning, good morning. How you feeling.

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Speaker 3: You went through something?

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Speaker 9: So I did it myself.

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Speaker 10: My daughter did talk to us.

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Speaker 3: What happened.

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Speaker 9: So it was a graduation in middle school, and had

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Speaker 9: on a fitted dress, you know, one of those stretchy

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Speaker 9: girls in there, mind you, with her hanging out their

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Speaker 3: But was m that's crazy.

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Speaker 10: And she was so embarrassed that all these kids seeing

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Speaker 9: So that her bohop.

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Speaker 5: That's got to be some form of discrimination, is this

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Speaker 5: girl discriminations?

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Speaker 7: Clapper? Discrimination?

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Speaker 3: Clapper? Why clapper?

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Speaker 7: Because you clapping around the school yard.

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Speaker 3: The morning now you dealt with this too. Yes.

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Speaker 11: Actually, since I was in like BEAUTI school, I guess

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Speaker 11: we had so it would be like ship sea woman.

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Speaker 9: Sure that you will go to.

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Speaker 11: Six inches, you would say, but the white girls did

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Speaker 11: didn't have him for you know everything that's black girl.

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Speaker 10: Okay, it would be mostly black.

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Speaker 12: It's going to be used to it at the time,

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Speaker 12: but it's not.

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Speaker 3: She said. You kind of get used to it or

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Speaker 3: what it's not right, But she said it's not right.

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Speaker 4: I mean as black people, you get used to all

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Speaker 3: Hello, who's this good morning?

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Speaker 13: This is day the morning died?

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Speaker 3: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Now talk to you a manager, right, yes, I am

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Speaker 2: all right. Now don't tell us what job. We don't

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Speaker 2: want you get your you know, want you lose your job,

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Speaker 2: but tell us what's going on.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, so that body shaming is not supposed to be

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Speaker 13: done since not by a manager. I mean, we have

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Speaker 13: coming from first be seen. If that's their body, that's

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Speaker 11: The loss to Okay.

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Speaker 4: I do wonder if the the or the costco employee

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Speaker 4: said it was the manager of out body shaming.

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Speaker 3: It probably was a woman another woman manager. Problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well eight hundred and five eight five, one oh five,

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Speaker 2: and we're talking about being body shame in the workplaces.

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Speaker 3: This happened to you.

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Speaker 4: I get body shamed here all the time, you know

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Speaker 4: what I'm saying, just because I'm the thickest person up here.

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Speaker 4: I get body shame from envy. I get body shame

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Speaker 4: from Taylor because she's a hater, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: And it's actually starting to get to me.

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Speaker 7: Why are you dressed like that? Whoa skinny jeans on?

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Speaker 3: That their work plate?

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Speaker 7: It's a uniform all over the building.

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Speaker 3: Damn, don't tell them that. Don't The problem is he

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Speaker 3: thinks he's thick, right, but he's not thick. Rights his

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Speaker 3: own thing. Taylor can't help it, because Taylor couldn't wait

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Speaker 2: Comes Are you jealous of Charlamagne's thickness?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 5: Let's be very clear that he started mentioning that because

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Speaker 5: he's does of me.

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Speaker 7: So why do you start think because of me?

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Speaker 3: Why you want to do side by side comparisons all

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Speaker 3: the time? And I don't be trying to test me.

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Speaker 4: Like, let's drop down and get out eagle on right now,

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Speaker 4: talking about you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: For what what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 10: Curve?

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Speaker 4: You do it?

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Speaker 3: Though you do it? I had something? Does this happen

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Speaker 3: to you? Let's talk about this the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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Speaker 3: it's topic time.

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Speaker 1: Called eight hundred and five eight five one five one

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Speaker 1: to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk

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Speaker 1: about it.

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Speaker 10: I want everybody.

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Speaker 2: It's d J n V Charlamagne the God. We are

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Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us, we're

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Speaker 2: talking about women being body shave eight hundred and five

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 2: Of course, we got some special guest hosts from the

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Speaker 2: We Talk Bad podcast AJ and Tam Bam, and we

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Speaker 2: were talking about the situations working at a place where

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Speaker 2: other women might not have the same body as you,

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Speaker 2: and you know they don't look as good as you,

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Speaker 2: but because you got body and shapes and curves that

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Speaker 4: These women be hating okay, hey, they be seeing these

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Speaker 4: black women come through and you know they'd be of

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Speaker 3: Shape and statue and they just be hating.

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Speaker 4: That's really what it boils down to.

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Speaker 3: Let's se it. Let's go to the phone line. It's

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Speaker 3: got a lot of people on the line. Hello, who's

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Speaker 14: This is Christina.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Christina. Now this happened at your job the past

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Speaker 2: fifteen years.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, actually twice.

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Speaker 12: I forgot when I went to join the army.

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Speaker 13: You know, they have very strict standards, and I had

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Speaker 13: to lose five pounds to be four an end. Wow,

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Speaker 13: And I'm very hippie and I've been naturally like that,

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Speaker 13: and then after I had kids it enhanced it. So

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Speaker 13: the past fifteen years at my job, within the first

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Speaker 13: five years they changed the dress code where we were

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Speaker 13: legging and things like that.

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Speaker 14: That shows off our shape.

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Speaker 13: Anything I wear it, it's gonna be tight doing.

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Speaker 15: Shop like mine.

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Speaker 3: What did you wear around my hip?

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Speaker 15: It's about fifty two inches around.

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Speaker 8: My my butt?

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Speaker 11: Yes?

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Speaker 8: How tall?

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Speaker 7: You're dragging a wagon by three?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 15: Yeah, I'm definitely not gonna like it.

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Speaker 3: It was aught about working for a little.

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Speaker 13: Mama.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, now, I'm sorry. Goodbye, you're harassing the victim.

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Speaker 7: What is happening?

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Speaker 3: Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 9: Hello in the morning?

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Speaker 2: About the clubs at the by Lauren good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Has that happened to you, You know the fact that

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Speaker 2: you probably got more curves of shape and it's been

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Speaker 2: a problem for you at your work spot.

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Speaker 15: Yes, I mean it's hard as a black woman having natural.

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Speaker 12: Body part and it just being over sexualized like in.

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Speaker 11: People's mind when it's not.

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Speaker 15: If you all remember the home Depot all that was

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Speaker 12: She wasn't even yeah, she wasn't aware enoughing anywhere in

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Speaker 12: a but people were harrassing her.

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Speaker 13: So it's hard for black women because we always being

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Speaker 13: over sexual Yes, for no reason.

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Speaker 9: We were natural hair.

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Speaker 13: It used to be called nappy.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, So it's hard.

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Speaker 13: Being a black woman, y'all.

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Speaker 5: Remember the news reporter. I think her name is like

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Speaker 5: Dmitria Dmetrio.

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Speaker 7: Beautiful. It was all the white women.

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Speaker 5: Calling and complaining, are putting messages online about her body shape,

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Speaker 5: and she looked very good in her clothes.

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Speaker 7: There was Mutria laughing.

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Speaker 5: It's like a lord, oh b I l O R

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Speaker 5: something like mut I know the Mutri.

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Speaker 3: Hello, who's this key? Kelly? Good on the hell are you? Kelly?

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Speaker 12: I'm thirty two?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Now you said this happened to you? Before Mama,

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Speaker 3: Oh heck, yeah, what happened?

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Speaker 14: So then in like a white dominant area, I wasn't

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Speaker 14: sympastic in different types of sports, and I was literally

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Speaker 14: like to take my side so.

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Speaker 12: That they wouldn't bust out, you know, or be too.

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Speaker 13: Big for my tights or whatever. Oh my was too big.

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Speaker 15: And then like it was really hard and gymnastics, I

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Speaker 15: would always getting fun up because all these girls persons

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Speaker 15: me and I'm sitting here in a legal part and

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Speaker 15: obviously I have the biggest figure and everyone just there.

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Speaker 12: And he wasn't the thing back then?

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Speaker 3: How do you take me? Are you to take me

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Speaker 3: a thigh?

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Speaker 14: I would take.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, I would take that stick and then probably makes

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Speaker 12: my parts smaller on me?

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Speaker 3: What did your parents say? Did your parents know you

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Speaker 3: had to do that?

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Speaker 12: So my mom found out when I was around sixteen,

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Speaker 12: and she told me like she's like, you know, self

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Speaker 12: worth and you know everything was within outwards, but you know.

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Speaker 13: As I got older, like having a body became a thing.

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Speaker 3: Right, Well, thank you, I'm sure I had to deal

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Speaker 3: with that, Mama, No, thank.

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Speaker 1: You so much.

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Speaker 5: Good morning, guys, whose auto morning?

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Speaker 7: What I'm hearing?

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Speaker 12: Man?

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Speaker 4: It boils down just the sexualizing and objectifying of of

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Speaker 4: of black women, and you know, women at a thicker

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Speaker 4: and just jealousy and envy of black women and women

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Speaker 4: at a thickness because if I'm following the dress code

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Speaker 4: with min your business right right.

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Speaker 5: So we don't know if the Costco worker was white

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Speaker 7: She was black.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Now, I've never seen anybody take their thighs to make

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Speaker 6: it look smaller. But I know I've seen girls tape

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Speaker 6: under their butt cheek.

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Speaker 7: Can I say that under their butt cheek to give them.

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Speaker 3: All took.

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Speaker 7: Hold over?

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Speaker 3: What does that do? Now?

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Speaker 7: Like if you tape under your butt but.

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Speaker 14: Work?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, to give you that little pie?

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Speaker 3: Don't you wanted to be smaller? Though? Is she trying

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Speaker 3: to compress it now?

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Speaker 1: The butt is cool?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, everybody want to do this.

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Speaker 5: Person at Costco is probably just having a problem with

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Speaker 5: that manager in particular.

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Speaker 7: She got a person.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she fine, I'm saying.

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Speaker 7: Now, okay, So it just depends.

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Speaker 5: So you know, and charlest and they have the port.

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Speaker 5: So a lot of times they complain about women wearing

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Speaker 5: because women are now working out there, they complain about

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Speaker 5: them wearing.

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Speaker 3: Leggings to work.

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Speaker 5: I feel like you should wear cargo pants. You should

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Speaker 5: wear like a thicker material if you and in an.

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Speaker 7: Environment like that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but leggings amongst mostly men out that we have

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Speaker 5: to consider those things as women.

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Speaker 6: Men have to consider those things. Why do women have

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Speaker 6: to change their attire? Like the men need to change

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Speaker 6: their mindset?

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Speaker 7: Like focus on your not very support it's important.

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Speaker 3: I agree with you. But what if it's hard for

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Speaker 3: them to focus.

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Speaker 7: Well, then they need to change their focus. That's not

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Speaker 7: that's not the ladies fault. Put on your legs. It's

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Speaker 7: one hundred and ten degrees out there.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And by the way, ain't no man complaining wash them.

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Speaker 8: But washing.

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Speaker 3: That's why we call them wood pants.

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Speaker 15: Boy, that's right.

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Speaker 4: You wear them all day long and when you take

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Speaker 4: them off wool.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, keep a lot when we come back.

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Speaker 2: We got your room and report. We got to talk

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Speaker 2: about Lizzo about eighteen minutes ago. Twenty minutes ago, Lizzo

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Speaker 2: actually left the statement. We'll get that statement. Read that

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Speaker 2: statement to you guys. So don't know if it's the

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Speaker 2: breakfast club.

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Speaker 3: Good morning,