WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Cheating Across Continents

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I know the comment section is going to

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<v Speaker 1>light up after today's Awkward Tuesday phone call. Hey, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you found the podcast. It's Brick and Jeffrey with a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. But today, of course, it is Tuesday,

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<v Speaker 1>which means you get a special awkward Tuesday and it

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<v Speaker 1>is brand new. After you hear this, I believed him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't I should, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't, I don'kay it is so let us know.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll understand by the end of U I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>read all your comments and I'm dying to know what

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<v Speaker 1>you think.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm dying.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of drama on the text war, Yeah

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<v Speaker 3>for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So hey, thanks so much for being here, Like subscribe,

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<v Speaker 1>share with your friends or your enemies. I don't really care. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and enjoy the brand new awkward Tuesday phone call right now.

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<v Speaker 4>It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>Local dating apps are great if you've always dreamed of

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<v Speaker 4>matching with a self described entrepreneur who sells knives out

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<v Speaker 4>of his mom's mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but think of how good your kitchen's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be stocked.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, pretty sexy but Alexis will tell you the real

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<v Speaker 4>magic happens on those international dating apps where you can

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<v Speaker 4>get ghosted by dudes in four different time zones all

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<v Speaker 4>at once. Plus if things go horribly wrong, they're already

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<v Speaker 4>five thousand miles away from you. Heay, so easy too. Unfortunately, though,

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<v Speaker 4>an international dating app has caused problems for one of

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<v Speaker 4>our listeners, which is why Audrey has reached out to

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<v Speaker 4>us for help today. Audrey, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh hey, Audrey.

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<v Speaker 4>You sound awfully perky for somebody who's having problems with

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<v Speaker 4>the international dating apps.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what, I am meeting people that I have

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<v Speaker 5>been listening to for so long. I can't help it

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<v Speaker 5>be excited about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I thought you met the people on the dating apps.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, how are you hearing them forevers?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you're just excited to be on the show with us,

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<v Speaker 4>that's we're excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we ask which country or can we get let's

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<v Speaker 1>not get way too many countries.

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<v Speaker 4>Al Maybe we'll just start with tell us why you've

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<v Speaker 4>emailed the show for help, because international dating apps is

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<v Speaker 4>kind of a vague category.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I've got a friend she's always traveling right,

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<v Speaker 5>and he was I literally don't even know where she

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<v Speaker 5>was for this trip. She's in five different countries in

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<v Speaker 5>five differrent week.

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<v Speaker 1>Does everyone have a friend like that that you're just

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<v Speaker 1>so jealous of at all times? I'm like, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you have the funds? And how are you making this happen?

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<v Speaker 4>You just can't be afraid of endless debt, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Just lose that fear.

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<v Speaker 4>You can travel wherever you want, how you want. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>So this is this friend of yours likes to travel

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<v Speaker 4>abroad a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and she's got this international dating app. Like, obviously

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<v Speaker 5>I don't use it. I never travel, Okay, Okay, she's

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<v Speaker 5>on this app and here's the thing. So she's swiping

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<v Speaker 5>and she comes across the guy that we know because

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<v Speaker 5>he's dating one of our other friends.

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<v Speaker 6>Whoa wait him, Wait is she out of the country

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<v Speaker 6>when she comes across this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, while he was traveling. His profile came up to

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<v Speaker 4>match with her on an international dating app.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, why it's international app. They all update your location. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like a special app.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess I don't know. I forget what she called it.

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<v Speaker 5>She just sent me the screenshot of our friend's new guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think the important part is he is

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<v Speaker 1>somehow in another country trying to pull some hotail, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's got a girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 6>And this is the dumbest excuse, but like sometimes tender

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<v Speaker 6>doesn't refresh, Like I'll open it in another city and

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<v Speaker 6>it still has the last city.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't think it even matters, Like he's still

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<v Speaker 1>on a day app.

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<v Speaker 5>It's still a red flag.

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<v Speaker 4>What's going through your mind when when you hear this

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<v Speaker 4>when you see his profile?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean literally exactly what you said, like big red

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<v Speaker 5>flag and we're like, okay, is disgusting, old profile. What's

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<v Speaker 5>going on? But this one's got the It shows you

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<v Speaker 5>how recently you were active, right, It's like within the

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<v Speaker 5>week he's.

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<v Speaker 6>So many outs cost.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's interesting because what if he set his location

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<v Speaker 1>for another country just so that he could DM with

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like because he's not there obviously, right, like

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<v Speaker 1>he's in your city.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I don't know, And honestly, like we haven't

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<v Speaker 5>talked to her. We haven't, like we just don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>We haven't asked because I hope we're wrong. I hope

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<v Speaker 5>that there is something in this situation we don't understand.

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<v Speaker 5>So my vote was like, let's talk to him, Let's

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<v Speaker 5>confront him and see what is happening before we like

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<v Speaker 5>blow up our other friend's life.

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<v Speaker 1>But what is he gonna do? Won't he just lie

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<v Speaker 1>to you?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, calling guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I's if he's on a dating app with a girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and he's not telling the girlfriend that he's already lying.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what if he doesn't even know that that act exists? Like,

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<v Speaker 4>there's hundreds of acts. There's hundreds of dating profiles with

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<v Speaker 4>my face and my information on them to be created

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<v Speaker 4>by other people.

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<v Speaker 1>I imagine girls using gest Sure they're very successful.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know the numbers, but I think it's in

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<v Speaker 4>like the four or five digits.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow, with the matches, it's pretty impressive.

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<v Speaker 5>Just four, I'm blowballing that.

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<v Speaker 4>So it could be possible, Audrey, that maybe his picture

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<v Speaker 4>was stolen to use as a catfish on one of

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<v Speaker 4>these dating apps.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, honestly, I hope so. But like, this is

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<v Speaker 5>why I wanted to call you, guys, because I've kind

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<v Speaker 5>of been nominated by traveling friends to talk to him,

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<v Speaker 5>but I don't know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a good friend move to not like

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<v Speaker 1>make a huge like blow up everything before you do

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<v Speaker 1>know for sure with him. I mean hopefully it'll be

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<v Speaker 1>obvious if he's lying, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so you know how it works, Audrey. We asked

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<v Speaker 4>my co host here to give you a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>of advice and then we will let you call your

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<v Speaker 4>friend's boyfriend for you. What what's his name, by the way, THEO?

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<v Speaker 1>THEO?

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<v Speaker 4>THEO?

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<v Speaker 1>How well do you know? Oh, THEO? We don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that part.

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<v Speaker 5>I've met him a couple times, Like we've all gone

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<v Speaker 5>out to dinner a few times together, so like not

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<v Speaker 5>super well, but like we're familiar.

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<v Speaker 4>It'll be interesting to hear how THEO reacts the first

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<v Speaker 4>time that you bring it up to him, Like if

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<v Speaker 4>he's totally shocked and has no idea that the app

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<v Speaker 4>even exists, or if there's some recognition in his voice

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<v Speaker 4>and he knows what's going on, that'll tell us a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>like I'm caught like he wanted to.

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<v Speaker 1>If he's bad at cheating, he'll immediately go, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're talking about. That wasn't me.

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<v Speaker 4>Or is he being honest in that moment? No, does

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<v Speaker 4>your husband Michael do that? A lot when you bring

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<v Speaker 4>up cheating allegations.

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<v Speaker 1>All of his international dating sites.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, don't talk about Luisa like that, bru.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, let's find that.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll see what THEO has to say after we give

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<v Speaker 4>you our advice and let you make your awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 4>phone call to your friend's boyfriend figure out why his

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<v Speaker 4>profile is up on an international dating gap. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>do it with your awkward twoes phone call right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Hold on, it's awkward, It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 5>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>If you're just joining us for the awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>We're on the phone with a young woman named Audrey

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<v Speaker 4>who's been nominated by her friend group to do this

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<v Speaker 4>because one of them came across a guy on an

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<v Speaker 4>international dating app, a guy that they're already very familiar with. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>because he's seriously dating one of the other girls in

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<v Speaker 4>their group. Ah, that is not good. And Audrey decided

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<v Speaker 4>before they show the dating profile to the girlfriend, they

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to go through us and contact THEO first to

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<v Speaker 4>see if maybe, hopefully there's some reasonable explanation for it,

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<v Speaker 4>or perhaps he was just being catfished having his picture

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<v Speaker 4>use as a.

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<v Speaker 1>Catfish, right, that's the best case scenario.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, No matter what though, it's important that we

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<v Speaker 4>handled this the right way. That's why we've got the

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<v Speaker 4>experts ready with some top notch equality advice. Do you

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<v Speaker 4>have for Audrey here?

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. Here's the thing, Audrey. You need to talk

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<v Speaker 1>as little as possible in this conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>M Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one of those like give a man a rope,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that analogy. Well, but no, he'll hang himself.

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<v Speaker 1>The more he talks, he's gonna admit more.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I think you go in, Audrey and you

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<v Speaker 1>try to be on his side from the very beginning,

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<v Speaker 1>and you say, listen, I don't know what your girlfriend's

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<v Speaker 1>name is, but Mary or whoever found your dating profile

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<v Speaker 1>on an international dating site, Like, oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>know you'd never do that. What are we gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>And just let him talk, okay you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're gonna be able to tell if he's talking

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<v Speaker 1>in circles, if he's freaking.

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<v Speaker 4>Out, and then ask him if he needs a rope,

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<v Speaker 4>and see what he says. Be really quiet, and just

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<v Speaker 4>let him walk into.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, his own break.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's one piece of advice, Jose, what do you

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<v Speaker 4>think to get him to come clean?

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<v Speaker 6>You just need to say, Look, if you admit to

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<v Speaker 6>me right now exactly what you and I both know

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<v Speaker 6>is happening. I won't tell her, which is a lie,

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<v Speaker 6>of course, because you're gonna send her the podcast anyways

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<v Speaker 6>after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Or she will find out.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So Brooks advice is to let him do it himself.

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<v Speaker 4>Jose's advice is to press her and then promise that

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<v Speaker 4>you won't say anything.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I guess I could do Brooks advice first,

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<v Speaker 5>and then if that doesn't seem to work.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, perfect, Okay. We got a plan A and

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<v Speaker 4>then a plan B right afterwards. Alexis is fully on

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<v Speaker 4>board with I have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Great plancy, but we don't have time. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe if we need plan see, Alexis will jump in

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<v Speaker 4>in the middle of the column, give her to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Plancy is always just don't confront anything.

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<v Speaker 6>Hang out.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, that's normally my plan A all the time. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>never confronted anyone.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, the good news is we're here to support you.

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<v Speaker 4>If you need any help. I'm sure you got it, though,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna dial Theo's number, he has to say, here

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<v Speaker 4>we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello, Hey Leo, Hey, this is Audrey, Jessica's friend.

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<v Speaker 2>What what? Why why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? So, like, how are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fine? Do I help you with something?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry. I know this is like show out of

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<v Speaker 5>the blue. I just I've got a weird question for you. Okay, Uh,

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<v Speaker 5>have you, like ever been on a like in dating

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<v Speaker 5>app internationally, like an international dating app?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, have I been to France and used a dating app? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Actually? Yeah, exactly why are you.

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<v Speaker 2>Asking me that? That's a really weird question.

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<v Speaker 5>So basically, our friend was traveling and she saw a

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<v Speaker 5>profile on her international dating app and it was you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, that's not possible. I don't have any

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<v Speaker 2>dating apps.

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<v Speaker 5>I saw a screenshot of it, and a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>the stuff in the bio kind of seemed like you

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<v Speaker 5>like hobbies that you've talked about.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, people could fake that stuff. My hobbies aren't

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<v Speaker 2>that unique. I don't know what to tell you.

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<v Speaker 5>I so hear you like, I'm on your side, but

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<v Speaker 5>like all of our friends know about this profile, and

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<v Speaker 5>we're gonna talk to Jessica if we're not convinced that

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<v Speaker 5>this like isn't you you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't appreciate you threatening me that that's not cool.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, like, look, if you were in my shoes,

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<v Speaker 5>wouldn't you do the same thing. Wouldn't you want to

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<v Speaker 5>make sure that your friend isn't getting cheated on? Like

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<v Speaker 5>that's all I'm doing here.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd probably mind my own business, is what I do.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to be so real with you. That response

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<v Speaker 5>alone kind of told me you're doing something that you

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<v Speaker 5>shouldn't be doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm not so right.

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<v Speaker 5>So like, you wouldn't mind if I show that to Jessica.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would mind, actually, but it's none of your

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<v Speaker 2>business what's going on.

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<v Speaker 5>But there's clearly something going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I need you to just relax and be coo cool.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to ruin it if you talk to her, like, what.

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<v Speaker 5>Am I ruining a relationship where she's getting cheated on?

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<v Speaker 2>She's not getting cheated on. I'm using the app, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I admit that, but I'm not using it to date people.

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<v Speaker 5>You're using the app. I'm gonna tell Jessica what you're

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<v Speaker 5>doing on that app.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to propose to her an Italian.

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<v Speaker 4>Hyth It makes total sense.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, who are you dating? App to propose to

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend in Italian down center?

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<v Speaker 3>Resetta Stone?

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<v Speaker 2>Who are you? Who are of these other people?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Boniorno, You're on an international radio show called Burke

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<v Speaker 4>and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Audrey, what the hell is going on? Who are all

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<v Speaker 2>these people?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm pretty sure they introduced themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>I got some help.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I like the back. Wait, Audrey, do you believe

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<v Speaker 1>him that he's going to propose?

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<v Speaker 5>And not for a second?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we only we didn't hear what the plan was

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<v Speaker 4>the yeah, like, if that's true. We're just trying to

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<v Speaker 4>help Audrey out, because god.

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to talk to some native Italian speakers

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<v Speaker 2>about how to do it properly a.

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<v Speaker 1>Female name and Italian speakers who are also very sec

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<v Speaker 1>saf Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's not hate on this man's style of loving his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody does it differently. He wants to do a big

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<v Speaker 4>romantic Italian proposal? Why that?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe him?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just willing to hear him out before I crap

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<v Speaker 4>on his idea.

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<v Speaker 3>If if you were rolling with this, Look, my girlfriend

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<v Speaker 3>did a semester in Italy and college. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>get from like the source the most romantic, accurate way

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<v Speaker 3>to propose an Italian I just wanted to know, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>what's your dream way of being proposed to Italian women?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and then they help you practice it the right way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's exactly right, and sends you.

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<v Speaker 4>Picks of them too.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't send me picks. They just have picks on

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<v Speaker 2>their profile already.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, I'm just trying.

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<v Speaker 1>To figure out how I mean, you want to understand

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<v Speaker 1>why it sounds like kind have a sketchy way to

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<v Speaker 1>plan a proposal.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Like I didn't think anybody was gonna be in

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<v Speaker 2>Italy looking up my profile frankly, Like I thought that

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<v Speaker 2>that would be a lot more discreet than doing it

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<v Speaker 2>like locally.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm starting to Audrey Fils I take Spanish lessons on

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<v Speaker 1>that they live in Spain.

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<v Speaker 4>At this point, Audrey, you have all the information. What

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<v Speaker 4>are you going to do with it?

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<v Speaker 1>Or supposedly you have the information?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, okay, when are you going to propose to her?

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<v Speaker 5>Like if it? Do you have a plan?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have a plan, but I'm not gonna say

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<v Speaker 2>it on the radio.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, let's turn off the broadcast, real broadcast to

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<v Speaker 4>switched off.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just us. That's kind of fair, though, like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel kind of bad that we blew up as

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<v Speaker 1>plan if that's actually true.

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<v Speaker 5>If you don't propose to her in the next ooh months,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell her who You're gonna sit with us for that long.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm really skeptical, but that's the best way I can

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<v Speaker 5>think of to give you the benefit of the doubt.

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<v Speaker 4>Wowow okay, all right, so THEO that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's official.

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<v Speaker 4>You have two months to either propose to your girlfriend

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<v Speaker 4>or I guess fly to Italy and live there permanently.

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<v Speaker 2>I promise you she's not going to be disappointed with this.

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<v Speaker 2>She's going to be happy. Just don't screw it up. Please.

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<v Speaker 5>We need an update on this one, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I want to be tagged in proposal pictures off air,

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<v Speaker 1>like I have.

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<v Speaker 4>To know for me in my closure. Will you give

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<v Speaker 4>us the Italian proposal when you come back and you're married.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, I'll do that.

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<v Speaker 4>Why didn't that sound confidence.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll give you, guys an update. I'm going to call

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<v Speaker 5>you for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Grazzi.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, Grazzi text into seventy five nine too.

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<v Speaker 1>If you believe them freaking Jeffrey in the morning,