WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Real Life Phenomenon

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels second d D. My philosophy is you always

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<v Speaker 1>have to approach a date like a sale, right. You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta always be closed, always be closed. It's a first

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<v Speaker 1>date is all about how you close the thing down, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Jose went on a date recently and the girl refused

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<v Speaker 1>to kiss him. Yeah, and it really bugged you. Yeah did,

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<v Speaker 1>because we had every single bit of chemistry you could

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<v Speaker 1>other than the kiss. And that's that's the way that

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<v Speaker 1>I like to close first dates by not kissing. That

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<v Speaker 1>is not true at all. It just makes them feel insecure,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're gonna get a second date because they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, what's what's wrong with me? I have to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him again? To see I see? I

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<v Speaker 1>told you. Thomas is on the phone with us right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas had a little problem closing his date, right Thomas. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, broken Jewels? What's up? Man? So tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about your date with Danielle. How'd that go? It's awesome? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>she showed up and I stilly s figure in the face.

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<v Speaker 1>What is that code for something? What do you what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean? I don't know. I just spratted in

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<v Speaker 1>the space and we started cracking up. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>a perfect start, so you but you bought silly string

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<v Speaker 1>and then that's the first thing you did to introduce yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, well, nero not exchanging you know, emails, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we ended up texting back and force. She seemed

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<v Speaker 1>to be edgy and funny that way, so I just

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<v Speaker 1>went with it. And then you pulled out the whoopie

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<v Speaker 1>cushion and things got crazy. And what was the reaction

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<v Speaker 1>to that? She was really surprised. She wasn't expecting. Yeah, normally,

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<v Speaker 1>when you meet some for a day, you don't expect

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<v Speaker 1>him to spray stuff in your face right away. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>everything is good. So where'd you guys go after you

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<v Speaker 1>doused her and silly string? I'm I'm not really the

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<v Speaker 1>best dancer, but I thought it would be kind of

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<v Speaker 1>fun to try sling dancing. So I ended up looking

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<v Speaker 1>some time at a dance studio right near there that

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<v Speaker 1>we took a lesson together, and we basically just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stumbled our ways through the entire lesson and we

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<v Speaker 1>were cracking up about that too. But try it out

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<v Speaker 1>to be a lot of fun. We had a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a great I mean, you get physical

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<v Speaker 1>contact that way. You get some intimacy. Totally. That's an

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<v Speaker 1>awesome date. So what happened at the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about how you closed your date and it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go so well? Okay, So because the energy was

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<v Speaker 1>so high and we were cracking up the whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I kind of stayed with that vibe. It's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like the edgy, sarcastic and so if I

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<v Speaker 1>walked into the car, I just kind of tagged it, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess this didn't go as bad as I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it would. Oh, and that's when everything just kind of dropped.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a joke, but she was just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>telling her face changed and I'm like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I was totally joking around and it kind of awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>So she didn't pick up on your joke there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's kind of like the playground schools DOT where

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<v Speaker 1>you like kind of like trip a girl and pull

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<v Speaker 1>her hair a little bit to tell her that you

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<v Speaker 1>like her. Yeah, what was the reaction after you said that, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she just kind of her face just kind of changed

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, Okay, thanks for thanks for the date,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you've got her car. So it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like a better step into her beau and she drove off.

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<v Speaker 1>No kiss or anything, huh nothing, No, Okay, sometimes women

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<v Speaker 1>are sensitive. I don't know if you know that, but

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be careful with sarcasm. Thanks for the

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<v Speaker 1>date is like the worst line you could end on.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times have you tried to get a hold

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<v Speaker 1>of her? I texted her twice and that's it. Haven't

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<v Speaker 1>gotten any response. Okay, well we're gonna play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call her and get your second date. Update. Okay, okay, thankys, right,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on it. Get jazzy only brooking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second update, it's time for your second part of the

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<v Speaker 1>second day. At update today, we've got the life of

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<v Speaker 1>the party. That's what I'm calling him, Thomas on the line.

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<v Speaker 1>I say that because Thomas is clearly one of those

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<v Speaker 1>guys who's just always on. I think um. He went

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<v Speaker 1>out with a girl named Danielle the first movie made.

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<v Speaker 1>When he showed up to pick her up, sprayed her

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<v Speaker 1>in the face with silly strings. The date went well,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, they had a lot of fun. That silly

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<v Speaker 1>string thing didn't bother like you'd figure it would bother

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<v Speaker 1>most people. And then at the end of the date,

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<v Speaker 1>he made a little joke to her, Thomas, what was

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<v Speaker 1>your joke again? Why don't you tell us? Oh? I

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<v Speaker 1>said something like guess and didn't go as bad as

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<v Speaker 1>I expected to. Yeah, And then her jaw dropped and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, all right, well, I'm on the go. And

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't heard her since. Thomas. In my opinion, you

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<v Speaker 1>sound like one of those guys who's just NonStop. Has

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<v Speaker 1>anybody ever asked you to kind of tone it down

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit? Yeah? No, I think the first answer

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<v Speaker 1>was probably more. I mean, she's just a cool girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm going after this because I think she's worth it. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's emotional. Get her on the phone right now. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Danielle. This is Danielle. Hey, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning on Moving ninety two point five. Okay, what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? And nothing? Why are you calling me? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling you because you recently went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with a friend of mine. He's a real funny guy.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Thomas, and you kind of been blowing

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<v Speaker 1>him off. We're wondering why. Oh, I'll explain a little more. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a second we do on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>the Second Date Update. Thomas is wondering if he did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong on your date. Is there a specific reason

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't want to see him again, or that

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't been answering his emails or texts? This is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of awkward. Oh my gosh, was it fun? It

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<v Speaker 1>was okay, it wasn't exactly what I was expecting. Can

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<v Speaker 1>I ask you this question? What was your first reaction

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<v Speaker 1>when he showed up and sprayed you was silly stream

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<v Speaker 1>right away? Oh so he told you, yeah he did.

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<v Speaker 1>He actually said that you weren't phazed by it and

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was funny. Well, I was a little surprised. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean here, I loved going out on the state

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<v Speaker 1>and I you know, spent an hour getting ready and

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<v Speaker 1>then he flashing me in the space. I just put

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<v Speaker 1>on my big girl's dace and tried to move on.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't enjoy it as much as he thought you did,

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<v Speaker 1>because he said you were good sport about it. You

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was really funny. Then you went out on

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<v Speaker 1>your date and continued to just have the best time

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<v Speaker 1>with lots of laughs and entertainment. By Thomas really. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it wasn't a fabulous state. It wasn't the

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<v Speaker 1>worst date I've ever had, But you know, he was

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<v Speaker 1>he was nice looking, he wasn't he wasn't rude. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he has a very odd sense of humor. But all right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff that you said right there would be like,

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<v Speaker 1>why not give him another shot? Yeah? Well, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of worried about what he does. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think that we could, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>have a future. You mean what he does for a living,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like his job, Well, he had a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>good job. He told me that he used to be

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<v Speaker 1>a bank teller, but he had just quit his job

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<v Speaker 1>to become a full time phenomenon. Full time what exactly

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<v Speaker 1>time phenomena? I don't know how one gets a job

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<v Speaker 1>as a full time phenomena. It sounds great. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really relieved to hear you guys say that, because I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I was losing my mind. I had no idea

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<v Speaker 1>what he was talking about. So I asked him, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and what did he say a full time phenomenon does? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>He told me that he was dedicating all of his

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<v Speaker 1>time except for the time he was spending on the

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<v Speaker 1>state to becoming the next YouTube sensation. It pays well

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<v Speaker 1>if you can, if you can succeed at it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you don't see a big future in that. Huh. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I was slightly worried that there had been a hitting

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<v Speaker 1>camera on us the whole time, Like his sensation that

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<v Speaker 1>he does these jokes things to girls on first date.

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<v Speaker 1>You were totally good with it when we were hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out that day on the date. That's Thomas, Danielle. He

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<v Speaker 1>has actually been on the other line listening this whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>or should I call him the phenomenon? We're is wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with me pursuing my passion to be what I think

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<v Speaker 1>I am supposed to be. I don't know. You know what, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a problem with it. I've just never

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<v Speaker 1>heard anybody refer to themselves as wanting to become a phenomenon.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to make money I do on YouTube videos,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm perfectly fine with that if you can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what kind of stuff does Thomas offer up

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<v Speaker 1>to the internet. It's it's kind of hard to describe

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what it is that I do, but I can

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<v Speaker 1>tell you this all of the sound effects of my

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<v Speaker 1>videos I do myself. I do them with my mouth

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<v Speaker 1>all right away. It could be cool. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I still don't really know what to do, but it

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<v Speaker 1>is cool. It's always good when you can't describe it,

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<v Speaker 1>you see what I mean. I'm not the only one,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. People just don't understand exactly what it is

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<v Speaker 1>that you do. It's sort of like in a gray area.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I am supportive. I think that that dreams

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<v Speaker 1>are important, but I just don't quite understand if you

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<v Speaker 1>can put your dream on a resume or I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't really know what you're going for. I'm going for awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's that's what we're all going for. Thomas's

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<v Speaker 1>going for awesome, And yeah, no one out there like me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't doubt that. I think that you are unique

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<v Speaker 1>and wonderful. But can't you be wonderful like at a

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<v Speaker 1>regular money earning job while you do your other great

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<v Speaker 1>stuff on the side. That brings me to my question, Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>how much does a phenomenon get? Hey? Like, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you pulling down as a phenomenon? Phenomenon does not discuss

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<v Speaker 1>his income? Okay, Danielle, is there any way that you

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<v Speaker 1>could look past his passion of youtubing and try to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him again. I don't know. I mean, look,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like it's really a big passion in his

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<v Speaker 1>and something he really really wants to do, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>all for that. I'm so supportive, but it's like he said,

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to spend twenty four seven doing this. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be the next year Tube sensation. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know how I would fit into his

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four seven plan if that's what he's doing all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. So maybe I'm just not the right person

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<v Speaker 1>for him. Well perfect At this point, I'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you if you'll go out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with him then, because I will pay for it. If

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<v Speaker 1>you'll go out with Thomas one more time, I'll leave

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<v Speaker 1>the can of silly string at home, I promise. I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't think that, you know, I can go home

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<v Speaker 1>and say, Mom, meet my boyfriend Jeeves. That's a phenomenon. Well, Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>you did not get your second date. I guess it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to be all good, you know what, thought, Hey, Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>this can still be a win for you. Danielle. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>will you subscribe to Thomas's YouTube channel. Absolutely, I would

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent subscribe to There you go, Thomas, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we got your YouTube subscriber. Awesome. A broken jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,